Si no dejan de joder con esas pelotudeces del feminismo van a arruinar todo lo que lograron, quieren ser América Latina? Sumidos en la pobreza y bajeza moral, adelante, abracen el maldito feminismo.
That's true. Example is true beauty's writer. She said that due to her experiences, she wrote true beauty. We can see that she holds a lot of insecurity in herself, and thus she wrote suho and seojun, her ideal types. Maybe the webtoon (or drama or whatever y'all watch) might be annoying at times, but i guess that's how her mentality was built up
I've actually read the book she read without realising. It literally just goes through the stages of a woman's life and points out the blatant sexism she's experiencing. If Korean men can't handle that they should pay their mothers compensation.
Chairman Mao said:"Women hold up half the sky.". A woman can do anything a man can (except produce sperm, of course) as long as she puts her mind to it!
Come to Korea. As anyother country girls take most of advantages and this is the reason why feminism is not popular in Korea. Because it is treated as Losers' thoughts and it is true at least in Korea. Escape from reality? Feminist girls in Korea don't do shit and they just scream for their rights, in fact they don't do shit bt screamig. People would have respect them if they try to improve and develop whatever they could but they don't. Respect is not something you get it for free u know.
@@굉장히밉시허슬 a woman athlete won 3 gold medals in olympic for her country, but what she got from her country? A backlash, because she’s a feminist and having a short hair. Seems like the one who can only scream is the anti-feminist. Improve my ass, they don’t even have a chance to do that.
@@pqono it’s so obvious that my comment is based on my pov as a reader and human, also ofc i’m totally aware that’s not their main reason. It’s simply because we human sometimes imagining things that we don’t have to be ours because we wanted that to happen irl. What’s so confusing? A secret (or not) that public knows is East Asia and its patriarchy, why tf an artist makes a work that’s a complete opposide of reality, excluding if they want to promote their idea (feminism) or critique the society?
I remember a short film saying "you women have to be pretty, us men can be fat and ugly but it doesn't matter" or something along the lines and many Skoreans say how it's so true and they get told that in school already...
@@prasadpatil1160 women like men who are handsome and all. But the society has constructed that kind of mindset because they think women dont have any good qualities despite beauty.
@@prasadpatil1160 : But you can't be a beauty and purity.. for many guys though, can you ? I remember that, I was insulted by many different guys verbally... That was the end for me. Cos they don't keep their criticisms to themselves.. You say something.. and then that girl and that woman goes home.. and she gets a second verbal beating as well... despite what is posted online. Your assumption is that, she doesn't get criticisms.. as well.. both in her own home, outside of her own home.. as well as in her work.... When do you ever "keep our gob shut"... that should go to the same to guys too, right ?.... With the media, this is increased N fold as well.... on top of your own duty as well.. your civic duty.. and your analysis of society as well... and to know which way to vote.... etc etc etc...
@@iremaydemir4670 not kidding only few day ago i watched them on youtube i forgot what it's called but they really said what make them interested in coming to korea cause korean man are wealty,handsome and protective,gentleman and many more😅 but dont worry cause they got slap by reality real quick
This is called romanticism. I learned (painfully so), that the greater the fantasy the darker the reality. K-drama for example, the men are so enchanting and romantic because it stems from the writers IMAGINATION. The greatest and most beautiful and romantic pieces are often created by the most depressed people. It's actually the minds way of trying to cope and stabilize itself. What cannot be obtained in reality is compensated by the imagination. It's also why many of the most romantic artist are eager to jump off this mortal coil. Because at some point imagination is not enough. Go forth and enjoy your K-dramas now.
After reading that and agreeing that that can be right, i doubt thats 100% about all k-drama. Im sure there are many happily married people making really good k-drama
After reading that and agreeing that that can be right, i doubt thats 100% reflective of all k-drama. Im sure there are many happily married people making really good k-drama
After reading that and agreeing that that can be right, i doubt thats 100% reflective of all k-drama. Im sure there are many happily married people making really good k-drama. All it takes is imagination and you dont need to be depressed
lmao there are plenty of men everywhere that are romantic and would treat their woman as well as she wanted to be treated but they don't look like those K-drama and K-pop stars nor do they make money like them. I'm glad comments like yours prove that women don't see the truth because it's not as beautiful or perfect as they wish for even when they don't meet those beauty and perfection standards themselves.
When I studied in high school in Japan and did an assignment in Japanese where I had to write about my family. When my teacher checked my assignment one of the mistakes he pointed out were that I wrote "mom" before "dad". He said in Japan they write "dad and mom", not "mom and dad". I was thinking internally that what does it matter but later on I realized.
I don't know when you went to school, but there is no such education in Japan. Perhaps it is the two-character idiom for the character for "父母"(which mean father and mother)?
I remember visiting south Korea when I was little and legit our tour guide who was a female was like "don't marry guys in Korea" she didn't say it like that but she was hinting at it
reminds me of the time my japanese language teacher told us (students in all-girls school who she knows read a lot of shoujo and romanticise it) "don't marry japanese guys" and proceeded to break down why in class. if it looks perfect, it's really not.
When I started working at a company in Japan there were a few Koreans who started at the same time as me. We all needed to go somewhere in the elevator. The elevator was full. One Korean guy got out of the elevator and used the stairs by himself just so the last girl could get in the elevator. It was one of the most gentleman moments I've seen, so I guess all this depends on the Korean guy.
That's not good advice, you'll find such men anywhere else on earth. There is a woman in the country of perfect men who has landed on one such man guaranteed.
Please make more shorts like this revealing the real side of S. Korea because some people actually think it's nice. I am from Korea and i relate to this topic Edit- Thanks for the likes and some people are actually mature here so i respect that 😌 Edit 2- Saw some comments and i really feel sorry and bad for the people who faced harrasment in S. Korea some of them are creeps so ya.
news for u my friend: the whole world is shiet and SK is considered as a good and decent place to live. u should considered as lucky if u were born there.
Ppl think Korea is really good country not studying about the country. When I became a kpop fan, I only started to think about the country and their rules and regulations (I'm a political science student soo...) somethings really disappointed me but some rules and regulations were amazing ngl
I'm half Korean, I grew up abroad and my parents are feminists and when I went to SK for a visit it shocked me how men treated woman and women treated men. Why can't we just be equal why does a penis, vagina or whatever else dictate how people treat us? To clarify since the comments are a raging war I do not mean "absoulute" equality. We all have differences and they should be utilised accordingly. What I mean is that certain day to day experiences such as being treated with respect shouldn't be dictated by whether one has a penis, vagina, etc. Nor how we present ourselves. We are all human and we all deserve equal opportunity and respect along with plenty more and since "absolute" equality can never be achieved due to how our differences make us unique and how some people rise to the top and some sink to the bottom we should atleast strive for a society filled with diversity and respect without discrimination and oppression( not all since we can never truly get rid of these issues simply minimise them to the smallest percentage we can.
Nice you dont only judge men. Like almost all feminist. Thats why more and more men in western (live in switzerland but i see this change in hole europe and usa) dont realy like feminism. You allways hear about the mean mens out there but all women are special nice ppl. I hope you saw how fake american feminist organisation are after amber heard lost against johnny depp. They have the narativ "johnny is a man so he is the monster" they dont like facts telling the truth. Its basicly the nutshell of many feminists
well at least Japan is also misogynistic so those weebs got better chance at finding a submissive cutie housewife cause that's how a many japanese girls are raised
I weebs live in japan, Honestly, I met many japanese girl that cute and act like anime girl... So honestly, I don't really understand why people said japanese girl not like anime.... Sure, they are minority, but they aren't that rare
This is so true. I get annoyed every time a Korea obsessed girl tells me that Korean guys are perfect in terms of personality and looks. Guys, get real. Korea isn't utopia, it's a real world country. And Korean guys aren't perfect- no one is. In fact, I would say that Asian men are one of the most patriarchal people in the world (not all, ofc). The Korea you see in romntic kdramas is not real. The girls who think male leads in kdramas as realistic are delusional.
Well that depends on your own political views. I’ve always been a huge anime fan and when I found out that Japan was a more conservative country it only made me like it more.
Honestly I love Korean culture... But several things in Korea are little too much. Issues like this,racism and beauty standards are really toxic. Obsession with skin care,perfect hair & make-up, extreme dieting. These things are way too toxic. Seriously! I've been following kpop,kdrama for a long time. Even I noticed that there's a slight changes the way I behave. I slowly became Insecure. And that shit really scared the fuck out of me... I started noticing my imperfections,my weight,the way I look. Imagine a girl who is wholeheartedly against any kind of toxic feminine beauty standards set by society. Even she falls for this... Like WTF! I immediately take a break and tried to normalize things about myself!! After a few days I finally stopped worrying for this kinda toxic stuff. Tbh It was horrible! Please DO NOT support these things ever. If you are struggling with your insecurities- Just take a deep breath and LOVE YOURSELF the way you are. You've got this. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL anyway ❤️❤️
You can do it I know you will Don't change yourself in some toxic machine That's all i can say I know you know that already Hang in there You will find your correct way eventually
Racism bro wtf they just prefer people from their country, it's totally normal and I don't know why there are so few countries like that. Like in Japan it's easier for a japanese to find a job, buy a house and do many other things than for a foreigner. And it's really cool and kind to do this.
Just scrolled past a k-pop short saying: the reason women wear skirts so freely in Korea is because all Korean men are sweet and respectful (with pictures of BTS members in the background) Like when will the delusions end?
I can relate. I went to go visit my relatives in South Korea a few weeks ago and I was reminded every single day of my lower status as a female compared to my brother. It hurt to be treated worse than him and as much as I love my culture, this is something that needs to be fixed.
@@karaokeandrandomclips he’s my older brother and some of the stuff I experienced were constant criticisms about my appearance while my brother was only told how amazing he was. I was told that my body was ugly while my brother’s body was perfect. I was forced to give him half of my food always at every meal in order to make sure he was healthy and was kept standing behind him at all times. My aunt and uncle would oftentimes push me aside to reach my brother and I often felt isolated during my trip. This is just some of the stuff that happened and it was to the point where my brother was uncomfortable with my treatment as well. Hope this answers your question though
all jokes aside, i’m glad you’re talking about these topics! many tend to romantizice korea based on what they’ve seen on shows but it couldn’t be further away from the truth!
I read the book "Kim Ji Young, born 1982" and i feel really sad for the women & girls living in SK. I am from Bangladesh and women in most of the cases are oppressed here as well. But the references & incidents i have read in the book were far from my imaginations. I never thought that by standing in 21st Centuries, any Country as whole can treat their women like that. My heart goes out to all of you.
Perhaps if North Korea has fully conquered South Korea and a united Korea is Communist today, there won't be a patriarchy problem? In true Communism, people are judged by their deeds and contribution to society and not by their gender. Mao Zedong and Lenin were very strong advocates for Feminism and Gender Equality.
@@sweetcandysugaarmy8480 you are forgetting that people with power would do whatever they want no matter what government you participate, that's why there are deserters from North Korea specially women that have been violated and use like a s*x object; so no they don't have equal value not even in a fantasy word sadly.
