Sailing Couple Tragic Accident At Sea - Lady K Sailing Ep 306

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  • Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025
  • A sailing couple wants to live the dream and sail around the world on their CNB 66 foot sailing but sailing from the Caribbean islands to Bermuda and on the Nova Scotia turns deadly when a squall hits their boat and things get out of control sailing in the ni
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  • @Fenris1Dark
    @Fenris1Dark 2 месяца назад +227

    Something I've never forgotten from my first ASA instructor. "If you think you should be reefing soon, you should be reefing now."

    • @joestonebraker5890
      @joestonebraker5890 Месяц назад +8

      I agree and do that

    • @RedceLL1978
      @RedceLL1978 Месяц назад +19

      Me over here googling what reefing means

    • @lionsdejudah
      @lionsdejudah 27 дней назад +1

      @@RedceLL1978 lol

    • @lionsdejudah
      @lionsdejudah 27 дней назад +1

      Not to mention that killer whales can reef you too.
      Someone should make a device that emits a sound constantly to deter them or other large sea life.

    • @nettewilson5926
      @nettewilson5926 24 дня назад

      Dang 😮

  • @hendriksailing
    @hendriksailing 2 месяца назад +310

    What a sad story. I actually got to know the couple just two days before they left Bermuda. We met them there and they invited us for a drink on their boat. Super nice people.
    I heard about the accident right after I arrived on the azores. It made me feel very respectful for nature again and also very grateful to just having finished an oceancrossing without any trouble.

    • @DMPSITIDS
      @DMPSITIDS 2 месяца назад +15

      Me too I also met them two days before they left Bermuda.

    • @joseortiz-dd6sm
      @joseortiz-dd6sm 2 месяца назад +9

      Same here.

    • @fredflintstone8817
      @fredflintstone8817 2 месяца назад +7

      Re: Adventurist types…
      Time and time again I see these people (Rock Climbing, Cross Ocean Sailing/Ballooning, Cave Diving, Etc.) having to be rescued.
      Costing the rest of us millions to rescue them, usually from themselves.
      Time to start making these person’s liable for their actions.

    • @kevinfisher1345
      @kevinfisher1345 2 месяца назад +14

      @@fredflintstone8817 Sailing is nowhere near to being on the same scale as rock climbing or cave diving. This would be like trying to compare a casual driver making short trips visiting around vs someone that drives across an entire country and/or continent such as driving across the USA. One would never consider that an adventurist, nor would I consider anyone crossing an ocean as an adventurist.
      Worse one could find themselves in these same conditions regardless whether they are crossing an ocean or not. This can happen simply sailing down a coast, or even in large enough lakes. Are you going to call of them adventurist sailing as well?
      And people are held liable for their actions. No clue what you are talking about anyway. If it had been reversed and it was the volunteer visitors whom had died, the owners would have been held liable. Or like that famous recent boat incident, where the owner and several crew died just off the coast (and at anchor so I guess simply sitting at anchor is also aventurist boating now as well) that the ship sunk. The owner is being held liable for any wrong doing they may or may not have done. As i said before these conditions can happen anywhere, with a squall coming out of nowhere. That does not make an adventurist, simply makes it dealing with mother nature, which happens all the time all over the world.

    • @monsteraetc
      @monsteraetc 2 месяца назад +23

      @@fredflintstone8817I’d rather pay for these people’s adventure rescues than other people’s bland retirements after contributing nothing to the larger world. These people are LIVING life, not just “existing”.

  • @o-r-i-o-n
    @o-r-i-o-n 2 месяца назад +403

    Amazing retelling, was on the edge of my seat the whole time. Very sad to hear about the owners' passing.

    • @JudithRandall-vz1zk
      @JudithRandall-vz1zk 2 месяца назад +13

      Yes, especially on a subject I know nothing about and have little interest in - sailing. But somehow, he made the details of the disaster and what they did with the yacht, intriguing. Good job, sir.

    • @annatanneberger1
      @annatanneberger1 2 месяца назад +8

      Yes, excellent retelling, without resorting to the silly "what happened next will surprise you..." in an attempt to hold the audience's attention.

    • @fredflintstone8817
      @fredflintstone8817 2 месяца назад +2

      Re: Adventurist types…
      Time and time again I see these people (Rock Climbing, Cross Ocean Sailing,/Ballooning, Cave Diving, Etc.) having to be rescued.
      Costing the rest of us millions to rescue them, usually from themselves.
      Time to start making these person’s liable for their actions.

    • @annatanneberger1
      @annatanneberger1 2 месяца назад

      @@fredflintstone8817 I don't have the money for any of these adventures. But I can't agree with you. Unless we include everybody that through their poor decisions become a burden on society:
      1) drugs - overdosing and disease burdens the ER - and they can't work and end up stealing. Yet everybody says we must pity these people for their addiction - as if it is something that just happens unexpectedly to random people while doing their shopping or schoolwork.
      2) promiscuity - burdens society with fatherless children
      3) alcohol: knife-fights, domestic abuse and motorcar accidents
      4) poor diet. I'm astonished that Americans say poverty forces people to eat fast foods. Most of my life I couldn't afford ready-made food and fizzy drinks. Never had the leisure to cook. So I drank water or tea when I'm thirsty and ate fruit and vegetables that don't need preparation.
      I have a friend who is a member of voluntary mountain rescue. They're happy to combine their love of being in the mountains with doing something good - like rescuing people.

    • @annatanneberger1
      @annatanneberger1 Месяц назад +1

      @@thumbs3263 I think you meant objective, rather than objectionable?

  • @brent6518
    @brent6518 2 месяца назад +105

    The power of nature should never be taken for granted..some years ago on Lake Ontario we were getting ready for the club weeknight sail race to start. Under windless conditions, we all felt this very warm downdraft. Thankfully another crew member, who was a pilot, told the captain we should return to dock. We did, and as we reached the slip, the wind went from literally zero to 115 km/h .
    We all hung on in the cockpit watching club gazebbos, zodiacs and anything unthethered go airborne!..it was all over in 10 minutes but i remember this incident every time i go out on my boat!.. intense weather cells can, and do exhibit their fury quickly.

  • @a1leadership
    @a1leadership 2 месяца назад +69

    Heavy Weather Sailing is a great book with real life examples of when things go wrong, every sailor should read it!

  • @larrygraham1580
    @larrygraham1580 2 месяца назад +904

    I just finished a passage intended to go from Beaufort N.C to the USVI on a rather small Niagara 35 with just the Captain and myself. We are both over 65 yrs old. Your account of the sad loss of these owners highlights the need for a solid boom gybe preventer. We did have the boom prevented but had a Hydrovane ripped partially off where it was smashing the cockpit badly. We ran into Beaufort 9, 43 kts for an extended period overnight and faced huge breaking swells a day or two later. We were about 700 nm out with Bermuda as the nearest point. Apparently, not too far from us a Catamaran Mayday call was being answered with a cruise ship. We heard from a nearby freighter that they were in 55 knots of wind. With a lot of luck we both survived but the boat sustained some damage and I broke three ribs. We diverted for Bahamas where I flew back for recovery and as of today the Captain is still making repairs in Nassau. I agree, unless you have witnessed these conditions first-hand you cannot appreciate the situation and how quickly things can go from bad to much worse.

    • @LadyKSailing
      @LadyKSailing  2 месяца назад +70

      Glad you both made it through that ordeal!

    • @mountainmandale1587
      @mountainmandale1587 2 месяца назад +46

      Life at sea is always unpredictable and potentially dangerous. God speed.

    • @MikeKisil
      @MikeKisil 2 месяца назад +25

      When mother nature is scorned she shows little mercy except for the very few who respect it for what it is .

    • @bobcarocari8207
      @bobcarocari8207 2 месяца назад +32

      You are a great storyteller, and that was a great illustration of how things can go bad.

    • @RichardSMaloney
      @RichardSMaloney 2 месяца назад +16

      The sea is a unforgiving mistress

  • @annettecantu3826
    @annettecantu3826 Месяц назад +205

    After careful consideration, I am pretty content at home with a blanket, my dog, and some coffee 😊

    • @X862go
      @X862go 28 дней назад +5

      💯

    • @cryptout
      @cryptout 27 дней назад +4

      💯

    • @lionsdejudah
      @lionsdejudah 27 дней назад +3

      Lol

    • @trsdarrin
      @trsdarrin 26 дней назад +1

      Death by 1000 cuts this is a kin to dying trying to climb Mount Everest

    • @haggaisimon7748
      @haggaisimon7748 25 дней назад +4

      Same here 😅

  • @billthurlow690
    @billthurlow690 2 месяца назад +242

    My wife and I made that same trip in 1977 with one crew, St. Croix to Bermuda and on to Portland Maine. 32' ketch, same thing happened to us after we left Bermuda, two bad lows one after the other, ran before them for awhile before just heaving too and waiting for the weather to pass. We made it to Portland ok after that. That trip kind of ended my wife's love of sailing.

