Honestly her freaking out like that was the best possible outcome for this dude. Clearly she’s off her rocker and she just saved this man from the inevitable misery that would have came eventually
@@samuliilill541She was too lazy to block him, I doubt she has the motivation to actually prepare a letter to these groups that doesn't make _her_ look like a moron, lol.
I get the feeling that she expected him to desperately beg her to still go on a date with him, but instead he basically said "Aw, oh well. Peace!", and that pissed her off.
@notatrollll the thing is. You don't know about it. They don't parade around saying they are part of those groups unless you are at the end of their pitching fork and they actively decided to cross you out as potential partner. Either way it's a win to stay away from these type of women that frequent those Echo Chambers
People like her are providing a valuable service, letting others know right away they're insane instead of later down the line when you're somewhat invested. Kudos to her!
But, to be fair to her, I kinda understand the reaction. I don't condone it, but i get it. If these are younger individuals, say 25 ish, the girl was probably told for her entire life that men only want her for sex. She probably experienced it too, and how many bad experiences can you have before you consider it the status quo? It was prolly engrained into her head that "if a guy asks you to come over, it will only ever be for sex," Again, that's no excuse for that kinda reaction given the context, but she was prolly thinking that it was better to be safe than sorry.
As a woman, I love baking and cooking dates but I don’t feel comfortable doing that until earliest the 3rd date. However, I cannot blame the guy for suggesting it as they had just talked about it. If I were her, I’d have replied with something firm yet polite and playful like “Tbh I don’t really feel comfortable coming to your place just yet for cooking or baking so how about we go to a restaurant and have someone else do the cooking for us first? 😉”. You can tell this guy would have been totally cool and respectful about it.
Perfect example of a light hearted and flirty way to redirect that conversation! As a woman, I also never do apartment first dates, but suggesting an alternative is a great way to see if the guy is worth your time. If he’s down: green light. If he’s pushy and insists on that apartment date: quick block.
Exactly...guy didnt seem pushy at all and seemed decent...she either could have left it at the first rejection message if she was that paranoid. Or did what you just wrote. If i was in his place the sudden insults would have me gobsmacked. Uncalled for.
@@elambedoExactly. No decent and respectful guy would be mad if the girl diverted the date to a public place as a first date just to be safe. Its all about having understanding. I mean i would probably suggest to have a cooking date as a first date within the same context of talking about cooking together. I wouldnt think of it as THAT inappropriate if we are talking about it. But sure as hell wouldnt be mad if she rejected it and wanted a date in public. Thats 100% understandable.
Yeah some guys get really pushy about this kind of thing. My friend was recently in the online dating scene and she told me about this time she set up a coffee date with a guy, and then he tried to redirect her to his house because quote, "his new puppy had separation anxiety, so he can't leave." And when she suggested they go to a park with the puppy instead, he made up some weird reasoning why his dog couldn't leave his house. So she just called the whole thing off and moved on. But this obviously wasn't what OP was doing.
Exactly. And cooking together is very intimate as well so it's kinda nice to make sure you vibe with someone first. I get him trying, once again seeing that they talked about it. This lady crazy for handling it like that though lol
This is a real life example of picking the wrong dialogue options and upsetting the NPC. Except what the test read and what your character says is the complete opposite vibe so there's no way you could have known it was malicious
I had a chick accuse me of "only being after one thing" after I declined a second date. It was an interesting take on why I didn't want to see her again given I was honest about the actual reason. See, on our first date we hit a couple of bars and then she invited me to her place, not for nookie mind you, but so she could engage in some 420 behaviors. But then she got carried away, got way too blown out and proceeded to have a massive panic attack. I helped her though it, made sure she was okay and then took my leave. So you can imagine how impressed I was at her messages a few days later accusing me of being a creep rather than even acknowledging the massive red flag she flew on our first date.
I had a woman message me a couple days after our first date, which btw she brought a friend. She wanted to come over because she had been in a fight at a party and my place was nearby (btw I never invited her over prior) and she needed a place to crash. I lived in a 1 bedroom house, I offered her the couch as I had work in the morning. She goes into a full on alcohol induced seizure the next day from drinking my alcohol and then was flabbergasted as to why I didn't want to pick her up from the hospital after she checked herself out, claiming to the staff, that "I agreed to pick her up". Yeah, F that, major red flag.
@@amsyjo The guy is to blame to some extent for his weak use of emojis ("When can we make this happen 👶") and word choice (He called her either "m'lady or m'am" at some point). It's hard to say for sure without seeing what they look like. My guess is that the rejection was a pretext for her wanting to meet up with one of her other Tinder matches instead, which is a very dangerous game for women to play. When you make a commitment to one guy, you'd better stick to it.
You are on the very edge of incel behavior. Please look at yourself. Healthy rational people don't care how you use emojis. Fuck the most attractive woman I know types with "XD" and she's 28 Please. Don't go any farther
i don’t go to men’s apartments on first dates either but girl this was so embarrassing 🫣 the way people flip over text like this never fails to freak me out. i loved how he asked if she was comfortable first, it would have been the perfect segway into suggesting an alternative (like a picnic date where you bring food you both cooked!)
There's no "Happy New Year!" or "Good Luck!" after all that. She would have gotten a loud knock on her door from me within ten minutes of sending that text. Did her parents raise her to be dismissive and disrespectful, or did she learn that from her friends?
He even started his sentence with "would you be comfortable..", which means he fully understands that's maybe a bit awkward for a first date, but logistically makes sense given the context of the potential date.
I'm starting to feel like these people never learned how to properly communicate with other human beings. It was so clear and obvious to a normal person the dude was only asking this as one potential option, only if she wanted to but the woman somehow mistook that and inserted a whole fanfic of the dude's intentions instead of being a normal person.
The way she acted directly after that seems like she was only going to be "comfortable" with him suggesting reservations at a 5 star restaurant or maybe a few days vacation fully paid for by him.
@@ruidechendude put 2 and 2 together and that was somehow the wrong in her eyes. She’s either got some trauma or has some crazy negative stereotypes about men
@@mutantraze3681Most likely both. Had some horrible dating experiences, got caught up in an echo chamber of women with bad dating experiences, grew a hatred of men and paranoia of men's motives from it. I've seen it happen.
Hearing Charlie speaking fluently in Czech language was the most terrifying thing I have ever experienced because I had the video as a backround thing and I literally thought he broke the 4th wall to talk to me to go fuck myself.
It feels like this girl was on Tinder for the sole purpose of finding and criticizing guys that were using it for sex, but ended up finding a genuinely nice guy, and she didn’t know how to react, so she found any reason she could to accuse him of being a creep
This is exactly what I was thinking lol. The switch in conversation was so weird and sudden, it's like she was looking for an excuse to go off on him and just jumped at the first thing regardless that it didn't make sense.
Funny how she had to tell him twice that she blocked him and then proceeded to still have a conversation with him, she must really be the alone one in question if she's unable to find it in herself to just end the conversation there LMAO
Typical behaviour of somone who lives on the internet and probably spends alot of time writeing angry comments. She goes for the classic your blocked power move, but at the same time her low self esteem dosnt let her actually block him as she needs to see if he responds to her.
It would have been so over the second I heard "get lost" from her, this guy is a better person than I am. He actually waited for her to think about what she was saying instead of closing dms with her first when she went full psycho lol
If I had to guess, she got offended that the guy was okay with calling everything off after she rejected the first date idea and didn't get on his knees begging to find some other alternative for them. In other words she was mad he was okay with never actually meeting her
@@Memorial24 Assuming nothing on the internet can ever be real is just as stupid as believing everything you read. Nothing about this screamed fake imo
@@heckingbamboozled8097 There’s no way this is real it’s way too over the top and cartoonish, Charlie finds these conversions on Reddit and picks the craziest obviously fake ones he can find and reads them all to you. Anyone can easily fake these with little to no effort.
Not wanting to go to a guy's loft for a first date is completely reasonable, but the way she just exploded while he was being completely cordial is INSANE... he seemed like a sweet guy, at least she showed her true colors before he actually went out with this psychopath
@@uniquegod1997Neither can the vast majority of people. Rejection causes emotions that are inherently unpleasant for humans. No need to gender it at all, so no need to worry about phantom feminists.
@@uniquegod1997 He didnt even reject her, she said shes disapointed and doesnt want anything further to which he just agree, but I think hed try to suggest something else and not reject her had she not go completely crazy
I was totally stunned by her response. I actually had to rewind and play it back again to make sure I hadn't missed something. He sounded absolutely lovely and she came off completely psychotic.
I'm dumbstruck. I can't figure out where she thought they were going to cook at. Did she think the first date would be at a rentable industrial kitchen for her to show off her skills??? This man didn't dodge a projectile, he dodged Hiroshima.
@CrystalRose1111 I don't disagree with that. It was just *so* sudden, that's what I meant when I said it was weird. I'm pretty wary around men myself, but I don't get what this specific guy did wrong. He seems nice tbh.
@@CrystalRose1111 People who have been traumatized are still capable of acting like adults. The insinuation to the contrary is frankly ridiculous and insulting. This lady was looking for a reason to pop off, likely for some sense of empowerment or attention.
As a woman I completely understand not wanting to go to someone's house to meet a date for the first time but i dont understand why she immediately shut down all further chances of dates with him over it
"I hope you find peace and love" Honestly, just the best way to end it off. No hostility, no animosity, just a "Hope you do good, carry on" and that's it. It's always strange watching the opposite of what happens to women happen to a dude that just wants some steaks and ribeye.
The last time I had a similar interaction on OkCupid, I ended up sending a message that read, "You'd better hope we don't cross paths when I'm in [insert her location] next week. You won't hear the end of it. 😈" I ended up being IP banned until I got a new laptop. Mods are the biggest white knights out there.
The fact that he left the door open for a rejection too. Like all she had to do was say "no, but maybe we can get coffee for a first date". This chick had no idea how to communicate.
This guy is so wholesome and kind, I really hope he meets someone that'll cook with him. He was way nicer than I would've been in that situation, I don't have the patience to be berated without firing back. As for her, she seems like the type of person who's been on Tinder for a decade, and never fails to drive off every decent match that comes her way.
