Honestly, when I see you two, I don't automatically think "big age difference" or assume right away that she came from overseas. People really aren't thinking one way or another. You're both attractive people so theres an equality there.
Just to let the 2 of you know, I appreciate you. I am less than 48 hours from flying out to Cebu to meet her. I am 53 and she is 29. We are both scared to death, but excited.
Shawn J Dostie, Auctioneer I’m flying out on February the 6th going to Legazpi. I’m here in Florida and I was wondering if you know if there is any vaccinations I need before going over?
@@tonycoston4889 I'm over here now. I didn't get any vaccinations, only brought some immodium AD. To say what I found over here exceeded my expectations, is an understatement. Now to figure out if I can have businesses Stateside, and in the Philippines....
how did it go ? I know too well that feeling. I remember the first time I laid eyes in real life at the airport in Manila....the tension buildup while flying from Japan to Manila, existing the plane not knowing where I am going. Stepping out of the doors...not seeing her....the wifi at the airport was awful...trying to contact her...she text me " I am to the left " I look to the left NOTING..." where are you I text her, I do not see you " she text back, I am standing here, to the left " I start walking...there is NOBODY. I am freaking out at this point....the guard looks at me and realizes what is going on and directs me to cross the street and go to the end and turn left...I do so...turn left...AND THERE SHE IS ! My heart raced...I walked to her and we embrace, kiss and just looked into each other eyes....and everything was right from that point.
I’m a new subscriber I met my Filipina girlfriend 3 years ago I’ve only seen her 3 times in 3 years (twice in 1 year) There is a 37 year difference in our age The age hasn’t been so much of an issue as the distance It’s actually my very first age gap/long distance relationship I really feel she is my forever and I want to make it work Last time I saw her was two years ago -I’m not going to lie, it’s been really hard Hoping to get some real advice from a real couple Thanks so much!
Solid advice, we have a 20 year age gap. Fortunately, I am a professor so I am around younger people which I think keeps me younger. While I do like people my age sometimes....they are just too damn old haha. I was aware of the "man-stealing" and I did like you with the screen shots asking if I should accept or delete the friend request. It was not a short leash at all, just respect and I didn't want to or desire to talk to anyone else except my already established friends.
Excellent video. I think you got it so right. When I first met my filipina fiance I made many mistakes in regard to talking with other women. I learned quickly that filipina's worry when a bf has that type of contact. I respect her and dropped all of those contacts since my filipina is so beautiful and wonderful. An angel on earth.
Your relationship is an inspiration to a lot of people. I recently just started a relationship with a man who is 20 years older than me, so I totally can relate to this. It is a scary decision to make, a lot of uncertainties and yes, people judging and discouraging the people in the relationship that they should not proceed with it. Can you please tell a bit more on how to get through the struggles, especially because this Covid has closed a lot of countries' borders and nobody could tell when it will be safe to travel again.
You are right about that one. I got friend request and showed it to my girl. Because I thought she might know her. She did and they had a nice talk. After the 2nd one, I just quit fb. I got a keeper, and we don't need no tampo...
You guys have great content. I don't have a problem with age gap i actually preffer between 10-20 years, the only problem i would have is i do not want to bring a new child into this world don't get me wrong i love kids. The next phase in my life is to travel more. I'm on a dating site now as free member and hesitent to join bc of this. Merry Christmas to all
Hi Tor!!!!!! Thank you so much for your comment. If you are still interested in finding a good filipina, you can sign up to our newly launched dating website which is crazyfilipinalove.com
Great video! My cebuana wife and i have a 14 year age gap and my biggest concern was if something was to happen to me that she would be financially stable for the remainder of her life. That has all been taken care of. And if something happens to both of us her family will also be financially taken care of. We both sleep better at night knowing all will be well if one or both of us pass. I believe that it is my responsibility to make sure that life for her and the entire family will go on the same as it is now.
Steve Lawson that’s showing true caring and consideration for your wife but 14 years is not much of gap, neither is my wife and my 16 year gap. But I’ve thought about this and done the same. What’s sad is the 60 year old foreigners that start a relationship with a 20 year old them just do the math, he won’t be there for her when she’s in her 40’s. Hopefully he’s thought of that, especially when there’s kids involved.
Omg, I can't believe that I was feeling bad because I asked my ex by (42,im 29) to help me with rent and he did it kinda not wanting to and then are men like you who really love their woman. Ive been such a fool, we were in a long distance relationship for 3 years and he wasn't able to give me a date for us to be together.
Will Mack Appreciate the thoughtful comment Will. We just try to help. My Filipina wife is amazing. Most go about finding the Filipina the wrong way. Sometimes going on these dating sites, especially if you’re an older guy, it’s like going into a candy store. Almost like your pick of a pretty lady. You got to resist that. There’s a Lotta good ones out there like my wife, just got a think with the right head my friend. Lol 😂. Some of the sites where people meet Filipinas out there it makes it really hard to resist. If you are ever really seriously looking, just take a note that we built our site because there’s so many problems with all the other sites. For every story I hear of a man meeting a great Filipina wife like my wife and having a happy happy life. I hear another story of guys getting wrapped up with the wrong girls and getting hurt. If your patient and smart. You will find a great one and be the happiest man alive. Most the time, 😂. My wife can get a little irritated when I’m not giving her enough attention or enough sex. 🙄. Oh how hard life is. Lol
I've held off as long as I can. I'll just say it. what a beautiful couple. your wife is truely an angel. I'm amazed at how well she speaks english. bless you both and all of your family
regarding your first point- I am not saying the guy should be on facebook all day chatting with filipinas; but at the end of the day, your woman and any woman, wants a guy who maybe doesn't chat, but CAN cheat, as it, it is a possibility. women are so infatuated with that kind of guy who they know can get away with cheating. now a woman may deny this and say otherwise, but deep down it is what they like.
*GLAD* you guys made this video . It *just ...happens* ... to entirely be congruent with my ("Our" ....hers.... and mine) thinking... I won't use the word "age" but... I am at a current mental & emotional status where I simply wish for the *INNER PEACE* that comes from the certainty and simplicity of being "True" to the other person. (and so is "She") ... She ('Tin) has been through enough of the "difficult relationship" thing... *BOTH* of us have. Another word would be *integrity* ...so I have utterly begun to simply ...IGNORE... all the "facebook-friend" notifications. I won't even REMOTELY allow them to impact me any more, ....not... to... even... "Look"... .....Yesterday I was just saying to "Tin" (Christina) .... "I do not even LIKE how facebook seems to be (lately) sort of FORCING a new friend (somehow) into my lists.... and I mentioned *SPREELY as an alternative* to facebook. "Speak Freely" [SPREELY] ,was made by ex-employees of facebook. And may be a GOOD way to have your social-network (family and close freinds) AND greater personal privacy. .....on *General socializing* ... I am fortunate that Christine and I are fairly "equal" in Maturity and Social orientation... SHE.... is not in her 20's, but just about to hit her 40th birthday... in MY opinion, she's at a PERFECT age (for Me). even so, I AM a "bit" older, and I am fortunate to look VERY young for my age. I am VERY energetic mentally and physically, and I am currently working physically a LOT (which may be part of my overall 'youth') I always say that GOD just wants me to LIVE a long LONG time, to suffer for the "sins" I have committed LoL! ..... *We wish to have children and the whole bit* .... and I will simply be *thrilled* to be the supportive Patriarch, as I do get older ...and I completely trust Christine, as a person of good heart and good motives, and in general.... (in *ALL* things) .....I believe "We" (the Couple) are going to have an *Absolute* . *Total* . *Blast* .... just BEING *different* ....AND, bringing our (mutual) dreams to fruition. but !!! it.......... *also* ..........DOES just happen that (even before I began searching "Pina-Land" for love).... I did wish to (of my own volition!) to begin to practice SINGING-! ... *I still SUCK btw* LoLz..... . I am more of a technology guy, by history and education, and have NEVER ever played an instrument nor sung............... that is now changing, I am doing vocal practice and YES ! would love to be able to sing at my own wedding, .... (without causing *pain* to any listeners! ...preferably!) so, I am TOTALLY "up" for embarrassing myself / and general such sillyness in public! *thumbZup* ! But, yeah.... not being a (total) "Control-Freak" I am certainly TRYING to consider 'Tin.... and any "special" social needs she may have.... and, to allow HER some leeway and support in that direction. (if needed) ...... on *Public* "judgement" of us.... I'm *WITH YOU GUYS* .... if you don't LIKE what you see? ........................... *change the channel* ..........and leave "Us"... alone. (it . don't . bother . me ....nor Her !...) *You guys are SWEET keep up the Good Work* ! ~Sincerely~ ... Steve
Seventh-Heaven Cleaning Wow! What a great comment. All should read. BTW. I suck at singing big time. My wife has an amazing voice. When i do goof around and sing it always brings a smile to her face even though it’s painful to listen too! 😂
@@CrazyFilipinaLove LoL-! I *REEeeeeLy* wanna learn to sing Brian-!!!! I want so badly to sing at my own wedding. ........... Recently Christine recommended: BREAD- "Make it With You" .... (and I personally love) "More Than Words" by Extreme..... .... KEEP GOING You guys.... I believe that if you persist in your channel, you will help "shepherd" some Lost Souls into love...... after you have a few followers (all scarred up by LIFE like myself) it won't just be you guys alone with this channel. I am utterly determined to be married. And to HAVE a full family.... and I (only recently) washed my mind of all the silly "Western Clutter" and began focusing on ONE- beautiful- Filipina..... who (she also) was tired of "Trying" to find a husband.... You guys are harbingers of the future. And you are onto a good thing. AND??? You guys are "Beautiful".... you are movie-worthy. So, just keep it all "alive". And God Bless you guys. -------------------------------------------------- I know MOST "Pina Girls" are quite gentle / and shy away from "Rock N Roll" but.... Brian...? you might LIKE "this" song.... yes, I'd want to sing "Bread" and "Extreme".... but do you remember "I only wanna be with You" / by Dusty (the female British singer in 1964?) ...... volbeat , did a "manly" Rock N Roll - version of the song that I really like.... check it out Bri'..... (not that your Wife will LOVE this, but TRY to explain the "Manly Heart" behind this song!!!!!!) ....... I know that YOU will "get it" --- ruclips.net/video/HXH1-HRdKSI/видео.html
@@CrazyFilipinaLove Hey guys- I think you should do a "GENERAL ("Learning Curve") VIDEO" on that aspect of online dating. People NEED, to be "self motivated" and "self-educating". (I tried answering one of your followers, on this particular thread) But... people, have NO IDEA (I think) of what happens. And possibly very little idea, of what to expect... Maybe some of your followers will think they just "sign up" with a dating site....................... and "FIND" a wife. ...and that's "it".... ......... *gulp* (LoL) *NOT KNOWING* about (poor bandwidth in the Philippines) cell phone apps, chatting via facebook messenger, or chatting via "WhatsApp" and then the whole "exchanging funds" thing.... [PayPal BitCoin coins.ph Money-cards NOT-using-Money-cards Money-centers ATMS ETC, Etc, etc....] .... i.e. ....explaining how, ... while an HONORABLE Filipina may NOT be out for your wallet, as a "Good man" .... you WILL wind up helping her to get to America (your home country?) - pay for data-rates, and etc...... I recommend that you create / discuss a "slightly technical" approach to this topic.... merely outlining *WHAT THEY THINK* ...they are "signing up" for (in the Wife-Search). But *THEN* explaining to them: "Guys, if you are not technically savvy, BRACE yourself".... Take it as FAR as you wish, up to and including basic "Visa-Stuff" ....but basically.... I think the idea of such a video is how to *Educate Yourself* ... ...Or, in other words, "Online Dating is NOT 'Easy'-" .... it can be a challenge. So BRACE yourself. .......technical icebergs .... AHEAD!
