Once upon a time, I was a certified nurse assistant. The clients with MS did develop personality changes, and it varied according to their original atittudes i.e. their OCEAN scores, I htink would affect the outcome and I could imagine someone taking advantage of a patient.
Well, one answer is Sandra and her son cooked up the plan between them -- pointing fingers at one another created enough reasonable doubt. And they also lucked into an incompetent police investigation.
I like how the Euphorbia Trigona (African Milk Tree) cactus is now 3 1/2 bricks tall! How thoughtful of you to wear a yellow shirt to promote your babies' growth! 💛🌞
Fabulously observant and impressive you can identify it. I worked at my uncles flower shop for years and the only plants I still remember are roses and orchids.
This is such a sweet and wholesome observation 💕 Dr. Grande has some beautiful plant bbs... maybe he can work some gardening advice into his videos 😉 Shout out to all the fellow plant lovers out there! 🌵🍀🌱💚
I was looking at that too, hoping he didn't move it and I'd forget where it was up to on the wall, and just as I was thinking, I'm probably the only person in the world that has random thoughts like this...😂
The yellow is the best color yet. I'd love to see Dr. Grande in a short sleeve, too. Maybe he'll do a summer series in a short sleeve and sunglasses 🕶 😎
Dr. Grande, this is not only a brilliant analysis of horrible police work but also of two strange murderers named Sandra and a mythical killer in need of talk therapy. This show keeps getting better...🙂
Purely out of coincedence, I've been taking note of a few incedences of very similar crimes that would seem to be connected, but aren't. Ilene Misheloff was kidnapped in Dublin, Ca in 1989. There were two other kidnappings of girls at the time with a number of striking similarities. Police have solved one, and believe they know who is responsible for the other, but do not believe Ilene's case is related. At the time Kristin Smarts disappearance, there were a few other girls who disappeared from colleges near San Louise Obispo. Similar M.O., but the most recent developments would confirm previous theories that they are not realted. It seems weird how these things seem to congregate near eachother.
I believe that Wesley killed him, and Sondra knew it was him. She was trying to protect Wesley by making up the story about a stranger. Wesley then threw Sondra under the bus.
Yeah, I think the same. Sandra wouldn't put the gun in her own car. Unless she's a complete idiot. And what's her motive? She needed the husband to help her, due to her MS.
Seems more likely Sandra did it that Wesley, but I agree, it could be either. Dr. Grande said 85/15 Sandra did it. I'd say more like 70% Sandra did it, 30% chance Wesley did it and Sandra either conspired with or covered for Wesley. Either way, neither scenario is anywhere close to beyond a reasonable doubt and the jury made the right call.
Of the two, I thought it more likely that Wesley was the killer. The speed with which he accused his mother was suspicious, especially if he was not at the scene.
We put the HIT in hitman😂😂Dr Grande there are so many hilarious gems in this one! Thank you for being awesome! And that yellow shirt definitely looks great on you!😍💛
Another similarity with the Sandra Melgar case is that both defendants were suffering debilitating illness. If I remember accurately, Ms. Melgar had seizure disorder and either arthritis or MS, I can't recall which.
🔥 I cant tell you, Dr Grande, though perhaps tonight after consuming an excessive amount of alcohol, how funny I find you and how I go to you to find out exactly what is going on in relation to a particular case I might hear about. You are so concise. This one especially made me laugh out loud. Thank you for your genius and extremely quick wit Dr Grande. Today my youngest turned 18. Bitter sweet ❤
There are many life lessons to be taken away from this tragic story. Most importantly, if you have a 3 letter name and live in Texas, don't marry a woman named Sandra.
Another great vid, thank you 🤗 Wow, that comparison was eye opening! How valuable it can be, to have a legal team, that's skilled at physiologically breaking down jurors; and, getting the most persuasive one(s) on your side from day one.
Ah yes, yellow is my favorite color! Needed that on this cold and wet day. Thank you again for grinding for our entertainment! 😊👍 wish I could monetarily help.
