Phenomenally Charming Man Recklessly Kills Lover | Kelly Dwyer & Kris Zocco Case Analysis
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
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My old mum could never tolerate a "charming man" she was singularly unimpressed with this trait.
I agree it is superficial and patronizing.
@@TheWraith7 I am. Provided they are intelligent and adventurous and are good to me.
Your mom sounds like a Salty Dawg 🤣 but perhaps a wise woman. I thought my stomach fell out when Dr. Grande said, and I quote:
"Superficial charm is the only kind of appeal necessary to manipulate certain people. Some people find themselves unable to evaluate the more profound qualities of personality. They always remain on the surface. From their perspective Chris is one of the best people." 🔨 nailed it
Hah! She's a smart lady. I am generally nauseated by charming men who think they're gods gift to everyone... ppl like this always have something to hide. If youre lucky its just that they know they are incredibly uninteresting, self centered, never satisfied, or lack a strong moral center. But in uglier instances theyre trying to deflect from their complete lack of empathy, or desire to ever do a single thing unless it pays off for them.
Charming ppl do that bc they DONT want you to see the real them.
I always have been drawn to dudes that are kind, tho still edgy & assertive, either slightly awkward or an outsider or different somehow, and of course intelligent. I admire ppl who know who they are, will stand up & go against the crowd, especially about matters of character. I spent yrs single, & I terminated a handful of relationships between 6 months& 1 year of dating, even with guys I really liked, after discovering a serious moral failing that I couldn't unsee, nor tolerate in a life partner, rather than delay the inevitable.
Very smart your Mom was.
The ability to distinguish between charming vs
kind-hearted can save a woman’s life.
You cannot state the words “Look at actions, not words (or charm)” often enough! You are delivering one of the most important messages in life, with that statement. Thank you Dr. Grande. Hope people heed that advice.
Excellent video and final statement especially useful.
Ha, no...heeding advice doesn't happen until you're around 60.
In my 40 years of life experience, I have found several things to be universally true about humans. This is one of those truths.
Yes yes yes. Truth.
Yes yes yes. Truth.
A Dr G video ain’t over til he insults New Jersey
Lmfao.......
I'm gonna steal the "Better cocaine than sorry" phrase...
Just turn it into a thing. "Should we drive across the country in three days just to see that artist's last show?” or, “Are you going to be able to finish that paper before tomorrow? ” “Better cocaine than sorry.” ;)
Thank God that I don't do dating, in this day and age is getting scarier than ever to meet people online as well as meeting people in real life 😬🤧
Same, I am afraid to inquire what peoples sex life is like. The choking thing is disturbing.
Agree! I just had some obsessive weird female decide to manipulate by talking about a completely different topic on a vid on RUclips. I responded that I was sticking to the topic and her comments suggested she didn't have a good general knowledge of modern history on the subject and it could be helpful to learn and wished her merry Christmas. Apparently she was baiting me to prove I'm a bitch. She actually admitted that. Like - ???? SO weird! What is wrong with people?
Don’t go to bars also, so many people end up dead after leaving a bar
Yeah, nothing like a risk free and miserable life...
It's a sarcasm because this kind of negative toughts are understandable but ridiculous.
I wish you all to work on that and meet the right people to live a secure and eventfull life.
@@Koozomec for making ridiculous choices people have been murdered. Better safe than sorry...
Ticks off all the boxes for reprehensible creep. I am sorry this young lady thought he had more than a passing interest in her. That is SO SAD. His GF narrowly missed a bullet with this one.
@@KatherineLaura6564 Obviously this girl had a risky lifestyle but no matter how messy was her life,she didn't deserve to be murdered. You should point the finger at the killer and not the victim.
Most girls that like to party and do coke are exactly the girls that guys with no intentions go after. Normally they are the girls that disappear when you run out of entertainment money.
It's true, when a guy is successful people figure that's verification of his decency. Not really 🤡
It sounds like the jury and judge decided that, on the whole, the world was just better off with Chris in prison than out.
