@CristanioPeweyyy how does consistently exercising and nurturing your body doesn't work? And smoking weed somehow works? That's abysmal advice to be frank
@@Spurgte Weed opens up your mind and gives you answers to your illness, depenind on what it is. If i'm feeling down and i have a spliff, i get clarity and find peace to accept how i am and why i'm feeling like that. Then afterwards when the high is gone, i'm no longer upset about it. Gym doesn't work for EVERYONE. Other people require other needs. Like i said, everyone is different, you can't treat everyone the same. MJ made me handle depression so great. Even if i don't have a spliff, i'm 10 times better than before.
And the mad thing is, we know some aunts and uncles whom are mental health nurses but they don’t demonstrate that same professionalism outside of work.
Can't lie the dad is actually spot on with this one. Mental health (depression specifically) is often tied to physical health and activity. Once you get out of there and start moving, it tends to get a lot better. When you don't have a job and aren't active, it negatively affects your mental health as well. The issue is that it's hard to get moving in the first place and when you're depressed you end up wallowing in your own misery. Speaking from personal experience btw, honestly once you take that first step forward things get a lot easier. Just sitting around only makes it worse.
Dylan’s lucky he even managed to get his dad to tag along at the hospital, I was expecting him to just throw away the paper and act like nothing even happened 🫠🫠
Growing up in an African household is not for the weak or faint of heart at all! Mental health, or autism (which is what being 'on the spectrum is') is not taken seriously - but we can still joke! Good video as always Dylan!
The last part about fruits gym and god reminded me about a comment whoich reminded them about an article ("Exporting Trauma: Can the talking cure do more harm than good?" from the guardian) where a tribe in Africa ended up asking a group of care workers, who had been assigned to help them deal with the trauma of genocide, to leave. When asked why, the tribal representatives said that it was harmful to seclude a person suffering from bad feelings and memories in a darkened room and ask them to relive their trauma. The tribe, they said, dealt with these feelings by drumming, dancing and singing in the sunshine to defeat them together and drive them into the past where they belonged. That way, they said, the person who suffered was given support, and embraced by the whole community. not bashing therapy but usually, the main things we need to change is daily habits and outlook on life (which can be much more easily done with a community supporting you). anit-deppressents can only go so far
I feel this video so much. I know I could never tell my parents about my mental health, nor would they allow me to ever get diagnosed. My mother always says "You guys have no reason to be depressed" but she has absolutely no idea what her own kids go through behind the scenes
God might be the one who makes you crazy also...He's not known to like people who used to be able to connect directly to the Ngo (= Black Sun), and by-pass Him...just saying... the Abrahamic paradigm aren't known to love people who can/ could do that... just saying...
that last part when he said all he needs is a gym, food and God really motivated me, I been doing the same for long time but sometimes I get caught in the bad act, I will keep going hard!
I love the fact you actually done the last scene in a waiting room which looks like a hospital. These little things make a big difference. Top class production ⭐️ 🎥
im going to tell you this right now Dylan. You and Chelsea brought me through quarantine. The laughs I’d get from your videos were so crazy my abs would start burning as me and my brother would die on the floor watching your videos (your mom just has to pay a $400 admin fee 😂😂). Your videos made my life so much easier during quarantine and just kept me trudging along such a hard time. Although I have been very busy and haven’t had much chance to watch your recent videos since quarantine ended, I wanted to tell you your positivity and joy showed me there’s always light in tough situations. That helped me get through high school were I have been able to graduate at a high class rank while getting an opportunity to play football in college as well. I could not have done so if I didn’t have something I could look forward to bringing me out of quarantine. One day when I make it, I got something for you man… just remember me. You’ve made a real impact Dylan.
Shiiit, this is ur best 1 yet. Ur journey 2 get 2 this point….ur soul and ur struggle 🙏🏾 Grand Rising Emperor. May Your Year Ahead Bring You Abundance In All Areas Of Your Life, You Deserve It 🙏🏾🌟🔥⚡️💫💥✨💜
LOL. It's true, though. My African family didn't understand why I wanted to become a psychologist, wanted me to be a lawyer instead. Coincidentally, I'm currently studying law. SN: Love how "bipolar personality disorder" is a mix of bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder. Pick one, son! Thought this was gonna be about autism, btw. That's what "being on the spectrum" means. I think you meant "mental illness".
This is facts. Today generation is so soft. Black parents, grandparents & our ancestors have been through so much worse & just got on with it. Now kids today get depressed over exams, school breakups, wifi cut out….etc
That's nonsense. Your ancestors didn't grow up in an atomised world, one without structure, a society that discriminates based on the colour of your skin.
