IKD TV. Still traumatized? Shiiiih. If anything he was motivated cause he keep 2 fine ass live-in girlfriends at a time & those are just the ones he live with. 😂😂😂
@@adam_doesthings817 bruh he didnt say not one positive thing about the experience... Can you really not tell nervous uncomfortable smiles when you see it? How he looked like he was finna cry? And the only thing he was able to say about it in the midst of Vlad's maniacal laughter was that he knows that as a boy its "different". He didnt say but you know im a boy so i liked it. No what DeRay did was acknowledge the double standard and literally proceeded to attempt to make sense of it to make himself feel better. Why the fuck would an 11 year old boy want to eat some grown women's pussy? What pleasure could a child possibly garner from that incident? To the people in these comments thinking this shits funny, youre sick and part of the problem. Try to imagine your grown ass female friends, unbeknownst to you, having your 11 year old son eat her pussy... You just gonna have a casual conversation about it with her? Invite her to dinner? What she and your baby boy should get married now too huh? Its all im good fun, a boy should like that shit... Smfh. Protect your kids with your lives, boy or girl - everyone please. 🙏💯
both situations are horrible, regardless. but the thing that sucks is that people say “how can men get raped?” like what the fuck? it’s not rocket science. it upsets me that people think men can’t get assaulted.
Plus, he's a "professional funny man" - a comedian. It's sad, but comedians are expected to be damaged as a mark of their trade. If a comedian talks about their suffering, many people think it's acceptable to laugh at them just because "that's a comedian's purpose in life." Just look at what Vlad did. Comedians get no compassion.
This actually broke my heart listening to this. I'm glad he's teaching his daughter that of something happens to her to say something in the moment and not years later
I think he was laughing because he was the victim and that's his way he keep from crying when talking about it. And the interviewer was laughing because when a guy was telling the story about how he got raped, he did it in a very committed way. I've done it multiple times I'm very hurt by something and I tell the story in a way to make it funny to keep myself from crying. If I tell the story in a sad way I'm already going to feel sad about it but if everybody else around me that's listen to the story starts crying I'm going to start crying so the only way I can do it without crying on the outside as to make others laugh. Like Kevin Hart said laugh at My Pain. He made the interviewer laughs at his pain.
I lost all respect for Vlad after this interview. How are you gonna laugh in a man's face when you can actually sense and see the pain and discomfort? Shit is crazy.
right, they wouldve never even made a peep if he was a women saying that she had sex with two 30 year old men at 11. Shit cant be disgusting for one child and hilarious for another
Oldpangolin I mean, it happened many years ago and Deray has no problem openly speaking of it, so if the guy wants to laugh because of their age, then they should be able to. It's hose thing in life that yeah they were screwed up at the time, but now you should be able to joke about it to show it's over and it's all good
Lost his virginity? Please dont sugar coat molestation and assault! We have to start labeling assault and molestation for what it is. I’m so sad that so many adults feel the need to selfishly rob children of there innocents.
This made me really sad to watch. You can tell he’s trying to tell him the seriousness of what happened. “I was 11” “I didn’t have hair on my body” “it was disgusting” “to this day I can’t..” he literally lives with the trauma and can’t be intimate in certain ways with women because of what those nasty ass ugly women did to him. You can tell that to him this was serious and that guy just laughed in his face and it broke my heart. He only smiled and laughed to kind of mirror him and minimize what he was initially trying to get across to make the interviewer comfortable and this shit makes me so angry. I hope he can get his story across one day without having to hear this bullshit of a response.
Never knew this until now. But it sank in when i watched this. Then i saw you comment. Cuz truth is he has 2 woman now. But he was taken advantage by 2 older woman before his body fully developed. Shit crazy. Subconsciously still acted out as if it never was worked out of his system. But he replaced the older women with 2 different women he loves. But will never truly know. How would i be if that never happened?
That nigga living the life & y'all trying to use that experience from decades ago. If it was really like that, he'd be living with 2 ugly older bitches. Haha. That man from Chi Town, said he been a player & had females chasing him for the longest. It's the life he chose & y'all trying to make his current status a tragic or sad situation correlated with that one experience. Hahaha. Sheeeeeeit! I pity the fool that does.
You can tell DeRay didn't mean for it to be funny at first then these dudes started laughing. That shit wasn't funny. I don't wanna compare apples to oranges but if a women said that and they laughed this comment section would have had totally different reactions. I don't care how cool it may seem but DeRay that's molestation and having sex that young anyway is crazy. Doesn't matter if you both were 11.
I Lost My Virginity early too. I can't remember my age, but I know was in between 3rd- 5th grade. She Was in Highschool, and her mom was best friends with my mom. She ended up living with us because her mom passed away from breast cancer. Low key, I think losing it early fucks you up in one way or another. It's hard for me to commit to relationships because I lose interest so quick, after I have sex with woman.
Mike Tank Brown ll I lost my virginity in my early 20's and I still have commitment issues and a lack of interest in women after sex, so I feel you even on the opposite end of the spectrum
If having sex is the main motivator of being with a women, of course you will lose interest after you get off. The key is to find a women you would like to be around even if there is no sex involved. Also let's keep it real we as men low key lose respect for a women after we have sex if we don't actually want to marry them.
cte93 I can tell by your response to my post. That you probably think I'm full of shit because you probably still a virgin. And it's nothing wrong with being a virgin man. I wish I could had waited. Some day, you gonna find that right person. First you gotta learn how to talk to people first.