Chris let the society down
Dr. Grande has the most soothing voice.
It's been my experience that "friends with benefits" never ends well even in the best of circumstances
Yes! If there is little responsibility there is also little loyalty or true commitment!
I agree - in a friend's with benefits relationship one person is generally hoping or believing it is, or will become, something more substantial.
But I'm not sure why you're taking the perps characterisation of the relationship at face value. Given his duplicitous character he may well have not shared how he viewed the relationship with Kelly.
In my experience, friends with benefits has been great! Not everyone thinks an adult intimate relationship is dependent on a marriage commitment relationship.
@@sixthsenseamelia4695 - How old are you?
All my fwb has gone great. Respectful
“It’s not all bad news for Chris…”
Lol, you’re a legend, Doc
Correct 'you're' usage. I cry now.
Charm is highly overrated…I must be deeply enchanted to consider further contact w anyone. Lol. Thanks for a fascinating case and great presentation.
Charm frequently fake, and rarely lasts, yet it's hard to miss it's demonstrable effectiveness in enabling cynical people to get what they want from others in a variety of situations.
I'd really love to hear the story of why Dr Grande hates New Jersey, not that you need one.
They say some people are easy to love. New Jersey is easy to fault! Those of us who have lived in the tri state area ( me in NY for fifty years) tease about New Jersey but really don't mean harm! But maybe Dr. Grande has a grudge? 🤔🤗
I think it’s his secret obsession with pumping his own gasoline.
I'm just speculating, but, I think since Dr Grande is located in Delaware, perhaps he escaped there from New Jersey at an earlier point in his life. Delawareans do seem to be pretty much the complete opposite of New Jerseyites. Maybe it's like a rivalry kind a thing.
Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating on what could be happening while being effortlessly charming while in front of a bunch of succulents.
Haha I hadn't even noticed the succulents!
@@jimc.goodfellas They lurk in the background, silently judging the audience! 😀
Alright everyone hope you're hungry as I am 😋
🤣🤣🤣
He grows succulents better than beards.
I've never lived in or even been to New Jersey, but based on all your jokes about the state, I could live the rest of my life very happily without visiting there. Thanks for your videos, Dr. Grande, I enjoy them very much.
I'm coming to the conclusion that Dr Grande isn't getting backhanders from the Jersey Tourism Board.
@@simonw1313 🤣
Lol it’s not that bad I have been there. Just fun to make fun of.
What an interesting and sad story, Dr. Grande. I think that this happened during the time when Fifty Shades of Grey was popular. Perhaps that helped Chris persuade some women to comply with his wishes. Drugs definitely don't help a person make sane decisions, either.
I commented on another thread that I've found some things to be common truths about life. "Drugs always make things worse." Like how many times have you seen a hard-working, self-made executive or highly successful entrepreneur, or NASA scientist say, "Yes. I have been fortunate in life. I've worked very, very hard to reach this point. Thank God for meth. I never would've gotten here without smoking meth 4 times a day for 30 years."
@@MeganVictoriaKearns many doctors take meth
@@MeganVictoriaKearns most men are low lives. Money and power reveal their true nature. As for women who like to be their slaves, no sympathy.
@@MeganVictoriaKearns Lol. Just Caroline Ellison and look how she turned out.
@@puketinmoarliek994 found the methhead
Yeah, people say a lot of things for a lot of different reasons. And if their actions disregard your safety, you shouldn’t dismiss that, no matter charming or well spoken they are. Thanks for covering this Dr. Grande.
Who else took the phrase "no one has ever said 'better cocaine than sorry'" as a challenge? Another one for the Dr. Grande t-shirt shop.🙂
Maybe not a challenge, so much as quality advice.
@@lemonstealinghorsdoeuvre ... AND, ... if you think that's Oohh sooo HiLaRioUS 🤣 you should DEFINITELY watch " Teacher dies after being tased 6 times - Dr. Grande " 😳
@@2Bad4YOUuu was that tonight's video? I feel like I have seen that moron so many times that maybe I saw DrGrande do a video on him.
