S3 EP2. Modesty and Purity ft. Ashley Hetherington
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- Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
- Hey y’all ! Welcome to another Friday with CWCOI ! In this week’s episode our host, Ally Yost, is joined once again by special guest and friend, Ashley Hetherington. Ally and Ashley go right in and talk about something that's been weighing heavy on their hearts - and that is modesty and purity and what that looks like when honoring Christ. As they've experienced both sides, they are able to confidently and boldly share how to Lord's protected them as they've navigated modesty and purity with Him. We hope this episode leaves you encouraged and reminded of God's love and protection over you.
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As a Christian man who is single, it is super encouraging to hear women being cognizant of modesty & purity. More Christian men need to have similar conversations & this is inspiring!
God bless you brother! Yes, I agree. Let us continue to walk in love and purity, trusting the Lord and His perfect timing for a kingdom spouse if it is in His will 🙏🏼❤️ Also, let us not be a stumbling block for other Christians by the way we dress and/or act.
Facts bro
Yessir. I can relate to this topic
Amen
Jesus is with you and loves you beyond words !! Stay in the light and stay in the fight !! 🤍🤍
Praise The Heavenly Father !! Praise Yeshua !! Praise The Holy Spirit !! I believe !! Amen !! Alleluia !!🙌🏻🙌🏻🤍🤍
I’m 25 years old and I met my husband 8 years ago. We weren’t Christian’s and we weren’t virgins we were living for the world and I got pregnant in 2020. I was still not a Christian but believed in God, I was seeking an abortion because I didn’t want this version of my husband. I went to the doctor and the doctor prayed over me and another nurse came in and also prayed for me, my daughter was sent for a reason. She changed our lives completely. We had her and continued to live for the world and last year we both were saved and born again and a month later married. My husbands addictions vanished when we put our faith in the lord. We grew up together and although this man wasn’t my first he will be my last and I will forever be grateful for what God has done for us. I now have a 3 year old that loves Jesus and maybe another one coming soon but this message is so important. So thank you for sharing this❤
Jesus is with you and loves you beyond words !! Stay in the light and stay in the fight !! 🤍🤍
Praise The Heavenly Father !! Praise Yeshua !! Praise The Holy Spirit !! I believe !! Amen !! Alleluia !!🙌🏻🙌🏻🤍🤍
That's Amazing! You inspired me girl! Have a blessed day :)
11:33 "Our bodies are meant to be seen by ONE MAN" ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I got saved in January and started dressed modestly the last few months. And let me say there is just something about being completely covered up that makes you feel so much more beautiful I don’t know how to explain it, there’s more confidence
Yessssss
GIRL LITERALLY! I just started going to a new school that has a "strict" dress code, and all these other girls are complaining about it, but I am LOVING it because it makes me feel so comfortable and confident in my identity in Christ.
As someone who has recently decided to pursue purity - I really needed this! I wish I had women and sisters in Christ that would of been there to speak such life and love into me. I truly didn’t believe that I could ever surrender this part of me because I’ve already done it. But God has really changed the desires of my heart and has given me the strength to forgive myself and lay it all at His feet!!!
I know exactly what you mean! I don’t have Christian girlies to talk to either so I’m here to boost you up! Keep pursuing your journey you’re already doing great! Love and blessings to you beautiful!❤
Jesus is with you and loves you beyond words !! Stay in the light and stay in the fight !! 🤍🤍
Praise The Heavenly Father !! Praise Yeshua !! Praise The Holy Spirit !! I believe !! Amen !! Alleluia !!🙌🏻🙌🏻🤍🤍
That’s beautiful to hear! I started pursuing purity just this last year. God can renew us 💕
It's crazy the lack of clothes I see on people at the gym nowadays. It breaks my heart to see girls literally go workout half naked. But then I remember, I used to be like that too before Jesus saved me. Let us continue to walk in purity and be set apart from the world.
Amen! I literally have to pray at the gym and focus on Jesus and look away from the temptation to lust or compare myself to others! There was actually one time at the gym, I was in one of the rooms, stretching before my workout, and this young man came right next to me, took off his shirt, and starting posing infront of the mirror! I said, NOPE! Not today Satan (in my head) 🤣 & walked away without looking, thank you Jesus! 🤍
@@jesusiskingofmyheart Reminds me of Joseph in the Bible fleeing from sexual sin! Amen!
