I am on the other of this as i used to be the person who would always stay quiet and leave things be. I had to learn from Holy Spirit how to use my voice. And now the battle for me is when do i choose to stay silent or speak up. And so i remain a work in progress in this.
I loosen self-control over myself, my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquintances, opponents and the body of Christ, while loosening myself of every unequal yoke and common share with those who lack self-control, in accordance with this word and proverbs 25:28, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!
Praying for my family, my 10 year old daughter and I are divided . Shes being manipulated against me , I have been battling a court case for two years now I was falsely accused of abusing my daughter had a fasle protective order out which was dropped in last August . My daughter’s father is in church supposed to be a minister and doing everything he can to hurt me . This man is keeping my child away from me she’s disrespectful towards me , basically don’t want to have anything to do with me, she won’t talk to me . I’m paying my support, doing all I can do; I pray that God turn this situation around and restore me back with my ten year old daughter. I miss her so much it hurts my heart to No that I don’t have rights to my child because someone else is trying to replace me . I been through a lot and I’m tired my heart is heavy so is my mind . Please keep me in prayer 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Self control is not an excuse for passivity when there is injustice, it is the wisdom in responding in a Christlike way. What I find in many Christian friends of mine is passivity and conflict avoidance even when they are involved in the problem. I try to explain to them that we need to speak up about injustice, but they don't like that I say this because they are scared of speaking up and rather people-please.
Very true but sometimes people don't know how to confront others in grace or speak out at all so they will need the help of the Holy Spirit to help them along but I agree with you. I've been the one who chose not to say anything because it wouldn't be wise (IT WOULD GET LIT QUICK) but God has been helping me to confront others with grace... Wisdom is also knowing which battles to fight.... and when.... sometimes we are not called to battle anything...
😊 God has been really dealing with me on this subject. I am a willing participant in the Fathers hands. Thank you Lord for your goodness. Great episode.
Our Father is always on time with a word and I'm so grateful. I definitely struggle in this area. But I see the growth aswell. I'm even leaning how to capture negative thoughts and feelings and bringing them before the Lord. This video has given some much hope. I ask for prayer in the area of letting go and letting God lead me. Blessings to you all and I love you all 💝💌🙏🏾
One day I was praying for more self control over a situation, and I went to bible study and was very upset, the woman prayed over me, "God, help Lisa let go of control." wow, He spoke to me, I needed to let go of it noy try to exert more of it. PTSD is a difficult diagnosis, please pray for my healing. That situation has changed now, but it was a very emotionally charged and difficult situation, I wish I could be more powerful in my self, and I was praying CONTANTLY!!!! I could feel the Lord had failed me, but no, I need to trust Him. I need God to manage this malady for me. I have to trust God- that through those emotions He is still sovereign.
Hi Beth I totally respect your opinion and the help and direction of the Lord in helping you deal with that matter of finding yourself in a conversation that was not your business and battle. But as children of the Most High God, we have been gifted with His wisdom to preach the gospel, show people the love and truths of God and just use His word and truth to enlighten others. However, I think sometimes just keeping quite as a child of God makes us miss opportunities of helping to make a change, by shining the light in the spaces we find ourselves in. For example lets take injustices that are happening daily in our world, not many churches or preachers sometimes know how to address these, and keeping quite and not addressing issues like injustices in church at the time when there is something going on at that time does as much harm to the flock that is affected by such issues, because you are not showing up for them and helping them to understand and navigate everything through God's word. Keeping quite also harms the ones involved in instigating those difficult conversations because we rob them of the opportunity to look at things in a different way.
This is the comment I was looking for. Self control is not an excuse for passivity when there is injustice, it is the wisdom in responding in a Christlike way. What I find in many Christian friends of mine is passivity and conflict avoidance even when they are involved in the problem. I try to explain to them that we need to speak up about injustice, but they don't like that I say this because they are scared of speaking up and rather people-please.
I've called on the lord many times in my life. He straightened and strengthened me in the process. There's a time and place for everything. I have made progess but I still have some work to do especially in self control and God himself with be there the entire way, there are some things we just can't do on our own.
