Meet The Male Pre-school Teacher
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- Опубликовано: 28 июн 2019
- How many male kindergarten teachers are there? In Singapore, less than 1% of pre-school educators are men.
The reason, according to Lorbert Tay - who has been in the early childhood sector for close to 10 years - is parents' preconceptions and bias.
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Can you trust male pre-school teachers? is a question many ask.
"I was very stressed," recalls Lorbert, who started as a teacher with PCF Sparkletots and is now a centre manager with Carpe Diem. "I had to make sure I didn't do things that parents would feel awkward about."
What do preschool teachers do? To Lorbert, it’s about giving the kids not just a nanny but a father figure to look up to. Shaping young minds is the most rewarding part of the job for him.
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He's basically being a father figure to many kids, I don't see a problem.
me neither!
Then you are clearly sane and reasonable. Unfortunately, some people allow fear and erroneous perceptions shape their judgments.
@Omega Man like what ulterior motivates Do men even have? Such as torturing children?.. wtf
Same
Nor do i
“Mommy, I got bit by a mosquito!”
“THAT DAMN MALE TEACHER!!!”
🤣🤣🤣
DINKLEBERG
This made me laugh so hard
@@s1ckkid396 I died
GOD DAM YOU KAREN
This dude would of been the best father ever
He still is, just in an unconventional way 😊
He and his wife could adopt though.
@@lrose1310 the feeling would not be the same as keeping their own real child.He can still see the adopted child as an 'other parents child', things he always do in his job
*would have
@CAYDEN TEY JUN YI Moe probably didn’t wanna be in the vid
Sucks that we live in a world where a Male pre-school teacher is news worthy
I'm a male kindergarten teacher, hopefully I will be on the news soon too :P
@@123simenHP good luck! Lol
@@123simenHP lol
I got my DCF and I am working towards my CDA. I wonder if I will get news coverage for being an 18 year old male preschool teacher?
@@123simenHP have you experienced any accusations or discrimination in your workplace bcz ur a male?
It’s so adorable seeing some of the kids call him “papa”. It just goes to show how important he is in their lives that they see him as a father.
@@anjuma2257 that says more about you than about them
@@anjuma2257 sexualizing male role models are we
@@anjuma2257 stop it you must be gay or a woman,sometimes I make mistake and call my teacher mom so what's wrong if a kid calls a guy or woman mom or dad if they're nice
Abi Fitz maybe they should call him daddy
@@anjuma2257 seems like someone has a dirty mind 😏
Honestly he seems better than some female pre school teachers ive met.
Melanie- A lot of women choose jobs like pre school teachers or other “feminine” professions because they assume they’ll be good at it since they’re women.
Melanie.. Aw boi. I've worked at preschools in LA. All female teachers.. sketched.. they don't operate nowhere near the philosphy of early childhood education/child development. I've seen female teachers just man-handle children by grabbing the kids' arm everywhere pulling-pushing.. to sit down for snack or wherever.. also many who talk to children in appropriately or tell of young children. I report to my friends about what I see or how children are treated and all my colleagues say: "yea, that's the real world"... sad and discouraging for a dude like me passionate about early childhood education/child development
Yeah, I'm doing an internship at a school (I'm with the 4-6 year old's) and I now found out that I'm not prepared for the bullshit the kids do. The teacher that has this class is also male and he's definetly 18371947294 times better at it than I am. More people should realise that being female doesn't equal being able to handle children properly.
Miyuki hmm maybe ill try, not because im a guy, but in case the doctorate path doesn’t worl
Its not about the "seeming better", its about the sexual predator in them.
My son was crying a lot in his playgroup until a male teacher came in and would play with him like a 'boy'. My child loves him so much he would stop crying at his presence. I think males are capable to be in childhood industry. So don't give up!
Thank you for your kind encouragements :) It goes out to the rest of the male EC educators too :)
It sucks that he gets suspected just becuase he's male.
F
Honestly all the male teachers I had are so much more fun. They always make more jokes and make the lessons fun.
@@recnews2003 Yeah sure
@@recnews2003 I’ve never had a male teacher before lol I swear there were only like 5 to 7 male teachers throughout my whole primary school experience and there are about 60 teachers
“Sexism against males doesn’t exist”
Seriously this man is a delight, I’m glad he has this job
Ok but who said that?
Stefania Ogun you’d be surprised.
@@S_T_fania feminazis
@@nopt8191 lol you're projecting so hard loool
@@S_T_fania There are some women out there that believe men don't deserve to have the same rights as women which is pretty much just creating the same thing you tried to destroy
Made me rly sad that he and his wife can't have children. It's always the best people who are deprived of being such great parents. 🤧
co co no it isn’t. That’s a completely untrue statement
yeshalloween u sure
@@yeshalloween okay.
