WHAT HAPPENS IF YOU PASS AWAY IN PRISON?
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- I struggled with addiction for almost 10 years. I have been in and out of jail/prison for years. I now have my Bachelor's degree in criminal program support services. 📚 I hope to use my experience in the system and my degree to help others better understand addiction and our prison system. This story is based on my own personal opinion and experiences.
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@@JessicaKent Truth be told, that's what she said also.
This makes me love her more. As a recovering addict who did time and is a lover of cat's I can relate to Jess's posts. Much love from the UK 😻
Ruben Flores I believe she saves them⛑
@@hollyyoung7745 I'm sorry you took it seriously, it was just a joke. Even the woman who said it, that YES Jessica saved the cat. She and the woman who said it are friends.
Sorry if anyone took this for anything other than a joke.
"So even in death you're still at the prison." Damn, that's heavy.
On point.
Why tf did i read the word heavy as sexy? I feel so stupid
I read this at the same time she said it wow
some people deserve that
Just imagine prison being a nice place 🙃 defeats the whole purpose.
I cannot describe the outrage and pain I feel about the headstones having numbers instead of names...
Unnecessary cruelty, even in death. What a world.
that's so messed up. i'd rather be in an unmarked grave or cremated than marked en masse as fuckin' prison id numbers
I know this is totally different but it kinda reminds me of when Jews got numbers instead of names
If they have a prison archive they should look up the numbers in accordance to their records and add names to the graves. The lack of humanity is disgusting
@@abbymango3452 me too.
My brother died in prison. I was given a 4 hour time limit to come see his body and it took 3 hours to get there. He was mentally ill and overdosed on his psych meds he stockpiled. The only reason he got an obituary was because I paid for it. No one wanted to claim him. I was the only one in my family who would. He was my best friend. It’s like he just ceased to exist when he went in. That was the first death. The second was when he actually died. I miss him every damn day. He never had a chance.
I'm so sorry that happened, that must be so horrible... i really hope you're getting better❤
If you volunteered to pay would they have released the body to you?
@@Serenitie3 yes but I would have had to pay to transport his body nearly 4 hours away which was very expensive. I was a ft mom at the time and had an infant, could barely afford the obituary.
@iloura 🤗🥺😢 I’m so sorry love.
No, no, he had a chance. He just blew it.
ive never been to prison but i had to go to the hospital when i was in jail and they didnt call my husband obviously. but my nurse kicked the supervising officer out of the room (for my privacy) and i broke down crying that my husband didnt even know where i was and she whispered that she would tell him, and i gave her the number using my fingers and she walked out and called him personally to let him know where i was and that i was okay. it was one of the most kind things anyone has ever done for me especially knowing now that she risked her job to do that.
I’m not trying to be insensitive, but that is a huge security risk. I have a great friend “female”, who assisted with a male transport to the hospital. While he was in the restroom, when he came out he rushed her and tried to take her weapon away. The weapon discharged in the X-ray room, luckily they were able to get control of the situation and nobody was hurt. So we must look at the other side of this, there is usually a reason for these rules, whether we agree with them or not. It’s about the safety of everyone.
@@sherrihaahr4787 I'm guessing for me I was a female inmate crying to a female nurse and I was completely shackled and on a lot of benadryl so even if I wanted to attack her or the officer that was supposed to be supervising me I wouldnt have been able to.
@@kristency7185 I don’t lack compassion, currently have a person who’s like a son to me incarcerated, doing 19 years, he is an amputee. He’s going to have another surgery on his leg, but we will never know the exact dates. So I do understand both sides, either way it just sucks!!
@@faydove my intention is not to hurt your feelings, but to see both sides. There is a reason for the rules. I know of people who were executed by an inmate who escaped. I don’t put every person, staff or inmate in a “category”, but there are rules that must be followed for safety precautions. I hope you have a nice day.
@@faydove totally! While I agree that rules are put in place for a reason and for the safety of everyone....this particular instance had really nothing to do with that. She was simply calling her husband. What violence could ensue from that?
She is defiantly a role model for people who feel there is no way out.
