This literally just happened to me last night and I have been basking in Karma Sunlight ever since. My Ex Girlfriend dumped me a year ago and was super selfish and mean about it and a year later (last night) text me crying about how sad and hurt she felt because the guy she is super in love with just out of the blue DUMPED HER!! I did take the high road and was super empathetic but secretly I was grinning the whole time knowing she was exactly where she left me a year ago. I am already dating someone better for me than my ex so I just told her “don’t worry you will get over it and find someone waaaay better, I did!”. I just had to share that story.
That excatcly happened to my ex I found out she got dumped a month ago I was very happy happy that karma got her and sge told my fruend that I'm very understanding, genuine and sweet now she realised she lose someone who always care about her
Would you really want to take someone back who had to test the waters of new people instead of working it out? I mean it's kind of like your their back up plan. And even if you do get back together that will always be on your conscience just a thought. And who's to say they won't leave again if things aren't ideal?
It’s kind of like they think they can have you whenever they want, because when we’re dealing with our separation anxiety we’re so readily available for them but as time goes on you outgrow that person and see things more clearly. You want to be treated like a PRIORITY not an OPTION
When a woman feels rejected or scorned, they tend to rebound rather than admitting to faults in relationships. Most women do put tremendous amounts of effort into the relationship and most men are often clueless that the deep emotional problems exist as long as issues are brushed quickly on the table or arguments or quickly settled. I know my relationship of three years blew up in one month another month later she was with another person this is been almost a year ago so I don't know the status of their relationship. As you examine her past for relationships this is the pattern she exhibits one to the next one problems arise. For three years we generally had a very good relationship as things become serious and we wanted to move in together I was addressing some of my concerns about her treatment of these past relationships and how would I be traded moving forward. I grew a little distant and cold in this 30 day window amid only took her for granted and after three years she asked me one day where this relationship is going. I didn't have the answers that she was looking for and bar now understanding she had this other guy wound up Reggie to take my place within another 30 days
@@victorvondoom2386 Men do this too so dont blame it on women..I had this similar situation.He had ne replaced before he even discarded me bcuz he posted it on FB and tried to string me along while he was testing the waters with his new victim.
My ex was with rebound 3 months. Got dumped this week. As soon as rebound dumps my ex..for her ex.. my ex hit me up as soon as it happens. If my ex dumped her.. id feel better. But she dumped my ex. They both were rebounding. But..fact is..even if my ex came back. He came back cause he was dumped. The rebound said he was emotionally not there. An he was giving a werid vibe. It might all sound good. But he didn't dump her for me. He just got dumped. So the fact he came back. Made me feel like a doormat. I Told him that. Now I'm moving on forever.
My ex was dumped by his rebound after a week 😭😭 and apparently she was dry texting him and cold just like he was to me when i reached out 2 weeks after our breakup. It’s been 7 weeks, he was talking to her for 2 weeks and with her for 1, and it ended about a week ago. I literally felt his energy switch back to me me around the time it happened. I’m laughing on the inside and the outside.
This doesn't sound like love. Sounds like she is in love with the projection of her. It just sounds like classic addiction. She should move on and start working on her attachment trauma.
Man coach Craig if knew someone that wanted to be a relationship coach I will tell them to watch this channel because you an coach Margaret are the best relationship coaches ever and that person I was talking about will get inspired
Woooow!!!?😱😱😱 I swear am going through everything you have discussed here..my ex boyfriend has been having issues with her and he's tryna seek comfort in me... like wow!!! You uploaded this video some time ago but i swear am I among those you've given hope😭😭😭 Thank you so much coaches💕💕
My ex and her rebound broke up this week after 2 months. I found out because she updated her Tinder profile and liked some suspicious posts on Instagram. We have been in constant contact lately, but she didn't told me about the break up. Actually, she's acting like she's still dating that girl, she doesn't know that I know the true. Why she didn't tell me??? We've been telling each other everything these days. Is it because she is afraid that I'm gonna hit on her if I know that she's single again? To be honest, I thought I would have another chance with her if they broke up, but now my ex is looking for other girls. Is this a sign that we're really over? Do I still have any chance?
wow....same situation for me ... crazy .. i still question why i still love this women ...... she seems to have narc qualities..:[... but you cant help what the heart feels .... great vid as usual guys.. ive watched many during this extremely hard but growing time .... cheers guys look forward to learning more ..keep it groovy ..