7th Heaven Furniture & Carpet Cleaning L.L.C. I agree, a video to explain the reality that an online meeting then LDR will mean for the novice man. #1 They will be meeting a Filipina that is most likely very poor or definitely struggling to survive in the Philippines. Not all, but most. A man needs to understand that she has very little to no opportunity to get ahead in life and in addition to meeting a man that she can open up to and start a relationship she also probably has to help her parents,,it’s part of her culture and she won’t ever consider going to America, having a better lifestyle and neglecting her family. The tough part is finding out about the girl and getting to know her and her family.
Our agegap problem is that I’m 57 and my Mindanau girlfriend is 25. Naturally she would like to have children and i’m not against it either, but we must be aware that i’ll propably be gone within the next 20 years. That’ll means naturally that she will be a widow around the age of 45 and our children to come will loose their father before they turns 20. Is that an attractive option? We’ve decided to say yes but we will wait untill she’s got her danish citizenship before getting children.
Hi Chief! We just built our own Dating website and if you are still looking for a loving, caring long lasting relationship with a Filipina you can sign up to: crazyfilipinalove.com
@@CrazyFilipinaLove Well Happy New Year. This is Great, look at you both, still looking Marvellous. Plus your making people happy on top of it. Way Cool, yes i would like to find someone. I am checking your new extended path of life, looking at the website. Very happy for both of you. I always loved both your responces when we spoke in the past. Although i am a tad bummed with the Covid crud going on, just Spiritually praying everyone is good and healthy. Around the world, yet especially all those beautiful woman-people of the Philippines. I got into watching the Filipina Pea, she seems to be a Fine woman trying to help people comprehend the culture. For we know how things can get mixed up in translations. Plus sometimes this continent the USA has some information thats not always correct in factualality. Deffinately want to say its good to hear from both of you, you both look very happy still. Will try to find you on Facebook also. Peace is the True Pathway, may we all walk together upon it. Thanks Chief Willy J Black Cloud.
That was four or five months ago. I arrived in the Philippines on March 12th planning to return home with her on the 24 th of March. But thanks to COVID 19 I have been stranded here ever since. My family has gotten to know her view video chatting and phone calls. Many of them have changed their minds. We will win over the rest eventually. God bless.
Excellent comments! I try to be considerate of my wife, I think that’s essential. Sexual compatibility is important; that might need some adjustment too.
Love Beyond The Sea I’ve watched many of your vlogs, your obviously a very considerate man and have given your wife a life that she could have only dreamed of if she stayed in the Philippines.
We the filipina had so much patience and so loyal for our foreigner partners. And I am one of those filipina women. I am married with my husband 11 years this April 2020 after 5 years of dating. We have 2 kids on our own, 12 yrs old son and 2 yrs old daughter. My husband had 3 on his own.
I'm not in Facebook neither on Twitter by choice! I believe on truth, respect, honesty. Right I have a relationship with someone in Canada but it is 13 years now and I believe to think to redo my like drastically and move eventually to the Philippines to retire there within 2 years, alone and redo my life there... because my like now is miserable
Hey just Praying for everyone in the Philippines because of the Volcano. Have you all heard anything from the people you all know? Wondering if there is anything we can do to help? Thanks for your time. Peace and Prayers. Chief
Yes, its is important in any relationship. But even more so when it is with a women from a completely different culture. Make a women feel safe, loved , and understood when your thousands of miles away, and when there are so many uncertainties in the world, and her heart will belong to you.
Great video and advice guys. In my opinion, you guys don't have a obvious visual age gap like a lot of other couples. So I think that you don't to address as much as others because your age gap differences are primarily based intellectual and generational interests. Keep up the great work and topics. Merry Christmas.
PRAY on the matter- hard- (with INTENTION) and "Go in".... with full faith. That's probably the "simplest" way to put it.... you MUST "commit" - it's more a matter of the condition of YOUR OWN Heart here - I know when I went to a dating site, I prayed for it... and basically said: "Lord, you had BETTER GUIDE ME.... b/c I am CHOOSING.... and whether foolish right or wrong.... I ask that YOU guide me.... b/c .....how can I Truly Know???" and within 72 hours I had made a choice and then ended my membership on that dating site.... I believe it was b/c I went IN (with a Righteous intent) yet.... the FULLEST INTENTION of "choosing" a wife.... and that, is how I treat this every day of my life. ........... you may as well compare the feeling with jumping out of a plane (with a parachute) for the FIRST time in your life.............. SAME .... exact .... emotional "Loading"..... and if you are gonna JUMP..... yer gonna .... *JUMP* .... ! there is no "Trying" to jump! - so, I believe faith / intuition, plays a HUGE role in this. ....but only if you ALLOW it to.
@@7thheavenfurniturecarpetcl153 I think you miss understood me. My intentions are true. Just don't know if you have to use one of those sites or a chat room or?
@@sandrailmark9389 yes, I used those sites. and yes, that's EXACTLY what I meant-! I do not *doubt your own good intent* ... that is NOT what I was saying (re-read it) i personally can recommend the site *PinaLove.com* . it seemed to be good. ------- I AM saying, above .............. "Good Luck" My own girlfriend, has told me she has searched actively for 3 years---! From *HER* point of view most / the "Foreigners" have disappointed her. She had almost entirely given up. (she is getting a bit "Older" she's not 20yrs old) And for Myself??? Here in America, I too had almost given up (b/c of American Women) .... so PinaLove.com is one site you can begin with for free. after that...? you're kind of on your own- but *THAT is a good place to start* you can start out on that site COMPLETELY FREE- but it is possible you may wish to pay for a better membership. But, there is no need- it will just be slower as a "Free user". There will be a "Learning Curve" - you must do some "Test Contacts" *FIRST* You will have to LEARN what differing communications Apps the various individuals use, learn to install and use any of them, and learn WHO to trust and HOW MUCH, etc... there's just a "Learning Curve" and *NOBODY* knows all the answers for you. YOU will have to work at it and figure it out. (that is why I said: "Pray") what I said, about asking for "guidance" from above... *still holds true* -- if you want success, you still must "Go Into this" with a great determination. *smile* ..all I mean is... "Good Luck" in your hunt! (I do not doubt your good intent) *I was very very lucky* "Lucky" ....Brian himself (in this Crazy Pina Love channel) Brian himself is to be found saying, Quote: "If you ask *HIM* his *WIFE* (or ANYbody) is "this" right or is "that" right? ...... what you are (personally) doing is likely wrong for you. HOW do you "meet" anybody? There are several dating sites, and.... "Good Luck" it will take some practice to get to know how various people work. I personally ..... *started* by "Practicing" with younger philippine women that I had no real interest in being with. Learning to chat with them, befriending them, and growing accustomed to basic behaviors -- no matter what, you will need some "Luck" ANYBODY - can "meet" anybody.... if you have any money. But to meet someone who is sincere? AND a good match for you? ---- yup .................... PRAY about that one. ... you will "KNOW" within yourself. *nobody else can tell you* only You. so I was being serious. Pray, that you have the discernment necessary to use ANY of those sites with luck and a good outcome. *I was never "doubting" your own intentions* . Merely speaking from experience. to "MEET" someone via online in any fashion? And then to maintain that "online" contact? can be exhausting (unless you do not work, and have unlimited money). ... So yes, you need all the "guidance" and or luck possible. in MY case? ..... I went in to a dating site with the intention that it be the LAST time I try this... (Last time, so that I can *FIND* a wife.... so YES ...I prayed, I was determined) I simply *knew* ...inside myself, that "THIS TIME I AM CHOOSING A WIFE" - ! (so I prayed that I ...please... "Find" her) Good Luck in your search.