@@ezequielmondada6427 But in the Soviet Union and Mao's China, Women are treated with a lot of respect and given equal status as men. Do you know that North Korea under Kim Il Sung was more prosperous than South Korea at that time? It's because USA kept threatening to help the South that made Kim Jong Il and Kim Jong Un really paranoid about North Korea's Sovereignity and made them become so controlling of their citizens. True Communism under Marxist and Leninist teachings practices gender equality. No race is above the other. It's a pity that North Korea as strayed from true Communism due to unfortunate events in History.
@@sweetcandysugaarmy8480 I can't make you think otherwise; but have in mind that comunism doesn't work the way it's made to work; it is ideal , but it always end up the way it is today(totalitarian), China is pretty much Capitalism with some communist ideals >obviously no matter where you look in the world they are st*piddly nationalist.
I am a Korean girl attending school in the UK. Most people in my school thought Korean men were all sweet and caring based on k-dramas. They asked me why I never dated anyone in Korea. I had to tell them the reality of Korean society where conformity is key, feminism, individualism, and homosexuality are criminal. I told them why I left, and they still don't get it.
I was not very much in KPOP when it started rapidly gaining popularity because it sounded like 26 genres of music smashed together but after hearing about the way they body shamed female idols (who were all still very much in shape btw???) I think Ive moved further away. Ps- i do like some kpop songs now
It's not that kdramas have shown men kind, loyal and generous. They even show the bad side of everything. But who would choose to watch "My name" over "nevertheless". People be watching all the rom-coms and then they complain about it being so nice. You need to accept any tv show or movie from anywhere is just a source of entertainment. Nothing more or less. IMO I would say there are enough Kdramas that highlight dark side of the society. Not only highlighting the problems of 1gender but every gender that exists. It's just us who choose to watch all "lovey-dovey" stuffs.
Even in many SK rom-coms, they show the male lead as toxic, invasive/neglectful, controlling, crazy-ish, narcissistic, rude to FL & her family, etc. Even older "classics" like BOF, playful kiss, Secret Garden, male leads are ab*sive bullies (even physically ab*sive). Even in the Nevertheless you mentioned, the ML is a sh*tty character and doesn't deserve the FL. People, especially the young girls, mistake all those problematic behavior & ab*se from ML as "love", because of the romantic bgm and the handsome face of the actor. Just remove the handsome face and replace the bgm, you'll see how scary and disgusting, the ML and the plot is. Remove the beautiful face of FL, and you'll see that a lot of FL characters from rom-coms, lack personal boundary, dignity and ability to think for herself. Also, a lot of rom-coms show sexual harassment (like forced kiss, dragging the FL to do stuff), as love. Many k-dramas romanticize adult-minor relationships (For ex Goblin (900+ grown ass man to 17-18yo highschooler he met when she was a fetus).
me my name was the first k drama i ever loved and i don't even watch k dramas i just read the description and decided to watch it and it was the best decision
after living in Korea for 5 years, the "foreign girl" in the jjimjilbang head towel reminds me of SOOO many that came to Korea to find "love" without understanding or knowing the actual culture, lol. I used to watch my women colleagues just break down because the men colleagues would dump all their work onto them (as a foreigner I was practically viewed sometimes as an actual alien, which I hated but I guess it kept me from having to deal with a lot of the bullshit stuff my feminine Korean colleagues had to deal with)
To some women, "dumping all hw work" usually means "we are sharing work? How dare he making me work"!!! This is why i am anti feminist. Feminists just want special treatment. Not equality.
Remember when SK's national female athlete An San got hate and petitioned by male to snatch her gold medals away cz she has short hair and a fan of mamamoo??
@@daniborcsi5520 Since mmm are seen a bit as a feminist icons and they are powerful women it was just another point to push the athlete down for being an independant woman
💀💀💀 Remember when gold medal female athlete got attacked simply for having short hair? They literally try to remove & take away her achievements for having short hair, the men accuse her for being feminist. This is why feminism should exist in SK. There are real inequality in SK, not just for show.
I agree with you but I remember that all of the haters were computer's pixels. What a mean it's that this problem is not a problem because of men only, women thinks alike and attacks each other and support prejudices because they grew up with these thoughts. It's part of the problem too.
@@chrisdawson1776 Personally, I think it's really unfair that it's only mandatory for men. Either everyone goes or no one. I also think it would be beneficial for women to learn some self defense/weapons handling, survival skills and general fitness. Having more women in the military might help cut down the abuse that goes on there too, in the long run. Which would be a benefit for the men. I don't know how certain, but I kinda gather that there's some sexual abuse, in addition to emotional and physical abuse, that happens between the highers ups and the new recruits.
@@TheseareStrange Well the feminists in S Korea disagree with you, they want only men have to serve in the military. (Mandatory in s korea for men only to conscript in military for a few years)
I'm Vietnamese but I can relate to this. It's even worse if you're an asian woman who doesn't meet the standard of beauty in their culture. They deem you unworthy of marriage, which is all you're pretty much needed for.
Vietnam has way more gender equality than any Western country, I've lived there for years and I've seen women in literally every position of society, meanwhile seeing a female construction worker or rubbish collector is extremely rare in the West. I've also seen men do "feminine" jobs which aren't performed by men in the West. If you go out for a stroll in Hanoi you'll see both men and women doing work, if you go out to a street in any wealthy Western country all "dirty jobs" are exclusively male and most "clean jobs" in offices are primarily female.
@@-haclong2366 sorry but this is such a bad example of sexism in the west, In America women don't face any obstacles to be a construction worker, police officer, etc. We have the freedom to choose our careers and you have to take into account how many women actually want to do those jobs. The field of psychology is dominated by women according to your logic this would mean that men face discrimination in the field of psychology which is not true at all.
I swear the more I get to know about Korea the more I realize there's nothing special about that place it's like every place else. It's just that dramas and kpop industry have been attracting so many younger people for tourism but FR I don't find moving to South Korea interesting anymore. That was once a dream when I really wanted to meet BTS but now it's just....hmm..
Same goes for Japan, India, US, Uk, Europe and every other country/continent of the world, no country/continent out there, perhaps apart from the small island nations can guarantee all but equal rights and opportunities and controlled capitalism.
It's annoying how so many westerners think that, especially here in my country. It's in Asia but there's widespread corruption, poverty, toxicity, ect.
Domestic violence, bullying and hidden sexcam are on rampage and makes headlines in Korea. But on screen oppas lures women non the less... Reality is sugarcoated...
@@chrisdawson1776 women wouldnt mind if it meant equality. if the women youre around are so against it themselves then thats on them. im not a fighter at all, and im a very much domestic focused woman. tiny, weak and unbalanced. put me in a war if that means people will stop bringing up the military as if its the one thing a woman would never do. plenty of women do it, voluntarily and they love what they do. but if you see serving your own country as something you wouldnt want to do, then thats a personal matter.
@@citrus7745 In S Korea its mandatory for men and only men to be conscripted into military for a few years, the feminists there are against women having to enlist.
@@chrisdawson1776 “ha! Military whataboutism 😎 checkmate, feminists!” great, now we can have two genders forced into a job they don’t want for a few years instead of just one. The better answer is not “make more people serve the military” like some authoritarian nightmare. It’s “abolish forced military service”. Real gender equality is when *no one* is forced to do anything based on their sex. Though, I have a sneaking suspicion you already knew that most left-wing feminists are anti military in this sense, just that you’ve neglected to bring up the men’s half of that liberation to suit your argument.
@@Le_Phantom Do you think men aged 18-60 should have been able to leave Ukraine? Feminists dont think so, they only wanted women and children to be safe while they used same traditionalist masculinity arguments on why it is a man's duty to fight for his country (and anyone who runs is a coward) while women are free of that obligation and can (and should) flee
They'll beat women on the street. The guys can get in trouble, but it's kind of considered a domestic/family issue. Americans who jump in can actually get in trouble. Even with all that, it's a lot safer for women in Korea than in USA.
@@riyasingh2729lol the fact that the crime is commited by a male and you a MALE saying that she needs the help of a MALE for sth a MALE did is quite ironic isnt it lol.
I remember some young cringy kpop fans making videos on how korean men are the best and we should marry a korea guy(they call them oppa💀💀). They be living in Kdrama world Edit: lmao the likes, also yes they're Koreaboo but i didn't use that term because they get triggered
Most countries in Asia are very conservative. I was taught that girls can be as smart as boys by my family because I was the single daughter under one child policy but it's not the case for most others. Many of my female friends tell me how their parents treat their brothers so much better than them, who are expected to be the nanny or second mom in the family at a young age, especially the eldest daughter. Often, if the family can only afford to send one child to college it will be the son. A lot of diaspora live with the same mentality and the daughters grow up doing everything but feeling like they don't have much worth while the sons are coveted and spoiled to the bone. It's pretty messed up EDIT: to every older asian sister, this post was for you. I empathize 100% and you deserve much more than to be shoved into the role of a nanny or nurturer in this biased society who don't value female excellence. This post was not made for anyone else, noones gives a shit about the opinion of someone with an anime profile pic
All idols put on a facade. Yes, even your favs. Not all them are nice or good people. You could be delusionally in love with your bias, not even knowing they could be treating women like trash. It happens.
Yup. Just look at all those fans who still insisted that guy from Big Bang could never have done what he did in the Burning Sun scandal. Breaking news: how talented and cute someone is has nothing to do with their morals or integrity, lol.
@@bharatgarg8981 if I remember correctly, it was related to prostitution/trafficking in a club he was invested/involved in. The clubs higher ups allegedly facilitated the arrangements.
@@bharatgarg8981 Avery is correct. He was involved in a prostitution and human trafficking ring that was running out of a club, Burning Sun. It also connected to corruption.
One of the reasons why (G)I-DLE is my favorite Kpop group is because they’re speaking up against the gender inequality and stereotypes through their songs and MVs. They’ve also done something that cleared the SK searches when they released their latest comeback Nxde. So when some pervert looks up children nude or women nude their group and new song comes up instead of the explicit content the pervert is looking up. In SK if a woman speaks about feminism the incels would continuously harass them.
It doesn't matter which race or country and even gender is an illusion...Twin flames are similar regardless of these 3D nonsense factors.This world is fake. Yes my bias is my twin flame and my ideal type
Remember when Irene of red velvet read a feminist book and recommended it to her fans, her male fans got so annoyed that burned her posters. Yeah, that's a country you all kpop kdrama fans worship so much. No offense, it's a beautiful place and an advanced country but their views are way different than us and if you are willing to know better, your friend Koreandic is happy to help :)
As someone who went to American international school in Hong Kong with a bunch of Korean kids where I was bullied almost daily by Korean boys due to sexist traditional ideas that they held, this makes me very sad and angry at the dismissive attitude towards feminism in South Korea. Not only did these boys not respect the culture of the country their parents are making $ in, they also thought they had the right to regulate how girls should act or look like. I will never forget that one Korean guy who shoved me to the ground and crossed me name out on the soccer club sign up sheet while hid friends cheered him on because they didn’t think I had the right to learn how to play soccer. Mind you, I don’t think all Korean men are sexist jerks, but some extremists really find a way to twist the narrative into calling feminists “terrorists” when in fact women are just people who should not be held to a higher standard or be given restrictions.
