(I speak Spanish) This video is the best recommendation RUclips has given me in a long time. Fabulous. I also suffer from that problem; Shyness. At 26 years old, I've only had one relationship (which ended very badly) and my social circle is almost non-existent. I would love to turn that around and socialize more to make meaningful friendships. Thank you for the excellent content.
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
back in my day I would imagine that the girl I'm about to approach is just another guy lol , this helped initiate a friendly conversation and made me look less creepy and nervous.
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
I gathered enough courage to speak to this beautiful lady at my job we're cool and we always have a decent conversation when you can make a woman laugh then you're in there cause you got her partial attention 💯
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
Great tips.. you organise your lectures so well, it's not difficult to understand... I think most men just over rate the consequences of rejection and they overthink the approach which makes it weird eventually...
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
Thank you Jessica for sharing your wisdom with us,It's a problem with the majority of men,fear comes especially when you feel a woman is way above your league and if she's not paying attention to you..this makes you nervous and insecure and you end up getting rejected
I never had problems with attracting cute and beautiful women growing up. Im 38yoa now. I only asked for the girls numbers(cold approach) 3 times in my life, and they all gave it to me. I just got rejected recently by this girl at my gym with "i have a bf". I knew she does not a bf! I did my detective work! My pride and ego is hurting! Lol
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
@@testimonyamu5330good morning, I knew you understood very well exactly what am trying to say. How many south africa appreciate like and accept other Africans countries citizen?
@@tksongsTV Good morning ..m not sure about numbers or should I say how many south Africans....but my friend m an African n proud to be... Africa is Ghana... Egypt.. Nigeria..Malawi... Ethiopia...etc..pls what are you talking about be more specific...
Love this! Also! For all great warriors out there who is reading this, if you want that dream lady, JUST LISTEN TO HER and HAVE HER TALK ABOUT NOTHING! We can’t explain it why but we’re so infatuated when a warrior just listen to us. That also applies with everyone of course but, warriors, here me out: Listen to the lady.. Ladies, am I telling the truth? ✨🌷❤️
This question of what's the worst that can happen seems so easy but the effects or consequences of what come after a negative interaction can be so deep Like mad deep If I'm suffering from depression or low self-esteem a no to some one I like and bear in mind I may get see the all the time is just mad deep to me
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
Thank you Jess. I think at times what makes one feel intimidated by a lady is low self esteem. The moment you believe in yourself and you feel self adequate you'll always go for that Jewel. Otherwise the show teaches me new things everytime I watch
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
Approaching girls isn't all about self confidence but rather goes with what words you gonna use.. It's makes mind blowing when you have the confidence but the words are not coming..
Not my problem I always have great conversations with my girl I'm not shy in anyway, she was my best friend for over 2 years so we understand each other perfectly.
Just had a breakup today and it really hit hard but I’m a fast healer physically and emotionally so I’m going to move on with my life and continue my journey till the end. Thanks for this informational video I really enjoyed it :)
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
Thank you so much Jessica. I was really having a hard time trying to start a conversation with someone I just meet and video lesson you dropped here really helped me out
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
Wish I saw this last night…came across a girl today and wanted to start a conversation but I couldn’t and she left, now I’m regretting but hopefully I see her again and this would help me
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
I've been getting phone numbers on a constant basis just by opening with a simple "how are you doing today?" then they respond whatever and I just say "hey btw my name is Jose" and that's it. The last girl I got a number from talked for some 40 minutes straight and just by me asking questions, she gave me the ammo I needed to build rapport with her. Then at the second time we bumped into each other (we donate plasma regularly at the same donation center) I asked straight up if she wanted to chat a little more over a quick bite and a drink at the peruvian restaurant across the street. The technique I use is a very simple one applied in the military. When you fall into an ambush, the only way to survive is pushing forward toward the enemy with decisiveness. I tell myself " hey if you don't talk to her now, you'll never get a second chance, and you're gonna die in this ditch" . Little mental hack that makes spring into talking to her. I hope this helps some of you. I love your content, Jess!
Hi Jessica, nice video once again. I am always shy approaching a lady because of rejection. I'm quite a funny guy and I am going to use this skill to endear my crush toward me. Every time I watch your video, I'm full of confidence. Thanks once again. Love from 9ja
Awesome 👌...... I am a very great communicator (verbal and written) but I seem to lose it all when women come in the space. It's really difficult. I recently got my crush a very beautiful Val's day gift and till now apart from texting her on our company's platform. We haven't talked since. Apart from not having much time, I think my issue is overthinking and my mind races a lot.. It's really tough talking about this. Sigh ☹️ ☹️
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
Well said!!especially the "best she would say is no"!!! But there are many men with beautiful soul that talking and cracking jokes does not come easily to them, are they screwed then?🙄🙄 🤣🤣🤣🤣🙏🙏🙏
I must say Jessica, your doing a wonderful job. I only got to find this Chanel today and I've subscribed with the speed of light. Just want to know if you have stuff in form of courses that one can study?
