I have ancestor who did something similar. His wife had a baby outside marriage (this was the 1700s) and he married her after the baby was born. They made it work and had 5 other kids together. He sadly died 12 years after they got married from exhaustion.
My grandmother (father’s mother) died 1933, we use to say exhaustion. My father was 3, and she had a still born girl one year earlier. She apparently never recovered from the birth, leaving her widowed husband, who never remarried and 3 boys. On my other side, my great grandfather drowned while barging a log boom (drowning), leaving a widow and 9 children in a 3 room shack. The widow did not speak the language. People just do not know how lucky they are and the efforts of those that went before, the shoulders upon who they stand.
@@PeturMagdepends on who you are on the social ladder. No upper or middle class man would have died due to exhaustion unless he was a workaholic. Most women were absolute slaves to housework and childbirth unless they could hire people to help. Couples of lower income both often died of exhaustion. We don't live in a black and white world and to act as though we do is either disingenuous or ignorant.
Real love is wanting what's best for the other. Ray loved her like that because he's a truly good and decent man. And then he was blessed to fall in love with her as well. And then, after she realized how she had made the earlier bad choice to be with the flyboy who she barely knew, she forgave herself and accepted Ray's love and fell in love with him too. Beautiful love story. No manipulation, no selfishness, no impatience or overthinking. Over time and with both behaving decently towards the other, problems worked themselves out.
I don't think she's actually over Edward. She kept pining for him, sending all those letters. If he ever changed his mind and returned, she'll ditch Ray in a heartbeat.
It maybe she wasn’t the kind of person to fall in love, become pregnant, and forget all about it the moment another man showed up. I really don’t understand why people think a decent person would do that.
Being married to him would be no hardship. He’s hot as hell and treats her so well we should all be so lucky to have dads force us to be with guys like that lol 😂
Actually, the father did force her. Has his comments at the beginning of the movie from the reflection in the window about she made the choice now she has to live with the consequences. And how can I be spot on for a man to abandon his wife and ignore his daughter because his wife is dying. That borders on cruelty. It was Ray, who was spot on when he said that their relationship would work because one day she would forgive herself for what she has done. The final piece of the puzzle was when she saw her friend the young Asian girl, getting ready to make a terrible mistake like she had when she was trying to aid the German escaped prisoner, that she knew she had to help her to protect her so she wouldn’t ruin the rest of her life. Ray misunderstands when she says, she ruined her life that it wasn’t meant to be an insult against him when she was crying for her mother but instead, it was all her plans, and all of her education is now going to be lost, but it may not be the worst thing in the world.
Yep, she spent all her value in one night, worse she cannot even cook. She is still in love with her chad ex. Lucky for her simps still exist, even back then because this woman is about as low value as it gets for a man.
I'm just astonished that they made a movie that had Japanese American Internees as additional characters (usually any film focuses on the internment itself). That was a surprising and delightful detail. It's a piece of history that sadly rarely gets any stories.
My grandfather had a 100 year old two man saw in the rafters of his garage that needed a new handle. I don't know how long it's been a hundred years old . Just that grandfather was born in 1905 and the house was built in the 1840s. And to be honest I think it's been a hundred years old since my father was a child in the 50s. So me might be able to call it the two hundred year old two man saw for all I know. And I pretty sure my family might have owned a small glass jar of paint that has mercury in it. No one opened that jar of paint because no one wanted to get poisoned. It still sits on a shelf.
In the movie, she's gorgeous, he's handsome, it could have been so much worse. He has a nice, clean house, good manners. She's not actually forced & neither is he. They both, could have made different choices.
@@livingstone-o2x Most likely, Livvie was just a sexual fling & Edward moved on mentally, emotionally as he had gone to fight in the war. He had no investment, no attachment, no feeling for Livvy, so, he even questioned whether he was the father of their baby. Most likely even on the very small chance that Edward did do the work to find Livvy & the child he donated the sperm, for, he probably would have his own family & take an "oh, well" attitude like so many guys do. It's the practice of sperm spreading that has made so much money for Planned Parenthood. Spawned, if you will, an entire profitable industry in DNA testing, finding out who peoples parents are, mostly, figuring out which guys sperm created them. There's your answer.
@@FreeSpirit47Edward was a flight instructor who didn’t fight in the war. Livy realizes she’s been duped, she feels guilty for being so stupid. Ray wanted a family- he didn’t get the short end of anything. He understood Livy’s situation and chooses compassion over condescension. He knew that eventually Livy would forgive herself and let her guard and allow herself to be loved and happy again.
@@christina678 Thank you, I didn't catch that Edward had been a flight instructor. Edward seemed to not care much about Livvy. Besides, at the point that Livvy did receive a letter from Edward, she was married. As an unwed woman, becoming pregnant was a shame & a scandal *at the time*. If Edward did come around, Livvy was already married. A divorce was even more ostracizing than an unwed pregnancy. It seems, by the end of the movie, they did love each other & Ray accepted the child as his own. Loving someone, being a family, having a happy life together is about more than being blood related.
This is a very good show. The conversation at Thanksgiving dinner let’s you know her father was a cold, heartless man who expected Livie to care for her dying mother, which she did. The father was a minister who didn’t want the embarrassment of a pregnant daughter. She grows to love Ray but doesn’t believe she deserves him. It all turns out good in the end. A movie we’ll worth watching.
