Glacier Park Murder Analysis | Jordan Graham & Cody Lee Johnson

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  • Опубликовано: 13 мар 2021
  • This video answers the question: Can I analyze the case of the “Glacier Park Murder?” This case involves the murder of Cody Lee Johnson by his wife of eight days, Jordan Graham.
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Комментарии • 984

  • @Nedula007
    @Nedula007 3 года назад +283

    Members of her own church, approached him and told him not to marry her?? .... HUGE RED FLAG !!! Yikes!

    • @KoreaMojo
      @KoreaMojo 3 года назад +16

      With the way people are I'd think a lot less of this. Friends hopefully would be more reputable. However the combination of multiple groups of people known to your partner that's the huge part.

    • @itsjustlaurel1531
      @itsjustlaurel1531 3 года назад +3

      No kidding

    • @zeth8300
      @zeth8300 3 года назад +2

      True friends

    • @Wundernuts
      @Wundernuts 2 года назад +6

      It is indeed an interesting question to ask what was going on in his mind to ignore or miss all the many warning signs that something was amiss with both her feelings toward him and their relationship.

    • @LeiLeiPhD
      @LeiLeiPhD Год назад

      @@Wundernuts I truly
      Believed the fact that she not as interested drew him in more. I believe he made the deal, wanted to marry her and probably was on bended knee always for her so she thought well yeah he’s a great guy… then she couldn’t do it and is a sick girl

  • @lunchboxfightsyou
    @lunchboxfightsyou 3 года назад +287

    Wife: receives rambling and bizarre email from total stranger saying husband is dead and to stop looking
    Also wife: “sounds good!”

    • @yes0r787
      @yes0r787 3 года назад +11

      She was ready to move on.

    • @matthewsierra314
      @matthewsierra314 3 года назад +7

      Lmfao. Basically the “for dummies” version of dr. Grandes.

    • @mrsmacca126
      @mrsmacca126 3 года назад +2

      table rounders Yes. But key word is “ ex”

    • @Sassy-pants68
      @Sassy-pants68 2 года назад +4

      I think the term wife is earned through love and respect. Just because you say “I do” does not make you a wife and she certainly did not earn the title of wife

  • @martyal
    @martyal 3 года назад +312

    She had the right to remain silent-she just didn’t have the ability.

    • @stt5v2002
      @stt5v2002 3 года назад +13

      Isn’t that always the case. I often wonder how many of these killers would get away with it if they simply didn’t talk to police or try to concoct some story. Some would still be convicted, but many would end up in the “we know he/she did it, but we can’t prove it in a court of law” category.

    • @polarbearsrus6980
      @polarbearsrus6980 3 года назад +3

      Classic narcissist.

    • @crybaby3710
      @crybaby3710 3 года назад +2

      hahaha I think about that phrase all the time in true crime cases. (&also, during one of my much less serious, true crime case, I definitely learned my lesson).
      i rewatched that standup a few months ago, still had me laughing just as much as I watched it when I was a pre teen (I'm a 26 yr old woman)
      😂

    • @spamalotcamelot132
      @spamalotcamelot132 3 года назад +2

      Lololol absolutely

    • @transmeeshax6872
      @transmeeshax6872 3 года назад +5

      Polarbearsrus That word is highly overused. Not everybody who does bad things and/or makes terrible decisions is a “narcissist“. Also: good people make terrible decisions too.

  • @Strype13
    @Strype13 3 года назад +137

    "Yeah, we got into a really bad argument... but arguing at home wasn't exciting enough so we decided to drive to "The Loop" so we could argue next to a cliff instead. Then we... Why are you giving me such a weird look, officer?"

  • @Amanda-el9dx
    @Amanda-el9dx 3 года назад +375

    I have found that many young women want to be a ‘bride’ but not necessarily a ‘wife.’

    • @feelingbetternaturally1099
      @feelingbetternaturally1099 3 года назад +44

      Thanks to Disney

    • @ChaCha.44
      @ChaCha.44 3 года назад +24

      This is so true! One of Jordan’s friends said that about her too. It’s really obvious... 😬 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @joanlynch5271
      @joanlynch5271 3 года назад +6

      Not many but some do!

    • @MrDpbazan1955
      @MrDpbazan1955 3 года назад +13

      That's how I got married. . . twice! Uh-oh, now I know.

    • @ChaCha.44
      @ChaCha.44 3 года назад +34

      When I had barely turned 18 (I’m 42 now, so this was a long time ago lol), I worked as a bridal consultant. Some were, IMO, “wanna-be wives”, but about 99% of them just wanted to be “wanna-be brides”!! What a nightmare that job was, oh my lord! The term “Bridezilla” doesn’t even begin to explain it! 🤦🏻‍♀️ 🙄 There were so many times that I wanted to pull them aside and scream in their ears, “you DO know the difference between being a BRIDE and also being a WIFE, RIGHT??!!” Sad thing is, 99% of them would’ve just given me this blank stare, never blinking, just wanting to go try on more expensive dresses 😳😳😳😳 I swear it was like some weird alien infestation in the bridal world so hell yea, I got outta there QUICK AND FAST Y’ALL...oh my gawd!! How can there be so many idiots among us?! How? Why? Please, that’s all I wanna know before I die lol

  • @clrobinson1776
    @clrobinson1776 3 года назад +375

    My husband & I only knew each other 11 months when we got married. We’ve been (mostly) happily married for 42 years. I haven’t pushed him off a cliff. yet...

