*Note: What I didn't say/show you (b/c I jumped the timeline to bring you this in real time) is that I've been to 4 tire shops over this issue in just two weeks! **Here's the T-Shirt I showed: bit.ly/3m2Ic91
That's so "What would she know, she's a woman" ugh. Maybe it would help to have a female mechanic to talk to the tire shop person. That way she can let them have it if they want to question what she knows. I'm sorry you had such a terrible time with this. Please don't take this the wrong way, I'd rather your day goes well but it is nice to have someone keep it real.
I spent Friday at the garage! I just happened to be in Green Bay when my car started to beep. So I went to the garage. The first 3 guys said make an appointment. To come back it was a 3 hour drive. I really didn't think it was too big a deal. But hours of beep, beep, beep would of drove me mad. The 4th guy asked what he could do to help me. We fiqured it out ! I had a lpad on the seat. It set off the seat belt alarm. It's hard to imagine something that was only a few ounces could do that, but it did. What I learned is only 1 out of 4 men are worth talking to! I hope you have a better week! 😎
Count your blessings. Nice day, safe area, spare fully inflated, plenty of time. Honestly, it doesn’t get better than this. And in the back of my mind, I see this as an opportunity to teach others. Your moment of disappointment with the flat is a massive benefit for the rest of us. So thank you!
Good to meet you today at The Tire Shop in Hancock! You and your puppy are awesome. Thanks for staying in the Keweenaw Peninsula! We're glad to have you and we welcome all of your subscribers (which I am now myself).
Ya know,Carolyn,sometimes life sucks in the sticks and bricks also….it’s just one of those days…don’t sweat the travel videos,what you’re doing is called real life! Your videos far much better than keeping up with the Khardashians…
Love your vid. You aren’t the only one who’s over the challenges. You feel like ranting, rant. It’s your channel. Post whatever you want regardless if someone gets butthurt over your opinion or rant.
My mom taught me a great lesson when she had her bad days fighting her cancer. I always wanted to make things better for her, but how can you make things better when in reality the pain was unbearable? You can't. You just need to be yourself and let it out. Once you realize sharing how you truly feel brings out the best in us. We can all relate with how we feel. Once I started accepting how my mom felt, I began to start healing myself. Our feelings makes us who we are.
What beautiful advice you've given. Your mother was a strong women with much wisdom. I know it's difficult to not have your mother with you but you will see her again, beautiful and healthy, before cancer robbed her of her life. You have your memories of your mother to hold dear to you now and no one can take that from you. God bless you
Dear Carolyn, loyal long-time subscriber, born when Ike was president, and educated mostly by school of hard knocks. Forgive me for saying, this was a great moment in your life. In the act of overcoming adversity you became stronger, you brought us along with you and we became stronger too. I hope you realize the impact you have on are lives. In reality most of us live in a bubble, your nomadic adventures are outside of most of are reality. This is true, raw life on the road. I should know haven't lived in sticks and bricks more than thirty years. Thankyou for sharing your life with us, remember THE WORLD BELONGS TO THE BRAVE!
Happened onto your channel, and LOVE that you are keeping it real, with yourself, with your viewers, and sharing your true thoughts and feelings as life unfolds without soft-soaping anything. You even show REAL travel and living conditions. It's a bit of fresh air in these kind of videos and I appreciate the hell out of it! Also, I want to tell you how much you are NOT alone in feeling like just about the time you make a little headway, life seems to slap you down, and sometimes HARD! It's almost like someone is up there saying, "Uh-uh. Don't even THINK about getting comfortable because there's more where this came from!" or worse, "Haha! Fooled you again! I can't believe you fall for it every single time!" Fall for what, right? That comfy feeling that maybe you've found a modicum of safety and consistency in the world, that you've gained some wisdom along the way and have learned to trust and respect yourself the way you want others to, fallen for life gently whispering, "It's okay now. You can trust me." And so we do, slowly, courageously, letting the hard edges soften, and letting go to the randomness of life, with the unspoken understanding that, even though things may not make any kind of sense now, there really is some kind of synchronicity to it all. Just about the time we let your guard down, BLAM, dead center in the middle of another shit storm! It's hard, exasperating, it feels cruel, and even soul crushing. But just as real is the inescapable truth that, EVENTUALLY, everything always works out. I mean, you wouldn't be on the road posting videos if all those other seemingly unsurvivable moments of complete and utter chaos didn't eventually resolve. Whoever said, "This too shall pass," wasn't kidding, because it's true. Hanging on long enough to get there is the real challenge, and believing against all hope, in the face of every sign to the contrary, that whatever it is that's falling apart, it's going to get better and be okay again. Everything always works out somewhere along the way... one way or another. And part of the pay off for all the hard times you've seen in your life is your ability to recognize and experience the flip side of life in ways that some just can't and never will. You know the value of a simple pleasure, the indescribable beauty of a flower, or a bird, or a forest,. The joy of watching Sadie run, and hunt, and swim and play ball is real. A gentle breeze, making it through a cold night or staying cool on a scorching day, and the oddly peaceful calm that often accompanies a thunderous storm are all parts of life you have access to in ways other don't and, sadly probably never will. It's hard to appreciate a beautiful day if it's the only thing you've ever known, or to appreciate sobriety unless you've struggled with addiction. You get to enjoy your successes to a greater degree BECAUSE you've come through all the so-called failures. Don't second guess yourself for serving up some truth and reality to us consumers, seasoned so beautifully with introspection and equal parts history and presence. It ain't nothin' but a GOOD thang!
I just wanted to hug you. Some days ,usually when we are tired or worn down, things bad things happen. But then we pick ourselves up , roar loudly and conquer! You did amazing.
Carolyn I admire your bravery and tenacity. I’m sorry you had such a bad day but you at least tried to fix it. You did very well! I love watching your videos!!
I've lived in Harlem, NYC my entire life and honestly had no idea what "van life" was until recently, so coming across your channel has been delightful! I won't say that I thought it was easy, but as somoene who can't even drive a car, I never considered all the work that goes into maintaining an RV. I loved how honest (and hilarious) you were about the entire situation. I'm so glad you were able to get it fixed and get it safely back on the road. This might not have been the video you wanted to make, but it was the one you needed to!
Just a tip incase this ever happens again, with duel wheels you can drive the inner tire onto your levelers and you don’t need a jack. With the inner tire on the levels the outer tire is easy to remove.
Hey, what a great rant! HAHAHA! Yes, frequently repair shops will not listen to the customers pesky details, that could help them find the solution faster. Have had similar experiences, and I am a pretty good DYI mechanic. Tough to find a good shop, especially when on the road! Here's the deal....what did you learn about flat tire experience? What will you do different next time, to achieve a better outcome? First, you have 2 rear tires. So drive out to some stable ground BEFORE you jack the rig. If it's the front tire, compressor up best as possible, then get to stable ground! ALWAYS, STABLE GROUND! You drop that rig wrong, you may have even more to repair! Kids, and pets, must be calm inside. If not, keep them plenty far away and well occupied to prevent additional headaches. ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS put the waiting spare under the lowest axle/frame area BEFORE you jack, for safety. IF the rig comes off the jack, less likely to hit the ground. AND you might not be crushed! AND quickly exchange the good spare with the bad tire, for the same safety. Think about mounting the spare on the outside. There are spare carriers that can mount in the trailer hitch reciever. (Be sure to lock the carrier and wheel.) Always carry a tire repair kit. And PRACTICE a repair on some crap tire. Know how hard it is to use. Same with the compressor. (Yeah, not sure condom will be the proper rubber compound to plug the tire hole. HAHAHA!) Consider investing in a better jack.? Maybe an electric lug wrench/or very high torque battery powered? Definitely buy a 3 foot breaker bar and correct socket for the wheel lugs. If not, buy a 3 foot piece of pipe that fits over your T wrench, for better leverage. Get some WHEEL BLOCKS to prevent the rig from moving, big rocks and logs may not be readily available. Quantity of 6, 1.5"x6"X6" wood blocks for a safer bottle jack platform. Buy a cheap moving blanket at Harbor Freight to lay/work on. AND a set of proper fit work gloves are great to have ready. Use your leveler blocks (or rescue planks)to roll the heavy wheel into place, don't get injured lifting. Try to keep the tire emergency stuff in one compartment location. Plan a regular "rig refit" every 6 months to review all emergency contents, and update as necessary your safety items. Best date...every time the clock change ("daylight saving"). Regarding the valve stem, inner tire especially....you "off road", you may get rocks/tree branches that get between the wheels and crack the inner long hard valve stem. Suggest that you have the inner valve stems replaced with flexible line. AND when the valve stems are replaced, ask for special specific service, and tell them add $10/wheel for their time. Give them a can of fast dry white primer spray paint (Krylon is good brand), and 100 grit sandpaper. Have them sand the inside of the wheel hole where the stem is mounted. Then paint it, 10 minutes dry before valve stem install, remount of the tire. . Older wheels frequently develop inner wheel rust at the valve stem, and bead seat area, thus even new tires will not seat/seal well. I have several older cars/ wheels, so paid the $ to have them powder coat painted before the new tires. Now no leaks. With all of your blessed experience. ...at the next RTR, host a class, using their (your) rig (or similar), to let people practice changing their tire. HINT: Mark/clean and paint the jack points so you are ready for the real deal. AND, sometimes putting on snow chains/chain fitment/repairs requires jacking the rig! You may save a limb, or life. (Think of it like Red Cross advanced first aid/CPR.) Detours in life happen to everyone. Practice "hands on" experience BEFORE the event can often reduce your anxiety, stress, and expenses. Knowing how to operate in vehicle "limp mode" can turn a misfortune into another simple adventure.