This is one of the best teachings I heard on self control. Thank you for sharing and creating this platform to help all God's children to be set free. Many blessings and again thank you
Loved this! 🙏. Much wisdom and sharing! “Is this your business or battle”, walk with the wise and stay in your lane. The wise tongue heals, not hurts. ❤️
People like broken glass when they start cracking there's no way you can fix it no matter how hard you try people are going to do what they want to do in the only people that get exhausted worn out by the people trying to help these broken people the only person you can fix his yourself and God needs to be part of that plan
Thank you so much, this conversation is so timely related to what am going thru, been struggling with my husband's behaviour to the core but now am discovering this is what God has been teaching and training me about. Spirit led me here just b4 I started watching I was so down because am from giving my husband a harsh lesson. I kept asking God why this kept repeating itself but now am relieved bcz I know why. God bless you all abundantly. love you'all.
This was timely, thank you ladies for your wisdom and candor. It's a struggle utilizing the fruits of the spirit in a toxic workplace. Sometimes I feel like I'm going to explode but I pray instead. 😔🛐
This was really great! Great Words of wisdom and teaching about self-control and the way it can have such a positive impact on our lives when we use it and ask God for it!
I'm tired and worn out. Being a Godly person has only gotten me runned over left and right. I'm emotionally physically and mentally depleted by crude ppl and those that I thought were so-called friends. I set boundaries and I still get attacked. Enough has been enough
If a fellow worker constantly bully U n treats U like thrash n for weeks even one showed kindness to her.... I would like to see U keeping silent n calm, especially I am grieving badly as well. As for me I quit my job.. can't stand a person with no education bully me n irriationally sobotaging my work...
It might be in your case that you were being abused, verbally. I don't think they were talking about that. I'm so sorry that you went through that. You never should have to put up with that. You could have documented what was being said along with anyone that heard it and went to human resourses, but that is overwith. I hope, but if you think about it and it still hurts, ask the Holy Spirit to heal your soul. Also, ask the Holy Spirit if you believe a lie attached to the memory, ask the Holy Spirit to replace it with a scripture. Declare that scripture until you believe it.
Wow this was such an awesome talk and teaching for me to talk, walk, and live in self control. Thank You G-D for giving this blessing of a lesson to this stage for us to learn to be more like You.
Yes n no...... Yes depends... Most of the time we walk away... Especially in shopping centre n among relatives n friendly... Sighhhhhhhh.... Is easy said then done. I am not a pastor.. some pastor yelled at congregations n play Politics.. seen It all!!! Seriously..... Talk is so easy I think..... We all tried our best... Most of the time we do the right things!!!
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I am on the other of this as i used to be the person who would always stay quiet and leave things be. I had to learn from Holy Spirit how to use my voice. And now the battle for me is when do i choose to stay silent or speak up. And so i remain a work in progress in this.
Me as well Livy Davis...
Prudence - the ability to sleep on it. Wow! Such wisdom. Lord, help me to become the kind of person who sleeps on it before I deal with it.
I loosen self-control over myself, my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquintances, opponents and the body of Christ, while loosening myself of every unequal yoke and common share with those who lack self-control, in accordance with this word and proverbs 25:28, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!
True self control can only come through knowledge of calvary Jesus did it all for us.
Praying for my family, my 10 year old daughter and I are divided . Shes being manipulated against me , I have been battling a court case for two years now I was falsely accused of abusing my daughter had a fasle protective order out which was dropped in last August . My daughter’s father is in church supposed to be a minister and doing everything he can to hurt me . This man is keeping my child away from me she’s disrespectful towards me , basically don’t want to have anything to do with me, she won’t talk to me . I’m paying my support, doing all I can do; I pray that God turn this situation around and restore me back with my ten year old daughter. I miss her so much it hurts my heart to No that I don’t have rights to my child because someone else is trying to replace me . I been through a lot and I’m tired my heart is heavy so is my mind . Please keep me in prayer 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Pray ! Pray ! Pray 🙏
Praying for you. Praying that God will arise and the enemies be scattered
@@the.victorgeorge thank You 🙌🏽
Self control is not an excuse for passivity when there is injustice, it is the wisdom in responding in a Christlike way. What I find in many Christian friends of mine is passivity and conflict avoidance even when they are involved in the problem. I try to explain to them that we need to speak up about injustice, but they don't like that I say this because they are scared of speaking up and rather people-please.
