People really don't understand how evil adults can be to their kids. Brilliant title. I wish Jennette all the best; this is a story that needs to be told.
My mom were so close growing up. I mean so close, I would sit on the toilet or floor of the bathroom while she showered, sometimes she’d take me to work worth her during her overnight shift and I’d sleep in the break room. It wasn’t until before her death I started to piece together, the abuse and terrible things she did my entire childhood. And it wasn’t until after she died, I learned about all of her lies and hated her. With time that’s passed, I’ve learned to forgive most of what she’s done. But if given the choice to bring her back to life, I wouldn’t.
She’s doing the right thing by telling the truth about what she went through while she was on Nickelodeon for the past six years. I’m glad that Miranda, Nathan, and Jerry are supporting her as she went through so much trauma. The title of the book is very shocking but tells the audience why she quit acting.
She definitely abuse by the people in the industry. There so many actor and actress that are abuse, but might not be able to speak up because they might get blacklisted or may have sign an NDA 😕
She is fantastic. Her sharp wit and irresistible charm elevated her Nickelodeon shows to such a high level. But yes, she has to be quite careful with these responses. She shouldn't have to be.....but that is the world we live in.
I’m so glad she didn’t answer his questions in the way he wanted because all she wants us to do is literally read what’s in the book. I appreciate her for that. Much respect in how she handled this on live television.
@@Jeremy-wp4yh No shit, sherlock. All power to her for writing a book and wanting to sell it like every other author/ public figure writing about their life. Lmao.
@@Wxtst.3 I just find it strange when people trauma dump in a book and sell it. Just go to therapy. Everything isn't meant to be shared to such an extent
Lord Jesus Christ is coming back everyone, please don’t worship celebrities and entertainment, focus on Him alone. I promise there’s more to life than money, partying, homosexuality and music. Hell is real, repent from sinning confess your sins and ask God to forgive you, I know He will if you’re sincere. Anyone who thinks the Name of Lord Jesus Christ is a joke, boldly mocks and scorns Him or takes pleasure in people who do is in for a big unpleasant surprise on judgement day IF they don’t repent and follow Lord Jesus Christ. Hell is very hot, people please repent! In the mighty name of Lord Jesus Christ, Amen 🙏💪✝️💜❤️✝️! Idolatry such as, Islam, Catholicism, Sangomaism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Santa Clausism, Confucianism, New Age, Science, Evolution, halloweenism, Harry Potterism, Politics, Donald Trumpism, Easter Bunnyism and other religions/faiths that are outside Biblical Christianity lead to hell! Don’t believe them, believe the Almighty God the Father of Lord Jesus Christ, who begot Him. Our Creator, The God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob is mighty, He doesn’t need a woman to beget a son, He is God. I choose to put my faith in a God who can do anything and everything, a God who has unlimited and infinite power to beget! So, it’s time to confess that Lord Jesus Christ is the Lord and to believe that He died and rose from the grave after three days and you shall be saved if you only obey Him by praying, worshipping, praising, reading the Bible and living holy and righteously according to the Bible. You have to endure until the end, carry your cross daily and build your relationship with God by following Lord Jesus daily until the end. You must never renounce your faith in The Lord Jesus Christ, there’s hell awaiting those who reject/deny Lord Jesus Christ and those who continue living sinfully, even the Christians who don’t want to repent will face the same fate, so please repent beloved people, in Lord Jesus Christ’s mighty and precious Name, Amen.
@@julianacheriza9673 forgive so that God can forgive you, Lord Jesus Christ is coming back everyone, please don’t worship celebrities and entertainment, focus on Him alone. I promise there’s more to life than money, partying, homosexuality and music. Hell is real, repent from sinning confess your sins and ask God to forgive you, I know He will if you’re sincere. Anyone who thinks the Name of Lord Jesus Christ is a joke, boldly mocks and scorns Him or takes pleasure in people who do is in for a big unpleasant surprise on judgement day IF they don’t repent and follow Lord Jesus Christ. Hell is very hot, people please repent! In the mighty name of Lord Jesus Christ, Amen 🙏💪✝️💜❤️✝️! Idolatry such as, Islam, Catholicism, Sangomaism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Santa Clausism, Confucianism, New Age, Science, Evolution, halloweenism, Harry Potterism, Politics, Donald Trumpism, Easter Bunnyism and other religions/faiths that are outside Biblical Christianity lead to hell! Don’t believe them, believe the Almighty God the Father of Lord Jesus Christ, who begot Him. Our Creator, The God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob is mighty, He doesn’t need a woman to beget a son, He is God. I choose to put my faith in a God who can do anything and everything, a God who has unlimited and infinite power to beget! So, it’s time to confess that Lord Jesus Christ is the Lord and to believe that He died and rose from the grave after three days and you shall be saved if you only obey Him by praying, worshipping, praising, reading the Bible and living holy and righteously according to the Bible. You have to endure until the end, carry your cross daily and build your relationship with God by following Lord Jesus daily until the end. You must never renounce your faith in The Lord Jesus Christ, there’s hell awaiting those who reject/deny Lord Jesus Christ and those who continue living sinfully, even the Christians who don’t want to repent will face the same fate, so please repent beloved people, in Lord Jesus Christ’s mighty and precious Name, Amen.
I completely commend her. Parental abuse is a real thing. Child industry abuse is a real thing. Healing is a process and that fact she is healing is a huge accomplishment.
Now days it's much worse with all the tik-tok moms, youtube family vloggers and "mom-fluencers" There aren't even laws to protect these children that are literally working since before they are born (pregnancy announcements, gender reveal and baby shower videos, baby mama dances🙄) then it's the labor vlog, day in the life of a newborn.. etc... Those kids are working many hours a week making videos and the worst thing is they're having their entire life posted online (some get many millions of views, lots from creeps🤢) zero privacy while the parents make a lot of money from views, ads, sponsored products...
I was once an extra for a TV series and saw a woman who was also an extra yelling and physically slapping her child on the set. The kid had to be at least 6. It really is grotesque what child actors go through.
She had more finesse in handling the questions on her own terms than more seasoned vets. I never watched her show, nor did I have an abusive mother but I support the title of her book & I'm so glad that in writing it she has started her journey to healing. All the best to her.
It’s because she’s forgiven herself and it shows. The more you heal, the less you become defensive because you’ve already had that conversation with yourself. It shows how big of a person she is. I am so proud of her and I don’t even know her.
The fact that she was able to say that she misses her mom shows that she has healed. People can be abusive and you can have good memories at the same time. It’s so hard but I support her talking about it and working towards her own happiness.
I'm sure this is the case with her. But also, certain kinds of emotional abuse can leave a person longing for the abuser for an unusually long time. If they're very bad for you, and you keep thinking about how much you cared about them, you might need to remind yourself about the bad times, so you don't put yourself in danger again.
@@Sarcasticron This! It hits close to home. I contemplated suicide for years & eventually attempted suicide from the continued emotional abuse & manipulation of my parent. I established minimal contact with my parent but also there's this longing for connection. I always have to remind myself of the bad times in order to protect myself since this person still treats me the same way as an adult. Being an empathic person with a narcissistic parent is not fun :( I'm healing though :)
I strive to get to that level of forgiveness. It's a tricky thing. One day I'd say I've forgiven my dad, but the next day I wanna fly back to where he's at and kill him for what he's done to me.
Lord Jesus Christ is coming back everyone, please don’t worship celebrities and entertainment, focus on Him alone. I promise there’s more to life than money, partying, homosexuality and music. Hell is real, repent from sinning confess your sins and ask God to forgive you, I know He will if you’re sincere. Anyone who thinks the Name of Lord Jesus Christ is a joke, boldly mocks and scorns Him or takes pleasure in people who do is in for a big unpleasant surprise on judgement day IF they don’t repent and follow Lord Jesus Christ. Hell is very hot, people please repent! In the mighty name of Lord Jesus Christ, Amen 🙏💪✝️💜❤️✝️! Idolatry such as, Islam, Catholicism, Sangomaism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Santa Clausism, Confucianism, New Age, Science, Evolution, halloweenism, Harry Potterism, Politics, Donald Trumpism, Easter Bunnyism and other religions/faiths that are outside Biblical Christianity lead to hell! Don’t believe them, believe the Almighty God the Father of Lord Jesus Christ, who begot Him. Our Creator, The God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob is mighty, He doesn’t need a woman to beget a son, He is God. I choose to put my faith in a God who can do anything and everything, a God who has unlimited and infinite power to beget! So, it’s time to confess that Lord Jesus Christ is the Lord and to believe that He died and rose from the grave after three days and you shall be saved if you only obey Him by praying, worshipping, praising, reading the Bible and living holy and righteously according to the Bible. You have to endure until the end, carry your cross daily and build your relationship with God by following Lord Jesus daily until the end. You must never renounce your faith in The Lord Jesus Christ, there’s hell awaiting those who reject/deny Lord Jesus Christ and those who continue living sinfully, even the Christians who don’t want to repent will face the same fate, so please repent beloved people, in Lord Jesus Christ’s mighty and precious Name, Amen.
It adds credibility, but her experience doesn't require her brothers' corroboration as often kids will have very different experiences with parents and are not treated the same.
"I'm glad my mother died" is the most honest, most resonating memoir title I have ever seen. Will be buying her book. I hope those of us who have suffered from parental abuse can start speaking up and heal.
She is so articulate and thoughtful with every single thing she says. It's honestly so brave of her to speak out about something so personal yet so prevalent. Abuse is never okay and I'm glad she was able to work through her trauma by writing this book.
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I promise you, My mom is the villain in my story but I would never write a fucking book bashing her and title it that I'm glad she died. I'm sorry, but I disagree.
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@@Luvinmydejah97 have you experienced both? I hope not for your sake but they are both bad. physical causes mental and emotional trauma as well so your point is invalid.
I think the people who are offended by the title have never been abused by their mother, plain and simple. But those are the same people who have NO right to tell survivors of child abuse how to feel. They have no idea what it’s like.
Yes broken and toxic families are hard for a lot of people to understand it one thing to just not like you family but when they abuse you it another story.
I’m not offended by the title but I think about my mom and she was so giving and selfless. She’s passed like Jeannette’s mom, but I can see why she feels that way. Her mom wasn’t there for her, it’s a response to that. However it’s understandable why people are shocked by the title, I couldn’t say that about my mom as I was blessed with a terrific mother.
Gosh she is refreshingly authentic. I really appreciate her owning the spectrum of her feelings. Sometimes victims are made to feel like they have to be forgiving or empathetic towards the abuser out of respect. Good for her finding her voice and able to speak the truth.
Instead of hating her for disliking her mom, people need to think the opposite way. What did the mom do to make her daughter feel this way? Kids and young adults don't hate adults who they can tell truly cared for them as a person.
People hating her for disliking a person they have never lived with or had to be around. The entitlement. We have never had to spend a day with her mom she endured from birth. Who are we to say how anyone should feel if we’ve never walked in their shoes. I didn’t know people were saying they hate her for that because If they do that’s ludicrous.
Exactly, kids weren't born predisposed to hate their parents, quite the opposite, as in the case of Jennette who tried to love and care for her mom, but the abuse from her mom was too much that Jennette ended up hating her.
I do not want this book nor any other material of Jennette McCurdy in my phone. Please delete this book and block Jennette McCurdy from my phone, NOW! Thank you!!!
Can't deny that she is eloquent, articulate and has reached a high level of critical self thought. I applaud her authenticity to write stuff like this and her well spoken thoughts are enamoring to me.