I don't wanna correct your spelling bc I do it all the time as well lol. But I read it as defiaintly hahah which us completely the opposite😂
@@meghanhixon3241 lol my bad.
@@meghanhixon3241 defiantly is an appropriate word to use here and it is a real word so no error🙃
Definitely*
@@meghanhixon3241 is not us
Just a number on a tombstone is so dehumanizing. The disrespect to the actual grave is heartbreaking.
On point. It's a shame, and shameful.
Your name coorespondes to number or numbers from birth to death, once in the system, you're definitely a number looked at as less then human, no connection to an "Outside" world as you once knew it,
Even then you have member #, acct# drivers # , SSi# . A cemetery has your plot # section # surrounded by numbers yet few can do the math ....
= You're a number !!
THE PRISON GOT WHAT THEY WANTED OUT OF THE PERSON THAT DIED, WOULD IT HURT TO PUT A PERSONS NAME,YEAR THEIR BORN AND DIED,IS THAT ASKING TOO MUCH? OR WOULD YOU PREFER THAT NUMBER TO STAY WITH THE INMATE BEYOND ETERNITY?
Let's get Jess to 1 million! She's deserves all the views.
I 250% agree
1 million only?? lets make it 2 million
@@perronechris98 sure bro
@@perronechris98 let's make it 10 million, but first to 1 million. 4:30
She deserves 2 million.
My husband is coming up on a year sober. This is the longest he’s ever gone without relapsing. Watching your channel together has made such a difference! I know how to support him better and he knows when to ask for help! So thank you so much for all that you do!!
danyel doyle kudos to him and you, proud of you and hope you have a good day.
Mine is too! I could have written this comment ♥️
This is amazing! I am so happy for both of you!
❤️that’s amazing! Sending love to you both during this difficult pandemic time.
Danyel, hello! Fancy seeing you here! I’m actually your husband’s sister, Lily Doyle! I’m ever so proud of him for staying strong, and you have been an incredibly supportive wife! Thank you, and keep on doing great things hun! xx 💋
I have an interview as a corrections officer in my state next week, if I get this job I want to do everything in my power to try to make a difference
Good luck!
@@JessicaKent thank you!
You are wonderful, thank you. :)
Good luck! I am sure you will do good in that position.
Seems to me your already making a difference by watching videos made by people like Jess who are truthfully putting this information out there. Remember what you saw and Good Luck.
It makes me sick to my stomach thinking about these people having their numbers instead of their names. Even in death, the COs are dehumanizing them.
The COs aren't the one who decide that.
I don’t see what the problem is? Their families are allowed to claim them, if no one wants them, are they really supposed to spend thousands of dollars on expensive gravestones ? Funerals are expensive and I don’t want my tax dollars going on gravestones if no one is going to visit them anyways
@@TKUA11 The problem is that it’s dehumanizing. Every human has basic rights, and I think a respectful death is one of them. It is morally unjustifiable to bury someone with no name on the gravestone just because they have no family, whereas inmates who have family get a real funeral. The idea of “I don’t want my tax dollars going to that” is ridiculous. Your tax money is going to a lot of places, and a lot of it is disturbing to many people. A lot of it ends up in politicians’ pockets. You aren’t paying for America. You’re contributing a few dollars to various different things. All the money is pooled and divided. You live in America, your tax dollars are no longer “yours.” If the people had a say in where that money goes I guarantee inmates would have basic needs like toilet paper and clean water, which many do not.
@@TKUA11 Also, adding a few characters to a gravestone is not “thousands of dollars.” Nobody is asking for a first-class presidential ceremony. They’re asking to have their NAME instead of a NUMBER. They may not have family, but they may have friends who would like to visit them, and you’re only allowed to list a relative or a spouse as an emergency contact. It’s wrong. Screw your tax money, I care about human life.
@@TKUA11 are you actually serious? Or trolling for reactions? Struggling to believe anyone could be that devoid of humanity and empathy
Like why not put their names? Like so sad and shity 🥺
The ultimate and final act of indignation to an inmate they likely treated like an animal :(
Like yeah
Like ewww huh. Like totally.
