The story of the house between Demi & Shay is genuinely sad. Imagine trying to ruin the reputation of Demi & spread lies about her on social media after being GIFTED a FREE HOUSE from her!!! LIEING FOR ATTENTION ON TIK TOK!?!? Pathetic...
The entire time I was thinking: if you don't want to stay in the house just sell it! At least let someone else live there! I WISH my house was gifted to me with a massive check. And I get falling behind with basic house chores but even when I'm at my lowest low I still make sure to take out the trash since letting that sit will just cause way worse problems in the future than whatever I'm currently going through. The whole situation was just someone being gifted a house they weren't ready for or responsible enough to take care of.
Fr like I literally have maybe I think it’s .90 cents (to last me the month I’ll add) and I’m a single mom of 2 teens and could ABSOLUTELY use a home that I’ll never have. So to see a spoiled brat abuse that beautiful home and then have the nerve to lie and bash that amazing woman, it really pisses me off.
It was a wonderful thing to do, but I wonder what made her choose an 18 year old with no real responsibility yet. I get being young is hard right now, I’m 20 and I have zero clue what I’m doing or what I’m gonna do- everything’s kinda wrecked and it’s pretty impossible to start from the ground up, so I get it, but why not a hard working family with kids? maybe she said her home situation wasn’t good, but then why did she run right back? I was expecting it to go to a family, honestly, not a single 18 year old. still, an act of kindness is an act of kindness, and Shay is still the one in the wrong. I really wanna know more about the situation to make a clearer judgement. I neeeeed a follow up 😂
That girl made the biggest mistake of her life. Omg why would you do this to a house you got for free. A FREE HOUSE is a get out of jail free card in life FR.
I wouldn't be able to pack my bags fast enough for the opportunity of a free house. Especially that comes furniahed and with free house hold items? $10,000 check? I will never under how that girl fumbled the ball so bad
Right??? I’d have passed out if someone offered me a free house at 18, and 10k for food and necessities. That would have changed my life (about a decade later and I still don’t have a house or house money 😩)
Faking being Amish is one of the stranger, more useless lies I’ve come across. Like, you take off the bonnet after the tiktok, and put on sweats to play Overwatch? Sooooo odd
The thing is she said how much she didn’t want to be Amish and he wanted to go and be a normal girl when she’s the one that wanted to convert in the first place… her lies don’t match up. Couldn’t be me 😐😑😐
Just in the clips of Sarah Joy I think that if someone grew up around these communities, they would immediately point to how her dresses aren’t even Amish. They were clearly bought and have elastic, all Amish clothes are hand made and often enough they can only secure the garment using pins. You won’t ever see the pins, but they’re there. Thanks for always shining a light on subjects like this! ❤
Not to mention misspelling a tattoo and not immediately handling that weakness in yourself in some kinda way, to the point that you have at least 3 incidents of misspellings?!?! That’s sooo unacceptable. After the FIRST mistake, you better be TRIPLE checking, looking every word up to make sure you have it right, or having any text vetted by another artist at your shop whose strength is spelling. Or, if none of that is an option, just don’t do text. I had to pick my jaw up off the floor when she said it had already happened a couple times in the past, making this the THIRD TIME SHE PERMANENTLY INKED A MISSPLELLED WORD ONTO A PERSON!! And yeah the photo of the tattoo was horrid what kinda scratcher shit is that.
sometimes i post on my story crying because everyone knows i struggle with mental health, i guess everyone is different but its normally me just venting that im stressed out and i dont have many people to talk to about it
Nah I'm afraid the healthy behavior here is in fact to be okay with people seeing you cry :DD Like think what you want of it but it's not saying as much about the person filming themselves crying as it is saying about you, and that's fine. Both are fine.
I am 17 and I WISH someone would gift just a space to start a business or something for living.....and I have severe depression. I would NEVER do such thing, and either does anyone with mental health. I have no idea why ppl act like Shay is a victim! She's not, she's completely a psycho
i don't understand why she would give a house to a teenager instead of any of the other 2000 people that emailed her. there had to have been families in need that she knew about, why would she choose a random kid?
@@willowtree7326 Cause I can see videos of her walking around and sitting and standing. She could have some form of mobility difficulty, but clearly not ones that would prevent her from using a bathroom. Not to mention stuffing garbage in closets isn't physically different than just taking it outside and putting it in the bin, especially when we know she's able to leave the home. I work with people who have varying degrees of mobility issues, she doesn't have ones that would cause her to destroy a home like this.
I have NO idea how or why Demi chose a teenager as the winner of her free house, but someday when Shay’s older & genuinely ready to be a homeowner, she’s going to realize how badly she effed up…she had a wholeass free house & just walked away from it😭
It may be more complicated than it seems. If Demi’s giveaway was treated as a contest, the value of the free house would have been imputed to the winner as income. An 18-year-old with no ties to the area and no job wouldn’t be able to afford income taxes on that. I’m not excusing the girl’s bad behavior, but it doesn’t surprise me that she would crash there for a month, leave the place a mess, and move back to where her home was. The outcome likely would have been better if Demi had picked someone who was more established in life and local to the area.
@@amicaaranearum Then why apply for it to begin with? Why take it and not decline it? Why trash it and leave? Why demonize the woman who gave you a free house? Nah fuck that bitch.
@@Isabelle-hv6ny Cycling back to teenagers not having a lot of standing in life. A 40 year old who leaves a home trashed is just an awful person, while an 18 year old who leaves a home trashed is still awful, but has a greater chance to regret it later.
I wonder what story an 18 year old had, that she would of been chosen. You would assume that a single mum, or a young couple living on the street would win over an 18 year old that appeared to be happy to stay where she was.
@@eclecticraeen ikr? people are so gullible it's wild lol "the story was told to me this way so I'm gonna accept it at face value and get super upset at this person I know nothing about" just another day on the internet lmao
@@eclecticraeenyou’re right, it’s so suspicious. Why would anyone in their right mind give a house to a random 18 year old living states away? It’s not even that she needed the house
i experienced homelessness as a child and will most likely never be able to afford a house, so hearing about that 18yo who destroyed that home genuinely made the sympathy leave my body
Same but the sympathy didn't leave my body. Most 18 year olds aren't ready to own a house, nor to move a long way from home. That's a lot of responsibility, and at 18 you're still not quite there most of the time. Being young, this would have also been extremely embarassing for her to try and deal with appropriately, and is a situation that MOST people would struggle to resolve properly. There's a reason they say that houses and cars are burdens not gifts. It's more tragedy than crime and I hope she does better if she gets another chance at building herself a home like that.
@@Jane-oz7ppbut then why enter? Why try and get people to harass the organisation that gave away the house? Yeah being 18 might mean they’re unaware of the demands of home ownership but it sure as hell doesn’t mean that she’s too young not to go online and be a complete idiot.
the fact that spriggs has misspelled MULTIPLE tattoos tells me everything i need to know. on top of that too saying in her first video “she was cursing me out and calling me a dumb b*!ch” and then turning around a day later and saying “well she never actually called me a dumb b*!ch to my face, she sent it in a text to someone and then purposefully showed me the text” is quite the back pedal that again tells me all i need to know
The Demi/Shay thing is so confusing. Why would you do all this. Why would you destroy the house, refuse to take possession of it, and then try to ruin the person who did it for you?
Just speculation but she likely had a pretty secure living situation abd wanted to just sell the property since she didn't need the property as much as she wanted the potential money (which to be fair if circumstances were different could be super valid) but since it wasn't as easy as a large check just partied in the place and let it lay to waste.
@@knightartorias1825I mean it’s not so much stupidity as much as a different motivation. If she could’ve just sold the house and went back to Pennsylvania with the money this likely wouldn’t have happened. And she could’ve use the money to get a nursing degree or something I don’t know
@@smokedbeefandcheese4144 It wouldn't be stupid to sell it- it's stupid to struggle to sell it for a year and then trash it and abandon it. Deciding a free house and property isn't worth owning because you can't turn a quick buck is objective, short sighted stupidity.
i feel so bad for the trademe woman (i'm sorry i forgot her name.) she literally worked so hard to get that house, gave it away out of the kindness of her own heart, and ended up a) getting bashed online and b) LITERALLY seeing the house she worked so hard for absolutely TRASHED ): so freaking sad
@kookie_krissy6728 i get your point but not every 18 year old is irresponsible and unable to manage their affairs. It just sad the one she gave it to was, but don't put all 18 yrs old in the same baskets
I've been sleeping in different places for a year now, since the wildfires in Canada took my home last year. I lost everything. The fact she took that amazing opportunity for FREE HOUSING IN A HOUSING CRISIS FORGRANTED??? its insane to me. Now look i get it depression is a real thing, and my living spaces in the past is something i was ashamed of, I've been there, but that doesn't excuse starting lies and drama. (Also don't worry, my family home is scheduled to be finished in late June )
I can understand an 18 year old kid ruining a house. I saw that a lot during uni. What I CAN'T understand is then going and attacking the kind woman who GAVE you the house!!!
They weren’t raised right if that’s what they do at 18 . Must be nice to be privileged enough to get any type of space and just mess it up . Yall are raising spoiled rotten apples that’s the problem.
@excuseme2770 I was 18 not long ago and I cannot imagine trashing a house. Then the level of disrespect to attack the person who gave it to me in the first place..
I know right, it’s a shame because Demi just wanted to help someone in need, but Shey trashed the place . It must have been horrible to have such a huge act of kindness taken advantage of and wasted.
@@ajakakakakBut the negative experiences can cause for people like Demi to stop doing the good they wanted to do if all they see is people taking advantage of their kindness and wasting/trashing their gifts of charity. 😢
Exactly selflessness and kindness is a nurturered emotion. It either gets killed early or you spend your adulthood slowly dying inside and considering to kill that seed in your optional offspring. @@Alexacz2
@@Alexacz2i mean ig, but there aren’t many Demis in the world. not every average Joe is giving out houses. the people choosing not to help are the billionaire jerks using their dollar bills as cum tissues. and they have enough money that they would feel so disheartened if people misused their gift. it would be the amount of upset if a child dropped the ice cream you bought them.
At the studio where I get my tattoos, you sign a waiver including a clause saying the artist takes no responsibility for the spelling or meaning of the tattoos. That part seems fair, but I don’t understand why this “artist” decided to start this drama herself 💀
Yeah for real that’s my one issue with this video. As someone with a lot of tattoos who still gets nervous before appointments it is still 100% on me where the tattoo is, what it is, if it’s spelled correctly. If I have an issue with it in any way then I need to speak up the artist can’t read my mind. The example this person used would be better said if it was a Chefs responsibility that each customer knows there is meat in the product. It should be something the customer should look at and confirm for themselves. Also like I said I get being nervous but it is literally your choice to be doing this. It’s not like a doctors appointment this is an active choice you are making for yourself you need to go in there knowing what you want and being able to articulate it. If you can’t then bring someone with you who can. This artist sucks tho but yeah I agree that it is not the artist fault especially if you show them the word they write it down and show you. Like literally what other steps are there to take? You said it’s what you want.
I think that is a good way to protect the artist when it is the clients fault for misspelling. This “artist” sucks, I don’t want to refer to her as a creator of art because she mutilated her client.
Yes that’s the norm for tattoo studios so it really does fall on the client to make sure that the spelling is correct, know the meaning of a different language etc. They have more time to think about and plan what they want and the artist is there to tattoo it. Even someone getting a spur of the moment tattoo needs to make sure it’s exactly what they want because it’s there forever I can’t believe that the artist was the one to start this and was shown to be disingenuous. Like, why on earth would that girl have *typed* all that and then turn her phone to show the artist like she’s trying to now claim in her video?? It’s just so obvious that that’s not the way it went down but anyway, rant over! Lol
I found this channel a week ago and I can’t get enough It’s like Chad Chad and Danny Gonzales’s first removed cousin who makes the family reunion worth going to
"what would an indian know about having long hair" this is so funny help. i'm so glad you mentioned this one because the racism is getting so out of hand.
Another point about the tattoo thing is that the tattoo looks bumpy and didn't look to be healing well and the artist blamed the client. I saw Treacle Tats react to the drama and one of the points mentioned is that dark skin is prone to keloids and that the artist didn't seem to do a good job in being careful with tattooing Lai's skin and that this isn't Lai's fault that the tattoo is healing bad
@@BlueGangsta1958 which is actually really really common... bc theres a racist myth that dark skinned (espec black) ppl have thicker skin than lighter and especially white ppl, so you *have* to go deeper and actually scar the skin to get the ink to stay. which is not only bullshit that affects the tattoo industry but also the medical field (the idea of "thicker skin" is used to say that darker skin prevents you from feelign pain as deeply and therefore can be used to excuse excessive rough handling or denial of painkillers by doctors, under the idea that dark skinned patients are lying or exaggerating to get drugs or out of some personal grudge with the doctor... this is why black women have a much higher mortality rate when giving birth)
I just listened to an npr report about that exact “fact” of black skin. They researched to figure out where it came from and it turns out it was a dude along time ago who didn’t do any actual scientific research. So Black skin isn’t necessarily more prone to keloids. But it’s been used as an excuse to give subpar care and aftercare forever since. It was very informative. Basically there are a lot of race based diagnosis that shouldn’t be considered as race based.
