Lead With Compassion: Make People Look Up To You

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  • @gaozhi2007
    @gaozhi2007 4 года назад +4012

    How to command respect in medieval times:
    1) hit them with a giant axe
    2) laugh

  • @thomasvo5939
    @thomasvo5939 4 года назад +3792

    1. Have ambitious goals that others want to follow
    2. Speak in “you and “we”
    3. Project calm in the face of conflict
    4. Lead from the front
    5. See through other people’s eyes
    You’re welcome

    • @lucasheijdeman2581
      @lucasheijdeman2581 4 года назад +10

      Thanks

    • @xanty_3513
      @xanty_3513 4 года назад +182

      Poor people: *lay in normal wooden coffin*
      Rich people: *lay in normal wooden coffin*
      People in the YT comments telling you everything summarized: *lay in golden Egyptian coffin*

    • @reformed_attempt_1
      @reformed_attempt_1 4 года назад +28

      thanks for your work, but FYI it's always in the description

    • @ChrisCrossFilms.
      @ChrisCrossFilms. 4 года назад +34

      It's literally in the description but okay

    • @dresnio1363
      @dresnio1363 4 года назад +5

      No thank you

  • @JohnnyValmaggia
    @JohnnyValmaggia 4 года назад +2060

    Another tip to add: When Ragnar speaks, he does so in concrete and precise language. He does not flaunt, he does not stammer, he does not hesitate. Ragnar expresses his ideas clearly and with conviction, which you can also achieve by creating strong mindsets and fully commiting to whatever you start to say.

    • @bkhunga-realestatemarketin1945
      @bkhunga-realestatemarketin1945 4 года назад +21

      True and show that you mean it and will not let them move you

    • @BlackDeath1973
      @BlackDeath1973 4 года назад +32

      Wasn't their some tip from Odin's wisdom which said speak no more than necessary and never speak when you would not gain from doing so?

    • @RatomirFilipovic
      @RatomirFilipovic 3 года назад +9

      That is the only reason why one should speak, every story you tell needs to be lesson to someone.

    • @soloscriptura7451
      @soloscriptura7451 3 года назад +10

      He is also patient. He doesn’t speak unless he has something to say, that is why he doesn’t stammer.

    • @JStrange13
      @JStrange13 3 года назад +19

      It helps to have a script to follow. People don't really talk like that in real life.

  • @MisterPol
    @MisterPol 4 года назад +1366

    Albert Einstein said this: _“I speak to everyone in the same way, whether he is the garbage man or the president of the university.”_
    I think that is the best way to earn respect 🙌

    • @MisterPol
      @MisterPol 4 года назад +14

      btw thank you for inspiring me for creating videos about self development and productivity too!!

    • @MisterPol
      @MisterPol 4 года назад +19

      @A C isn't the quote good though?

    • @Kaidantonio333
      @Kaidantonio333 4 года назад +4

      Sounds like something Henry Higgins would say, not that he really followed his own advice.

    • @reformed_attempt_1
      @reformed_attempt_1 4 года назад +8

      @A C imagine being jealous over likes on a RUclips comment LUL

    • @MisterPol
      @MisterPol 4 года назад +2

      @@RanchDressingPop-Tarts ❤️

  • @SniffnMeFingies
    @SniffnMeFingies 3 года назад +307

    Mom: "Why is your room so dirty?"
    *Me, speaking calmly and concisely*
    "We are focused on larger goals."

  • @drthgeek884
    @drthgeek884 4 года назад +728

    Never demand respect. That is also one of the quickest way to lose it.

    • @savagenature1
      @savagenature1 4 года назад +93

      "Any man who must say 'I am the king' is no true king."
      -Tywin Lannister
      Notice how in Vikings, Ragnar only reminded his people that he is king one time and it was in a moment of anger and frustration with them and their arguing and how all of their ideas had failed.
      Every other time, no one needed to be reminded of anything.

    • @LookHereMars
      @LookHereMars 3 года назад +34

      An Emperor that must remind his soldiers and his people that he is Emperor is no Emperor at all - Napoleon Bonaparte.

    • @TheaDragonSpirit
      @TheaDragonSpirit 3 года назад +3

      I demand respect.

    • @michaeldiekmann6494
      @michaeldiekmann6494 3 года назад +9

      "Who wants respect, gives respect" -Tony Soprano

    • @trevormcmanus6670
      @trevormcmanus6670 3 года назад +7

      He tells people when he comes back to kill him, WHO WANTS TO BE KING?! He doesn’t demand that he retake the thrown but he asks for someone to have the courage to take the thrown from him. Unbelievable.

  • @DragonballBlack
    @DragonballBlack 3 года назад +1101

    This was fun to watch. Ragnar is by far one of my favorite historical tv characters of all time. You dissected him well. You should do Uhtred of Bebbanburg next.