    • @AwesomeAngryBiker
      @AwesomeAngryBiker 2 месяца назад +5

      stop bragging about yourself, the video is not about you

    • @SatSun-op9dp
      @SatSun-op9dp 2 месяца назад +91

      @@AwesomeAngryBikerhe added a personal perspective that was informative & interesting.

    • @diannabrooks
      @diannabrooks 2 месяца назад +12

      Im glad you had a successful adventure, thats cool. Sorry your wife lost her sailing bug. I lived aboard for 10 years and had a lot more men friends. Ladies, for some odd reason, like dirt under their feet more than men. Was able to get gal friends when taking culinary night classes, that also was fun and yummy.

    • @chloe8907
      @chloe8907 2 месяца назад +32

      ​@@AwesomeAngryBikerrude simply rude

    • @maxineb9598
      @maxineb9598 2 месяца назад +16

      ​@@chloe8907 Totally agree. Whats wrong with people telling of their experiences, same as if they would if this was a conversation in person.

  • @f.j.h.4194
    @f.j.h.4194 2 месяца назад +41

    Beyond the tragic deaths of Voker and Annemarie is, IMO . . . some damn sharp seamanship and heroism in the 2 crewmember. Visualizing the dynamics including two lives in the balance., I could not be certain that I would be that clear thinking.

  • @tscott6843
    @tscott6843 2 месяца назад +119

    Not a sea person and still found your video very compelling. Thank you.

    • @LadyKSailing
      @LadyKSailing  2 месяца назад +12

      I’m glad you found it interesting, thanks for watching!

    • @tscott6843
      @tscott6843 2 месяца назад +5

      @@LadyKSailing You are able to talk in technical terms that can be basically understood by someone who knows very little about staining. At least by me. That’s is a gift.

    • @sojerz6092
      @sojerz6092 2 месяца назад +3

      Same here. I watch Below Deck Sailing Yacht so I’m familiar with some of the lingo. I got interested in that show after the Bayesian tragedy and still am anxious to learn exactly what happened there.

    • @tscott6843
      @tscott6843 2 месяца назад +1

      @@sojerz6092 like to know more about that one too.

    • @OswaldJames-x2t
      @OswaldJames-x2t Месяц назад

      💯👍🎯🙏😎

  • @jonjonsson4270
    @jonjonsson4270 2 месяца назад +167

    An amazing boat. Good sailors, good crew. We forget that before coast guards existed, experienced sailors and crew were lost regularly. What a tragic story.

    • @lux_moto
      @lux_moto 2 месяца назад +11

      You say good sailors, good crew, and that is maybe because you want to be kind. But I think good sailors and a good crew wouldn't have end up in this situation. 'To little to late' is more what comes to mind. As far as I can tell from this story, it didn't had to end this way.

    • @chasejones8302
      @chasejones8302 2 месяца назад +1

      Like Elsa's parents.

    • @zedwpd
      @zedwpd 2 месяца назад +9

      @@lux_moto Making mistakes doesn't mean they weren't good sailors.

    • @lux_moto
      @lux_moto 2 месяца назад +2

      @@zedwpd We might have different opinions about what 'good' means.
      If you make a series of mistakes that eventually cost you and others your lives, I wouldn't say you were good at your job.

    • @captainjimolchs
      @captainjimolchs Месяц назад +3

      @@zedwpd Good sailors don't make such basic mistakes.

  • @joshyaks
    @joshyaks 2 месяца назад +686

    I recently made a 40 foot traverse from my recliner to the fridge, and I tell ya, the blast of cool air when you open that fridge door can unbalance you if you're not prepared.

    • @PeroniPete
      @PeroniPete 2 месяца назад +16

      Yes.............haha...not

    • @iheartwheelies
      @iheartwheelies 2 месяца назад +12

      😂🤟

    • @coastcafeequipment
      @coastcafeequipment 2 месяца назад +6

      😅😅😅😂😂

    • @davidfellows6250
      @davidfellows6250 2 месяца назад +42

      Geee watch out chugging that beer, you could get ice cream headache that can kill you. Go slow, eat a chip or two inbetween glups and live another day.

    • @ats-3693
      @ats-3693 2 месяца назад +5

      😅

  • @johnbspringer
    @johnbspringer Месяц назад +21

    Another take-away is - In high-wind situation, turn the bow into the wind before attempting reduce a loaded main sail.
    Another principle that I always follow, which is not necessarily applicable to this story is that unless you are racing, never jibe! Instead turn the boat into the wind and continue through the turn until the desired course is reached. This is a longer turn angle than traditional method, however; it prevents a jibe

    • @chrisgardella7744
      @chrisgardella7744 13 дней назад +2

      @johnbspringer very good points but they should not be considered “another takeaway”. Turning up into the wind to reduce sail is a primary or fundamental necessity of sailing. You don’t necessarily need to go straight into the wind and oncoming waves, which were probably truly massive, just come around enough to get the wind to come across the front of the main a bit with the boom somewhat above the boat so you can get some lines over it the way the crew eventually did.
      If the owners had done that from the start this never would have happened. These are skills that I learned in my back yard at the age of 5 on a Sunfish. I was very fortunate to have grown up like that. Unfortunately the owners were probably only taught how to over power sails with winches and did not have the benefit of learning the fundamentals before buying a complex boat and going deep sea.
      For other people considering this type of thing, it would help to choose a more cruising oriented boat and less of a performance oriented boat with speed in mind. After all, the whole point of a trip like this is that you have all the time in the world and a steady 5-8 knots will eventually get you there.

    • @andrewbrodis1239
      @andrewbrodis1239 6 дней назад +2

      ​@@chrisgardella7744 100% why would you try and drag down a loaded sail? Head into wind. How can you own a 3 million dollar boat and not know something that basic?

    • @martyxrayone
      @martyxrayone 15 часов назад

      When you are very over powered it can be almost impossible to head up into the wind

  • @rolandstockham1905
    @rolandstockham1905 2 месяца назад +521

    To me, this may suggest a growing issue. The size of boats has increased a lot in the last 10 or so years and couples sailing 50ft boats or more now seem to be getting more common. By using power winches and furling gear it is possible to control a boat that size under normal conditions. Not many years ago a boat of that size and power would have a crew 8 or more so if there was a problem there was plenty of manpower to deal with it. They would likely be at least regular crew and possibly paid hands so would be familiar with the boat and its systems. The problem with all this technology replacing those other crew members is that if something fails you don't have the human resources to deal with it, and you become dependent on the systems. You can try to make the boat 'unbreakable' but out on the ocean the sea can break anything. Even something simple like a ripped headsil on a 60fter takes at least 4 people, it takes three just to carry the sail forward!

    • @wdangelo3
      @wdangelo3 2 месяца назад +73

      This comment is spot. Big boats are more safely run with a full crew. Life long racer and boat owner here….should have heave to, reduce sail way before it got out of control.

    • @johnshaw8327
      @johnshaw8327 2 месяца назад +92

      As an ex delivery skipper I can confirm this. The forces on a boat over 40ft in big winds is truly frightening especially with limited crew. You have to be hyper aware. Communications are no longer by mouth. Sign language is the only option as things get out of hand very rapidly. Night makes it even worse. Thankfully I'm still alive, got lucky. This was a very well presented narration.

    • @louisavondart9178
      @louisavondart9178 2 месяца назад +47

      While I can agree with you from an overall safety angle, I would like to point out that in this case the conditions were entirely normal. 30 knot winds is not a storm. Neither is 40 knots. When you hit 50 knots it's getting hairy and the bigger the boat the better. Yes, things break in bad weather. No, they don't break if you reef or furl on time. The need to reduce load before the wind decides your fate for you, is too often overlooked. This was one of those times.

    • @louisavondart9178
      @louisavondart9178 2 месяца назад +7

      @@wdangelo3 .. which a solo sailer could have done from the cockpit when the wind started to freshen or before night fell.

    • @internetposta7389
      @internetposta7389 2 месяца назад +19

      @@wdangelo3 That's what I thought, but then if I had a $2M boat, I'd hire a professional for the ocean crossing if I insisted on taking a less safe route.

  • @Taytates-lr6kg
    @Taytates-lr6kg 2 месяца назад +10

    Tragic story even though they got rescued they still passed away. I salute and sincerely thank Coast guard RNLI and all other rescue services truly appreciate these people..

  • @carlossantillan4647
    @carlossantillan4647 2 месяца назад +266

    After I was diagnosed with my 2 terminal duseases, I decided to look into sailing. My intention was to sail around the world to visit family in Australia, NZ and other parts of Asia. I managed to take an introductory sailing lesson in Annapolis, MD and realized my medical condition would prevent me from doing so. After watching this tragedy I am glad thst I chosen to return to riding motorcycles across this vast country instead. May they RIP.