@@jamieabernathy5686Not a lot of thoughts bouncing around in your skull, eh? Let me break that one down for you: the mere IDEA of meeting someone on Tinder and NOT fucking is illogical. She walked into a whore house and was surprised that the product was sex. Doesn’t mean it was his intentions. He’s just pointing out the stupidity. You meet people on Tinder for sex first and foremost. To bitch at someone for wanting sex out of a Tinder date, whether they actually wanted to or not, is beyond hopeless.
@@jamieabernathy5686 Well that's not necessarily an admition, but more so a reminder of where she is I reckon. I understand the thought though. Seems kinda weird to cook somewhere that isn't ones own home one way or another. I kinda wish to know what she had in mind for a cooking/baking date location.
@@jamieabernathy5686 Idk about "all" he wanted. Sex was surely a part of what he wanted, why else would he be on tinder otherwise. Nobody swipes because they think "This guy seems like he'll be a supportive friend", the dialogue afterwards may lead to friendships, but it is safe to assume people are looking for a sexual encounter, one way or another. There is a reason even being active on tinder would be similar to cheating for many, many monogamous couples. The app has a fairly straight forward purpose on that regard. Whether this guy wanted a one night stand, action on his first date or was okay with investing in a long term relationship, we simply won't ever know.
“I’m not comfortable going to an apartment as a first date, would you mind if we grab coffee or dinner a couple times before that?” Is such a better response, she definitely had some underlying issues that were on full display there. Good on him being cordial about it, and oh boy did he dodge a nuke of a woman
it was a bold move on his part, he could have gotten SA charges,,, this is the reason why nice men are leaving the dating pool real fast. men can end up with serious problems and it is just not worth it.
@@DashingToJapan honestly. You can get multiple Wyze cams for like $30 each. No subscription fee. Don't cam up your bedroom or bathroom like a creep, but having a few cams throughout the house can literally save your life.
@@AngryAlfonse definitely would want one in the bedroom, since if they claim you sa'ed them in the bedroom. You would be back to square one. But yeah, there cheep AF and could easily save you from years behind bars.
Her saying she's in every single Facebook group on the whole Eastern Seaboard is like Usopp trying to convince his enemies he's got 3 Million ships at his command ☠️
At that point one can only hope her soul finds respite since this individual is clearly unhinged and damaged. Loool. And nothing would make such a person more angry. I imagine her ranting about this "loser creep", someone asks for the chat logs, she posts them, and everyone's like, "..." Real talk I think she was disturbed he didn't beg for a second chance, and how in her mind he lost a fantastic person and didn't respond in accordance with his immeasurable loss. Makes the crazies lose it. I'm sure she was genuinely disappointed, but the fact that she cut it "loose" instantly was just unfair to him, assuming the absolute worst insincerity from dude.... and she should able to acknowledge that when reflecting.
She ended that way too abruptly. The guy could have said, “Ok, I understand. How about we go to a restaurant instead?” but she never even gave him the chance.
@@tomrisk9287 on Tinder in a big city? The odds are incredibly low. She's completely gone, nobody's home in that little head of hers. That's the most likely explanation.
I'd say not getting caught up in dramatic people's bullshit is the good ending. Missing the date isn't a bad thing when you didn't wade into someone's waist deep bullshit life.
@@CantTellYou holy fck I met this girl on Tinder and she shared her whatsapp then in a week she wanted to meet and sent some weird texts, after that she blocked me out of nowhere and I found out she has an instagram where she posts people from dating apps and my whatsapp chats were there with her deleting her texts in between my texts and screenshotting it. It was so pathetic, now I just meet new people through my friends and friends of friends. Fuck dating apps its all a sham
That guy was extremly lucky to dodge that poison laced bullet. Imagine getting to know a person, becoming emotionally attached, and then out of nowhere she would do this
Just another worthless bot or an account run by a worthless individual. At any rate, the person who runs UTTP is worth less than the sum of their parts.@@UTTPOFFICER1
This is hilarious to me because my conversation with my husband started out pretty much the same way on a dating app and rather than whatever the hell happened here, we talked it out and decided to meet in public at the park and spend some time together then once I felt comfortable we drove separately to the grocery store and to his house and proceeded to make french toast and chocolate chip cookies.
The difference is that you tolerated his awful date idea and gave him a second chance while the girl in the video won't go down with incompetent guys. The guy fucked up the first date idea and thus got booted.
This genuinely reads like someone who's trying out the real world after spending years getting relationship advice and practicing social skills on Reddit and Tumblr.
weirdly enough, i met a guy through reddit and he’s actually my bf now and p similar to the guy in this. this girl has social skills *worse* than a redditor
I can tell that she comes from one of those eastern European cultures that allows women to talk any which way to men. I guarantee she wouldn't be able to muster the courage to say that to a (non-effeminate) man's face.
It’s literally the same as when you have that one person who insists on using the word “baka” instead of just being normal amd saying “idiot”. They think they are clever when in reality they are just not.
9:18 Hot take: the reason she got so aggro and accused him of only wanting to have sex with her isn't what she was mad about. She was mad at the fact that he didn't get upset at her rejection and accepted it with Grace. For crazy psychos with a complex like that, the idea that someone could be perfectly fine with not getting with them is an insult to their pride.
It could be either this or she was really trying to find an excuse to screenshot the whole conversation and post it somewhere, hoping that she found some creep (which he was not). Dopamine reward from social media could be one hell of a drug.
As a woman, and a survivor of abuse, I'm very cautious about dates. I wouldn't go to someone's apartment on the first meeting either and that's generally the safest move. But that guy genuinely come off as genuine. Perhaps she could have politely refused and offered a coffee/dinner date at a public place. Surely he would've understood and if not THAT would have been a red flag. That girl is cray-zy for real.
Exactly. She could have written a firm yet polite and playful reply like “Tbh, I don’t really feel comfortable coming over to your place for cooking just yet. How about we go to a restaurant instead and have someone else do the cooking for us? 😉” This guy would most likely have been totally cool and respectful about it.
women are under no obligation to be "polite". her initial response was harsh, but it's her right to be a harsh person. her cursing at him afterward was not right tho.
@@thechumbucket8986 well, she will find out very quickly that her harsh personality will be the cause of her loneliness and nobody liking her. She already is in Tinder so its clear she is looking for a significant other. She can have all the rights she thinks she can have about being rude and harsh to others, but then she would have no right to cry about guys not corresponding to her personality that lashes out like this quickly. These are the same people that then love criticizing the other gender of being misogynists and sex-driven only, or conceited and being witches. Goes for both genders, nobody likes "harshness" out of nowhere and so quickly.
We absolutely agree. Sorry if i mispoke, i should have said " this is how /I/ would have handled it ". We're absolutely not obliged to be polite or to justify ourselves under any situation when it comes to our safety and our comfort considering it's never safe enough.@@thechumbucket8986
This guy needs to be careful. Her influence grew from 30k to 500k in just a few minutes. At this rate in under an hour she will have informed all 8 billion people of him!!
He dodged a bullet on that one. There are cautious women, and then there are narcissists that think every man wants to immediately sleep with them. Her response so far out of left field you can tell she is just the type to want to be a victim. Especially since she kept messaging him after he just said "ok I understand" and further escalating it.
The perfect way for you cheung was it to a friend who is just like me and you are a good man to you and that your heart will never go back in your mind and I think that your best friends are to you and I love ya and you know how to make a man i was that you and your mom
The fact I can get it right away with a lot more fun and addicting and I don't think I'm going to get my nails are!!? A little more time with you guys have to go back and I don't think that I have to do with my friends to play it all over again I don't have a good one for me I love it when people say they are a not so sure about that; your a fan since I got to be go back to my house and I love you so much fun with my life I love it when I was in my head room for a few weeks of a sudden it..
@@sunnydispositionn I think I saw these kind of bot replies a lot sometime ago (also in Charlie's videos - for whatever reason they stick to him just like those pr0nbot comments. Ironically the pr0nbots are actually more human than these) and none of them made any sense. It was as if they tried to sound cultured.
As a person from Czech, eating my food while watching Charlie´s video on another baffling conversation two people had with eachother, the last thing I expected was a random czech sentence in the middle of all the english. Nearly made me choke on my food.
As a person from "Czech"? See, if you had said "The Czech Republic", "Czechoslovakia", or "Bohemia", we all would have understood what you meant. There is no country called "Czech". You meant to say that you are Czech (predicate adjective). You need to have a serious discussion with your ESL teacher.
@@RobbieStacks90you literally understood what they meant..? That’s why you specified the exact country they were referring to and even gave a country that hasn’t existed in years as an alternative to what they said. Not everyone is stupid. If you’re bitter with life, just say that.
Imagine bragging "I'm gonna put you on blast in front of 500k people!" Now she's being put on blast in front of an audience of 14.2 MILLION LMAO edit: was not expecting the amount of likes this got, love y'all 🤙🏽
True! I hope this video reaches her 😃 A fair point tho is that what she wanted to do was much worse, because I don't think he actually posted her personal info/photo as she said she was going to do to him.
She was clearly trying to piss him off at the end in the hopes of getting some sort of reaponse she could spin in her favor to make him look bad. He did the best possible thing he could by staying calm and kind through it all.
@@Ben_2040 I'm sorry to hear that you feel this way. It might be hard to believe, and it probably sounds corny as fuck, but IME little moments of kindness can affect people in profound ways. I've been in the same headspace as you in the past. You never know what someone might be going through. I remember people who have been kind to me when I was going through shit and that behavior wasn't expected or required (like as part of their job). I admit that it's harder to do when someone is being a jackass, and yeah, it might not be "rewarded." I try anyway. With people like in the video, you can at least get a little pleasure knowing they're probably just more angry that you're not reacting the way they want or expect. Reacting negatively to people like this only escalates things - you can't fix them by putting them in their place. Only a therapist and meds can correct an imbalance that severe. Anyway, holidays are hard, I hope yours go okay.
