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HAPPY MONDAY!
i love that you're first to comment on your own video
How is ur day going :D
Happy Monday, Goddess of all things potato!
Happy Monday! Fantastic video as always🥰
I can't fathom why couple think it's cute to pretend a wedding is some kind of hostage situation. If your feeling "trapped" then don't get married.
As if their sense of humor hasn't evolved past "take my wife please"
@@meganchambers8108 and they’re not even married yet 😂 you don’t even have a wife to wish away!
I mean it may be an inside joke for the people that know the couple. The bride may have been pushing for a wedding for years while the groom was holding off on proposing for a long time so it became a joke. I've known some couples like that.
I don't understand it either. Like, you chose to propose this person. This isn't the Middle East. Your parents didn't "promise" you to a 56 year old man when you were eight. Quit acting like you had no say in this situation.
@Fordo007 well, you go. The type of person who would do this tacky joke is the type of person that would Badger and force someone down the aisle. Here's a hint if you're in a relationship with someone who doesn't want to get married and you want to get married, move on. What you don't do is blackmail harass and force somebody to get married who doesn't want to. It's not cute behavior it's not a joke it's pretty manipulative. And don't tell me I don't know the couple and I don't know how she was pressuring him to get married. The very word pressuring is telling. We all know men and women who pressure there were partners to get married, and we know the tactics used. I highly doubt this woman is such an individual that she didn't use those tactics.
Imagine feeling so intensely like a main character that when you try to ruin your son's wedding and people reprimand you, you take it as a deep personal attack.
Sounds like my mom
@@labelle4497 same. And my mother in law lol. Take care
Not to mention she was also wearing white
It’s called narcissism
My mother in law WAS the center of the show
There is a good reason to have some kids at a wedding.
Give them grape juice and chocolate milk to splash on anyone other than the bride who wears white.
“I’ll pay you 10 bucks if you go spill this on her dress”
“Make it look like an accident!”
Grape juice squirt gun!
Oh, that is just GENIUS!
man, as a bride, I'll personally throw a whole red wine bottle on anyone that dares...and then kick them out.
But this idea is indeed genius xD
Where I’m from, having your marriage ceremony during COVID-19 became more popular due to the decrease in cost since weddings are expensive, but during the pandemic they are cheaper. In a typical wedding there are usually more than 200 guests, but during COVID-19 the number of people in gatherings was limited to 50 by the government, and many saw that as a chance to have a small wedding without getting criticized by their relatives and friends. 😅
I was hoping for a "covid" wedding for this reason.
That's both hilarious and also kinda sad that people are that butthurt about it that you have to use a pandemic so people don't get mad at you
Re: Last MIL story: I think going no-contact with her for 10+ years is the correct outcome. Even if she's changed, she hasn't apologized and OP doesn't owe it to her to reach out ever.
Agreed. Going low or no contact is underrated.
There is a background story for that post on redit. MIL had some serious trauma from childhood and was not well. It's quite sad really, for all parts.
@@Ela1337 That is sad, but someone having trauma or mental illness does not give them a free pass to be shitty to others.
@@butterflyslinky agree. It's an explanation but not an excuse. I personally have an easier time forgiving people whom I know suffer from mental illness etc. But it still hurts.
I know women who would suddenly break out in song, singing "Zippidy-Do-Dah" if their MiL went no-contact.
Unless the wedding is an ‘Everyone wear white to the wedding please’ then DON’T WEAR WHITE …! 🤦🏻♀️
There are literally an infinite amount of other colors you can wear 🤣
That would be kind of cool as a wedding. Everyone wears black/white, except the bride and groom.
@@AmyRichardson24601 That would make the bride and groom really stand out which isn't a bad idea
@@AmyRichardson24601 imagine the bride wearing a gorgeous watercolor type dress omggggg 😱 and the groom too that would look amazing
The only exception I can possibly think of is if there is no way the dress could be confused with a wedding dress (like a really simple shift dress) and you literally could find nothing else to wear.
I appreciate that you don't tell a 10 minute story rambling on about nothing at the beginning of your videos. You just jump right into it. That's what I'm here for.
I’m sure you would have cringed at our wedding. 😂😂 My husband didn’t love the idea of the garter so we joked about pulling out a rubber chicken or something. Flash forward… we are at Zurchers in our wedding attire after the ceremony… needless to say he pulled out a long string of scarves and a rubber chicken like a magic trick. 😂 We have a weird sense of humor that has carried us through eight years of marriage. 🐔
This. Is. Awesome.
That is fantastic!
This is awesome because the garter toss is kinda weird. This makes it funny.
Aww that's so cute!! :D
😂😂😂😂😂Spectacular
I live for Charlotte’s wedding videos 😂
Seeing your comment here, feels like my two worlds colliding
Same! Hearing her relay the stories is WAY more entertaining than reading them. Her delivery is so entertaining to watch.
Omg! It’s Natalie on Charlotte’s page!!! 😍
Yessss same here
She’s an authentic lovely internet bestie to us all! 😊💕
I feel so bad for that couple in the last story. That was, by far, the most surreal, self-centred, selfish and narcissistic MIL I've ever heard about to date. Whoever married her is either just as bad, or she tricked him into marrying her somehow.
Will somebody please give the bride a big, soft hug from me and tell her she's better off without that woman? Remember, just because someone's related to you doesn't mean you have to like them. There are wonderful people out there: create your own family from them.
@@3frenchhens818 Dont have to like them. Also dont have to spend time with or have contact with them.
You best believe my petty self would have showed up at the MIL's wedding and pulled the same. The bride is a better person than I.
I think she is better off not ever seeing her again.
To me it kinda sounded like the MIL might actually be mentally ill or. A narcissist might make a scene and threaten to break off contact to get all the attention but it takes a lot more to actually go through with something like that for 10+ years.