@@noivern8595 most of us still have the surnames of slave masters for starters,Jim crow law still affects blacks ppl till this day which is why black ppl hate each other so much blacks didn’t get to reparations till this day and even companies like HCBC made money of slavery just look it up Irish never went through what black ppl went through on that level there’s even Jamaicans and African Americans with Irish surnames
It’s actually true though people who are depressed obviously not everyone but they don’t have a goal, a purpose, not to say you can’t have one, you need to find it and that my friends is the cure to depression find your worth in life if it’s not where you are now, switch it up, don’t start sending comments saying I’m wrong I’ve got bad anxiety myself Ik what I’m talking about
He’s spot on, physical exercise helps with general health, dopamine increase and mental strength. Good nutrition supports all your body parts including brain by supplying all the body is deficient of. God, prayer and meditation takes you to another level of wellness, balancing your body, spirit and soul. All can be taken care of by following what this parent has advised but most of us won’t know until we are dead, what a shame.
Every Dad Skit video, I question if Dylan and me have the same Dad. This isn't even the typical strict immigrant dad in the UK, I mean it's 1 to 1 exact same personality and traits.
Comedy X real life issues.. Love this! Anybody going through hard times there's support always ❤
Wait so is he making a light hearted out of something he actually going through ?
@@floydlawton5072raising awareness
@@floydlawton5072 na i see it as showing how african parents dont address these issues enough or how they react.
let me know where please...
@@MaticulousGamer well its from experience so its relatable
The only inaccuracy in this video is that your parents haven't already opened your letters
This the one 🤣
Facts, Nigerian parents will open every letter that comes in the house, they will tell you it’s their house, so what?
Fr fr
"The gym, fruits and god" The cure to everything
True
Not always true.
God is the cure.
But the gym and fruits don't always work.
A spliff does wonders for me.
@CristanioPeweyyy how does consistently exercising and nurturing your body doesn't work?
And smoking weed somehow works?
That's abysmal advice to be frank
@@Spurgte Weed opens up your mind and gives you answers to your illness, depenind on what it is. If i'm feeling down and i have a spliff, i get clarity and find peace to accept how i am and why i'm feeling like that. Then afterwards when the high is gone, i'm no longer upset about it.
Gym doesn't work for EVERYONE. Other people require other needs.
Like i said, everyone is different, you can't treat everyone the same.
MJ made me handle depression so great. Even if i don't have a spliff, i'm 10 times better than before.
@@CristanioPeweyyy a spliff does not help u heal long term,only short term. fruits and gym are healthy, overtime u will be healthy closer to god.
"Are you just fiddling with my kid" 😅😂
The sound caught me off guard
And the mad thing is, we know some aunts and uncles whom are mental health nurses but they don’t demonstrate that same professionalism outside of work.
They are in it for the money lol psych nurses get paid more. You would even be shocked with how sweet those people are with the whites 😂😂
They just after that bag
You know it's serious when the son is providing an internal monologue like it's an anime episode 😂
🤣🤣
"all he needs is the gym, food and god" someone's despressed 😥
Can't lie the dad is actually spot on with this one. Mental health (depression specifically) is often tied to physical health and activity. Once you get out of there and start moving, it tends to get a lot better. When you don't have a job and aren't active, it negatively affects your mental health as well. The issue is that it's hard to get moving in the first place and when you're depressed you end up wallowing in your own misery. Speaking from personal experience btw, honestly once you take that first step forward things get a lot easier. Just sitting around only makes it worse.
Dylan’s lucky he even managed to get his dad to tag along at the hospital, I was expecting him to just throw away the paper and act like nothing even happened 🫠🫠
Having African parents and getting BPD is something else!
“Are you okay to drive?” *deadpan* 😂😂😂
Growing up in an African household is not for the weak or faint of heart at all! Mental health, or autism (which is what being 'on the spectrum is') is not taken seriously - but we can still joke! Good video as always Dylan!
