@@devarakondanithyajyothsna375 you even can't understand urself...do u really know how your mind works? this the problem we give priority to our ego always that's the problem... see things as it is don't see to satisfy ur own ego...
I was living carefree in my previous relationship that man literally had hit very badly and cheated on me at my worst. Conclusion u can't really predict ur future with ur partner so live carefree either way let them do whatever they want to do. U only care about ur mental, physical health. With zero expectations.
I was independent, had a aim in life, kind of serious girl. He came to my life, he showed so much love that for the first time I fell in love. In my relationship. I was very happy and very confident being with him.. We both were there for each other in all situations. But very recently I came to know he cheated on me all these years. Still he denies it, and tells he doesn't want to give answer, and asks me were these years nice!!?? He lied me so much.. I am still unable to believe this version of him. He mastered lying in such a way that I never doubted him till these years. I can say if his love was the true one, he was the genuine one, his love was excellent. But unfortunately it's fake.. I am totally broken.. But I am not understanding why he loved me so much if he wanted to cheat me. There were many girls behind him. It's very difficult for me to live with this pain throughout my life.. But still I will....
Unfortunately I never thought I have to move from this relationship, and never thought I will suffer like this one day... He was telling I am the best gift of his life. I was not even possessive with him. How can someone lie so much in a genuine relationship.. He knew me very much.. I became too dependent on him. And I have to be strong again now. But this makes me never believe someone even if someone feels genuine. He ruined my peace of mind, belief, love and innocence.
@@AlexaHDQuotes I know right now u r hurt indeed, I too have had gone through same situation early in 2020-21 and it is almost 4 year I still struggle to talk to a boy. But what i have learnt about myself is that it was not him who was hurting me it was me, my lower self esteem, lack of confidence, guilty of taking charge of every mistake that I didn't even commit. Boundaries are important so that the other person should know that relationship is a team work of love, commitment and respect. I hope one day u'll find yourself in a better place with a better person as your partner. ❤❤
@@akanksha1202 Thanks... Hope so.. 🤞 and I have to... When I read ur comment I felt someone from same boat. Just that u have just crossed it, I am just into it. But how much ever we can be strong, this pain lasts long somewhere in our heart. Like u said even I thought the last few days, why so much pain for the mistake we didn't commit (I forgive anybody if the mistake wasn't intentional) But my question is Why me? or you.. But no one is there to answer. There were many/few girls behind him, who were using boys kind of girls. Who can be with anyone (so called love according to them) I was matured, was not a college girl, he was happy around me, confident around me, I could sense that. I was just feeling the love they novels about.. But now it's just a flip... Anyway I have to go through this.. And I will. ... And thanks for ur kind words. It meant a lot for me at this situation.. I always remember you for this. . I wish you have the best in life.. Take care ...
That's what I needed to hear today. I've been doubting myself for over 30 years now....I work hard on myself to change myself .... so many opportunities passed because of it.
Tbh I was never insecure and lived my life while i was in relationship. But the men i was in relationship were actually cheaters who took advantage of the fact that i didn't focus on this part. I think if you're in a relationship you need to be little mindful or someone can take advantage of you. Relationship is not easy its hard .
Indeed...when you are insecure about somone else that's your gut telling you something...I always did this work on myself thing...always trying to be less jealous or paranoid. After things feel apart and I was still loyal for years to this person because I had to improve myself and have faith and patience. ..in the end he laughed and said you know I have girlfriend. No I didn't know. I suspected but I didn't know. And then found out from others after he was gone that he had cheated so many times. I pretended I knew all along but I was actually shocked..I really thought it was just me. But if I had not been insecure inside myself I would have walked away when I had my first suspicions.
U guys r soo underrated while the people who have no self respect and have sold their souls get millions of followers...oh god what has happened to our generation
Om shanti sister , परमात्मा भी कहते है , भगवानुवाच - स्व परिवर्तन सो विश्व परिवर्तन । अपने परिवर्तन से हम किसी को भी बदल सकते है । आप सदा खुश रहे , स्वस्थ रहे धन्यवाद ओम् शांति ।
🙏you have covered the essential aspect of “how you relate to yourself”( swayambodh?) Yet another aspect is shatrubodh. Thanks to authors like Rajiv Malhotra and Esther Dhanraj for reintroducing the above two Sanskrit terms.