@@tessb.1576 I do not understand why that is a sin? fleeing from sexual sin makes no sense, we are human it happens it doesnt mean its a sin
@@mariacromwell3822 Jesus said: But I say to you, anyone who stares at a woman with lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart. Matthew 5:28
@@tessb.1576 that also goes for women to. now I get it. it is the devil tempting us to feel that way.
I’ve been wondering why I feel not “uncomfortable” in my clothes lately, but they just don’t feel like me anymore. And now I understand it’s the discernment ✨
Now I need to find the money to find my new ✨style✨
So relatable 😂 We will get there❤
I’m 13 so glad there are videos like this to help guide and give wisdom! Don’t really have anyone to talk to so this is great!!!
❤ edit: as I watched more y’all’s relationship with Jesus and as friends is so precious e will definitely be praying for this
It is so hard being the only Christian woman in my family and not having that big sister in Christ… Thank you guys for being that for me, I’m so grateful that Jesus brought me to you girls 💕
I can really relate to you. I’m the only Christian in my family and sometimes it’s hard to not have like minded people around me, so these videos make me to feel like I am not alone in my journey.
Same! I am the only Christian in my family of 5 & it’s not easy living with unbelievers! But we do what we can, by praying for their salvation and living our faith, sharing the gospel, and loving them in Truth! 🙏🏼❤️🥹
@@marlizehattingh5653 Praying for the salvation of your family members! 🥹 Keep praying for them and interceding for them. Jesus is coming back soon!! 💗
Me too! I am the first Christian throughout all generations in my (adoptive) family. 🫶🏻🫶🏻
Same! I was saved 3 years ago & my modesty journey didn’t happen overnight but God has been so gentle & patient with me 🥹 Slowly but surely, the Holy Spirit convicted me of certain clothing I would wear that was not accurately representing me as a woman of God and daughter of the Most High 👑 Modesty is not about hiding our bodies, it’s about revealing our character. As a follower of Christ, my worth and value come from my Heavenly Father. In a world that is full of lust and oversexualizes everything, I desire to dress in a way that honors & glorifies God! I want to represent Christ, not self. 🕊🙏🏼❤
Yes! This! 🙌🏼🙏🏼
Not about hiding our body but about revealing our character. 🤍🤍💐💐
That is awesome and very respectable. Thank you Jesus for godly women increasing in knowledge of the truth. ❤
You are just so now and I’m not bc you don’t don’t care 🤷♂️ you always being told you you can’t even go get back in your room lol 😆😆 you said your husband had the right idea 💡 she didn’t know that you didn’t know that it lol 😆 but she didn’t even realize realize how you did not it lol 😂 you know I should know what 😮 do is like 👍 I know know it’s it’s weird lol 😆 she was bc I don’t know 🤷♂️ I don’t know 🤷♂️ and and then she would have have been to her but since I’m in my my my parents house 🏡 and I’m just like 👍👍 I’m just not feeling well I I 53:10 o😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
I sure wish podcasts were a thing in 2007 when I was in high school because I would have benefited from conversations like these! I’m sure there are younger girls watching, so please, listen to this GOLDEN advice!
From a fellow brother in Christ, sexual purity is one of God’s most precious gifts. Everything you’ve communicated applies to the men of God too. Praise the Lord Jesus! Knowledge of the Lord is increasing. Much love in Christ ❤
Haven't even listened but i know this is about to be fire
Update: Can confirm episode was indeed fire
- went through my closet & social media & got rid of a few things I was holding onto, will be doing some thinking & praying on my heart & what's going on internally :) Love this community
as a Muslim woman I do understand and relate with the purity and modesty thing and it makes my heart so happy seeing Christian sisters following this path (although it may "look" different because Muslims are known to take it a little bit too far with the modesty thing 😅) but hey, same concept, different branches of the same tree, if we agree to agree on that we're to stay pure and no man can see our tributes except our husbands..we can actually find a lot to agree on rather than just disagree 🤍 loved this episode, I'm a viewer of Ashley, love her so much, I've seen Ally on GGB pod but now I guess I'm a fan of hers as well
one of the best advice i've heard from a christian regarding the importance of how we dress and present ourselves was, fishermen choose their bait based off of what type of fish they want to catch! different baits attract different types of fish. in the same way, how we dress and present ourselves will attract different types of people!
Yall should make a modest look book on social media!