Hmm maybe because people don’t want to remember the crimes that they were known for
At least there first name or initials
My grandfather passed away in prison. He was in hospice, one of the very few hospice beds in the California state prison system, so we were able to visit and say goodbye and I'm so thankful for that. I will never forget though when he got very sick, we found out via a letter from another inmate who got my mom's address from my Papa's stuff because the prison never contacted us..
Thank you for this video Jess, I love the content you make ❤️
On point.
That was my grandfather! xx 💋
@@drarryoclocks you’re being so disrespectful going through the comments claiming to be related to all these people when you’re not.
@Shayla Superfreak what a wonderful friend to your Papa to notify your family. I’m glad you had that time with him.
My cousin died in prison in Virginia and the prison made it extremely hard to get his body. They kept trying to just bury him at the prison. My aunt was outraged. After a week or two, she was able to get his body.
When you're having a rough morning, and even though it's about death and sad things, seeing Jess just makes you happy!
Zak, have you been watching p**n again? xx 💋
Seeing people who have hit rock bottom and rise up like a Phoenix is so badass!
Yesss 🙏
My brother got hit by a rock yesterday, and claimed he saw a bright light! Could that have been this ‘Phoenix’ that you’re talking about bab? Although, he has been laughing spontaneously and continually ever since, but I dint want to send him to a mental hospital. I want to keep him in this potato-like state, since he’s vulnerable and I can make him do as I please, and I can do as I please to him. I love him when he’s helpless.. 🤤. What should I do hun? xx 💋
@@drarryoclocks what in the fresh fck did I just read
@@b0nsaibabe fr idk how I feel about this
I know its not long but i have 6 months sober from herion. Almost 7 months. Your videos are so inspiring to me. Thank you Jess ❤
God bless you on you continued successful journey 🙏🏽
Thats long a week sober is long from living that daily hell im on my 11th year using the same thing and i cant even make it past 3 days i always relapse you should be proud of yourself ur that far in i hope u dont relapse stay strong
IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU. you can do it
@@isabella392 thank you!!
Oh my gosh! I’m so proud of you! Keep up the amazing work.
My aunt died in prison....apparently she had been sick for a long time and we didn’t know because she had been denying us visitation for years. When we found out she passed away the prison refused to provide any information on her death and what happened. Still to this day we have no clue what happened...
How insensitive of them!
My 25 year old brother died in prison in 2015, he was a father two amazing little girls. I feel like this video was him calling to me 🥺❤
I'm so sorry for your loss😟
What killed your brother so young? I'm so sorry
@@pettiebloop692 from what I was told that he had OD, I was only 11 when he died.
@@joellebyce2787 thank you so much for sharing, again sorry for a senseless death
They aren’t calling family to inform them of prisoners have COVID and being quarantined. My 19 year old brother is in a Illinois facility and we were worried because we didn’t hear from him for a few weeks and we had no idea what was going on. He had covid and had no way of telling us.
Oh my gosh I am so sorry
Is your brother called Benjamin Gonzalez? If so, I might know him! I had an affair with him over P**nHub, while I was seeing other men at the same time, so please let him know that, since we’ve broken up now. I feel it’s right to get that off my chest. Thank you, dear Jasmine. Also, if he doesn’t remember me, please let him know it’s Lily Doyle. xx 💋
@@drarryoclocks 😳
@@wdrlw I’m just trying to contact Jasmine. xx 💋
@@drarryoclocks fuck you
The fact that some get burried at the prison is so sad 😭
It is. Don’t go to prison
It is sad, it's not good!
Just like my brother, who mistakenly got buried alive. He’s still alive now thanks to me, since I slipped an oxygen pump into his coffin, and I pass him food and water through a small hole every day. I can’t let him live like this any longer though, as I feel it’s slowly driving him insane. This morning when I dropped off some breakfast, he was giggling uncontrollably. I’m wondering if I should just poison his drinks to out him to sleep, or should I take him out? I’ve always had the option to take him out, but I like to keep him in there. What should I do hun? xx 💋
@@drarryoclocks 😭😭take him out omg
@@franyyluvv4482 I’m actually going to give him his dinner in 10 minutes.. should I poison his drink to put him to sleep? I really don’t want to take him out in case he files a lawsuit against me for keeping him in there for the past year and a half. I’d love some advice. xx 💋
You’re videos are so educational, and although I’m only 14 I find them so interesting. I’ve seen 60 days in and found that so fascinating because it showed how prisons really are, however I could never find any other programmes that were similar. I found your channel and I’m honestly so glad!