Social media has made others way too comfortable in behaving like this. It's also sad, because she's clearly had bad experience dating and is projecting it onto that random dude instead of seeking therapy. I hope she gets help
I dont think this is something social media did. Weird social rules have always existed that send weird mixed signals like this, which get complicated when you're talking about personal experience as well.
@@mkat8505 I was just contemplating trying to ask a woman out by offering to cook a steak and bring it to her, I didn’t realize how caveman-ish that sounds
The "I hope you find peace and love" had the same vibe as a Southern woman saying "bless your heart" to someone she secretly doesn't approve of; and it was perfect.
I used to be in one of those groups she was describing, people would share screenshots of horrible/funny Tinder interactions. You’d find a lot of people being rude to nice people as excuse to farm interactions, which was super depressing. Women have every reason to fear going to someone’s house as a first date but it seemed quite clear that this guy wasn’t trying to manipulate her into going anywhere. She took it out on him for those groups she was quick to bring up.
My wife follows some of these kind of groups too on the book, like you said it’s sad that some women do that for whatever it is they want , but my fave ones is like in this situation when they post say these Screenshots with a caption “ Beware of “so and so” he tried to ____ “ or whatever , but then the whole group instead of supporting them just start losing it on them and just roasting the person , it kills me every time.
Its literally not possible to date someone as an early 20 year old. Everyone seems to have a viewpoint that their partner needs to be absolutely perfect. No one is interested in working through issues, in their mind they could just find someone else that wouldn't think that way.
I mean I agree. Im 25, barely had sex through my life but I stay out of the dating game. Young peolle these days are so immature and so inexperienced with being human, it just isnt worth it at the moment. Im sure it will change as we get older but trying to date anyone right now is just blegh.
@@ZombieBacon13Late 20’s here and I’ve just mentally checked out of the dating game. It’s simply gotten to the point of sheer ridiculousness. 2 months ago I went on a first date where I was sexually harassed multiple times throughout the night despite clearly telling this women I don’t consent please stop try to force yourself onto me. And back in April I found out my girlfriend was cheating on me with her cousin after she accidentally sent the wrong person (me) a nude that was meant to go to him. If it wasn’t for her caption, I probably wouldn’t have thought anything of it. I wish I could scrub that image outta my head with bleach and steel wool so badly.
@@krusher181 I'm just as clueless. I guess it's someone who moved from Czechia to wherever they are now and curse people in their native language as a stealth insult or something.
@@reno9821 My guess would be she just used google translate. Who says "ztrať se"? Get lost is a perfect translation but I've never heard or used "ztrať se" as an insult. It's all just so weird.
In attempting to smear his reputation and leave him dateless, ironically, she would have ended up getting him a shitload of requests for dates. A cooking date sounds like mad fun to me. I’m a dude and straight as an arrow and I feel like I want to have a cooking date with this bloke. Seems chill as. Even bigger irony in the fact that this more than likely totally stalled her own dating prospects.
Actually she was setting herself up for a slam dunk for him on a lawsuit. She insinuated she was going to defame him to 30k people. Lawyers like solid numbers like that.
@@Alucard-mj6yjHer name being censored out looks like that was part of the shared image, not something Charlie did or any editors for the channel. I bet the guy who shared this conversation censored her name specifically not to be a douchebag but to just show how nuts people can be.
He also took the 'rejection' right on the shin and let it be. He accepted it immediately and didn't push further. She's the one who kept going at him. He replied to her weird cryptic nonsense and she went batshit crazy.
I once met a girl online and after we finished talking we both agreed to keep talking the next day. So the next day she texted me first thing in the morning and I replied briefly because I was busy, thinking we could continue the conversation after work like we did the day before. Later that day I got back to her and she was mad. She accused me of ghosting her and "cheating" with other women. I tried to explain that I wanted to talk to her when I could be relaxed and focused on chatting but she started dumping all her past trauma on me and calling me names. So I decided to end the conversation. She got even more angry at me and said the wildest shit non stop before I blocked her.
She was so unnecessarily rude. A simple, "I don't like going to people's houses for a first date" would have sufficed. It wasn't like he was being pushy or a douche. I hope he finds a nice woman who will cook with him.
It seems like she's gone through life believing that every guy is a r4pist and the only ones who aren't are the rare exception. I think she spends too much time on the internet.
There are a few possibilities here: 1) Her reason for abruptly ending the possibility of their dating was a convenient pretext for her not wanting to date an effeminate guy. She might have just seen him as her gee ay why cooking buddy. 2) She never intended to go out with him and was baiting him into texting something that she could post on her neo-feminist Instagram page. 3) She was talking to several other guys from Tinder, and some goofy brute who had been ignoring her asked her out, and she jumped at the opportunity.
@@daminox I mean you can't blame women for being scared or claiming that all men are animals (some men are to the core but not all of us are). In my area in my country a girl was groomed and then s*xually assaulted from a guy she met off Tinder because she initially declined an invitation to go on a date with him but when he eventually persuaded her, he did something downright horrible to her. You never know who you are talking to from Tinder unless you meet in person and are you willing to take that risk if you're a woman? I could tell you about the meetups (I don't class them as dates) I have had with girls from Tinder and catfished is what I will use to describe them. There were 2 girls I actually had feelings for but it went nowhere so we both parted ways no harm done, the others were just a complete and total disaster from the get-go and a complete waste of money since I paid for everything, every time. These girls seemed like a good laugh and nice people at the start but as time went on they were far from this reality. Proper scroungers and vile people, I'm just glad (and lucky) I dipped out when I did lmao.
As a woman, I understand her not wanting to go to his apartment for their first date, that’s understandable, but she didn’t have to immediately become a rude to him.
On a good side, the guy dodge a bullet. And good thing is, she's not his co-worker or something. Because imagine if she starts spreading rumours about him being creepy in a workplace when he is actually not.
she could just say 'no sorry I'm not comfortable with that for a 1st date' instead of 'I'm not comfortable with that how dare you even suggest it never speak to me again I'm telling on you to my toxic girl groups'
happens from more people than you'd think the dating scene is full of fucking land mines I can't wait to be in a relationship with someone reasonable again and escape this hellscape
This is a pretty important reason as to why I don't even want to try dating anyone. People have gotten so toxic lately and there's no real way to find out without just getting hurt in the process.
@LemonBear007 Because it shows weakness, or at least people perceive it does. That and a lot lack the ability to take responsibility for their own actions because it's far easier to blame others than to throw yourself on the line as the failure in response to an issue.
@@ignoreme1141being alone is way better then dealing with all this drama and nonsense with modern dating. I used to be depressed about it but now I’m genuinely happy being alone and not having to deal with BS and drama.
Yeah.. not because you’re unattractive and your profile would sit there collecting dust. Youre so right, dating apps are 99% girls like this, you cant avoid ‘em!
@@jamesmendoza456 Bunch of copium. Social media and smartphones made people antisocial. Normal healthy people meet up in real life, dating apps are for psychos.
I know a very beautiful 40-something woman who has never had a real relationship, because she picks every guy apart and freaks out before they even get to know each other. Ironically, she herself is an absolute train wreck and has no grounds to criticize anyone lol
As a gal I can perfectly understand being wary of going to the other person's place alone for a first date, and I can even understand the concern with it being a potential "trap" via attempting to get laid on the first date. Where she lost me was when she completely flipped out on an otherwise normal/mundane conversation. If I had suspicions he only wanted to bang, I would've just abandoned the convo at wishing him well and going about my business. Insulting and acting an outright asshole as well as "threatening" him is batshit insane behavior, he def dodged a bullet there
This wasn't an " otherwise normal" conversation. This WAS a normal conversation. Women make shit up in their heads and act as though what they think is truth. My ex fiance slapped me because I cheated on her, in her dream. I say ex for a reason.
This is the second time recently where we had a situation where two seemingly compatible people immediatly turned into a fallout with *one* sentence (Last time being with the guy who called the woman a golddigger even though he wanted her to be a traditional housewife, which she agreed to)
I had a similar experience with a girl this year. Met her at work, she seemed nice we hung out a few times. She starts to get a little sexual. I tell her I’m not ready for that. She seemed to be offended that I wasn’t interested at the time (we had only been talking for 2 weeks) I’m like okay so we cut things off I figured we were done. Fast forward a few months I meet a new girl who happens to be going to the same college as the old one, the old one tracks this new girl down and apparently tells her a whole bunch of fake stuff about things I did (despite the fact we only hung out twice) before I can even figure out what kind of things I supposedly did wrong, I’m completely blocked on every platform by her. What a shitty night that was, but after dwelling on it for a day or two I came to the conclusion that perhaps if that’s how she is going to react to unproven things then maybe I dodged a bullet with her too
You ABSOLUTELY dodged another bullet. I can't imagine finding something out about another person and inmediately drawing conclusions based upon it. At least *ask* about it.
women do that ALL the time. huge amounts of drama over literally nothing. I've women I barely even know do this to me, I don't even remember most of their names or faces.
@@JewTube001you sound like a great guy with a great personality. The leagues of women that have gone out of their way to avoid you and warn others don’t know what they are missing. I must not be a great guy. I haven’t had a single woman I’ve dated block me or red flag me with her peers. And I remember their names and faces. What am I doing wrong? Is it the basic decency and respect?
i did a similar thing when i was 15, thats wild to do in college bruh💀 (i got told all this stuff about this dude and blocked him immediately, but that was prob because i was Not mentally sound at that moment💀)
I was talking to a girl once from a different local town. She was very defensive and aggressive about a lot of things. "School is a disgusting joke designed to make children kill themselves." Is a quote that comes to mind. Anyways, she had previously told me what town she lived in, so I asked if she went to a specific high school I know from that town. She responded with "How did you know that." I told her that it was an assumption since she told me she lived in that town. "I never told you that, who are you, how do you know that?" I just said, I promise you did. I then sent a screenshot of her telling me she lived there, and then she told me to stop stalking her, to fuck off, and then she blocked me. I don't know what happened to her to make her that fucking paranoid, but it was a bit of a yikes.
I'm a paranoid person and I wouldn't react like that. That girl will one day be on a streetcorner with a sign that reads "the end is near". Sometimes they can't help the reality they live in.