    • @yassir6359
      @yassir6359 3 года назад +8

      Brooo , happy to see u here

    • @Pelipear
      @Pelipear 3 года назад +1

      You!

    • @yoelicon7283
      @yoelicon7283 3 года назад +2

      You're the guy who.....Well you don't see this everyday.....

    • @parol23
      @parol23 3 года назад +2

      historical :D :D :D :D fiction fictiin fiction

    • @ilmerkil9038
      @ilmerkil9038 3 года назад

      Loved both of the shows as well. Looking forward to the next season of the last kingdom.
      (Ragnars a great great......grandfather of mine)

  • @QuestionEverythingButWHY
    @QuestionEverythingButWHY 4 года назад +428

    “If you truly want to be respected by people you love, you must prove to them that you can survive without them.”
    ― Michael Bassey Johnson

    • @reggiebrown7549
      @reggiebrown7549 2 года назад +4

      This is very deep

    • @schwartzweisse1011
      @schwartzweisse1011 11 месяцев назад

      Definitely. How my life would have been different if 15 years ago, I had decided to stay home to fight for my own professional project and eat "à la sueur de mon front". No way, no way ever our home could be occupied and taken over and shown as the " world known parasistic ones".

  • @OliverTheBard
    @OliverTheBard 4 года назад +326

    I'm a simple man.
    I see" viking" in the title, I click on the video.

  • @virgilvalentine8548
    @virgilvalentine8548 4 года назад +1214

    I like how you pointed out Ragnars faults too. Just goes to show that everyone doesn’t work in absolutes.

    • @grisly-bear585
      @grisly-bear585 4 года назад +2

      When?

    • @Peaslepuff
      @Peaslepuff 4 года назад +13

      I like that he straight up says "you don't have to do all these things."

    • @newheights4782
      @newheights4782 4 года назад +2

      Do the people that make this videos watch Netflix all day long to get video ideas

    • @crowsnap1
      @crowsnap1 4 года назад +67

      Only the sith

    • @petedawson5875
      @petedawson5875 4 года назад +3

      Reina Suwa when trying to win his wife back. First few minutes I think

  • @Youbeentagged
    @Youbeentagged 3 года назад +403

    Ragnar has the best poker face I've seen.
    He always smiles, even when he's angry.
    Which shows that you can never know what he's thinking by looking at his face.

    • @TheoSlaps
      @TheoSlaps 3 года назад +13

      Even when he's angry he's smiling :D xd

    • @RVmaestro24
      @RVmaestro24 3 года назад +15

      He would be a perfect character for the witcher world

    • @Youbeentagged
      @Youbeentagged 3 года назад +3

      @@RVmaestro24 Gaunter O'Dimm whisle theme intensifies*

    • @MrEysox
      @MrEysox 3 года назад +12

      Well, his smile is a nervous one when he's angry, and you can see it.

    • @deliastefanescu1908
      @deliastefanescu1908 2 года назад +1

      Unforeseeable

  • @jmterminator
    @jmterminator 4 года назад +614

    And yet by the end, Ragnar seems like he wished he would've stayed a simple farmer.

    • @Nick-us6se
      @Nick-us6se 4 года назад +108

      First three seasons of Vikings are the best example of a main character arc I’ve ever seen.

    • @OrlanLupogan
      @OrlanLupogan 4 года назад +29

      the irony of life :)

    • @reycesarcarino4653
      @reycesarcarino4653 4 года назад +34

      He ended where he started the Ground

    • @savagenature1
      @savagenature1 4 года назад +135

      "Power is always dangerous. It attracts the worst and corrupts the best. I never asked for power. Power is only given to those who are prepared to lower themselves to pick it up."
      -Ragnar Lothbrok, "Vikings" Season 3, Episode 1

    • @chaotics5395
      @chaotics5395 4 года назад +36

      The price of ambition is high, the sacrifices are high, and ragnar lost a lot in the pursue of his ambition. And I think in the end it really paid off, since the living state of the vikings is better then ever before

  • @aboudhh
    @aboudhh 4 года назад +536

    Ragnar has other qualities that command his respect.
    He thinks outside the box and does whatever it takes to win. People love to follow winners because they feel like theyre on the right path.
    He forgives those close to him but not after theyve felt his wrath. This works both ways though since it made an enemy out of Rollo but a close friend and extremely loyal follower in Floki.
    I think the show did a great job in portraying Ragnar. They showed him as a human who has feelings. He was devestated and still thought of his daughter seasons after his daughter died. He made mistakes. He is very relatable

    • @stefdiazdiaz7067
      @stefdiazdiaz7067 4 года назад +5

      you mean: not until after..."they have felt his wrath..."

    • @Sal3600
      @Sal3600 4 года назад +24

      The show ended after Ragnar.