Very true but sometimes people don't know how to confront others in grace or speak out at all so they will need the help of the Holy Spirit to help them along but I agree with you. I've been the one who chose not to say anything because it wouldn't be wise (IT WOULD GET LIT QUICK) but God has been helping me to confront others with grace... Wisdom is also knowing which battles to fight.... and when.... sometimes we are not called to battle anything...
😊 God has been really dealing with me on this subject. I am a willing participant in the Fathers hands. Thank you Lord for your goodness. Great episode.
Thank you this was so jam packed with godly advice for me. I really needed this today. I got so much out of it. Thank you God bless us. 🤗❤✝️
AMEN AGREED GOD BLESS THEIR SWEET HONEST HEARTS! GOD BLESS EVERYONE OF YOU ONLINE WATCHING READING AND AROUND THE WORLD! 🙏
Maturity is realizing that not everything needs "your" comment
Our Father is always on time with a word and I'm so grateful. I definitely struggle in this area. But I see the growth aswell. I'm even leaning how to capture negative thoughts and feelings and bringing them before the Lord. This video has given some much hope. I ask for prayer in the area of letting go and letting God lead me. Blessings to you all and I love you all 💝💌🙏🏾
One day I was praying for more self control over a situation, and I went to bible study and was very upset, the woman prayed over me, "God, help Lisa let go of control." wow, He spoke to me, I needed to let go of it noy try to exert more of it. PTSD is a difficult diagnosis, please pray for my healing. That situation has changed now, but it was a very emotionally charged and difficult situation, I wish I could be more powerful in my self, and I was praying CONTANTLY!!!! I could feel the Lord had failed me, but no, I need to trust Him. I need God to manage this malady for me. I have to trust God- that through those emotions He is still sovereign.
Hi Beth I totally respect your opinion and the help and direction of the Lord in helping you deal with that matter of finding yourself in a conversation that was not your business and battle. But as children of the Most High God, we have been gifted with His wisdom to preach the gospel, show people the love and truths of God and just use His word and truth to enlighten others. However, I think sometimes just keeping quite as a child of God makes us miss opportunities of helping to make a change, by shining the light in the spaces we find ourselves in.
For example lets take injustices that are happening daily in our world, not many churches or preachers sometimes know how to address these, and keeping quite and not addressing issues like injustices in church at the time when there is something going on at that time does as much harm to the flock that is affected by such issues, because you are not showing up for them and helping them to understand and navigate everything through God's word. Keeping quite also harms the ones involved in instigating those difficult conversations because we rob them of the opportunity to look at things in a different way.
This is the comment I was looking for. Self control is not an excuse for passivity when there is injustice, it is the wisdom in responding in a Christlike way. What I find in many Christian friends of mine is passivity and conflict avoidance even when they are involved in the problem. I try to explain to them that we need to speak up about injustice, but they don't like that I say this because they are scared of speaking up and rather people-please.
I've called on the lord many times in my life. He straightened and strengthened me in the process. There's a time and place for everything. I have made progess but I still have some work to do especially in self control and God himself with be there the entire way, there are some things we just can't do on our own.
I am grateful to have found this channel. Thank you for doing the Lords work. ❤️
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This is one of the best teachings I heard on self control. Thank you for sharing and creating this platform to help all God's children to be set free. Many blessings and again thank you
Very insightful and worth putting into practice. Thank you all for your words. ❤
When I'm in dispare, I pause, and don't talk. I start to pray 🙏.
After that I use to say, silence also "talks"!
I just love this and needed to hear this. Have a hard time with self control and have to call on the Lord alot to help me!
Loved this! 🙏. Much wisdom and sharing! “Is this your business or battle”, walk with the wise and stay in your lane. The wise tongue heals, not hurts. ❤️
Love your response. Short and to the point.
Amen Sisters womans of God 💯📖 Truth 🕊️✝️
Thank you ladies I needed to hear this great reminders God is Beautiful 🙏🏻💜💜💜💜💜🙏🏻
People like broken glass when they start cracking there's no way you can fix it no matter how hard you try people are going to do what they want to do in the only people that get exhausted worn out by the people trying to help these broken people the only person you can fix his yourself and God needs to be part of that plan
Thank you so much, this conversation is so timely related to what am going thru, been struggling with my husband's behaviour to the core but now am discovering this is what God has been teaching and training me about. Spirit led me here just b4 I started watching I was so down because am from giving my husband a harsh lesson. I kept asking God why this kept repeating itself but now am relieved bcz I know why. God bless you all abundantly. love you'all.
