The real problem is why the man's mother was okay with her son not being apart of the pregnancy and seeing another woman WHILE being married not separated, married. Like, what kind of upbringing got him okay with that. Smh raise your sons right ladies and if they fall off don't cave because they your sons. Stand on principle.
@@TheLoveExperience exactly! Mother was enabling his behavior smh he shared he had a rough childhood and no male influence…. But I mean, still no excuse
@@btaylortv Honestly, it's the social acceptance that fuels this behavior. Mom, wife, side bish all okay with his behavior. So why believe it's because of his mom being single? I know plenty of men that had two parents that have this man's mentality. I think we make excuses for men and men just go with it because it's easier. In my experience men do this because there's no consequences. Mom isn't gonna give no push back, wife will always take him back whenever he's ready and there's always a dirty chicken head waiting in the bush for a "bicycle" to appear and there will be no loss in friend circles because men don't really have standards in friends just women. 🙄
This is not real love in my opinion, it's codependency. Real love is never incompatible with your own well-being and self-love. A lot of people say you need to love yourself before someone else can love you but they neglect the part where you also have to love yourself before you can love someone else or else this kind of thing where someone who is scared to be alone and won't leave or prioritize themselves in a toxic situation emerges.
"No dummy, I want us to work on being friends again..." girl....that man hated her guts and he only went back cause that other woman fell out of love with him.
Fact is, that man’s mama doesn’t like her all like that. She knows she’s her son’s “safe” option but she was QUICK to rub her nose in the fact that her son was happy with someone else for that time period….and her husband is probably STILL cheating with other women.
Smh she is delusional, God was telling her to move on. A man left you for another woman while pregnant and did not want anything to do with you smh. That tells me enough right there. I don't believe he broke it off with the gf he was still seeing her right after he told her he just wanted to be friends. The guy was telling her to her face that he doesn't want her.
Poor woman. Her eyes are so sad and lifeless.😢 She deserves so much better than this religious gaslighting that she seems to be doing to herself. She taught her husband that he can do anything to her and the kids, and she will take him back. Gos is not the author of confusion, and God is also very against adultery to the point that it’s one of the 10 Commandments. That means it’s very serious. Her making it so easy for him to sin like that is inviting more pain and possibly even violence into her and the kids’ lives. God doesn’t want us to suffer; he wants you to gain knowledge so that you don’t perish.
THANK YOU for pointing out how such a situation is damaging to the KIDS! The wife seemed to miss that part. Like, babies feel that abandonment in the womb, and the other kids that she has with him see the desperation and his lack of care. And the fact that she was willing to risk harm to her son by a complete stranger under the guise that "God wouldn't let anything hurt my baby that can't be for his ultimate good." Listen!
So basically he knew she probably would have filed for divorce got child support and alimony and he wouldn't have anything. He knows she would take him back and she is in love with him so he took that to his advantage. He still fooling with other women but gone play his part with her.
She's delusional and sometimes people will allow religion to keep them trapped. Then they will put God in the middle. I'm a believer of Christ. Trust me she could have left and God didn't condone his behavior.
Exactly BTaylor. I know I don’t serve the same god that she does. There nothing nobody could tell me about a man that left me for another woman. If it was that easy for him to leave her the first time who’s to say he won’t pick up and leave again. I will never take a man back that has left me for another woman. Ain’t no spinning the block over here
@@btaylortvoh Gosh that is just way too much. That guy is for nobody. And she is wronggg how she could possibly think that God is telling her those things 🤦♀️
I’m not saying what God told her. But have you ever read the Bible ? God is very forgiving and he knows both parties involved heart. I’m not saying it’s right what he did. But he has a bigger plan for their marriage, if it’s ordain by him. It’s a book in the Bible called Hosea and God told him to stay with his prostitute wife. God wants us to forgive everyone no matter what. Now I’m not saying he always allowing a cheating spouse to come back and their marriage is restored. But that’s why you have to have a relationship with God to know.
@btaylortv You're right, that's what it's been and will be for the duration of them being together. She didn't have enough faith in God to send her someone better suited for her.. craaazzy.
I'm glad it worked out for them. It's definitely not for everyone or for the faint of heart, but works for some marriages. It's a lot of intercessory prayer, forgiveness, understanding, and empathy that some women just don't have it in them to do.