My one addition that tilts my suspicion to it being Sandra includes her having MS (via some brief work with those with MS). Over a longer time, MS can have certain cognitive impacts, some times creating emotional lability, becoming self preoccupied and demanding. Often even getting resentfully upset with their carers, and even building up somewhat distorted grudges over any slights, real or imagined.Though the physical impairments would usually restrict them from taking any aggressive forms of action. Problem is a firearm can be too easy to use. Had Sandra been sufficiently agitated it could have impacted on her sleep and allow her to get up and research killing.The issues with MS cognitively would explain her further lack of planning and herself to look up coffee machines to settle herself instead of step 2 re concealment of crime weapons etc..Secondly her physical restrictions would impede concealing the weapon more effectively. Whereas Wesley would most likely properly dispose of a weapon if he had used it.
Hi Dr. Grande! Thank you for the daily videos. Is it possible to include more videos not related to case analyses of famous (infamous) cases and people? I like the educational videos on mental health conditions, or case analyses of different health conditions, or role playing ?
Show idea. Herve Villechaize. He’s the dwarf actor from “Fantasy Island.” Villechaize committed suicide. He was anything but the sweet little person we saw in the show.
Problem is Sandra could have said it was lizard people and the outcome would have been the same. There was no way the state could prove either Sandra or Wesley did it. There was far too much reasonable doubt and even I have no idea who did it. I tend to think something like 70% Sandra did it, 30% Wesley did it and Sandra was in on planning it and/or covered for him after the fact. Even if the investigation were competent, I'm still not sure either person could have been convicted.
I look at Ellis county inmate roster for fun from time to time (I’m from there) and saw her name and profile for the longest. You had more info than what I found on line. I wondered why I stopped seeing her name lol. Thanks for the video!
This truly shows how people get away with murder all the time, i always say that to people because its just naive to think that even every stupid killer gets caught. Thank you for your great work Dr. Grande. 👍🇦🇫
i love your channel. im totally into it, psychotherapist myself. I must say every case is much more interesting with a photo of the suspect in the background for the entire time. Even if its always the same photo....i loose interest/track when i just follow the monologue and stare at the cactus😂
Are there different shades of murder, Dr. Grande? It seems you wear at least 25 shades of shirts on the murder issue. Great Job as always, Dr. Grande !!! :)
I think it is entirely possible that, in fact, a the killer was someone John previously fired. I also think, that Sandra knew the killer. Maybe they've known each other earlier, maybe he reached out to her at some point. I think in some ways she helped that mysterious person, to kill her husband. As for her son, maybe he accidentally overheard something, while his mother was talking on the phone, or something like that, he didn't understand exactly what he head, thus his statement for the police. Ps. The killer probably did tell Sandra, about how tough his childhood was. 😉
Crazy. Another great video! Dr Grande, I would be VERY interested in hearing your thoughts on Michelle Blair. I am particularly interested in knowing if you think she truly thought her children were commiting the acts she claims. If so, was there hope for children? Did they have a chance to be rehabilitated and be able to function in society with a quality of life? I completely agree with your analysis and always appreciate your knowledge.
Loving the yellow shirt, very spring. The most talkative killer ever,lol. Oh,my favorite plant has disappeared again, but the other ones are looking really great. Thank you for the video 🌿🌳🌱
I want to talk about Sandra's MS. I had my first relapsing-remitting flares when I was 11, 15, 17, 21 at 24 I got Lyme in Aug 1974 at an Air show along with a bad sunburn that had me spiking a fever that same evening. Then flu like symptoms for a week When the sunburn faded I was left with round red spots on my thighs and abdomen. In January I got a bad flu that was going around except I could not walk to the bathroom without help and I had a horrible headache that lasted 15 yrs. I did go in and was given antibiotics for strep throat and infected ears a first. I never recovered from that flu until I was finally diagnosed with both at an MS Clinic and started getting some treatment but not strong enoug or long enough until 2011. I was quick to anger about injustices but never acted in anger instead I would try to gently speak to the abuser as someone that was concerned about what the consequences for irrational anger would be for the abuser. I was largely successful until I had been living with the pain and debility ofvLyme which made MS flares months not years apart. Suddenly I started getting extremely strong feelings of anger at people in my family that had abused me in the past that I thought I had