My ex block me on everything an want with a guy for 3months then it broke up and we where together for 6-7 months and i try to call her and a lady said she dose not what every thing to do we me . Help me
I'm soo glad she had the shift. Watched the latest video. I think we become addicted to an idea of love when a person dumps us especially if a third party is involved.
I didn’t expect it at all . I never thought he would ever do this to me. I found out by mistake & got a nasty text from my ex blaming me for telling everyone when it was his loud mouths sister who did it. Him and his sisters are bad mouthing
This was a interesting video, I’m not sure if my ex left me for someone else , though he told me back in feb( first time we actually spoke ) he isn’t in a relationship. My question is why would you want to be with someone who dumped you for someone else ? I’d would feel like If I wasn’t good enough the first time , I’m certainly not the second time ! It’s been 5 months since my ex broke up with me and we still not back together . I recommend anyone to watch your guys who need advise , this is very soothing . What reason could he still not wanting to reconcile if he telling family members he still loves and misses me ?
I agree, my ex rebound has dumped her and she was under the illusion I'd take her back in a heart beat. I told her id never take her back and her face dropped. I'm still living with my ex because we are in lockdown and I must say I've very much enjoyed watching her life fall apart. Karmas a bitch ain't it 😂
Ex had a rebound that wanted bf/gf but she only wanted to be fwb. Ex block me bc i wanted to heal. Notice ex stop like rebound pics. Then notice rebound posting a new girl and his feelings. I know ex is in feelings even though rebound short term and not step dad quality
My ex is talking terrible about me. After 9 years & a ridiculous argument, he was in a new relationship in 4 weeks. I’m long distance and so was rebound . It lasted 6 months and it’s over. He set me a nasty text blaming me . He’s talking shit about me on fb & so is his sister who he turned against me. Try have me blocked. Even though it’s over with the rebound he didn’t try to reach out to me. ‘This after he begged me to take him back. It’s like Jekyll & Hyde.
In the lesbian world it’s an everyday thing that the ex reaches out (if they do) in a very direct approach trust me😊 (you said it’s not usual that they reach out by saying “I miss you”)
I hope he does get dumped . He was very deceiving. Talked about how he raised his sons because his wife cheated on him numerous time. And then he turns and does the same thing to me. I love him with all my heart and why? I will fucking never put my heart out there again. I would love to hear the ex wife side of the story!
We were together for 1 year and 3 months, she moved to my city for living together because it was what she wanted and after 1 month and a half she started being avoidant. I started being needy and feeling something was going wrong, but she said not. Finally we broke up and now, after 2 months of no contact I been noticed by friends that she started to like a coworker from her job a lot while living with me and after the break she tried something with him but he refused! (I think he had gf) Friends told me she was sad for this (I suppose more sad for this reffusal than for our relationship...) And now she is living in a coworker house going party every weekend, started smoking weed, drinking during the week.. She is not the person i used to love anymore. (She haven’t contacted me for confort or anything..)
Hi Coach Craig, thank you for this video!! I thought I would never find this video for my situation. Although my ex is still chasing the girl who dumped him, because the girl already has a boyfriend.. My friend told me he used her to forget about me, and the girl used him to escape her boyfriend being an ass for a while. It’s been 3 weeks since he got dumped, and he still talks to her on his second account. The girl is popular and can play the guitar plus sing, she seems more ideal than me to him.. Even though I’m great at other things..Please help me Coach or anyone, thank you!
While I wanted to get back together with my ex in February, I got dumped by him as he was starting a rebound relationship with another girl. He got dumbed by his rebound in April. He started dating again and now he is in a new relationship since the beggining of July. Is it possible to jump from a rebound relationship to another one?
