I LOVED when my parents hosted their bridge parties‼️The house smelled of ‘company food’, I could hear glasses clinking and everyone’s laughter as I listened from my bedroom and I knew my parents were happy. I miss those times. And them. ♥️♣️♦️♠️🏡🥰
Jonathon... I got engaged with my love 2 months ago. We actually met for 1 1/2 years ago and started talking and talking. I was still stucked in my last relation with an narcissist, but my fiancé obviously made a large spot in my mind. I liked him. Time passed, I moved, healed myself from the ex and suddenly realized that I missed my fiancé (who at that moment wasn't even my partner) I moved back to the city where we had met and I met him. He was surprised. So we started up again socializing, joining each others company. But the roles were now opposite; I was surely the more interested one, he more at his eas. But he wanted my company, but no more I feared. But New years eve I thought I had to do something, so I invited him for dinner. Just before 12 o'clock he kissed me and the ice broke. We walked to his place and I've stayed there ever since. Thank you Jonathon for all your supporting videos which have most certainly helped me along.
Jonathon. I'm glad to see you are looking good again . kudos to you. Thanks for all the coaching.. You are right. most relationships now a days is transactional " what's in it for me?"
Thank you Jonathon for all that you do !! You’ve brought me a lot of peace and helped me so much with communication. You’ve helped me see what I want. I’m glad I discovered you months ago and have been a sponge to your channel. I’ll listen to ya at work and you’ll blow my mind with all this wonderful knowledge! You’re delightful thank you!!! I appreciate you.
5 Ways A Man Knows He's With The One and He'll Commit To Her Long term mating strategy: in his mind to take care of someone in life 1. How u feel with each other: He feels good with her physically, emotionally, basic needs meet, spiritual too 2. You mutually resolve conflict with ease 3. You two have a mutual and shared passion for each other 4. They act like a team with each other 5. Have shared vision for your life
And a fella asked me out the other day I asked him ! What are your intentions for this date ? He couldn’t answer me anything but that he wouldn’t want to kiss me or get in my pants I asked him again What are your intentions for this date He still couldn’t answer me And I know damn well he does not have my best intentions at heart. Didn’t mention one time that he wanted to get to know me. :,) He also said it’s the “woke” thing to do to treat a lady with respect. I disagree very much with that statement. That’s just basic to treat a lady with respect. Not the “woke” thing to do…. :,)
I totally agree! I have been with men who are soo close with their daughters it's difficult. Also had situationship..not nice.. not for me.. I have recently met someone who is fantastic..I am amazed ..I'm hoping this is finally the 1 and my time has come x
I’m convinced I was born in the wrong generation. I love backgammon. So much so I have a travel game I take on planes or wherever I might meet someone who likes to play. 😂😂😂😂
@@travelchannel304 My father’s first “job” not including working on their family farm was at a skating rink. When I was a little girl we’d go skating and he was like John Travolta on skates 😂😂. He could do all kinds of tricks and he and my mom would show off during “couples skates” they were both attractive and athletic so everyone loved to watch them. You triggered a happy memory for me. Thanks! 😊
Johnathan you are totally right. The dating market is like car crash. I dated a guy who had childhood trauma from nearly every member of his family which then seems to transpired in his relationships
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WoW! This is as clear as crystal Jonathon. I have been listening to your RUclips videos many times in a day and has almost become a habit, thankfully not addiction 😅. Your voice is the last I hear, before bedtime, til I fall asleep. I laugh til I drop when you say Waah Waah Waah 😂. It makes me realise how poor womem communicate to men! We write essay while men write in dot points ... As simple as that! You're right! Men are simple minded while we make things complicated 😂. But I thank you for being honest and radical in your coaching approach. I still blush when you mention your unique and bombastic rhetoric "before the P" but I do realise how important it is for us to learn how to avoid the pitfalls of attracting the wrong man in our life. Thank you Jonathan for your passion in your chosen profession. I am learning so much from you ❤
What time do you normally do your Podcast Jonathon? I'm from Adelaide South Australia and our time zones are poles apart. But I would love to hear you live, one of these days.
Hi Jonathon, thanks for the work you put into these videos. You mentioned a comment that a man who’s not looking for a serious relationship might say, “I’m taking it slow.”. This is what I tell men; I truly want to get to know him and that takes time. Im looking for a serious relationship. So, should I not say, I need to get to know you and take things slow?
I am completely turned off to guys that don't take the initiative to lead 😬 I am neither a leader nor a planner and a relationship isn't even worth it to me if I have to do those things 🤣
Why don’t people join groups and pursue their hobbies? I belong to several fun and work groups, and I meet more single men my age with similar interests than I could ever possibly know what to do with! Get out and live your life!
