Why this British expat and her kids choose Thailand over the UK | 30+ years as an expat in Thailand

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  • @ninasaunders7565
    @ninasaunders7565 2 месяца назад +50

    The fact the her adult children still want to hang around her is a big accomplishment

  • @allypaul7310
    @allypaul7310 2 месяца назад +18

    I would love to hear more from this woman & it would be cool if one of her kids was there too.

  • @darinadimitrova5068
    @darinadimitrova5068 Месяц назад +14

    When you go from west to east, you are an expat, and when you go from east to west, you are an immigrant

    • @Sumadeena
      @Sumadeena Месяц назад

      Go figure, western attitude towards third world.

  • @yvonnebirch6026
    @yvonnebirch6026 2 месяца назад +35

    Beautiful ‘kids’. There is an aura of calm peace about this lady ! Great interview ! Thank you 🙏❤️🙏

  • @lenatruong8863
    @lenatruong8863 2 месяца назад +22

    Oh how I would to hear more about her story. Please do a follow up. She sounds like she has more to say if there was time. ❤

    • @aleksandraarsenijevic4238
      @aleksandraarsenijevic4238 2 месяца назад +3

      I would like to see her and her children too. Their life and experiences can help not only expats but many other people who live in different culture.

    • @lenatruong8863
      @lenatruong8863 2 месяца назад +1

      I totally agree. I am wondering if she herself can speak thai. So fascinating

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  2 месяца назад +6

      We did this interview a year ago and it was actually specified to the topic: raising half Thai kids in Thailand. And finally I didn't manage to make that video but when I watched her interview again, I thought it was too interesting to just waste it. That's why the information is quite limited. I would definitely be interested to talk more to Caron about other topics too.

  • @Mrbimdrummer
    @Mrbimdrummer 2 месяца назад +5

    I too am British and lived in thailand 11 years now. I live rural life also. I relate to everything in this. Thank you for your story. Much love

  • @heatherpoulsen8780
    @heatherpoulsen8780 2 месяца назад +8

    The precious soul would make the best friend ever! She's so sincere. Please do more videos with her.

  • @heekyungkim8147
    @heekyungkim8147 2 месяца назад +4

    she seems very wise. Enjoy listening to her life story.

  • @rie20100
    @rie20100 2 месяца назад +17

    There is always so much to learn from these videos Mayaan. Karon gave us a very interesting look at "both worlds" so to speak. Thank-you Mayaan, I always appreciate and enjoy these interviews. Much love to you, Mon & family.❤️🇨🇦

  • @mamabemoreunicorn
    @mamabemoreunicorn 2 месяца назад +19

    Great video. I have a half Thai daughter and am from the UK. I'm constantly wrestling with the choice of what to do about education for her. We are in north Thailand now but craving island life...its a difficult choice as a single mum. I work in an international school and in 2 years my kid has learned zero Thai and only how to be materialistic because of their behaviour management system of rewarding behaviour with gifts. It isn't working for us but I don't know what else to do in life for work and providing education...its so hard. I wish I was strong and brave like this lady!

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  2 месяца назад +9

      Yeah we are all struggling with the same things. Also us down south.... we chose to send the kids to Thai school so to instill a little thainess in them before they grow up but the first two years were extremely difficult. I have struggled a lot if I was doing the right thing. All the international school kids seemed so happy while mine didn't want to go to school... I'm sure Caron was also struggling a lot in that time, but now she can look back and be happy with the result. We want to expose our kids to as much as possible of course; both cultures, both languages, but sometimes our choices and capacities are limited. Especially if you're a single western lady living in Thailand. You can't do it all...

    • @marcanthonyskidmore4131
      @marcanthonyskidmore4131 2 месяца назад

      Send them to the UK. Thailand backwards education.

    • @suarsivapong9311
      @suarsivapong9311 2 месяца назад +1

      ไปถาม คุณมะลิ ผู้ดูแล ค่ายมวย เผื่อพวกคุณจะได้มุมมอง ที่น่าคิดมากขึ้น มองภาพกว้างได้มากขึ้น

    • @AltLifeNow
      @AltLifeNow 2 месяца назад +1

      @@Rodderz1 And where is? You got any better ideas, then we are all ears.