@@stehaniemul9288 you know fighting back in Korea is against the law and the victim can get charged for “assault” even if she is defending herself? Even Kim Garam who only used words to defend her friend against a sex criminal was blamed for “using verbal violence” and branded a “bully” because of this. The concept of “fighting back” doesn’t really apply the same way in Korea as it does overseas
A place where grown-up women doing *Aegyo* is considered cute is for sure one cringey shit because most women would hate acting like a fake baby. Even watching Aegyo scenes in kdramas give me goosebumps. Not to mention their beauty standards as thin as twig and as clean as glass paper. I'm myself a k-pop and kdrama fan but I don't like their so-fake sweet, corney and beautiful portrayal. I still remember how Sulli was bullied till death.
There's legit a website with lessons on "How to Be Cute in Korea". Lessons for How to speak cutesy, hand gestures, facial gestures (pouting is in there), and of course how to use Lotte headbands (AKA the animal headbands). I could not make it through the whole website because the cringe was incredibly strong 😬🤣
I think when you are truly interested in a country and its culture you should educate yourself concerning all aspects of it, also the dark ones, not just romanticise it. Always remember that there is no perfect place on earth, which is why we always need to be careful with our perception and also should never stop to fight for the equality of human beings everywhere. Thank you for videos like this that raise awareness to such topics!
I am from Germany and certainly thought south korea had a different approach on this. Actually weird to wrap my head around this because there are only beautiful thing's popping up in my head when I think about south korea today... I guess I have to educate myself on that topic
In Korea, every election look like a battle between men and women. Both groups hate each other. There are feminazi in Korea too. That doesn’t help either.
Because people wants to show only good side of thier country. Korea is in a major crisis on birth rate, and also a lot of gender conflicts. I think korea wouldn't last long.
I feel this issue exist everywhere in Asia. In my country(India) even though politicians support giving equal rights to women, the society has a long way to go. There is a big difference between how women are treated in cities and in villages
Sadly the problem is most feminists aren't doing enough for the people in villages. It's very hard to do so as well. So the changes made through feminism are still not accessible to the village woman nor are relevant to them. On the flip side feminism has made sure that most of the laws made are gender biased, which get used by a lot of women to exploit men. They will say they care about making men women equal but they will do nothing in real life. From rape laws to Sexual harrasment laws, dowry laws everything supposed to protect women are exploited by them. There are no consequences for false accusations either. The men who commit the real crimes are getting away by bribing people and innocent men are getting trapped in the laws made. Until corruption stops fair things won't happen anywhere.
Well, the thing is in India so-called feminists do every kind of politics instead of feminism. That's why it is becoming more difficult to advocate feminism because as soon as you mention feminism the first thing that comes to mind of people is the image of these femininazis. They are working towards promoting more gender-biased laws and projecting females as a superior race. Man, they need to respect the other genders, they can't just project them as sh*t and expect them to promote their ideology. I remember once Miss Assam said, "I think feminism is an ideology that doesn't teach ladies first rather promotes one who needs it should go first." And I think this is exactly what feminism means. The actual meaning of feminism is getting lost in this woke world and that is what is causing the further drift in our society among males and females. This is my personal opinion I don't know how much you agree to this but you are free to contradict.
I wish Indians would also criticize the "men's rights movement" as much as they criticize feminism. P.S. - I am a feminist but many of my opinions are different from the left-wing feminism in India.
@@HM87520 The Soviet Union was actually an orderly and happy Super nation (except during the era of Stalin, the Madman) and no one was discriminated because of his or her age or gender, unlike South Korea's society today. As for the Soviet failing economic system, Mikhail Gorbachev did try to make reforms to it and turn it into a free market, Capitalist system while still maintaining the Soviet ideology in everyday life. Unfortunately, Gorbachev came into power way too late and was unable to save the Soviet Union from collapsing due to a major financial crisis. What a pity. If Lee Kuan Yew of Singapore taught the Soviet Leader before Gorbachev Singapore's secrets to economic success and efficient governance (like how Lee taught those secrets to Deng Xiaoping of China), the Soviet Union would have still existed today, and will be as prosperous as modern day China.
THAT'S ACTUALLY SO SAD! 💔 I am shook but actually not really surprised :/ I hope one day this will change 💖 Thank you for spreading awareness about it with this video 💖
Awareness about Feminism. Yes, i am aware. Spoiled western women who wants special treatment but tries to trick you into thinking its "equality" they want.
It's also important to note that when I did work study as a foreigner specifically a WHITE foreigner you are treated VERY differently. The way men would drag my friends around was insane, I was never touched. The amount of touching and voicing unnecessary opinions is crazy. Saying things like "you should really stop wearing glasses and work on your eye makeup, it's making everyone in the office have a difficult time enjoying their work" there are ALWAYS exceptions but the Korean government is a boys club and everyone knows
Wow that’s interesting. I thought that men don’t really touch women a lot in South Korea. For example couples don’t show much PDA over there. So I assumed that men don’t touch women especially if they are not a couple. Honestly I would rather hear catcalls all day than be touched. You were lucky to be treated like this. From other foreigners experience I heard that Korean men don’t have a lot of respect for foreign women (white or black or brown)
@monke usually it's the father's name which is supposed to be written first. The way the mother's name is first feels like a breath of fresh air for once.
This still doesnt stop some girls to dream of going Korea, just like my friend little sister. She is 17 now, but she keep dream of becoming Kpop star. She even told my friend, education isnt important, she just need to go Korea and become famous. Even her parents didnt stop her little sister, my friend is the only one clear headed.
Meanwhile I want to be a singer in Japan and help the younger generation that nobody controls them 💀 the poor souls already had sufferwd enough with inequality and the society with strong beliefs of Senpai (boss/upperclassmen) and Kohai (junior/underclassmen) system Not only that I actually do care for humanity but not the society 🤡
The kpop idols from third gen born in SK are known for having Bachelor degrees and then pursuing grad school. Yes the girls strive for it too, and it can delay conscription for the men
I didn't know that much about feminism in Korea, until (G)I-DLE released Tomboy and I saw the most fucked up comments under the yt video. I'm still shocked to this day. Like damn.
I think I'm the only one who didn't think that all Korean men are as romantic and handsome as Korean actors..common sense maybe..instead I was annoyed after seeing their overpossesive behaviour
Specially indian teenagers they are soooo obsessed that it makes me cringe like ugghhh i can't explain that feeling I really miss my old days. its been 6 years i first started to listen to k-pop but now i don't like to talk about it because of these obsessed teenagers 😫
@@hm5205 right..I'm glad that no one around me like anything related to Korea 😂😂😂..i hope those kids will get reality check before they'll able to go Korea otherwise it can be extremely dangerous for them
along sk local women, there's joke that all of handsome, hot looking guys are living in practice room of SM entertainment. in sk reality, we can find lots of beautiful women but no men.
I'm shocked by that headline. How does a grown man think that is a logical opinion? Thank you for sharing and never being disrespectful about touchy issues
It is ridiculous to say that all korean men are like BTS members or kdrama... Those people have to know that every men in the world can be violent and not romantic at all... I hope that women in Korea, and any other countries, can be more protected from violence.
@@Luluskuy i don't watch naruto so i don't know sasuke's personality.😅 But yea I think you know what I mean. Like in kdrama, when it's raining and they saw the girl don't have an umbrella, they will offer their umbrella. But in reality, they don't care when you're soak in rain.😅🤣 I really don't know but my korean friend told me that.🤣🤣
I'm 16 years old Korean girl and I live in Seoul. It's really a complicated and sensitive problem in Korea. I can't even say it with my friends because I don't even know they are feminist or not. Based on internet, both side aggressively attacks one another, while hating each other. I'm not a faminist, and also not a opposite, and I think the nagative feeling of the public comes from their aggressive attitude and the way they attack each other. Some of them even say their mother or father (actually all man or woman) must vanish in the world. It's terribly irrational.... I feel like I am in an era of 'hate' where many youths hate each other everyday. I hope to live in a era of love and respect when I get older.
This was heartbreaking to read. I am sure you will get to experience your world that is filled with love. Till then hang in there and keep doing your thing ♥️ Sending you lots of love and a tight hug, dearest 🫂♥️
Honestly, she should give up her citizenship and participate on behalf of another country in the next Olympics. SKs were so stupid in that moment, it boils my blood to think about what she went through. All that hard work and not even a single thank you, instead she got booed.
@@RKNancy You gotta change the word. It's not South Korean. It's South Korean MEN. Females supported her all the time. It's a big insult you categorized them in one group.
@monke he was also trolled by men. I saw plenty of men saying things to the effect of “yeah he looks like he spends his whole day on the internet” and “that’s exactly what I expected the guy with the most Wikipedia articles to look like”.
I watched this movie "Kim Ji Young, born 1982". And it saddened me how women were treated especially when they got married and have a child.. They will lose their birth name, their jobs.. I'm not sure but I think this is the same book that Irene (Red Velvet) read and she is being criticized by it as this book shows feminism (I think I read somewhere that the writer of the book was criticized).. I haven't read the book but the movie is great..
People are commenting about the kdramas are only showing good men but the majority of the ones I have watched, they are mostly just assholes to the women. Boys over Flowers was one of the worst I watched, she ended up marrying the guy who treats her terribly and just friending the actual sweet guy. I was so irritated at the end.
Facts. Anyway most second MLs are made to be the "loyal dog", butlerly or brotherly persona exactly because they're needed to contrast with the ML, no matter how arrogant or scumbag the ML appear to be. They're there to be the cushion and medicine for the hurt FL meanwhile she's stupidly fighting with the ML. Not every female consumer like those exact tropes though, but the majority sure eat that up like vampires.
It's to nurture the mentality of "I can fix him" between the FL and the targeted female consumers, as if most women must fix bad boys. And so, the good boys are just there to be the supportive best male friend.
and this never happened in america europe china india or anywhere in the world ? Or girls doing the same to men... like never I guess we don't really need female prisons
@@lexnight8345 i never said it didn't happen in other countries... stop with the whataboutism. the fact is many korean men (old and ESPECIALLY young) are strongly anti-feminist and it is VERY apparent when there are constantly stories in the korean news about men who stalk, spy on, r*pe, and m*rder women. It is not just men who don't believe in women's rights... it's about men who think women are inferior to men and should be treated as such.
@@JundongPaeng-c4n i live in korea... and even if i didn't, there is often news about crimes against women in korea. also Korea is not even in the world’s top 10 safest countries
There's a lot of pretty boys there, but its also the first time I ever fell into a truly abusive, manipulative relationship that made me a truly see the danger of being dependent on a man for the first time. Funny, men being hella toxic to someone ready to fit their housewife role turned them independent 🤡 Be aware that in the US for instance there's not a big "pool" to choose from, and "your type" probably has similar personalities. Then suddenly there's a lot of people "your type" with *all* personalities, including ones you *never* would have tolerated if you weren't blinded by looks.
As an older kpop fan, I remember what my mom and stepmom told me about their experiences in the 1960s United States and even how it was when I first entered the workforce in the mid 1980s. It was like what Korean women describe now. I have faith in them breaking through like we had to, I just wish we could assist them. Of course there’s the issue of the US going backwards in some states but the way to equality is not a straight line and it has to be continuously fought for!