This is so important for any young women/girls. My innocence was taken from me. I lived my 20’s far from the Lord. Had sex before marriage, lived with a man and so much more. I regret it all. Those souls ties you create WILL affect you. I’m married now but I still struggle with my sins today. Thank God he’s a refiner. Praying for all the young women/girls to protect their modesty and purity in Jesus name!!
I used to be someone who would say it was a man’s fault if he was tempted looking at me. Then one day I was looking in the mirror at my outfit and God showed me my heart. I was saying in my head and with my mouth that I was doing it “for myself.” “I just like the clothes…I look cute…It’s hot outside so I can wear practically nothing…” But when God showed me my heart it said, “I wear this because I like it when men look at me.” It made me disgusted with myself. That second I changed my outfit, grabbed a trash bag and started throwing away my clothes.
Yes! God changes our hearts! I dealt with a similar conviction. Before I came to Christ, all I used to wear were crop tops and revealing outfits! One day, I felt the conviction so strongly and I knew it was getting the wrong attention from the wrong people and the way I was dressing and revealing my body, wasn’t honoring the Lord! No one told me anything, I just felt convicted by the Holy Spirit.. you are right sisters, it is worth it! To surrender and to be obedient! I've also found it easier to share the gospel or my testimony with someone when I am dressed in a way that represents Christ & who He is! Thank you Jesus 💛
Thank you for this! As someone who dressed modestly throughout high school and college and didn't get much attention from guys, but instead was pursued by an amazing man of God that I married, I can testify that it is totally worth it!
I was taught to dress how I want to be addressed. I want to be addressed as a young woman of God so I dress in a way that would not offend my Lord and myself I have never felt comfortable wearing clothes that showed everything even when I was in the world. I thank God for you two for talking about this. These are the topics that young girls and teenagers need to hear. Continue doing God's work you guys are such inspiration.
Mmmmm I like that. “Dress how you want to be addressed.”
This testimonial conversation is such a breath of fresh air. They are doing God’s work, and if more women follow their godly example and big sisterly advice, the West wouldn’t be in such a mess.
This is GOLD. As a mom to a 10 year old girl I need girls like you talking about this very raw real situation we women go through!! I was always like this as well. ❤
STAP IT ALLY YOU LITERALLY LOOOK STUNNING IN THIS AND SO DOES ASHLEY LIKE WHAT 😱😱
The word is a two edged sword sword don’t be afraid to tell the truth because you’re scared you’re gonna hurt someone. It’s meant to kill the flesh and it’s going to hurt but there is beauty in that! Thank you guys for speaking truth! ❤
When Ally said “it’s honestly giving mid. Where’s the passion, where’s the love?…” that was so real
I, as a mom in my 40s, so appreciate that young women are sharing these conversations. Thank you ladies for sharing your personal experiences, your vulnerability, the why, and the redemption of god around modesty and purity ❤
This is real. This is the talk A LOT OF US needed when we were younger. BLESS
OMG America is truly understanding a unique transformation,the foundations the founding fathers layed are fighting back the evil that has crept in.🙏 Love u beautiful ladies.
39:10 prreeeaaacccchhh 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 i used to be in an emotionally abusive relationship, did not listen to God's voice because I was so tied up in what the future could be, and this-- all of this-- listen to His voice no matter what! Feelings > faith :)
As someone who is currently seeking a closer relationship with God, I can attest to all of this. For years, I had tried to win the approval of “men” because I was the only one of my friend group that didn’t get that attention. I would go to the bars, with revealing clothing on, feeling cute (but miserable because I was kind of uncomfortable being the bigger girl of the group), and still didn’t get the attention that I so longed for. Thinking back on it now, I believe that was God protecting me. As frustrating as it was, He was like, “nope!” And I’ve also have been in a couple of relationships where I lived with a man, and wondered why it never worked out. Now I know! And also, after all of that, would go out and sleep around just trying to find the connection that I desired, and never found it. Cut to now, I’m now at 8 months of abstinence, and my mind and goals have never been so clear. It is not easy by ANY means. I still have temptations, I still fall into certain traps and lies of the enemy, but God has never left my side. His love is a love that I haven’t been able to fully comprehend, but it is such a special feeling! And I know he’ll send me the husband He has for me one day!
CMON LADIES! I pray that the Lord will bring His holy conviction on all listeners including myself! Let us all walk a PURE life! Even after marriage!!!!