I loved the movie. The first time I watched it, she seemed so arrogant and deceptive, contacting the baby's father behind her husband's back, I disliked her. But the second time, I noted how she was from a higher 'class' than a farmer, and her sister was even more arrogant and an awful influence, yet her husband was so sound and grounded, it was HIS sister whom I really admired. Very tender extended family on his part and there's an exact moment when she realizes how patient they have been with her. She gains genuine humility to embrace the chance she has been given, keeping her child and having a loving marriage.
A farmer with self-esteem issues takes a damaged woman with another mans seed in her growing because he no other option that is better. Joseph needed a visit from god in his dreams. What possessed this guy to saddle up a bitter angry broad to his back?
Everyone gives Livvy so much crap, but she was compelled to marry Ray. Hey, at the end, she got over Edward & had started to love Ray. Love is mostly forgiveness
If it is forgiveness than single mother or divorce mothers should not ask for child support or money.its forgiveness after all.ray should have let her see her place in society as an unwed mother.
It's a beautiful movie. Loved every bit of it. The pace of the story, the slow but sure progression of Livy and Ray's relationship. I think she needed that closure from Edward to finally accept Ray with all her heart. Ray is such an amazing guy and the sweetest father ❤❤❤
Walk away men if this happens in real life she didnt like ray, she settled for him since the other dude didnt want to take responsibility, dont go for women who are just settling for you, you will mostly be unhappy in that relationship
I agree marriage should be love not for someone settling for someone, but we also have to remember to that it was different back in those days, women can have children out of wedlock in most countries and no body thinks any of it , and we also have to remember that in some countries and some cultures that is thier customs to have the parents choose who they marry , and so they don't bring shame to their families they agree to get married i forget exactly what Indian tribe it is but the chief daughter makes his daughter Marry the best indian warrior in the tribe, and it used to be the Jewish tradition that a match maker would go the girls father house and say this man wants your daughters hand in marriage and both men would meet and talk if the father agreed to the marriage then they would shake hands and have a toast and his daughter couldn't reject to it because it was tradition some times the girl would be 16 and the guy would be 60 ,I couldn't imagine it that is horrible, but it happened, and some gypsy cultures ,they had a match maker,or the father chose thier daughters husbands , and back in the day Father's would choose thier daughter to marry the king no matter how wicked he was, and in some cultures women had to marry thier own cousins,our history is very dark ,im glad men got a say in the most part,it was mostly young women who were forced into marriages and I don't think most of them were happy
@@LilliLamour I don't know if that comment was for me or not but if it was for me I was explaining that back then it was looked down apon for a woman to be pregnant out of wedlock it's not like that any more in most countries now and I was explaining how some cultures the father's chose his daughter husbands ,I'm glad that some of those traditions are not around any more for the girls sake I wouldn't want to get married to a 60 year old man at the age of 16 ,I didn't even want to leave home at that age I loved being home with my family, I am sure that those father's thought they were doing what was best for their daughters making sure that they would be provided for, but I am sure some of those cried and pleading with thier father's please don't make me marry him father,when I think about it that way it makes me feel bad for them,I'm not insecure I just try to put my self in thier shoes ,I don't want a match maker trying to hook me up with a old man
@@LilliLamour who hurt you girl? Where in my comment am I praising the ex? The ex and the girl can go hell, I am just talking about Ray here who is the only good dude in this story, who I find in a similar position to many good men in real life getting with a woman that doesnt want them, hope you are not doing what this girl did (settling with a good guy while still wanting your ex), and if you are asking why I am not speaking on the trash that left this girl hanging, you can not expect a comment to speak on every trash person when there are so many, the man who made this girl pregnant is trash, this girl who had an affair with a married man and continued to send him letters (even when she is aware he is married and she herself is married to a man who loves her) is trash too
@@jenniferfloyd9179 you are talking about a completely different social issue and situations miss, in this movie the man knows that the girl is pregnant, girl knows that she loves her ex and he wont accept her, she has an option to walk out earlier(definitely not oppressed here), but continues to two time ray while sending "please take me back" letters to ex, kind of shitty for ray dont you think?, my original comment is only about similar situation in real life, what you are talking about being forced in a marriage is a different social evil that is not involved in the context of my original comment
Rey is a good man. The type of husband men should strive to be. He deserves and earns a good loyal wife who loves him. (Better than this woman who still wanted to leave him for the man who denied his son).
@@brandy4530she should have closed her legs instead. Maybe her dad should have let her be with the man who impregnated her, that would've been a great story.
@@mightyobserver12 I did watch the movie and I'm female. He did deserve better. Through most of the movie she was insufferable. And he had to work so hard to gain her approval. He wasn't the guy that got her preggers and left her. So he takes care of her and another man's baby. That other man got to continue his lineage . I hoped at the they would of showed her pregnant with his child as well.
@@annawilliams2336 I hear you. But maybe try to understand where she was coming from. Yes, Rey had nothing to do with what happened to her. But she was forced into this situation. She was terrified and still hung up on the a** who ran off on her. Rey deserved better. But so did she. It's called character development. She got better. Rey is a fictional man. You'd be hard pressed to find a real man who is as kind as him. I've personally never met one. He comes across like a Mary Sue - to a point. Don't @ me about that last comment. It's just an observation.
