The 11th man theory | Women don't want a nice guy | Sean Astin
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What movie is this
You guys have to watch this movie!!!
yeah to the channel owner you should really clearly say (in Title and description) what the sources are for your clips.. You're gaining from those peoples work but you're not even giving them any credit..
If you're reading this, keep your head up King.
A wise man once said you can not tell how kind hearted your are untill you know how evil you can be...
Young and J.P said that
That’s a wise quote yo
"You should be a monster and then learn how to control it" - Dr JP
You can the best friend he can ever have or the people that hate you turn you into someone you wish they were dead...
I just don’t want to be that person any more… everyone loved that version of me now I’ve changed and great wiser of myself no one is in my circle… sometimes I feel like I should turn back. Only sometimes.
Every man is like the 10th man.. but we learn how to be the 11th man
Facts
12th ✌️
Too True💯
@@anthonyjohnson9106 I see something in you. You got this 👍
@@albertgunther3645 2023 let's goo 💪
If we don't value, respect, love, and protect OURSELVES.....why will anybody else do it??
This guy is true to himself, as am I. I'm not into being fake just to get one moment of fun that'll never last long. That's just not me.
but they wont even personally have sex with you even if you conciously decide to to ignore them.
so how can you say its any fun even for your shirt game g?
Oath to that brother I can’t betray my instincts
The truth is you guys refuse to accept what women are, hypergamy is their nature, always looking to upgrade, no matter how much you want to be that nice guy with a fairy tale ending with your beautiful princess and ride off into the sunset. It’s not going to happen, women aren’t princesses, they will love their kids more than you, and the only true love you will ever receive in this life is from your parents.
Oh u just not want to go down that path , is so damn ez , to fake your self in the sheep and have a nice thing
This is what more men need to be like. He’s a good guy. A nice guy. Not a “nice guy.”
A “nice guy” is desperate for affection. Whether they want to be worthy of that affection or just want to fake it, they’re so desperate they sacrifice their character.
Never be desperate. Be genuine. Be good. But never desperate.
Have real character. The kind of character that does not go away when you have what you want. That includes self-respect.
And if she still can’t be happy with that, show her the door. No matter how much time you’ve committed to her. You can do better. Never look back.
I hate this saying...its possible to be a nice guy without it being bad....if your nice and a guy, you're a nice guy by default - nutin wrong wittit
Yet this guy is still struggling. Clearly it’s getting guys nowhere.
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If the guy who is like the man 11th man, sacrifices his character and becomes like the 10th men for his woman then what's wrong with it. I believe sacrificing your 11th man character and turning into the 10th men for the woman u love is a big W. Although it up to her now to value your loyalty.
I love to see Rudy coming back again to bring us enlightenment as he did on the football field now he giving us a lesson on love
Ruudy, ruuudy
this hit so hard it almost made me cry lol
Watch the movie
@@Alex-ml2zf it's a great movie
This is from a movie?! I thought it was some random 100% accurate short. Which movie
@@amiravdic7451 the movie is called what love is...as soon as I saw the short I bought it on Amazon prime and it has so many gems in it that it's one of my favorite movies there are some things I don't like but overall love it
Simp
Sam Wise indeed.
Thou he hates gollum very much
@lamphrangrovylyngdoh2780 yeah, he doesn't understand his conflicted nature.
Was talking to this girl and she was like ... "I fall for a guy but the moment he starts to reciprocate .. I lose interest," I was like ..."yeah ... Makes alot of sense to me."
So what does she want him to do ? 😂🤣
@@ad8128 nothing. If she likes you it’ll be obvious don’t show too much interest let her chase you. Get in the you are the prize mentality let her work to get you.
True... indeed
@@ad8128 rape ah
Just be yourself man. Don’t care what others think
He is me!!!
I want a woman who's always nice and not negative.
You are so right' every girlfriend ive had has cheated on me and they all said im to nice 😕 but when you ignor a girl or treat her like shes not important they are all a sudden interested in you' ive now been single for two years
You have to find that balance of both bro
Treat em like dirt and they'll stick to you like mud
@@FrandWebINC no. Women are the ones who are out of balance. We don't need to change a damn thing
@@Surprised_Chicken Damn, an actually underrated comment.
bravo good sir, bravo
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I appreciate him using the phrase “couldn’t care less” correctly
I just turned into the 11th man today. Stopped caring becuase i cared too much. Now i am heartless.
You have my respect 🙏
I’ve been the 11th man since I was in 10th grade ,I’m 21 years old now
People should be nice.
Niceness and goodness are the most important characteristics in any human.