forgiven. There was no obvious trigger other than it a almost never happened in the morning and was worse if I had a cold or flu, missed sleep or fam I'll y emergency. It terrified me so I dealt with it by grabbing something with protein and carbs to eat plus a glass of water. Go to my bedroom and lay down sometimes I would nap and eventually the feelings would go within 3 hrs. I carry bugs and rodents out of the house rather than kill them. I stopped physically fighting with my siblings by the time I was four. I was terrified it might get worse. It shook my self esteem. I had nobody to talk to about it. I did try to bring it up when my other symptoms took me to a doctor but they did not see it like I did and gave me generic advice. Both MS and Lyme affect the brain in bad ways. MS overviews all say moods and even character can change from a flare of either. It was the no motive aspect that rang a bell. If Sandra was having mood or other brain inflammation symptoms she might not have been able to pull out when they first started happening. I think my specific irrational total anger is rare but then I was afraid of consequences if I admitted how strong the feelings were. A study of long term treatment of persistent Lyme another bioweapon with a number #33 in Duluth included members of the MS support Group that met at the same time in adjoining rooms of a clinic attatched to a hospital. 3 people previously b diagnosed with MS but having classic Lyme symptoms alternated meetings and all decided to be in the study as controls of a sort. Antibiotic treatment just kept the Lyme from getting new symptoms or worse for 6 mos for anyone. Between six months and a year more people had Lyme symptoms start going away some stopped at the year mark the test was scheduled for. 20% of MS patients had recoveries after 6 months. They decided to extend the study and more people recovered including another 5% of THE MS and all but a handful of those with Lyme. I was not in that study and I got a second Strain of Lyme on a vacation in KY and TN Aug 1988 and was totally disabled again by Oct. My two sons and I were offered places at a very kind relative who stuck with me until 2011 a year long. pulsing of antibiotics and antiparasitics for some of THE 14 other disease carried by ticksv ( the boys were married with kids in their own homes My MS was declared in remission in 2015, Lyme was also undetectable. The angry periods would leave when my Lyme symptoms. I had one flare of MS this spring after getting Omni from my Early Jan dental appointment. I had put myself in isolation in Jan 2020 as my Lyme contacts led me to people who knew about the pandemic before it was announced to have made it to America. I knew I was not strong enough to survive the original strains of Covid. As I write this I do remember some conversations 1998-2010. about Lyme Rage with people newly diagnosed, when they brought it up Way out on a limb here but possible.7
"The world's most loquacious killer." 🤣😂😅 Oh come on Dr. Grande, you don't remember all those episodes of Scoobie Doo where the villains would give long confessions?!😅🤣😂
Hey! Love your channel! Could you do an episode focusing on the netflix docu series The Keeper and murder of Sister Cathy Cesnik? Could you also discuss trauma and repressed memories? Could you also analyze Father Joseph Maskell?
@@alexandraa5424 Father Joseph Maskell would be so interesting!!! There were so many quotes from the docu series that stuck out. The alter boy who went on to become a detective, who said Father Maskel gave him an evil stare which said “how dare you question me.” He said he did not see that kind of stare again until interviewing murderers. A friend of Father Joseph Maskell said it was hard to believe Father Maskell could have committed these crimes, because Father Maskell seemed so normal. Father Joseph Maskell is so scary. It seems he was able to blend into the community, appear completely normal, while also regularly sexually abusing young girls, and possibly committing murder.
It was Wesley. I REALLY believe that. He was quick to give this info to the cops before even being ASKED. I don't know if she KNEW or not, but I definitely do not think SHE planned or executed this murder. Wesley knew EVERYTHING.
@ Dr. Grande and community... I am surprised that no one blamed the victim in this case as a possible suspect? It is one thing for a smaller law enforcement agency to lack sufficient resources yet it is another thing when some serious criminal investigation steps are missed! As always a fan of your whit and sarcasm! ❤️🤔✊🇺🇸😜
@@xxxyz1004 I hope you understand that I’m not diagnosing anyone. I’m just discussing some of the chromatic and sartorial factors that might be going on in a shirt like this.
Maypearl is a small town with population less than 1k. I spent allot of time there as a child because my grandparents lived there. The year before this happened their chef of police was sentence 40 years for sexual assault on a child. It is crazy when I think so many things happen in this tiny little town, I knew so well.
I think Wesley did it and Sandra tried to cover for him. He, out of gratitude, tried to throw her under the bus.
same
that makes so much sense actually
That's exactly what I thought too.