I don't know where you think I said it was hilarious or even humorous. I'd rather do cocaine than feel sorry, and I don't know how someone would choose feeling sorry. My interpretation is "better safe than sorry" means it's better to practice a safe behavior than to do something you will regret, and I'd much rather do cocaine than something I would regret.
Honestly, why are you sending me this?
@@2Bad4YOUuu nope, it's one of his critiques where he listens to other people's breakdowns and does little actual research and he leaves out large portions of actual issues impacting the situation.
I have no doubt Chris is guilty, but I heard an interview with his defense attorneys and they mentioned a disturbing point: there is no independent verification that the cadaver dog actually hit on anything in his the apartment or car. That was taken as iron-clad evidence based on the word of one officer interpreting the behavior of her dog. Seems like trained police dog searches should be recorded that the the purported "hits" can be reviewed and confirmed or refuted by independent experts with no connection to, say, the da who is prosecuting the case.
There was a lot more evidence on the special I saw on it - there was so much that needs to happen to actually charge him.
I think the more damning evidence is the video and the fact that security footage showed her entering his building but never leaving.
It takes years to train a dog like that (I’m a professional dog trainer) and hitting on something cannot be a mistake. If the dog signals, it’s a hit. The noise and behavior of the dog is not subtle. If the dog hits they let everyone in earshot know. And they get super excited.
I agree that body cam footage should be on every cop everywhere every moment they’re doing police work, but if we rule out malice, there is no possibility for a mistake with a certified cadaver dog. It is a very specific odor that can’t be replicated by anything else except what it is. And several independent people certify a dog. They go to constant training and certifications, etc. so the dog and handler are very competent.
I train dogs to alert to low blood sugar. Their sense of smell is astounding. Currently dogs are being trained to sniff cancer on hospital patients.
Some scents are easier to confuse but a dead human being is really quite a specific collection of smells that cannot be replicated by any other dead animal.
That said- malice is always a concern! If only we could teach dogs to alert to psychopaths.
I actually think they can detect some dangerous people, but since we don’t know how some dogs seem to know when a person is a garbage person we can’t actually train them to replicate it on command.
Wouldn’t that be so cool, though? 😂 I’ve known several dogs that always knew before I did that a particular person was dangerous. My personal theory is that it’s in subtle body language. But you never know-maybe evil has a smell? 😂
And then of course there are less sensitive dogs that would make friends with a serial killer
😂
@@lostandfound5145 There is always the possibility for a mistake when it comes to humans interpreting behaviour of an animal.
To suggest otherwise is absurd.
@@SamS-uv2ql yes, that would be an absurd statement to make. Never would I make such an idiotic statement. Clearly either you’re intentionally strawmanning me here, or you lack critical thinking and reading comprehension skills. I try not to assume malice, but sometimes people make that difficult.
You have no idea how many times I've shouted "ACTIONS NOT WORDS" 😭
And yet those are just words. Words repeated over and over again in the comment section here, along with two other phrases that seem to be almost ...programmed... ...why am I responding
Dr. Grande has such a wholesome, soothing demeanor.
Friends with benefits ends one of only two ways:
1) Loss of Benefits or
2) Loss of Friend
Note: Both 1 or 2 will lnvariably result in the Loss of Both..
Thank you for covering this heartbreaking case, Dr. Grande.❤
Hi Rejane. - How lucky do I feel that I do not know any people like all of these people! The world is not as dark as true crime would have us believe! But we certainly get warnings and instruction. Hope your holiday season and that of all on this channel is fun and safe!🎄🎆🎁🎉
@@bthomson Hi Judy! 😃
It’s truly unimaginable the things people are willing to do in order to satisfy their own needs.