Honestly her freaking out like that was the best possible outcome for this dude. Clearly she’s off her rocker and she just saved this man from the inevitable misery that would have came eventually
i just hope she doesnt ruin his reputation bending that story in some random groups
I learned that lesson six months into a relationship. I’m still proud of 22 year old me for handling that.
@@warlordofbritannia I think we all have to learn that lesson at least once or twice in our life
@@samuliilill541me too. too many men being tricked and hurt
@@samuliilill541She was too lazy to block him, I doubt she has the motivation to actually prepare a letter to these groups that doesn't make _her_ look like a moron, lol.
I get the feeling that she expected him to desperately beg her to still go on a date with him, but instead he basically said "Aw, oh well. Peace!", and that pissed her off.
This, and I suspect that she has probably been used for sex before, and lacks the judgment to properly discern when that isn't the case
😂😂😂😂 good thing she can’t act over the age of five or she may have still had this dude
That's exactly what happened.
For sure otherwise she wouldn’t suddenly get angey like that
He went off script
i like how she threatened to warn off hundreds of thousands of women from him, but in the end, millions of guys got warned off her
@@somebody700to be fair, i wouldnt want to be with a woman who frequented groups that dox men like that.
@notatrollll the thing is. You don't know about it. They don't parade around saying they are part of those groups unless you are at the end of their pitching fork and they actively decided to cross you out as potential partner. Either way it's a win to stay away from these type of women that frequent those Echo Chambers
That's so true. You just made getting 'women doxxed' into a benefit.@@notatrollll
@@somebody700he didn’t even do anything wrong
@@notatrollllreally good point there
How did she expect to have a cooking date without going somewhere able to COOK? Did she think they were going to meet up at a restaurant or smth? 2:46
Yeah fr there’s no such thing as a public kitchen
Bbq grills and ez bake ovens 😂
@@bangietnm5868oddly enough there actually is 😂 only businesses are free to use the the kitchens though
@@bangietnm5868actually there are just super expensive
Yes bro, she was trying to bait him into taking her to an expensive steakhouse.
People like her are providing a valuable service, letting others know right away they're insane instead of later down the line when you're somewhat invested. Kudos to her!
Yup, that's called a Nicegirl™!
But, to be fair to her, I kinda understand the reaction. I don't condone it, but i get it. If these are younger individuals, say 25 ish, the girl was probably told for her entire life that men only want her for sex. She probably experienced it too, and how many bad experiences can you have before you consider it the status quo? It was prolly engrained into her head that "if a guy asks you to come over, it will only ever be for sex," Again, that's no excuse for that kinda reaction given the context, but she was prolly thinking that it was better to be safe than sorry.
I would've just told her that she's just been registered as a sex offender in the area
@@chocodraws5137what that's wild whY
@@chocodraws5137 what did she ever do that is remotely warranting of THAT?
As a woman, I love baking and cooking dates but I don’t feel comfortable doing that until earliest the 3rd date. However, I cannot blame the guy for suggesting it as they had just talked about it. If I were her, I’d have replied with something firm yet polite and playful like “Tbh I don’t really feel comfortable coming to your place just yet for cooking or baking so how about we go to a restaurant and have someone else do the cooking for us first? 😉”. You can tell this guy would have been totally cool and respectful about it.
Perfect example of a light hearted and flirty way to redirect that conversation! As a woman, I also never do apartment first dates, but suggesting an alternative is a great way to see if the guy is worth your time. If he’s down: green light. If he’s pushy and insists on that apartment date: quick block.
Exactly...guy didnt seem pushy at all and seemed decent...she either could have left it at the first rejection message if she was that paranoid. Or did what you just wrote.
If i was in his place the sudden insults would have me gobsmacked. Uncalled for.
@@elambedoExactly. No decent and respectful guy would be mad if the girl diverted the date to a public place as a first date just to be safe. Its all about having understanding.
I mean i would probably suggest to have a cooking date as a first date within the same context of talking about cooking together. I wouldnt think of it as THAT inappropriate if we are talking about it. But sure as hell wouldnt be mad if she rejected it and wanted a date in public. Thats 100% understandable.
Yeah some guys get really pushy about this kind of thing. My friend was recently in the online dating scene and she told me about this time she set up a coffee date with a guy, and then he tried to redirect her to his house because quote, "his new puppy had separation anxiety, so he can't leave." And when she suggested they go to a park with the puppy instead, he made up some weird reasoning why his dog couldn't leave his house. So she just called the whole thing off and moved on. But this obviously wasn't what OP was doing.
Exactly. And cooking together is very intimate as well so it's kinda nice to make sure you vibe with someone first. I get him trying, once again seeing that they talked about it.
This lady crazy for handling it like that though lol
This is a real life example of picking the wrong dialogue options and upsetting the NPC. Except what the test read and what your character says is the complete opposite vibe so there's no way you could have known it was malicious
Dude forgot to quick save before the interaction 😢
FO4 dialogue moment
Guy rolled a critical fail 1 on a conversation.
Then again.....was it a Critical Success given her response?
Mass Effect vibes
Art mimics life lol
I had a chick accuse me of "only being after one thing" after I declined a second date. It was an interesting take on why I didn't want to see her again given I was honest about the actual reason.
See, on our first date we hit a couple of bars and then she invited me to her place, not for nookie mind you, but so she could engage in some 420 behaviors. But then she got carried away, got way too blown out and proceeded to have a massive panic attack. I helped her though it, made sure she was okay and then took my leave.
So you can imagine how impressed I was at her messages a few days later accusing me of being a creep rather than even acknowledging the massive red flag she flew on our first date.
Sounds like she was butt hurt and you just weren’t meant for eachother
@@user-lt1jd1ye3v Oh, she was totally butt hurt. I just found it funny she used the oldest excuse in the book to blame me for her own stupid behavior.
She talked it over with her brainrot friends and decided that she never can do wrong and it must be your fault she is an irresponsible druggy.
Thats funny, missed a good one there ;) lol
I had a woman message me a couple days after our first date, which btw she brought a friend. She wanted to come over because she had been in a fight at a party and my place was nearby (btw I never invited her over prior) and she needed a place to crash. I lived in a 1 bedroom house, I offered her the couch as I had work in the morning. She goes into a full on alcohol induced seizure the next day from drinking my alcohol and then was flabbergasted as to why I didn't want to pick her up from the hospital after she checked herself out, claiming to the staff, that "I agreed to pick her up".
Yeah, F that, major red flag.
Aw, this is really sad. I hope he finds someone who happily cooks with him.
Me too, also WHY ARE THERE SO MANY DAMN BOTS IN THIS COMMENT SECTION
id cook and bake with him, not even in a gay way either just making good food with ur homies is fun
@@Coolguy0976because moist is too lazy to filter his comments
No
@@mktwoshe doesn't care for his comments in yhe first place
As a woman, a somewhat reasonably paranoid one at that, I can say with full confidence her response was out of line and fully embarrassing
the wholw video i was wondering how is this lady not embarrassed 😭
'reasonably paranoid' is definitely a phrase
@@amsyjo The guy is to blame to some extent for his weak use of emojis ("When can we make this happen 👶") and word choice (He called her either "m'lady or m'am" at some point). It's hard to say for sure without seeing what they look like. My guess is that the rejection was a pretext for her wanting to meet up with one of her other Tinder matches instead, which is a very dangerous game for women to play. When you make a commitment to one guy, you'd better stick to it.
You are on the very edge of incel behavior. Please look at yourself. Healthy rational people don't care how you use emojis.
Fuck the most attractive woman I know types with "XD" and she's 28
Please. Don't go any farther
@@RobbieStacks90dude, no.
i don’t go to men’s apartments on first dates either but girl this was so embarrassing 🫣 the way people flip over text like this never fails to freak me out. i loved how he asked if she was comfortable first, it would have been the perfect segway into suggesting an alternative (like a picnic date where you bring food you both cooked!)
I like men women scare me
@@billcosby9104 cool, and i like women, women scare me
@@billcosby9104 I like men and women. And they scare me.
@@TanTan-pd4fw relatable
i like both but women scare me (they're pretty)@@billcosby9104
“The worst she can do is say no”
“I’m going to tell 30,000 people about you”
"Hey let's cook together."
"Sure, let's cook together."
"Ew, creep."
☕
There was always gonna be some loser who uses this to generalize to all women
420th like 😎
Women
This is the most 2024 online relationship moment of all time
this guy didnt dodge a bullet, he dodged a whole damn nuclear bomb
@UTTPOFFICER1 who🤨!?
No
There's something wrong with that woman fr
There's no "Happy New Year!" or "Good Luck!" after all that. She would have gotten a loud knock on her door from me within ten minutes of sending that text. Did her parents raise her to be dismissive and disrespectful, or did she learn that from her friends?
Fourth Wave Feminism at work
He even started his sentence with "would you be comfortable..", which means he fully understands that's maybe a bit awkward for a first date, but logistically makes sense given the context of the potential date.
I'm starting to feel like these people never learned how to properly communicate with other human beings. It was so clear and obvious to a normal person the dude was only asking this as one potential option, only if she wanted to but the woman somehow mistook that and inserted a whole fanfic of the dude's intentions instead of being a normal person.
The way she acted directly after that seems like she was only going to be "comfortable" with him suggesting reservations at a 5 star restaurant or maybe a few days vacation fully paid for by him.
If it's not on an expensive yacht, she is settling
@@ruidechendude put 2 and 2 together and that was somehow the wrong in her eyes. She’s either got some trauma or has some crazy negative stereotypes about men
@@mutantraze3681Most likely both. Had some horrible dating experiences, got caught up in an echo chamber of women with bad dating experiences, grew a hatred of men and paranoia of men's motives from it. I've seen it happen.
"Mashing pissers" is a phrase I've never heard before and is now the subject of my intrusive thoughts.
Like Brit said ,, clashing kissers and mashing pissers,,
I’ve been using it frequently and love it
its so incredibly british
bumping uglys I know, mashing pissers is a new one for me.😂
Hearing Charlie speaking fluently in Czech language was the most terrifying thing I have ever experienced because I had the video as a backround thing and I literally thought he broke the 4th wall to talk to me to go fuck myself.