@@7thheavenfurniturecarpetcl153 yes that is a good site, ty for you help! The sites that pop up in search engines are not very good. I think they are just out for your monies. I think there is more people that get discourage because of the same problem I had where to start. This is something I really want and am looking forward to this next step in my life. Once again thank you for your help!!!
@@sandrailmark9389 OH YESssssss they are *definitely* out for your money. I am confident you can "Do This".... but most people wind up surprised at How Much Work it actually is to do the online dating thing (if you are Serious about it).... it can feel like ONE "test" after another.... ( *sometimes* ) .....and yes, you must slowly allow yourself to Learn... you may be "Lucky" and rapidly find someone worthy.... (and I have heard horror stories from Very *bitter* / angry people who felt "taken advantage of") ....... I don't think it is all "Easy" --- but, .... just try to always be honest (the best policy) and be a LITTLE Bit cautious (but not super-paranoid either) ........................... I think you can trust your Heart / your "Gut" .... most times. b/c if Some female is acting a little "strange"..... she's PROBABLY being evasive b/c she's not honest with you- .... I bless you in your efforts.... Just PRAY-!!! .... this last time??? For ME??? .... I was SHOCKED........... I think I was "Blessed" ..... but only because I went in there with such ... a ... TOTAL ... "determination".... *I honestly think God said: "Let me HELP this fool.... before he Hurts himself* ...!" ..... LoL-! Good Luck and never give up!
Hi.... Guys I'm always watching your video and I got alots of advice to you videos it helps me alots. At this time we are in a long distance relationship and both were widowed,he have a daughter and I have a son. I hope that
I hope that I can talk to you both to Facebook or hangouts and I know that you can give me more advice. This my Facebook account. Rochelle calanno.. Thank you guys i hope to talk to you soon. Thank you and God bless your marriage. God bless!
That book that you mentioned, 'Ask It', sounds like a Blue Pill/Beta Male book by how you describe it. If you want the REAL TRUTH about Women and successful relationships, then take the Red Pill and read the book 'The Rational Male' by Rollo Tomassi (a married Man). I bought the audio book on Amazon because I work long hours and don't have time to read.
TheSeabeeMan Not a Blue Pill/Beta man book at all. Should probably listen to the audio book before you judge. Thanks for the tip on “ The Rational Male” will give it a read. Always willing to listen to different viewpoints. Also, watch our first video labeled, “ WHY MEN MARRY FILIPINO WOMEN”. A bit on Masculinity.
@@CrazyFilipinaLove I Love your videos, and I'm a Subscriber. The audio book, 'The Rational Male', will open your eyes to Blue Pill truths, thoughts, and actions... ...which completely destroy LTR's. BTW - I plan on going to the Philippines in April for a month to meet a Filipina I've been talking to on Cebuana.com. For now, I'm going to watch your recommended video, and I'm going to see if they have that audio book 'Ask It' on Amazon. Keep the videos rollin in👍🏻👍🏻... ...as Filipina's🇵🇭 are the best choice for American🇺🇲 Men!
De La Luz Have had a healthy obsession with leadership, coaching, mentoring, relationships, etc. my whole life. Apply it to many areas of life and have a passion to understand what makes people do what they do and help whenever needed. Never as coaching business, but may be heading this way. I appreciate your comment, truly.
Don’t know why this was on my YT recommendation but you guys look great together..love your videos! What part of the States if you don’t mind me asking?
Age gap is one issue. But you avoided the where you are in your life cycle. It is one thing to be fifty and date a 25 year old or even marry one. But one must look at the big picture. Your point in your life must be considered when marrying a much younger Filipina. You must be fair and honest about where you are in life and your remaining years. My girlfriend is a Filipina ten years younger, here in Japan, being a former sailor I have seen large age differences in the P.I. Many Filipina's want a better life no matter the price to be paid. Just some feedback.
Hi, OU8SUM2 Covered this in our video “The Good and Bad about Age Gap”. You are absolutely right. Life plan is the most important! Thank you so much for your insights and support.God Bless.
In my case he is the one who feeling jealous most, he don't want me to have fun with my friends, we don't have a habit of drinking nor smoking but still he don't want me to hang out specially if there's my male friends.. I'm quite older than him.. We haven't met yet but he's planning nxt year... 😣
@@joebrennan.4389 Believe it or not I'm not always hanging out.. I'm mostly home, work, home work.. And I'm not enjoying him making jealous,the right term is I'm wondering why he is so jealous..
29 and I'm 46 already.. Well he is very vocal on saying that he is a jealous type.. And I rather let him find other girl same as his age (but he don't like) than me cheating.. 🙂
With age comes experience, being older makes you a mentor and all relationships take work, you become each others support system, try having mutual interests like going to the grocery or a date night.
*KEEP THE FAITH* .... "We" ... really do exist-! The PROBLEM is this.... most (American) Men do not even seriously consider (or KNOW about) ... "The Filipina-solution" .... but I think *THAT* is going to change soon! (increasingly fast) more and MORE American men are simply "done" with what our culture is doing to the "family" and to (potential) wives, we *WILL* Look elsewhere-! ....but many Men, simply do not even know where to Begin-! - so, stay "tuned"!
I chat a guy from australia , i think we like each other, he said i'll wait 7 months, after 2 month , chatting i feel I was "really" in love with him, I said he came here Philippines (to find out if he was serious about me), he called me a scammer and I never ask for money or material and he didn't give me any money. ...🤫 I was even more hurt because he said that pinay scam !?🥵 And all pinay is scammer🤒 Even no money intervened..:-(😥 And the other one is american🤦🏽♂️ man,they r not good also, some of them just want @fun,meaning they ask @something i can't do it and @cam..i'm not crazy OMG...😒🙄 When they want to play, I also play their games I say when you ask for nudes I ask for money .. Haha just testing! Then they say the Filipinas look like money, in the dating app ..🥴 foreigners don't like us anymore, they prefer thai girls maybe, it's better if they nt look pilipina.. 🙏 I am tired
You two are my favorite couple on American Filipina relationships on U-Tube. We were in an LDRS & 10 Mo. later I was here in the Philippines that was 1 1/2 yrs., ago. We are older than you 65 & 44. I have to watch who I except friends request from, also. A lot of them r trolling for western men. I don't mind hanging out with Filipinas my fiancé age My best male friend is only 4 yrs. older than her. That was my biggest problem with my ex, she was 8 yrs., older than me & I act younger than am & she didn't like it. I do the same thing W/ friends request do, U know her,
I agree with you in regard with your behaviour in #1 but that's not the definition of being on a short leash and you are dead wrong about #2. You still have a lot of maturing to do yourself. I have a lot of friends personally who are older than myself.
You guys are a great looking couple. The greater the age gap, the greater reason not to bring the young bride back to the US to live. I told her once I move to the Phils, I am not moving back to the US. In my LDR, there is a 36 year age gap. Societal pressures in the US on a large age gap relationship can be brutal on the young wife. Visit the US, yes. Move here, No. Until I can permanently move to the Philippines, we talk about what we expect for the future. Is marriage on the table? Will there be children? How many? At what point do we live together? So far we seem to be on the same sheet of music. Love your channel. Hope you guys have a merry Christmas and a prosperous new year.
age gap in u.s philippines really dont make any difference if she love you .If she dumps.you in state's because of age gap that was her intentions all along it has nothing to do she been Americanized that nonsense.
@@garrylafferty100 "was her intentions all along". This assumes that an age gap between a 24 year old Filipina and her 60 year old husband is treated the same in the US as it is in the Philippines. This assumes that women from the Phils and the US share the same values, the same thoughts on marriage and family. This assumes that different cultural pressures from the US, over time, will have zero effect on this young woman. This assumes, that over time, the Filipina will not become "Americanized" and that this new found culture will not replace, over time, whatever she gained from her original Filipino culture. Living in the US, the smaller the age gap, the better chance a marriage has in succeeding. How many 24 year old American women do you see looking for husbands where the age gap is huge? They are few and far between. I am taking a pragmatic, realistic approach to the situation. I'll leave the romantic lens to the poets and the dreamers.
@@garrylafferty100 "make no differnce if she love you." And that is your first mistake. Love is only as good as the ingredients a society provides for it. Love for a poor person is different than love by the upper crust rich folks of any society. If you don't believe me, check the ingredients.
@@JohnLynsAdventures love matters you trust her or you don't if she in her 20s she high risk no matter what country you live if she over 30 she know what she wants especially if she has a child or two 2020 divorce rate was 39% in u.s so ya there a good chance it could fail especially if she in her 20s your 60s no matter were you live only difference she cant divorce you philippines but she can leave and they do plus if you don't trust each other you don't have love that the foundation your first mistake
Why is people always into looks because look fade always what important isn't look it about how you connection and vibe with each other and see what you guys have in common this way alot us good woman can't found a really good man because people like you say that have be fine or good looking that wrong too start off a relationship with just looking to have a price on your arms that relationship won't last long
You guys should please stop making all these feel-good videos about finding ever-lasting love in the Philippines. Filipinas are *not* the best women on the planet. They are simply some of the poorest and most opportunistic. If they have no skills, no job (or one that makes $200 a month) or a family with a bad reputation in their neighbourhood, they would *ALWAYS* say "yes" to a man - foreign, local, doesn't matter - who will take them out of Poverty Land and give them a lifestyle even marginally better than the one they have. They are soft-spoken, sweet, devoted and submissive because they have nothing else to offer than their best behaviour to keep the relationship going. Not saying their "love" isn't pleasant and soul-soothing, especially to so many of the love-starved divorcees in the West, but it is entirely borne out of desperation, need. What you see is just the combined effect of gratitude (once they know that virtually any foreign man has the power to change their lives and that of their families), and the very solid fear of losing it all if they misbehave. Many of them will stay faithful because they have a lot to lose by leaving their man/hubby. Once they start to show off their new lifestyle on social media, if they are still young and good looking, they will be showered with compliments and likes. When that happens, adieu loyalty: they will try and jump to the next man who can give them more with a lame excuse. I have been living in the Philippines for 5 years, continuously. Davao City and now Metro Manila. It took me the grand total of 3 years to find a "good" Filipina whose mind, heart and soul I could trust enough to start a relationship with her. I obviously didn't find her on a dating site or via a dating service. I didn't have a distance relationship with her. It took me 6 months of courtship to convince her that I was the one for her. She comes from an upper-class family, she had her own job and absolutely no rush. This is how it should be, if you ask me. All in all I can say it takes *MORE* to find a good Filipina than it takes to find a good woman in your own country (LOL perhaps the US is an exception, I am European). Not to spit on anyone's parade, but some truth must be told to somehow counterbalance the cotton candy narrative. Many men might get hurt if they have sky-high expectations and can't (or won't) put enough time & effort in finding the right soulmate.