Dj Brews LeeRoi High key 🔑 sad 😞 can’t believe this and this is actually very common with a lot of men but it’s just not talked about as much or laughed at like this BS here 🤦🏾♀️
You can tell he was not a willing participant no matter what you want to call it. A rite of passage for a man or molestation. One thing is true, he was not a willing participant. If you have any questions about that, just listen again to how he describes his experience. Nothing Pleasant about it is there? "Two horrible-looking women, my mother's friends, took advantage of me, in a basement, it was a scary place, not a place you wanted to be..." Sorry that happened to you, DeRay. We should all be able to choose who our first time is with and not have that decision taken away from us.
Uh Dee Ray was molested. PERIOD. Where’s that convo. I see his point. I mean if there’s someone that could be yelling rape, molestation, harassment... this guy could truly make that claim. People laughin but he’s been through it.
@@ShadowDancer_ There’s no 🤷🏾♂️…He’s obviously masking his pain with humor and for someone to laugh at him is hella disrespectful. If it was a woman who told her story through humor I guarantee that no one would be laughing.
@@OGStarlightKY ...he literally said "it was like a scary jungle.." it's hard *not* to laugh when he's throwing in those typa jokes..."🤷♂️"...smdh. foh, fam
This has happened to a lot of guys and they're scarred because it's molestation/rape. Because they're males and the perpetrators were female and their body responded to what was happening and because of culture, they are made to feel like they liked it or were supposed to. Your body will biologically naturally respond to stimuli, doesn't mean you liked it or wanted it to happen.Damn, just watching SVU would let you know that. A lot of black boys have been molested by males too, but they usually remain quiet about that. To all the men violated this way, I hate that this happened to you and I hate that you feel you have to pretend it didn't affect you because you may be viewed as weak. Know this, you're not though. Please love yourself.
I have sooo many friends, men and women who have confided I'm me about being molested. The men are always stuck wondering if they are victims or if they "got lucky". It's makes my heart hurt.
We often laugh through hard times but it is disgusting to hear this dude laugh at this man's story and unbelievably out of order from someone whose job is having people share their personal business on your channel.
Yeah this was awkward. Deray still affected by the molestation. Maybe comedy helps him deal with the pain. It appears laughter is how he copes. However, is not needed for how serious the subject is for him and others.
I have watched a lot of Vlad interviews and have rarely heard him buss out laughing so loud and excitedly. This gentleman was raped by two adults as a child, absolutely nothing amusing about this whatsoever as it makes me wonder about Vlads unacceptable instinctual response.
My ex lost his virginity young to older twin sisters. He’s been obsessed with polygamy and 3 sums ever since. I hated it. He has serious issues and doesn’t realize he was taken advantage of
The pain was is in his eyes though he laughed, grinned and joked. abuse is abuse. Glad that that experience gave him a very nuanced view of this #me too movement.
@@koramarie2904 it kind of sounds like BS to me.. men or boys being raped by women is extremely uncommon, and two 30 year old women raping an 11 year old boy is just hard to believe.. they would have no reason what so ever to do so.
THE DARK LORD No reason to do it maybe she won a power maybe they want more power over their little boy they couldn’t get it from A grown man but they knew they could control little boy Plus the de said they were fat and ugly so they use that little boy
Two weeks ago D.L. Hughley was joking about losing his virginity at 12 to a 23 year old. This is the down low no one will talk about it's right in front of your face.
That's called trauma my man 🥺 the way he changed subject very quickly be where laughing so was he but you could in his face he was uncomfortable so sad deray don't ever be embarrassed you where just a child 🥺
I'm sorry that, that happened to you. Its horrible to hear such a horrific story. I'm a mother so I find this story to be devastating. I pray for his healing and peace.
For what he experienced as a child, I don’t blame him for not wanting to perform oral sex on women now. I really want to hug him because no boy should be FORCED to do adult sexual things like that!
i feel bad for what happened to him when he was 11; i can tell he was affected by it negatively but he's not willing to allow it to pull him down; not everybody can do that; i hope he can continue to cope
I am so happy to hear that he told his story. Especially the reason why he is unable to perform oral on a woman. When your childhood is taken away from you, you see sex in a different way. It no longer becomes pleasurable but rather a chore. Like he said his Kool-Aid tasted different, that's a really sad thing that he had to experience. That's why I am a firm believer in people not being in your house. These children go through things that really mess them up. The way he explained "whoring yourself out" was something I had never thought about before. Never saw De-Ray as a deep person until this interview.
That’s molestation fam. I lost mine at 11 but it was to a 12 year old. Yeah too fuckin young to be havin sex but at least it wasn’t a grown ass, sick in the head woman molesting me
I knew in middle school that kids were fuckin in a library while waiting to get picked up to go home. I saw kids having sex in the woods behind school. I saw kids go into empty class rooms and get it. My school had at least 1600 kids on any given day. There is no way you can have eyes on every kid all the time.