@@DaughterofDiogenes i left a comment here that got snapped by the youtube automod for some reason but it's likely it's perceived as more common for black skin to keloid because of a much older idea that black skin is "thicker" and therefore more tolerant of pain and rough treatment, which leads to ppl actually beign rougher with black ppl when givign medical treatment or, in this case, tattooing. this idea that black skin is thicker and that black ppl's nerves are less sensitive means ppl ignore black pain and scar ppl up when tattooing, piercing, or givign medical treatment. in medical settings this leads to higher mortality rates a lot of the time.
I will say, I wasn't watching this with my whole brain and thought that the person who trashed the free house used the fact that she was Amish to validate it, and I got so damn confused
I’m just gonna say it’s a pattern for black women to be painted as aggressive way too often, and it is still a thought some people have that black skin is thicker and needs more pressure to tattoo. I don’t think either side is completely innocent, but the artist painting her as aggressively yelling and then admitting she just typed it on her phone is insane. Edit: after reading some of the replies, and looking into the situation more, I agree. This isn’t a two-side issue, this is the fault of the tattoo artist. Not the woman.
And even then the idea of just “typing it on her phone to show her” is… ridiculous. As someone slightly non verbal who does use notes and messages oftenly.. I genuinely couldn’t fathom doing that??
Also I find it hard to believe that the client would text her cousin that the tattoo was bad and then turn around and show the text conversation to the artist?? I think it's more likely that the artist just happened to see it by accident and/or was snooping on the client's phone as the client was texting.
as someone who got a matching tattoo with their ‘bestie’ who i quite literal considered to be my sister, never ever ever EVER get a tattoo for someone unless they are a beloved family member or a memorial tattoo as i am now covering said tattoo next week.
oof i got a matching tattoo with a former friend and it was a keith haring piece so the lines are THICK and now we’re no longer friends and i hate how it looks with my other tattoos 🙃🙃🙃 feel you
I absolutely agree. I have a matching tattoo with a former friend as well… I wish I could cover it up but the tattoo artist who did it, did a terrible job which is why I’d have to laser it before (which I cannot afford just now) so I am very very happy for you that you can cover up yours! I hope everything went well and you are happy with the result!❤
Hahahahah literally this happened to me like a month ago! I didn’t get it fully covered up but I got it changed to represent my growth (leaving a toxic friendship)
even a family member i caution against. got a matching tattoo with my sister and that same year she decided she wanted my mum's house and tried to get me kicked out of it....
As a struggling single dad who works way too much and still can't pay rent and skips meals to make sure my dog and son eat....Its so frustrating seeing so many ungrateful people get blessings they don't deserve. I would kill for that opportunity...
for real. not to mention, the price of a whole ass house AND piles of gifts AND a 10k check was a single bobby pin.. shay acted so ungrateful its frustrating
I understand that completely. I hate that society is like this and I really hope that you and your children are able to make the most of your situation. I may be a stranger but your hard work is important! im sure your kids appreciate you very much as well as your dog. my mom struggles to pay the mortgage every month and I can't work. I pray things get better for you! keep your head up!
Same. I'm a single person supporting my parents. We all live in a rented flat in somebody's back yard. My father is dying of CHF and I'm a freelance writer, so money is tight and I'll never be able to afford a house. We have no privacy due to the nosy landlords, so seeing this 18 year old get a house for free, trash it, and slam the woman who made it all possible, I'm just angry. You sound like a great dad and dog parent, by the way. :)
As a homeless 19 year old I would’ve done anything to get a free house like that it’s people like this that make it harder for people my age to get rented to
@@chillcreep4926 called 211 multiple times they keep sending me to a full rescue mission and within five seconds of me being there an older man tried something it’s not safe for me and I wouldn’t be able to bring my cat
I hope that someday, people stop (not you op, definitely not you) accusing certain people based on what they look like and how well they may rent or care for a home. Your anger is justified however. I just personally don't think one person of one community shouldn't be at blame for someone else's actions. I hope you get housing soon Honey. It's hard but you'll get there soon. You got this
another thing with the tattoo, the only reason i’ve seen artists tattoo THAT DEEP, is on people with darker skin colors. because apparently “it needs to go deeper in order for it to stay” which is NOT true and is in fact a medical myth.
funny fact, raounzel in disney isnt anything like german rapunzel. german rapunzel gets sold for cabbage, and "flynn" falls into roses and gets his eyes scraped out. The "german" part doenst even make sense
@@TeeklGreyIt’s all about an imported life lesson. Suppen Kasper ? -Dosent like soup =fucking starvation at age 10 Strubbel Lise ? -Don’t come you hair =burn alive when lighting a match Max & Moritz? -Steal food = burn alive ….. or we Germans are just a little fucked up 😂
@TeeklGrey hi my name is carmen winstead im 17 years old did you know that im dead? a group of girls pushed me down a sewer drain for a prank, the next day the police found my body in a sewer made completely out of blood, my eyes were missing and oozing blood nonstop and when they took me to autopsy the building was destroyed by flooding. the group of girls were found dead soaked with the blood of indian german ginger mermaid in their free trashed apartment. if you repost thid message 7 times your shoes will ty themselves and your enemies will also be soaked in the blood of an alien space ginger mermaid and melt into maggots.
The Rapunzel drama is especially stupid if you're a folklore nerd like me who's aware that fairy tales have evolved so goddamn much across time and space that the common versions we know of today have only very loose connections to much older (and more gruesome) versions from the past. Mad about a hypothetical non-white Rapunzel? I suppose you're also mad that she wasn't thrown out into the wilderness after getting knocked up out of wedlock, or that Flynn wasn't blinded by Mother Gothel for being the baby daddy.
It's also funny to get mad about when pretty much every culture has similar folk tales. Look hard enough and there's probably an Indian Rapunzel story somewhere in India's history, so who really cares what ethnicity she is.
speaking as indian diaspora born and raised in germany: 1) nobody above the age of six considers rapunzel a shining pinnacle of german culture 2) my only problem with casting an indian woman to play a princess from a german fairytale is that indian folk tales and mythology would be much more fun to watch onscreen than a repetitive disney cash grab
As an Indian I agree. There are soooo many stories Disney could have told with an Indian princess in mind. We already have the Tangled movie a live action version is just stupid. I honestly think these days they know this shit stirs up drama and "any publicity is good publicity"
That’s my point… it feels lazy. It’s like saying ‘for representation we need to put you in our stories’ like… make an original one, or show an Indian fairytale? There are plenty i’m sure, and it represents the people and culture as a whole much better.
the thing is rapunzel isn’t a “german fairytale” it more accurately originated in asia. but that’s also the whole point of fairytales, they’re supposed to adapt and change over time, there are several retellings where she’s a brown woman
I just can't wrap my head around that house story... how entitled can you be to trash and abandon A HOUSE YOU GOT FOR FREE and then try to blame the person who gave it to you??? It's especially heartbreaking since we know how many homeless people there are or families struggling with housing. It's infuriating that instead of them an ungrateful brat ended up getting this house, destroyed it and traumatised the kind person who gave it to them 😒
Fun fact! There is a story in Italy that Michelangelo was painting the Sistine chapel and he was almost done painting when the pope sent a messenger to tell him that the people could not be naked. Ofcourse he didn’t listen much because he was Michelangelo but he also (according to the story) painted the messenger burning in hell.
Didn't he paint the pope as a having donkey ears and getting his 🍆 being bitten by a snake, or was that someone else who irritated Michealangelo? I know he painted the cherubs doing the fig hand gesture, which was that time periods equivalent of the finger. Dude literally painted the cherubs flipping everyone off😂
Ah yes Rapunzel being German definitely has a big impact on the story cause I definitely knew she was German before this whole internet drama about the fancasting
As a German who grew up with the original fairytale (not the disney version), the wildest thing to me is that these people don't even know how much disney changed the story (some may not even know that disney didn't invent it), in the original fairytale there's no magic flower, no healing powers, no hair that turns brown when you cut it off. There's nothing wrong with Disney adding this stuff, but the Disney version of Rapunzel is not the only version of her that exists or that's possible. Really her only defining feature is her long hair. But sure, making her Indian would totally ruin the story 🙄
@@Link-dx1lx petition for disney to make it as brutal as the original story, what would the conservatives then say? Ich brauch die augenauskratzenden Dornenbüsche am Fuss vom Turm Leudes
Personally if it was in stories like uhh, I dont know, SNOW WHITE. Or disney stories that confirmed the princess' race then I can understand the hate. But with cases like Rapunzel is uh... Yeah no there isn't much issue.
That girl who trashed her house kind of reminds me of those kids with rich parents who get a free lambo or other super expensive car for their 16th birthday, but go and crash it in a ditch because it’s the wrong color or something
The only different is that the rich kids are actually acting like baby over the color so is funny to watch. But the girl who got the house is a combination of angry and disappointment because the house could have gone to someone more deserve it more but this girl got and take it for granted and lie about the person who give it to her.
7:43 the way i'd literally never stop repaying the person who gifted me a house, birthday gifts, Christmas gifts, anniversary gifts from the date i'd received the house 😭 never EVER saying a bad word about such a generous person
What pisses me off to no end is when people automatically excuse away bad/illegal behavior by throwing “mental health” out there like that’s a get out of jail free card. Serial killers have mental illness, doesn’t mean they’re excused from all the crimes they’ve committed.
I'm borderline and a recovering addict so two of the top things blamed or people attribute being trash to, so it always really pisses me off. Mental illness is an explanation not an excuse.
It also implies that people with mental health issues are inherently dangerous, toxic, or otherwise not okay to interact with. Which really harms all of us with mental illnesses who are doing our best to be good people and would never resort to those actions.
I think it's really easy to push all responsibility on mental illness, especially with the current movement towards being more mentally aware. Not that being more cautious of your health is a bad thing, but a lot of it's used as a shield instead of an explanation.
for the Rapunzel thing, I just feel so bad for the actor. she's so pretty nice and sweet and just gets bashed on the internet 24/7 by racists. first mean girls and now this, which is crazy because she didn't even do anything!!
Mfs treating Rapunzel like she isn't a fictional character and then attacking the actress like she wanted to plagiarize her like a villain or something 💀
Yeah. And even if it WERE a real movie, what actor is gonna turn down a lead role in a Disney film just because their skin or hair is the "wrong color"? What kind of a backwards world is that? I genuinely think actors of any race should be allowed to play any role unless it's a story like (as was mentioned in the video) Hunchback of Notre Dame where ethnicity/culture plays a significant role. If we're being honest, the majority of stories are not about racial tension and the cast's races could be easily swapped. Especially in fantasy/sci-fi settings that are detached from our own world and history. The fact that people care so much about this stuff just boggles my mind.
@@TeeklGrey The real question is why would you "race swap" an existing story in the first place ? Why not create a story relating to the group of peoples you want to represent ? Imo it just look like a lazy way for the writers to remake the same story over and over again and shift all blame away from them in the process.
@@Panzermeillerthis again? Oh hell... Hey quick question, did you know that Anderson is danish? But the little mermaid of 1989 made by the studio of Disney, was taking place around Italy, you can find artists talking about how the castle of Eric was made, what architecture they were inspired by and news flash, it was NOT Danemark. "But they are white either way!!!!1!1!11" and still don't have the same culture? But you did not throw a fit about that did you ? The little mermaid being white or black doesn't add anything or remove anything to the story. Was the remake lazy? Yes Was it different from the animated one? Not enough to be remembered but the main actress was not the problem, at least her singing was great and it's a shame people won't admit it. The problem is: EVERY FUCKING REMAKES ARE USELESS, SHAMELESS CASH-GRAB.
im so mad about the house thing.. my mom is literally homeless sleeping in my sisters living room rn so i get to go to college and there’s people giving away free houses & they’re being taken for granted 😐 shay needs to grow up
Case 1 - the tattoo drama: honestly, regardless of circumstances, the artist blasting her incompetence online seems like a ridiculous idea anyway. After seeing the client, things only get worse
i’m ngl this is like my FAV kind of drama: where someone posts complaining about something/someone and THE PEOPLE INVOLVED RESPOND WITH A “um, actually…” ITS MY FAVVGV
Right? Then the follow up where they have gone from sad little helpless mood to 'ugh I guess I'll address this in the car while I finish my starbucks'. "Oh um ok I never said that or meant it that way. So um she didn't do what I heavily implied or behaved in that way but it was still terrible." And the follow up from the other party. "Why are you still lying boo when you know that I have photo evidence. I was giving you the chance to step up but I guess you just wanna keep digging your grave deeper. No worries boo boo I'll happily drag you down further. Here are the pictures."
Ofc 18 yo is young. But not that young to realize that this is your transition time into adulthood, meaning you have more responsibility. I move out of town for college and live in dorm. I have soooo little knowledge how to cook and cleaning the room properly. Heck yeah it took me 30 minutes to iron my blouse cause I rarely iron anything before. But I did it! I clean and mop my room regularly, cooking for myself to save some cash, even buy some cheap decor for my room. There's absolutely no excuse for Shay to trash the house...and how come anyway? My room in the most messy state not even look that bad at this point.
The fact that the girl said "WON a house" automatically made me know/assume she was in the wrong. She didn't "win" a house. She was given it through a charity. It wasn't a raffle like what?!
You might be onto something. Fraudian slip from her part. Other people in the comments here speculated that she wanted ownership of the house so she can sell it for money while she had a pretty secure living situation. So for her she 'won' by writing a sappy story, not getting a house 'gifted' to her when she's in need for a home.