@@mischaroweI surely have! I once told a dude to not go for the single mother he was seeing! He didn't listen to me and went on. They were good at first but then she cheated on him with her ex(Baby-daddy) 🙂. Even if women find a man like Rei they won't appreciate him in real life
Well its the way before, My grandmother said she barely knew my grandfather when they got married and love just happened along the way,but for me thats weird My Aunt also said when she was growing up single men in their commiunity just disappears for a week and reappears with a bride, apparently its a practice all over the world when you get to certain age your parents will find a spouse for you.
The movie had a happy ending, but the book was realistic, and just made you feel "Ugh!" at the end. Another rare "movie was better than the book" situation.
@ErenDenizMert It's been a little over 20 years, but if I remember correctly, the girls from the Japanese internment camp were actually arrested for treason, and the German boy shot while trying to escape. The farmer/husband was actually quite a bit older than the main character. She just became comfortable and complacent in the life she had. It seemed exciting, then fizzled out at the end. I just remember being very disappointed.
@@d_richter She wears make-up everyday in the movie, a farmer's wife plays dress-up and wearing make-up? Does she understand that she is supposed to do house keeping, cooking and farming?
@siewheilou399 No, she doesn't realize that. She's a city girl. It seemed as if it was always her intention to leave the farmer. But in the end, she does realize what it means to be a farmer's wife, which is why it is called "The Magic of Ordinary Days."
@@d_richter Well, the book just may be more realistic (and, accordingly, darker) than this artificial hallmark movie. It touches on some very dark matters, and a happy ending seems contrived.
There is an Irish 3 part series of this genre called Falling for a dancer, with Colin Farrell in one of his early roles and Liam Cunningham of Game of Thrones. It is based in Ireland in the 1940s or 1950s. It is beautiful, sad story and shows the shame at that time of pregnancy outside marriage. If you could find it I would highly recommend it.
Pregnancy out of wedlock is still shameful even to this day. It's just that some women are just so shameless or in such great denial that they think it's fine.
The father had no idea who she was marrying. He never gave her any love and then tried to get rid of her. He was a cruel man as many religious people are.
It's actually worse. I think the original plan was to divorce him so that the child doesn't grow up illegitimate. He's more of a rubber stamp or a fake certificate. Not even a second choice.
Shame that men like this only exist in fairytales. My ex fiancé informed me that he was not ready to be a father when I happily told him that I was pregnant back in 2010 😞 been single ever since and focused solely on my child
They do exist; plenty. But girls look for happiness with high-flying pilots and bad guys in enemy outfits, so to speak. This guy was rescuing her from social stigma and from poverty, and she still looked to that impregnator behind his back.
It's just a movie don't try to win over a pregnant lady by marrying her she will always doubt her life with you . This movie is either made by a simp or an opportunist women.
Kinda expected there to be a secret around the father, like another escaped war prisoner, but nope, just the good 'ol simp cleaning other people's mess
I have been stupid like Rey before... After 2 divorces and loosing half what you have you learn that be a kind and good man in this shitty society is not a good thing!!! 🙄
@@thingswhatilike He may not want her. But once he comes within her reach even by chance, THAT will be her ultimate test. She may relapse quite easily.
These are the type of movies that should be shown on the big screen. They are beautifully crafted and show folk how to treat each other with love and compassion and that given time , many wounds of the heart can heal but first we need the be show that we are loved and cherished as we are, not as society would demand of us.
@@SahilSharma-ug7xv I will have to disagree with you. The young man through his actions through their journey showed himself to be quietly strong and loving towards her as a person and a clearly a person who had clear views on how to treat folk and be treated by those around him. By your comment it may imply he was an emotional idiot who some how manipulated to marry her. In providing the young woman a quiet warm strength around her, gave her room to deal with her circumstances and make decisions that would be based on truth and understanding rather than judgement and demand as was demonstrated by her own family. Such quiet strength demonstrated by both men and women towards each other these days is challenging to find in a culture that thrives on self righteousness and judgement of others. He was by geographical isolation was experiencing trouble finding a single woman to court and marry and by marry the young woman he was able to meet this need and share he strengths both morally and emotionally with someone who needed such a person. She in return provided companionship and a woman's touch to the young man's life. Together they were able to grow together and form a loving bond of trust and love, creating a strong family unit to welcome the new born. In essence both the man and woman and the child was receiving something beneficial and desirable from the relationship although the manner in which it came about could be considered unorthodox
Looks similar to Gone with the Wind, except the ending. A woman pining for a man while there's already a man in front of her who actually loves her. Silly woman.
Just imagine, being an American with 'rights' and then one day, you're stripped of your property, your bank account, your land, your money and you're shipped off to an internment camp. And then having the young fighting age men DRAFTED into military service while imprisoned. (sure most of the Nisei fighters volunteered, but the USA was still drafting young men out of the camps to the front lines). Talk about insult upon injury.
Maybe, copyright risk. They even flipped it left to right - perhaps, for the same reason. See all the inscriptions and the steering wheels on the British side.
Ray was the ultimate simp. In the end they were happy, but the odds of this working out well are not good. Guys, don't marry a woman like this, it's a recipe for disaster.
@@Chels-fz5uq Did you see the movie? She wasn't forced to do anything. She used Ray to keep up a deception, and initially had no intention of behaving as his wife. She made a mockery of her marriage vows, and only later decided to really act as a wife.
She carrying Chad child she cannot rope him hence she clamp down on legend simp our man Ray for mental manupilation and giving him some lame action in the bed which cannot be compete with what she can do for Chad and tyrone
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I almost cried, thank you lady robot. Lovely story.