These women hit every single point. So convicting and eye opening!
Faith over feelings. So true! May God give US the strength to let go of all those attachments that don't let US love what God has in store for us as daughters of the King. 💕✨
I really wish I was 10 years younger listening to you two cause I needed this haha. But glory to God for redemption. And thank you Lord for your forgiveness and grace.
I just have to say, everytime I listen to one of these podcasts, something so specific is said that it's absolutely mind boggling sometimes. In the middle of this episode I had a certain thought/doubt and Ally literally said TWO SECONDS later "actually lets talk about this too, lets debunk this." God is so good, He is using this podcast and he is using it for GOOD. This is such an encouragement.
Ally, I watched your tiktocks before you were saved and the way you've changed and transformed is only an act of God. His work in you is completely and totally marvelous.
The fact that this has been weighing on me heavy recently and I legit just prayed about this yesterday and today just makes me so grateful that God allowed me to hear this word today. I sought the Lord, He heard, He answered. Thank you Jesus. I love you guys so much! Thank you for letting God use you guys to literally CHANGE some girlies! It’s me.. I’m girlies 🙋🏻♀️ *checks bank account to go shopping**
i’m a girlie that needed to hear it too ! 🙋🏼♀️
I am so glad I came across this video!! I converted to Orthodox Christianity after I was introduced to it by an ex, who ended up using it as manipulation. After having my wardrobe controlled, among other things, when I left him and became comfortable with my body again I dressed (and still do) risque.
That little voice of guilt is so true. God's voice isn't loud and booming, it's the calm voice you hear that gently questions or nudges you to rethink your decisions. I've been pondering on the topics of purity and modesty lately, especially because I wanted to "revamp" my wardrobe. If this wasn't the answer I needed in regards to what to change my wardrobe to! ❤
This was so nutritious for my soul ❤️❤️❤️ and that last sentence “let’s show someone how cool Jesus is” was something that inspires me always. When the enemy is trying to make my old friends talk badly about my new relationship with our Father, this is what helps me out, I want to make them see how cooler I am now because of spending my time with Jesus and that is 100000% true.
I definitely needed to hear this. There is this guy that I was tempted to have a sneaky link with and of course I knew it was wrong, but I didn’t care. And I keep checking up on his social media and stuff and I am glad I watched this because this helps me tune in with God and knocking some sense into me and my spirit and in the Lord. Thank you.
every time I see a talk on purity and modesty the little girl in me gets so mad. And I was going to scroll but i felt God go "girl what're you are doing. click on it." And I was so shocked at how well they worded everything and didn't shame or scrutinize women and had a genuine motivating spiritually lifting conversation. As someone who has grown up in the church (pastors' kid) and has a lot of church hurt this healed so much of me and I think it gives the real reasoning as to why God wants us to be modest and pure.
21:54 "What am I doing to attract these kind of men? Do a heart check and re-evaluate what you are doing." I 1000% agree, and I think it can also apply to our behavior and insecurities outside of seeking guys. Like when we are looking at ourselves are we immature, lacking fruits of the spirit etc. that are detracting godly men.
I'm in love with the energy of these lady's and also in love with alley's dress.
I NEEDED this 100%!!! I have been feeling so shameful for all the things I’ve done with guys! But I have found a man who is only invested in my relationship with god and who I am on the inside and not what I look like on the outside! So encouraging though to hear from your perspectives of women of god who are not virgins either! Thank you so much for this!
this was so crucial for my self-confidence in my new walk with Christ as a woman of a questionable past. I have been Made a new and I'm just so head over heels for Jesus and this broke any chains I had left of worry that I am not worthy in any way shape or form! Love both you my sisters in Christ and I'm so so grateful that God chose you two to deliver such gems!!!!
WOW 🤩 this is my first episode listening to and it is incredible.
I am so grateful that God recommended this to me. I LOVE this!!!!! it is a heart-to-heart lovely conversation between 2 sisters in Christ.❤❤☕☕
oh my lord! i really needed this reminder today
I'm so soo sooo grateful to have both of you as my big sis in Christ 💙 All Glory to God for leading you girls 🙌🏼
"sweetest little gem lollipop cutie pie" what a sweet nickname, I love this 🤍
Being freed in Christ from past sins is awesome and it’s important to live on with that past behind you!
