This is so true. I grew up in an abusive environment. This taught me to be aware of everything around me. My less than ideal childhood has kept me safe. It became my superpower.
Yeah, it really has, we were forged in fire from birth & now we are made as tough as Iron. Use that pain & struggle to inspire a positive future for your self my Sister. Huggs.
I lived in New York City for a few years, and then in Los Angeles for about 20 years. My policy was to always make eye contact with people, to walk briskly and with purpose, constantly scanning my surroundings. I've known people who walked down the street right into a group of guys, and got mugged. I am not blaming the victim, but I would cross the street if I was approaching a group of men. No reason not to be safe rather than sorry. Too many women may not want to hurt people's feelings -- you have to get over that to be safe. Thanks for another great video!
Predators (of any species) stare; they are definitely looking. When someone looks you in the eyes, look directly into their eyes, never quickly avert your eyes. I always look people in the eyes while walking toward them; not forcefully or belligerently, but directly - just let them know that you actually “see’ them. Thanks for sharing Bob!
Great video. I’m a Marine and am always practicing situational awareness, even at home. I will be going full time on the road later this year and am taking steps to prepare myself and my rig. I hope to meet you in my travels. Semper Fi!
Great video, I took a self-defense class because of one of your videos. It is empowering. I think as women we tend to be "too nice". I would rather have a potential predator see me as a b**** instead of a target. I always check my surroundings & watch who is around me no matter where I'm at. Our intuition is so powerful, I would rather follow my intuition & be wrong than not follow it & be in trouble.
Agree ! Even the military trains snipers to never stare directly at potential targets. They are well aware people can sense being watched. 6th sense, gut instinct, intuition, listening to it can save you from plenty of grief. I have ignored it and almost always regret it.
Some people definitely have a lot of intuition and absolutely know when they're being watched !! here's a true story. I was moving from Arkansas Backwoods to Southern Missouri Ozarks, I was looking for property, I was Camped down on the river for a night slept in my truck, I was backed up by the river. across the river in the Ozarks were some ladies look like Mennonites, they were camping together about a half a dozen of them wearing longer dresses and things like this definitely Mennonites! anyways the one young woman walk down to the river by herself! And put her hands in the water and taking a look around. this was down in forested Wild area. But my truck was across the river and Downriver a ways but I had binoculars! and so I took a glance at these ladies having a great time over there eating and camping around their campfire in the morning. So as I was looking at this pretty lady with my binoculars she looks straight at me and I seen her lips move and she said someone is watching me! She could not see me! I was in my truck behind tinted glass!! wow I almost took it as a paranormal experience. I even felt a little ashamed because I was spying in a way by just looking because when she see me I felt guilty because I got busted even though she definitely could not see me. Also wen out hunting sometimes, I will not stare straight at a deer before I aim my bow or even with a gun!! sometimes when they are out of range because they seem to sense that you are there! even though the wind is coming from them to you and they cannot smell you. yes I believe in intuition
As always Bob, your common sense approach to personal safety is spot on. As a solo woman, I know my safety starts with situational awareness, attitude and training. Thank you for this excellent and vital video. 🌿
I was a woman driving through france with my daughter asked a village where to camp..they pointed directions, getting dusk, there where people packing up suddenly we were alone, i told my 12yr old, this doesn't look like the right idea to put up camp, so we scrambled before it got dark.......
Agree, head on a swivel. Look them in the eye, but also not for too long. Enough to let them know you know they are there. Never turn your back on someone you feel could be a threat. Never relax if in the company of potential threats.Leave any situation that feels wrong.
When I learned to ride a motorcycle, my situational awareness grew a hundred-fold because it was just necessary to stay safe. That made me a better driver in my car and to also have better awareness about my surroundings anywhere I went.
My wife is really good at situational awareness. She actually kept us from being mugged about 20 years ago when she noticed some guys following us. We were able to ditch them, but it made me realize that I really need to pay better attention to my surroundings and to activities of people nearby.
Thanks, Bob! I'm going to share this with my two twenty-something-year-old kids in hopes that throughout their life they also remain safe! One doesn't have to be a nomad to use this information!
Thanks for bringing this topic up Bob. I have been preaching situational awareness to people for years, though most people are not responsive to it. It is one of the most important things a person should learn in any environment. Wherever you live or are at at the time, be it inner city, urban, suburban, rural, remote, wilderness etc., situational awareness is key to your health and wellbeing. To go through life without practicing even passive awareness of your surroundings is an open invitation to personal disaster. I see more and more people outside with their eyes glued to their devices and their ears plugged that are truly oblivious. It is not that hard to avoid your downfall.
As you asked: yes what you said makes a lot of sense, Bob. And just to add: keeping the head up and being aware of what happens around you does not only help against human predators, but at least in some cases also against (other) animals. If you notice what happens around you, you can identify potential dangers and prepare yourself to avoid it or deal with it, and that's already 90% or so of your safety. If you notice in time the venomous snake on your path, you can avoid it (or, if you are a hungry survivalist, catch and eat it), but you are not bitten. And for the remaining 10% safety, Your behavior and posture and body language signals clearly to the whole world around you, what type of easy or not so easy victim you are. And that might keep most of the predators away. Predators observe their prey before they attack. And it is always reducing the risks for a predator if the prey isn't aware of a (potential) attack and doesn't run away or prepares for fighting back. So if a predator has the choice between a potential prey which is aware of the risk of an attack and a potential prey which obviously isn't aware, it will surely choose the one which isn't aware. That said, even if you aren't aware of the risk, you can at least pretend to be aware in order to keep the attackers away. Keep your head up and look around, that fits even for a more or less blind person to look as if you would see everything. In the Sunderbans in India, people have developed a great strategy against tiger attacks: as tigers attack their prey usually from behind, these people wear face masks on the back of their head when they are moving around in the jungles or on their fields. Seems showing the face alone (or a mask pretending to be a face) is enough to keep tigers away from attack.
Always walk like you belong! I've been trying to tell people that for years but most don't understand why it's important or how to do it without looking silly. I've spent thousands of hours working in northwest regions of Canada, and you must walk with confidence when surrounded by predators. Bears and mountain lions attack the weak, I always walked with intent when I was alone in forest
Absolutely makes sense. I have a decent sense of awareness but not sure it is always "on". I avoided a potential purse snatching in Walmart one early morning by being aware I was being followed from department to department. From camping supplies to food to picture frames then to BRAS! It still didn't really register until I conversed with the cashier about their security people following a little too close...and she said they were not on the floor yet. I told the supervisor who and what I saw since he turned to follow someone else (an easier target?). Another time at a rock concert I saw some potential violence about to happen and moved away. Police came and took the people out of the venue. I would that say being a "quiet" person who watches a lot, I see a lot. Thanks for this video - Book ordered!
Thanks Bob! As a security guard for many years most of what you are saying is 100% how a security person lives their life on and off the job. It just becomes second nature. I would recommend any person take the training even if they do not wish to work security.
Highly agree. I'm a 73 yo female. A year ago I took an 8-hours hands-on self-defense class. I was the oldest person attending by 10 years. Even though I'm licensed to carry a concealed weopon, I wanted to learn how to avoid trouble. Situational awareness is everyone's first defense. I learned a few ways to physically defend myself but this class was more about avoiding confrontations first and then ways of handling things when necessary. I recently had a situation while walking my dog in the park. My dog kept turning around and groweling. The only other person where I was walking was a young man walking quickly toward me. I moved off the path to a clearing and faced him. As he approached with clenched fists and an aggressive demeanor, I took one step toward him, looked him squarely in his eyes, raised my arm and hand toward him, and firmly said, stop I am armed. He froze, looked me up and down and decided to leave. I am so thankful for what I learned in that class. I highly recommend that everyone take a self-defense class.
Good one, Bob. Love the emphasis on using one's intuition. Totally agree, it's one of THE most important things in life, across the board. Also, people need to not only learn ways to develop it (meditation and deep breathing are key), but to TRUST it (that's the challenge). I have a plethora of stories in that regard, but this video spurred memories of one. Years ago, a guy friend of mine and I were driving around in the "big city." I'm not normally a "backseat driver," but all day long I kept saying things like, "don't follow so close," and "slow down", and similar things. He wasn't used to that from me, and was kind of annoyed by it, ha. But I just felt apparently intuitively spurred to do this. So then we were heading home, just got fueled up and pulled out from the gas station. The exit we needed to take was just right there, almost directly across from the station. So he wasn't going that fast. Just as we got to the exit, this other car from the highway, literally shot like a rocket beside us, and cut in front of us onto the exit ramp. It happened so fast, there was no reaction time. So our vehicle continued at the same speed, and had a bird's eye view of what happened to that car. On our path, right in front of us, in a matter of seconds. It flipped about 2 or 3 times and landed on its wheels on the side of the exit road, clearing our path just in the nick of time. If it hadn't landed off the road, we would have collided with it. I'm sure I said to my guy friend that this must have been why I felt so compelled to monitor his driving that day, feeling the energy of this event coming. People need to overcome their fear of "being weird" by following their intuition, and to really start respecting that "sixth sense."