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@@khumomogami3020the magic of ordinary days is on the video first minute
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I have ancestor who did something similar. His wife had a baby outside marriage (this was the 1700s) and he married her after the baby was born. They made it work and had 5 other kids together. He sadly died 12 years after they got married from exhaustion.
Wait a minute... I thought men where just enjoying life and chilling out while women where slaving away?
@@PeturMag 😂 ig not anymore buddy..🤭🤣
My grandmother (father’s mother) died 1933, we use to say exhaustion. My father was 3, and she had a still born girl one year earlier. She apparently never recovered from the birth, leaving her widowed husband, who never remarried and 3 boys. On my other side, my great grandfather drowned while barging a log boom (drowning), leaving a widow and 9 children in a 3 room shack. The widow did not speak the language. People just do not know how lucky they are and the efforts of those that went before, the shoulders upon who they stand.
@@PeturMagdepends on who you are on the social ladder. No upper or middle class man would have died due to exhaustion unless he was a workaholic. Most women were absolute slaves to housework and childbirth unless they could hire people to help. Couples of lower income both often died of exhaustion.
We don't live in a black and white world and to act as though we do is either disingenuous or ignorant.
@@PeturMagmiddle class or rich definitely didn’t
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I couldn't believe my ears either! I rewinded to make sure and there it was: "ʌr ʧ ɛ lo ʤ ʌi"!!! Did she even go to school?
It was a sweet Hallmark story ❤😊. Ray turned out to be a blessing for her and her unborn child. Truly a sweet man
it is great RAY ends up taking care of someone else's kid....great for her
Real love is wanting what's best for the other. Ray loved her like that because he's a truly good and decent man. And then he was blessed to fall in love with her as well. And then, after she realized how she had made the earlier bad choice to be with the flyboy who she barely knew, she forgave herself and accepted Ray's love and fell in love with him too. Beautiful love story. No manipulation, no selfishness, no impatience or overthinking. Over time and with both behaving decently towards the other, problems worked themselves out.
I don't think she's actually over Edward. She kept pining for him, sending all those letters. If he ever changed his mind and returned, she'll ditch Ray in a heartbeat.
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That's the bitter reality that film conveniently chose to not talk about.
It maybe she wasn’t the kind of person to fall in love, become pregnant, and forget all about it the moment another man showed up. I really don’t understand why people think a decent person would do that.
Being married to him would be no hardship. He’s hot as hell and treats her so well we should all be so lucky to have dads force us to be with guys like that lol 😂
Yes, one arranged marriage I would not mind at all 😂
This is an incredibly heart-warming story.
This story is worse than watching a show where Judge said in case of 1 month old sasha, Mr. Rey you are not the father
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Her father didn't force her. He protected her. And it turns out, her father was spot on.
Actually, the father did force her. Has his comments at the beginning of the movie from the reflection in the window about she made the choice now she has to live with the consequences. And how can I be spot on for a man to abandon his wife and ignore his daughter because his wife is dying. That borders on cruelty. It was Ray, who was spot on when he said that their relationship would work because one day she would forgive herself for what she has done. The final piece of the puzzle was when she saw her friend the young Asian girl, getting ready to make a terrible mistake like she had when she was trying to aid the German escaped prisoner, that she knew she had to help her to protect her so she wouldn’t ruin the rest of her life. Ray misunderstands when she says, she ruined her life that it wasn’t meant to be an insult against him when she was crying for her mother but instead, it was all her plans, and all of her education is now going to be lost, but it may not be the worst thing in the world.
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Father didn't care what happened to her. Pure luck that her husband was a good man.
He still forced her she loved someone else.
Yep, she spent all her value in one night, worse she cannot even cook. She is still in love with her chad ex. Lucky for her simps still exist, even back then because this woman is about as low value as it gets for a man.
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@@ritujamitra718 Glad I could help, thanks for saying so.
Love this Hallmark movie. Would have loved a continuation focusing on the Japanese sisters finding their places in society.
I'm just astonished that they made a movie that had Japanese American Internees as additional characters (usually any film focuses on the internment itself). That was a surprising and delightful detail. It's a piece of history that sadly rarely gets any stories.
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What’s the name of this movie?
@@christiebetts-fi7qj The Magic of Ordinary Days
@@christiebetts-fi7qj ......it's written across the bottom of the video the whole time.
I love this. This is an absolute masterpiece.
It’s a blessing to be loved and cherished like that.
Really? A farmer 'throwing' things away? Never Happen. EVER.
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This movie is so full of cow pies They opened up a restaurant
I thought the same!! Farmers reuse and repurpose everything!
A farmer throwing things away?
I will believe that when he goes to a doctor without being dragged by his wife
My grandfather had a 100 year old two man saw in the rafters of his garage that needed a new handle. I don't know how long it's been a hundred years old
. Just that grandfather was born in 1905 and the house was built in the 1840s. And to be honest I think it's been a hundred years old since my father was a child in the 50s. So me might be able to call it the two hundred year old two man saw for all I know. And I pretty sure my family might have owned a small glass jar of paint that has mercury in it. No one opened that jar of paint because no one wanted to get poisoned. It still sits on a shelf.
In the movie, she's gorgeous, he's handsome, it could have been so much worse. He has a nice, clean house, good manners. She's not actually forced & neither is he. They both, could have made different choices.
I think Ray got the really short end of the stick tbh. On top of that, she'd abandon him in the future if Edward ever comes back.
