How My Family Body Shames Me || Emotional Vlog
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- Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
- Hi Girls, this is a very emotional vlog where I talk about how my family body shames me. It was hard to post this but I need it to clear my head. This how my family treats me because I am obese.
#bodyshaming #bodyshamedbyfamily #weightlosssurgery
This is sad but people do things like this . You are beautiful , just be happy with yourself , live yourself . All have their opinions some people will not like you because you're small and some people will not like it because you're heavy , you can not worry about satisfying people
Thank you, you really made my day. You are right, they will always find something to complaint about. I really have to stop worrying about what people think.
How does your family treat you now that you have changed your life? You look beautiful heavier and lighter, by the way. And I love how you have self-awareness. It's what helps one be strong and present.
Thank you soo much. Well how can I say it, they treat me the same I guess. I don’t know sometimes I sense a little jealousy. Now they say that I have to gain weight so yeah 🤣🤣. Now I see no matter how you look people are always going to criticise you.
@@simplycaridad Family is abusing on their own children. There are since few years ago a lot of awareness about family abuse. It is good that we advocate on this matter "STOP ABUSE, FAMILY" for the State or country jurisdictional institutional set this form of abuse as a crime in mental health. THIS MUST SPREAD AND MUST STOP! Thank your Girl for your courage.
@@EliaraEldor The thing is, they don't know that they are mistreating their children in a certain way, because they have also experienced it with their parents. They think it's normal that they're helping, but they're just making it worse. My family is still from the generation where the woman had to be perfect, slim, straight hair, long nails,...They are not yet used to the new times. They still don't accept their natural hair so. But it's up to us to follow our feelings, be strong and do what it feels right for us.
@@simplycaridad They are humans. They know what's "Right and Wrong". They know what's Good and Bad. I have the same mixed feelings like you, saying that they don't know what they're doing. And having several introspection and serious thinking about they're deepest desires, I figured out that they don't have the same affection as you may have for them by thinking that they don't know what they're doing.
I am instead asking for strength to let them go and focus on my present and future life. I cared so much about they said, they did but now, as you, need to take the positive side of everything and toxic relationship is suicidal. Get away from it but keep love for them in your hearts in distance. I'm hurt that these words are coming from me. I was the person who didn't agree with this statement "love them from afar" now I do. Well 😊
🌸 Beauty
Thank you ☺️