OMG! Maybe it wasn’t the video you had planned. But this was one of the most helpful videos you have made….at least for me. I’ve been through the tire stem experience too. Dealt with the tire guys who think they know, but don’t. I’ve had to do everything on my own for so long now. Usually it involves me trying my best, wearing myself out, cussing, crying, giving up. Then having a cup of tea and trying again. And I usually succeed. Those days are brutal. So I thank you for letting me know I am not alone. I am reminded of the time I had a hot water heater replaced in my house. It was in my cellar. The installers put in the heater but said they couldn’t remove the old heater…because there was no drain in the cellar. I was supposed to just live with an old 40 gallon water heater down there. Fine! I actually took a video of myself emptying out the old heater with a hose into a bucket. Showed the video to the workers supervisor. I said I may not be a licensed plumber, but I can figure out how to drain a water heater into a bucket and empty the bucket. The next day the same workers were back in my cellar removing that old water heater. And they were very meek and mild mannered. I’ll admit that now that I’m older I’m not doing it all myself anymore. I don’t go too far off the beaten path. I like places with good cell service. And I have a few options for roadside assistance. I’m getting too old for dealing with the bull shit.
I am so sorry for the trauma ☹️. "A woman's the man for the job", but we also have to know when to get help. Since I am single, I have AAA. Cheaper than a husband 😉
@@koreyb With my insurance co, you call who you want and get towed, pay for the tow, and the insurance company reimburses you for a specific amount of the tow. Like $80?
Hi Ms Carolyn Eric here, I hope this helps 🙂 The next time you're near a Harbor Freight pick yourself up a set of Jack Stands 2 should be under $25 bucks 👍👍there easy to set up and then just let your Jack back down just enough for your RV to be touching all 3, jack and Jack Stands 🙂, I am 59 now but once when I was a young man pulled a friend from under the car he was working on just before it slipped to the ground, I will never forget that. Jack Stands don't take up any storage space and you will never feel safer. I have always wanted to do what you do, but for now still driving this truck OTR, Owell, Don't give up,be safe my friend and happy travel's 😊
You keep it real Carolyn and that's why I watch your videos....I just started my RV full time in May and you show us, the good, bad & ugly of RV life. Keep on keeping on! Sorry for your day...Love you💜
These things can surely be stressful. Sometimes you need a sense of humor in life! Not always easy! I've always appreciated your authenticity Carolyn. Love the T-shirt. ;)
Carolyyn, loosening the lug nuts first it the correct way to go. Even with the emergency brake on, sometimes the lug nuts are so tight that it will spin the wheel anyway. God, what a nightmare! So sorry that you endured that. Anyway, now you know that you can handle that kind of crisis, and you'll know what to do next time (God forbid!)
@edward nielsen Yeah, as much as I'd like to be able to change a tire myself, I know I don't have the arm muscle to do it, darn it. Sometime we have to choose our battles...
I agree with loosen first on the ground who ever didn't agree with that wasn't a women trying to loosen those air wrench nuts. Carolyn your day was just a bump in the road. I'll have a beer for you, you deserve one :)
Yes loosening lug nuts first is the way to go before jacking it up. Also invest in a good air compressor. Learned my lesson when I had my camper. I also had multiple jacks.
Really enjoyed this video. It made me realize I should fight to be true to myself and fight more when I know I'm right instead of let others talk me into what they think is right.
My on-going struggle: to stand up for myself in an effective way when my tendency is to avoid conflict until I get so angry I just go mad-dog (and called bitch because I am a woman)! I can so relate to what happened to you. Hang in there, Carolyn!
Any time I'm called a bitch, I feel SOOOO proud of myself! Usually its because I stood up for something or for myself when others were trying to tear me down for no good reason other than they thought they could. I want a t-shirt that declares "Assertive Bitch and EXCEPTIONALLY PROUD of it".
No woman is a "Karen" for standing up for herself or voicing a complaint. It's HOW she says it and what inevitably gets thrown in there to somehow legitimize her rage. In other words, it's not about sending your steak back, it's sending it back, pointing out your server's ethnicity and/or ability to speak English, telling them to go back where they came from, and casting aspersions about their political leanings so she can blame them for everything wrong in America. THAT'S a "Karen"!
Carolyn, my hubby was just saying today was a sucky day. He lost his phone, we can't find it anywhere and he fell down the step and scraped both knees and an elbow. But watching your video really brought things into perspective. It's always something in this nomadic life. I think the rigs just throw things at us to keep us busy and less bored, lol! You had me laughing by the end of the video, that t-shirt is priceless! You were doing so well changing the tire on your own. Kudos for trying it all on your own (that young guy was a douche for telling you to drive on 3 rear tires!). I hope it all worked out for you, keep listening to your gut it will never steer you wrong. Keep your chin up, at least you didn't fall down the stairs and lose your phone like hubby did, lol!
You had a pretty rough day. I'm usually a quick thinker and can oftentimes look at situations logically, but sometimes I just cannot. When I'm stressed and crazy things are happening, it's easy to get caught up in someone else's energy. Give yourself some grace...you deserve it.
It took me 2 days to decide van life is not for me! I made it to my destination and sold it and bought a car! Never looked back! Give yourself a break…you’re doing a great job living life on the edge! 💕
@@Breckgirl-sw3zo First off it was a heat wave and I had no ac. But even more than that I just couldn’t handle the not knowing where I’d sleep every night and worrying about having enough propane and making sure the batteries were charged and getting water. It was too much uncertainty for me to be comfortable and enjoy the scenery. I could live in a tiny space, just not constantly moving. I still enjoy watching Carolyn’s adventures! She’s amazing!
Carolyn, thank you for the honesty. So many full time rvers make life sound like it's all sweetness and light while traveling in an RV. Then when something like this happens I feel like I'm the only screw-up out there. Don't worry about the travel videos..to me videos like this are so much more important!! Keep up the good work
Your honesty is so refreshing. Every woman, young and old, has heard the 'Believe me, it will be okay' line from men. Don't believe them! Believe in yourself, always. I know, good to say, but hard to do. Hugs to you and Sadie.
My Altima that I had built out and went to AZ to camp for 2 weeks with Bob and Suanne last January broke down as soon as I got back to Alabama. I cane back to sell everything and be a permanent nomad. I Put it in the shop for a month. Finally got it back and had it a week and it broke down again. Had to have it towed back to garage. It's been three weeks now and they can't figure it out. I'm looking for a van but have to have my car for a trade it at least. All my hard work putting solar..house battery...dcdc charger...1000 watt inverter will have to be taken out. I refuse to just let it go with it. In the meantime the heat was killing me so being off grid I had to get a generator to run a small AC. I wasn't able to pull start it because my hands are crippled from RA. SOOOOO I had to get another bigger generator with an electric start and of course that one was much more expensive and uses twice as much gas but at least the dogs and I aren't having heat strokes. So my down payment is gone and did I mention I'm disabled and live on $1000 a month? Some days I feel I can't make it but I'm determined not to die in this shit hole state. I look at my dogs and tell them we aren't going to give up. So I know I know I know exactly how you feel. I started falling apart at 50 and I'm 59 now. Hang in there...we Will have better days. See ya down the road!
