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  • Опубликовано: 1 авг 2023
  • What are the things you should always keep private in life? Privacy is a critical aspect of a good life. You should keep private sensitive details and personal goals, amongst other things.
    Sources:
    Is It Secret or Just Private?
    www.psychology...
    If I Want Advice, I’ll Ask for It
    www.psychology...
    Do You Seek Validation from Others? Here’s How to Stop
    psychcentral.c...
    Self-Validation
    www.psychology...
    Chief Editor: Tristan Reed
    Voice Over: Troy W. Hudson
    For Troy: / troywhudson
    Music from Bensound.com

Комментарии • 97

  • @artcastro5694
    @artcastro5694 Год назад +89

    3 things in life to keep private
    1.your love life
    2. Your Income
    3. Your next move

    • @charleshayden7408
      @charleshayden7408 Год назад +6

      God bless you exactly 999 trillion times more richly beyond your wildest dreams and highest expectations.

  • @Aarnyx
    @Aarnyx Год назад +62

    The video starts at 2:39

  • @Pavels_World
    @Pavels_World Год назад +59

    As an English learner I appreciate your video. They're so helpful for me. Greetings from Russia.

    • @Hiram333
      @Hiram333 Год назад +2

      Sending ❤ to Putin.

    • @moussinobied5013
      @moussinobied5013 Год назад

      I love the old proper nation of the USSR hope it comes back it also sounds good and strong

    • @Lucas_Gois_1999
      @Lucas_Gois_1999 Год назад +8

      I'm Brazilian and I also use this channel to practice my English, it's really very useful, I learn a lot of wards and practices my listening.

    • @distantfire6143
      @distantfire6143 Год назад

      Hellooooooo Russia!

  • @369Rising
    @369Rising Год назад +21

    Don't tell this: More than you're asked unless you want your privacy and boundaries violated such as goals, wealth, business, criticisms, friends secrets, details of a relationship, kindnesses such as donations and favors, values and beliefs, words against yourself, details about your day, your fears real or imagined, family dramas, and your unsolicited advice.

  • @barbarahall5514
    @barbarahall5514 Год назад +49

    1. Goals plans
    2. Finances money
    3. Criticism advice
    4. Defend friends
    5. Relationship backlash
    6. Kindness in silence
    7. Need for validation no one should care but you!
    8.
    9. Don’t justify your time & how you spent it!
    10. Quiet your insecurities
    11. Keep it in the family (snap!)
    12. Don’t give advice ❤ nobody cares!!! ❤
    13. Nobody

    • @monicacasillas-bd8jc
      @monicacasillas-bd8jc 11 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for your advice it's highly appreciated

    • @bethahadzizi370
      @bethahadzizi370 11 месяцев назад +2

      I wonder if there is a difference in lifestyle between someone who keeps secrets and someone who doesn't. 😮

    • @monicacasillas-bd8jc
      @monicacasillas-bd8jc 10 месяцев назад +1

      Basically keep everything a secret you avoid problems from people

  • @moussinobied5013
    @moussinobied5013 Год назад +7

    Top man think
    Brilliant
    Never tell any one about what you got
    Never speak off any bad
    Never promise any one anything
    Never waste time
    Always so No
    Never lie say I have nothing to say instead
    And it goes on
    Thanks

  • @kksolanki4397
    @kksolanki4397 Год назад +11

    12 things to keep private
    1.Goals
    2. Your wealth your business
    3. Destructive construction
    4. Defend your friend
    5. Relationship backlash
    6. Kindness needs no reward
    7. Protect your image
    8.
    9. Never justify your time
    10. Quite your insecurity
    11. Family problem
    12. The danger of great advice❤

  • @DonGivani
    @DonGivani Год назад +5

    Some of these points won't improve your relationships...sometimes it is good to disclose, otherwise you will not develop friendships. Most points I do agree except:
    #1 sometimes it is good to have an accountability partner
    #8 it is sometimes good to let people know you are vulnerable, so they can relate to you.. nobody is perfect
    For the rest amazing advice, keep up the good work