Literally today wt all the situations i was going through .for every situation i got the answer from u .ur words so helpful .ur words motivates a lot to come out from situation and to move on with a peaceful mind
I cnt agree being a psychologist..if u really associated u r somewhr bound to feel a little insecure especially if u feel insecure it means d partner hs faild to give dt assurance ..its nt ur fault bt ur partner's issue more...diff to explain in a text bt tried my best..good luck❤
One can only work on oneself !!! What does it matter if the Partner cheat on you ? Everybody is doing what they want to do - a fact. You need to know what you want. The tools are given in Yoga. Inner Engineering is to start with. It works and make you strengthful to live joyfully. 🙏
Self is complete, it doesn't need to be worked upon. Realize that you are complete and all the world's so called problems will not appear to you as problems. This working on self is a trap and it will feed the falsity of the person, this concept will boost the ego and will take you away from the real self, you will never realize the reality
Great advice..but tell us how to improve self image and confidence. If your partner doesn't bother about your emotions and ignore you constantly what you do..,....
No matter how much you're confident and you know your worth, sometimes one starts feeling insecure because of others acts but not because of their own problems. Even if you know your worth, when the other person breaks your trust and you just know that person is not a stable minded and have no moral values then you start to doubt and feel insecure no matter how confident you're. So this logic doesn't apply in every situation but yeah working on one's own self is good and harmless.
My mom had b.cancer and huntington chorea disease.. she has left me 5months back... My husband didn't support me to take care of my mom.. I had fibroadenomas now.. I fear if it get converted to b.cancer.. ,then also my husband won't take care of me.. no one is there to take care of me.. simply shared my pain.. thqu.
We creat with our thoughts Think about a supporting husband, Loving husband. Creat your life in your mind how you want it to go! Imagine yourself healthy! Strong Living a life of happiness Love and Peace. Sending you Devine Love 💕
Thank you so much for your valuable information sister. Meanwhile the background of your vedio is very beautiful. can u show that to us. Because, it will inspire us to have a home like that one. Its my request sister.
When you don't care about yourself nobody will care you
~ my mother❤
That's what my mom also says
Yes no one cares even if there is someone before they show caring judgment will stand before
No one can completely understand you apart from you
@@devarakondanithyajyothsna375 you even can't understand urself...do u really know how your mind works?
this the problem we give priority to our ego always that's the problem...
see things as it is don't see to satisfy ur own ego...
Make sure your no 1 priority is YOU 😊
it not about priority it's about questioning ur belief and works...to see the reality as it is...
I was living carefree in my previous relationship that man literally had hit very badly and cheated on me at my worst.
Conclusion u can't really predict ur future with ur partner so live carefree either way let them do whatever they want to do. U only care about ur mental, physical health. With zero expectations.
I was independent, had a aim in life, kind of serious girl. He came to my life, he showed so much love that for the first time I fell in love.
In my relationship. I was very happy and very confident being with him.. We both were there for each other in all situations. But very recently I came to know he cheated on me all these years. Still he denies it, and tells he doesn't want to give answer, and asks me were these years nice!!?? He lied me so much.. I am still unable to believe this version of him.
He mastered lying in such a way that I never doubted him till these years.
I can say if his love was the true one, he was the genuine one, his love was excellent. But unfortunately it's fake..
I am totally broken..
But I am not understanding why he loved me so much if he wanted to cheat me. There were many girls behind him.
It's very difficult for me to live with this pain throughout my life.. But still I will....
Unfortunately I never thought I have to move from this relationship, and never thought I will suffer like this one day...
He was telling I am the best gift of his life. I was not even possessive with him.
How can someone lie so much in a genuine relationship.. He knew me very much.. I became too dependent on him. And I have to be strong again now.
But this makes me never believe someone even if someone feels genuine. He ruined my peace of mind, belief, love and innocence.
@@AlexaHDQuotes I know right now u r hurt indeed, I too have had gone through same situation early in 2020-21 and it is almost 4 year I still struggle to talk to a boy. But what i have learnt about myself is that it was not him who was hurting me it was me, my lower self esteem, lack of confidence, guilty of taking charge of every mistake that I didn't even commit. Boundaries are important so that the other person should know that relationship is a team work of love, commitment and respect. I hope one day u'll find yourself in a better place with a better person as your partner. ❤❤
@@akanksha1202 Thanks... Hope so.. 🤞 and I have to...
When I read ur comment I felt someone from same boat. Just that u have just crossed it, I am just into it. But how much ever we can be strong, this pain lasts long somewhere in our heart. Like u said even I thought the last few days, why so much pain for the mistake we didn't commit (I forgive anybody if the mistake wasn't intentional)
But my question is Why me? or you.. But no one is there to answer.
There were many/few girls behind him, who were using boys kind of girls. Who can be with anyone (so called love according to them)
I was matured, was not a college girl, he was happy around me, confident around me, I could sense that. I was just feeling the love they novels about.. But now it's just a flip...