I have a set plus one spare of BF Goodrich 10ply tires waiting for me. My last were 8 ply & didn't hold up to the weight of my RV & it's contents as well. I am fixing to order a decent tire plug kit too. Had a cheap one, it was garbage. I got a decent compressor several months ago. My old one died. I'm trying to be as self sufficient as possible, but like you, I may not have quite the strength needed. Hmmmm....a good torque wrench may be in order too. That would save some muscle & grief! All in all, things generally work out, but the stress & grief during that time period can be overwhelming. You did good.
Yes, it's good to know if you have the actual muscle for the job, otherwise phone it in. No shame in that & saves a lot of hassle in the long run. Guess a good rule of thumb for such situations is to ask yourself just that: Is the amount of $ saved worth the DIY hassle, especially if you're not 100% up for the job?
Omg, even though your day was horrible, I’m laughing my butt off at the last three minutes of this video. I literally laughed out loud. You were so funny. Hopefully, you were blessed with a good night’s sleep. Good thing we can start each day anew.
When I first drove a dually and then put an inflation extension, same thing happened. Apparently stress on extension can cause the valve to split. Had to figure out how to secure it in a no stress position.
@@celestepalm6949 She actually did even better by installing metal valve stems so it is no longer an issue. When you have dualys....two tires together, it is near impossible to check or inflate the inner tire without putting an extension on to bring access out to the "street" That extension can whip around if not secured, put undue pressure on valve stem by bending it etc. You can see the extension at 0:03 at about 7-8 o'clock on the wheel.
Carolyn, I am 66 years old. A widow of 9 years. My problem is I stick up for myself after being screwed by so many contractors. Now no one screws me over. I make enemies but I stick up for myself. You stuck up for yourself. I am proud of you and you added some niceness by giving a tip. And Carolyn, your life is no different from any of us. Your experience would be exactly what I would experience trying to change a RV 50 lb tire (I would never attempt this) but the fact you tried is a bonus. Better days ahead.
I'm 66 and still don't always speak my mind, (sorry guys) but if you were a man I truly believe things would have went how they should of and the tire would have been put back without asking. I am very proud of you for getting the tire off, and oh so happy Sadie was safe and you too.
Yes if she were a man they would have been patting each other on the back, and saying what great ideas ,they came up with to do the job right, blah blah blah😂
I could totally relate to so many parts of this day in your life. Most of us have had those sort of interactions with disrespectful, dismissive mechanics. And of course you wanted to handle it yourself. Good for you for trying. The t-shirt is a hoot! Thanks for your honesty and humor. And rest well to fight the good fight another day!
Great tip on loosening the lug nuts before using the jack. I have had to do this too as the garage put them on so tight with the hydrolic tool that even jumping on the cross bar tool wouldnt shift it.
On another page, people were recommending videos to a newbie. Someone mentioned you and another replied that, no, you usually prefer to be by yourself. I thought, F YEAH! That's how I want to be! At a retreat years ago, a guy wore a t-shirt that said Plays Well With Others. That's not me! I'm often unfit to be around other humans. So, yeah, great shirt! And Dogs Rock!
Always have new valve stems installed with new tires! My son is a mechanic and taught me that long ago. Any reputable tire service should do it without asking, but be sure to request if necessary. So sorry for your troubles. Hope the valve stem is the only problem. Those BFG's are great tires, I've used them for many years without problems. You've had so many tire troubles, my heart goes out to you, Carolyn.
I feel ya. I took on a big challenge recently at 66. Crying is okay, whining is okay, actually necessary at times.......then, you do pick yourself up and carry on. Love ya, Carolyn. Long time watcher, occasional commenter.
LOVE how your first (well, maybe second) instinct on discovering the leaking tire was to begin filming. YOU ARE AWESOME. Thank you for showing this in real time; it's what we need to see - how to face the stuff ( :) ) that happens.
I agree with the lady that said pay for $ AAA. In live in a mobile home and dealing with everyday problems seems too much for me. I'm a 76 year old widow and I dream about van living but now I just think I'm too old. I spent the last 5 years taking care of my 94 year old Mom. I think I missed my window of opportunity. ☺️♥️. God bless all you ladies out there doing it.
@@grannypat412 don't ever feel like you've lost an opportunity. You sound like you still have the desire to travel so go for it. Maybe you can find a companion who doesn't want to travel alone and both you ladies could venture the world together. God bless you with your endeavors
I just did that Sunday! Trouble is that could really bust down the other tire and you wouldn't know it. Luckily it was almost time for all new tires anyway. I drove about 15 miles with the inner one flat.
You rock trying to change an RV tire by yourself. Wowza! Inspirational. The hardest part of this video was listening to the very real fear in your voice when you were calling Sadie's name. :-( but appreciate you showing the realness of the situation you found yourself in. My sister has been on the road for five years and she said the worst part of it is when things break down and you have to deal with them. Lots of sweat and money and tears.
Carolyn, squirt some Armorall or STP "protectant" on your valve stems and let it sit for a few mins and wipe it off. Don't scrub it all off; leave a film on there for the rubber to absorb. It will keep them soft & flexible and stop them from dry rotting/cracking. Do it 3-4 times per year or whenever the rubber appears dry. I learned that same lesson with boat tire valve stems. Good luck.
I ‘m so glad you let us see the reality that it doesn’t always go the way you think it will or should . And to all the people that second guess what you did or do , they aren’t you and they weren’t there living the experience . You do the best you can with the tools and resources that you have at that time.
Because we're were raised is a different time, it's hard to learn new behaviors and stand up for ourselves. Thanks for your honesty, I don't feel so alone in this type of frustrations..
We are also finding out that RV life is not all roses, 3 months ago we blew our engine going up mountains in california, 2 months of Air B n B and cabins we got the RV back and $18K . 2 months later our slides failed so our RV is in storage waiting for the end of the month when we can get it fixed, so we know what RV living full time is all about but we still love it and I know you do to. The good times outweigh the bad, right? Thanks for sharing and sharing your vulnerability!
Life, oh no.. wow that's a lot. I'm sorry you're dealing with so much. Sounds like you're plowing through though. I hope things get better.. Yeah... some days just suck!
You did GREAT! This video is probably my FAVORITE! I started watching a couple years ago when I first started part-timing in my Class C and was desperate for tips. Still love the tips, but the emotional side of traveling alone, full or part time, is a challenge. Thanks for being real.
Ive learned to always "block up" under the jacked rig incase of a slip. Even leave the spare under, blocks or logs. Just so you can rejack and not get crushed incase of a jack failure or slip Love your channel btw. Keep up the work!
When I was in AA my sponsor continually talk to me about my will.She told me when I keep trying to do something and it keeps not working out I need to turn it over to a higher power what’re that may be. It always turned out one way or the other and a lot of times it was just changing the way I was looking at it.Anyway if you thought it was the stem your right you know you rig. I am amazed how well you are doing.You are actually a sweet person and that is a good thing. Thanks for being you!❤
Thank you for sharing. You have given courage to so many woman who have lost ourselves - we knew we were right, but let others take control. You showed us it is okay to whine, complain and then - eat a sandwich and pick ourselves up. Thank you!
Carolyn you are simply amazing, there are days when life ain’t great. But you are an example to all us. Thanks for sharing the down times, we all need a bit of reality to appreciate the marvellous, and the sense of freedom that you bring to our lives
I see a lot of growth going on here in this video!!! You go girl!!! Now the next time this happens you will be prepared and make your voice heard. No one should ever dismiss you!!! DO NOT UNDERVALUE YOURSELF!!!! Keep on making awesome videos!!! Glad Sadie did not get squished!!!
When it rains, it pours. Grateful that you are up and running. It’s the same in an RV or sticks&bricks. Hug Sadie and push on. You aren’t whining. Feeling are not right or wrong, they just “are”. Peace and happiness come from within! Smile😊. Thank you for sharing.