I got married at the City Hall ... we were broke and didn't want to go into debt over a wedding. The only thing i regret is not having a fancy dress but no dress in the world is worth the stress that some people have to go through in these videos !
In January we will be married for 13 years, so far so good :D
Same with me and my husband. We’ve been married 52 years.
You could renew your vows or something along those lines for your 15th anniversary, and get a fancy dress for that occasion!
I went to a city hall and am divorcing his narcissistic, predatory behind 23 years later. Glad I didn't have a big wedding. Wish I hadn't wasted the time.
This is what I have tried to convince my children to do. Our wedding was super simple, and it still ran over $5k... 25 years ago. I'd rather they save their money toward a home, property, living expenses, or a really great honeymoon. There's just no reason to spend so much stinking money for a 20 minute ceremony and 2-hour party.
The look on Charlotte’s face when she saw the groom’s “Zombie Donald Trump” socks was priceless! 😂🤣😍
Where can I get a pair of those?
I love it.
The cake topper one actually looks like the groom is sitting on a toilet while gaming.
I thought that too...
You dont sit on the toilet to game?
That's what Ithought too lol 😆
Same thought 🚽🧻
That was my first thought
9:26 the cape on that dress is amazing. With the star motif and the cut it makes her look like a freaking statue of a Greek goddess. and then there's him smh
Beautiful in itself and a great idea as well.
That would rise any wedding gown on a new level.
To me it is like he started the marriage by disrespecting his bride horribly.
Maybe his suit got ruined somehow?
It very well could have been a themed wedding... her dress, the arch and the decorations all look themed, so would it be so far of a stretch that he's dressed appropriately, just wouldn't be suit and tie because that wouldn't match the theme.
I literally made my wedding a mix of traditional and Star Wars/Star Trek themed. My husband and I both love nerdy/geeky pursuits & video games. My side was Star Wars and my Husband's was Star Trek. The clothes were traditional; but the wedding cake, invites, and the photographs (I had the bridesmaids (lightsabers) fight the groomsmen (phasers, klingon weapon, and a graphing calculator that looked like one of the handheld computers) had the themed elements. The wedding cake & invitations had both the Klingon & Madolorian wedding vows in the correct font on it. I personally found and repainted two toy figures of a female sith lord and a Commander yellow shirt to look like my Husband & I in the middle of duking it out on the top. If I was going to pay a lot of money, I wanted to have a good time with it. Some people thought is was a bit strange, but who cares? I didn't make it a fully themed wedding, but rather a good mix of the two. Still together after 13 years & married for 7 years. Also my Husband is just a PC gamer, I actually play and collect both PC games & retro video game consoles (more than 13 consoles; I also have a full sized two-player arcade system).
If you’re having a wedding during a pandemic and people don’t want to come because they don’t wanna get ill that is the full reason. If you don’t care about the disease or getting sick that’s on you. You need to respect other people don’t feel the same way and that not wanting to get terminally ill is the full reason. No, thank you is OK.
YES. If guests are worried about getting sick, they could, umm… BRING A MASK??? 🤨🤨🤨
Life must go on
@@kerrimelson Or they could just not go. Like they said.
I'm sick with covid right now and this crap has raged on for the last TEN DAYS. I'm still sick. I want to give these idiots a resounding "screw you"
Then get vaccinated and shut up. Stop putting it on others to protect you. I went to 6 weddings the past 2 years and not one of them disclosed personal medical information of participants & guests. You should assume not everyone is vaxxed & if that scares you too much or puts you too much at risk, its on YOU to say no & stay home. Not on the bride & groom to baby everyone.
MIL story: When we first met, MIL seemed like a genuine and caring person. I was between houses and my child and I [from previous relationship] stayed at her place for three months. That whole time, I cooked for her, cleaned, did laundry, bought presents for her birthday and Christmas even though I didn't have much to spend at the time, even baked a cake and helped with Christmas dinner as I [back then] was a line chef. Move over to the next few years where she never asked about my child or how any of us was doing, never wanted to visit more than 15 minutes at a time on my child's birthday and all this time she never cared to show up for my birthday [I don't need presents, but a visit would have been nice] That next Christmas, my ex and I got engaged and we were planning a long engagement so we could slowly merge households and save up for our perfect day and a destination wedding.
3 years after I moved out and a week before ex and I were actually fully moved in together, my ex and I got into a huge fight about MIL. Turns out this lady had been badmouthing my child and I ever since we left - That I would take her son from her, that I hated her [you're welcome MIL for loving and caring about you] and that if we were to break up she would never see my child again [same child she never cared to ask about or to visit, same child I took to MIL's house every other weekend to say hello] and a whole bunch of other things she had whispered in my ex his ear and made sound as a "fact". I, at this point, had enough of the BS accusations this crazy woman was throwing around for no reason and my ex just hanging on her words even though he was supposed to be the one who'd really know me. So I broke off the engagement and moved ex his stuff out of the house back to MIL's place and told her if she ever wanted to see my child, she only needed to ask, because I am not a crappy person and my child really seemed to like her.
Guess who never asked but then told EVERYONE I was keeping my child from her? Yeah. Too bad I had the conversation recorded. Now everyone knows what a special type of evil she is. Moral of the story? You keep saying a person is 'this or that' one day they will become exactly that and you deserve it. MIL need to learn to sit down and take a chill-pill. Your child is not your property and I may hope when my child is ready for marriage, their MIL doesn't try to do this. I will support my child front and center when they want to fly the coop.