  • @yashashreevalaulikar
    @yashashreevalaulikar Месяц назад

    2:39 guard your goals
    3:23 your wealth your business
    4:08 destructive criticism
    4:44 defend your friends
    5:12 relationship backlash
    5:58 kindness needs no reward
    6:34 the power of internal validation
    7:33 protect your image
    8:07 never justify your time
    9:00 quiet your insecurities
    9:43 keep it in the family
    10:11 the danger of giving advice

  • @Vy-Oh-Letter
    @Vy-Oh-Letter 6 месяцев назад +1

    1.) Guard You Goals: 2:38
    2.) Your Wealth, Your Business: 3:20
    3.) Destructive Criticism: 4:05
    4.) Defend Your Friends: 4:43
    5.) Relationship Backlash: 5:10
    6.) Kindness Needs No Reward: 5:55
    7.) The Power of Validation: 6:33
    8.) Protect Your Image: 7:29
    9.) Never Justify Your Time: 8:03
    10.) Quiet Your Insecurities: 8:58
    11.) Keep It in the Family: 9:40
    12.) The Danger of Giving Advice: 10:10

  • @DollyNipples
    @DollyNipples Год назад +4

    I disagree with the criticism part. If a friend's bad habit annoys you and you don't say anything, that person won't know you're annoyed until you finally either snap or give the ultimatum without allowing the person time to break the habit. Old habits die hard, and it can be confusing if the person had previously thought you were okay with their actions, or if they thought you liked it.

  • @ibrahimsouley358
    @ibrahimsouley358 Год назад +4

    I'm your fun since years from Niger Republic 🇳🇪🇳🇪🇳🇪. I ❤ your videos. And they help me a lot by improving my English and discover new ideas and things. Thanks for sharing.

  • @MonicaPasucci
    @MonicaPasucci Год назад +5

    Never justify your time - Like it!!!👍

  • @sethmiles5393
    @sethmiles5393 Год назад +5

    Thank you. Been following your channel for years now. Solid advices and concrete steps to put them in action

  • @chrisgale4609
    @chrisgale4609 Год назад +7

    On keeping your finances private, you might have someone marry you just to get your assets. The paradox being that if you are supposed to keep your goals secret a deceitful partner uses this to hide their plans.on doing good or being kind it's okay to be proud o this and in relationships it should be reciprocated.
    We need to give mass public advice with clear context because more often than not the suversive types use these concepts for manipulation

  • @louniece1650
    @louniece1650 Год назад +7

    This video is definitely for me❤Thank you❤

  • @md.abdullaalwailykhanchowd3974
    @md.abdullaalwailykhanchowd3974 Год назад +8

    2:37 The start of the video

  • @charleshayden7408
    @charleshayden7408 Год назад +4

    God bless everyone because of this video exactly 999 trillion times more richly beyond your wildest dreams and highest expectations.

  • @bridgettetraveler658
    @bridgettetraveler658 10 месяцев назад +2

    We need to know who's jealous of us & want us to fall. It takes more than DNA to make a fam.

  • @notyetskeletal4809
    @notyetskeletal4809 Год назад +5

    This is shit I should have learned at a younger age but am in my 40s realising how naive I have been.

    • @MJ-qb5ph
      @MJ-qb5ph Год назад

      Try being 60!

    • @notyetskeletal4809
      @notyetskeletal4809 Год назад

      @@MJ-qb5ph What happened to you?

    • @battybethc8061
      @battybethc8061 Год назад +1

      It's never to late to learn! I'm in my 60's and still craving to learn new things! Lol! 😂

  • @saza3485
    @saza3485 Год назад +2

    This channel has been posting beneficial contents. Your videos are very helpful to me. Keep going! Love from Kuala Lumpur Malaysia ❤❤❤

  • @alisaa3999
    @alisaa3999 2 месяца назад

    I do tend to put out my personal thoughts and values via threads and twitter as a way to express myself but I realize how insignificant those thoughts become when they’re out there. I dunno how to feel about that and I can’t say if I care much 🤷‍♀️

  • @edwardcarter6408
    @edwardcarter6408 Год назад +5

    Awesome content indeed and thanks for sharing!

  • @brianbrino4310
    @brianbrino4310 Год назад +2

    Excellent program and very useful information!