Ok. That sucked for you!! Sorry about the day, lady! I do have to say that I was laughing at times at your sass! Ha But irreverent humor is my fave, as you know. And unrelated but, even mad you look good in this video, actually! Haha Your hair looks super cute in every segment.
Yep, that's what I liked about you too was the irreverent humor!! thanks for the compliment. Did you catch the leaves and twigs in my hair in a couple shots? LOL
Carolyn, you were just overwhelmed. The young man was correct that it was o.k. to drive it on three rear wheels for just a short distance for the purposes of the repair needed. Please don't let the small things in life send your brain into a frenzy. It all turned out fine in the end. About your tires, have you weighed your vehicle recently to make sure you are not over weighing your vehicles capabilities?
@@probablynot1368 Yes, I am a full timer that uses a van in my life, but when I planned for this adventure four years ago I made sure that I purchased the most heavy duty van that was available to me for this reason. My Promaster 3500 still only has a 5000 lb. vehicle capacity and after my cabin style interior build, if I am not careful, it is not that difficult to max it out or even overload my own van. You must be frugal in the things you purchase and what goes into it. A lot of it is when something goes in, it's likely something must come out.
Take a little break from travel and get a tiny rental on a lake. Swim, sleep and read a great book. Never underestimate how much a little break from your normal can be!
Hi, You probably have it all sorted now ,but suggestions would be : A suitable trolley jack (capable of lifting camper weight ) Jack stands Blocks of wood Some thick plywood,big enough to roll the trolley jack on under the RV ,and some smaller pieces for the jack stands,plywood is easy to store Piece of pipe to use with that wheel brace,gives you more leverage Cans of tyre repair ,for when there is no other option A better compressor (off road 4x4 equipment is better Those plastic leveling ramps ,you can drive up on them to get height and the it's easy for the jack up as the RV is already up . To another tool is always handy,a Battery impact wrench,18 volt min , Milwaukee preffered,and the suitable impact sockets to match your wheels ,it would be worth the investment ,truly And if you have the space and weight carrying ability,another matching tyre and rim ,so you have two spares ,if you are out there in the wilderness etc it's really worth bing prepared. Hope you are all sorted and enjoying Cheers 🥂
You should have Jack stands to stabilize the vehicle after you raise it. This is a matter of safety. The Jack stand should be placed under the axle if possible. Glad you weren't hurt and Sadey is safe. Nice try.
What a GREAT lesson regarding the pup. I will remember to be sure to leash my fur ball when changing tires or any potentially dangerous fix. That was so frightening Carolyn! Be safe always!
I feel better now, commiserating with your pain as I’ve had some seriously challenging times lately too. Hang in there! Be true to yourself, as you know.
I was a cross-country, independent trucker for many years. My vehicle had 18 wheels and tires. If an inside duel is flat, and you don't have a really heavy load in your vehicle, you can drive slowly to a tire store without removing the inner flat tire. The outer duel tire will handle the weight. You should frequently stop and check the tires to make sure they aren't getting hot. You can also drive on just one duel tire safely in a pinch at lower speeds, provided your lug nuts are properly tightened. Never try to jack up a vehicle on a soft surface without support such as heavy, wide timbers under the jack to spread out the weight of the jack. They jack can shift, and you can be badly hurt. You were fortunate to not be near the vehicle when it happened. Two short sections of 2x6 or 2x8s will help. Put a second jack under the rear body to help distribute and support the vehicle body weight. I used timbers under the axel as a safety measure if the jack moved or failed. Move the vehicle to a more solid surface before loosening any lug nuts. When new tires are installed on your rims, it's a good idea to replace the valve stems if they are old.
Well shit, Carolyn, I feel so bad for you and wish I could just give you a hug! The one thing I wish you’d do is give yourself more credit and not be so hard on yourself!! You know what the hell you’re doing out there, it’s so obvious! You are a strong, intelligent woman and are admired by an awful lot of people! You also give us something that is vitally important in life…hope! Thank you for showing us the good AND bad of full time RV living! It sucks you’re presently living it and my heart totally goes out to you, but we all need to see how REAL life is out there! Heartfelt thanks for this video and things can only get better! Chin up my friend! Sending those healing hugs…
Carolyn, I'm so sorry you had such a shitty day. Thank you for your honesty, it lets so many of us know we're not alone. It's very refreshing. Love to you and sweet Sadie girl. ❤❤❤
*Note: What I didn't say/show you (b/c I jumped the timeline to bring you this in real time) is that I've been to 4 tire shops over this issue in just two weeks!
**Here's the T-Shirt I showed: bit.ly/3m2Ic91
Hi Carolyn someone needs to put a rubber guard around your valve stems so they quit chasing that’s your problem
@@cliftonphillips49 What is "chasing"?
Are all four doing this or only one? You have 4 "Newish" tires, right?
@@cliftonphillips49 I've heard that the braided valve stem extenders were problems waiting to happen.
That's so "What would she know, she's a woman" ugh. Maybe it would help to have a female mechanic to talk to the tire shop person. That way she can let them have it if they want to question what she knows. I'm sorry you had such a terrible time with this. Please don't take this the wrong way, I'd rather your day goes well but it is nice to have someone keep it real.
Won't let me place my order.
I spent Friday at the garage! I just happened to be in Green Bay when my car started to beep. So I went to the garage. The first 3 guys said make an appointment. To come back it was a 3 hour drive. I really didn't think it was too big a deal. But hours of beep, beep, beep would of drove me mad. The 4th guy asked what he could do to help me. We fiqured it out ! I had a lpad on the seat. It set off the seat belt alarm. It's hard to imagine something that was only a few ounces could do that, but it did. What I learned is only 1 out of 4 men are worth talking to! I hope you have a better week! 😎
lol terry😂
Count your blessings. Nice day, safe area, spare fully inflated, plenty of time. Honestly, it doesn’t get better than this. And in the back of my mind, I see this as an opportunity to teach others. Your moment of disappointment with the flat is a massive benefit for the rest of us. So thank you!
Thank you! I always hope to bring a learning lesson with my shared experiences.
Good to meet you today at The Tire Shop in Hancock! You and your puppy are awesome. Thanks for staying in the Keweenaw Peninsula! We're glad to have you and we welcome all of your subscribers (which I am now myself).
I think this video is far more helpful than just a travel video. Don’t stress about it. It’s great
Ya know,Carolyn,sometimes life sucks in the sticks and bricks also….it’s just one of those days…don’t sweat the travel videos,what you’re doing is called real life! Your videos far much better than keeping up with the Khardashians…
Amen to that!
😂 True 🤣
Love your vid. You aren’t the only one who’s over the challenges. You feel like ranting, rant. It’s your channel. Post whatever you want regardless if someone gets butthurt over your opinion or rant.
My mom taught me a great lesson when she had her bad days fighting her cancer. I always wanted to make things better for her, but how can you make things better when in reality the pain was unbearable? You can't. You just need to be yourself and let it out. Once you realize sharing how you truly feel brings out the best in us. We can all relate with how we feel. Once I started accepting how my mom felt, I began to start healing myself. Our feelings makes us who we are.
Amen!
So sorry about your mom. Sounds like a smart woman.
What beautiful advice you've given. Your mother was a strong women with much wisdom. I know it's difficult to not have your mother with you but you will see her again, beautiful and healthy, before cancer robbed her of her life. You have your memories of your mother to hold dear to you now and no one can take that from you. God bless you
Did your Mom live in North Portland, OR?
Dear Carolyn, loyal long-time subscriber, born when Ike was president, and educated mostly by school of hard knocks. Forgive me for saying, this was a great moment in your life. In the act of overcoming adversity you became stronger, you brought us along with you and we became stronger too. I hope you realize the impact you have on are lives. In reality most of us live in a bubble, your nomadic adventures are outside of most of are reality. This is true, raw life on the road. I should know haven't lived in sticks and bricks more than thirty years. Thankyou for sharing your life with us, remember THE WORLD BELONGS TO THE BRAVE!
Thank you James.