I feel sorry for her for losing such a great daughter in law
I think the moral of the story is you don't live with the mother of a man you haven't married yet. She became your MIL when you married. I think you expected her to be some kind of mother goddess because I have a MIL, she's the mom of my hubby, but she's never celebrated my birthday, or any of her children's spouses, or her own children. They send money for birthday and Christmas in one check, Also, not living with MIL allows me to stay out of her drama. Of course doing the cooking was kind, but did you pay rent? So, she doesn't need to thank you for every act of service you do by living in her home while you 'save' money. Sounds like she not great, sounds like the son allowed her to keep secrets from you. My hubby told me what if anything his mom said about me. He was married to me, not his mom. He even got her to apologize to me for a very unkind remark made to my sister in law as they were talking about me. It happens, but if hubby cleaves to his mom, he isn't cleaving to you, so that is the tragedy too. Hubbys sister is even more toxic and I haven't associated with her for over 24 years. Occasionally our paths cross at reunions , but no words. Happily married still. Siblings aren't always like each other or the parents, but someone needs to be the mature ones for sure.
All I can say is that you are an admirably strong woman! Don't ever change, and PLEASE teach these character traits to your child! 😇🤩
Let me guess. MIL is a single mom?
Ladies, be careful if your bf's mother is a single mom, especially if bf is only child.
If you share this on reddit maybe charlotte will actually share it next time. I want her to react to JNMIL stories
Whenever I’ve gone to a wedding I ask these things beforehand: what color is THE dress? (Bc sometimes it’s NOT white) What color are the bridesmaids dresses? What color are both Mothers-in-Law wearing?
And then I wear something that is none of those colors.
This is just courtesy.
That’s a really good idea! Obviously I would never wear white and if the invitation is like..chartreuse I guess I’m not wearing chartreuse. But I’m going to ask those questions from now on. Thanks!
Interesting, I guess it’s a difference of culture. In my culture we do have the rule of not wearing white to a wedding, but we do often wear colors matching the theme of the party. If the party/invitation has maroon and gold colors then that’s probably what most people wear. Often people don’t care too much and just want you to dress up nice no matter what color it is, but a lot of people wear the color theme. I’ve been to big birthday/wedding renewal parties where we all had to wear the same color as the people who are being celebrated.
Ex:The birthday girl, her parents, uncles, aunts, cousins, grandparents, etc. would all be wearing the same color. Sometimes you even get in trouble if you’re not lol
I guess that’s a good rule if you’re really close to the bride and groom. But if you’re a distant cousin or something like that, it’s kinda too much to be asking the bride about the bridesmaids’ dress color and each mother about their dress colors. My cousin’s wedding has 300 people invited! Imagine if 250 people texted the bride and asked about colors. Lol it’d be too much. I’m staying away from white and red cause I know those are the typical no-no colors. I went with navy. If the bride cared that much, she should put it on the invite or on her website. Otherwise, it’s fair game. I had someone show up to my wedding and she matched the bridesmaids perfectly by accident. It didn’t bother me because I figured if something happened and one of the bridesmaids got sick or couldn’t make it, I had a backup bridesmaid ready to go 😆 but ya if the couple really cares about no one matching, they need to put it in the invite/on the website.
When I pick a dress to wear as a wedding dress, I want to look good, feel comfortable, and not draw much attention. No white (obvi) but also not too tight, short, blingy or low-cut. It's a plus one not a plus two (boobies).
I accidentally wore the same colour as the wedding party. I'd never been to a wedding before and didn't realise that the invite colour could indicate wedding party colours and I forgot that the bride and I had the same favourite colour. The dress style and shade were different enough. When I apologised, the maid of honour said it was all good because they were down a bridesmaid anyway.
For the last one, they should do a renewal of the vows so they can have that beautiful ceremony and party that they deserved
That last one...wow...I just can't even. If I were rich, I would throw her the *biggest* Vow renewal/re-wedding bash of the century, complete with several photographers to capture every beautiful moment. And possibly a thoughtfully placed billboard of her favourite photo from the day.
That’s exactly what I was thinking too! If I had the money, that poor woman would be getting a gorgeous wedding bash with everyone who truly loves her there. Hell, I’ll hire security guards too in case that “changed” MIL (bullshit btw) decides she wants to “congratulate her.”
Read OP's comments for the full story.
That Trump sock is probably the creepiest thing I've seen in a while
Almost as bad as the real thing!
Until socks can almost start a nuclear war, I’m going to say Trump will always be worse.
I absolutely love the replies to this comment!!! 💙
It kind of put me off my dessert. I ate it tho.
I thought it looked like both Doug Ford and Mike Harris: two horrible Premiers of Ontario.
The last one was the most messed up story I've heard,they should be glad the mother-in-law is out of their life,she sounds like a crazy person.
0:22 this is why a lot of decorating companies put ribbons between the back and front chairs so ppl do not walk in the middle but on the side of the chair rows. There were so many idiots walking there in front of the groom and bride or letting their kids runing around that they had to came up with "idiotproof" solution... I was at the wedding where Karen had the audacity to try to walk over it - her legs got tangled in the ribbon and her dress and she fell down smashing her nose. She did not get back for the rest of the ceremony nor party and bride could not be happier that this happened as she did not wanted to invite her in a first place 😆
Quick Story:
My cousin was going to get married and planned the wedding on a Saturday since it is our church day. They thought it would be special to share such a special moment with God. However, her parents were completely against it as it is a holy day and thus her wedding would ruin it. They even said that if she got married on a Saturday they will not attend. She hoped they would see the special meaning in the preparation and kept her plans, and on the wedding day (which was in fact a Saturday) there was no sign of her parents. Her dad was not there to walk her down the aisle. She waited outside the church till the very last second, watching the gate, hoping their car would drive through. There was silence in the church as we watched her through the window. They never showed. Tears were shed, hugs were shared, and my dad (with a heavy heart) walked her down the aisle. 👑 She's happily married now.