I learned more about intuition and following it by traveling alone than I could ever imagine. Being aware for myself has been a positive experience for me. I still travel with my husband, more now that he is retired but I learned a lot about myself traveling alone. Great advise. Thank you
I've done quite a few long distance road trips solo in my van. I'm 63, and don't have any pets with me. A few of my rules include NEVER giving anyone a ride; NEVER getting out of my van to help someone; NEVER letting anyone else use my phone; and ALWAYS locking my doors when driving and when just sitting in the van, reading or scrolling/watching videos, no matter what time of day. I offer to make a call to an emergency service or the auto club for roadside service or a tow if someone needs one; I've even allowed a stranger's tow to go on my membership tally for the year. But unfortunately, there are times and places where I've slept in my driver's seat, fully clothed and with my shoes on, with a good blanket and a couple of jackets for cover and warmth, so I can start my van and drive away within 15 seconds of being awakened if it's too sketchy. The seat reclines and is fairly comfy, and it does force me to sleep on my back which is better for my sinus drainage anyway. Oh, and I keep a can of bear spray and my fully charged phone within easy reach, wherever I sleep. Thank you for this reminder message, Bob.
Also, 63, and I've used situational awareness and "intuition" to remain safe. I know my rig, I know there are blind spots (I'm saving funds to add Bluetooth cameras), but for now, knowing the shortcomings means I look at the situation differently. I left a Cracker Barrel (usually have no problem) because it was too empty, too close to an overpass where my lone rig was highly visible. I don't know that anything would have happened. I do know, I got a better night's sleep my driving a little further and finding a spot where I didn't stick out like a sore thumb!
America is a dangerous place. Safety on its streets is exceptional. I knew this when I was living in it. It is important to educate people about safety methods. Thank you.
"Taken" with Liam Neeson came out when my daughter & her friend were planning trip to Paris. Standing at airport saying "have fun" was scariest day. She needed to not feed on my fear & enjoy. So..have fun!! 😂
Bob, you bordered on it, but all of the same things apply to driving. Head on a swivel with all directions and in so doing know who is in those blind spots that your mirror does not cover. I have health issues so I cannot rotate my head very well so I watch all three mirrors very frequently so that no one sneaks up on those blind spots. Phones are dangerous driving as they take you out of "awareness" and they do the same walking through a store or on a sidewalk. Eyes, ears, always paying attention is the safest way through life. It protects you from other people but also natural dangers. One other one that amazes me is that no one seems to look up. Walking along a building on a sidewalk you should know if construction is going on above you. Hopefully they roped off a safety zone, but you would be amazed at the folks who will duck under those ropes and never look up. You hit the nail on the head though. For nomads, I would suggest that you leave a store, go straight to your car, look inside before opening the doors, then when you get inside take time to look around to see if anyone is watching you to follow. Also watch for folks following you on the road. If it even for a second seems like there is a car/truck following you find a safe spot to stop and let them go by. You may have been marked as a target by someone waiting til you get to a remote place. Again just be aware and protect yourself. Good subject and good talk Bob.
I'm a full-time RVer. When I go into town, I dress poor. Old clothes. no jewelry, no warch, no cell phone hsnging out of your back pocket. For women, a handbag with a strong over-the-shoulder strap. No expensive nail polish.Criminals are looking for money. Don"t dress like you have a lot of it on you. And men, put your wallet in your front pocket!
Agree totally with this. One of my greatest frustrations is women putting their purses in car trunks or under car seats - in full view! - at trailheads.
@@Tipperary757 truer words were never spoken!! Anytime I know I’m going to a trail or such place, I don’t even take a full purse/bag. I remove my drivers license and some cash or a card and carry it on me and leave the rest either at home in the old days, now with my Van I have a private place built to hide little things. I also make sure the pants I wear have DEEP pockets so things don’t fall out easily. I was hurt as a child and was in an abusive relationship as an adult and I had a therapist who taught me about situational awareness and looking like someone to be reckoned with. Until my mid-twenties I definitely walked around with VICTIM practically written on my forehead. Now my mid-forties nobody messes with me!
Keep up the great information Bob! A lot of people are to trusting. I have learned something of value with each of your videos. Thank You! Keep Smiling😁🫶🏼
A lot of people are to paranoid as well...Try to remember we need a balance to have an actual life, I met some really insane paranoid people just as bad as the clueless. lol
Although I leave this comment here - it's so to speak - has accumulated from watching many videos on this channel and not only here. That makes more sense - what I mean. I'm not from the U.S., and I've never been there - I'm just observing carefully - what's going on. So. Looking at various videos and reading various texts on the Internet about the real estate situation in the United States, I personally came to the conclusion that the authorities in all the states have turned - all real estate in general - into a global scam. Why have I come to this conclusion? What you can't look at: 1- private homes in non-regulated areas. 2-Hourly homes in communities. 3-Apartments in high-rise buildings. 4-apartments in townhouses. Everywhere you look in the description of the costs of a person for all this housing - you see the same theme everywhere - you will spend everything you have + you owe more. Well, the authorities can not be so stupid as to make fun of the population. It seems that all the laws that "they write" are written only to rob you once again. But that's not what I wanted to say. What I wrote at the top is that I'm worried that as more and more people live in cars, the government will make the same laws for people who live in cars. So that all of you (us) could not even breathe as those who have been sitting for decades in debt, paying off the house loan. They will come up with some laws so that people who live in cars will have to pay the same as those who live in houses. They, who live in houses, pay their entire lives in credit. Let's just imagine a man - he's 18, 21-22, let's say he takes out a loan for a house - for 30 years. At best, he will finish paying off that loan in about 15 years if he tries very hard. Imagine him just paying it off on schedule. A young man full of energy at 21 years old is up to his ears in credit and ends up paying it off at 51 years old. how VOCAL this is can only be understood by those who are already 50 or so. Young people simply cannot comprehend the meanness of "this system". So I hope and fear that lawmakers in the U.S. will come up with the same system for those who live in their cars. So that you (us) would be "always owed". And the rudiments of what I write seems to be already there - judging from many videos - just to live in a car in many places - just not legal. If a person isn't breaking any laws, and he's just different from someone else by sleeping in his car - why isn't that legal? It's a shame that the "system" is so stupid.
Many moons ago a fellow worker & i were talkig about how people avoid me,, and he said Tom Catt it's the way U carry yourself & look people directly in their eyes & that intimidates people,, always wondered Y people steered clear of me,, I'm in my late 60s now & people still avoid me... Though maybe i stunk 🦨
Bob, this is GREAT. Statistically, most sexual assaults are people known to the victim. WOMEN: NEVER hesitate to make noise, be obnoxious. Stop being so polite!! Polite WILL NOT save you. Your big mouth MAY.
One thing I can do is instantly shape shift my energy. I ball up my fist, put my keys through my fingers, or have a hand on my pepper spray, with a "I'm a mean MF, what the hell do you want?" look on my face. I learned how to shape shift my energy when fighting in the ring in my martial arts training to psyche out my opponents... it surprised a few who thought I'd be easy and threw them off guard. 😉 Once I was being approached by a group of teens and my gut instinct alerted me they were going to try to mug me. As they approached they began to spread out across the sidewalk a little, all eyes on me, not talking to each other. I gripped my purse handle firmly and when they got close, I scared the crap out of them. I did the total shape shift of energy and jumped into a kung fu fighting stance. They ran like crazy! 🤣🤣🤣 Situational awareness and projection! A policeman once told me that being aware will always make you less of a victim.
Bob! Of all the masterfully delivered messages you have delivered on this channel... this is my favorite because without it, without becoming situationaly aware, the rest would be tough to enjoy safely. Thank you. I'm buying the book!
I have learned when walking to be aware of shadows coming up quick .. reflection in windows , & a host of other helpful tools to keep alert ... be safe be alert
This goes for anyone, anywhere. When I first owned firearms, I seared this into my brain. I didn't want to become a victim, and I didn't ever want to use any of my weapons. It is better to solve the problem before it happens. These tips are the ounces of prevention that prevent pounds of pain. This is one of the many reasons I like you, you care about others.