    • @mariee.5912
      @mariee.5912 3 года назад +13

      👏👏👏👏

    • @mariannaagh5812
      @mariannaagh5812 3 года назад +16

      What I get from the policeman’s remark is... after abiut eight days, it might be OK 😂

    • @Ron4885
      @Ron4885 3 года назад +12

      lol cl robinson ------> *yet* :-)

    • @Mehki227
      @Mehki227 3 года назад +36

      Mine told me he loves me the night we met a week before Thanksgiving. Then, wanted to marry me that February. We ended up marrying Christmas Eve (a year and a month later). We've been together for 30 years. But then I didn't marry a sociopath.

    • @jasmineetienne1767
      @jasmineetienne1767 3 года назад +10

      Not yet😂😂😂😂 it is a joke ! Congratulations !

  • @bamaqueen2086
    @bamaqueen2086 3 года назад +163

    Divorce is so much better than spending 30 years in prison

    • @evelynwaugh4053
      @evelynwaugh4053 3 года назад +25

      An annulment might even have been possible.

    • @kayzbluegenes
      @kayzbluegenes 3 года назад +2

      speak for yourself 😉

    • @joshuamasterson7677
      @joshuamasterson7677 3 года назад +1

      Debatable.

    • @thereal4113
      @thereal4113 3 года назад +6

      @Alpha Omega I totally agree!!! My prison sentence was 27 years to my ex Mr. Happy. Untying the knot cost big bucks but Freedom from a NARCISSIST is priceless. 🌈

    • @flawlessstrategy9972
      @flawlessstrategy9972 3 года назад +2

      @Alpha Omega Yeah, I never understood getting the law involved to force another person to stay with you.
      I have an open door policy. If you wanna leave, you are free to do so at any time.

  • @normynbaits1135
    @normynbaits1135 3 года назад +390

    "Getting divorced would have resulted in less prison time."

    • @feleciaclemons5074
      @feleciaclemons5074 3 года назад +7

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @joellahart6602
      @joellahart6602 3 года назад +16

      What is wrong with people and their „divorce phobia“

    • @yes0r787
      @yes0r787 3 года назад +19

      ... And that's one of the reasons divorce is still more popular than murder.

    • @cjrrob7336
      @cjrrob7336 3 года назад +15

      Hahaha " most marriages don't result in any prison time"... He said with a straight face. 😅

    • @stephanwatson7902
      @stephanwatson7902 3 года назад +2

      Well when you have a narcissistic personality you want to pretend you're a great person, your Public Image is worth more than other people's lives. But narcissists are also literally mentally retarded, so they often get caught and look like much worse than if they just divorced their spouse

  • @HeKissedMe
    @HeKissedMe 3 года назад +214

    “Marriage can definitely be challenging, but there is never a good time for homicide.” -Dr Todd Grande 😅😂🤣

    • @transmeeshax6872
      @transmeeshax6872 3 года назад +3

      Self defense? But yeah... she’s guilty. Probably her parents fault for smothering her her whole life

    • @raquellofstedt9713
      @raquellofstedt9713 3 года назад +2

      Oh, I don´t know...

    • @djg5950
      @djg5950 2 года назад +3

      "Getting divorced would have resulted in less prison time." - Dr. Todd Grande. LOL ! I liked that one.

  • @Ben-tt3cg
    @Ben-tt3cg 3 года назад +584

    The speed at which Todd pounds out content is incredible.

    • @PushyPushyPhoenix
      @PushyPushyPhoenix 3 года назад +37

      *quality content 😁🍍

    • @scottmatznick3140
      @scottmatznick3140 3 года назад +24

      He's mastered the art of superposition; seeing patients while, at the same time, sitting in another building, simultaneously researching and recording videos.

    • @angelahamon6730
      @angelahamon6730 3 года назад +26

      Not only are the videos frequent but Dr Grande researches each one of them. it's amazing.

    • @angiet7380
      @angiet7380 3 года назад +29

      I wish I was as productive as he is 😍

    • @toocutepuppies6535
      @toocutepuppies6535 3 года назад +15

      It would be awesome if he ran out of material. But, sadly that's probably never gonna happen.

  • @wandacole5784
    @wandacole5784 3 года назад +157

    Todd grande is trying not to laugh at her email nonsense.

  • @horrortackleharry
    @horrortackleharry 3 года назад +248

    "I seriously disagree with you on several points, and will now argue very strongly against them. But first, we need to drive several miles to the nearest cliff-edge...."

  • @burntorangefan23
    @burntorangefan23 3 года назад +220

    “He was interested in beer” - relatable.

    • @joanam3070
      @joanam3070 3 года назад +20

      Beer never pushes you off of a cliff🤔

    • @jonimaricruz1692
      @jonimaricruz1692 3 года назад +27

      @@joanam3070 I had beer push me off a barstool a couple of times.

