💍👩🏽❤️💋👨🏿LIVING TOGETHER BEFORE MARRIAGE AS A CHRISTIAN|DEALING WITH LUST|DID WE WAIT?MY RESPONSE.
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- Опубликовано: 6 сен 2024
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• My Marriage Testimony ...
PART 2
• 😱My Marriage Testimony...
🫶🏾For those of you who genuinely wanted to know how we remained celibate before marriage, thank you for asking and I hope this answered all of your questions and concerns. I pray that the lord leads you to your kingdom spouse and prepares you before hand for him or her.
🤔On the other hand, for those of you who were rude in the comments I pray that after this video you will be delivered and freed from being bound.
This is the door the lord opened in our life therefore it could not be closed. God is God. He can’t break any rules.
Us moving in before hand was in his devine plan FOR OUR LIFE. Maybe that isn’t the case for you but don’t go around judging and condemning others because our love story wasn’t identical to yours.
We love all you guys with the love of christ.
✨Verses To meditate on ✨
Proverbs 27:17
As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12
Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor:
If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.
Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone?
Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves.A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.
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Someone else's Journey may be different from your journey and that's ok.
Stop judging people that you really don't know.
That's why you have to be led by the spirit. Someone could watch this and try to do the same thing and fall. It only worked because you both were spirit-led. Worship him in spirit and truth. Can't separate the two.
There's a lot of married couples that lives as roommates anyways, yes it is possible it's all about boundaries, principals and the fear of God. Amen
I definitely don't recommend living together before marriage, but everyone's walk is THEIR walk. I'm amazed that y'all met so fast even freshly out of other relationships. I been waiting almost 6 years. I don't understand what I'm doing wrong! 😢 Where's my husband? And I'm 40
Dear sweet daughter in Christ, I am 46 and have been married for going on 22 years and we lived together and had s#x before marriage. Not proud of the s#x part but thank God for repentance and Grace. I pray many blessings over you and your spouse!! Yall are a beautiful couple
I receive. The ones who are truly free understand. Thank you ❤️✨
Im in a similar situation rn where meet and my girlfriend have to stay together because of unfortunate circumstances and it’s been hard and I had to go to my moms for a while because the temptation was deep while we did not have sex we did fall into lust and things of that nature. I wouldn’t recommend it for others cause I don’t think that it’s wise but everyone is different. Also you should always think about the scripture “Therefore do not let what you know is good be spoken of as evil.”
Romans 14:16 NIV
We were led to do so. I’m not recommending it either but if that is what the lord has assigned for someone’s life and marriage then who are we to go against it. How can the one that created the law be a law breaker? He told us to do so. He backed the process up and we did it successfully without fornicating because we had the spiritual stamina to do so.
On the other you do not and that is your walk and your business and that is ok.
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☀️Sweet Spirit ..This is YOUR MARRIAGE-🥰 you know what covenant God has created for u and your husband . Notice again : A COVENANT between YOU 2 . Not 2 -and the naysayers on YT. 😇..u hold the 🔑 to your house .. metaphor for your relationship guided in Christ .🙏🏽.
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Ecclesiastes 4:9- 12
9 Two are better than one,
because they have a good return for their labor:
10 If either of them falls down,
one can help the other up.
But pity anyone who falls
and has no one to help them up.
11 Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm.
But how can one keep warm alone?
12 Though one may be overpowered,
two can defend themselves.
A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.
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GOD BLESS THIS UNION ALWAYS IN - ALL WAYS .. 💕💕💕-
Love always - from an old lady .🤗
You look so beautiful with your haircut!! Thank you for making this video!! It was perfect timing as I was watching your testimony I genuinely asked that question in my head!! Thank you so much!! Also do you have an email? I would love to get your opinion about something!!
Awe, Thank you 🫶🏾 and yes I’m glad that I could answer the ones who weren’t rude. Also, we plan on setting up an email for apeekinourlife soon. Really soon, lol ✨
@@APeekInourLife Okay great!!