@@Waldemarvonanhalt I agree. It is not at linear. Still the past 50 years has looked very different for the US and South Korea and they had to deal with things we didn’t like decades of a socially conservative military dictatorship. I absolutely don’t want to say that they’re behind us, only that they have had challenges we never had to face. But they also have smart, strong and brave feminists and I think they will continue to fight well against those who want to take that away from them
I'm not from Korea but this is true, my friend experienced something similar recently, but that doesn't mean all are same, In every county you will find both good and bad people. Love from India 🇮🇳 💜 🇰🇷
South Korean Women: Please prioritize our public safety, social rights and dignity. South Korean Government: *I’m going to pretend I didn’t hear that.* 😀
Once upon a time,a wise netizen said:"America make superhero movie to cover the crime rate issue,japan make JAV(🧐) to cover the low population problem,so.......... Korea make a lot of fantastic relationship movie to cover those domestic violence case
This is one of my major issues with media. Shows and books are written where ideal scenes play out because entertainment is meant to be an escape from reality. But more and more people are forgetting that and instead believing that the media they consume is an accurate portrayal of real life. Now we have tons of people walking around thinking life is a fairytale and ultimately ending up so much more disappointed.
I know the first bit is a joke but the fact that many young kpop fans (and indeed a lot of armys but that's because the fandom is big and international) do equate Korea and its culture to what they know about kpop is so embarrassing, I've seen people proudly state they didn't even know Korea existed before they got into kpop... It also explains why some kpop fans are so racist despite stanning Korean idols
As a person who lives in Korea & has spoken to many Korean men; they don’t show it on first sight but after a while they reveal their deep misogynist thoughts & mindset.
Every ARMY I've met until now says "MY DREAM CITY IS SKOREA" 🙄 Obviously, because of their fantasies about Korean oppas and BTS🤷🏼♀️ . They probably think that every SKOREAN oppa is like BTS and other Male leads...taking care, respecting, loving,etc. They are to much lost in their fantasies 🙄 Maybe I'm the only ARMY who does not have any wish to go and settle in SKOREA or marry an Korean oppa🤷🏼♀️ I'm the only one normal I guess because I live in reality and fantasies are great only until it's going on in your mind for a temporary period of time. "I WiLL Go tO SouTH KOreA anD LiVe mY DreAm LiFE"(fantasy which is not reality) Go ahead 👏👏👏👏🙄
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How do you think about this? 🤔
no comment
i don’t want any arguments 😂
Idk
Si no dejan de joder con esas pelotudeces del feminismo van a arruinar todo lo que lograron, quieren ser América Latina? Sumidos en la pobreza y bajeza moral, adelante, abracen el maldito feminismo.
I really not get it
Early yay
Someone on Twitter said, “Men in KDrama are ideal because SKorean women write them”
Lol
It's a woman's fantasy?
That's actually deep if you understand 😶
That's true. Example is true beauty's writer. She said that due to her experiences, she wrote true beauty. We can see that she holds a lot of insecurity in herself, and thus she wrote suho and seojun, her ideal types. Maybe the webtoon (or drama or whatever y'all watch) might be annoying at times, but i guess that's how her mentality was built up
This is damn deep if you understand
Love this format, especially when you talk about political issues!
Nice😁😁
@@Mykoreandic hi
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Trust me Korea has a ton of political issues
@@Mykoreandic omg I'm ur biggest fan please notice me I love ur videos
Remember when korean fans tried to cancel Irene for reading a book on feminism 💀🤡
Same with RM for reading that same book... But the backlash against Irene was worse, because female idols are almost always criticised more harshly
I've actually read the book she read without realising. It literally just goes through the stages of a woman's life and points out the blatant sexism she's experiencing. If Korean men can't handle that they should pay their mothers compensation.
Yeah and the same ppl were praising bts for wearing feminist pulover ....
@@fullfradi95 edited* sorry i misunderstood the comment 💀
@@lovegwk_ I think they are replying to the comment that says “RM read the book too”
they bullied an olympic champion for having short hair💀
They bullied miss korea for being overweight as her height is almost 6 feet, her weight is 60 and they think she doesn't fit in korean standards 😶
@@KOMALSHARMA19111 you mean Hana Kim?
@@elbinalejandrofelizgonzale1742 Kim Min Soo. Miss Korea 2018
good
@@KOMALSHARMA19111 Yeah that never made sense to me. She didn't even look overweight so I was confused about why she was being bullied online.
I remember when APINK member son naeun got hate just because of her phone cover saying " girls can do anything".
Chairman Mao said:"Women hold up half the sky.". A woman can do anything a man can (except produce sperm, of course) as long as she puts her mind to it!
Ummm.. and she is now gone..
Whtttttttttttt
@@yeet7580 what do you mean by she is gone now ? She left her group after 11 years on mutual terms . She left to pursue her acting career. That's it .
What do you mean by "everything"?
The reason why K-drama, Manhwa (Korean webcomic), etc have sweet men and women empowerment theme is because they want to escape from reality 😭
completely skipping the fact that those kinda men cant be real. 💀
Come to Korea. As anyother country girls take most of advantages and this is the reason why feminism is not popular in Korea. Because it is treated as Losers' thoughts and it is true at least in Korea. Escape from reality? Feminist girls in Korea don't do shit and they just scream for their rights, in fact they don't do shit bt screamig. People would have respect them if they try to improve and develop whatever they could but they don't. Respect is not something you get it for free u know.
@@굉장히밉시허슬 a woman athlete won 3 gold medals in olympic for her country, but what she got from her country? A backlash, because she’s a feminist and having a short hair. Seems like the one who can only scream is the anti-feminist. Improve my ass, they don’t even have a chance to do that.
Are you even the authors of the work? how do u know that they made it because they want to escape from reality?
@@pqono it’s so obvious that my comment is based on my pov as a reader and human, also ofc i’m totally aware that’s not their main reason. It’s simply because we human sometimes imagining things that we don’t have to be ours because we wanted that to happen irl. What’s so confusing? A secret (or not) that public knows is East Asia and its patriarchy, why tf an artist makes a work that’s a complete opposide of reality, excluding if they want to promote their idea (feminism) or critique the society?
people r literally ignoring the topic and just complimenting his wig
Fr I want an explaination but overall comments about something else
Yeah
@@lurveaisya they got high rate for sexual assault on women there
Welcome to Earth
@@heyyyyyyyyyyow your source plz
I remember a short film saying "you women have to be pretty, us men can be fat and ugly but it doesn't matter" or something along the lines and many Skoreans say how it's so true and they get told that in school already...
Women like men with money and status, same as how men like women like beauty and purity.
@@prasadpatil1160 women like men who are handsome and all. But the society has constructed that kind of mindset because they think women dont have any good qualities despite beauty.
@@prasadpatil1160 : But you can't be a beauty and purity.. for many guys though, can you ? I remember that, I was insulted by many different guys verbally... That was the end for me. Cos they don't keep their criticisms to themselves.. You say something.. and then that girl and that woman goes home.. and she gets a second verbal beating as well... despite what is posted online. Your assumption is that, she doesn't get criticisms.. as well.. both in her own home, outside of her own home.. as well as in her work.... When do you ever "keep our gob shut"... that should go to the same to guys too, right ?....
With the media, this is increased N fold as well.... on top of your own duty as well.. your civic duty.. and your analysis of society as well... and to know which way to vote.... etc etc etc...
The romanticism of Asian cultures doesn't help either. Fighting for feminism in Asian countries is a hard long battle.
... which is certainly not worth figting
@@stxsurgeon8961 why?
@@Angeleek7007 why did SK fought NK and China? thats why
@@stxsurgeon8961 💀
It's not even just East Asia, the whole of Asia needs some helping of it 😥
I think it's only 15-year-old teenagers who think south korea is like in the dramas, so I hope so.
Same and indeed it would be ideal if a country filled with people from those dramas actually existed!! 😩🤩
many western women who goes to korea mostly 25-30 years🙄looking for korean guy like in the drama,how naive can all of this women be
@@aggelikimyroni9925 most characters in kdramas are hella problematic. Men are controlling manipulative and insane, what r u talking about
@@roboaxe6688 Really? You must be kidding. Do women like this really exist? This is so weird.
@@iremaydemir4670 not kidding only few day ago i watched them on youtube i forgot what it's called but they really said what make them interested in coming to korea cause korean man are wealty,handsome and protective,gentleman and many more😅 but dont worry cause they got slap by reality real quick
It's always terrifying to hear someone in power say something so inhumane
Nothing more powerful than justice.
Feminist roasted in seconds 😂
@@Heartiin. Motherless child detected
No shit, all people in power are inhumane
@@Heartiin. male su1c1de rate🤭🤭
This is called romanticism. I learned (painfully so), that the greater the fantasy the darker the reality. K-drama for example, the men are so enchanting and romantic because it stems from the writers IMAGINATION. The greatest and most beautiful and romantic pieces are often created by the most depressed people.
It's actually the minds way of trying to cope and stabilize itself. What cannot be obtained in reality is compensated by the imagination. It's also why many of the most romantic artist are eager to jump off this mortal coil. Because at some point imagination is not enough.
Go forth and enjoy your K-dramas now.
After reading that and agreeing that that can be right, i doubt thats 100% about all k-drama. Im sure there are many happily married people making really good k-drama
After reading that and agreeing that that can be right, i doubt thats 100% reflective of all k-drama. Im sure there are many happily married people making really good k-drama
After reading that and agreeing that that can be right, i doubt thats 100% reflective of all k-drama. Im sure there are many happily married people making really good k-drama. All it takes is imagination and you dont need to be depressed
lmao there are plenty of men everywhere that are romantic and would treat their woman as well as she wanted to be treated but they don't look like those K-drama and K-pop stars nor do they make money like them. I'm glad comments like yours prove that women don't see the truth because it's not as beautiful or perfect as they wish for even when they don't meet those beauty and perfection standards themselves.
It’s called romanticizing not romanticism. There’s a massive difference.
What about mirrors under skirts, strange men following girls homes, cameras in hotel rooms?
What about it
what do you think that only happens in Korea
Yes popular in Japan
I think it happens in every existing country. But people really need to see the downsides of S. Korea. Girls worship that place
@@MsKaz1000 I’m sure they don’t but it’s still a issue in SK and needs to be discussed
When I studied in high school in Japan and did an assignment in Japanese where I had to write about my family. When my teacher checked my assignment one of the mistakes he pointed out were that I wrote "mom" before "dad". He said in Japan they write "dad and mom", not "mom and dad". I was thinking internally that what does it matter but later on I realized.
Damn that’s messed up
oh no :(
I don't know when you went to school, but there is no such education in Japan. Perhaps it is the two-character idiom for the character for "父母"(which mean father and mother)?
Haha lol if I need to write family essay I wouldn’t even put dad in there 🤣🤣
woah how long ago was this
I remember visiting south Korea when I was little and legit our tour guide who was a female was like "don't marry guys in Korea" she didn't say it like that but she was hinting at it
reminds me of the time my japanese language teacher told us (students in all-girls school who she knows read a lot of shoujo and romanticise it) "don't marry japanese guys" and proceeded to break down why in class. if it looks perfect, it's really not.