The "stare" Dylan's dad always does gets me EVERY time. 😂
The last part about fruits gym and god reminded me about a comment whoich reminded them about an article ("Exporting Trauma: Can the talking cure do more harm than good?" from the guardian) where a tribe in Africa ended up asking a group of care workers, who had been assigned to help them deal with the trauma of genocide, to leave. When asked why, the tribal representatives said that it was harmful to seclude a person suffering from bad feelings and memories in a darkened room and ask them to relive their trauma. The tribe, they said, dealt with these feelings by drumming, dancing and singing in the sunshine to defeat them together and drive them into the past where they belonged. That way, they said, the person who suffered was given support, and embraced by the whole community.
not bashing therapy but usually, the main things we need to change is daily habits and outlook on life (which can be much more easily done with a community supporting you). anit-deppressents can only go so far
i agree to be honest but in today's world a lot of people don't have that support system so end up resorting to meds
I feel this video so much. I know I could never tell my parents about my mental health, nor would they allow me to ever get diagnosed. My mother always says "You guys have no reason to be depressed" but she has absolutely no idea what her own kids go through behind the scenes
Sorry to hear that bro hope you get better ❤️🩹
‘are you okay to drive?’ is wild
tbf, dad's advice might not be wrong: gym, fruits and god fr
God might be the one who makes you crazy also...He's not known to like people who used to be able to connect directly to the Ngo (= Black Sun), and by-pass Him...just saying... the Abrahamic paradigm aren't known to love people who can/ could do that... just saying...
I don’t agree with that, but the dad was right about the therapy thing. It’s not for everyone and can be a big waste of money and time
The Flying Spaghetti Monster?
You also need professional help
@@MthFknIceCreamGetting rattle at something you dont belive that exist you are such a weirdo
that last part when he said all he needs is a gym, food and God really motivated me, I been doing the same for long time but sometimes I get caught in the bad act, I will keep going hard!
God works 100% of the time.
Gym and food doesn't always work for everyone.
Fiddlin is wild 🤣🤣🤣
I like the way you literally helping in plain sight with real facts
1:35 “I was walking 50,60,70,80 miles to go to school” classic 😂
When you have experienced the hardships of growing up in Africa, you wouldn’t believe them diagnosis.
The whole point of moving here was so that your children wouldn’t have to experience those hardships…
@@yolanda6392 for those kids to get "depressed"...naw
Yo having african parents is DIFFERENT struggle😢😢😢 anyone going thru tough times hold ya head up🙏🏾
😂😂😂"educate me please ", "walking barefoot " those the favorite sentences
The patronising “are you okay to drive” 😂😂
I know this was a hard one for Dylan to do. Man was smirking the whole time 😂😂😂😂
Perfect he’s back keep posting Dylan
Nah my Nigerian mum is like this fr😭😭
Tell her to pattern up.
She will tell you “so you’re telling me your head is not correct?” 😂😂😂
❤
we need a TV show starring the Dad - just hilarious , spot on man.
I love the fact you actually done the last scene in a waiting room which looks like a hospital. These little things make a big difference. Top class production ⭐️ 🎥
He did record it in a hospital.
@@Rose87 Even better!
"The gym, fruits and god" part killed me 😂😂
"Seems devilish to me" is insane😂😂😂
African Parents be like why pay to cure their depression when you can beat it out of them
😂😂😂😂
How do you know this if I may ask?
Dad saw right through the NHS…no sex change for his son 😂
🤡
'are you just fiddling with my kid' 💀💀💀💀
WHY IS HIS VIDEOS SOO FUNNY I LOVE THIS GUY.
im going to tell you this right now Dylan. You and Chelsea brought me through quarantine. The laughs I’d get from your videos were so crazy my abs would start burning as me and my brother would die on the floor watching your videos (your mom just has to pay a $400 admin fee 😂😂). Your videos made my life so much easier during quarantine and just kept me trudging along such a hard time. Although I have been very busy and haven’t had much chance to watch your recent videos since quarantine ended, I wanted to tell you your positivity and joy showed me there’s always light in tough situations. That helped me get through high school were I have been able to graduate at a high class rank while getting an opportunity to play football in college as well. I could not have done so if I didn’t have something I could look forward to bringing me out of quarantine. One day when I make it, I got something for you man… just remember me. You’ve made a real impact Dylan.
This is educational, funny and deep.
Great work as per 👏
whole time they the reason for your mental health 😂
Dylan is so underrated it breaks my heart
Real talk this why i don't open up to my parents
Bro is playing 3 characters😂
"They would kill like that" 😂😂
Amazing!!! Love your dad though, he’s a real one.
“I was walking 50,60,70,80 miles to go to school” 😂
All he needs is the gym, fruits and God🙌🏼🙌🏼 papa rested his case 💀
Well, better than the current western issue of being traumatised by a word or wind 😂
He ain't wrong
This tune at the end is iconic I love it don’t ever change it
Man said fiddling with my kid 😮😅
The “at all” was spot on 😂
His dad speaking facts though 😂
I'm actually getting convinced there's two characters when is actually 1 lol
But I kinda wanna continue to think there's two characters
This is funny but at the same time black parents do not acknowledge mental health issues
The they act surprised when their children do wild things.
