So, I like what you are trying to say . But - if Iam in a long term relationship and I dont know where my partner went for days, this is not a relationship. And its toxic. A normal partner can be busy. But - He will say something before. So you know , where he is.
Do you call your parents every single day? I would imagine that your life also is very fulfilled: hobbies, gym, activities, friends, family, pets, self-care, work, school, groceries, whatever it may be, and sometimes YOU’RE not available for an entire day or two. It’s healthy! Your life does not revolve around a guy. You are so much more than your relationship to this one guy.
@@lilymohsye I must smile , when I read something like that. So - I am 45 , my child 20. I was 20 years married. I graduated from 2 Colleges and I think , that I have a very busy and happy life. Still - it is the difference , If you dont see each other every day. You must not even talk at the phone . But : If you dont know where he is , He is not telling you - it is a red flag. And - my ex husband had me and my family , we were both busy. But sometimes I didnt know where he is. Sometimes one evening , sometimes 2-3 days. And yes - He told me trust me, I need space, you are not my mommy....His second family called me someday after a few years of "space and trusting". She was pregnant with a second child with him. A second one ! And she was angry , because she could not walk , needed help and she discovered , where he was. I needed a few years to cut them off. To understand that I was naiv. And : every normal guy will text you everyday. Just to say hello, telling you what he is up to. This is normal. Hoping , that a guy is gone , you dont know where and you should trust....ist always bad. Only people who are hiding something, are not open , need some secrets. So - the world is not always pink with red hearts arounds. There are a lot of bad people , cheaters . And : my marriage was happy. So : If you are a naiv person , you can hope , that he cant and wont tell you where he is, because he needs "freedom". Smart girls know , its because he is hidding something. A partner who is in love with you will share with you his life ! What is he doing and why. Only a cheater will shame you for asking. He wants you to wait, stay quiet and accept everything. Don't do it. Be smart.
@@lilymohsye Your parents are not your partner. A life partner is someone who has a different role than parents. While I agree you should be filling your time with a full enriching life outside of a relationship, it’s not unreasonable to want to hear from your partner.
I think if its a pattern where both people hear from each other once a day then its reasonable to be worried if the other person ghosts for a day. Unless its only been a few months, then its not hard to send a text each day.
*It's definitely OK if you don't hear from a guy for a day.* You want your man conquering the world and not necessarily hugging his phone all the time. But think it's also OK to let him know how it makes you feel when you don't hear from him. Not in some crazy psycho demanding way, but just explaining to him how much you love hearing from him, how you feel seeing his name pop on the screen 💕 Love this video. A great inspiration for my own channel.
I suppose you can tell him how much you miss him when he doesn’t contact you. So he would do it more?…( I’m being sarcastic obviously, but do you get the point?) Reward a good behaviour when he is good. After a pull away let him tell you he missed you first and you can respond.
@@GretaBereisaite totally with you on the importance of rewarding his good behaviour. Praise more, criticise less. No one likes to be told they're wrong 😉
@@GretaBereisaite I totally agree with this! 👍 I only reward/engage-in good behaviour. I don’t need to hear from him everyday, in fact it freaks me out if guys do that, but if it’s been a while then he should be missing me too! And showing me that! Or I’m not interested! Letting a guy go now for those very reasons. I enjoy my single life, and so a guy better bring something pretty worthwhile to add to it, otherwise I can’t be bothered. Thank you 🙏
Being explicitly and telling directly what we like is not a correct way of comunicating with a guy. You are giving him a carrot to dangle in front of your face. If he feels like it he will contact you, if he feels like getting attention from you he will pull away.
omg I feel so called out... I usually behave like this when a man I really like gives me attention even though I DO have a fullfilled life and working towards my goals. It's like I really cannot help myself. After they finally ran away I return back to "normal" mode and can only facepalm myself😅
Great explanations about creating jealousy, great examples also. We all should look for validation inside of us by living meaningfull life with goals, dreams and ambitions. With purpose that is sth good and valuable. Thus no need to create drama and look for validation outside of us.
Im that age greta. Im about 40 and its making me feel very insecure about it. I already have a son 14 y/o but i want to have a partner and i feel my rank of posibilities is shorter and yes makes feel desperate inside. It sucks. Can u make a video for us the womans over 40? Please. Thanks
I admit that how my parents raised me plays an important role in my self esteem, they made me secure and I do not feel so needy in relationships. I hear your voice a bit different in this video, did you catch a cold? Get well soon if so. Xo from România
Women shouldn't be dating younger men or their same age. Men mature much later. 7 to 11 years older are your true peers. Men the same age or younger will expect the woman to pull their own weight financially and will feel they can always do better. Even if the woman is high value a younger woman will be more appealing most of the time for a guy. And she will lose respect for a man who isn't above her in life.
#1 no no for me is a masculine woman like many are today! I refuse to mate with someone who refuses to be feminine! As for kids most men don't want a new one once they hit 40. Now some maybe but most no. That would put the man at 58 before the child leaves the home. That's if they leave when they are 18 which most don't nowadays because everything is so damn expensive nowadays compared to say the 70s. As for cheaters generally once a cheater always a cheater this is especially true with women probably because of all the options available.
Blaming men to begin with, is her first crusial mistake. Started typing befor next she did put the wall at 40 instead of 30, so i guess the rest is also bullshit, i'm gone.
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So, I like what you are trying to say . But - if Iam in a long term relationship and I dont know where my partner went for days, this is not a relationship. And its toxic. A normal partner can be busy. But - He will say something before. So you know , where he is.
Not every relationship is the same…
Do you call your parents every single day? I would imagine that your life also is very fulfilled: hobbies, gym, activities, friends, family, pets, self-care, work, school, groceries, whatever it may be, and sometimes YOU’RE not available for an entire day or two. It’s healthy! Your life does not revolve around a guy. You are so much more than your relationship to this one guy.