@@livingstone-o2x Most likely, Livvie was just a sexual fling & Edward moved on mentally, emotionally as he had gone to fight in the war. He had no investment, no attachment, no feeling for Livvy, so, he even questioned whether he was the father of their baby.
Most likely even on the very small chance that Edward did do the work to find Livvy & the child he donated the sperm, for, he probably would have his own family & take an "oh, well" attitude like so many guys do.
It's the practice of sperm spreading that has made so much money for Planned Parenthood. Spawned, if you will, an entire profitable industry in DNA testing, finding out who peoples parents are, mostly, figuring out which guys sperm created them.
There's your answer.
@@FreeSpirit47Edward was a flight instructor who didn’t fight in the war. Livy realizes she’s been duped, she feels guilty for being so stupid. Ray wanted a family- he didn’t get the short end of anything. He understood Livy’s situation and chooses compassion over condescension. He knew that eventually Livy would forgive herself and let her guard and allow herself to be loved and happy again.
@@christina678 Thank you, I didn't catch that Edward had been a flight instructor. Edward seemed to not care much about Livvy. Besides, at the point that Livvy did receive a letter from Edward, she was married.
As an unwed woman, becoming pregnant was a shame & a scandal *at the time*. If Edward did come around, Livvy was already married. A divorce was even more ostracizing than an unwed pregnancy.
It seems, by the end of the movie, they did love each other & Ray accepted the child as his own. Loving someone, being a family, having a happy life together is about more than being blood related.
@@FreeSpirit47 this kind of stories aren't possible with levvy behaving like that.she has done everything to make him feel smaller than edward
This is a very good show. The conversation at Thanksgiving dinner let’s you know her father was a cold, heartless man who expected Livie to care for her dying mother, which she did. The father was a minister who didn’t want the embarrassment of a pregnant daughter. She grows to love Ray but doesn’t believe she deserves him. It all turns out good in the end. A movie we’ll worth watching.
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I loved the movie. The first time I watched it, she seemed so arrogant and deceptive, contacting the baby's father behind her husband's back, I disliked her. But the second time, I noted how she was from a higher 'class' than a farmer, and her sister was even more arrogant and an awful influence, yet her husband was so sound and grounded, it was HIS sister whom I really admired. Very tender extended family on his part and there's an exact moment when she realizes how patient they have been with her. She gains genuine humility to embrace the chance she has been given, keeping her child and having a loving marriage.
What is the name of the movie?
@@007Knightjp The Magic of Ordinary Days
This love story is so beautiful, and a peek into a very real history in America.
@@user-bh7gz7dw6c That's why it's a peek, not a college course.
A farmer with self-esteem issues takes a damaged woman with another mans seed in her growing because he no other option that is better. Joseph needed a visit from god in his dreams. What possessed this guy to saddle up a bitter angry broad to his back?
@@daxbroccolihead Watch the movie, seems like you could learn from a man like him.
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Everyone gives Livvy so much crap, but she was compelled to marry Ray. Hey, at the end, she got over Edward & had started to love Ray.
Love is mostly forgiveness
If it is forgiveness than single mother or divorce mothers should not ask for child support or money.its forgiveness after all.ray should have let her see her place in society as an unwed mother.
He didn’t say “destiny.” He said he thought it was God’s will.
That was truly a beautiful story with such amazing casts too. Thank you for sharing 👍👍👍👍
It's a beautiful movie. Loved every bit of it. The pace of the story, the slow but sure progression of Livy and Ray's relationship. I think she needed that closure from Edward to finally accept Ray with all her heart. Ray is such an amazing guy and the sweetest father ❤❤❤
The Magic of Ordinary Days is a beautiful movie and the book is great as well and fills in some questions I had from the movie
What a beautiful story. I enjoyed this so much
Walk away men if this happens in real life she didnt like ray, she settled for him since the other dude didnt want to take responsibility, dont go for women who are just settling for you, you will mostly be unhappy in that relationship
I agree marriage should be love not for someone settling for someone, but we also have to remember to that it was different back in those days, women can have children out of wedlock in most countries and no body thinks any of it , and we also have to remember that in some countries and some cultures that is thier customs to have the parents choose who they marry , and so they don't bring shame to their families they agree to get married i forget exactly what Indian tribe it is but the chief daughter makes his daughter Marry the best indian warrior in the tribe, and it used to be the Jewish tradition that a match maker would go the girls father house and say this man wants your daughters hand in marriage and both men would meet and talk if the father agreed to the marriage then they would shake hands and have a toast and his daughter couldn't reject to it because it was tradition some times the girl would be 16 and the guy would be 60 ,I couldn't imagine it that is horrible, but it happened, and some gypsy cultures ,they had a match maker,or the father chose thier daughters husbands , and back in the day Father's would choose thier daughter to marry the king no matter how wicked he was, and in some cultures women had to marry thier own cousins,our history is very dark ,im glad men got a say in the most part,it was mostly young women who were forced into marriages and I don't think most of them were happy
Yes, let's put down the woman and ignore the trifling man who did her dirty. Your insecurities are showing.