    • @johnki325
      @johnki325 2 месяца назад +10

      @@carlossantillan4647 Motorbikes carry a risk too. The people that I know that have motorbikes all seem to have had a mishap, although survived. Risks don't seem to matter much. Its about conquering. Imagine the story they could tell their friends and family if they survived that storm.

    • @Derpy1969
      @Derpy1969 2 месяца назад +8

      You would have been better off enjoying life on the sea. Don’t let your medical condition determine your fate.

    • @Addwater4444
      @Addwater4444 2 месяца назад +14

      I've been slowed down by MS too, but I still travelled all over Europe, Canada, Marocco, and renovated 8 houses and still renovating my last one, although a lot slower. It's just what I like to do. And a grandkid has also brought a different adventure, although I tire easily, she loves me just as I am, lol. So, I feel you, best of luck, take care xxx

    • @jimshoe402
      @jimshoe402 2 месяца назад +7

      I had a 100 hrs of USCG courses and 4 different courses On Lake Michigan..Will went to Tampa for 5 day BareBoat Iis..NO THANK YOU I got out in the Gulf Looked Around Nothing out There..💀💀💀💀

    • @kit2130
      @kit2130 2 месяца назад +14

      @@Derpy1969I disagree. Cycling helps you see the earth & you can stop all the time to be touristy. Sailing is just over water & you can only stop here & there. It’s also more isolating & can be boring waiting to get to a destination. You see a ton more on a cycle. Plus you can hop on boat excursions everywhere & get the best of both worlds.

  • @outbackstudio
    @outbackstudio Месяц назад +8

    I know nothing about sailing, but this tragic story was so well told, I was glued to it until the end.

  • @susannasPOV
    @susannasPOV 2 месяца назад +35

    I saw another debrief on this case, and it saud these two guys they hired were amazing salors and went above and beyond to save the lives of the two owners of the boat !!

    • @davidmckee2460
      @davidmckee2460 22 дня назад +5

      If they were amazing sailors why did they leave the boat on a dead run so the main could keep gybing back and forth. The mainsail could have been taken in early by simply heading up wind, then they could have steered west toward help rather than flying along at over 10 kts away from help.

    • @Papa5murf1
      @Papa5murf1 13 дней назад

      @@davidmckee2460 Agreed - i don't think they were good at all - leaving the sails up into a Squall just seems really careless to me..

    • @jacobfirst2365
      @jacobfirst2365 9 дней назад

      Bro totally agree. Also in 30-50knts reefing downwind. We always head to wind reef and then back downwind. They Chinese gybing everywhere. Wtf. They need helmets! The greed of saving a few miles and risking their lives....

  • @maxneri
    @maxneri Месяц назад +7

    I have been a sailor and boat owner for years. This is one of the best videos I have ever seen, thank you.

  • @adrianskipper-i8o
    @adrianskipper-i8o 2 месяца назад +66

    As an experienced dingy sailor as soon as there is a big blow and in trouble you either point the boat into the wind or reduce sail to a jib only and lower appropriately. In this case running the mainsail was a big mistake and could have been prevented by lowering it and checking incoming weather conditions. These things are often predictable. Sadly these basic precautions were not followed.

    • @2blackcatz426
      @2blackcatz426 2 месяца назад +4

      Agreed reef that main early better than being unable to later.

    • @NARDO422
      @NARDO422 2 месяца назад +5

      Heave-to is always the bail out move

    • @1.5Deg_Is_NonNegotiable
      @1.5Deg_Is_NonNegotiable 2 месяца назад +3

      I agree. I was thinking the same thing, a boat that size would most certainly have weather radar, they should have prepared ahead of time and set the rig appropriately.

    • @stanislavkostarnov2157
      @stanislavkostarnov2157 2 месяца назад +8

      that far out, especially in the higher latitudes, weather is not always so predictable, things can get very bad pretty fast.
      whilst, as our Costal-Passages trainer used to say "if you are asking yourself, should I reef the sail, that's a good indication you should reef the sail..." you do need to keep a certain speed when sailing, and, though they probably were leaving a little too much sail out, I would be very forgiving here, the decision is always a delicate balance and is extremely easy to get wrong...

    • @AgneDei
      @AgneDei 22 дня назад +2

      With those kind of waves, if you're not on a massive high powered warship, you're not going into the wind safely.
      That said, it should've been possible to zigzag along with the wave, taking waves with the wind, and then going sideways leaving the mainsail fully out on the side to completely depower for a moment and then to lower the mainsail bit by bit. Normally that's very difficult, but with the main rolling into the boom, and electric winches it should be fairly easy and safe, and with waves that big they must've been spread out a fair bit giving time to do this maneuver multiple times until the main is down.
      And yes, it's better to have a bit of jib still out when going with or almost with the wind, even when running the engine, as that should stabilize the boat a fair bit while going over those big ass waves. Also adding a few knots of speed with the storm jib while going with the wind also makes even the big waves a bit softer.

  • @BHJ7115
    @BHJ7115 2 месяца назад +15

    Every boat must return to port. It all sounds romantic until Mother Nature decides to show you who's boss.

  • @BrahTonne
    @BrahTonne 2 месяца назад +21

    I tried sailing 1 time. I realized I was waaaay outta my league. I was raised on the water commercial fishing etc. I did grow an admiration for sailors but gave up my dream of sailing the world. My friends know I am fearless and it blew their minds when I said no more. I tip my hat to you sailors.

    • @richtensail
      @richtensail Месяц назад

      yeah it can get stressful on a yacht whn tings go wrong like weather etc

  • @tomballesteros4673
    @tomballesteros4673 2 месяца назад +18

    Great story. We all must respect the power of the sea. There’s always a possibility of the perfect storm.

  •  2 месяца назад +21

    Growing up on the Mississippi River taught me as a young boy the intensity and unpredictability of nature, Crewing a 36' racer on Lake Michigan was another eye-opener as I learned about rigging. My restored '71 Ski Nautique on the Illinois River is quite safe during bad weather because it is parked at home where new steel roofs keep all bad weather at bay. Mother nature can be bleak, dangerous, and deadly, making home the only place for me, thank you.

  • @occamsrazorblades
    @occamsrazorblades 2 месяца назад +75

    I think perhaps the lesson here is that while technology and impressive automated systems can give confidence, we must never let it lull us into forgetting caution.

    • @edwardgiugliano4925
      @edwardgiugliano4925 2 месяца назад +2

      I would have legged it from Bermuda to Cape May, NJ or Nantucket before continuing to Nova Scotia. Have some fun on shore and stretch my legs.

    • @diannabrooks
      @diannabrooks 2 месяца назад +7

      I think thats one reason I like smaller boats to sail. KISS works out much better and you learn more. Its good to be able to sail w/o all the high tech instruments. Things can take a shit quick if they fail, good to have the basics under your belt.

    • @HermanIdzerda
      @HermanIdzerda 2 месяца назад +9

      It really comes down to sticking to the basics of sailing. When learning to sail on a small boat you learn to keep your head down and being very cautious when sailing before the wind. And when the wind is hard it is much better to sail at 3/4 instead of full in front of the wind. And when you want to manage your sails, even on a small 12 foot sailing boat you lower the jib then reel in the boom to turn into the wind before trying to get the main sail down. Your sails are the main way to control a sailing boat, rudder and motor come second. It is sad the couple had to pay for the lesson with their lives.

    • @Oozywolf
      @Oozywolf 17 дней назад

      ​@@edwardgiugliano4925So funny I'm reading this comment while sitting in Cape May lmao! Beautiful area. Definitely would've been a good spot for them to head to.

    • @chrisgardella7744
      @chrisgardella7744 13 дней назад

      @@HermanIdzerdawell said!!!

  • @jennifera4350
    @jennifera4350 2 месяца назад +54

    i would have tried way earlier to head up wind and get the sail reefed down to a very small amount to help control and stabilize the vessel. While keeping lines coiled securely. I have sailed large stretches single handedly on a 36' from Bahamas to Maine. Used to feel a bit silly at how early I would reef. But, In spite of nearly continuous severe equipment and weather challenges, I was fortunate in making the trip safely. Knowing there was no room for error heightened both my awareness and actions.
    Heading as far as they did off shore multiplied the risk of wind, waves and danger and essentially eliminated the possibility of ever receiving help in time in an emergency. The crew did an amazing job in taking care of the two owners with very serious injuries and a challenging situation of the boat at the same time. So sad they passed away.

    • @saranapa1
      @saranapa1 2 месяца назад

      Oh that’s helpful

    • @kezzatries
      @kezzatries Месяц назад +5

      Couldn't agree more.
      Reef early, never sail directly down wind, always be slightly off wind especially at night.
      But hey that's me.

