You're probably Latina. Latin moms would never allow their kids to spend too much time in their friends' houses, much less staying the night. I don't understand the mindset of these other mothers.
@@gottogoalltheway do you want an argument ? I made my statement based of my observation. I dont have to answer your idiotic question. Its people like you that are too blind to the signs when it's happening in your own house
Unfortunately most predators aren’t known. They hide and sneak their way in by allowing victims and people around the victims to be comfortable with them.
Parents actually think that meeting someone will tell them whether that person is an abuser or not? Your own family members that youve known your whole life can be abusers... so gullible.
I bet he did this to his daughter also! His daughter probably felt relief that it didn’t have to be her anymore, that’s why she acted so normal when she walked in
@@justlikehoney1859 just because you didn't encounter it, doesn't make it untrue. You're just lucky. There are for more unfortunate who deal with that problem. So yes it's true. You just didn't run into the situation.
@@babywaffles9985 to keep such special childhood experiences like sleepovers from a child is absolutely wrong. To believe everyone is a creep is sick thinking and isn’t true so nope, I disagree and you won’t ever change my mind 😁😁
My mom would never let me sleep over at my friend's house. It first I never could understand why but now that I'm older and have a little girl of my own I completely understand. This world unfortunately is not safe.
My daughters are now 18 and 21, and I only allowed them to stay at one of their friends home that we knew extremely well!! I was even picky about who I let come to our home, because you just never know.
This is why my mother enforced No Sleepovers under No Circumstances. It didn't matter if she knew the parents or not, whether it was a female headed household, two parent household, or whatever.
It was the moment that she said he smiled at his daughter. That let me know then everything i needed to know. He's done something to his daughter as well. And feels that him being with her friend should make her jealous. That's crazy
My mom didn’t let me spend a night over my friends house if they had males that lived in the house. But made me spend a night at her friends house while they went out, and her friends son ended up sexually assaulting me. Like it’s really the people u least expect
Same thing with relationships a man not wanting you around other men(non blood related) is protection. a man not wanting you around family is controlling
My daughter had a friend over they were in pool i walked out she stands up. Says , oh dont look i lost my bottoms with big smile. I retreat fast. Wife gets home i say she is never here without my wife here again. Some of these girls are evil.
@@hatsunemika5313 grooming then can be the way they call seduction when someone older "seduces" someone supposedly too young for that. What is the difference between seduction and grooming? When you try to seduce a guy and make him like you, if he is around your age it is seduction, if it is way younger it becomes grooming, does it works like that?
Exact reason why my children NEVER spent the night with ANY FRIENDS! My mother NEVER let me spend the night with any of my friends either. I never understood as a child but I immediately understood when I had my children. Needless to say my children understand now.
@@mannyamato3421 Any forbidden fruit taste good, Your best friends girlfriend, or a married Christian woman you pay the price though. It's never worth the one night. It kills you spiritually hiding a secret like that.
in middle school my boyfriend didn't hit on me cuz he was in the 8th grade and i was in 7th grade. he's only 9 months older than me and he still felt weird about it. wtf is going thru someone's mind when they are old enough to be her parent?
I can't believe how many people in this comment section blame the girl. Victim blaming is DISGUSTING and it is always no matter the situation the repsonibility of the adult to not get intimate with a child. It is NEVER the child's fault.
Yes Dphil asked her alot...( about his daughter walking in on them) And she walked in? And what did she say? And what did he say? And she walked in? And she walked in? I think even having heard all the 💩 phil has heard, he's human and he's allowed to get shocked and ask questions several times, like what happened? What? What? As these shows get crazier, even I'm left wondering so much. Like why was the daughter so calm? Was the daughter a victim also and this is why it would seem normal to her? Because even at my adult age, if I walked in and saw something so awful, I would be yelling, screaming and calling 911.