NoctOG333 its not attention its the truth. So you are saying she should keep quite about the abuse she suffered? I say good for her for speaking her truth
Lord Jesus Christ is coming back everyone, please don’t worship celebrities and entertainment, focus on Him alone. I promise there’s more to life than money, partying, homosexuality and music. Hell is real, repent from sinning confess your sins and ask God to forgive you, I know He will if you’re sincere. Anyone who thinks the Name of Lord Jesus Christ is a joke, boldly mocks and scorns Him or takes pleasure in people who do is in for a big unpleasant surprise on judgement day IF they don’t repent and follow Lord Jesus Christ. Hell is very hot, people please repent! In the mighty name of Lord Jesus Christ, Amen 🙏💪✝️💜❤️✝️! Idolatry such as, Islam, Catholicism, Sangomaism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Santa Clausism, Confucianism, New Age, Science, Evolution, halloweenism, Harry Potterism, Politics, Donald Trumpism, Easter Bunnyism and other religions/faiths that are outside Biblical Christianity lead to hell! Don’t believe them, believe the Almighty God the Father of Lord Jesus Christ, who begot Him. Our Creator, The God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob is mighty, He doesn’t need a woman to beget a son, He is God. I choose to put my faith in a God who can do anything and everything, a God who has unlimited and infinite power to beget! So, it’s time to confess that Lord Jesus Christ is the Lord and to believe that He died and rose from the grave after three days and you shall be saved if you only obey Him by praying, worshipping, praising, reading the Bible and living holy and righteously according to the Bible. You have to endure until the end, carry your cross daily and build your relationship with God by following Lord Jesus daily until the end. You must never renounce your faith in The Lord Jesus Christ, there’s hell awaiting those who reject/deny Lord Jesus Christ and those who continue living sinfully, even the Christians who don’t want to repent will face the same fate, so please repent beloved people, in Lord Jesus Christ’s mighty and precious Name, Amen.
@@ryannixon7174 the ‘truth’ is leading her to hell and she’s teaching people to be unforgiving, God won’t forgive those who won’t forgive others. Lord Jesus Christ is coming back everyone, please don’t worship celebrities and entertainment, focus on Him alone. I promise there’s more to life than money, partying, homosexuality and music. Hell is real, repent from sinning confess your sins and ask God to forgive you, I know He will if you’re sincere. Anyone who thinks the Name of Lord Jesus Christ is a joke, boldly mocks and scorns Him or takes pleasure in people who do is in for a big unpleasant surprise on judgement day IF they don’t repent and follow Lord Jesus Christ. Hell is very hot, people please repent! In the mighty name of Lord Jesus Christ, Amen 🙏💪✝️💜❤️✝️! Idolatry such as, Islam, Catholicism, Sangomaism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Santa Clausism, Confucianism, New Age, Science, Evolution, halloweenism, Harry Potterism, Politics, Donald Trumpism, Easter Bunnyism and other religions/faiths that are outside Biblical Christianity lead to hell! Don’t believe them, believe the Almighty God the Father of Lord Jesus Christ, who begot Him. Our Creator, The God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob is mighty, He doesn’t need a woman to beget a son, He is God. I choose to put my faith in a God who can do anything and everything, a God who has unlimited and infinite power to beget! So, it’s time to confess that Lord Jesus Christ is the Lord and to believe that He died and rose from the grave after three days and you shall be saved if you only obey Him by praying, worshipping, praising, reading the Bible and living holy and righteously according to the Bible. You have to endure until the end, carry your cross daily and build your relationship with God by following Lord Jesus daily until the end. You must never renounce your faith in The Lord Jesus Christ, there’s hell awaiting those who reject/deny Lord Jesus Christ and those who continue living sinfully, even the Christians who don’t want to repent will face the same fate, so please repent beloved people, in Lord Jesus Christ’s mighty and precious Name, Amen.
She speaks so well in interviews. I like her advice of facing the struggles. Everyone’s traumas are different, so it wouldn’t be fair to give advice to everyone the same, but saying that facing the struggles helps with healing is so true
5:37 I’m so proud of how she handled his dumbass repeating of the question. She handled herself so eloquently, elegantly, and confident. I’m really inspired by how authentic she is allowing herself to shine through here and I definitely resonate with her book title. I grew up with an emotionally and physically abusive mother. I am so excited to read her book and let her perspectives shine through into my life. I hope to all of you out there who experienced the same childhood traumas or similar that you find peace, love, healing, and joy in your life. You deserve it. ❤️🌻
It's an interview with people that she hasn't been interviewed by yet, which she agreed to beforehand, so what is wrong with this "dumbass repeating of the question"? Not every interview can break new ground and ask creative and interesting questions, especially on a show such as Good Morning America.
@@jun5836 Just goes to show so many interviewers only care about gossiping, scandals, or rumors. It’s disrespectful actually to interrupt her again to ask a question that in the broader scheme of things doesn’t matter when the real subject is her conquering healing.
@@jun5836 She actually hosts her own podcast, and I’m sure she was thinking about how many varieties of questions she could have come up with-if she was the interviewer.
I went to Barnes & Noble today (day of the book release) to buy her book and the guy that worked there said they were already sold out. Good for her! I’m glad a book that sheds light on child abuse in Hollywood is doing well 👏
I ordered it from the library and there were already eight people in line for it. Hopefully they’ll order more copies! Otherwise I might just buy it myself.
$300,000 for years worth of trauma that will never go away? How sick. I’m glad she’s actually coming out and talking about it and what goes on in networks like this because it’s not talked about enough. I’m glad I never had that drive as a child to be famous, everything I’ve ever heard about Hollywood makes me never want to even meet someone from there let alone work as someone so big for them.
I feel like parental abuse is not talked about enough especially with childhood stars so for Jennette to come out with this book is so inspiring. I’m definitely buying this and supporting her through everything. Every child deserves love. 💛💛
also tought that.. just because she wrote a book about her trauma does not mean everybody has a right to talk with her about it. Glad he left this issue after second try at least. Good for her to stand firm!
@@JoeIsARose I don't think it was because she doesn't want to talk about it, but because she wants to encourage people to buy her book. If she gives all the answers in an interview, we won't need to read it. So makes sense she wants to leave out some details.
@@robroy6374 also other people from Nickelodeon. Pickle boy from the Amanda show was a convicted p@do yet he was still working with Nickelodeon after his conviction
Yeah but her allegations against him are consistent with what other child actors and their parents have alleged about him over the years. The fact that Nickelodeon kept having him create show after show when they knew about his issues for years is sickening. Took them years to finally get rid of him
She’s so right about the title. If you were abused you don’t think this is a shocking title. You get the dark humor and the reality of the relief. I just hope she’s truly at a point with her ED that’s as healthy as she wants to be. As someone who struggles with an ED they never go away, they just flare up or become quieter and I do see some warning signs and worry for her. I look forward to this book and I’m so happy she is able to put a book out. I wish she could speak to Dan schnieders sexual abuse of the girls like Amanda bynes and her and the foot fetish stuff. The creator is Dan Schneider.
@@rachelh2731 that she is a special type of skinny that is consistent with people who suffer from ED like anorexia f.e., wearing a big blouse that hides parts of her (which tbh are just quite fashionable atm) looks like she has low energy, can barely bring herself to smile... I hope she stays healthy (physical and mental) she gets better, regardless of what or even if she is struggeling and comes out stronger in the end. I will definetely try to get my hands on her book
@@JoeIsARose It’s pretty common knowledge in the ED community that commenting on an ED’ed person’s appearance can cause relapse or further an ED. Perhaps it would be best not to speculate on her appearance.
The most beautiful thing she said was “make contact” with the parts of yourself you’re ashamed of. I’m healing from sexual trauma currently speaking, and since I’ve opened up to my closest loved ones and gotten so much support it’s changing my life. You grieve so much… appreciate her being so brave, waited a long time to know her truth ♥️
I am so proud of her. Folks need to stop making it not ok to express how we feel when we have toxic parents. Doesn't me we don't love them but the toxic nature should not be hidden just to apez (probably spelled that wrong, lol) the masses.
If Jeannette gets back into acting (whenever she feels like it), I hope she steps into shows she wants to be in whether if it's popular or not. I'm glad she's okay now. I was so worried about her for years.
As a grown victim of narcissistic abuse from a parent, I applaud her for speaking her truth. Society has such a big emphasis on loving your parents unconditionally but that’s pretty much impossible when one or both parents have abused you in any way. It changes the make-up of your brain, as when you’re a child you’re constantly absorbing information and learning how to survive in your environment. When the home is not a safe environment, that can have detrimental consequences later in teenhood and adulthood. Good for her.
Verbal and mental abuse can often be just as damaging to your psyche as physical abuse. My father was a manipulative and controlling alcoholic. Not only was I abused behind the scenes but my father abused me in front of the state of California as a child. Never been more hopeless then at that time
Awh long story but me too I was basically told to follow this family member! Believe in what he believes is right ! & was criticized if I was to hang with my cousins and certain family always saying you were talkin ish about me with them huh? And I would go so far as to back him up even when I knew he was in control of me in a way! I looked past his evil ways! & even forgave em when he planned to kill me! Legit contacted him a year after & thought oh he was just drunk! He would do the same! I was so paranoid even in hotels miles and miles away! Was so tough to kick the things he taught me Even now I find myself wanting to forgive but no! This was a in law! And “we were so close cause I lived with my sister for 15 years” Things fell for me and her, 3 kids when she left! Woke up got the car and kids ready while he was drunk & left! Was on the run for a year in hotels! I feel so bad I’m supposed to be the brother I’m the youngest but man I was so scared if you knew the threats! Ex military and way bigger than me! Well we are all living together at this time! Happy as hell love my nieces and he will never get close to none of us again!
I am against abused children speaking out. Nobody wants to have their day ruined by hearing a kid being negative and overly dramatic We are in a new age where children don't rule over us anymore. And if you are against it. Be prepared to be called out for antisemitism
Just finished this book and all I can say is wow! I read it in a week and certainly would have finished sooner if it weren’t for the holiday season. Her book certainly resonated with me and I cried during the last 2 chapters! Certainly a page turner. You won’t be able to put it down. I wish her all the peace, happiness, love and healing. She is so deserving 🙏🏽
Honestly good for her for sticking to her guns and not answering the big headline questions, you can tell her book is obviously more than those headlines, and that tells alot about her character. I wish her nothing but the best!
She’s so classy, poised, and outspoken. I’m so happy she is able to tell her truth, and advocate for herself. Even as the interviewer pushed her, she responded with grace and wisdom🤍
I totally relate to her. I wasn't a child actor, but my mom projected all of her own insecurities on me. She was a bully my entire life. But then she would love bomb me maybe twice a year telling me how amazing I am. I almost wish she never did that, because it was hard to actually feel my true feelings towards her without being swayed by those handful of times she was overly nice. It took me until I was 23 to realize I was not treated like a normal child should be treated. I would stand by her side for years after my brother emancipated himself at 16 and hasn't talked to her in over 10 years now. Therapy and being treated with kindness and respect from my friends and even just the general public made me realize she was not normal. Why are strangers at starbucks being nicer to me than my mom? Why are coworkers asking how I am but my mom hasnt called me in 8 months? She didn't have a husband to nag at or complain about, so she made her kids her enemy. She treated us like a woman treats her husband that she can't stand, she couldn't wait for us to leave. I think when my mom passes, there will be grief there for the mom I wish I had and saw glimpses of once in a blue moon, but there will be a huge sense of relief and I'll feel like I can breathe for once in my life.
Kenzie, you sound like you’re free from your mother’s mental prison. I am so happy for you and glad you have friends and coworkers to show you real friendship and kindness and even just basic decency. Hope you and your brother are closer these days.