Happened onto your channel, and LOVE that you are keeping it real, with yourself, with your viewers, and sharing your true thoughts and feelings as life unfolds without soft-soaping anything. You even show REAL travel and living conditions. It's a bit of fresh air in these kind of videos and I appreciate the hell out of it! Also, I want to tell you how much you are NOT alone in feeling like just about the time you make a little headway, life seems to slap you down, and sometimes HARD! It's almost like someone is up there saying, "Uh-uh. Don't even THINK about getting comfortable because there's more where this came from!" or worse, "Haha! Fooled you again! I can't believe you fall for it every single time!" Fall for what, right? That comfy feeling that maybe you've found a modicum of safety and consistency in the world, that you've gained some wisdom along the way and have learned to trust and respect yourself the way you want others to, fallen for life gently whispering, "It's okay now. You can trust me." And so we do, slowly, courageously, letting the hard edges soften, and letting go to the randomness of life, with the unspoken understanding that, even though things may not make any kind of sense now, there really is some kind of synchronicity to it all. Just about the time we let your guard down, BLAM, dead center in the middle of another shit storm! It's hard, exasperating, it feels cruel, and even soul crushing. But just as real is the inescapable truth that, EVENTUALLY, everything always works out. I mean, you wouldn't be on the road posting videos if all those other seemingly unsurvivable moments of complete and utter chaos didn't eventually resolve. Whoever said, "This too shall pass," wasn't kidding, because it's true. Hanging on long enough to get there is the real challenge, and believing against all hope, in the face of every sign to the contrary, that whatever it is that's falling apart, it's going to get better and be okay again. Everything always works out somewhere along the way... one way or another. And part of the pay off for all the hard times you've seen in your life is your ability to recognize and experience the flip side of life in ways that some just can't and never will. You know the value of a simple pleasure, the indescribable beauty of a flower, or a bird, or a forest,. The joy of watching Sadie run, and hunt, and swim and play ball is real. A gentle breeze, making it through a cold night or staying cool on a scorching day, and the oddly peaceful calm that often accompanies a thunderous storm are all parts of life you have access to in ways other don't and, sadly probably never will. It's hard to appreciate a beautiful day if it's the only thing you've ever known, or to appreciate sobriety unless you've struggled with addiction. You get to enjoy your successes to a greater degree BECAUSE you've come through all the so-called failures. Don't second guess yourself for serving up some truth and reality to us consumers, seasoned so beautifully with introspection and equal parts history and presence. It ain't nothin' but a GOOD thang!
I just wanted to hug you. Some days ,usually when we are tired or worn down, things bad things happen. But then we pick ourselves up , roar loudly and conquer! You did amazing.
Carolyn I admire your bravery and tenacity. I’m sorry you had such a bad day but you at least tried to fix it. You did very well! I love watching your videos!!
Thank you Annie!
I've lived in Harlem, NYC my entire life and honestly had no idea what "van life" was until recently, so coming across your channel has been delightful! I won't say that I thought it was easy, but as somoene who can't even drive a car, I never considered all the work that goes into maintaining an RV. I loved how honest (and hilarious) you were about the entire situation. I'm so glad you were able to get it fixed and get it safely back on the road. This might not have been the video you wanted to make, but it was the one you needed to!
Just a tip incase this ever happens again, with duel wheels you can drive the inner tire onto your levelers and you don’t need a jack. With the inner tire on the levels the outer tire is easy to remove.
OMGosh. I am so glad that you explained that to us. I hope I never have to use that remedy but I thank you.
Done it more than a few times. 👍
The inner tire was the one that was flat.
Not too bright.. Eh? It's the inner that's flat. Will only work if the outer is flat.
Thanks for the tip!
Thanks!
Thank you so much Splash, I appreciate the tip!
Hey, what a great rant! HAHAHA!
Yes, frequently repair shops will not listen to the customers pesky details, that could help them find the solution faster. Have had similar experiences, and I am a pretty good DYI mechanic. Tough to find a good shop, especially when on the road!
Here's the deal....what did you learn about flat tire experience?
What will you do different next time, to achieve a better outcome?
First, you have 2 rear tires. So drive out to some stable ground BEFORE you jack the rig. If it's the front tire, compressor up best as possible, then get to stable ground!
ALWAYS, STABLE GROUND!
You drop that rig wrong, you may have even more to repair! Kids, and pets, must be calm inside. If not, keep them plenty far away and well occupied to prevent additional headaches.
ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS put the waiting spare under the lowest axle/frame area BEFORE you jack, for safety.
IF the rig comes off the jack, less likely to hit the ground. AND you might not be crushed!
AND quickly exchange the good spare with the bad tire, for the same safety.
Think about mounting the spare on the outside. There are spare carriers that can mount in the trailer hitch reciever. (Be sure to lock the carrier and wheel.)
Always carry a tire repair kit. And PRACTICE a repair on some crap tire. Know how hard it is to use. Same with the compressor.
(Yeah, not sure condom will be the proper rubber compound to plug the tire hole. HAHAHA!)
Consider investing in a better jack.? Maybe an electric lug wrench/or very high torque battery powered?
Definitely buy a 3 foot breaker bar and correct socket for the wheel lugs. If not, buy a 3 foot piece of pipe that fits over your T wrench, for better leverage.
Get some WHEEL BLOCKS to prevent the rig from moving, big rocks and logs may not be readily available.
Quantity of 6, 1.5"x6"X6" wood blocks for a safer bottle jack platform.
Buy a cheap moving blanket at Harbor Freight to lay/work on. AND a set of proper fit work gloves are great to have ready.
Use your leveler blocks (or rescue planks)to roll the heavy wheel into place, don't get injured lifting.
Try to keep the tire emergency stuff in one compartment location.
Plan a regular "rig refit" every 6 months to review all emergency contents, and update as necessary your safety items. Best date...every time the clock change ("daylight saving").
Regarding the valve stem, inner tire especially....you "off road", you may get rocks/tree branches that get between the wheels and crack the inner long hard valve stem. Suggest that you have the inner valve stems replaced with flexible line.
AND when the valve stems are replaced, ask for special specific service, and tell them add $10/wheel for their time.
Give them a can of fast dry white primer spray paint (Krylon is good brand), and 100 grit sandpaper. Have them sand the inside of the wheel hole where the stem is mounted. Then paint it, 10 minutes dry before valve stem install, remount of the tire.
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Older wheels frequently develop inner wheel rust at the valve stem, and bead seat area, thus even new tires will not seat/seal well.
I have several older cars/ wheels, so paid the $ to have them powder coat painted before the new tires. Now no leaks.
With all of your blessed experience. ...at the next RTR, host a class, using their (your) rig (or similar), to let people practice changing their tire.
HINT: Mark/clean and paint the jack points so you are ready for the real deal.
AND, sometimes putting on snow chains/chain fitment/repairs requires jacking the rig!
You may save a limb, or life. (Think of it like Red Cross advanced first aid/CPR.)
Detours in life happen to everyone.
Practice "hands on" experience BEFORE the event can often reduce your anxiety, stress, and expenses.
Knowing how to operate in vehicle "limp mode" can turn a misfortune into another simple adventure.
The boards you use under the jack need to be at least as large as your leveling blocks.
Great info 👍
Great info 👍
Carolyn this is gold standard advice. Don't lose it. Good luck and safe travelling.
That is _amazing_ tire change technique advice! Thank you!!
OMG! Maybe it wasn’t the video you had planned. But this was one of the most helpful videos you have made….at least for me. I’ve been through the tire stem experience too. Dealt with the tire guys who think they know, but don’t. I’ve had to do everything on my own for so long now. Usually it involves me trying my best, wearing myself out, cussing, crying, giving up. Then having a cup of tea and trying again. And I usually succeed. Those days are brutal. So I thank you for letting me know I am not alone.
I am reminded of the time I had a hot water heater replaced in my house. It was in my cellar. The installers put in the heater but said they couldn’t remove the old heater…because there was no drain in the cellar. I was supposed to just live with an old 40 gallon water heater down there. Fine! I actually took a video of myself emptying out the old heater with a hose into a bucket. Showed the video to the workers supervisor. I said I may not be a licensed plumber, but I can figure out how to drain a water heater into a bucket and empty the bucket. The next day the same workers were back in my cellar removing that old water heater. And they were very meek and mild mannered.
I’ll admit that now that I’m older I’m not doing it all myself anymore. I don’t go too far off the beaten path. I like places with good cell service. And I have a few options for roadside assistance. I’m getting too old for dealing with the bull shit.