@@lienle7047 The headline: Good parents are able to have kids! won't sound as interesting as :Good parents can't have kids!
But good people always have to suffer a lot as they believe others easily,they care for people..And people just need them in tough time..I have always lost my friends without knowing the reason why they have silently moved away.. I can't believe anyone anymore..
The fact that this video needs to exist is disappointing. We shouldn’t have to call “male pre-school teachers” as such- they’re just pre-school teachers, and they deserve the same respect as pre-school teachers who are female
it's special because there are extremely few male preschool teachers there
@@DiamondHoe yeah, it’s unfortunate :(
Not being able to hug the children seems a bit extreme I'm a grown ass man and I still hug my dad , grandad and closest male friends. It's endearment and makes you feel cared about
Well, just hugging your friends at high school is already enough to get you suspended. The world today is messed up.
Its the same for children and people in care too
im an adult in care and none of the staff are supposed to hug like he said its supposed to be one arm around or a pat and its rly sad because a lot of us do not hav friends or family to get hugs from
but its ok here because the staff will hug us even tho they not meant to its nice its like theyre family but if inspecters came around and saw that they could be in trouble of protection laws for vunerable people being breached :(
Anyway this video made me so happy it brought tears it was just so good seeing his love and care towards the little ones :)
@@mikandotan I see your point where full body hugs are weird sometimes. I mostly am reffering to that hang on the neck hug where the kid is maybe picked up or you bend down to their level my grandad did that for me as a kid and it made me feel safe.
@@wolfdale_3m ive never heard of that, what kind of school did you go to
I always hugged my teachers. Male or female.
His effort to fight the stigma of male teacher is incredible! I believe he's even better than most of the teachers because of it, proving once again that any occupation can be done regardless of your gender.
Niken Atria I love how you have baby Jimin as ur profile picture
You're 100% right. We need more Male figures in teaching. Some kids really need it.
@@tropicalcitizen or some kids domt have a Male figure in their household who they can trust so a teacher is a great role model for them 😊
You said it correctly.
@@asdfghjkl-oo7lv yep, we need all help in the world to guide our future candidates
I love how these children have a positive male influence in their learning environment.
A lot of fathers abandon their children, so there is a need for Male influence properly all the way to graduating college. I'm glad my schools in Canada recognise that my father abandoned me, so they put at least one Male teacher in my classes. It helps a lot actually.
@@riograndelocos9639 that is so sweet of your school. don't forget to do something special for them after graduating like baking several cakes for the teachers or something else
That is exactly what I was thinking. Not entirely sure what the single parent rate is in Singapore but in the U.S. their are a lot of single mothers and you, at least I can, tell a difference between a child with a male role model in their life and one's without one.
Yeah, there's a lot of fantasy influences, but this guy is the real deal. No wonder they see him as a father
Thats truly said..
The title sounds like he's part of a human species who are only born every 100years
A Gerudo male! (Any Zelda fans out there?)
❤️
@@FBWE-qi6jd Ayy, I was about to comment this!
Yeah
@@equivalenceprinciple1982 Same
I have a friend who was a teacher. He said parents always had issues with him being around kids, and he said it hurt him a lot. He had to quit eventually, and I felt really bad when he said this. He is one of the sweetest guys I know, and people accusing him of that.... Really upsetting!
All the male teachers I've had were the even better than the females and have inspired my passion to become an educator. I hope I don't have to deal with this mess once I finish college.
Michelle, in which country did that happen?
It’s such a shame that men in general in society get painted as sex offenders immediately. It’s because so many men are. It’s just not fare to all of the good men in the world.
My dream for the future is that all people can recognize that men, women, children, chicanos, blacks, whites, Asians, every person of every type can have the potential to be an amazing person and everyone has struggles they must overcome. I’ve been on the internet just as much as the next person and I've seen every kind of hate and stigma online. What we need to do as a society is rise above it. Recognize that no one ethnicity, race, religious sect, etc. is better than the others, because we’re all human and I believe that all humans are flawed in some way and that’s ok. The question we need to ask ourselves (and the question I’ve been asking myself recently) is how can we all make the world a little less gloomy, dark, miserable ( because god knows the world is on fire!!) This man is an inspiration to us all to fight the machines of modern times that divide us. The machines that are stigma, preconceptions, misconceptions, and more. Ask yourself today what you can do to make the world better for us all.
He couldn't have his own child, so God gave him dozens instead. Such an amazing guy
God doesn't exist
@@derxert521 Are you sure about that?
@@justadude7598 Yep. Darwin's theory and science proves religion wrong.
@@derxert521 Thanks for your willingness to discuss.