  • @BannerSound
    @BannerSound Год назад +3

    My experience is (#2) those who feel that they have boast about how successful they are, how much $$ they have, etc. are usually lying or at least exaggerating...

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 8 месяцев назад

      And have stole it. That should be a cause of concern because it questions what extent have they went to, to keep a lie going from being exposed.

  • @user-ry4tz9ej6l
    @user-ry4tz9ej6l Год назад +1

    At 30 I've learned this the hard way for now on quietness

  • @ibrahimsouley358
    @ibrahimsouley358 Год назад +5

    You made different videos where you mentioned narcissist but I hope one day you'll make a video for "how to be protected from narcissistic people"; because we live among them. Thanks

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 8 месяцев назад

      The honest answer is there is no earthly protection against them. Most people that you will meet are riddled with envy and jealous. The best thing you can do is stay quiet as much as possible and observe. Even then, they will invade your privacy. They do not honor the word or action of No. However, the majority of them have privacy because they live secret lives and have alot of dirt on them if exposed that will ruin them. So they ruin honest people lives FIRST as a smoke screen...because they are the real life sick ones with idiot brains.

  • @calebokoli1092
    @calebokoli1092 Год назад

    Have been listening to your post for a long time and it's been helping in my personal development, it has made me better them my peers. Thanks to you

  • @miladmalikzada760
    @miladmalikzada760 Год назад +2

    Your voice is amazing!
    💙🙏 please put more videos... thank you

  • @sophia2835
    @sophia2835 Год назад +2

    I can relate to the 4th point because one of my friends revealed my dark secret

  • @Yuroijo2800
    @Yuroijo2800 Год назад +2

    Good video mate very helpful knowledge

  • @BrightSideCharter
    @BrightSideCharter Год назад +6

    Thank you you have help someone in kenya 😊

  • @marisajocelyn1059
    @marisajocelyn1059 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing this. It's very useful

  • @anee7163
    @anee7163 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much ! ❤

  • @milad3419
    @milad3419 Год назад +1

    Best 12 things I've ever heard ❤

  • @vinylg3421
    @vinylg3421 Год назад

    Love this, just what I needed as I have been an oversharer

  • @Art.by_AI
    @Art.by_AI Год назад +1

    Thank you! ❤

  • @hellohawra
    @hellohawra 7 месяцев назад

    The goal thing is so true

  • @katherineesau5957
    @katherineesau5957 10 месяцев назад

    Needed to hear this

  • @shakeystwelve3085
    @shakeystwelve3085 Год назад

    truly ! ❤ nd thnks for this
    tkcre

  • @robertblake9892
    @robertblake9892 10 месяцев назад

    Three may keep a secret if two of them are dead. Ben Franklin, 1935
    As I told a lady at church, privacy is like safety, fitness, and Christioanity. It is not something you achieve, it is something you practice.

  • @ShadowHearts
    @ShadowHearts Год назад

    Thanks I really neeed to see this..😅👍🏾🖐🏾

  • @kellyhaass1937
    @kellyhaass1937 6 месяцев назад

    Right

  • @Surfrz3
    @Surfrz3 Год назад +1

    Loose lips sink ships, they say. But sometimes, we need to talk about things with those who care.

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 8 месяцев назад

      Talk to a pet and a plant. Both care WAYYYYY more than another person. A dog can actually tell you alot. It's a secret language only a few can speak.

  • @ritaceron7329
    @ritaceron7329 3 месяца назад

    I liked & subscribe

  • @katherineesau5957
    @katherineesau5957 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you

  • @majorsilly8966
    @majorsilly8966 Год назад

    Number 12 that’s why I always end it with idk though sadly 😅😅💯

  • @Neezy9
    @Neezy9 Год назад

    The education we get on this chanel is worth more than what ppl spend for a college degree (that they most likely don't apply in the real world)...much thanks and appreciation for your work @topthink 🙏🏾💪🏾

  • @Dog-Lover36
    @Dog-Lover36 Год назад

    Pigeonhole means a category, typically an overly restrictive
    one to which someone or something is assigned.