    • @jaywhoisit4863
      @jaywhoisit4863 Месяц назад +6

      He said the main was still under full power and the winch could not furl it; I just dont understand that. Just bring the sail into irons for a few seconds. Isnt that stock standard normal anyways when you drop the main?

    • @jennifera4350
      @jennifera4350 Месяц назад +2

      @@jaywhoisit4863 Yes that is normal. But remember they had the owners severely injured. And someone had to deal with that. So likely it was more like sailing solo. With a big boat, it's more than a few seconds, and then there were large waves.. and the crew member would have to disengage steering and preventers etc and who knows if the winch was jammed etc. Also I'd expect they were most used to the owners giving them orders than acting on their own.

    • @csenuber
      @csenuber 28 дней назад +1

      The slower you go, the farther you'd progress (c)

  • @DIYDaveT
    @DIYDaveT 2 месяца назад +13

    A very sad story, but well told. Thanks. It does remind us how dangerous not just sailing, but all boating, can be.

  • @TheMrplunk
    @TheMrplunk 2 месяца назад +55

    One thing that never really comes through the telling of these stories is just how exhausting it gets (even just clearing a jammed in mast furler at the dock!!!). Everything is moving, probably quite violently, and just holding onto the boat take effort. It's cold, your wet. Fighting with a furler, trying to force sails, you get tired fast. Cruising sails on a 60 foot boat are probably several hundred pounds each. Furlers are never overbuilt enough to roll up a sail that's powered up. Adrenaline only keeps you going so long...

    • @rwizard
      @rwizard 2 месяца назад +6

      You've pretty well summed it up. I'm a power boater, but the experience when things start coming unglued is the same, only the details vary.

  • @prancer4743
    @prancer4743 4 часа назад +1

    Live your dream’s life to short go for it 😀👍😉🥂

  • @davidncw4613
    @davidncw4613 2 месяца назад +50

    RIP fellow sailors. What a story. Unfortunately very tragic.

  • @tgchism
    @tgchism 2 месяца назад +26

    Very sad story that brings home the fact that no matter how prepared you are, mother nature, especially at sea, can be deadly!

  • @johnpickens448
    @johnpickens448 2 месяца назад +18

    Man, they call it a boom for good reason! My sailing experience was with a 13 foot trailerable Bluejay, and had several moderate wind unexpected jibes which caused minor injuries and broken fittings. I can only imagine the exponential power you'd have to fight with a ship this size!

    • @johncartelli
      @johncartelli 2 месяца назад +2

      i raced a blue jay in a local race. It was a breezy day and a fitting let go on my main sheet.. i literally was holding the boom while trying to steer plus fix the line....yup fun times

    • @jaywhoisit4863
      @jaywhoisit4863 Месяц назад +3

      When a boat gibes its not immediate. The entire vessel shifts under you first and any experienced sailor would feel this and have a couple seconds to "hit the deck"! Imagine a 65 sloop sail area coming at you under a full power gibe! Holy crap that would be violent! Even in a bluejay that would take your head off!

    • @captainjimolchs
      @captainjimolchs Месяц назад

      @@jaywhoisit4863 And steer out of it!

    • @captainjimolchs
      @captainjimolchs Месяц назад +1

      Unintentional jibe in 13 feet? You'll never do that again in any size boat.

  • @preeceroger5064
    @preeceroger5064 2 месяца назад +12

    Thank you for the thorough breakdown and analysis of the problems and actions encountered by the owners and crew. It was very educational and enlightening.

  • @achikato
    @achikato 15 дней назад +2

    That is a really good explanation. Not a sea person too, also i rarely watch long videos completely, but this narration was excellent!

  • @SailingZatara
    @SailingZatara 2 месяца назад +15

    What a horrible situation, tragic ending.

  • @DavidPritt-xh7qq
    @DavidPritt-xh7qq 2 месяца назад +116

    What a sad tale.
    I have recently completed a 1000 mile journey in a Lagoon 42 from The Canaries, via Madeira to near Almeria in Spain. On the leg from Porto Santos we had winds gusting over 40 Knts and 3m + waves on the second day out, followed by rain and thunder and lightening on the third day, although the winds eased for a while, but the boat was solid, and we were all experienced.
    I was on watch for quite a bit of this storm, but we had reduced sail early, and had the engines running to give us more steerage if required to keep us approximately on course, we were aiming to stay about pointing 45 degrees off the wind. I had to admit enjoying the ride surfing at 14 knts down the swell, although the slam when we got to the bottom rattled our teeth.. Still not bad for a 71 year old fogie.

    • @gkrebs6636
      @gkrebs6636 2 месяца назад +7

      ...and that is why I would never want a Cat! I actually enjoy having my teeth lol monohull all the way!!

    • @AwesomeAngryBiker
      @AwesomeAngryBiker 2 месяца назад +1

      stop bragging about yourself, the video is not about you

    • @kit2130
      @kit2130 2 месяца назад +9

      @@AwesomeAngryBikerwhat’s wrong with you? Yt is for sharing experiences & that was a great one!!!

    • @Mike7O7O
      @Mike7O7O 2 месяца назад

      @@kit2130 Just a mentally dysfunctional troll, with too little self awareness to understand his various mental health conditions.

    • @pigslefats
      @pigslefats 2 месяца назад +6

      @@AwesomeAngryBiker Troll.

  • @mrackelito1
    @mrackelito1 2 месяца назад +22

    Please more of these kinds of stories! You are an insanely good story teller and you can probably be THE sailboat story teller on youtube, keep it up!

    • @LadyKSailing
      @LadyKSailing  2 месяца назад

      THANK YOUUUUUUU

    • @WilliamAArnett
      @WilliamAArnett 2 месяца назад

      Agreed, these stories are extremely useful. BUT get the details right.

  • @TinTin-v6q
    @TinTin-v6q 2 месяца назад +11

    I looked once upon a time at doing something similar but found that the danger outweighed the possibility. That said I am in hospital from my second on land accident in 4 years. I got hit by a drunk driver in a foreign country. Before that had a bad fall onto rocks hiking and was just making progress after a 2 year rehab when the drunk got me. Now I face further disability and 2 years of whatever. Life has a real element of luck and risk. I have had 2 broken legs and knees, spine, foot , fingers, toes , and arm. Also picked up a lot of scars. Pretty ugly now. Face has mostly healed and that my eye and socket escaped with cuts all around was amazing. Chest and stomach lacerations/ burns are interesting.

    • @daker1941
      @daker1941 25 дней назад

      Heal well and good luck!

    • @jdl2180
      @jdl2180 6 дней назад

      You might want to stay inside, learn how to play the guitar or something 😀

  • @charlesmoss8119
    @charlesmoss8119 2 месяца назад +14

    I had an acquaintance of similar age to this couple - they got a 473 (Beneteau?) and despite this gent being very experienced (he had once commanded a destroyer) they struggled as even this was a very powerful boat. I got some great sailing as a result but he admitted he wished he had been less ambitious and got something more manageable.

    • @jaywhoisit4863
      @jaywhoisit4863 Месяц назад

      Thats the way it always is; buy the biggest flashiest toy you can afford! Reality is you need a berth, galley, and head! Perfectly easy and comfortable in a 35 footer without all the bling!

  • @Genevieve8002
    @Genevieve8002 2 месяца назад +11

    Awwww, RIP to the couple who passed away. Very sad. 😢I know nothing about boats and sailing, and over the last couple of weeks, since returning from my first ever cruise - I find myself wanting to know, and learn all things on being at sea! Thank you for taking the time to do this. I was able to follow what happened, despite not knowing about booms, sail and furling! 😊

    • @rwizard
      @rwizard 2 месяца назад

      There is much to learn. A couple of easy ways to get your feet wet: (1) Buy a copy of Chapman's Seamanship and Small Boat Handling. (2) Take courses from the local Power Squadron. Once you understand some of the basics then you might want to look for a good sailing school. Beyond that,make friends in the boating community and ask if you can learn to crew for them. People on the water are generally friendly and help each other out. Start slowly, start small, and be humble. A gentle breeze on shore can translate to a nightmare out on the ocean. Never stop learning, never get cocky, and stay sober underway. The ocean is a ruthless mistress and will kill you for the slightest mistake. Both my father and I spent a lot of time out on the water, and we saw a lot, but there is always something else to learn. Have fun, it's beautiful out there.

    • @kathyinwonderlandl.a.8934
      @kathyinwonderlandl.a.8934 2 месяца назад

      Man I’d never go to sea on a small boat it’s too dangerous

    • @rwizard
      @rwizard 2 месяца назад +1

      @ Not all that dangerous if you follow the rules. I've been a long way offshore in some pretty small boats. Worst trip was coming back from the Bahamas in the edge of a hurricane. It was a choice between running for home or waiting to get hit by the storm. There was a big catamaran lost though.