@Granding Smile Appreciate your feedback. Our mission is not to make "Feel Good" videos and lead people to believe in a fairy tale. "It’s about helping Filipinas and foreigners understand all the good and bad that can come. We are keeping it real. Agree that people need to build real relationships and put the time and effort in, regardless of what "class" a woman is from. It took you 3 years, it took me 3 months to find Angelica, plenty of months to court her after I found her, and over a year of building a relationship long-distance which takes amazing communication and trust. May not be from an upper-class family, but she did do things the old fashion way which is what I love about her the most. She had to bust her but in school to get scholarships to earn her college degree. She worked hard and also gave back to her community in any way she could. She did all this while being an amazing big sister to 6 younger brothers and sisters. She is the very definition of an amazing heart and soul I can trust. She is such a positive influence and incredible stepmother to my 4 kids ages ( 12,10,9,7 ). Yes.. we will be having our own children soon too, God willing. I flew to the Phillippines almost every month during our LDR until we were together here in the U.S. So... we could not agree more that time and effort needs to be put in to find the right soul mate. We don’t want anyone settling for anything less than a genuine loving relationship. We want both men and women to make wise decisions if choosing this relationship path.
@@CrazyFilipinaLove Thanks for your reply. I am happy to hear Angelica was the right woman for you, genuinely hard working, and she continues to be an amazing companion, stepmother and big sister. Please do not take this as an offense, but I am not exactly turned on by seeing a Filipina wanting to be with a foreign man because he's her only ticket out of poverty, or a surefire way to stop sweating for $200 a month and live the good life. As I usually say, they make you feel "oh, so special" just for turning up! For the good-hearted woman she is, if Angelica had been chased by multiple Filipino boys from good families or with decent jobs (Cebu has plenty), she would have never signed up on a dating site, she would have never looked for a foreigner, in fact she would have actively avoided meeting foreigners. Unless you under 25 and look like a model, or are half-Filipino and of some fame, the only Filipinas you will ever get to meet, date and marry will be the ones who need you as a provider, for themselves, their kids and their (extended) families. This is the bitter truth nobody wants to talk about. When I lived in Davao I was running my own business. While I wasn't in the Philippines to find love, I was divorced and cherished that idea. I had no rush and was looking for a young woman who was not only pretty but smart, well-educated, independent and from at least a middle-class family. Before finally meeting my fiancee (who is from Manila) I tried to approach several girls who fitted my bill, only to receive to-your-face rejections, usually in the form of "I have a job/my own business, I don't need a foreigner" or "the lawyer's son is chasing me, I don't need a foreigner" or "I am an Ateneo graduate, I don't need a foreigner". I am by no means saying that all foreigners should date the kinds of girls I was looking for. Most of them are perfectly fine with girls of very modest intellect and background, who show a good heart and good intentions. However, it is better if they remove the avocado slices from their eyes and see the reality for what it is: they are with you because they need you and they couldn't find better, not because they love you.
Gandang Smile No offense taken. You seem to be very sincere about your opinions and I can appreciate that. Let me know if you would be open to a skype call. I can create an interview style video, and we can talk about both our points of view and give our followers some food for thought. Here’s an opportunity to have your voice heard. If your interested let me know and I will give my email.
@@CrazyFilipinaLove Thanks for the opportunity, but I have a feeling that whatever I have to say is not something the average man looking for love in the Philippines will want to hear. Love is always "crazy", as you put it, in the sense that leads both partners to see what they want to see. Foreigners are usually in ecstasy when dating girls 20+ years younger who treat them like kings. They surely don't need to, maybe they don't want to, be told *why* that is. The bulk of your audience is probably American/Canadian. I found Europeans and North Asians to be much more inquisitive and pragmatic, more like their Filipina counterparts. If love out of gratitude must be, they try to date the youngest and best looking Filipina they can get. You can contact me at gandangsmile@gmail.com if you want to talk. I'll be happy to have a honest conversation, if you feel it will benefit your audience, or any man, really.
@@gandangsmile7389 I found one who really was looking for love. She had been completely unsuccessful, both in the Philippines and abroad. I too was looking for love because I was completely unwanted at home. I wanted someone my own age - I was completely uninterested in anyone much younger than myself. We clicked very quickly, and I met her after 11 months of LDR. (No Skype or texting then. I asked her to marry me two days after we physically met. 20 years later, we're still married.
Making yourself a slave to another person's emotional immaturity is always a bad idea, regardless of the immature person's gender or nationality. In this scenario, the actual thing that needs to happen to have a solid foundation for a deep and meaningful relationship is for the Filipina to grow up. I'm not sure why the standard of acceptable behavior applied to Filipinas is so low. Why should behavior that's utterly unacceptable in other countries--and for good reason--be acceptable when Filipinas do it, with foreign men who don't accept it being vilified? This is topsy-turvy. But hundreds of videos express this bad idea. I don't get it.
@clickolodeon, Bryan here. Thanks for watching! We appreciate it. In every case we have ever seen, it is normally not as much the emotional immaturity, as it is the lack of emotional intelligence on the man's part. It's the truth. To understand and appreciate her world, you need to really put yourself in her shoe's. How would you feel if you were in an LDR with a Filipina you planned to marry, and she was constantly meeting new foreign men and chatting with them daily because she likes the attention? You would not like this, it is disrespectful. If you're going to date a younger woman, yes, they will need to grow like any young person does. If you're going to date a much younger Filipina, this is the choice you made. Filipinas are awesome, but they are more sensitive. It's not fair, nor practical, to force her to grow up instantly to meet the standards a man needs her to be at. Most good Filipinas have somewhat traditional values and believe they should be courted. Court her, make her your number 1, she will love you forever. Make her feel like just another one of your chat mates, she won't be very happy. The book I mentioned in the video " ASK IT" is fantastic. Really makes readers' self reflect and see things differently. Take care.
@@CrazyFilipinaLove You make some good points. Moreover, I appreciate that you have enough integrity to not stoop to using "culture" to rationalize bad behavior but just tell it straight. Good luck.
Honestly, when I see you two, I don't automatically think "big age difference" or assume right away that she came from overseas. People really aren't thinking one way or another. You're both attractive people so theres an equality there.
Here - Here! Yup...
GuitarGuy I don’t think they have a big age gap. 15-20years tops!
Just to let the 2 of you know, I appreciate you. I am less than 48 hours from flying out to Cebu to meet her. I am 53 and she is 29. We are both scared to death, but excited.
Shawn J Dostie, Auctioneer I’m flying out on February the 6th going to Legazpi. I’m here in Florida and I was wondering if you know if there is any vaccinations I need before going over?
@@tonycoston4889 I'm over here now. I didn't get any vaccinations, only brought some immodium AD. To say what I found over here exceeded my expectations, is an understatement. Now to figure out if I can have businesses Stateside, and in the Philippines....
Shawn J Dostie, Auctioneer Hope all is going well!! Wish you both the best.
I'm 54 and my Filipina Gf is 33 and we are meeting up Hopefully in September this year.💯
how did it go ? I know too well that feeling. I remember the first time I laid eyes in real life at the airport in Manila....the tension buildup while flying from Japan to Manila, existing the plane not knowing where I am going. Stepping out of the doors...not seeing her....the wifi at the airport was awful...trying to contact her...she text me " I am to the left " I look to the left NOTING..." where are you I text her, I do not see you " she text back, I am standing here, to the left " I start walking...there is NOBODY. I am freaking out at this point....the guard looks at me and realizes what is going on and directs me to cross the street and go to the end and turn left...I do so...turn left...AND THERE SHE IS ! My heart raced...I walked to her and we embrace, kiss and just looked into each other eyes....and everything was right from that point.
I’m a new subscriber
I met my Filipina girlfriend 3 years ago
I’ve only seen her 3 times in 3 years (twice in 1 year)
There is a 37 year difference in our age
The age hasn’t been so much of an issue as the distance
It’s actually my very first age gap/long distance relationship
I really feel she is my forever and I want to make it work
Last time I saw her was two years ago -I’m not going to lie, it’s been really hard
Hoping to get some real advice from a real couple
Thanks so much!
Solid advice, we have a 20 year age gap. Fortunately, I am a professor so I am around younger people which I think keeps me younger. While I do like people my age sometimes....they are just too damn old haha. I was aware of the "man-stealing" and I did like you with the screen shots asking if I should accept or delete the friend request. It was not a short leash at all, just respect and I didn't want to or desire to talk to anyone else except my already established friends.