When I lived in Vancouver, I worked at a downtown church mission. When the bus strike happened, I had to walk. My knee gave out. Luckily, it happened near a store that sold mobility aids. I got a knee brace and a walker. When I got close to skid row, I knew I looked like a victim, so I put on The Attitude. "You want a piece of me? Just try it!" I got to work safely. Jon in rural BC, Canada
I am pleased to know I seem to have these qualities & traits naturally. I am so self-aware I take it for granite. I always suspected I lived in some magical bubble, watching others fall around me & leaving a path of destruction in my wake, yet I survived. Time & time again. I suppose I should be grateful for my childhood & the wisdom it entrusted to me. Through fire we are forged into Iron. Tyvm for the wisdom, it is a noble thing to teach others. Best wishes to all of us Nomads.
Good info Bob. I've watched a couple of your security videos. Taught Awareness, Avoidance and Action concepts for years...yes, simplified and there's a lot more to these 3 aspects of security, but you hit on several key points. Look forward to seeing more.
I've traveled by car often on long and short road trips across the US and Canada including AK a few times from age 10 to 60 something and maybe it's just that I'm aging out, or maybe it's due to more immediate news reports with the internet and social media comments , but it seems it's getting more dangerous out there. In the old days I'd think almost nothing of going out into a downtown in the wee hours of the morning or doing a night time photographic shoot just walking around. Now if I go back to the same city it just has a different vibe, more dangerous , or a foreboding sense that danger is out there. Maybe it always was and the brashness of youth tempered the danger and now maybe it's just a cumulative effect of bad news reports day after day., maybe it's an increase in homeless sleeping in store door fronts as you walk past or screaming nonsense into the night from a few blocks down that in the old days wasn't part of a downtown.
Street smart , actually means having a keen sense of awareness within your surrounding ...Alertness is key .. Never turn your back & walk away from a heightened level situation ... Always keep an eye on potential danger as you back off ... To many times the aggressor waits for you to let down your guard ! Creating distance between them & you is your goal , but never just turn & walk away ... Aggressors thrive on emotional fear & weakness .. be aware of groups ," two or more hanging out ", especially at night .. assault crimes happens more often at night ... Selecting to be alert can save your life ! Surroundings change .. never select to feel complaisant , or think now your safe letting down your guard of awareness ... alertness is not paranoid ... say it again alertness is not paranoid ! Nor is alertness a sign of fear ! awareness of your surroundings , who's there ? who's a potential threat ? Military training of detecting potential danger ...
I've been told I carry myself like a teacher, or a soldier. I'm not sure what that means, but I think it's a good thing after seeing this video 😊 I'll be getting that book!
Bob, I purchased this book yesterday and am half way through. The information on "situational awaress" is excellent. Thank you for this recommendation! Another good book, though I prefer this one, is 'The Gift of Fear. '
I'd say this IS an important topic and tip! As a security guard for many years, its the first thing we are trained on. Observe and report was all I was qualified for, not defense. I noticed when at an event this past weekend, I assumed my guard standing position when I got up to stretch my legs. it made me chuckle to myself. This video reminded me, its a good thing I have situational awareness built in now that I am semi-retired!
Bob this is a GREAT VIDEO! You are spot on in all your helpful tips to stay safe. I would like to share a few more that I had to use when I was working on Skid Row in LA. CA. When I walked to my bus stops after work if I felt threatened I would start talking aloud to myself and twitching. Start shouting at no one in particular or just at whatever. A wall. The sky. BUT the important thing is to keep walking as if YOU have purpose. And no eye contact unless ABSOLUTELY necessary. Remember you are in your illness mode. Keep it up until you get to your destination cuz not to many people want to deal with the mentally challenged people who exhibit their sickness. Peace out. Stay safe to you and all the road warriors. And thank you again for sharing! ❤
YES go on gut instinct. (trigger alert) Once when I was traveling in Switzerland, I could see a man edging up behind me in the reflective glass of a building . When I felt his hand under my arm, I elbowed him as hard as possible and left him staggering backwards. It pays to be aware. Another time, I was in a park here in the mountains of Georgia. There was a popular path to a waterfall, very well maintained, but walking down it, I felt the hair stand up on my neck and, not to over spiritualize, but I felt God or an angel telling me GET OUT. Not a suggestion, not a passing thought, a definite GET OUT. I turned on my heel and passed a tall, rather gaunt man coming right behind me. I didn't think about it, I wanted to get in my vehicle, lock the doors, and get out. Within a day or so, a woman went missing from that same park. A man had taken her in a van. They saw on the cameras of a gas station that he had blood on the back of his van, but in that area people often field dress deer and other game. He held her for four days before she lost her life. So sad. I believe that my life was spared. When you see that I was in the same park the same day that he was... I remember him. I also remembered the van, because you don't often see old white vans in those parks, they are usually a regular car or some kind of vacation vehicle, not a painter's van. So follow your gut instinct.
I was leaving a shopping center and my phone rang so I pulled over at the lower part of the lot to answer the call. I had been on the phone about 2 minutes when I glanced in the side mirror and saw a man running up from behind me. Luckily I hadn’t put my car in park because as he grabbed my door handle I just stomped the gas and took off. He scared me so bad and I took off so fast I was squealing tires as I turned out of the parking lot. If I had been sitting there with my car in park he would have gotten my door open before I could put it in drive and go. I felt like a dummy because I didn’t have my doors locked so now I automatically lock them as soon as I get in my vehicle.
Sooo true! Great presentation for sure. I think we have to make awareness a habit. If some scoundrel wants to find their next victim- it won’t be somebody who might attract attention. It’s hit fast and get away fast
I took a gun safety/training course years ago.. (2 weeks) one week 1st year 1 week the next year. The first thing they taught was situational awareness. The average person is at yellow.. basically looking if the light is green, if they can cross the road safely. Then comes the people who do that and also looking around to see a car swerving, car behind getting too close. Delivery truck pulling out of parking. Then the top tier, .. All of the above plus fully aware of the posture of people walking by, the Brinks truck at the bank collective payrolls.. furtive looks.. stay vigilant, you don't want to just be safe, you want to not need rescued, robbed. You want to take control of your life. Prevent it from happening.
Been this way all my life and I don’t know why or where I picked it up from. My kids even laugh at me because sometimes I am over aware. Raising my children I always looked 10 steps ahead of them, were they heading into danger, do I have to move something so they won’t be hurt etc. etc. etc. I was always looking, preparing, ready for any situation and now as a great grandmother I am still that way. I am always assessing every situation I am in. I’m so glad I heard this video so now at least I know I’m not crazy.
I was in a hike in Mi. Hadn’t passed anyone in 45 minutes or so and all of a sudden there was a man 4 feet behind me. I hollered at him for getting so close without saying “ coming up behind you”. I think in the end I scared him more than he scared me. But…I am 5 feet 10, so pretty big for a lady.
Great reminders, I am comfortable in my neighborhood and while traveling but I need to pay more attention. A recent discovery from a possum and raccoon hanging around and bullying a cat colony - at home I keep a bat by my front and back door and by my bed. Never have had to use it or even pick it up. I took it with me just in case because I've seen raccoons be pretty aggressive. I'm 62 and not very strong so I couldn't swing a bat well enough to do any protecting. My great nephew and niece play wiffle ball at my house. Let me tell you, a wiffle ball bat is easily swung and i could get several whacks in pretty easily. Thankfully, all I have to do with the raccoon is tap the bat on the ground and he runs away. I'm so glad I made this discovery and I know a lot of people that keep bats nearby without thinking of what they can really, physically do. The bat is my personal limit, I don't think I could actually shoot anything, so it is what it is. Hopefully, if someone is like me, it will be a helpful tip. Thanks for sharing this important info
Thank you, Bob, for an invaluable advice on one's own safety awareness. That "gut feeling" you touched on can be the difference in your living or dying. As a van lifer myself it has kept me alive for two years while traveling.
thanks, bob. as a perpetual solo traveler, i have experienced many many scary situations, and NOT because i put myself in unsafe situations. ANYWAY - good subject to cover so i THANK YOU.
I have been told that, in spite of the fact that I am a gray haired senior, I tend to make some people a little uncomfortable because I present confidence and habitually look everyone straight in the eyes. If I am walking past someone, who looks a bit sketchy, I stand up straight, pull my shoulders back, look at them full in the eyes, give them a small smile and say "hello". This is apparently completely different than what they are used to seeing. They are seen and acknowledged. I have seen big men drop their gaze, turn away and immediately head off elsewhere.
My son does a head tip acknowledgement. No hello’s. No smile. But no threat. After seeing reactions, I now do that. It doesn’t invite chitchat. It says "I see you".