@@justadude7598 thanks dude
it’s kinda sad that he can’t be as affectionate with the children as female teachers but i understand why he does it and i respect him so much
Who said he cannot be
BANANAH SPREAD society
@@kouragwithac4388 Sadly
@@kouragwithac4388 not exactly. There is definitely stigma of male teachers for being males but also, children in general are more comfortable with a female teacher.
@@benlirry7339 that's because they've only had female teachers
I’m also a male preschool teacher. I was in China when I started and response was exactly opposite there. Back in the USA very similar to this guy. But I work with my wife - so it’s slightly easier for people to accept me. Sorry you couldn’t have kids. My wife and I got my one son, but health complications made it impossible for us to have more. Working with kiddos is wonderful. Applaud you bro! I’ve been a surrogate dad to many kids over the past decade. It’s an honor.
India is same as China. Idk why Americans are wired in such cases
"Lorbert, how many years you want to stay working as pre-school teacher?"
Lorbert: "Yes"
Right? I had a big smile on my face the entire time I was watching him and the video. So heartwarming!
This is a fantastic example of how sexism hurts men and women. Women and girls are taught from a very young age to fear men, either from direct experience of being hurt by men or being warned to death by other people to fear men.
That’s why so many women may not trust their children around grown men. For men, this is very hurtful, because they cannot express physical affection, love and kindness, even if they want to. Even if it’s the human thing to do. They are locked in a box of masculinity that tells them not to cry, not to have feelings, not to complain, etc.…
This was a very powerful video. Continue the great work!
Rubínky S.R.O Ok but who in their right mind would just... trust a lion, of all things?
E.L.F !¡ many videos of tourists in the safari being stupid hahaha
It’s sad for both ends, but especially sad when the males criticize us females for “sex discrimination” just because we want to protect ourselves. If we’re strangers the weaker female can’t take chances trusting a guy. Hell knows what could happen.
@@anniethebean101 From a young age though it was put in my head and a lot of others heads to not be around grown men as a little girl. Of course this applies to all strangers but especially grown men seeing as my parents never had me babysat by a man, and i was told to be extra careful around them. Children, little girls especially, are taught to fear or keep their distance from grown men and its very sad to see
Actually the rate of crimes against women children has increased so much that people don't trust anyone easily now. Because you never know what is the actual face of the person. There are many people who on the outside may look like a great person but actually commit crimes that cannot be forgiven. When the news about a child falling prey to some sort of phedoplile comes out naturally other parents start fearing for their own children, wishing that their child won't face the same, get more protective, distrust every male. And in these the genuinely nice and good people suffer. There are some, like this man who are really very very good at heart and doing something because of their own passion but they have to battle distrust and judgements of everyone and these is only because of some criminals.
"Mommy look! A mosquito bit me"
Parent: that male predator probally turned into a mosquito to taste my child ! Urgh!
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@Soller a comment can be similar to another without plagiarism, some people just have very similar ideas to each other.
Even if it's copied anyways, what gigantic, colossal problem does it make that a person's comment is similar to another's? This isn't something to pout over!
*_that moment when you have nothing better to do than argue about two similar comments_*
I didn’t this was preschool where we cry over someone stealing our toys
I had a math teacher in high school. And he was also cautious about hugging us when we were sad/having a bad time for the same reasons of boundaries (especially us female students) so he bought a stuffed owl named BooHoo that we could hug/cuddle with at our desks if we were having a bad day and needed a hug.
Wow what a good idea!!
It's so sad that stereotypes about men are limiting the connections he can form with the children, still a touching story though
It's not just a fake stereotype, ofc I do agree that people need to not be judged so quickly based on their gender, but I had a man follow me and try to kidnap me when I was 9 (I called my mom and just ran into a store) but I just cannot trust anyone anymore and the trauma is still there
@@losourii eh well why do you think thats even a thing because how men ae treated from a young age I guess
@@TheLord-ALTERLEMOffical my bro they are always supported, you can't really deny that fact
@@losourii Supported to do?
@@TheLord-ALTERLEMOffical the media are very much not turning this against him are they? No they are supporting and unlike when women get stereotyped and complain the "boys" always seem to make it about themselves. I have not seen a single comment about how women have it harder have I? So shut that little mouth and stop trying to play like a victim when nothing like that even happens to you, the media helps people who need it, not someone like you who acts like it affects them as much as the actual victim :)
I am a male preschool teacher too! and seeing his video makes me proud of myself!
iffat ajwad keep it up!
@@crazzee247 thanks!!
Amazing!
Dunzap thank you! Im 27 and ready to be a father hehe
Congrats ❤️💕
I literally don’t see the problem of a man being a preschool teacher.