I’m in my 30’s single never been married. Throughout my teens and twenties I was ostracized, mocked, called legalistic, self righteous, and even called a false christian; by female peers both in and outside of church. Not because of anything I said or did in general let alone to them, but because I dressed modestly and was waiting (and still currently waiting) for marriage. I’ve never condemned anyone for their dress or losing “it.”
How do you address girls and women who are offended that someone has different sin struggles regarding purity?
I’m only 14 years old rn but some of the things that u guys mentioned in this podcast really hit me deeply and they were exactly what I needed to hear and I know that it was all planned by God
I love u guys so much and I pray more because of u ❤
Wow I’m stunned by how wise you sisters are!!!
Thank you Ally & Ashley for discussing about dressing modest and walking in purity. I’m grateful for the advice and can’t wait to watch more collabs 😻😻
✝️In the name of Yahushua Ha Mashiach, King of kings and Master of masters, we ask you to fill us to overflowing with your precious Holy Spirit, Ruach Hakodesh, as we pray these words in your mighty and powerful name of Yahusha✨✨✝️🙏🏾
Amen
I felt God pulling me to watch this video, it definately helped me reveal lies the enemy has been telling me.❤❤❤ GOD BLESS y'all
Thank you for being so open and honest about both of your testimonies before Christ! After 1.5 years I still deal with shame and self condemnation about my decisions before knowing Jesus. It’s reassuring to know there are so many others who have been through the same thing! There is hope and redemption in the name of Jesus! 🙌❤
God lead this video to me and lots of other videos from both of your channels and Jesus really spoke through you both and it’s brought me closer to God and I’m about to get baptized soon and God has opened my eyes to see a lot of other things he wants me to do and change in the near future!!! Thank you and thank God for His grace!🤍🤍🤍
I love how transparent you two both are 🥰 I’ve been in this same boat and I plan on talking about it in future videos myself. I have it mapped out. I agree with others I wish I had this around and WOGs. I was lukewarm for years. I chose to be because I grew up in a Christian foundation. I resented it for multiple reasons. So grateful I was able to find my own way to Christ and why I believe what I believe.
This is so inspiring. I’ve always been a Christian, I’m 20, but I’ve recently started trying to be more modest and pursue purity in a way. It’s so nice to be able to listen to women who actually help us with such a kind and warming way. 💕💕😭
Ally and Ashley are the sweetest big sisters ever!! We all needed to hear this message and y'all killed it, y'all didn't give off any judgemental vibes at all! Love you guys : )
Ladies!! Yes!!
This message was everything, I’m 43yrs old & I definitely years ago had to let the old me die
I’m now in love with the lord and try to be the me I can be for God
This episode was fire! I'm married but modest/purity is still such an important thing in my relationship with God AND my husband. Thank you girls so much for being honest and vulnerable; you're truly doing kingdom work!
I love you guys seriously. Thank you! Also Ashley - you are such a great listener !!! I can literally see how good of a friend you both are. Thank you girls, thank you Ally!
I’ve prayed and prayed so much lately for a sign exactly like this and this is the sign from God I was looking for! To move forward and not look back! Thank you girls so much! I really needed this big sister talk cause I don’t have one for myself and you gave that! Thank you! God bless both of you beautiful women! I love y’all and can’t wait for the next video! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you guys for talking about this! I was saved in August and modesty has been on my mind. I just prayed and cleaned out my closet. Thank you both🩷
As a new Christian I love this! Most women don’t speak on modesty. I’ve personally never had a problem with it but it’s still good to hear and learn new things.
When I watched that episode with Ashley jones, there was a moment when I realized what a blessing it was to be able to listen to you guys, and then I suddenly started looking at what you guys where wearing so I could see that you can dress modest and also look cool 😊 and at that moment I saw that you where wearing that tank top inside and I loved it and it was giving >Respect
YALL HIT THE RIGHT SPOT!!!!