THAT was fluent? Lol
@@TheLastApostle No he's just joking it was awful :D
Same, I was like "what the fuck" and instantly had to rewind.
I thought it was French 😭
@@catsinwonderland7473me too
It feels like this girl was on Tinder for the sole purpose of finding and criticizing guys that were using it for sex, but ended up finding a genuinely nice guy, and she didn’t know how to react, so she found any reason she could to accuse him of being a creep
This is exactly what I was thinking lol. The switch in conversation was so weird and sudden, it's like she was looking for an excuse to go off on him and just jumped at the first thing regardless that it didn't make sense.
@@DashingToJapanWomen in a nutshell 😂
Any woman that says they hate sex or say men are only into sex are the ones that literally initiate it during the first date
@@Maesterful Nah, more like narcissists on stupid power trips in a nutshell
@@MaesterfulI pity the women in your life
Funny how she had to tell him twice that she blocked him and then proceeded to still have a conversation with him, she must really be the alone one in question if she's unable to find it in herself to just end the conversation there LMAO
it's so common for crazies like this too lmaoo, they're constantly going BLOCKED! ALSO YOU SUCK! ALSO BLOCKED! BY THE WAY YOU SUCK! BLOCKED! ...u up
exactly, she clearly wanted to argue with him just to entertain herself. also i love your pfp
Probably trying to bait him into saying some mean shit so she could post it. Not happening. Dudes a G
I hate your pfp
Typical behaviour of somone who lives on the internet and probably spends alot of time writeing angry comments. She goes for the classic your blocked power move, but at the same time her low self esteem dosnt let her actually block him as she needs to see if he responds to her.
4:25 that was the best czech pronunciation i have ever heard fr
"I hope you find peace and love" is actually such a banger of a closing line.
It would have been so over the second I heard "get lost" from her, this guy is a better person than I am. He actually waited for her to think about what she was saying instead of closing dms with her first when she went full psycho lol
Ironic considering she'll never find either of those with her attitude.
I guarantee that line set her off even more lmao
@@inciacci549 His line is supposed to indicate that to her subconscious, eating away at her until she wants to make changes.
She def a biden voter too
It's always an odd sign when someone sends a text stating that they've blocked the other person but then they keep replying afterwards
“I’m leaving this group!” *lurks*
God that's so true.
You can only try to pacify them so long. Then you just have to start trolling
It’s to make u feel bad/ beg for them not to do it. They wanna see ur reaction.
my favorite thing to do is say “okay” and then turn the chat into a grocery list or posting goofy gifs
@@semidecent4395 thats hilarious
If I had to guess, she got offended that the guy was okay with calling everything off after she rejected the first date idea and didn't get on his knees begging to find some other alternative for them. In other words she was mad he was okay with never actually meeting her
It’s as real as WWE
@@Memorial24 Assuming nothing on the internet can ever be real is just as stupid as believing everything you read. Nothing about this screamed fake imo
@@heckingbamboozled8097 There’s no way this is real it’s way too over the top and cartoonish, Charlie finds these conversions on Reddit and picks the craziest obviously fake ones he can find and reads them all to you. Anyone can easily fake these with little to no effort.
As someone who knows narcissistic women who act like that, you are correct that’s exactly what happened lol
It's like getting called gay or something because you reject a woman's advances
My favorite part is "Blocked. Except not. But NOW blocked! Okay, no, let me share some more about how crazy I am"
Not wanting to go to a guy's loft for a first date is completely reasonable, but the way she just exploded while he was being completely cordial is INSANE... he seemed like a sweet guy, at least she showed her true colors before he actually went out with this psychopath
What a miserable bitch. So happy im married. Jesus Christ.
dude was like, fair enough have a nice chiristmas and she just lost it.
@@TGPDrunknHick SOME women cant take rejection. Especially women on modern dating apps it seems
"some" in caps so feminists dont freak out.
@@uniquegod1997Neither can the vast majority of people. Rejection causes emotions that are inherently unpleasant for humans. No need to gender it at all, so no need to worry about phantom feminists.
@@uniquegod1997 He didnt even reject her, she said shes disapointed and doesnt want anything further to which he just agree, but I think hed try to suggest something else and not reject her had she not go completely crazy
She's going to warn the 30,000 about him but now Charlie just warned 14.2M about her.
Who's her though? That whole conversation was an anonymous thread. I get what you're trying to say but that's just not the case
@@-alostsoul-6902 ... It was a joke lol
@@kennyrose1274I think they’re aware
@@-alostsoul-6902Then stfu if that is not the case.
That's what AWDTSG is all about.
I was totally stunned by her response. I actually had to rewind and play it back again to make sure I hadn't missed something. He sounded absolutely lovely and she came off completely psychotic.
I'm dumbstruck. I can't figure out where she thought they were going to cook at. Did she think the first date would be at a rentable industrial kitchen for her to show off her skills??? This man didn't dodge a projectile, he dodged Hiroshima.
And it's such a 180 too. Her attitude completely switched so fast, it's wierd.
It’s not weird, that’s what trauma does to a person. The men who freak out are the same. It’s not a justification, but they all have trust issues
@CrystalRose1111 I don't disagree with that. It was just *so* sudden, that's what I meant when I said it was weird. I'm pretty wary around men myself, but I don't get what this specific guy did wrong. He seems nice tbh.
@@CrystalRose1111 People who have been traumatized are still capable of acting like adults. The insinuation to the contrary is frankly ridiculous and insulting. This lady was looking for a reason to pop off, likely for some sense of empowerment or attention.
My favorite closer is always:
"I hope you get everything you deserve."
As a woman I completely understand not wanting to go to someone's house to meet a date for the first time but i dont understand why she immediately shut down all further chances of dates with him over it
She wanted him to suggest a cooking class
@@chazzychizzle915 A cooking CLASS? Is that a typical date suggestion?
@@chazzychizzle915 I wonder who she would want to pay for it too lmao
Bipolar girls are scary asf lol
Even if she wanted to shut down future opportunities that's ok. But why she jumped to insulting him I have no idea.
"I hope you find peace and love"
Honestly, just the best way to end it off. No hostility, no animosity, just a "Hope you do good, carry on" and that's it.
It's always strange watching the opposite of what happens to women happen to a dude that just wants some steaks and ribeye.
@@UTTPOFFICER1 nerd.
ew@@Sirdilophosaurusthethird2.0
It was the woman that wanted ribeye. The guy was the green text lol
The last time I had a similar interaction on OkCupid, I ended up sending a message that read, "You'd better hope we don't cross paths when I'm in [insert her location] next week. You won't hear the end of it. 😈"
I ended up being IP banned until I got a new laptop. Mods are the biggest white knights out there.
Compassion for crazy assholes is the best way to detach yourself and not get drawn into their vortex.
I’m lowkey taking notes on this guy, he’s so calm and nice. I wish I was better at that.
it can get u far
Stop using lowkey would be first step.
@@nineball8193 Fr?
@@nineball8193damn what’s wrong with the word lowkey 😭
@@e92e36 it's low-key cringe
Chick: "i wanna cook"
Dude: come by my house
Chick: NO! CREEP! WTF?!
But... dont u kinda... gotta be where a kitchen is to cook?
The fact that he left the door open for a rejection too. Like all she had to do was say "no, but maybe we can get coffee for a first date".
This chick had no idea how to communicate.
Clearly you've never broken into an ikea after hours to cook lasagna
@Khalid.Ibrahim0897 clearly I have not....
This guy is so wholesome and kind, I really hope he meets someone that'll cook with him. He was way nicer than I would've been in that situation, I don't have the patience to be berated without firing back. As for her, she seems like the type of person who's been on Tinder for a decade, and never fails to drive off every decent match that comes her way.
He literally admits later in the conversation that all he wanted was sex. "we met on tinder, remember?”.
@@jamieabernathy5686Not a lot of thoughts bouncing around in your skull, eh? Let me break that one down for you: the mere IDEA of meeting someone on Tinder and NOT fucking is illogical. She walked into a whore house and was surprised that the product was sex.
Doesn’t mean it was his intentions. He’s just pointing out the stupidity. You meet people on Tinder for sex first and foremost. To bitch at someone for wanting sex out of a Tinder date, whether they actually wanted to or not, is beyond hopeless.
@@jamieabernathy5686 Well that's not necessarily an admition, but more so a reminder of where she is I reckon. I understand the thought though. Seems kinda weird to cook somewhere that isn't ones own home one way or another. I kinda wish to know what she had in mind for a cooking/baking date location.
@@jamieabernathy5686 Idk about "all" he wanted. Sex was surely a part of what he wanted, why else would he be on tinder otherwise. Nobody swipes because they think "This guy seems like he'll be a supportive friend", the dialogue afterwards may lead to friendships, but it is safe to assume people are looking for a sexual encounter, one way or another. There is a reason even being active on tinder would be similar to cheating for many, many monogamous couples. The app has a fairly straight forward purpose on that regard.
Whether this guy wanted a one night stand, action on his first date or was okay with investing in a long term relationship, we simply won't ever know.
@@jamieabernathy5686 that's what tinder is for my guy. The dude on tinder is interested in sex? Color me surprised
“I’m not comfortable going to an apartment as a first date, would you mind if we grab coffee or dinner a couple times before that?” Is such a better response, she definitely had some underlying issues that were on full display there. Good on him being cordial about it, and oh boy did he dodge a nuke of a woman
it was a bold move on his part, he could have gotten SA charges,,, this is the reason why nice men are leaving the dating pool real fast. men can end up with serious problems and it is just not worth it.
@@RednasXYZABC123that's why ya get cams in the house. That way regardless of what happens, there is video proof to back up either side.
what the heck are you two bozos yapping about? why did this spiral into unironic Nice guy discussion? bruh
@@DashingToJapan honestly. You can get multiple Wyze cams for like $30 each. No subscription fee. Don't cam up your bedroom or bathroom like a creep, but having a few cams throughout the house can literally save your life.