I feel your heart in this and while I’m sorry you went through this, I’m so happy that you were able to experience the difference because so many just continue on the cycle. I’m praying for your mom and your daily period. Some people get broken when they are young and grow up not knowing no other way to live or be. And while you have those people, there are people like you who refuse to repeat the brokenness. You are strong and deserving of love and joy.
I relate to you! My mom was very manipulative and mentally abusive. Told me before that she wished she had aborted me. I’m 28 and still don’t have a real relationship with her nor any of my siblings. I’m the youngest of 5. I think when it’s her time to pass on I won’t even be sad. She was never really there she made sure I was well taken care of. But I never got hugs from her as a kid I barely was told that I was loved. I think apart of her feels very guilty how she has treated me because we can go the whole year just about without talking. Mothers day I sent her a text instead of calling because she was always very mean to me and I never thought that she was that great of a mother.. Everyone always wanted my mom to be theirs she put on such a front on how our relationship was to our family and friends. I got the occasional affection from her but maybe a few times a year. Because of my relationship with her and the torment from my siblings and bullying I will be starting therapy very soon. You are not alone. Stay strong!
03:04 "I think that anybody who has experienced parental abuse understands this title." YES! Absolutely! 100%!! Thank you so much for sharing your story!
All I can say is if you haven’t walked a mile in her shoes then don’t judge. I really feel for her and I’m glad she’s finding a way to heal or at least try to heal.
Sandra Guzman Montes▪︎ My Mother always said this to us, if we ever said anything negative about someones actions or the way they acted or basically anything negative. I have always through my life used this, before i judge. Thank you 😊
I can’t believe she’s 30 now, felt like yesterday she was on iCarly but time waits for no one. I’m really sorry to hear what happened to her and that she had to put up with that for so many years whether it was her mom or “the creator” who I’m sure many of us know who she’s referring to. I really hope her adulthood treats her much better than her childhood/adolescence.
when i heard they were bringing back icarly. i was like," that show just went off the air yesterday." NOPE! it had been NINE YEARS!!!!! IT BLEW MY MIND.
I love how she handled this interview! My fave part is when he starts to try to press her about the $300,000 to get more info and two different times very calmly she made him back off and let him know she's not speaking about that. long story short if you want to know about it read the book.... and I will.
That interviewer is quite insidious, he wants the juice of the book be spilled over national TV, especially if it's something damaging towards a rival media conglomerate: Viacom.
The book has been through multiple reviews and her comments about Nickelodeon in it were probably very carefully chosen. Saying things on television, where she has no control over how it’s edited, could land her in a lot of trouble. It’s good that she didn’t let the interviewer get away with that.
@@schris3 Let's be honest. EVERYONE wants to see the juice spilled. No matter who you are, this coming to light is important and Nick deserves to go bankrupt. I'm sure it would hurt some of her cohorts though which is why she won't.
The ‘Creator’ was Dan Schneider. It’s becoming more widely known that he sexually abused her and Ariana Grande, as well as other child actors on other Nickelodeon shows he wrote and produced. It was later that Nickelodeon finally cut ties with him due to allegations. Ariana Grande will not speak out about the abuse but others have. The $300k was so that she wouldn’t out him openly and directly, but as she said she turned it down and has already implicated him and his abuse on her Twitter.
She is media trained in a way only child stars always seem to be. Knowing their reputation exists on a razors edge. I hope her story is heard and I hope she gets justice in whatever form she needs.
Yes. The media treats young stars like wind ups dolls to play dress-up with rather than humans! That’s not the ideal lifestyle for any kid to grow up around!
She’s been through a lot we all grew up watching her on Nickelodeon. And everyone has been through something especially abuse and it takes a lot of courage to talk about it everyone has a story to tell
George ! Askin those tough journalist questions as per usual ! So brave so daring lolol like oh yeah why the HELL does ANYONE ever allow their children to work in such a hopelessly SICK DANGEROUS and inappropriate industry ??? #CancelGroomingKidsForFameandAttraction
She is such an articulate person. I’ve only seen a couple little bits of her work and there’s no doubt she is talented. I’m just so sorry that her experiences came at so much cost and suffering. The children of abusive parents have such a tangled web of emotional things to sort through in life. God bless her for her courage in sharing. If there’s any part of her that desires to re-enter the entertainment industry I hope she does so on her terms and with boundaries firmly in place. If her desire is at all to entertain (if that’s something that would give her joy) then the world would be blessed by it, but the blessing has to be mutual. Good for her for sharing her story.
Jesus died for our sins, rose from the dead, and gives salvation to everyone who has faith in him! True faith in Jesus will have you bear good fruit and *drastically* change for the better! Also, did you know God is three in one!? The Father, The Son, and The Holy Spirit! Bless him! Have a blessed day, everyone!! ❤
Your worries (yes, anxiety), depression, suicidal thoughts, EVERYTHING will melt away and be NO MORE when you lean on God and put your trust in him! When I have physical pain, I literally pray and the Lord quells it, that I am healed!! Know that there is power in the name Jesus Christ! His name casts out demons and heals! People are bothered by his name. The world hates the truth and wants to continue living sinfully! God's children are set apart (holy) and righteous.
Yes, the world is very wicked, doing a lot of evil both behind closed doors and right in front of our eyes. Let this be insight that brings others home to Christ, acknowledging evil and choosing righteousness, amen.
@@Call_Upon_YAH Your assumption that the devil has me fooled when you literally know nothing about me is . . . very odd. 😅 As a Christian woman who loves Jesus, I’m pretty confident in my salvation by God’s grace. But you’re right though: Jesus saves.
they thought they were going to manipulate her into misleading her story by focusing on her title. but she did so good to shut it down. firt time i have seen someone do it so direct. with social media around she knows how they like to manipulate
Coming from somebody who suffered from an eating disorder with a supportive mother, I couldn't imagine if I had an enabling mother. It makes recovery so difficult. Recovery is a lifelong journey with lots of ups and downs. Whether she's at her best or worst now, I wish her peace and revovery!
She has a lot of courage writing this book & breaking her silence. I think its amazing she can open up about the hardest things you never want to talk about! As someone who had an abusive Step mom I completely agree with her speaking her truth.
100%. To speak with the composure that she did undoubtedly took hundreds of hours of private healing behind closed doors. My heart goes out to her for sure.
She was forced as a child to be something her mom wanted to be and it's sad as a child she went through alot just to please a toxic parent that's damaging poor baby!!! I'm with her 100000% tell your story!!!!
I love the title of the book. Nothing shocking about it. Her mother was abusive in so many different ways and was money hungry. She exploited her daughter for personal gain and benefit. No mother like that deserves respect. Jenette has gone through so much suffering at the hands of her mother, and that little bit of relief that came from her death was probably a breath of fresh air as it signaled the end of the abuse and manipulation.
Bla bla bla ... you're rude she was her mother. She not left her in the street like some doing ok? What will all she did and she is better then her mother? Not I think so. You have not marcy for your parents and God not will for you. Well, animals are better then some of you. Maybe understand what mean parents and perfect stranger.
@@miraspaho5562 Just because you push out a baby from your vagina doesn't mean you instantly deserve respect. If you abuse your child sexually, physically, or emotionally... you do not have my respect. And her mother abused her. Keep supporting child abusers though!
@Mira Spaho her mom gave her an eating disorder she where still alive Jeanette would be in the position Britney Spears is in not all parents love their children
Jenette grew up near me. I would see her at the ice rink every once in a while. She always had this lonely air to her. It broke my heart. We were 2 years apart and I could see how much she was in her head even just skating along.
@@jacquelineklinges there was a real degree of separation. We didn't want to be those kids bothering her about iCarly or something, she looked like she needed that time to unwind. As a teen it was hard to consider actually approaching her because she was so famous and we assumed it would bother her.
People with great relationships with their parents (good for them) tend to be defensive when other people share their struggles with toxic parents. We should all support her and be glad she was so brave to share her struggles. Wishing her the best of the best.
@@evilpumpkin7532 What is up with you. Horrible parents is a vague term. It can also include abuse. Do I have to say I have horrible parents that both abused me for you to understand. Clearly your the one that needs some growing up to do. So grow up and use your brain before you respond.
@@iraford5788 Horrible parents is a vague term. It can also include abuse. Do I have to say I have horrible parents that both abused me for you to understand.
i love that she pauses and truly thinks about how she wants to express her answers. im listening to the audiobook today and she is just such a strong person to live through this and talk about it so openly.
as someone who hasnt gone through parental abuse of any kind i am so happy shes opening up about it, i had no idea she went through that and honestly that makes me feel for her even more, i couldnt imagine going through that
Heartbreaking to realize she was going through so much as she was bringing us so much joy throughout our childhood. Can't wait to read this book, glad she is healing, wish her nothing but the best. Bless her
Phenomenal job on deflecting that question, maintaining a boundary and advocating for her FULL story! 👏🏾 so happy to see her and will be getting this book as soon as I can!
She really is my idol at this very moment sometimes some people don’t understand or know the pain some of us go through especially if it involves family issues
I’m so glad that she’s coming out with this. When I was a child living in an abusive home situation, I loved watching iCarly and Sam & Cat to distract myself. As a kid you do not get the inappropriate jokes, nor do you understand the severity of abuse in child acting. Now this leaves a particularly bitter taste, but I will buy her book as soon as possible to hear her side of the story.
I’m 36 and have two boys. I was too old for I Carly and they were too young so we missed that boat. But I will be buying that book! They way she handled that interview is how it’s done. She set her boundaries and was firm and respectful but still warm and human. Hats off to her. You can see all the work she’s done.
She was always my favorite when I was a kid, I'm glad she is opening up about the issues with child stars, the parents abuse them a lot of the times. It's also a story about parental abuse in general. I hope she goes back to TV/movies as some point in her life on her own terms.
what i love about this interview is the way jennette answers the questions in such a dignified and powerful way, especially when nickelodeon was mentioned. she didn’t immediately say oh yea they offered me the money, she avoided it but in a smart way. 👏🏻
I listened to the entire book in one day. It was amazing. She’s been through so much and she’s beyond brave. I’m sure some people are offended by the title but you cannot judge it until you’ve read it. I have nothing but respect for her. She’s had her challenges but she’s finally healing and is doing what is best for her.
Listening to this book gave you all the emotion. She used her acting skills was very punctual. I wanted to read a hard copy but felt you got so much more just by hearing her read her story and putting it out there the way she did made it feel like a movie or conversation you were having with her.
And people shouldn't judge it if they didn't live it and don't live it. My mother should be behind bars for her criminal behavior to her children! When there is no justice for that we , their children live behind invisible bars the rest of our lives.
I love that she’s not letting anyone take control of her words. She’s amazing. As someone who has experienced and still experiences abusive behaviors from my parents and family members, I 1000% agree with ruining their reputation. If they get mad, not my problem!! They shouldn’t have abused me in the first place!!!
After reading this, I absolutely recommend it. I think anyone could benefit from the way she explains abuse in relationships and patterns we can fall into as humans. She was so vulnerable with us, and even though I never knew much about her beforehand, I relate so so much to her now. It’s a heartbreaking but wonderful read!!!
I'm reading this book right now and am really enjoying it but also shocked by how horrible her mother was. As someone who was abused as a child and also had a very narcissistic and emotionally abusive female warden, I relate to the title 100%! Jennette is a very strong and smart person. I am so glad she is sharing her story so that children of abuse don't feel alone and can see that we can heal and get past that pain.
Her character's mother on ICarly also was abusive, she seemed to be naturally angry and resentful when said mom was brought up in script. Obviously because it was real life for her as well. Glad she's speaking out. Especially about Nickelodeon, there's been a lot of rumors over the years, but none of the child stars have bluntly said what really has happened. And you just know some dark shit is there.
