13 Safety Tips for Solo Female RV Life
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Female RVer Safety Tips - is it safe? Whether you're a solo woman or man living in an RV or van, safety is an important aspect of your life. In his video, I give you 13 tips for how to stay safe living alone in an RV or Van (Plus one "bonus' tip).
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Another tip is don't let someone you just met and don't really know, come into your RV where they can see the layout and where you sleep. Talk to them outside only.
Love the videos! Another cheap effective defense tool is a can of Wasp/Hornet spray. It's cheap and will knock a man down, stop a dog attack, kill a snake or rodent if needed. It shoots 14 to 20 feet. It also is something you can have in your hand that is not threatening as you are trying to decide whether to use it or not. Keep the videos coming!
Its Flammable too Which can Make in Extreme measures a Flame Thrower if Necessary :-D
Be careful to not be downwind of it😊
I thought it's federally regulated to not be used on humans and people will get in federal trouble?
@@amyp.575
We ARE the government.
You.
And Me.
We give ourselves permission to protect ourselves ...
Thank you, great advice.
For securing your side door(they are flimsy).
Buy 2 door hinges.
Remove the hinge pins.
Sand down hinge pin shafts till they will slide easily in,and out of the hinges.
Mount hinges inside above and below the door latch.
Half the hinge mounted to the door.Half mounted to the jam/frame.
When the door is closed for the night,slide the pins into each hinge.
This will work for both house and RV doors.
Better yet, just buy a tank.👍
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I think thum turned dead botls would work better.
Very well thought out video thank you. As a over the road trucker may I also suggest being observant before leaving your rig. In my occupation truck stops are the most dangerous. Not only the trucks passing by me but the people that mean you harm. Know what's happening around you, look in your mirrors before opening a door don't go into dark areas. Also walk with purpose, don't let people think your an easy target. Have a safe trip and a wonderful time.
As retired law enforcement, I agree, it was time to go. That sounded like a disaster waiting to happen. Thank goodness it turned out fine.
Caravan- I appreciate that very much!!! Thank you for confirming what I suspected! - Carolyn
Glad you left, they probably had a pot field growing in the woods near by and were afraid you might find it.
If you don't mind my two cents. The issue of having a firearm can be dicey depending on where you travel. The impression I have with the laws of California is that you may be considered a felon if you are carrying without the proper issued CCW permit and the last time I was in California you could not have a loaded firearm in a vehicle. For the rest of the West, the issue is not so bad.
@Rene Drew Yes - I agree - they could have been guarding a number of activities- but not pot - most pot smokers are too mellow!!!
Sounded like something way more nefarious to me
@@meredithheath5272 I rounded a horse trail corner once on my horse to find two armed men on their knees pointing rifles at me like sharpshooters. Defending an illegal pot operation. There is a lot of money in those. Luckily we turned around and were okay, lots of people get shot to cover those up.
Good advice. Watching what the "nomadic fanatic" has gone through in his travels, I also suggest you never let anyone on RUclips know where you are specifically until after you have left. There are allot of people with nothing better to do than to 'troll' online. Enjoy your life travels!
- Yeah, that's already a habit of mine. I post video and talk about my spots once I leave. Thanks for the tip and for watching! - Carolyn
That is a big area where she is rn. Chances are slim anyone would find her but this is what I do when the area isn't.
Having lived through a couple of dangerous episodes, anything is a weapon and I always have things strategically placed about my home and have taught my friends. Cast iron napkin holder on the table,cast iron spoon rest on the stove, even a small pot of hot water. Thank you for your tips! I love your sense of humor
I tried to read through all the comments, but there are a lot. I want to suggest a replacement for a bat. A bat is too long to be an easily wielded weapon. When I lived in FL and traveled at night I carried a home made billy club. Measure from your wrist to the inside of your elbow, that's how long it should be. A shovel handle works well because it's harder than cement. For a good hand grip, wrap with leather, d rill a hole for a leather loop. Get it in hand the second you think something's up. It's lightweight, and can crack open a skull or fracture a knee. I've carried it hiking too.
Last thought, always have a pair of shoes by the bed that are easily slipped on, you can't run in the woods with bare feet.
I have one and you are so right. It fits perfect with my arm and it can do damage. That is good advice.
I have one made out of a shovel handle. Damn sucker packs a punch, I accidentally hit my wrist with it. 😄
Dear Carolyn,
As a woman who has traveled with and without a husband over the last 4 decades, I really appreciate your suggestions and would like to add two more:
I strongly urge a traveler to treat EVERYONE with courtesy and respect. I mean when you encounter them on the trail, at a park or just visiting a store. You never know when someone will "go off" with a perceived slight. This doesn't mean you invite everyone to dinner...
Second: When at a camp or convenience store, I always get one or more items for my "husband", whether or not I'm traveling with him. It is usually a tobacco product or beer. As I neither smoke nor drink myself, they are always handy for trade goods later on. This does not target me as a female traveling alone.
Thank you for sharing your tips!