I also wish you very happy holidays with your loved ones!!✨🎁✨
Sad ending of a young life at the hands of a selfish man who viewed her as a disposable object, a prevalent theme it seems. Thanks for the video.... And I hope everyone does something today that balances out the darkness of true crime videos... Walk the dog in a park, or go to a comedy club, anything to remind ourselves that most people in the world aren't narcissistic murderers. Thank you for the video 😊
This is a very thoughtful comment! I agree that true crime watching needs to be balanced with healthy, hopeful activities that reset the world image from those dark realms! Hope the holidays help!
@@bthomson 😊
I go hug a loved one or pet ❤
The shower curtain may also have been used to roll one giant joint.
Still digging on my home state of Jersey, Dr. Grande 🤣 at least there's some nice lighthouses. Thanks Dr. Grande and happy holidays!!!! 🌟💫✨🎉🎊
Dear Dr Grande, may I just thank you for all your entertaining, interesting and intelligently reflective videos this year? I like my entertainment to be informative and analytical as well as amusing so you are my RUclips go-to content provider. Merry Christmas to you and your family 🎅 I wish you a prosperous 2023 🙏
I still can't get over how well Dr Grande summarised the Magan-Harry series!
I know that it would take extra effort to look into ( and report/share) these peoples early childhood…but I sure wish that you would do that too …all these mentally disordered people have a background of some type of childhood drama / trauma which makes the analysis interesting
I've thought the same. There's presumably limited information about some of these murderers though, you have to be a pretty notorious killer for people to bother looking into your background.
Love the little subtle jokes that Dr. Grande gives us lol
I hate when I have an overly enthusiastic exit from a shower and need to buy a new shower curtain
"Your secret is cocaine with me" oh my gosh I laughed so hard 🤣
Thank you for again an interesting video! I have been following you for quite sometime now and never get tired of your analyses!!
Hi Dr. Grande. Happy Holidays to you & your family. Keep your videos rolling & on point as usual kind & calming. Peace on earth, love, Janine Smiley🙂😀😏😍😘🎄🎁🎁🎋🙂🆒️💯❕🎋🎉🎊🎀🏡🎈🚗🚘
Dr Grande is such a man of the world, understanding that the pronunciation of various words (e.g. place names) varies from country to country. Thank you, Dr Grande.
Google.
@@awkwardautistic Are you suggesting that Dr Grande relies on Google to get his pronunciations correct? Perhaps you are correct, but if so, only emphasises his pursuit of excellence.
@@venderstrat I know that's what I do if I'm not sure about the pronunciation of something lol
@@awkwardautistic I listen to a host of true crime podcasts, many of which are hosted by citizens of the USA. The extent to which they butcher the English language is very confronting.
He even pronounces places in Louisiana correctly. THAT is impressive.
if the cameras in Chris' apartment building didn't "capture" him removing her body, they very well might not have "captured" Kelly simply leaving his apartment.
Good point
I usually remember to like Dr. Grande’s videos, but I am glad that he threw in that New Jersey air pollution joke to remind me to do it.
Delaware is pretty polluted too. Have you ever been to there?
An important point is to not engage in sexual behavior that go against what you find to be pleasurable. It's one thing to like getting hurt during sex but quite another if you do now want to be hurt. That's toxic and one should move on to another that aligns more with your sexual wants and behaviors.
No 911 so guilty.
We need a compilation of all the greatest final thoughts of the doc's videos
Oh YES! That would be priceless!
I love your analyses of these cases almost as much as your ability to pinpoint the lovely aspects of NJ (says the woman who lived a few miles from the Fresh Kills landfill on Staten Island 🤭).
When I see notification. I go watch immediately. Thanks Dr Grande for always entertaining us👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼 greetings from South Africa
Thank you for this video. I appreciate how you fill in the blanks. There was a special about Kelly's case on either Oxygen or ID channel (can't remember - I watch so much True Crime on those 2 channels, I am starting to think they are one and the same!). There is a lot about Kelly they didn't discuss in the special (her drug use and they only alluded to the problem with the online dating sites she was on). It is pretty clear he killed her based on the evidence that was found but they couldn't really link it to arrest - they could only really speculate what they thought was pretty sure happened. They were having a hard time figuring out how he got her body out of the apartment. They had to "settle" for the child stuff. I am glad they finally did charge him because it didn't happen by the time of the special.
