Don’t do it. I surrendered to an older married woman (we were both much older so I should have known better) who lived in my town but I wanted to believe it when she told me she had never been in love with him and might be gay. Here we are 12 years later and she’s still married to him and I broke up with her 6 years ago after a 6 year sexual relationship. I don’t recommend it. The guilt was horrible because I was going against my own values and it was constant trauma on an almost daily basis because every time she and I were together and of course she went back home to him, I felt discarded. Just don’t do it. I thought in the beginning I just won’t get too emotionally invested but if you’re a female, you WILL get attached. We are wired to do so. When females have sex, we release oxytocin which is a bonding chemical. Do NOT have sex unless you’re ready to face a lot of trauma, possibly for years.
Very, very, very wise advice. Seeing someone who's already in a relationship with someone else is just asking for heartache. And that's what it will be, nothing but heartache.
Hello, Sadie&P, I am a fan from China, I really like your content, and also the movies directed by P, I hope your can continue to be happy and fulfilling, and I look forward to more content production from you.
If she's married, and says she's monogamous, and she is also flirting with you and says she wants to date you, then she is NOT monogamous. And you will just be a side dish. You deserve more.
A young 21 year old should act with caution, older persons in a marriage. Ours be seeking a side hustle and a young person can become very emotionally involved and could lead to a very traumatic experience. Be even keel and remain grounded with any engagement with another but especially if they are already in a relationa Ship. You’re worthy of being the only not the side.
Totally agree with you on polyamory… i don’t necessarily define myself as polyamorous and would not go around intentionally seeking multiple partners. But if i am already with someone that to me feels like the one, i imagine having a relationship like yours, and years down the line, i meet another person that i feel a deep connection with… like having two soulmates, because for me love is very spiritual… then i could see this happening. I had that experience once, but realized that the long term relationship i was in was a very toxic one.
(1/2)I fell in love with someone I worked with, in her fifties, I loved her for a few months, and there was clear sexual tension between us. I never hid my feelings-my actions said it all, but I never made it explicit or clear in words. I couldn’t bring myself to tell her how I felt because I was afraid of rejection. When she decided to leave the job, I wanted to confess until the very last moment. But when I stood in front of her, knowing she was leaving and I wouldn’t see her again, I couldn’t do it. I let her go.
(2/2) It’s been a while, and I moved on quickly because I had already been through a similar experience with someone else I loved. I loved her deeply, not just a little, but once I moved on-and it didn’t take long because I had been through this before-I realized I felt better, calmer, and at peace. Now, I feel this inner peace because, when I loved her, I was always anxious and worried about whether she loved me back and how to gain her approval. Now that she’s gone, I feel calmer and more at ease
I truly love you both @SadieandP please don’t feel offended. I feel like Sadie and P are like the Sherlock Holmes of ‘Female Version’ P as Sherlock and Sadie as Dr. Watson. Trust me there is hide artist within you two. 🌈💙💕Mesmerizing💕💙🌈
It does not help when she flirt back and she is married
Don’t do it. I surrendered to an older married woman (we were both much older so I should have known better) who lived in my town but I wanted to believe it when she told me she had never been in love with him and might be gay.
Here we are 12 years later and she’s still married to him and I broke up with her 6 years ago after a 6 year sexual relationship. I don’t recommend it. The guilt was horrible because I was going against my own values and it was constant trauma on an almost daily basis because every time she and I were together and of course she went back home to him, I felt discarded. Just don’t do it.
I thought in the beginning I just won’t get too emotionally invested but if you’re a female, you WILL get attached. We are wired to do so. When females have sex, we release oxytocin which is a bonding chemical. Do NOT have sex unless you’re ready to face a lot of trauma, possibly for years.
Very, very, very wise advice. Seeing someone who's already in a relationship with someone else is just asking for heartache. And that's what it will be, nothing but heartache.
Hello, Sadie&P, I am a fan from China, I really like your content, and also the movies directed by P, I hope your can continue to be happy and fulfilling, and I look forward to more content production from you.
You two are very insightful. Keep em coming. Thanks for what you do.
If she's married, and says she's monogamous, and she is also flirting with you and says she wants to date you, then she is NOT monogamous. And you will just be a side dish. You deserve more.
@@sl2608 Definitely
A young 21 year old should act with caution, older persons in a marriage. Ours be seeking a side hustle and a young person can become very emotionally involved and could lead to a very traumatic experience. Be even keel and remain grounded with any engagement with another but especially if they are already in a relationa
Ship. You’re worthy of being the only not the side.
Totally agree with you on polyamory… i don’t necessarily define myself as polyamorous and would not go around intentionally seeking multiple partners. But if i am already with someone that to me feels like the one, i imagine having a relationship like yours, and years down the line, i meet another person that i feel a deep connection with… like having two soulmates, because for me love is very spiritual… then i could see this happening. I had that experience once, but realized that the long term relationship i was in was a very toxic one.
Hi beautiful ladies ❤ love seeing you two chatting with us 😊
(1/2)I fell in love with someone I worked with, in her fifties, I loved her for a few months, and there was clear sexual tension between us. I never hid my feelings-my actions said it all, but I never made it explicit or clear in words.
I couldn’t bring myself to tell her how I felt because I was afraid of rejection. When she decided to leave the job, I wanted to confess until the very last moment. But when I stood in front of her, knowing she was leaving and I wouldn’t see her again, I couldn’t do it. I let her go.
(2/2) It’s been a while, and I moved on quickly because I had already been through a similar experience with someone else I loved.
I loved her deeply, not just a little, but once I moved on-and it didn’t take long because I had been through this before-I realized I felt better, calmer, and at peace. Now, I feel this inner peace because, when I loved her, I was always anxious and worried about whether she loved me back and how to gain her approval. Now that she’s gone, I feel calmer and more at ease
Thank you for the great advice 🙌🏻❤
I truly love you both @SadieandP please don’t feel offended. I feel like Sadie and P are like the Sherlock Holmes of ‘Female Version’ P as Sherlock and Sadie as Dr. Watson. Trust me there is hide artist within you two.
🌈💙💕Mesmerizing💕💙🌈
If you need someone for the music production for the documentary, I would like to volunteer !
Send us an email at sadieandp@gmail with your resume 🙂
@SadieP sure !!!
How to send stories because I love this section ❤
You can send us an email it’s in the description 😊
sadieandp@gmail.com
If there’s any doubt, there is no doubt.
just say no to married others, messy on so many levels
💯👌🏻🏳️🌈🌈🤟🏻😊
"channeling erik" seems so interesting