I'm waiting for the sale of my house to be completed, and I'm already looking at the RV I want. It's been a dream of mine to do what you've done since I was a small child and I'm months away from living it. It was fate that I came across your videos!! Watching them (I've watched three so far, and counting) gives me butterflies as I genuinely can't wait to get onto the open road! Your safety tips are awesome, I am going to be a female alone so I'm going to watch this again and make notes. The men's boots and parking in the direction you may need to escape were just two things I wouldn't have thought of. At the moment I have a small day camper van and the seats in the back convert into a bed... It has a fridge, sink, and cooker but it's no good for living in 24/7 although it's been good as practice for my adventures to come. I live in Ireland, but I plan to travel to France, Italy and Spain in my motor home, they are places I've visited as a tourist and I'm hoping that going off of the beaten track will be a completely different experience. Thank you for these videos, I am literally hanging off of your every word!!
Great tips! When I was younger I car camped in the PNW by myself a lot. I was physically better able to protect myself, and I had a big Chow mix. Thinking about buying an RV eventually to live and explore in. I was a long haul trucker for a bit and I slept with a hunting knife. I'm black, and female and had to watch by back at truck stops. Some of the scariest looking dudes turned out to be the nicest people who helped me out.
a lot of good ideas...wasp spray is really good, it sprays a long way as well !!!
Thanks! - Carolyn
Hi, love your tips. One thing to add to your 'extra person' set up, a beer can on the TV tray. Or just a cup with something in it. A paperback book or something that indicates activity. I've traveled alone but never camped alone, I think I would have been too afraid. You are a brave and prepared person!
Love it! But I thought, 3 chairs could be better than 2! Haha!
I was very impressed by your opinion on guns. Thank you for being level headed and honest about it. On the topic of bear spray I would say you made a good choice. As a Navy veteran who has taught force protection I would recommend that you expose yourself to pepper spray so you know what to expect. If you have to use it you may render yourself helpless, it only takes a shift in the breeze. Spray some of that small sized stuff in a trash can and take a good whiff of it. We had to get sprayed in the face and do a self defense obstacle course. You really need to know how it will effect you and how to fight through it.
Excellent practical tips! Thanks! I'm not a van dweller, but came to solo camping in my late 30s and I agree with you in that the most danger usually comes in more populated areas, not amongst folk who are out enjoying nature. I've always been shocked by the number of people who think I'm going to be killed, kidnapped, assaulted when I go out camping and I'm not even backpacking. I adapted my Honda Element for car camping and my primary goal was personal security and the ability to leave quickly if need be and not have to exit the car before doing so. And Intuition IS our best defense. I always ask the fear mongers if they think I'm so foolish to actually stay someplace where I think I'll be in harms way? Like I'm going to be wandering through the woods naked, with a steak tied to my ankle, waving 100 dollar bills, while banging a dinner bell, shrieking "Come and get it!"
Rae- yeah, the media has ruined our society and made us too scared to do anything but stay at home and consume. It's crazy the amount of real fear is out there.
Oh my gosh the image of you prancing through the forest naked, with steak tied to your ankle is hilarious!!!! but yes, that's kinda what people tend to think. I hope my channel and sharing my experiences helps alleviate some of that fear. The world is kind and warm and welcoming if you let it be!
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and watching! - c
I've done archaeological survey alone in the wilderness and have worked in grizzly country as a park ranger. I feel a million times more safe in the outback than in the city.
Hello fellow archaeologist!
Hi!!! *waving* Indiana Jones says Hi, too, lol.
most people say this and there’s probably data that backs it too
Wow, what a racist asinine comment...
john, my experience says otherwise.
I've gone from listening to fear-mongering Alex Jones since January of 2020, thinking everyone is hunkered down at home, til' last week, when I started binge-watching Your amazing travel channel. I can't wait to retire & live a similar lifestyle. May God continue to richly bless You & Your beautiful dog !! @0:07
I've had a CCW for many years and always carry a handgun. We lived on the road in a 21' Class C for nearly three years and I also had a legal cut-down 12 gauge pump shotgun like the police carry. It stayed in the corner behind the driver's seat.
Hi Carolyn, we follow your adventures. We recommend wasp spray, it is only less than $4.00 and sprays 20+ ft in a straight line. It has a protective nozzle so you can not accidentally spray yourself. AND it’s legal everywhere 😎
Hi Carolyn. Great video with lots of good info. In my book, the 2 most important items are this: 1. Risk management (like you said-trust your gut) Scope out the area and choose a spot that is low risk compared to other options. 2. Situational awareness. (also something you talked about) Always be aware of what is happening around you. Just like if you are in a city, being aware of your surroundings and actively minimizing your risk are usually the lifesaving factors.
One suggestion though. You spoke of your baseball bat. I'd get a trucker's tire bat instead. They are shorter but can be just as damaging and probably more so considering where you would be using it.. They are also a better (read that as easier to use effectively) weapon in the tightly confined quarters of an RV or camper. Just try swinging a full sized baseball bat inside your RV and you'll see what I mean. That's also the reason why a naval officer's cutlass isn't as long as an army officer's sword. Naval officers had to fight in close combat in confined spaces and the shorter length made the weapon a better tool for the job.
Keep putting out the great videos! Happy Travels!!!
#2 Trust your gut! Exactly!