As a 24 y/o who has been homeless before I had kids, I am now a mother of 4 y/o twins and we’re living with their grandpa, i also have to be a stay at home mom until they get to pre-k because daycare for 2 children would cost more than I could currently make…. That 18 year old really upset me. So many people including myself could have seriously used a home like that. It’s one thing to leave that house in the state that it was in. It’s even worse to get online and to lie about the woman who literally gave her a home for free. So upsetting
@@TheWolfeDen My only "beef" with those programs is you have to have someone be able to pick up your kids by EOSD and have child care after the school day ends. If you're really lucky, they'll also get you into a day care but that only buys you 2 hours, meaning you either have to be off in enough time to get your kid and get them to alternative child care before going back or cut your work day short. If you're on the bus, that can take 2-3 hours by itself and depending on where you live there may be no return bus home. I used to work with parents who were dependent on those vouchers in my State and they can be crazy restrictive
She owned the home, if she was having issues cleaning, and decided she didn't want the home, she could have passed it on for a bobby pin as well, or even GENUINELY sell it... my thought? Why the FUCK did she enter the givaway??
i wish we could know what the email shay sent to demi said. like why did it stand out? there’s no way you could give an 18yo a house for free and they would have the skills to manage a property on their own. i’m also just… so angry that shay kept saying she’d go back eventually. that shelter could have gone to somebody, one of the 2000+ candidates, who desperately needed it. who wouldn’t take it for granted. like?? that’s just evil
Yeah that's my mother's but she has 2 more: You have to want the same pattern in the same place for 2 years and it can't be seen when you are wearing a suit...
@@caoimhedoesstuff9293imo it isn’t that deep, my brother has me tattooed on his arm with my deadname from when I was a baby and I still find it very sweet. With how uncommon it technically is for people to transition it seems like quite a small probability. If the trans person has a good relationship with the family who has the tattoo I doubt most of us would care
@@caoimhedoesstuff9293 exactly, so even that's risky. My mom's mentality was that they'll always be your flesh and blood so it's the only exception in her mind.
I am DEEP in the Tangled fan community online and I am so glad that Rapunzel drama NEVER crossed my dash. Otherwise I would have started chomping frontal lobes. I thought these people’s pettiness would stop at complaining that short brown hair was “ugly” (which just reveals misogynistic beauty standards), but they decided to be VERY transparent about their RACISM too!! At least we know who to avoid and ignore! :)
@@zombiemombie666it would be cool to have Indian Rapunzel but what would be better is, if the mouse house covered some actual Indian folk tales. There are so many interesting ones that have a much better story than tangled was. It would be nice if they represented other cultures in, y’know, a way that isn’t two dimensional
@@astoroidea6502I wouldve loved the Encanto treatment for other cultures and not the Raya Treatment. Meaning that they focus on one Culture and not making it a boiling pot of a bunch different cultures to check boxes and actually telling a good story with good characters. Because I am German and I love Encanto or Mulan, because the story is Just so good. But Raya is well just horrible.
@@astoroidea6502 An Indian Rapunzel can not exist. The word Rapunzel was a German word used to refer to a specific type of salad. If you would want to make a remake of Rapunzel and change her race to Indian, than it would make absolutely no sense for her to be named Rapunzel. You'd have to change all those little details that make Rapunzel exclusively and definitely German, so that in the end you'd eventually have a different character, but I doubt that Disney would actually put in that much effort, which is why it would feel incredibly cheap, forced and insincere to simply race-swap her.
@@chaaae-f1y you do realize there are many different versions of Rapunzel in many different cultures, right? the only German significance of the movie is her name, there's no specific holidays or items that link her to the German culture. she is just a girl with magical long hair, her story has been written a million different ways before so the IDEA of her race being changed isn't a new thing google it. But, none of that matters because it's not real, there is literally no live action Tangled in the making.
As a young 18 who is struggling through life not knowing if I'll ever be able to afford a home, if I got a house for free- I would not only take extra care of it knowing that I'll probably never get a new one and I would've probably given her furnished stuff back besides utilities. Idk I would've done something to express my gratitude knowing that it's hard to afford housing rn.
Bro, same, just turned 18, and I will take care of that house for life due to my past. I just got an apartment, and I'm fully worried about destroying my apartment.
Shit, I'm 33, married with a kid and another on the way. I would give my left arm to have a house I OWNED just for a reasonable price. I don't even need it for free. Just not an exorbitant amount of money that is beyond what the home is worth. Her story could bring me to tears if I think too long about it. Watching my community price out its working class and then fall apart because nobody is here to work at the businesses that keep it going is heartbreaking. I'm fortunate to have found a great job, but none of that matters when a trailer costs $150k, anything that will last a few decades is $250k+. I legit don't know how this city will still be here in 15 years.
You know, the best way she could have expressed her gratitude, in my opinion, would have been to work hard and use the money she saved on rent to buy her own house, then pass the gift house to another person. Just having no rent for 5 or 10 years would be enough to change your life, if you worked hard. Imagine how the first woman would have felt when she found out that her cause was still going and helping another person.
Another thing about plain people; Amish and Mennonite are different. There is a lot of overlap- historical dress, religious, etc.- but Mennonites use technology. A lot of Mennonites don't like being photographed because they believe it's vain and they don't like being treated like an attraction, but they use technology. I saw a Mennonite boy playing with a 3DS at a market that's popular among Amish people. They go to Walmart and other stores pretty often too. If she wanted to lie she could at least have a more convincing story lmao
There are Amish who do use technology and as far as I am aware they claim to be Amish not Mennonites. Don’t get me wrong, I am not talking that the entire community will have tv sets and electricity. It’s usually just a singular phone (a cell phone is more common) and/or a single car. Another thing that the Amish have done but is not super common, is that they will take their loved ones to the hospital. There are core beliefs but some Amish and Mennonite people will have a little variation of certain tenements. The phone and car was specifically only for the most dire of emergencies. In the case of one community both were obtained because a beloved member had passed from an accident that could have been remedied if they had either. So the Elders got both but both things were kept by the elders. As for the hospital, the majority won’t. But there has been cases where they have. In particular a case of an Amish man who suffered from a horrible mental illness. At first the Elders tried to say he was not allowed to go to the hospital but they changed their minds after he became violent. He acquired the medication that he needed but eventually stopped taking it. He did a horrible thing because of it
Its very sect dependent too. My dad's family is Mennonite and during his grandfather's time there was an entire schism about whether putting heaters in the barns (so the cows didn't freeze) was allowed.
Literally, I live pretty close to a Mennonite community, and no where near any Amish, and a few years back visited Pennsylvania, the difference is immediately noticeable
Man wtf did Shay do to that house? Throw a party and move back home? I definitely did not live very clean at 18 when I had depression, anxiety and undiagnosed ADHD but I would not just make a mess and leave back to my parents? That’s honestly wild to me, like I have so many questions.
My best guess with the 18 year old person who won a free house probably threw a house party or did a dumbass streak of “It’s mine to destroy.” I’d have said it could have been the homeless who broke in or potentially squatters, but I’m assuming that’s unlikely since the original homeowner seemed to be keeping an eye on the property so that would rule out squatters especially since there didn’t seem to be much stuff
Esmeralda also went through the double sexualization and demonization combo where a white man wanted to own this Romani woman to be his wife or whatever or else he would burn her at a stake and have her burn in hell. But Rapunzel blonde hair green eyes
as someone who is literally fuckin homeless, if I had gotten that house, I'd keep it spotless and make sure it just stays amazing. me, my mom, and my youngest sister are having to live with a friend, stuck in one small room with four cats. having a free house like that would be a blessing for us and to see that entitled brat absolutely destroy it pisses me off so much. she seriously didn't deserve it
I'm homeless right now and have been for the past 2 years, and the story of the 18 year old destroying the house makes me so unbelievably angry that I can't even watch it.
ive been shadowing a tattoo artist for a few months, he genuiney just goes "no darling." every time someone comes in with that request. He's got his husbands name tattooed on his arm, and he still says that it was a dumb thing to do just incase they break up
I watched a linfamy video about how prostitutes retain their customers by tattooing their client's name on their body. It kinda permanently turned me off from the idea.
Man, if I had to permanently carve words into somebody’s skin you best believe I’m running that through google at least once to make sure i got it right no matter how easy the word
17:17 it’s funny that taking care of your hair is literally part of Indian culture and Indian women have literally the most gorgeous long hair that literally shines with the light of god
Idk I think people got mad about the appeal of a beautiful blonde girl being stolen lol. But blackwashing is a huge annoyance in media there’s a bunch of videos covering it . But tbh this whole thing is stupid,
I have to say it. The repunzel we all "know and love" isn't even close to the original. In the original story repunzel's poor parents traded her to a witch for a repunzel (cabbage) to satisfy a pregnancy craving. The prince knocks her up with twins before falling from the tower and having his eyes scratched out. Repunzel raises her babies in a cave before running into the prince again where he's been wondering around blind for years. She heals his eyes with her tears of joy and they return to his home to get married.
I think if you know you struggle with spelling and your job is to permanently etch words into someone's skin, you should have a person you know can spell and read well double or triple checking your line art, whether it's someone else actively at the shop or someone you just shoot a text message to. You can't really just assume that your client isn't also going to be distracted or doesn't have any any issues with reading or spelling.
“Conquer” You don’t even need a real assistant- Go onto ur phones note or on google and simply typing ur best will often give u the correct spelling! Not sure it’s accurate? Highlight and use the “look up” feature for the definition of the word placed! And like if u can’t spell wouldn’t u wanna constantly be looking at the correct spelling?
COMPLETELY agree. if it was a name, i would understand a bit more. i feel at that point it would be mainly up to the client to make sure (but the artist should still check multiple times before then). but to hear its a word like conquer?
There are out of context tiktok audios I.e. "this isn't a Steven universe episode, Colleen - you asked a minor for a** pics!" "this sounds like something you should talk to a therapist about, I'm not licensed to deal with this" etc. Like I've accidentally used 4 without realising this is where they're from 💀 also 100% agree there should be a full dedicated video
Why are we giving an 18 year old CHILD a free house?! There wasn’t anyone else more deserving? Like a family? Disabled person? Wounded soldier? I mean an 18 year old would literally be the last on my list.
Her story was pretty sad - I think she needed a new home and she knew she needed a new home but how would you react if the next day all your problems were solved? It's overwhelming - good - but overwhelming. I'm not saying the 18yo is right at all she lied online for pity and that's fucked up. But when an 18yo asks for help and you're able to help...idk, most people want to help. But a few people don't always recognize the gift or know how to move past a history of abuse and trauma because of how normalized it is for them.
@@bumblehoney7206 Except she clearly lied about being abused. For the last 8 years I have been wanting to get away from my family because of all the mental torture I have to go through almost every single day. For eight f*cking years. If someone had given me a FREE HOUSE and TEN THOUSAND DOLLARS and FREE GIFTS ... FOR F*CKING FREE.... DID I MENTION IT WAS FREE????..... then I am packing my little ass up and MOVING INTO THAT HOUSE. I don't care what kind of "twauma uwu" she claims she has. She's still an UNGRATEFUL P.O.S.
I don't really care about the Disney fan/castings, but I think it's genuine knowledge and we can all agree that it would just be SO much better if these incredible, talented, actresses got their own stories, with their own representation of their culture, instead of being used in one of Disney's brand-new cash grabs!
I’m not Indian but if my white person knowledge is correct- I’ve seen that hair is culturally important (especially to Sikh people?) and they don’t cut it. That’s its own Rapunzel story! I think they could do a really beautiful hair based story with other cultures but it doesn’t need to be an actual remake
i agree- it kinda sucks that disney seems to be the only measure for "good representation" when in reality, we can support filmmakers who aim to venture to explore different stories and discover new talents!
fr, and we get called racist bc its their turn for representation, im not racist i just dont think having skin color represented is as good as if their skin color and race were represented. disney coupd look at the cultural stories and get inspiration to make new princesses to represent other cultures rather than doing live action remakes left and right and changing the race of the character bc im sorry but thats not representation thats recycling
I cringed so hard when I got to that part 😭 how’re these people full on crying over FICTIONAL characters?! I would understand if they were sad scene because well, I don’t even need to explain but this?! People like her need to get a life cus this is so embarrassing ew
So every tattoo artist I've ever been to has made every client sign a waiver that clearly states "spelling errors are at the client's risk" That being said, she scarred that poor woman's arm up bad and should absolutely be held liable for that.