Edit: 1. I fixed threw to through (omg sorry 😂)
2.Seventh day Adventists.
3.I understand that many people think Sunday is the correct day, but that’s not all religions.
Poor girl
Wait I am so confused I thought Sunday was church day . A holy day Gods day Lol
@@thesecretlifeofbuns4336 Or Jehovah Witnesses
@@MichaelClark-uw7ex Or Seventh Day Adventists
@@kimberlyarrington5721 Nope that's just something the Catholic Church came up with at the Council of Nicea so that pagans could be called christians and still worship their sun god.
The mother in law in the white dress tilted me sooo much. Like she straight up put on a show. She wanted the bride to cry. No passive aggresive, she went head first >.
As the wife of a gamer, I think that cake topper is hilarious 😂
I don't know why people took it so bad, I find it funny, maybe the groom himselw wanted to be portrayed like that.
The one where the groom holds his "piece" when the pastor says, "speak now or forever hold your peace" is funny to me. Especially considering the way some weddings go, you may end up needing some protection or leverage! He's like *nobody* is gonna ruin this wedding! I'd rather have a protective groom than one that smashes my face in cake. 😂
My best friend is getting married in a few weeks and she is the sweetest bride to ever exist. She has been doing everything in her own, hasn’t asked anyone for help, changed her wedding date several times as well as the guest list in order to accommodate the most important people in her life. I was almost not able to make it because my father in law was dying of cancer and I wasn’t able to be around anyone from out of state. She made sure that everyone attending is from our area so I could be there without jeopardizing my father in laws health any further. My father in law has since passed, but she is still keeping it the way it is. She has asked no one for help and has even gone as far as to ask her guests what they would like as their wedding favors. She knows my husband literally does all the decor for weddings at Disneyland and that I do hair and makeup and she hasn’t asked us to help out in any way. I offered to do her hair and makeup for her wedding and she has been so appreciative. She is driving to my house, which is almost 2 hours away, to do a test run. She also knows I have health issues and it’s hard for me to sit in a car for long periods of time, so she offered for us to come down and sleep at her house the night before and to use her bridal suite to get ready with her the day of. She is an amazing human being and I wish you would do a video, just once, showing off people like her who we don’t deserve to have walking among us. I should also mention that she has 7 kids, 3 from her first marriage, 3 from his first marriage and 1 together and she is a special needs teacher. She spent the entire pandemic teaching her own class, taking care of her baby and also taking an hour for each child to sit and help with their schooling.
I had an engagement party that evolved into a surprise wedding, in our backyard. We kept it a really relaxed BBQ(paid by us) asked our guests to byo chairs and drinks..no presents as requested on the engagement invite...my MIL who is a really good cake decorated got her nose out of joint because my husband got a cake made and she couldn't grasp the fact that it was a surprise..saying"why wasn't I told..none of my family knew. Cracked it big time ..saying she would have dressed better...she lives 5 minutes away and could have gone home and got changed when we were getting our pictures taken...All she did was whinged to people...I was glad to see the back of her and to my husband...but we didn't let her tanty ruin our day...
I think that is so cool you guys did that!!!!! Awesome. I hope your MIL is more chill now. And hopefully your hubby let her know that her little hunty attitude was not appreciated. She can make a cake for your first anniversary, or baby shower.
My parents once went to a fancy dress party that turned out to be a surprise wedding. My dad went as Little Riding Hood, my mum as the wolf, and my aunt came as a giant, yellow chicken. 😂
Our friends did this, it was awesome! Thought it was an engagement party, so we were a bit dressed up, turned out to be a wedding! Fun.
@@emilyspector2728 no we don't talk now...sometimes you have remove negative people from your life even if it's family...but we are 18 years and strong as ever...
@@ellenkarlsson9490 the coolest wedding picutes i guess
Our son and daughter-in-law chose to postpone their wedding for a year due to the pandemic. They also decided to have a small wedding at our house with our youngest being the officiant. It was wonderful.
I'm actually crying at Charlotte's reaction to the outfit in the second one, the dawning horror is priceless
Intimate pics can be really special. It’s special as it’s personal not public and showing everyone your snatch!!
That's what I was thinking too. To have a cheeky, private moment like that actually looks fun.
As long as they are kept private it is great but was tacky to post for everyone to see.
Private is 100% the key word.
That last one was a real trip. I feel so bad for her ): to have memories like that of your wedding... dang
I have been together with my significant other for 11.5 years, been engaged for 8.5 years (in the beginning our financial situation was so fragile we couldn't get married and when we started planning for a wedding for real, covid hit. I can wait another year if that is what it takes, we've been "mentally married" for several years now :D
It sounds like you are common-law married. It may actually be a legal form of marriage depending on which state you live in.
I mean, there’s a difference between not being able to afford to get married and not being able to afford a wedding. Anyone can get married at a courthouse and do a ceremony later.
I just don’t like this idea that’s perpetuated by society that people need to throw away their life’s savings on one party before they’re allowed to marry each other but I digress.
Just go to the courthouse. Not sure why anyone would wait over 8 years.
If it was down to me, the courthouse wedding would already have happened ages ago :D It's just that older relatives would be VERY pissed if it wasn't a church wedding, and I can't afford to get them on my "bad side" xD Besides, I'm one of the lucky brides-to-be that won't have to pay a single penny for my wedding, my parents promised to pay for it. In other words, I don't mind waiting until the whole covid situation calms down. My fiancé and I have the rest of our lives to get married, no particular rush after this long :D
8.5 years…it cost less than $100 to
Get married. My husband and I got married then had dinner with only our closest family
I had immune compromised people invited to my wedding. I definitely told them that some family is not vaccinated. And we don't always know someone's health risk. People need to know the information so they can make an informed decision of risk
I am a big fan of informed decisions regarding the risk. I have worked some weddings this year and it is good when people are on the same page. We just need to be careful not to call out individuals for not being vaccinated. It's their personal and likely religious decision. We need to let people make informed decisions, and make sure we are not pointing fingers at unvaccinated guests.