    • @user-un3wp2kg5f
      @user-un3wp2kg5f 2 месяца назад

      Try living in the UK where illegal undocumented criminal gangs bring the same to our shores numerous upon numerous times a day, crime is rife, poverty is high, huge taxes, crap health and education, limited job opportunities, zero affordable housing, piss poor joke - you work out why

  • @thanaang1455
    @thanaang1455 2 месяца назад +3

    Wow, 30 years ago, I can't imagine how rural Koh Lanta was. Really enjoy the interview.

  • @11235benzinger
    @11235benzinger 2 месяца назад +3

    I loved this interview and how you step back. What a wonderful lady and how blessed her 'children' are.

  • @Shungabali
    @Shungabali 2 месяца назад +6

    What a nice down to earth lady with a boho life style, she is lucky to be able to enjoy this kind of life and her children must be the coolest people to be around❤

  • @twinflowerfioretta
    @twinflowerfioretta 2 месяца назад +6

    Wow, I'm thrilled by this woman, her life story is extremely moving and remarkable❣️the painted portraits of her four children show that she has an artist's soul. I would really like to know more about her...
    Great story about Caren, an extraordinary woman, thank you very much Maayan for your interview with her❤🙏

  • @Blackkuzi
    @Blackkuzi Месяц назад +2

    Karen! I was on Koh Lanta in 1999 at the Sanctuary. You and your family are the best. I opened Chocolate Bar with you guys and worked in your restaurant. The best food!!! I miss you! And so great to see you here. Crazy. I’m still here in Thailand but now in the northeast. If you read these comments….hi this is Jordan. Lots of great memories there on beautiful Koh Lanta. Peace

  • @stevesorrell4541
    @stevesorrell4541 2 месяца назад +1

    Very lucky and privileged to count Caron as a friend.
    Been more than 20'years now and I can only agree what a wonderful, inspirational lady she is.
    Lovely kids, living their lives as they choose.
    Hope to see you soon Caron xx

  • @mariettathornton5924
    @mariettathornton5924 2 месяца назад +8

    You never fail to interview interesting people Mayan! Thanks for sharing this video 😊

  • @KarmaBottari
    @KarmaBottari 2 месяца назад +6

    What a gorgeous woman - so calm and warm. She exudes a beautiful light and what a joy to be so proud about her "job well done" as a mother raising her babies. It's all we really want to achieve in life (as mothers) happy, healthy connected children/adults.
    I would love for you to do like a part 2 perhaps about her life married to a Thai man and the dynamics of that union and ultimately the end of their marriage (just a thought) xx
    As always, thank you Mayan for your delightful content - it brings me calm ..

  • @sallyjaynes2433
    @sallyjaynes2433 2 месяца назад +2

    Wonderful invite to share this interview, Maayan ❣️. Through the video, thought provocative with regards to her kids & schooling/teachings. You let her in to describe her living/life - past marriage & current present day. Mostly a biography of her telling as an expat without much interrupt, Kudos! ✌️☮️

  • @onlyone664
    @onlyone664 2 месяца назад +3

    Awesome! She looks happily retired having passed motherhood w/ flying colors!
    Love her potraits & home deco! Cool & airy yet warm altogether! Very rustic & I'm especilly diggin the 3-toned windows by the bed!

  • @barbaraelizabeth4011
    @barbaraelizabeth4011 Месяц назад +1

    So lovely and love your gentleness ❤❤

  • @gabrieleuwira9731
    @gabrieleuwira9731 2 месяца назад +2

    Very great video and so interesting for me too , even Caron is a friend of mine. We never spoke about the old times , just about the present. So I really enjoyed to hear about the days without electricity and things like that on our beautiful island. 🏝️

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  2 месяца назад +1

      That's why I love doing this so much. I have an excuse to talk about things that we sometimes not talk about much.