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
Hey bro take the bull by the horns and take a step-by-step approach to the ladies. Smile and be kind when you take that step..play slow...if you don't try you will never know the charm and charisma you possess.. Do your thing bro..Great Jess
Miss Jessica, you also think about us the low income earners who wanna do it perfect in our relationships! Like I mean on the way how meet up and how to show up and keep it flowing....besides parking the BMWs and going to 5 star hotels.
OK great topic on point, truth is no MAN wants to be rejected worse if he really sees a female he likes, approaching a female you like is difficult and yes MEN over think things because we want to approach and say the right thing to her and keep the conversation going, remember I like her she doesn't like me I'm the persuer believe me it's not easy, true be humerus and polite it works, remember females are the hunted and we are the hunters so they will always have their guards up always, so it's not easy as it may seems.
9:40 “Listen people don’t get up and plan to be rude to other people ,if you dont give a woman a reason to be rude she won’t be, of cause some are naturally rude ,but mostly it’s all about how you approached her, your conversation manner ,and how you make her feel”
You are incredible baby girl, I've watched and listened to a couple of your insightful videos, and tell you what! They are all exceptionally helpful. Right now I got a pretty cute demoiselle and am ready to rock her world. God bless you!!!
She's the real deal on RUclips. Hands down by far the best.
I've fallen in love with you Jessica.
Every time I watch your videos I feel so happy,thanks a lot.
(I speak Spanish) This video is the best recommendation RUclips has given me in a long time. Fabulous.
I also suffer from that problem; Shyness. At 26 years old, I've only had one relationship (which ended very badly) and my social circle is almost non-existent. I would love to turn that around and socialize more to make meaningful friendships. Thank you for the excellent content.
Practice makes perfect.Thanks Jess Jess.Whenever I have fear i just jump right in what frightens me.I'm now getting more and more confident.
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
back in my day I would imagine that the girl I'm about to approach is just another guy lol , this helped initiate a friendly conversation and made me look less creepy and nervous.
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
Lol
LoL that works for me too
Ikr.... Same here
Waoo this is really a good trick too😩😂
Wow!! For some weird reason, I’m watching this video for the first time at a point in my life when i might actually need it.
Your support for us(men) is great..thanks Jess😘
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
I gathered enough courage to speak to this beautiful lady at my job we're cool and we always have a decent conversation when you can make a woman laugh then you're in there cause you got her partial attention 💯
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
Africa is proud of you Jess❤️ good job keep up ... following from Kenya
Wakenya mshafika huku 😂
Ala ala
@@austineopata6672 wako kila mahali bna ..u😂😂
Tupo ni wewe umefika leo
Our Mentor 🥺💯🤗 I wonder how can someone watch without subscribing 😩
Wrong
Jessica, I love your mode of operation!
You are an individual that certainly impact lives and make a difference 🌎💯
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
@@naijafinanceacademy on 9th hh
I love your hair, your command of language, your composure, you're simply amazing.
Great tips.. you organise your lectures so well, it's not difficult to understand... I think most men just over rate the consequences of rejection and they overthink the approach which makes it weird eventually...
Yeah right! I disagree with the overthink part
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
Yeah a guy said this to me that some men fear rejection
*The focus on just starting with something easy, like a compliment or common interest, makes starting a conversation much less intimidating.*
Thank you Jessica for sharing your wisdom with us,It's a problem with the majority of men,fear comes especially when you feel a woman is way above your league and if she's not paying attention to you..this makes you nervous and insecure and you end up getting rejected
I think I also got rejected ...
I never had problems with attracting cute and beautiful women growing up. Im 38yoa now. I only asked for the girls numbers(cold approach) 3 times in my life, and they all gave it to me. I just got rejected recently by this girl at my gym with "i have a bf". I knew she does not a bf! I did my detective work! My pride and ego is hurting! Lol
Watching your channel everyday for months now have really changed my game ✅
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
Oh my God... This video is for me!!! Everything said is true... never approached a lady b4 n am 27...
Africa is so proud to have you ❤️💕♥️ Jessi thanks all the way from South Africa...God Bless you.
Ghana are proud to have her, when its good thing u claim it to be africa but when is bad thing you point ur fingers to the specific country.
@@tksongsTV Good morning...I wish I knew what you were talking about...
@@testimonyamu5330good morning, I knew you understood very well exactly what am trying to say. How many south africa appreciate like and accept other Africans countries citizen?
@@tksongsTV Good morning ..m not sure about numbers or should I say how many south Africans....but my friend m an African n proud to be... Africa is Ghana... Egypt.. Nigeria..Malawi... Ethiopia...etc..pls what are you talking about be more specific...