Once upon a time, I was a certified nurse assistant. The clients with MS did develop personality changes, and it varied according to their original atittudes i.e. their OCEAN scores, I htink would affect the outcome and I could imagine someone taking advantage of a patient.
I was thinking the same thing
“I’m surprised the killer didn’t go into how tough his childhood was”
dr grande, you wry, wry man🤣
Got me laughing! Great comment.
See, this is why tragic villains make use of flashbacks.
I believe the technical term is “monologue-ing”.
He walked uphill to school both ways, in the snow, , barefoot. 😊
@@esteemedmortal5917 exactly! They’re misunderstood. And have no one to talk to 😆
“The old ‘You can tell by talking to him’ trick”. 😆 So many great lines...as usual! Thank you, Doctor.
Well, one answer is Sandra and her son cooked up the plan between them -- pointing fingers at one another created enough reasonable doubt. And they also lucked into an incompetent police investigation.
Flora that sure makes sense. The town is extremely small and she has a serious medical diagnosis to boot
Or he did it, and she did recognize him, but chose to cover for him because, you know, he's her son.
@@Delaterius you remember when Dr Grande was saying that was a long conversation between her and the killer?
Yes but why plant the gun there? The p.olice would have had no evidence against Sandra until they found her gun .
I'm not buying it. Why would she and her daughter never have anything to do with him again?
I like how the Euphorbia
Trigona (African Milk Tree) cactus is now 3 1/2 bricks tall! How thoughtful of you to wear a yellow shirt to promote your babies' growth! 💛🌞
The little plant in the red pot is right on the edge of the table. Makes me nervous 😓 🇬🇧
Fabulously observant and impressive you can identify it. I worked at my uncles flower shop for years and the only plants I still remember are roses and orchids.
This is such a sweet and wholesome observation 💕 Dr. Grande has some beautiful plant bbs... maybe he can work some gardening advice into his videos 😉 Shout out to all the fellow plant lovers out there! 🌵🍀🌱💚
I love the new purple gal in the center.
I was looking at that too, hoping he didn't move it and I'd forget where it was up to on the wall, and just as I was thinking, I'm probably the only person in the world that has random thoughts like this...😂
The yellow is the best color yet. I'd love to see Dr. Grande in a short sleeve, too. Maybe he'll do a summer series in a short sleeve and sunglasses 🕶 😎
It’s GOLDEN
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Or in a Speedo
I think sleeves rolled to mid forearm would look good. Sunglasses too! 🇬🇧😍
Can't tske his glasses off, he is like Clark Kent.
How is it possible that Dr. G looks fabulous in every shirt color in existence?
I thought the same thing! 😄
Either you have it or you don't!🤣
Right!
I think he should undo one more button
Yes that’s what I thought 💭
Was just watching a Dr. Grande video when i got this notification. Can't get enough of this channel. Very informative.
Agreed 👍
Dr. Grande, this is not only a brilliant analysis of horrible police work but also of two strange murderers named Sandra and a mythical killer in need of talk therapy. This show keeps getting better...🙂
Purely out of coincedence, I've been taking note of a few incedences of very similar crimes that would seem to be connected, but aren't.
Ilene Misheloff was kidnapped in Dublin, Ca in 1989. There were two other kidnappings of girls at the time with a number of striking similarities. Police have solved one, and believe they know who is responsible for the other, but do not believe Ilene's case is related.
At the time Kristin Smarts disappearance, there were a few other girls who disappeared from colleges near San Louise Obispo. Similar M.O., but the most recent developments would confirm previous theories that they are not realted.
It seems weird how these things seem to congregate near eachother.
"Homicide intelligence test - we put the HIT in HITman!" ...actual lol.
That was so good.
Totally. :0)
I’d buy that tshirt
Spot on. I am so weary.
Same, that was great.
Your the first video I watch almost every night when I sit down after my days over. I love your consistency.
Looking great Dr Grande! like a ray of sunshine ☀️
🌻💛🌞💛🌛
I believe that Wesley killed him, and Sondra knew it was him. She was trying to protect Wesley by making up the story about a stranger. Wesley then threw Sondra under the bus.