  • @shannonlowe2412
    @shannonlowe2412 2 месяца назад +6

    I do dream of crossing oceans, these stories always make me sad. They also make me think more about safety but have yet to deter me. Tim you are very good at telling these stories. Miss your Historsea Channel.

  • @paulhiley1409
    @paulhiley1409 2 месяца назад +139

    My wife and I have crossed the Atlantic twice and completed many ocean passages in our 35ft long keel 40 year old yacht. I would never go to sea in one of these “hi tech” yachts, probably with unsupported rudder - the more hi-tech the more there is to go wrong. We have been through a number of gales including a force 10 in Biscay, but a well found boat and low tech equipment meant we never had a problem.

    • @AwesomeAngryBiker
      @AwesomeAngryBiker 2 месяца назад +14

      stop bragging about yourself, the video is not about you

    • @RepellentJeff
      @RepellentJeff 2 месяца назад +51

      @@AwesomeAngryBiker Are you going to post the _exact same thing_ on every comment sharing their own experiences?
      Like, do you have anything to actually say, or are you just trying to stir things up?

    • @sidczinkota5580
      @sidczinkota5580 2 месяца назад +5

      A "well found" skipper makes one hell of a difference.

    • @pigslefats
      @pigslefats 2 месяца назад +6

      @@RepellentJeff Indeed.

    • @phillymathguy8142
      @phillymathguy8142 2 месяца назад +6

      You must be one of those famous sailors we've all heard about. A legend in their own mind.

  • @MikeStoj-wl8ct
    @MikeStoj-wl8ct 2 месяца назад +113

    Great job telling this sad story.

  • @drewgibbons5464
    @drewgibbons5464 2 месяца назад +33

    Dude! You ripped that sad yet inspiring tale up; felt like I was there. Lady K you made my day.

  • @martinos5385
    @martinos5385 2 месяца назад +10

    Very sorry for them! To all others here I highly recommend to start or to learn or restart sailing on small dinghy boats without motors, in each weather condition!!! If you can‘t handle a small one you‘ll never can a big one.

    • @saraw8503
      @saraw8503 2 месяца назад +1

      My first boating experience was during childhood with a small skiff and oars.

    • @splitliving
      @splitliving 2 месяца назад

      Yes, much like all other sports-motorcycle riding, diving, mountain climbing, car racing-it behooves one to start small, stay humble, and recognize you are never, ultimately, the One in charge.

  • @ckeilah
    @ckeilah 2 месяца назад +64

    Weather and Sea State forecasting is often no better than a dice throw and a wild guess. We had two days of “predicted” max 10kt winds with 2 to 3 foot seas (with all seven “weather models“ agreeing!). Perfect conditions for a 150 mile Gulf Crossing.
    We got 15 miles offshore, and OF COURSE just as the sun was setting 20+ KT winds began whistling through the rigging, and 10+ foot waves tossed us about.
    It was at this point that I learned that my crew was not as prepared as I had thought, so I made the executive decision to turn back. We are now delayed by two years, but everyone is alive, and the boat is still floating. 😁

    • @LadyKSailing
      @LadyKSailing  2 месяца назад +7

      Glad you are safe- good decision!

    • @will5989
      @will5989 2 месяца назад +7

      Best choice ever skipper!!

    • @BajaGirl302
      @BajaGirl302 2 месяца назад +1

      Very good choice! I have been sailing throughout BVI, and this story really tells me if I want to go sail anywhere, I would get as much training as possible before being crew on any sail boat!

    • @redreuben5260
      @redreuben5260 2 месяца назад +3

      Man’s gotta know his limitations.

    • @petermartin9494
      @petermartin9494 19 дней назад +1

      20kt is a gentle breeze...

  • @robglodowski3574
    @robglodowski3574 2 месяца назад +81

    My first thought would of to depower the sail by motor sailing directly into the wind .I am a solo sailer on the great lakes and this maneuver saved me a couple of times

    • @LadyKSailing
      @LadyKSailing  2 месяца назад +15

      That is a smart move to depower the sails!

    • @rustyheyman214
      @rustyheyman214 2 месяца назад +9

      My thought too as I was listening. Probably from spending too much time on the pointy end wrestling sails that are loaded up.

    • @Tb0n3
      @Tb0n3 2 месяца назад +8

      @@robglodowski3574 I said the same thing. They probably got complacent and used to being able to pull the sail down under power with the boom furl winch.

    • @stevemcnair-wilson6106
      @stevemcnair-wilson6106 2 месяца назад +3

      Works on the North Sea too, but I have only ever sailsed deep keeled wooden boats

    • @christopherhughes8402
      @christopherhughes8402 2 месяца назад +1

      That’s really cool!

  • @donhearn2248
    @donhearn2248 2 месяца назад +28

    I hopped from a Hobie to a 27 foot race boat with a fractional, to a 40 foot mast head.....the only other boat I sailed on at that time was a 26.5 hunter. I really liked the Hunter (I know...yeah...I know). While I got tons of time on the water, I would not call my self knowledgeable of sail boats in general. The 40 footer was eye opening. With countless summer days on the water..I was absolutely NOT ready for sails on a 40 footer. The power and weight of the sails is so much more. I think I got that boat late 20s early 30. I was super fit and in my prime....and it was a challenge compared to the smaller sail plans. I always remind myself, to be mindful of giving advice...just because I struggled does not mean other will struggle...but even with that .....when random dock people, liveabords, racers...whatever... tell me their plans for 45 this 50 that....even 60 plus....I always think...man...what is the plan? I get the benefit of living on a 50 or larger...but dang....sailing it? Alone? I could not do it, and I know that does not mean you can't, or some other sailer could not...but...really...have a plan. Even as couples it does not mean you will always have two people...when you need 2 people.

    • @LadyKSailing
      @LadyKSailing  2 месяца назад +3

      You bring up some really important points about planning, especially when it comes to solo sailing.

    • @TheMrplunk
      @TheMrplunk 2 месяца назад +4

      “Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.”
      Bad decisions are easier to live though on a smaller boat.

    • @AwesomeAngryBiker
      @AwesomeAngryBiker 2 месяца назад +1

      stop bragging about yourself, the video is not about you

    • @diannabrooks
      @diannabrooks 2 месяца назад

      Ya and its especially nice when the 2 ppl really enjoy each others company. 😊

  • @Pooua
    @Pooua 2 месяца назад +2

    Wow! What a story! See, this is one of a thousand reasons that I don't live on a boat! I had no intention of sitting through a 21-minute video on this topic, but this is such a compelling story that I did, anyway. I will say that as tragic as this story was, especially for this couple, this was the life they chose, and this is what they chose to face in that life.

  • @CaptMarkSailing
    @CaptMarkSailing 2 месяца назад +17

    Reef early- stay patient and vigilant. Always sail in control and within your ability.

  • @andrewpienaar4522
    @andrewpienaar4522 2 месяца назад +3

    Wow, Shocking story!
    Just shows that mankind still has to respect nature.

  • @cameronyeager8129
    @cameronyeager8129 2 месяца назад +75

    Coast guard being heroes as usual

    • @barendgarvelink
      @barendgarvelink 2 месяца назад +1

      Yeah, USCG never ceases to impress.

    • @lbailey45
      @lbailey45 2 месяца назад +2

      Canadian Coast Guard! ​@@barendgarvelink

    • @barendgarvelink
      @barendgarvelink 2 месяца назад +4

      @ d’oh! Well I suppose they occasionally impress too 😬

    • @timuruddin7088
      @timuruddin7088 Месяц назад

      Hard work saving idiots

    • @daker1941
      @daker1941 25 дней назад

      Coasties had a good plan and executed it, Bravo!

  • @peterwootton1978
    @peterwootton1978 2 месяца назад +29

    I have an innate caution over preventers - they are obviously very useful in stable points of sail, but I'm always reminded of my dad talking about the applied forces of a large metal boom in a gybe. Having cruised a lot at night, I also prefer to remove the main from the equation if sailing downwind or very broad reaches - then again we live aboard a catamaran that is often very happy just under jib when going downwind. Good sobering lessons here...

    • @gordonbennet1094
      @gordonbennet1094 2 месяца назад +8

      Absolutely agree. See my comment above. Never run with the mainsail up - only a headsail - especially at night. Why sailors can't understand this oh-so-simple jibe-proof system is beyond me.

    • @jaywhoisit4863
      @jaywhoisit4863 Месяц назад

      Also why wasnt there a boom brake on such a powerful sail?

    • @gordonbennet1094
      @gordonbennet1094 Месяц назад

      @@jaywhoisit4863 That's just not the point. Let me say this again ... NEVER RUN WITH THE MAINSAIL UP - only run with a headsail - especially at night. Why sailors can't understand this oh-so-simple absolutely jibe-proof system is beyond me.