Good is more important than any other character trait. Because if someone is evil, they will use their other character traits for evil. If someone is good, then they will use their character traits for good.
Evil should be punished.
Goodness should be rewarded.
Heaven only loves the good.
A good society rewards people for being good. And a good society will punish those who are evil.
Some horrible people think they deserve a reward for fancying bullies.
People who are sexually aroused by bullies are sexually motivated to support bullies and bullying.
It is deeply evil to fancy evil people.
It is cowardly and weak-minded to fancy bullies.
It is evil to support bullying.
I do not support bullies.
People who fancy bullies are intrinsically evil. Their very fibre is motivated to support and make bullies win.
People who fancy bullies are not the voice of common sense.
People who fancy bullies are not witty, or romantic, or original, or clever for supporting evil. They are just evil.
People who fancy bullies are weak-minded, narcissistic, lazy, cruel, bullying, creepy, primitive, cowardly, depraved, warped, twisted, manipulative and nasty.
Good should win.
Evil should lose.
There are evil people who want the bullies to win.
There are evil people who want the innocent victims to lose.
There are evil people who are supportive of bullies.
I am fed up with evil people supporting evil.
Bullies are helped by their evil supporters.
Comedy can be used for good or evil.
Sexual attraction can be used for good or evil.
People who fancy bullies take pleasure in making bullies win.
Bullies are often wife beaters and rapists.
Nobody reading all that.. I knew the moment I pressed *"read more.."* that som long a$$ paragraphs would appear
Everyone always calls me sweet and nice, but they always take advantage of that and I can’t stop being nice, I can’t turn it off and soon something really bad is going to happen if I can’t turn it off.It’s like no one cares until their something of theirs is on the line. I’m sick of this I’m only 15 what’s the point in treating me like shit and wanting to use me all the time. In class all the kids ant to copy off of me but then after discard me like a piece of paper. Maybe it’s time to get rid of them.
@@Surgeon0713 ye bro its best to be alone than with those who don't really wanna have anything to do with you G
You cannot be good if your always nice
@@Surgeon0713 You must keep the way you are and learn how to treat garbage people, give them back what you get, do not pay attention to things that prevent you from moving forward (as difficult as it sounds) and focus on yourself.
Morality life lesson: Never block your blessings, let alone NEVER take your blessings for granted!! 💯
I don't understand the behaviour but this is true for a lot of women. It's embarrassing really and as a woman, I want to assure you that not all women behave like they have split personality disorders. I'm sorry to all the men who have been wronged by wrong women. Again, we're not all like this. ❤️
person is sum of their experiences and that is their reality.
Uh... not me. I married my nice guy and we're still together. Together for 38 years, married for 35. 😊 Real women don't play games.
You're lucky you got married before shit hit the fan and feminism destroyed the balance
I wish that were true for most women today your husband is a lucky man and sounds like he knows it I have an identical twin who was so cruel to them he never worked out or shaved and they absolutely loved him every time I saw if I didn't want to be alone I'd have to be the same way but I hate hurting people life doesn't have to be so awful but I can't stomach it and here I am almost 40 and forever alone
Nobody cares. You’re talking about you out of millions and millions of women.
Then your husband probably not a “nice” guy, but instead a kind, good man. 🙂 They are extremely two different things. If you would like to know the difference I can send you a short video explaining it.
@@GoToGal70 ELABORATE!!
when nice guy turn into the dark they become a monster, that's the fear every nice guy thinking
I understand what the guy is saying you see a woman and your physically attracted to her you want to say how beautiful she is and I'm glad I ran into you all the whipped cream with cherries on top act as if your not interested but it's love at first site with you all this stuff is find but you can't say a word now that sad a mad can't express how he feels without being called soft from his woman you can't express none of that maybe a lil further down the line
U r right dude
This guy soloed Shelob, you should hear his advice
I’m just going based off what I’ve seen in my personal life and I see no lies. If that changes, I’ll adjust this accordingly.
What you mean ?
Happened to me today girl said won't work out after seeing her for week coz I opened up to her and was affectionate.. But it was genuine and she was opening to me to.. Also I have good banter and made her laugh and don't put up with bullshit.. But I showed her I liked her to much and messaged her to quick so I guess I need to learn not do that ever again
Even the most gentle soul in Middle Earth knows this.
This is so true! As men we are faced with many societal pressures of how to look, speak and act in order to gain attention from women because we're told on a daily basis of what they want in a man. But how often do we look inward and really ask ourselves "what do we want from women"?
We only want their intemacy and to share a special moment and then move on. No long term really. Long term is made up by society.