Wesley’s a real peach.. 🤔🥴
Lol! Surely! Makes one wonder what Wesley might gain if mom were in jail?
Yeah, I think the same. Sandra wouldn't put the gun in her own car. Unless she's a complete idiot. And what's her motive? She needed the husband to help her, due to her MS.
Seems more likely Sandra did it that Wesley, but I agree, it could be either. Dr. Grande said 85/15 Sandra did it. I'd say more like 70% Sandra did it, 30% chance Wesley did it and Sandra either conspired with or covered for Wesley. Either way, neither scenario is anywhere close to beyond a reasonable doubt and the jury made the right call.
What's his motive? 🤔
Dr Grande bringing the breakdown with perfect touch of humor!
What a bizarre set of circumstances! Thank you, Dr. Grande, for researching this and presenting logical arguments for both options.
Of the two, I thought it more likely that Wesley was the killer. The speed with which he accused his mother was suspicious, especially if he was not at the scene.
ah the yellow shirt brightened my day☀️💛
Omg. Are you folks BLIND?!?! It’s GOLDEN.
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me: sharing something joyful that made me smile
@@mrsmacca126: you MORON it is not YELLOW it’s a VARIATION of YELLOW
@@mrsmacca126 golden mustard
He's the King in Yellow
We put the HIT in hitman😂😂Dr Grande there are so many hilarious gems in this one! Thank you for being awesome! And that yellow shirt definitely looks great on you!😍💛
Lolll what a thoughtful robber, locking the pistol in her car 🙄💛💛💛
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in a bag even. Amazingly after it had been searched.
Another similarity with the Sandra Melgar case is that both defendants were suffering debilitating illness. If I remember accurately, Ms. Melgar had seizure disorder and either arthritis or MS, I can't recall which.
The word of the day.....loquacious.
You brighten up my day 😊
I thought the same thing when he said it! 😆
🔥 I cant tell you, Dr Grande, though perhaps tonight after consuming an excessive amount of alcohol, how funny I find you and how I go to you to find out exactly what is going on in relation to a particular case I might hear about. You are so concise. This one especially made me laugh out loud. Thank you for your genius and extremely quick wit Dr Grande. Today my youngest turned 18. Bitter sweet ❤
There are many life lessons to be taken away from this tragic story. Most importantly, if you have a 3 letter name and live in Texas, don't marry a woman named Sandra.
Now you’re thinking like Dr Grande!
Dr Grande is rubbing off on us
My name has 6 letters. All the same, I won't do either of those.
Fail.
And guys, get your wives a descent anniversary present. That's probably what set them off.
Interesting, informative and humourous as always
Love your dry sense of humor, Dr. Grande.
thanks Dr. Grande, in this boring Sunday I was waiting for you :-)
You make everyday more interesting
Excellent analysis.Thank you Dr. Grande☀️
Dr Granda you are the man. You explain everything so well. Thank you for sharing.
Love your work so much ! ❤👍 your awesome man !! Keep going 👍
Dr Grand, I am so glad to see you after our sad time in UK. Looking relaxed in your yellow shirt 💛🇬🇧
Great video!Thanks Dr.Grande!
Please cover Corrie Ten Boom, her story is both tragic & inspiring.
For a historical case, I'd also like to see Aimee Semple McPherson
Another great vid, thank you 🤗
Wow, that comparison was eye opening! How valuable it can be, to have a legal team, that's skilled at physiologically breaking down jurors; and, getting the most persuasive one(s) on your side from day one.
May I suggest the Catherine Hoggle case? I’d love to hear your thoughts on her. Love the channel and keep up the good work!
perfect timing, thanks!
Oh Dr. Grande, your humor suprises me every time😂
Brilliant analysis, absolute genus. Your best work I’ve seen in a very long time.
Man over a thousand videos and I just found ya channel and the kids going back to school In the morning.... Im bout to binge the hell outta u.......
Dr. Grande keeps me grounded 😇
Ah yes, yellow is my favorite color! Needed that on this cold and wet day. Thank you again for grinding for our entertainment! 😊👍 wish I could monetarily help.
I can't stop watching these videos.
I always like how you “giggle” oh so gently when you say a joke! Hahaha 😂 love these videos!!