@@timothymcmahon7214 I get what you mean. To me though saying it’s a personal choice is a bit of a stretch when it affects everyone around them, so yeah they need to be upfront about it and let everyone know.
@@timothymcmahon7214 thanks for bringing this nuance
I very much agree Sam
Some people cant get vaccinated for reasons other than philosophical bullshit - health, time, and otherwise - I don't judge until they open their mouth about it.
And then I judge the fuck out of them.
I couldn't wait so I had a tiny wedding at a park outside with only my dad and stepmother there. We plan to have a full wedding later. It's really not hard to care about more than just yourself.
Brilliant idea!
Thank you so much for all the laughs Charlotte! My daddy was diagnosed with lymphoma 2 weeks ago and he's been in the hospital having a hard time with the chemo. I've had some pretty down days recently but, no matter how bad my day is, I can count on you to take my mind off of it for 10 to 14 minutes, then I can get back to doing everything I can to help him get better. You're videos are the sunshine in my cloudy days. Love ya Charlotte! I can't wait for the cold weather to start here in Detroit, Michigan so I can wear my tie-dye flamingo 🦩 hoodie! Stay awesome Potato Queen! 🥔👑
Sorry to hear about your dad. Will be thinking of you. God bless.
I’m sorry about your dad. Stay strong Tina!
Tina Bennett: Best of luck to your daddy! Take care of yourself too and stay strong!
Wishing your dad a full recovery.
💜
Regarding the people dancing on the highway someone should've told them they weren't filming the sequel to La La Land.
the dancing on the street is normal for turkish weddings in germany. sometimes the police has to break em apart after 2 fucking hours of blocking the road. i live at the main road of my street. since my town is seperated by water you cant really drive around other than a 2 hour drive around with fair costs :') fucking hate it
My cousin is fully vaccinated. She tested positive for COVID. There was a concert recently and all non vaccinated people had to show a negative test result but all vaccinated people just had to show card to say they were fully vaccinated therefore my cousin went to the concert with COVID and said well I’m ok because I don’t have to do a test
Yes there are some breakthrough cases but statistically it's a small number and those people aren't the main ones in the hospitals right now. That's why vaccination cards for the fully vaccinated are usually fine whereas the anti-vaxxers have to have a negative test.
It's all goes back to statistics and data analysis.
Israel is showing opposite data analysis and stats though.
@@Tamara-ju3lh it’s actually quite a large number. Covid spreading has nothing to do with being vaxxed or not. It’s here, it’s a virus and it’s not going anywhere soon because it was made in a lab to do just what it’s doing, and more. It’s bigger than covid at this point. Covid is just a smoke screen.
Oh, that situation doesn't seem to make sense.
@@Tamara-ju3lh Saying it all goes back to statistics is not comfort for someone who gets covid from a breakthrough case. The point it, so many people here are piling on the unvaccinated and ignoring the risk from the vaccinated. You should not assume you're safe even if everyone is vaccinated.
As a bride who is getting married in a few weeks. I really don't care what color people were to my wedding. As long it's not an actual wedding dress the color means nothing to me. By the way I am wearing champagne.
I'm puzzled. Why would a married couple, even newly married, be forced to quarantine apart from each other??? And why are they quarantining in the first place?
Gurl! I choked/ spit out my mango juice when you reactes to those D. Trump socks. Guess I learned my lesson.🤣
My niece and her partner got married formally at her parents with just close family. When the venue they had reserved reopened a few months later, they had a lovely commitment ceremony with the larger group and it was very nice. Everyone helped with decorations and contributed to the cost, it was so much fun and a great celebration of their love.
The guy with the crocs took it too literally when the bride said just wear whatever you want after frustratingly trying to convince him to wear a tux or at least a nice suit. LOL. Or maybe he forgot his suit, or arrived too late to change?
Those horrid socks were a deliberate choice. As was the rest of his outfit. Good grief.
Nah, those sox tell us all we need to know about that guy's personality.
Someone said to him "Tell me you're from Florida without telling me you're from Florida."
@@dwhorton1 😂😂😂
@@taylorhillard4868 you’re right
I am going to have nightmares because of those Trump socks. 😳
@Brad1980 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤣🤣🤣🤣
You're not gonna come?
@Brad1980 Oh. No thank you.
It’s heartbreaking seeing couples confuse their toxic relationship with being “quirky”
I'll be going to my first wedding this week! Bought a navy dress with lace that covers the back, cleavage and shoulders and a knee-length plissé skirt (they're religious and it was intially going to be at a church so I wanted to be a respectful atheist). I was brought up this way (formal stuff like weddings, christenings and funerals need formal attire) and I'm sooooooo scared I'm going to be overdressed. :'(
It's better to be overdressed than under dressed. It sounds like your dress wouldn't be out of place from neat casual to black tie. I'm sure you'll look great.
It sound like you're going to look great. From my experience you will fit right in. Also you are amazing for being understanding of your differences and respecting them.
Charlottes glee at these wedding ones make everything 10x better
Someone's vaccination status is none of your freaking business.
The cake with the game player is so real! I am a marriage counselor and this is such an issue with couples
Speak now or forever hold your peace, not "piece..." 🤣☮ Did give me a good laugh though! Apparently the groom has a sense of humor... and a gun in his pants.
for that last INSANE mil story: the universe is undefeated. Karma is no joke. what a hot mess.