    • @latelate1000
      @latelate1000 4 года назад +16

      He is also a very good fighter, which was an important thing at the time.

    • @vinaypalwe
      @vinaypalwe 4 года назад +1

      Hey does anyone have any updates on the show
      Will the new season happen??

    • @vinaypalwe
      @vinaypalwe 4 года назад

      @@Sal3600 I think they confirmed a final season of the show?

  • @YashBhatter
    @YashBhatter 4 года назад +371

    Have genuine respect for yourself and people will respect you.
    How you get that genuine respect for yourself is by self-improvement.
    And whoever is reading this, I wish you the very best! :)

    • @valarykawega9651
      @valarykawega9651 3 года назад +5

      Thanks so much

    • @chrisgould101
      @chrisgould101 3 года назад +5

      Thanks bro. Still working on it

    • @deliastefanescu1908
      @deliastefanescu1908 2 года назад +1

      And I too wish you the same ! All the best !

    • @mullaoslo
      @mullaoslo 2 года назад

      36 years and I've never been able to respect myself.. Idk know how or where to start

  • @gawayne1374
    @gawayne1374 4 года назад +128

    The fastest way to gain respect? Learn to wield sharp steel like a god

    • @AxxLAfriku
      @AxxLAfriku 4 года назад +1

      I could cry when looking at my like dislike ratio. I have so many jealous people that my videos always get way more dislikes than likes. Please don't be jealous, dear gaw

    • @CH1PP3NDAL3
      @CH1PP3NDAL3 4 года назад +3

      @@AxxLAfriku Orrrrr....they are just that bad

  • @IbrahiemLegoFilms
    @IbrahiemLegoFilms 4 года назад +379

    Ragnar Lothbrok shall always remain one of the greatest characters in television, and with his death, the show just lost me.

    • @nobody-fp5is
      @nobody-fp5is 4 года назад +17

      I guess i wont watch the show

    • @ragnarlodbrok1233
      @ragnarlodbrok1233 4 года назад +45

      @@nobody-fp5is it's beyond worth it, he dies old...so it won't bother you much although the death is a tear jerker...in a way it's beautiful, watch it you've never seen a more charasmatic character on film I guarantee it!

    • @nobody-fp5is
      @nobody-fp5is 4 года назад +4

      @@ragnarlodbrok1233 He dies old, is there a time skip? Perhaps i will give it a try.

    • @Mahmood.23
      @Mahmood.23 4 года назад +21

      They killed him too soon. After his death the show was practically unwatchable

    • @Jelgurt
      @Jelgurt 4 года назад +12

      I still watch the show.. But I agree Ragnar was one of the best characters. Not my only favorite characters.. There were many great actors actresses who made the show great..

  • @wisdom-for-all
    @wisdom-for-all 4 года назад +153

    Indeed, seek Respect, not Attention; Respect lasts longer 🖖

    • @elizabethayres1062
      @elizabethayres1062 4 года назад +1

      Yes! Very true, love that 🧡

    • @X-Prime123
      @X-Prime123 4 года назад +4

      Or you could just not give a crap about the opinions of others and stop seeking their approval.

    • @luddent7505
      @luddent7505 4 года назад +1

      @@Kal-El_was_taken yes

  • @freekvonk8586
    @freekvonk8586 2 года назад +5

    Number 6: Discover England

  • @wildanS
    @wildanS 3 года назад +75

    This video: Go Viking mode - get respect.
    Me: Goes Viking mode - gets restraining order.

    • @adammcallister3293
      @adammcallister3293 3 года назад +3

      only survivors get restraining orders

    • @irishboi2411
      @irishboi2411 3 года назад +5

      Lol...did you at least yell while holding dual axes "Valhalla"!!!!!!!!

    • @shadmanhasan4205
      @shadmanhasan4205 3 года назад

      Hah.... police? Sorry bro.... them "Anglo-Saxon Officers" (not race, culture) will never enter Valhalla 😊

    • @tomeofslyev
      @tomeofslyev 2 года назад

      Well, going Viking isn't the same as going barbaric.

  • @winterstar5750
    @winterstar5750 4 года назад +62

    Would love to see an episode on Daryl Davis. The black musician who speaks to KKK members and got 200 of them to renounce their membership, some giving him their robes.

    • @AllForgottenMemories
      @AllForgottenMemories 4 года назад +4

      This, dude is a badass and mean piano player

    • @benjamingeorge8241
      @benjamingeorge8241 4 года назад

      What do you think the topic would be though? Empathy?

    • @AllForgottenMemories
      @AllForgottenMemories 4 года назад +10

      @@benjamingeorge8241 probably empathy and self control in very hostile situations.

