I Want to Trust You...but I Don't - Lysa TerKeurst
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- Опубликовано: 10 окт 2024
- Connecting with another person is a unique and special blessing. And when you come to know that person and rely on them, you place trust in them. So what do you do when that trust is shattered? On this two-day Focus on the Family broadcast, Lysa TerKeurst shares her personal stories of her divorce and friendships lost due to broken trust. She’ll help you learn how to have healthy and godly perspectives about trust and relationships so you can get on a path toward healing.
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Lysa thank you so so much for your courage and grace in telling your story of your journey. It is so encouraging to know the other side (the healed side) of that journey. You’ve been through a most excruciating long and arduous road and God had been faithful and everlasting in His love for you. I ESPECIALLY appreciate the part where you shared about how the devastation of divorce and emotional abuse and betrayal LITERALLY changes a persons brain. That’s physical and rock solid evidence of the damage it can do. Thank you thank you a thousand thousand times! I think people who’ve not been through divorce can fully understand the depth of damage it does to a person, heart mind spirit and soul.
“Jesus did not lay down his life for people to continue bad behavior “ thank you for saying that. This was so good and encouraging for us who have been through betrayal and divorce.
How a person reacts tells you a lot....True
I am so grateful to hear this conversation- I needed this. Thank you
THANK YOU for bringing in LYSA TERKEURST, great wisdom in your choice!
Thank you
I was in a marriage for 17 years with emotional abuse. It has been 11 years but I definitely struggle with trust. Things trigger me like the suitcase etc. thank you for allowing me to see
Love it when she says “uhm” 😍 it’s so cute. For me, this denotes that she is a good listener, not ready to speak out of turn but shows respect to the interviewer, attentive and processing everything. Thank you for sharing your story in honesty, Lysa 🙏🏾
Lysa thanks for your knowledge and expertise. This was so helpful. God bless you and ministry.
Wow!!❤❤❤Lysa, you are such an inspiration! I want to be without dysfunction and God can help me as he helped you. Hope!!
Lysa, thank you so much for your words of wisdom 🙏 I ALWAYS learn so much from you and your humility 🙏❤️
This is so good to hear... God didn't allow consequences at the moment to protect her. This is something I've been struggling with for years
Thanks for sharing! It’s crazy that we fight God so much when all He wants for us is the absolute best, but the absolute best is not a temporal best, but an eternal best for us.
Thank you!! I’ve been waiting for her to come on and talk about her new book!!
Thank you so much Lysa. You are wonderful ❤
Truly this is an answer to prayer 🕊️
Great Insight for my heart.
God Bless Focus on The Family~
And God Bless You Lisa.
We're glad you found the broadcast helpful, @shellyalbany! God bless you!
-Luna H.
We've all grown up in this therapeutic culture, so much so that even in the Church, counseling is usually foundationally secular with Christian window dressing. True biblical counseling doesn't deny that hurtful things have happened to us but understands that revisiting those episodes doesn't change anything. Are you going to follow and obey Jesus today?
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I love this! Beautiful message ❤ Thank you!
Thanks for sharing
I can relate to this very much
I wish the 2 sessions were numbered! Or is it just me? 😊
But awesome info can soooo relate
King David made mistake and then was forgiven because he did not repeat it. Both big things he did were very wrong. But God can forgive if you work at getting forgiveness.
Also interesting:
We know about his relationship with Michal at this point. But what about his OTHER wife Abigail?
I have no reason to hope right now. I am drowning and after so many experiences with "professionals" I can't trust anyone anymore!!!!!
We're sorry you're going through a difficult time, @AnGeLaOYA. Please know that we care about you and are here to come alongside you in any way we can. We have a variety of resources and even have Christian counselors on staff. If you think this would be helpful, please give us a call at 1-800-232-6459.
-Luna H.
Look it up:
Psalm 118:8
King James Version
8 It is better to trust in the Lord than to put confidence in man.
Better to Trust only the Lord.
✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️
How a person reacts tells you a lot....TrueGod does NOT plan for you. You are a free moral agent. We were not created robots. Despite that statement, this is a very good show. We are NOT predestined.
“Behavior is a language” Dr. Dalony”.
My thoughts on Lysa have changed over the years. When i was a baby Christian, these self help topics and books of hers would appeal to me. Now that i have grown in my faith and Word. She is more of a self-help teacher. Not a bible teacher. She waters down the gospel to make it fit HER message and struggle. I think she is wonderful speaker and good conversation for Focus on the Family podcast. But she sounds like the culture with the narcissist vs. victim and boundaries. Boundaries are good but how many books can you write on the topic? Let the ex husband be. Her platform is so big, she could spread the gospel and have women be victorious through the power of Christ, stand in right standing with God, be born again of the Spirit and make disciples. That is my opinion and my discernment regarding this individual.