What a lot of people need to realize is they need to listen to that little voice in their head that says somethings not right and not just try to ignore it not try to be polite. Listen to that voice. Although you might not know why it’s not right studies have shown that people subconscious picks up on things and they send you that little Spidey sense listen to it.
Vou acrescentar mais um item na sua lista Bob.... Óculos escuros.... quando um criminoso nao consegue ver seus olhos ele pensa; e se a pessoa estiver olhando pra mim? na dúvida ele procura outra vitima.....
Bob, I realize your main message over the mamy years you've been doing this is independence. But you should check out Community First with Alan Graham out of Austin, Texas. What this man has done is truly miraculous. I'd love to live there. It was an outgrowth of Mobile Loaves and Fishes.
You are not wasting your time at all. This is a very important subject. When I look at people around me while I'm out and about, almost everyone has their face buried in their phones. Even at restaurants. They ignore the people they are having a meal with and both are on their phones swiping, texting and so on. No one is paying attention to what's going on around them. So yes, this is a very important subject. We're in a time when there are so many people being attacked on the streets than ever before. It's unprecedented. I've never seen or heard about this being so rampant in all my days, as it is now. That very reason makes it even more imperative that we do have phones with us to call for help, but we should not be allowing ourselves to be distracted with them. Great report Bob!
Yes please keep these coming. I find myself suddenly a senior, and a traveler. I sleep in my truck when on the road or doing shows. You might regret opening my truck when I'm inside, but I'm not as strong as I used to be. Security is something important to me. Thanks. Kent
Thanks for sharing, however, it would be a great idea if you stand closer to the camera since you will also be closer to the 🎤🎙️ and we could hear you louder thus resulting in a much more interesting program. Thank you in advance.
Spot on - I've been working for a law enforcement agency for 28 years. I am NOT deputized but yet I learned so much and see so much. The headphones and bubble is so true, or people walking around on their cell phone!!!! Be aware folks. Pay attention.
Glad we had this conversation (No beboppin') Bob! 😊 Very important information, and as always, very relatable. Situational awareness has been foremost on my mind. Especially after two close encounters with Western Diamondbacks in the last 2 weeks. 😕 FYI: anti-venom ain't cheap. Head on a swivel - yes! Longitudinally, as well as latitudinally.
Good video. First rule of martial arts is avoidance. You do not go where trouble goes. Second rule is removal. If you fall into a potentially dangerous situation, exit fast.... Way before it even becomes dangerous.
The two best things to do to ensure your safety is be armed and prepared to use it and stay out of democrat controlled states and areas where they encourage crime
Another thing is a criminal usually is looking to score financially whether it be cash or things they can sell so be aware and not make yourself look so well off financially. Criminals usually do not travel to the trailer parks to break into homes but go to the nicer neighborhoods and the same applies to a degree here. This is one area that the person driving a 20 year old van with maybe a door replaced that is a different color or in primer has an advantage over that person that is driving a nice 2 year old high top sprinter van with the outback tarp on it laden with solar panels. Also I am a firm believer in firearms for protection and self defense. Take the time and get your states concealed carry permit as in many states there is reciprocity between states as in my case 38 states recognize and honor my states ccw permit within their borders. Nothing will equal the playing field and offer you a better chance of survival than a firearm if you do not have the option to avoid a confrontation or leave the area. I was raised it is better to be judged by twelve than carried by six! Generally the police will be at best minutes away when you are faced with seconds to protect yourself. I do not condone a person playing Rambo or badass but I do condone a person to hurt the bad guy before he hurts you.! Another thing about traveling new places is you do not know what is a good safe area and what may be a bad area sometimes in advance. Plan your trips so you have several hours of daylight to decide where you will spend the night and be off the road and the streets before nightfall. Again danger can hit at anytime but criminals like being under the cover of darkness when possible. And Bob is right the person that is responsible for YOUR safety is YOU!
I appreciate your discussing this subject again, Bob. I look forward to your future videos on this, or any other subject matter! I often think back to when I’ve been a victim of crimes, of several varieties. Being situationally aware after the first couple of incidents didn’t stop them from reoccurring; but I suppose if I didn’t pay attention or get really vocal as I have done to draw attention, I’m sure that I would’ve been seriously hurt. I laugh when friends have told me I should write a book about it. LOL, whenever I’m able to travel (my RV purchase fell through yesterday), I hope to attend my first RTR &/or WRTR & meet you & the HOWA staff. A good friend of mine thinks that I should ask you to “interview” me! I’d rather it was the other way around! 😉 😂👍🏻
Yeah good advice. Also don't think are safe when you pull up at your house. I usually open carry plus a knife on my side. Of course when traveling that limits me to a few states I can't go to.
BOB IS 100%correct . Wearing headphones.. constantly looking at your smartphone or tablet. These are all distractions.. you need to stay focused and be aware of everything around you.. listen to that inner spidey sense. . That sense has been passed down to you from primitive man.. change your direction change your plan.. be prepared.. don't ignore the warning signs... Make eye contact! If you look away the criminal may perceive you as being weak..
When I'm out in my big van or my travel trailer I am armed for self defense. I have motion sensing flood lights that are solar chargeable that I place in a couple locations around my campsite - they come on if I come out or if other motion occurs [an intruder into the campsite such as a raccoon, bear, or prowler]. I now plan to add a motion sensor that will alarm inside my van or TT if motion is sensed outside - I have 2 outside sensors - I use them at home but plan to take them on trips. I think a bear or human intruder will be frightened off by the floodlights and I will be awakened by the motion sensors. If I see a bear in my campsite, then I think I will sound the vehicle alarm which will sound the horn and flash the lights - maybe this will send the bear running away??
I love your comments! I have practiced these things for so long now it is second nature to me. I also am mindful of the approx. time of day. Being female and often by myself I prefer not to be out after dark but anytime i make a late night Walmart run, for example, I always park as close to the front as possible (better lighting and visibility), take a good tall stance when out of car, deliberately take a good look around so I can know who all is where all so to speak and so i am very visible to them. I keep my purse as hidden away as possible and with its strap across my body or if only a short strap with my arm through the strap loop up to my elbow. As I walk I i frequently glance around. One more thing, i also try not to park next to a van...goes back to visibility, among a cpl other things. Well, I am saying too much I guess but I love safety tips. Always interested in more of them. Take care, keep up the good work!
I walk around w/my head on a swivel at all times. I've been like this all my life & perhaps that's why I've never become a target or have been a victim of any crime. So maybe that's why. Knock on wood! Lol
I've been told I walk with an 'F You' walk. I don't know what that looks like but I always walk with situational awareness and that must be part of it.
I appreciate hearing your common sense advice. I have been that person who is staring down at my phone and finds myself face to face with a stranger asking me for money.
Good stuff Bob and its good you are putting out these videos and considering the times we are in even more important than ever, Bob has their been a significant increase in crime that the Nomads community is experienced in recent times??
"When Seconds Count, the Police are Only Hours Away." You are your own first responder.
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As a retired 911 Dispatcher, I can say without a doubt this is true and is likely to get worse.
Always pack heat
This is so true. I grew up in an abusive environment. This taught me to be aware of everything around me. My less than ideal childhood has kept me safe. It became my superpower.
Yeah, it really has, we were forged in fire from birth & now we are made as tough as Iron. Use that pain & struggle to inspire a positive future for your self my Sister. Huggs.
Sometimes the bad things in our past prepare us for our future. Be safe and travel on
Same same! Always aware of surroundings and always vigilant. Sometimes, I'm too hyper aware though.
Ditto.
Absolutely true.
I lived in New York City for a few years, and then in Los Angeles for about 20 years. My policy was to always make eye contact with people, to walk briskly and with purpose, constantly scanning my surroundings. I've known people who walked down the street right into a group of guys, and got mugged. I am not blaming the victim, but I would cross the street if I was approaching a group of men. No reason not to be safe rather than sorry. Too many women may not want to hurt people's feelings -- you have to get over that to be safe. Thanks for another great video!
You definitely have to not care about insulting people. I won’t get into an elevator with men or a man only.
Predators (of any species) stare; they are definitely looking. When someone looks you in the eyes, look directly into their eyes, never quickly avert your eyes. I always look people in the eyes while walking toward them; not forcefully or belligerently, but directly - just let them know that you actually “see’ them. Thanks for sharing Bob!
Great video. I’m a Marine and am always practicing situational awareness, even at home. I will be going full time on the road later this year and am taking steps to prepare myself and my rig. I hope to meet you in my travels. Semper Fi!