Then you are a sane and reasonable individual. Males and females are equally capable of causing harm to others. Just like they are both capable of changing the life of a child for the better. Perceptions are a bitch.
As a Mom, I would be cautious until I'm sure of his character!
Lenita A would you say the same about a female preschool teacher?
@@lenitaa7938 you forget that men can be parents too!! How is he any more danger than a female teacher?
How would you feel if you were treated differently in a man dominated job? Oh yes I am sure you will cry out that you experienced sexism and that women need equal pay....
Lenita A I would be cautious with my words!
“You want to flood the whole school?”
“Yeah! Then we can go swimming!”
Whenever it rains
My P1 class: Get the water channeling system, its time to flood the school!
Lmaooo right
His eyes when explained his wife condition , idk it just me or what it almost tear up but I did teared up a bit, but I'm glad that they removed the uterus it for the best . I hope they are doing fine, especially during this covid-19 pandemic .
Sometimes, Lorbert addresses the kids as “Mr” and “Ms” so and so. He believes it makes them feel more important and puts them in a good mood for the rest of the day.
Did it a few times in my early-year class to get the kid's attention. Work wonders👏 Kudos to Mr. Lorbert
It works with the intellectually disabled as well.
It’s sad that he couldn’t even give the sad children a hug I could see the hurt in his eyes while the female teacher hugged them
i was bout to cry like he deserves all that hug in the world ... really narrow minded people
Man that must really suck :/
It speaks to his character that he's willing to self-impose these unfair rules on himself just for the sake of the parents' comfortability. Remarkable guy. Society needs to be aligned on an axis where hyper-competent and uncommonly compassionate people like Mr. Tay are richly rewarded.
Poor guy
I thought the Sad Children part was sad Chicken lmao
Omg I just realized there like no male preschool teachers. Woahh
lol same and i thought the video title is a bit odd
Right? Now that I think about it, I don't have any male teachers in kindergarten. I have never realized that.
I actually had a male preschool and kindergarten teacher 🙂
@@movebitch2263 ooh what was it like? I had a nun for a preschool teacher.
@@movebitch2263 same bro
I hope that one day, one or some of his kids here grow up, and revisit him and give him a good, tight hug, and express their gratitude towards him that he has been a father-figure for them and has played a great role in their respective successes. It will be the best day of this man's life. Trust me.
naw wont happen i dont even remember my teacher's face so how can they
@@dhruvavikas1632 I'm still in contact with teachers that taught me in kindergarten. You just didn't form a connection with them.
@@grandmastersenseichosenone2742 bruh phones didn't exist back then u must be a kid
@@dhruvavikas1632 I'm in Uni. And what? How old are you? Phones existed 15 years ago.
@@grandmastersenseichosenone2742 in first world countries maybe
This is blatant workplace gender discrimination. There needs to be a mindset shift.
Amen. I'm a female teacher BUT have been the woman in an all-Male field too. It was just as bad for women, in that circumstance.
Mayb men should stop being pedos then
@@lu-ls9mnWell both men and women or otherwise
You can’t punish every person just because they share a feature with a criminal. This comment is so idiotic I can barely even comprehend it.
We cannot deny that discrimination still exists for both men and women despite the promotion or what not.
But they let their kids alone with priest and pastors.
Yeah l don't know why people do that
Becouse they trust them and becouse those job should normally not involve touching that kids in any way but.........
not all priest and pastors touch childeren, just like how not all men touch childeren either
Stefania Ogun ...but a lot of the time we sadly hear about priests and pastors touching children inappropriately when parents leave their children unattended with them
Ikr🥺
I was in a all girls highschool. Many teachers were middle aged men too. They were more like uncle like figures than anything 😂.
Edit: maybe not middle aged. A bit older than that.
Bad way to phrase that.. baaad way to phrase that...
@@lynx7631 very...
Maybe not uncle
@@lynx7631 especially if it was mine
U sure about uncle? Not even a father figure or something?
Male teacher: Exists
Every parent ever:wait that’s illegal
This is like wanting to get off the plane when you know that the pilot is a female.
RuUuUuUUun
@Alex S Some people are just that sexist and prejudiced.
@Apple User 2 Oh the nativity.
Apple User 2 yes auto pilot din’t how does the
Plane land 🤔
Gender has nothing to do with skills, there are great potential that gose to waste.
It is quite cute when the child calls him papa
Actually, that's common with very young kids! ☺️
Lenita A
Your point?
That doesn’t make it any less cute lmao
Lenita A I never knew anyone who did that as kids lmao
Well,I still remembered to this day calling my preschool teacher 'Ma' once.
@@never100x lol the person you're replying to is just being sexist in the replies of all the top comments
i believe he is a great pre-school educator. I've checked his linkedin that he is now a center manager after he held a principle position.