Thats one protective mother not letting her see a boy, i wonder how hard it must've been to realize this and find out. also she probably felt so failed as a parent. i feel so bad/
This girl is speaking like nothing. She should be ashamed and embarrassed. He’s to blame of course because he’s the adult but she seems to be enjoying everything.
I don’t even let my daughter sleep over any of my siblings house, only my mom if it’s not me or her mom… I don’t even let her stay with her moms family at all alone 🤷♂️
"I don't want her to see boys, I don't want her going out with boys." Then she gets in a relationship with an older adult that you left responsible for her. -claps- Bravo... I wish I could count how many times being overly strict will severely backfire tenfold. I wasn't allowed to date so I had many dates in secret during my many '' Bike trips to the library to study.'' I am a 27 year old mother of two admitting to that now. I'm sorry girl, I know you were just acting on emotions that were not met by the right persons. I hope you've long recovered from this.
This is sad. I think he may have touched his own Daughter. I was never allowed to go to sleep overs because I k ow people this happened to. My old school friend this happened to who has Special needs. Patents of special needs kids need to look out even more for people like this.
I understand, some people want her to be held accountable as well becuz she “knew what she was doing”, but you have to think about it. She’s young, she’s still a minor, and her mind is still fresh and very susceptible to being influenced by those around her. It’s possible that he could’ve manipulated her into wanting to do all these things for him. Not trying to change anyone’s opinion on this thing, but just giving you some food for thought.
I will never understand how teens go for married and or adults. Just the thought of it made me feel sick inside. I just want that man locked up in prison until he is dead. Someone was talking about how women were being left out when we stopped being submissive. The amount of adults who are actually good is not the majority. So many people end up in bad relationships because so many people are just bad. The odds really are stacked against us.
I've found that some women seem to keep having bad experiences, and some women never have them. I think it may come down to how they were raised/the models they had as parents and fathers, and maybe some kind of filtering effect, too, with the women with tight groups of decent friends, anecdotally seeming to be less likely to have bad experiences with guys they hook up with. I realise that it won't always be the case, of course...
Regardless if she was willing or not, if she is under 18, she cannot give legal consent. She is too young and naive to understand she is being taken advantage of.
Listen to all you fools acting like you have all the awnsers! Some young girls are bad and the man has to say no! It’s not always the man having to talk the minor into it! A real man says no!!!
@@elora179some people can stand up for them self others just cant ! You cant compare yourself to everyone else on this Planet thats just insane . You also should Google the Word empathy because thats what you are obviously lacking 🤷
The courts trackers are a joke. Buy a $29 Apple AirTag and install it in the heel of her shoes. It will take you right to her if you ever need it. Install a keylogger on your childs PC. Like I said in my post earlier, if your not comfortable with PCs and technology, you better get comfortable real quick. If your in Pittsburgh, look me up. Mt.Lebanon Computer and Technology. I'll help you for free.
@Beatriz Gray - 2025 well in that case the law is messed up then.🤷♀️ Because at the end of the day she knew what she was doing both parties were wrong.
Exercise common sense gents - no matter how aggressive the girl is and she's the one who initiates it, even if you have a genuine personal connection and like each other, society is going to declare you a predator and won't hear anything but that she's a victim and won't allow her to express anything but that narrative. Even if you don't do anything and she accuses you, you're going to have a problem. "Just say no".
The fact that the daughter was no alarmed by this behaviour tells me that at the VERY LEAST, that house has weird sexual boundaries.
Tells me that the daughter was fixated on the age gap.
It tells me he’s done this before, either in the family or with friends of his daughter.
Now I see why my mom never let me go to any of my friend's houses for sleepovers
Same. None of us were ever allowed to stay the night places.
I wish more kids were as smart as you. Please spread the awareness with your peers
Me too!! I thought it was only a Mormon thing
You're probably Latina. Latin moms would never allow their kids to spend too much time in their friends' houses, much less staying the night. I don't understand the mindset of these other mothers.
Same here.
He abused his daughter too that's why she wasn't shocked and the situation was familiar smh
And you know this how?