    • @gabrieleuwira9731
      @gabrieleuwira9731 2 месяца назад +1

      @@SweetLifeLanta I actually think, she could fill even 2 videos with her story's. One about herself and the past and present or future....and one about the kinds. 😉

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@gabrieleuwira9731 totally agree, I think we could do a whole minidoc series about her and her life, haha...
      This specific interview I did a year ago and it was intended as part of the video Raising half Thai kids in Thailand, which I finally didn't get to finalise. But I thought the interview was so good that I didn't want it to go to waste. That's why it's more about the kids than about Caron herself. But I totally agree that this video makes you want even more ❤

  • @GOINGCRAZYINTHEKITCHEN
    @GOINGCRAZYINTHEKITCHEN 2 месяца назад +1

    What a wonderful person! Impressed by the intergrity. Good interview!!!

  • @evian.
    @evian. 2 месяца назад +1

    Thanks, Mayaan, for this enjoyable video. I also love my daughter. I love spending time with her. Sending love to all.

  • @rosenancy3382
    @rosenancy3382 2 месяца назад +4

    Her experiences were very educational n inspiring. Thank you Caron and Maayan for this interview

  • @Swampzoid
    @Swampzoid 2 месяца назад +5

    I love her home and artwork

  • @reneebyrne1361
    @reneebyrne1361 2 месяца назад +1

    What a great interview with an inspiring lady. Love & Wisdom exudes from her ❤

  • @yipmabaruya1148
    @yipmabaruya1148 2 месяца назад +1

    Good morning from Papua New Guinea. I enjoyed watching your contents.

  • @jaclineheto8615
    @jaclineheto8615 2 месяца назад +1

    Wonderful video, I love it ! 👏 This lady is a beautiful soul. 🙏

  • @tkilla1202
    @tkilla1202 2 месяца назад +4

    Fantastic lady, and fantastic interview (stepped back and let her speak in full - outstanding production)

  • @Vonsat
    @Vonsat 2 месяца назад +1

    Great interview, Maayan😊 It's always interesting to listen to Thai expats' life stories.

  • @karenkinyone613
    @karenkinyone613 2 месяца назад +5

    Great video! Loved her ♥️

  • @suteerap9286
    @suteerap9286 Месяц назад

    Amazing story! Thank you for sharing!

  • @JRspeaking
    @JRspeaking 2 месяца назад +6

    I would have liked to hear more about her life in general, not just her kids and educational views.

  • @thalelolamai
    @thalelolamai 2 месяца назад +1

    Hi Caron! So lovely to see your face and hear your voice ❤

  • @eddy_creative
    @eddy_creative 2 месяца назад +2

    Being an Englishman in Thailand, i agree with most of what she says. There's always pros and cons, but its a very safe space to raise kids. One thing i would say is the police are bad in both countries.

  • @jaclineheto8615
    @jaclineheto8615 2 месяца назад +2

    J'ai très envie d'écouter votre vie en Thaïlande. Khob khun kha🙏 depuis l'Europe. Il est 08:20 am, vendredi 14 juin !

  • @thaimanclark
    @thaimanclark 2 месяца назад

    Wonderful Thank you. 14 years here now, first visit in 1971.

  • @sulltk1447
    @sulltk1447 Месяц назад

    Your kids were lucky with their upbringing, and I love your paintings ♥

  • @dianaduval9497
    @dianaduval9497 2 месяца назад +2

    Great interview. Very pleasant

  • @Consecrated2Him7
    @Consecrated2Him7 2 месяца назад +7

    Thank you Mayaan & Karon for the inspirational video 💕

  • @joycebroomfield8237
    @joycebroomfield8237 2 месяца назад +7

    Interesting video Mayaan. Hope there is a part 2.