It's heartbreaking to see either male or females being discriminated against because of sexism. This man is so sweet and I'm so proud of him for fighting the stigma.
I'd trust him more than a priest or pastor being around children.. ngl
Bun-E so you think most priests or pastors would harm a kid?
@The legendary procrastinator mothers usually are the primary caretakers of the kids so isn't it obvious that they will lose their temper and do more damage than fathers who might spend an hour with their kid.
@The legendary procrastinator who said its an excuse? My hypothesis is that if men spent as much time with children as women they world abuse them more. You don't need religion to know that you shouldn't abuse children lol
Absolutely
As you leftists say: this is discriminatory and racist .Its 2020 people wake up and stop putting labels on people
dude pulled a fast one on James and took his shoes
I was thinking the same thing!!!
Lmao
Haha
Zephyx And that is relevant how?
@Zephyx ? It's not really related to the video, though you may be right!! 😄
Idk why I keep smiling in entire video... He's so amazing.... And imagine how good he feels when children call him Papa...
Yes, it certainly did. :)
@@TheIronmanEducator 😊😊😊
"Mummies don't have firmness"
*My asian mom when i get an a+ 10/10 perfect: WHY YU GET ONLY THAT? GET A+++. MORE PLUSSES*
Damm that’s relatable
@Kzaxrtij Skather Exaggeration is part of humor, even if this joke in particular is overused and semi-misleading.
That's not firmness tho.
Atleast you got an a+ . I can only get a's
@@Gwapo semi misleading?
As a male teacher in Thailand. All his struggles hit home.
Keep up the good work! God bless!
I hope your passion for teaching is not fragile. Male teachers are as amazing as female teachers, too! Keep your head high, sir!💐
@@sydresurreccion5652 thank you. I think you are also Pinoy like me right? Laban lang kabayan. Hehe
@@MrBrknsyt yes naman, sir! I knew close friends who went to Thailand to teach, too. One of them was my kababata and inaanak ng mama ko. I really respect your profession since I'm from a family of teachers.😊
@@sydresurreccion5652 thank you maam.
The man that is most deserving to be a father can't have children of his own?? That was one of the saddest things I've ever heard 😢 But it makes me just as happy to see him be in an occupation that fulfills his father figure dreams
Yup. As a male preschool teacher myself, these are 100% my concerns also
I understand his feelings. I'm a woman but I work as an English teacher in Japan. As an African American, there are a lot of stigmas and many parents were nervous about me. They were used to seeing white Americans. So I must watch myself more than a Japanese or Caucasian teacher would. It can be difficult when all you want to do is protect and care for the children.
I was looking into teaching English in Asia after graduating, but I actually had reservations - mainly because of the culture shock and minority status. I hadn't really considered this side (parents' opinions). How long have you been teaching and how have things changed over the years?
I’m African American and I work in shanghai. That stigma is changing because parents aren’t looking for a pale face any more they are looking for a passionate and caring person.
There are many companies with many centers that need English teachers in China. They are so desperate for teachers they are hiring non native speakers from Russian, Middle East, Latin America, etc.
There is a Russian teacher at a nearby center. She is gorgeous but she lacks personality that is needed for a teacher.
@@beulaho This is my second year. The parents attitudes are changing little by little. It helps that I speak Japanese so I communicate better with them. I'm just trying to give 100% to show I care for their education as well as their well being. Having meetings are also good to help them understand you and you understand them as well.
elfie simmer Well thank you. You can’t do that if you’re going to be going overseas. Especially if you’re going to a homogenous country like Japan. It’s just very difficult having to fight stereotypes that have been implanted in society. Some people in Japan can be very blunt and literally ask you why are you black? They don’t even realize it’s offensive. I’m American and their stereotype of Americans are white and blonde. So some don’t even believe me when I say I’m from America. But then you do you have those who understand that the media and entertainment aren’t reality. You just be yourself and your positive impact will slowly change peoples minds. Rome was not built in a day LOL!
Go work in Africa problem solved. I'm a genius.
He would be an amazing father. I hope he adopts a child who needs him and his wife
Or they can surrogate. At least it's still they're blood.
Stephanie Lim being blood doesn’t matter
@@stephanielim5544 we never thought of surrogacy, and adopted 23 years ago!! Today my son is a University graduate working for an MNC. We have completely forgotten about the adoption!! He is just our son period!!
@@athensmajnoo3661 ok? So why are you all coming at me? I'm just giving a different option. 🤨🙄
@@mawmawa4116 whatever, I'm just giving another option. Cause there are still people who want it to come from their blood. 🙄
Having a teacher like that will be a life changer for this students. God bless him.
i saved this video in my playlist. every once in a while, i come back to see it, because it always puts a big smile on my face. what an amazing human being
Would’ve definitely wanted a Father figure in my preschool days
highafchihuahua same.