Where do they put 85 year old criminals?
@@johnmerrick6180i think u meant to comment this on the main comment part. don’t want ur question to go overlooked. but they put them in GP like everyone else if they are “healthy” even if they have a physical disability (not sure ab mental)
“So you’re fine?”
🤦🏻♀️
Man. . .
Right?! They want to make SURE their asses are covered WHILE making it clear that even if you aren't fine, you better keep that shit to yourself! There's no interest from authorities for reform...just like every other profession in human services, tons of them become so immuned that nothing matters anymore, everyone is just another number not an actual human being. There's more care and thought put into stocking the shelves at walmart.
I had a loved one that was incarcerated in 2019 and there was an inmate who passed away overnight on Christmas Eve. They found them at chow that Christmas morning and were never heard news of them again.
The other inmates were told to, "Mind your own business", when trying to find out about the deceased inmate. Well, I would think it was their "business", since the unfortunate soul passed in their "house"!
There was also another inmate who had been bitten by a spider on their hand and contracted a severe staff infection. No medical care was given and the inmate's hand was so swollen that their hand literally ruptured! NOT opened and drained, it exploded!! They were still left to suffer for hours in a filthy cell before medical attention was received.
So, who's the criminal? The inmate or those in charge of their well being while incarcerated? There something definitely wrong with that scenario...
Thanks for sharing your stories, Jess.
When I heard inmates get buried outside the prison my heart dropped to my stomach. It is so sad people have to go through that. Jessica is a good role model. Thanks to Jessica I am sober
I wish this was an “Ask a Mortician” collaboration episode haha. It would be kinda cool to hear more about death in prisons as I am “death positive” but I can see how much this subject is affecting you emotionally
I agree, but man, this seems like a tough topic to put a death positive spin on.
The part about there being no names on the graves in prison graveyards is so incredibly sad. I didn't realize that.
The saddest part is the person in jail who didn't have family didn't get the love they needed in life or in death.
I just did 5 years... I completely understand every single word you spoke. Covid showed up just how heartless there are. People died and their family never knew and they made us sign papers saying we didnt have corona when the whole prison had it.
Can I go to a prison cemetery I want to go put flowers and adopt the ppl who have no one this breaks my heart
Yeah i just lost my dad recently and have been going to the cemetery 2x a week ,and its so sad to think these people just got buried there, no one to come visit them at their grave or mourn them.
Why not put flowers on the gravestones of people killed by the prisoners instead? There’s more deserving people of empathy
@@juanitau2012 I'm so sorry for your loss it's so sad to know what the prison does to ppl even in death it made me so sad to hear what happens to someone with no family I lost both my parents my mom in 08 and my dad in 12
@@pamwills3117 Thank you. Im so sorry for you too, losing both your parents. It was the worse experience and pain ever (a pain like I had never felt) especially because despite him being pretty old ,80 years old, and having some health issues, he seemed to be doing pretty good, better then in the previous years, and was still walking around and talking like normal. And I had just seen him that Monday afternoon 11/2, and he died Thursday morning 11/5. So I feel it was completely unexpected. I also didnt get to say goodbye while he was still alive, by the time I found out ,a couple of hours later, he was gone. So sad.
@@juanitau2012 I'm so sorry sweetie that is the worst thing to not be able to say goodbye and it doesn't matter if he was 80 he was still your dad and it hurts to loose a parent even if they are 100 and we never prepare for that and I would say it was unexpected as well my mom was 52 she was in the hospital for 21 days came home and passed away 9 hours later my dad passed away a week after he turned 70 he was 15 years older than my mom I'm here if you want to talk about anything my heart breaks for you so bad I hope you have a amazing day
My uncle was in prison when my grandmother was diagnosed with Cancer. Towards the end when we knew she wasn't coming back home from the hospital, my uncle was allowed to leave the prison and go see her at the hospital. He was escorted by two officers who were suppose to be off duty and we had to pay them a fee. My dad paid it so I don't know how much it was. My Grandma was in ICU and my uncle was Brought in and taken out of the back of the hospital. No other visitors were allowed in ICU, not just our visitors, but no visitors even for the other patients. They left his feet shackled the entire time but did release his hands and allow him to have contact with my grandma. The officers that brought him were absolutely amazing.