Looking forward to your videos, Marine 😳👍
Thank you for your service. Oorah
Only way to defend yourself in the wilderness is with a gun, also get yourself a shovel to use after using the gun.😂🎉
Great video, I took a self-defense class because of one of your videos. It is empowering. I think as women we tend to be "too nice". I would rather have a potential predator see me as a b**** instead of a target. I always check my surroundings & watch who is around me no matter where I'm at. Our intuition is so powerful, I would rather follow my intuition & be wrong than not follow it & be in trouble.
Agree ! Even the military trains snipers to never stare directly at potential targets. They are well aware people can sense being watched. 6th sense, gut instinct, intuition, listening to it can save you from plenty of grief. I have ignored it and almost always regret it.
You know b***h is an acronym for... Boys I'm Taking Charge Here....
Some people definitely have a lot of intuition and absolutely know when they're being watched !! here's a true story. I was moving from Arkansas Backwoods to Southern Missouri Ozarks, I was looking for property, I was Camped down on the river for a night slept in my truck, I was backed up by the river. across the river in the Ozarks were some ladies look like Mennonites, they were camping together about a half a dozen of them wearing longer dresses and things like this definitely Mennonites! anyways the one young woman walk down to the river by herself! And put her hands in the water and taking a look around. this was down in forested Wild area. But my truck was across the river and Downriver a ways but I had binoculars! and so I took a glance at these ladies having a great time over there eating and camping around their campfire in the morning. So as I was looking at this pretty lady with my binoculars she looks straight at me and I seen her lips move and she said someone is watching me! She could not see me! I was in my truck behind tinted glass!! wow I almost took it as a paranormal experience. I even felt a little ashamed because I was spying in a way by just looking because when she see me I felt guilty because I got busted even though she definitely could not see me. Also wen out hunting sometimes, I will not stare straight at a deer before I aim my bow or even with a gun!! sometimes when they are out of range because they seem to sense that you are there! even though the wind is coming from them to you and they cannot smell you. yes I believe in intuition
As always Bob, your common sense approach to personal safety is spot on.
As a solo woman, I know my safety starts with situational awareness, attitude and training. Thank you for this excellent and vital video. 🌿
I was a woman driving through france with my daughter asked a village where to camp..they pointed directions, getting dusk, there where people packing up suddenly we were alone, i told my 12yr old, this doesn't look like the right idea to put up camp, so we scrambled before it got dark.......
When in doubt.......always watch the hands. If something is going to happen, it'll come from the hands.
Agree, head on a swivel. Look them in the eye, but also not for too long. Enough to let them know you know they are there. Never turn your back on someone you feel could be a threat. Never relax if in the company of potential threats.Leave any situation that feels wrong.
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When I learned to ride a motorcycle, my situational awareness grew a hundred-fold because it was just necessary to stay safe. That made me a better driver in my car and to also have better awareness about my surroundings anywhere I went.
My wife is really good at situational awareness. She actually kept us from being mugged about 20 years ago when she noticed some guys following us. We were able to ditch them, but it made me realize that I really need to pay better attention to my surroundings and to activities of people nearby.
Thanks, Bob! I'm going to share this with my two twenty-something-year-old kids in hopes that throughout their life they also remain safe! One doesn't have to be a nomad to use this information!
Thanks for bringing this topic up Bob. I have been preaching situational awareness to people for years, though most people are not responsive to it. It is one of the most important things a person should learn in any environment. Wherever you live or are at at the time, be it inner city, urban, suburban, rural, remote, wilderness etc., situational awareness is key to your health and wellbeing. To go through life without practicing even passive awareness of your surroundings is an open invitation to personal disaster. I see more and more people outside with their eyes glued to their devices and their ears plugged that are truly oblivious. It is not that hard to avoid your downfall.
As you asked: yes what you said makes a lot of sense, Bob.
And just to add: keeping the head up and being aware of what happens around you does not only help against human predators, but at least in some cases also against (other) animals.
If you notice what happens around you, you can identify potential dangers and prepare yourself to avoid it or deal with it, and that's already 90% or so of your safety. If you notice in time the venomous snake on your path, you can avoid it (or, if you are a hungry survivalist, catch and eat it), but you are not bitten.
And for the remaining 10% safety, Your behavior and posture and body language signals clearly to the whole world around you, what type of easy or not so easy victim you are. And that might keep most of the predators away.
Predators observe their prey before they attack. And it is always reducing the risks for a predator if the prey isn't aware of a (potential) attack and doesn't run away or prepares for fighting back. So if a predator has the choice between a potential prey which is aware of the risk of an attack and a potential prey which obviously isn't aware, it will surely choose the one which isn't aware.
That said, even if you aren't aware of the risk, you can at least pretend to be aware in order to keep the attackers away. Keep your head up and look around, that fits even for a more or less blind person to look as if you would see everything.
In the Sunderbans in India, people have developed a great strategy against tiger attacks: as tigers attack their prey usually from behind, these people wear face masks on the back of their head when they are moving around in the jungles or on their fields. Seems showing the face alone (or a mask pretending to be a face) is enough to keep tigers away from attack.
That's right, walk like you belong wherever you are, pay attention, head up, shoulders back! Oh, and always know where your exit points are 🤠
Exit points!!! Absolutely.
Always walk like you belong! I've been trying to tell people that for years but most don't understand why it's important or how to do it without looking silly. I've spent thousands of hours working in northwest regions of Canada, and you must walk with confidence when surrounded by predators. Bears and mountain lions attack the weak, I always walked with intent when I was alone in forest
Absolutely makes sense. I have a decent sense of awareness but not sure it is always "on". I avoided a potential purse snatching in Walmart one early morning by being aware I was being followed from department to department. From camping supplies to food to picture frames then to BRAS! It still didn't really register until I conversed with the cashier about their security people following a little too close...and she said they were not on the floor yet. I told the supervisor who and what I saw since he turned to follow someone else (an easier target?). Another time at a rock concert I saw some potential violence about to happen and moved away. Police came and took the people out of the venue. I would that say being a "quiet" person who watches a lot, I see a lot. Thanks for this video - Book ordered!
Thanks Bob! As a security guard for many years most of what you are saying is 100% how a security person lives their life on and off the job. It just becomes second nature. I would recommend any person take the training even if they do not wish to work security.
That's a good idea...I will look into it. Any programs in Canada you would suggest?
Highly agree. I'm a 73 yo female. A year ago I took an 8-hours hands-on self-defense class. I was the oldest person attending by 10 years. Even though I'm licensed to carry a concealed weopon, I wanted to learn how to avoid trouble. Situational awareness is everyone's first defense. I learned a few ways to physically defend myself but this class was more about avoiding confrontations first and then ways of handling things when necessary. I recently had a situation while walking my dog in the park. My dog kept turning around and groweling. The only other person where I was walking was a young man walking quickly toward me. I moved off the path to a clearing and faced him. As he approached with clenched fists and an aggressive demeanor, I took one step toward him, looked him squarely in his eyes, raised my arm and hand toward him, and firmly said, stop I am armed. He froze, looked me up and down and decided to leave. I am so thankful for what I learned in that class. I highly recommend that everyone take a self-defense class.
@@rouxchat6033 Thanks for sharing that story ❤
@@rouxchat6033 you GO girl
Good one, Bob. Love the emphasis on using one's intuition. Totally agree, it's one of THE most important things in life, across the board. Also, people need to not only learn ways to develop it (meditation and deep breathing are key), but to TRUST it (that's the challenge). I have a plethora of stories in that regard, but this video spurred memories of one. Years ago, a guy friend of mine and I were driving around in the "big city." I'm not normally a "backseat driver," but all day long I kept saying things like, "don't follow so close," and "slow down", and similar things. He wasn't used to that from me, and was kind of annoyed by it, ha. But I just felt apparently intuitively spurred to do this. So then we were heading home, just got fueled up and pulled out from the gas station. The exit we needed to take was just right there, almost directly across from the station. So he wasn't going that fast. Just as we got to the exit, this other car from the highway, literally shot like a rocket beside us, and cut in front of us onto the exit ramp. It happened so fast, there was no reaction time. So our vehicle continued at the same speed, and had a bird's eye view of what happened to that car. On our path, right in front of us, in a matter of seconds. It flipped about 2 or 3 times and landed on its wheels on the side of the exit road, clearing our path just in the nick of time. If it hadn't landed off the road, we would have collided with it. I'm sure I said to my guy friend that this must have been why I felt so compelled to monitor his driving that day, feeling the energy of this event coming. People need to overcome their fear of "being weird" by following their intuition, and to really start respecting that "sixth sense."
I learned more about intuition and following it by traveling alone than I could ever imagine. Being aware for myself has been a positive experience for me. I still travel with my husband, more now that he is retired but I learned a lot about myself traveling alone. Great advise. Thank you
Another great book on safety is "The Gift of Fear" by Gavin De Becker.