10:35 giving an 18 year old girl a house for free is hilarious the fact the girl didn't even stay there and just pretty much party there for a month left it trashed and never went back even though it was a free house she owned
As someone who is both neurodivergent & has physical disabilities I do know that for some people they can't live alone for one reason or another. That being said it does not excuse trashing & then all but abadoning a literal free house. Then on top of that trying to ruin the reputation of the person who gave you the house & kept you packages safe. If she was unable to stay at the home she should have just reached out to Demi & gave her the house back or gave it to someone who would actually live in it. I for one would love to have a house gifted to me that I could stay in rent free so then I could save money to afford all my extra needs so I could live independently without doing things I literally shouldn't be doing
I would literally be so grateful for a free house wtf. I'm upset for the kind woman who gave it to them. I've been on my own but I do not think from 18-22 I've EVER trashed someone's house. Even now I constantly clean up after the mil and fiancé, because I live here pretty much rent free. It's the LEAST someone can do, is freaking clean. To add, I'm also neurodivergent and physically disabled. I am so angered and upset :(( sorry if it seems I'm against people who cannot clean, I just have strong feelings about that situation :((
@mall0w-ot1lj You're fine. Your comment, at least to me, didn't come off as being against people who can't do something as this person didn't even attempt to either take care of the place or tell the person who gifted her the house she couldn't take care of it. It also upset me too when someone is perfectly capable of doing something such as cleaning but then acts like they can't. Meanwhile there are people who can't or shouldn't are doing those very things & get treated like they're brave or an inspiration when in reality they're doing things that put them in situations that do harm to their mental & physical health
Tattoos shouldn’t be that deep into the skin, that woman’s arm got mutilated. She has every right to be that upset. Spriggs needs to cover any medical bills for that woman because, let’s face it, she’ll need that arm fixed (and the tat fixed too) Edit: Ah, i forgot contracts and such exist. Thanks for telling me and also i agree about reading reviews (especially most critical ones) ^^ Edit #2: AAAAAAA I DIDN’T MEAN TO START SOME SORT OF WAR!! I realize i don’t know as much about tattoos as i should have done research on before i spoke about this, i get why people think the client is also at fault too. I’m sorry for my lack of research into this topic, it was dumb. Thanks for letting me know some extra info! €: (last edit lol) Edit #3: yeah oops not the last edit, sorry. I’m aware that my comment was pretty ignorant, and apparently there are exceptions to the waivers. Again i’m sorry about my ignorance, you guys have been really helpful informing me of stuff. Wanted to say that again after reading some more replies :}
@@bk24769darker skin is not thicker than lighter skin by any means. You don’t need to tattoo melanated skin any deeper or rougher. The tattoo is poorly done period, including the spelling
@@Mikey-jv5fv Right, but that's what I'm saying. The artist likely thought she had to and that's what caused the issue with the splitting. Yes the tattoo is poorly done, but the client still chose to go the her, even though she had every opportunity to do research on the artist beforehand. Her own choices are her own fault.
Apprentice here, I think what happened is that since they both kinda panicked, the client most likely went back to get the tattoo fixed while it was still healing, which resulted in unnecessary trauma and possibly infection. That looks like every infected tat I've seen. With that being said, the whole story is just so messy. When you're a tattoo artist, you're bound to make mistakes from time to time, and you absolutely have to learn how to own up to it and sort it out privately with the client. Turning everything into drama and clout will ruin your reputation and kill your career 100%. If I was in her place, I would have covered the client's medication to bring down the infection, refunded the misspelled tattoo and considered the lesson learned. Even if the client's behavior wasn't the best either, tbh it doesn't even matter that much anymore since they're not going back to you anyway.
I got words tattooed on me recently and my tattoo artist literally checked it a thousand times before putting it on my body. She let me check it as many times as I needed. She wasn’t putting it on me until we both double triple quadruple checked. You need to have pride in your work, and that includes checking spelling
The girl that was gifted the house just enraged me so badly...i can't imagine the level of ignorance...those 14 months she abandoned that house, imagine how many people needed it! Imagine how many ppl slept outside and how many ppl are working day and night for it. Completely absurd
Not for nothing, but in the original Victor Hugo novel, Esmeralda was actually Agnès. Esmeralda was her stage name. She was white, born to a white French woman, but the mother died in labour and the midwife, a Romani woman, adopted her. The impact of the story is very much the same, though. She was looked down on and mistreated because she was poor, raised by "outsiders", and French citizens believed her to be a witch because she "seduced men" and knew "gypsy magic". In the Disney movie, for some reason they swapped Esmeralda's story with Quasimodo's. It's not explicitly stated, but one of the writers at the time, Irene Mecchi, said Quasi is white because he was born to a French woman, and that the Romani woman who sacrificed herself for him at the beginning of the movie wasn't his biological mother, but the midwife who adopted him.
That is Esmeralda's story from the 1956 movie by Jean Delannoy. In the original she was kidnapped by Romani and they left Quasimodo in her place. At the end of the book Esmeralda finds that her mother is Sister Gudule who hates Romani because they eat her baby. Happiness is short because Esmeralda runs after Phoebus but gets captured by an angry mob and her mother falls and hits her head and dies.
@@sanzibal4167 And I think there is some subtext implying Esmeralda is half Romani? Her father was described as being "the king of thiefs" or something
Why in the hell would you give the house to an 18 year-old??? I would much rather give it to someone who's been struggling for a long time, like a single parent or a middle aged person in medical debt, idk
@@ajakakakak I mean, I see what you mean, but at the same time..... The point was to give the house to someone who needed it and she didn't. She gave it to someone who trashed it and didn't care lol why do you automatically assume this person was "lower class"?
Probably because it’s now common knowledge that most present day 18 year olds are part of a generation who will never own their own homes. I’m not saying it was a good decision, it wasn’t, but that was probably the thought process.
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16:11 I genuinely could not care what race the princesses are. Rapunzel just needs long hair. Like, come on. Ariel needs a tail (I mean, I would have liked that vibrant red hair but eh) and Cinderella needs her shoes. Not really race-based stuff.
People like the girl gifted the house are the reason more people don't do kind things, it's so sad and wasteful and I couldn't even blame the woman for not wanting to gift it to someone else when this is where her kindness got her. Then for the girl to go lying, wow, what's wrong with her? When she's older she'll realise how bad she screwed up
The funniest part of the whole Rapunzel drama is that if we want to really get into the nitty gritty, the fairy tale isn't even originally German. It's Italian. The Grimm brothers reworked a French fairy tale into Rapunzel, and the French was itself a reworking of the Italian story of Petrosinella
And Germany as a seperate clear nationstate is a very modern concept as well. The borders have moved *a lot* around there. According to wikipedia the story may even have it's origins in the proto-Indian-European era, and there's also this: "The earliest surviving reference to a female character with long hair that she offers to a male lover to climb like a ladder appears in the Persian epic poem Shahnameh, written by Ferdowsi between c. 977 and 1010 CE.[22] The heroine of the story, Rudāba, offers her hair so that her love interest Zāl may enter the harem where she lives. Zāl states instead that she should lower a rope so that she will not hurt herself.[22]" I would love to see this film btw. Seems quite interesting. And we can use an Iranian cast and no need for crying.
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I got kicked out of my transphobic, abusive parent's house at 16 and it's been a struggle ever since. I'm severely mentally ill, living paycheck to paycheck on top of everything else and this girl got a house for *free*, plus packages upon packages and 10,000 dollars??? And then WRECKS IT?? Fucking excuse me??
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Honestly I can't finish any ContraPoints video. I just can't focus that long. I felt targeted by this advertise.
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The story of the house between Demi & Shay is genuinely sad. Imagine trying to ruin the reputation of Demi & spread lies about her on social media after being GIFTED a FREE HOUSE from her!!! LIEING FOR ATTENTION ON TIK TOK!?!? Pathetic...
The entire time I was thinking: if you don't want to stay in the house just sell it! At least let someone else live there! I WISH my house was gifted to me with a massive check. And I get falling behind with basic house chores but even when I'm at my lowest low I still make sure to take out the trash since letting that sit will just cause way worse problems in the future than whatever I'm currently going through. The whole situation was just someone being gifted a house they weren't ready for or responsible enough to take care of.
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Fr like I literally have maybe I think it’s .90 cents (to last me the month I’ll add) and I’m a single mom of 2 teens and could ABSOLUTELY use a home that I’ll never have. So to see a spoiled brat abuse that beautiful home and then have the nerve to lie and bash that amazing woman, it really pisses me off.
It was a wonderful thing to do, but I wonder what made her choose an 18 year old with no real responsibility yet. I get being young is hard right now, I’m 20 and I have zero clue what I’m doing or what I’m gonna do- everything’s kinda wrecked and it’s pretty impossible to start from the ground up, so I get it, but why not a hard working family with kids? maybe she said her home situation wasn’t good, but then why did she run right back? I was expecting it to go to a family, honestly, not a single 18 year old. still, an act of kindness is an act of kindness, and Shay is still the one in the wrong. I really wanna know more about the situation to make a clearer judgement. I neeeeed a follow up 😂
So did shay ever have ownership of the house? Or was she just a tenant with free rent?
girl got a house at 18 FOR FREE and she destroys it and tried to blame the woman who gave her the house?? i cant for the life of me understand that
That girl made the biggest mistake of her life. Omg why would you do this to a house you got for free. A FREE HOUSE is a get out of jail free card in life FR.
I wouldn't be able to pack my bags fast enough for the opportunity of a free house. Especially that comes furniahed and with free house hold items? $10,000 check? I will never under how that girl fumbled the ball so bad
My life would change so much if I was given that opportunity
She could’ve sold it if she didn’t want it
Right??? I’d have passed out if someone offered me a free house at 18, and 10k for food and necessities. That would have changed my life (about a decade later and I still don’t have a house or house money 😩)
Faking being Amish is one of the stranger, more useless lies I’ve come across. Like, you take off the bonnet after the tiktok, and put on sweats to play Overwatch? Sooooo odd
She was also pretending to be an abuse survivor and taking financial donations so that she would eventually have enough money to "leave".
The thing is she said how much she didn’t want to be Amish and he wanted to go and be a normal girl when she’s the one that wanted to convert in the first place… her lies don’t match up. Couldn’t be me 😐😑😐
Never checked her account out, but can't help but wonder, how did she explain having internet? Or I guess she had a really sweet data plan
Just in the clips of Sarah Joy I think that if someone grew up around these communities, they would immediately point to how her dresses aren’t even Amish. They were clearly bought and have elastic, all Amish clothes are hand made and often enough they can only secure the garment using pins. You won’t ever see the pins, but they’re there. Thanks for always shining a light on subjects like this! ❤
You could leave a while before you become of age I think
To expect someone with a botched tattoo to quietly leave without even crying to a friend is wild. That mistake is permanent
And that text was mild as hell too, I would've called her every name in the book and then some lol
Not to mention misspelling a tattoo and not immediately handling that weakness in yourself in some kinda way, to the point that you have at least 3 incidents of misspellings?!?! That’s sooo unacceptable. After the FIRST mistake, you better be TRIPLE checking, looking every word up to make sure you have it right, or having any text vetted by another artist at your shop whose strength is spelling. Or, if none of that is an option, just don’t do text.
I had to pick my jaw up off the floor when she said it had already happened a couple times in the past, making this the THIRD TIME SHE PERMANENTLY INKED A MISSPLELLED WORD ONTO A PERSON!! And yeah the photo of the tattoo was horrid what kinda scratcher shit is that.
That's why all my tats àre stenciled. Free hand is too wild for me
I have a saying. You better make sure you use a good tattoo artist. It is easier to get a divorce than to get rid of a bad tattoo.
@@Feverm00nliterally exactly what i was thinking. maybe it’s time for the artist to switch to strictly pictures 😭 no words please
People filming themselves crying is the wildest thing to me. I can't stand anyone seeing me cry, I go into hiding like a wounded animal lol.
Same
sometimes i post on my story crying because everyone knows i struggle with mental health, i guess everyone is different but its normally me just venting that im stressed out and i dont have many people to talk to about it
Literally I could never imagine crying & having the thought “oh! I should record this for social media!” 😭 it’s insane
Nah I'm afraid the healthy behavior here is in fact to be okay with people seeing you cry :DD Like think what you want of it but it's not saying as much about the person filming themselves crying as it is saying about you, and that's fine. Both are fine.
@@sketchycat6223 insane?? you can't be serious
imagine that 14 months, a family could have been living there rent free, wow
I don’t even see why she would take the house if she didn’t want it. It’s insanity
@@naomivought9317 entitlement I suppose
I am 17 and I WISH someone would gift just a space to start a business or something for living.....and I have severe depression.
I would NEVER do such thing, and either does anyone with mental health.
I have no idea why ppl act like Shay is a victim! She's not, she's completely a psycho
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i don't understand why she would give a house to a teenager instead of any of the other 2000 people that emailed her. there had to have been families in need that she knew about, why would she choose a random kid?
The commenters saying "she's just young" um is 18 not old enough to know not to pee on the floor? I know damn well she doesn't have mobility issues.
Do you know that? How?
I suspect it was the pee of her pets as she also had a copious amount of pets
@@miglek9613 Ohhhh that makes a lot more sense lol
@@willowtree7326 Cause I can see videos of her walking around and sitting and standing. She could have some form of mobility difficulty, but clearly not ones that would prevent her from using a bathroom. Not to mention stuffing garbage in closets isn't physically different than just taking it outside and putting it in the bin, especially when we know she's able to leave the home. I work with people who have varying degrees of mobility issues, she doesn't have ones that would cause her to destroy a home like this.
@@miglek9613if it was her pets 18 is definitely old enough to know you shouldn’t let your pets pee on the floor 🤢
Getting a tattoo of ur bfs name covered up and in the same session getting “love conquers all” is just funny to me. Cuz obviously it didn’t 😭
This comment needs more acknowledgement
I think she was getting love conquers all with a line through it… which is pretty appropriate for a cover-up on an exes name lol.
Leaving a relationship that isnt working is an act of selflove, so I'd say love still conquers all!
It was supposed to be crossed out. Saying that it doesn’t conquer all.