@@Louceee she came back, didn’t work out the way we wanted it to again, eventually moved on, (was very hard) and found new partners each, I just recently broke up with my second partner since then. It got better and I didn’t really rmemeber her after a while but it took a long time to get to that stage
OH. MAAYH. GOSH. Y'all are the best!!! I love Margaret so much!!! Craig, you aren't too shabby either, my friend. Just kidding, Coach Craig!!! You are phenomenal!!! Both y'all are delightful and so brilliant!!! I have been a fan for several months now. After Craig announced the title of this video: Margaret: "A-ha. It could make me chuckle ... secretly & silently ... TEE-HEE." 😊😂😛😄😁😂 ROFLMFAO. God bless y'all. Please keep up the amazingly wonderful videos!!!
my ex ignored me and blocked me for a month and she got into a rebound relationship after 1 month no contact but then she unblocked me and messaged me with an indirect approach after 30days she said ‘you stay posting about me on social media’ and i ignored her, so she sent 2 more to get me to reply, i only posted a funny ‘meme’ not really related to her, was this her using this as an excuse to message me? this was a week ago, how long untill she contacts me again? is shes even going to contact me again or shall i reach out? i dont feel i should message her but im getting inpatient for her to reach outt again?
What if my ex fiance got married to his rebound. Ok he proposed to me on 12-25-17 left me in march for is rebound in march got married to her in June 2018. We have 2 kids together when i see him he flirts with me even has told me to sleep with him. Why i know his not happy
mel supermom do ur research learn about personality disorder , specially NPD. These kind of people are dangerous. They would ruin ur life if u let them.
mel supermom good luck . Keep ur head up . U are not alone trust me . He lost a queen . I’m sorry u are going though this . I have been in similar situations. The most important person in this relationship is “u” . Don’t let no one disrespect u and treat like this . Self love is everything . Do no contact for as long as u can till u fully heal. If u have any kids make sure u take care of them and let them be ur happiness ,ur engine to continue in life .
Oh geez. This is the best video ever. But this happened to Me. But it's my husband of 13 yrs. He has a girl. Well he did... He has me blocked and we are going through our 3rd divorce. 2 we never finalized. Now in our 3rd divorce he fell inlove with a girl of 2 months. Well she dumped him. But when they were together. He was RUTHLESSSSS to me. And even gave up custody of our son so he can be with her and us not in his life. Now she dumped him cause she saw huge red flags. ... So what now. When does he realize he shouldn't of gave up on his son. Me. I don't care. But now our son has no dad. And.. My ex. Is miserable and alone. How long does the man I messed up.. Kick in... How long till missery overwhelms him? U guys are good about knowing his ex would leave him in 3 .. 4 months... Is there a time on loneliness and realizing he messed up? When she is gone for good?
This literally just happened to me last night and I have been basking in Karma Sunlight ever since. My Ex Girlfriend dumped me a year ago and was super selfish and mean about it and a year later (last night) text me crying about how sad and hurt she felt because the guy she is super in love with just out of the blue DUMPED HER!! I did take the high road and was super empathetic but secretly I was grinning the whole time knowing she was exactly where she left me a year ago. I am already dating someone better for me than my ex so I just told her “don’t worry you will get over it and find someone waaaay better, I did!”. I just had to share that story.
And never apologize how she made you feel when she left you?
Love it!!
@@cizko84 She actually did apologize for how she treated me. Told me everything I wanted/needed to hear and I forgave her.
@@Kansas2SaltLake forgiving is the first step of healing! you always have to LEARN how to forgive but never forget what they did!
My ex was dumped by their rebound? I can't stop laughing. My ex is a loser. That's my response.
Mine was too
LaoSoftware
Lol
Hahaha same
likewise here
😂😂😂😂
My ex got cheated on by his rebound. I find it kind of funny inside because I knew karma would get him in the end.
That excatcly happened to my ex I found out she got dumped a month ago I was very happy happy that karma got her and sge told my fruend that I'm very understanding, genuine and sweet now she realised she lose someone who always care about her
Would you really want to take someone back who had to test the waters of new people instead of working it out? I mean it's kind of like your their back up plan. And even if you do get back together that will always be on your conscience just a thought. And who's to say they won't leave again if things aren't ideal?
C. Stewart I totally feel what you’re saying👍🏽
I totally agree
It’s kind of like they think they can have you whenever they want, because when we’re dealing with our separation anxiety we’re so readily available for them but as time goes on you outgrow that person and see things more clearly. You want to be treated like a PRIORITY not an OPTION
When a woman feels rejected or scorned, they tend to rebound rather than admitting to faults in relationships.