502 KINGPAUL People don't realize that child-on-child molestation is very real. These kids get molested/exposed to certain shit by adults, and they do what was done to them/what they saw, to other kids...
Salute to DeRay for speaking out!! More men need to soak their truth. This man was raped; it's not funny! It's not cool! It's child rape!! This is why do many of our Black Men ate promiscuous, distrusting and abusive towards women. And some of these men grow up to victimize other children. Victims become perpetrators of sexual abuse. This man didn't lose his virginity; he lost his innocence and his right to choose.
So he was molested by 2 grown, sick women at the same time, and now as an adult, has been taught that it was just losing his virginity not sexual molestation, and is now in an open relationship with 2 women at the same time. This shit is deep. Being molested changes who a child is supposed to be. It's horrible. I wish he had someone in his life who could help him see that he was violated by those women, and could shed some light on the possible affects it has had on his decisions in relationships. Despite that though, a long with the other challenges in his childhood with drug addiction in his family and selling drugs that he has spoken about, he has managed to succeed so much greater than his parents with far less tools than they gave him. #Iyanlamoment lol. He is a walking success story and story of overcoming horrible odds and making something despite coming from nothing.
Wow... this hurt my soul to watch. I have a son who will be 10 years old soon. The thought of this happening to my baby literally makes me sick to my stomach. There's nothing humorous at all with this story. So sad.
Well obviously not cause as it was stated in the video its different because he's a male. Not saying it wasn't tragic. But if he chooses to be ok with and laugh then why cant others 2? Its his story and he doesn't want u to feel bad for him.
Dmarco Gordon shut the fuck up you fucking douche. Sometimes when the person is really older than you, you get scared to say no. Fuck you ! You don’t know til you go through it yourself.
Dmarco Gordon you fucking scumbag. & what if he did say no but her sick ass did it anyways 😷 Haywerth Clarke I’m sorry you went through that 😪😔 ik how that feels
Fear keeps a person from doing a lot of things. A lot! It’s so easy for ppl to say speak up. But that fear. Fear of embarrassment, isolation etc will keep a person quiet. We all hold a lot of secrets that no one will ever know but they should know.
@Tatyana The only person who used the word "All" here is YOU. If that bitch is proving the stereotype of Black women to be true, then you should be mad at HER. And every woman like her. And the fact that you would direct your disdain at a Black MALE virgin, a RARITY, makes me question YOU. If what he says doesn't apply to you, why on Earth are you offended? And as a fellow Black woman, I demand an answer.
I just got so sick hearing Vlad laugh at DeRay's trauma and sexual assault! And it breaks my heart that DeRay thinks it's "different" because he's a boy. It's not different, sexual assault is sexual assault!
I know someone who was molested by his half sister. His half sister was raped by their step-dad. This is really sick and sad. Please talk to your children.
I like Deray a lot. His psychological analysis and understanding of people is always so profound to me. Also he's always had like this humility that makes him likable and relatable. What he describes as "hoeing yourself out" is what many people would label as "finessing" people. That's really humble to me that he understands there's a level of compromising yourself towards your objective that's essentially the same as somebody being a "hoe" instead of being all proud about getting what he wants, like a trickster or something. I respect that.
Being exposed to sex by two older woman like that isn't funny at all. And if you look at his recent Breakfast club interview you can tell it did some damage to him.
I dated this guy and he told me he was 7 when he lost his virginity. He was 7 and the lady was in her 20s, and she was babysitting him and forced herself on him.
When he first said "two ugly women" you can tell he didn't even mean to make it into a joke, he was saying it out of hurt and anger STILL but he immediately changed his demeanor when Vlad started laughing. He tried to turn it into a joke because that's the environment men have cultivated where boys should "like" if an older woman wants them.
Ferlina Shey Bcuz when somethin happens to men, even as teens or young boys, nobody takes it seriously. Even other men. It’s f’d up being a guy sometimes, cuz when moments like this happens, it reminds us that nobody cares.. nobody..
Wildside Scotty lol, it’s fine, so long as the truth gets out there, my job is done. What people do after they receive the message.. that’s up to them.
Sadly male molestation is not talked about. 😔 It's presented as rites of passage. But it can take you down dark roads as men. And make evolving and growth harder. 💯
When he said that shit about it being a dark scary jungle that made your kool-aid taste different. Man...listen. I know he was joking but that shit hit my soul. I know exactly what he meant.
Los Take yo bitch that shit was funny as hell , ihope they dont make changes and take it from him putting other comedians on hi shit let him have hs thing its been time he funnier than kevin hart imo
*This was disturbing and disgusting but sadly common. Many guy never talk about it or aren't taken seriously when they are taken advantage of especially at a young age. If anything they are congratulated by other males as becoming a man. This explains some of the hate towards women as unresolved trauma is usually the reason. He is a comedian for those who don't know so he tells the story in a funny way but he needs EFFECTIVE COUNSELING*
There is a way of talking to a friend, coworker, stranger that you are romantically interested in without harassing them. You don't have to "flirt" with every potential partner to show your interest. Most people, men and women, need to learn boundaries. For themselves and for others. If you have no boundaries for yourself, than how can you possibly respect boundaries for others???? Just be aware people.