@@LilliLamour I don't know if that comment was for me or not but if it was for me I was explaining that back then it was looked down apon for a woman to be pregnant out of wedlock it's not like that any more in most countries now and I was explaining how some cultures the father's chose his daughter husbands ,I'm glad that some of those traditions are not around any more for the girls sake I wouldn't want to get married to a 60 year old man at the age of 16 ,I didn't even want to leave home at that age I loved being home with my family, I am sure that those father's thought they were doing what was best for their daughters making sure that they would be provided for, but I am sure some of those cried and pleading with thier father's please don't make me marry him father,when I think about it that way it makes me feel bad for them,I'm not insecure I just try to put my self in thier shoes ,I don't want a match maker trying to hook me up with a old man
@@LilliLamour who hurt you girl? Where in my comment am I praising the ex? The ex and the girl can go hell, I am just talking about Ray here who is the only good dude in this story, who I find in a similar position to many good men in real life getting with a woman that doesnt want them, hope you are not doing what this girl did (settling with a good guy while still wanting your ex), and if you are asking why I am not speaking on the trash that left this girl hanging, you can not expect a comment to speak on every trash person when there are so many, the man who made this girl pregnant is trash, this girl who had an affair with a married man and continued to send him letters (even when she is aware he is married and she herself is married to a man who loves her) is trash too
@@jenniferfloyd9179 you are talking about a completely different social issue and situations miss, in this movie the man knows that the girl is pregnant, girl knows that she loves her ex and he wont accept her, she has an option to walk out earlier(definitely not oppressed here), but continues to two time ray while sending "please take me back" letters to ex, kind of shitty for ray dont you think?, my original comment is only about similar situation in real life, what you are talking about being forced in a marriage is a different social evil that is not involved in the context of my original comment
That kind of love won't usually work but if they successfully work it out then it will be forever.
Sometimes people back themselves into love in a less romantic way. Then the slow burn does it's magic!♡😊
It's fiction. And a bad one.
If all love is to you is an emotion, then you are 100% correct. If love is actually a verb and something you do, then you are 100% wrong.
If the farmer is awkward and lonely as he was, and the wife was that drop dead gorgeous who looks like movie star and that desperate. Perhaps
*NOTHING'S FOREVER!*
Rey is a good man. The type of husband men should strive to be. He deserves and earns a good loyal wife who loves him. (Better than this woman who still wanted to leave him for the man who denied his son).
Well he is weak !
@@subhankar5502 not that much.
@@nightprowler6336 so give me a reason he would marry a women is pregnant and doesnt love him.
@@nightprowler6336 are you a lady? Maam?
@@subhankar5502she ends up falling in love with him
A single mom's dream
And an incel’s dream, lol. A beautiful women forced to marry him against her will, and she just magically decides he is wonderful.
@@brandy4530she should have closed her legs instead. Maybe her dad should have let her be with the man who impregnated her, that would've been a great story.
@@brandy4530He isn't an incel.
@@brandy4530 You are right that guy is an incel.
Poor Rey, he deserves so much better.
Really? Better watch the movie
@@mightyobserver12 I did watch the movie and I'm female. He did deserve better. Through most of the movie she was insufferable. And he had to work so hard to gain her approval. He wasn't the guy that got her preggers and left her. So he takes care of her and another man's baby. That other man got to continue his lineage . I hoped at the they would of showed her pregnant with his child as well.
@@annawilliams2336 I hear you. But maybe try to understand where she was coming from. Yes, Rey had nothing to do with what happened to her. But she was forced into this situation. She was terrified and still hung up on the a** who ran off on her. Rey deserved better. But so did she. It's called character development. She got better. Rey is a fictional man. You'd be hard pressed to find a real man who is as kind as him. I've personally never met one. He comes across like a Mary Sue - to a point.
Don't @ me about that last comment. It's just an observation.
@@mischarowe well said
@@mischaroweI surely have! I once told a dude to not go for the single mother he was seeing! He didn't listen to me and went on. They were good at first but then she cheated on him with her ex(Baby-daddy) 🙂. Even if women find a man like Rei they won't appreciate him in real life
Ray should raise his standards
Yep. A young and fully self-sufficient man, perhaps virgin, settling for a second-hand gal with extra.
Well done, reality is something hard to understand when they haven’t dealt with it.❤
It looks like a retelling of an irish miniseries but much gentler and fluffier. That story gets really dark at times but she get her happy ending.
what's the name of the Irish miniseries
@evakuater falling for a dancer I think.
@@ToudaHellthank you, I'll look for that miniseries
@@nenabunena have fun
Well its the way before, My grandmother said she barely knew my grandfather when they got married and love just happened along the way,but for me thats weird My Aunt also said when she was growing up single men in their commiunity just disappears for a week and reappears with a bride, apparently its a practice all over the world when you get to certain age your parents will find a spouse for you.
Rey = God
Livvy = The Human Race
The movie had a happy ending, but the book was realistic, and just made you feel "Ugh!" at the end. Another rare "movie was better than the book" situation.
What happened in the book?
@ErenDenizMert It's been a little over 20 years, but if I remember correctly, the girls from the Japanese internment camp were actually arrested for treason, and the German boy shot while trying to escape. The farmer/husband was actually quite a bit older than the main character. She just became comfortable and complacent in the life she had. It seemed exciting, then fizzled out at the end. I just remember being very disappointed.
@@d_richter
She wears make-up everyday in the movie, a farmer's wife plays dress-up and wearing make-up? Does she understand that she is supposed to do house keeping, cooking and farming?
@siewheilou399 No, she doesn't realize that. She's a city girl. It seemed as if it was always her intention to leave the farmer. But in the end, she does realize what it means to be a farmer's wife, which is why it is called "The Magic of Ordinary Days."
