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  • Опубликовано: 3 дек 2024

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  • @AHEUTUBE
    @AHEUTUBE 7 месяцев назад +103

    It's an eyeache when the videographer keep changing the view to the left, to the right. I just keep my eyes closed.😌

    • @gibbopg
      @gibbopg 7 месяцев назад +7

      Yes, this one was a bit over the top. A few words directed to the left followed by a few to the right. Content was good though, and I don’t care if Sadia does or does not use filters ... she’s always easy on the eye!

    • @milhousevanhouton5890
      @milhousevanhouton5890 7 месяцев назад +1

      Agreed. Love her content but the editing, cuts and shorts can use a lot of improvement.

    • @lioninaboxgames
      @lioninaboxgames 6 месяцев назад

      It's not the editor, she set the cameras up and keeps looking at different cameras. Probably for higher variability and engagement.

  • @akhmet274
    @akhmet274 7 месяцев назад +39

    I mostly watch because she enchanting

  • @HelianaFranko
    @HelianaFranko 7 месяцев назад +10

    This video came out right on time. I feel more determined to make the hardest decision of my life. Thank you, God bless your Soul Sadia...

  • @Gabriela-jo7mg
    @Gabriela-jo7mg 7 месяцев назад +10

    I've been in therapy for years, but how she explains things just clicks. Great examples and explanations. 😊

  • @josephsaint_888
    @josephsaint_888 7 месяцев назад +5

    They are right.. just keep one camera view. Focus focus.. just one will do.

  • @JohnADuerk
    @JohnADuerk 7 месяцев назад +18

    If we have to ask, then we already know the answer.

    • @katerinamahuzier
      @katerinamahuzier 7 месяцев назад +1

      Do you give up on everything so easily? Everything needs work, relationships too, reasonably …

    • @nobe7745
      @nobe7745 4 месяца назад

      How ???
      People asked questions because they don’t know the answers of course

  • @davidmorris3577
    @davidmorris3577 6 месяцев назад

    Thanks!

  • @amandaob9238
    @amandaob9238 7 месяцев назад +55

    Please why shift the perspective on the camera every 3rd second, very confusing

    • @pnico4270
      @pnico4270 7 месяцев назад +4

      Was thinking the same thing!

    • @paolagomez3175
      @paolagomez3175 7 месяцев назад +2

      I actually like it! It's very much her style and I get that feeling that I'm part of a crowd she's talking to.

    • @anthhub
      @anthhub 7 месяцев назад +1

      I had to turn it off, really messed with my equilibrium 🥴

  • @timothywilson3253
    @timothywilson3253 7 месяцев назад +6

    The tipping point? When to know the relationship isn't going nowhere? When to implement your exit / de-bonding strategy? How do you know you'll need an extraction / rescue mission instead of a regular exit strategy? Has the relationship been mostly on life support? 🤔

  • @TrulyBrokenFan
    @TrulyBrokenFan 7 месяцев назад +1

    This is will be my first ever patreon subscription I can feel it

  • @tessg4799
    @tessg4799 7 месяцев назад +3

    Sadia, great points! Thank you so much for speaking on this. ❤

  • @v9b23j
    @v9b23j 7 месяцев назад +23

    Don't fall in love with potential. Trust patterns, not apologies. The first person you need to be loyal to is yourself. - @WETHEURBAN

  • @nicolegaschler4776
    @nicolegaschler4776 7 месяцев назад +2

    These are really great questions to ask yourself and for looking at your relationship with this partner in a more objective way!

  • @charcoalandlight1990
    @charcoalandlight1990 7 месяцев назад +7

    I found your content recently and really enjoy listening to your perspective. This video hits me exactly where I am. I'm in a relationship with a great guy and I enjoy spending time with him but feel that "something" is missing. I feel like I can be myself around him; being with him is just easy. We want many of the same things in life and are very compatible in many ways. There's little to no affection or physical intimacy, and physical touch is my love language, so that's really hard for me. We are in our 40s and have both dated a lot prior to meeting each other. I know what's out there and it all seems way worse than what I have with him. I don't like living in ambiguity like this, but I can't seem to get off the fence.

    • @bbc20231
      @bbc20231 6 месяцев назад

      Why don't you fancy him?

  • @OldGrandadMashup
    @OldGrandadMashup 6 месяцев назад

    You are a gift to the world Sadia! Keep up the good content. It has helped me to understand myself more. I’m a big believer in being conscious of your own decision making processes.

  • @Seth_Samson
    @Seth_Samson 6 месяцев назад +1

    dzisssas ... stay in one spot .... make your mind .. left or right ....