Thank you Mary. It's a great reminder for us all that we aren't alone. Stay fierce and free!
I am so sorry for the trauma ☹️. "A woman's the man for the job", but we also have to know when to get help. Since I am single, I have AAA. Cheaper than a husband 😉
Amen
@@koreyb With my insurance co, you call who you want and get towed, pay for the tow, and the insurance company reimburses you for a specific amount of the tow. Like $80?
Even for a mechanic triple a is a no-brainer ☯️🙏
AAA RV and Good Sam. - depends on where you are but this old lady doesn’t try to do things that I don’t have the strength to do. 😂
AAA has saved me several times. Well worth the money!
Thank you for being real. Most of the rv life channels are just smiles and sunshine. You show the real side of life on the road.
Hey Carolyn, this IS a travel video! Life gets in the way sometimes. Your innovation and persistence are commendable. Thanks!
Thank you Peter. Hoping everyone can learn and know they aren't alone in life's challenges.
Hi Ms Carolyn Eric here, I hope this helps 🙂 The next time you're near a Harbor Freight pick yourself up a set of Jack Stands 2 should be under $25 bucks 👍👍there easy to set up and then just let your Jack back down just enough for your RV to be touching all 3, jack and Jack Stands 🙂, I am 59 now but once when I was a young man pulled a friend from under the car he was working on just before it slipped to the ground, I will never forget that. Jack Stands don't take up any storage space and you will never feel safer. I have always wanted to do what you do, but for now still driving this truck OTR, Owell, Don't give up,be safe my friend and happy travel's 😊
You keep it real Carolyn and that's why I watch your videos....I just started my RV full time in May and you show us, the good, bad & ugly of RV life. Keep on keeping on! Sorry for your day...Love you💜
These things can surely be stressful. Sometimes you need a sense of humor in life! Not always easy! I've always appreciated your authenticity Carolyn. Love the T-shirt. ;)
Carolyyn, loosening the lug nuts first it the correct way to go. Even with the emergency brake on, sometimes the lug nuts are so tight that it will spin the wheel anyway.
God, what a nightmare! So sorry that you endured that. Anyway, now you know that you can handle that kind of crisis, and you'll know what to do next time (God forbid!)
I thought so. Someone told me once I was doing it wrong by doing it that way. Probably some troll on a video or something. LOL
@edward nielsen Yeah, as much as I'd like to be able to change a tire myself, I know I don't have the arm muscle to do it, darn it. Sometime we have to choose our battles...
I agree with loosen first on the ground who ever didn't agree with that wasn't a women trying to loosen those air wrench nuts. Carolyn your day was just a bump in the road. I'll have a beer for you, you deserve one :)
Yes loosening lug nuts first is the way to go before jacking it up. Also invest in a good air compressor. Learned my lesson when I had my camper. I also had multiple jacks.
Carolyn never forget how far you have come. You will have more 'crappy' days but you will continue to grow. Thanks for sharing.
Love the raw honesty. Peace, love and go have fun with yourself! x
I found your channel about a month ago and have been binge watching. I really like you, Carolyn. You are very real and I LOVE IT!! Thanks for sharing.
Really enjoyed this video. It made me realize I should fight to be true to myself and fight more when I know I'm right instead of let others talk me into what they think is right.
I love your attitude ! You ARE real, and that is why I watch you. Love you Carolyn!
Thank you!
So sorry for the rough patch. But I believe you are so strong, and you always survive, so thanks for keepin' it real, as always.
We agree. Sometimes it sucks. Most RUclipsrs only show the great times. You are real and Thanks for that!
My on-going struggle: to stand up for myself in an effective way when my tendency is to avoid conflict until I get so angry I just go mad-dog (and called bitch because I am a woman)! I can so relate to what happened to you. Hang in there, Carolyn!
Any time I'm called a bitch, I feel SOOOO proud of myself! Usually its because I stood up for something or for myself when others were trying to tear me down for no good reason other than they thought they could. I want a t-shirt that declares "Assertive Bitch and EXCEPTIONALLY PROUD of it".
Sometimes when people fling that term at you when you've stood up for yourself, it really means they are privately jealous that you could and did.
@@see4182I love that!!! May we all strive to be called Bitches!! OMG, this is my new thing. Thank you!!!
i just saw this after i posted. i understand this. great post.
Me too
I hear you Carolyn. A few years ago I ran into a value stem problem in the RV I had at the time. Not fun.
Girl! I hear you 1000%! It's so hard to escape that model of "Am I Karen for standing up for my rights?"
I feel it all the time and you are not alone.
If that’s what it takes to get what you know is right, then yeah, I’m a Karen with a capitol K.
No woman is a "Karen" for standing up for herself or voicing a complaint. It's HOW she says it and what inevitably gets thrown in there to somehow legitimize her rage. In other words, it's not about sending your steak back, it's sending it back, pointing out your server's ethnicity and/or ability to speak English, telling them to go back where they came from, and casting aspersions about their political leanings so she can blame them for everything wrong in America. THAT'S a "Karen"!
Carolyn, my hubby was just saying today was a sucky day. He lost his phone, we can't find it anywhere and he fell down the step and scraped both knees and an elbow. But watching your video really brought things into perspective. It's always something in this nomadic life. I think the rigs just throw things at us to keep us busy and less bored, lol! You had me laughing by the end of the video, that t-shirt is priceless! You were doing so well changing the tire on your own. Kudos for trying it all on your own (that young guy was a douche for telling you to drive on 3 rear tires!). I hope it all worked out for you, keep listening to your gut it will never steer you wrong. Keep your chin up, at least you didn't fall down the stairs and lose your phone like hubby did, lol!
You had a pretty rough day. I'm usually a quick thinker and can oftentimes look at situations logically, but sometimes I just cannot. When I'm stressed and crazy things are happening, it's easy to get caught up in someone else's energy. Give yourself some grace...you deserve it.
I think I learned a lot here today! Not about the tire but the event. The emotions. The lesson. Thank you.
It took me 2 days to decide van life is not for me! I made it to my destination and sold it and bought a car! Never looked back! Give yourself a break…you’re doing a great job living life on the edge! 💕
May I ask why. Just curious
@@Breckgirl-sw3zo First off it was a heat wave and I had no ac. But even more than that I just couldn’t handle the not knowing where I’d sleep every night and worrying about having enough propane and making sure the batteries were charged and getting water. It was too much uncertainty for me to be comfortable and enjoy the scenery. I could live in a tiny space, just not constantly moving. I still enjoy watching Carolyn’s adventures! She’s amazing!
@@chrisr.1803 hey thanks for sharing. 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️👍👍. And yes she is.
shit thats put me off too@@Breckgirl-sw3zo
Carolyn, thank you for the honesty. So many full time rvers make life sound like it's all sweetness and light while traveling in an RV. Then when something like this happens I feel like I'm the only screw-up out there. Don't worry about the travel videos..to me videos like this are so much more important!! Keep up the good work
Your honesty is so refreshing. Every woman, young and old, has heard the 'Believe me, it will be okay' line from men. Don't believe them! Believe in yourself, always. I know, good to say, but hard to do. Hugs to you and Sadie.
yep. We have all heard it. That's why I left it in.. plus it's kinda funny... sad funny.. but funny. LOL
My Altima that I had built out and went to AZ to camp for 2 weeks with Bob and Suanne last January broke down as soon as I got back to Alabama. I cane back to sell everything and be a permanent nomad. I Put it in the shop for a month. Finally got it back and had it a week and it broke down again. Had to have it towed back to garage. It's been three weeks now and they can't figure it out. I'm looking for a van but have to have my car for a trade it at least. All my hard work putting solar..house battery...dcdc charger...1000 watt inverter will have to be taken out. I refuse to just let it go with it.
In the meantime the heat was killing me so being off grid I had to get a generator to run a small AC. I wasn't able to pull start it because my hands are crippled from RA. SOOOOO I had to get another bigger generator with an electric start and of course that one was much more expensive and uses twice as much gas but at least the dogs and I aren't having heat strokes. So my down payment is gone and did I mention I'm disabled and live on $1000 a month?
Some days I feel I can't make it but I'm determined not to die in this shit hole state. I look at my dogs and tell them we aren't going to give up.