@@gottogoalltheway do you want an argument ? I made my statement based of my observation. I dont have to answer your idiotic question. Its people like you that are too blind to the signs when it's happening in your own house
Thought this exactly & thought that the daughter was probably just happy it didn’t have to be her anymore that’s y she just walked away
@@richdude8150 damn you went off on him LOL
@@gottogoalltheway what
My mom never let me stay at sleepovers unless she knew their parents well. Like, multiple conversations.
Thats brilliant, because we all know sexual predators blurt out they are pedophiles when in conversation with other parents
Unfortunately most predators aren’t known. They hide and sneak their way in by allowing victims and people around the victims to be comfortable with them.
Same with my mother
Same .... Turns out those can fool everyone too.
Not me, my mom just raised me with enough sense to know right from wrong especially to the extremes like this
Parents actually think that meeting someone will tell them whether that person is an abuser or not? Your own family members that youve known your whole life can be abusers... so gullible.
More so it be a family member n it's disgusting
Sometimes people have a sense, a gut instinct about someone. Let's not ignore that.
@@chantellea9938 that is the big peice, that a lot of people forget.
You never know what happens behind closed doors. This is why all the kids were always with me as much as possible. Parents have to be extra careful!!
Helicopter mom
Ikr
Bet he promised her the world. Real stand up guy.
BruH brut still that's still inappropriate and so perverted
The friends father's a pervert 😔 I feel sorry for the Girl
probably just promised her some chuck e. cheese🧀
He promised her Za Warudo
I bet he did this to his daughter also! His daughter probably felt relief that it didn’t have to be her anymore, that’s why she acted so normal when she walked in
TRUE TF
People are so weird that write this .. stop saying that you have zero clue about that and you’re putting that on her
@@twsbrl2xlldmoney355 this was 8monfhs ago lol
My very first thought.
You do not know that why would write such a thing without proof.
His daughter was way too relaxed about this situation.
She was most likely familiar with it. Others have commented the same thing so I won’t go into detail
She was fifteen, she was a kid
So is this girl
@@Zer-db1bp wrong more than likely but okay dangerously speculate with the herd...
@@Danny_Diamonds it’s pretty damn safe to assume with this specific case. You “I’m different from the hive mind herd lol” crowd always intrigue me.
Glad my parents never allowed sleep overs. Too many hidden creeps behind closed doors.
Me too
this is actually not true. I’ve been to soooo many without one instance of creepiness
@@justlikehoney1859 just because you didn't encounter it, doesn't make it untrue. You're just lucky. There are for more unfortunate who deal with that problem. So yes it's true. You just didn't run into the situation.
@@babywaffles9985 to keep such special childhood experiences like sleepovers from a child is absolutely wrong. To believe everyone is a creep is sick thinking and isn’t true so nope, I disagree and you won’t ever change my mind 😁😁
@@justlikehoney1859 congrats. Just be careful if you have children or plan to. This is a sick world no matter where you go.
Better be safe than sorry
This is sexual abuse of a minor, not a "relationship". A relationship requires consens. Who writes these titles?!
Yes, *consent* is needed
They both consented
@@twsbrl2xlldmoney355 you cannot consent when you are underaged
@@twsbrl2xlldmoney355 this is called sexual grooming
She consented thats a fact but she is not taking a conscious decision cause she is a minor and can not see the bigger picture
My mom would never let me sleep over at my friend's house. It first I never could understand why but now that I'm older and have a little girl of my own I completely understand. This world unfortunately is not safe.
Not allowed to go with boys but its okay to go with grown men 🙄
If I see my friend and father laying in bed blank I’d freak out. There’s clearly something wrong with all 3 of them
My daughters are now 18 and 21, and I only allowed them to stay at one of their friends home that we knew extremely well!! I was even picky about who I let come to our home, because you just never know.
What's the most useful thing you learned from bring a parent?