Well for the religious people didn’t your “God” say for good and bad times. You can’t get a divorce right. This is so ridiculous. Women don’t understand how freeing their life could be without these silly narratives and outside influences.🤷🏽♀️😂
I can’t say it enough_ religion will have you out here so confused. It’s always best to follow logic, energy, and intuition. Most importantly, you have to love yourself! Her health was at stake especially during that pregnancy. Emotional stress can cause irreversible health problems. People like her will literally, advise other young girls to endure emotional abuse and torment all in the name of the Lord. And his mom does not care about her. She is beyond delusional. Her entire video is triggering 😢
Your Truth ,your Story, your Live, and your Faith! As for me I would've pray God to give me the strength to go on and to Love Myself enough to get out of this situation ,Because I rater be along all my live raising my kids instead of being someone second guess. Always remember the man told and showed you over and over who he is and what he wants . ..In the back of your mine I'm sure you know it too.... What about Love, Respect, Commitment in a Relationship? Nevertheless I wish you Luck!
@@mixedness87f35 to the grave cause she confidently came to the internet believing this was a testimonial story to help other women stay and suffer like she did 🤦🏾♀️
I’ll take a bet that in 10 years she’ll watch this and see how mentally exhausting that this is.. Im exhausted just listening to how she’s putting up with this…
I give it 5 years and and outside baby. Her husband will create one, bring it home, and prance it around in her face and she'll see it as another challenge God has placed before her to endure her marriage.
They have a podcast and he is mean towards her. He is calling her dumb to her and she is smiling. I feel the only reason he came back is because the other woman didn’t want to play these games like the wife.
Some people speak on what they don't know anything about. And coming up with analogies that don't match. MAN WILL NOT always agree with the WORD. Because man don't wanna hurt and feel entitled. The covenant of marriage is not ONLY with the other person. It is also with GOD! That is why it is said not to enter into it lightly. But for most, when the first offense comes, they headed to the divorce lawyer. Now side note, before the covenant, people need to know what they are getting into before they get married. However, God honors marriage, and the covenant you make is with Him! Thank God He is not like man because He knows we have all made mistakes or offended someone else, and He still died on the cross and did not exclude any of us. But we are so high and mighty not to forgive. Now, some situations in regards to safety ppl must get away from. But again, there were signs. GOD'S PLAN IS THE BEST PLAN REGARDLESS OF WHAT HUMANS SAY!
God allow to go through season where we learn lesson which understand where we need to forgive the people around us. God doesn't want us to be doormats for other people in the Bible when noone could defeat Goliath he sent David to avenge the iraselites when one else could men are manipulators it took you reaching out to your husband for your husband to come back to you the question I believe God was asking you is whether or not this is your husband because he place people in our live and also remove them God will open your eyes to whom someone really is he will unmask the devil as devil doesn't care who he uses. If this young lady is happy with her husband we shouldn't judge but this speak to person character who abandon his pregnant wife and child. Question is will he do it again when it rains hopeful not but past behavior speak future to behavior.😢😢😢😢
Looks like he was the majority of the problem since he had a poor a poor relationship with both women. He had no regard leaving his wife, who he known since 14, with a child and a half. Sounds like this guy had some serious trauma from childhood. Looking at him on tik tok, he looks like he's an arrogant, entitled something else or at least it seems like what he use to be. How did he have peace at home with his family when he had left in the first place? With all that said: if someone chooses to stay in the marriage, mourning the relationship with the other person is apart of it. He had fallen in love with the other woman. Like the wife said, they've had to work through things once he was back. That is normal for relationships that trust has been broken. God forgives us even though we don't deserve it. The guy was torn between 2 women. I'm hoping he has been on the straight and narrow and that their relationship has been mended. Maybe God keep and bless their union since they've decided 5o be together and work it out. None of us are perfect.
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AND the gag is if the story was reversed he would NOT take her back.
@@GothicGodess AT ALL! He commended her at the end of the video for her “strength” cause he was basically saying, “I would never”
You know it….
Exactly
I thought the same thing.
That part!
The real problem is why the man's mother was okay with her son not being apart of the pregnancy and seeing another woman WHILE being married not separated, married. Like, what kind of upbringing got him okay with that. Smh raise your sons right ladies and if they fall off don't cave because they your sons. Stand on principle.