@@testimonyamu5330 lool😅.. The ones who smart like u from SA always play hard to get, God bless anyway, I am South African my self.
So educative,greetings from Sierra Leone 🇸🇱!
Love this! Also! For all great warriors out there who is reading this, if you want that dream lady, JUST LISTEN TO HER and HAVE HER TALK ABOUT NOTHING! We can’t explain it why but we’re so infatuated when a warrior just listen to us. That also applies with everyone of course but, warriors, here me out: Listen to the lady.. Ladies, am I telling the truth? ✨🌷❤️
Thank you!
Sure dear you are completely right
Qa
👍 dear
@@Ifekaeo agree
This question of what's the worst that can happen seems so easy but the effects or consequences of what come after a negative interaction can be so deep
Like mad deep
If I'm suffering from depression or low self-esteem a no to some one I like and bear in mind I may get see the all the time is just mad deep to me
Thanks for always having our back 🙌🏽🙏🏾
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
Dealing with shame is actually everything! Thanks Jessica✊
I always wait for my phone to ding with Jessica’s post ♥️ I so addicted to hearing her talk☺️ it puts my demons to rest🥺
You too?! Lol
I thought her voice only had that affect on me. 😍
Awwwww. ❤❤❤❤
As for Jessica....even the ladies like her too...in a good way. You're a great mentor.
@@vickymawutor5213 true hun
@@vickymawutor5213 She is hot 🔥 🥵 🥰
Thank you Jess. I think at times what makes one feel intimidated by a lady is low self esteem. The moment you believe in yourself and you feel self adequate you'll always go for that Jewel. Otherwise the show teaches me new things everytime I watch
Salute straight from Sierra Leone in Africa 🇸🇱
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
I came back just to have a recap of everything she said . You are the best ❤️
Approaching girls isn't all about self confidence but rather goes with what words you gonna use.. It's makes mind blowing when you have the confidence but the words are not coming..
Not my problem I always have great conversations with my girl I'm not shy in anyway, she was my best friend for over 2 years so we understand each other perfectly.
Thank you Jessica you're my mentor I really appreciate for your wonderful work your doing
You are so welcome!
This is most definitely me. I walk around campus just wanting to make female friends and end up with zero, sometimes even with guys
Hey I just want to say thanks you don't know how much this has helped
Just had a breakup today and it really hit hard but I’m a fast healer physically and emotionally so I’m going to move on with my life and continue my journey till the end.
Thanks for this informational video I really enjoyed it :)
Hi Jessica,
I am Barry Luther from Mozambique 47 year old married man got 3 children
Like your channel....❤
The more we listen to you, the more we learn and the more we improve.... Love u bigg
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
Following your channel from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
Thank you for the ideas. Very relatable
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
I like this woman’s tips ,you good at this
Can’t get enough of you Jess ..
Thank you so much Jessica. I was really having a hard time trying to start a conversation with someone I just meet and video lesson you dropped here really helped me out
Merci beaucoup
Your experiences in life shape your character.
Hey thanks Jessica for your incites in s much needed conversation for me. Your first point helped immensly, thank you.
I will have to watch this several times . Because it’s my major problem also 🥺🥺
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
@@naijafinanceacademy thank you
This is a major problem for some of the guys like me
Such solid advice, truth! 🙏🏿🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
Your lessons are always useful.. thank you 🙏💁
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
Much love from Kenya 🇰🇪
Jessica,ooooh🤩the timing🤲🙌🙌...cmon, give me a high 5
Wish I saw this last night…came across a girl today and wanted to start a conversation but I couldn’t and she left, now I’m regretting but hopefully I see her again and this would help me
On point. I have been talking to ladies since class 4, so I know most of the tricks 😉 but I still love to learn, so I got your Subscription on
Lol 😆
I’m new here, but I feel the quality of your videos 💯✌️🥰 your videos content is on point 💯😇
Hi Jessica, I love it. Your content is great so keep it up
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
You are AMAZING Jessica! Thank you!
Oh Jess. This video should have uploaded on Saturday😭the girl i like said I'm like a brother to her😂😭when i courted her on Monday. i cannot breathe
I've been getting phone numbers on a constant basis just by opening with a simple "how are you doing today?" then they respond whatever and I just say "hey btw my name is Jose" and that's it. The last girl I got a number from talked for some 40 minutes straight and just by me asking questions, she gave me the ammo I needed to build rapport with her. Then at the second time we bumped into each other (we donate plasma regularly at the same donation center) I asked straight up if she wanted to chat a little more over a quick bite and a drink at the peruvian restaurant across the street.
The technique I use is a very simple one applied in the military. When you fall into an ambush, the only way to survive is pushing forward toward the enemy with decisiveness. I tell myself " hey if you don't talk to her now, you'll never get a second chance, and you're gonna die in this ditch" . Little mental hack that makes spring into talking to her. I hope this helps some of you.