Great book. I try to read it every few years
I've done quite a few long distance road trips solo in my van. I'm 63, and don't have any pets with me. A few of my rules include NEVER giving anyone a ride; NEVER getting out of my van to help someone; NEVER letting anyone else use my phone; and ALWAYS locking my doors when driving and when just sitting in the van, reading or scrolling/watching videos, no matter what time of day. I offer to make a call to an emergency service or the auto club for roadside service or a tow if someone needs one; I've even allowed a stranger's tow to go on my membership tally for the year. But unfortunately, there are times and places where I've slept in my driver's seat, fully clothed and with my shoes on, with a good blanket and a couple of jackets for cover and warmth, so I can start my van and drive away within 15 seconds of being awakened if it's too sketchy. The seat reclines and is fairly comfy, and it does force me to sleep on my back which is better for my sinus drainage anyway. Oh, and I keep a can of bear spray and my fully charged phone within easy reach, wherever I sleep. Thank you for this reminder message, Bob.
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Also, 63, and I've used situational awareness and "intuition" to remain safe. I know my rig, I know there are blind spots (I'm saving funds to add Bluetooth cameras), but for now, knowing the shortcomings means I look at the situation differently. I left a Cracker Barrel (usually have no problem) because it was too empty, too close to an overpass where my lone rig was highly visible. I don't know that anything would have happened. I do know, I got a better night's sleep my driving a little further and finding a spot where I didn't stick out like a sore thumb!
Those are good especially about calling for someone-thanks
America is a dangerous place. Safety on its streets is exceptional. I knew this when I was living in it. It is important to educate people about safety methods. Thank you.
Thanks, Bob, with this very informative video. Even for those of us who aren't nomads, this is still very good advice.
Needed! 💚 Taking my 18 yr. old granddaughter to London in July. Your video is PRICELESS information and so timely. Much thanks, Bob.
"Taken" with Liam Neeson came out when my daughter & her friend were planning trip to Paris. Standing at airport saying "have fun" was scariest day. She needed to not feed on my fear & enjoy. So..have fun!! 😂
Bob, you bordered on it, but all of the same things apply to driving. Head on a swivel with all directions and in so doing know who is in those blind spots that your mirror does not cover. I have health issues so I cannot rotate my head very well so I watch all three mirrors very frequently so that no one sneaks up on those blind spots. Phones are dangerous driving as they take you out of "awareness" and they do the same walking through a store or on a sidewalk. Eyes, ears, always paying attention is the safest way through life. It protects you from other people but also natural dangers. One other one that amazes me is that no one seems to look up. Walking along a building on a sidewalk you should know if construction is going on above you. Hopefully they roped off a safety zone, but you would be amazed at the folks who will duck under those ropes and never look up. You hit the nail on the head though. For nomads, I would suggest that you leave a store, go straight to your car, look inside before opening the doors, then when you get inside take time to look around to see if anyone is watching you to follow. Also watch for folks following you on the road. If it even for a second seems like there is a car/truck following you find a safe spot to stop and let them go by. You may have been marked as a target by someone waiting til you get to a remote place. Again just be aware and protect yourself. Good subject and good talk Bob.
I'm a full-time RVer. When I go into town, I dress poor. Old clothes. no jewelry, no warch, no cell phone hsnging out of your back pocket. For women, a handbag with a strong over-the-shoulder strap. No expensive nail polish.Criminals are looking for money. Don"t dress like you have a lot of it on you. And men, put your wallet in your front pocket!
Agree totally with this. One of my greatest frustrations is women putting their purses in car trunks or under car seats - in full view! - at trailheads.
@@Tipperary757 truer words were never spoken!! Anytime I know I’m going to a trail or such place, I don’t even take a full purse/bag. I remove my drivers license and some cash or a card and carry it on me and leave the rest either at home in the old days, now with my Van I have a private place built to hide little things. I also make sure the pants I wear have DEEP pockets so things don’t fall out easily.
I was hurt as a child and was in an abusive relationship as an adult and I had a therapist who taught me about situational awareness and looking like someone to be reckoned with. Until my mid-twenties I definitely walked around with VICTIM practically written on my forehead. Now my mid-forties nobody messes with me!
Keep up the great information Bob! A lot of people are to trusting. I have learned something of value with each of your videos. Thank You! Keep Smiling😁🫶🏼
A lot of people are to paranoid as well...Try to remember we need a balance to have an actual life, I met some really insane paranoid people just as bad as the clueless. lol
Although I leave this comment here - it's so to speak - has accumulated from watching many videos on this channel and not only here.
That makes more sense - what I mean.
I'm not from the U.S., and I've never been there - I'm just observing carefully - what's going on.
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Looking at various videos and reading various texts on the Internet about the real estate situation in the United States, I personally came to the conclusion that the authorities in all the states have turned - all real estate in general - into a global scam.
Why have I come to this conclusion?
What you can't look at:
1- private homes in non-regulated areas.
2-Hourly homes in communities.
3-Apartments in high-rise buildings.
4-apartments in townhouses.
Everywhere you look in the description of the costs of a person for all this housing - you see the same theme everywhere - you will spend everything you have + you owe more. Well, the authorities can not be so stupid as to make fun of the population.
It seems that all the laws that "they write" are written only to rob you once again.
But that's not what I wanted to say.
What I wrote at the top is that I'm worried that as more and more people live in cars, the government will make the same laws for people who live in cars.
So that all of you (us) could not even breathe as those who have been sitting for decades in debt, paying off the house loan. They will come up with some laws so that people who live in cars will have to pay the same as those who live in houses. They, who live in houses, pay their entire lives in credit. Let's just imagine a man - he's 18, 21-22, let's say he takes out a loan for a house - for 30 years.
At best, he will finish paying off that loan in about 15 years if he tries very hard. Imagine him just paying it off on schedule. A young man full of energy at 21 years old is up to his ears in credit and ends up paying it off at 51 years old.
how VOCAL this is can only be understood by those who are already 50 or so. Young people simply cannot comprehend the meanness of "this system".
So I hope and fear that lawmakers in the U.S. will come up with the same system for those who live in their cars. So that you (us) would be "always owed".
And the rudiments of what I write seems to be already there - judging from many videos - just to live in a car in many places - just not legal.
If a person isn't breaking any laws, and he's just different from someone else by sleeping in his car - why isn't that legal? It's a shame that the "system" is so stupid.
My "situational awareess" out in boonies near Challis, ID, is Doberman, then Glock, and if those fail, Mossberg won't.
Stay off your phone when walking about. I nearly ran over a lady who had her head buried in her phone, and stepped off the curb and into the street.
I learned a long time ago to walk with an attitude that says, “Mess with me and I’ll beat the crap out of you.” It has always worked for me.
Many moons ago a fellow worker & i were talkig about how people avoid me,, and he said Tom Catt it's the way U carry yourself & look people directly in their eyes & that intimidates people,, always wondered Y people steered clear of me,, I'm in my late 60s now & people still avoid me...
Though maybe i stunk 🦨
Yep. Im small, and this totally works for me.
Bob, this is GREAT.
Statistically, most sexual assaults are people known to the victim.
WOMEN:
NEVER hesitate to make noise, be obnoxious. Stop being so polite!! Polite WILL NOT save you. Your big mouth MAY.
One thing I can do is instantly shape shift my energy. I ball up my fist, put my keys through my fingers, or have a hand on my pepper spray, with a "I'm a mean MF, what the hell do you want?" look on my face. I learned how to shape shift my energy when fighting in the ring in my martial arts training to psyche out my opponents... it surprised a few who thought I'd be easy and threw them off guard. 😉
Once I was being approached by a group of teens and my gut instinct alerted me they were going to try to mug me. As they approached they began to spread out across the sidewalk a little, all eyes on me, not talking to each other. I gripped my purse handle firmly and when they got close, I scared the crap out of them. I did the total shape shift of energy and jumped into a kung fu fighting stance. They ran like crazy! 🤣🤣🤣
Situational awareness and projection! A policeman once told me that being aware will always make you less of a victim.
Bob! Of all the masterfully delivered messages you have delivered on this channel... this is my favorite because without it, without becoming situationaly aware, the rest would be tough to enjoy safely. Thank you. I'm buying the book!
Thanks for good information Bob its great😊
I have learned when walking to be aware of shadows coming up quick .. reflection in windows , & a host of other helpful tools to keep alert ... be safe be alert
This goes for anyone, anywhere. When I first owned firearms, I seared this into my brain.