My husband's hands were so sweaty when I met him. It has nothing to do with playing is cool. I wanted him because he was a good, honorable, responsible, and competent man who wasn't afraid to stand up for what he passionately believed despite so many consequences.
You're wasting your time with persona when you should just focus on doing what's right.
Unpopular opinion, those very women he’s talking about are extremely broken deep down… just as much as that pretender who doesn’t care.
Maybe the pretender isn’t actually pretending and actually moved on (Me)
they are not broken. they have options
If you’re broken by something or someone, you go get help and fix yourself first. You don’t keep breaking yourself with the problem until there’s nothing left of you
@rockymvvrcianu6846 exactly. We can say many things...but attractive girls have many options
Maaan he speaks pure wisdom..
Sam Wise The Brave
This hits really deep and it pains me to say that truly agree. Stay strong boys, somewhere out there is the perfect partner for you. Don’t give up and remember that you are worth just as much as the one you’ve fallen for.
He is speaking on behalf of every loyal men out there.
WOW!!!! Dude, that video is freaking intense and you are so correct… Unbelievable, you hit it right on the nose 👍👍
every woman knows this man, the "nice guy"
damn this speech is deeper than the ocean
I think it's a subconscious evolutionary response. Basically if you're not interested you have options, if you're overly interested it seems like you don't.
You are so 1000% right and so on point with that women amen actually speak up and say it because most women won’t because they’re hindered however, I plug you 1000%. I can’t say thank you enough for speaking honest and actually showing your empathy and actual true identity and truth thank you thank you thank you for speaking the truth, thank you God bless you
Well said. Since we dont have that luxury though we can't remain complacent, gotta adapt man
DEEP AF💯🔥 RUDY! RUDY! RUDY!
This made me cry
This shit hit different.
Sam "Wise" the brave. Ladies and Gentlemen
Sam always being the wisest
this more real than 90% of the “relationships experts” aka tiktok douchebags on youtube telling you how you have to be to get a girl.
Truest words spoken
This is so true, I had a similar experience at a new years eve party, all the men were falling all over themselves over her, I noticed her right away sure, but I was like I'm not competing with 20 other guys over a woman I don't even know, well I ended up making out her that night when the ball dropped
how do you make her fall for you
You’re probably taller than the rest tbf
This hits home
Women want you to travel across all of Mordor and destroy an evil ring of power
She don't want the 11th men, being that 11th men is easy but believe me she won't approach that 11th men ever
The reason she is attracted to the 11th man, is because the 10 prior were only being nice because they wanted something from her, not because they were truly nice guys. The 11th guy who doesn't show interest then appears that he doesn't want anything from her. THAT is why he's appealing.
@@-dtuyhnjhggvjjjn the first 10 were all the same. Same lines, falling all over themselves. The 11th guy stands out. AND, hes a challenge. We ALL like the challenge. Because when we get the guy or the girl, it means something. Thats why the "bad guys" win. They are different. They dont pretend that shes something other than another girl. Believe it or not, most girls dont want to be put on a pedestal from jump because its not real. They dont even know her. They want to be put on the pedestal as time goes on and he gets to know her. As he falls more and more in love with her then shes more than happy to be up as high as he wants. Because she knows that he truly means it.
Amen brother! Couldn't agree with you more.
The 11th Man doesn't even look at her and say "How you doing." He ignores her completely.
Sam has grown up even more.
Seems like Rose played him
Gollum was his initiation into manhood
Not when you have 10 chads and 11th guy being the balding janitor.
Chads wouldn’t behave in such way neither would the balding janitor lol funny mental image nonetheless
@@amiravdic7451 its almost 2023. today's chad is tomorrow's normie. thats how we evolve.
@basedsigmapilled7883 whatever helps you cope at night.
Get off the internet big guy, you've got other things to do
@Juru yes chad = handsome man that woman will do anything to get his genes.
Stranger things guy who died by demogorgon sum like that
And now we know from studies, nice guys are the most harmful in relationships. No one wants a nice guys, because “nice” guys are people pleasers, wish-washy and are like water conforming to any container presented in front of them. They are weak and extremely passive aggressive when their nicest is not acknowledge or met. Nice guys are not authentic and you will NEVER see who they truly are. We want kind, good men… kind men can stand in their power and they want the best for others, keep you safe, and see you. Another thing a “nice” guy cannot do is keep you safe because nice guys avoid confrontation at all cost. A woman in a relationship with a nice guy will never feel safe or protected.
Felt so much pain at the end.
Confound it all, Samwise Gamgee! When did you get so wise?!