@@TheLoveExperience exactly! Mother was enabling his behavior smh he shared he had a rough childhood and no male influence…. But I mean, still no excuse
Enabling her sons-band🥴😮💨
@@btaylortv Honestly, it's the social acceptance that fuels this behavior. Mom, wife, side bish all okay with his behavior. So why believe it's because of his mom being single? I know plenty of men that had two parents that have this man's mentality. I think we make excuses for men and men just go with it because it's easier.
In my experience men do this because there's no consequences. Mom isn't gonna give no push back, wife will always take him back whenever he's ready and there's always a dirty chicken head waiting in the bush for a "bicycle" to appear and there will be no loss in friend circles because men don't really have standards in friends just women. 🙄
Wow, She loves him more than she loves herself. 😢😳
@@jasmincardriche1294 yup, he is basically he is her God
@@btaylortv If only she knew that she is a Goddess that has Power not only to Create Life but to Manifest whatever she Desires.💫
@@jasmincardriche1294 girl she used that goddess energy to manifest that demon right back into her life 🫠
@@btaylortvYou know you Right ! 🤣🤣
This is not real love in my opinion, it's codependency. Real love is never incompatible with your own well-being and self-love. A lot of people say you need to love yourself before someone else can love you but they neglect the part where you also have to love yourself before you can love someone else or else this kind of thing where someone who is scared to be alone and won't leave or prioritize themselves in a toxic situation emerges.
So he came back cause the relationship with the other woman didn’t work out ?
@@flowergirl3283 basically 🤦🏾♀️
"No dummy, I want us to work on being friends again..." girl....that man hated her guts and he only went back cause that other woman fell out of love with him.
Fact is, that man’s mama doesn’t like her all like that. She knows she’s her son’s “safe” option but she was QUICK to rub her nose in the fact that her son was happy with someone else for that time period….and her husband is probably STILL cheating with other women.
Smh she is delusional, God was telling her to move on. A man left you for another woman while pregnant and did not want anything to do with you smh. That tells me enough right there. I don't believe he broke it off with the gf he was still seeing her right after he told her he just wanted to be friends. The guy was telling her to her face that he doesn't want her.
@@GothicGodess and she was fighting for her relationship after he told her he missed his girlfriend and needed to grieve the relationship. 😵💫🫠😩
@@btaylortv right!!! Smh that's crazy !! 😑😑😑😑 And she wasn't hearing it.
So it might be a case of the girlfriend leaving him running back to his wife. He may have lied about how they broke up and that’s why he had to grieve
Don’t hate me, but this a prime example of why abortion rights are so important
That sound like witchcraft was done on her!!! That definitely didn’t sound like god to me.
@@victoriaburks7906 his mama was in her ear too
@@btaylortv yup there you go!!!!! The enemy was using his mom!
Poor woman. Her eyes are so sad and lifeless.😢 She deserves so much better than this religious gaslighting that she seems to be doing to herself. She taught her husband that he can do anything to her and the kids, and she will take him back. Gos is not the author of confusion, and God is also very against adultery to the point that it’s one of the 10 Commandments. That means it’s very serious. Her making it so easy for him to sin like that is inviting more pain and possibly even violence into her and the kids’ lives. God doesn’t want us to suffer; he wants you to gain knowledge so that you don’t perish.
@@toscadonna amen 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
THANK YOU for pointing out how such a situation is damaging to the KIDS! The wife seemed to miss that part. Like, babies feel that abandonment in the womb, and the other kids that she has with him see the desperation and his lack of care. And the fact that she was willing to risk harm to her son by a complete stranger under the guise that "God wouldn't let anything hurt my baby that can't be for his ultimate good." Listen!
So basically he knew she probably would have filed for divorce got child support and alimony and he wouldn't have anything. He knows she would take him back and she is in love with him so he took that to his advantage. He still fooling with other women but gone play his part with her.
He definitely took advantage of knowing she wasn’t leaving and pregnant, so he didn’t have to worry about another man or her dating …
Could never be me 🤚🏾 not supporting/speaking with me throughout my pregnancy.. as my HUSBAND?! Gtfoh ma’am
Hello!! aint no way in the mf world!
This married woman had to live with her parents with her 1st child. The husband wasn't providing financially èither
I caught that as well. He totally abandoned their first child to.