So I know I know I know exactly how you feel. I started falling apart at 50 and I'm 59 now.
Hang in there...we Will have better days.
See ya down the road!
You are my hero. We all have these days but you handle things so well. WOW what a strong person!!
I have a set plus one spare of BF Goodrich 10ply tires waiting for me. My last were 8 ply & didn't hold up to the weight of my RV & it's contents as well.
I am fixing to order a decent tire plug kit too. Had a cheap one, it was garbage.
I got a decent compressor several months ago. My old one died.
I'm trying to be as self sufficient as possible, but like you, I may not have quite the strength needed.
Hmmmm....a good torque wrench may be in order too. That would save some muscle & grief!
All in all, things generally work out, but the stress & grief during that time period can be overwhelming.
You did good.
Yes, it's good to know if you have the actual muscle for the job, otherwise phone it in.
No shame in that & saves a lot of hassle in the long run. Guess a good rule of thumb for such situations is to ask yourself just that: Is the amount of $ saved worth the DIY hassle, especially if you're not 100% up for the job?
I’m am so sorry for your problem. I could feel the frustration in your voice. Bless you and praying things get better for you!
Omg, even though your day was horrible, I’m laughing my butt off at the last three minutes of this video. I literally laughed out loud. You were so funny. Hopefully, you were blessed with a good night’s sleep. Good thing we can start each day anew.
Great video, Carolyn! REAL LIFE EXPLAINED!! Safe travels for you and Sadie!
When I first drove a dually and then put an inflation extension, same thing happened. Apparently stress on extension can cause the valve to split. Had to figure out how to secure it in a no stress position.
What _are_ examples of ensuring no-stress positions for tires/valves?
Is 'inflation extension' another word for airbags or something else?
@@celestepalm6949 She actually did even better by installing metal valve stems so it is no longer an issue. When you have dualys....two tires together, it is near impossible to check or inflate the inner tire without putting an extension on to bring access out to the "street" That extension can whip around if not secured, put undue pressure on valve stem by bending it etc. You can see the extension at 0:03 at about 7-8 o'clock on the wheel.
@@navmarroaming2292 Thanks, I had posted my question B4 her getting her valve stems done. Glad she got 'em fixed 4 good
Carolyn, I am 66 years old. A widow of 9 years. My problem is I stick up for myself after being screwed by so many contractors. Now no one screws me over. I make enemies but I stick up for myself. You stuck up for yourself. I am proud of you and you added some niceness by giving a tip. And Carolyn, your life is no different from any of us. Your experience would be exactly what I would experience trying to change a RV 50 lb tire (I would never attempt this) but the fact you tried is a bonus. Better days ahead.
Lmao “I was so full of shit” is my favorite part of this. I have absolutely felt this! Like WHAT was I thinking?!?
Roll.. yeah. If only we knew!! Hope you had a great weekend.
I cannot believe you handle everything so well! You are amazing!
I'm 66 and still don't always speak my mind, (sorry guys) but if you were a man I truly believe things would have went how they should of and the tire would have been put back without asking. I am very proud of you for getting the tire off, and oh so happy Sadie was safe and you too.
Yes if she were a man they would have been patting each other on the back, and saying what great ideas ,they came up with to do the job right, blah blah blah😂
Take a breath Carolyn. Tomorrow is another day. I am sending you a great big air hug!!
I could totally relate to so many parts of this day in your life. Most of us have had those sort of interactions with disrespectful, dismissive mechanics. And of course you wanted to handle it yourself. Good for you for trying. The t-shirt is a hoot! Thanks for your honesty and humor. And rest well to fight the good fight another day!
Great tip on loosening the lug nuts before using the jack. I have had to do this too as the garage put them on so tight with the hydrolic tool that even jumping on the cross bar tool wouldnt shift it.
On another page, people were recommending videos to a newbie. Someone mentioned you and another replied that, no, you usually prefer to be by yourself. I thought, F YEAH! That's how I want to be! At a retreat years ago, a guy wore a t-shirt that said Plays Well With Others. That's not me! I'm often unfit to be around other humans. So, yeah, great shirt! And Dogs Rock!
Don't much care for people but love their dogs...I had tears, could hear the panic in her voice when she was screaming for Sadie...so scary..🥵
So funny, people often remark, "She prefers to be by herself" as if it's a defect. LOLL
Yep, your honest panic over Sadie’s whereabouts about gave me a cardiac, womyn! I’m so glad that nobody got hurt!
My shirt reads, "I do not work and play well with others"
I'm very glad I watched today...lol at your ending and realism on feelings from the day. Hope it was better the next day.
lol Becky...real is what you get. Thanks for watching!
Always have new valve stems installed with new tires! My son is a mechanic and taught me that long ago. Any reputable tire service should do it without asking, but be sure to request if necessary. So sorry for your troubles. Hope the valve stem is the only problem. Those BFG's are great tires, I've used them for many years without problems. You've had so many tire troubles, my heart goes out to you, Carolyn.
I feel ya. I took on a big challenge recently at 66. Crying is okay, whining is okay, actually necessary at times.......then, you do pick yourself up and carry on. Love ya, Carolyn. Long time watcher, occasional commenter.
Thank you Diana and thank you for being a faithful viewer!
LOVE how your first (well, maybe second) instinct on discovering the leaking tire was to begin filming. YOU ARE AWESOME. Thank you for showing this in real time; it's what we need to see - how to face the stuff ( :) ) that happens.
Eva, it's not always my first, second, or third instinct.. not sure why I thought of it yesterday. Just call it serendipity!
I agree with the lady that said pay for $ AAA. In live in a mobile home and dealing with everyday problems seems too much for me. I'm a 76 year old widow and I dream about van living but now I just think I'm too old. I spent the last 5 years taking care of my 94 year old Mom. I think I missed my window of opportunity. ☺️♥️. God bless all you ladies out there doing it.
@@grannypat412 don't ever feel like you've lost an opportunity. You sound like you still have the desire to travel so go for it. Maybe you can find a companion who doesn't want to travel alone and both you ladies could venture the world together. God bless you with your endeavors
At least with dual rears you can sometimes carefully drive to the nearest repair shop if one loses air.
I just did that Sunday! Trouble is that could really bust down the other tire and you wouldn't know it. Luckily it was almost time for all new tires anyway. I drove about 15 miles with the inner one flat.
@@notruehippie yes I figure as long as you are not going fast and try to minimize the payload it should hold up on the way.
You rock trying to change an RV tire by yourself. Wowza! Inspirational. The hardest part of this video was listening to the very real fear in your voice when you were calling Sadie's name. :-( but appreciate you showing the realness of the situation you found yourself in. My sister has been on the road for five years and she said the worst part of it is when things break down and you have to deal with them. Lots of sweat and money and tears.
Thank you Victoria and So true.
Carolyn, squirt some Armorall or STP "protectant" on your valve stems and let it sit for a few mins and wipe it off. Don't scrub it all off; leave a film on there for the rubber to absorb. It will keep them soft & flexible and stop them from dry rotting/cracking. Do it 3-4 times per year or whenever the rubber appears dry. I learned that same lesson with boat tire valve stems. Good luck.
You did good. It’s only air and tires. You will be on the road again soon. Safe and happy.
I ‘m so glad you let us see the reality that it doesn’t always go the way you think it will or should . And to all the people that second guess what you did or do , they aren’t you and they weren’t there living the experience . You do the best you can with the tools and resources that you have at that time.
Because we're were raised is a different time, it's hard to learn new behaviors and stand up for ourselves. Thanks for your honesty, I don't feel so alone in this type of frustrations..
We are also finding out that RV life is not all roses, 3 months ago we blew our engine going up mountains in california, 2 months of Air B n B and cabins we got the RV back and $18K . 2 months later our slides failed so our RV is in storage waiting for the end of the month when we can get it fixed, so we know what RV living full time is all about but we still love it and I know you do to. The good times outweigh the bad, right? Thanks for sharing and sharing your vulnerability!
Life, oh no.. wow that's a lot. I'm sorry you're dealing with so much. Sounds like you're plowing through though. I hope things get better.. Yeah... some days just suck!
Freedom's just another word for nothing left to loose!! Be free on the inside by recognizing limits on the outside!!