@Lilly B To be fair it happens a lot a Nickelodeon and Disney because they have a lot of chill actor the problem is really with the child actor thing because you cannot as an adult have a job and have a child actor your job is to go to the job of your child When everything is about your child and everything about your money is because of your child …
I am so proud of Jennette and admire her a lot, I'm so happy how much she's opening up and that her book is receiving a lot of attention. "I'm glad my Mom Died" sounds like a serious title and it really catches the attention of all of us since that title makes us realize how horrible Jennette's mom was to her. The fact that Jennette grieved her mom's death at the time feels heartbreaking since Jennette was angry at herself for feeling that way. It's also sad that Jennette still misses her at times even though she was abusive. I mean, Jennette had an eating disorder because of her and her death was the only way Jennette could recover from the eating disorder. I am that sort of person who seems calm on the outside and struggling on the inside and Jennette's advice is making me think about my whole personality and it's convincing me to face that struggle like Jennette said. We can tell Jennette has put a lot of effort into her book and it's amazing how she's now comfortable to speak about her past even though it caused a lot of traumatic experiences for her. We shouldn't hate on her because of the name of the book, we should love how confident and honest she is now. It's good that she's not concerned about the opinions of others, because she lets herself know that it won't stop her from releasing her book. Also, I love that Jennette's siblings are supporting her in any way they can, they are amazing!
She looks so chic and cute, as always. I so totally get why her book is titled so sincerely “I’m Glad My Mother Is Dead”. I never had a dysfunctional abusive family background, I so admire her self awareness, inner confidence and candid humor/ strength. She turned her life tragedy/ trauma into healing and helping many others. What a bright talented light she is. 😍🥰😘👏🏻👑💎🏆🎭⚜️📺🥹💪🏻📚✍🏻 🙏🏻 🤍
I love her for being so honest, and It's so hard to be that vulnerable when you are a public figure., I'm so glad she's opening up about all her struggles and is actively working on her mental health. She is still suffering mentally, that is pretty obvious, but doing all this and writing about it, can be nothing but therapeutic for her. I think she is going to do great things in life, and is going to be a very successful person, in whatever field she chooses... her best days are not behind her, but are yet to come ✌️💕
I don''t know how you can say this when it's so clear from the interview that she's not free to talk about her experiences. It seems rather obvious to me that she and Nickelodeon have some kind of settlement agreement that limits what she can say in exchange, I presume, for them not suing her.
This bitch is nuts, she said her mom restricted calories and "touched her" sexually for medical examaniations, then she says in her book title "glad shes dead" Thats your fuccing mother, look you can disagree with what she did, but she fuccing raised YOU all by herself.... She got up at night to change your diaper to feed you, she sang you songs and cuddled you..... And you turn around and say your glad shes dead? You stupid evil bitch...... Your heartless.... Look i have a strange relationship with my mom but i would NEVER be happy shes dead..... This bitch needs help
@@modusvivendi2 I actually agree with you, she must have taken some money in exchange for an NDA. They usually last for about 7 years. I've listened to her entire book and not once did she call him by name, in the book she continually refers to him as "the creator" and the other person she didn't name was called "the network head" I don't blame her for taking the money, she should get something for all the crap she went through. Everyone pretty much knows that she is talking about Dan Schneider as "the creator" anyways 🙄 🤣
Icarly was my favorite show as a kid and Jennette was my idol. I also suffered from abuse from my mother and watching this show brought me so much comfort. I am now also healing from my own trauma and seeing this now heals me even more. I feel like we grew up together. So proud of her for how far she has come. ❣️
She is the definition of strength and nuance...which looks to have brought her peace. I'm happy for her. I hope that she is a voice for others. Best wishes to you Jennette.
Just placed a hold on it from my public library and I'm 16 in line! I'm so glad that people in my community have also sought to read it and I hope it's like this for all libraries across the country.
@@Amandamarie0701 do you have digital resources at your library? Mine does and I can read them from the kindle app on my phone. Sometimes there is a wait for those too though.
I really felt what she was saying. To really be at peace with who you are, you have to face the things you feel really ashamed about or struggle with. She really inspired me with this interview. I’m so happy for her. I’m sending peace, love and understanding to everybody out there who has uncomfortable truths. It takes one step at a time but YOU are your most biggest investment. Right it down on paper, say it out loud to yourself.. but being honest is going to get you through. Love y’all 🫶🏽💕
I actually saw the producer I believe she’s talking about at my job. I believe his name is Dan Schneider. I gave him a dirty look and he looked at me like I know you know who I am. He’s really creepy! What she said about having resentment towards abusive parents resonates with Me. I completely understand and applaud her for being so bold and raw with the title of that book. I had an abusive mentally ill mother who passed away. I could never say I’m glad she’s dead but I feel that anger toward her both my parents. It’s exhausting dealing someone who drains the life out of you and part of you is glad that it’s over it’s just that most people don’t say it out loud. You can love and hate your parents at the same time.
This! This is what im dealing with.. even at 29 years old with a family, im still dealing with it. What kind of 50 year olds fist fight in front of their grandchildren....
Which is why Amanda Byne's Spiral wasn't all that shocking to me, neither is Drake Bell spending time with young kids, or Liz Gillies marrying a man who's 20 years older than her... that she met as a young teen- a music producer who worked with DS on a few shows.
I’m so glad she has come out with this while SHE is comfortable with it. All forms of parental abuse are not alright and this book can help people get passed that. Even with abuse we can still miss our parents but that doesn’t mean that sometimes we still can’t be happy that they are gone because truly it can be a happy thing at times. Much love for Jennette💛
We're all getting old man lol. Hell I was already a little past the target audience when these shows were on lol. But my little sister loved them and I couldn't help but be charmed by them. They were fun, cute characters. I related to Spencer in iCarly a lot. Always loved Miranda Cosgrove ever since School of Rock. Victorious was just full of hot girls and borderline raunchy for a Nickelodeon show. Ariana Grande's Cat was adorable. Really sad that this stuff was going on behind the scenes.
Never heard of her or the show but from her picture I guessed she was at least 50 years of age...I really need to hear a person speak and watch them in action. With a single photo it's hard to determine age.
I’m glad she has spoken, good for her, being famous and rich isn’t everything it looks like it’s made in magazines and tv. There’s a lot of abuse in Hollywood, many, many young boys and girls are abused in show biz. I hope this helps her heal.
Jennette is one of the most gifted, charming young actresses to ever make it in television. Very, very unusual brilliance and wit, when you come right down to it. And a beautiful, youthful energy. She elevated her Nickelodeon shows to such a high level of wit and artistry. And her co stars were completely exceptional too. It breaks my heart that she was suffering the way that she was. Thank you to those of you reading this who love her; thank you for supporting her right now. I cannot even imagine how tough these interviews must be for her. I can sense that there's a part of her heart that is really hurting right now. She's so brave. We love you, Jennette.
I am so happy to see Jennette like this. She looks so happy and calm, she truly has healed. As a person who struggles with their own mental health issues this gives me so much hope that maybe one day I can be at peace as well. Opening up about things that make you feel embarrased or scared isn't an easy thing but facing them is the only way to cope. A few years ago she said she's done with acting but now she's considering it. THAT shows growth. I'm glad to see she's getting the love and attention she deserves and even if we might not see her on screen, just knowing that she's doing well is enough.
I’m so proud of her dude. I can’t imagine how hard it is to use your voice and stand in your truth like this. Keep going girly, you’re gonna be helping so many young girls
People really don't understand how evil adults can be to their kids. Brilliant title. I wish Jennette all the best; this is a story that needs to be told.
Yes her story needs to be told
Respectfully💯
Jennette said she was the family breadwinner. Her mom forced her into showbiz to support the family (like Bella Thorne) and it wasn't fun for her.
Yup exactly like the MJ accusers who used their kids to take his money. Bunch of scums.
My mom were so close growing up. I mean so close, I would sit on the toilet or floor of the bathroom while she showered, sometimes she’d take me to work worth her during her overnight shift and I’d sleep in the break room. It wasn’t until before her death I started to piece together, the abuse and terrible things she did my entire childhood. And it wasn’t until after she died, I learned about all of her lies and hated her. With time that’s passed, I’ve learned to forgive most of what she’s done. But if given the choice to bring her back to life, I wouldn’t.
She’s doing the right thing by telling the truth about what she went through while she was on Nickelodeon for the past six years. I’m glad that Miranda, Nathan, and Jerry are supporting her as she went through so much trauma. The title of the book is very shocking but tells the audience why she quit acting.
The title ain't too shocking once you learn about how Jennette's mom was. A monster
they never supported her
IIRC, Jennette never wanted to be an actress. Her mom forced her into showbiz to support the family and it wasn't fun for her.
@@Zzz2x They do support her wdym
She definitely abuse by the people in the industry. There so many actor and actress that are abuse, but might not be able to speak up because they might get blacklisted or may have sign an NDA 😕
She is a PROFESSIONAL! The way she spun her way out of the messy Nickelodeon question? Exceptional.
YASSS PROUD OF THAT
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I'm surprised he worded the question so bluntly... Can't Nickelodeon sue for that question?? I don't even think he said "allegedly"
The news network clearly pushed him to push that question. Her 180 back on it was perfect.
I was just sitting here going "smart, very smart response". Great way to answer that question.
She’s very carefully crafting her replies and avoiding certain questions. she’s brilliant
She is fantastic. Her sharp wit and irresistible charm elevated her Nickelodeon shows to such a high level. But yes, she has to be quite careful with these responses. She shouldn't have to be.....but that is the world we live in.
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She doesn’t want to get sued by Dan Schnieder, guaranteed
Is that a sign of brilliance? Because Kamala Harris and Joe Biden and Karine Jean-Pierre all do the same thing.
I’m so glad she didn’t answer his questions in the way he wanted because all she wants us to do is literally read what’s in the book. I appreciate her for that. Much respect in how she handled this on live television.
You mean she wants to make sales.
That and it's probably very deliberately worded/edited in the book to avoid a lawsuit. Too risky to have an on air conversation about it
@@Jeremy-wp4yh No shit, sherlock. All power to her for writing a book and wanting to sell it like every other author/ public figure writing about their life. Lmao.
Why does this look like a therapy session. Instead of her giving an interview.
@@Wxtst.3 I just find it strange when people trauma dump in a book and sell it. Just go to therapy. Everything isn't meant to be shared to such an extent
“Anybody that understands parental abuse understands this title” ABSOLUTELY! Good for her. She found her outlet to heal herself.
Yup!!!! I understand!
Lord Jesus Christ is coming back everyone, please don’t worship celebrities and entertainment, focus on Him alone. I promise there’s more to life than money, partying, homosexuality and music. Hell is real, repent from sinning confess your sins and ask God to forgive you, I know He will if you’re sincere. Anyone who thinks the Name of Lord Jesus Christ is a joke, boldly mocks and scorns Him or takes pleasure in people who do is in for a big unpleasant surprise on judgement day IF they don’t repent and follow Lord Jesus Christ. Hell is very hot, people please repent! In the mighty name of Lord Jesus Christ, Amen 🙏💪✝️💜❤️✝️!
Idolatry such as, Islam, Catholicism, Sangomaism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Santa Clausism, Confucianism, New Age, Science, Evolution, halloweenism, Harry Potterism, Politics, Donald Trumpism, Easter Bunnyism and other religions/faiths that are outside Biblical Christianity lead to hell! Don’t believe them, believe the Almighty God the Father of Lord Jesus Christ, who begot Him. Our Creator, The God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob is mighty, He doesn’t need a woman to beget a son, He is God. I choose to put my faith in a God who can do anything and everything, a God who has unlimited and infinite power to beget!