@@d_richter Well, the book just may be more realistic (and, accordingly, darker) than this artificial hallmark movie. It touches on some very dark matters, and a happy ending seems contrived.
There is an Irish 3 part series of this genre called Falling for a dancer, with Colin Farrell in one of his early roles and Liam Cunningham of Game of Thrones. It is based in Ireland in the 1940s or 1950s. It is beautiful, sad story and shows the shame at that time of pregnancy outside marriage. If you could find it I would highly recommend it.
I'm Irish, as I assume you are too. I have watched that movie over a dozen times. it's tragically beautiful.
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I love this movie
Pregnancy out of wedlock is still shameful even to this day. It's just that some women are just so shameless or in such great denial that they think it's fine.
This is my mom and my favorite Hallmark movie....Plus Skeet is a cutie
Name of the movie please
@@latoyamelville-noel5635. “The Magic of Ordinary Days” is the name of this movie.
@@latoyamelville-noel5635The Magic of Ordinary Days.
@@latoyamelville-noel5635 The Magic Of Ordinary Days
@@latoyamelville-noel5635 The Magic of Ordinary Days
This brother deserved better
the partner she does not want but the husband she needs.. the father is right
The father had no idea who she was marrying. He never gave her any love and then tried to get rid of her. He was a cruel man as many religious people are.
@@MoniLein-yy2ue agree, but there are always time when you are the head of a group that you need to take a calculated risk for the options available.
@@c2sartinkprinthub757 he was selfish and thinking only of himself and his job
He was the second choice. He needs to run. The moment they eay they chose you in a long term relationship its over. Walk away.
It's actually worse. I think the original plan was to divorce him so that the child doesn't grow up illegitimate. He's more of a rubber stamp or a fake certificate. Not even a second choice.
Shame that men like this only exist in fairytales. My ex fiancé informed me that he was not ready to be a father when I happily told him that I was pregnant back in 2010 😞 been single ever since and focused solely on my child
Don't worry, they exist in real life. But as anything else which is really good, they are hard to find in this degenerate world.
How did he even make to fiancé status?? Marriage is for better or worse. Planned pregnancy or unplanned-
There are men like this still but women have to be just as worthy of them too
They do exist; plenty. But girls look for happiness with high-flying pilots and bad guys in enemy outfits, so to speak. This guy was rescuing her from social stigma and from poverty, and she still looked to that impregnator behind his back.
Shame that woman still even in this generation neglects nice guy and dates hot and stud guys then whine and cry.
Beautiful story I love happy endings ❤
Another beautiful story. Just wish Men were like that in real life. Don't we all girls. 🥰🇬🇧👍
Some men are like that in real life. A good man is worth waiting for.
Whoever read this, hehe hope i can met a man like rey. A responsible humble and loving man.
Ray was too good for her
Rey and Livey are stand ins for god and human race.
On my list of all time favorite movies ❤
1:16 i’m always gonna remember this dude as Sydney’s boyfriend and one of two killers in Scream!
He was perfect bec he looked like a younger depp
Great movie!!! Watched the whole thing and it’s wonderful!
What's the name of this movie?
@@christinaalicia6385The Magic of Ordinary Days
The Simpetons @@christinaalicia6385
@@christinaalicia6385 The Magic Of Ordinary Days
@@christinaalicia6385. “The Magic of Ordinary Days” is the name of this movie.
My mother was married off in the same manner. If only it would have been to a kind man such as this.
@NRecapsLove&Romance You're right about one thing: Ray deserved so much better!
I love this movie... miss good old fashioned romantic and safe to watch family movies.❤
Wonderful movie indeed..love solves a lot of conflicts
The female character was tooooo pretty to feel real. One of the most beautiful women I have seen. She’s 48 now and still looking fine
Amazing story ❤
It's just a movie don't try to win over a pregnant lady by marrying her she will always doubt her life with you . This movie is either made by a simp or an opportunist women.
Surprisingly, it was a good movie, quite thought provoking.
It was such a lovely story ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I really like horror movies like this.
“Libby studied ar-chilla-jaiee” 😂😂 2:25
Ladies, love the man who loves you, not the ones only you love.
Women can never love you bro.
@@MickeyMishra LOL What was that for man?
@@masskent8065 Nevermind. Sometimes its just best to live in the moment. I would point to Greek Philosophy otherwise. Take care!
I wrestled with Archie O' La Jai for about 5 seconds. Almost had to pause the vid, mentally slapped my forehead and went
' f-ing bot...'
The good news: so far we can catch the bots on such mistakes. But they're improving; actually, when we correct them, they learn. :(
What a great man!!! I LOVE THIS MOVIE!! WISH SHE WOULDA FELL FOR HIM ALOT SOONER THO...
It's easily one of my favorite movies! I have watched many times. 😊
What’s the name of the book, author and movie Title? When I search, every single romance movie pops up and can’t find this one. Help please?
What a beautiful man.
What a "Noice Guy".....
Beautiful movie... The power of kindness...
I would’ve been all over Edward in a bit, he’s hot, sweet and a perfect gentleman.😢
Such a beautiful story 🎉❤
This movie should be titled: The king of Simps prevents woman from having accountability for her actions.
I appreciate your effort in saving me some time.
You are married to someone who accepted you ... but you still have the audacity to send a letter to your ex
Great romantic movie !!! watched it 10 times.
That's a feel good story....!!