This is so powerful. God bless you. Thank You. Jesus is Good ❤
I’m beyond to thanks everyone we so amazing and incredibly for we done for life
I needed this today!! God led me here.
This was timely, thank you ladies for your wisdom and candor. It's a struggle utilizing the fruits of the spirit in a toxic workplace. Sometimes I feel like I'm going to explode but I pray instead. 😔🛐
This was really great! Great Words of wisdom and teaching about self-control and the way it can have such a positive impact on our lives when we use it and ask God for it!
Such a good conversation ladies! So much wisdom straight from the Word 📖
Amen Hallelujah Amen 💯📖 Truth 🕊️✝️ Always
Praise Love Thank Obey God IJN
I'm tired and worn out. Being a Godly person has only gotten me runned over left and right. I'm emotionally physically and mentally depleted by crude ppl and those that I thought were so-called friends. I set boundaries and I still get attacked. Enough has been enough
Stand still and see the salvation of the Lord🙏🏿 Don't let them change you
Whoa, same story for me. I pray you get healing and freedom from this distress in Jesus name
@@thequeenmidas Thank you! For 30 years plus I've been seeking deliverance. Any suggestions when one NEEDS mutual support for BALANCE in life too???
@@nonyndefo thank you for your kindly reply. Yes I keep speaking complete Freedom, Healing and Surrender in Jesus name...for You and I😇💕
I feel you my sis.
Amen!!! Thank you ladies, for sharing so much of your spiritual wisdom!
It's so important to have self-control but it's not the easiest thing and for me it doesn't come naturally....much prayer needed in this area.
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Instinctively True, Amen ❤️ 🙏
I love this conversation it's edifying ,...
This has been so freeing; I have a burden lifted off me.
Such a wise panel of Godly women! Thank you for your wonderful insights….put so succinctly….clearly and with love!❤️
The bubble analogy really hit me. God bless you all.
Victoria’s advice is gold 👌🏾. That’s my new strategy.
This is what I need to hear right now! Thank You! God Bless! _
So good!
If a fellow worker constantly bully U n treats U like thrash n for weeks even one showed kindness to her.... I would like to see U keeping silent n calm, especially I am grieving badly as well. As for me I quit my job.. can't stand a person with no education bully me n irriationally sobotaging my work...
It might be in your case that you were being abused, verbally. I don't think they were talking about that.
I'm so sorry that you went through that. You never should have to put up with that. You could have documented what was being said along with anyone that heard it and went to human resourses, but that is overwith. I hope, but if you think about it and it still hurts, ask the Holy Spirit to heal your soul. Also, ask the Holy Spirit if you believe a lie attached to the memory, ask the Holy Spirit to replace it with a scripture. Declare that scripture until you believe it.
THIS. A life-saver!!!
So much Wisdom!!
Oh I so needed this. 😍
Thank you beautiful ladies, awesome message.😊🤗💕💕💕👏
I needed to hear this! Thank you ladies! 💙
Loved the wisdom!!!
Hello. Thanks for the upload/ word. It's timely. God bless you
Thank you "it's not who you are" 😥😥😥😥😥😥it is me God is speaking to...God help me
Love you Victoria 😍 💗
Well said
So funny to hear our NI accent 💕
Wow this was such an awesome talk and teaching for me to talk, walk, and live in self control. Thank You G-D for giving this blessing of a lesson to this stage for us to learn to be more like You.
Amen.
This video spoke to my heart. Thank you!💕
It's a struggle for me to control myself😥
Wooow amazing
This’s so good!
Needed this! Thank you🙏🏽
Love this discussion! 🙏🏽🙌🏽❤️
yes
Good! Good! Good. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽😉💛
AMEN 😇
Amen 🙏
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Yes n no...... Yes depends... Most of the time we walk away... Especially in shopping centre n among relatives n friendly... Sighhhhhhhh.... Is easy said then done. I am not a pastor.. some pastor yelled at congregations n play Politics.. seen It all!!! Seriously..... Talk is so easy I think..... We all tried our best... Most of the time we do the right things!!!
yes write a letter instead of talking
right just listen don't respond
beautiful are these comments making youtube beautician internet jobs and clever, just you all try and relax...
More of Jesus.. 😇 Less of Me.. 😊
yes
This is so good!