I NEEDED to be reminded of EXACTLY THAT!! I LOVE YOU GUYS AND I THANK JESUS FOR KNOWING YALL ❤❤❤❤
Tears when you said don’t believe in the lies of shame. I’m so thankful for y’all. God bless you two. ❤❤
Thankyou so much to both of you❤ I have been following both of you for a while now and can so relate to almost all that you guys talk about. Like you guys are me 10-15 years ago. I’m 46 now. I grew up in a Christian home but lived in the world and was luke warm. Partied, dressed sexy for guys attention, swore, was a wino, loved my wine, was the life of the party and yes I dabbled in Jesus when I needed him, but definitely was not surrendered. Then when I was about 35, while watching RUclips videos of near death experiences and encounters with God , I was convicted of drinking and just by asking for “help” he delivered me within 3 days from alcohol. It’s been 11 years and I have never had a drop of alcohol since. And also started reading my Bible every morning and night pretty much since then and the word has completely changed my life. I also had to ransack my closet and throw out all clothes that was lusty. And I also stopped watching all movies and t.v. that did not glorify him. Which to be honest. There is not much I can watch. I just want to say my life is sooo amazing and your guys testimony is almost exactly the same as mine, except I’m 11 years in now and still so in love with the Lord and he has blessed me so much!! Keep standing for Jesus and he will astound you❤️❤️🙏🙏
Ameeeen! ❤ this should be preached in every church tbh. Thank you sisters in Christ for sharing this crucial topic. Sending love from Philippines ❤
Can I expect the Lord to pay for my new wardrobe?🙈😂
Yes, you can, literally. This happened to me, I also got lots of modest clothes from my cousin those days 😂
Yes
Ally I am SO proud of you because you are clearly trying to be a better host and it shows! I've seen a lot of comments on previous episodes about you talking over guests, and it was wonderful to see how attentive and patient you were this time. Not everyone would put that effort in, so thank you!!!
This was SUCH A BLESSING👏🏼 the two of you are on fire! Thank you for this.🤍
Praying for a friendship like yours. This season of isolation and healing is hard, but excited when it comes to an end
I’m soooo glad you mentioned the baggy shirt, baggy jeans thing. I LOVE that style and feel so comfortable being in it, feel great and it’s so practical being a mum wearing clothes like that. But I was recently listening to a talk on modesty from a RUclipsr who I massively respect and admire but she made some comment about like ‘if a guy can wear it, you shouldn’t be wearing it’ and although that was her opinion, it isn’t biblical. So thank you for talking about that!
Both your love and fire for Jesus is so beautiful!! Wow the Lord is so good. Your friendship is such a blessing from our good faithful Heavenly Father! God bless you ladies. ❤
Omgosh this is AMAZING!! I love this! I’ve learned so much and I’m just half way through! I’m so glad to have y’all saying this❤ God bless✝️
Needed this. 💛 Love hearing such an honest conversation! 👏 Y'all are truly glowing with pure happiness and joy. 🙏
42:59 ally: "the enemy is like-- 'what if you get married and it's awful? what if you guys get married and you don't mesh and you're not compatible?'"
ashley: "you got your whole life to be compatible"
Amen! 🙏🏻 God is the master potter and we are the clay. 👏🏻 We are not perfect from the beginning, we are always changing and growing under the Lord's wings.
The same thing goes with the inner workings of marriage-- the first experience will not define the rest. A couple will have that first experience and figure things out from there.
😍😍🤩🤩🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Being a single Christian woman my whole life thus far , I know that if it’s in God’s will, it will happen in His timing and He will bring the right man of God into my life, who will pursue me in the right way, focusing on purity.
Modesty is something that has been shown to me through the Christian women in my family, and I plan on continuing to be that way. Thankful for them! ♥️❤️
I have learned so much ! I have been saved for a little bit over a year and i still Struggle with modesty. I have definitely learned so much from this episode alone. I love you both much!!!❤
I completely agree with you. I am one of few women who found their husband very early in life but was married 10 years later. We met when we were 16 and always knew we were to marry. I had a lot of goals I wanted to accomplish, including my education and he wanted to as well. I am deeply grateful for this man as he waited for me for 8 years to finish school and 9 months later he proposed. This is very rare and looking back on it, I risked a lot for him. I wish we got married earlier but society looks down upon that where I am from. I think the single most important rule for people who are dating, is to make sure you and your man are on the same page and have the right intentions.
This just made my night I listened to beautiful godly women who are so inspirational so amazing they just radiate peaceful love and happiness ❤️❤️❤️
I was just searching for bathing suits the other day now that I’m in my modesty era and I’m not gonna lie I’m intimidated idk what to wear😭
If you are fine with two pieces. halter bikini top are what I feel more comfortable with. Sports bras can be used to give you more options and covers more. Bottoms are the place that i have the hardest time with. I try to find high waisted but a lot shows to much check. So a lot of the time I'm more Comfortable with workout shots.