    • @burntorangefan23
      @burntorangefan23 3 года назад +11

      @@jonimaricruz1692 lmao it do be like that sometimes

    • @transmeeshax6872
      @transmeeshax6872 3 года назад +4

      Cb K honestly she doesn’t sound terrible just really really dumb. Then again dumb people can be really really dangerous even if their intentions are genuinely good

    • @joanam3070
      @joanam3070 3 года назад +2

      @@jonimaricruz1692 That's why I put this emoji, meaning in this case: Wait a minute... 😅

  • @22moonpie
    @22moonpie 3 года назад +70

    “Most divorces do not involve any prison time “ , classic Dr G ! 😂

  • @jenniferocious480
    @jenniferocious480 3 года назад +94

    “Homicidal buyers remorse”??? What does THAT receipt look like?!? And who’s at the customer service counter?!?😂😂😂😱😱😱

  • @SarahSmith-mu1wc
    @SarahSmith-mu1wc 3 года назад +102

    I just don't even understand why she married him. Poor guy.
    Edit: I'd also like to add that she's an idiot for thinking she would get away with this. 😂😂😂

    • @MicahBuzanANIMATION
      @MicahBuzanANIMATION 3 года назад +15

      I don't know murder is the solution that came to her mind. I do feel sorry for people like her in a way, because they are living with brains that are totally divorced from reality. It would be a miserable existence.

    • @sarah2.017
      @sarah2.017 3 года назад +1

      @@lesliecas2695 I agree totally.

    • @barbaragremaud3499
      @barbaragremaud3499 3 года назад

      @@lesliecas2695 Yeah, not smart.

    • @joanlynch5271
      @joanlynch5271 3 года назад +4

      I think that she did marry him to get away from her religious family.

  • @katdodd6211
    @katdodd6211 3 года назад +10

    True Crime has definitely taught me not to go to secluded areas with a ton of high Cliffs when your relationship is in trouble

  • @ELECTECHNUT
    @ELECTECHNUT 3 года назад +228

    He fell for her.
    (Sorry, someone had to say it.)😜
    Thank you Dr.Grande for your cliff notes on maintaining a good altitude. 😉

    • @static-tf2ji
      @static-tf2ji 3 года назад +17

      I dunno, seems like a real push over to me. 😉

    • @mrsmacca126
      @mrsmacca126 3 года назад +3

      😆 lol. Look out for the cliff. What cliiiiiii.....

  • @xaimara13
    @xaimara13 3 года назад +47

    I remember hearing about this case before, and I had the same thought back then... I don’t believe they were arguing at all, I believe she lured him out there by inviting him out to a romantic walk. I can imagine a couple walking, chatting and enjoying the nice scenery, I have done that with my husband. She just waited until he was close enough to the edge and pushed him.

    • @kathyclark8274
      @kathyclark8274 3 года назад +5

      Could be; no one will ever know for certain except Cody and he's not talking.
      If the wife/gf wanted to "bare her soul" by "coming clean" re her exact motives and/or actions, I still would place no confidence in her self-report since she has amply demonstrated already that she lies and is a dingbat.

    • @therealuncleowen2588
      @therealuncleowen2588 2 года назад +2

      I think actually pulling that off, luring him out for a romantic walk with the intention of killing him, would require a level of psychopathy she didn't exhibit. You'd have to be devoid of all feeling. I suspect this was not premeditated.

    • @aprilltaylor8870
      @aprilltaylor8870 2 года назад +11

      @@therealuncleowen2588 well there are text messages between Graham and friends saying that she had not had sex on her honeymoon and that she used being on her period to get out of it.
      Friends of his said the couple NEVER had sex for the 2 years they knew each other and not on her honeymoon.
      Johnson was with friends the day of his death they all told police that Johnson got a call from Graham which made him absolutely giddy. They ALL thought he was finally going to have sex with his wife. Johnson was still BLINDFOLDED when found so I'm not sure how that factors into her story but it does make sense if she called him and made him think she was finally ready for sex and to meet her out at the loop where she BLINDFOLDED him then pushed him off the cliff.

    • @therealuncleowen2588
      @therealuncleowen2588 2 года назад +4

      @@aprilltaylor8870 Thank you for providing this additional detail about the case.

    • @jeaniechampagne8831
      @jeaniechampagne8831 Год назад +2

      That's what I think and recall reading that she alluded this to a friend and even said 'dead serious'. She definitely lured him. Bad seed she is.

  • @kecola
    @kecola 3 года назад +45

    I knew about this story from some show on ID Discovery but I had NO idea that so many people were warning Cody not to marry her. Hearing that even the people at church were warning him creeps me tf out. How "off" was this girl that everyone and their mama knew that something was wrong with her? Why didn't he heed their warnings?

    • @mrsmacca126
      @mrsmacca126 3 года назад +8

      Why didn’t Travis listen, about Jodie Arias...

    • @kecola
      @kecola 3 года назад +2

      @@mrsmacca126 Jodi Arias was "sexually provocative" and attractive. This girl was a weird, socially awkward virgin. I really don't see the correlation between the 2 women.

    • @ninsuhnrey
      @ninsuhnrey 2 года назад +8

      "Why didn't he heed their warnings?"
      He was ticketed for driving 120mph in a 70mph zone - I think reckless was his middle name.

    • @djg5950
      @djg5950 2 года назад +4

      @@ninsuhnrey And not thinking about the consequences of his actions. This time he didn't get to pay a fine and get on with his life.