It is sad that he is getting laughed at but this is true! When you have faced childhood trauma like this, you end up looking at relationships differently or they mimic what happened in their childhood.
That’s really sad how the person who’s interviewing him is so light-hearted about DeRay talked about being molested by grown women. Shame on his inconsiderate ass. I hope DeRay has gotten some therapy over the years as a result of him being raped.
When feminists complain about "toxic masculinity" Vlad laughing at a neglected kid being raped by two older women, because he thinks that DeRay "got lucky" when he's clearly traumatized, this is what we're fucking talking about.
Smart man. These days these celebrities need a signed consent form, non disclosure and video evidence before they can began a sexual encounter. Protect your investment. At all cost
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wtf was funny?
Why is he laughing? Vlad is an asshole. He is traumatized.
Go fuck yourself.
I’m sorry for your violation D Ray
how could you acknowledge that he was raped, asked him afterwards, and laugh. you're fucking horrible.
He got raped and is still traumatized.
And the guy laughed like insane...At rape, molestation and trauma. Can you imagine?
IKD TV. Still traumatized? Shiiiih. If anything he was motivated cause he keep 2 fine ass live-in girlfriends at a time & those are just the ones he live with. 😂😂😂
@@adam_doesthings817 bruh he didnt say not one positive thing about the experience... Can you really not tell nervous uncomfortable smiles when you see it? How he looked like he was finna cry? And the only thing he was able to say about it in the midst of Vlad's maniacal laughter was that he knows that as a boy its "different". He didnt say but you know im a boy so i liked it. No what DeRay did was acknowledge the double standard and literally proceeded to attempt to make sense of it to make himself feel better. Why the fuck would an 11 year old boy want to eat some grown women's pussy? What pleasure could a child possibly garner from that incident? To the people in these comments thinking this shits funny, youre sick and part of the problem. Try to imagine your grown ass female friends, unbeknownst to you, having your 11 year old son eat her pussy... You just gonna have a casual conversation about it with her? Invite her to dinner? What she and your baby boy should get married now too huh? Its all im good fun, a boy should like that shit... Smfh. Protect your kids with your lives, boy or girl - everyone please. 🙏💯
frfr and that nigga be laughing at him after he let himself be vulnerable.
IKD TV. Yes he is
If this was a little 11 year old girl and two men who were 30 you would not be laughing .It is rape and it's disgusting!
its not funny, imagine that would be a woman sayin she got taken advantage by 2 30 years old men
both situations are horrible, regardless. but the thing that sucks is that people say “how can men get raped?” like what the fuck? it’s not rocket science. it upsets me that people think men can’t get assaulted.
I hated, cringed, to hear them laughing at his man's pain. You can see it! I've always wondered what was up with him. Now I know.
Exactly 😡
That is straight up child abuse and sexual trauma that😢😮🤨
It’s funny
He seems traumatized from the experience but he’ll never get any sympathy bc everyone is just going to tell him he got lucky.
ik its so fucked up
Plus, he's a "professional funny man" - a comedian. It's sad, but comedians are expected to be damaged as a mark of their trade. If a comedian talks about their suffering, many people think it's acceptable to laugh at them just because "that's a comedian's purpose in life." Just look at what Vlad did. Comedians get no compassion.
Kaleb Allen EXACTLY
People are sympathizing with him in these comments and on social media
This actually broke my heart listening to this. I'm glad he's teaching his daughter that of something happens to her to say something in the moment and not years later
homeboy was raped and they laughin ok
I think he was laughing because he was the victim and that's his way he keep from crying when talking about it. And the interviewer was laughing because when a guy was telling the story about how he got raped, he did it in a very committed way. I've done it multiple times I'm very hurt by something and I tell the story in a way to make it funny to keep myself from crying. If I tell the story in a sad way I'm already going to feel sad about it but if everybody else around me that's listen to the story starts crying I'm going to start crying so the only way I can do it without crying on the outside as to make others laugh. Like Kevin Hart said laugh at My Pain. He made the interviewer laughs at his pain.
I un-subscribed. The shit wasn't funny at all. I don't like Vlad as a person, anymore
I lost all respect for Vlad after this interview. How are you gonna laugh in a man's face when you can actually sense and see the pain and discomfort? Shit is crazy.
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@@Wheresmy240 I mean how is he not? The dudes making jokes.
Wow he just laughed at him like nothing.
Oldpangolin
Right. Fucked up
That was hella disrespectful. Rape isn't funny
right, they wouldve never even made a peep if he was a women saying that she had sex with two 30 year old men at 11. Shit cant be disgusting for one child and hilarious for another
Oldpangolin I mean, it happened many years ago and Deray has no problem openly speaking of it, so if the guy wants to laugh because of their age, then they should be able to. It's hose thing in life that yeah they were screwed up at the time, but now you should be able to joke about it to show it's over and it's all good
He laughed at him not with him. You can clearly see the awkwardness in it.
Lost his virginity? Please dont sugar coat molestation and assault! We have to start labeling assault and molestation for what it is. I’m so sad that so many adults feel the need to selfishly rob children of there innocents.
Exactly, he was gang raped.
Vlad u wrong for laughing not cool.