Anyway I have to go through this.. And I will. ...
And thanks for ur kind words. It meant a lot for me at this situation.. I always remember you for this. . I wish you have the best in life.. Take care ...
That's what I needed to hear today. I've been doubting myself for over 30 years now....I work hard on myself to change myself .... so many opportunities passed because of it.
Nahh babe.... You're fine....
Just the other person gave you the reason to doubt on them.....
What are you doing for this ?
Tbh I was never insecure and lived my life while i was in relationship. But the men i was in relationship were actually cheaters who took advantage of the fact that i didn't focus on this part. I think if you're in a relationship you need to be little mindful or someone can take advantage of you. Relationship is not easy its hard .
A relationship goes both ways,and most cases the other person gives reasons for suspicious which causes most thinking,not cause you are less confident
Yeah... Right...
It doesn't mean to not carry about relationship, but *be strong* is the summary
Indeed...when you are insecure about somone else that's your gut telling you something...I always did this work on myself thing...always trying to be less jealous or paranoid. After things feel apart and I was still loyal for years to this person because I had to improve myself and have faith and patience. ..in the end he laughed and said you know I have girlfriend. No I didn't know. I suspected but I didn't know. And then found out from others after he was gone that he had cheated so many times. I pretended I knew all along but I was actually shocked..I really thought it was just me. But if I had not been insecure inside myself I would have walked away when I had my first suspicions.
Exactly, the same happened with me
Very right... "Work on yourself". We will sustain. Thanks 🙏
If you work on yourself and become secure within yourself, chances are that you will attract a better partner who is loyal and faithful to you
U guys r soo underrated while the people who have no self respect and have sold their souls get millions of followers...oh god what has happened to our generation
Sahi kaha , this girl and the satvik movement channel deserve millions followers
@@mohitgupta840 yes
If u feel doubtful...that's ur gut speaking to u... DO NOT ignore this on any cost
I ignored in my past ...tab hi pta chala k gut feeling sahi hoti h
I also have the same feeling what should i do
I needed to hear this! You are a blessing to humanity..Love from Singapore 🇸🇬
Best response i've heard so far and it's pure truth
Work on yourself, do not doubt on your self, abilities, appearance, intelligence, confidence💐🙏
You are so accurate. Thank you so much Beautiful Soul!
That's all I need it today. Make a happy to other and I forgot my self.....Thank you very much.
Following every day.
God Bless you ❤❤❤
Needed this
Thank you ❤
The first time I see you...I immediately subscribe here about your brilliant words...❤🎉
Thank you so much Mam 🙏🏻 I needed this😇
Om shanti sister , परमात्मा भी कहते है , भगवानुवाच - स्व परिवर्तन सो विश्व परिवर्तन । अपने परिवर्तन से हम किसी को भी बदल सकते है । आप सदा खुश रहे , स्वस्थ रहे धन्यवाद ओम् शांति ।
Solution on deception, cheating, jealousy, envious. Block ur growth.
🙏you have covered the essential aspect of “how you relate to yourself”( swayambodh?) Yet another aspect is shatrubodh. Thanks to authors like Rajiv Malhotra and Esther Dhanraj for reintroducing the above two Sanskrit terms.
Goddd this brought tears in my eyes
Literally today wt all the situations i was going through .for every situation i got the answer from u .ur words so helpful .ur words motivates a lot to come out from situation and to move on with a peaceful mind
Work on your self. Exactly 😊😊😊❤
I cnt agree being a psychologist..if u really associated u r somewhr bound to feel a little insecure especially if u feel insecure it means d partner hs faild to give dt assurance ..its nt ur fault bt ur partner's issue more...diff to explain in a text bt tried my best..good luck❤
but it should go both way
One can only work on oneself !!!
What does it matter if the Partner cheat on you ? Everybody is doing what they want to do - a fact.
You need to know what you want. The tools are given in Yoga.
Inner Engineering is to start with. It works and make you strengthful to live joyfully.
🙏
What type of yoga do you do?
If i do this then he also work on himself. Don't depend on me or someone else, to play his role on my life.
I am genuinely on very busy.
First step: GET A PARTNER:)
In the infinity of life where I am.All is perfect whole and complete.❤✨
Self is complete, it doesn't need to be worked upon. Realize that you are complete and all the world's so called problems will not appear to you as problems. This working on self is a trap and it will feed the falsity of the person, this concept will boost the ego and will take you away from the real self, you will never realize the reality
Thanks Radhika, I need this video and i must work on myself❤❤ God has sent you to guide me ❤❤
Thanku so much ma'am. I also worried about that but now i heard your suggestions i feel relax. Thanku once again ma'am. ❤
Great advice..but tell us how to improve self image and confidence. If your partner doesn't bother about your emotions and ignore you constantly what you do..,....