    • @commonsense2680
      @commonsense2680 Год назад +5

      That is the question, why didn't he listen to the many people who warned him. It is so sad to put your trust in a monster.

  • @millsykooksy4863
    @millsykooksy4863 3 года назад +36

    This is so sad, why marry him in the first place?!?!?! 😔 RIP Cody

    • @GoGreen1977
      @GoGreen1977 2 года назад +5

      Why did he marry her??

  • @arjealywisseh773
    @arjealywisseh773 3 года назад +9

    I agree with the statement about "learning to argue". I think people run away from arguments way too much that they never learn patience and how to have a healthy argument. A healthy amount of argument can make the marriage stronger and allow you to learn something new about your partner.

  • @speicaldark
    @speicaldark 3 года назад +47

    This is very interesting! I wonder how Jordan's family shaped her behavior. It sounds like her entire social experiences are "being a child" at home and at her workplace. The constant presence of a total stranger in her life must have been a shock to her

    • @itsjustlaurel1531
      @itsjustlaurel1531 3 года назад +14

      I think it was more that she was a homicidal narcissist.

    • @MsSilverTulip
      @MsSilverTulip 2 года назад +15

      @@itsjustlaurel1531 there are no signs that she was a narcissist at all. She seems to have had an intellectual disability and perhaps autism. She was terrified Cody would push her into sex now they're married. Her family would have probably taught her that sex is sinful.

    • @kingayy9267
      @kingayy9267 2 года назад +9

      @Silver Tulip
      RUclips commenters should learn the symptoms before they diagnose people from the comfort of their armchair.

    • @dankadesign7462
      @dankadesign7462 Год назад +1

      @@kingayy9267 we dont diagnose -just speculating what can happens and expresing our opinions(which we have right )...I think she was unprepared for adulhood and most likely been awkward due to upbringing.

    • @nimue4325
      @nimue4325 Год назад

      @@dankadesign7462 Also Dr. Grande is open to our feedback and opinions. I think she, the wife, was suffering from some mental illness and her husband could only see the more innocent nicer side of her personality. It's a pity the mental illness aspect of the case was not explored in greater depth as clearly orhers noted something amiss.

  • @alice_rabbit8345
    @alice_rabbit8345 3 года назад +72

    A good relationship till the last 300 feet or so!!

    • @rayross997
      @rayross997 3 года назад +7

      She didn't let him down easy.

    • @afx935
      @afx935 2 года назад +1

      It was good to the last drop

  • @TheWorstThingEver
    @TheWorstThingEver 3 года назад +78

    She practically committed the perfect crime...until she started speaking.

  • @imogenstroud1024
    @imogenstroud1024 3 года назад +21

    To me, it sounds like she was autistic and didn't know it and no one else did. It would explain a lot of her behaviour. The immaturity, not thinking things through (not being able to), interacting better with kids than adults, potential black and white thinking, especially in regards to her religion, and one that jumped out at me, people saying what is wrong with her. Also her shyness, quietness and introversion. They are pretty typical signs in girls

    • @tnijoo5109
      @tnijoo5109 3 года назад +6

      I had that same impression when he was describing the way her friends saw her.

    • @EquippedwithStrength
      @EquippedwithStrength Год назад +4

      I thought this too. And the extreme reaction (not that autism makes you a killer)

  • @TiaCatR
    @TiaCatR 3 года назад +11

    I was hoping Dr. Grande had covered this case. The lingering question I have about this case is why was Jordan so absolutely terrified of having sex with her very cute husband? She made many comments to her friends that she was nervous and afraid to have sex. She did come from a very sheltered background, and could've just been frightened of the unknown, but my gut tells me something happened to her as a child. Otherwise why would she think sex would be painful and/or unpleasant? If she had been molested as a child, that might explain why she felt that way. It also might explain her maladjusted, awkward and immature personality - she was emotionally stunted at the age when the abuse happened. Just a theory.

    • @stepford702
      @stepford702 9 месяцев назад

      I know this is old. But her biological father was my stepfather. He and all of the other Grahams in his family are narcissists and abusers and violent and sexual predators. To make it clear, I've never met her. She's never met me. But she also has never met her biological father. And yet the genes run strong!

    • @stepford702
      @stepford702 9 месяцев назад

      As matter of fact for a very long time she didn't even know that my stepdad was her biological father. She thought it was the man that her mother was with when she was growing up. If her mother kept the same taste of men, It's definitely possible something happened to her as a child. I didn't follow the story too closely because it's a little triggering for me. Having this video pop up on my feed threw me for a loop.

    • @derpestarzt
      @derpestarzt 9 месяцев назад

      I think if they tested her they'd probably find she has the intellectual level of 8 year old at max. So it seems to me she just didn't like to deal with any sort of problem or discomfort, so pushing him to his death would be fast and convenient for someone with her intellect, rather than going through a divorce etc.

  • @calimango7926
    @calimango7926 3 года назад +11

    Next time I have a presentation for school, I'm going to channel Dr. Grande energy. His eloquence and ease of speech is so inspiring! 😊

  • @ericka7086
    @ericka7086 3 года назад +7

    "and she noticed he wasn't there anymore." Love it Dr. Grande! As simple as that!! 😂❤❤

  • @rullmourn1142
    @rullmourn1142 3 года назад +11

    I remember this case, one of the weirdest murder cases I've ever seen, as well as completely senseless.