Exactly. Heard of her a couple years ago and it appeared sound to me at the time (it’s not supposed to be this way, book), but it is spirituality mixed with psychology. She is not owning her role in getting to this point in her marriage. Yes, her ministry is wonderful but if it was always her husband then of course it strained their connection. Or, if he was immature and unavailable, and it drove her to create a community for support, that could also be what happened. Either way. Both parties are responsible for their biblical roles in marriage. Men leading, providing and protecting. Women, care home-makers, care takers (children or not), and over seer of the home (which you cannot completely be if you are not home).
@@2780-l2k You're blaming her for her husband cheating on her?
No wonder nonbelievers don't like Christians. We are to be the most compassionate not most critical.
This can be regarding male or female.
“Tidy things in your mind
That you are seeing with your eyes” 💥
Don’t be unequally yolked with unbelievers
Not everyone who says Lord Lord
Ask the Lord for discernment
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THAT IS THE REASON YOU ARE TO SEEK GOD ALMIGHTY OUR CREATOR FOR YOURSELVES OURSELVES TO PREVENT US FROM GOING I TO BITTER SITATIONS YOU CHOOSE TO IGNORE OBVIOUS BILL BOARDS FOR ‼️🤔🤔
All in CAPS. Have you never made a mistake?
The mistake here is to only point it to females, it is true of both.
They do say this issue of restoring trust after a broken dysfunctional relationships applies to both, men and women. Listen to the entire interview.
Yes they do. However, if you aren't the betrayed male you really can not understand that perspective and the perception attached to that dynamic
Really wish there was more help for the betrayed male
It is probably out there, Ficus on the Family may be able to help 😊
Hi, @andrewbender5023. We'd be happy to provide resources and even have Christian counselors on staff. If you think this would be helpful, please give us a call at 1-800-232-6459. We're here for you.
-Luna H.
@focusonthefamily Luna, thank you. I have actually attended hope restored in Bransom, Missouri, in the spring of 2023. It was helpful. I even read the entire book that was giftec. It just wasn't enough to deal with everything specific to our situation (or rather my situation). But i did get some help. Thank you again.
Doesnt let me give thumbs up
I think she should just give us her therapist’s name -
Jim crest or cress, something like that. Lysa and him do a podcast together with Joel Mudamalle called "therapy and theology".
@@autumncopeland1789 Thanks, Autumn :)
THE PROBLEM IS YOU GET INTO RELATIONSHIPS OF YOUR CHOISE BASE ON YOUR CULTURE OF "DATING" WITHOUT GOD ALMIGHTY'S GUIDANCE AND WAY OF LIVING HOLY LIFE WAY OF "COUTSHIP" AFTER GOD ALMIGHTY'S APPROVAL‼️🤔🤔🇯🇲🇯🇲
SAYING NAGATIVE VOWS ""FOR BETTER OR WORST, IN SICKNESS OR HEALTH..." THAT ARE NOT IN GOD ALMIGHTY'S HOLY WORD THE HOLY BIBLE‼️🤔🤔🇯🇲🇯🇲
YOU GET WHAT YOU CONFESS ""LIFE AND DEATH ARE IN YOUR WORDS‼️""😡😡🇯🇲🇯🇲
If your husband is unfaithful he has broken the marriage bond. He has committed adultery. You are free from him if you choose to.
WAS THIS MAN STAYING IN YOUR HOME WHILE VISITING⁉️🤔🤔
IF YES⁉️🤔🤔
THIS SHOULD NOT HAVE HAPPENED⁉️🤔🤔
MARY AND JOSEPH NEVER DATED, STAY IN EACH OTHER'S HOMES, ST. MATTHEW 1:19‼️🤔🤔
Less of the caps, less judgement
I was thinking the same thing
I wished Jim Daly would quit constantly interrupting all of his guests. I also wished that he would quit making every broadcast all about himself He is a terrible interviewer. I am sure that he is a nice person but he is a terrible interviewer.
I don't believe he tries to interrupt anyone, sometimes people just get excited and don't realize they cut people off, it has never bothered me. You could try to find a different ministry to listen to if he bothers you so much.
YOU GET WHAT YOU THOUGHT IN YOUR HEART, PROVERBS 23:7‼️🤔🤔
I PRAY NO ONE READ YOUR BOOK AND DO ANYTHING YOU ARE SPUING OUT, BUT GO TO GOD ALMIGHTY OUR CREATOR THEMSELVES FOR HIS WAY OF DOING EVERYWAY HE WANTS US TO DO IN THEIR INDIVIDUAL LIVES‼️🤔🤔🇯🇲🇯🇲
THE PROBLEM IS YOU GET INTO RELATIONSHIPS OF YOUR CHOISE BASE ON YOUR CULTURE OF "DATING" WITHOUT GOD ALMIGHTY'S GUIDANCE AND WAY OF LIVING HOLY LIFE WAY OF "COUTSHIP" AFTER GOD ALMIGHTY'S APPROVAL‼️🤔🤔🇯🇲🇯🇲
@viviennnesutton9780 you're REPEATING yourself
You sound angry