Excellent video. I think you got it so right. When I first met my filipina fiance I made many mistakes in regard to talking with other women. I learned quickly that filipina's worry when a bf has that type of contact. I respect her and dropped all of those contacts since my filipina is so beautiful and wonderful. An angel on earth.
I am 56 and my filipina girlfriend is 39. We haven't met yet, but I am happy. We are planning for her trip to the US in a few months. Thank you both
David Kilby Good luck David!
David Kilby How are you getting her here? Did she get a visitor visa?
Your relationship is an inspiration to a lot of people. I recently just started a relationship with a man who is 20 years older than me, so I totally can relate to this. It is a scary decision to make, a lot of uncertainties and yes, people judging and discouraging the people in the relationship that they should not proceed with it.
Can you please tell a bit more on how to get through the struggles, especially because this Covid has closed a lot of countries' borders and nobody could tell when it will be safe to travel again.
Don't conduct a personal relationship on Facebook, that's my own hard rule. It's a nightmare. Never ending misunderstandings and potential jealousy.
Agree'd aside from an "Ease of use" -- I am NO fan of facebook either
it's WAY too "Public"
You are right about that one. I got friend request and showed it to my girl. Because I thought she might know her. She did and they had a nice talk. After the 2nd one, I just quit fb. I got a keeper, and we don't need no tampo...
You guys have great content. I don't have a problem with age gap i actually preffer between 10-20 years, the only problem i would have is i do not want to bring a new child into this world don't get me wrong i love kids. The next phase in my life is to travel more. I'm on a dating site now as free member and hesitent to join bc of this. Merry Christmas to all
Hi Tor!!!!!! Thank you so much for your comment. If you are still interested in finding a good filipina, you can sign up to our newly launched dating website which is crazyfilipinalove.com
Great video! My cebuana wife and i have a 14 year age gap and my biggest concern was if something was to happen to me that she would be financially stable for the remainder of her life. That has all been taken care of. And if something happens to both of us her family will also be financially taken care of. We both sleep better at night knowing all will be well if one or both of us pass. I believe that it is my responsibility to make sure that life for her and the entire family will go on the same as it is now.
Steve Lawson that’s showing true caring and consideration for your wife but 14 years is not much of gap, neither is my wife and my 16 year gap. But I’ve thought about this and done the same.
What’s sad is the 60 year old foreigners that start a relationship with a 20 year old them just do the math, he won’t be there for her when she’s in her 40’s. Hopefully he’s thought of that, especially when there’s kids involved.
Omg, I can't believe that I was feeling bad because I asked my ex by (42,im 29) to help me with rent and he did it kinda not wanting to and then are men like you who really love their woman. Ive been such a fool, we were in a long distance relationship for 3 years and he wasn't able to give me a date for us to be together.
@A S I do hope things will work out for you.
My brother youre dropping gems on relationships that many dont consider.
Will Mack Appreciate the thoughtful comment Will. We just try to help. My Filipina wife is amazing. Most go about finding the Filipina the wrong way. Sometimes going on these dating sites, especially if you’re an older guy, it’s like going into a candy store. Almost like your pick of a pretty lady. You got to resist that. There’s a Lotta good ones out there like my wife, just got a think with the right head my friend. Lol 😂. Some of the sites where people meet Filipinas out there it makes it really hard to resist.
If you are ever really seriously looking, just take a note that we built our site because there’s so many problems with all the other sites.
For every story I hear of a man meeting a great Filipina wife like my wife and having a happy happy life. I hear another story of guys getting wrapped up with the wrong girls and getting hurt.
If your patient and smart. You will find a great one and be the happiest man alive. Most the time, 😂. My wife can get a little irritated when I’m not giving her enough attention or enough sex. 🙄. Oh how hard life is. Lol
Will Mack Feel free to send me a text if you want to shoot the shit sometime. I’m just a regular dude like you from a similar bloodline.
@@CrazyFilipinaLove I'm on the couch dying right now. 😂😂😂
I've held off as long as I can. I'll just say it. what a beautiful couple. your wife is truely an angel. I'm amazed at how well she speaks english. bless you both and all of your family
regarding your first point- I am not saying the guy should be on facebook all day chatting with filipinas; but at the end of the day, your woman and any woman, wants a guy who maybe doesn't chat, but CAN cheat, as it, it is a possibility. women are so infatuated with that kind of guy who they know can get away with cheating. now a woman may deny this and say otherwise, but deep down it is what they like.
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*GLAD* you guys made this video
. It *just ...happens* ... to entirely be congruent with my
("Our" ....hers.... and mine) thinking... I won't use the word "age" but... I am at a current mental & emotional status where I simply wish for the *INNER PEACE* that comes from the certainty and simplicity of being "True" to the other person. (and so is "She") ... She ('Tin) has been through enough of the "difficult relationship" thing... *BOTH* of us have.
Another word would be *integrity* ...so I have utterly begun to simply ...IGNORE... all the "facebook-friend" notifications. I won't even REMOTELY allow them to impact me any more, ....not... to... even... "Look"...
.....Yesterday I was just saying to "Tin" (Christina) .... "I do not even LIKE how facebook seems to be (lately) sort of FORCING a new friend (somehow) into my lists.... and I mentioned *SPREELY as an alternative* to facebook. "Speak Freely" [SPREELY] ,was made by ex-employees of facebook. And may be a GOOD way to have your social-network (family and close freinds) AND greater personal privacy.
.....on *General socializing* ... I am fortunate that Christine and I are fairly "equal" in Maturity and Social orientation... SHE.... is not in her 20's, but just about to hit her 40th birthday... in MY opinion, she's at a PERFECT age (for Me).
even so, I AM a "bit" older, and I am fortunate to look VERY young for my age. I am VERY energetic mentally and physically, and I am currently working physically a LOT (which may be part of my overall 'youth')
I always say that GOD just wants me to LIVE a long LONG time, to suffer for the "sins" I have committed LoL!
..... *We wish to have children and the whole bit* .... and I will simply be *thrilled* to be the supportive Patriarch, as I do get older ...and I completely trust Christine, as a person of good heart and good motives, and in general.... (in *ALL* things)
.....I believe "We" (the Couple) are going to have an *Absolute* . *Total* . *Blast* .... just BEING *different* ....AND, bringing our (mutual) dreams to fruition.
but !!! it.......... *also* ..........DOES just happen that (even before I began searching "Pina-Land" for love).... I did wish to (of my own volition!) to begin to practice SINGING-! ... *I still SUCK btw* LoLz..... . I am more of a technology guy, by history and education, and have NEVER ever played an instrument nor sung............... that is now changing, I am doing vocal practice and YES ! would love to be able to sing at my own wedding, .... (without causing *pain* to any listeners! ...preferably!) so, I am TOTALLY "up" for embarrassing myself / and general such sillyness in public! *thumbZup* ! But, yeah.... not being a (total) "Control-Freak" I am certainly TRYING to consider 'Tin.... and any "special" social needs she may have.... and, to allow HER some leeway and support in that direction. (if needed)
...... on *Public* "judgement" of us.... I'm *WITH YOU GUYS* .... if you don't LIKE what you see?
........................... *change the channel* ..........and leave "Us"... alone. (it . don't . bother . me ....nor Her !...)
*You guys are SWEET keep up the Good Work* ! ~Sincerely~ ... Steve
Seventh-Heaven Cleaning Wow! What a great comment. All should read. BTW. I suck at singing big time. My wife has an amazing voice. When i do goof around and sing it always brings a smile to her face even though it’s painful to listen too! 😂
@@CrazyFilipinaLove LoL-! I *REEeeeeLy* wanna learn to sing Brian-!!!! I want so badly to sing at my own wedding.
........... Recently Christine recommended: BREAD- "Make it With You" .... (and I personally love) "More Than Words" by Extreme.....
.... KEEP GOING You guys.... I believe that if you persist in your channel, you will help "shepherd" some Lost Souls into love...... after you have a few followers (all scarred up by LIFE like myself) it won't just be you guys alone with this channel. I am utterly determined to be married. And to HAVE a full family.... and I (only recently) washed my mind of all the silly "Western Clutter" and began focusing on ONE- beautiful- Filipina..... who (she also) was tired of "Trying" to find a husband.... You guys are harbingers of the future. And you are onto a good thing. AND??? You guys are "Beautiful".... you are movie-worthy. So, just keep it all "alive". And God Bless you guys.
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I know MOST "Pina Girls" are quite gentle / and shy away from "Rock N Roll" but.... Brian...? you might LIKE "this" song.... yes, I'd want to sing "Bread" and "Extreme".... but do you remember "I only wanna be with You" / by Dusty (the female British singer in 1964?) ...... volbeat , did a "manly" Rock N Roll - version of the song that I really like.... check it out Bri'..... (not that your Wife will LOVE this, but TRY to explain the "Manly Heart" behind this song!!!!!!) ....... I know that YOU will "get it" --- ruclips.net/video/HXH1-HRdKSI/видео.html
@@CrazyFilipinaLove Hey guys- I think you should do a "GENERAL ("Learning Curve") VIDEO" on that aspect of online dating. People NEED, to be "self motivated" and "self-educating".
(I tried answering one of your followers, on this particular thread) But... people, have NO IDEA (I think) of what happens. And possibly very little idea, of what to expect... Maybe some of your followers will think they just "sign up" with a dating site....................... and "FIND" a wife.
...and that's "it".... ......... *gulp* (LoL)
*NOT KNOWING* about (poor bandwidth in the Philippines) cell phone apps, chatting via facebook messenger, or chatting via "WhatsApp" and then the whole "exchanging funds" thing....
[PayPal BitCoin coins.ph Money-cards NOT-using-Money-cards Money-centers ATMS ETC, Etc, etc....]