  • @megschmeedafamc
    @megschmeedafamc 3 года назад +41

    Thank you for covering this case!! I live in Montana. This is such a bizarre case. Wonderful work, as always.

  • @violetfemme411
    @violetfemme411 3 года назад +11

    I've heard several true crime channels cover this case and one thing I didn't hear you address was Jordan's panicked text message to her best friend regarding her absolute terror and even disgust at having sex with her husband. In my opinion it was the thing she most feared. She had no male friends and seemed extremely uncomfortable and uninterested in dating. She was supposedly very religious but she was more afraid of sex with her husband than killing him? I don't believe for one second that her issues were simply created by a strict upbringing. I have believed from the 1st time I heard this case that Jordan had a fear and even disgust toward the idea of intimacy with any adult male. I also believe her "girlfriends" convinced her to date and marry even though she showed zero interest in Cody and never expressed any normal romantic feelings or interest of any kind towards him. Yet no one has suggested in any analysis I've heard that her indifference and even disgust of the idea of consummating her marriage might simply be repressed, misunderstood or misguided feelings regarding her sexuality and the happiness and comfort she found in women. I do believe her church and strong religious beliefs would have made her fear of "coming out" impossible in her mind. Being so sheltered and uniformed about such a possibilty was likely in her mind an unforgivable sin, and Cody's "fall" a lesser evil. Of course this is only my opinion but I'm curious as to why it hasn't come up in any discussion or analysis regarding this case.

    • @ashes2ashes394
      @ashes2ashes394 8 месяцев назад +2

      Damn !! That makes so much sense !!! Great theory!!!

    • @violetfemme411
      @violetfemme411 8 месяцев назад

      @@ashes2ashes394 Thanks!

    • @AliceiaNaethe
      @AliceiaNaethe 3 месяца назад +1

      Jordan basically raised me till I was 9 and the church she went to was my grandparents church and anything about women being attracted to women was highly unacceptable there I know that there’s a lot more to the story then just her sexuality and I 100% believe Cody controlled and mentally if not physically abused her I was basically her kid and before she got with him she answered my calls within the first few rings but after she got with him it took so many calls to get her to answer and she told me a few years ago that it was because he didn’t want her to answer me even though he knew she was basically my mom

  • @thomasdadswell858
    @thomasdadswell858 3 года назад +51

    I'd let Dr.Grande write me a pun ridden wedding song ;D

  • @teeelle427
    @teeelle427 3 года назад +25

    I was just looking at old videos of yours to watch while waiting for your video and here it is!! Thank you for coming through again. I love learning from you 🙂

    • @calico-kat-mom6204
      @calico-kat-mom6204 3 года назад +2

      I also like learning from Doctor Grande everyday I look for a new video and I learn something, thanks doc

    • @W31679
      @W31679 3 года назад

      Me too

  • @rejaneoliveira5019
    @rejaneoliveira5019 3 года назад +14

    This crime feels so tragic and senseless. It is so easy to look at this situation and think- ok the marriage was a mistake, get a divorce and move on. However, we never know what goes on in people’s minds. What may appear like a straightforward decision to one person may look like a precipice to another person. Nevertheless, it does not justify murder.
    Thank you for another thought-provoking video Dr. Grande! ❤️

  • @csen5636
    @csen5636 3 года назад +2

    How Dr Grande can look straight at the camera and make long verbatim quotes of emails, interviews, documents, etc, baffles me. Did he really memorize everything? That's awesome! Another superb video, thank you!

  • @istateyourname4710
    @istateyourname4710 3 года назад +21

    Dr. G: Hardest working 'plant' Manager on YT.💜🌵

  • @alialabbas1982
    @alialabbas1982 3 года назад +26

    "Graham was really a bad person because she killed her husband in only 8 days" 😂😂

  • @lnc-to4ku
    @lnc-to4ku 3 года назад +11

    I feel so bad for Cody!!
    But your zingers made me laugh from beginning to end!!😂
    Love the little cacti setup too!

  • @Kempy13
    @Kempy13 3 года назад +18

    An alternative song choice would be the fact based classic "You Are the Wind Beneath my Very Real Absence of Wings"

  • @redram5150
    @redram5150 3 года назад +10

    If she were found not guilty, she’d have had difficulty keeping the kids in line at her daycare. Imagine her telling little Johnny not to roughhouse. It’s not nice to others. Then he fires back with “My mommy said you pushed your husband off a cliff. You’re not fair at all!”

  • @h-lorolltide92
    @h-lorolltide92 3 года назад +3

    I don't know what I love more about Dr. Grande's videos. The fact that his analysis is always spot on, or the fact that his incredible wit and sarcasm will have me LOL in every episode.

  • @clonaztevedreamkiller5277
    @clonaztevedreamkiller5277 3 года назад +3

    I looked away from this channel for like three months and when I came back Dr. Grande has a brick wall and a WICKED FUNNY comedy routine. Glad I came back

    • @kathyclark8274
      @kathyclark8274 3 года назад

      Yes, rather than "Publish or Perish," Dr. G's epiphany taught him he must "Adapt or Perish."