I've watched several true crime docus where the female victim took unreasonable risks and I can't believe tey didn't have a gut instinct telling them not to do what, in the end, caused their demise. It's true that the gut instinct has been "educated" out of us, almost, and we've come to distrust it, but from my own experience I can attest that it's the best protection. if it's heeded.
Khamomil you
I appreciate you being candid about what you've learned!
Thank you for the encouragement. I appreciate it very much!- Carolyn
Hi Carolyn, thank you for this excellent video and for the courage and time of sharing "lessons learned" with the community. One thing I would add, is to consider "dual use" tools/weapon when I purchase camping or tool supplies. For example, I have folding hammers, carry a survival knife (which uses like a Boy-Scout issue from back when BSA allowed knives), folding ice pick used by mountain climbers, telescopic heavy-duty metal walking stick which could double as icy surface protection as well as self-protection, ... always having looking for alternate exit/out when I arrive in a new place to spend the night...
My cell-phone is usually set to "quick dial" local authorities, and my RV is equipped with a siren/alarm that I can activate remotely. Be safe, happy holidays to you, Ciao, L (Veteran)
Once for the first things my fir martial arts instructor told us was that you best weapon is you body and any weapon you put in your hand can be taken from you and used on you.
LOVE that advice.. Brilliant. Thank you! - Carolyn
Lula Earle I've had a sturdy stick by the door that was the weapon used against me. You don't know what another is willing to do. If they are ready to break in the next step is not such a great leap. While they were outside I was protecting my home. Once they got inside I was protecting me. I was threatened with my life, looking back my stick was the only weapon but I didn't want to trust that it wasn't a gun in his pocket. I also battled him at the door and lost while losing my mind in adrenalin. Courage is one thing, survival is not necessarily the same thing. Had I've gone out the back door I would have run into the 2nd one trying to get through the kitchen window and the third one waiting for car keys. The 3rd one never entered the house. Yes a house that suggests safety and was my haven for many years.
Carolyn's safety tips are great. They cover a multitude of situations and apply no matter what your home is. Stay safe.
Narelle Works I humbly thank you for sharing your story. God bless you, and I pray that goodness, peace, serenity, comfort, and love be your always...
My dear Carolyn! Thank you so much for this amazing video, I am just totally loving all what you do. And as you said in one of your videos that may be your authenticity makes people like your video, I do truly believe that is the case. Thank you for every piece of advice you give. Many times I watch them over and over. Enjoy your trips, stay well and be inspiration for all of us.
get a big used target from a shooting range put it on a stick 20 yards out
Brilliant!
I said used
Fantastic idea thanks!
Hi Carolyn,
Trying to make to transition myself to the RV Boondocking life. I'm a male so maybe not quite as concerned for particulars but can really appreciate your outlook and practices. Even though not boondocking yet I have been in all 48 contiguous states as well as 5 provinces in Canada driving a 45ft tour bus/private coach.
A couple of items I think worth mentioning are:
1. I would not advertise in any form that you may have firearms in your RV. (I.E. stickers like, "Smith & Wesson" or "NRA Member") Sometimes, if somebody is really targeting you or your RV, a sign like that is a confirmation that there is something worth taking inside of your RV. Some idiots would just sit back, behind a tree or someplace, watching and waiting for you to leave and then help themselves. Lots of thieves work in pairs, or more, so while one is keeping track of you, the others can have free range with your items. I would think it would be better not to advertise it, but actually have a firearm for protection should it be needed. If they would be scared off by a simple sticker they'll be running like hell facing the real deal!
2. An earlier post commented about using a fish bat instead of a full size bat. You can find a "tire billy" at most any truck stop. They are about half the size of a bat and most have a arm string attached to them. You can also use them for their intended purpose of hitting the tires with them to check for inflation. Inner duals are checked easily this way.
Enjoying your videos. You was actually close to me when filming the one near Susanville off Hyway 44. I live near 44 on the east side of Redding. Love that area you was in.
Good Luck to you and Happy Holidays!!
Ray -
Excellent point about the Firearms sticker. I hadn't thought of that. (I knew there was a reason I was hesitant to do that! lol )
Also great tip on the tire billy - also would be legit to have inside the rig. I'll look for one!
I really do love NorCal - so much beauty.. Great place to live!
I appreciate the common sense advice and thanks for watching! - Carolyn
As a solo older woman planning to set out in the near future. Your comments and observations are invaluable to me; especially regarding trusting your gut. I’m sure I’ll be hyper vigilant just starting out, but your guts goes everywhere with you! Bless you for your comments and suggestions!
After "tenting" full time for ten years Spirit [my four legged buddy!] and I have switched to a small slide in camper. Great video for women/men you have. Things have changed so much these past ten years. Love the two chairs idea! Someone has given me also the idea to have a very thick chain attached to the camper with a big bowl! Meaning giving the idea of having a big dog... Leasing a SAT phone is not a bad idea as a last 911 aspect if no cell service available. Just keep in mind that SAT 911 rings in New Jersey so one has to know the emergency number. A SPOT which we also have is a great idea having an instant 911 Satellite button. You can also have the SPOT on line and have Friends/Family follow you and even have an OK message a couple times a day. Just thoughts... I have not read the comments but happy that you "do" look at the aspect of boon-docking with a positive attitude. Anyhow, stay well, stay safe. Ara and Spirit. And yes, "gut" feelings [I call them "vibes" are the best...