I'm not sensitive to death and dying but this got me a little today. I hope they are resting easy at the very least. I hope you're having a good morning Jess
Everybody needs dignity, even the afterlife.
I have a cousin in prison for murder and he got life without parole. When he passes away the Anatomical Society will get his body. He decided to donate himself because he didn't want his family to deal with anything after he passes. He only has us cousins because both of his parents have passed and he doesn't have any siblings. He's been in since 1989. He was 23 when he went in. It's a shame really because the circumstances under which he went were just a big load of bullshit. Not that he shouldn't have went, but not for life. It's too much to go into but I love him and he has more than paid for his sins.
I can’t imagine how haunted prisons are
Hart Island is the NYC potter's field, where all unclaimed bodies are buried, by inmates. Hart Island is managed by the DOC... The graves are dug by inmates, and bodies are buried by inmates. I saw an interview with a former inmate who was assigned to Hart Island during the height of the AIDS epidemic, he described mass graves, bodies just being thrown in and covered as quickly as possible and the fear that they would contact the virus from handling the bodies. (Keep in mind, this was back when most people believed AIDS could be transmitted through shaking hands and was an absolute death sentence once contacted, the first was never true and the second no longer is...)
That is so sad. They could at least put their name on there too.
@English C Well they're dead, the debt has been paid.. one way or another. They still deserve a name as they came into this world given a name.
Yes it's very sad that they never get to leave prison. I'm glad they do try to accommodate the older women though. Thanks Jess.
Jess! Check out the prisons in Norway! Some are max with no security systems
Belgium has similar practices.
Us prisons are crasy camparred to any european country prisson. We focus on treating not puniching.
@@alicelagergren574 I’m British and I’m pretty sure our prisons are similar to yours
@@callmehkatie9518 noo not at all
@@callmehkatie9518 UK prisons are much more similar to the American prisons than prisons in other European countries. One thing that can show this is that when we were in the EU, we were the only country to not allow prisoners to vote, despite it being EU law that they should be allowed to vote.
This would’ve made a good collaborative project with Caitlin Doughty (Ask A Mortician)
I was just watching one of her videos! Also yeah!! That’s a great idea! I hope you’re doing well :)
For someone who has never been in jail or prison, I'm 56, thank you for your insight and trying to help others 🙏❤ God bless you 🙏
A family member works for a funeral home - They have picked up a deceased prisoner right out of the cell in the Pod. It was about 4:30 in the morning and the Pod was "locked down" until this was done. They were told to be quick about it cause they had breakfast to be distributed. Not very sensitive as your video covers. It was one of the more unique experiences they have had to do.
Hey Jess! I've got a question: what happens if you have a disability and you go to prison? I'd love to hear about that if you've seen people with (especially physical) disabilities inside correctional facilities.
Watch the video she mentioned it.
my moms been to jail a few times and she has an amputated leg. they always put her in a place called medical. it’s pretty much just separate from gp. she’s around other people with disabilities but she’s still in a cell and stuff. it’s just a safer area for them
who else would want a serie where she crafts things she made in prisson i would love to see that and try make it my own.
love u jess
I’m a physician and I’ve had patients who were inmates. Luckily, I’ve never witnessed an inmate death, but I couldn’t help but hurt thinking about all my discharged patients who went home to recover and the inmates who had to recover back in prison.
I had one really cool girl next to me when I first got there, I was crying and at night she knew I didn’t have a radio so she talk to me and sing so I’d giggle a bit
why is Jess not at 1M already? there are so many people who don't do a lot at others' benefits but she does. she is amazing. she is a living miracle and has inspired so many, I want to hug her for being like my other mother taught me so much (I'm 13) tysm Jess u are so nice 😢💜
What happens to the inmates who need assistance with bathing, eating, etc due to old age or disease progression?