Hey! I hope you are well! When I first watched the video about your journey, I was 1) so happy about what God did for the both of you especially after all that you went through. I was glad to see how God never left your side. After that, somewhere along the video, I did wonder in my mind, just a little, how was it for you to live together before marriage because I know that could lead to temptation especially when God wants us to wait until marriage seeing how you were also now growing in your personal relationship with Jesus, however I definitely said to myself, I know that God knew you were homeless and wanted you safe. I also said to myself I don't know what God asked you to do so I can't speak on what I don't know. I am glad that both you and your husband are doing well and I praise God for this. I praise God that both of you also waited to be with each other. God gave you both the strength and that's amazing. What I will also say is that, God judges people based on what they know. Also, we have to keep in mind this was a young lady trying to find peace, safety, shelter, security, a place to stay and save money. She was also new in her walk with Christ with no one or group of praying people guiding her or helping her. Let's have some grace! In all honesty, if most churches were functioning the way they should, she wouldn't even have had to live with her kingdom husband before they got married. Please remember that in her testimony she clearly stated that she asked the church for help, they gave her a little money and said that was all they could do. They didn't gather the church together and see if anyone could take her in, they didn't see who could pitch in and rent her an apartment or get her a job, they didn't gather the men and women of prayer and say oh no, we have to help you out, we will be a family for you, they pretty much said here is some money and we can't do more. While, I don't advise people to live together before marriage and I wouldn't advise that, I am understanding of the fact that she didn't do it with the intention of living with someone just to do so. As I heard her testimony, it gave me the sense that she did it for survival. I hope that as a church we learn that as we follow what the Word of God says, we also learn to help others the way we could so that they never feel they have to compromise or so they are never in a position where the same chruch who didn't help is now also the same church pointing fingers. It just doesn't make sense. You can't be so hard on people you choose not to help! May God continue to bless you both! (Again, I know this is tough for many people to hear because we don't believe in living together before marriage, but let's have some grace. She had no where to go and the church didn't help her the way she needed to be helped. Also, her journey with Christ was new. She didn't see this as wrong like most of us in church do. God knows she didn't do this as a means to sin. That wasnt her mindset. This also isn't an excuse for others to start living together before marriage because it can lead to sin and the Bible says that we must flee the very appearance of evil, it just means to do better with one another. If you can't help someone they way they need to be helped, at least pray and try to find people that can help. That's what the church is there to do).
Hey, this was exactly what I was saying. I agree, the churches should be able to do more but all glory be to God because he still made a way. Everything you said was spot on. My husband and I both felt as If the lord wanted us to move in together and I said in the video I am not promoting sin but everyone’s story is different. God has everything written out even the stuff that Christian’s want to condemn without having the understanding that it’s in his plan at the end of the day.
Thank you for the encouragement and for summarizing what I said. Nicely said ✨😘!
Amen! Thank you sweet beloved for your testimony, truth, godly rebuke & grace! I understand where you're coming from I'm 42 yr old and feel like you do when it comes to our older generation. May God help us all in Jesus mighty name 🙏🏾🙌🏾📖⚔️🛡️🛐✝️🕊️🤍💯✨
Thank you for listening. Absolutely, The Older generation plays a huge factor on how the younger generation turns out. The enemy knows that so he works harder at using them to be overly religious which can lead to being spiritually abusive.
@@APeekInourLifeAmen! Very true and I know from personal experience. That's why I thank Holy Spirit for being my first and true teacher! Blessings & shalom beloved 🙏🏾💕📖👑✝️🛡️⚔️🕊️🤍💯✨
Sis Well said …God will send help and he knew you both were prepared God will continue to bless your marriage
God will do things to test you. Am happy you guys passed that test. God is amazing. Dont go on explaining yourself it will.make no sense to people who have no relationship with God. We must be careful not to judge because we can be judging God's plan. God knows the plans He has for this couple let God do what He is doing. Pray for them and keep moving.
I love this , currently living with my brother in Christ , who knows we’re God will lead us but we are not focused on that we are focusing on the LORD 💪✝️‼️
I wanted to comment on the negative older people but negativity can come from any age when people don’t understand even though it’s not our business. I understand that the situation and the deep desire you had and have to please God. It’s such a miracle and a blessing how God worked in you all’s life to bring your husband and his wife together. Just watched his video and love it. You can see the love, amazing! I listen at you saying how you can handle negative people but when it comes to my husband, that’s a different story. I say the same thing. I’m so happy to Hear your wonderful experience how God brought you all together. Oh yeah I’m 74 years old so we are not all the same. Some people do understand and I consider myself old school but old school with understanding and wisdom. Blessings continue for you all!!! Much love and respect.💕💗❤️
✨🫶🏾We need more women and mothers like you in the church 💯 and I know not all older people are foolish. I’ve met some really wise older people and they’re funny because everything they say is almost spot on. On the contrary some are abusive and insecure because they see the younger generation doing what they wish they would’ve did not understanding that every one’s life isn’t written out the same but since they can’t rewind the time they become abusive, judge-mental, strict and jealous. They may see someone who is way younger than them having something that they couldn’t have and decide to turn evil and use their authority wrongfully.