I use the Delorme InReach satellite communicator instead of the Spot. You can also get an insurance policy from Delorme that covers the cost of emergency medical evacuation, even if they have to helicopter you out. The InReach allows me to send pre-set messages or ad hoc messages to people in my contacts list, and in medical emergency, there's an SOS button. The good thing about the InReach is that it works for 2-way texting -- the emergency dispatcher can ask you what's wrong and you can answer back and carry on a dialog to be sure you get the right kind of medical response based on your medical problem. You can also put map tacks onto a virtual map which your friends/family can see when they get your text message, so they know exactly where you are. Check out the Delorme InReach.
Love, love, love your videos. I travel alone, not full time, but your advice and thoughts on different subjects is so much appreciated. I have come to think of you as a friend because I can tell you give honest and thorough information. Thank you so much for taking the time to do this for all of us.
Agree with the flash light. Bloody good video. well done cheers
Good advice, I am retired senior solo rv male and your advice sounds pretty good to me. Have an escape route planned and if you get bad vibes just leave and circle around if nothing else.
You are a very pragmatic thinker! This video is simple, but at the same time, BRILLIANT! The first victim of overt emotionalism & panic...is always REASON! Self reliant survival & preparedness is extremely important to me, so this RV video ranks as one of my favorites (Im subscribed to 33 RV channels & many Bushcraft channels)! On a lighter note, Im 56...I so remember Molly Hatchet lol! Cheers you two!
Roberto - I'm honored to read that you ranked this so highly.. just wow!
Cheers to you as well. - Carolyn
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Sharing that those closest are the ones that hurt us more than strangers, is major bravery on your part. That statement struck a cord for me as well.
I've been watching your current videos for a couple months.
I've got a couple breakers to replace on my generator before breaking trail, so I decided today to start at the beginning of the things you've chosen to share.
Thank you for sharing your Journey.
Wishing you nothing but the best ❤
Thanks Carolyn. I think another one you can add would be 'clean campsite'. Keep foodstuffs and garbage inside and dispose often if you can. The 2 legged creatures aren't the only ones you need to be wary of.
My shooting range advisor suggested to NOT display the NRA sticker etc. He said that the sticker advertises that there are weapons available to the criminals that are looking specifically for guns ! So it's a triple edge sword !
Yes, that's what I've been hearing. Makes sense! thanks.
That's what I thought about the ones on the house we bought. Did not want them inviting gun thieves.
Kelly Sheridan ...thieves don't read stickers...no, seriously...look at it from this angle...the owner has guns and will use them...AND will shoot you if he catches you breaking in...no hard and fast rules when it comes to criminals...
We have had multiple car breaks that the police say are teens looking for weapons and car keys.
"...triple edge sword !"
Don't know if that's better or worse than a double-edged sword ...
A tip I'd add: get a good high lumen flashlight. They are very good for blinding people if you ever get in a bad situation, and there are lots that will serve as bludgeons too if need be.
Great video! We (myself & wife and Brutus) do a lot of back woods camping in NH. We have a Brutus, 145lb Rottweiler and we have guns. My wife has been trained to use all the guns we own, safety shooting and cleaning. If the dog doesn't do the job, one of us will. Usually one bark from him, does the trick. No one comes by our site, including the rangers, they sit in there truck and talk to us. We have met up with single woman and given them some of the tips you mentioned, always good advice!
Subscribed. 👍 you are living my hearts desire. I want to do it and capture sunrise and sunsets each place I go. Continue to enjoy your rebirth so to speak. proud for you.
Very very kind of you to say. I hope someday YOU get to live your heart's desire! Get out there and start shooting those sunrises and sets!
Thank you for joining my journey, I wish you the best, Carolyn
you go girl. dont know how I tripped across your videos but cool. sound like you are smart enough to enjoy this adventure. be careful and enjoy what most of us are not brave enough to do. that ford will last - take care of it and see america.....what a neat thing you are doing.
Hi, my name is toni. I am researching all the info, as much as i can, so that when i retire in one year, i'll be informed. You gave me much hope. I already know a lot of other rv, van dweller and bus conversion peeps, and I like your story and you seem as brave as me, maybe braver. I want to meet up with you one day....i am not a loner, i am a hairstylist, but i am ready to bust away from drama, and be calm and serene...no biggie, no pressure, just one day...thank you for sharing your scary stories and other life lessons...sincerely, toni doyle...aka peroxide hair studio, hattiesburg..nice to meet you.
I'm really enjoying your videos. I camp alone a lot and I love your safety tips. Never thought about a second chair or a pair of large boots but they will be part of my next camping trip. Thanks.
Carolyn, You have just become my RVing YODA! lol. As a female veteran I commend your lessons in personal safety for women. I will be hitting the road in April. Gives me plenty of time to watch and learn from your videos. From this one I learned to move my storage spot for the tools, duh. For people uncomfortable with bear spray...hornet spray is another option for use on humans. It has a long range, causes severe pain and permanent blindness if sprayed directly into the eyes. Safe travels, honey.
Barbara - I have gotten so much flack for this video so coming from someone as experienced as you, your kind words mean a lot. So glad to read that you found it useful.