@@lilymohsye I must smile , when I read something like that. So - I am 45 , my child 20. I was 20 years married. I graduated from 2 Colleges and I think , that I have a very busy and happy life. Still - it is the difference , If you dont see each other every day. You must not even talk at the phone . But : If you dont know where he is , He is not telling you - it is a red flag. And - my ex husband had me and my family , we were both busy. But sometimes I didnt know where he is. Sometimes one evening , sometimes 2-3 days. And yes - He told me trust me, I need space, you are not my mommy....His second family called me someday after a few years of "space and trusting". She was pregnant with a second child with him. A second one ! And she was angry , because she could not walk , needed help and she discovered , where he was. I needed a few years to cut them off. To understand that I was naiv. And : every normal guy will text you everyday. Just to say hello, telling you what he is up to. This is normal. Hoping , that a guy is gone , you dont know where and you should trust....ist always bad. Only people who are hiding something, are not open , need some secrets. So - the world is not always pink with red hearts arounds. There are a lot of bad people , cheaters . And : my marriage was happy. So : If you are a naiv person , you can hope , that he cant and wont tell you where he is, because he needs "freedom". Smart girls know , its because he is hidding something. A partner who is in love with you will share with you his life ! What is he doing and why. Only a cheater will shame you for asking. He wants you to wait, stay quiet and accept everything. Don't do it. Be smart.
@@lilymohsye Your parents are not your partner. A life partner is someone who has a different role than parents. While I agree you should be filling your time with a full enriching life outside of a relationship, it’s not unreasonable to want to hear from your partner.
I think if its a pattern where both people hear from each other once a day then its reasonable to be worried if the other person ghosts for a day. Unless its only been a few months, then its not hard to send a text each day.
*It's definitely OK if you don't hear from a guy for a day.* You want your man conquering the world and not necessarily hugging his phone all the time.
But think it's also OK to let him know how it makes you feel when you don't hear from him.
Not in some crazy psycho demanding way, but just explaining to him how much you love hearing from him, how you feel seeing his name pop on the screen 💕
Love this video. A great inspiration for my own channel.
Yea John Gray says it’s ok to let him know once he comes back from his pull away in a nice way
I suppose you can tell him how much you miss him when he doesn’t contact you. So he would do it more?…( I’m being sarcastic obviously, but do you get the point?)
Reward a good behaviour when he is good. After a pull away let him tell you he missed you first and you can respond.
@@GretaBereisaite totally with you on the importance of rewarding his good behaviour. Praise more, criticise less. No one likes to be told they're wrong 😉
@@GretaBereisaite I totally agree with this! 👍 I only reward/engage-in good behaviour. I don’t need to hear from him everyday, in fact it freaks me out if guys do that, but if it’s been a while then he should be missing me too! And showing me that! Or I’m not interested! Letting a guy go now for those very reasons. I enjoy my single life, and so a guy better bring something pretty worthwhile to add to it, otherwise I can’t be bothered. Thank you 🙏
Being explicitly and telling directly what we like is not a correct way of comunicating with a guy. You are giving him a carrot to dangle in front of your face. If he feels like it he will contact you, if he feels like getting attention from you he will pull away.
omg I feel so called out... I usually behave like this when a man I really like gives me attention even though I DO have a fullfilled life and working towards my goals. It's like I really cannot help myself. After they finally ran away I return back to "normal" mode and can only facepalm myself😅
Insane faith in God! Love this
Great explanations about creating jealousy, great examples also. We all should look for validation inside of us by living meaningfull life with goals, dreams and ambitions. With purpose that is sth good and valuable. Thus no need to create drama and look for validation outside of us.
amazing video thank you so much
Thank you for this--you and your sister Ieva are so wise and beautiful!
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Im that age greta. Im about 40 and its making me feel very insecure about it. I already have a son 14 y/o but i want to have a partner and i feel my rank of posibilities is shorter and yes makes feel desperate inside. It sucks. Can u make a video for us the womans over 40? Please. Thanks
Maybe she wanted that instant family..twins..how old was she?
You feeling better luv?
I admit that how my parents raised me plays an important role in my self esteem, they made me secure and I do not feel so needy in relationships. I hear your voice a bit different in this video, did you catch a cold? Get well soon if so.
Xo from România
Yes I got a cold that’s why I’m talking so slow also
Kitty looking so cozy 💕
Perfect timing Greta ♡♡♡♡
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I thought Luna is a doll until she started moving 🥺🥺🥺
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She’s a cutie
You are awesome. Love it. ❤
Thank you 😍
Women shouldn't be dating younger men or their same age. Men mature much later. 7 to 11 years older are your true peers. Men the same age or younger will expect the woman to pull their own weight financially and will feel they can always do better. Even if the woman is high value a younger woman will be more appealing most of the time for a guy. And she will lose respect for a man who isn't above her in life.
Get well soon Greta!
Thank you ❤
#1 no no for me is a masculine woman like many are today! I refuse to mate with someone who refuses to be feminine! As for kids most men don't want a new one once they hit 40. Now some maybe but most no. That would put the man at 58 before the child leaves the home. That's if they leave when they are 18 which most don't nowadays because everything is so damn expensive nowadays compared to say the 70s. As for cheaters generally once a cheater always a cheater this is especially true with women probably because of all the options available.
Oh brother. Once a cheater always a cheater is truer with women? Statistics show that more men are unfaithful than women.
Blaming men to begin with, is her first crusial mistake. Started typing befor next she did put the wall at 40 instead of 30, so i guess the rest is also bullshit, i'm gone.