Husband and his girlfriend in the same breath is wild
She's delusional and sometimes people will allow religion to keep them trapped. Then they will put God in the middle. I'm a believer of Christ. Trust me she could have left and God didn't condone his behavior.
All I think when I hear her talk is that no one ever loved her right, to show her what it looks like.
Exactly BTaylor. I know I don’t serve the same god that she does. There nothing nobody could tell me about a man that left me for another woman. If it was that easy for him to leave her the first time who’s to say he won’t pick up and leave again. I will never take a man back that has left me for another woman. Ain’t no spinning the block over here
And with a coworker at that ! And he left her again for the girlfriend after she had the baby before coming back 😵💫
@@btaylortvoh Gosh that is just way too much. That guy is for nobody. And she is wronggg how she could possibly think that God is telling her those things 🤦♀️
Hi BTaylor, BW stop it, God does not want you to be with a cheating husband.........chat warrior thoughts
@@travelone753 hey chat warrior ❤️❤️❤️
And wholeheartedly agree!
💯💯💯
Just keep this woman away from my nieces. Marriage is not the end-all be-all, especially if it's withsomeone as
Thats why I didn't show up to my cousin's wedding and haven't seen her ever since
Jesus needs to hurry back and rapture his folk cuz they are running a muck.
😂😂😂 you are funny 🤣
Frfr
Thank you!
Exactly!!!
When you look into her eyes wide open all along talking you can see the hypnotic gaze. She is self hupnotized, self inducing pain.
I’m not saying what God told her. But have you ever read the Bible ? God is very forgiving and he knows both parties involved heart. I’m not saying it’s right what he did. But he has a bigger plan for their marriage, if it’s ordain by him. It’s a book in the Bible called Hosea and God told him to stay with his prostitute wife. God wants us to forgive everyone no matter what. Now I’m not saying he always allowing a cheating spouse to come back and their marriage is restored. But that’s why you have to have a relationship with God to know.
Shiiid that other woman realized even with OT,warehouse workin niccuh cant support his household..and her🤷🏾♀️
He gone still keep talking to her or another woman! I hate that she didn't move on when she had the chance.
@@earthgoddessforever8731 nope, the god that she is serving wants her to suffer apparently 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏾♀️
@btaylortv You're right, that's what it's been and will be for the duration of them being together. She didn't have enough faith in God to send her someone better suited for her.. craaazzy.
I am glad it all worked out, Sis. God is able! Thanks for sharing your truth.
Smh!!! Glad she is still With her husband and marriage restored and God will and does restored marriages.
She’s to fine to put up with all that smh
I’m so sorry this happened to you ❤😢
Chile this a lot of women and they huzzbands puhlease
I was already kind of disturbed she even kept calling him her husband in the video😂😂😂
Plenty of them!
Why would you pray for someone capable of doing that to you. My goodness!
Wwjd
May God continue to bless your marriage you are true women of God. You are a true example of the love of Jesus bless you and your Family.
He's buying time,he'll leave again sadly
I'm glad it worked out for them. It's definitely not for everyone or for the faint of heart, but works for some marriages. It's a lot of intercessory prayer, forgiveness, understanding, and empathy that some women just don't have it in them to do.
This mammy done just pissed me off!!
She got a candace owens hairstyle that speaks volumes. Duhhhhhh
Anything for a ring smh
God gives you common sense to leave. Cus it’s no way ima be a fool for a clown 🤡
@@reginamutcherson3282 that part !
Girl.... love is a verb. He showed you how much he loved you and the baby Very minute.
Well for the religious people didn’t your “God” say for good and bad times. You can’t get a divorce right. This is so ridiculous. Women don’t understand how freeing their life could be without these silly narratives and outside influences.🤷🏽♀️😂
You can divorce if you cheat…
Read the book of Hosea.
Apparently Jesus and the Holy Spirit need to speak to a therapist
@@Imgonnatryfool apparently 😩😂
I can’t say it enough_ religion will have you out here so confused. It’s always best to follow logic, energy, and intuition. Most importantly, you have to love yourself! Her health was at stake especially during that pregnancy. Emotional stress can cause irreversible health problems. People like her will literally, advise other young girls to endure emotional abuse and torment all in the name of the Lord. And his mom does not care about her. She is beyond delusional. Her entire video is triggering 😢
Yo....this is NUTS!