Probably a dedicated place or unit
Good question. I never thought about that
I know in California. There is a facility called. California Medical Facility for inmates that are to sick for regular prison. I saw a video on a facility in Oklahoma for sick elderly inmates.
There are hospice parts of certain prisons
I know in Florida they are sent to a medical unit .Then, another able bodied Inmate who is at intake medical waiting to go to a permanant prison takes care of the elder as their caretaker. They help them with baths, eating, getting dressed. Basically their daily funtions until you get so bad you need to be medicated in hospice waiting to die which is usually in the last days of your life. So basically your nurse is other younger inmates .
Thank you very much for this, can't imagine this was easy to talk about, it's heartbreaking how 'cold' and not empathetic at all the system is. My heart goes out to anyone who's gone through this. Have a good day
So sad how prisons deal with inmates that pass. Kinda sad how they handle everything for the most part. Great video Jess. 💜💜💜
I’m from Chicago! I myself was in county in Pennsylvania, while in there they gave me some type of medication which made me go into cardiac arrest! The COs and nurses had no idea what to do, I had to be air lifted to a hospital, where they saved my life! I was pronounced dead in the county...crazy story!!
Which county were u in in PA?
the graveyard part made me sick someone deserves respect no matter dead or alive
You seriously give me so much hope girl.. I have a very similar past as you, and can only hope to have a fraction of the strength that you do someday! 🖤 what you are doing for people is absolutely amazing!
This is incredibly heart breaking. Moment of silence for those people. No matter what they did, they are still humans and had lived of their own. They deserve to at least have their names on their tombstone and a service to allow people, including other inmates to show their respects to that person. So so sad.
My heart goes out to Jason
So proud of how far you’ve come. You’re beyond strong. I aspire to be as bold, and strong as you. So happy you changed you’re life around, you can now enjoy life to the fullest!!! Wishing you, you’re partner and girls the best for 2021!!! 🥰💖
Love you Jessica you’re so strong!
I just want to say that it is amazing that you've been sober and able to build up your life. You should be so proud! Recently, I lost my cousin to an overdose. He was sober for almost a year and a half. We don't know why he decided to start using again. He left behind 4 kids... it's such a shame.
This is the earliest I’ve ever been😂😳
Same
ME TOO!!!!
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My daughter was having surgery the day my grandfather died. I was called to Chaplains office and he told me my grandfather died. I replied "Oh thank God". He looked horrified. I told him my daughter was having surgery today, so as sad as i was he was dead, i was relieved my daughter was ok. NY prison cemeteries are big.
They treat inmates like disposable rubbish ☹
My dad sadly past away at 47 on November 27th he was a very good guy although he wasn't in prison he has been threw SOOO much things in life and I used to watch prison and jail documents and shows with him but you explain sooo much more then what the TV shows I love ya
As a crim defence atty of 10 years i have NEVER EVER seen nor heard of this “furlough” thing. It is truly not just a unicorn but a north korea unicorn with rainbow ice cream poo coming out.
I’ve seen it...it was many years ago so maybe it’s not a thing anymore...it was in the state of Pennsylvania
It’s always great to see someone who is recovering and being a positive light in the world. Kudos to you with deep respect!
I use to work at a funeral home that handled the final disposition prisoners who pass away but still here to watch 😁
Thank you for sharing this information. I have spent a few years in prison, and have seen a lot of things too. Now after getting my life together, I now am working for a funeral home, and have had to pick up from the prison. Our local prison here in town, just calls the funeral home of choice to come get the inmate and hold till whatever is to take place of the inmate. If there is no family, they are cremated and ashes are returned to the prison. Again thanks for sharing your life and this information. Much love from Missouri
Can I just say I really like when u film in front of this brick wall thing idk why I find it comforting
I am from Norway and our prisons are WAY different and I love your videos they teach me a lot 🥺 If you feel like you can look up our prison system
I'd like to ask everyone for prayers. My dad passed away last week. I go today to pick up his ashes and have my final ride with him.
cdsterry20 I’m sorry for your loss, stay strong and live life to the fullest for him, and know no matter what you do he’s somewhere smiling upon you and is proud to see you be a live and who you are, unconditionally. Take care ❤️
Thank you.