Saaaame
Sucks that you didn’t
same, I've always a detached with my father because he was never around or reached out to us, would've been great if I had a father figure that I felt I could trust
I remember an aging man in 1987 and 1988 at pre-school who gave the children flying fox rides. They called him 'grandpa'.
Some female preschool teachers are not very nice. This guy is excellent.
Ye
I was hit by a female teacher in pre-kindie. My nicest kindie teacher was my male neighbour.
@Burp Gun do you mean 180 because 360 would rip something off your ear. Also that sucks hopefully you had better teachers later on.
@Burp Gun your welcome
My preschool teacher hated me and she let me get bullied lol. She treated all the other black kids like that. My kindergarten teacher too.
EVEN MY PRINCIPAL IS LIKE THAT! (I’m in 5th grade so I’m in same school)
He is such a well mannered and respectable man.
i can feel his warmth and sincerity. i want to be a teacher to very small kids one day. it is at that age one can have a strong impact on how they are going to live their lives in the long run.
I seriously would of benefitted from having a male teacher around, I never got to meet my father, and would of appreciated a male figure in my life.
I believe the world needs to have more positive male adult role models for children - especially at this age. So much negativity about men and men as dads that it just sickens me.
@@porgiepugson4489 It wasn't an exclusive statement... Too often men get dragged through the mud in media when portrayed in positions that are "typically for women". I highly reject this to a degree. There are some jobs and responsibilities that only members of one sex are morally and inherently permitted to do, but there are other jobs that either can do.
Age is just taken too seriously. Remove that stigma and everything will open up in a positive way. No more moody teenagers being rude to their parents because “they’re old”
@@TheUKNutter and no more rude parents sucking the life out of their children because “you’re young i’m older” 😩
Stupid asta pfp lol
"The entire class is filled with my sons"
😂
deborah DeborahR the best teachers are in pre school ... they are just like 2nd parents and very emotionally involved with young tender souls .. Thanku maam for ure services .. though I might not have been your student I appreciate the time u worked in nourishing young lives .. 😊🌷🌷
deborah DeborahR Naww 🥺
@deborah DeborahR :,)
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Omg those kids calling him papa are soooooo adorable. That shows how much a good job he did on taking care of those kids. They trust him fully with their hearts
He's such a warm and caring person
That’s so upsetting that he couldn’t even offer hugs, that it had to be the females that could give hugs :(
But don't make the females get disrespected we should be treated equally
There are more feminists in the world
Kami No Yami Okay great, but if he’s a pre-school teacher that has devoted his life to children, he should be able to interact with him the same way women do.
I actually ignored the gender stereotype and did it away. Got fired a day later.
its good that he is restricted in certain ways his female colleagues are not. Men are not as encouraged to become pre-school teachers as women in our society. So it is suspicious that a man would want to be pre-school teacher. What would be his motives other than dirty pedophilic fantasies?
Ok so I can understand thinking weird of a male gynecologist but a teacher??? No...that it's too much... Men are fathers also and can be very kind and understanding...
why would you think weird of a male gynecologist? Do you really think a creep would spend so much time, money and effort on med school to look at vaginas? lmao, majority of gynecologists are men anyway
@@arshg8685 yeah because they are in their early twenties (still immature thinking) when they study medicine and seriously out of so many fields of practice they choose gynecology...and perhaps SOME of them don't choose this field for weird reasons but many of them do... And not all countries have ridiculous university pricing like USA, some countries provide free education for their students, i know because I come from such a country.
@@arshg8685 and you would be surprised what creeps are capable of doing...
@@arshg8685 YES. SOME DO THAT.
@@arshg8685 I wish I lived in a world where I could believe this. Obviously most male gynecologists are not creeps and are just doctors, but unfortunately yes, some creeps WILL spend that much time and money to be able to have vulnerable women around them all day. A lot of abusers take jobs where they are around vulnerable people.
This was truly moving, and an eye opener. Being a HR Assistant involved in the hiring process of Teacher's and the like, im proud to say I consider every applicant equally, regardless of sex, age or religion. I hope this video breaks the stigma. God Bless this Teacher, his wife, and his students! Great job!
I simply don't understand why the woman can hug the kids but this gentle, good-hearted, compassionate man is not allowed to hug the kids? This double standard just doesn't make sense to me.
He acts more like a dad than a teacher😂
Ikr, that was cute😢
Does Lorbert’s name seem unusual to you? It wouldn’t be the first time. We found out that his name was actually Robert but he had it changed when he realised a lot of people had trouble pronouncing it!