I have NO idea how or why Demi chose a teenager as the winner of her free house, but someday when Shay’s older & genuinely ready to be a homeowner, she’s going to realize how badly she effed up…she had a wholeass free house & just walked away from it😭
It may be more complicated than it seems. If Demi’s giveaway was treated as a contest, the value of the free house would have been imputed to the winner as income. An 18-year-old with no ties to the area and no job wouldn’t be able to afford income taxes on that. I’m not excusing the girl’s bad behavior, but it doesn’t surprise me that she would crash there for a month, leave the place a mess, and move back to where her home was.
The outcome likely would have been better if Demi had picked someone who was more established in life and local to the area.
@amicaaranearum But why leave it as a mess?
@@amicaaranearum Then why apply for it to begin with? Why take it and not decline it? Why trash it and leave? Why demonize the woman who gave you a free house?
Nah fuck that bitch.
@@Isabelle-hv6ny Cycling back to teenagers not having a lot of standing in life. A 40 year old who leaves a home trashed is just an awful person, while an 18 year old who leaves a home trashed is still awful, but has a greater chance to regret it later.
I wonder what story an 18 year old had, that she would of been chosen. You would assume that a single mum, or a young couple living on the street would win over an 18 year old that appeared to be happy to stay where she was.
Slamming on a kind and generous woman, and abandoning a free house, various gifts and $10,000 is insane. Clout is a hard drug, for real.
Except none of that actually sounds like it makes sense .. almost like that never happened 😂
No one abandons $10,000 when they're poor .. 😂
@@eclecticraeen ikr? people are so gullible it's wild lol "the story was told to me this way so I'm gonna accept it at face value and get super upset at this person I know nothing about" just another day on the internet lmao
@@eclecticraeenyou’re right, it’s so suspicious. Why would anyone in their right mind give a house to a random 18 year old living states away? It’s not even that she needed the house
@@eclecticraeen that dilapidated house was all i needed to see
i experienced homelessness as a child and will most likely never be able to afford a house, so hearing about that 18yo who destroyed that home genuinely made the sympathy leave my body
It left mine too.
Real ong
Same but the sympathy didn't leave my body. Most 18 year olds aren't ready to own a house, nor to move a long way from home. That's a lot of responsibility, and at 18 you're still not quite there most of the time. Being young, this would have also been extremely embarassing for her to try and deal with appropriately, and is a situation that MOST people would struggle to resolve properly. There's a reason they say that houses and cars are burdens not gifts.
It's more tragedy than crime and I hope she does better if she gets another chance at building herself a home like that.
@@Jane-oz7ppbut then why enter? Why try and get people to harass the organisation that gave away the house? Yeah being 18 might mean they’re unaware of the demands of home ownership but it sure as hell doesn’t mean that she’s too young not to go online and be a complete idiot.
My BLOOD boiled.
the fact that spriggs has misspelled MULTIPLE tattoos tells me everything i need to know. on top of that too saying in her first video “she was cursing me out and calling me a dumb b*!ch” and then turning around a day later and saying “well she never actually called me a dumb b*!ch to my face, she sent it in a text to someone and then purposefully showed me the text” is quite the back pedal that again tells me all i need to know
13:56 "I consciously chose to convert to being amish and as soon as I did, I made tiktoks about wishing I wasn't amish."
Shes not Amish at all
@@jennapeneueta-snyder200 i know. I was just pointing out how fundamentally broken her narrative is
Glad to know she’s a fraud!!! ❤
Yo what’s up bestie?
@@topazthelycanroc8522 Watching a couple of bogans demonstrating why body work on cars is so expensive
The Demi/Shay thing is so confusing. Why would you do all this. Why would you destroy the house, refuse to take possession of it, and then try to ruin the person who did it for you?
Just speculation but she likely had a pretty secure living situation abd wanted to just sell the property since she didn't need the property as much as she wanted the potential money (which to be fair if circumstances were different could be super valid) but since it wasn't as easy as a large check just partied in the place and let it lay to waste.
@@jacquesjones9980 I suppose that answer is as good as any. It's difficult to understand the stupidity of people.
@@knightartorias1825I mean it’s not so much stupidity as much as a different motivation. If she could’ve just sold the house and went back to Pennsylvania with the money this likely wouldn’t have happened. And she could’ve use the money to get a nursing degree or something I don’t know
Some people are hella selfish
@@smokedbeefandcheese4144 It wouldn't be stupid to sell it- it's stupid to struggle to sell it for a year and then trash it and abandon it. Deciding a free house and property isn't worth owning because you can't turn a quick buck is objective, short sighted stupidity.
i feel so bad for the trademe woman (i'm sorry i forgot her name.) she literally worked so hard to get that house, gave it away out of the kindness of her own heart, and ended up a) getting bashed online and b) LITERALLY seeing the house she worked so hard for absolutely TRASHED ): so freaking sad
This is why we can't have nice things 😑
I don't know. Why give a house to an 18 year old when she could've given it to a family or bloody anyone else.
@@BurningOfEden right! I cannot fathom what that letter said.
@@BurningOfEdenexactly, like how is a teenager gonna manage a whole house and 10,000 dollars? It was a kind gesture but very stupid
@kookie_krissy6728 i get your point but not every 18 year old is irresponsible and unable to manage their affairs. It just sad the one she gave it to was, but don't put all 18 yrs old in the same baskets
I've been sleeping in different places for a year now, since the wildfires in Canada took my home last year. I lost everything. The fact she took that amazing opportunity for FREE HOUSING IN A HOUSING CRISIS FORGRANTED??? its insane to me. Now look i get it depression is a real thing, and my living spaces in the past is something i was ashamed of, I've been there, but that doesn't excuse starting lies and drama. (Also don't worry, my family home is scheduled to be finished in late June )
At least your house is not destroyed beyond repair. So that’s good
How are you now?
I can understand an 18 year old kid ruining a house. I saw that a lot during uni. What I CAN'T understand is then going and attacking the kind woman who GAVE you the house!!!
Desire for those measly 5-10 mins of internet fame can really twist a person's mind
They weren’t raised right if that’s what they do at 18 . Must be nice to be privileged enough to get any type of space and just mess it up . Yall are raising spoiled rotten apples that’s the problem.
As someone who was 18 a few years ago….. I cannot understand ruining a house
@excuseme2770 I was 18 not long ago and I cannot imagine trashing a house. Then the level of disrespect to attack the person who gave it to me in the first place..
@@excuseme2770 let me rephrase lol. I dont understand how somebody does that, but I have SEEN people do it, so I'm not surprised.
People like Shey are why people like Demi are hard to come by, like she hit the jackpot and instead of being grateful, trashed the place like a brat
I know right, it’s a shame because Demi just wanted to help someone in need, but Shey trashed the place . It must have been horrible to have such a huge act of kindness taken advantage of and wasted.
Why are we excusing ppl who can do more not doing more? Ppl don’t not help bc of ppl like Shay, they don’t help bc they’re selfish and greedy
@@ajakakakakBut the negative experiences can cause for people like Demi to stop doing the good they wanted to do if all they see is people taking advantage of their kindness and wasting/trashing their gifts of charity. 😢
Exactly selflessness and kindness is a nurturered emotion. It either gets killed early or you spend your adulthood slowly dying inside and considering to kill that seed in your optional offspring. @@Alexacz2
@@Alexacz2i mean ig, but there aren’t many Demis in the world. not every average Joe is giving out houses. the people choosing not to help are the billionaire jerks using their dollar bills as cum tissues. and they have enough money that they would feel so disheartened if people misused their gift. it would be the amount of upset if a child dropped the ice cream you bought them.
At the studio where I get my tattoos, you sign a waiver including a clause saying the artist takes no responsibility for the spelling or meaning of the tattoos. That part seems fair, but I don’t understand why this “artist” decided to start this drama herself 💀
Yeah for real that’s my one issue with this video. As someone with a lot of tattoos who still gets nervous before appointments it is still 100% on me where the tattoo is, what it is, if it’s spelled correctly. If I have an issue with it in any way then I need to speak up the artist can’t read my mind.
The example this person used would be better said if it was a Chefs responsibility that each customer knows there is meat in the product. It should be something the customer should look at and confirm for themselves.
Also like I said I get being nervous but it is literally your choice to be doing this. It’s not like a doctors appointment this is an active choice you are making for yourself you need to go in there knowing what you want and being able to articulate it. If you can’t then bring someone with you who can.
This artist sucks tho but yeah I agree that it is not the artist fault especially if you show them the word they write it down and show you. Like literally what other steps are there to take? You said it’s what you want.
I think that is a good way to protect the artist when it is the clients fault for misspelling. This “artist” sucks, I don’t want to refer to her as a creator of art because she mutilated her client.
Yes that’s the norm for tattoo studios so it really does fall on the client to make sure that the spelling is correct, know the meaning of a different language etc.
They have more time to think about and plan what they want and the artist is there to tattoo it. Even someone getting a spur of the moment tattoo needs to make sure it’s exactly what they want because it’s there forever
I can’t believe that the artist was the one to start this and was shown to be disingenuous. Like, why on earth would that girl have *typed* all that and then turn her phone to show the artist like she’s trying to now claim in her video?? It’s just so obvious that that’s not the way it went down but anyway, rant over! Lol
Too many attention seekers on tic tok starting drama for the views.
I understand not bring responsible for the working. But she should be responsible for it being ugly lol
God I’m 35 with a daughter and I live in a 800sq foot place would kill for a home that story made me so angry
I found this channel a week ago and I can’t get enough
It’s like Chad Chad and Danny Gonzales’s first removed cousin who makes the family reunion worth going to
yeah lol
why does this actually make sense lmao
That ..... actually makes sense lmao
why is this true
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"what would an indian know about having long hair" this is so funny help. i'm so glad you mentioned this one because the racism is getting so out of hand.
Seriously, I related to Funky's spiraling meltdown over the absurdity of it all. She would make such a pretty Rapunzel?? Hello???
Also, isn’t the person with the longest hair record Indian ??? 💀
@@Someone-ui5uk Yep she is! from Google: Smita Srivastava, a 46-year-old woman from Uttar Pradesh, India
@@Someone-ui5uk Yup, Smita Srivastava.
@@Someone-ui5ukThe irony is CRAZY 😭
Another point about the tattoo thing is that the tattoo looks bumpy and didn't look to be healing well and the artist blamed the client. I saw Treacle Tats react to the drama and one of the points mentioned is that dark skin is prone to keloids and that the artist didn't seem to do a good job in being careful with tattooing Lai's skin and that this isn't Lai's fault that the tattoo is healing bad
I've seen someone say that she must have gone too deep with the needle
It looks like she cut her with a knife. I’ve never seen a tattoo look like that.
@@BlueGangsta1958 which is actually really really common... bc theres a racist myth that dark skinned (espec black) ppl have thicker skin than lighter and especially white ppl, so you *have* to go deeper and actually scar the skin to get the ink to stay. which is not only bullshit that affects the tattoo industry but also the medical field (the idea of "thicker skin" is used to say that darker skin prevents you from feelign pain as deeply and therefore can be used to excuse excessive rough handling or denial of painkillers by doctors, under the idea that dark skinned patients are lying or exaggerating to get drugs or out of some personal grudge with the doctor... this is why black women have a much higher mortality rate when giving birth)
I just listened to an npr report about that exact “fact” of black skin. They researched to figure out where it came from and it turns out it was a dude along time ago who didn’t do any actual scientific research. So Black skin isn’t necessarily more prone to keloids. But it’s been used as an excuse to give subpar care and aftercare forever since. It was very informative. Basically there are a lot of race based diagnosis that shouldn’t be considered as race based.
@@DaughterofDiogenes i left a comment here that got snapped by the youtube automod for some reason but it's likely it's perceived as more common for black skin to keloid because of a much older idea that black skin is "thicker" and therefore more tolerant of pain and rough treatment, which leads to ppl actually beign rougher with black ppl when givign medical treatment or, in this case, tattooing. this idea that black skin is thicker and that black ppl's nerves are less sensitive means ppl ignore black pain and scar ppl up when tattooing, piercing, or givign medical treatment. in medical settings this leads to higher mortality rates a lot of the time.
I will say, I wasn't watching this with my whole brain and thought that the person who trashed the free house used the fact that she was Amish to validate it, and I got so damn confused
I’m just gonna say it’s a pattern for black women to be painted as aggressive way too often, and it is still a thought some people have that black skin is thicker and needs more pressure to tattoo. I don’t think either side is completely innocent, but the artist painting her as aggressively yelling and then admitting she just typed it on her phone is insane.
Edit: after reading some of the replies, and looking into the situation more, I agree. This isn’t a two-side issue, this is the fault of the tattoo artist. Not the woman.
And even then the idea of just “typing it on her phone to show her” is… ridiculous.
As someone slightly non verbal who does use notes and messages oftenly.. I genuinely couldn’t fathom doing that??
Also I find it hard to believe that the client would text her cousin that the tattoo was bad and then turn around and show the text conversation to the artist?? I think it's more likely that the artist just happened to see it by accident and/or was snooping on the client's phone as the client was texting.
what?! never heard that one.
The artist really thought she’d be able to pull white women tears.