    • @thefnaffan2
      @thefnaffan2 3 года назад +3

      They need to make a movie about him. His story is awesome

    • @philcooper9225
      @philcooper9225 2 года назад

      @@benjamingeorge8241 that's one thing us black people are lacking in greatly, empathy

  • @CinimodNorton
    @CinimodNorton 4 года назад +46

    The eye contact and low clam voice does magic. I learned along time ago that I don't have to like you, but if we have to work together we work, have made some friends that way.

  • @pyschologygeek
    @pyschologygeek 4 года назад +72

    Sitting silently with a friend who is hurting may be the best gift we can give.

    • @anmolpatel793
      @anmolpatel793 4 года назад +7

      Sometimes it is better to leave people alone give them their space

    • @pyschologygeek
      @pyschologygeek 4 года назад +8

      @@anmolpatel793 sometimes yeah . But sometimes people need to feel there are others who truly care about them

  • @selfable-relyonyourself3504
    @selfable-relyonyourself3504 4 года назад +41

    1. Do something out of your comfort zone
    2. show them interest and they will eventually show interest in you
    3. Being clam and control makes you look more confident
    4. "A leader is one who knows the way, goes the way, and shows the way." John C. Maxwell
    5. Trying to see through others' eyes,
    makes it easier to apologize.
    An apology goes a long way
    to maintaining peace every day.

    • @davidbaigorria5847
      @davidbaigorria5847 3 года назад +2

      Clam voice made me laugh so hard LMAO regardless, good tips

  • @vijiraju6238
    @vijiraju6238 4 года назад +97

    Travis fimmel is the most underrated actor.
    IMO, HE ACTS BETTER THAN LEONARDO DICAPRIO.

    • @ajmalsafi13
      @ajmalsafi13 4 года назад +1

      Seems like everyone agree....

    • @vijiraju6238
      @vijiraju6238 4 года назад +1

      @Alex Leblanc Actually, no
      Hey, it is just my opinion.

    • @shompurnagunjan
      @shompurnagunjan 4 года назад +2

      I am a huge fan of both. And I would say, he hasn’t played enough role to be equal or better than Leo.

  • @Hawtload
    @Hawtload 4 года назад +66

    That "I & MY" scene in the bed is exactly how you get women to instantly lose attraction to you even if you've been together for years.

    • @elarvo7363
      @elarvo7363 3 года назад +37

      Impregnating another woman is one of the fastest ways to encourage your lady to leave you

    • @MrDeano-eu9rg
      @MrDeano-eu9rg 3 года назад +8

      @@elarvo7363 yea that's the main reason here. I think his statement has been over analysed.

  • @Gunsong1
    @Gunsong1 4 года назад +48

    I started watching your channel because I wanted to learn to negotiate better salaries, but I ended up using these skills to deal with emotional customers, conflict deescalation, and literary analasys.

  • @m.t.4712
    @m.t.4712 4 года назад +68

    Ragnar is the best example on how to earn respect. I cried so much when he faked his death and the second time when he actually died. It is like I know him as a real person not just as character.

  • @randomalien7746
    @randomalien7746 4 года назад +17

    I thought you have to perform a blood eagle on your boss but I guess this works too.

  • @riffdane6459
    @riffdane6459 4 года назад +23

    I’d love to see a similar analysis of Jax from Sons of Anarchy. Maybe even address the other brothers and their traits as well.

  • @kingpotatochips9458
    @kingpotatochips9458 4 года назад +41

    I'd like to point out how leaving a shield wall will break the entire wall and cause harm to everyone in it.. nvm keep talking charlie love you k bye xx

    • @bkhunga-realestatemarketin1945
      @bkhunga-realestatemarketin1945 4 года назад

      😶for real? Even if it's a large wall

    • @00g99
      @00g99 4 года назад +1

      BKhunga It takes time and effort to repair the hole caused by someone leaving the shield wall, plenty of time for the opposing force to strike.

    • @chaotics5395
      @chaotics5395 4 года назад +8

      In shield wall, ragnar tended to stay in the back of the shield wall anyway, so it's not really cause harm especially when he's needed more at the front of the shield wall. He usually did this when the wall start to break or a new formation is needed

    • @x099534
      @x099534 4 года назад +3

      Part of what they trained for was replacing people who died. They were plenty adept at replacing people in the wall.

    • @OkurkaBinLadin
      @OkurkaBinLadin 4 года назад +2

      @@x099534 Dying on the spot is not the same as simply leaving the formation ;)
      There is reason riot cops NEVER EVER do that and old Romans punished such behavior with capital punishment.

  • @thymetodream6084
    @thymetodream6084 4 года назад +19

    #1. Be what others want to be. #2 Play off others wants and desires. #3. Stay calm and grounded in stressful situations. #4 Don't ask others to do what you wouldn't do yourself. #5 Show compassion to those whom deserve it.

  • @House-of-Art-AE
    @House-of-Art-AE 4 года назад +19

    10:07 Engineer without a bachelor's degree seems interesting. I wonder which world he is living in.