    • @jaywhoisit4863
      @jaywhoisit4863 Месяц назад

      @@gordonbennet1094 I had an Endurance 35 and the full keel over relatively short water length made it difficult to reach with only the Jib. I would triple reef the main and the downforce would keep the boat balanced better. But ya, a triple on a 35 footer is almost like no sail at all. I hear you!

    • @gordonbennet1094
      @gordonbennet1094 Месяц назад

      @@jaywhoisit4863 Not talking about reaching. I'm talking about running. No reason whatsoever for running with the mainsail up - running with main out & preventer is white knuckle ride all the time w/ very little increase in speed over a large foresail only. Why wd anyone do it ????

  • @martinwarner1178
    @martinwarner1178 2 месяца назад +5

    One cure, Hove to. All boats in the 1979 Fast net race that did that survived. I used to practice hove to, on the east coast of England all the time. Peace and goodwill

    • @h4marine
      @h4marine 8 дней назад

      Totally agree, hove to is not used as much as it should be. You can reef the main more easily, de power, slow down even without the engine. I've hove to at night twice in biscay in November. I chose this as i decided having crew on deck in the steep breaking seas was not safe. Hove to as it got dark, close hatch and get some rest downstairs drifting at 2 to 3 knots with bow into waves. Some waves rolled us on to our side, then you make sure anything heavy is stowed, even tins of food can be dangerous. Tragic story for these sailors, i hope some people learn from the report.

  • @JeffreyWilstone
    @JeffreyWilstone 2 месяца назад +3

    OMG i wasn’t prepared to hear that both of the injured boat owners did not make it out alive! 😢 such a sad story but hopefully we all can learn something from this tragic event?

  • @ozskipper
    @ozskipper 29 дней назад +3

    Turn a boat to the wind to lower the main. Even with the preventer attached you can "parralel the boom" to the wind to remove the load .

  • @georgegibson707
    @georgegibson707 2 месяца назад +8

    Compelling and tragic story. Thankyou for telling.
    The forces at work on a yacht that size would be large.

    • @69spook
      @69spook 2 месяца назад +1

      A giant flailing it's arms out of control comes to mind.

  • @PDM1967
    @PDM1967 2 месяца назад +7

    Good story. Going to pass on those sailing lessons I was considering.

  • @themusicador
    @themusicador Месяц назад

    Amazing delivery of this sad anecdote. Always respect nature and don’t test it too much.

  • @rickdamico7146
    @rickdamico7146 18 дней назад

    Excellent job telling this story. So sad. I sold my last sailboat in San Diego a few years ago, and now a powerboater on an inland lake in Arizona. Feel a lot safer.

  • @Glenlivinit
    @Glenlivinit 2 месяца назад +23

    If you think you might need to reef, it's too late ! Been there, very scary

  • @OhanaNZ
    @OhanaNZ 2 месяца назад +102

    Reef early. Then reef again. Always shorten sail BEFORE you need to. Super easy. Unless you are racing with a full crew, then just SEND IT

    • @12345fowler
      @12345fowler 2 месяца назад +19

      I understood like they tried to reef the main while still downwind. How is that supposed to work ? Wether by hand or by electric winches, if you reef only once the squall is in full swing you will have no chance to succeed. YOur only option is depowering the main by pointing upwind and hope the flapping will not destroy the whole rig.

    • @RonaldHawes-sr3cr
      @RonaldHawes-sr3cr 2 месяца назад

      The reefing on that boat was push button. They did reef it. They couldn’t handle it in that wind and sea. They should have gone into the wind and furled them in and then meet the sea till the storm passed. I would have been on the SSB and talking to herb about the weather the whole time. Planning it out in real time instead of just going for it without the real time info. The forecast is a planning tool. Instant data is a survival tool. It’s the ones in charge who were at fault. The ones who made the decisions. The crew are lucky they lived.

    • @DonanKlooz
      @DonanKlooz 2 месяца назад

      @@12345fowlercouldn’t they have cut away the sail? Better than getting decapitated by the boom.

    • @PetrHosek
      @PetrHosek 2 месяца назад

      ​@@DonanKloozUnfortunately, that's impossible. The mainsail is attached to the mast on the whole front edge. There's no way to just cut it loose. It has to be slid down in a rail in the mast (like a curtain), but that's impossible when it is under sideways load.

    • @youaregodspursuit-47
      @youaregodspursuit-47 2 месяца назад +1

      Only "boat" I have owned is a 16' canoe. Even with that limited experience, heading into the wind is always easiest solution in a storm. Even on land, trying to fight the wind is a bad choice.

  • @petercharles6462
    @petercharles6462 2 месяца назад +61

    Perhaps the lesson from these two incidents is something I have always avoided. Running, at night, in bad weather, is outside my risk profile. There is no destination important enough that the miles lost by going to a broad reach are truly missed.

    • @LadyKSailing
      @LadyKSailing  2 месяца назад +15

      That is a great point! I agree.

    • @hogfishmaximussailing5208
      @hogfishmaximussailing5208 2 месяца назад +10

      If you cross oceans, it may not be a choice you can make.

    • @petercharles6462
      @petercharles6462 2 месяца назад +24

      @hogfishmaximussailing5208 You ALWAYS have a choice! It may be that you DESIRE to maintain a certain course, but even the largest ships will depart from the "best course" in the face of dangerous weather. Having been in significant storms at sea in a 44' sailboat up to 500' Navy ships, each has a point at which you have to say to yourself "is this action prudent and in the best interests of my vessel and crew."

    • @keving3639
      @keving3639 2 месяца назад +8

      Wow some great responses from a really sad event. I think it was mentioned was this boat too big once things got ugly ?.
      Or is the lesson depower early ALWAYS to keep the boat calm ?. I was caught in an east coast low on a return trip from Lord Howe Island to Sydney. All commercial shipping were told to divert, all east coast ports were closed and there was us in the middle of it in a mighty Northshore 38. Tough sea boat & manageable. I consistently feel i owe my life to that boat.

    • @tyrotrainer765
      @tyrotrainer765 2 месяца назад +5

      I'm a Coastal Skipper but have done a lot of offshore; 2 options ran through my mind as I was watching this: 1. Heaving-to when things started going pear-shaped (before the first call for the skipper to go upstairs) 2. Deploying a sea-anchor. I hate to sound smug commenting on this awful tragedy, but I wonder if the skipper was well-drilled in both techniques and had practiced them - our crew had to use both during an Atlantic crossing in 2000 and we had no dramas because the skipper was a real old salty seadog and was well versed in these techniques on bigger boats.

  • @duartebriz
    @duartebriz 2 месяца назад +2

    What I learn from this stories is that, for ocean crossings, the smaller the boat the better.

  • @shable1436
    @shable1436 Месяц назад +2

    Yeah Sandy blue beaches and clear blue water is my jam too

  • @Elmerkeith-c5g
    @Elmerkeith-c5g 2 месяца назад +5

    Good Story....
    The couple was looking for adventure.... and they found it

    • @captainjimolchs
      @captainjimolchs Месяц назад

      Adventure is an expedition poorly planned.

  • @UncleJoeLITE
    @UncleJoeLITE 2 месяца назад +4

    Tragic story of competent sailors, luckily rare these days. But I do have to wonder - if they'd bought a 55 would they have taken less risks & still be alive? It's easy to think you're "unsinkable" in such a big, fast yacht. Cheers Tim. 🇦🇺 ⚓

  • @zzanatos2001
    @zzanatos2001 2 месяца назад +18

    Moral of the story: Keep a good eye on the weather, take down the main sail before a squall reaches you, train everybody properly, and always expect the boom to break loose in strong seas.

    • @Wendy-bm3fl
      @Wendy-bm3fl 16 дней назад

      Train everyone properly & speak the same language!!

  • @joannej5393
    @joannej5393 Месяц назад +1

    Situations like this are exactly why I never wanted to cross. We sold our beauty of a boat. I have never regretted it.

  • @brad4908
    @brad4908 2 месяца назад

    I appreciate you taking the time to turn this tragedy into learning. RIP, adventures.

  • @mesmes1958456456
    @mesmes1958456456 2 месяца назад +10

    What a sad story. Thank you.

  • @emiliebova
    @emiliebova 2 месяца назад +3

    I went on a sail outside NY harbor that became totally fogged in. I was terrified as we crossed shipping lanes among giant tankers. Haven’t sailed since.

  • @Straightup-we9uf
    @Straightup-we9uf 2 месяца назад +4

    Big boats, big problems. I just sailed my self built 9 meter folding trimaran from Malaysia to North America going what many would say was the wrong way...piece of cake.

    • @LadyKSailing
      @LadyKSailing  2 месяца назад

      That's amazing!

    • @rjthemanwatts
      @rjthemanwatts 2 месяца назад

      @@LadyKSailing Definnietly let's see a youtube on that crossing , boat building and preaparation !