Dr. Grande, never missing an opportunity to throw shade at the great state of New Jersey. 🤣🤣🤣
Your satire is so casual that it's halerious.
The creepiest title I have ever seen on this show 🗡
Thank you Dr. Grande! We love your channel! 🙌
"Some of his former lovers still cared about Kris despite the murder part." Wow!
I accept your offer! The analysis is the best part.
I cackled at your cocaine-safe joke. Thank you for another stellar analysis.
Let's say I was at a New Years Eve party, and I was given the option of doing a few lines or playing a weird bubble pressing board game, I would have to say "Better cocaine than Sorry."
Great colours in this video - anyone else impressed with the tonal values of the walls, the shirt and how well it all suits Dr Grande's colouring?
I just started watching your channel. It’s refreshing to hear how the victims aren’t always these wonderful people that had no part in their demise. Not saying they deserved to die but put themselves in harms way.
Can’t get enough of his New Jersey roasts lmao 😂❤
By the way, I’m liking the new background, Grande. I’m looking forward to another interesting case study, so let’s do this! More so bc I like lululemon attire even though I feel that it’s too pricey AND I have practiced yoga for twenty years. Let’s gooo!
Good evening Dr. Grande. Enjoyed your analysis of Chris . I firmly believe you not only listen to what and how a person says something, but you observe their body language also.
Have a great Monday evening .
Hello Dr. Grande, well-presented case. I have to agree with your analysis, the behavior of this man was strange starting at an early age. I agree with you that he is guilty of the crimes you mentioned. So sad to see how hard drugs can control behavior in someone. Thank you for this video. P.S. Love the statement you made about having to travel 80 miles in New Jersey to find pollution, very funny. And I need to comment on your cactuses in the background, they look great. Best Regards.
I’d love to know whether you’re from North Jersey or New York. I’m not mad; your Jersey hate cracks me up, but I’m from Philly, and while we rip into Jersey, we love it like a younger sibling, whom we can trash however, whenever, but when other people do it, I have a reflexive, “I’m sorry, what?” Now I have a picture of you woefully singing, “That How I Got to Memphis," except with Jersey instead. I love it all.
I think he’s from Delaware
Great video Dr. G, gotta run though, need to go to Cocaineway for some groceries
👏🏾❗️..
Luv alll the humorous & witty commenters ❣️
Kelly was my first friend when I moved at age 14 to Lincolnshire,IL and attended Stevenson high school.
Kelly lived in Buffalo Grove, not Lincolnshire.
Also, Kelly graduated from Stevenson high school in 2005, not 2004.
Please respect my friend and get the details right ❤
Also: Lincolnshire is pronounced Link-in-shyar.
And throughout high school, Kelly never even dabbled into drugs like Cocaine.
Don't know if that was the real Molly in the photo, but German Shepherds are the very best dogs and was a delight to see 💕
Great video, Dr. Grande! This is such a sad, but interesting story. It really is interesting (and disturbing) how far people can get with superficial charm. It's so true that some people were overlook all kinds of very serious flaws because someone is charming. I'm really interested in your take on the Shanquella Robinson case!
Great documentary Dr. Grande! Actions speak louder than words
Very scary. Stay safe people.
Excellent analysis. Yes it is exactly true that actions speak louder than words
I will always love Dr. Grande’s distain for New Jersey
Kelly's first mistake was involving herself with a guy who could care less about her. "Friends with benefits" isn't a benefit at all. It's a fools game! Kelly's death could have been accidental but I wouldn't rule out a deliberate homicide. Maybe Kelly threatened to tell Zocco's GF about the two of them. Or maybe she told Zocco she was pregnant in an effort to entrap him. Or maybe his sadistic violent tendencies got out of control that night, but one thing is for certain, he did it.