    • @joecrypto2459
      @joecrypto2459 3 года назад +1

      especially one living in the Netherlands.

  • @ayushtalreja
    @ayushtalreja 4 года назад +30

    You can decode IVAR THE BONELESS . HE'S ALSO A MAN FROM WHICH WE CAN LEARN.

  • @marketslice5030
    @marketslice5030 4 года назад +36

    I'll just roll quick....+7 respect points. Alright, let's get these TPS reports done!

  • @microwave4928
    @microwave4928 3 года назад +8

    “Ragnar has compassion”
    * shows a scene where Ragnar strangles an old man to death *

  • @Binodbinubinod123
    @Binodbinubinod123 3 года назад +6

    5:17 I'm confused if he's Ragnar or Ubbe

  • @razormonkey5279
    @razormonkey5279 4 года назад +25

    "Cut my bonds and give me the sword."
    "Would you deny me the right to enter Valhalla?"

  • @DougYYZ
    @DougYYZ 4 года назад +11

    Thanks for making videos like this. I feel like I'm losing my communication skills from being in quarantine.

  • @jeremiahsoh3534
    @jeremiahsoh3534 4 года назад +9

    Helps that the actor was amazing

  • @jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862
    @jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862 4 года назад +9

    When you are calm in a space where people are worried they will automatically respect you and consider you the leader

  • @alix6955
    @alix6955 4 года назад +12

    i was waiting for when youd make a video about ragnar!!! TOP 2 after TOMMY SHELBY

  • @gavind2174
    @gavind2174 4 года назад +13

    Bens getting a record for breaking down some badass shows and characters, LOVE IT

  • @AliKhan-ck1gh
    @AliKhan-ck1gh 4 года назад +6

    1. Pursue ambitious goals that others want to join. 2. Speak in you and we. 3. Project calm in the face of conflict. 4. Lead from the front. 5. See through other people’s eyes.

  • @videoedits830
    @videoedits830 3 года назад +9

    i loved floki, rollo, lagertha, ivar and many more characters from the show. but RAGNAR made it legendary

  • @connarchy7929
    @connarchy7929 3 года назад +4

    I’m just curious, Charisma university is $99.50 a month for 6 months, that adds up to approximately $600. I have seen many links and ads saying “pay here and change your life” How is one certain this is a real deal

  • @Hamrik_Oswald
    @Hamrik_Oswald 3 года назад +5

    I naturally avoid eye contact. There is odd discomfort when I attempt eye contact. Possibly either a fear of connecting with people or a reluctance. Most times I am in a social mood because I had a few drinks. I am constantly on the fence when it comes to what I want in my life when it comes to social interaction: do I want friends, do I want a romantic relationship, do I want to be alone? I have no idea.

  • @FM-xz9fg
    @FM-xz9fg 4 года назад +5

    I'm so early, where the summarise guy 😖

    • @yoshi314
      @yoshi314 4 года назад +3

      it's your chance to be one

    • @FM-xz9fg
      @FM-xz9fg 4 года назад +1

      @@yoshi314 lmao, I'm saying this cause I'm too lazy to do soo😂, but thxs for this motivational sentence

  • @pedertoftkristensen5484
    @pedertoftkristensen5484 4 года назад +23

    i love that you do the best movie characters and analyze them. Ragnar is my favourite tv-show character ever because he represents what it means to be human with both his flaws and good traits. Love the work and keep it up.

  • @tahamouline9112
    @tahamouline9112 4 года назад +12

    *J'ai crée ma première vidéo en mode dessin animée pour t'aider à apprendre l'Anglais en t’amusant . Si tu veux aller la voir, tout avis est le bienvenue ! ;)*

    • @calin6327
      @calin6327 4 года назад +2

      C'est intéressant, mais... Je me demande pourquoi ferai quelqu'un qui ne peut pas parler anglais être ici

    • @tahamouline9112
      @tahamouline9112 4 года назад

      @@calin6327 Peut-être qu'il apprend en regardant des vidéos intéressantes ;) merci du conseil en tout cas !