  • @kiffanyevans4979
    @kiffanyevans4979 3 года назад +6

    This case was crazy! The case was going to be tried in my home town of Missoula MT until she pled guilty. Great analysis! 💕

  • @annebfprado
    @annebfprado 2 года назад +8

    Always appreciate how you break down their (apparent) personality traits! It seems people noticed Jordan being naive more than they noticed her neuroticism (which prob was what made her freak out and think she needed to do something this drastic). That said, I don’t believe that she fought with him in a dangerous place out of being naive/childish. I think she knew what she was doing. She said herself that it was a place he wanted to see before he died (almost like she did something good for him in deciding where to kill him). To me she comes across as much more narcissistic and neurotic than naive/immature (though being naive/immature certainly didn’t help).

  • @lauramarie9131
    @lauramarie9131 3 года назад +3

    I'm a fan of Dr. Grande's lyrical song stylings.

  • @maureeningleston1501
    @maureeningleston1501 3 года назад +5

    Loved this one and the humour was brilliant as always Dr Grande, but I also found your honest advice about getting to know each other well, over a long period of time and learning how not to argue, but also learning "how too argue" that advice is excellent for all young couples.

  • @carolynwilson7806
    @carolynwilson7806 3 года назад +24

    They’d known each other more than 2 years when they got married. How much longer of a courtship should they have had? Any comment about the reason the husband didn’t take seriously any of the warnings about not marrying her. When members of her church warned him, this should have been a big red flag!

    • @2006glg
      @2006glg 3 года назад +4

      She probably wasn't into men and didn't know it for sure until her wedding night. Not hard to see that considering how religious , sheltered and suppressed she was. But she can't come out and she can't be endure being with him with wifely duties as the religious call it - so she killed him.

    • @RosieGirlRose101
      @RosieGirlRose101 3 года назад +2

      they didnt live together until their wedding night. I feel like living with a partner is important when wanting to get married. Going from living with parents (not having a lot of responsibilities in the home) to living with a partner (TONS of responsibilities) is a bit transition. I can't fault her for not adjusting very well to that-it takes time. She still shouldn't have killed him though.

    • @mimikaps7358
      @mimikaps7358 3 года назад +2

      @@RosieGirlRose101 They never even got to sleep together. She kept on making excuses. She used the promise of sex to lure him to the spot where she pushed him. 😞

    • @RosieGirlRose101
      @RosieGirlRose101 3 года назад +1

      @@mimikaps7358 OH YIKES!!! Then she probably was gay! That's hard to deal wiht too if you're coming from an uptight religious home! This is why its hard for me to grapple with religious ideologies sometimes!

  • @starstarstar4643
    @starstarstar4643 3 года назад +14

    This is what was on True Crime Daily:
    - fiancé wanted sex she said "lets wait until we get married"
    -after marriage she kept saying my period is really bad to stop him from asking about sex all the time
    -husband got frustrated having second thoughts about the marriage, but thats not true, i believed she blindfolded him "to surprise him with something" and she pushed him off the cliff
    This was my conclusion as to why she murdered her husband:
    - she more than likely she was constantly sexually molested when she was younger
    -she still wanted marriage and companionship but was probably traumatized by her past and took her anger out on her husband

    • @NOCDIB
      @NOCDIB 2 года назад

      Or she is asexual.

    • @alexandrarodriguez9087
      @alexandrarodriguez9087 2 года назад +3

      The best theory I’ve heard yet I agree

    • @jeaniechampagne8831
      @jeaniechampagne8831 Год назад +6

      Honestly, it could have been something as trivial as how he fried eggs, put the lid on the peanut butter or even his farts. There is definitely something wrong with her.

    • @jenm9099
      @jenm9099 Год назад

      Nah. It appears that she was EXTREMELY sheltered and was prob home schooled. I also have to believe she was on the Autism spectrum. What adult woman believes the cops would just drop it once the Tony emails were mentioned?! Maybe a 10 year old?

  • @alimar0604
    @alimar0604 3 года назад +11

    Oh Dr Grande! Your best shirt ever and I haven't even listened to your presentation yet. 😍🇬🇧

    • @emilykliemann4346
      @emilykliemann4346 3 года назад +2

      I love it too. That color suits you Dr.G❤️

    • @alimar0604
      @alimar0604 3 года назад +2

      @@emilykliemann4346 I think pastels is the way but he still looks handsome in dark

  • @wigglebolt4079
    @wigglebolt4079 3 года назад +2

    Hey awesome! Im the one that asked you to do this topic on Twitter, thanks! It’s a case that’s always stuck with me because how does a young girl go from being a “good” person to murdering her husband. This was very insightful.

    • @mrsmacca126
      @mrsmacca126 3 года назад +1

      Please- since you have influence- I am Begging you: ask for IAN BAILEY: WEST CORK- the Sophie Toscan DuPlantier case. 🙏 🙏

  • @MrLarrySunshine
    @MrLarrySunshine 3 года назад +1

    Your deadpan delivery is so beautiful! 😂 I often have to pause the video so I don't miss anything while I laugh! Brilliant! Thank you!