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i.e. ....explaining how, ... while an HONORABLE Filipina may NOT be out for your wallet, as a "Good man" .... you WILL wind up helping her to get to America (your home country?) - pay for data-rates, and etc...... I recommend that you create / discuss a "slightly technical" approach to this topic.... merely outlining *WHAT THEY THINK* ...they are "signing up" for (in the Wife-Search). But *THEN* explaining to them:
"Guys, if you are not technically savvy, BRACE yourself"....
Take it as FAR as you wish, up to and including basic "Visa-Stuff"
....but basically.... I think the idea of such a video is how to *Educate Yourself*
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...Or, in other words, "Online Dating is NOT 'Easy'-" .... it can be a challenge. So BRACE yourself. .......technical icebergs .... AHEAD!
7th Heaven Furniture & Carpet Cleaning L.L.C. I agree, a video to explain the reality that an online meeting then LDR will mean for the novice man. #1 They will be meeting a Filipina that is most likely very poor or definitely struggling to survive in the Philippines. Not all, but most. A man needs to understand that she has very little to no opportunity to get ahead in life and in addition to meeting a man that she can open up to and start a relationship she also probably has to help her parents,,it’s part of her culture and she won’t ever consider going to America, having a better lifestyle and neglecting her family.
The tough part is finding out about the girl and getting to know her and her family.
@@hardmtnbiker yyyyyYUP-!
Our agegap problem is that I’m 57 and my Mindanau girlfriend is 25. Naturally she would like to have children and i’m not against it either, but we must be aware that i’ll propably be gone within the next 20 years. That’ll means naturally that she will be a widow around the age of 45 and our children to come will loose their father before they turns 20.
Is that an attractive option?
We’ve decided to say yes but we will wait untill she’s got her danish citizenship before getting children.
can I just be jealous ? 2 amazing persons here !!
Thank you!
Always get advice from the Filipino woman who your involved with first before accepting the new friendship!
You mentioned in one of your earlier videos that you spent some time finding the best websites for finding Filipina woman. Any suggestions?
Hi Chief! We just built our own Dating website and if you are still looking for a loving, caring long lasting relationship with a Filipina you can sign up to: crazyfilipinalove.com
Happy New Year!!!
@@CrazyFilipinaLove Well Happy New Year. This is Great, look at you both, still looking Marvellous. Plus your making people happy on top of it. Way Cool, yes i would like to find someone. I am checking your new extended path of life, looking at the website. Very happy for both of you. I always loved both your responces when we spoke in the past. Although i am a tad bummed with the Covid crud going on, just Spiritually praying everyone is good and healthy. Around the world, yet especially all those beautiful woman-people of the Philippines.
I got into watching the Filipina Pea, she seems to be a Fine woman trying to help people comprehend the culture. For we know how things can get mixed up in translations. Plus sometimes this continent the USA has some information thats not always correct in factualality. Deffinately want to say its good to hear from both of you, you both look very happy still. Will try to find you on Facebook also. Peace is the True Pathway, may we all walk together upon it. Thanks Chief Willy J Black Cloud.
Good advice for the majority of long distance relationships!
I have learned these things through experience. I have anti- Filipina bias in my own family even though we are only 8 years apart.
That was four or five months ago. I arrived in the Philippines on March 12th planning to return home with her on the 24 th of March. But thanks to COVID 19 I have been stranded here ever since. My family has gotten to know her view video chatting and phone calls. Many of them have changed their minds. We will win over the rest eventually. God bless.
You can see they really have respect to each other🙂🙂
Team LDR she obviously adores him as much as he does her. Their passion shows on their great vlogs.
@@hardmtnbiker indeed
Excellent comments! I try to be considerate of my wife, I think that’s essential. Sexual compatibility is important; that might need some adjustment too.
Love Beyond The Sea I’ve watched many of your vlogs, your obviously a very considerate man and have given your wife a life that she could have only dreamed of if she stayed in the Philippines.
Thanks Doug. I like making her happy. The most important thing is she feels like I care about her body, mind and soul.
Absolutely true I was like my fiancee's girlfriend. It created problems. So beyond her Birthday and the holidays I don't FB with her friends.
We the filipina had so much patience and so loyal for our foreigner partners. And I am one of those filipina women. I am married with my husband 11 years this April 2020 after 5 years of dating. We have 2 kids on our own, 12 yrs old son and 2 yrs old daughter. My husband had 3 on his own.
I'm not in Facebook neither on Twitter by choice! I believe on truth, respect, honesty. Right I have a relationship with someone in Canada but it is 13 years now and I believe to think to redo my like drastically and move eventually to the Philippines to retire there within 2 years, alone and redo my life there... because my like now is miserable
Blessed couple.. Hoping to meet the right man for me..
Hey just Praying for everyone in the Philippines because of the Volcano. Have you all heard anything from the people you all know? Wondering if there is anything we can do to help? Thanks for your time. Peace and Prayers. Chief
We are also praying here in US. A lot of people were affected. May God protect them and their loved ones. 🙏🙏❤️
I like as you speak you consider her feelings. As I watch you I learn how to do the same.
Yes, its is important in any relationship. But even more so when it is with a women from a completely different culture. Make a women feel safe, loved , and understood when your thousands of miles away, and when there are so many uncertainties in the world, and her heart will belong to you.
Great video and advice guys. In my opinion, you guys don't have a obvious visual age gap like a lot of other couples. So I think that you don't to address as much as others because your age gap differences are primarily based intellectual and generational interests. Keep up the great work and topics. Merry Christmas.
ceejae worldwide I agree they don’t show a big age gap, primarily because he’s fit and probably only 15-20 years older.
I’ve just come across your vlog……. You’re a very insightful, sensitive man, God Bless You Both ! 👍🏽💕💗💗💗
I badly needed this... Thank you guys and merry Christmas!!! ❤️❤️❤️
*KEEP THE FAITH* .... Stay Strong :-)
@@7thheavenfurniturecarpetcl153 thanks.. 🙂
U both are inspirations. Thank you
How do you get in touch with these woman to start a relationship?
PRAY on the matter- hard- (with INTENTION) and "Go in".... with full faith. That's probably the "simplest" way to put it.... you MUST "commit" - it's more a matter of the condition of YOUR OWN Heart here - I know when I went to a dating site, I prayed for it... and basically said: "Lord, you had BETTER GUIDE ME.... b/c I am CHOOSING.... and whether foolish right or wrong.... I ask that YOU guide me.... b/c .....how can I Truly Know???" and within 72 hours I had made a choice and then ended my membership on that dating site.... I believe it was b/c I went IN (with a Righteous intent) yet.... the FULLEST INTENTION of "choosing" a wife.... and that, is how I treat this every day of my life. ........... you may as well compare the feeling with jumping out of a plane (with a parachute) for the FIRST time in your life.............. SAME .... exact .... emotional "Loading"..... and if you are gonna JUMP..... yer gonna .... *JUMP* .... ! there is no "Trying" to jump! - so, I believe faith / intuition, plays a HUGE role in this. ....but only if you ALLOW it to.
@@7thheavenfurniturecarpetcl153 I think you miss understood me. My intentions are true. Just don't know if you have to use one of those sites or a chat room or?
@@sandrailmark9389 yes, I used those sites. and yes, that's EXACTLY what I meant-!
I do not *doubt your own good intent* ... that is NOT what I was saying (re-read it)
i personally can recommend the site *PinaLove.com* . it seemed to be good.
------- I AM saying, above .............. "Good Luck"
My own girlfriend, has told me she has searched actively for 3 years---!
From *HER* point of view most / the "Foreigners" have disappointed her.
She had almost entirely given up. (she is getting a bit "Older" she's not 20yrs old)
And for Myself??? Here in America, I too had almost given up
(b/c of American Women)
.... so PinaLove.com is one site you can begin with for free.
after that...? you're kind of on your own- but *THAT is a good place to start*
you can start out on that site COMPLETELY FREE- but it is possible you may wish to pay for a better membership. But, there is no need- it will just be slower as a "Free user". There will be a "Learning Curve" - you must do some "Test Contacts" *FIRST*
You will have to LEARN what differing communications Apps the various individuals use, learn to install and use any of them, and learn WHO to trust and HOW MUCH, etc... there's just a "Learning Curve" and *NOBODY* knows all the answers for you.
YOU will have to work at it and figure it out. (that is why I said: "Pray")
what I said, about asking for "guidance" from above... *still holds true*
-- if you want success, you still must "Go Into this" with a great determination.
*smile* ..all I mean is... "Good Luck" in your hunt! (I do not doubt your good intent)
*I was very very lucky* "Lucky" ....Brian himself (in this Crazy Pina Love channel)
Brian himself is to be found saying, Quote: "If you ask *HIM* his *WIFE* (or ANYbody) is "this" right or is "that" right? ...... what you are (personally) doing is likely wrong for you. HOW do you "meet" anybody? There are several dating sites, and.... "Good Luck"
it will take some practice to get to know how various people work.
I personally ..... *started* by "Practicing" with younger philippine women that I had no real interest in being with. Learning to chat with them, befriending them, and growing accustomed to basic behaviors -- no matter what, you will need some "Luck"
ANYBODY - can "meet" anybody.... if you have any money. But to meet someone who is sincere? AND a good match for you? ---- yup .................... PRAY about that one.
... you will "KNOW" within yourself. *nobody else can tell you* only You.
so I was being serious. Pray, that you have the discernment necessary to use ANY of those sites with luck and a good outcome.
*I was never "doubting" your own intentions* . Merely speaking from experience. to "MEET" someone via online in any fashion? And then to maintain that "online" contact? can be exhausting (unless you do not work, and have unlimited money).
... So yes, you need all the "guidance" and or luck possible.
in MY case? ..... I went in to a dating site with the intention that it be the LAST time I try this...