Your Truth ,your Story, your Live, and your Faith! As for me I would've pray God to give me the strength to go on and to Love Myself enough to get out of this situation ,Because I rater be along all my live raising my kids instead of being someone second guess. Always remember the man told and showed you over and over who he is and what he wants .
..In the back of your mine I'm sure you know it too.... What about Love, Respect, Commitment in a Relationship? Nevertheless I wish you Luck!
This wasn't the 1st time he's left her too.
GURLLLL WTFFF did we just watch ?! 😒😐🤦🏽♀️ She should have kept that not just off of the Internet but to the grave .
@@mixedness87f35 to the grave cause she confidently came to the internet believing this was a testimonial story to help other women stay and suffer like she did 🤦🏾♀️
I’ll take a bet that in 10 years she’ll watch this and see how mentally exhausting that this is.. Im exhausted just listening to how she’s putting up with this…
I give it 5 years and and outside baby. Her husband will create one, bring it home, and prance it around in her face and she'll see it as another challenge God has placed before her to endure her marriage.
I mean, if it works for her, then that’s fine. But…not me, I wouldn’t allow this, especially while having his damn child.
Is she telling her own story or someone's else?
Sad sad. I couldn't be that woman.
@@marawood3801 she’s telling her “testimony” to inspire other women in her situation to “see it through” 🤦🏾♀️
@@btaylortv thanks. She's brave.
They have a podcast and he is mean towards her. He is calling her dumb to her and she is smiling. I feel the only reason he came back is because the other woman didn’t want to play these games like the wife.
@@Mscocoapuffz I saw some clips and he really don’t like his wife 😩
Some people speak on what they don't know anything about. And coming up with analogies that don't match. MAN WILL NOT always agree with the WORD. Because man don't wanna hurt and feel entitled. The covenant of marriage is not ONLY with the other person. It is also with GOD! That is why it is said not to enter into it lightly. But for most, when the first offense comes, they headed to the divorce lawyer. Now side note, before the covenant, people need to know what they are getting into before they get married. However, God honors marriage, and the covenant you make is with Him! Thank God He is not like man because He knows we have all made mistakes or offended someone else, and He still died on the cross and did not exclude any of us. But we are so high and mighty not to forgive. Now, some situations in regards to safety ppl must get away from. But again, there were signs. GOD'S PLAN IS THE BEST PLAN REGARDLESS OF WHAT HUMANS SAY!
I mean, if it works for her, then that’s fine. But…not me, I wouldn’t allow this, especially while having his damn child. Gmfu.
God allow to go through season where we learn lesson which understand where we need to forgive the people around us. God doesn't want us to be doormats for other people in the Bible when noone could defeat Goliath he sent David to avenge the iraselites when one else could men are manipulators it took you reaching out to your husband for your husband to come back to you the question I believe God was asking you is whether or not this is your husband because he place people in our live and also remove them God will open your eyes to whom someone really is he will unmask the devil as devil doesn't care who he uses. If this young lady is happy with her husband we shouldn't judge but this speak to person character who abandon his pregnant wife and child. Question is will he do it again when it rains hopeful not but past behavior speak future to behavior.😢😢😢😢
He may leave again... but hey if it works for her cool
This is wild
Wow
She missed proverbs 4:23
Oh boy🙄
Im curious to know what led to the separation
Me too
🤦🏽♀️
😢
Looks like he was the majority of the problem since he had a poor a poor relationship with both women.
He had no regard leaving his wife, who he known since 14, with a child and a half. Sounds like this guy had some serious trauma from childhood.
Looking at him on tik tok, he looks like he's an arrogant, entitled something else or at least it seems like what he use to be.
How did he have peace at home with his family when he had left in the first place?
With all that said: if someone chooses to stay in the marriage, mourning the relationship with the other person is apart of it. He had fallen in love with the other woman.
Like the wife said, they've had to work through things once he was back. That is normal for relationships that trust has been broken.
God forgives us even though we don't deserve it. The guy was torn between 2 women. I'm hoping he has been on the straight and narrow and that their relationship has been mended. Maybe God keep and bless their union since they've decided 5o be together and work it out. None of us are perfect.