I didn't want to become a victim, and I didn't ever want to use any of my weapons. It is better to solve the problem before it happens.
These tips are the ounces of prevention that prevent pounds of pain.
This is one of the many reasons I like you, you care about others.
When I lived in Vancouver, I worked at a downtown church mission. When the bus strike happened, I had to walk. My knee gave out. Luckily, it happened near a store that sold mobility aids. I got a knee brace and a walker.
When I got close to skid row, I knew I looked like a victim, so I put on The Attitude. "You want a piece of me? Just try it!"
I got to work safely.
Jon in rural BC, Canada
i’ve walked around skid row a few times. never had an issue. so
many people there helping people.
I appreciate the topic. Until I am able to do van life, safety tips will help me as I navigate multiple forms of public transit in a major urban area.
I am pleased to know I seem to have these qualities & traits naturally. I am so self-aware I take it for granite. I always suspected I lived in some magical bubble, watching others fall around me & leaving a path of destruction in my wake, yet I survived. Time & time again. I suppose I should be grateful for my childhood & the wisdom it entrusted to me. Through fire we are forged into Iron. Tyvm for the wisdom, it is a noble thing to teach others. Best wishes to all of us Nomads.
Good info Bob. I've watched a couple of your security videos. Taught Awareness, Avoidance and Action concepts for years...yes, simplified and there's a lot more to these 3 aspects of security, but you hit on several key points. Look forward to seeing more.
I've traveled by car often on long and short road trips across the US and Canada including AK a few times from age 10 to 60 something and maybe it's just that I'm aging out, or maybe it's due to more immediate news reports with the internet and social media comments , but it seems it's getting more dangerous out there. In the old days I'd think almost nothing of going out into a downtown in the wee hours of the morning or doing a night time photographic shoot just walking around. Now if I go back to the same city it just has a different vibe, more dangerous , or a foreboding sense that danger is out there. Maybe it always was and the brashness of youth tempered the danger and now maybe it's just a cumulative effect of bad news reports day after day., maybe it's an increase in homeless sleeping in store door fronts as you walk past or screaming nonsense into the night from a few blocks down that in the old days wasn't part of a downtown.
Street smart , actually means having a keen sense of awareness within your surrounding ...Alertness is key .. Never turn your back & walk away from a heightened level situation ... Always keep an eye on potential danger as you back off ... To many times the aggressor waits for you to let down your guard ! Creating distance between them & you is your goal , but never just turn & walk away ... Aggressors thrive on emotional fear & weakness .. be aware of groups ," two or more hanging out ", especially at night .. assault crimes happens more often at night ... Selecting to be alert can save your life ! Surroundings change .. never select to feel complaisant , or think now your safe letting down your guard of awareness ... alertness is not paranoid ... say it again alertness is not paranoid ! Nor is alertness a sign of fear ! awareness of your surroundings , who's there ? who's a potential threat ? Military training of detecting potential danger ...
I've been told I carry myself like a teacher, or a soldier. I'm not sure what that means, but I think it's a good thing after seeing this video 😊
I'll be getting that book!
I walk with a faster gait than the average person and always with a sense of purpose because I was a teacher who had to get to meetings across campus.
Bob, I purchased this book yesterday and am half way through. The information on "situational awaress" is excellent. Thank you for this recommendation! Another good book, though I prefer this one, is 'The Gift of Fear. '
Oh yes, I am always looking around , I look people in the eye and most people won't even look .
I'd say this IS an important topic and tip! As a security guard for many years, its the first thing we are trained on. Observe and report was all I was qualified for, not defense. I noticed when at an event this past weekend, I assumed my guard standing position when I got up to stretch my legs. it made me chuckle to myself. This video reminded me, its a good thing I have situational awareness built in now that I am semi-retired!
You’re such a treasure! Thank you for all you are doing.
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Bob this is a GREAT VIDEO! You are spot on in all your helpful tips to stay safe. I would like to share a few more that I had to use when I was working on Skid Row in LA. CA.
When I walked to my bus stops after work if I felt threatened I would start talking aloud to myself and twitching. Start shouting at no one in particular or just at whatever. A wall. The sky. BUT the important thing is to keep walking as if YOU have purpose. And no eye contact unless ABSOLUTELY necessary. Remember you are in your illness mode. Keep it up until you get to your destination cuz not to many people want to deal with the mentally challenged people who exhibit their sickness. Peace out. Stay safe to you and all the road warriors. And thank you again for sharing! ❤
YES go on gut instinct. (trigger alert) Once when I was traveling in Switzerland, I could see a man edging up behind me in the reflective glass of a building . When I felt his hand under my arm, I elbowed him as hard as possible and left him staggering backwards. It pays to be aware. Another time, I was in a park here in the mountains of Georgia. There was a popular path to a waterfall, very well maintained, but walking down it, I felt the hair stand up on my neck and, not to over spiritualize, but I felt God or an angel telling me GET OUT. Not a suggestion, not a passing thought, a definite GET OUT. I turned on my heel and passed a tall, rather gaunt man coming right behind me. I didn't think about it, I wanted to get in my vehicle, lock the doors, and get out. Within a day or so, a woman went missing from that same park. A man had taken her in a van. They saw on the cameras of a gas station that he had blood on the back of his van, but in that area people often field dress deer and other game. He held her for four days before she lost her life. So sad. I believe that my life was spared. When you see that I was in the same park the same day that he was... I remember him. I also remembered the van, because you don't often see old white vans in those parks, they are usually a regular car or some kind of vacation vehicle, not a painter's van. So follow your gut instinct.
I was leaving a shopping center and my phone rang so I pulled over at the lower part of the lot to answer the call. I had been on the phone about 2 minutes when I glanced in the side mirror and saw a man running up from behind me. Luckily I hadn’t put my car in park because as he grabbed my door handle I just stomped the gas and took off. He scared me so bad and I took off so fast I was squealing tires as I turned out of the parking lot. If I had been sitting there with my car in park he would have gotten my door open before I could put it in drive and go. I felt like a dummy because I didn’t have my doors locked so now I automatically lock them as soon as I get in my vehicle.
Sooo true! Great presentation for sure. I think we have to make awareness a habit. If some scoundrel wants to find their next victim- it won’t be somebody who might attract attention. It’s hit fast and get away fast
I took a gun safety/training course years ago.. (2 weeks)
one week 1st year
1 week the next year. The first thing they taught was situational awareness.
The average person is at yellow.. basically looking if the light is green, if they can cross the road safely. Then comes the people who do that and also looking around to see a car swerving, car behind getting too close. Delivery truck pulling out of parking.
Then the top tier, ..
All of the above plus fully aware of the posture of people walking by, the Brinks truck at the bank collective payrolls.. furtive looks.. stay vigilant, you don't want to just be safe, you want to not need rescued, robbed. You want to take control of your life. Prevent it from happening.
Been this way all my life and I don’t know why or where I picked it up from. My kids even laugh at me because sometimes I am over aware. Raising my children I always looked 10 steps ahead of them, were they heading into danger, do I have to move something so they won’t be hurt etc. etc. etc. I was always looking, preparing, ready for any situation and now as a great grandmother I am still that way. I am always assessing every situation I am in. I’m so glad I heard this video so now at least I know I’m not crazy.
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I was in a hike in Mi. Hadn’t passed anyone in 45 minutes or so and all of a sudden there was a man 4 feet behind me. I hollered at him for getting so close without saying “ coming up behind you”. I think in the end I scared him more than he scared me. But…I am 5 feet 10, so pretty big for a lady.
Great reminders, I am comfortable in my neighborhood and while traveling but I need to pay more attention. A recent discovery from a possum and raccoon hanging around and bullying a cat colony - at home I keep a bat by my front and back door and by my bed. Never have had to use it or even pick it up. I took it with me just in case because I've seen raccoons be pretty aggressive. I'm 62 and not very strong so I couldn't swing a bat well enough to do any protecting. My great nephew and niece play wiffle ball at my house. Let me tell you, a wiffle ball bat is easily swung and i could get several whacks in pretty easily. Thankfully, all I have to do with the raccoon is tap the bat on the ground and he runs away. I'm so glad I made this discovery and I know a lot of people that keep bats nearby without thinking of what they can really, physically do. The bat is my personal limit, I don't think I could actually shoot anything, so it is what it is. Hopefully, if someone is like me, it will be a helpful tip. Thanks for sharing this important info
Always have your head on a swivel. Know your surroundings. Be smart, be safe.
Thank you, Bob, for an invaluable advice on one's own safety awareness. That "gut feeling" you touched on can be the difference in your living or dying. As a van lifer myself it has kept me alive for two years while traveling.