It is his name, after all
Where's the lie? 💯
No where at all 💯
Stay strong kings 💯
thank you Sam :)
Samwise Gamgee & Shaggy discussing women
Guys, if you are reading this, this is a very shallow thinking which lacks information. Grown women who know themselves don't want a guy because he treats them badly. They probably saw confidence in the guy, which the other guys lacked at that time. They saw something else besides the behavior towards the woman - they saw courage, intelligence etc. Maybe they saw that this guy didn't want anything from them that night (which could be a good thing if you are constantly hit on by shallow men). People (not just women) fall in love with whoever inspires them, makes them want to be a better person, who teaches them new things about life and who makes them look inside of themselves more. Someone who challenges them to become a better person and who they see similarities with (meaning if a woman sees herself in a man, she will fall in love with him) , someone who they accept exactly as they are besides their flaws and trauma. This is why women often want to take responsibility to heal a guy's trauma (a bad idea). It has nothing to do with the behavior of a man, but this is why it hurts so much for a woman to get treated badly by a guy, who she values so much. Please don't think that if you tell a girl she is pretty, she owes you something. There are probably 9 other guys who told her she is pretty already just to take her to bed with them. It doesn't take a genius to see someone's physical attractiveness. Women want respect, security, а guy with a big heart and open-mindedness. This type of women you should approach. Because this is probably what they carry within themselves too. What you have you spread and you see in others. PS: you carry the love, it has nothing to do with the other person, this love is yours, give it to yourself first, the other person doesn't owe you their love in return, you can be full of love in spite of being alone. The love is always yours and within you.
The thing is girls like to chase they don’t like to be chased. It’s fun for them. Once they know they have the guy they start to get bored. My girl just recently left me it took me 6 months for me to finally trust her enough to give her my all. She was so mad during that 6 months she didn’t understand why I wouldn’t just let her in. Once I finally trusted her enough and thought she really loves me I did. Then 4 months later she left me saying she wasn’t happy anymore. I broke my vow to never give it up again and she reminded why I had that vow to begin with.
I realized this concept pretty early in life but I'm at a point that I don't even have to pretend, it happens naturally and towards everybody
This is the guy, He's been waiting to talk to.
This hits harder the older we get and more experience we get but the part where one turns into a monster is more relatable in my case
Sad but true
That's deep. I feel the same way
Yeah im not doing that I do not care if I do get her.. I’ll just protect her on the internet etc she helped me with a lot she deserves some love and protection (:
This has alot to do with looks and personality. If the 11th man is out of shape, not taking care of his looks like beard, hair and so on and has a hollow personality. It really doesnt matter its harsh but true.
Maybe women like nice guys/good and kind guys with good heart,
But people dont realize that when he asks a woman for a date she may be already in a relationship with a nice/kind guy with a good heart, and with values.
So then it looks like he is rejected. But he isn't rejected. She already has someone...If we realize that 50 percent of women can be already in a relationship.
Real nygga. Respect to this gentleman. 🫡
Its not about not caring its about caring without being needy
Messed up stuff right there but it's true 💯
Don't tell anyone they are better than entire world . Boosting someone's ego like that is always going to meet an accident in future.
Be clear its two way business.
The 10 men are trying to validate her because they need validation themselves to chase a woman the 11th man knows his worth knows his priorities and knows that he can end up with any woman if you want because of his value that’s why the 11th man doesn’t care because he knows that any woman would be lucky enough to be with him, but you really focus on yourself you don’t need a woman.. you don’t need a woman to be happy you validate yourself because you know that you’re the one that makes yourself happy a lot of guys act like you have to be an asshole to be able to get the woman you want know you have to be confident and you have to know who you are to be able to get the woman that you want, you should be chased not you doing the chasing. That should be your mindset
Just like how women want to be with the 5% or even the 1% of men that are 6ft, make over six to seven figures AND has six inches or more of rod. And unfortunately, he wants the 1% to 5% of women that are "real" and doesn't take his unwavering love for granted. They are out there, but are incredibly rare and very unlikely to get with.
There’s a key to becoming the 11th man:
“I don’t… give… a ffffuuucccckkkkk!!”
And that's some sick ass behavior.....thank GOD there are so many women all over this world...
Actually as a woman that's what I feel.
I don't want to be treated like a gold..treat me like an ordinary human and the moment when 2 people are on equal level only then they can connect ,feel and value.
Ofcourse some girls love toxic n bad guys but a woman loves the one who is a normal and decent guy who minds his own business nd do not behave like if a woman is everything for him (These cases don't last long btw ).