  • @evadarkangel5399
    @evadarkangel5399 2 месяца назад +1

    I was adopted from Bangkok by Swedish parents when I was 6 weeks old, and I grew up in Sweden and my husband is English and our kids are luk kreungs as well. Love your house and the scenery

    • @evadarkangel5399
      @evadarkangel5399 2 месяца назад

      My kids only speak English, I should really teach them more Swedish. My oldest was born in Sweden, but upon moving to England she got bullied so he to choose to only speak English and I'm trying to learn Thai, which seems daunting

    • @LaAerial
      @LaAerial 2 месяца назад

      @@evadarkangel5399it’s not, it’s important to connect with that part of yourself otherwise your children may suffer from your disconnect. I recommend the Pimsleur Language Program for Thai on Audible (you can listen whilst you do housework or go for a run) and of course watching Thai films on Netflix or other streaming services. if the children are small, find Thai and Swedish cartoon programs for them. Language is everything! and English is not the end all be all. Love from Krungthep x

  • @jimjimgl3
    @jimjimgl3 2 месяца назад +1

    Lovely paintings.!

  • @stevens8785
    @stevens8785 2 месяца назад +4

    Yes, I can relate to this having spent plenty of time around the wife's farm over the years. Nice video guys. Cheers. 🤩

  • @anumatis
    @anumatis 2 месяца назад +1

    I enjoyed this video with my morning coffee. What a nice start of the day 😘

  • @kateseverein7650
    @kateseverein7650 2 месяца назад +2

    Sounds magic - gorgeous podcast

  • @nezyongvlog
    @nezyongvlog 2 месяца назад +2

    ❤ your video and the stories.

  • @pakawanmalayavech101
    @pakawanmalayavech101 2 месяца назад +1

    Sawasdee, love your video, thank you very much for sharing this.🌺🌹💐 beach 🏖 ❤️🎈💐🎈✈️

  • @Nlav26
    @Nlav26 2 месяца назад

    Great video, wish it was longer. Would love to hear more about her experience being married to a Thai and how that impacted the parenting of her children, as well as her Thai language skills, among other things.

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  2 месяца назад +1

      Agree! This was just the tip of the iceberg! We want more! I hope Caron is up for it 😍😍😍

  • @anaassispacheco7702
    @anaassispacheco7702 2 месяца назад

    Caron is such an interesting woman !! ( and i also apreciate her canvas, portraing her kids 💖💖💖💖). Thanks Maayan !!!
    It would be great to get to know her adult children.

  • @wendy-0101
    @wendy-0101 2 месяца назад +1

    ❤👍🏼Wonderful to late for me now, but in my next life. 😂Great interview & what a Fantastic personality. ❤🙏🏼for sharing. xxx

  • @user-hc8ln6pg3t
    @user-hc8ln6pg3t 2 месяца назад +3

    Awesome Mayaan! You guys are beautiful, conscious, strong, intelligent women. Such an inspiration to all women in the world!! 🥰

  • @Valerie-gn1rr
    @Valerie-gn1rr 2 месяца назад +2

    Interesting and lovely woman. Pretty good painter too.

  • @alessandrafois9205
    @alessandrafois9205 2 месяца назад +1

    Thanks for this video. Really interesting!

  • @cozycornerz
    @cozycornerz 2 месяца назад

    I love videos like this when you interview fellow expats.

  • @NickyDunn
    @NickyDunn 2 месяца назад

    I always love your content.
    Great video. And interview. Loved hearing her story.
    Thank you for sharing. Wishing you a wonderful weekend.
    Sorry for the lack of comments, we are caring for elderly relatives so life has been hectic.

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  2 месяца назад +1

      Oh Nicky! It's been a long time indeed. So kind of you to take care of family. Big hugs ❤️❤️❤️

    • @NickyDunn
      @NickyDunn 2 месяца назад

      @@SweetLifeLanta 🥰😍

  • @wichetleelamanit6195
    @wichetleelamanit6195 2 месяца назад +2

    Amazing story.