This is why my mother enforced No Sleepovers under No Circumstances. It didn't matter if she knew the parents or not, whether it was a female headed household, two parent household, or whatever.
This is why my three daughters hung out with friends at our home.
ahhhh all comments are open. thank you dr phil youtube
Her friend knew? What a mess.
He probably does that to all her friends
I dont know who u are i don't know what u want but what she does know is that she has a very particular set of skills
@@noahmistle7688 ?
@@tyycha1324 ...
And his daughter
It was the moment that she said he smiled at his daughter. That let me know then everything i needed to know. He's done something to his daughter as well. And feels that him being with her friend should make her jealous. That's crazy
I agree with everything except him trying to make his daughter jealous. If he is tho the situation is just that much weirder.
My mom didn’t let me spend a night over my friends house if they had males that lived in the house. But made me spend a night at her friends house while they went out, and her friends son ended up sexually assaulting me. Like it’s really the people u least expect
Same thing with relationships a man not wanting you around other men(non blood related) is protection. a man not wanting you around family is controlling
Sadly his daughter was just happy. He didn’t want her anymore. He’s a sick guy. The daughter needs help.
My daughter had a friend over they were in pool i walked out she stands up. Says , oh dont look i lost my bottoms with big smile. I retreat fast. Wife gets home i say she is never here without my wife here again. Some of these girls are evil.
What does this have to do with this clip
Sexual ofender?
On the other hand. 💊I'm sharing Acts 2:38 with anyone who wants it bless.
How about she is never there again period away from your daughter!!!!
That’s insane and disgusting!
The mom looks like the aunt from Sabrina.
Noo wayy she doess
There are some people who do not need to be breathing. Were that my daughter he would be in a hole somewhere.
Jeff thank you for being protector
You are a real man!!
We need real men
To fight for their daughters thx for being that MAN
He was already in a hole somewhere thats where this story starts.
@@mannyamato3421 😂😂😂😂
She was 15. She didn't understand. He's a fully grown man and is sick.
If at 15 you dont understand, education in the USA is in a wrong place...
@@stefdiazdiaz7067 you can understand and still be groomed.
@@hatsunemika5313 grooming then can be the way they call seduction when someone older "seduces" someone supposedly too young for that.
What is the difference between seduction and grooming?
When you try to seduce a guy and make him like you, if he is around your age it is seduction, if it is way younger it becomes grooming, does it works like that?
@@stefdiazdiaz7067 Your comments are condescending and incorrect/
@@MissMarshall then please explain how this work?
How does she not get in trouble for this as well, there's no way you have never thought that this was wrong
She’s a minor. He was the one who victimized her. Legally she’s not at fault because she’s a minor
why would SHE be in trouble when he’s the one that raped her?
Why'd didn't the mom reported this to the cops then going on Dr Phil??? 😑
Exact reason why my children NEVER spent the night with ANY FRIENDS! My mother NEVER let me spend the night with any of my friends either. I never understood as a child but I immediately understood when I had my children. Needless to say my children understand now.
Thought she said the N-word.
Get beat down if so
You ever heard the saying jail bait! That's the forbidden fruit! That's a big NO NO.
Forbidden fruit tastes the best. You know in washington 16 is legal, just saying.
@@mannyamato3421 Any forbidden fruit taste good, Your best friends girlfriend, or a married Christian woman you pay the price though. It's never worth the one night. It kills you spiritually hiding a secret like that.
Omg...i feel like we are on another planet pleeeaaassseeee! HOW SICK IS THIS?!?!?!?!
Wrong she lied about her age in the first place she stated she was 24
ahhhhh go crazy the comments for dr.phil are all open now ahhhhhhhh
Philtube
Why did he not lock thr door? Wow. How bold. Won't even lock the door and let his daughter see that
now i see why my mom never lets me sleepover at others house.
This is why my kids don't go to people's houses.
in middle school my boyfriend didn't hit on me cuz he was in the 8th grade and i was in 7th grade. he's only 9 months older than me and he still felt weird about it. wtf is going thru someone's mind when they are old enough to be her parent?