I love your content, Jess!
I like the cadence of your speech J
wow! like seriously. such an amazing lession this is
Exactly... That's what I do to get to know people and it's actually
Hi Jessica, nice video once again. I am always shy approaching a lady because of rejection. I'm quite a funny guy and I am going to use this skill to endear my crush toward me. Every time I watch your video, I'm full of confidence. Thanks once again. Love from 9ja
Watching the video at the right time I needed it ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
You could be a good journalist damn!!! Your voice is well suited for that
All your topics are on point!!!!!!
You are so 💕 and i enjoy listening to you thank you for that
NO NEED FOR YOU ADVERTISEMENTS AND PLEASE REDUCE YOU ASSENT
BUT YOUR DOING A WONDERFUL JOB BEAUTY 👏 💜
Awesome 👌......
I am a very great communicator (verbal and written) but I seem to lose it all when women come in the space. It's really difficult. I recently got my crush a very beautiful Val's day gift and till now apart from texting her on our company's platform. We haven't talked since.
Apart from not having much time, I think my issue is overthinking and my mind races a lot..
It's really tough talking about this.
Sigh ☹️ ☹️
I can ima because I am going through a similar situation
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
You have just talk to me, thank so much for this presentation aunty Jessica. Am greatful
Wow.. Guys you are totally covered.❤️❤️❤️
HELLO beautiful Queen How are you
I have watched all ypur videos . Again again.. thank you so much..
Well said!!especially the "best she would say is no"!!! But there are many men with beautiful soul that talking and cracking jokes does not come easily to them, are they screwed then?🙄🙄 🤣🤣🤣🤣🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for the awsome advice again!! Much love and respect from cape town south africa😎👊✌🇿🇦
Jessie, I like your videos, congratulations!
I must say Jessica, your doing a wonderful job. I only got to find this Chanel today and I've subscribed with the speed of light.
Just want to know if you have stuff in form of courses that one can study?
Awwww thanks. Coming soon... but you can check out my RUclips tutorial playlist from my main channel page
It's just the let down of liking someone alot and not having them liking you back.. And you really wish that they did
Very grateful for this message 🔥❤️
Dear Jessica, please I need a video on how to express yourself/feelings to a lady
Hi Jessica! Another great topic! 👏👏👏
Thanks so much!
From 150k to 540k have seen you grow ..come for nyama choma is waiting for you...get your love from Nairobi Kenya 😊
thank you Jessica. You had me binge watching on your personal development videos
Hey mum good evening
I miss you a lot. I just got my phone back and i promise to be available all times to enjoy your sweet words🤗🤗
Jessica you are a magician! Jxt this afternoon I was wondering about this.
my problem has been solved finally 🥰🥰❤️
Looking pretty Jess. Much love 💜❤💚 insightful. 👍
Always beautiful as usual 🥰💙
Great video as always Jessica 👏❤️
Introduce yourself and mention how you know her. If you’re reaching out online or even via text, tell her who you are so she won’t dismiss your message as spam.
Jessica dishing out hints back to back. 🙂
Thanks for sharing these tips seriously..I too, am a bit shy
Hey bro take the bull by the horns and take a step-by-step approach to the ladies. Smile and be kind when you take that step..play slow...if you don't try you will never know the charm and charisma you possess.. Do your thing bro..Great Jess
It's very common to go blank when you meet a pretty woman you're into so much... It's really a challenge
Miss Jessica, you also think about us the low income earners who wanna do it perfect in our relationships! Like I mean on the way how meet up and how to show up and keep it flowing....besides parking the BMWs and going to 5 star hotels.
Mama Jessy..Heavy love for ur works.♥️
OK great topic on point, truth is no MAN wants to be rejected worse if he really sees a female he likes, approaching a female you like is difficult and yes MEN over think things because we want to approach and say the right thing to her and keep the conversation going, remember I like her she doesn't like me I'm the persuer believe me it's not easy, true be humerus and polite it works, remember females are the hunted and we are the hunters so they will always have their guards up always, so it's not easy as it may seems.
Thanks for wonderful messages
The more you try the more you fail. Dont overthink, go with your instinct and never be afraid😊
this is nice,,,keep up with the good job,,@@@🇰🇪
9:40
“Listen people don’t get up and plan to be rude to other people ,if you dont give a woman a reason to be rude she won’t be, of cause some are naturally rude ,but mostly it’s all about how you approached her, your conversation manner ,and how you make her feel”
You are incredible baby girl, I've watched and listened to a couple of your insightful videos, and tell you what! They are all exceptionally helpful. Right now I got a pretty cute demoiselle and am ready to rock her world. God bless you!!!
One of you fans from🇰🇪
Great topic 👍. Love from Nigeria