When I started working at a company in Japan there were a few Koreans who started at the same time as me. We all needed to go somewhere in the elevator. The elevator was full. One Korean guy got out of the elevator and used the stairs by himself just so the last girl could get in the elevator. It was one of the most gentleman moments I've seen, so I guess all this depends on the Korean guy.
@@trashraccoon2635 prob dated a bad boy, got her results lmao
I'm half korean, my mom said to never marry a Korean man because I'd work too hard for nothing in return 🤣🤣🤣 like damn
That's not good advice, you'll find such men anywhere else on earth. There is a woman in the country of perfect men who has landed on one such man guaranteed.
Nice joke
이건 맞긴해ㅋㅋ
Weird that’s exactly how I feel about American women
Working hard for a relationship is not a bad thing
No wonder why MAMAMOO is so underrated
Hell yeah!
Here comes mamamoo minion
@@optimusprime-fr4rc chzz what does that gotta do with u fuck off
This is what you got my this video.
@@Jesuslovesyou.7 English??
Please make more shorts like this revealing the real side of S. Korea because some people actually think it's nice. I am from Korea and i relate to this topic
Edit- Thanks for the likes and some people are actually mature here so i respect that 😌
Edit 2- Saw some comments and i really feel sorry and bad for the people who faced harrasment in S. Korea some of them are creeps so ya.
news for u my friend: the whole world is shiet and SK is considered as a good and decent place to live. u should considered as lucky if u were born there.
What do you think S. Korea needs to fix?
@@b2stparadise racism?
@@b2stparadise lol S. Korea needs to fix its racism, misogyny, patriarchy and xenophobia.
Ppl think Korea is really good country not studying about the country. When I became a kpop fan, I only started to think about the country and their rules and regulations (I'm a political science student soo...) somethings really disappointed me but some rules and regulations were amazing ngl
I'm half Korean, I grew up abroad and my parents are feminists and when I went to SK for a visit it shocked me how men treated woman and women treated men. Why can't we just be equal why does a penis, vagina or whatever else dictate how people treat us?
To clarify since the comments are a raging war I do not mean "absoulute" equality. We all have differences and they should be utilised accordingly. What I mean is that certain day to day experiences such as being treated with respect shouldn't be dictated by whether one has a penis, vagina, etc. Nor how we present ourselves. We are all human and we all deserve equal opportunity and respect along with plenty more and since "absolute" equality can never be achieved due to how our differences make us unique and how some people rise to the top and some sink to the bottom we should atleast strive for a society filled with diversity and respect without discrimination and oppression( not all since we can never truly get rid of these issues simply minimise them to the smallest percentage we can.
Somehow this is the saddest part of Life
What is in south Korea? Is it equal? I don't get it
@@tibmb3439 no it is not 🙂 same as other countries
Nice you dont only judge men. Like almost all feminist. Thats why more and more men in western (live in switzerland but i see this change in hole europe and usa) dont realy like feminism. You allways hear about the mean mens out there but all women are special nice ppl. I hope you saw how fake american feminist organisation are after amber heard lost against johnny depp. They have the narativ "johnny is a man so he is the monster" they dont like facts telling the truth. Its basicly the nutshell of many feminists
It's so sad to hear about SK
I joke that the western KPop stans who look for boyfriends in South Korea will be as disappointed as western weebs and otaku visiting Japan.
I mean their chances of finding a perfect KPop / KDrama guy are about as good as finding a 2D anime waifu soooo
well at least Japan is also misogynistic so those weebs got better chance at finding a submissive cutie housewife cause that's how a many japanese girls are raised
@@himesilva SO PRETTY GOOD? POG
It's much worse
I weebs live in japan,
Honestly, I met many japanese girl that cute and act like anime girl...
So honestly, I don't really understand why people said japanese girl not like anime....
Sure, they are minority, but they aren't that rare
This is so true. I get annoyed every time a Korea obsessed girl tells me that Korean guys are perfect in terms of personality and looks. Guys, get real. Korea isn't utopia, it's a real world country. And Korean guys aren't perfect- no one is. In fact, I would say that Asian men are one of the most patriarchal people in the world (not all, ofc). The Korea you see in romntic kdramas is not real. The girls who think male leads in kdramas as realistic are delusional.
Facts!!
My sis tell me before getting marry just forgot wht you saw in drama real life is not like that
I agree with you ha ha
Yes! Now say it louder for the people in back
Dont think you know what delusional means
Japan and korea is one of those places where you want to visit but definitely not want to live in.
For me, which is korean, I totally agree with you:(
Well that depends on your own political views. I’ve always been a huge anime fan and when I found out that Japan was a more conservative country it only made me like it more.
Where should you want to live?
@@tvsonicserbia5140 Umm considering that I’m not that fluent in any other languages other than English, the US or Canada
@@elise9259 The question was for the reductive original post. Also English is an official language in a ton more countries, Australia, New Zealand, UK
The way Irene and RM were in their Boycott list because they are suspected to be feminists ☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️ lord help that country
WHAT 😭☠️
@@HyukaThingzz yea RM didnt get much burn because we obviously didn't respect that boycott but Irene did get lots of hate for READING A DAMN BOOK
we don't need it communist
Honestly I love Korean culture...
But several things in Korea are little too much. Issues like this,racism and beauty standards are really toxic.
Obsession with skin care,perfect hair & make-up, extreme dieting. These things are way too toxic. Seriously! I've been following kpop,kdrama for a long time. Even I noticed that there's a slight changes the way I behave. I slowly became Insecure. And that shit really scared the fuck out of me... I started noticing my imperfections,my weight,the way I look. Imagine a girl who is wholeheartedly against any kind of toxic feminine beauty standards set by society. Even she falls for this... Like WTF!
I immediately take a break and tried to normalize things about myself!! After a few days I finally stopped worrying for this kinda toxic stuff. Tbh It was horrible!
Please DO NOT support these things ever. If you are struggling with your insecurities- Just take a deep breath and
LOVE YOURSELF the way you are. You've got this. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL anyway ❤️❤️
You can do it
I know you will
Don't change yourself in some toxic machine
That's all i can say
I know you know that already
Hang in there
You will find your correct way eventually
Racism bro wtf they just prefer people from their country, it's totally normal and I don't know why there are so few countries like that. Like in Japan it's easier for a japanese to find a job, buy a house and do many other things than for a foreigner. And it's really cool and kind to do this.
@@tristaaaaan that’s called racism bro
@@dani_dances4103 nope haha that's just respect the family more than random people, see it like this
@@tristaaaaan How is it respecting family more then random people?? Not all people of the same race are related what. 💀💀💀
Just scrolled past a k-pop short saying:
the reason women wear skirts so freely in Korea is because all Korean men are sweet and respectful (with pictures of BTS members in the background)
Like when will the delusions end?
Whomth tf, what??? People are actually creating shit like this??? 💀
@@KalafinaBTS yes i also saw it😂😂😂....but people were criticising her by saying that she must be 10 year old bts fan
@@aashusharma8928 I hope they are and they outgrow this assumption 😭
cox people hear korean and go "oh yeah bts"..which is also kinda weird!
The delusions are good for tourism unfortunately.
Big respect for posting this video dude! It's always nice to see men who care too
Remember the female korean olympic athlete who got hate for having short hair 💀
i thot she is a male
it took me seconds to realise!
@@vivekt.2038 You what? Keep it PG!
Yeah her name is An San btw
@@countrycoffeecup7772 they just misspelled "thought"
과거 페미발언때문인데 거짓정보 알리고있네 우리 쓰니야 ㅎㅎ
I can relate. I went to go visit my relatives in South Korea a few weeks ago and I was reminded every single day of my lower status as a female compared to my brother. It hurt to be treated worse than him and as much as I love my culture, this is something that needs to be fixed.
@LockerGamingTV sure kiddo.
How were you treated worse than him? Is your brother older or younger?
Can you give me some examples of the unfair treatment you've received?
@@karaokeandrandomclips he’s my older brother and some of the stuff I experienced were constant criticisms about my appearance while my brother was only told how amazing he was. I was told that my body was ugly while my brother’s body was perfect. I was forced to give him half of my food always at every meal in order to make sure he was healthy and was kept standing behind him at all times. My aunt and uncle would oftentimes push me aside to reach my brother and I often felt isolated during my trip. This is just some of the stuff that happened and it was to the point where my brother was uncomfortable with my treatment as well. Hope this answers your question though
@@jacquelinehan2055Well, than you should stop being a disappointment and start working on yourself.
all jokes aside, i’m glad you’re talking about these topics! many tend to romantizice korea based on what they’ve seen on shows but it couldn’t be further away from the truth!
I read the book "Kim Ji Young, born 1982" and i feel really sad for the women & girls living in SK. I am from Bangladesh and women in most of the cases are oppressed here as well. But the references & incidents i have read in the book were far from my imaginations. I never thought that by standing in 21st Centuries, any Country as whole can treat their women like that. My heart goes out to all of you.
Perhaps if North Korea has fully conquered South Korea and a united Korea is Communist today, there won't be a patriarchy problem? In true Communism, people are judged by their deeds and contribution to society and not by their gender. Mao Zedong and Lenin were very strong advocates for Feminism and Gender Equality.
@@sweetcandysugaarmy8480 you are forgetting that people with power would do whatever they want no matter what government you participate, that's why there are deserters from North Korea specially women that have been violated and use like a s*x object; so no they don't have equal value not even in a fantasy word sadly.
@@sweetcandysugaarmy8480 you know next to nothing about North Korea
@@ezequielmondada6427 But in the Soviet Union and Mao's China, Women are treated with a lot of respect and given equal status as men. Do you know that North Korea under Kim Il Sung was more prosperous than South Korea at that time? It's because USA kept threatening to help the South that made Kim Jong Il and Kim Jong Un really paranoid about North Korea's Sovereignity and made them become so controlling of their citizens. True Communism under Marxist and Leninist teachings practices gender equality. No race is above the other. It's a pity that North Korea as strayed from true Communism due to unfortunate events in History.
@@sweetcandysugaarmy8480 I can't make you think otherwise; but have in mind that comunism doesn't work the way it's made to work; it is ideal , but it always end up the way it is today(totalitarian), China is pretty much Capitalism with some communist ideals >obviously no matter where you look in the world they are st*piddly nationalist.
I am a Korean girl attending school in the UK. Most people in my school thought Korean men were all sweet and caring based on k-dramas. They asked me why I never dated anyone in Korea. I had to tell them the reality of Korean society where conformity is key, feminism, individualism, and homosexuality are criminal. I told them why I left, and they still don't get it.
I'm proud of you
Hey plss can u explain me in detail
Hope they understand one day!
You made a big mistake. That’s the best part
W Korea
Am not from Korea... And i really not aware of the situations....
But I feel... Korean beauty standards is somewhat related with this...
I was not very much in KPOP when it started rapidly gaining popularity because it sounded like 26 genres of music smashed together but after hearing about the way they body shamed female idols (who were all still very much in shape btw???) I think Ive moved further away.
Ps- i do like some kpop songs now
Yeah you're right Korean women are really pretty so they don't need to hate men
@@dt4676 there are many attractive male-hating feminists lol.