April will be my one year anniversary on the road --- and right around the corner for you!! good luck and have fun!! - c
BCD, thank you for your service to the USA. Carolyn, thank you for your service to RVers, campers, and women ready for the outdoors!
These are great common sense tips that everyone can benefit from and my husband has given me most of them! : ) He's always giving me scenarios if someone would break in you can use this or this for a weapon, pick up sand for their eyes, spray anything you can find etc. I love what you said about parking in the direction of your escape route and also getting the name of the area you're in or the gps coordinates, something I hadn't thought of.
Thanks for sharing your experiences. God Bless.
Always have situational awareness.
Great advice! Thanks! - C
This seems to be falling by the wayside faster and faster all the time. As you walk around town, the store, etc. watch other people, notice many have their heads burried in their cell phones, looking at the ground, engrossed in a conversation with their friends, etc. Many don't pay any attention at all to their surroundings. Many get lost in the woods because they don't look around and behind them to see what things look like from the other direction to help them be able to find their way back to where they came from.
A cell phone isn't something I'd rely on out in the middle of nowhere. An FRS/GMRS radio would be a start, but get yourself a little Baofeng Amateur Radio. They're pretty cheap, and in an emergency can be used to call for help. Learn local repeater frequencies, program the radio to the areas you will be frequenting, learn to use the radio. Yes, you need a license to transmit on an Amateur Radio, however, in an emergency you may use any means and any frequencies to get help.
You go, Girl!!!! "Trust your instincts!!! Your instincts are there - FOR A REASON!!!"
Great job - thank you for your work in putting together your tips from experience!! (You could not be more correct - people you know [so called family or friends] can do more harm than strangers)
Thanks again !!!
Another good item to have around (I learned about this from another female big rig driver, when I was driving long-haul) is a full-sized can of wasp and hornet spray. Because you obviously don't want to be too close to a hornet's nest when you start dealing with it, the spray usually shoots, with considerable force, between 20 - 30 feet, depending on the brand. Another main point is that it is LEGAL in all 50 states and Canada, which is a concern when driving OTR, as you could be dispatched to just about anywhere. You don't want to have to worry about whether you're crossing state lines into a place where pepper spray, or similar, is illegal. I've been told that if you hit someone in the face with hornet spray, they are instantly completely out of commission.
HELLO, my name is Ron.i watch a lot of the rv videos, and i have to say the tips you gave on safety were the best and most practical tips i have seen on any site to date. especially for first timers. like the one about the shoes. the chairs. very well done! you possibly may save someones life. once again,, i am very impressed ! i am a wannabe rv'er, but i am 100 pct. disabled veteran. the wife ill also. we both still get around some. we talked about it, and decided it would be to hard on us. we both have good incomes änd could afford it easily. it looks like a great life, and i am glad you found happiness !
Thanks so much for sharing. I too enjoy my alone time, very independent lady. I have a class A motor home and as soon as I sell my house I plan on getting on the road for adventure! Stay safe!
Carol
Me too hitting the Rd. When the house is sold ,going solo, good to hear all this
More wonderful information. I picked up a couple pearls of wisdom. I kayak often with others and alone. Safety is always #1. Good stuff. TY
Good insight ! Be safe, maybe a security cam on door side of RV ?
yes, that's a good idea. Thank you! - Carolyn
Absolutely❤ your videos stay safe and keep smiling
Intuition is so important for safety. As you say, we are taught to override it. It has led me into few bad situations when I ignored it and it was nothing todo with travelling. Thank you for this info.
Yeah, that makes two of us... Learning to listen to my gut has been a process of overriding years of "stuff". Sounds like you know what I mean.
Thanks for watching and i wish you the best, Carolyn
Carolyn, listening to your story could have been mine - I so relate! I've been self-employed most of my life, hating the 9 to 5 routine, I love nature and need to be in the wild to recharge, I am comfortable with my own company... Anyhow to make a long story short I decided on a whim to take my 27ft RV down the Pan American highway! within 6 weeks I had sold and donated everything and just hit the road. I am now in Mexico (from Alberta, Canada) and learned a valuable lesson about safety just a few days ago when I was held at gun point outside a little village off the main road. It was a scary experience! I already knew about some of your tips, but you mention a few other ones that I will start implementing - so thank you so much for sharing. Like you I trust people (a little too much perhaps) and do not live my life in fear, and for this reason I've had the most magical journey so far, but also I got a little too cocky may be, wanting to prove a point that it is possible to boondock in Mexico and that it is safe for women to do so! I almost lost my life being stupid and all this for a $5 bribe!
I am subscribing to your channel and will look forward to your posts.
If you are interested my blog is: www.kikirvadventures.com
You rock!
Christine
Great name! Checking out your blog, Kiki.
Great information and good job with the video !
Good sound advice. I have been camping as a single women for 10 yrs, only once I had the hair on my neck stand up. I do have a carry permit and travel with a dog that sounds bad! I am with you Carolyn people are good, especially campers. I refuse to let fear stop me from following my dream.