Most women do put tremendous amounts of effort into the relationship and most men are often clueless that the deep emotional problems exist as long as issues are brushed quickly on the table or arguments or quickly settled.
I know my relationship of three years blew up in one month another month later she was with another person this is been almost a year ago so I don't know the status of their relationship.
As you examine her past for relationships this is the pattern she exhibits one to the next one problems arise.
For three years we generally had a very good relationship as things become serious and we wanted to move in together I was addressing some of my concerns about her treatment of these past relationships and how would I be traded moving forward.
I grew a little distant and cold in this 30 day window amid only took her for granted and after three years she asked me one day where this relationship is going.
I didn't have the answers that she was looking for and bar now understanding she had this other guy wound up Reggie to take my place within another 30 days
@@victorvondoom2386 Men do this too so dont blame it on women..I had this similar situation.He had ne replaced before he even discarded me bcuz he posted it on FB and tried to string me along while he was testing the waters with his new victim.
You want power back? Simple, go no contact and if they cannot get it, block them and move on and not give them a shoulder to cry on.
My ex was with rebound 3 months. Got dumped this week. As soon as rebound dumps my ex..for her ex.. my ex hit me up as soon as it happens. If my ex dumped her.. id feel better. But she dumped my ex. They both were rebounding. But..fact is..even if my ex came back. He came back cause he was dumped. The rebound said he was emotionally not there. An he was giving a werid vibe. It might all sound good. But he didn't dump her for me. He just got dumped. So the fact he came back. Made me feel like a doormat. I Told him that. Now I'm moving on forever.
I’d feel the same
Never take them back.. remember that they wanted the rebound to succeed, that’s why they entered into a relationship with them.
It's not like that sometimes they get into rebound to avoid after effect of breakup
What's worse than an ex with a rebound is an ex moved in with their rebound .
My ex was dumped by his rebound after a week 😭😭 and apparently she was dry texting him and cold just like he was to me when i reached out 2 weeks after our breakup. It’s been 7 weeks, he was talking to her for 2 weeks and with her for 1, and it ended about a week ago. I literally felt his energy switch back to me me around the time it happened. I’m laughing on the inside and the outside.
Coaches have the most kind faces. Id trust them with my life.
Dude my ex was literally dumped by her rebound yesterday. It lasted 2 weeks
Hahaha mine was 3 months and I suspect dumped 2 weeeks ago
my exes own lasted 10 months and she dipped on him he took off her initilals on his IG so quick looool
me too , but 2 weeks 4days lol
Mine was 1 month😂
This doesn't sound like love. Sounds like she is in love with the projection of her. It just sounds like classic addiction. She should move on and start working on her attachment trauma.
You’re absolutely right
Applebee’s Girl Lol I wonder if she knows she’s famous??!
Thx Coaches!! 👍
I would love to see a response video from this girl, just once lol
Never ever take an ex who rebounded back. They are emotionally immature and have not learnt from the breakup and will not in the future
Man coach Craig if knew someone that wanted to be a relationship coach I will tell them to watch this channel because you an coach Margaret are the best relationship coaches ever and that person I was talking about will get inspired
Woooow!!!?😱😱😱 I swear am going through everything you have discussed here..my ex boyfriend has been having issues with her and he's tryna seek comfort in me... like wow!!! You uploaded this video some time ago but i swear am I among those you've given hope😭😭😭 Thank you so much coaches💕💕
Relationships are a joke presently coach. Regardless I'm holding on to hope and much faith. She's out there😀
My ex and her rebound broke up this week after 2 months. I found out because she updated her Tinder profile and liked some suspicious posts on Instagram. We have been in constant contact lately, but she didn't told me about the break up. Actually, she's acting like she's still dating that girl, she doesn't know that I know the true. Why she didn't tell me??? We've been telling each other everything these days. Is it because she is afraid that I'm gonna hit on her if I know that she's single again?
To be honest, I thought I would have another chance with her if they broke up, but now my ex is looking for other girls. Is this a sign that we're really over? Do I still have any chance?
wow....same situation for me ... crazy .. i still question why i still love this women ...... she seems to have narc qualities..:[... but you cant help what the heart feels .... great vid as usual guys.. ive watched many during this extremely hard but growing time .... cheers guys look forward to learning more ..keep it groovy ..
