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I quit my job.. then returned after 6 months. Here's what I learned.
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- Опубликовано: 17 авг 2024
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6 months after quitting my job, I went back to working another full-time job, realizing how powerful a job can be. Building a business (full-time, early stages) isn't as sexy as how most portray it to be.
time stamps:
00:00 my 9-5 journey, quitting, building a one-person business
00:54 what are your real job expectations?
01:58 your job doesn't have to be "perfect"
03:32 how do you want to feel in your job?
04:16 don't make your job your entire identity and life
04:55 a 9-5 job creates financial, emotional safety
05:20 the realities of entrepreneurship income, risks, skills
06:37 9-5 job creates healthy space from your business
07:30 9-5 job gives structure and discipline
08:20 9-5 job creates social connections & helps emotional health
08:58 typical challenges with a 9-5 job
11:47 tip 1. get creative with finding meaning in your work
12:47 tip 2. a better work culture is worth the pay cut
13:33 tip 3. take good care of yourself and set boundaries
15:18 tip 4. practice loving yourself
15:46 tip 5. be open to different lifestyles
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good reminder about how we spent 1/3 of our life at work... and it is important to FEEL happy while we are at it. Or at least not miserable.
This resonates so much! I burnt myself out in a role I pursued for passion. I was lucky that it also paid well. I dreamed of it as a career so it became a huge part of my identity. Unfortunately, it was too much work for 1 person to handle. The overwhelming responsibilities of the job but also the pressure I put on myself led me to burnout. I didn't feel like myself and I developed chronic anxiety in 6 months of that role. I quit out of good conscience and took the last year off. I experienced depression during my break... I think my mind and body needed a purge. Now I'm in a much better place. I have recently got back onto my career path. I was cautious to choose a role that didn't involve the same level of responsibility I had previously. Like you, I took a 10% pay cut. I entered into this new role with hypervigilance about my mental health. This is proving to be serving me well - I feel like myself again, like I have good work-life balance, and I'm proud of my work. The sacrifice was hard to accept initially... I felt like I was settling for less. But now I believe that this is a positive step in the right direction. I can clearly feel a huge difference in myself in this role versus the previous. I'm reminding myself of how important the small steps are and prioritizing protecting my inner peace. I will let the rest fall into place - because I believe in myself and my skills - but at my own pace.
Thank you for sharing this, Jvlia! I'm SO happy you're feeling like yourself again 🥹 Your mental health and well-being is so much more precious and priceless than money could afford ❤
Good video. I think you bring up a pretty good point around the 3 minute mark about taking a pay cut for a less stressful job to work on a side hustle or even improving QoL. I am currently unemployed because i got super burnt out from my last job, but I am being very picky on my new job, kind of like picking a new partner lol
Thanks Kameron! 100%. Take your time with being picky.. what's a few months (or a year) of being mindful + purposeful, compared to decades of being stuck and burnt-out in the wrong job/company?
You're right. Starting business is usually not having any income for months. It's why you should to create some buffer before starting a business. But sure, you will get pay off after some time.
We need more of this videos. There is super negative trend around regular jobs. Is a non sense.
It's really disrespectful not all of us want to be scammers
I just found your channel today, and this was a great video. Lots of hidden gems, thank you. Great job!!!!
Amazing to hear this, Leslyn!! Appreciate you ❤
It's nice to have someone talk about the same sentiments I faced this year. I've taken a break from my 9 to 5 to figure out my passion. Also tried starting a business also without a stable income. I agree, it is a big risk and bears alot of uncertainties. Through that journey, I learned my lesson and passion. I can't wait what my life unfolds. Hope that it'll be just as holistic as yours! *Fingers cross*
You're definitely not alone on this journey Kyla and so amazing for you to take that courage for a break. Also, I have a free guide on building out your business on top of a job in a holistic way which can help you dive deeper into my concepts in the description box. I'm cheering you on.❤
thank you so much for being so transparent and for sharing this way of looking at the whole 9-5 vs. own business thing. I'm in a somewhat similar situation where I've learned how a 9-5 (or any employment) does have its perks, while doing your own thing can be a really tough thing. I'm still definitely more the business owner type, but I think appreciating 9-5 jobs/corporate jobs for what they are can make like a lot easier:)
I appreciate this Hannah, so happy you're resonating. If more people can think of it that way - to appreciate a 9-5 for what they are, maybe just a means to an end, we'd all be a lot happier. ❤
Thank you so much for this video, I'm on my way to build my side hustle business and it has been an emotional roller-coaster
Cheering for you, Nelly! ❤ I also have a free 21-paged guide resource pinned if you want to dive deeper into my advice with navigating the emotional ups and downs with a business. 🙏
@@itsnicolesyk thank you! I'll check it
Hey you were featured on Anton Daniel's platform.
You might want to address his vid. The commenters are under the impression you "settled" for your bf & will leave him once you boss up.
If I was her BF, I'd break up with her over this video 😂
People will always have something to say use it for their own benefit/narrative. I can put as much context, disclaimers as possible but some people will still choose to misunderstand me. I can only hope that I attract the right people who can give me the grace and benefit of the doubt.
@@infinitexps Thank goodness my bf gets me thought it was a good video. :)
I really tired with my 9-5 job and i also searching for another job. I really feel like is it okay for me to do business and quit 9-5 job or just quit 9-5 job and find another 9-5 job. I don’t like the toxic environment bcs it really affects my well being 😢. Hope that i can find job that makes me healthy physically and mentally. Thank you for this video !!
Love this so much! A great analysis with awesome tips! Thank you so much for this video! 👏
Thank you, I'm so happy you found lots of value from it. Appreciate you!❤
Let’s stand on business together!
Anton Daniels reviewed this episode, I'm watching this again with my daughter
What was the conversation like to allow the opportunity to go back to the same job you wit from?
Oh no, I did not go back to the same company. I found a different company with a better culture! But I do believe that at the end of the day, if you want to go back to a company and/or negotiate terms, it's definitely possible to approach the convo from a place of grounded-ness and knowing what you want, being open to flexible options. It's worked for people around me.
Hi there, very interesting very informative
good way of thinking 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Starting a business is unhealthy, it requires radical imbalance for a time. That’s why it’s not for everyone and should only be follow if you are able to stand that for at least 5 years
Took me a while to figure this out
So true😫
So are you basically saying your boyfriend is not that accomplished but he is a great person on the inside? That’s awesome for you but you just told us your boyfriend is not the dream 😢guy you wanted
Sounded more like her dream changed.
After I posted this, I rewatched it and realized I should have inserted he is still smart, and ambitious in his own way (thankfully he watches my video and didn't take offense to this)😂😂 damn, this relationship thing is actually a video for another day though lol
@@briankelly1240 Pretty much. My relationship dreams became "healthier" just like my previous career dreams :P
@@itsnicolesyk awesome 😎 We can’t wait to watch that and hear that he might be the one 🙌🎉😊
It’s wild that companies with great culture seem to always be married to taking a pay cut from somewhere toxic
Entrepreneurship and starting a new small business is not for everyone, otherwise everyone would do it.
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