Loving the yellow shirt, Dr. Grande!
Lookin sharp Dr Grande!
Thanks for your insight. Watched this on ID last night and I knew Dr. Grande would break it down perfectly. Hilarious as usual 🤣.
Insightful outlook with some added humor as usual 😀 Thanks Dr. Grande!
My one addition that tilts my suspicion to it being Sandra includes her having MS (via some brief work with those with MS). Over a longer time, MS can have certain cognitive impacts, some times creating emotional lability, becoming self preoccupied and demanding. Often even getting resentfully upset with their carers, and even building up somewhat distorted grudges over any slights, real or imagined.Though the physical impairments would usually restrict them from taking any aggressive forms of action. Problem is a firearm can be too easy to use. Had Sandra been sufficiently agitated it could have impacted on her sleep and allow her to get up and research killing.The issues with MS cognitively would explain her further lack of planning and herself to look up coffee machines to settle herself instead of step 2 re concealment of crime weapons etc..Secondly her physical restrictions would impede concealing the weapon more effectively. Whereas Wesley would most likely properly dispose of a weapon if he had used it.
Hi Dr. Grande! Thank you for the daily videos. Is it possible to include more videos not related to case analyses of famous (infamous) cases and people? I like the educational videos on mental health conditions, or case analyses of different health conditions, or role playing ?
Your videos are a great closure to my evenings. Lovely video and lovely shirt. Much love from Greece.
Show idea. Herve Villechaize. He’s the dwarf actor from “Fantasy Island.” Villechaize committed suicide. He was anything but the sweet little person we saw in the show.
De plane, De plane! I remember him. Wow why wasn’t he a good person?
"We put the 'HIT' in hitman"...⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
I like your yellow shirt very uplifting !! Great video ;)
Ah the old masked, totally unknown, assassin alibi. Hmmm🤔Love the humor in this one too!!! 😁Again another great video Dr G & yes lovely shirt😊💛💛
Only Disney could write a scene less believable than this scenario
Problem is Sandra could have said it was lizard people and the outcome would have been the same. There was no way the state could prove either Sandra or Wesley did it. There was far too much reasonable doubt and even I have no idea who did it. I tend to think something like 70% Sandra did it, 30% Wesley did it and Sandra was in on planning it and/or covered for him after the fact. Even if the investigation were competent, I'm still not sure either person could have been convicted.
I look at Ellis county inmate roster for fun from time to time (I’m from there) and saw her name and profile for the longest. You had more info than what I found on line. I wondered why I stopped seeing her name lol. Thanks for the video!
I immediately wondered about the son, Westley, because he knew where the gun was and told the police rather than protect his mother.
Westley?
I'm sorry but just because a son doesn't want to cover for a horrible crime that doesn't make him guilty
Moral of the story: if you are married to someone named Sandra, watch your back and sleep with one eye open...
I don’t think her being named Sandra was the problem 😉
Not saying Sandra anything but traits follow names I think no doubt they do!
This truly shows how people get away with murder all the time, i always say that to people because its just naive to think that even every stupid killer gets caught. Thank you for your great work Dr. Grande. 👍🇦🇫
i think it comes down to luck, depends on how incompetent the cops are.
Interesting comparison between the two cases. I appreciate it.
Thanks, Doc.
Puts the hit in hit man.....lol
There were many others but this was outstanding!
Jeez, Man, the little big guy again.
Always love your humor.
Very interesting.
Thank you.
Enjoyed this one!
I not only injoy your expert opinion, but also your humor 👏😃
Great video as always Dr. Grande!!! Also, I love your plants! Are some of those succulents???
i love your channel. im totally into it, psychotherapist myself. I must say every case is much more interesting with a photo of the suspect in the background for the entire time. Even if its always the same photo....i loose interest/track when i just follow the monologue and stare at the cactus😂
@@janetwilliams2835 yes, of course. HE definetely is lovable and should stay. I guess the pic of the suspect AND the cactus easily can coexists😍🌵
"Is he always this funny, or only on days when he's wanted for murder?"--Dolores, from Who Framed Roger Rabbit
I’m trying to keep track of your shirts Dr. Grande; you are not making it easy. ❤️
Are there different shades of murder, Dr. Grande? It seems you wear at least 25 shades of shirts on the murder issue. Great Job as always, Dr. Grande !!! :)
I think it is entirely possible that, in fact, a the killer was someone John previously fired. I also think, that Sandra knew the killer. Maybe they've known each other earlier, maybe he reached out to her at some point.