  • @MicahBuzanANIMATION
    @MicahBuzanANIMATION 3 года назад +3

    This is a very sad example of how poor impulse control in one moment can change the course of one's entire life. If the prefrontal cortex isn't functioning or damaged in some way it becomes really hard to manage emotional impulses. It's kind of like a car not having the brakes to slow down before hitting a person on the road. Very sad.

    • @omars1982
      @omars1982 3 года назад

      If a guy did this, hes evil. If a girl does this its impulse control. .smh

  • @wrp3621
    @wrp3621 3 года назад +4

    The good Dr.s' advice, " Get to know someone before entering a long term relationship". As in, look before you leap.

    • @mrsmacca126
      @mrsmacca126 3 года назад

      AndDO NOT BUY SHOES, WITHOUT TRYING THEM ON.

  • @sueh273
    @sueh273 3 года назад +2

    Dr. Grande's content is continuously interesting. Love the cases he covers.

  • @MissMovies
    @MissMovies 3 года назад +2

    I watched a recap on this case a week ago and now I’m mad I didn’t wait because this analysis is so much better than seeing the same wedding photo thousands of times in the other channel’s recap video (as though they only took one photo together).

  • @jeffha4057
    @jeffha4057 3 года назад +39

    I've never been this early. I don't even know what to say.

  • @yes0r787
    @yes0r787 3 года назад +10

    "Marriage can be challenging, but there is never a good time for a homicide." Yes, Dr. Grande, I couldn't agree more!

  • @tessamary1017
    @tessamary1017 3 года назад +1

    Another brilliant analysis Dr G. A good watch for all of us regarding challenges within relationships and marriage, not only the positives but for moments when emotional feelings become unbalanced. Walking away to take a breath and time out to find compromise being so important here and for us all. Thank you 🙏

  • @jenm9099
    @jenm9099 3 года назад +2

    I laughed out loud at Dr. Grande's version of the wedding song.

  • @blazinvenus3914
    @blazinvenus3914 3 года назад +5

    Aww geeze those 1 liners!!🤣🤣🤣 this was hilarious 🤣 😆 Thanx for making this Sunday afternoon better!🤣🤣🤣

    • @blazinvenus3914
      @blazinvenus3914 3 года назад

      Think I need to listen to this one again! 🤣🤣

  • @ashleyjames6740
    @ashleyjames6740 3 года назад +25

    I'm so early I'm essentially having a conversation with the good Doctor.

    • @kathyclark8274
      @kathyclark8274 3 года назад +1

      Was the "Bad Doctor" unavailable? 🤪

  • @user-cs1un6sp1wRennata
    @user-cs1un6sp1wRennata 3 года назад +1

    "There is no murder anniversary" 🤭 Dr. Grande you are definitely the best analyst I've seen! You know absolutely everything about humans and never miss anything about them in your psychoanalysis.I can learn a lot. So, thank you for that. ♡

  • @mikkiduf
    @mikkiduf 3 года назад +1

    Your videos and analyses get better and better Dr Grande!!!! Thank you!!!!!

  • @rylicomusic7505
    @rylicomusic7505 3 года назад +3

    Your content never fails to get me through the workday.
    .
    Could you please do an analysis of the Welsh singer Ian Watkins and his horrendous downfall?

  • @Missliz441
    @Missliz441 3 года назад +7

    “You helped me to climb higher for a better view, then you send me plunging to my death” 😂

  • @autumnedwards4448
    @autumnedwards4448 3 года назад +2

    Getting divorced would have caused less prison time😂😂Sound advice from the good doctor. Thank for your analysis Dr Grande! I love that you have a new video every day!💚💚

  • @dwolfy8916
    @dwolfy8916 3 года назад +2

    11:26 - "Just a reminder, I'm not advising anyone on how to get away with murder in this video, only speculating on what could be happening in a situation like a perfect crime."

  • @TJ-th1bo
    @TJ-th1bo 3 года назад +3

    Thank you Doc!

  • @davidmenke7552
    @davidmenke7552 3 года назад +19

    "...then you sent me plunging to my death" 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @beeenterprise5460
    @beeenterprise5460 3 года назад +1

    Your videos are the absolute best! You always provide such accurate and thorough analysis. I have especially enjoyed the ways in which you have inserted your humor into your most recent videos!😂 ...and with a straight face too! I love it! Please keep it up Doc!❤️❤️❤️

  • @lynnepaulocsak122
    @lynnepaulocsak122 3 года назад +1

    Excellent work as always. I look forward to your posts.

  • @wmdkitty
    @wmdkitty 3 года назад +15

    [pushes orange-puff cactus off the table]
    What's up with this continued urge to push things off of tables?

    • @heatherhoffman9869
      @heatherhoffman9869 3 года назад +2

      Is it really called an orange puff cactus or is that just what you're calling it? Either way, I like it!

    • @watermelonwishes4193
      @watermelonwishes4193 3 года назад +3

      Better than pushing anyone off a cliff...

    • @Danari7
      @Danari7 3 года назад +6

      Obviously, an unheard, not understood cry for help. Dr. D., if you are in distress, wear a yellow shirt in your next video.

    • @aplusrecommends9406
      @aplusrecommends9406 3 года назад +4

      You're a cat.