I think we enter a relationship knowing our hands are full, our heart is full, and that there's just too much love to give to another human being. I think this is to be expected to boy men and women. If not that maybe the one who is empty and has nothing to give must abstain from getting into any relationship only until the are really to give love to another human being. I also mean to say only one human being. We just can't have 2 or 3 or more people whom we give love to. Loving many people at the same time I think doesn't constitute real love. That is more of a polygamy.
This is going to be shown at 2.30 am for me, a little bit too early. So Hi to all my friends on this channel, especially the Canadian 🇨🇦 ladies. Sorry I can’t see this live but it’s on @ 2.30 am over here🇦🇺
You can have both as a female. Females have to be somewhat attracted to someone at first. Then they get to know later in the next 6 mo or more without sex.
I keep feeling that the woman should show the adult way to make him feel they can be with us ,that makes them the weaker part of the relationschip and it's all up to us ,men should try to not be so easilly ruffled or scared to step in to their feelings and express them ,it is not up to the woman to take them by the hand ,like a mom and say ,it's ok ,that is a task that a woman does for their children not for a grown man .
I LOVED when my parents hosted their bridge parties‼️The house smelled of ‘company food’, I could hear glasses clinking and everyone’s laughter as I listened from my bedroom and I knew my parents were happy. I miss those times. And them. ♥️♣️♦️♠️🏡🥰
Oh yes, I remember those parties 🥳
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Jonathon... I got engaged with my love 2 months ago. We actually met for 1 1/2 years ago and started talking and talking. I was still stucked in my last relation with an narcissist, but my fiancé obviously made a large spot in my mind. I liked him.
Time passed, I moved, healed myself from the ex and suddenly realized that I missed my fiancé (who at that moment wasn't even my partner)
I moved back to the city where we had met and I met him. He was surprised. So we started up again socializing, joining each others company. But the roles were now opposite; I was surely the more interested one, he more at his eas. But he wanted my company, but no more I feared.
But New years eve I thought I had to do something, so I invited him for dinner. Just before 12 o'clock he kissed me and the ice broke. We walked to his place and I've stayed there ever since.
Thank you Jonathon for all your supporting videos which have most certainly helped me along.
You are very welcome 🙏
Jonathon. I'm glad to see you are looking good again . kudos to you. Thanks for all the coaching.. You are right. most relationships now a days is transactional " what's in it for me?"
I appreciate that!
This is interesting and true and not easy to find...
Thank you Jonathon for all that you do !!
You’ve brought me a lot of peace and helped me so much with communication.
You’ve helped me see what I want.
I’m glad I discovered you months ago and have been a sponge to your channel.
I’ll listen to ya at work and you’ll blow my mind with all this wonderful knowledge!
You’re delightful thank you!!! I appreciate you.
5 Ways A Man Knows He's With The One and He'll Commit To Her
Long term mating strategy: in his mind to take care of someone in life
1. How u feel with each other: He feels good with her physically, emotionally, basic needs meet, spiritual too
2. You mutually resolve conflict with ease
3. You two have a mutual and shared passion for each other
4. They act like a team with each other
5. Have shared vision for your life
Exactly
And a fella asked me out the other day
I asked him !
What are your intentions for this date ?
He couldn’t answer me anything but that he wouldn’t want to kiss me or get in my pants
I asked him again
What are your intentions for this date
He still couldn’t answer me
And I know damn well he does not have my best intentions at heart.
Didn’t mention one time that he wanted to get to know me. :,)
He also said it’s the “woke” thing to do to treat a lady with respect.
I disagree very much with that statement. That’s just basic to treat a lady with respect. Not the “woke” thing to do…. :,)
I totally agree! I have been with men who are soo close with their daughters it's difficult.
Also had situationship..not nice.. not for me..
I have recently met someone who is fantastic..I am amazed ..I'm hoping this is finally the 1 and my time has come x
Thanks for sharing!!
I think more needs to be taught in how to discern compatibility and then move on if you don’t match up.
Super sweet hearing about your parents and backgammon ❤
Indeed
I’m convinced I was born in the wrong generation. I love backgammon. So much so I have a travel game I take on planes or wherever I might meet someone who likes to play. 😂😂😂😂
👍🏼 I get it...
Myself included, my boyfriend is 11 years older and we love playing Cribbage together!
Good way to meet people with similar interests. ❤
Ditto! My 23 yr old daughter does too. And there are still Skate Rinks even better that before w/ even older folks are still.going !