0:24 🤢That's disgusting i feel for his daughter.🖐️🤮
He's a good looking guy that's why they were so "trusting"
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I can't believe how many people in this comment section blame the girl. Victim blaming is DISGUSTING and it is always no matter the situation the repsonibility of the adult to not get intimate with a child. It is NEVER the child's fault.
And blame her mom. Basically they blame everyone except the actual abuser
That’s wrong on so many levels
Yes Dphil asked her alot...( about his daughter walking in on them)
And she walked in?
And what did she say?
And what did he say?
And she walked in?
And she walked in?
I think even having heard all the 💩 phil has heard, he's human and he's allowed to get shocked and ask questions several times, like what happened? What? What?
As these shows get crazier, even I'm left wondering so much. Like why was the daughter so calm? Was the daughter a victim also and this is why it would seem normal to her?
Because even at my adult age, if I walked in and saw something so awful, I would be yelling, screaming and calling 911.
Thats one protective mother not letting her see a boy, i wonder how hard it must've been to realize this and find out. also she probably felt so failed as a parent. i feel so bad/
It's like some type of horror movie... Jesus Christ
Yea…. No sleepovers! Ever!
This girl is speaking like nothing. She should be ashamed and embarrassed. He’s to blame of course because he’s the adult but she seems to be enjoying everything.
She was abused.
We need to talk about this more so that people will understand and be open minded about this and not to judge about this.
My step mom wouldn’t let me attend sleep overs unless a mom was present
I never had sleepovers and this just makes me not want to have sleepovers
AND ANOTHER SAD
STORY IN THE NAKED
CITY"......
The girl liked him. That is just a reality..yeah he is wrong but she was attracted to him.
How can you tell?
Yes dr Phil his daughter walked in on them! How many times do you have to ask her that? 🤦🏽♀️😂
I don't think anything is wrong with this
Sad truth is that these predators are worldwide & plentiful. They deserve to be jailed for life, in my opinion. They can not & will not change!!! 🥲😡
I don’t even let my daughter sleep over any of my siblings house, only my mom if it’s not me or her mom… I don’t even let her stay with her moms family at all alone 🤷♂️
The mother should’ve never trusted a single father shaking my head he needs life in prison
"I don't want her to see boys, I don't want her going out with boys." Then she gets in a relationship with an older adult that you left responsible for her. -claps- Bravo... I wish I could count how many times being overly strict will severely backfire tenfold. I wasn't allowed to date so I had many dates in secret during my many '' Bike trips to the library to study.'' I am a 27 year old mother of two admitting to that now. I'm sorry girl, I know you were just acting on emotions that were not met by the right persons. I hope you've long recovered from this.
I am glad I never really like staying over ppl houses. I’ll visit but I wanted to go home. Plus my mom use to be like idk them ppl lol.
This is terrible 😞
This is sad. I think he may have touched his own Daughter. I was never allowed to go to sleep overs because I k ow people this happened to. My old school friend this happened to who has Special needs. Patents of special needs kids need to look out even more for people like this.
I could only go to certain peoples houses, only if the mother was always there and they didn't have any older brothers.
"He looked just normal"...
Frost tip hair like a boy band from the 90’s? There’s your sign mom lol
I understand, some people want her to be held accountable as well becuz she “knew what she was doing”, but you have to think about it. She’s young, she’s still a minor, and her mind is still fresh and very susceptible to being influenced by those around her. It’s possible that he could’ve manipulated her into wanting to do all these things for him. Not trying to change anyone’s opinion on this thing, but just giving you some food for thought.
I will never understand how teens go for married and or adults. Just the thought of it made me feel sick inside. I just want that man locked up in prison until he is dead.
Someone was talking about how women were being left out when we stopped being submissive. The amount of adults who are actually good is not the majority. So many people end up in bad relationships because so many people are just bad. The odds really are stacked against us.