I think in some ways she helped that mysterious person, to kill her husband.
As for her son, maybe he accidentally overheard something, while his mother was talking on the phone, or something like that, he didn't understand exactly what he head, thus his statement for the police.
Ps. The killer probably did tell Sandra, about how tough his childhood was. 😉
This yellow shirt represents the feel of the season well.
Crazy. Another great video!
Dr Grande, I would be VERY interested in hearing your thoughts on Michelle Blair. I am particularly interested in knowing if you think she truly thought her children were commiting the acts she claims. If so, was there hope for children? Did they have a chance to be rehabilitated and be able to function in society with a quality of life?
I completely agree with your analysis and always appreciate your knowledge.
Loving the yellow shirt, very spring. The most talkative killer ever,lol. Oh,my favorite plant has disappeared again, but the other ones are looking really great. Thank you for the video 🌿🌳🌱
Dr. Grande, you made me laugh way too much while hearing about a murder case! Thank you for the smile anyway!
When you mentioned it was their anniversary the first thing I thought of was the Melgar case! Guess I wasnt the only one to notice the similarities
We love you in yellow, Doc, so cheery! 🌞🌈 This was an interesting case. I guess she's not close to her son now...
I think Dr. Grande is so funny! Smart and funny! Maybe he could be a psychologist - comedian. I’d watch..
Love his vocabulary…loquacious indeed
Love the yellow 💛
It’s GOLD
💛🌟🌻🌟💛
Mustard yellow
The King in Yellow
Hey Doc, I don’t know if it’s the yellow shirt but this was laugh out loud funny in a few spots; “homicide intelligence test,” priceless!
Any life insurance payout? Keep up the great work!
Ooo! Just clicked on...LOVE the shirt!
Greetings from la Isla Grande! Looking tropical today Doc!🌴
Dr grande is one smooth operator
'The World's Most Loquacious Killer'
There's your title for a new Bond film.
Your humor's killing me, Dr. Grande!
I want to talk about Sandra's MS. I had my first relapsing-remitting flares when I was 11, 15, 17, 21 at 24 I got Lyme in Aug 1974 at an Air show along with a bad sunburn that had me spiking a fever that same evening. Then flu like symptoms for a week When the sunburn faded I was left with round red spots on my thighs and abdomen. In January I got a bad flu that was going around except I could not walk to the bathroom without help and I had a horrible headache that lasted 15 yrs. I did go in and was given antibiotics for strep throat and infected ears a first. I never recovered from that flu until I was finally diagnosed with both at an MS Clinic and started getting some treatment but not strong enoug or long enough until 2011. I was quick to anger about injustices but never acted in anger instead I would try to gently speak to the abuser as someone that was concerned about what the consequences for irrational anger would be for the abuser. I was largely successful until I had been living with the pain and debility ofvLyme which made MS flares months not years apart.
Suddenly I started getting extremely strong feelings of anger at people in my family that had abused me in the past that I thought I had forgiven. There was no obvious trigger other than it a almost never happened in the morning and was worse if I had a cold or flu, missed sleep or fam I'll y emergency.
It terrified me so I dealt with it by grabbing something with protein and carbs to eat plus a glass of water. Go to my bedroom and lay down sometimes I would nap and eventually the feelings would go within 3 hrs. I carry bugs and rodents out of the house rather than kill them. I stopped physically fighting with my siblings by the time I was four. I was terrified it might get worse. It shook my self esteem. I had nobody to talk to about it. I did try to bring it up when my other symptoms took me to a doctor but they did not see it like I did and gave me generic advice.
Both MS and Lyme affect the brain in bad ways. MS overviews all say moods and even character can change from a flare of either.
It was the no motive aspect that rang a bell. If Sandra was having mood or other brain inflammation symptoms she might not have been able to pull out when they first started happening. I think my specific irrational total anger is rare but then I was afraid of consequences if I admitted how strong the feelings were.