I too loved a man n had an 8 yrs of relationship bbut he ditched me n married th girl liked by his mom.
My advice :Please grow intellectually ,spiritually,financially nd focus on important areas like climate and needful ppl.
And how Ppl gets the time to discuss such topics what men wants ,what women wants ...we all r having different paths and views so live n let live ..ur other half will find u ...ur immaturity will be punished and wisdom rewarded.
Some men don't care to play games, even if they do have feelings for them. If it's meant to be or not to be, so be it. It also makes you stand out to her as the 11th.
Fuck this! Be who you are.
That movie is like the avenger team of underatted actors
Girls are attracted to dominance. It's not very dominant behaviour to praise a girl.
It does make you a good MAN...
@@EmeargTepez05 Not really, it just makes you a simp. You think these so-called “good men” would treat an unattractive women the same way?
@@H.K.5 no, of course not, but treating a woman you want to be with well doesn’t make you a simp it just makes you seem friendly which is attractive to women, just don’t overdo it
Wow watching such videos to ease my mind its comforting. Kinda works on us young lonely well raised men who now get labelled as simps! F..K! Living in this new millennium is a total nightmare.
Buddy I hate to break it to ya but you just described *narcissistic behavior* …men can be this way too. I’m gay bro I’ve experienced it from guys and they’re not any better … It’s not about gender… it’s about behavior and personality… you can a shitty man or a shitty women… at the end of the day you’re just a shitty human being.
There are still those people that appreciate your kindness from the get go. The people that appreciate and see you for who you are are still out there. My straight homie for example, he found an amazing women that appreciated him the first time around. No game playing. She wasn’t like that. They exist. Not everyone plays games. Have hope and believe that you’ll find that person and trust me man you will. Pray y’all all the best 😊🫶🏼
Gorge spoke facts right here 👏🏾👏🏾💯
Classic case of having the right evidence but drawing the wrong conclusion. She doesn’t like 11 bc he isn’t nice. She knows all 11 guys only want the same thing. She doesn’t dislike nice guys, she dislikes boring guys. The least boring one is the only one who doesn’t do what everybody else does. And consider this. If everyone only wants the same thing from you, would you want the one that tried to hide it with gifts and money or the one that was straight forward and upfront? Stay blessed.
I like this guy who's a " nice guy "probably a polar opposite of me considering i am a bad girl kinda person. He can't open up to me probably thinks i won't like him back because of my persona. It's a sad reality we live in. Not every girl is the same. we need genuine connections regardless of the Stereotypes we portrayed to be in ❤
Buddy has never even spoken to a woman
She doesn’t feel special or good enough. Do you are actually seen as a liar in her mind. Most women have horrible self esteem and berate themselves internally. If you are acting in a way diametrically opposite to to that, she thinks you are lying whether you’re genuine or not
Hey! That’s Samwise Gamgi!
Couldn't be more true couldn't be more true
Too intense and heavy to hold back tears
What movie is this?
What Love Is
@@janindutheekshanauduwanage2729 thank you
10 men showed submission that turns women off. The 11th man showed that he is the boss.
We’re all still kids inside because the moment we don’t get what we want we throw a tantrum and want it even more, but the moment we have it, we get bored with it. Comparing it to the relationship we seek to acquire between a man and woman, we ,as men, must be willing to walk out of their lives at a moment’s notice.
Umm excuse me, I am a woman who appreciates a good man, a kind man.
Found the pick me
@@ChurlzVAYou are 💯 projecting.
So true.
Impossible none of us will find that one nice girl sorry boys they don’t exist anymore
They absolutely do. Don't put that idea in your head.
@@Profile.4I thought I met one this week.. Quiet dresses modest cute and shy.. She said wouldn't work out with me after me liking her to much I think even though we had good chemisty
@@bigenergy3880
Lol so they don't exost
yeah but the 11th guy would have to be tall, handsome and most imp healthy. If he was missing any one of those, women could care less.
Indian men are all simps. All Indian girl deep down like bad boys not the fake nice one, which show his possessiveness once they get into relationship, can't even bring his friends to her girlfriend due to inferiority complex and scared of loosing her to his friends. Indian mens are ugly but atleast try to be real and charming. Girls like to laugh and have fun. It's very simple but most Indian guys don't get it.
Man I used to be this guy til I realized it didn't get me any woman ever or it got me used and stomped on my time money heartbreak cheated on left for the cat who's a player who didn't ever do anything for her who doesn't even love her as much as I did I was willing to take a bullet for 3 women in my life to only find out they were plotting their exit for yrs n using me til they could plan their exit and look like the victim.