You americans are so obsessed with race, black and white. You are so fk racists
as someone who got a matching tattoo with their ‘bestie’ who i quite literal considered to be my sister, never ever ever EVER get a tattoo for someone unless they are a beloved family member or a memorial tattoo as i am now covering said tattoo next week.
oof i got a matching tattoo with a former friend and it was a keith haring piece so the lines are THICK and now we’re no longer friends and i hate how it looks with my other tattoos 🙃🙃🙃 feel you
I hate reading these comments without knowing the tea!! 😭😂 I hope the cover up goes well and looks amazing
I absolutely agree. I have a matching tattoo with a former friend as well… I wish I could cover it up but the tattoo artist who did it, did a terrible job which is why I’d have to laser it before (which I cannot afford just now) so I am very very happy for you that you can cover up yours! I hope everything went well and you are happy with the result!❤
Hahahahah literally this happened to me like a month ago! I didn’t get it fully covered up but I got it changed to represent my growth (leaving a toxic friendship)
even a family member i caution against. got a matching tattoo with my sister and that same year she decided she wanted my mum's house and tried to get me kicked out of it....
Imagine being given a free house and gifts and not even accepting it or treasuring it
Insane.
Or in the very least regifting it???
OR EVEN ASKING FOR IT LIKE WHY DID SHE if she wasn’t even going to use it tf??
Especially in this economy
holy sh*t, look up right now!! someone painted "gullible" on your ceiling 😧
14:15 I live for the moments funky makes themselves laugh omg
Real 😭
As a struggling single dad who works way too much and still can't pay rent and skips meals to make sure my dog and son eat....Its so frustrating seeing so many ungrateful people get blessings they don't deserve. I would kill for that opportunity...
for real. not to mention, the price of a whole ass house AND piles of gifts AND a 10k check was a single bobby pin.. shay acted so ungrateful its frustrating
I understand that completely. I hate that society is like this and I really hope that you and your children are able to make the most of your situation. I may be a stranger but your hard work is important! im sure your kids appreciate you very much as well as your dog. my mom struggles to pay the mortgage every month and I can't work. I pray things get better for you! keep your head up!
Same. I'm a single person supporting my parents. We all live in a rented flat in somebody's back yard. My father is dying of CHF and I'm a freelance writer, so money is tight and I'll never be able to afford a house. We have no privacy due to the nosy landlords, so seeing this 18 year old get a house for free, trash it, and slam the woman who made it all possible, I'm just angry. You sound like a great dad and dog parent, by the way. :)
As a homeless 19 year old I would’ve done anything to get a free house like that it’s people like this that make it harder for people my age to get rented to
I hope things get better for you, some people have compassion. Best wishes.
@@charliegibson4016 thank you
Try calling the United Way at 211 to look for resources that may help you in your area. I'm rooting for you!
@@chillcreep4926 called 211 multiple times they keep sending me to a full rescue mission and within five seconds of me being there an older man tried something it’s not safe for me and I wouldn’t be able to bring my cat
I hope that someday, people stop (not you op, definitely not you) accusing certain people based on what they look like and how well they may rent or care for a home.
Your anger is justified however. I just personally don't think one person of one community shouldn't be at blame for someone else's actions.
I hope you get housing soon Honey. It's hard but you'll get there soon. You got this
another thing with the tattoo, the only reason i’ve seen artists tattoo THAT DEEP, is on people with darker skin colors. because apparently “it needs to go deeper in order for it to stay” which is NOT true and is in fact a medical myth.
funny fact, raounzel in disney isnt anything like german rapunzel. german rapunzel gets sold for cabbage, and "flynn" falls into roses and gets his eyes scraped out. The "german" part doenst even make sense
Why do classic fairy tales always feel like the storyteller was throwing darts at a board to decide aspects of the story
@@TeeklGreyIt’s all about an imported life lesson.
Suppen Kasper ? -Dosent like soup =fucking starvation at age 10
Strubbel Lise ? -Don’t come you hair =burn alive when lighting a match
Max & Moritz? -Steal food = burn alive
….. or we Germans are just a little fucked up 😂
@TeeklGrey hi my name is carmen winstead im 17 years old did you know that im dead? a group of girls pushed me down a sewer drain for a prank, the next day the police found my body in a sewer made completely out of blood, my eyes were missing and oozing blood nonstop and when they took me to autopsy the building was destroyed by flooding. the group of girls were found dead soaked with the blood of indian german ginger mermaid in their free trashed apartment. if you repost thid message 7 times your shoes will ty themselves and your enemies will also be soaked in the blood of an alien space ginger mermaid and melt into maggots.
The Rapunzel drama is especially stupid if you're a folklore nerd like me who's aware that fairy tales have evolved so goddamn much across time and space that the common versions we know of today have only very loose connections to much older (and more gruesome) versions from the past. Mad about a hypothetical non-white Rapunzel? I suppose you're also mad that she wasn't thrown out into the wilderness after getting knocked up out of wedlock, or that Flynn wasn't blinded by Mother Gothel for being the baby daddy.
LITERALLY 💀
It's also funny to get mad about when pretty much every culture has similar folk tales. Look hard enough and there's probably an Indian Rapunzel story somewhere in India's history, so who really cares what ethnicity she is.
So does that mean we will get a white Tiana?
@@rabbadidi7385 Oh, so you DIDN'T watch the video.
Tiana's race affects the story.
Rapunzel's does not.
Thanks for playing.
@@rabbadidi7385 the frog prince. The princess and the frog is a retelling in a different sense. This is the most pointless question.
speaking as indian diaspora born and raised in germany: 1) nobody above the age of six considers rapunzel a shining pinnacle of german culture 2) my only problem with casting an indian woman to play a princess from a german fairytale is that indian folk tales and mythology would be much more fun to watch onscreen than a repetitive disney cash grab
THIS RIGHT HERE! I am not indian, but Im sure there must be plenty of other folktales to use to make an adaptation of!
I'm not sure Disney knows they can make anything new at this point
As an Indian I agree. There are soooo many stories Disney could have told with an Indian princess in mind. We already have the Tangled movie a live action version is just stupid.
I honestly think these days they know this shit stirs up drama and "any publicity is good publicity"
That’s my point… it feels lazy. It’s like saying ‘for representation we need to put you in our stories’ like… make an original one, or show an Indian fairytale? There are plenty i’m sure, and it represents the people and culture as a whole much better.
the thing is rapunzel isn’t a “german fairytale” it more accurately originated in asia. but that’s also the whole point of fairytales, they’re supposed to adapt and change over time, there are several retellings where she’s a brown woman
That girl who won the house fumbled the bag so bad, of I was given a house in another state, I’d leave my state and move, what the hell?
I just can't wrap my head around that house story... how entitled can you be to trash and abandon A HOUSE YOU GOT FOR FREE and then try to blame the person who gave it to you???
It's especially heartbreaking since we know how many homeless people there are or families struggling with housing. It's infuriating that instead of them an ungrateful brat ended up getting this house, destroyed it and traumatised the kind person who gave it to them 😒
Idk how she got her to choose her ass she better get extreme karma
Fun fact! There is a story in Italy that Michelangelo was painting the Sistine chapel and he was almost done painting when the pope sent a messenger to tell him that the people could not be naked. Ofcourse he didn’t listen much because he was Michelangelo but he also (according to the story) painted the messenger burning in hell.
Mood tbh
Lmao
Didn't he paint the pope as a having donkey ears and getting his 🍆 being bitten by a snake, or was that someone else who irritated Michealangelo?
I know he painted the cherubs doing the fig hand gesture, which was that time periods equivalent of the finger.
Dude literally painted the cherubs flipping everyone off😂
Everyone loves to shoot the messenger.
he was so real for that
Ah yes Rapunzel being German definitely has a big impact on the story cause I definitely knew she was German before this whole internet drama about the fancasting
As a German who grew up with the original fairytale (not the disney version), the wildest thing to me is that these people don't even know how much disney changed the story (some may not even know that disney didn't invent it), in the original fairytale there's no magic flower, no healing powers, no hair that turns brown when you cut it off. There's nothing wrong with Disney adding this stuff, but the Disney version of Rapunzel is not the only version of her that exists or that's possible. Really her only defining feature is her long hair. But sure, making her Indian would totally ruin the story 🙄
@@Link-dx1lx petition for disney to make it as brutal as the original story, what would the conservatives then say? Ich brauch die augenauskratzenden Dornenbüsche am Fuss vom Turm Leudes
Also nonwhite Germans exist lmfao
@@Link-dx1lx well even the barbie one didn't have the flower or magic hair, she was just hidden in a dark enchanted forest
Personally if it was in stories like uhh, I dont know, SNOW WHITE. Or disney stories that confirmed the princess' race then I can understand the hate.
But with cases like Rapunzel is uh... Yeah no there isn't much issue.
That girl who trashed her house kind of reminds me of those kids with rich parents who get a free lambo or other super expensive car for their 16th birthday, but go and crash it in a ditch because it’s the wrong color or something
The only different is that the rich kids are actually acting like baby over the color so is funny to watch. But the girl who got the house is a combination of angry and disappointment because the house could have gone to someone more deserve it more but this girl got and take it for granted and lie about the person who give it to her.
7:43 the way i'd literally never stop repaying the person who gifted me a house, birthday gifts, Christmas gifts, anniversary gifts from the date i'd received the house 😭 never EVER saying a bad word about such a generous person
“It’s only happened a couple times”
Girl…..
What pisses me off to no end is when people automatically excuse away bad/illegal behavior by throwing “mental health” out there like that’s a get out of jail free card. Serial killers have mental illness, doesn’t mean they’re excused from all the crimes they’ve committed.
Yeah especially when so many of us with mental illness worked and work so hard to not be shitty people and to be accountable for our actions.
I'm borderline and a recovering addict so two of the top things blamed or people attribute being trash to, so it always really pisses me off. Mental illness is an explanation not an excuse.
It also implies that people with mental health issues are inherently dangerous, toxic, or otherwise not okay to interact with. Which really harms all of us with mental illnesses who are doing our best to be good people and would never resort to those actions.
I think it's really easy to push all responsibility on mental illness, especially with the current movement towards being more mentally aware. Not that being more cautious of your health is a bad thing, but a lot of it's used as a shield instead of an explanation.
THIS!
for the Rapunzel thing, I just feel so bad for the actor. she's so pretty nice and sweet and just gets bashed on the internet 24/7 by racists. first mean girls and now this, which is crazy because she didn't even do anything!!
Mfs treating Rapunzel like she isn't a fictional character and then attacking the actress like she wanted to plagiarize her like a villain or something 💀
Yeah. And even if it WERE a real movie, what actor is gonna turn down a lead role in a Disney film just because their skin or hair is the "wrong color"? What kind of a backwards world is that? I genuinely think actors of any race should be allowed to play any role unless it's a story like (as was mentioned in the video) Hunchback of Notre Dame where ethnicity/culture plays a significant role. If we're being honest, the majority of stories are not about racial tension and the cast's races could be easily swapped. Especially in fantasy/sci-fi settings that are detached from our own world and history. The fact that people care so much about this stuff just boggles my mind.
@@TeeklGreyagreed
@@TeeklGrey The real question is why would you "race swap" an existing story in the first place ? Why not create a story relating to the group of peoples you want to represent ? Imo it just look like a lazy way for the writers to remake the same story over and over again and shift all blame away from them in the process.
@@Panzermeillerthis again? Oh hell... Hey quick question, did you know that Anderson is danish? But the little mermaid of 1989 made by the studio of Disney, was taking place around Italy, you can find artists talking about how the castle of Eric was made, what architecture they were inspired by and news flash, it was NOT Danemark. "But they are white either way!!!!1!1!11" and still don't have the same culture? But you did not throw a fit about that did you ? The little mermaid being white or black doesn't add anything or remove anything to the story.
Was the remake lazy? Yes
Was it different from the animated one? Not enough to be remembered but the main actress was not the problem, at least her singing was great and it's a shame people won't admit it.
The problem is: EVERY FUCKING REMAKES ARE USELESS, SHAMELESS CASH-GRAB.
im so mad about the house thing.. my mom is literally homeless sleeping in my sisters living room rn so i get to go to college and there’s people giving away free houses & they’re being taken for granted 😐 shay needs to grow up
Case 1 - the tattoo drama: honestly, regardless of circumstances, the artist blasting her incompetence online seems like a ridiculous idea anyway. After seeing the client, things only get worse
The way she was like “it only happened couple of times”💀
All she did was shoot herself in the foot
That down up nostril angle didn't help anything
i’m ngl this is like my FAV kind of drama: where someone posts complaining about something/someone and THE PEOPLE INVOLVED RESPOND WITH A “um, actually…” ITS MY FAVVGV
Right?
Then the follow up where they have gone from sad little helpless mood to 'ugh I guess I'll address this in the car while I finish my starbucks'. "Oh um ok I never said that or meant it that way. So um she didn't do what I heavily implied or behaved in that way but it was still terrible."
And the follow up from the other party.
"Why are you still lying boo when you know that I have photo evidence. I was giving you the chance to step up but I guess you just wanna keep digging your grave deeper. No worries boo boo I'll happily drag you down further. Here are the pictures."
Getting the name of a BF/GF is so weird. Anything could happen, there’s no way you’re THAT confident in your relationship…😭😭
Seriously though. I'm going through a divorce I never saw coming after 6 years. Hard truth.