Safe travels
Cheryl
Exactly! If we let fear rule us, we'd never do anything or go anywhere! Thanks for watching! -C
What great suggestions--- I think you are very smart and very brave to go out on your own. Doing what lifts your soul is what life is all about. Thank you for taking us along with you--- be safe and well--hello to Copone---Deanna
Deanna Harby
Super super great info! One other good thing for protection is hornet spray - yellow jacket spray. It will temporarily blind the attacker (I've read) and shoots super far and straight - and doesnt spray back into your face (hopefully - lol)... lol - love molly lol... such great great great info - I have never watched any video with such useful good info!
MJ - great tip on the hornet spray - thank you!
I appreciate you watching and sharing your very kind thoughts. I love hearing that my videos help and entertain you!! Yay!! !:-) Thank you very much!
:)
Yay, Capone! Thanks, Carolyn. Good tips.
:-) Thank you for watching! - Carolyn
My gut has never been wrong, and the only time I've had issues is when I have ignored that . Thank you so much for all your posts.
Good advice Carolyn. May I suggest you get some paracord or something to make strong wrist straps for the bat and ice axe? You don't want an attacker to rip them out of your hand and use them against you. I would also conceal a bat and a bear spray outside the RV in a hidden place you can quickly reach.
Love it... New subscriber. I am 56, and hike alone, and am buying a van to renovate into a camper for road trips. I just wanted to say that Counter Assault Bear Spray is what I carry, and is the best. It has a trajectory of 30 feet, with a 10 foot spray diameter!! That's a whole lot better than a few feet. It has been my courage in all my years of camping and hiking solo. Looking forward to more videos.
+TheNoonie50 - Thanks so much for the sub... Good luck with the van.
Yeah i keep the bear spray on hand for that reason.. thanks very much for watching - C
Thanks so much. Thinking about going RV again. Living in Mx. now but would like to spend some winter month in Az. and do some traveling back east. Lots of good tips. Liked the bear spray. Cheers and happy trails.
Thank you very much! Happy trails to you as well. MX is on my list!!!
Fantastic video!!
Great tips. I bought my rig in April and have been living in it ever since. I left Florida for North Carolina and now I'm in Reno. Even though I'm a big burly guy you can never be to safe.
Wow Hansen - love your honesty! You're right we all have to take precautions to ensure our safety.. Hope you're enjoying your RV life and Reno. Thanks for sharing and watching! - Carolyn
I do like your videos and you have some great information (you are winded girl) hope your other video are straight and to the point. Safe and happy trails
You're welcome
Good tips and some smart advise...to be had by all...
Thanks Mike! - Carolyn
Thank you for taking the time to share your tips with us. Living in fear brings fear.
Just wanted to touch on guns...they are also quite useful for snakes and other dangerous animals...I live in the country and I carry a .38 loaded with snake shot...lethal to snakes, but also a detriment to others...my 9mm is more for the 2 legged variety...I am trained to defend, however, I am now disabled, so a gun became necessary...a gun is like any other tool...learn to use it safely and there won't be a problem...please don't judge those who carry...we may be the ones who save you...be safe, have fun...da wookiee
Sky - Thank you very much for the advice I appreciate itl. Be well and stay safe! - Carolyn
Sykwookiee, I agree with you, a firearm is a tool. Thank God I've never had to use my firearm in defense of my life, BUT it's there. I won't be reduced to cowering in a corner, giving some psycho the power of life or death over me. I'm not paranoid, I'm prepared. It may never happen or it could happen today, any place, any time. Everyone should live their life as they see fit. Be happy, be aware of your surroundings, and go have fun.
William Davis
Hi Skywookie. Totally agreed that a firearm is a tool. How the tool is used and how EFFECTIVELY the tool is used is in the hands of the user. Of course there can be legal issues for Rver's going across state lines with firearms. If someone chooses to employ firearms as a part of their toolkit, I urge them to do their research and stay on the right side of the applicable laws. It is easier to avoid a problem than to fix one.
Finally became a member so listening to your vids from the beginning!!! Happy travels, stay being you!
Yay! Thank you!
Good tips. trust your gut instincts. Remember, most of us hunters and backpackers love the outdoors as much as you. We will go out of our way to make sure everyone is safe and fallowing the laws. Yes, sometimes you run into the idiots like those in the trucks.. that isn't all hunters, nor all locals.
Carolyn, I left a warning post on your previous vid (knock on your RV while showering). You addressed my concern and more in this vid! My admiration of you grows with each video🌹🌼🌻🌷
One thing I have read about is for Class C's, is to get a ratchet scrap and loop it thru the driver & passenger door handles. This secures the doors if someone jimmy's your locks.
oh wow, great tips! thank you..
Hi Carolyn. I have been watching your videos for awhile now but I decided to start from the beginning.
First, thank you for your channel. I am working on being fulltime in my motorhome and I love your tips and stories.
Second, I love the idea of the rott picture in the window. I was going to add (because I don't have a rott - different dog tho.) I would have a sound effect of a big dog or rott barking or snarling I can play. Like you said in the beginning: Give the impression you aren't alone or that you have a big dog. 😊
WOW! I am a retired "Old-fart" of 66 on my next b-day, which happens to be Groundhog Day. I have been single since Sissy died in 2004, just me and the cat, Winston (17 now!) in this little three-story house. If I weren't so much in debt, I think I would just chuck it all, get a nice used RV, and.. DO IT! Starting today, I will be keeping up with you, so teach us all as to what to look out for, and for me, to stay out of trouble... hee hee. Any who, I have a TON of respect for someone who can do what you do. And your cute to boot. Best of luck and safe journey to ya'. Oh_ my name is Michael, but my name does not have the 'a' in it. Said the same, though. Nice to meet-cha!