(Last time, so that I can *FIND* a wife.... so YES ...I prayed, I was determined)
I simply *knew* ...inside myself, that "THIS TIME I AM CHOOSING A WIFE" - !
(so I prayed that I ...please... "Find" her)
Good Luck in your search.
@@7thheavenfurniturecarpetcl153 yes that is a good site, ty for you help! The sites that pop up in search engines are not very good. I think they are just out for your monies. I think there is more people that get discourage because of the same problem I had where to start. This is something I really want and am looking forward to this next step in my life. Once again thank you for your help!!!
@@sandrailmark9389 OH YESssssss they are *definitely* out for your money. I am confident you can "Do This".... but most people wind up surprised at How Much Work it actually is to do the online dating thing (if you are Serious about it).... it can feel like ONE "test" after another.... ( *sometimes* )
.....and yes, you must slowly allow yourself to Learn...
you may be "Lucky" and rapidly find someone worthy.... (and I have heard horror stories from Very *bitter* / angry people who felt "taken advantage of") ....... I don't think it is all "Easy" --- but, .... just try to always be honest (the best policy) and be a LITTLE Bit cautious (but not super-paranoid either) ........................... I think you can trust your Heart / your "Gut" .... most times. b/c if Some female is acting a little "strange"..... she's PROBABLY being evasive b/c she's not honest with you- .... I bless you in your efforts.... Just PRAY-!!! .... this last time??? For ME??? .... I was SHOCKED........... I think I was "Blessed" ..... but only because I went in there with such ... a ... TOTAL ... "determination".... *I honestly think God said: "Let me HELP this fool.... before he Hurts himself* ...!" ..... LoL-! Good Luck and never give up!
Hi.... Guys I'm always watching your video and I got alots of advice to you videos it helps me alots. At this time we are in a long distance relationship and both were widowed,he have a daughter and I have a son. I hope that
I hope that I can talk to you both to Facebook or hangouts and I know that you can give me more advice. This my Facebook account. Rochelle calanno.. Thank you guys i hope to talk to you soon. Thank you and God bless your marriage. God bless!
That book that you mentioned, 'Ask It', sounds like a Blue Pill/Beta Male book by how you describe it.
If you want the REAL TRUTH about Women and successful relationships, then take the Red Pill and read the book 'The Rational Male' by Rollo Tomassi (a married Man).
I bought the audio book on Amazon because I work long hours and don't have time to read.
TheSeabeeMan Not a Blue Pill/Beta man book at all. Should probably listen to the audio book before you judge. Thanks for the tip on “ The Rational Male” will give it a read. Always willing to listen to different viewpoints.
Also, watch our first video labeled, “ WHY MEN MARRY FILIPINO WOMEN”. A bit on Masculinity.
@@CrazyFilipinaLove
I Love your videos, and I'm a Subscriber.
The audio book, 'The Rational Male', will open your eyes to Blue Pill truths, thoughts, and actions... ...which completely destroy LTR's.
BTW - I plan on going to the Philippines in April for a month to meet a Filipina I've been talking to on Cebuana.com.
For now, I'm going to watch your recommended video, and I'm going to see if they have that audio book 'Ask It' on Amazon.
Keep the videos rollin in👍🏻👍🏻... ...as Filipina's🇵🇭 are the best choice for American🇺🇲 Men!
Good perspective, outside of making vlogs are you in the area of relationship coaching?
De La Luz Have had a healthy obsession with leadership, coaching, mentoring, relationships, etc. my whole life. Apply it to many areas of life and have a passion to understand what makes people do what they do and help whenever needed. Never as coaching business, but may be heading this way. I appreciate your comment, truly.
Great video, we enjoy your channel. Merry Christmas.
I'm happy for you both. How did your wife family think of you ? Happy New Year !!
Love you guys! Also I really like your T shirt. :))
Don’t know why this was on my YT recommendation but you guys look great together..love your videos! What part of the States if you don’t mind me asking?
Crispyy Baconn Thanks for your comment. We are in SW Florida.
Thanks Very good stuff !!!!!
Excellent tips guys ... and i love your xmas tree (fr USA).
Lets visit my home
I like you both specially the guy . You always try to explain well in simple and complex manner.
Age gap is one issue. But you avoided the where you are in your life cycle. It is one thing to be fifty and date a 25 year old or even marry one. But one must look at the big picture. Your point in your life must be considered when marrying a much younger Filipina. You must be fair and honest about where you are in life and your remaining years. My girlfriend is a Filipina ten years younger, here in Japan, being a former sailor I have seen large age differences in the P.I. Many Filipina's want a better life no matter the price to be paid. Just some feedback.
Hi, OU8SUM2 Covered this in our video “The Good and Bad about Age Gap”. You are absolutely right. Life plan is the most important! Thank you so much for your insights and support.God Bless.
New subscriber here, look forward to watching your videos 👍
A very interesting, informative and open minded discussion. I really thank both of you.
I love you both guys!!🤗
In my case he is the one who feeling jealous most, he don't want me to have fun with my friends, we don't have a habit of drinking nor smoking but still he don't want me to hang out specially if there's my male friends.. I'm quite older than him.. We haven't met yet but he's planning nxt year... 😣
@@joebrennan.4389 Believe it or not I'm not always hanging out.. I'm mostly home, work, home work.. And I'm not enjoying him making jealous,the right term is I'm wondering why he is so jealous..
29 and I'm 46 already.. Well he is very vocal on saying that he is a jealous type.. And I rather let him find other girl same as his age (but he don't like) than me cheating.. 🙂
Medeline Reeves: he appears to be a very controlling person. Move on and find someone else (fr USA).
@@stevewilliams1289 idk.. It's not easy as changing clothes.. 🙂
@@medelinereeves2608 I understand what you are saying Medeline. It may be difficult to find someone else; but easy to drop someone who is undesirable.
Congratulations!!
With age comes experience, being older makes you a mentor and all relationships take work, you become each others support system, try having mutual interests like going to the grocery or a date night.
Thanks sir to explanation..
i do one ???? for you if you dont mine
tell me i wood like to no shud i go to her be cuz iam wonting to marry her
Your vlog is kind of interesting...new subs here! Good luck guys!👍👌🇵🇭🇧🇭
I think they are the SWEETEST most sharp/intelligent couple I've seen doing this type of topic. They're a "Natch" ....for being vLog-Stars
Lets hug,and ill hug u back
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year🎆🎆🎆
Why I'm here 🤣🤣 hmmm enjoy watching
Merry Christmas both of you..very lovely couple❤❤...its really hard to find a real man in the dating site hahhaha I surrendered 😅
*KEEP THE FAITH* .... "We" ... really do exist-!
The PROBLEM is this.... most (American) Men do not even seriously consider
(or KNOW about) ... "The Filipina-solution"
.... but I think *THAT* is going to change soon! (increasingly fast)
more and MORE American men are simply "done" with what our culture is doing to the "family" and to (potential) wives, we *WILL* Look elsewhere-!
....but many Men, simply do not even know where to Begin-! - so, stay "tuned"!
@@7thheavenfurniturecarpetcl153 good for you to be one of the good man...I'm agree with you...goodluck 😊!
I chat a guy from australia , i think we like each other, he said i'll wait 7 months, after 2 month , chatting i feel I was "really" in love with him, I said he came here Philippines (to find out if he was serious about me), he called me a scammer and I never ask for money or material and he didn't give me any money. ...🤫
I was even more hurt because he said that pinay scam !?🥵
And all pinay is scammer🤒
Even no money intervened..:-(😥
And the other one is american🤦🏽♂️ man,they r not good also, some of them just want @fun,meaning they ask @something i can't do it and @cam..i'm not crazy OMG...😒🙄
When they want to play, I also play their games I say when you ask for nudes I ask for money ..
Haha just testing!
Then they say the Filipinas look like money, in the dating app ..🥴
foreigners don't like us anymore, they prefer thai girls maybe, it's better if they nt look pilipina.. 🙏
I am tired
You two are my favorite couple on American Filipina relationships on U-Tube. We were in an LDRS & 10 Mo. later I was here in the Philippines that was 1 1/2 yrs., ago. We are older than you 65 & 44. I have to watch who I except friends request from, also. A lot of them r trolling for western men. I don't mind hanging out with Filipinas my fiancé age My best male friend is only 4 yrs. older than her. That was my biggest problem with my ex, she was 8 yrs., older than me & I act younger than am & she didn't like it. I do the same thing W/ friends request do, U know her,
Much better to meet first than waiting and expecting a lot. 😁
I agree with you in regard with your behaviour in #1 but that's not the definition of being on a short leash and you are dead wrong about #2. You still have a lot of maturing to do yourself. I have a lot of friends personally who are older than myself.
I always encounter ur comment😅
To all foreigner-filipina blogger ?
Wow happy to both of you
Very nice video
You guys are a great looking couple. The greater the age gap, the greater reason not to bring the young bride back to the US to live. I told her once I move to the Phils, I am not moving back to the US. In my LDR, there is a 36 year age gap. Societal pressures in the US on a large age gap relationship can be brutal on the young wife. Visit the US, yes. Move here, No. Until I can permanently move to the Philippines, we talk about what we expect for the future. Is marriage on the table? Will there be children? How many? At what point do we live together? So far we seem to be on the same sheet of music. Love your channel. Hope you guys have a merry Christmas and a prosperous new year.
age gap in u.s philippines really dont make any difference if she love you .If she dumps.you in state's because of age gap that was her intentions all along it has nothing to do she been Americanized that nonsense.