Subutiya Saahir fr tho
Still funny how DeRay said it
Nah dat shit was silly af my g
Vlad is an ignorant sick mug.
I lost all respect for Vlad after this interview. This was fucking disgusting.
Two 30 years old women taking turns on an 11 years old boy is funny to Vlad
Vlad probably likes little boys.😒
Kai Marvin so smh
Very funny!
This made me really sad to watch. You can tell he’s trying to tell him the seriousness of what happened. “I was 11” “I didn’t have hair on my body” “it was disgusting” “to this day I can’t..” he literally lives with the trauma and can’t be intimate in certain ways with women because of what those nasty ass ugly women did to him.
You can tell that to him this was serious and that guy just laughed in his face and it broke my heart.
He only smiled and laughed to kind of mirror him and minimize what he was initially trying to get across to make the interviewer comfortable and this shit makes me so angry.
I hope he can get his story across one day without having to hear this bullshit of a response.
💯 absolutely. It was disgusting that Vlad laughed.
That's rape. Plain and simple. Men need to stop pretending this shit is okay.
He’s talking about how he got raped, and the interviewer is dying of laughter. Disgusting.
John Bonham he’s laughing too
Dumbass
He's not really laughing fool.
Sweetz Royale the nigga was giggling
They were laughing it off because he was fighting his tears
He's definitely scarred,he lives with 2 women now and has a relationship with both so that's probably his subconscious mind taking over 🤔
Mandy Vieira that gave me chills. How our brain works, just to cope.
Wow I didn't know that, truly messed up 😖🙁
Never knew this until now. But it sank in when i watched this. Then i saw you comment. Cuz truth is he has 2 woman now. But he was taken advantage by 2 older woman before his body fully developed.
Shit crazy. Subconsciously still acted out as if it never was worked out of his system. But he replaced the older women with 2 different women he loves. But will never truly know. How would i be if that never happened?
IV VI I thought the same thing man crazy
That nigga living the life & y'all trying to use that experience from decades ago. If it was really like that, he'd be living with 2 ugly older bitches. Haha. That man from Chi Town, said he been a player & had females chasing him for the longest. It's the life he chose & y'all trying to make his current status a tragic or sad situation correlated with that one experience. Hahaha.
Sheeeeeeit! I pity the fool that does.
Am I the only one who felt bad when DeRay told his story?
The Scribe
Of course not.
The Scribe i felt really bad
If we're going off this comment section--yeah, you probably are.
He was raped of course everyone feels bad
Felt fucking horrible hearing that story
You can tell DeRay didn't mean for it to be funny at first then these dudes started laughing. That shit wasn't funny. I don't wanna compare apples to oranges but if a women said that and they laughed this comment section would have had totally different reactions. I don't care how cool it may seem but DeRay that's molestation and having sex that young anyway is crazy. Doesn't matter if you both were 11.
I Lost My Virginity early too. I can't remember my age, but I know was in between 3rd- 5th grade. She Was in Highschool, and her mom was best friends with my mom. She ended up living with us because her mom passed away from breast cancer. Low key, I think losing it early fucks you up in one way or another. It's hard for me to commit to relationships because I lose interest so quick, after I have sex with woman.
Mike Tank Brown ll I lost my virginity in my early 20's and I still have commitment issues and a lack of interest in women after sex, so I feel you even on the opposite end of the spectrum
If having sex is the main motivator of being with a women, of course you will lose interest after you get off. The key is to find a women you would like to be around even if there is no sex involved. Also let's keep it real we as men low key lose respect for a women after we have sex if we don't actually want to marry them.
Mike Tank Brown ll u sound like a bitch
cte93
I can tell by your response to my post. That you probably think I'm full of shit because you probably still a virgin. And it's nothing wrong with being a virgin man. I wish I could had waited. Some day, you gonna find that right person. First you gotta learn how to talk to people first.
Dez_The_Asshole
I Could had been in the 4th or 5th grade. I just know for sure. I was in elementary. I'm not Bragging, Just telling my story.
This is low key sad
Life is high key sad.
Dj Brews LeeRoi high key.
Dj Brews LeeRoi very
Dj Brews LeeRoi Hella. That bitch ass nigga just laughed at him.
Dj Brews LeeRoi High key 🔑 sad 😞 can’t believe this and this is actually very common with a lot of men but it’s just not talked about as much or laughed at like this BS here 🤦🏾♀️
You can tell he was not a willing participant no matter what you want to call it. A rite of passage for a man or molestation. One thing is true, he was not a willing participant. If you have any questions about that, just listen again to how he describes his experience. Nothing Pleasant about it is there? "Two horrible-looking women, my mother's friends, took advantage of me, in a basement, it was a scary place, not a place you wanted to be..." Sorry that happened to you, DeRay. We should all be able to choose who our first time is with and not have that decision taken away from us.
This probably explains why so many Black Men have mental illnesses...the sickness runs deep.
He was molested and he supresses it by making jokes about it. You never know what ppl have been through or are going through. I pray God heals him 🙏🏾
What trips me out is how you can see the pain, even when he's joking about it.
This was some depressing shit.
