Too many generalizations based on what you think. Just cause you dont feel your partner is perfect doesnt mean you will cheat on them... No one is perfect and the work to be done is to focus on the good sides of our spouse and learn to deal with the parts that we dont love. If there is room to adapt and become more compatible over time thats great but if someone is messy, its very difficult for that person to ever be super neathy... And me whising she would be more organized its not at all a hint incoming of infidelity. This is one of the most dramatic and craziest statements about this topic Ive heard so far.
it really isn’t when you think about it, though. We do that not just with our spouses, but with everything in life, as soon as we start comparing what we have to what others have we tend to become unhappy. It’s not to say everyone that feels that is going to start an affair but people who choose to look at their spouses in a positive lights are much much less likely to start an affair.
But why does that happen? Maybe the wife is demeaning and emasculating? Statistically speaking, women more often drive the “unhappiness” metric. Men just get caught up in the vibe of that negative energy. Good men do t leave or quit my friend.
Too many generalizations based on what you think. Just cause you dont feel your partner is perfect doesnt mean you will cheat on them... No one is perfect and the work to be done is to focus on the good sides of our spouse and learn to deal with the parts that we dont love. If there is room to adapt and become more compatible over time thats great but if someone is messy, its very difficult for that person to ever be super neathy... And me whising she would be more organized its not at all a hint incoming of infidelity. This is one of the most dramatic and craziest statements about this topic Ive heard so far.
it really isn’t when you think about it, though. We do that not just with our spouses, but with everything in life, as soon as we start comparing what we have to what others have we tend to become unhappy. It’s not to say everyone that feels that is going to start an affair but people who choose to look at their spouses in a positive lights are much much less likely to start an affair.
But why does that happen? Maybe the wife is demeaning and emasculating?
Statistically speaking, women more often drive the “unhappiness” metric. Men just get caught up in the vibe of that negative energy.
Good men do t leave or quit my friend.