Wt??? Hahaha
🤣🤣🤣
That’s because kids take longer to pronounce their ‘r’ as compared to ‘Lo’!
For real? Lol
For the sake of kids lolz
He's just the sweetest guy :)
He's so brave, too, for risking this... despite all the bias and prejudice, he still chose to do what he wanted to do with his life. Respect.
Bro love you for doing this. opening statement that you said about your parents! no , at first glance, i knew you were there for the kids as a father figure! good job !!
"Papa"
Me: *sobs*
I had a male preschool teacher and he’s such fun, he’s the only preschool teacher I still remember after so many years
Awwwww. That's always been my dream haha. For the toddler and pre-K kids to remember me T.T lol.. but just to remember how there was this male intern/teacher who really cared for them and loved them... I worked with children because my major is Child Development but I just graduated with my under grad... I might not go with the preschool teacher though cuz' of the financial security or stability :( .. still figuring out life too lol
What's wrong with a male preschool teacher? When I looked at this title, I just didn't understand.... Can someone explain to me?
@@PrincessAshley12 parents tend to be careful due to worry of their children maybe being abused.. I totally get parents and I would be careful myself as well.. even though I've been working in preschools as a male...or if I became a male teacher. I get parents so much that I'm super down when the teachers don't give me the task to change diapers and such.. male staff also are careful in case of lawsuit or being accused of doing abuse etc.
@@hoodieboy1515 Wow.... There's as much stigma for a man in a female-dominated field as there is a female in a male-dominated field. That's stupid.
@@PrincessAshley12 yea, I guess it's this intense in Singapore... but not so much in U.S.A. I've met 2 male teachers already from two different cities and they are respected. Male teachers are encouraged and are needed here in the U.S because the male role model is needed for children who may not have it at home... and also, I get parents even when im a male... they have all the right to be careful because sexual abuse does happen and it will ruin a life for a lifetime. So intense care is needed.. In any case, I'd say as long as male teachers are employed then there's no problem. It is sad in this classroom though how the teacher can't even hug his students.. but it makes sense too.. keeping it professional more than teachers being so attached.. I guess ethical boundaries. So yea :)
They make this great distinction between MALE preschool and "Preschool Teachers" as if female preschool teachers are not also at risk for child abuse, neglect, and inappropriate conduct towards children in the classroom. Smh I'm glad that he found a career path that fulfills him
you are doing an amazing work, hats off
When he started talking about his wife's cancer 💔 He was so visibly holding back his tears 💔 The fact that one could go through so much and still crack smiles is so fascinating 😍 The relationship he has with these adorable little kids is so stinking cute 💖 It disgusts me that people criticise him , it's also sad that because of the crows , the white pigeons have to suffer. So sad , makes me lose faith in humanity.. Until people like him restore it for me 🙂😁💖
Good comments but get the emoji out of it
@@nguyenquangduy9292 Lol! I don't like editing comments but yeah some shouldn't have been there.. 😂😂 Thx though
Duy Quang Nguyen no
“Papa!”
“Don’t anyhow call me that.”
“You have another Son.”
“Goddammit.”
It's sad that he had to say that because some parents might misunderstand
@@jekesan4221 nah that wasn't what he was afraid of when he told them not to call him that
As someone who was mistreated by her own childcare and pre-school teachers, I wish I had the same kindness shown to me as this male pre-school teacher shows to his students.
I could understand how he feels about children. When he said some of these kids need Male figures in their lives its definitely true. I feel sorry for the children the most.
**i want to flood the whole school so we can go swimming *😂💀
5:47
Breezy_ Bri ME
I'm so proud of her like a mother would 😂😜
Lmao I love that "ReeeeEALLY?". 😂😂😂
Oh, the wonderful imagination of little tykes. Makes the heart swell. ♡
😂
Bruh he looks so young for 44. I would've guessed he was in his 30s. Asian don't raisin ig 🤷🏾♀️
Unbelievably he does look way younger than that
I'm asian and even I can't believe he's 44 lmao
Army Babe my dad is 51 and my friends thought he was in his 30's 😳 asians don't raisin
You know a teacher is amazing when he starts teaching about daily life stuff(like how a tap works). Salute this guy.
He is honestly a great teacher. Also a really sweet father-like figure too. From what I've seen, he seems to resonate with the children he teaches with extremely well. He is gentle and patient, but also edging the children along to learn. He gives out the right balance of discipline, but also making this fun enough that the children become more eager to learn. Just seeing him being able to make them laugh without a fuss warms my heart.
damn we need more passionate teachers like this in the education industry :")
I’ve always had trouble with female teachers all through my school years but I’ve had 4 male teachers who I connected so easily with and they made school so much better for me , they were the sweetest and the most caring teachers I’ve met
Over here the male teachers are usually more chill, fun and laid back compared to the female teachers. One reason why my high school life was good was because it was 50-50 men and women teaching my class. So we had a good balance of fun and work.