@@garrylafferty100 "was her intentions all along". This assumes that an age gap between a 24 year old Filipina and her 60 year old husband is treated the same in the US as it is in the Philippines. This assumes that women from the Phils and the US share the same values, the same thoughts on marriage and family. This assumes that different cultural pressures from the US, over time, will have zero effect on this young woman. This assumes, that over time, the Filipina will not become "Americanized" and that this new found culture will not replace, over time, whatever she gained from her original Filipino culture. Living in the US, the smaller the age gap, the better chance a marriage has in succeeding. How many 24 year old American women do you see looking for husbands where the age gap is huge? They are few and far between. I am taking a pragmatic, realistic approach to the situation. I'll leave the romantic lens to the poets and the dreamers.
@@garrylafferty100 "make no differnce if she love you." And that is your first mistake. Love is only as good as the ingredients a society provides for it. Love for a poor person is different than love by the upper crust rich folks of any society. If you don't believe me, check the ingredients.
@@JohnLynsAdventures he's bitter
@@JohnLynsAdventures love matters you trust her or you don't if she in her 20s she high risk no matter what country you live if she over 30 she know what she wants especially if she has a child or two 2020 divorce rate was 39% in u.s so ya there a good chance it could fail especially if she in her 20s your 60s no matter were you live only difference she cant divorce you philippines but she can leave and they do plus if you don't trust each other you don't have love that the foundation your first mistake
Older guys want younger ladies and older women likes younger guys. Why?
I want 5-15 years older thn my age!
Single dad is fine because i loveee kidsss is make me smile😂😂😂
Why is people always into looks because look fade always what important isn't look it about how you connection and vibe with each other and see what you guys have in common this way alot us good woman can't found a really good man because people like you say that have be fine or good looking that wrong too start off a relationship with just looking to have a price on your arms that relationship won't last long
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I like see you vidio.
Great video💯
Yeah just live in the Philippines if you can💯😂 The Western Society will only add stress on your relationship.
Are you both Born Again Christians?
Art Silbar Hi Art, thanks for watching. We are Catholic.
You guys should please stop making all these feel-good videos about finding ever-lasting love in the Philippines. Filipinas are *not* the best women on the planet. They are simply some of the poorest and most opportunistic. If they have no skills, no job (or one that makes $200 a month) or a family with a bad reputation in their neighbourhood, they would *ALWAYS* say "yes" to a man - foreign, local, doesn't matter - who will take them out of Poverty Land and give them a lifestyle even marginally better than the one they have. They are soft-spoken, sweet, devoted and submissive because they have nothing else to offer than their best behaviour to keep the relationship going.
Not saying their "love" isn't pleasant and soul-soothing, especially to so many of the love-starved divorcees in the West, but it is entirely borne out of desperation, need. What you see is just the combined effect of gratitude (once they know that virtually any foreign man has the power to change their lives and that of their families), and the very solid fear of losing it all if they misbehave. Many of them will stay faithful because they have a lot to lose by leaving their man/hubby. Once they start to show off their new lifestyle on social media, if they are still young and good looking, they will be showered with compliments and likes. When that happens, adieu loyalty: they will try and jump to the next man who can give them more with a lame excuse.
I have been living in the Philippines for 5 years, continuously. Davao City and now Metro Manila. It took me the grand total of 3 years to find a "good" Filipina whose mind, heart and soul I could trust enough to start a relationship with her. I obviously didn't find her on a dating site or via a dating service. I didn't have a distance relationship with her. It took me 6 months of courtship to convince her that I was the one for her. She comes from an upper-class family, she had her own job and absolutely no rush. This is how it should be, if you ask me.
All in all I can say it takes *MORE* to find a good Filipina than it takes to find a good woman in your own country (LOL perhaps the US is an exception, I am European). Not to spit on anyone's parade, but some truth must be told to somehow counterbalance the cotton candy narrative. Many men might get hurt if they have sky-high expectations and can't (or won't) put enough time & effort in finding the right soulmate.
@Granding Smile Appreciate your feedback. Our mission is not to make "Feel Good" videos and lead people to believe in a fairy tale. "It’s about helping Filipinas and foreigners understand all the good and bad that can come. We are keeping it real. Agree that people need to build real relationships and put the time and effort in, regardless of what "class" a woman is from. It took you 3 years, it took me 3 months to find Angelica, plenty of months to court her after I found her, and over a year of building a relationship long-distance which takes amazing communication and trust. May not be from an upper-class family, but she did do things the old fashion way which is what I love about her the most. She had to bust her but in school to get scholarships to earn her college degree. She worked hard and also gave back to her community in any way she could. She did all this while being an amazing big sister to 6 younger brothers and sisters. She is the very definition of an amazing heart and soul I can trust. She is such a positive influence and incredible stepmother to my 4 kids ages ( 12,10,9,7 ). Yes.. we will be having our own children soon too, God willing.
I flew to the Phillippines almost every month during our LDR until we were together here in the U.S. So... we could not agree more that time and effort needs to be put in to find the right soul mate. We don’t want anyone settling for anything less than a genuine loving relationship. We want both men and women to make wise decisions if choosing this relationship path.
@@CrazyFilipinaLove Thanks for your reply. I am happy to hear Angelica was the right woman for you, genuinely hard working, and she continues to be an amazing companion, stepmother and big sister. Please do not take this as an offense, but I am not exactly turned on by seeing a Filipina wanting to be with a foreign man because he's her only ticket out of poverty, or a surefire way to stop sweating for $200 a month and live the good life.
As I usually say, they make you feel "oh, so special" just for turning up!
For the good-hearted woman she is, if Angelica had been chased by multiple Filipino boys from good families or with decent jobs (Cebu has plenty), she would have never signed up on a dating site, she would have never looked for a foreigner, in fact she would have actively avoided meeting foreigners. Unless you under 25 and look like a model, or are half-Filipino and of some fame, the only Filipinas you will ever get to meet, date and marry will be the ones who need you as a provider, for themselves, their kids and their (extended) families. This is the bitter truth nobody wants to talk about.
When I lived in Davao I was running my own business. While I wasn't in the Philippines to find love, I was divorced and cherished that idea. I had no rush and was looking for a young woman who was not only pretty but smart, well-educated, independent and from at least a middle-class family. Before finally meeting my fiancee (who is from Manila) I tried to approach several girls who fitted my bill, only to receive to-your-face rejections, usually in the form of "I have a job/my own business, I don't need a foreigner" or "the lawyer's son is chasing me, I don't need a foreigner" or "I am an Ateneo graduate, I don't need a foreigner".
I am by no means saying that all foreigners should date the kinds of girls I was looking for. Most of them are perfectly fine with girls of very modest intellect and background, who show a good heart and good intentions. However, it is better if they remove the avocado slices from their eyes and see the reality for what it is: they are with you because they need you and they couldn't find better, not because they love you.
Gandang Smile No offense taken. You seem to be very sincere about your opinions and I can appreciate that. Let me know if you would be open to a skype call. I can create an interview style video, and we can talk about both our points of view and give our followers some food for thought. Here’s an opportunity to have your voice heard. If your interested let me know and I will give my email.
@@CrazyFilipinaLove Thanks for the opportunity, but I have a feeling that whatever I have to say is not something the average man looking for love in the Philippines will want to hear. Love is always "crazy", as you put it, in the sense that leads both partners to see what they want to see.
Foreigners are usually in ecstasy when dating girls 20+ years younger who treat them like kings. They surely don't need to, maybe they don't want to, be told *why* that is.
The bulk of your audience is probably American/Canadian. I found Europeans and North Asians to be much more inquisitive and pragmatic, more like their Filipina counterparts. If love out of gratitude must be, they try to date the youngest and best looking Filipina they can get.
You can contact me at gandangsmile@gmail.com if you want to talk. I'll be happy to have a honest conversation, if you feel it will benefit your audience, or any man, really.
@@gandangsmile7389 I found one who really was looking for love. She had been completely unsuccessful, both in the Philippines and abroad. I too was looking for love because I was completely unwanted at home. I wanted someone my own age - I was completely uninterested in anyone much younger than myself. We clicked very quickly, and I met her after 11 months of LDR. (No Skype or texting then. I asked her to marry me two days after we physically met. 20 years later, we're still married.
Do you have children?🙂
Making yourself a slave to another person's emotional immaturity is always a bad idea, regardless of the immature person's gender or nationality. In this scenario, the actual thing that needs to happen to have a solid foundation for a deep and meaningful relationship is for the Filipina to grow up. I'm not sure why the standard of acceptable behavior applied to Filipinas is so low. Why should behavior that's utterly unacceptable in other countries--and for good reason--be acceptable when Filipinas do it, with foreign men who don't accept it being vilified? This is topsy-turvy. But hundreds of videos express this bad idea. I don't get it.
@clickolodeon, Bryan here.
Thanks for watching! We appreciate it. In every case we have ever seen, it is normally not as much the emotional immaturity, as it is the lack of emotional intelligence on the man's part. It's the truth. To understand and appreciate her world, you need to really put yourself in her shoe's. How would you feel if you were in an LDR with a Filipina you planned to marry, and she was constantly meeting new foreign men and chatting with them daily because she likes the attention? You would not like this, it is disrespectful. If you're going to date a younger woman, yes, they will need to grow like any young person does. If you're going to date a much younger Filipina, this is the choice you made. Filipinas are awesome, but they are more sensitive. It's not fair, nor practical, to force her to grow up instantly to meet the standards a man needs her to be at. Most good Filipinas have somewhat traditional values and believe they should be courted. Court her, make her your number 1, she will love you forever. Make her feel like just another one of your chat mates, she won't be very happy. The book I mentioned in the video " ASK IT" is fantastic. Really makes readers' self reflect and see things differently. Take care.
@@CrazyFilipinaLove You make some good points. Moreover, I appreciate that you have enough integrity to not stoop to using "culture" to rationalize bad behavior but just tell it straight. Good luck.