  • @JuiceD2958
    @JuiceD2958 3 года назад +10

    Watching ragnar succeed, and as an inspiration, the feeling is so overwhelming putting him as an example, One of my fav shows ❤

  • @extrememarkers6334
    @extrememarkers6334 4 года назад +6

    Ragnar has the same qualities as Askeladd: ambitious, won for the team, stayed calm in all conflict, led from the front, and he saw through his men's eyes with compassion.
    lol he was also a viking

  • @nannyj9910
    @nannyj9910 4 года назад +4

    Great vid could you plz break down Hugh Jackman in a vid plz thx xx

  • @alphawolf8059
    @alphawolf8059 3 года назад +6

    I love hereing about other people's careers benefiting from these videos as I've used these skills to improve myself as a manager and a leader

  • @QuestionEverythingButWHY
    @QuestionEverythingButWHY 4 года назад +3

    “When you are content to be simply yourself and don't compare or compete, everyone will respect you.”
    ― Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching

  • @lckypckt3856
    @lckypckt3856 4 года назад +6

    You've helped me grow as a person and as a channel! Thank you so much for sharing your valuable insights! And to the person reading this, you have an amazing future ahead! Just believe. ❤️

  • @TheOneTrue_Sadman
    @TheOneTrue_Sadman 4 года назад +3

    Hey man, love your channel are really like all your videos. If I may suggest, I would like you to examine Christain Bale's Batman and his personality as both Batman and Bruce Wayne.

  • @Tangakkai
    @Tangakkai 4 года назад +10

    I started watching this show last week and when i saw Ragnar was literally like: Charisma on Command need to do a video on him🤣 nice job guys!

    • @ChristosMourelas
      @ChristosMourelas 3 года назад

      enjoy it till mid season 4, its all getting worse after that

    • @jasonvelasquez6438
      @jasonvelasquez6438 3 года назад +1

      Ragnar carried hard

    • @ineednochannelyoutube2651
      @ineednochannelyoutube2651 2 года назад

      I would watch until the end of season 4 and then just stop. The latter half has incredible writing when it comes to Ragnar and Eckbert among other weird and bizarre storylines. Lagertha has some good stuff too. But just stop there YOU ARE DONE! No need to watch anymore!

  • @jeremyashcraft2053
    @jeremyashcraft2053 3 года назад +2

    I really dislike these case studies of fictional characters. It's like: did Ragnar really command respect just by doing X, or was it just scripted that everyone respect him?

  • @awesome3139
    @awesome3139 4 года назад +6

    I gotta say it, because no one else is saying it. It’s more like “Lawth-brook,” not “Loath-Brock”

  • @nidhalahmed1682
    @nidhalahmed1682 4 года назад +6

    I have said this before and am gonna say it again. Please do one on Frank Castle. I know he probably isn't that popular but he's character breakdown would be awesome, considering how complex it is.

    • @savagenature1
      @savagenature1 4 года назад +1

      Hell Yes!!!
      Easily one of my Top 3 Favorite Comicbook Heroes
      I'm sure you're specifically talking about Jon Bernthal's Punisher, but there are important things that can be discussed with just about every version

  • @officiallyCreeperOff
    @officiallyCreeperOff 4 года назад +5

    I used to find myself (woman in hijab) in situations where i am not heard and need to repeat myself. especially in group discussions. i started developing self-taught technics, and most of them i found here in your videos which boosts my confidence a bit and also, now, helps me develop technics faster. I overcame my issue of not being heard by speaking in an engaging slow tone and eye contact throughout the discussion.
    Now 2 or 3 years into practice I started noticing that people ask me to speak and love listening to what ideas i have.
    Got to say thank you, a lot of developing was throughout your channel on youtube.

  • @BushidoIslander8689
    @BushidoIslander8689 Год назад +2

    Would love to hear a conversation between Ragnar & Miyamoto Musashi over a mead or tea. Would be full of life lessons

  • @mad555555
    @mad555555 4 года назад +4

    You guys are actually really good. Your psychology skills is the best. I want to tell you a little story how I took what I learned from you & ruined my life. This is no fault of you guys as I learned & implemented the skills you teach for my total selfish gain & I hurt everyone around me.
    I was & am a extreme introvert. I did not want to speak to anybody in public, I did not want anyone to speak to me whether I knew them and especially strangers. I had a girlfriend for 15 years who I turned into my wife & we were married for 5 yrs. I was very well-off working by myself, at home, my own business & my only friends were my wife's friends, their husband & their children. Maybe 14 people altogether.
    I knew I had this issue with being an extreme introvert which I did not like because you cannot avoid all social gatherings for your entire life. I started watching your videos about mid 2017. It was very basic how to talk to people in Social settings. I would view your videos 4 or 5 times & then I would implement 1 or 2 of the aspects of the video into my life.
    I would do this over the next couple months & everybody I interacted with was really liking me instantly for a lack of a better term. I realized this & I unknowingly started to manipulate people to do what I want. I'm told I'm a good-looking guy so it all spiraled out of control for the next 1- 1/2 years.
    Long story short, I had countless drop dead gorgeous models want to be with me & older women that wanted to give me stuff & do things for me to be around them. In the end my wife of 20 years divorced me. I started drinking heavily & I realize I didn't want anything else besides my wife.
    I deserve everything that has befallen me over the past year & I have reverted to being the introvert that I was before viewing your videos.
    Like Uncle Ben said, with great Power comes great responsibility...