This shit was hilarious I'm crying
@@BenzinoDog yeah rape is so funny
Vlad laughing but I can tell that bs effected deray I know he's a comedian but that shit fucked with em
Uh Dee Ray was molested. PERIOD. Where’s that convo. I see his point. I mean if there’s someone that could be yelling rape, molestation, harassment... this guy could truly make that claim. People laughin but he’s been through it.
Why are folks laughing at him about being sexually abused?
Maybe because he's smiling while telling the story
@@ShadowDancer_ or maybe it’s a coping mechanism. A trauma response to his sexual abuse?
@@taecarti6858 ...🤷♂️
@@ShadowDancer_ There’s no 🤷🏾♂️…He’s obviously masking his pain with humor and for someone to laugh at him is hella disrespectful. If it was a woman who told her story through humor I guarantee that no one would be laughing.
@@OGStarlightKY ...he literally said "it was like a scary jungle.." it's hard *not* to laugh when he's throwing in those typa jokes..."🤷♂️"...smdh. foh, fam
Him being forced to perform sexual acts as a child ain't funny.
This has happened to a lot of guys and they're scarred because it's molestation/rape. Because they're males and the perpetrators were female and their body responded to what was happening and because of culture, they are made to feel like they liked it or were supposed to. Your body will biologically naturally respond to stimuli, doesn't mean you liked it or wanted it to happen.Damn, just watching SVU would let you know that. A lot of black boys have been molested by males too, but they usually remain quiet about that. To all the men violated this way, I hate that this happened to you and I hate that you feel you have to pretend it didn't affect you because you may be viewed as weak. Know this, you're not though. Please love yourself.
I have sooo many friends, men and women who have confided I'm me about being molested. The men are always stuck wondering if they are victims or if they "got lucky". It's makes my heart hurt.
He’s laughing through the pain… you can see it in his eyes
We often laugh through hard times but it is disgusting to hear this dude laugh at this man's story and unbelievably out of order from someone whose job is having people share their personal business on your channel.
Yeah this was awkward. Deray still affected by the molestation. Maybe comedy helps him deal with the pain. It appears laughter is how he copes. However, is not needed for how serious the subject is for him and others.
He was laughing because he is uncomfortable talking about it! Vlad should not have laughed! Disliked
I have watched a lot of Vlad interviews and have rarely heard him buss out laughing so loud and excitedly.
This gentleman was raped by two adults as a child, absolutely nothing amusing about this whatsoever as it makes me wonder about Vlads unacceptable instinctual response.
There was another person in the studio too! Not just Vlad laughing.
statutory rape
C Carroll That's straight molestation not statutory!
This is RAPE
My ex lost his virginity young to older twin sisters. He’s been obsessed with polygamy and 3 sums ever since. I hated it. He has serious issues and doesn’t realize he was taken advantage of
The pain was is in his eyes though he laughed, grinned and joked. abuse is abuse. Glad that that experience gave him a very nuanced view of this #me too movement.
bruh this was the first time ive ever heard people in the background laugh in a vlad interview
BIG KOLE there wee more than just vlad laughing??, That's effed up
@@StrngAzDiamnds if davis had a problem with it he would hav said so...
I feel bad for DeRay, he brings up something that traumatized him and it got laughed off that shouldn’t happen to nobody
That baby was molested! What the hell
I know, this world is horrible. You can tell it traumatized him, and then Vlad laughed.
@@koramarie2904 it kind of sounds like BS to me.. men or boys being raped by women is extremely uncommon, and two 30 year old women raping an 11 year old boy is just hard to believe.. they would have no reason what so ever to do so.
THE DARK LORD if something is uncommon you don’t believe it ?
THE DARK LORD no reason to do so ?? The world is more complicated than that bro. Stay safe.
THE DARK LORD No reason to do it maybe she won a power maybe they want more power over their little boy they couldn’t get it from A grown man but they knew they could control little boy Plus the de said they were fat and ugly so they use that little boy
Two weeks ago D.L. Hughley was joking about losing his virginity at 12 to a 23 year old. This is the down low no one will talk about it's right in front of your face.
That's called trauma my man 🥺 the way he changed subject very quickly be where laughing so was he but you could in his face he was uncomfortable so sad deray don't ever be embarrassed you where just a child 🥺
They laughing but his eyes tell a different story🤦🏾♀️ this is sad
I'm sorry that, that happened to you. Its horrible to hear such a horrific story. I'm a mother so I find this story to be devastating. I pray for his healing and peace.
For what he experienced as a child, I don’t blame him for not wanting to perform oral sex on women now. I really want to hug him because no boy should be FORCED to do adult sexual things like that!
i feel bad for what happened to him when he was 11; i can tell he was affected by it negatively but he's not willing to allow it to pull him down; not everybody can do that; i hope he can continue to cope
Omg the look on his face right after he said he was 11 broke me. 😟
I am so happy to hear that he told his story. Especially the reason why he is unable to perform oral on a woman. When your childhood is taken away from you, you see sex in a different way. It no longer becomes pleasurable but rather a chore. Like he said his Kool-Aid tasted different, that's a really sad thing that he had to experience. That's why I am a firm believer in people not being in your house. These children go through things that really mess them up. The way he explained "whoring yourself out" was something I had never thought about before. Never saw De-Ray as a deep person until this interview.