@@travelchannel304 My father’s first “job” not including working on their family farm was at a skating rink. When I was a little girl we’d go skating and he was like John Travolta on skates 😂😂. He could do all kinds of tricks and he and my mom would show off during “couples skates” they were both attractive and athletic so everyone loved to watch them. You triggered a happy memory for me. Thanks! 😊
God's blessings and healing to all Amen 🍀🙏😇😇🙏😇🙏
Johnathan you are totally right. The dating market is like car crash. I dated a guy who had childhood trauma from nearly every member of his family which then seems to transpired in his relationships
I’d never heard of the term, “emotional incest” before. Interesting and explains some issues I’ve seen before.
I always say & wait to get to know someone better before being intimate, otherwise I would have f'd thousands of people by now.
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WoW! This is as clear as crystal Jonathon. I have been listening to your RUclips videos many times in a day and has almost become a habit, thankfully not addiction 😅. Your voice is the last I hear, before bedtime, til I fall asleep. I laugh til I drop when you say Waah Waah Waah 😂. It makes me realise how poor womem communicate to men! We write essay while men write in dot points ... As simple as that! You're right! Men are simple minded while we make things complicated 😂.
But I thank you for being honest and radical in your coaching approach. I still blush when you mention your unique and bombastic rhetoric "before the P" but I do realise how important it is for us to learn how to avoid the pitfalls of attracting the wrong man in our life. Thank you Jonathan for your passion in your chosen profession. I am learning so much from you ❤
Thanks for sharing this... it puts a smile on my face.
What time do you normally do your Podcast Jonathon? I'm from Adelaide South Australia and our time zones are poles apart. But I would love to hear you live, one of these days.
Monday, Tuesday, and Thursday at 5pm PST
Hi Jonathon, thanks for the work you put into these videos. You mentioned a comment that a man who’s not looking for a serious relationship might say, “I’m taking it slow.”.
This is what I tell men; I truly want to get to know him and that takes time. Im looking for a serious relationship. So, should I not say, I need to get to know you and take things slow?
Getting to know someone isn't based on speed. It's about quality
You are doing so well Jonathon, 😊
awe... thank you
No matter how nagatives or situation.. journey has so many reason and meaning 💞💞till storms passes
Exactly
Jonathan, I’m interested in coaching and I tried to click the link but when the page opened it was just a bunch of symbols and no actual text.
Www.jonathonaslay.com/coaching
@@JonathonAslay done.😁
Great video as always.
I appreciate that
Great video
Glad you enjoyed it
13:30 - 13:45 Thank you! 👏
I am completely turned off to guys that don't take the initiative to lead 😬
I am neither a leader nor a planner and a relationship isn't even worth it to me if I have to do those things 🤣
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Backgammon is my thing the only game I play ! It’s strategy and cunning brings out my shadow wisdom 🤭
Where are all the men who like the game? 😂
Indeed
Me 👋
😢all good men are taken!!
Last one is sturbon💞💞🌷🌎🙏
Everyone should read the book, “ Emotional Intelligence“ by Daniel Goldman. Gain some perspective…
Why don’t people join groups and pursue their hobbies? I belong to several fun and work groups, and I meet more single men my age with similar interests than I could ever possibly know what to do with! Get out and live your life!
Are you dating any of these men? If yes, how's it working out? If no, what do you think the reason is?
I think we enter a relationship knowing our hands are full, our heart is full, and that there's just too much love to give to another human being. I think this is to be expected to boy men and women. If not that maybe the one who is empty and has nothing to give must abstain from getting into any relationship only until the are really to give love to another human being. I also mean to say only one human being. We just can't have 2 or 3 or more people whom we give love to. Loving many people at the same time I think doesn't constitute real love. That is more of a polygamy.
Yes
This is going to be shown at 2.30 am for me, a little bit too early. So Hi to all my friends on this channel, especially the Canadian 🇨🇦 ladies. Sorry I can’t see this live but it’s on @ 2.30 am over here🇦🇺
Next time...
That it so lovely hi back from Burlington Ontario
Where is your recommended reading list please? Thank you in advance. Tori
It’s in his main page bio…
www.jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
❤
You can have both as a female. Females have to be somewhat attracted to someone at first. Then they get to know later in the next 6 mo or more without sex.
Yes
I keep feeling that the woman should show the adult way to make him feel they can be with us ,that makes them the weaker part of the relationschip and it's all up to us ,men should try to not be so easilly ruffled or scared to step in to their feelings and express them ,it is not up to the woman to take them by the hand ,like a mom and say ,it's ok ,that is a task that a woman does for their children not for a grown man .
Yes
What was #2:again
Thanks
WOW, thank you so much 💖
so much cra... Men loves women who do this..
i am a woman and I can speak behalf of all women ?
Cra?
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