What you said about your natural attraction to I__Ps works the other way around too! I'm an INFP! I have always been attracted to E__Js! I never realized this until I found MBTI! I just really love that E__Js are so decisive and are always pushing me to make my ideas a reality since most of the time I just think about them in my mind and never do them xD
I (ENFJ) am attracted to how IPs can live without pushing others to do stuff and can go with the flow, while still having very clear idea about how they feel/think about things. I feel they can help me understand myself, and I can help them do stuff.
This is SO ACCURATE! It's like you never get to the result because the result you're achieving is updated all the time! You just never feel satisfied. That's how it feels to me.
Well, I’m very late to this but I just wanted to comment that as an enfj, I related completely to this and this helped me understand a lot. I am currently waiting on a few ENXPs to “figure it out” and my lord, am I getting impatient! This really helped me to put it into perspective. I never really understood the FeSe loop, but the way you explained it made me realize that I do this all. The. Time. I really suck with patience when I can’t do anything about the situation. It’s a blessing and a curse. But I like the idea of thinking of Ni as a little antenna. In moments of stress, it should be something that calms me down, not agitates me. Thanks again!😊
I’m an infp, ENFJs help me get out of my head and make decisions. I have a hard time seeing the next step, I just see what I should be doing in terms of developing myself and caring for myself. This is dope. Loved the video!
Wow. I'm an ENFJ and I related all too well to everything you discussed here. It explained so much. That Fe, Se loop is such a pain because it keeps making me dwell on the fact that right now, I'm not where I need to be. Seriously, thank you Meghan. This helped me so much by explaining a lot
Thanks for sharing your thoughts Megan! As an ENFJ I also have constant things in my head I wanna achieve, but sometimes feel disappointed I’m not there yet. It’s very true NJ ppl have a vision and goal oriented. Also the gut feeling over understanding trends and what’s next is very true. I always think if the future and what change can take place in society. When I bring that out to my friends, they think I’m crazy, but oddly enough, after a few years down the road, most of what i believe will come true, does come true. I guess when I’m surrounded by the S types, sometimes there is a disconnection- because we enjoy the abstract thinking l, where as S types are more in the present. So they only see what is there on the surface and not whats the meaning behind certain things. Oddly enough, sometimes I wish I was more rational like ENTJ, since they’re so decisive based on facts and truths.
I am an entj and I constantly check where I am currently in life vs where I want to be. I have always been hard on myself if I fall short of my expectations or vision of future. As far as romantic interests I am mostly decisive very fast. I have been told that people are intimidated by how decisive I can be. Being stagnant in a current stage or step in life has been the hardest thing to absorb because I feel like although everything needs time and patience I don't have patience for it. I have had to talk myself through that this hiatus is temporary. But i thrive in business where they are always looking to carve process and procedure. The frustration will come with a company that doesn't give me lee way to make something I have seen in action work better. We are harsh on people but we don't expect of others what we wouldn't expect from ourselves which can be a fault since everyone has different goals priorities and values. I don't have any patience for indecisiveness or inefficiency. Hope this gives some insight in some topics you talked about in your video. I think if you made videos on how to improve in personality weakness that'd be a great watch.
I loved this! Your point was so brilliant and encouraging about Ni being a tool to guide us so we can't beat ourselves up if we aren't where we envisioned ourselves. Again I can completely relate as an ENFJ since I'm always yearning for a vision I have in the future. So I often remind myself to be patient and enjoy the present journey. The only part I didn't agree with was that we'll never ever reach that Ni vision. I think we definitely can especially if we're determined and motivated and keep the vision alive. I've had a vision for my life yearsss ago and I'm just living it now. I'm really happy about it and excited for where my Ni will take me next😄
Great video Meghan, as an ENTJ, you got it. We want it, we want it NOW, but we would do best to defer to our sensor coworkers and family members for a process of how to get there. S’s are three quarters of the population for a reason. We need them to ground us to the world and get us in tune with the process and methods.
If you want life coaching training, I would recommend Michael Hall. The guy is a genius in his way to create transformations in people and I think with your knowledge of the types, it would make a serious impact on your future work. The series is called Meta-Coaching.
Heya Megan, do you have any insight into ambi-vert types? I sit on the fence as INTJ/ENTJ neither comes first. In relation to this vid, I’d like to have some insight into INTJ/ENTJ impatience. Thank you!
Loved this Meghan. Do you think theres a link between your attraction to I__P's and that impatience? Is it that they subconsciously slow you down to think about what you really want / your plans / vision? Do they give you permission to center yourself internally (as they do naturally)?
What you said about your natural attraction to I__Ps works the other way around too! I'm an INFP! I have always been attracted to E__Js! I never realized this until I found MBTI! I just really love that E__Js are so decisive and are always pushing me to make my ideas a reality since most of the time I just think about them in my mind and never do them xD
I (ENFJ) am attracted to how IPs can live without pushing others to do stuff and can go with the flow, while still having very clear idea about how they feel/think about things. I feel they can help me understand myself, and I can help them do stuff.