The only reason my Monday's are glorious anymore is bc of Charlotte. 🌞✌🏼💙
Indeed! Went out today with my mum for the first time in a while so im happy! How is your monday? Better now i guess :D
@@datgaydangernoodle1315 Woohoo. How awesome. Mom time is always memorable. Struggling with my day, but
Charlotte is helping. 🌞💙
@@Trista072 i hope it gets better soon friend
I freaking missed you my beautiful internet bestie, i always come late and miss your comments
@@datgaydangernoodle1315 Aww, thank you. Much appreciated. 💙
It’s not your place to disclose the vaccination status of guests. People should always assume someone isn’t and that they are infections. That’s what we would do when going to the store.
You never know when something will happen. Better to be prepared.
Always feel so much better about my life after watching these videos haha
Vaccinated or not. It's no one's business. If you're nervous then don't go. 🤷♀️
Those DT socks! You thought it was zombies, I thought those were koala bears 🐨🐨 ...in suits...🤣🤣.
Dear Charlotte, I just got married (last Saturday) and your videos make me really appreciate my new family, our wedding and reception. Thanks a lot! Greetings form Poland!
0:49 I swear I'm straight but at this moment right here I'm questioning my sexuality so freaking attractive the lip gloss, the pose the everything
Charlotte is annoyingly pretty!!
@@snooganslestat2030I agree but not annoyed by her beauty
Can you please do a "mother in laws from h*ll?" Video? You already made one I believe but another?😁
Just was a guest at a wedding- caught Covid. I feel terrible. My mistake was being complacent in terms of covid. Happy to take one for others who learn by my mistake and reconsider going to a wedding
The uncle clapping and confused husband story… 🤣👊😂🤣🥳🤩😍
That last story is so messed up. I know this isn't always the case and some people get what's coming to them in old age when no one wants to care for them anymore, but it seems like terrible people always come out on top and never deal with the consequences of their actions. 😡
I don’t think they need to tell people that the groom isn’t vaccinated. You can spread COVID if you’re vaccinated or unvaccinated. If all of the guests are vaccinated except the groom, he’s the one at risk there. So what’s the point in announcing it?
in regards to the "intimate" wedding photos, I think that's not a bad idea but like maybe that's something that should stay between you, your partner and the photographer
I ❤ all the PRIVATE COUPLE WEDDING CAKE TOPPERS! To me, they show that the couples HAVE a sense of humor and aren't just "trying to keep up with the Joneses," trying to be trendy or that either BRIDEZILLAS/,GROOMZILLAS, OR someone in their families is like that, ESPECIALLY BRIDE MOMZILLAS OR MILZILLAS!
PERFECT timing... I'm drunk on a Monday at NOON! We love youuuu, Charlotte!!! lmao
Proud of you Deya! GOALS
100% disagree with telling everyone if your unvaccinated. Its a medical decision and no ones business. Who knows maybe he cant get it and he doesnt need to explain why. Plus you can still catch it after your vaccined. I wouldn't go around telling people if I got the chickenpox vaccine either, its my business.
Yes!! Totally agree with you.
That advice card is 100% something I’d do and I’m not ashamed to admit it.
My wedding party last year was cancelled because of covid. I had just the small wedding instead. But my wedding party would have had no dresscode, so if someone would have come in the outfit of the groom in the first clip, i could not have been able to complain 🤣😂.
If he had fun...you do you....🤷♀️
I saw the reel where the store was saying yes to ivory in a wedding, and I was so very sure I’d see that on this videos, I was just waiting for it… you never disappoint Charlotte 🔥
This is why I told certain people they couldn't come to my wedding. Haven't regretted it for even a second.
My mil, at the reception, introduced her sister as "This is my sister "Sally". She has cancer and isn't going to live through Thanksgiving", then proceeded to inform everyone that I "wasted $2500 of (her) son's money on a wedding dress", asked, "who let all the Indians in" (I'm First Nation), cried because she wore the same colour dress as my mother was wearing and livid because I "hadn't told her" (I had said "I think she's wearing a light beigey pink but you'll have to call her to ask for sure")...And she was completely sober. "Sally" was not impressed with her sister's introductions and told her to shut up, my cousin who made my wedding dress walked up to her and said it only cost $250 (she used to be a seamstress for a well known Canadian designer - and I found all the fabric and notions at a closeout sale at a fabric store for 80% off) and my mother told her "I let the Indians in because they are my sisters and brothers so shut the F@ up!" (Mom wasn't one to hold her tongue). And then it became "Everyone is picking on me!" Before the day of the wedding? You would have thought she was going to be the perfect mother-in-law. She and I had done a lot of things together and before that day, I felt completely accepted by her. But I guess the realization that the wedding was going to ACTUALLY happen and her youngest child was not going to marry an "obedient Mennonite girl" but a vocal Feminist First Nations woman just broke her and she couldn't contain herself. She tried to make my life hell after that, but when I gave birth to our son, she finally resigned herself to the idea that I wasn't going away and life got better. Sadly, that took thirteen years!!!
For what it's worth, I like your mom. Spunk! I hope your MIL is better than she was then. That's beyond rude!
My ideal cake topper is both of us playing video games in the wedding outfits giving each other a high five after beating a boss :D that would be so damn cool! (To be clear I'm not currently planning a wedding the cake topper just gave me the idea)
The wedding advice cards... I just really want to turn that into a mad libs game instead. That could be funny.
Also yes, you should absolutely disclose that members of the wedding party are unvaccinated. You can't say we are all adults here and make our own choices if you deny your friends and family the opportunity to make an INFORMED choice.
Completely agree. They don't have to disclose which person but generally say at least X amount of invitees are unvaccinated and are/are not wearing masks.