I watched this a while back its a great movie to just chill with
One of the most romantic movies (and book) I've ever seen (and read). It is beautiful.
What is the name of the movie please?
@@mikelbahi23 Book and Movie - The Magic of Ordinary Days; author is Ann Howard Creel
She looks so much like Shirley Temple when she was older.
Kinda expected there to be a secret around the father, like another escaped war prisoner, but nope, just the good 'ol simp cleaning other people's mess
A decent man doing his best, in other words. Don't use words like simp if you don't want others to think you're an incel.
@@StCreed a decent man doing his best can do better
@@StCreedincel is even better than Rey atleast incelhood will end one day but Rey has to pay child support his whole life.
@@SahilSharma-ug7xv sadly.
Incels will be bitter their whole lives whereas a decent man like Rey will live in grace and love.
Oh my gosh this movie is so much better than the book! Loved the movie.
Don't fall for it!! Don't be Rey.😅
A wonderful movie … love does surprise you sometimes.
I have been stupid like Rey before... After 2 divorces and loosing half what you have you learn that be a kind and good man in this shitty society is not a good thing!!! 🙄
So sorry it happened to you.
Wait until that edward try to come in to her life again........
He don't want her
@@thingswhatilike He may not want her. But once he comes within her reach even by chance, THAT will be her ultimate test. She may relapse quite easily.
Is "liking" a video made by AI the same as tipping a self checkout machine?
A simple beautiful love story.. thnks lady robot
Seems like an upbeat story. I grew up poor on a farm in rural Virginia; I can tell you we did NOT throw anything away!
This movie is almost like "love comes softly "
These are the type of movies that should be shown on the big screen. They are beautifully crafted and show folk how to treat each other with love and compassion and that given time , many wounds of the heart can heal but first we need the be show that we are loved and cherished as we are, not as society would demand of us.
Only person getting benefits here is the single mother.
@@SahilSharma-ug7xv I will have to disagree with you. The young man through his actions through their journey showed himself to be quietly strong and loving towards her as a person and a clearly a person who had clear views on how to treat folk and be treated by those around him. By your comment it may imply he was an emotional idiot who some how manipulated to marry her. In providing the young woman a quiet warm strength around her, gave her room to deal with her circumstances and make decisions that would be based on truth and understanding rather than judgement and demand as was demonstrated by her own family. Such quiet strength demonstrated by both men and women towards each other these days is challenging to find in a culture that thrives on self righteousness and judgement of others. He was by geographical isolation was experiencing trouble finding a single woman to court and marry and by marry the young woman he was able to meet this need and share he strengths both morally and emotionally with someone who needed such a person. She in return provided companionship and a woman's touch to the young man's life. Together they were able to grow together and form a loving bond of trust and love, creating a strong family unit to welcome the new born. In essence both the man and woman and the child was receiving something beneficial and desirable from the relationship although the manner in which it came about could be considered unorthodox
I Really like this movie. It’s a beautiful love story.
boy did I cry watching this movie.
This is one of my favorite movies of all time. It is so well acted, and what a wonderful story.
The name please I love this movie but I forgot the name
@@Thesun7777
“The Magic of Ordinary Days”
What an absurd choice for Rey to marry Livvy. He clearly settled in the worst way.
Looks similar to Gone with the Wind, except the ending.
A woman pining for a man while there's already a man in front of her who actually loves her.
Silly woman.
what a selfish woman. she only loved him because he took her and another mans baby.
This is one of my fave movies!
This one of my favorite Hallmark movies❤❤
Just like real life, the Japanese Americans placed in internment camps didn't get a happy ending in this movie either.
Just imagine, being an American with 'rights' and then one day, you're stripped of your property, your bank account, your land, your money and you're shipped off to an internment camp. And then having the young fighting age men DRAFTED into military service while imprisoned. (sure most of the Nisei fighters volunteered, but the USA was still drafting young men out of the camps to the front lines). Talk about insult upon injury.
In the book upon which this movie is based, Rose and Lorelei (Florrie in the movie) end up in prison for aiding two POWs to escape.
For good reason
@@Frankie2012channel George Carlin was right, Rights aren't rights if they can just take them away
the guy was very patient with her, very lucky girl
Moral of the story: If you just SIMP harder, she'll run out of other options and settle for you. Ya, right!
True. He bent back a lot.
I love this movie!!!
I've seen this years ago. And it's still one of my favorite movies.
I like a great fantasy myself. 😅
Why is she keeping that locket, no miss u shouldn't do that. Its disrespectful towards u r kind husband.
She eventually throws the locket away.
How about writing the title of the movie instead of saying “Pregnant Girl Forcefully…”. Doesn’t sound like English.
Maybe, copyright risk. They even flipped it left to right - perhaps, for the same reason. See all the inscriptions and the steering wheels on the British side.
It is a beautiful movie ❤
Ray was the ultimate simp. In the end they were happy, but the odds of this working out well are not good. Guys, don't marry a woman like this, it's a recipe for disaster.
ok Chris
Agreed.
How about not force women to marry a stranger against her will.
@@Chels-fz5uq Did you see the movie? She wasn't forced to do anything. She used Ray to keep up a deception, and initially had no intention of behaving as his wife. She made a mockery of her marriage vows, and only later decided to really act as a wife.
She carrying Chad child she cannot rope him hence she clamp down on legend simp our man Ray for mental manupilation and giving him some lame action in the bed which cannot be compete with what she can do for Chad and tyrone