She said "entitled to a little "evil delight" hah too cute! I love you guys
This is legendary i dated this chick for 3 months and she cheated on me and went to the other guy. Then today she got cheated on 😂
My ex block me on everything an want with a guy for 3months then it broke up and we where together for 6-7 months and i try to call her and a lady said she dose not what every thing to do we me . Help me
I'm soo glad she had the shift. Watched the latest video. I think we become addicted to an idea of love when a person dumps us especially if a third party is involved.
Do you happen to have "Margarets" to sell? Because I could have one home like 24 hours a day :) Luv u guys!
I didn’t expect it at all . I never thought he would ever do this to me. I found out by mistake & got a nasty text from my ex blaming me for telling everyone when it was his loud mouths sister who did it. Him and his sisters are bad mouthing
This was a interesting video, I’m not sure if my ex left me for someone else , though he told me back in feb( first time we actually spoke ) he isn’t in a relationship. My question is why would you want to be with someone who dumped you for someone else ? I’d would feel like If I wasn’t good enough the first time , I’m certainly not the second time ! It’s been 5 months since my ex broke up with me and we still not back together . I recommend anyone to watch your guys who need advise , this is very soothing . What reason could he still not wanting to reconcile if he telling family members he still loves and misses me ?
So what happened with that relationship? Did you guys ever got together?
I agree, my ex rebound has dumped her and she was under the illusion I'd take her back in a heart beat. I told her id never take her back and her face dropped. I'm still living with my ex because we are in lockdown and I must say I've very much enjoyed watching her life fall apart. Karmas a bitch ain't it 😂
Ex had a rebound that wanted bf/gf but she only wanted to be fwb. Ex block me bc i wanted to heal. Notice ex stop like rebound pics. Then notice rebound posting a new girl and his feelings. I know ex is in feelings even though rebound short term and not step dad quality
Who else paused the video to Google Beaky Buzzard? 😆
I don't think she'll leave him 😢
Day 5 of No contact and my heart is completely shattered 💔
thank you beautiful Lady Margeret !
My ex is talking terrible about me. After 9 years & a ridiculous argument, he was in a new relationship in 4 weeks. I’m long distance and so was rebound . It lasted 6 months and it’s over. He set me a nasty text blaming me . He’s talking shit about me on fb & so is his sister who he turned against me. Try have me blocked. Even though it’s over with the rebound he didn’t try to reach out to me. ‘This after he begged me to take him back. It’s like Jekyll & Hyde.
Typos
In the lesbian world it’s an everyday thing that the ex reaches out (if they do) in a very direct approach trust me😊 (you said it’s not usual that they reach out by saying “I miss you”)
I hope he does get dumped . He was very deceiving. Talked about how he raised his sons because his wife cheated on him numerous time. And then he turns and does the same thing to me. I love him with all my heart and why? I will fucking never put my heart out there again. I would love to hear the ex wife side of the story!
You are both too funny 😂 guys ! Love ❤️ all all the clips .. thanks for sharing
We were together for 1 year and 3 months, she moved to my city for living together because it was what she wanted and after 1 month and a half she started being avoidant. I started being needy and feeling something was going wrong, but she said not. Finally we broke up and now, after 2 months of no contact I been noticed by friends that she started to like a coworker from her job a lot while living with me and after the break she tried something with him but he refused! (I think he had gf) Friends told me she was sad for this (I suppose more sad for this reffusal than for our relationship...) And now she is living in a coworker house going party every weekend, started smoking weed, drinking during the week.. She is not the person i used to love anymore. (She haven’t contacted me for confort or anything..)
You dodged a bullet my buddy! What happend?
This is horrible......she is a user and is using this girl; it’s truly sad!!!!!!!!
Hi Coach Craig, thank you for this video!! I thought I would never find this video for my situation. Although my ex is still chasing the girl who dumped him, because the girl already has a boyfriend.. My friend told me he used her to forget about me, and the girl used him to escape her boyfriend being an ass for a while. It’s been 3 weeks since he got dumped, and he still talks to her on his second account. The girl is popular and can play the guitar plus sing, she seems more ideal than me to him.. Even though I’m great at other things..Please help me Coach or anyone, thank you!