It's no different than if you were going to the store, are you going ask strangers if they are vaccinated? No, you protect yourself anyways. The chances of every single person at a wedding being vaccinated is slim. Right now it's still always possibility, plus not like if they are vaccinated even matters or not considering you can still get it anyways regardless. js. Feels like a waste of time even having that convo, everyone knows it's still a risk no matter what.
"mad libs game"? (is that a US thing?)
@@Tricia_K yes. It's a lot of fun. You should be able to Google it and find one of the many books available.
That's so hilarious Charlotte 😂😂😂😂. I love people who actually have a sense of humor and that are not afraid to laugh. Much love to you my sweet Canadian friend.
These vids are preparing me for the 2 weddings I have to go to this year. 1 I'm excited to go to and the other..I'd feel more comfortable yeeting my body down a flight of stairs.
Charlotte you can never go without the toolie 🤣🤣 live for your videos babe
I love your wedding videos, keep them coming! 👍🏻
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This is the fastest have clicked to watch Charlotte do her thing...
YES! YES!! YES!!! Your videos about weddings/bridezillas are always my favorites!!!! Thanks for another awesomely entertaining upload 😁🙏 HAPPY TUESDAY to you 😉
Here's the thing...I did theatre in high school, and then did community theatre after HS, both as an actor, and as a choreographer. Most shows were fine, but if ONE person got sick, JUST ONE, that bugger ran through the cast like a hooker at a political convention.
One show I did had a small cast (Godspell) and a live band. It started with the director, and even though he took one night off to be sick, there were only a couple people that didn't get sick. We were passing around cough suppressants like they were illegal drugs.
You're always taking a chance when you're in close contact with people. It's not the hosts fault.
"like a hooker at a political convention" 😂
I have no desire to get married, ever!! So much drama. Why do weddings bring out the worse in everyone, bride and groom, wedding party, family, and guests, it’s just not worth the stress. I don’t like the idea of marriage for me, no need for it.
Also, in what world was that dress ivory?! Lol. It was bright white. Anything lighter then grey is NOT ok to wear to a wedding, don’t be a jerk.
About the vaccination i would just let everyone know that some people might not be vaccinated that this is a personal choice and that not attending because you feel uncomfortable would also be a personal choice and i wouldnt be offended. (English isnt my first language so this while sounding nice)
I don't think it's necessary, it's pretty obvious that when there's a large group of people somewhere not all of them would be vaccinated, it just makes sense
You put it nicely. People can make their choices. We can give them the information, but not call out specific guests.
Being uncomfortable is not a conscious choice though, not getting a vaccine on the other hand 🤷🏻♀️
@@queenoftrashmountain6174 some people are uncomfortable getting a vaccin. So why should they? Just like some people wouldnt attend a wedding with unvaccinated people because they are uncomfortable.. so why should they?
@@lindyanne3936 I don’t care if someone is uncomfortable preventing others dying, that’s their own personal problem with their own personal choice
All these wedding stories and bridezilla's and MIL's craziness just makes me want to never ever attend a wedding....and for some reason, I'm starting to get paranoid thinking Charlotte has hidden camera's all over my apartment and she is watching me all the time knowing my toilet needs cleaning,...my bathroom needs cleaning...my apartment needs cleaning... I need cleaning...lol🙄😲🤪
Attending is usually not so bad, it's being part of it that is a drag (like a bridesmaid, groomsman,usher, etc). Same if it's your significant other that is a part of someone's wedding because you get roped in a bit too. When my SIL didn't ask me to be a bridesmaid it was the nicest thing she ever did for me lol.
I love when couples add their sense of humour to a wedding. Maybe because I'm Greek orthodox and have been to maybe 80 weddings (I've been in 7). When couples change it up it's so much better. I'm also a performer and over 10 years danced at so many weddings. Meanwhile, I know people that have been to one or two weddings their whole life, which I find weird/lucky 🤷🏽♀️
When you realize she is wearing a gown but with Flip Flops, Ya, Probably belongs with Cargo shorts guy.
Or its a lot comfier!
Maybe she changed into those for the reception because heels were hurting her feet? No way of knowing though
I wore white satin Isotoner house slippers for my first wedding & was barefoot for my second one, which was in my MILs beautiful house. Comfort was key. They weren't going to see my feet anyway due to the dress lol
That last MIL needs HELP. In my 25yrs as a Wedding Singer, that's a LOT of weddings, No one wears anything even close to white, but the bride. Ever.
I've heard of plenty of MILs that got wine spilled onto them, one was even standing close to the Chocolate Fountain (to her backside) and unknowingly wandered around the reception look like she didn't make it to the bathroom in time.
"Karen, YOU'RE too dangerous to be out here. I'm calling KAREN control." -Curtis Berard.
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"😳 Donald Trump is on those socks😳" 🤣🤣🤣 I"M DEAD 🤣🤣🤣
The FIL's girlfriend walking by the groom was stupid and clumsy, but "ruined the ceremony"? Over something that was less than five seconds out of the entire ceremony? So edit 6 or 7 seconds out of the wedding video and I'd be surprised if anyone even remembers by the first anniversary.
I thought the same thing. That was an extreme exaggeration and made me wonder if the gf was really the victim in that family. Maybe everyone in that family instantly hated her for being the new gf and she was stressed having to be at an event surrounded by so many people who hated her. So she got flustered and confused and that’s how she ended up stumbling up the aisle.