@cassidythompson5606 the difference is that you were at keast married these people r literally just dating
@@cassidythompson5606Best wishes to you man, hope you stay strong
Yea like even if ur married you still shouldn’t do it look in general it’s just so weird
I’ve always believed that getting the name of a partner tattooed is a bad omen
Ofc 18 yo is young. But not that young to realize that this is your transition time into adulthood, meaning you have more responsibility. I move out of town for college and live in dorm. I have soooo little knowledge how to cook and cleaning the room properly. Heck yeah it took me 30 minutes to iron my blouse cause I rarely iron anything before. But I did it! I clean and mop my room regularly, cooking for myself to save some cash, even buy some cheap decor for my room. There's absolutely no excuse for Shay to trash the house...and how come anyway? My room in the most messy state not even look that bad at this point.
"News you shouldn't care about" and yet, just like traffic on a highway, we just can't help but slowdown to check out the accident before moving on
The fact that the girl said "WON a house" automatically made me know/assume she was in the wrong.
She didn't "win" a house. She was given it through a charity. It wasn't a raffle like what?!
I thought maybe she meant the “win” as either meaning she felt like she won the lottery or something?
You might be onto something. Fraudian slip from her part. Other people in the comments here speculated that she wanted ownership of the house so she can sell it for money while she had a pretty secure living situation. So for her she 'won' by writing a sappy story, not getting a house 'gifted' to her when she's in need for a home.
How r u ai 🤖
As a 24 y/o who has been homeless before I had kids, I am now a mother of 4 y/o twins and we’re living with their grandpa, i also have to be a stay at home mom until they get to pre-k because daycare for 2 children would cost more than I could currently make…. That 18 year old really upset me. So many people including myself could have seriously used a home like that. It’s one thing to leave that house in the state that it was in. It’s even worse to get online and to lie about the woman who literally gave her a home for free. So upsetting
Idk where you're at, but some states have state funded 4-K programs and scholarships (if you haven't already looked into it)
@@TheWolfeDen I’m currently looking into one rn! I just got a pamphlet. Thanks so much
@@TheWolfeDen My only "beef" with those programs is you have to have someone be able to pick up your kids by EOSD and have child care after the school day ends. If you're really lucky, they'll also get you into a day care but that only buys you 2 hours, meaning you either have to be off in enough time to get your kid and get them to alternative child care before going back or cut your work day short. If you're on the bus, that can take 2-3 hours by itself and depending on where you live there may be no return bus home. I used to work with parents who were dependent on those vouchers in my State and they can be crazy restrictive
She owned the home, if she was having issues cleaning, and decided she didn't want the home, she could have passed it on for a bobby pin as well, or even GENUINELY sell it...
my thought? Why the FUCK did she enter the givaway??
It’s not even the fact she RUINED the house , it’s the fact she then blamed the owner ..
i wish we could know what the email shay sent to demi said. like why did it stand out? there’s no way you could give an 18yo a house for free and they would have the skills to manage a property on their own. i’m also just… so angry that shay kept saying she’d go back eventually. that shelter could have gone to somebody, one of the 2000+ candidates, who desperately needed it. who wouldn’t take it for granted. like?? that’s just evil
I assume she told some big dramatic lie to farm sympathy, looking at how she seems so comfortable lying to people to paint herself as a victim
Some people are fantastic at painting themselves the perfect, saddest little victim
My mom's only two rules for tattoos were:
1. Never get portraits of real people.
2. Never get a person's name unless it's your own child.
Yeah that's my mother's but she has 2 more:
You have to want the same pattern in the same place for 2 years and it can't be seen when you are wearing a suit...
What if your child changes their name, is trans and that becomes their deadname etc
@@caoimhedoesstuff9293imo it isn’t that deep, my brother has me tattooed on his arm with my deadname from when I was a baby and I still find it very sweet. With how uncommon it technically is for people to transition it seems like quite a small probability. If the trans person has a good relationship with the family who has the tattoo I doubt most of us would care
@@caoimhedoesstuff9293 exactly, so even that's risky. My mom's mentality was that they'll always be your flesh and blood so it's the only exception in her mind.
@@msthecommentator2863 No, it's not "risky" smh
I am DEEP in the Tangled fan community online and I am so glad that Rapunzel drama NEVER crossed my dash. Otherwise I would have started chomping frontal lobes.
I thought these people’s pettiness would stop at complaining that short brown hair was “ugly” (which just reveals misogynistic beauty standards), but they decided to be VERY transparent about their RACISM too!! At least we know who to avoid and ignore! :)
I never understood this, I thought an Indian Rupunsel sounded good! You see lots of Indian women with super long hair!
@@zombiemombie666it would be cool to have Indian Rapunzel but what would be better is, if the mouse house covered some actual Indian folk tales. There are so many interesting ones that have a much better story than tangled was. It would be nice if they represented other cultures in, y’know, a way that isn’t two dimensional
@@astoroidea6502I wouldve loved the Encanto treatment for other cultures and not the Raya Treatment. Meaning that they focus on one Culture and not making it a boiling pot of a bunch different cultures to check boxes and actually telling a good story with good characters.
Because I am German and I love Encanto or Mulan, because the story is Just so good. But Raya is well just horrible.
@@astoroidea6502 An Indian Rapunzel can not exist. The word Rapunzel was a German word used to refer to a specific type of salad. If you would want to make a remake of Rapunzel and change her race to Indian, than it would make absolutely no sense for her to be named Rapunzel.
You'd have to change all those little details that make Rapunzel exclusively and definitely German, so that in the end you'd eventually have a different character, but I doubt that Disney would actually put in that much effort, which is why it would feel incredibly cheap, forced and insincere to simply race-swap her.
@@chaaae-f1y you do realize there are many different versions of Rapunzel in many different cultures, right? the only German significance of the movie is her name, there's no specific holidays or items that link her to the German culture. she is just a girl with magical long hair, her story has been written a million different ways before so the IDEA of her race being changed isn't a new thing google it. But, none of that matters because it's not real, there is literally no live action Tangled in the making.
As someone who's been homeless before I could never imagine being given a house then trashing it and running off. That's insane.
As a young 18 who is struggling through life not knowing if I'll ever be able to afford a home, if I got a house for free- I would not only take extra care of it knowing that I'll probably never get a new one and I would've probably given her furnished stuff back besides utilities. Idk I would've done something to express my gratitude knowing that it's hard to afford housing rn.
Bro, same, just turned 18, and I will take care of that house for life due to my past. I just got an apartment, and I'm fully worried about destroying my apartment.
Shit, I'm 33, married with a kid and another on the way. I would give my left arm to have a house I OWNED just for a reasonable price. I don't even need it for free. Just not an exorbitant amount of money that is beyond what the home is worth. Her story could bring me to tears if I think too long about it. Watching my community price out its working class and then fall apart because nobody is here to work at the businesses that keep it going is heartbreaking. I'm fortunate to have found a great job, but none of that matters when a trailer costs $150k, anything that will last a few decades is $250k+. I legit don't know how this city will still be here in 15 years.
You know, the best way she could have expressed her gratitude, in my opinion, would have been to work hard and use the money she saved on rent to buy her own house, then pass the gift house to another person. Just having no rent for 5 or 10 years would be enough to change your life, if you worked hard. Imagine how the first woman would have felt when she found out that her cause was still going and helping another person.
Another thing about plain people; Amish and Mennonite are different. There is a lot of overlap- historical dress, religious, etc.- but Mennonites use technology. A lot of Mennonites don't like being photographed because they believe it's vain and they don't like being treated like an attraction, but they use technology. I saw a Mennonite boy playing with a 3DS at a market that's popular among Amish people. They go to Walmart and other stores pretty often too. If she wanted to lie she could at least have a more convincing story lmao
There are Amish who do use technology and as far as I am aware they claim to be Amish not Mennonites. Don’t get me wrong, I am not talking that the entire community will have tv sets and electricity. It’s usually just a singular phone (a cell phone is more common) and/or a single car. Another thing that the Amish have done but is not super common, is that they will take their loved ones to the hospital.
There are core beliefs but some Amish and Mennonite people will have a little variation of certain tenements.
The phone and car was specifically only for the most dire of emergencies. In the case of one community both were obtained because a beloved member had passed from an accident that could have been remedied if they had either. So the Elders got both but both things were kept by the elders.
As for the hospital, the majority won’t. But there has been cases where they have. In particular a case of an Amish man who suffered from a horrible mental illness. At first the Elders tried to say he was not allowed to go to the hospital but they changed their minds after he became violent. He acquired the medication that he needed but eventually stopped taking it. He did a horrible thing because of it
Its very sect dependent too.
My dad's family is Mennonite and during his grandfather's time there was an entire schism about whether putting heaters in the barns (so the cows didn't freeze) was allowed.
Literally, I live pretty close to a Mennonite community, and no where near any Amish, and a few years back visited Pennsylvania, the difference is immediately noticeable
Man wtf did Shay do to that house? Throw a party and move back home? I definitely did not live very clean at 18 when I had depression, anxiety and undiagnosed ADHD but I would not just make a mess and leave back to my parents? That’s honestly wild to me, like I have so many questions.
My best guess with the 18 year old person who won a free house probably threw a house party or did a dumbass streak of “It’s mine to destroy.” I’d have said it could have been the homeless who broke in or potentially squatters, but I’m assuming that’s unlikely since the original homeowner seemed to be keeping an eye on the property so that would rule out squatters especially since there didn’t seem to be much stuff
Esmeralda also went through the double sexualization and demonization combo where a white man wanted to own this Romani woman to be his wife or whatever or else he would burn her at a stake and have her burn in hell. But Rapunzel blonde hair green eyes
Demi is such a sweet soul, its such a shame that someone took advantage of that kindness :(
TikTok is like spilt ketchup being spread around with the towel you used to clean it up with
My farts are better than FunkyFrogBait's farts.
@@p-__what.
It’s a hot mess atp
Wow! Getting a house nowadays is so hard, and this girl was literally given one and completely ruined the opportunity.
as someone who is literally fuckin homeless, if I had gotten that house, I'd keep it spotless and make sure it just stays amazing. me, my mom, and my youngest sister are having to live with a friend, stuck in one small room with four cats. having a free house like that would be a blessing for us and to see that entitled brat absolutely destroy it pisses me off so much. she seriously didn't deserve it
Ah shit bro 😭 hope you can get a house soon. Stay safe out there 🫶
Hope you get a house soon, friend! I've been there. My sister, mom, and I all shared a room with 4 dogs for a year or so.
I hope you become so fortunate and so used to living in the house of your dreams, you let it get messy sometimes 💜💜💜💜💜
tech not homeless
@@zo_mi_dithis comment is so sweet😭😭😭
I’m fascinated with what they typed in to have autocorrect choose “concours” instead of “conquers.”
My bet is “conkers.”
"conqores"
I'm betting they didn't know there was a Q in it but knew that concur wasn't right and typed concours. It didn't mark it as incorrect so they left it.
Conkers is a real word
Officially getting love conkers all tattooed on my ribcage
@@Tascaraudo loool
“You really think someone would do that? Just go on the internet and tell lies??” -A wise rabbit
Everyone does that nowadays. They know it makes money
Buster was so real, though
I'm homeless right now and have been for the past 2 years, and the story of the 18 year old destroying the house makes me so unbelievably angry that I can't even watch it.
When someone wants a partners name tattooed on their body, most artists call that "JOB SECURITY" 😂
ive been shadowing a tattoo artist for a few months, he genuiney just goes "no darling." every time someone comes in with that request. He's got his husbands name tattooed on his arm, and he still says that it was a dumb thing to do just incase they break up
@@BreadedNuggetss That's true too, some just outright refuse to do it
I watched a linfamy video about how prostitutes retain their customers by tattooing their client's name on their body. It kinda permanently turned me off from the idea.
@@MidniteSpectrethose poor sex workers. That feels mean to have to alter your body to be able to keep clients for your job.
@@lynnleigha580 how r u ai
Man, if I had to permanently carve words into somebody’s skin you best believe I’m running that through google at least once to make sure i got it right no matter how easy the word
Like me during a math test making sure that 2X2 really does equal 4
I'd be making sure "And" isn't spelt with an O or W
the house situation makes me so unexplainably angry as a 23 year old who has to choose between electric and food most months 😐
Dude the way my disabled ass would kill for that and to not have to live with my grandma
17:17 it’s funny that taking care of your hair is literally part of Indian culture and Indian women have literally the most gorgeous long hair that literally shines with the light of god
Idk I think people got mad about the appeal of a beautiful blonde girl being stolen lol. But blackwashing is a huge annoyance in media there’s a bunch of videos covering it . But tbh this whole thing is stupid,
I have to say it. The repunzel we all "know and love" isn't even close to the original. In the original story repunzel's poor parents traded her to a witch for a repunzel (cabbage) to satisfy a pregnancy craving. The prince knocks her up with twins before falling from the tower and having his eyes scratched out. Repunzel raises her babies in a cave before running into the prince again where he's been wondering around blind for years. She heals his eyes with her tears of joy and they return to his home to get married.
And...why is this comment here?...🧐
Never mind then❤
SHE GOT TRADED FOR CABBAGE
@@NomadicMothraimagine your pregnancy craving being cabbage
All this wonderful potential for an incredible movie and yet disney is still remaking their old stuff
I think if you know you struggle with spelling and your job is to permanently etch words into someone's skin, you should have a person you know can spell and read well double or triple checking your line art, whether it's someone else actively at the shop or someone you just shoot a text message to.
You can't really just assume that your client isn't also going to be distracted or doesn't have any any issues with reading or spelling.