@@devitus781 sad but true
@@dt4676 what
It's not that kdramas have shown men kind, loyal and generous. They even show the bad side of everything. But who would choose to watch "My name" over "nevertheless". People be watching all the rom-coms and then they complain about it being so nice. You need to accept any tv show or movie from anywhere is just a source of entertainment. Nothing more or less. IMO I would say there are enough Kdramas that highlight dark side of the society. Not only highlighting the problems of 1gender but every gender that exists. It's just us who choose to watch all "lovey-dovey" stuffs.
True
Even in many SK rom-coms, they show the male lead as toxic, invasive/neglectful, controlling, crazy-ish, narcissistic, rude to FL & her family, etc. Even older "classics" like BOF, playful kiss, Secret Garden, male leads are ab*sive bullies (even physically ab*sive). Even in the Nevertheless you mentioned, the ML is a sh*tty character and doesn't deserve the FL. People, especially the young girls, mistake all those problematic behavior & ab*se from ML as "love", because of the romantic bgm and the handsome face of the actor.
Just remove the handsome face and replace the bgm, you'll see how scary and disgusting, the ML and the plot is. Remove the beautiful face of FL, and you'll see that a lot of FL characters from rom-coms, lack personal boundary, dignity and ability to think for herself. Also, a lot of rom-coms show sexual harassment (like forced kiss, dragging the FL to do stuff), as love. Many k-dramas romanticize adult-minor relationships (For ex Goblin (900+ grown ass man to 17-18yo highschooler he met when she was a fetus).
@@trafalgardwaterlaw6114 THIS
Exactly, as no one told you that Romance in K drama is real, none of the drama claim it was based on reality
me my name was the first k drama i ever loved and i don't even watch k dramas i just read the description and decided to watch it and it was the best decision
Ayo he got a youtube shorts hat, a gift.
He is the king of *Korean RUclips Shorts* 😁
Lol yeah! Thanks♥♥
@@Mykoreandic wait what ..are you not sleeping?its literally nearly 1:30 A.M right?
@@MHarisaNanthika some people sleep late, (they sleep at a later time than others) that means that they sleep at a later time.
@@MHarisaNanthika im not tired
@@tacoeater7191 don’t forget time zones
after living in Korea for 5 years, the "foreign girl" in the jjimjilbang head towel reminds me of SOOO many that came to Korea to find "love" without understanding or knowing the actual culture, lol. I used to watch my women colleagues just break down because the men colleagues would dump all their work onto them (as a foreigner I was practically viewed sometimes as an actual alien, which I hated but I guess it kept me from having to deal with a lot of the bullshit stuff my feminine Korean colleagues had to deal with)
To some women, "dumping all hw work" usually means "we are sharing work? How dare he making me work"!!! This is why i am anti feminist. Feminists just want special treatment. Not equality.
Are there any tips to dumb the work back on them 10x harder?
@@miaposamarie226 besides them getting a grip over their lil ego's?
@@miaposamarie226
Leave Korea.
you should definitely be proud for going, especially because you didn’t know what you were getting into. hesitate on that stuff and you miss out
Remember when SK's national female athlete An San got hate and petitioned by male to snatch her gold medals away cz she has short hair and a fan of mamamoo??
Omg please tell me you're kidding?!
That's imbicile.
@@donardodavinci6126 nope, it was very discussed in the media, the woman has got so much hate, it really hurt
Why is being a fan of Mamamoo even a reason in this?
@@daniborcsi5520 Since mmm are seen a bit as a feminist icons and they are powerful women it was just another point to push the athlete down for being an independant woman
💀💀💀
Remember when gold medal female athlete got attacked simply for having short hair?
They literally try to remove & take away her achievements for having short hair, the men accuse her for being feminist.
This is why feminism should exist in SK. There are real inequality in SK, not just for show.
An san is my hero. Fr
I agree with you but I remember that all of the haters were computer's pixels. What a mean it's that this problem is not a problem because of men only, women thinks alike and attacks each other and support prejudices because they grew up with these thoughts. It's part of the problem too.
You want it mandatory for women to enlist in military? Let's solve gender equality
@@chrisdawson1776 Personally, I think it's really unfair that it's only mandatory for men. Either everyone goes or no one. I also think it would be beneficial for women to learn some self defense/weapons handling, survival skills and general fitness.
Having more women in the military might help cut down the abuse that goes on there too, in the long run. Which would be a benefit for the men. I don't know how certain, but I kinda gather that there's some sexual abuse, in addition to emotional and physical abuse, that happens between the highers ups and the new recruits.
@@TheseareStrange Well the feminists in S Korea disagree with you, they want only men have to serve in the military. (Mandatory in s korea for men only to conscript in military for a few years)
I feel bad for women who go looking for "love" in sk
Agree
I mean not all korean men are bad and not all are good . men will always be men
Ugh... That includes me mom...
Same
@frozenbananas why this comment looks as if you are offended off of this fact. I’m so confused💀
I'm Vietnamese but I can relate to this. It's even worse if you're an asian woman who doesn't meet the standard of beauty in their culture. They deem you unworthy of marriage, which is all you're pretty much needed for.
I'm pretty sure it's for everyone, no matter your gender. Beauty standards have existed since long ago.
Vietnam has way more gender equality than any Western country, I've lived there for years and I've seen women in literally every position of society, meanwhile seeing a female construction worker or rubbish collector is extremely rare in the West. I've also seen men do "feminine" jobs which aren't performed by men in the West.
If you go out for a stroll in Hanoi you'll see both men and women doing work, if you go out to a street in any wealthy Western country all "dirty jobs" are exclusively male and most "clean jobs" in offices are primarily female.
@@-haclong2366 sorry but this is such a bad example of sexism in the west, In America women don't face any obstacles to be a construction worker, police officer, etc. We have the freedom to choose our careers and you have to take into account how many women actually want to do those jobs. The field of psychology is dominated by women according to your logic this would mean that men face discrimination in the field of psychology which is not true at all.
@@DameOfDiamonds USA and western societies are highly sexist too, this is a global thing no need to be in denial
Its legit everywhere. Men look at women only for beauty, while women look at men for success. It is what it is 🤷🏾♂️
I swear the more I get to know about Korea the more I realize there's nothing special about that place it's like every place else. It's just that dramas and kpop industry have been attracting so many younger people for tourism but FR I don't find moving to South Korea interesting anymore. That was once a dream when I really wanted to meet BTS but now it's just....hmm..
same fact
Samee
@@armygotjams7105 Googke tried to translate Ur comment and it said "Do it"
Same goes for Japan, India, US, Uk, Europe and every other country/continent of the world, no country/continent out there, perhaps apart from the small island nations can guarantee all but equal rights and opportunities and controlled capitalism.
@@lilyrosepunkunicorm9871 what😂😂
Westerners: omg asia is such a magical place !!! Everything and everyone is so nice there
Asians: ... yeah.. suuuuuure..
well asia is a magical place as a tourist ... about living there... meh not very friendly for strangers
Yup. Look at our parenting, too fucked up
It's annoying how so many westerners think that, especially here in my country. It's in Asia but there's widespread corruption, poverty, toxicity, ect.
Literally no one thinks Asia is a magical place
@@skittyjive9135 then you haven't met koreaboo's and weaboo's or people with yellow fever. These people exist.
Domestic violence, bullying and hidden sexcam are on rampage and makes headlines in Korea.
But on screen oppas lures women non the less...
Reality is sugarcoated...
@@chrisdawson1776 women wouldnt mind if it meant equality. if the women youre around are so against it themselves then thats on them. im not a fighter at all, and im a very much domestic focused woman. tiny, weak and unbalanced. put me in a war if that means people will stop bringing up the military as if its the one thing a woman would never do. plenty of women do it, voluntarily and they love what they do. but if you see serving your own country as something you wouldnt want to do, then thats a personal matter.
@@citrus7745 In S Korea its mandatory for men and only men to be conscripted into military for a few years, the feminists there are against women having to enlist.
@@chrisdawson1776 “ha! Military whataboutism 😎 checkmate, feminists!” great, now we can have two genders forced into a job they don’t want for a few years instead of just one.
The better answer is not “make more people serve the military” like some authoritarian nightmare. It’s “abolish forced military service”. Real gender equality is when *no one* is forced to do anything based on their sex. Though, I have a sneaking suspicion you already knew that most left-wing feminists are anti military in this sense, just that you’ve neglected to bring up the men’s half of that liberation to suit your argument.
@@chrisdawson1776
to be fair, mandatory military service shouldn't be a thing at all
@@Le_Phantom Do you think men aged 18-60 should have been able to leave Ukraine?
Feminists dont think so, they only wanted women and children to be safe while they used same traditionalist masculinity arguments on why it is a man's duty to fight for his country (and anyone who runs is a coward) while women are free of that obligation and can (and should) flee
Ive heard alot of nightmare stories about catcalling and stalkers in japan and south Korea
They'll beat women on the street. The guys can get in trouble, but it's kind of considered a domestic/family issue. Americans who jump in can actually get in trouble.
Even with all that, it's a lot safer for women in Korea than in USA.
@@darmokfoundation7121 women don't need someone else to save them🙄they can save themselves
@@riyasingh2729 Not every man and woman can protect themselves.
@@riyasingh2729lol the fact that the crime is commited by a male and you a MALE saying that she needs the help of a MALE for sth a MALE did is quite ironic isnt it lol.
I remember some young cringy kpop fans making videos on how korean men are the best and we should marry a korea guy(they call them oppa💀💀). They be living in Kdrama world
Edit: lmao the likes, also yes they're Koreaboo but i didn't use that term because they get triggered
Hahah true-
Somebody went that far? I thought it was limited to comments 💀
🙂
Honestly I also feel bad for the decent guys in Korea who everyone will end up hating cause there's so many jackasses among them lmao
Girls in my school 💀
Most countries in Asia are very conservative. I was taught that girls can be as smart as boys by my family because I was the single daughter under one child policy but it's not the case for most others. Many of my female friends tell me how their parents treat their brothers so much better than them, who are expected to be the nanny or second mom in the family at a young age, especially the eldest daughter. Often, if the family can only afford to send one child to college it will be the son. A lot of diaspora live with the same mentality and the daughters grow up doing everything but feeling like they don't have much worth while the sons are coveted and spoiled to the bone. It's pretty messed up
EDIT: to every older asian sister, this post was for you. I empathize 100% and you deserve much more than to be shoved into the role of a nanny or nurturer in this biased society who don't value female excellence. This post was not made for anyone else, noones gives a shit about the opinion of someone with an anime profile pic
As an eldest daughter I can relate. Me and my brother have the same parents but mine are quite strict 🙄
Men don't become pregnant and physically unable to work.
@@RED_Theory038 you can physically be able to work even if you're pregnant wtf
@@laya1077_ do you have any idea how tiring it is to be pregnant?
@@RED_Theory038 some women can go back to work after having a baby, some can't. This is why equity is more important than equality in my opinion.
All idols put on a facade. Yes, even your favs. Not all them are nice or good people. You could be delusionally in love with your bias, not even knowing they could be treating women like trash. It happens.