I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Grief is life-changing and in my experience is one of the hardest things a person could go through. Your dad's love will always be with you.
I know this is EXTREMELY late but I am praying for you hun, I lost my mom 2 years ago to cancer so i can kinda understand that even a year later it can be hard, I hope you are able to greive in the healthiest ways possible❤️
I'm forever greatful to the medical transport person that called my mom for my brother when he broke his leg in a TN prison.
ETA: He laid in an East TN med ward for around 72 hours waiting for transport to a west TN med prison. The person who made the call was kind of scared he might die of a bloodclot.
When my grandmother passed away, my uncle who was in prison at the time was allowed to go to the funeral but had to leave immediately after it was over
Jess can you please do a video on any paranormal experiences you may have had in prison or during the time you were on drugs (I really hope that didn’t turn out harsh; I guess I should say not clean instead). I love you so much; you help me understand my loved ones addiction; I was so angry and didn’t understand but you definitely help me see it in a different perspective. ❤️
I was talking with my uncle who served 20 years, and he was telling me how the co’s would be so careless when a death happened. Bullshit how it happens no matter how much they fucked up earlier in life they should be given the right to a correct funeral.
rapists, pedos, and murderers don't need funerals
@@cateater2005 yes they do
Jess
I've been dropping your name all over social media for about the last month! Every time I see a comment of a true addict struggling, or facing jail time from getting caught --
I tell him to go to your channel God bless you for what you are doing
Something I’ve never really thought about in depth, this is so depressing and sad 🥺 it’s dehumanizing that they have their prison numbers too on top of just resting there already 😫
Dear Jessica,
Years ago, I was a correctional officer at McNeil Island federal penitentiary in Washington State. I lived in a house on the Island in an area referred to as four corners because it was one mile from the main prison in one direction and one mile from the prison camp in another direction. Since I lived fairly close to work, I would walk to and from work when the weather was good. On the road to the main prison about two hundred yards from my house, was the prison cemetery.
Like you said, a very sad place. The earlier graves were buried by number and the later ones were buried by their names. Forever in prison.
I'm glad you survived! I wouldn't want that experience for nothing. Mine was bad enough.
Gary from Montana
This is viscerally disturbing to me. I dont have words to explain how fucked up burying someone in essentially an unmarked grave at a prison is. For no reason other than they didn't have family. God damn man
Some peoples family’s don’t want them back.
Your story is bizarre and inspiring. Ive never been to prison nor live in the us nor ever done hard drugs but i binge watch your videos because its so interesting!♥️
This must vary by state and prison. Here in Ohio a lot of folks who pass away in prison are cremated and their cremated remains stay in a wood or cardboard box in the basement of the mortuary that agreed to get you from the morgue and cremate you. Also, anyone who passes and is not in the care of a dr. when they pass, gets an autopsy without exception. I also remember seeing a report done in another state where bodies were left to rot in mortuary basements for months and even years without being cremated because the state and the mortuary couldn't reach a deal on the cost of cremation. I got the sense that in most cases the mortuary absorbs the cost of all of this out of pure kindness because the state won't pay to have the bodies taken care of. This is just one on a long list of things that should be obvious that our injustice system needs to be thrown out and rebuilt from the ground up... In my opinion.
My heart is broken for those who have passed away in prison who don’t have any family. That is the absolute worst way to leave this world.
That’s sick, can’t even get their names. Why? Why? I don’t get it. That number shouldn’t be the end of you, it should be the name your born with.
I love that you ALWAYS have a story to tell or something to talk about. My grandma did time in federal prison when I was 14 for embezzlement. She’s told me her stories and it’s always nice to hear your point of view too!
Does anyone who dont have family get the option of cremation? Or is cremation an option for anyone who dies in prison
The families can cremate them if they want to, but idk about anyone who gets buried at the prison. It seems like prisons kinda don't care when you die, so I would guess that the answer is no.
