I can understand feeling salty about not meeting your bestie’s person… it’s like someone excluding you from major milestones, especially if you also believe that the same person will come to you should things unfortunately go south. I’m not so sure about being salty about not vetting… it does happen in informal ways I guess but in the end, Sharon’s opinion shouldn’t matter so much… her support more than opinion perhaps goes a longer way. Ultimately, the two friends just need to talk and for the writer to reassure her friend without necessarily jumping ship.
I can understand feeling salty about not meeting your bestie’s person… it’s like someone excluding you from major milestones, especially if you also believe that the same person will come to you should things unfortunately go south. I’m not so sure about being salty about not vetting… it does happen in informal ways I guess but in the end, Sharon’s opinion shouldn’t matter so much… her support more than opinion perhaps goes a longer way. Ultimately, the two friends just need to talk and for the writer to reassure her friend without necessarily jumping ship.