Great video and info....THANKS BOB
thanks, bob. as a perpetual solo traveler, i have experienced many many scary situations, and NOT because i put myself in unsafe situations. ANYWAY - good subject to cover so i THANK YOU.
I have been told that, in spite of the fact that I am a gray haired senior, I tend to make some people a little uncomfortable because I present confidence and habitually look everyone straight in the eyes. If I am walking past someone, who looks a bit sketchy, I stand up straight, pull my shoulders back, look at them full in the eyes, give them a small smile and say "hello". This is apparently completely different than what they are used to seeing. They are seen and acknowledged. I have seen big men drop their gaze, turn away and immediately head off elsewhere.
Yes! Even with me being a small woman it works for me.
My son does a head tip acknowledgement. No hello’s. No smile. But no threat. After seeing reactions, I now do that. It doesn’t invite chitchat. It says "I see you".
Thank you Bob ,great info. Much appreciate 😊
What a lot of people need to realize is they need to listen to that little voice in their head that says somethings not right and not just try to ignore it not try to be polite. Listen to that voice. Although you might not know why it’s not right studies have shown that people subconscious picks up on things and they send you that little Spidey sense listen to it.
Vou acrescentar mais um item na sua lista Bob.... Óculos escuros.... quando um criminoso nao consegue ver seus olhos ele pensa; e se a pessoa estiver olhando pra mim? na dúvida ele procura outra vitima.....
Bob, I realize your main message over the mamy years you've been doing this is independence. But you should check out Community First with Alan Graham out of Austin, Texas. What this man has done is truly miraculous. I'd love to live there. It was an outgrowth of Mobile Loaves and Fishes.
You are not wasting your time at all. This is a very important subject. When I look at people around me while I'm out and about, almost everyone has their face buried in their phones. Even at restaurants. They ignore the people they are having a meal with and both are on their phones swiping, texting and so on. No one is paying attention to what's going on around them. So yes, this is a very important subject. We're in a time when there are so many people being attacked on the streets than ever before. It's unprecedented. I've never seen or heard about this being so rampant in all my days, as it is now. That very reason makes it even more imperative that we do have phones with us to call for help, but we should not be allowing ourselves to be distracted with them. Great report Bob!
Yes please keep these coming. I find myself suddenly a senior, and a traveler. I sleep in my truck when on the road or doing shows. You might regret opening my truck when I'm inside, but I'm not as strong as I used to be. Security is something important to me.
Thanks.
Kent
Thanks for sharing, however, it would be a great idea if you stand closer to the camera since you will also be closer to the 🎤🎙️ and we could hear you louder thus resulting in a much more interesting program. Thank you in advance.
Spot on - I've been working for a law enforcement agency for 28 years. I am NOT deputized but yet I learned so much and see so much. The headphones and bubble is so true, or people walking around on their cell phone!!!! Be aware folks. Pay attention.
I’m glad you are doing these videos and look forward to them 🤔
I spent 4 years in the United States Marine Corps. Don't be careless.
Glad we had this conversation (No beboppin') Bob! 😊
Very important information, and as always, very relatable.
Situational awareness has been foremost on my mind. Especially after two close encounters with Western Diamondbacks in the last 2 weeks. 😕 FYI: anti-venom ain't cheap.
Head on a swivel - yes! Longitudinally, as well as latitudinally.
Good video. First rule of martial arts is avoidance. You do not go where trouble goes. Second rule is removal. If you fall into a potentially dangerous situation, exit fast.... Way before it even becomes dangerous.
The two best things to do to ensure your safety is be armed and prepared to use it and stay out of democrat controlled states and areas where they encourage crime
Another thing is a criminal usually is looking to score financially whether it be cash or things they can sell so be aware and not make yourself look so well off financially.
Criminals usually do not travel to the trailer parks to break into homes but go to the nicer neighborhoods and the same applies to a degree here.
This is one area that the person driving a 20 year old van with maybe a door replaced that is a different color or in primer has an advantage over that person that is driving a nice 2 year old high top sprinter van with the outback tarp on it laden with solar panels.
Also I am a firm believer in firearms for protection and self defense.
Take the time and get your states concealed carry permit as in many states there is reciprocity between states as in my case 38 states recognize and honor my states ccw permit within their borders.
Nothing will equal the playing field and offer you a better chance of survival than a firearm if you do not have the option to avoid a confrontation or leave the area.
I was raised it is better to be judged by twelve than carried by six!
Generally the police will be at best minutes away when you are faced with seconds to protect yourself.
I do not condone a person playing Rambo or badass but I do condone a person to hurt the bad guy before he hurts you.!
Another thing about traveling new places is you do not know what is a good safe area and what may be a bad area sometimes in advance.
Plan your trips so you have several hours of daylight to decide where you will spend the night and be off the road and the streets before nightfall.
Again danger can hit at anytime but criminals like being under the cover of darkness when possible.
And Bob is right the person that is responsible for YOUR safety is YOU!
I appreciate your discussing this subject again, Bob. I look forward to your future videos on this, or any other subject matter! I often think back to when I’ve been a victim of crimes, of several varieties. Being situationally aware after the first couple of incidents didn’t stop them from reoccurring; but I suppose if I didn’t pay attention or get really vocal as I have done to draw attention, I’m sure that I would’ve been seriously hurt. I laugh when friends have told me I should write a book about it.
LOL, whenever I’m able to travel (my RV purchase fell through yesterday), I hope to attend my first RTR &/or WRTR & meet you & the HOWA staff. A good friend of mine thinks that I should ask you to “interview” me! I’d rather it was the other way around! 😉 😂👍🏻
Yeah good advice. Also don't think are safe when you pull up at your house. I usually open carry plus a knife on my side. Of course when traveling that limits me to a few states I can't go to.
BOB IS 100%correct . Wearing headphones.. constantly looking at your smartphone or tablet. These are all distractions.. you need to stay focused and be aware of everything around you.. listen to that inner spidey sense. . That sense has been passed down to you from primitive man.. change your direction change your plan.. be prepared.. don't ignore the warning signs... Make eye contact! If you look away the criminal may perceive you as being weak..
Makes perfect sense! The Active Self Protection channel teaches situational awareness as number one! Also transitional spaces awareness 💜
Very informative, thank you.
Great topic, Bob. Thanks, gonna look for the others. Happy trails, all.
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When I'm out in my big van or my travel trailer I am armed for self defense. I have motion sensing flood lights that are solar chargeable that I place in a couple locations around my campsite - they come on if I come out or if other motion occurs [an intruder into the campsite such as a raccoon, bear, or prowler]. I now plan to add a motion sensor that will alarm inside my van or TT if motion is sensed outside - I have 2 outside sensors - I use them at home but plan to take them on trips. I think a bear or human intruder will be frightened off by the floodlights and I will be awakened by the motion sensors. If I see a bear in my campsite, then I think I will sound the vehicle alarm which will sound the horn and flash the lights - maybe this will send the bear running away??
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It made lots of sense! I bought the book and the other one recommended, The Gift of Fear!
“bee bopping” it must be 1950-)
Thank you for this video.
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I love your comments! I have practiced these things for so long now it is second nature to me. I also am mindful of the approx. time of day. Being female and often by myself I prefer not to be out after dark but anytime i make a late night Walmart run, for example, I always park as close to the front as possible (better lighting and visibility), take a good tall stance when out of car, deliberately take a good look around so I can know who all is where all so to speak and so i am very visible to them. I keep my purse as hidden away as possible and with its strap across my body or if only a short strap with my arm through the strap loop up to my elbow. As I walk I i frequently glance around. One more thing, i also try not to park next to a van...goes back to visibility, among a cpl other things.
Well, I am saying too much I guess but I love safety tips. Always interested in more of them.
Take care, keep up the good work!
I walk around w/my head on a swivel at all times. I've been like this all my life & perhaps that's why I've never become a target or have been a victim of any crime. So maybe that's why. Knock on wood! Lol
I've been told I walk with an 'F You' walk. I don't know what that looks like but I always walk with situational awareness and that must be part of it.
I lived on the streets most of my life,, I'm street Wise
Check out the book: "The gift of fear"
Thank you for sharing this. 🙂
I appreciate hearing your common sense advice. I have been that person who is staring down at my phone and finds myself face to face with a stranger asking me for money.
Taking some good self defense classes can give you a boost of confidence without having to learn the hard way.
Bob, thanks for this very important video!!! I bet it will contribute to helping people immensely!!!
Good stuff Bob and its good you are putting out these videos and considering the times we are in even more important than ever,
Bob has their been a significant increase in crime that the Nomads community is experienced in recent times??
It's hard to hit a moving target 😊