*Couldn’t* care less.
Kelly was probably not told by the perpetrator that it was a Friends With Benefits relationship.
@@simonw1313 Or she didn't want to accept it. Sometimes people only hear what they want to hear. One of my distant friends is like that. She's quick to jump into a relationship that she should have avoided. Sometimes guys will be honest and tell her upfront that they aren't looking for anything serious. But she doesn't listen and jumps in head first thinking that she will change his mind. She will be the one! Then when things don't work out she looks back in retrospect and says, "He did tell me up front he wasn't looking for a relationship." Maybe Kelly was like that. I tried to warn my friend so many times. She even got mixed up with an online scammer. She's pretty but love always seems to allude her. I think it's because she doesn't take things slow and get to know the person to see if he's even someone she would be seriously interested in, or long enough for him to become attached to her. She's like a bull in a china shop when it comes to love.
@@dissidentfairy4264 - basically it could be anything from her being actively manipulated by this Kris character to in effect manipulating herself into believing something that he didn't say at all.
@@simonw1313 True! I don't know what she saw in him in the first place. He must have had quite the personality or something else that attracted her. It couldn't have been his looks. Then again, I guess that opinion is subjective:-)
I don't understand how women firstly date (or are attracted to) these types of monsters and secondly comply with the sadist's requests for kinky or high risk sex. Based on the picture you showed us, he was NOT a good looking guy. Also, unless you are desperate for a man, usually you can tell which men are full of BS or "superficial charm." I guess I don't know what behavior he exhibited that constituted "charm" but I usually have a red flag going off in my head when people act too charming. I think I can spot liars faster than the average person, but I don't know maybe not. I don't know if I've ever met a maniac or psychopathic man before, but at least in my years I haven't met any man who was into weird or high risk sex. Thank goodness. And thank you Dr. Grande for bringing this to your subscribers attention!
Great insight and humor! Thanks again for another great video Dr. Grande!
Overly enthusiastic entrance from the shower😂😂😂.
Dr.Grande is the best❤
here in the UK the charges for these monsters are very light, never forget life in prinson is just 25 years , so yea, disgusting. He will NEVER spend 31 years in jail and if he behaves it will be even less then 25, maybe 18
*I'm GLad, that of ALL 6-yr. OLds in London, that 50% are NOT White!!!*
Love the new studio doc! You should retire in New Mexico after 20 more years of RUclips public service 👍
Grande, I think you sh watch hidden true crime’s interview w heather daybell, chad daybell’s sister in law. It’s a great scoop.
It's a dangerous world out there. I'm proud to not be a part of it. When night falls you can find me safely at home, watching my Dr. Grande videos 🙂
Just watched about this other day on some channel and his mother is so deluded thinking he's innocent can understand as its her son.
Good evening, Dr. Grande! Charm can be dangerous. So can excessive drug use and risky sexual practices. All of this was present when Kris accidently killed her.
In a sense, they were made for each other.
But if they were engaging in oral sex, if it was getting beyond Kelly's comfort level, couldn't she have used her teeth? That would have made him stop.
Hi Dr Grand I visited Bella Grande. Wow all that knowledge. Your cup runneth over.
Someday Dr. Grande will make a video on New Jersey itself, just 15 minutes of full blown grillin', probably in stand up comedy format.
Dr gramde I throughly enjoy the content and your willingness to explore new and explain topics for the betterment of us all.
My question is not related to this topic in particular but I have seen your videos on nptsd and ptsd as well. My question is are you familiar with the effects of a malaria prophylactic medication that keeps you from contracting malaria it bitten by mosquitoes. If you'd be interested in exploring this brother feel free to send me some way to send you the story and maybe you can talk about it it'd be really enlightening for me and greatly appreciate it
Dr Grande I apologize for misspelling your name
Hydroxycloricine
Wow, doc. You're very committed to your work on YT. I've gotta scrape to make a contribution on Patreon one of these days.
A cheese store called the mouse house? Love everything about it.