@@AngryAlfonse definitely would want one in the bedroom, since if they claim you sa'ed them in the bedroom. You would be back to square one. But yeah, there cheep AF and could easily save you from years behind bars.
Her saying she's in every single Facebook group on the whole Eastern Seaboard is like Usopp trying to convince his enemies he's got 3 Million ships at his command ☠️
She was probably talking about her area's subreddit
@@Rikent i mod one of those and i just had to ban someone for doxxing a guy. maybe it was her
Or Starbuck calling in Purple and Orange squadrons. No, wait, that worked 🤣
Lmaooooo Goddu Usopp and his unstoppable fleet. Whitebeard, Kaido, and Big Mom all tremble upon hearing the name Usopp 😂😂😂
4:25 Jdi di prdele ztrať se is Czech. It translates to "Go to hell, get Lost
"i hope you find peace and love" is such a banger response lmao
At that point one can only hope her soul finds respite since this individual is clearly unhinged and damaged. Loool. And nothing would make such a person more angry. I imagine her ranting about this "loser creep", someone asks for the chat logs, she posts them, and everyone's like, "..."
Real talk I think she was disturbed he didn't beg for a second chance, and how in her mind he lost a fantastic person and didn't respond in accordance with his immeasurable loss. Makes the crazies lose it. I'm sure she was genuinely disappointed, but the fact that she cut it "loose" instantly was just unfair to him, assuming the absolute worst insincerity from dude.... and she should able to acknowledge that when reflecting.
It's like when you do an interaction with a sim that doesn't land, and immediately they start yelling and slapping you.
Except you cant then put them in a pool and place walls around it... or just remove the ladder depending on which sims your playing
Yes exactly, that’s some NPC behavior with low niceness points if I’ve ever seen one
off topic, but your grogu icon is too cute 😭
@@veriveryluvr Thanks! ☺
She ended that way too abruptly. The guy could have said, “Ok, I understand. How about we go to a restaurant instead?” but she never even gave him the chance.
Because she didn't want to find a solution or compromise
“Hey we should totally cook sometime since we’ve been talking about it”
“Fucking creep!”
Straight out of an SNL skit
Seems like she was already expecting him to suck, like she'd heard something about this guy? like that's the only logical explanation i have.
She clearly had a bad experience with a apartment date and is making it his problem
@@tomrisk9287 on Tinder in a big city? The odds are incredibly low. She's completely gone, nobody's home in that little head of hers. That's the most likely explanation.
This guy got the good and bad ending. He didn’t get the girl but dodged the psycho
I'd say not getting caught up in dramatic people's bullshit is the good ending. Missing the date isn't a bad thing when you didn't wade into someone's waist deep bullshit life.
Something tells me her whole mission is to “expose” guys on dating apps, then post about it for clicks & likes 🤔 idk what
@@CantTellYou holy fck I met this girl on Tinder and she shared her whatsapp then in a week she wanted to meet and sent some weird texts, after that she blocked me out of nowhere and I found out she has an instagram where she posts people from dating apps and my whatsapp chats were there with her deleting her texts in between my texts and screenshotting it. It was so pathetic, now I just meet new people through my friends and friends of friends. Fuck dating apps its all a sham
Neutral ending lol
If she did that, he should sue for defamation.
That guy was extremly lucky to dodge that poison laced bullet. Imagine getting to know a person, becoming emotionally attached, and then out of nowhere she would do this
That's called dating, lol.
That's called dating, lol.
Apparently that's called dating, lol?
@@fungisrock8955bro kept having a stroke and forgot he made the post 4 times already.
That's called dating, lol.
Charlie going "well, lets take a peek" excitedly is actually golden
send prayers 👼👼👼 praise thy tommy parky! ❤ ❤ ❤
@@stuartclarke2988 🤓
@OFFICERJIMMYUTTP 🤓
*WOMAN MOMENT*
These bots are horrendous 😭
and now the millions of fans of the most respected man on the internet will know all about her.
@@UTTPOFFICER1shhhh, no one cares, and no one’s going to
Yeah we will know all about the CENSORED woman. 🚮
Just another worthless bot or an account run by a worthless individual. At any rate, the person who runs UTTP is worth less than the sum of their parts.@@UTTPOFFICER1
No name or face was shown, not even a username. We know literally nothing about this person
@@richardtaveras3593 We know she's crazy
She was speaking Czech and now I’m mad at the unneccasry use of it to this polite man
This is hilarious to me because my conversation with my husband started out pretty much the same way on a dating app and rather than whatever the hell happened here, we talked it out and decided to meet in public at the park and spend some time together then once I felt comfortable we drove separately to the grocery store and to his house and proceeded to make french toast and chocolate chip cookies.
Completely sane and healthy version
The difference is that you tolerated his awful date idea and gave him a second chance while the girl in the video won't go down with incompetent guys. The guy fucked up the first date idea and thus got booted.
@@itsez1129sounds like you’re saying the woman in the video was right in that situation, which she definitely wasn’t.
That's a really cute story tbh, happy for ya two
And fucked. Let's be honest 😂
This genuinely reads like someone who's trying out the real world after spending years getting relationship advice and practicing social skills on Reddit and Tumblr.
🎯 Reads like someone whose sole mission on Tinder is to find a way to confirm “men are pigs” and then post about it
so so true
weirdly enough, i met a guy through reddit and he’s actually my bf now and p similar to the guy in this. this girl has social skills *worse* than a redditor
Extra emphasis on the tumblr part
I hope the mutuals never let this one go, she blundered so hard
'The other translation that I keep seeing for it is basically "F**k you" ' had me dead 💀
I can tell that she comes from one of those eastern European cultures that allows women to talk any which way to men. I guarantee she wouldn't be able to muster the courage to say that to a (non-effeminate) man's face.
Same lol
I forgot u existed
u do mr beast style thumbnails anything u say is irrelevant
Didn't expect you to be here Enyu
His lack of being triggered really pissed her off
Seeing Czech after a string of English was one of the most ambitious crossovers of this year.
She thought she could get away with that insult, she forgot about a little thing called Google Translate.
I bet she doesn't even speak Czech and just Google translated into another language to be edgy 😄
It’s literally the same as when you have that one person who insists on using the word “baka” instead of just being normal amd saying “idiot”. They think they are clever when in reality they are just not.
I was on listen when I got to that part and was like: did he just speak czech? Biggest surprise this christmas.
That was one of the most random things I've seen. You're like: what a strange switch up out of nowhere.
You should do a "creep tier list" with all the creepy men/women you have made content about this year
wouldnt say shes a creep just an asshole
I think the guy who called the police bc the dad threatened him is number 1
@@jasonmillsom2981Can i get a link bahaha. I don’t watch homie as much as i should 😂
S tier: Radiohead
@@sinistrality 😂😂
9:18 Hot take: the reason she got so aggro and accused him of only wanting to have sex with her isn't what she was mad about. She was mad at the fact that he didn't get upset at her rejection and accepted it with Grace. For crazy psychos with a complex like that, the idea that someone could be perfectly fine with not getting with them is an insult to their pride.
as a bona fide psycho, i agree
Frr thats what I thought to
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It could be either this or she was really trying to find an excuse to screenshot the whole conversation and post it somewhere, hoping that she found some creep (which he was not). Dopamine reward from social media could be one hell of a drug.
Not a hot take... very reasonable.
This is why jumping to conclusion has to be the worst mental block ever 😂
these always make me feel significantly better about myself
send prayers 👼👼👼 praise thy tommy parky! ❤ ❤ ❤
@@stuartclarke2988 🤓
@@stuartclarke2988 🤓
@@UTTPOFFICER1 nerd
@@UTTPOFFICER1 nerd
Always a good time when Charlie finds even more cringe conversations
send prayers 👼👼👼 praise thy tommy parky! ❤ ❤ ❤
Haha yeah
@@UTTPOFFICER1hop off his meat
*WOMAN MOMENT*
No
As a woman, and a survivor of abuse, I'm very cautious about dates. I wouldn't go to someone's apartment on the first meeting either and that's generally the safest move. But that guy genuinely come off as genuine. Perhaps she could have politely refused and offered a coffee/dinner date at a public place. Surely he would've understood and if not THAT would have been a red flag.
That girl is cray-zy for real.
100% agree
Exactly. She could have written a firm yet polite and playful reply like “Tbh, I don’t really feel comfortable coming over to your place for cooking just yet. How about we go to a restaurant instead and have someone else do the cooking for us? 😉” This guy would most likely have been totally cool and respectful about it.
women are under no obligation to be "polite". her initial response was harsh, but it's her right to be a harsh person. her cursing at him afterward was not right tho.
@@thechumbucket8986 well, she will find out very quickly that her harsh personality will be the cause of her loneliness and nobody liking her. She already is in Tinder so its clear she is looking for a significant other. She can have all the rights she thinks she can have about being rude and harsh to others, but then she would have no right to cry about guys not corresponding to her personality that lashes out like this quickly. These are the same people that then love criticizing the other gender of being misogynists and sex-driven only, or conceited and being witches. Goes for both genders, nobody likes "harshness" out of nowhere and so quickly.
We absolutely agree. Sorry if i mispoke, i should have said " this is how /I/ would have handled it ". We're absolutely not obliged to be polite or to justify ourselves under any situation when it comes to our safety and our comfort considering it's never safe enough.@@thechumbucket8986
Dating is literally trench war, you get in the trenches, beware of mortars outta nowhere and grenades landing near you
just wait til your married, youll happily land on one for the team.
@@mrdikles246 my stats aren't 6 figures so that happening is next to impossible
This guy needs to be careful. Her influence grew from 30k to 500k in just a few minutes. At this rate in under an hour she will have informed all 8 billion people of him!!
🤣
Lmao
He dodged a bullet on that one. There are cautious women, and then there are narcissists that think every man wants to immediately sleep with them. Her response so far out of left field you can tell she is just the type to want to be a victim. Especially since she kept messaging him after he just said "ok I understand" and further escalating it.
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The perfect way for you cheung was it to a friend who is just like me and you are a good man to you and that your heart will never go back in your mind and I think that your best friends are to you and I love ya and you know how to make a man i was that you and your mom
@@wooshbait36 Was this written by AI?