  • @CommanderTavos99
    @CommanderTavos99 3 года назад +1

    So im doing point 2,3 and 5 all my life guess thats why people of all types of income/knowledge/old and young actually do respect me

  • @JP-1990
    @JP-1990 4 года назад +17

    This was a really good one. Thoroughly enjoyed it. Would love to see more videos involving period pieces. Perhaps a character from Downton Abbey or Boardwalk Empire!

  • @philocoladas
    @philocoladas 4 года назад +4

    One more thing I've noticed, Mr lothbrok does and says what you least expect him to do or say. He literally does the exact opposite of what you expect

  • @eattheroom8383
    @eattheroom8383 4 года назад +5

    With a name like Ragnar, he's already got skills.

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid 4 года назад +4

    The fact that you aren't where you want to be, should be enough motivation.

    • @FabricioSantos-zy6vt
      @FabricioSantos-zy6vt 4 года назад

      It should but it's far from being enough to many of us

    • @hazzmati
      @hazzmati 4 года назад +1

      What if I don't want to be anywhere?

  • @oooweebaby4483
    @oooweebaby4483 3 года назад +6

    3:37 one of the most emotional conflicts in Vikings, wow

  • @ballybunion9
    @ballybunion9 4 года назад +1

    Ragnar succeeded because that's what the script said must happen.

  • @reddawn15
    @reddawn15 4 года назад +3

    I would love to see you do a charisma breakdown on Marilyn Monroe.

  • @wolfofasgardhobbies6483
    @wolfofasgardhobbies6483 3 года назад +2

    Also when king Alea burns him with a hot iron, cuts and stabs him Ragnar doesn't yell out, not giving Alea the reaction he wants which visibly shakes him, when Ragnar also gives his speech of Valhalla Ecbert smiles and Alea shows fear. Not giving the enemy what they wanted scares them well gaining the respect from his allies

  • @ethanlocke3604
    @ethanlocke3604 4 года назад +4

    A note to that dude who sent that last email that he read at the end: be nervous or bad around people doesn’t make you and introvert, and being good with people doesn’t make you an extravert. It’s the fact that you get energize or tired from being with people. I’m an introvert but enjoy hanging out with people and tend to be good at social situations

  • @SpencerCreskey
    @SpencerCreskey 4 года назад +1

    Poo poo pee pee
    Edit: sorry my little brother was using my iPad

  • @patrickkubinec7026
    @patrickkubinec7026 3 года назад +3

    What I also like about the scene with Tostig (the old warrior) is that Ragnar could have said "Yes" and be done with it...but he rather let all people around him to say that, showing the warrior that all around him want him there

  • @davidoftheforest
    @davidoftheforest 3 года назад +1

    all he does is lower his chin and look up at you like he has a cunning plan. Or he looks sidelong with a grin. I'm too ugly for that, I'd make people nervous lmao

  • @Minorityreport.
    @Minorityreport. 4 года назад +3

    This is the channel I will recommend to my children and grand kids!! It turned me into a beast at work and in life!!!

  • @elementalgolem5498
    @elementalgolem5498 2 года назад +1

    Conflict one is on point. Had a guy who was tipsy to say the least push me mad about his girlfriend drink being spilled on her and the floor and I have still not jumped I to help cleanup. I simply stared him down and said calmly "mate, we both know we don't have to take this path. *I grab the empty roll of paper* theres no more paper left" "I DON'T CARE CLEAN UP" "calm down, I'm looking for Emily (the host) she knows where theres extra paper I will send her to you in busy right now"

  • @americantroy77
    @americantroy77 4 года назад +3

    Great video ... I struggle with prolonged eye contact for whatever reason but I will work on that now knowing that’s viewed as weak

    • @clairewillow6475
      @clairewillow6475 4 года назад +1

      Ya when I lived in a rough area and some stranger gives me a dirty look or starts something with me I make sure to look them in the eye until they look away first

  • @mgtowacademy8433
    @mgtowacademy8433 4 года назад +1

    i want to say something smart cause im early but don't know what to say
    have a nice day nonetheless

  • @SynphamyMusic
    @SynphamyMusic 3 года назад +3

    That 'calm in the face of conflict' one seems to depend on who you're dealing with though. Sometimes remaining calm can just get the other person more riled up because they think you're ignoring them or not taking them seriously. It reminds me of the advice when you're confronted by a big cat, to make yourself look bigger and louder to dissuade them from attacking, sometimes acting more psycho than they do is better than lying down and offering them your jugular.