No
“Conquer”
You don’t even need a real assistant-
Go onto ur phones note or on google and simply typing ur best will often give u the correct spelling! Not sure it’s accurate? Highlight and use the “look up” feature for the definition of the word placed!
And like if u can’t spell wouldn’t u wanna constantly be looking at the correct spelling?
COMPLETELY agree. if it was a name, i would understand a bit more. i feel at that point it would be mainly up to the client to make sure (but the artist should still check multiple times before then). but to hear its a word like conquer?
@darkkinkitty not the tattoo artists fault. The customer specified, agreed, and approved of the spelling. She even admitted it, you are deranged.
Damn right dude
we really need a FunkyFrogBait video with clips out of context
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There are out of context tiktok audios I.e. "this isn't a Steven universe episode, Colleen - you asked a minor for a** pics!" "this sounds like something you should talk to a therapist about, I'm not licensed to deal with this" etc. Like I've accidentally used 4 without realising this is where they're from 💀 also 100% agree there should be a full dedicated video
Why are we giving an 18 year old CHILD a free house?! There wasn’t anyone else more deserving? Like a family? Disabled person? Wounded soldier? I mean an 18 year old would literally be the last on my list.
Her story was pretty sad - I think she needed a new home and she knew she needed a new home but how would you react if the next day all your problems were solved? It's overwhelming - good - but overwhelming. I'm not saying the 18yo is right at all she lied online for pity and that's fucked up. But when an 18yo asks for help and you're able to help...idk, most people want to help. But a few people don't always recognize the gift or know how to move past a history of abuse and trauma because of how normalized it is for them.
@@bumblehoney7206 Except she clearly lied about being abused. For the last 8 years I have been wanting to get away from my family because of all the mental torture I have to go through almost every single day. For eight f*cking years.
If someone had given me a FREE HOUSE and TEN THOUSAND DOLLARS and FREE GIFTS ... FOR F*CKING FREE.... DID I MENTION IT WAS FREE????..... then I am packing my little ass up and MOVING INTO THAT HOUSE.
I don't care what kind of "twauma uwu" she claims she has. She's still an UNGRATEFUL P.O.S.
At least an 18 yo without parents or something, an 18 year old is legally an adult btw
Horrendous take.
are you under the impression that “18 year old” and “disabled person” are discrete categories or was this just horribly worded
I don't really care about the Disney fan/castings, but I think it's genuine knowledge and we can all agree that it would just be SO much better if these incredible, talented, actresses got their own stories, with their own representation of their culture, instead of being used in one of Disney's brand-new cash grabs!
Changing a previously white character brown literally does nothing for representation either idk why people support it.
I’m not Indian but if my white person knowledge is correct- I’ve seen that hair is culturally important (especially to Sikh people?) and they don’t cut it. That’s its own Rapunzel story! I think they could do a really beautiful hair based story with other cultures but it doesn’t need to be an actual remake
i agree- it kinda sucks that disney seems to be the only measure for "good representation" when in reality, we can support filmmakers who aim to venture to explore different stories and discover new talents!
fr, and we get called racist bc its their turn for representation, im not racist i just dont think having skin color represented is as good as if their skin color and race were represented. disney coupd look at the cultural stories and get inspiration to make new princesses to represent other cultures rather than doing live action remakes left and right and changing the race of the character bc im sorry but thats not representation thats recycling
15:50 Im dead she cant even spell Rapunzel but shes crying over her😭‼️
I cringed so hard when I got to that part 😭 how’re these people full on crying over FICTIONAL characters?! I would understand if they were sad scene because well, I don’t even need to explain but this?! People like her need to get a life cus this is so embarrassing ew
So every tattoo artist I've ever been to has made every client sign a waiver that clearly states "spelling errors are at the client's risk"
That being said, she scarred that poor woman's arm up bad and should absolutely be held liable for that.
10:35 giving an 18 year old girl a house for free is hilarious the fact the girl didn't even stay there and just pretty much party there for a month left it trashed and never went back even though it was a free house she owned
As someone who is both neurodivergent & has physical disabilities I do know that for some people they can't live alone for one reason or another. That being said it does not excuse trashing & then all but abadoning a literal free house. Then on top of that trying to ruin the reputation of the person who gave you the house & kept you packages safe. If she was unable to stay at the home she should have just reached out to Demi & gave her the house back or gave it to someone who would actually live in it. I for one would love to have a house gifted to me that I could stay in rent free so then I could save money to afford all my extra needs so I could live independently without doing things I literally shouldn't be doing
I would literally be so grateful for a free house wtf. I'm upset for the kind woman who gave it to them. I've been on my own but I do not think from 18-22 I've EVER trashed someone's house. Even now I constantly clean up after the mil and fiancé, because I live here pretty much rent free. It's the LEAST someone can do, is freaking clean.
To add, I'm also neurodivergent and physically disabled. I am so angered and upset :(( sorry if it seems I'm against people who cannot clean, I just have strong feelings about that situation :((
@mall0w-ot1lj You're fine. Your comment, at least to me, didn't come off as being against people who can't do something as this person didn't even attempt to either take care of the place or tell the person who gifted her the house she couldn't take care of it. It also upset me too when someone is perfectly capable of doing something such as cleaning but then acts like they can't. Meanwhile there are people who can't or shouldn't are doing those very things & get treated like they're brave or an inspiration when in reality they're doing things that put them in situations that do harm to their mental & physical health
Tattoos shouldn’t be that deep into the skin, that woman’s arm got mutilated. She has every right to be that upset. Spriggs needs to cover any medical bills for that woman because, let’s face it, she’ll need that arm fixed (and the tat fixed too)
Edit: Ah, i forgot contracts and such exist. Thanks for telling me and also i agree about reading reviews (especially most critical ones) ^^
Edit #2: AAAAAAA I DIDN’T MEAN TO START SOME SORT OF WAR!!
I realize i don’t know as much about tattoos as i should have done research on before i spoke about this, i get why people think the client is also at fault too. I’m sorry for my lack of research into this topic, it was dumb. Thanks for letting me know some extra info! €: (last edit lol)
Edit #3: yeah oops not the last edit, sorry. I’m aware that my comment was pretty ignorant, and apparently there are exceptions to the waivers. Again i’m sorry about my ignorance, you guys have been really helpful informing me of stuff. Wanted to say that again after reading some more replies :}
It’s gonna fall right out or be really bad scar tissue lol
@@bk24769darker skin is not thicker than lighter skin by any means. You don’t need to tattoo melanated skin any deeper or rougher. The tattoo is poorly done period, including the spelling
@@Mikey-jv5fv Right, but that's what I'm saying. The artist likely thought she had to and that's what caused the issue with the splitting. Yes the tattoo is poorly done, but the client still chose to go the her, even though she had every opportunity to do research on the artist beforehand. Her own choices are her own fault.
Apprentice here, I think what happened is that since they both kinda panicked, the client most likely went back to get the tattoo fixed while it was still healing, which resulted in unnecessary trauma and possibly infection. That looks like every infected tat I've seen.
With that being said, the whole story is just so messy. When you're a tattoo artist, you're bound to make mistakes from time to time, and you absolutely have to learn how to own up to it and sort it out privately with the client. Turning everything into drama and clout will ruin your reputation and kill your career 100%. If I was in her place, I would have covered the client's medication to bring down the infection, refunded the misspelled tattoo and considered the lesson learned. Even if the client's behavior wasn't the best either, tbh it doesn't even matter that much anymore since they're not going back to you anyway.
@@bk24769 naw that artist should lose her job lmao
I got words tattooed on me recently and my tattoo artist literally checked it a thousand times before putting it on my body. She let me check it as many times as I needed. She wasn’t putting it on me until we both double triple quadruple checked. You need to have pride in your work, and that includes checking spelling
Geez! First It's Mean Girls now a Rapunzel rumor? Is it too much to ask for Twitter to leave this poor girl alone?
It Twitter, I think the answer is yes.
The girl that was gifted the house just enraged me so badly...i can't imagine the level of ignorance...those 14 months she abandoned that house, imagine how many people needed it! Imagine how many ppl slept outside and how many ppl are working day and night for it.
Completely absurd
“in fact, im not even here rn..” *cut to ad* BEAUTIFUL
15:55 She can't even squeeze out a tiny racist tear. Maybe a sad song on the world's smallest violin would help her.
🎻🎶
Not for nothing, but in the original Victor Hugo novel, Esmeralda was actually Agnès. Esmeralda was her stage name. She was white, born to a white French woman, but the mother died in labour and the midwife, a Romani woman, adopted her.
The impact of the story is very much the same, though. She was looked down on and mistreated because she was poor, raised by "outsiders", and French citizens believed her to be a witch because she "seduced men" and knew "gypsy magic".
In the Disney movie, for some reason they swapped Esmeralda's story with Quasimodo's. It's not explicitly stated, but one of the writers at the time, Irene Mecchi, said Quasi is white because he was born to a French woman, and that the Romani woman who sacrificed herself for him at the beginning of the movie wasn't his biological mother, but the midwife who adopted him.
That is Esmeralda's story from the 1956 movie by Jean Delannoy. In the original she was kidnapped by Romani and they left Quasimodo in her place. At the end of the book Esmeralda finds that her mother is Sister Gudule who hates Romani because they eat her baby. Happiness is short because Esmeralda runs after Phoebus but gets captured by an angry mob and her mother falls and hits her head and dies.
@@sanzibal4167
I was trying to avoid all the spoilers for the book. You're not really supposed to know all of that until much later. 😅
@@sanzibal4167 And I think there is some subtext implying Esmeralda is half Romani? Her father was described as being "the king of thiefs" or something
Why in the hell would you give the house to an 18 year-old??? I would much rather give it to someone who's been struggling for a long time, like a single parent or a middle aged person in medical debt, idk
True
I completely agree. It makes no sense to have chosen her out of all the potential applicants.
Why are we comparing the struggles of the lower class
@@ajakakakak I mean, I see what you mean, but at the same time..... The point was to give the house to someone who needed it and she didn't. She gave it to someone who trashed it and didn't care lol why do you automatically assume this person was "lower class"?
Probably because it’s now common knowledge that most present day 18 year olds are part of a generation who will never own their own homes. I’m not saying it was a good decision, it wasn’t, but that was probably the thought process.
Tiktok has become messier than the boba i just spilt on the kitchen counter
Update on my boba: I just slurped it up and drank the rest. So no boba was wasted 🎀
im so sorry... is your boba ok...
@nanamins_husband yeah, just a few drops but very messy
for me the og comment is 1 minute old and the replys 2 lol
@kuki2800 somehow I usually make it lol
NOT THE BOBA😭😭😭 AND FR so glad I don't have tiktok
16:11 I genuinely could not care what race the princesses are. Rapunzel just needs long hair. Like, come on. Ariel needs a tail (I mean, I would have liked that vibrant red hair but eh) and Cinderella needs her shoes. Not really race-based stuff.
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Relatable
What are breakup days?
what on earth is a breakup day?
@@Milk-ck1wv a planned day for a breakup; or a day to talk about breaking up, the topic ig
People like the girl gifted the house are the reason more people don't do kind things, it's so sad and wasteful and I couldn't even blame the woman for not wanting to gift it to someone else when this is where her kindness got her. Then for the girl to go lying, wow, what's wrong with her? When she's older she'll realise how bad she screwed up
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I won’t blame them for getting that appointment after everything they have seen.
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The funniest part of the whole Rapunzel drama is that if we want to really get into the nitty gritty, the fairy tale isn't even originally German. It's Italian. The Grimm brothers reworked a French fairy tale into Rapunzel, and the French was itself a reworking of the Italian story of Petrosinella
Yes!!
And Germany as a seperate clear nationstate is a very modern concept as well. The borders have moved *a lot* around there.
According to wikipedia the story may even have it's origins in the proto-Indian-European era, and there's also this:
"The earliest surviving reference to a female character with long hair that she offers to a male lover to climb like a ladder appears in the Persian epic poem Shahnameh, written by Ferdowsi between c. 977 and 1010 CE.[22] The heroine of the story, Rudāba, offers her hair so that her love interest Zāl may enter the harem where she lives. Zāl states instead that she should lower a rope so that she will not hurt herself.[22]"
I would love to see this film btw. Seems quite interesting. And we can use an Iranian cast and no need for crying.
Nah, the funniest part was watching their ugIy faces on screen. Made me laugh out loud from how stupld they look, lol.
Nah, the funniest part was watching their ugly faces on screen. Made me laugh out loud from how stupld each of them looked.
Nah, the funniest part was watching their ug1y faces on screen. Made me laugh out loud from how stupld each of them looked.
I like funkyfrogbaits little ad bar that shows us how long the ad is going to last, I will happily watch it go down and listen to the ad knowing how long it is.
I got kicked out of my transphobic, abusive parent's house at 16 and it's been a struggle ever since. I'm severely mentally ill, living paycheck to paycheck on top of everything else and this girl got a house for *free*, plus packages upon packages and 10,000 dollars??? And then WRECKS IT?? Fucking excuse me??
I'm so sorry, I hope you get better ❤
do you have a venmo ?
I’m really sorry dude, as someone who’s trans in a transphobic house. I know what it’s like we’ll get through it together
That really sucks man, I hope you can get out of there soon. We will, hang in there.
@@Rinbert_ Thank you, I'm out now and while I'm struggling a *lot* it's better to be free. I hope you're doing well too. 💖
Rapunzel may literally be the only white disney princess that can be any color