@@MrGhoulie I learned english
@@wooshbait36No, you didn't.
Man... I hope that guy is able to find someone to actually bake and stuff with him. He sounds like a fun dude :(
The fact I can get it right away with a lot more fun and addicting and I don't think I'm going to get my nails are!!? A little more time with you guys have to go back and I don't think that I have to do with my friends to play it all over again I don't have a good one for me I love it when people say they are a not so sure about that; your a fan since I got to be go back to my house and I love you so much fun with my life I love it when I was in my head room for a few weeks of a sudden it..
@@wooshbait36is this a new copypasta?
@@wooshbait36idk what u said but same
@@msfluorescent i think they just pressed the word recommendation thing on their phone a bunch of times.
@@sunnydispositionn I think I saw these kind of bot replies a lot sometime ago (also in Charlie's videos - for whatever reason they stick to him just like those pr0nbot comments. Ironically the pr0nbots are actually more human than these) and none of them made any sense. It was as if they tried to sound cultured.
Phew! He dodged a crazy bullet lol
As a person from Czech, eating my food while watching Charlie´s video on another baffling conversation two people had with eachother, the last thing I expected was a random czech sentence in the middle of all the english. Nearly made me choke on my food.
So true LMAO i had to stop the video and go back a couple of times to listen how the hell did Charlie even pronounce it 😭
As a person from "Czech"? See, if you had said "The Czech Republic", "Czechoslovakia", or "Bohemia", we all would have understood what you meant. There is no country called "Czech". You meant to say that you are Czech (predicate adjective). You need to have a serious discussion with your ESL teacher.
@@RobbieStacks90ehrm actually Czechoslovakia hasn't existed since 1993, you need to have a long thorough discussion with your history teacher
@@gabrielevignati6530thank you I was just gonna say lol
@@RobbieStacks90you literally understood what they meant..? That’s why you specified the exact country they were referring to and even gave a country that hasn’t existed in years as an alternative to what they said. Not everyone is stupid. If you’re bitter with life, just say that.
Imagine bragging "I'm gonna put you on blast in front of 500k people!" Now she's being put on blast in front of an audience of 14.2 MILLION LMAO
edit: was not expecting the amount of likes this got, love y'all 🤙🏽
I pray she sees this shit 😭
How the turntables
True! I hope this video reaches her 😃
A fair point tho is that what she wanted to do was much worse, because I don't think he actually posted her personal info/photo as she said she was going to do to him.
fr 500k people seen this shit within hours
Hope she reads every damn comment too, she’s gonna be the one who ends up alone💀
People like her really anger me. Everything was so wholesome and going so well and out of nowhere she decides to just ruin it.
Typical response from most of these online women
They've never had a real man teach them about the consequences of mouthing off like that.
Welcome to how most women treat men.
@@RobbieStacks90Dude you shouldn't talk to men or women this way, not a man thing, it's a "humanity" thing, which unfortunately women are lacking.
Incels just immediately raided your replies
@@RobbieStacks90 Dafuq
"i hope you find peace and love" best possible response
I was losing faith on men with all these text videos Charlie's been doing recently. Glad the women are joining in!
Yeah now once we add it up, we lose faith in humanity all together. Yay
@@GoobyGoober-ho1ls Ok pessimist
@@GoobyGoober-ho1ls exactly. Equality baby!
Gender equality! 🎉
bro dont lose faith in humanity
keep hoping
the world has lots of amazing ppl but its just the idiots who r loud
She was clearly trying to piss him off at the end in the hopes of getting some sort of reaponse she could spin in her favor to make him look bad. He did the best possible thing he could by staying calm and kind through it all.
He even wished “peace and love” I aspire to have that kindness in my soul
He's an H3H3 watcher
Bro is literally Bhudda
Naw, at this point he was just taking the piss
@@Ben_2040 I'm sorry to hear that you feel this way. It might be hard to believe, and it probably sounds corny as fuck, but IME little moments of kindness can affect people in profound ways. I've been in the same headspace as you in the past. You never know what someone might be going through. I remember people who have been kind to me when I was going through shit and that behavior wasn't expected or required (like as part of their job). I admit that it's harder to do when someone is being a jackass, and yeah, it might not be "rewarded." I try anyway. With people like in the video, you can at least get a little pleasure knowing they're probably just more angry that you're not reacting the way they want or expect. Reacting negatively to people like this only escalates things - you can't fix them by putting them in their place. Only a therapist and meds can correct an imbalance that severe.
Anyway, holidays are hard, I hope yours go okay.
@@Ben_2040No reward. Only you come out to be the stronger person if you're able to not let your emotions get the best of you.
She’s been burned so many times that every piece of wood looks like it’s already on fire.
Social media has made others way too comfortable in behaving like this.
It's also sad, because she's clearly had bad experience dating and is projecting it onto that random dude instead of seeking therapy. I hope she gets help
@@mkat8505 Maybe she wanted him to cook her a steak and drop it off like doordash
I dont think this is something social media did. Weird social rules have always existed that send weird mixed signals like this, which get complicated when you're talking about personal experience as well.
@@mkat8505 I was just contemplating trying to ask a woman out by offering to cook a steak and bring it to her, I didn’t realize how caveman-ish that sounds
That woman is absolutely nuts - love how she keeps saying she was going to block him - but just keeps going
She missed the blocking tutorial 😂
@@Adoyleonon Lmao!
The "I hope you find peace and love" had the same vibe as a Southern woman saying "bless your heart" to someone she secretly doesn't approve of; and it was perfect.
Dodged a bullet, life is short...keep it movin.
He just wanted to have an unforgettable luncheon, but she thought he wanted some steamed hams 😔
Criminally underrated comment
Well played
ig she thought they were getting steamed clams
Werent those krusty burgers?
The guy can cook and is literate enough to spell "maneuver" correctly - I'm a straight guy, but I'm ready to go on a date with him!
autocorrect
@@vibaj16 There's always that one person who want's to knock away that one ray of positivity
I've seen bars set fairly low in dating but yours is holy fuck.
this comment wins
😂😂
I used to be in one of those groups she was describing, people would share screenshots of horrible/funny Tinder interactions. You’d find a lot of people being rude to nice people as excuse to farm interactions, which was super depressing. Women have every reason to fear going to someone’s house as a first date but it seemed quite clear that this guy wasn’t trying to manipulate her into going anywhere. She took it out on him for those groups she was quick to bring up.
Wow that seems genuinely sad, like the sort of group an enterprising shrink would go to looking for potential customers
is that a subreddit or something
My wife follows some of these kind of groups too on the book, like you said it’s sad that some women do that for whatever it is they want , but my fave ones is like in this situation when they post say these Screenshots with a caption “ Beware of “so and so” he tried to ____ “ or whatever , but then the whole group instead of supporting them just start losing it on them and just roasting the person , it kills me every time.
Tf is this dystopian shit lol
6:00 This is hilarious as a Florida resident with all the hurricanes as of late 😂😂
I’m so glad I’m married and don’t have to worry about dating in this day and age. Seems like a nightmare filled with landmines
i was thinking the same thing.
Its literally not possible to date someone as an early 20 year old. Everyone seems to have a viewpoint that their partner needs to be absolutely perfect. No one is interested in working through issues, in their mind they could just find someone else that wouldn't think that way.
I mean I agree. Im 25, barely had sex through my life but I stay out of the dating game. Young peolle these days are so immature and so inexperienced with being human, it just isnt worth it at the moment. Im sure it will change as we get older but trying to date anyone right now is just blegh.
@@ZombieBacon13Late 20’s here and I’ve just mentally checked out of the dating game. It’s simply gotten to the point of sheer ridiculousness.
2 months ago I went on a first date where I was sexually harassed multiple times throughout the night despite clearly telling this women I don’t consent please stop try to force yourself onto me.
And back in April I found out my girlfriend was cheating on me with her cousin after she accidentally sent the wrong person (me) a nude that was meant to go to him. If it wasn’t for her caption, I probably wouldn’t have thought anything of it. I wish I could scrub that image outta my head with bleach and steel wool so badly.
@@saintlusso2907cousin??? nah thats crazy wtf
I’m a straight guy but even I’d go up to this man’s loft to bake with him. Dude sounds like a catch
Bet he gets treated like this a lot unfortunately. Some guys just can't catch a break despite being pretty cool.
@@Jestrath Honestly modern dating be toxic af. It just wears you down man.
that’s the thing. ur a straight man, you wouldn’t know
As someone who knows czech, seeing the sudden random switch to czech in one of her messages was like a damn jumpscare.
Bro thought he was hallucinating
Can you explain why she did that?
@@krusher181 I'm just as clueless. I guess it's someone who moved from Czechia to wherever they are now and curse people in their native language as a stealth insult or something.
@@reno9821 My guess would be she just used google translate. Who says "ztrať se"? Get lost is a perfect translation but I've never heard or used "ztrať se" as an insult. It's all just so weird.
@@vaultboy1419 Yeah, idk. Maybe the guy was czech and she tried to insult him in his language.
In attempting to smear his reputation and leave him dateless, ironically, she would have ended up getting him a shitload of requests for dates. A cooking date sounds like mad fun to me. I’m a dude and straight as an arrow and I feel like I want to have a cooking date with this bloke. Seems chill as.
Even bigger irony in the fact that this more than likely totally stalled her own dating prospects.
Actually she was setting herself up for a slam dunk for him on a lawsuit. She insinuated she was going to defame him to 30k people. Lawyers like solid numbers like that.
God you're right I'm not a lawyer but I see dollar bills holy shit, I hope it happens those people need it.
not even insinuated. directly stated how she was going to do it to. with his face in facebook groups
You guys are dumb af lol there would need to be proof of the actual defamation
That would not be the lay up of a case you think it is 🤦♂️
doesn't she actually have to do it tho?