  • @danglss76
    @danglss76 22 дня назад

    Something similar happened to my son and i about 15 miles off Chesapeake. Sixteen footers ,hell . Finally got it spun into the wind and reefed. Very scarey and to this day remember very little of that 16 hour battle . What a fight. Broken bones and contusions every inch of muscle . Woooo hooo. What a life . God Bless these folks .that said they lived a hell of a life .. ❤❤❤❤

  • @JheregJAB
    @JheregJAB 2 месяца назад +148

    Honestly, in-boom furling may allow for battens and therefore better sail shape and performance, but it has many other disadvantages that I think get downplayed too often. Many of them have to be almost perfectly horizontal to furl correctly, which can make them finicky to furl in weather. The design of the boom and hardware added also means that the boom itself needs to be very heavy, and that increased size makes it much more difficult to control. Finally, since the furler is relied-upon to reef, the sail doesn't get reefing points. On a traditional sail with reefing points you can pull the sail down to the reef at least. I think I'll stick to my slab-reefed main, stack pack, and lazy jacks.

    • @DavidPritt-xh7qq
      @DavidPritt-xh7qq 2 месяца назад +7

      I have to agree, the slab reefing and lazy jacks on my Lagoon 42 give me confidence that I can drop the sail into the bag very quickly if needed.

    • @bigbubba4314
      @bigbubba4314 2 месяца назад +6

      Extremely insightful comment. Especially if you can reef from the cockpit.

    • @sirgregoir
      @sirgregoir 2 месяца назад +4

      Lazy jacks are the go...totally agree.. 👍

    • @jeanettenorman7052
      @jeanettenorman7052 2 месяца назад +1

      Good point

    • @alanwhiplington5504
      @alanwhiplington5504 2 месяца назад +9

      Why not have two masts and make the whole thing more manageable? The reason people don't have two masts is because they want to be faster, true, but mostly because they want to look good in harbour.

  • @PaulBKal
    @PaulBKal 2 месяца назад +31

    I listened to Andy Schell’s “On the Wind” podcast interview with Lin Pardey and David Haigh today and Lin’s (& Larry’s) exhortation to “go small, go simple, go now” has never made more sense. David, a very experienced sailor, expressed very sensible grave reservations about modern yacht designs and the complex electric or hydraulic modern systems built into them. Why do two people need a 65 foot yacht? Why do most of us even need a 40 foot yacht? It really is time to step back and look at what we are doing and seriously re-evaluate.

    • @fishhuntadventure
      @fishhuntadventure 2 месяца назад +2

      I think the 36’+ desirability these days is a lot due to people wanting the fridges and spaciousness for standing showers and separate ’rooms’ versus fairly open cabins and berths.
      I don’t sail (yet) but I did purchase an early ‘glass Jet 14 to acquire competence. But I’ve known sailors in my 59 years. When I was young people made what seemed like ambitious passages in 25-35’ boats, whereas today it seems middle-aged and younger sailors strive for efficiency-sized floating condos with watermakers, substantial diesels, and air conditioning. And that obligatory large salon and stateroom.
      That’s why.
      With the low prices of solar and light weight of batteries these days it would seem that people could compromise their giant space desires and still feel secure with electrical appliances in a smaller, durable, very seas-resistant boat. But they don’t.
      I don’t have the checkbook myself but if folks do have the deep pockets I don’t blame them for wanting a 50- or 67-foot yacht since all things relative: $2mil really isn’t that much money these days.

    • @js2702
      @js2702 2 месяца назад +2

      Thanks for the recommendation. Can’t wait to have a listen.

    • @PaulBKal
      @PaulBKal 2 месяца назад +3

      @@fishhuntadventure $2mil is a LOT of money still, for all but the very rich. There are very roomy 40 footers with all the fridges and spacious standing showers and separate cabins you like, that can be safely sailed by two people in any conditions, without needing a 65 footer or to spend more than $200,000. Plenty of them. Shiploads.

    • @joesmith1142
      @joesmith1142 2 месяца назад +2

      @@fishhuntadventure I would tend to agree but i dont think this is actually true. I agree people have deeper pockets than ever, and there are many sailors that want to take their dream vacation homes with them across oceans, and do, but i disagree because this is not something that we hear happening ALL the time. Lots of people seem to have tragic ends or disasterous experiences on smaller boats as well. I tend to think its maybe more of an overconfidence issue. Overconfidence in their abilities, and overconfidence in their boats and all the gadgets that make it seem so easy when everything is going well.

    • @captainjimolchs
      @captainjimolchs Месяц назад

      @@fishhuntadventure You overlook scuba gear, compressors, dishwashers, laundromat, dryer, surf/sailboards, kites, cook-tops, microwaves, entertainment centers, desalinators, bow thrusters, air-conditioners to deal with the waste heat and to ventilate private cabins. Life at sea is tough!.

  • @tweitz8678
    @tweitz8678 2 месяца назад +27

    What both incidents have in common is the furling boom and the fact that the boom is so massive that it was able to overcome the preventer and become a powerful weapon. As much as I think a furling boom is better than in-mast furling because of the risk of the latter getting stuck, this suggests that preventers really need to be much better sized to match the mass of the boom. For my own coastal sailing I opted for an old fashioned mainsail because I did not trust the in mast furling to enable me to lower the sail in adverse conductions.

    • @malthus101
      @malthus101 2 месяца назад +1

      "an old fashioned mainsail" - meaning it must be raised and lowered manually?

    • @rjthemanwatts
      @rjthemanwatts 2 месяца назад +1

      Last sailboat I was on we spent half the sail trying to get the in mast furled main unstuck

    • @BrianMac1525
      @BrianMac1525 2 месяца назад +3

      As a keyboard hero, isn't the idea behind a furling boom to make things easy? Push the button, do the reefing early down to a postage stamp, and avoid the nightmare altogether. They were not racing with a highly skilled crew, give up some mileage, and use the equipment as intended, reefing early and reef often, that's why it's push button. Boasting 200-mile days is not worth the risk in changing conditions. Sorry RIP folks.

    • @billhanna5455
      @billhanna5455 2 месяца назад

      Good point on the weight of the boom BUT id rather have that weight down low then up high in the mast , I used a block for the preventor run from the 'end' of the boom then bow back to the cockpit .

    • @internetposta7389
      @internetposta7389 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@malthus101 You have the sail. In modern fancy setups, it often rolls itself into the mast (the big stick on a sailboat) or into the boom (the bottom part of that L system. The problems of each are the in mast furling is prone to getting jammed so you can't put the sail away. The in boom furling is less prone to that but the boom is much heavier.
      The old school way, you release the line (rope) holding up the main sail and it drops down into a bad or you just tie it up with ropes. Far less convenient, but far fewer points of failure. It has its own danger in high winds , but the boom is much higher.

  • @MrSafetyForever
    @MrSafetyForever 2 месяца назад +2

    Very sad to learn of this tragedy. My condolences to the family.

  • @TheMemoryTravelerWithSparkles
    @TheMemoryTravelerWithSparkles 2 месяца назад

    Great storytelling of such a harrowing experience. I applaud the sailors, all of them, for living their dream. May Carl and Ann Marie rest in peace.

  • @tomcooper6108
    @tomcooper6108 2 месяца назад +4

    The rescue was fantastic! Thanks to everyone involved.

  • @kameltoes2625
    @kameltoes2625 2 месяца назад +4

    One of the notes in the report was the design issue that in-boom furling systems require heading into the wind to de-power the sail before you can furl them.

  • @jamesbaldwin7676
    @jamesbaldwin7676 2 месяца назад +7

    Large modern sailboats depend entirely on electric furling systems and a host of mechanical devices to make sailing with little or no crew a reality. The sails are also huge as a result. Maintaining control over the whole thing depends entirely on the engineering of the boat and it's many systems.
    The problem is no amount of engineering or modern mechanics can compensate or prevent risky maneuvers, mistakes or poor judgement from fragile human mines.

    • @DanOneOne
      @DanOneOne 2 месяца назад +1

      and they can simply break. And what will you do then?...

  • @ernestogarciadealbamailper1841
    @ernestogarciadealbamailper1841 2 месяца назад

    What a sad story, but congratulations for opening me the eyes and sailors to avoid tragedies like this. I am going to take into account your advice about training the people who sail with me and letting them work more, in order to monitor and direct them properly so that they learn to help me more. Thank you so much

  • @kdsailorgirl
    @kdsailorgirl 2 месяца назад

    Wow. Your account of this tragedy is absolutely gripping. Great job explaining that things can always go wrong despite expertise and a great rig.

  • @proto57
    @proto57 2 месяца назад +15

    I don't understand why they didn't turn upwind when things got out of control. Can anyone explain? I have sailed smaller boats... 30' and under... and this is what I always do, when I am sailing downwind, but want to reduce or drop my sails.
    Turning into the wind would have taken the pressure off the main, and allowed it to be furled into the boom. No?