Would you still be in debt if you sold your house and most of what's in it? Or would you have a fist full of cash plus a monthly check or two?
Michel Gaudet Carolyn and Bob Wells have opened my eyes to a different kind of life. You'll laugh and cry with her, and learn and see so much! Join us friendlies!😊. You are welcome here!
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This was really great and did a lot to waylay my fears. Thank you for taking the time to create this particular video.
When I was living in my van I had alot of close encounters with stranger dangers. I tricked one guy who wouldn't leave and kept touching my arm . I asked him go get us some coffee, when he left to get it, I took off. Whew. I know other traveler women have all had some strange encounter. I don't get why they don't really bother Carolyn, glad She was safe able to drive away that time. If I travel again I need a hunting rifle forget that concept that nothing barely will ever happen to you. One of the most popular camping adventure channels on here she always travels with her pistol in case. Everyone respects a smart cautious woman. To each thier own way. But dont have prove your fearless peoples, fear is given for a reason, it's a warning.
Great info..I will be using when I next hit the road
Deborah, glad to hear that! Good luck and be safe! - Carolyn
Good video!
If you get any kind of weapon, whether it is bear spray, a firearm or a baseball bat, don't just get it and forget it. Use it. Practise with it. If you get pepper spray, get two cans so that you can use up one can as you practise how to activate it, aim it and what sort of range it has. If you decide to get a firearm, plan on shooting at least one box of ammo each month for as long as you own that gun.
Reading the directions may or may not help you in a real emergency; many people find to their dismay that they can't remember the directions or that the device they want to use isn't responding to their attempts to make it work. If you practise, you are much more likely to remember how to use it in an emergency. Armies since antiquity have relied on drilling to prepare their warriors for combat because that's what works. No army just tells their new members about combat and what they should do; even if they cannot afford real weapons for all their soldiers, they drill with sticks or other facsimiles.
Sometimes all you need is something to scare the threat away, particularly animal threats. Get two canned air boat horns and use one up teaching your dog it is nothing to worry about (sound it when he's far away and give him a treat, then sound it a little closer and give him a treat, etc, until he drools at the sound of the air horn). Another good tool that can act as an improvised weapon is a fire extinguisher. Getting sprayed in the face by a blast from a fire extinguisher is disorienting and will often cause the target to cough and gag uncontrollably. Plus, since you will practise with the fire extinguisher, if the day ever comes when you need to use it against fire, you will for sure know how to do so.
"Trust your gut" is good but vague for many people. Define for yourself at what level of potential threat you will take whatever level of protection. For instance, how threatened do you need to feel to call 911? How close will you allow a sketchy looking person get to you before you use the bear spray; if the answer is that you'd wait until they actually attack, you might as well save the money on the bear spray because there's a good chance an attacker could take it away from you and use it on you. For myself, I count red flags. I won't necessarily take action if I notice one red flag but I will always take action if there are three red flags, even if the person's actual behaviour is still on the legal side of the line.
For instance, people always recommend carrying a cell phone. But there have been several cases of women abducted and murdered who were actually talking to someone on their cell phone when they were abducted. Leaving it too long to call for help means your cell phone might be more useful to weight your fist and bash someone in the face with. It would be cheaper to carry a rock with a sharp corner on it!
Make sure that everyone you talk to regularly knows that if you are suddenly cut off, particularly if they hear something odd, they should call your local emergency services number. How would they know that? If you live a mobile life, start every single phone call with an update as to your location so that they will know where to call to get a welfare check for you. This is just common sense because if you're walking around while on the cell phone, you want the person on the line to call for help for you if you trip, fall and hit your head.
Tangential thought: I know several police officers and every single one of them says they'd rather do 1000 welfare checks where it was a false alarm than not be called when the person really needed help. A welfare check that ends with nothing wrong is what police officers want to get.
Define for yourself what sort of situations would cause you to call 911, so that you don't dither while things are going from "this seems off" to "OMG it's really an attack!"
Great information Carolyn ! Take care
Oren
Thanks Oren, I appreciate that! - C
A tad long winded, but concise & easy to follow. THANKS so much for the valuable safety tips.
I tend to stay on federal lands. BLM, NPS, or Nat Forest Serv. lands or state parks.
At least they're patrolled by a governing agency.
You never know, those deserted roads could lead to a Manson ranch or such.....Cheers.
A lot of people disappear in forests and National Parks. Look up David Paullides (sp) or missing 411. Be careful out there. After listening to David, I'd never camp or walk around in the wild.
Great tips! More than protecting myself I care for my canine babies to be safe, and their safety depends on mine! Some of your tips I never heard of. Thank you.
In regards to guns, you ARE expressing your second amendment right by NOT carrying a gun...and understanding the right for others that DO want to carry a gun that they have the right to do so. I can't applaud you enough and much respect to you Carolyn. Stay safe and God Bless...