Just sign up for a coaching :)
While I wanted to get back together with my ex in February, I got dumped by him as he was starting a rebound relationship with another girl. He got dumbed by his rebound in April. He started dating again and now he is in a new relationship since the beggining of July. Is it possible to jump from a rebound relationship to another one?
Yes
What does it mean if he took her intial off his insta but follows her?
I need help with my situation as I am going through a bad break up.
Just sign up for a coaching on my website
When is it a rebound after a 4 years on and off relationship...2 months after you broke up with your ex or 6 months after?
I have this same question
Within the first 6 months.
What do you do if your ex broke up with their rebound but they still haven't come bak to you and have said they don't want to get back together?
OVO416 simple . Live ur life . Why are u still waiting ??? Cmon . Have some dignity .
OVO416 In the same situation here. Any updates ? Did you get her back ?
Update?
Update? Please!
@@Louceee she came back, didn’t work out the way we wanted it to again, eventually moved on, (was very hard) and found new partners each, I just recently broke up with my second partner since then. It got better and I didn’t really rmemeber her after a while but it took a long time to get to that stage
I'm in this exact situation with my ex fiance /gf.
Bloody Applebees girl! Lol
OH. MAAYH. GOSH. Y'all are the best!!! I love Margaret so much!!! Craig, you aren't too shabby either, my friend. Just kidding, Coach Craig!!! You are phenomenal!!! Both y'all are delightful and so brilliant!!! I have been a fan for several months now. After Craig announced the title of this video:
Margaret:
"A-ha. It could make me chuckle ... secretly & silently ... TEE-HEE."
😊😂😛😄😁😂
ROFLMFAO.
God bless y'all. Please keep up the amazingly wonderful videos!!!
just looked up beaky buzzard lol
I've been meaning to do the same!😂
OMG I just did. Laughed so hard, I'm in tears!😂
He he heh hahaha!
my ex ignored me and blocked me for a month and she got into a rebound relationship after 1 month no contact but then she unblocked me and messaged me with an indirect approach after 30days she said ‘you stay posting about me on social media’ and i ignored her, so she sent 2 more to get me to reply, i only posted a funny ‘meme’ not really related to her, was this her using this as an excuse to message me? this was a week ago, how long untill she contacts me again? is shes even going to contact me again or shall i reach out? i dont feel i should message her but im getting inpatient for her to reach outt again?
So happy
What if my ex fiance got married to his rebound. Ok he proposed to me on 12-25-17 left me in march for is rebound in march got married to her in June 2018. We have 2 kids together when i see him he flirts with me even has told me to sleep with him. Why i know his not happy
mel supermom if he is a narcissistic person , u are better off without him .
@@walterestrada9523 i dont know if he is one.
mel supermom do ur research learn about personality disorder , specially NPD. These kind of people are dangerous. They would ruin ur life if u let them.
@@walterestrada9523 thank you i will. Wow so he used me for 11 yrs but i was a house wife. He was the one wrking at the end.
mel supermom good luck . Keep ur head up . U are not alone trust me . He lost a queen . I’m sorry u are going though this . I have been in similar situations. The most important person in this relationship is “u” . Don’t let no one disrespect u and treat like this . Self love is everything . Do no contact for as long as u can till u fully heal. If u have any kids make sure u take care of them and let them be ur happiness ,ur engine to continue in life .
Oh geez. This is the best video ever. But this happened to Me. But it's my husband of 13 yrs. He has a girl. Well he did... He has me blocked and we are going through our 3rd divorce. 2 we never finalized. Now in our 3rd divorce he fell inlove with a girl of 2 months. Well she dumped him. But when they were together. He was RUTHLESSSSS to me. And even gave up custody of our son so he can be with her and us not in his life. Now she dumped him cause she saw huge red flags. ... So what now. When does he realize he shouldn't of gave up on his son. Me. I don't care. But now our son has no dad. And.. My ex. Is miserable and alone. How long does the man I messed up.. Kick in... How long till missery overwhelms him? U guys are good about knowing his ex would leave him in 3 .. 4 months... Is there a time on loneliness and realizing he messed up? When she is gone for good?
Ces...any update? 🙂
😂😂