You did GREAT! This video is probably my FAVORITE! I started watching a couple years ago when I first started part-timing in my Class C and was desperate for tips. Still love the tips, but the emotional side of traveling alone, full or part time, is a challenge. Thanks for being real.
Thank you Terry! I glad I’ve been able to help you and others pursue their RV dreams. Safe travels!😎
❤️ I’m sorry you were having a bad day. Hope things are better for you now.
Ive learned to always "block up" under the jacked rig incase of a slip. Even leave the spare under, blocks or logs. Just so you can rejack and not get crushed incase of a jack failure or slip
Love your channel btw. Keep up the work!
When I was in AA my sponsor continually talk to me about my will.She told me when I keep trying to do something and it keeps not working out I need to turn it over to a higher power what’re that may be. It always turned out one way or the other and a lot of times it was just changing the way I was looking at it.Anyway if you thought it was the stem your right you know you rig. I am amazed how well you are doing.You are actually a sweet person and that is a good thing. Thanks for being you!❤
Kicking the compreser, was it, at the end lol Yeah, I'd be kicking some things around after that day . But don't beat yourself up!
Love ya, Carolyn. Hang in there and don't scold yourself anymore.
Thank you for sharing. You have given courage to so many woman who have lost ourselves - we knew we were right, but let others take control. You showed us it is okay to whine, complain and then - eat a sandwich and pick ourselves up. Thank you!
awwww. this means a lot to me. thank you so much!!! yeah. ... hugs,
Carolyn you are simply amazing, there are days when life ain’t great. But you are an example to all us. Thanks for sharing the down times, we all need a bit of reality to appreciate the marvellous, and the sense of freedom that you bring to our lives
Wow, thank you so much Patricia! Seriously, I'm here to show that even when everything goes wrong, we can push through and come out the other side!
Love the T-shirt Carolyn! Girl I wouldn’t even attempt to do what you do even when I was young.
ha!! thank you !
Carolyn, you are such a strong woman. I wish I had the strength to live the R.V. life. Love from Vancouver BC.
ditl-it is what it is. Glad you shared this too. Honestly I wouldn’t have even tried so kudos to you 👏🏼
Be strong and true to yourself
We all give in and kick ourselves after. I am right there with you.
I see a lot of growth going on here in this video!!! You go girl!!! Now the next time this happens you will be prepared and make your voice heard. No one should ever dismiss you!!! DO NOT UNDERVALUE YOURSELF!!!! Keep on making awesome videos!!! Glad Sadie did not get squished!!!
When it rains, it pours. Grateful that you are up and running. It’s the same in an RV or sticks&bricks. Hug Sadie and push on. You aren’t whining. Feeling are not right or wrong, they just “are”. Peace and happiness come from within! Smile😊. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you and thanks for watching!
Life always comes and ruins plans !
Another day to do what you want !
We have all been there !
Love you Carolyn!
God bless !
You’re not given more than you can handle. Life has its issues….you learned from your experiences. You got this!
Ok. That sucked for you!! Sorry about the day, lady! I do have to say that I was laughing at times at your sass! Ha But irreverent humor is my fave, as you know.
And unrelated but, even mad you look good in this video, actually! Haha Your hair looks super cute in every segment.
Yep, that's what I liked about you too was the irreverent humor!! thanks for the compliment. Did you catch the leaves and twigs in my hair in a couple shots? LOL
@@CarolynsRVLife omg! Ha! Nope, I missed that!
So glad you’re safe. Thank you for being honest and showing you’re troubles as well in RV life.
Carolyn, you were just overwhelmed. The young man was correct that it was o.k. to drive it on three rear wheels for just a short distance for the purposes of the repair needed. Please don't let the small things in life send your brain into a frenzy. It all turned out fine in the end. About your tires, have you weighed your vehicle recently to make sure you are not over weighing your vehicles capabilities?
@@probablynot1368 Yes, I am a full timer that uses a van in my life, but when I planned for this adventure four years ago I made sure that I purchased the most heavy duty van that was available to me for this reason. My Promaster 3500 still only has a 5000 lb. vehicle capacity and after my cabin style interior build, if I am not careful, it is not that difficult to max it out or even overload my own van. You must be frugal in the things you purchase and what goes into it. A lot of it is when something goes in, it's likely something must come out.
YOU did fine - and you got yourself through it!! Yay celebrate...And THANKS for the reminder to check my compressor, spare tire, and jack situation!!
Take a little break from travel and get a tiny rental on a lake. Swim, sleep and read a great book. Never underestimate how much a little break from your normal can be!
Hi,
You probably have it all sorted now ,but suggestions would be :
A suitable trolley jack (capable of lifting camper weight )
Jack stands
Blocks of wood
Some thick plywood,big enough to roll the trolley jack on under the RV ,and some smaller pieces for the jack stands,plywood is easy to store
Piece of pipe to use with that wheel brace,gives you more leverage
Cans of tyre repair ,for when there is no other option
A better compressor (off road 4x4 equipment is better
Those plastic leveling ramps ,you can drive up on them to get height and the it's easy for the jack up as the RV is already up . To another tool is always handy,a Battery impact wrench,18 volt min , Milwaukee preffered,and the suitable impact sockets to match your wheels ,it would be worth the investment ,truly
And if you have the space and weight carrying ability,another matching tyre and rim ,so you have two spares ,if you are out there in the wilderness etc it's really worth bing prepared.
Hope you are all sorted and enjoying
Cheers 🥂
Squirt soapy water on your valve stem to see if leaks. It really is ok to go a few feet on three wheels. I do agree with Di though.
There are days like that. I am proud of you for not quitting and hanging in.
You should have Jack stands to stabilize the vehicle after you raise it. This is a matter of safety. The Jack stand should be placed under the axle if possible. Glad you weren't hurt and Sadey is safe. Nice try.
What a GREAT lesson regarding the pup. I will remember to be sure to leash my fur ball when changing tires or any potentially dangerous fix. That was so frightening Carolyn! Be safe always!
I feel better now, commiserating with your pain as I’ve had some seriously challenging times lately too. Hang in there! Be true to yourself, as you know.
Appreciate your transparency!! You are good and kind!! Just flesh and blood. This too shall pass....joy comes in the morning.
I was a cross-country, independent trucker for many years. My vehicle had 18 wheels and tires. If an inside duel is flat, and you don't have a really heavy load in your vehicle, you can drive slowly to a tire store without removing the inner flat tire. The outer duel tire will handle the weight. You should frequently stop and check the tires to make sure they aren't getting hot. You can also drive on just one duel tire safely in a pinch at lower speeds, provided your lug nuts are properly tightened. Never try to jack up a vehicle on a soft surface without support such as heavy, wide timbers under the jack to spread out the weight of the jack. They jack can shift, and you can be badly hurt. You were fortunate to not be near the vehicle when it happened. Two short sections of 2x6 or 2x8s will help. Put a second jack under the rear body to help distribute and support the vehicle body weight. I used timbers under the axel as a safety measure if the jack moved or failed. Move the vehicle to a more solid surface before loosening any lug nuts. When new tires are installed on your rims, it's a good idea to replace the valve stems if they are old.
Well shit, Carolyn, I feel so bad for you and wish I could just give you a hug! The one thing I wish you’d do is give yourself more credit and not be so hard on yourself!! You know what the hell you’re doing out there, it’s so obvious! You are a strong, intelligent woman and are admired by an awful lot of people! You also give us something that is vitally important in life…hope! Thank you for showing us the good AND bad of full time RV living! It sucks you’re presently living it and my heart totally goes out to you, but we all need to see how REAL life is out there! Heartfelt thanks for this video and things can only get better! Chin up my friend! Sending those healing hugs…
Love you too Carolyn. Hang in there.
Carolyn, I'm so sorry you had such a shitty day. Thank you for your honesty, it lets so many of us know we're not alone. It's very refreshing. Love to you and sweet Sadie girl. ❤❤❤
Thank you Carla!
Your first instinct is most important.. your a smart . informative. Determined person. BE THAT Person . Again! Carolyn...Be Strong.Be free.
Oh Carolyn, what a bummer. I'm SO sorry you had to go through such a horrendous day. Let's hope the days get MUCH better from here on. XOXOXO
Hang in there! You are amazing and helping so many people find their dreams.