A study of long term treatment of persistent Lyme another bioweapon with a number #33 in Duluth included members of the MS support Group that met at the same time in adjoining rooms of a clinic attatched to a hospital. 3 people previously b diagnosed with MS but having classic Lyme symptoms alternated meetings and all decided to be in the study as controls of a sort. Antibiotic treatment just kept the Lyme from getting new symptoms or worse for 6 mos for anyone. Between six months and a year more people had Lyme symptoms start going away some stopped at the year mark the test was scheduled for. 20% of MS patients had recoveries after 6 months. They decided to extend the study and more people recovered including another 5% of THE MS and all but a handful of those with Lyme. I was not in that study and I got a second Strain of Lyme on a vacation in KY and TN Aug 1988 and was totally disabled again by Oct. My two sons and I were offered places at a very kind relative who stuck with me until 2011 a year long. pulsing of antibiotics and antiparasitics for some of THE 14 other disease carried by ticksv ( the boys were married with kids in their own homes My MS was declared in remission in 2015, Lyme was also undetectable. The angry periods would leave when my Lyme symptoms. I had one flare of MS this spring after getting Omni from my Early Jan dental appointment. I had put myself in isolation in Jan 2020 as my Lyme contacts led me to people who knew about the pandemic before it was announced to have made it to America. I knew I was not strong enough to survive the original strains of Covid.
As I write this I do remember some conversations 1998-2010. about Lyme Rage with people newly diagnosed, when they brought it up
Way out on a limb here but possible.7
"The world's most loquacious killer." 🤣😂😅 Oh come on Dr. Grande, you don't remember all those episodes of Scoobie Doo where the villains would give long confessions?!😅🤣😂
Dr. Grande, I'm curious what you make of the Murdaugh case in South Carolina.
thnx for the chill bg!
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Hey! Love your channel!
Could you do an episode focusing on the netflix docu series The Keeper and murder of Sister Cathy Cesnik? Could you also discuss trauma and repressed memories? Could you also analyze Father Joseph Maskell?
@@Claire-xn1cw GREAT Suggestion
You’d BETTER be supporting him ,on Patreon, AND. A very loyal follower.
@@alexandraa5424 Father Joseph Maskell would be so interesting!!! There were so many quotes from the docu series that stuck out. The alter boy who went on to become a detective, who said Father Maskel gave him an evil stare which said “how dare you question me.” He said he did not see that kind of stare again until interviewing murderers. A friend of Father Joseph Maskell said it was hard to believe Father Maskell could have committed these crimes, because Father Maskell seemed so normal.
Father Joseph Maskell is so scary. It seems he was able to blend into the community, appear completely normal, while also regularly sexually abusing young girls, and possibly committing murder.
@@Claire-xn1cw yes yes to all of that!! Just chilling. I need to rewatch it. It’s been a while.
I think the son did it, but Sandra didn't want to implicate him.
It was Wesley. I REALLY believe that. He was quick to give this info to the cops before even being ASKED. I don't know if she KNEW or not, but I definitely do not think SHE planned or executed this murder. Wesley knew EVERYTHING.
Agree 100% except they both planned it but Wesley panicked and decided to frame her!!!
@ Dr. Grande and community... I am surprised that no one blamed the victim in this case as a possible suspect? It is one thing for a smaller law enforcement agency to lack sufficient resources yet it is another thing when some serious criminal investigation steps are missed! As always a fan of your whit and sarcasm! ❤️🤔✊🇺🇸😜
This shirt colour is known in the fashion industry as “openness to experience yellow”
It's a challenging colour to wear.
@@xxxyz1004 I hope you understand that I’m not diagnosing anyone. I’m just discussing some of the chromatic and sartorial factors that might be going on in a shirt like this.
Love the H.I.T. AKA hitman intelligence test, “we put the hot in hitman”.
Maypearl is a small town with population less than 1k. I spent allot of time there as a child because my grandparents lived there. The year before this happened their chef of police was sentence 40 years for sexual assault on a child. It is crazy when I think so many things happen in this tiny little town, I knew so well.
I fell in love with the yellow shirt slowly but surely. About 7 minutes in is when I realized my original opinion had changed
Dr Grande truly is the Bob Ross of Psychiatry
Love the yellow today, Dr Grande 🌞🌻