Work on yourself that’s what she is saying clearly.. 😊
You need to re-evaluate what you want from the relationship.
Then invest your time in useful things.. and ignore what your partner is doing... Just focus on your self growth
If he's ignoring them why are you with him?
@@DesipetsoIndiaSome people are gems when it comes to actions but know nothing about expressing or dealing with emotions.
Thank you for brightening my world 🦋🪄
* stays confident in myself *
My partner: * casually cheats *
u should leave that asshole and continue feeling more confident :D
Get rid of him!!
Absolutely Correct 💯
No matter how much you're confident and you know your worth, sometimes one starts feeling insecure because of others acts but not because of their own problems. Even if you know your worth, when the other person breaks your trust and you just know that person is not a stable minded and have no moral values then you start to doubt and feel insecure no matter how confident you're. So this logic doesn't apply in every situation but yeah working on one's own self is good and harmless.
Your doing a great job,I recently found Your channel and found it at the right time
Om 🕉 shivaaya 🕉
This came at such an important time in my life.
Of course! UR absolutely right ✅️
Maam working on yourself is absolutely fine but about the person who is two timing you that is not okay want complete freedom from such relationships.
Behan ji hum to finally impressed ho gaye apse
Golden advice....sooner learnt it makes our life more easy
The way u guide...
Really nice dear
Absolutely Right Ma'am 😊❤
Gratitude for knowledge 🙏
Much needed. Thank you 🙏🏽
I love ur videos😍 love and light my dear🫶🏼
I am also going through same problem . Thanks alot for sharing this
Thanku dear really thanku❤
Thank you! Loved this
Thanks Krishna for this 🥺💜
You are absolutely correct 👍
never blame yourself if someone cheats on you. it is totally their fault.
this confidence no one gave me thanks
Thank you soo much for doing this video ... 💓🙏💐😊
Ur speaking way is excellent madam,❤
Very True. Love you for this❤
Your word is 🧡very peaceful
I'm also going thru this, very helpful video
Thank you maam❤
You are like a blessing for me ❤
Thank you I needed it the most
I really needed to hear this
Love to hear crisp n positive messages
Woww... Beautifull msg for today..
Today I am on leave and whole day I am watching ur video, really it's gud thanku
Thank you for this advice working on myself from today
Wow such a beautiful knowledge…..seriously ❤
Very good ma'am. Absolutely true
Beautiful message ♥️
I really needed to hear this🙂
Thanks for this ❤
Important video for college students
Very beautiful, thanku very much sharing very awesome information🇲🇰🇲🇰🇲🇰🇲🇰🙏🙏🙏🙏
What a inspiration 🎉❤
Mam i love u ❤❤❤❤❤❤ ur words motivated a lot... I'm following ur yoga
Commendable ❤ stay n keep blessing always 💞
This is important wisdom.
Love your Content..Please keep it Up!! like you do..Many Gratitudes!
Been doing this from year's. Now I am fine in every relation.
Ahh i really needed this... thank you Radhika ❤
Absolutely and I like ur smailing face thanks❤❤
Absolutely correct!
I agree with you but since one of my close friend is unable to conceive, her relationship with her husband is on the rocks 😢😢
Thank you...
சகோதரி😊...
Thank you so much ❤❤❤ ma'am.. And true.. I want to work on myself..
My mom had b.cancer and huntington chorea disease.. she has left me 5months back... My husband didn't support me to take care of my mom.. I had fibroadenomas now.. I fear if it get converted to b.cancer.. ,then also my husband won't take care of me.. no one is there to take care of me.. simply shared my pain.. thqu.
We creat with our thoughts
Think about a supporting husband,
Loving husband.
Creat your life in your mind how you want it to go!
Imagine yourself healthy! Strong
Living a life of happiness Love and Peace.
Sending you Devine Love 💕
Thank you mam
Correct time i heard this.
I needed this ❤🙏
My ex cheated on me. I never used to feel insecure. He was the one who was insecure and at the end, I left him. But now, I feel very insecure.
Thank you for being a stand for yourself! For respecting yourself! This is where your power comes from.
Much needed... Thank you ma'am
Really a good message 🙏
Thank you friend.
You are a gem mam❤❤🔥🔥well said ...im your huge fan..my name is Aafia
Thanks.di ❤ I feel better now
Absolutely right 👍
Thank you so much for your valuable information sister. Meanwhile the background of your vedio is very beautiful. can u show that to us. Because, it will inspire us to have a home like that one. Its my request sister.
Ur clothin style matchs me