So, it’s time to confess that Lord Jesus Christ is the Lord and to believe that He died and rose from the grave after three days and you shall be saved if you only obey Him by praying, worshipping, praising, reading the Bible and living holy and righteously according to the Bible. You have to endure until the end, carry your cross daily and build your relationship with God by following Lord Jesus daily until the end. You must never renounce your faith in The Lord Jesus Christ, there’s hell awaiting those who reject/deny Lord Jesus Christ and those who continue living sinfully, even the Christians who don’t want to repent will face the same fate, so please repent beloved people, in Lord Jesus Christ’s mighty and precious Name, Amen.
@@julianacheriza9673 forgive so that God can forgive you,
Lord Jesus Christ is coming back everyone, please don’t worship celebrities and entertainment, focus on Him alone. I promise there’s more to life than money, partying, homosexuality and music. Hell is real, repent from sinning confess your sins and ask God to forgive you, I know He will if you’re sincere. Anyone who thinks the Name of Lord Jesus Christ is a joke, boldly mocks and scorns Him or takes pleasure in people who do is in for a big unpleasant surprise on judgement day IF they don’t repent and follow Lord Jesus Christ. Hell is very hot, people please repent! In the mighty name of Lord Jesus Christ, Amen 🙏💪✝️💜❤️✝️!
Idolatry such as, Islam, Catholicism, Sangomaism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Santa Clausism, Confucianism, New Age, Science, Evolution, halloweenism, Harry Potterism, Politics, Donald Trumpism, Easter Bunnyism and other religions/faiths that are outside Biblical Christianity lead to hell! Don’t believe them, believe the Almighty God the Father of Lord Jesus Christ, who begot Him. Our Creator, The God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob is mighty, He doesn’t need a woman to beget a son, He is God. I choose to put my faith in a God who can do anything and everything, a God who has unlimited and infinite power to beget!
So, it’s time to confess that Lord Jesus Christ is the Lord and to believe that He died and rose from the grave after three days and you shall be saved if you only obey Him by praying, worshipping, praising, reading the Bible and living holy and righteously according to the Bible. You have to endure until the end, carry your cross daily and build your relationship with God by following Lord Jesus daily until the end. You must never renounce your faith in The Lord Jesus Christ, there’s hell awaiting those who reject/deny Lord Jesus Christ and those who continue living sinfully, even the Christians who don’t want to repent will face the same fate, so please repent beloved people, in Lord Jesus Christ’s mighty and precious Name, Amen.
I'm sure it helps other
@@broombromden498 parental abuse is when the parent(s) inflict harm onto said child or children, project ur illiterate words onto someone else loll
I completely commend her. Parental abuse is a real thing. Child industry abuse is a real thing. Healing is a process and that fact she is healing is a huge accomplishment.
Now days it's much worse with all the tik-tok moms, youtube family vloggers and "mom-fluencers"
There aren't even laws to protect these children that are literally working since before they are born (pregnancy announcements, gender reveal and baby shower videos, baby mama dances🙄) then it's the labor vlog, day in the life of a newborn.. etc... Those kids are working many hours a week making videos and the worst thing is they're having their entire life posted online (some get many millions of views, lots from creeps🤢) zero privacy while the parents make a lot of money from views, ads, sponsored products...
@@AnaDiaz-wz4cf Wow! Didn't look at it that way, but it's so true.
That’s absolutely true
@@AnaDiaz-wz4cf I can't agree more!
I was once an extra for a TV series and saw a woman who was also an extra yelling and physically slapping her child on the set. The kid had to be at least 6. It really is grotesque what child actors go through.
She had more finesse in handling the questions on her own terms than more seasoned vets. I never watched her show, nor did I have an abusive mother but I support the title of her book & I'm so glad that in writing it she has started her journey to healing. All the best to her.
It’s because she’s forgiven herself and it shows. The more you heal, the less you become defensive because you’ve already had that conversation with yourself. It shows how big of a person she is. I am so proud of her and I don’t even know her.
The fact that she was able to say that she misses her mom shows that she has healed. People can be abusive and you can have good memories at the same time. It’s so hard but I support her talking about it and working towards her own happiness.
I'm sure this is the case with her. But also, certain kinds of emotional abuse can leave a person longing for the abuser for an unusually long time. If they're very bad for you, and you keep thinking about how much you cared about them, you might need to remind yourself about the bad times, so you don't put yourself in danger again.
Of course thats her mom so thats a given she'd miss her being here
@@Sarcasticron This! It hits close to home. I contemplated suicide for years & eventually attempted suicide from the continued emotional abuse & manipulation of my parent. I established minimal contact with my parent but also there's this longing for connection. I always have to remind myself of the bad times in order to protect myself since this person still treats me the same way as an adult. Being an empathic person with a narcissistic parent is not fun :( I'm healing though :)
good to hear that Sara! My Dad S.A. ed me when I was 12. He was a heavy drinker and smoker. He died from alcohol poisoning when I was ~16.
I strive to get to that level of forgiveness. It's a tricky thing. One day I'd say I've forgiven my dad, but the next day I wanna fly back to where he's at and kill him for what he's done to me.
We can’t silence child abuse survivors. Their feelings and experiences are valid. What a strong strong woman!
Lord Jesus Christ is coming back everyone, please don’t worship celebrities and entertainment, focus on Him alone. I promise there’s more to life than money, partying, homosexuality and music. Hell is real, repent from sinning confess your sins and ask God to forgive you, I know He will if you’re sincere. Anyone who thinks the Name of Lord Jesus Christ is a joke, boldly mocks and scorns Him or takes pleasure in people who do is in for a big unpleasant surprise on judgement day IF they don’t repent and follow Lord Jesus Christ. Hell is very hot, people please repent! In the mighty name of Lord Jesus Christ, Amen 🙏💪✝️💜❤️✝️!
Idolatry such as, Islam, Catholicism, Sangomaism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Santa Clausism, Confucianism, New Age, Science, Evolution, halloweenism, Harry Potterism, Politics, Donald Trumpism, Easter Bunnyism and other religions/faiths that are outside Biblical Christianity lead to hell! Don’t believe them, believe the Almighty God the Father of Lord Jesus Christ, who begot Him. Our Creator, The God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob is mighty, He doesn’t need a woman to beget a son, He is God. I choose to put my faith in a God who can do anything and everything, a God who has unlimited and infinite power to beget!
So, it’s time to confess that Lord Jesus Christ is the Lord and to believe that He died and rose from the grave after three days and you shall be saved if you only obey Him by praying, worshipping, praising, reading the Bible and living holy and righteously according to the Bible. You have to endure until the end, carry your cross daily and build your relationship with God by following Lord Jesus daily until the end. You must never renounce your faith in The Lord Jesus Christ, there’s hell awaiting those who reject/deny Lord Jesus Christ and those who continue living sinfully, even the Christians who don’t want to repent will face the same fate, so please repent beloved people, in Lord Jesus Christ’s mighty and precious Name, Amen.
Nobody is silencing them. Relax with the hashtag/bumper sticker sentences.
@@sorimasn relax with the trolling. Countless abuse victims have been silenced, you’re only showing your ignorance.
@@SadieNEmmie2024 yeah almost no-one takes this stuff seriously until it happens to them.
@@sorimasn learn to omit the word "relax" in the future until you understand how to use it wisely.
It takes so much courage for her to speak out about abuse. I hope she takes time to heal. She’s very strong and brave.
I just bought her book 😱
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@@javii9768 is “the creator” the creepy disgusting Dan Schneider?
@@RavenDots115 that's obvious. 😉
I agree I’m glad she’s outta the spotlight she deserves to heal
The fact that her brothers are supportive of the book speaks volumes. Proves how awful the emotional, verbal, & physical abuse was.
It adds credibility, but her experience doesn't require her brothers' corroboration as often kids will have very different experiences with parents and are not treated the same.
"I'm glad my mother died" is the most honest, most resonating memoir title I have ever seen. Will be buying her book. I hope those of us who have suffered from parental abuse can start speaking up and heal.
Im thinking about getting the book too honestly
Shit I can think of a couple people I’d be glad to see die lol we gotta stop living in denial. We all got that one person we’re waiting on.
Well said 💛💛
She took the Christopher Hitchens route “God is not great” same concept
Amen!
She is so articulate and thoughtful with every single thing she says. It's honestly so brave of her to speak out about something so personal yet so prevalent. Abuse is never okay and I'm glad she was able to work through her trauma by writing this book.
Yes she’s very brave
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She hit it on the head by saying “anyone who experienced abuse understands this title and anyone with a sense of humor”.
Dark humor
Yes 🙌🏾
Yup
I promise you, My mom is the villain in my story but I would never write a fucking book bashing her and title it that I'm glad she died. I'm sorry, but I disagree.
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Her memoir is truly the “Mommie Dearest” of our generation. Totally brilliant and so necessary.
She talks a lot about her issues in it too. Now most of it stemmed from her mom but her mom didn't really physically abuse like Joan Crawford..
@@SweetAesthete Emotional and mental is actually worse than physical. Bruises heal in about two weeks.. trauma takes years to unpack and heal
@@Luvinmydejah97 have you experienced both? I hope not for your sake but they are both bad. physical causes mental and emotional trauma as well so your point is invalid.
@@SweetAesthete why do you feel the need to create a competition on who suffered the most?
@@priscila... apparently you didn’t read when I said “BOTH”
I think the people who are offended by the title have never been abused by their mother, plain and simple. But those are the same people who have NO right to tell survivors of child abuse how to feel. They have no idea what it’s like.
Yes broken and toxic families are hard for a lot of people to understand it one thing to just not like you family but when they abuse you it another story.
I've never been abused by my mother but I can understand enough and not be offended by it.
I’m not offended by the title but I think about my mom and she was so giving and selfless. She’s passed like Jeannette’s mom, but I can see why she feels that way. Her mom wasn’t there for her, it’s a response to that. However it’s understandable why people are shocked by the title, I couldn’t say that about my mom as I was blessed with a terrific mother.
That, or they're mothers abusing their kids and don't want to be held accountable.
@@lemotheemonemo Exactly!
Gosh she is refreshingly authentic. I really appreciate her owning the spectrum of her feelings. Sometimes victims are made to feel like they have to be forgiving or empathetic towards the abuser out of respect. Good for her finding her voice and able to speak the truth.
and the way she can communicate it, in such an honest and inspiring way. Choosing integrity, boldly.
Ohh yes !!!
Instead of hating her for disliking her mom, people need to think the opposite way. What did the mom do to make her daughter feel this way? Kids and young adults don't hate adults who they can tell truly cared for them as a person.
Very true.
People hating her for disliking a person they have never lived with or had to be around. The entitlement. We have never had to spend a day with her mom she endured from birth. Who are we to say how anyone should feel if we’ve never walked in their shoes. I didn’t know people were saying they hate her for that because If they do that’s ludicrous.
Exactly!!
People always think parents can do no wrong.
Exactly, kids weren't born predisposed to hate their parents, quite the opposite, as in the case of Jennette who tried to love and care for her mom, but the abuse from her mom was too much that Jennette ended up hating her.
She really got vulnerable in this book, letting herself out there is extremely brave. This book was a whirlwind of emotions. Great job Jennette!
I do not want this book nor any other material of Jennette McCurdy in my phone. Please delete this book and block Jennette McCurdy from my phone, NOW!
Thank you!!!
@@peggyfossett161 wow, u don't control humans snowflake
Can't deny that she is eloquent, articulate and has reached a high level of critical self thought. I applaud her authenticity to write stuff like this and her well spoken thoughts are enamoring to me.