    • @mrsmacca126
      @mrsmacca126 3 года назад

      Dana Riesenfeld why?? In case the plants are holding him hostage and forcing him to post?!?!?! 😆

  • @whimsical_me5135
    @whimsical_me5135 3 года назад +8

    Couples absolutely save everything from each other. We even save Snapchat messages. So deleting texts is just a ludicrous excuse.

  • @lilymarchan4028
    @lilymarchan4028 3 года назад

    love you and your videos! thanks for blessing us!

  • @cottontails9003
    @cottontails9003 3 года назад +1

    "There is no anniversaries for murder homicide " LOL. Thank you Dr Grande I think that little homily sums up this case the best. Thank you Dr Grande, love the analysis and the topic. Dr Grande ,hope you have a safe and happy day.

  • @2manybooks2littletime25
    @2manybooks2littletime25 3 года назад +8

    She should have consulted Dr. Grande before she talked with law enforcement. His advice to say nothing would have saved her a long prison sentence!🤭

    • @moxiemaxie3543
      @moxiemaxie3543 3 года назад +2

      Have you seen murder cases? They tend to not listen to their lawyer or advisors

  • @daveyoder9231
    @daveyoder9231 3 года назад +3

    New lighting? Love the moving cactus art!
    I think this is an example of limited insight on both sides, possibly caused by lack of wider experience. Montana is gorgeous, but has very few people for its size.

  • @sourpatchkid394
    @sourpatchkid394 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for the tip, Dr Grande

  • @meggallucci5300
    @meggallucci5300 3 года назад

    Best plant arrangement yet. Balanced and visually pleasing. Good work.

  • @birchlover3377
    @birchlover3377 3 года назад +3

    The second charge of "providing false information to the national park service" is such a non-sequitur to murder lol

  • @judem1359
    @judem1359 3 года назад +6

    “Makes the selection of a gift a lot easier....” lol!!!

    • @erikparent8176
      @erikparent8176 3 года назад +1

      Yes, possibly packs of cigarettes, which may be quite tradable during incarceration! 🚬

  • @freemeow
    @freemeow 3 года назад

    I love that you upload so frequently!

  • @BoopsNstuff
    @BoopsNstuff 3 года назад +2

    Dr. Grande for Life! 💜🌱🪴🎍🌴

  • @em3195
    @em3195 3 года назад +5

    Dr. Grande could you do an analysis of Claire Miller 14yo girl who killed her sister?

  • @rayross997
    @rayross997 3 года назад +14

    Please do an analysis of criminal profiling. Do you think it is really as accurate as so many claim? Thanks Dr. Grande.

    • @emilykliemann4346
      @emilykliemann4346 3 года назад +4

      Good suggestion 👍

    • @ember1794
      @ember1794 3 года назад +1

      Oh, yeah!! That would be really interesting!!

    • @SHurd-rc2go
      @SHurd-rc2go 3 года назад

      Because it always sounds so general; could be anyone that fits those parameters.

  • @adrianjanssens7116
    @adrianjanssens7116 2 года назад +2

    I can see this behaviour happening. I tried to convince my brother not to marry a particularly odd young woman to no avail. After six months, the marriage had not been consummated. The Catholic Church annulled the marriage. Sad experience for him.

  • @arminunruh452
    @arminunruh452 3 года назад

    thank you so much for your videos!

  • @Mandy-qo8cj
    @Mandy-qo8cj 3 года назад +3

    Hey Dr. Grande! I was wondering if someone with Grandiose Narcissism can ever be able to be empathize and learn to alter their behaviors?

  • @hunsolo1205
    @hunsolo1205 3 года назад +6

    ‘Most divorces do not involve any prison time.’ - 😆😆😆

  • @valaries.5944
    @valaries.5944 3 года назад

    Don't go to a, dangerous place to have a fight. Your deadpan humor. A teachable moment. Thank you Dr. G!

  • @kathryndennis6390
    @kathryndennis6390 3 года назад +1

    I love this channel so much. Dr Grande is fascinating and insightful. I wish he was my Dr!

  • @Arbee1000
    @Arbee1000 3 года назад +4

    I remember being fascinated by this case and wishing there was more RUclips content about it...so thanks :) I'd be curious to see Jordan interviewed in present day and find out what she thinks about her case now...not just about killing her husband, but how she feels about her hair-brained behavior afterward

  • @patriciarivas2638
    @patriciarivas2638 3 года назад +3

    Yes, most of us go to a loop to drop kick our new husband over the cliff.

  • @JennWatson
    @JennWatson 3 года назад +1

    Well done as per usual !

  • @christaporche
    @christaporche 3 года назад

    I really appreciate Dr. Grande's dry humor!! He is often hilarious.

  • @jetsetgem4903
    @jetsetgem4903 3 года назад +12

    Please discuss the Jesse James Hollywood case

  • @ElleE953
    @ElleE953 3 года назад +3

    I don’t know if you have covered the disappearance of Susan Powell and the subsequent murder of her children by father Josh Powell. I’d be interested to hear your take on the case.

  • @juliacamacho7749
    @juliacamacho7749 3 года назад +1

    Dr, this video from the part of the song for the wedding, turns into I can only laugh louder!.
    Such a good humor! I love your channel.

  • @monicagonzalez3490
    @monicagonzalez3490 3 года назад

    Good advice on courtship by Dr. Grande!