That’s more so who the message was targeted towards. The older yet foolish ones. Nevertheless, I respect my elders but I will rebuke “Gently” when it comes to down to my husband.
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Girl ignore them cause god also don’t want us to point the finger at each other. They have a religious spirit like those who portrayed him
I have worked as a caregiver at a couple house that had a special need child together before getting married. They have decided to live together after the child and abstain from sex before marriage till they are ready and plan to get married.
I love this! Be prepared before the promise come. ❤ we love you baby girl!!!!!!!!! Such a sweetie pie sugar plum honey bun! 😙😙😙😙🌸💕🌷 may God continue to bless your ordain marriage.
I love you too. Sugar pie plum honey bun. Wow, sound like something I would say 😂😂
May God continue to bless your marriage and cover you and ur household !! And I love your hair ❤
Thank you so much I receive ✨❤️
Your testimony was very inspiring and be in encouraged❤
Thank you woman of God ❤️✨
You’re so adorable!!! Tell ‘em! Baby girl!!
I really enjoyed watching this and it really helped me. Thank you for your advice and I also watch your journey and I was so inspired ❤To God be the Glory!!🙌🏾❤️🙏🏾
Only God can judge, so for those judging, 😊aren't following the word of God themselves so...yeah anywho I appreciate you sharing YOUR testimony...keyword YOURS ❤
Thank you girl ✨❤️
Baby there is a scripture in Thessalonians that says abstain from all appearances of evil. Also in Romans that whatsoever isn't done in faith is sin.... but I am not judging. I did NOT do things the right way when I was young. However preach on young lady you have a very old soul in a very young vessel. A new subscriber here:)
Thanks for sharing your testimony. It’s very encouraging and shows y’all love to put God first….Don’t listen to these religious folks and keep shining yall light 🗣️💯
Stay blessed
It’s absolutely a sin and big NO playing husband and wife does not make you one. My sister in law is doing this and has a kid. You cannot claim living for Christ but you’re living in adultery against him. My husband and I made so many mistakes dating that’s why Paul says it’s better to marry sooner than to burn with passion. Dating has to have boundaries it’s really should be courting. You got to be extremely disciplined. No touching no kissing no being alone. I’m glad y’all waited that’s my husband and I regret. That’s why we’re so passionate about warning believers. Sin is not something to play with it’s so serious. Holiness is not preached anymore it’s just do thy will.
I would recommend no one to live together ever. It’s way too much of a temptation.
At the end of the day if that is Gods will to live together before marriage for one’s life you and your opinion are irrelevant.
@@APeekInourLife Why would it be Gods will for a couple that’s not married to live together. God would never put anyone in a place of temptation? The couple would have to sleep in separate rooms. This is not my opinion this is the Bible. God does not temp anyone. Satan is the tempter. My opinion is not irrelevant it’s biblical. Also this is coming from a loving heart. Gods used your situation it’s not wise for most Christian couples to do the same. My husband lived with his parents and I lived with mine before we got married. We ended up stuck quarantine together for a month. So much temptation even sleeping in separate rooms. We always have to be on guard from the enemy.
@@emilywalton2339 I will pray for your understanding beloved
Sweet heart do you, God is the only one who can judge and again you don't owe anyone any explanation. God bless you and your union
Thank you for being transparent and God gives instructions for these situations and he may actually tell you how to manage a situation like this with instructions to not cross the line; fornicating. Thank you for telling us how to do it when you know you’re attracted to your future spouse. And thank you for being strong in your stance and being a vessel God can use.
Tell 'em! Lol You have more wisdom than I did at your age! God bless you and Hubby!❤
God bless you and your family in Yeshua name 🙌🏾 🙏🏽 💕
Blessings on your marriage 🙏🏾
Love this! ❤ keep being the light in this world!
Aside from prayer & fasting what kind of practical boundaries were implemented
There ain’t to many boundaries that can be implemented if we were staying together love ☠️ besides having a strong mind and once again fasting and praying, as well as telling the other one no “let’s cHiLl OuT”
I prefer to be a young fool than an old fool🎉
Amen, Amen and Amen
Not na time !!!!
😂 the punchlines
You guys are so darn cute. How did you meet?
✨🫶🏾 Awe thank you girl and through our virtual ministries on tiktok
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