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@@bichtran2539 u aren’t the brightest tool in the shed
she seems fake
Nothing but respect for her for talking about this and telling the truth
She's dying for attention
NoctOG333 its not attention its the truth. So you are saying she should keep quite about the abuse she suffered? I say good for her for speaking her truth
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@@Noct343 just crawl back under your rock
She speaks so well in interviews. I like her advice of facing the struggles. Everyone’s traumas are different, so it wouldn’t be fair to give advice to everyone the same, but saying that facing the struggles helps with healing is so true
5:37 I’m so proud of how she handled his dumbass repeating of the question. She handled herself so eloquently, elegantly, and confident. I’m really inspired by how authentic she is allowing herself to shine through here and I definitely resonate with her book title. I grew up with an emotionally and physically abusive mother. I am so excited to read her book and let her perspectives shine through into my life. I hope to all of you out there who experienced the same childhood traumas or similar that you find peace, love, healing, and joy in your life. You deserve it. ❤️🌻
It's an interview with people that she hasn't been interviewed by yet, which she agreed to beforehand, so what is wrong with this "dumbass repeating of the question"? Not every interview can break new ground and ask creative and interesting questions, especially on a show such as Good Morning America.
@@jun5836 Just goes to show so many interviewers only care about gossiping, scandals, or rumors. It’s disrespectful actually to interrupt her again to ask a question that in the broader scheme of things doesn’t matter when the real subject is her conquering healing.
@@jun5836 She actually hosts her own podcast, and I’m sure she was thinking about how many varieties of questions she could have come up with-if she was the interviewer.
Came to the comment section hoping someone else caught this
It’s a great one
I went to Barnes & Noble today (day of the book release) to buy her book and the guy that worked there said they were already sold out. Good for her! I’m glad a book that sheds light on child abuse in Hollywood is doing well 👏
She's definitely going to make more money selling this book then the money Nickelodeon had offered her to keep quiet about the abuse.
I ordered it from the library and there were already eight people in line for it. Hopefully they’ll order more copies! Otherwise I might just buy it myself.
I live in Providence, Rhode Island and drove all the way to NYC to buy that book but it was sold out. 😔
I preordered it for my kindle as I live in France and wanted it in English.
On Amazon it's out of stock, glad that I bought it on time.
$300,000 for years worth of trauma that will never go away? How sick. I’m glad she’s actually coming out and talking about it and what goes on in networks like this because it’s not talked about enough. I’m glad I never had that drive as a child to be famous, everything I’ve ever heard about Hollywood makes me never want to even meet someone from there let alone work as someone so big for them.
Freaking Dan Schneider
A lot of poor people and less financially stable people would take that in a heartbeat
@@twistedbliss58 okay? What’s ur point
@@twistedbliss58 im poor and id never take hush money to hide abuse. fk that.
@@azura-moonstar good for you, lots of people would though lmao
Period! For her holding that boundary of, “I said what I said in my book, and that’s all I’m going to say about it.”
Yes, "I said, what I said," in Nene's voice.
@@NN-re7cy Nene has so many funny lines lol
I feel like parental abuse is not talked about enough especially with childhood stars so for Jennette to come out with this book is so inspiring. I’m definitely buying this and supporting her through everything. Every child deserves love. 💛💛
How she was able to turn his question about the 300k around was very admirable. I was like, she clearly doesn’t want to answer. Don’t force her to
also tought that.. just because she wrote a book about her trauma does not mean everybody has a right to talk with her about it. Glad he left this issue after second try at least. Good for her to stand firm!
300k!!!!
its stupid to say not to ask she wrote that in the book because she knew it would grab attention you idiot
@@JoeIsARose I don't think it was because she doesn't want to talk about it, but because she wants to encourage people to buy her book. If she gives all the answers in an interview, we won't need to read it. So makes sense she wants to leave out some details.
Lol george stephanopoulos is pretty garbage. kept pressing on the question needlessly
She’s so mature, so well spoken, and so painfully real. I hope Dan Schneider pays for his awful crimes against children!!!
um, its not only him, but mostly her mom.
@@robroy6374 oh stop! he abused children as did her mom
He will in the afterlife
@@robroy6374 also other people from Nickelodeon. Pickle boy from the Amanda show was a convicted p@do yet he was still working with Nickelodeon after his conviction
Yeah but her allegations against him are consistent with what other child actors and their parents have alleged about him over the years. The fact that Nickelodeon kept having him create show after show when they knew about his issues for years is sickening. Took them years to finally get rid of him
She’s so right about the title. If you were abused you don’t think this is a shocking title. You get the dark humor and the reality of the relief. I just hope she’s truly at a point with her ED that’s as healthy as she wants to be. As someone who struggles with an ED they never go away, they just flare up or become quieter and I do see some warning signs and worry for her. I look forward to this book and I’m so happy she is able to put a book out. I wish she could speak to Dan schnieders sexual abuse of the girls like Amanda bynes and her and the foot fetish stuff. The creator is Dan Schneider.
If you know business its for marketing
What are the ED warning signs you are seeing? Genuinely curious!
@@rachelh2731
that she is a special type of skinny that is consistent with people who suffer from ED like anorexia f.e., wearing a big blouse that hides parts of her (which tbh are just quite fashionable atm) looks like she has low energy, can barely bring herself to smile...
I hope she stays healthy (physical and mental) she gets better, regardless of what or even if she is struggeling and comes out stronger in the end.
I will definetely try to get my hands on her book
@@JoeIsARose Yes disguising with overly large clothing. I noticed her very thin arms.
@@JoeIsARose It’s pretty common knowledge in the ED community that commenting on an ED’ed person’s appearance can cause relapse or further an ED. Perhaps it would be best not to speculate on her appearance.
The most beautiful thing she said was “make contact” with the parts of yourself you’re ashamed of. I’m healing from sexual trauma currently speaking, and since I’ve opened up to my closest loved ones and gotten so much support it’s changing my life. You grieve so much… appreciate her being so brave, waited a long time to know her truth ♥️
If she made a book about her being glad her mother died, that shows her mother must have been very cruel, abusive, manipulative & evil.
I am so proud of her. Folks need to stop making it not ok to express how we feel when we have toxic parents.
Doesn't me we don't love them but the toxic nature should not be hidden just to apez (probably spelled that wrong, lol) the masses.
She states that if her mom was alive she would still have her ED
@@SpicyPlur ED??
@@SpicyPlur What’s ED
@@brianpratts eating disorder
If Jeannette gets back into acting (whenever she feels like it), I hope she steps into shows she wants to be in whether if it's popular or not. I'm glad she's okay now. I was so worried about her for years.
I'm hoping her first acting gig is coming back to iCarly. I'm sure Miranda and Jerry would love to have her back.
She experiences too much trauma on set. She wants to produce and direct, though.
@@alexrice1870 I'm gonna support her in doing so
@@moblinmajorgeneral Same!!!!
She'll have to do something for work, money runs out eventually
As a grown victim of narcissistic abuse from a parent, I applaud her for speaking her truth. Society has such a big emphasis on loving your parents unconditionally but that’s pretty much impossible when one or both parents have abused you in any way. It changes the make-up of your brain, as when you’re a child you’re constantly absorbing information and learning how to survive in your environment. When the home is not a safe environment, that can have detrimental consequences later in teenhood and adulthood. Good for her.
Verbal and mental abuse can often be just as damaging to your psyche as physical abuse. My father was a manipulative and controlling alcoholic. Not only was I abused behind the scenes but my father abused me in front of the state of California as a child. Never been more hopeless then at that time
Awh long story but me too I was basically told to follow this family member! Believe in what he believes is right ! & was criticized if I was to hang with my cousins and certain family always saying you were talkin ish about me with them huh? And I would go so far as to back him up even when I knew he was in control of me in a way!
I looked past his evil ways! & even forgave em when he planned to kill me!
Legit contacted him a year after & thought oh he was just drunk! He would do the same!
I was so paranoid even in hotels miles and miles away!
Was so tough to kick the things he taught me
Even now I find myself wanting to forgive but no!
This was a in law!
And “we were so close cause I lived with my sister for 15 years”
Things fell for me and her, 3 kids when she left!
Woke up got the car and kids ready while he was drunk & left! Was on the run for a year in hotels!
I feel so bad I’m supposed to be the brother I’m the youngest but man I was so scared if you knew the threats! Ex military and way bigger than me!
Well we are all living together at this time! Happy as hell love my nieces and he will never get close to none of us again!
I am against abused children speaking out. Nobody wants to have their day ruined by hearing a kid being negative and overly dramatic
We are in a new age where children don't rule over us anymore. And if you are against it. Be prepared to be called out for antisemitism
💛.
Just finished this book and all I can say is wow! I read it in a week and certainly would have finished sooner if it weren’t for the holiday season. Her book certainly resonated with me and I cried during the last 2 chapters! Certainly a page turner. You won’t be able to put it down. I wish her all the peace, happiness, love and healing. She is so deserving 🙏🏽
Honestly good for her for sticking to her guns and not answering the big headline questions, you can tell her book is obviously more than those headlines, and that tells alot about her character. I wish her nothing but the best!
She’s so classy, poised, and outspoken. I’m so happy she is able to tell her truth, and advocate for herself. Even as the interviewer pushed her, she responded with grace and wisdom🤍
I totally relate to her. I wasn't a child actor, but my mom projected all of her own insecurities on me. She was a bully my entire life. But then she would love bomb me maybe twice a year telling me how amazing I am. I almost wish she never did that, because it was hard to actually feel my true feelings towards her without being swayed by those handful of times she was overly nice. It took me until I was 23 to realize I was not treated like a normal child should be treated. I would stand by her side for years after my brother emancipated himself at 16 and hasn't talked to her in over 10 years now. Therapy and being treated with kindness and respect from my friends and even just the general public made me realize she was not normal. Why are strangers at starbucks being nicer to me than my mom? Why are coworkers asking how I am but my mom hasnt called me in 8 months? She didn't have a husband to nag at or complain about, so she made her kids her enemy. She treated us like a woman treats her husband that she can't stand, she couldn't wait for us to leave. I think when my mom passes, there will be grief there for the mom I wish I had and saw glimpses of once in a blue moon, but there will be a huge sense of relief and I'll feel like I can breathe for once in my life.
Kenzie, you sound like you’re free from your mother’s mental prison. I am so happy for you and glad you have friends and coworkers to show you real friendship and kindness and even just basic decency. Hope you and your brother are closer these days.
I feel your heart in this and while I’m sorry you went through this, I’m so happy that you were able to experience the difference because so many just continue on the cycle. I’m praying for your mom and your daily period. Some people get broken when they are young and grow up not knowing no other way to live or be. And while you have those people, there are people like you who refuse to repeat the brokenness. You are strong and deserving of love and joy.
I relate to you! My mom was very manipulative and mentally abusive. Told me before that she wished she had aborted me. I’m 28 and still don’t have a real relationship with her nor any of my siblings. I’m the youngest of 5. I think when it’s her time to pass on I won’t even be sad. She was never really there she made sure I was well taken care of. But I never got hugs from her as a kid I barely was told that I was loved. I think apart of her feels very guilty how she has treated me because we can go the whole year just about without talking. Mothers day I sent her a text instead of calling because she was always very mean to me and I never thought that she was that great of a mother.. Everyone always wanted my mom to be theirs she put on such a front on how our relationship was to our family and friends. I got the occasional affection from her but maybe a few times a year. Because of my relationship with her and the torment from my siblings and bullying I will be starting therapy very soon. You are not alone. Stay strong!
Thank you for sharing this with us
I can relate 💯%! Thank you for sharpening this. For me the healing began after my mom passed. You’ll find your way.