Yup. Just look at all those fans who still insisted that guy from Big Bang could never have done what he did in the Burning Sun scandal. Breaking news: how talented and cute someone is has nothing to do with their morals or integrity, lol.
@@sawyerharris3721 what did he did ?
@@bharatgarg8981 if I remember correctly, it was related to prostitution/trafficking in a club he was invested/involved in. The clubs higher ups allegedly facilitated the arrangements.
Ravn from Oneus quit the group before the investigation was even conducted and I was like mmmm guilty. So fkn guilty, it hurts.
@@bharatgarg8981 Avery is correct. He was involved in a prostitution and human trafficking ring that was running out of a club, Burning Sun. It also connected to corruption.
One of the reasons why (G)I-DLE is my favorite Kpop group is because they’re speaking up against the gender inequality and stereotypes through their songs and MVs. They’ve also done something that cleared the SK searches when they released their latest comeback Nxde. So when some pervert looks up children nude or women nude their group and new song comes up instead of the explicit content the pervert is looking up.
In SK if a woman speaks about feminism the incels would continuously harass them.
Fr I love (G)i-dle because of this
That search thing is hoax. Fans were just exaggerating.
smaht
@@Vor567tez right
🙄
love this, im also so sick of those ppl who have “korean man” as their ideal type like gurl this aint kdrama 💀
It doesn't matter which race or country and even gender is an illusion...Twin flames are similar regardless of these 3D nonsense factors.This world is fake.
Yes my bias is my twin flame and my ideal type
True !
Sudanese guys are tall
“Every man looks like bts”
Me: have the only Korean men you’ve seen is bts?
Yes
the answer for those is likely "yes"
And they are ugly
😂
Fr tho
Remember when Irene of red velvet read a feminist book and recommended it to her fans, her male fans got so annoyed that burned her posters. Yeah, that's a country you all kpop kdrama fans worship so much. No offense, it's a beautiful place and an advanced country but their views are way different than us and if you are willing to know better, your friend Koreandic is happy to help :)
@@deservenotdesire3185 🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮
@@deservenotdesire3185 right
@@deservenotdesire3185 tf? How is her reading about women's rights give you the right to attack her?
@@skittyjive9135
They really did not attack her tho, they just burned her pictures to show they gave up on her.
@@deservenotdesire3185 and real men don't do such pathetic thing. Only a freaking mindless jerk would.
As someone who went to American international school in Hong Kong with a bunch of Korean kids where I was bullied almost daily by Korean boys due to sexist traditional ideas that they held, this makes me very sad and angry at the dismissive attitude towards feminism in South Korea. Not only did these boys not respect the culture of the country their parents are making $ in, they also thought they had the right to regulate how girls should act or look like. I will never forget that one Korean guy who shoved me to the ground and crossed me name out on the soccer club sign up sheet while hid friends cheered him on because they didn’t think I had the right to learn how to play soccer. Mind you, I don’t think all Korean men are sexist jerks, but some extremists really find a way to twist the narrative into calling feminists “terrorists” when in fact women are just people who should not be held to a higher standard or be given restrictions.
These brats had the gut to act like that even if they are abroad? Did the school do something about them?
Oh my god I'm so sorry to hear that. It must be so difficult for you to deal with such things on a long period.
페메니즘은 한국인의 일상에 정말 영향을 미친다
Girls need to learn how to fight back !!! That stops the bully…. Give him a bloody nose
@@stehaniemul9288 you know fighting back in Korea is against the law and the victim can get charged for “assault” even if she is defending herself? Even Kim Garam who only used words to defend her friend against a sex criminal was blamed for “using verbal violence” and branded a “bully” because of this. The concept of “fighting back” doesn’t really apply the same way in Korea as it does overseas
A place where grown-up women doing *Aegyo* is considered cute is for sure one cringey shit because most women would hate acting like a fake baby. Even watching Aegyo scenes in kdramas give me goosebumps. Not to mention their beauty standards as thin as twig and as clean as glass paper. I'm myself a k-pop and kdrama fan but I don't like their so-fake sweet, corney and beautiful portrayal. I still remember how Sulli was bullied till death.
There's legit a website with lessons on "How to Be Cute in Korea". Lessons for How to speak cutesy, hand gestures, facial gestures (pouting is in there), and of course how to use Lotte headbands (AKA the animal headbands). I could not make it through the whole website because the cringe was incredibly strong 😬🤣
@@amandab8433 I would cry if I were to experience any ayego moment from someone. 🤣
@@amandab8433 뭔소리야 그런걸 누가봐 ㅋㅋ
I get the point you’re making, but aegyo isn’t a gendered thing
@@LaurenPebble But other than stars, men usually won't do it.
I think when you are truly interested in a country and its culture you should educate yourself concerning all aspects of it, also the dark ones, not just romanticise it. Always remember that there is no perfect place on earth, which is why we always need to be careful with our perception and also should never stop to fight for the equality of human beings everywhere. Thank you for videos like this that raise awareness to such topics!
Thank God! atleast someone commented thoughtful🤧.
I am from Germany and certainly thought south korea had a different approach on this. Actually weird to wrap my head around this because there are only beautiful thing's popping up in my head when I think about south korea today... I guess I have to educate myself on that topic
In Korea, every election look like a battle between men and women. Both groups hate each other. There are feminazi in Korea too. That doesn’t help either.
Because people wants to show only good side of thier country. Korea is in a major crisis on birth rate, and also a lot of gender conflicts. I think korea wouldn't last long.
I heard that Germany has really good like beliefs(??) and laws about equality. Is that true ?
@@ihaveptsd5910 better than most, but there's still some work to do.
@@blarfroer8066 thanks for replying ^^
It's same as saying men in Portugal are all handsome like CR7💀☠️
I feel this issue exist everywhere in Asia. In my country(India) even though politicians support giving equal rights to women, the society has a long way to go. There is a big difference between how women are treated in cities and in villages
Sadly the problem is most feminists aren't doing enough for the people in villages. It's very hard to do so as well. So the changes made through feminism are still not accessible to the village woman nor are relevant to them. On the flip side feminism has made sure that most of the laws made are gender biased, which get used by a lot of women to exploit men. They will say they care about making men women equal but they will do nothing in real life. From rape laws to Sexual harrasment laws, dowry laws everything supposed to protect women are exploited by them. There are no consequences for false accusations either. The men who commit the real crimes are getting away by bribing people and innocent men are getting trapped in the laws made. Until corruption stops fair things won't happen anywhere.
Well, the thing is in India so-called feminists do every kind of politics instead of feminism. That's why it is becoming more difficult to advocate feminism because as soon as you mention feminism the first thing that comes to mind of people is the image of these femininazis. They are working towards promoting more gender-biased laws and projecting females as a superior race. Man, they need to respect the other genders, they can't just project them as sh*t and expect them to promote their ideology. I remember once Miss Assam said, "I think feminism is an ideology that doesn't teach ladies first rather promotes one who needs it should go first." And I think this is exactly what feminism means. The actual meaning of feminism is getting lost in this woke world and that is what is causing the further drift in our society among males and females.
This is my personal opinion I don't know how much you agree to this but you are free to contradict.
@@aanchal4090 totally agree, and they don't even understand the real meaning of feminism, they just talk shit
I wish Indians would also criticize the "men's rights movement" as much as they criticize feminism.
P.S. - I am a feminist but many of my opinions are different from the left-wing feminism in India.
@@HM87520 The Soviet Union was actually an orderly and happy Super nation (except during the era of Stalin, the Madman) and no one was discriminated because of his or her age or gender, unlike South Korea's society today. As for the Soviet failing economic system, Mikhail Gorbachev did try to make reforms to it and turn it into a free market, Capitalist system while still maintaining the Soviet ideology in everyday life. Unfortunately, Gorbachev came into power way too late and was unable to save the Soviet Union from collapsing due to a major financial crisis. What a pity. If Lee Kuan Yew of Singapore taught the Soviet Leader before Gorbachev Singapore's secrets to economic success and efficient governance (like how Lee taught those secrets to Deng Xiaoping of China), the Soviet Union would have still existed today, and will be as prosperous as modern day China.
People always see Asia as a beautiful relaxing place with “kawaii” anime figures or cute kpop idols.
well if you're a tourist for less than 1 year that's it
And by that they mean east asia cus we go to South Asia they are like “THATs NOT ASIA”
@@kimkardashianlostearring5277 And when they see South East Asia they typically assume it's all Thailand or Bali
@@bmona7550 true
Ah yes... westerners' definition of Asia.. just 3 countries- China, Japan & Korea.
"Like every man looks like bts memeber and they treat u like princess 👸🏽 " like 💀🤦🏾♀️
I just wanna be treated with respect
If that happens we are probably dead 🗿
THAT'S ACTUALLY SO SAD! 💔 I am shook but actually not really surprised :/ I hope one day this will change 💖 Thank you for spreading awareness about it with this video 💖
Awareness about Feminism. Yes, i am aware. Spoiled western women who wants special treatment but tries to trick you into thinking its "equality" they want.
Thank you for bringing issues like this up. It needs to be discussed.
You look so beautiful with that wig
No way😏
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@@Mykoreandic YES WAY 😏
😂😂😂😂
@@Mykoreandic the wig is beautiful
It's also important to note that when I did work study as a foreigner specifically a WHITE foreigner you are treated VERY differently. The way men would drag my friends around was insane, I was never touched. The amount of touching and voicing unnecessary opinions is crazy. Saying things like "you should really stop wearing glasses and work on your eye makeup, it's making everyone in the office have a difficult time enjoying their work" there are ALWAYS exceptions but the Korean government is a boys club and everyone knows
Wow that’s interesting. I thought that men don’t really touch women a lot in South Korea. For example couples don’t show much PDA over there. So I assumed that men don’t touch women especially if they are not a couple. Honestly I would rather hear catcalls all day than be touched. You were lucky to be treated like this. From other foreigners experience I heard that Korean men don’t have a lot of respect for foreign women (white or black or brown)
So that's the reason why kdarma shows wearing glasses and pimples as ugly
here in India during our high school exam CBSE made us fill mother name before father's name
You right your name before exam?
@@MoonLadenyes we have to fill examination form to be eligible for board examination
@monke so in indian families where both make the money wnhat should they do
@monke usually it's the father's name which is supposed to be written first. The way the mother's name is first feels like a breath of fresh air for once.
Very nice!!! Soooo important for people, especially the younger generation who just wants to migrate to Korea with a different set of expectations...
This still doesnt stop some girls to dream of going Korea, just like my friend little sister. She is 17 now, but she keep dream of becoming Kpop star. She even told my friend, education isnt important, she just need to go Korea and become famous. Even her parents didnt stop her little sister, my friend is the only one clear headed.
Meanwhile I want to be a singer in Japan and help the younger generation that nobody controls them 💀 the poor souls already had sufferwd enough with inequality and the society with strong beliefs of Senpai (boss/upperclassmen) and Kohai (junior/underclassmen) system
Not only that I actually do care for humanity but not the society 🤡
The kpop idols from third gen born in SK are known for having Bachelor degrees and then pursuing grad school. Yes the girls strive for it too, and it can delay conscription for the men
I'm just an undergrad too ahh
Always remember Sulli. RIP
Rip Sulli
And her bestfriend who follow her to death 😢
R.i.p Sulli, Jonghyun, and Goo Hara
People need to understand TV isn't reality
I didn't know that much about feminism in Korea, until (G)I-DLE released Tomboy and I saw the most fucked up comments under the yt video. I'm still shocked to this day. Like damn.