The one asking if they should tell the guests they aren’t vaccinated was 100% in a wedding group I’m in. The comments were gold. 🤣
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Well, the bride was actually pretty calm, but the comments immediately went to Covid deniers/anti vax and pretty much everyone was saying it’s a hipaa violation to tell people if they were vaccinated. I’m pretty sure the whole post ended up being removed or had the comments turned off because of the political debate that came from it. Also, the girl with the slave photo is in that group and she is PISSED because they haven’t sent the save the dates and the video “ruined the surprise” 🤣
@@melissamoss6567 wow she’s crazy lol
I just found your channel and giiirrll I love your vibe😂❤️
My best friend married her partner during the height of quarantine. They got married on a hillside between the church and the church parking lot. All the guests drove in, got water bottles and bags of popcorn handed in to all the passengers, then parked where they could see. The ceremony was broadcast on a short-distance radio frequency that car radios could pick up/streamed live on FB. The kiss was heralded by 50+ cars laying on their horns all at once/revving engines. Afterward, the bride and groom (fully vaxxed and masked up) stood at the exit to the parking lot and had a ‘receiving line’ where each car stopped briefly, people yelled congratulations, and got passed cake pops. Everyone not in a car was fully vaxxed, and everyone wore masks the entire time. My friends mask was decorated up with ribbon and lace, and the grooms mask had a little bow tie on it. It was perfect.
I did a courthouse wedding January 2020, and I'm so glad I did, made it much easier when my husband lost his job, due to covid related cutbacks, and I needed to put him on my health insurance.
"All I can do is cry because I don't understand why."
You don't understand why your _elderly parents_ don't want to attend a _wedding_ during a _pandemic_ .... Honey your parents failed you.
That look she gives when she says " why even go? Just don't go" at :26 . Lol
That last story was heavy oml by the way thank you for your random reminders at the end of your videos they've actually been helpful 😂
here's what you can do: just announce to all coming that there may be people in attendance at the wedding who are not vaccinated and people should precautions as the feel appropriate. No need to create a scandal by giving names.
if you are a bubble boy, maybe you skip this wedding. If you have had it twice and have had three vaccinations, then rock on!
let grown adults decide their own risks. and if someone shows up in a gas mask or chooses to not show up at all, then that's fine too!
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I guess it would be polite, but there is literally no logical, medical, or scientific reason to announce someone's vaccination status. Delta doesn't care if you've been vaccinated or not. If you're worried about Delta than just don't go since anyone can catch and spread it. If you want to go, just wear a mask, socially distance, and enjoy the wedding.
@@cryogeneric actually that’s not entirely true. At the hospital I work in every icu patient is unvaccinated. 90% of the patients in the Covid ward are unvaccinated. At most hospitals you’ll find the same.
@@vanessalewis1023 you realize that that doesn't necessarily mean that an unvaccinated person gave it to them, only that the people that show up to the hospital with the worst outcomes are unvaccinated.
if you are not doing contact tracing anymore, how would you even begin to know who gave it to them? it could just as easily be a vaccinated person who doesn't feel that ill who spreads it like Typhoid Mary as an unvaccinated person who feels ill and stays home in bed, right?
the people who get more sick more quickly I would assume to spread less because they are out and about less; If I felt almost no symptoms wouldn't I be about my daily life spreading it until I shook off the minor symptoms that I had?
I am not a medical professional, so maybe you can explain what I am missing. Seems to me that we don't really know who is spreading it more, we only know who have the worst outcomes when they DO get it. Is that not correct?
I am really only asking because I hear that statistic used a lot, and I believe it is true enough, I just don't see how it leads to the conclusion people draw from it, so I must be missing the connecting piece.
thanks in advance!
@The Under/Overthinker The vaccine isn’t 100% effective, that’s true. However, when you stack your decreased likelihood of getting covid on top of someone else’s decreased chances of having covid to give to you, the effectiveness of both of you having the vaccine goes up dramatically. Whether or not you’re vaccinated, be courteous. If you aren’t vaccinated or don’t want to disclose your status, please wear masks around people who are vaccinated but obviously trying to be otherwise careful. It’s just polite. You don’t know what their medical issues are or who they spend time with.
@@GadereneLegion with regards to the wedding specifically: there is no benefit to announcing specifically that whoever in the wedding party is unvaccinated. Because the Bride doesn't actually know who among the other guests would be vaccinated or not, it feels more like her way to shame the groom into getting the vaccine than any thought of notifying people. that said, people tend to hug the bride and groom, so there may actually be a risk there, but I would simply get the groom tested prior to the wedding and if he is negative then he cannot give to anyone what he doesn't have himself.
I agree with you about being polite generally, I have been vaccinated, as has Mrs. Thinker and most of my close family. I still don't take unnecessary risks like going to Walmart or places where there are large numbers of people and wear a mask in public and a N95 mask when I go to the doctor's office because there are people there who don't feel well (not necessarily COVID). I feel if I have concerns, I need to wear an effective mask myself and not need to police everyone around me's choices. if I feel uncertain, I leave.
I also agree with you that having the vaccine yourself might improve your chances for a better outcome. I also think I don't know when I pass someone if they have it or not, so I just assume they don't. If being in a wedding with 100% vaccinated people made me uneasy, and I couldn't protect myself in such a way as to feel safe, I simply wouldn't go. I feel the burden on my health is on me, so I don't feel I have the right to act like there is no pandemic and ask everyone else to protect me for me.
I think that I can still get it though, and if I get it I can still spread it, (because I have not seen information otherwise) so I don't see how anyone can possibly know that unvaccinated people are exclusively (or even mainly) passing it around when vaccinated people are also getting it. It feels like an assertion without basis because it seems like that would be the case, but the deadly ill don't get around enough to spread it far and wide, while the mildly ill do. I don't know who is spreading it, I don't think others do either, so I just try and be careful regardless and don't worry about who has or hasn't done what.
I can't control other people, and I think it is a bad idea for the government to be able to control everybody to this granular a level, so I control my own health choices instead.