No. They do not get the option. They are buried so if someone ever comes to claim the body they have a body to exhume and turn over. That is how it was explained to me when I was an officer.
@@richardwhitman6066 that's sad . And thanks for sharing
This young lady is experiencing a very good contribution to her fellow citizens, even though she has had many obstacles to overcome. Blessings to you Jessica Gary C - Former Virginia State Trooper and Retired Pastor (still active serving)... Virginia
Yes loving being off school cuz I can watch and be early 😁
Sameeeee
the prison graveyard part is absolutely heartbreaking
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So my husband did time in a state prison here in Maine and he was granted a death bed visit when his dad had a a massive heart attack. He was transported over 3 hours to the hospital where he was shackled but allowed to spend time with his family and make medical decisions as his dads medical proxy. He was also incarcerated when I gave birth to my oldest child and his mom called the prison during the labor and he was granted a free phone call from the Sargents office to listen to the birth. Also, here in maine the prisons do not have cemeteries on the grounds anymore. If you die in a maine prison and have no family they send your body to a funeral home and you are buried in a public cemetery where the state has purchased burial plots and you are buried there. Better than the grounds I suppose..
People should not be in prison for being an addict 😖😥.
Fr, they should be in therapy, not jail
So sad :( thank you for creating videos that have opened my eyes to things i hadn't thought of before.
*sees title*
“Well that’s grim. I must know”
I'm with ya sis. My grandpa passed away and they wouldn't let me go. I did 3 on an 8 year sentence. In Kentucky, I think the worst was when I was going to the hole as nd they was full. So they had a wing for women, at a men's prison. At NORTH POINT.
I DID 6 MONTHS there. You help alot of people keep going girl.much love from Lynn in Kentucky..
i remember this girl in my criminal justice class said “I love prison” 😭😭😭 because she wanted to work there, and this one chick turned around and looked at her like wtff 😂
My mom used to be one of the nurses at that prison. I have heard some very disturbing stories from my mother and one of her friends who was a correctional officer there. You can feel the hate, regret, and darkness before you can even see the prison.
I've been to prison and everything she said is almost exactly how things went where I was locked up in Indiana. Sorry that sentence is rather wordy 🤐
But prison is no joke and no part of it is fun. It's very difficult to see people die in prison, especially if they don't have family to claim them 😢
Luckily I, too, have changed my life around, have been sober 5+ years and am working for prison reform and homelessness at the moment.
Stay out of trouble, get help if you're addicted and seek counseling if you have any mental health issues bc you don't want to lose your freedom and be locked up.
🕊️💚🔥
For someone who struggled with addiction as much as you did, you are absolutely beautiful! My Jennifer was beautiful too. She was my girlfriend who passed away recently, cirrhosis of the liver. She was only 31. I didn't even realize she drank so much, she wasn't bloated or fucked up all the time or anything. She was a living doll, just a blonde bombshell, angel of a sweet girl. I never knew. I'm just a stoner, I rarely drink, I didn't understand what was happening.
One of my husbands jobs is burying inmates who pass and their family doesn’t “claim” them. Just sad, but if a family can’t afford it, I understand.
This is good to know. My brother was 11 when locked up and graduated to prison and is 49 now. He was given life so at least I know what to expect.
Damn. This one is depressing ): I can’t imagine being there, dying there, and then my soul/body never leaving... 😢
I don’t think you know how souls work.
Your soul will leave. That’s who you really are! Just trust in God. No worries.
YOUR BODY WILL ALWAYS BE THERE BUT NOT YOUR SOUL,THAT WILL BE WITH GOD!
Re: funerals & inmates ....
I had a friend that was locked up for 3 years for a tragic accident in which their 16 yo bro passes away. They were scheduled for release & living in a 1/2 way house when their father unalived himself. She was due for release in 2 weeks & they wouldn't let her out early.... or even the day of... to say goodbye to her father. Not just that, from the day they found out for the next 5, they put them back in the prison in solitary on unaliving watch. Prison & compassion for humanity do not mix well together & that is simply unacceptable in modern society!!! Thank you for all you do to bring awareness Jessica. You're a mother-fucking Rockstar & don't let ANYONE tell you differently! ❤
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