03:04 "I think that anybody who has experienced parental abuse understands this title."
YES! Absolutely! 100%!! Thank you so much for sharing your story!
All I can say is if you haven’t walked a mile in her shoes then don’t judge. I really feel for her and I’m glad she’s finding a way to heal or at least try to heal.
You are a really pretty girl☺
@@henrysmith8209 oh wow thank you
Sandra Guzman Montes▪︎ My Mother always said this to us, if we ever said anything negative about someones actions or the way they acted or basically anything negative. I have always through my life used this, before i judge. Thank you 😊
I can’t believe she’s 30 now, felt like yesterday she was on iCarly but time waits for no one.
I’m really sorry to hear what happened to her and that she had to put up with that for so many years whether it was her mom or “the creator” who I’m sure many of us know who she’s referring to. I really hope her adulthood treats her much better than her childhood/adolescence.
She still talk to dustin?
when i heard they were bringing back icarly. i was like," that show just went off the air yesterday." NOPE! it had been NINE YEARS!!!!! IT BLEW MY MIND.
@@stingrey1571 same! And Sam and cat is almost 10 years old
@@samg873 Sam and cat was an amazing show I still watch it with my gf all the time
@@CoolPage994 I watched it on Paramount plus
I love how she handled this interview! My fave part is when he starts to try to press her about the $300,000 to get more info and two different times very calmly she made him back off and let him know she's not speaking about that. long story short if you want to know about it read the book.... and I will.
That interviewer is quite insidious, he wants the juice of the book be spilled over national TV, especially if it's something damaging towards a rival media conglomerate: Viacom.
The book has been through multiple reviews and her comments about Nickelodeon in it were probably very carefully chosen. Saying things on television, where she has no control over how it’s edited, could land her in a lot of trouble. It’s good that she didn’t let the interviewer get away with that.
@@schris3 Let's be honest. EVERYONE wants to see the juice spilled. No matter who you are, this coming to light is important and Nick deserves to go bankrupt. I'm sure it would hurt some of her cohorts though which is why she won't.
The ‘Creator’ was Dan Schneider. It’s becoming more widely known that he sexually abused her and Ariana Grande, as well as other child actors on other Nickelodeon shows he wrote and produced. It was later that Nickelodeon finally cut ties with him due to allegations. Ariana Grande will not speak out about the abuse but others have. The $300k was so that she wouldn’t out him openly and directly, but as she said she turned it down and has already implicated him and his abuse on her Twitter.
She's already been traumatized enough; there's no need making her relive that again. good for her for sticking up for herself.
I have said it for so many years, and I never get tired of repeating it.. I am SO proud of her.
Child abuse is absolutely awful and should never be silenced. She is doing the right thing by speaking out. I hope she can get through all of this.🙏
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She is media trained in a way only child stars always seem to be. Knowing their reputation exists on a razors edge. I hope her story is heard and I hope she gets justice in whatever form she needs.
Yes. The media treats young stars like wind ups dolls to play dress-up with rather than humans! That’s not the ideal lifestyle for any kid to grow up around!
She’s been through a lot we all grew up watching her on Nickelodeon. And everyone has been through something especially abuse and it takes a lot of courage to talk about it everyone has a story to tell
Not everyone grew up in abusive homes.
This is her reality. People don't want to hear hard truths about a suffering child. I'm glad she spoke out. I wish her well.
George ! Askin those tough journalist questions as per usual ! So brave so daring lolol like oh yeah why the HELL does ANYONE ever allow their children to work in such a hopelessly SICK DANGEROUS and inappropriate industry ??? #CancelGroomingKidsForFameandAttraction
Would you say the same if a black girl talking about her white mom?
@@margarettiffin724 what difference would the daughter's and mother's race make?
She did her “shadow work” on herself and I am so proud of her. Now she can evolve and become the person she was truly meant to be. Good job!
She's so well spoken. Sending all the love and support her way. I'm glad she finally got to speak her truth after all these years.
She is such an articulate person. I’ve only seen a couple little bits of her work and there’s no doubt she is talented. I’m just so sorry that her experiences came at so much cost and suffering. The children of abusive parents have such a tangled web of emotional things to sort through in life. God bless her for her courage in sharing. If there’s any part of her that desires to re-enter the entertainment industry I hope she does so on her terms and with boundaries firmly in place. If her desire is at all to entertain (if that’s something that would give her joy) then the world would be blessed by it, but the blessing has to be mutual. Good for her for sharing her story.
Jesus died for our sins, rose from the dead, and gives salvation to everyone who has faith in him! True faith in Jesus will have you bear good fruit and *drastically* change for the better!
Also, did you know God is three in one!? The Father, The Son, and The Holy Spirit! Bless him!
Have a blessed day, everyone!! ❤
Your worries (yes, anxiety), depression, suicidal thoughts, EVERYTHING will melt away and be NO MORE when you lean on God and put your trust in him! When I have physical pain, I literally pray and the Lord quells it, that I am healed!!
Know that there is power in the name Jesus Christ! His name casts out demons and heals! People are bothered by his name. The world hates the truth and wants to continue living sinfully! God's children are set apart (holy) and righteous.
Your lives are more relevant than keeping video/comment relevancy ❤️. The devil has fooled you all long enough.
Yes, the world is very wicked, doing a lot of evil both behind closed doors and right in front of our eyes. Let this be insight that brings others home to Christ, acknowledging evil and choosing righteousness, amen.
@@Call_Upon_YAH Your assumption that the devil has me fooled when you literally know nothing about me is . . . very odd. 😅 As a Christian woman who loves Jesus, I’m pretty confident in my salvation by God’s grace. But you’re right though: Jesus saves.
She's killing this interview STRONG BOUNDARIES - "I said everything in the book," SLAY!!
they thought they were going to manipulate her into misleading her story by focusing on her title. but she did so good to shut it down. firt time i have seen someone do it so direct. with social media around she knows how they like to manipulate
Coming from somebody who suffered from an eating disorder with a supportive mother, I couldn't imagine if I had an enabling mother. It makes recovery so difficult. Recovery is a lifelong journey with lots of ups and downs. Whether she's at her best or worst now, I wish her peace and revovery!
She has a lot of courage writing this book & breaking her silence. I think its amazing she can open up about the hardest things you never want to talk about! As someone who had an abusive Step mom I completely agree with her speaking her truth.
Yeah
She is well spoken and you can tell she did a lot of work to be able to speak about this
100%. To speak with the composure that she did undoubtedly took hundreds of hours of private healing behind closed doors. My heart goes out to her for sure.
She was forced as a child to be something her mom wanted to be and it's sad as a child she went through alot just to please a toxic parent that's damaging poor baby!!! I'm with her 100000% tell your story!!!!
I love the title of the book. Nothing shocking about it. Her mother was abusive in so many different ways and was money hungry. She exploited her daughter for personal gain and benefit. No mother like that deserves respect. Jenette has gone through so much suffering at the hands of her mother, and that little bit of relief that came from her death was probably a breath of fresh air as it signaled the end of the abuse and manipulation.
Bla bla bla ... you're rude she was her mother. She not left her in the street like some doing ok? What will all she did and she is better then her mother? Not I think so. You have not marcy for your parents and God not will for you. Well, animals are better then some of you. Maybe understand what mean parents and perfect stranger.
@@miraspaho5562 please shut up.
@@miraspaho5562 Just because you push out a baby from your vagina doesn't mean you instantly deserve respect. If you abuse your child sexually, physically, or emotionally... you do not have my respect. And her mother abused her. Keep supporting child abusers though!
@Mira Spaho her mom gave her an eating disorder she where still alive Jeanette would be in the position Britney Spears is in not all parents love their children
Jenette grew up near me. I would see her at the ice rink every once in a while. She always had this lonely air to her. It broke my heart. We were 2 years apart and I could see how much she was in her head even just skating along.
Awww that’s so heartbreaking. I wish I could’ve given her hug if I were there 🥺
@@jacquelineklinges there was a real degree of separation. We didn't want to be those kids bothering her about iCarly or something, she looked like she needed that time to unwind. As a teen it was hard to consider actually approaching her because she was so famous and we assumed it would bother her.
So cool that u kind of knew her ya after watching this I do feel bad for Jeanette and what she went thru!
@@kelcianderson6997 there's so much more we don't know and that's for her to heal. I hope the best for her, truly.
Poor girl… my heart goes out to young Jeanette
People with great relationships with their parents (good for them) tend to be defensive when other people share their struggles with toxic parents. We should all support her and be glad she was so brave to share her struggles. Wishing her the best of the best.
False. I have horrible parents and yet I’m not as ungrateful and morbid as this woman is.
@@skylarmichellex Horrible parents and parental abuse are not the same thing. Grow up.
@@evilpumpkin7532 What is up with you. Horrible parents is a vague term. It can also include abuse. Do I have to say I have horrible parents that both abused me for you to understand. Clearly your the one that needs some growing up to do. So grow up and use your brain before you respond.
@@skylarmichellex not the same thing.
@@iraford5788 Horrible parents is a vague term. It can also include abuse. Do I have to say I have horrible parents that both abused me for you to understand.
i love that she pauses and truly thinks about how she wants to express her answers. im listening to the audiobook today and she is just such a strong person to live through this and talk about it so openly.
as someone who hasnt gone through parental abuse of any kind i am so happy shes opening up about it, i had no idea she went through that and honestly that makes me feel for her even more, i couldnt imagine going through that
I am soooooo proud of her and she has become such a beautiful articulate woman!
Heartbreaking to realize she was going through so much as she was bringing us so much joy throughout our childhood. Can't wait to read this book, glad she is healing, wish her nothing but the best. Bless her
Phenomenal job on deflecting that question, maintaining a boundary and advocating for her FULL story! 👏🏾 so happy to see her and will be getting this book as soon as I can!
I noticed that! Like WTF with that question at the beginning?! What a graceful answer. She’s pure class. So happy she’s healthy and healing.
She really is my idol at this very moment sometimes some people don’t understand or know the pain some of us go through especially if it involves family issues
I’m so glad that she’s coming out with this. When I was a child living in an abusive home situation, I loved watching iCarly and Sam & Cat to distract myself. As a kid you do not get the inappropriate jokes, nor do you understand the severity of abuse in child acting. Now this leaves a particularly bitter taste, but I will buy her book as soon as possible to hear her side of the story.
Jennette is such a powerful woman for telling her story. Can only imagine how incredible her book must be.
All women are brave and empowered!💪🙌
Except when a tire needs changed 😂😂
@@3dsmaxrocks699 😐😐
@@kingknightboss Still simping huh?
@@3dsmaxrocks699 🤓
@@3dsmaxrocks699 just a cringe comment
I’m 36 and have two boys. I was too old for I Carly and they were too young so we missed that boat. But I will be buying that book! They way she handled that interview is how it’s done. She set her boundaries and was firm and respectful but still warm and human. Hats off to her. You can see all the work she’s done.
It’s always hard for people who have not been abused to understand those who have. I’m proud of her. She is courageous.
She was always my favorite when I was a kid, I'm glad she is opening up about the issues with child stars, the parents abuse them a lot of the times. It's also a story about parental abuse in general. I hope she goes back to TV/movies as some point in her life on her own terms.
I think she was the best in the show, honestly.
@@jazzi1887 the reboot of icarly isn't the same. I'm realizing she made icarly popular.
what i love about this interview is the way jennette answers the questions in such a dignified and powerful way, especially when nickelodeon was mentioned. she didn’t immediately say oh yea they offered me the money, she avoided it but in a smart way. 👏🏻
I listened to the entire book in one day. It was amazing. She’s been through so much and she’s beyond brave. I’m sure some people are offended by the title but you cannot judge it until you’ve read it. I have nothing but respect for her. She’s had her challenges but she’s finally healing and is doing what is best for her.