  • @oneworldonehome
    @oneworldonehome 4 года назад +3

    “Most of what you think of as your need to express yourself is to merely offset your insecurity. Here you realize that everything you say has value or should have value. Even when you are being light hearted, you want it to be a meaningful experience without trying to create the meaning. Here you become more natural. You become more like the natural world, which is silent and still except when things are happening. The person who is still and silent has great depth and often evokes respect from others, particularly if his or her silence is born of Wisdom.”
    A quote from a book titled Wisdom from the Greater Community, Volume II. I strongly suggest both volumes of this book to all who wish to gain a greater perspective and wisdom in life. To read them online for free, visit *NewMessage org*

  • @joelalvarado6364
    @joelalvarado6364 4 года назад +2

    Gain some knowledge from that video nice video

  • @DrJonTam
    @DrJonTam 4 года назад +3

    Ragnar really is a great example to draw from for commanding respect. Awesome video!

  • @DZ-Squad
    @DZ-Squad 2 года назад +1

    ''We'' need more subscribers! *Notice how I included ''We'' instead of ''I''.

  • @alexm3392
    @alexm3392 4 года назад +3

    The Parisian king was a comically overexagerated coward though, a caricature, designed to show how awesome the brave and intelligent Ragnar was.
    In real life it's usually not this black and white, and a lot of the risks Ragnar took wouldn't have paid off (unless he had insane luck)

    • @blackletter2591
      @blackletter2591 Год назад

      Maybe you're looking down the wrong end of the telescope. There were many leaders of mediocre ability with only average luck or less. But nobody writes TV shows about them, starring charismatic actors. Same with less-than-stellar King's.

  • @italiancapo7
    @italiancapo7 4 года назад +1

    Ragnar makes everyone want to shave their head and grow a beard.

  • @downwinder3
    @downwinder3 4 года назад +5

    Fictional character. Who says any of these techniques would work in real life

    • @wastedviking6280
      @wastedviking6280 4 года назад

      Fictional or not it's real characters portraying it, most of his points are not bad.

    • @triniblunt9482
      @triniblunt9482 3 года назад

      Shush child if you have nothing good to say. Dont say anything

  • @IMT-Thurisaz
    @IMT-Thurisaz 2 года назад +1

    PAUSE:I came here not to watch this pathethic video I came here to tell you that if you demand respect ypu gotta respect yourself firsf you don't need videos to tell you how life works have your own views on the world,be human,have an opinion

  • @arioca
    @arioca 4 года назад +6

    Another delusional video teaching people how to behave based from fictional movies/tv show characters. Clickbait video at its best!

    • @Frank-os6gq
      @Frank-os6gq 4 года назад +1

      If you listen & think about what is said & in what context, their is wisdom to be taken.

    • @arioca
      @arioca 4 года назад +1

      Frank I understand that this video is as manipulative as a TV show trying to catch the attention of viewers. Ironically this channel’s content is uploaded by someone who doesn’t work in a real job thus he’s unable to truly understand how life outside of RUclips works, and is making a living selling another “take charge/boost your confidence” course to naive people and creating delusional videos for millions of subscribers. At least this channel isn’t e-begging their audience via PayPal, Patreon, or Join yet like so many others on this platform.

  • @That__Guy
    @That__Guy 4 года назад +1

    1. Sacrifice to the gods
    2. Split the skulls of your enemies
    3. Pillage the christians
    4. Drink mead
    Tried it... it really works

  • @Grazikon
    @Grazikon 4 года назад +3

    The question of long hours is another point of comparison with Elon Musk.

  • @robbyrodriguez8538
    @robbyrodriguez8538 3 года назад +1

    Good for all mankind you say about elon musk? I died laughing
    That guy spend his IQ and wealth to find life in the other planet,or discover new universe as possible,there is life helpless life in 3rd world country,that guy is just being hypocrite hahaa

  • @Dairy917
    @Dairy917 3 года назад +1

    Taking tips from characters in tv shows 🤣🤣. What’s next taking tips from shield maidens who also never existed🤣🤣

  • @timmyschenell536
    @timmyschenell536 3 года назад

    When i saw the spoiler warning i was straight out of the video😂

  • @ouroboros6125
    @ouroboros6125 3 года назад +1

    Calm in the face of things that would make other people... well... not calm. Is much of the reason psychopaths can be so charming I think. Psychopathic fearlessness in both physical and emotional confrontation and social settings. Has this "magnetic field" of attraction in terms of confidence.

  • @kenxnx5392
    @kenxnx5392 Год назад +1

    1:00 I like how Ragnar ignores them instead of saying thank you. He is saying, without actually saying it, that it is normal for him and nothing special.

  • @Future183
    @Future183 3 года назад +2

    ragnar is literally immortal, even 1100 years after his death his stories are still told in the form of a series

  • @Koolaidheart11
    @Koolaidheart11 3 года назад +1

    Living in America and not in rough circumstance, where most people try to be courteous. Makes practice of being like Ragnar pretty hard.

  • @ClaireStClair-dq1po
    @ClaireStClair-dq1po 3 года назад +2

    Ragnar also had something else going for him, he was played by an exceptional actor.