Love your videos greta! You are so beautiful inside and out. A mom I never had ☺️ I've been admiring your make up also , do you mind sharing your foundation brand and colour? 🌷💞
Love the "Peter Pan life" scenario! I was dating a guy exactly like this for a few months who was in his late 50's. Men like this never mature, they continue using until the day they die. The fact he got away with it with me for 3 months leads me to believe I still have a lot to learn even as I get older!
Sounds like my ex who was the biggest bulls--ter on the planet. As smooth talking & manipulative as he was, I knew deep down he wasn't sincere. God told me he was jive. Here's the thing. The Bible talks about manipulation being witchcraft. In other words, these men are witches and I'm not lying. My ex actually put a love spell on me. That's the love bomb phase. Then he promises marriage. Then he meets and DECEIVES my pastor! He deceives my mother! My mother!! God kept telling me something was wrong. This man wanted a big ego stroke and sex. He pushed for a sexual relationship but I wouldn't give it to him.
About the compliments I like only a thoughtful personalised one. It mean that 'you are beautiful' is very universal and thus cheap and every girl gets that literally. Complimenting me on my choices, my achievements on me being attentive or witty or knowledgeable in a specific situation, this are the words that mean something to me. It means the guy observe me and appreciates my character and my effort towards my life or other people.
Spot on. Dated a man in his mid 50s who had been divorced for 2 years but I started to get the feeling he was not emotionally available while we were dating. after he ended it, a month later he continued to text me and asked to ‘hang out’. In my hurt I agreed to ‘hang out’ with him a few times. During those times, he asked to split the bill and then resorted to making only quick day time plans for 2-3 hrs with me. I realized I was being bread crumbed and ‘plan B’ed’ while he was reserving Friday and Saturday evenings for dates with other women. I finally called him out on it and felt so much better. Never knew grown men still play these cruel games.
I dated a man in his 60s that was a sizzling, scorching, hot like fire mess. He was a schizophrenic, duplicitous span of the devil. Nearly drove me insane. Classic narc. Anyway, God woke me up to his shenanigans. Whew chile...
I saw straight thru his strategy. He's in his 50s and text GOOD MORNING 5 days straight. Then he abruptly stopped. I was suppose to miss the texts and ask him. OH MY! IS EVERYTHING OK, WHAT HAPPENED?.....If he doesn't text or call, I move on.
I experienced all this behaviour in a man recently and fell for it a couple of weeks. And he called me naive and easy! Well, lesson learned and byebye😅 My intuition told me something was wrong and I finally switched on my brain. At least I'm getting faster at spotting this bullshit. Way to go though...
Greta, big fan of your videos (even though I'm a guy). You're the BEST dating coach seriously! TBH I took a look at your high-value test, so interesting! I noticed that most questions are (obviously for women) but really focused on "what do you DO? What do you SAY". My question is, do you think acting high value is different then feeling/being actually high value? A girl might tell a guy "oh it's okay that you like my best friend, of course, she's so beautiful that's why she's my bf!" but deep inside the girl might actually feel so insecure. Would be interesting if you could make more videos about that too :)
Well as it says in the Bible be wise as serpent’s and gentle as doves. If he is complimenting your friend in front of you in a way that’s inappropriate. He is well aware what he is doing. Therefore being wise is the way to go ;)
Wow! For me I don't have friends with benefits. He never said we are friends. But he told me awhile back he doesn't feel we are a match. We still talk and dance with each other. That is how we met. It is difficult situation for sure. What about when friends flirt with him?
When you are a woman and stuck in "Peter Pan life" yourself and feel like a part of you is a teenager somehow but you want to get out of this phase, what can you do?
I was wondering the same. I think there's some nuance to her first point. Some shy guys might be more comfortable planning a successful date in their side of the town (with maybe picking you up and taking you there, to show he is putting in effort), some might be stuck as in yr case etc .. For the latter, I would expect him to at least come your way when he gets his free time ..
It kind of bothers me the way you say to take a survey to see whether you are a high value woman or a low value woman. We are all high value woman. We all are precious creation. The problem is whether we believe that or not.
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Love your videos greta! You are so beautiful inside and out. A mom I never had ☺️ I've been admiring your make up also , do you mind sharing your foundation brand and colour? 🌷💞
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Love the "Peter Pan life" scenario! I was dating a guy exactly like this for a few months who was in his late 50's. Men like this never mature, they continue using until the day they die. The fact he got away with it with me for 3 months leads me to believe I still have a lot to learn even as I get older!