That’s molestation fam. I lost mine at 11 but it was to a 12 year old. Yeah too fuckin young to be havin sex but at least it wasn’t a grown ass, sick in the head woman molesting me
johnkeem103 the environment of planet fucking earth
I knew in middle school that kids were fuckin in a library while waiting to get picked up to go home. I saw kids having sex in the woods behind school. I saw kids go into empty class rooms and get it. My school had at least 1600 kids on any given day. There is no way you can have eyes on every kid all the time.
+Prise_500 W
502 KINGPAUL
People don't realize that child-on-child molestation is very real. These kids get molested/exposed to certain shit by adults, and they do what was done to them/what they saw, to other kids...
Daniel tonio You're posting that on hella people's comments, trollin ass nigga
Salute to DeRay for speaking out!! More men need to soak their truth. This man was raped; it's not funny! It's not cool! It's child rape!! This is why do many of our Black Men ate promiscuous, distrusting and abusive towards women. And some of these men grow up to victimize other children. Victims become perpetrators of sexual abuse. This man didn't lose his virginity; he lost his innocence and his right to choose.
So he was molested by 2 grown, sick women at the same time, and now as an adult, has been taught that it was just losing his virginity not sexual molestation, and is now in an open relationship with 2 women at the same time. This shit is deep. Being molested changes who a child is supposed to be. It's horrible. I wish he had someone in his life who could help him see that he was violated by those women, and could shed some light on the possible affects it has had on his decisions in relationships. Despite that though, a long with the other challenges in his childhood with drug addiction in his family and selling drugs that he has spoken about, he has managed to succeed so much greater than his parents with far less tools than they gave him. #Iyanlamoment lol. He is a walking success story and story of overcoming horrible odds and making something despite coming from nothing.
Wow... this hurt my soul to watch. I have a son who will be 10 years old soon. The thought of this happening to my baby literally makes me sick to my stomach.
There's nothing humorous at all with this story. So sad.
What if this was a woman talking about what was done to her as an 11yr old child? Would the audience and the interviewer still bust out laughing?
Well obviously not cause as it was stated in the video its different because he's a male. Not saying it wasn't tragic. But if he chooses to be ok with and laugh then why cant others 2? Its his story and he doesn't want u to feel bad for him.
@@kinglegend7243 that’s not real laughter and u can see he’s on the verge of crying. he’s just laughing cuz they’re laughing.
@@hjw5838 that comment was stupid AF….smh these weirdos
Why is VLad laughing?😒😒😒😒
Y'all want them to cry?
he gay
Because "it was like a scary jungle"
Cause Deray is laughing . Lightened up !
Lost mine when I was 7 to a family member shit is crazy An I'm still traumatized about it.
7? Man that's young asf.
And sad.
I was 16 and the woman was 30. Yea, it took me a while to go down on a woman because of that experience.
:( so sorry you went through that
you didnt deserve that
Haywerth Clarke nigga explain u being 16 know wats going on perfectly
Dmarco Gordon shut the fuck up you fucking douche. Sometimes when the person is really older than you, you get scared to say no. Fuck you ! You don’t know til you go through it yourself.
Dmarco Gordon you fucking scumbag. & what if he did say no but her sick ass did it anyways 😷 Haywerth Clarke I’m sorry you went through that 😪😔 ik how that feels
I didn't think what DeRay went through was funny at all, and I think Vlad was dead wrong for laughing....... what he went through was real.
Fear keeps a person from doing a lot of things. A lot! It’s so easy for ppl to say speak up. But that fear. Fear of embarrassment, isolation etc will keep a person quiet. We all hold a lot of secrets that no one will ever know but they should know.
That is SO sad… I don’t see ANYTHING funny about him being taken advantage of by two 30 yr olds when he was ELEVEN!!! That is HORRIBLE..
Damn, I guess I'm the oldest black straight virgin male (age 38). Never had a girlfriend, socially awkward, introvert with slight depression.
Beckonor my nigga you all bitch
I'm a bitch for being a virgin over 21? Black women are something else.
Beckonor
38?! Whoa
Please don't have kids
@Tatyana The only person who used the word "All" here is YOU. If that bitch is proving the stereotype of Black women to be true, then you should be mad at HER. And every woman like her. And the fact that you would direct your disdain at a Black MALE virgin, a RARITY, makes me question YOU. If what he says doesn't apply to you, why on Earth are you offended? And as a fellow Black woman, I demand an answer.
So sick and sad. I hope he gets some counseling.
I just got so sick hearing Vlad laugh at DeRay's trauma and sexual assault! And it breaks my heart that DeRay thinks it's "different" because he's a boy. It's not different, sexual assault is sexual assault!
That's Rape Sir, that's not losing his virginity, Vlad I'm going to need you to not laugh so hard moments after he just said he was raped by 2 adults.
I know someone who was molested by his half sister. His half sister was raped by their step-dad. This is really sick and sad. Please talk to your children.
Hurt people hurt people. That’s unfortunately how this vicious cycle goes. Until someone breaks it of course
I can tell DeRay is laughing out of discomfort. But Vlad, what is so funny to you? You weren't even laughing this hard at the actual jokes.