I am just finding this. I'm looking into traveling, thank you, this not only helps me feel better, but my mom will feel better that I know these.
I do want to add onto the bat. Not sure if you cover it. But if you put a sock on the bat, it will slip off it someone grabs it!
Thank you. Very informative. Peace
Glad you thought so, ty for watching! - C
Excellent ideas/suggestions! New subscriber who's really enjoyed your natural/matter-of-fact discussions in the couple of videos I've watched.
I've enjoyed firearms most of my life and do have something available when i'm car or tent camping but I really, really appreciated and understand your thoughts on the subject! You have to be scared as hell and fighting for your life if
you've gone after someone with a bat or ice-axe! A gun can be too handy. Wherever you are on the subject, its serious
stuff and you really need to think about what you'd do.
I don't understand when people try to convince a person who is not comfortable with guns to get one. If you are comfortable with them then they can be useful, but if you're not comfortable with them then they become a safety liability. You're definitely better off without a gun than having one you are not completely comfortable with.
One thing we've done is put safety lights on the outside of the RV front, back, and both sides so that they can be turned on, off, or motion activated. We also added security cameras. They are set up on our blind spots and since they are wireless we can monitor them when we are inside, or remotely while we are away. Most people who are up to no good are looking for an easy target, and anything which makes you look like you might not be worth it increases the chance that they'll just move along. The lights and cameras can help with this, especially with the motion-activated lights.
Savant =- THANK YOU!!! Oh my gosh, if one more person tells me to get a gun! LOL
Safety lights are a great idea , I very much appreciate your comment! Safe travels - Carolyn
i want to thank you for doing this video. i am a 51year old widow and will be hopefully rving fulltime this next year after my son graduates from high school and have planned all the ways i could break down and what to have incase of emergencies, but i havent thought of what to have in my rv incase of threats to myself. you have been a great help. maybe someday i will see you out there. take care& god bless
Karyn - yay! So happy you found this useful. Congratulations to you on embarking on your new life! You'll have a ball - it's just such an amazing way to live. Thank you very much for watching and taking the time to leave your comment. Good luck to you and happy travels! -c
you are awesome woman ...i like what you doing and yes trust your instint plus your hansond companion..i planning to do that too🐶
👍♥️🙏🙏🙏. Thank you. I always enjoy listening to you and find your information extremely helpful including some of your followers comments.
I wish you the greatest of Luck and hope to meet you one day, I bought a 1965 Dodge Travco and hope to fix its minimal problems and go off grid with my wife and kids one day... I think i might buy a piece of land in Colorado or Nevada and know that I will always have a home away from home for my family :-D I was thinking of getting a big piece of land for a safe haven for those that need to stop for a few days half way across the USA :-D
Great tips. I'm enjoying your videos very much.
Griz - Thanks very much, so happy to know that! - Carolyn
Thanks for the tips! I’m a single woman that just said “muck it all” sold it all and now on the road with my fur babe Hyde!! We love Carolyn and Capone ❤️🐾✌️💪🏻🚃
Hi Carolyn, just started watching your videos and thought I'd add a bit to the "trespassers will be shot, survivors will be shot again"-esque signs. While these signs can sometimes be a deterrent, or at the very least a "I'm gonna think twice before doing anything" item for a would-be assailant/thief/whatever, depending on where you are these can also backfire (no pun intended) on the signs' owner.
If you actually DO have a gun and you put these types of signs up, and you are ever in a situation where you do have to fire at someone (even if you know that you're 100% in the right to defend yourself), you & your lawyer will still have to convince those 12 people sitting in the jury box that it actually WAS self-defense. these types of signs can (and have) been used by prosecutors to convince juries that you are a "trigger-happy" person and were just itching for a fight, which can get you into a LOT of trouble....so be careful out there folks.
One thing I've heard about bear spray is that you want to point it downwind.
Any Kind of Spray so no blow Back
Very good advice! Continue to be safe while enjoying your freedom.
Thank you so much!
ever brite motion detector lights. just stick em on ..cheap . recharge them selves .👀
Oooh, I like! Sounds easy. Thanks!
Excellent recommendation. I'm going to get some!
Can they just grab them and tear them off the camper? I try to park in lighted areas anyway.
Carolyn I love watching you vlogs, they are so entertaining and full of wonderful advice. I love the beautiful American scenery and the way that groups of friends catch up for blethers (sorry chats) and to spend time together. I would LOVE the RV way of life, however, I don't live in America I do live in one of the most beautiful countries in the world, Scotland. But Scotland is a very tiny country and we could be round it in a few days, followed by swarms of the famous 'wee midgies'. I know how blessed I am to live in Scotland, I could go to England, Wales and Ireland, I think that we all have our blessings and it's a case of knowing that. For me it the size of America and the totally different areas, Forrest, desert, mountains, flatlands and all the built up areas. Hmmmm, apart from the desert, it sums up my wee Scotland, lol. Be safe and love your life, give Capone a hug from me, xXx
Great advice!
Great, Diane, Glad you found it helpful! - Carolyn
👍 Trusting your gut is definitely a priceless resource! Safe & happy travels :)
I remember watching all these videos in the past. Yet, it must've been prior to when I started commenting on RUclips lol
you're freaking awesome!!!