The "Are you joking ME!!!" part hits home too hard 😂
4:02 killed me 😂😂
Gym, fruits and "God" certainly has truth to it
I'm British born (indian by ethnicity) but my mum was born in dar es Salaam Africa I can definitely say this is so true
Parents like to milkkkkkk it man😂 (pause)
You know its a good video when Daudi is in the thumbnail
Shiiit, this is ur best 1 yet. Ur journey 2 get 2 this point….ur soul and ur struggle 🙏🏾 Grand Rising Emperor. May Your Year Ahead Bring You Abundance In All Areas Of Your Life, You Deserve It 🙏🏾🌟🔥⚡️💫💥✨💜
The Ugandan accent 😂😂
3:47 he almost when to the African accent 😂
everyone wearing a beanie 🤣
2:15 I'm waiting for the "B" word 😂😂
*Disowned BASTAD* 🤣💨💨👀
“Seems devilish to me”😂😂
3 weeks no upload but well worth the wait 😂
Bro, I love this I watched it so many times 😂 this is way to funny 😹
3:02 should have been the thumbnail 🤣
you ain’t lie 😂🔥
Dad was speaking straight faxs
Damn 😂the Ugandan🇺🇬 slags got me laughing seriously 😂😂😂😂😂💔💔💔
FRUITS 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
For once, I agree with the Dad.
LOL. It's true, though. My African family didn't understand why I wanted to become a psychologist, wanted me to be a lawyer instead. Coincidentally, I'm currently studying law. SN: Love how "bipolar personality disorder" is a mix of bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder. Pick one, son! Thought this was gonna be about autism, btw. That's what "being on the spectrum" means. I think you meant "mental illness".
This is facts. Today generation is so soft. Black parents, grandparents & our ancestors have been through so much worse & just got on with it. Now kids today get depressed over exams, school breakups, wifi cut out….etc
Man what our ancestors been through effected it us till this day why do u think we’re a messed up race it’s generational and spiritual
@@Monke_boi13what are you on about 🤣🤣 if I say the Irish going through the famine and dying effects my mental health I sound like a fool
That's nonsense. Your ancestors didn't grow up in an atomised world, one without structure, a society that discriminates based on the colour of your skin.
@@noivern8595 most of us still have the surnames of slave masters for starters,Jim crow law still affects blacks ppl till this day which is why black ppl hate each other so much blacks didn’t get to reparations till this day and even companies like HCBC made money of slavery just look it up Irish never went through what black ppl went through on that level there’s even Jamaicans and African Americans with Irish surnames
The dad is right this time
My Mum is Congolese no such thing 😂
Trust me. Mine tells me “don’t even mention that name in this house”😂😂 or “don’t allow Satan to use you”🤣🤣
nah dad was spitting in the last few seconds tho he’s acc right gym God and fruits
This guy is hilarious man 😂😂😂
It’s actually true though people who are depressed obviously not everyone but they don’t have a goal, a purpose, not to say you can’t have one, you need to find it and that my friends is the cure to depression find your worth in life if it’s not where you are now, switch it up, don’t start sending comments saying I’m wrong I’ve got bad anxiety myself Ik what I’m talking about
All of this actually happened to me I’m crying 💀💀💀 bar for bar
My guy Dylan
African parents actually helped with our resilience lol
He’s spot on, physical exercise helps with general health, dopamine increase and mental strength. Good nutrition supports all your body parts including brain by supplying all the body is deficient of. God, prayer and meditation takes you to another level of wellness, balancing your body, spirit and soul. All can be taken care of by following what this parent has advised but most of us won’t know until we are dead, what a shame.
As an Asian, this is too real
My parents dont believe in the gym 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Aww need a part 2.
Bipolar disorder ❌
Borderline personality disorder ❌
Bipolar personality disorder ✅
Every Dad Skit video, I question if Dylan and me have the same Dad. This isn't even the typical strict immigrant dad in the UK, I mean it's 1 to 1 exact same personality and traits.
Nah I’m fine I’m not fine 😂
LMFAO exact same thing with persian parents
This gundi hat of yours I can’t 😂😂😂
God is the cure in all realness. Praying for you all
this is too real
The gym fruits and god lowkey all you need tho
Same here all I need is God🙏 Great video. I'm going to probably start exercising and eating more fruits now tho😂
this all parents from abroad they have different perspectives.
Man depress Fam 😂 Depress!!!?????
It’s the same for South Asians
keep up the good content bro
How did they not kick you out of CFH when you recorded this?😂