Maybe it's partly due to the fact that males have to deal w/ the negative stigma, so you know that the ones who decide to deal w/ the suspicions, rumours about them, and maybe potential harrassment, probably have to be quite motivated about the job
What a great loving and kind heart he has for his job, the kids and himself. He will go far. ❤
Hey seems like such an amazing person with a beautiful and kind heart. Need more teachers like him in the world.
Teacher: You want to flood the whole school???
Child: Yeah! So we can go swimming!
Lmfao
RRREEEEAAAALLLLLYYY
Savage
That Dude has got some Cajones.. Not many men have the guts or patience to try this job as the Stigma is too huge
People underestimate how kids can be hardcore. Lool
He's got furniture drawers?
Its Cojones... *B I G C O J O N E S*
Perfect match to heal each other emotionally. Children need papa figure, teacher provide his real love for children.
2 years ago a parent changed ended a private tutoring assignment with me after they found out I was a guy tutoring their daughter. If you think pre school is bad, try private tutoring.
im a male teacher teaching at a primary school. i also feel his pain about being close with the kids but not too close. a lot of the kids i teach hardly see their dads and i end up being like a substitute. parents look for me for advice even though im not married or have children but i have ten years experience teaching kids. on the whole touching kids too is the same for me. the kids come to me but i never go to them. when they change i look away or say i dont care about them naked or say hurry and get dressed. certaih kids are very touchy but some kids are not. but i have the same rule, never touch the kids or especially be in a room alone with a kid to not get any suspicion. im proud to see a teacher like this guy
Also an elementary teacher. My rule is that I will never ask/offer a child a hug, but if they ask for one then I will give it. My reasoning is that I have no idea why that child feels they need a hug (they may never get hugs at home, they may be having a particularly bad day, one of their loved ones may have recently passed away, etc.) and I won't let bullshit perceptions keep me from helping that child.
This world does not diserve this humble man.
Y Do You Even doesn’t deserve but need
Y Do You Even it does .. the world still stands because of a handful of good souls.. we shouldn’t refrain from being one... peace and love 🌷😊
There are good people all over the world. There are teachers everywhere.
Male figures in childhood are waaaaaay too underrated nowdays
Feeling blessed..Thank you Anna ( elder brother in my language) for being such a wonderful person..Be blessed always ...love and blessings to everyone associated..
A male can teach preschool and shouldn't be judged. Kids need male influences also.
Its really sad that he is perceived like this just because of his gender.Gender does not reveal the nature of a person.WTH
Weird Leftist feminist twist. WeirdChamp
@@benisjamin6583 Weirdchamper Dansgame
@@benisjamin6583 Feminism is a completely different concept, it is about closing the gap between genders so things like male pre-school teachers and female firefighters can be normalised.
I don't see nothing strange here, most of my teachers were males, most of them super funny, comprehensive, strict too but always kind.
This is just beautiful.
Such a beautiful story! I am so glad he found his calling.
Male teachers have it so hard because sometimes we really want to comfort the kids. I admire his resolution to set guidelines
Lobert sounds like a singaporean auntie trying to say robert
Hahahha that's funny!
Well his real name was Robert but he changed it to Lorbert bcs ppl find its hard to pronounce that way
spot on HAHAHAH
*singaporean chinese auntie haha
😂😂😂😂😂
This is so wholesome. Thank you for sharing his story! ♥
People forget that women can be just as much of a predator as males can be. Just because your a female doesn't mean that you're a God. And just because you are a male doesn't mean you are a predator.
the society is such :)
We need more male teacher. I don't know why there is prejudice against male teacher
People knew something wrong with their connections with other men,
Admitting male can also do sensitive and caring jobs would invoke all problems to come to the surface,
(Like lack of communication, intimate interactions, emotional exchange, etc)
So they would better avoid that
It's really encouraged in the U.S. ..at least with my experience while being in community college and university.. teachers, directors, and professors always encouraged me back then T.T and I was always grateful.. It's press upon how there are children who may not have the male role model at home, so males are encouraged to try the career or are welcome.. which is a beautiful thing and a great purpose to have when thinking of a career..unfortunately though.. being a preschool teacher or teacher in California may not be appealing also due to financial stability or security.. LA rent can be really expensive... so yea..
It's funny, when it comes to teachers at least here in the US, there are far far more scandals with female teachers then the male ones! So many predatory women in the industry, especially in middle school,jr high and high school.
@@hoodieboy1515 Not in American elementary and middle schools though. Parents have openly admitted that they personally don't feel comfortable letting the little ones alone with a male figure that's not their father.