😦 What was said?
I'm gonna see vdo
Imma see the video
I think I'm the only one who didn't think that all Korean men are as romantic and handsome as Korean actors..common sense maybe..instead I was annoyed after seeing their overpossesive behaviour
I don't guess how men will treat me based on nationality but instead based on age and shared opinions
Specially indian teenagers they are soooo obsessed that it makes me cringe like ugghhh i can't explain that feeling I really miss my old days. its been 6 years i first started to listen to k-pop but now i don't like to talk about it because of these obsessed teenagers 😫
@@hm5205 right..I'm glad that no one around me like anything related to Korea 😂😂😂..i hope those kids will get reality check before they'll able to go Korea otherwise it can be extremely dangerous for them
along sk local women, there's joke that all of handsome, hot looking guys are living in practice room of SM entertainment. in sk reality, we can find lots of beautiful women but no men.
@@라벤더-l2v practice room of SM 😍😍...my EXO ❤❤❤
I'm shocked by that headline. How does a grown man think that is a logical opinion?
Thank you for sharing and never being disrespectful about touchy issues
LMAO, that is only an opinion a grown man can have, anyone who believes other wise still has growing up to do.
I'm shocked how a grown person should think that the government should finance this bulshit and especially when it's not from your money
@@deservenotdesire3185 are you some minister of growth because I think otherwise
@@bellatordei3440
Exactly lmao, if they want extra rights and opportunities, they literally can do it with their own money and time.
He has old fashioned thinking
Korea is really conservative society even nowdays too
When?
Why?
Really interesting to read all comments, good topic 😮👀👏
Thx man. Rlly like these types of topics. Dont stop even if people reject it like always
Love from France
It is ridiculous to say that all korean men are like BTS members or kdrama...
Those people have to know that every men in the world can be violent and not romantic at all...
I hope that women in Korea, and any other countries, can be more protected from violence.
No shit Sherlock
My korean friend even said that what you watched in kdrama is just a fantasy. Korean men in kdrama are sweet. But in reality, they're cold.
cold like sasuke right? ..right?
@@Luluskuy i don't watch naruto so i don't know sasuke's personality.😅 But yea I think you know what I mean. Like in kdrama, when it's raining and they saw the girl don't have an umbrella, they will offer their umbrella. But in reality, they don't care when you're soak in rain.😅🤣 I really don't know but my korean friend told me that.🤣🤣
I'm 16 years old Korean girl and I live in Seoul. It's really a complicated and sensitive problem in Korea. I can't even say it with my friends because I don't even know they are feminist or not. Based on internet, both side aggressively attacks one another, while hating each other. I'm not a faminist, and also not a opposite, and I think the nagative feeling of the public comes from their aggressive attitude and the way they attack each other. Some of them even say their mother or father (actually all man or woman) must vanish in the world. It's terribly irrational.... I feel like I am in an era of 'hate' where many youths hate each other everyday. I hope to live in a era of love and respect when I get older.
This was heartbreaking to read. I am sure you will get to experience your world that is filled with love. Till then hang in there and keep doing your thing ♥️ Sending you lots of love and a tight hug, dearest 🫂♥️
I hope so too... my friend
I remember this one time an Olympic gold medalist archer was heavily trolled because she had a boy haircut. Like bro y’all should be proud of her and-
That's pretty fucked up.
Honestly, she should give up her citizenship and participate on behalf of another country in the next Olympics. SKs were so stupid in that moment, it boils my blood to think about what she went through.
All that hard work and not even a single thank you, instead she got booed.
@@RKNancy You gotta change the word. It's not South Korean. It's South Korean MEN. Females supported her all the time. It's a big insult you categorized them in one group.
@monke he was also trolled by men. I saw plenty of men saying things to the effect of “yeah he looks like he spends his whole day on the internet” and “that’s exactly what I expected the guy with the most Wikipedia articles to look like”.
I watched this movie "Kim Ji Young, born 1982". And it saddened me how women were treated especially when they got married and have a child.. They will lose their birth name, their jobs.. I'm not sure but I think this is the same book that Irene (Red Velvet) read and she is being criticized by it as this book shows feminism (I think I read somewhere that the writer of the book was criticized).. I haven't read the book but the movie is great..
People are commenting about the kdramas are only showing good men but the majority of the ones I have watched, they are mostly just assholes to the women. Boys over Flowers was one of the worst I watched, she ended up marrying the guy who treats her terribly and just friending the actual sweet guy. I was so irritated at the end.
Facts. Anyway most second MLs are made to be the "loyal dog", butlerly or brotherly persona exactly because they're needed to contrast with the ML, no matter how arrogant or scumbag the ML appear to be. They're there to be the cushion and medicine for the hurt FL meanwhile she's stupidly fighting with the ML. Not every female consumer like those exact tropes though, but the majority sure eat that up like vampires.
It's to nurture the mentality of "I can fix him" between the FL and the targeted female consumers, as if most women must fix bad boys. And so, the good boys are just there to be the supportive best male friend.
*some* Korean guys be stalking and k-wording their girlfriends if they break up, like… there was a huge story in the news recently
and this never happened in america europe china india or anywhere in the world ? Or girls doing the same to men... like never I guess we don't really need female prisons
@@lexnight8345 i never said it didn't happen in other countries... stop with the whataboutism.
the fact is many korean men (old and ESPECIALLY young) are strongly anti-feminist and it is VERY apparent when there are constantly stories in the korean news about men who stalk, spy on, r*pe, and m*rder women. It is not just men who don't believe in women's rights... it's about men who think women are inferior to men and should be treated as such.
Oh my gosh thats just gaslighting and manipulation poor girls 😔
@@JundongPaeng-c4n i live in korea... and even if i didn't, there is often news about crimes against women in korea.
also Korea is not even in the world’s top 10 safest countries
@@JundongPaeng-c4n 여성 범죄 안전은 그렇게 좋은 편이 아닙니다
There's a lot of pretty boys there, but its also the first time I ever fell into a truly abusive, manipulative relationship that made me a truly see the danger of being dependent on a man for the first time. Funny, men being hella toxic to someone ready to fit their housewife role turned them independent 🤡
Be aware that in the US for instance there's not a big "pool" to choose from, and "your type" probably has similar personalities. Then suddenly there's a lot of people "your type" with *all* personalities, including ones you *never* would have tolerated if you weren't blinded by looks.
Second
In India some states like my state tamil nadu is against feminism
eyyyyyyyy we are neighbours
I think that's good
Really? Since when?
I mean I'm from TN but lost contact about it's news and stuff so..
What makes you think that a woman-led society will be better? Do you not remember what Indira Gandhi did?
@@arush-sama how?
Thanks for using this format also to spread awareness
Yes. It made me aware how whiny some feminists are. I hate irrationality.
As an older kpop fan, I remember what my mom and stepmom told me about their experiences in the 1960s United States and even how it was when I first entered the workforce in the mid 1980s. It was like what Korean women describe now. I have faith in them breaking through like we had to, I just wish we could assist them.
Of course there’s the issue of the US going backwards in some states but the way to equality is not a straight line and it has to be continuously fought for!
History isn't linear.
The US still has quite a ways to go for the BIPOC women and femmes, and transwomen. The change is still in progress worldwide.
@@Waldemarvonanhalt It's both linear and cyclical. But in general, it does repeat and we learn, adapt, and apply new knowledge each time.
@@Waldemarvonanhalt I agree. It is not at linear. Still the past 50 years has looked very different for the US and South Korea and they had to deal with things we didn’t like decades of a socially conservative military dictatorship. I absolutely don’t want to say that they’re behind us, only that they have had challenges we never had to face. But they also have smart, strong and brave feminists and I think they will continue to fight well against those who want to take that away from them
thank you for bringing this up
I'm not from Korea but this is true, my friend experienced something similar recently, but that doesn't mean all are same, In every county you will find both good and bad people.
Love from India 🇮🇳 💜 🇰🇷
Gee, I wonder why the birth rate is going down? Living expenses? Safety concerns? Job opportunities? Lack of equality for women? Take your pick!
Thank you for speaking about this! It's so true
Finally someone who actually shows scenes behind the spotlight
South Korean Women: Please prioritize our public safety, social rights and dignity.
South Korean Government: *I’m going to pretend I didn’t hear that.* 😀
Once upon a time,a wise netizen said:"America make superhero movie to cover the crime rate issue,japan make JAV(🧐) to cover the low population problem,so..........
Korea make a lot of fantastic relationship movie to cover those domestic violence case
This is one of my major issues with media. Shows and books are written where ideal scenes play out because entertainment is meant to be an escape from reality. But more and more people are forgetting that and instead believing that the media they consume is an accurate portrayal of real life. Now we have tons of people walking around thinking life is a fairytale and ultimately ending up so much more disappointed.
I know the first bit is a joke but the fact that many young kpop fans (and indeed a lot of armys but that's because the fandom is big and international) do equate Korea and its culture to what they know about kpop is so embarrassing, I've seen people proudly state they didn't even know Korea existed before they got into kpop... It also explains why some kpop fans are so racist despite stanning Korean idols
Women’s rights are human rights. The sexism and abuse of women in SK is what keeps me from wanting to visit.
Same here
I love how you bring up issues humorously. Keep it up.
As a person who lives in Korea & has spoken to many Korean men; they don’t show it on first sight but after a while they reveal their deep misogynist thoughts & mindset.
really? like what?
"...in your own time..."
he says calmly, knowing that Koreans are so enslaved by work that the only time they have are 5 or 4 hours to sleep
Oh well not his problem.
I always doubt that Korea was a great place for women after seeing how their beauty standards are so normalize.
You like them because of that same beauty standard they uphold themselves.
Hey i need a detailed information on this ,people in ur comments are ignoring it and changing the topic
Exactly
Every ARMY I've met until now says "MY DREAM CITY IS SKOREA" 🙄 Obviously, because of their fantasies about Korean oppas and BTS🤷🏼♀️ . They probably think that every SKOREAN oppa is like BTS and other Male leads...taking care, respecting, loving,etc. They are to much lost in their fantasies 🙄 Maybe I'm the only ARMY who does not have any wish to go and settle in SKOREA or marry an Korean oppa🤷🏼♀️ I'm the only one normal I guess because I live in reality and fantasies are great only until it's going on in your mind for a temporary period of time.
"I WiLL Go tO SouTH KOreA anD LiVe mY DreAm LiFE"(fantasy which is not reality)
Go ahead 👏👏👏👏🙄
"Every ARMY I've met.." "I'm the only one normal I guess.."
I hope you're trolling💀
@@nvma660 That's a fact.
@@dramatic_tale you gotta meet with more armys & step out of your bubble lol. what a pick me!
@@mand5790 I mentioned the one's I've met not the entire fandom🤷🏼♀️ Even I'm an ARMY.
I don't meet anyone, I'm sorry.
it's fine to have some vacation there but permanently living in? you will get a hard time but it doesn't mean it is that bad