  • @GingerNuts361-ny4qp
    @GingerNuts361-ny4qp 2 месяца назад +2

    I loved the national parks in Thailand but the snakes are psychotic, Australia’s snakes are far more poisonous but don’t go out of their way to attack you

  • @joelmonkley6177
    @joelmonkley6177 2 месяца назад

    Nice the good old days early,,90s the Thailand i loved i difnt know the thais in that area had massive families but do know of thai familes of least 8 kids great video thank bedt wishes from Auckland New Zealand 🇳🇿🥝❤️🙏

  • @bluestarfishsea
    @bluestarfishsea 2 месяца назад +2

    Thanks for sharing 🙏🙏

  • @riz915
    @riz915 2 месяца назад +4

    Sent my love to hubby kids and ducks♥️

  • @elaineross9365
    @elaineross9365 2 месяца назад +2

    Like #17 😊. Great video guys, as always, enjoy low season ❤

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  2 месяца назад

      Elaine!!! Which one is number 17? I didn't get it

    • @elaineross9365
      @elaineross9365 2 месяца назад

      @@SweetLifeLanta I hit the 'like' button. Was 'like' #17, I was early lols

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  2 месяца назад

      @@elaineross9365 oh haha yeah!!! Lucky number 17!

    • @paulalitinetsky97
      @paulalitinetsky97 2 месяца назад

      Great interview

  • @AltLifeNow
    @AltLifeNow 2 месяца назад +2

    What an amazing woman! A pioneer in her own right. After being married to a Thai woman for almost 10 years with an 8 year old son living in Thailand now for for almost 7 years I feel she just demystified the educational system so succinctly for me, that I'm truly grateful for having watched this. Thanks Maayan for your continued efforts to tell people's stories. You're a star! And Karen, my hat goes off to you. You're an inspiration, truly authentic and no doubt, an incredible strong force in the world. Cheers!

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  2 месяца назад +1

      Wow so nice to read your encouraging words. Really appreciate it, and I'm sure Caron will feel the same.

  • @anirbanmukherjee000
    @anirbanmukherjee000 2 месяца назад +3

    amazing woman,😀 God is smiling 😊

  • @IanCrouse
    @IanCrouse 2 месяца назад

    Wonderful content. I will spend Wednesday enjoying coffee and living my dream through your channel until I can move to Thailand.

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  2 месяца назад

      Thank you Ian! Nice that you have found our channel and like what you see!

  • @keepcreationprocess
    @keepcreationprocess 2 месяца назад +1

    autonomy - sovereign (my words)- beautiful words

  • @margarettownsley9500
    @margarettownsley9500 2 месяца назад +1

    Life is life no matter where you live nothing is easy or stress free it’s just that we have a way of coping and getting through it even if we lived in Timbuktu

  • @seaview9948
    @seaview9948 2 месяца назад +1

    So interesting, thank you .

  • @maryannemann8557
    @maryannemann8557 2 месяца назад +2

    Loved this ❤️

  • @pakawanmalayavech101
    @pakawanmalayavech101 2 месяца назад +1

    Amazing and great video.🏖👍🌺🌹💐👭

  • @AleeshaSattva
    @AleeshaSattva Месяц назад

    I feel exactly the same about education... if they want to be a dr. go get the education when they are adults! Let kids be kids

  • @philjohnson3829
    @philjohnson3829 2 месяца назад

    Congratulations you did a great thing that I could and should have done but didn't and still regret . Marvellous

  • @sahpraphaphorn6240
    @sahpraphaphorn6240 2 месяца назад

    What a great mother ❤.

  • @AyakoTachi
    @AyakoTachi Месяц назад

    would love a video with her kids

  • @m.s682
    @m.s682 Месяц назад

    I would love to know about the actual ppl who are from Thailand that were born and raised talking about what its really like

  • @londonPB
    @londonPB 2 месяца назад +1

    All expats forget living here, you need to go back and save the UK! :)

  • @bunterngkhemwong
    @bunterngkhemwong 2 месяца назад +1

    Her jobs done. Can't agree more.

  • @daniellehull8443
    @daniellehull8443 2 месяца назад

    I 💖 your new vids Lanta!! Girl..your doing ur thang!! ( as they say in 🇺🇸😎)..you GO SWEET LIFE LANTA! BIG FAN

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  2 месяца назад +1

      ❤️❤️❤️ 😂😂😂 thanks!