I like Deray a lot. His psychological analysis and understanding of people is always so profound to me. Also he's always had like this humility that makes him likable and relatable. What he describes as "hoeing yourself out" is what many people would label as "finessing" people. That's really humble to me that he understands there's a level of compromising yourself towards your objective that's essentially the same as somebody being a "hoe" instead of being all proud about getting what he wants, like a trickster or something. I respect that.
I know what that feels like and it's not funny at all! No matter how hard you try to forget that shit it stays with you!
Being exposed to sex by two older woman like that isn't funny at all. And if you look at his recent Breakfast club interview you can tell it did some damage to him.
That laugh got me dying man 😂😂😂😂
His stand up on Netflix is funny as hell
I dated this guy and he told me he was 7 when he lost his virginity. He was 7 and the lady was in her 20s, and she was babysitting him and forced herself on him.
He was molested & they are laughing. Shit even he's laughing, I hope he works through it.
this is low-key sad
Men. This is not losing your virginity this is rape/ molestation. Y'all don't gotta be afraid.
This is called rape and sexual assault not losing virginity 😡
When he first said "two ugly women" you can tell he didn't even mean to make it into a joke, he was saying it out of hurt and anger STILL but he immediately changed his demeanor when Vlad started laughing. He tried to turn it into a joke because that's the environment men have cultivated where boys should "like" if an older woman wants them.
This is not a laughing matter. Period.
Why tf is he laughing!?
Ferlina Shey Bcuz when somethin happens to men, even as teens or young boys, nobody takes it seriously. Even other men. It’s f’d up being a guy sometimes, cuz when moments like this happens, it reminds us that nobody cares.. nobody..
@@jordanglasper1064 she didn't even care enough to respond 😅😅😅
Wildside Scotty lol, it’s fine, so long as the truth gets out there, my job is done. What people do after they receive the message.. that’s up to them.
@@jordanglasper1064 wtf did y'all want her to say?
Im gonna laugh also if a girl tells me she get raped
Thank you dj vlad
this vulture is no one's life goals or coach
Why wtf
Awful....
This broke my heart. This is heartbreaking
sad shit is that this goes on more than naive ones would think. not everybody speaks on this shit so you'd never guess anything.
Why is Vlad laughing so hard about that shit?...😒
he gay
I didn't know this interview existed until tiktok. So y'all laughing at right victims?? He's traumatized.
Smh its sad how many men don't realize thegy were taken advantage of...
Sadly male molestation is not talked about. 😔 It's presented as rites of passage. But it can take you down dark roads as men. And make evolving and growth harder. 💯
When he said that shit about it being a dark scary jungle that made your kool-aid taste different. Man...listen. I know he was joking but that shit hit my soul. I know exactly what he meant.
I was just watching this nigga stand up on Netflix
It wasn't funny.
King Henry IX you stupid
Yea that shit was funny u drunk
Los Take yo bitch that shit was funny as hell , ihope they dont make changes and take it from him putting other comedians on hi shit let him have hs thing its been time he funnier than kevin hart imo
It was hilarious, but this vlad video aint
Just make sure the babies & youngers under your protection, don't suffer the same pain & trauma ❤️💯.
I’m really bothered by the interviewer laughing at his traumatic experience.. just bc he’s a comedian doesn’t mean he’s always joking smh.
*This was disturbing and disgusting but sadly common. Many guy never talk about it or aren't taken seriously when they are taken advantage of especially at a young age. If anything they are congratulated by other males as becoming a man. This explains some of the hate towards women as unresolved trauma is usually the reason. He is a comedian for those who don't know so he tells the story in a funny way but he needs EFFECTIVE COUNSELING*
6:15-6:45 that’s actually really fucking sad.
Melomaneization still breaks my heart. vlad just laughed his behind off like it wasn’t rape.
There is a way of talking to a friend, coworker, stranger that you are romantically interested in without harassing them. You don't have to "flirt" with every potential partner to show your interest. Most people, men and women, need to learn boundaries. For themselves and for others. If you have no boundaries for yourself, than how can you possibly respect boundaries for others???? Just be aware people.
Imagine if this had been reversed. Vlad wouldn't be laughing then. So sad. What he went thru was terrible and I hope those women got what they deserve
It is sad that he is getting laughed at but this is true! When you have faced childhood trauma like this, you end up looking at relationships differently or they mimic what happened in their childhood.
This Is Still Hilarious To This Day 💯⭐
He is not sincerely laughing it's a nervous laugh and he's obviously hurting still inside. This was so awkward....
That’s really sad how the person who’s interviewing him is so light-hearted about DeRay talked about being molested by grown women. Shame on his inconsiderate ass. I hope DeRay has gotten some therapy over the years as a result of him being raped.
When feminists complain about "toxic masculinity" Vlad laughing at a neglected kid being raped by two older women, because he thinks that DeRay "got lucky" when he's clearly traumatized, this is what we're fucking talking about.
Smart man. These days these celebrities need a signed consent form, non disclosure and video evidence before they can began a sexual encounter. Protect your investment. At all cost
Awwweee this is sooo sad. Mad respect to those with the courage to speak on the vile things thats happened to them.
That's some fkd up shit. The double standard is crazy. If this would be a 11 yr old girl, would be looked at a complete different way.