Sounds like my ex who was the biggest bulls--ter on the planet. As smooth talking & manipulative as he was, I knew deep down he wasn't sincere. God told me he was jive. Here's the thing. The Bible talks about manipulation being witchcraft. In other words, these men are witches and I'm not lying. My ex actually put a love spell on me. That's the love bomb phase. Then he promises marriage. Then he meets and DECEIVES my pastor! He deceives my mother! My mother!! God kept telling me something was wrong. This man wanted a big ego stroke and sex. He pushed for a sexual relationship but I wouldn't give it to him.
About the compliments I like only a thoughtful personalised one. It mean that 'you are beautiful' is very universal and thus cheap and every girl gets that literally. Complimenting me on my choices, my achievements on me being attentive or witty or knowledgeable in a specific situation, this are the words that mean something to me. It means the guy observe me and appreciates my character and my effort towards my life or other people.
Number 1 is so spot on
Wow you see right through these guys 💯
Spot on. Dated a man in his mid 50s who had been divorced for 2 years but I started to get the feeling he was not emotionally available while we were dating. after he ended it, a month later he continued to text me and asked to ‘hang out’. In my hurt I agreed to ‘hang out’ with him a few times. During those times, he asked to split the bill and then resorted to making only quick day time plans for 2-3 hrs with me. I realized I was being bread crumbed and ‘plan B’ed’ while he was reserving Friday and Saturday evenings for dates with other women. I finally called him out on it and felt so much better. Never knew grown men still play these cruel games.
😢 such a loser. Hope you find better.
I dated a man in his 60s that was a sizzling, scorching, hot like fire mess. He was a schizophrenic, duplicitous span of the devil. Nearly drove me insane. Classic narc. Anyway, God woke me up to his shenanigans. Whew chile...
Thanks for this. It's letting me know I'm doing things right
Yes he does both compliments me and then puts me down, if I don't pay him attention
I saw straight thru his strategy. He's in his 50s and text GOOD MORNING 5 days straight. Then he abruptly stopped. I was suppose to miss the texts and ask him. OH MY! IS EVERYTHING OK, WHAT HAPPENED?.....If he doesn't text or call, I move on.
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Thank you Greta! Awesome knowledge! I heard it on time cause I date guy a „friend” type :D
Helpful!
11:19 omg so true..... flashing all this stuff. Show off
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This was so good… such good information.. you explained everything well… thank you!!! ❤️
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I experienced all this behaviour in a man recently and fell for it a couple of weeks. And he called me naive and easy! Well, lesson learned and byebye😅 My intuition told me something was wrong and I finally switched on my brain. At least I'm getting faster at spotting this bullshit. Way to go though...
Very helpful thank you.
Thak you for this! I wish i had seen this a year ago! Learned a lot. I've been slowly getting out of peter pan land.
Love your content
Greta, big fan of your videos (even though I'm a guy). You're the BEST dating coach seriously!
TBH I took a look at your high-value test, so interesting! I noticed that most questions are (obviously for women) but really focused on "what do you DO? What do you SAY". My question is, do you think acting high value is different then feeling/being actually high value? A girl might tell a guy "oh it's okay that you like my best friend, of course, she's so beautiful that's why she's my bf!" but deep inside the girl might actually feel so insecure. Would be interesting if you could make more videos about that too :)
Well as it says in the Bible be wise as serpent’s and gentle as doves. If he is complimenting your friend in front of you in a way that’s inappropriate. He is well aware what he is doing. Therefore being wise is the way to go ;)
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Very smart
Wow! For me I don't have friends with benefits. He never said we are friends. But he told me awhile back he doesn't feel we are a match. We still talk and dance with each other. That is how we met. It is difficult situation for sure. What about when friends flirt with him?
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What are you doing? Why are you wasting your precious time?
When you are a woman and stuck in "Peter Pan life" yourself and feel like a part of you is a teenager somehow but you want to get out of this phase, what can you do?
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Ask Jesus to come in your life and help you. I used to be like this till I turned my heart to the Lord.
What if he’s in the military stationed in a different state and is not allowed to travel?
I was wondering the same. I think there's some nuance to her first point. Some shy guys might be more comfortable planning a successful date in their side of the town (with maybe picking you up and taking you there, to show he is putting in effort), some might be stuck as in yr case etc .. For the latter, I would expect him to at least come your way when he gets his free time ..
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It kind of bothers me the way you say to take a survey to see whether you are a high value woman or a low value woman. We are all high value woman. We all are precious creation. The problem is whether we believe that or not.
The problem is do we behave that way or not.
I think Greta means how you appear to men.
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