This is SO ACCURATE! It's like you never get to the result because the result you're achieving is updated all the time! You just never feel satisfied. That's how it feels to me.
Well, I’m very late to this but I just wanted to comment that as an enfj, I related completely to this and this helped me understand a lot. I am currently waiting on a few ENXPs to “figure it out” and my lord, am I getting impatient! This really helped me to put it into perspective. I never really understood the FeSe loop, but the way you explained it made me realize that I do this all. The. Time.
I really suck with patience when I can’t do anything about the situation. It’s a blessing and a curse. But I like the idea of thinking of Ni as a little antenna. In moments of stress, it should be something that calms me down, not agitates me. Thanks again!😊
I’m an infp, ENFJs help me get out of my head and make decisions. I have a hard time seeing the next step, I just see what I should be doing in terms of developing myself and caring for myself. This is dope. Loved the video!
As an ENFJ, I’ve always been impatient. And also strangely attracted to INFPs in particular
Wow. I'm an ENFJ and I related all too well to everything you discussed here. It explained so much. That Fe, Se loop is such a pain because it keeps making me dwell on the fact that right now, I'm not where I need to be. Seriously, thank you Meghan. This helped me so much by explaining a lot
Thanks for sharing your thoughts Megan! As an ENFJ I also have constant things in my head I wanna achieve, but sometimes feel disappointed I’m not there yet. It’s very true NJ ppl have a vision and goal oriented. Also the gut feeling over understanding trends and what’s next is very true. I always think if the future and what change can take place in society. When I bring that out to my friends, they think I’m crazy, but oddly enough, after a few years down the road, most of what i believe will come true, does come true. I guess when I’m surrounded by the S types, sometimes there is a disconnection- because we enjoy the abstract thinking l, where as S types are more in the present. So they only see what is there on the surface and not whats the meaning behind certain things. Oddly enough, sometimes I wish I was more rational like ENTJ, since they’re so decisive based on facts and truths.
I am an entj and I constantly check where I am currently in life vs where I want to be. I have always been hard on myself if I fall short of my expectations or vision of future. As far as romantic interests I am mostly decisive very fast. I have been told that people are intimidated by how decisive I can be. Being stagnant in a current stage or step in life has been the hardest thing to absorb because I feel like although everything needs time and patience I don't have patience for it. I have had to talk myself through that this hiatus is temporary. But i thrive in business where they are always looking to carve process and procedure. The frustration will come with a company that doesn't give me lee way to make something I have seen in action work better. We are harsh on people but we don't expect of others what we wouldn't expect from ourselves which can be a fault since everyone has different goals priorities and values. I don't have any patience for indecisiveness or inefficiency. Hope this gives some insight in some topics you talked about in your video. I think if you made videos on how to improve in personality weakness that'd be a great watch.
I loved this! Your point was so brilliant and encouraging about Ni being a tool to guide us so we can't beat ourselves up if we aren't where we envisioned ourselves. Again I can completely relate as an ENFJ since I'm always yearning for a vision I have in the future. So I often remind myself to be patient and enjoy the present journey. The only part I didn't agree with was that we'll never ever reach that Ni vision. I think we definitely can especially if we're determined and motivated and keep the vision alive. I've had a vision for my life yearsss ago and I'm just living it now. I'm really happy about it and excited for where my Ni will take me next😄
I was just having this conversation with my husband last night! It must be an ENFJ mind link haha. Thanks for the video!
If you hear this nagging voice telling you "hey you are not there now" just respond with "I'm not there yet". :)
Great video Meghan, as an ENTJ, you got it. We want it, we want it NOW, but we would do best to defer to our sensor coworkers and family members for a process of how to get there. S’s are three quarters of the population for a reason. We need them to ground us to the world and get us in tune with the process and methods.
If you want life coaching training, I would recommend Michael Hall. The guy is a genius in his way to create transformations in people and I think with your knowledge of the types, it would make a serious impact on your future work. The series is called Meta-Coaching.
My ENTJ wife lives in the future, she is rarely in the moment. It's a challenge for this in-the-moment SP.
Heya Megan, do you have any insight into ambi-vert types? I sit on the fence as INTJ/ENTJ neither comes first. In relation to this vid, I’d like to have some insight into INTJ/ENTJ impatience. Thank you!
Loved this Meghan. Do you think theres a link between your attraction to I__P's and that impatience? Is it that they subconsciously slow you down to think about what you really want / your plans / vision? Do they give you permission to center yourself internally (as they do naturally)?
yes absolutely!!!!
A good friend of mine was an ENTJ.
But then i struggeled with his strong narcissicm. Do you think that ENTJs are prone for this?
How come the background switches between two different ones? Do you make videos during job breaks?
yep! this is at work.
Too many abbreviations. I don't know what you're talking about.