    • @jennifera4350
      @jennifera4350 2 месяца назад +6

      Yes. they should not have waited so long and then depended on their mechanical furling gear to try and furl it downwind, However at the point they were trying to furl it even up wind the boom and sail would have been wildly swinging, plus the waves were moderately large. They needed to do this up wind, much earlier. When one person could handle it.

    • @keithknight9017
      @keithknight9017 2 месяца назад +3

      @@jennifera4350 I sort of agree with what you say but it's easy from an armchair to criticise -we don't know the sea state. To turn head to wind means you have to go beam on at some point and at this point the "apparent" wind increases dramatically. Very difficult to judge timing in the dark. Many of the earlier comments are right on the mark re crew numbers, experience etc. I certainly would have been on just the jib. I would also have probably just cut the sail as last resort (cheaper than losing boat!)

    • @jennifera4350
      @jennifera4350 2 месяца назад +3

      ​@@keithknight9017 This is why i say they should have done this earlier.But you are right that it's always easier to manage things from an armchair! Cutting a sail is also more dangerous than it may sound. You'd then have to lower the sail, and part of it would be on the boat. If the wind wasn't steady...it would be flapping around wildly. Too easy for a person to get tangled in the mess.
      The biggest problem was they were depending on mechanical devices to do things they couldn't. Plus instead of 4 crew they had 2 people with life threatening injuries who really needed immediate and constant medical care, at the same time as they had to also deal with the dangerous situation of the boat.

    • @vusvis
      @vusvis 2 месяца назад +2

      This I also don't understand fully. Maybe they were afraid of making the turn upwind. You need to time it well with the waves, because you can get knocked over if a wave hits you when you're at beam reach point. But still, they were on a 60' yacht so 26' waves although large and frightening, shouldnt be able to roll the boat. In general, the waves must be at least 1.5x the beam of the boat for rolling to be a severe risk.. My take on this, sitting in my cozy armchair, is that they should've turned upwind at the moment the squall hit. But thats hindsight.. Tragic story and my sincere condoleances to those who are affected.

    • @captainjimolchs
      @captainjimolchs Месяц назад

      I recall that they were fighting the rudder, which signals an attempt to keep the boat downwind, despite the safety factors built into the design.

  • @davescott1491
    @davescott1491 2 месяца назад +14

    Very frightening situation. You are a great story teller! The listener was almost there. Ocean crossing are no joke.

  • @seanrhone5306
    @seanrhone5306 2 месяца назад +41

    The men and women of the Coast Guard are not paid enough!

    • @69spook
      @69spook 2 месяца назад +1

      I wonder what the bill was for the rescue? 😮

    • @seanrhone5306
      @seanrhone5306 2 месяца назад

      @@69spook Probably $100k

    • @raylast3873
      @raylast3873 Месяц назад

      Almost certainly literally true

    • @kennyg1358
      @kennyg1358 22 дня назад

      ​@@69spookdoes their estate pay for the rescue?

  • @danielgates7798
    @danielgates7798 2 месяца назад +1

    Never cared for sailing myself. Great job telling the story. Sad for the poeple that didn't make it.

  • @skesno309
    @skesno309 17 дней назад

    This story telling is off the charts

  • @erichyney6287
    @erichyney6287 2 месяца назад +3

    Thanks for sharing, Tim.

  • @byterbit6236
    @byterbit6236 2 месяца назад +20

    I spent this summer crewing on a large boat with in boom furling - and a new owner, who is a friend.
    It became obvious very fast that we couldn’t cleanly furl - that is roll the sail into the boom - while going downwind in any kind of high wind.
    Tension needed to be kept on the halyard in all conditions to get a good wrap.
    With a strong aft breeze and a bouncing sea we’d always get a bad roll on the mandrel.
    Our solution was to head up-wind, as a matter of course.

    • @davidmatthews3093
      @davidmatthews3093 2 месяца назад +2

      Does anybody reef a mainsail going downwind?

    • @byterbit6236
      @byterbit6236 2 месяца назад +2

      @@davidmatthews3093 I never thought of it on any other boat.
      We tried it here a few times as we were both learning the new systems, and it occurred to us that in-boom furling might allow for it. No; not for us.
      I commented on the issue here as this seemed the explanation for the tragedy - that and the use of a preventer.
      As I listened to the story I was thinking the owners must have believed they could reef going downwind - and I wanted to share my experience of it just not working well.
      I also think the idea of using a preventer in conditions where an accidental jibe could lead to gear breaking is a needless risk. I tried this once on a delivery and woke to being told of a 5/8” preventer snapping.
      Better to run with just a headsail, not worry, and get a good night’s sleep.

    • @AwesomeAngryBiker
      @AwesomeAngryBiker 2 месяца назад

      stop bragging about yourself, the video is not about you

    • @a64738
      @a64738 2 месяца назад +2

      Every sailboat I have been in you need to head against the wind to be able to take down the sails, even just a little wind and it is impossible. In a full storm the first thing you should do is point the nose into the wind to keep the boat under control, and if engine is out you use a drift anchor to achieve that...

  • @Rachels123
    @Rachels123 2 месяца назад +5

    I came to St. Croix, usvi in 1963 on a 63 ft square rigger my father built in Michigan. In the early days the Caribbean was not the usual destination for boaters. Over the years (I’m 69) the vessels entering our harbor have shared stories of survival. It’s not for the weak. My admiration for boaters is immense .😊

    • @diannabrooks
      @diannabrooks 2 месяца назад

      Do you have a photo of your dads square rigged boat that he made by any chance? Sounds very nice. I was a liveaboard on a Chinese Junk in the Bay Area for 10 years. My son and I still remember her fondly.

  • @vanaruone6767
    @vanaruone6767 14 дней назад

    I can see how this can happen on a big boat with only 4 crew in a big sea. Having been rescued by the coast guard when my cat flipped off Mendocino in big seas, I’m with you in the white sandy beaches and blue water. Sea state is often overlooked for its dangers.

  • @warrenclark3475
    @warrenclark3475 2 месяца назад +2

    You did a good job explaining this tragic event

  • @jimfisk4474
    @jimfisk4474 2 месяца назад +4

    Wow, what I have any and God bless all❤

  • @jameshuggins7320
    @jameshuggins7320 2 месяца назад +25

    You are a great story teller, very impressive

    • @LadyKSailing
      @LadyKSailing  2 месяца назад

      Thanks so much for watching.

    • @jameshuggins7320
      @jameshuggins7320 2 месяца назад +4

      @ thanks for not blasting us with ads and also providing top notch sailing content in this era of vapid out of touch influencers. Figured you’d have more subs than these knuckleheads.

  • @markvan3465
    @markvan3465 2 месяца назад +10

    I sailed that route in 2000 on a 50’ cat. We lost a rudder half way between DR and Bermuda. We had repairs carried out there but then lost the other one half way between Bermuda and Halifax. Tough sailing with the one smaller unbalanced rudder that we had built. The sea just takes what she wants sometimes…

    • @AquaPixMedia
      @AquaPixMedia 2 месяца назад

      What brand of Catamaran was it?

    • @markvan3465
      @markvan3465 2 месяца назад

      @ It was a custom boat, built in Lunenburg, NS. “Bras d’Or Sea” was built to take people for day-trips on the Bras d’Or Lakes

    • @markvan3465
      @markvan3465 2 месяца назад +1

      The rudder assembly’s consisted of a steel tube with a solid steel insert. The rudders were attached to the inserts and they both broke up inside the tubes. In the first case, we noticed the the steering was getting less than responsive so the captain raised the rudder using the rudder davit. When he did this it slipped out of the sleeve and floated away. Second one broke a week later. Probably better designs out there now.

  • @sydneerudolph1063
    @sydneerudolph1063 2 месяца назад

    It only took me and my husband about 3 years of sailing before "reef before you need to" became our mantra. We now reef pretty much any time we see consistent 20 knots (note: we definitely prefer cruising speeds, we are not in a hurry lol). I will say that we have now successfully had a very comfy sail in 35+ knot winds with very little heel because of reefing early.
    I know this is not the worst we will see, but its good to know if youre just starting out and will save you lots of scary experiences.

  • @philipwelsh1862
    @philipwelsh1862 27 дней назад +1

    Amazing all these adventures by these people and they risk all the life’s of the rescue services

  • @Franco.Zanchi
    @Franco.Zanchi 2 месяца назад +9

    If you don't depower the main before you reef something will brake. Especially in strong condition, and if it's a big powerful boat like a CNB then you're very likely to get hurt. Old story but very sad.

    • @CJSHM
      @CJSHM 2 месяца назад +2

      I would never imagine trying to reef while still oriented downwind in anything but light to moderate winds and even then, only if I'm racing with a crew and am trying to make good time. Solo or cruising, I come up to wind. Always. Zero exception