  • @garnetjaglal3308
    @garnetjaglal3308 Год назад

    Makes sense to me ❤

  • @mahbubaabdullayeva7024
    @mahbubaabdullayeva7024 Год назад +3

    ❤❤❤

  • @johnrobinson5156
    @johnrobinson5156 10 месяцев назад +3

    Keep sexual preference, religion, & politics private

    • @johnrobinson5156
      @johnrobinson5156 10 месяцев назад +1

      So strange none are on this list

    • @robertblake9892
      @robertblake9892 10 месяцев назад

      Sexual preference, yes, the other two, do it discretely.

  • @kenan7012
    @kenan7012 Год назад +3

    Woop

  • @oneofthegoodonesok
    @oneofthegoodonesok Год назад +2

    Just like having this video private? 😂 You should hear the stuff offline then. It really makes you wonder about anyone these days 🤣

  • @d-resmin
    @d-resmin 10 месяцев назад

    I remember when I started being more quiet about my dating life. It felt so good. Someone I know actually posted on Facebook that her son was starting to vet erections.

  • @katrinaquick8834
    @katrinaquick8834 Год назад +1

  • @NerdAlert66
    @NerdAlert66 Год назад +3

    alot of these are telling us to not tell the whole truth lol
    so basically being a liar about how u feel is better then telling the truth :(

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 8 месяцев назад

      I would encourage honesty. It makes everyone uncomfortable because liars are more common.

  • @swati6848
    @swati6848 Год назад

    6:40 Can I share my core beliefs with my mother?

    • @rocky_wang
      @rocky_wang 10 месяцев назад

      Depending on whether your mom has the same "core" beliefs. If not, then the conversation may be like:
      You: Hey mom, I believe in XXX...
      Mom: Stop wasting your time, little brat. Get a life!
      You: Mah, but I really do!
      Mom: You know what? I don't care!😂😂😂

    • @vredewold
      @vredewold 9 месяцев назад

      Yes you can, your her property🤣

  • @oragamithunder5725
    @oragamithunder5725 Год назад

    I have no privacy

    • @oragamithunder5725
      @oragamithunder5725 Год назад

      But when you own everything about you nothing anyone says or does will tear you down

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 8 месяцев назад

      Same. We are in the same tug boat together. Midas well talk about the exploitation. They are watching anyways behind the black mirror smirking and sniggling. 😊

  • @dianahill5116
    @dianahill5116 Год назад

    What was stated here doesn't apply to adopted people.

  • @denisesiddon7241
    @denisesiddon7241 11 месяцев назад

    Ok easier just to stick to small talk 😂😂😂

  • @Rodelaporte
    @Rodelaporte Год назад +9

    The title should be "how to gaslight yourself"

    • @battybethc8061
      @battybethc8061 Год назад +1

      Lololol!😂😂😅

    • @dominadornarag7574
      @dominadornarag7574 11 месяцев назад

      😅😂🤣😂🤣😂

    • @rocky_wang
      @rocky_wang 10 месяцев назад

      If gaslighting makes me a strong person, let it be. Like the good old "fake it until you make it"🤣🤣🤣

  • @anujsomany2716
    @anujsomany2716 10 месяцев назад

    What percent of world population keeps privat all of these 12 things❓

  • @indridcold8433
    @indridcold8433 10 месяцев назад

    There should be no sharing of details of your existence, at all. There should be no social accounts at all. This semi-anonymous RUclips rant is the closest I have to a social account. It is a video sharing site where I have only shared one video since I have started the account. It is not for popularity nor hits, whatever that accomplishes. It is to merely share information. I will never have a social, media, network account. Aside from having no friends to even have a reason for having a social account, my life is extremely stagnant, uninspiring, boring, and not social. Few would wish to witness an existence like that. But then again, few want to witness 96.865% of the ridiculous things I have heard about social media.

  • @Hayet-jb2sd
    @Hayet-jb2sd 9 месяцев назад

    Les gens racontent toute leurs vie sur les reseaux sociaux comme s'ils etaient Les centres de la terre alors qu'ils sont tout simplement msatekines

  • @maryellis1228
    @maryellis1228 Год назад

    in other ways be pretentious learn how to be a hypocrite

  • @amstaylorph
    @amstaylorph 8 месяцев назад +1

    I would keep the fact that I watched this video private.