Listening to this book gave you all the emotion. She used her acting skills was very punctual. I wanted to read a hard copy but felt you got so much more just by hearing her read her story and putting it out there the way she did made it feel like a movie or conversation you were having with her.
And people shouldn't judge it if they didn't live it and don't live it. My mother should be behind bars for her criminal behavior to her children! When there is no justice for that we , their children live behind invisible bars the rest of our lives.
I love that she’s not letting anyone take control of her words. She’s amazing. As someone who has experienced and still experiences abusive behaviors from my parents and family members, I 1000% agree with ruining their reputation. If they get mad, not my problem!! They shouldn’t have abused me in the first place!!!
Yeah they did that shit to themselves tbh
After reading this, I absolutely recommend it. I think anyone could benefit from the way she explains abuse in relationships and patterns we can fall into as humans. She was so vulnerable with us, and even though I never knew much about her beforehand, I relate so so much to her now. It’s a heartbreaking but wonderful read!!!
She's right. Anyone who's actually been through child abuse will get her title. I do. This is really important, and I'm proud of her for being candid.
She's got to be one of the most poised people I have ever seen in my life! Thank you for the inspiration Jennette
I'm reading this book right now and am really enjoying it but also shocked by how horrible her mother was. As someone who was abused as a child and also had a very narcissistic and emotionally abusive female warden, I relate to the title 100%! Jennette is a very strong and smart person. I am so glad she is sharing her story so that children of abuse don't feel alone and can see that we can heal and get past that pain.
Her character's mother on ICarly also was abusive, she seemed to be naturally angry and resentful when said mom was brought up in script. Obviously because it was real life for her as well. Glad she's speaking out. Especially about Nickelodeon, there's been a lot of rumors over the years, but none of the child stars have bluntly said what really has happened. And you just know some dark shit is there.
wow. I literally don't even remember the mom on the show at all.
@@a_2502 it's was for one episode and she was played by Jane Lynch
@@iamchristian1129 she appeared once, but there were many remarks of her during the show.
and to think Sue Sylvester is a horrible character, love Jane Lynch though
@Lilly B To be fair it happens a lot a Nickelodeon and Disney because they have a lot of chill actor the problem is really with the child actor thing because you cannot as an adult have a job and have a child actor your job is to go to the job of your child When everything is about your child and everything about your money is because of your child …
It's true. The people who are offended by the title of the book do not know what parental abuse is like. Good for her for speaking out.
yep, like me. i’ve had the best mom ever. but i understand her pov and why she titled that
@@1saamor897 We need more people like you.
So very true. So true.
I am so proud of Jennette and admire her a lot, I'm so happy how much she's opening up and that her book is receiving a lot of attention. "I'm glad my Mom Died" sounds like a serious title and it really catches the attention of all of us since that title makes us realize how horrible Jennette's mom was to her. The fact that Jennette grieved her mom's death at the time feels heartbreaking since Jennette was angry at herself for feeling that way. It's also sad that Jennette still misses her at times even though she was abusive. I mean, Jennette had an eating disorder because of her and her death was the only way Jennette could recover from the eating disorder.
I am that sort of person who seems calm on the outside and struggling on the inside and Jennette's advice is making me think about my whole personality and it's convincing me to face that struggle like Jennette said.
We can tell Jennette has put a lot of effort into her book and it's amazing how she's now comfortable to speak about her past even though it caused a lot of traumatic experiences for her. We shouldn't hate on her because of the name of the book, we should love how confident and honest she is now. It's good that she's not concerned about the opinions of others, because she lets herself know that it won't stop her from releasing her book. Also, I love that Jennette's siblings are supporting her in any way they can, they are amazing!
She looks so chic and cute, as always. I so totally get why her book is titled so sincerely “I’m Glad My Mother Is Dead”. I never had a dysfunctional abusive family background, I so admire her self awareness, inner confidence and candid humor/ strength. She turned her life tragedy/ trauma into healing and helping many others. What a bright talented light she is. 😍🥰😘👏🏻👑💎🏆🎭⚜️📺🥹💪🏻📚✍🏻 🙏🏻 🤍
Seems like writing this book has helped her grow
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I love her for being so honest, and It's so hard to be that vulnerable when you are a public figure., I'm so glad she's opening up about all her struggles and is actively working on her mental health. She is still suffering mentally, that is pretty obvious, but doing all this and writing about it, can be nothing but therapeutic for her. I think she is going to do great things in life, and is going to be a very successful person, in whatever field she chooses... her best days are not behind her, but are yet to come ✌️💕
Becuz they sell their soul and can’t go public abt certain stuff
I don''t know how you can say this when it's so clear from the interview that she's not free to talk about her experiences. It seems rather obvious to me that she and Nickelodeon have some kind of settlement agreement that limits what she can say in exchange, I presume, for them not suing her.
This bitch is nuts, she said her mom restricted calories and "touched her" sexually for medical examaniations, then she says in her book title "glad shes dead"
Thats your fuccing mother, look you can disagree with what she did, but she fuccing raised YOU all by herself.... She got up at night to change your diaper to feed you, she sang you songs and cuddled you.....
And you turn around and say your glad shes dead? You stupid evil bitch...... Your heartless....
Look i have a strange relationship with my mom but i would NEVER be happy shes dead.....
This bitch needs help
@@modusvivendi2 I actually agree with you, she must have taken some money in exchange for an NDA. They usually last for about 7 years. I've listened to her entire book and not once did she call him by name, in the book she continually refers to him as "the creator" and the other person she didn't name was called "the network head" I don't blame her for taking the money, she should get something for all the crap she went through. Everyone pretty much knows that she is talking about Dan Schneider as "the creator" anyways 🙄 🤣
She is so articulate. I commend her for her bravery and strength in being able to overcome the ordeals she went through. Wishing her all the best!!
No she sounds more like someone who's trying to sound articulate
Icarly was my favorite show as a kid and Jennette was my idol. I also suffered from abuse from my mother and watching this show brought me so much comfort. I am now also healing from my own trauma and seeing this now heals me even more. I feel like we grew up together. So proud of her for how far she has come. ❣️
She handled this interview so well. I am happy she is at this point in her life and I’m curious to read about what she’s gone through.
“That kind of honesty has been truly liberating for me”. You are loved Jennette McCurdy.
She is the definition of strength and nuance...which looks to have brought her peace. I'm happy for her. I hope that she is a voice for others. Best wishes to you Jennette.
Only a few chapters to go and she is SO right, there is so much more to the headlines. I highly recommend it! All the best Jennette!
Just placed a hold on it from my public library and I'm 16 in line! I'm so glad that people in my community have also sought to read it and I hope it's like this for all libraries across the country.
why not buy it? 🤷
@@blp5840 not everyone can afford things
Why can't people try to help the next child. Nobody wants to read the Bible though.
At my library there is like a 150 wait it I’m like yeah not worth it lol
@@Amandamarie0701 do you have digital resources at your library? Mine does and I can read them from the kindle app on my phone. Sometimes there is a wait for those too though.
I really felt what she was saying. To really be at peace with who you are, you have to face the things you feel really ashamed about or struggle with. She really inspired me with this interview. I’m so happy for her. I’m sending peace, love and understanding to everybody out there who has uncomfortable truths. It takes one step at a time but YOU are your most biggest investment. Right it down on paper, say it out loud to yourself.. but being honest is going to get you through. Love y’all 🫶🏽💕
I actually saw the producer I believe she’s talking about at my job. I believe his name is Dan Schneider. I gave him a dirty look and he looked at me like I know you know who I am. He’s really creepy! What she said about having resentment towards abusive parents resonates with Me. I completely understand and applaud her for being so bold and raw with the title of that book. I had an abusive mentally ill mother who passed away. I could never say I’m glad she’s dead but I feel that anger toward her both my parents. It’s exhausting dealing someone who drains the life out of you and part of you is glad that it’s over it’s just that most people don’t say it out loud. You can love and hate your parents at the same time.
This! This is what im dealing with.. even at 29 years old with a family, im still dealing with it. What kind of 50 year olds fist fight in front of their grandchildren....
@@michaelmartin1520 wtf! I’m sorry dude, hope you’re doing the best you can
Mr Foot fetish creep
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Which is why Amanda Byne's Spiral wasn't all that shocking to me, neither is Drake Bell spending time with young kids, or Liz Gillies marrying a man who's 20 years older than her... that she met as a young teen- a music producer who worked with DS on a few shows.
I’m so glad she has come out with this while SHE is comfortable with it. All forms of parental abuse are not alright and this book can help people get passed that. Even with abuse we can still miss our parents but that doesn’t mean that sometimes we still can’t be happy that they are gone because truly it can be a happy thing at times. Much love for Jennette💛
My jaw literally dropped when they said Jannette was 30 years old! I feel like I’ve flashed into the future
Ikr
Arianna Grande is 29 yrs. Not hard to believe.
@@seygra20 and they were born on the same day just a year apart
We're all getting old man lol. Hell I was already a little past the target audience when these shows were on lol. But my little sister loved them and I couldn't help but be charmed by them. They were fun, cute characters. I related to Spencer in iCarly a lot. Always loved Miranda Cosgrove ever since School of Rock. Victorious was just full of hot girls and borderline raunchy for a Nickelodeon show. Ariana Grande's Cat was adorable. Really sad that this stuff was going on behind the scenes.
Never heard of her or the show but from her picture I guessed she was at least 50 years of age...I really need to hear a person speak and watch them in action. With a single photo it's hard to determine age.
I’m glad she has spoken, good for her, being famous and rich isn’t everything it looks like it’s made in magazines and tv. There’s a lot of abuse in Hollywood, many, many young boys and girls are abused in show biz. I hope this helps her heal.
It takes courage to speak out against abuse. Applauding her for doing so.
Jennette is one of the most gifted, charming young actresses to ever make it in television. Very, very unusual brilliance and wit, when you come right down to it. And a beautiful, youthful energy. She elevated her Nickelodeon shows to such a high level of wit and artistry. And her co stars were completely exceptional too.
It breaks my heart that she was suffering the way that she was. Thank you to those of you reading this who love her; thank you for supporting her right now. I cannot even imagine how tough these interviews must be for her. I can sense that there's a part of her heart that is really hurting right now. She's so brave.
We love you, Jennette.
What stood out to me is how thoughtful, intelligent and what composure she has. Wishing her the best after a difficult childhood.
I’m proud of her. Seems like writing this book has helped her grow.
My only question is when is Dan Schneider gonna get the punishment he deserves for the trauma he's put these child stars through?
The most important thing is that that perverted psycho gets what's coming to him. In prison
Him and every higher up at Nick who knew about Schneider and kept him on their payroll
@@teganlyons8169 there is a reason Jennette was offered a hush surprise
You know he won’t and it’s so sad and upsetting
Yep I'm sure it's him she's talking about, he's so disgusting and has ruined so many young actors
I am so happy to see Jennette like this. She looks so happy and calm, she truly has healed. As a person who struggles with their own mental health issues this gives me so much hope that maybe one day I can be at peace as well. Opening up about things that make you feel embarrased or scared isn't an easy thing but facing them is the only way to cope. A few years ago she said she's done with acting but now she's considering it. THAT shows growth. I'm glad to see she's getting the love and attention she deserves and even if we might not see her on screen, just knowing that she's doing well is enough.
I’m so proud of her dude. I can’t imagine how hard it is to use your voice and stand in your truth like this. Keep going girly, you’re gonna be helping so many young girls