My opinion and thoughts are that he didn't intend to kill Kelly, but because they were both intoxicated things got out of hand. My opinion is that it was Reckless homicide.
Dr. Grande it's called, Lincoln-Shire (like the JRR Tolkien pronunciation). Spent much of my life there.
Just a thought, Kelly may have been in a 'partners in drug use' relationship, which might have caused her to ignore or deny that Zucco was a swine, and focus on superficial charm.
For whatever reason, this story reminds me of "Searching for Mister Goodbar", even though I haven't seen the movie.
Interchanging “safe” and “cocaine” had me 😂
4:47 Molly: I didnt want any part of this
Friends with Benefits: "It's just a sex thing."
it is more than that.. in then end; think the whole sequence through bud
Keyword: *Evaluate Most like and will stay superficial because no one can truly see (maybe has no interest in seeing) their good and poor qualities alike and still adoring and accepting every inch of who they are. Which is why charm has to come into play. Most would rather make a mockery of that which/those who aren't superficial, only to try to undo what they've irresponsibly done, once time fast forwards and they realize how they've devalued a necessity. I think you've summed it up here. Some people find it difficult to evaluate the more profound qualities of one's personality because superficial is what they've accepted and "normalized". Normal and genuine they've chosen to rebuke......which is fine. As we all have the power of choice.
🙂💞 I agree with your analysis Dr. Grande, and learned a new saying, Better cocaine then sorry. 😉
"Better cocaine than sorry." Bwahahahahahaha!!! Dr. Grande, you slay me.
AIr pollution in northern jersey before the clean air act was bad, not so bad now.
"perhaps Kris made an overly enthusiastic exit from the shower one day" 😅😅😅
How about Chris Sacca from Shark Tank doc? (Sounded like a similar name. So that's why I thought to request that up)
I was a bit reckless at her age, but I wouldn’t have tolerated sadistic treatment. Poor girl.
He is where he belongs. Saving other women from him as he was bound to repeat the “murder” had he gotten away with it. Part of his problem was probably his mum always smothering and protecting him. Some mothers know when their kids “just ain’t right” but endeavour to protect them no matter what they do.
Giggity
Oh yeah . . .
Goo
Dr. Grande do you ever get overwhelmed with all the human stupidity? Thanks for your take on these stories ....hope you well.
Great video Dr Grande - for our safety how can women spot a sadistic man before we go out with him? Is there a test?
Always Google someone you're not sure of. If you're interested in him pay one of those on line outfits that gets you his records.
Or maybe just talk to him? You can use a little thought on the content of the conversation. Especially if it is text. Just go back through the conversation and summarize what they say, taking out silver tongues and replacing it with :
Compliment on appearance
Body
Compliment on appearance
Body
Compliment on appearance
Style
Complaining
Ex
Compliment on appearance
Body
Joke
Crass
Proposition
Physical contact
It takes the fun out of getting to know someone, but then, that's what you are asking for, right?.... no you just want something to broadly discriminate against, a result from a test. Ok, try this, is he male? If yes, let him meet someone looking for fun and you keep looking for red flags, cuz that's not fun and you are going to seem psycho if you test someone before you meet them and consider circumstances.
Or just ask them, guys would happily tell you and not hold it against you. Hell, you probably would be faaaaar more desirable than any crazy woman testing guys.
@@lemonstealinghorsdoeuvre l think this approach is way too flippant. Going out with someone on a date is not like buying a pair of socks on Amazon.. l disagree with the whole online dating deal, and think it's extremely dangerous and should be warned against. I've literally heard so many negative stories.....
@@Faristol7 it's crazy, right? Before online dating, there were no stories a out men taking advantage of women, women being in danger when going home after a night out, stalkers or anything like that. I blame apps, for sure
Take that again New Jersey!! Well done again Dr. Grand
These New Jersey roasts are something I always look forward to 🤣🤣🤣
I think you could use " better cocaine, then sorry" in certain circles. Love it!!