  • @jonlambert76
    @jonlambert76 2 месяца назад

    Love to see this perspective.

  • @lindarodriguez5806
    @lindarodriguez5806 Месяц назад

    Wonderful women!! Yes, I've longed all my life for a more natural, communal, family life, in nature. It's natural and healthy!!!

  • @ilovetravel11238
    @ilovetravel11238 Месяц назад

    Unschooling is the best. It seems you did that. Good on you. Yes, anyone can pick things up later. I agree completely.

  • @nicola1466
    @nicola1466 Месяц назад

    What a lady! 🌺❤️

  • @williamhartz8707
    @williamhartz8707 2 месяца назад

    Great woman... interesting interview

  • @Slow-LifeWanderers
    @Slow-LifeWanderers 2 месяца назад

    Inspirational!! ❤🎉
    (Is she in our Mama Ferang group?)

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  2 месяца назад

      I don't think so, she's in another stage of life now 😂

  • @GM-cq6ez
    @GM-cq6ez 2 месяца назад

    Thanks for another great interview, Maayan. This woman sort of interviewed herself, though. These stories give us further insight into a farang's life in Thailand. I like the simplicity of her home. Reminds me of life in California in the 60's. So natural and cool. Unlike the capitalistic phony cr*p we've descended into. Good job..

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  2 месяца назад

      Her house is so beautiful indeed. It's nourishing for the soul.

  • @gabriellekelly4211
    @gabriellekelly4211 2 месяца назад +2

    So beautiful 😍 ❤

  • @tanjaosilic6641
    @tanjaosilic6641 2 месяца назад +1

    I am agree

  • @francinedowling8514
    @francinedowling8514 2 месяца назад

    Did you work there Karen. How you managed for all these years. Really interesting. I also live in Thailand but not on an island.

  • @TheEssenceIsLove
    @TheEssenceIsLove 2 месяца назад +1

    Amazing ❤

  • @cornelisverhoef9282
    @cornelisverhoef9282 2 месяца назад +1

    What an incredible woman/mother. I have lived in Thailand (Bangkok) for 23 years. My Thai wife of 20 years see our son growing up the same way. At home in two cultures. That's just so amazing. And we will always stay in this wonderful country. That's thanks to the ordinary citizens, not the government.

  • @meredithmonsantofils3532
    @meredithmonsantofils3532 2 месяца назад

    As a mama Farang I loved her story

  • @christina9238
    @christina9238 2 месяца назад +5

    "Sterile" and boring, are exactly the words i use when describing the overall landscape in the United States. It simple feels stripped of something.

    • @ERNIE555
      @ERNIE555 2 месяца назад +4

      Soulless

    • @LaAerial
      @LaAerial 2 месяца назад

      lol yall are clearly visiting the wrong parts of the U.S. and the U.K.

    • @christina9238
      @christina9238 Месяц назад

      @@LaAerial im not visiting, im from here..but after alot of travel in Asia and latin America it really don't hit the same.

  • @carolyagou8874
    @carolyagou8874 2 месяца назад

    Very smart lady ❤

  • @eddiegrant58
    @eddiegrant58 2 месяца назад +1

    "It's too sterile" - exactly.

  • @Guidotine
    @Guidotine 2 месяца назад +2

    Nice to see Caron 🙂

  • @sharimahigab1292
    @sharimahigab1292 2 месяца назад +1

    More please

  • @arkar-thandar
    @arkar-thandar Месяц назад

    Amazing…

  • @OverTheSevenSeas
    @OverTheSevenSeas 2 месяца назад

    Could you please make a video one day about what long term expats do in old age when they may not qualify to get a pension from their home country? It would be super helpful.

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  2 месяца назад

      You mean people like me for example who lived abroad for so long so they don't have any income from their home countries? And then what they do in old age? Let's see if I can find someone like that. Or otherwise you can wait a few years until I have reached an old age. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @keepcreationprocess
    @keepcreationprocess 2 месяца назад +1

    thank you for this interview - what is her name ?