I've found that some women seem to keep having bad experiences, and some women never have them. I think it may come down to how they were raised/the models they had as parents and fathers, and maybe some kind of filtering effect, too, with the women with tight groups of decent friends, anecdotally seeming to be less likely to have bad experiences with guys they hook up with. I realise that it won't always be the case, of course...
Its grooming. They were manipulated
She more than likely enjoyed it if she continued to go to his house. Why is all the blame on him and not on her?
SHE WAS A MINOR
Why ain’t dr Phil making jokes and how his crowd laughing like the episode where the roles were reversed
Why not wait til they’re 18?
He manipulated her. He threatened suicide. Im good
Chile... wake tf up
noone is looking at the daughter as a part of the problem .... interesting
Dr. Phil did.
She must be famous & rich now
She is a horrible mom
YES DR PHIL HIS DAUGHTER WALKED IN ON THEM!!! Omg haha like move on already!!!
She was more than willing
and not old enough to fully grasp whats going on while hes plenty old enough to know hes a scum bag
She was too young to understand. You are discusting for saying that.
Wow......player. U feel good about yourself after saying this
Regardless if she was willing or not, if she is under 18, she cannot give legal consent. She is too young and naive to understand she is being taken advantage of.
Listen to all you fools acting like you have all the awnsers! Some young girls are bad and the man has to say no! It’s not always the man having to talk the minor into it! A real man says no!!!
What a naive girl. That man was sick but she behaved very childishly. Many others wouldn’t have allowed this to continue.
I think you are the only naive girl. She was a manipulated child. You are gross to blame her for anything.
@@aubree8765I’ve actually been in similar situations, girl
@@elora179some people can stand up for them self others just cant ! You cant compare yourself to everyone else on this Planet thats just insane . You also should Google the Word empathy because thats what you are obviously lacking 🤷
The girl isn't innocent. She participated.
She loved it now she snitches for clout
Sick
Dear FBI,
Above we have the next person for you to keep an eye on. You're welcome.
Sincerely,
A Concerned Citizen
The courts trackers are a joke. Buy a $29 Apple AirTag and install it in the heel of her shoes. It will take you right to her if you ever need it.
Install a keylogger on your childs PC. Like I said in my post earlier, if your not comfortable with PCs and technology, you better get comfortable real quick. If your in Pittsburgh, look me up. Mt.Lebanon Computer and Technology. I'll help you for free.
Where was the mums gut feeling
Who cares. She wanted too do it, obviously she chose to keep doing it.
Horrible
Can't jus believe everything they show us....
We wanna know what exactly happened at that time to get the full picture
Nasty,never promote negative thoughts to the society
The title wording is confusing until watching video
This girl is amazingly brave!
My mother ENDORSED the sexual abuse she put on my sister. Being done to my sister by my mothers husband she said YOU DESERVE THIS
Mom its something wrong with you miss nieve
Insane. This world needs Jesus…
She accepted it wtf, it is not only his fault.
it is his fault. he’s the adult she’s a MINOR. she cannot give consent
@Beatriz Gray - 2025 well in that case the law is messed up then.🤷♀️ Because at the end of the day she knew what she was doing both parties were wrong.
True but against the law, so he losses.
Dr.Phil is as creepy as the rest of them. No wonder his wife divorced him...
Never let your kids sleep at peoples houses!!! Ever!! Never!! You never truly know people!
Greetings from Iraq
On the other hand. 💊I'm sharing Acts 2:38 with anyone who wants it bless.
Exercise common sense gents - no matter how aggressive the girl is and she's the one who initiates it, even if you have a genuine personal connection and like each other, society is going to declare you a predator and won't hear anything but that she's a victim and won't allow her to express anything but that narrative. Even if you don't do anything and she accuses you, you're going to have a problem. "Just say no".
DILF for real omg that’s discussing
"Allegedly"
R Kelly would feel less weird
R Kelly has a panicky bladder.