I love how technically he is going to warn quite a few million people of her with this video
Her name is censored tho
@@vibaj16she'd probably out herself trying to "warn" her fb groups lol
@@vibaj16it probably wouldn't be terribly hard to find from the original source
@@Alucard-mj6yjHer name being censored out looks like that was part of the shared image, not something Charlie did or any editors for the channel. I bet the guy who shared this conversation censored her name specifically not to be a douchebag but to just show how nuts people can be.
RELEASE THE NAME
He also took the 'rejection' right on the shin and let it be. He accepted it immediately and didn't push further. She's the one who kept going at him. He replied to her weird cryptic nonsense and she went batshit crazy.
I once met a girl online and after we finished talking we both agreed to keep talking the next day. So the next day she texted me first thing in the morning and I replied briefly because I was busy, thinking we could continue the conversation after work like we did the day before. Later that day I got back to her and she was mad. She accused me of ghosting her and "cheating" with other women. I tried to explain that I wanted to talk to her when I could be relaxed and focused on chatting but she started dumping all her past trauma on me and calling me names. So I decided to end the conversation. She got even more angry at me and said the wildest shit non stop before I blocked her.
She was so unnecessarily rude. A simple, "I don't like going to people's houses for a first date" would have sufficed. It wasn't like he was being pushy or a douche. I hope he finds a nice woman who will cook with him.
It seems like she's gone through life believing that every guy is a r4pist and the only ones who aren't are the rare exception. I think she spends too much time on the internet.
There are a few possibilities here:
1) Her reason for abruptly ending the possibility of their dating was a convenient pretext for her not wanting to date an effeminate guy. She might have just seen him as her gee ay why cooking buddy.
2) She never intended to go out with him and was baiting him into texting something that she could post on her neo-feminist Instagram page.
3) She was talking to several other guys from Tinder, and some goofy brute who had been ignoring her asked her out, and she jumped at the opportunity.
@@daminox I mean you can't blame women for being scared or claiming that all men are animals (some men are to the core but not all of us are). In my area in my country a girl was groomed and then s*xually assaulted from a guy she met off Tinder because she initially declined an invitation to go on a date with him but when he eventually persuaded her, he did something downright horrible to her. You never know who you are talking to from Tinder unless you meet in person and are you willing to take that risk if you're a woman? I could tell you about the meetups (I don't class them as dates) I have had with girls from Tinder and catfished is what I will use to describe them. There were 2 girls I actually had feelings for but it went nowhere so we both parted ways no harm done, the others were just a complete and total disaster from the get-go and a complete waste of money since I paid for everything, every time. These girls seemed like a good laugh and nice people at the start but as time went on they were far from this reality. Proper scroungers and vile people, I'm just glad (and lucky) I dipped out when I did lmao.
@@RobbieStacks90 one of the few things you said that I agree with, not sure about 1 tho
@@RobbieStacks90 youre a maniac stop coming up with these crazy homophobic stories
As a woman, I understand her not wanting to go to his apartment for their first date, that’s understandable, but she didn’t have to immediately become a rude to him.
On a good side, the guy dodge a bullet. And good thing is, she's not his co-worker or something.
Because imagine if she starts spreading rumours about him being creepy in a workplace when he is actually not.
@@jgillard9714she probably does this to everyone.
@@jgillard9714She probably thought the cooking date wouldnt be the first date but later on...even so she acted hella rudely and abruptly.
she could just say 'no sorry I'm not comfortable with that for a 1st date' instead of 'I'm not comfortable with that how dare you even suggest it never speak to me again I'm telling on you to my toxic girl groups'
happens from more people than you'd think the dating scene is full of fucking land mines I can't wait to be in a relationship with someone reasonable again and escape this hellscape
Pov you failed a fallout 3 speech check
Pressing "Doubt" in LA Noir lol
@@pocketgrim4942baldurs gate 3 intelligence check failed but wisdom check success
This is a pretty important reason as to why I don't even want to try dating anyone. People have gotten so toxic lately and there's no real way to find out without just getting hurt in the process.
i believe she knew she was overreacting, but gotta stay on character rather than admitting that you're wrong 😂
The age of double-down syndrome.
Why? Why is so hard for people to admit that they are wrong. I have done it before.
@LemonBear007 Because it shows weakness, or at least people perceive it does. That and a lot lack the ability to take responsibility for their own actions because it's far easier to blame others than to throw yourself on the line as the failure in response to an issue.
@@hiddenkitty2911exactly! People don’t like showing weakness.
That's literally women in a nutshell...
This whole series is just making me feel better and better about my decision to never use dating apps
Easier to talk to girls in person but meeting toxic people is a part of dating.
@@ignoreme1141 There are ways to meet people outside of dating apps bud lol
@@ignoreme1141being alone is way better then dealing with all this drama and nonsense with modern dating. I used to be depressed about it but now I’m genuinely happy being alone and not having to deal with BS and drama.
Yeah.. not because you’re unattractive and your profile would sit there collecting dust. Youre so right, dating apps are 99% girls like this, you cant avoid ‘em!
@@jamesmendoza456 Bunch of copium. Social media and smartphones made people antisocial. Normal healthy people meet up in real life, dating apps are for psychos.
She’s talking about the “Are We Dating The Same Guy” fb pages. So she’s definitely not making that part up.
The irony of this reaching a much larger audience to what she said is the icing on the cake
I’m glad Charlie has taught us a valuable lesson in that cringe is universal no matter what genitals you’re born with.
Oh you don’t need Charlie for that. Just go outside 😞
The best example of equality
Were you really not aware of that before watching this video?
I was expecting angry trans people but instead we got regular angry twitter uses.
@@agoogolofgeese nobody asked
If she's that paranoid already about nothing imagine what her legit freak outs must look like...
From my experience, they probably don’t have any legit ones.
These people freak out before that even becomes a possibility
@@RusticRonnie They're whole personality revolves around cringe
I know a very beautiful 40-something woman who has never had a real relationship, because she picks every guy apart and freaks out before they even get to know each other. Ironically, she herself is an absolute train wreck and has no grounds to criticize anyone lol
@@RusticRonnie Pre-emptive freakouts. Freaking out about the possibility that something might happen.
As a gal I can perfectly understand being wary of going to the other person's place alone for a first date, and I can even understand the concern with it being a potential "trap" via attempting to get laid on the first date. Where she lost me was when she completely flipped out on an otherwise normal/mundane conversation. If I had suspicions he only wanted to bang, I would've just abandoned the convo at wishing him well and going about my business. Insulting and acting an outright asshole as well as "threatening" him is batshit insane behavior, he def dodged a bullet there
This wasn't an " otherwise normal" conversation. This WAS a normal conversation.
Women make shit up in their heads and act as though what they think is truth.
My ex fiance slapped me because I cheated on her, in her dream.
I say ex for a reason.
@@ThrustinBustin Men generalise
@@ThrustinBustin lol thats like the amazing world of gumball episode "the dream"
@@ThrustinBustin Incel spotted
Goes on a dating app -> partner want to fuck 🤯🤯🤯
hearing Charlie try to speak Czech was wholesome. I'm from Slovakia and Czech and Slovak are really similar so it made me smile
This is the second time recently where we had a situation where two seemingly compatible people immediatly turned into a fallout with *one* sentence
(Last time being with the guy who called the woman a golddigger even though he wanted her to be a traditional housewife, which she agreed to)
Those two should get together, I'm sure they'd get along great!
I had a similar experience with a girl this year. Met her at work, she seemed nice we hung out a few times. She starts to get a little sexual. I tell her I’m not ready for that. She seemed to be offended that I wasn’t interested at the time (we had only been talking for 2 weeks) I’m like okay so we cut things off I figured we were done. Fast forward a few months I meet a new girl who happens to be going to the same college as the old one, the old one tracks this new girl down and apparently tells her a whole bunch of fake stuff about things I did (despite the fact we only hung out twice) before I can even figure out what kind of things I supposedly did wrong, I’m completely blocked on every platform by her. What a shitty night that was, but after dwelling on it for a day or two I came to the conclusion that perhaps if that’s how she is going to react to unproven things then maybe I dodged a bullet with her too
it's wild how often women assume other women are sane
You ABSOLUTELY dodged another bullet. I can't imagine finding something out about another person and inmediately drawing conclusions based upon it.
At least *ask* about it.
women do that ALL the time. huge amounts of drama over literally nothing. I've women I barely even know do this to me, I don't even remember most of their names or faces.
@@JewTube001you sound like a great guy with a great personality. The leagues of women that have gone out of their way to avoid you and warn others don’t know what they are missing. I must not be a great guy. I haven’t had a single woman I’ve dated block me or red flag me with her peers. And I remember their names and faces. What am I doing wrong? Is it the basic decency and respect?
i did a similar thing when i was 15, thats wild to do in college bruh💀 (i got told all this stuff about this dude and blocked him immediately, but that was prob because i was Not mentally sound at that moment💀)
“The worst she could say is no”
What the girl says:
My manager legit got me to be her pet by breaking me. I wish she had said no.
A no is disappointing; this kind of response just shows they aren’t worthy of occupying space, much less talking to you…
@@BREAKCORE-DISSOCIATEWHAT, are you okay??? What do you mean "breaking"???
"You're my cousin"
@@BREAKCORE-DISSOCIATE THE HELL YOU MEAN? IS THIS A CHAINSAW MAN EPISODE? YOU ALRIGHT MY DUDE
I was talking to a girl once from a different local town. She was very defensive and aggressive about a lot of things. "School is a disgusting joke designed to make children kill themselves." Is a quote that comes to mind. Anyways, she had previously told me what town she lived in, so I asked if she went to a specific high school I know from that town. She responded with "How did you know that." I told her that it was an assumption since she told me she lived in that town. "I never told you that, who are you, how do you know that?" I just said, I promise you did. I then sent a screenshot of her telling me she lived there, and then she told me to stop stalking her, to fuck off, and then she blocked me. I don't know what happened to her to make her that fucking paranoid, but it was a bit of a yikes.
a lack of love and care on her part is what happend.
I'm a paranoid person and I wouldn't react like that. That girl will one day be on a streetcorner with a sign that reads "the end is near". Sometimes they can't help the reality they live in.
That's not a typical paranoia. That's some heavier mental issue.