@@pamm2652 thank you for the recommendation I think I’m doing to try and find some shorts I feel the same way about the bottoms I just feel like nothing is covering enough . And I think a halter top would be a great idea too. Thank you I’m looking now lol!
Wait I loved this because I accidentally dressed modest before Jesus while I was going out clubbing etc. I just felt like I couldn't dress promiscuous and NEVER got hit on... finally I did get a dm and now he's my husband and now we both love Jesus. Gods plan❤
I’m so thankful that I have you two as Godly example to look up too 💕 Praying that God sends me a friend that will encourage me in the Lord like you do for each other 🥹
I watched this for only 20mins and I am already fired up like preach!!!!!!!
okay yall 31:52 !!!!! i don’t even want this video to end ? no im in love with everything about this video, sooo convicting, so relatable, i feel seen and understood and so genuinely so honored to have found these two girls my SISTEERS! speaking truths speaking so many undeniable and hard truths Holy Spirit is moving thru this right now ✝️💜✝️✝️💜 i agree it starts with us as well. i’ve been on both sides my bc era and after being saved era it can be challenging but GOD IS looking out for us and truly only wants the best for us fr. just wow
okay another comment but i am so happy you guys brought up the lie from the enemy that says 43:33 all this because its a common misconception but thats the thing that’s what satan does he tells a little bit of the truth- to make you doubt or to make you think weeelll maaybe, then LIES. God would never put two people together unintentionally and like cmon you know before you even do it if you’re gonna be compatible you can just feel like you don’t need to actually do the deed to know..
Amen to all of this. I learned it all dating post divorce close to 40 so hallelujah for yall getting it so young. May the teens and 20-somethings not make the same mistakes we did! 🙏 and praise God that stylish modest fashion has come a long way!
I loved this episode so much! I’ve been celibate for almost a year and I just have a whole new mindset about it and how I can’t wait to be with my husband. I’ve also been on my modest journey and I would beat myself up about things that I wear but I’m learning and I too love finding my style that glorifies God!💕 love you girls!❤
Thank you
OKAAAYY when she said “i know our girls i laughing right now” STOP being Christian is literally the coolest
Modesty is slowly but surely getting more popular! Women are realizing their worth and respecting their bodies 🥰 but I also feel like God is stirring people up and saving more souls!
Thank YOU and God for this ❤
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE MY BIG SISSYSSSS🤧🤧
I struggle with the gym as well, especially when it’s down to wearing something you won’t get too hot in and is actually practical. I either wear a long baggy top that fully covers my gym even when I sit, and leggings, or I wear super baggy trackies and a full covering vest top/long sleeve top (depending on temp). Not sure if it’s right yet. Will keep praying with you!
Watching from the Philippnes keep it up👍 Godbless and more annointing from God. In Jesus name, Amen.
Thank you so much for speaking on this very important topic. I was already dressing much more modest than I used to a year ago but this podcast definitely inspired me to go all the way. Let’s make modest outfits cool again!! ❤
Haven’t finished the pod yet so maybe they discuss this but wanted to add something that really helped me to see purity in a different light than purity culture painted it for me when I was younger (my church’s “talk” was showing the girls a piece of tape, sticking it to a bunch of things as a representation of us doing the deed, and saying that the tape gets less sticky the more things it touches and who wants not sticky tape after all of that, so pretty harmful to my view of sex and also just who God created me to be). Purity isn’t something you can achieve on your own - it’s not something you have because you didn’t have sex or think about sex or watch porn or something. It’s something none of us just “have” because we’re sinful by nature (Romans 3:23) - none of us are pure. What makes us pure is sanctification through Jesus and becoming more like him, which means being pure is just another way of saying that you’re being sanctified and being changed from the inside out to be more like Jesus (Romans 12:1-2, Hebrews 10:10). Also, we are never ever too far away from Jesus that he can’t purify us and make us whole in Himself again (Romans 8:35-39) whether that’s in our sexual existence and experiences or just in ourselves in general! So I hope talking about purity and modesty doesn’t make you feel hopeless or too far away from those “ideals” to ever surrender your sexual nature and desires over to God :) so grateful we’re talking about these topics though, I hate how sometimes these get shoved under the rug for being taboo in Christian communities of women so thanks for bringing them up, sex is a part of our life that God has authority over too so it’s important to talk about!