  • @freespirit4809
    @freespirit4809 7 месяцев назад +1

    i wonder what the world could do without u ! U are wonderful for u shed light & read clearly the human mind 🤙🤙

  • @niceplayground
    @niceplayground 7 месяцев назад +6

    Wzup with the camera shifts

  • @NYer9853
    @NYer9853 6 месяцев назад

    I ask myself one question -- do I feel good? Love is supposed to feel good and if you don't feel good, it's not love it's something else -- perhaps fear of abandonment, fear you won't meet anyone better, etc. This has always worked for me. I've never regretted my decisions.

  • @tonyafuti1088
    @tonyafuti1088 7 месяцев назад +4

    Excellent insight 💯💯

  • @tomcat1391
    @tomcat1391 7 месяцев назад +1

    Depends on how critical the issues ( alcoholism. Drugs. Past physical trauma) . Looking for 100% satisfaction Never happens . 😮

  • @marcin3136
    @marcin3136 7 месяцев назад +3

    "Darling you got to let me know
    Should I stay or should I go?
    If you say that you are mine
    I'll be here till the end of time
    So you got to let me know
    Should I stay or should I go?" 🤠🥳😘

    • @OhNoNotAgain42
      @OhNoNotAgain42 7 месяцев назад +3

      Unfortunately, The Clash wrote that about the Falkland Islands military crisis rather than a personal relationship

    • @marcin3136
      @marcin3136 7 месяцев назад

      Possibly, but it doesn't matter (in philosophy: "separating the concept/words from the author" and using them in a different context/meaning).
      Used in art, but also in the philosophy of law (when the "polis" changes. Law evolves)

  • @renaereadings3600
    @renaereadings3600 7 месяцев назад +3

    Or just ask yourself am I still happy

  • @victornwang7885
    @victornwang7885 7 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks so much for this knowledge it going to be of great help…keep on doing what you do cause you are a remedy ❤ for many and for me in particular ❤

  • @farouk69jacobs
    @farouk69jacobs 7 месяцев назад

    Salaam Sadia,
    Perceptiveness is like having a sixth sense, a keen awareness that extends beyond what meets the eye. It's the ability to pick up on subtle cues, to read between the lines, and to understand the unspoken language of gestures, expressions, and context.
    In a bustling café, a perceptive person might notice the furrowed brow of the barista, sensing the stress behind the forced smile, and offer a kind word or a patient demeanor, brightening their day with a simple act of empathy.
    In a crowded room, they're the ones who catch the slight tremor in a friend's voice, the fleeting sadness hidden behind a facade of laughter. They reach out with a comforting hand, providing solace without the need for words.
    Perceptiveness isn't just about understanding others; it's about understanding oneself as well. It's the ability to recognize our own emotions, motivations, and biases, allowing us to navigate life with greater clarity and authenticity.
    It's the small details that often reveal the most: the way someone's eyes light up when they talk about their passion, the nervous fidgeting of a person trying to hide their anxiety, the warmth of a genuine smile that speaks volumes without uttering a word.
    In a world filled with noise and distractions, being perceptive is a gift. It allows us to forge deeper connections, to cultivate empathy, and to appreciate the richness of human experience. So let's cherish our ability to see beyond the surface, to listen with our hearts, and to embrace the beauty of perceptiveness in all its forms. #TheUnassumingBillionaire

  • @ThomasMichaelElijahShelby
    @ThomasMichaelElijahShelby 7 месяцев назад +2

    Bless you Sadia.❤️❤️✝️

  • @jamesrussell1979
    @jamesrussell1979 7 месяцев назад +20

    Ifbyour second guessing your relationship....just leave

  • @monica_nielsen_
    @monica_nielsen_ 7 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for helping us 😁❤️

  • @serratus83
    @serratus83 6 месяцев назад +1

    I'v asked myself.. and for all was the answer NO WAY

  • @jamesfletcher2602
    @jamesfletcher2602 7 месяцев назад

    I love the way she talks

  • @t-mariekk949
    @t-mariekk949 7 месяцев назад

    You're so intelligent everything you say makes sense

  • @jonassamy8771
    @jonassamy8771 2 месяца назад +1

    Nice program

  • @Thiba-p8g
    @Thiba-p8g 6 месяцев назад

    My heart beats raising up when im listening to your talks should i stay or leave in your life span❤

  • @tarigel-kithiri6619
    @tarigel-kithiri6619 7 месяцев назад +1

    Relationships are like the tree of life....use it's shade to find comfort n proper rest...

  • @tw74YRsaJR
    @tw74YRsaJR 7 месяцев назад

    Grat content Sadia but please set up your loudness (volume). Current is ~40 LUFS-S that's really quiet for RUclips.
    14-22 LUFS-S is perfect for speech.

  • @milouschmidt
    @milouschmidt 7 месяцев назад

    ❤ thank you ❤

  • @1982A
    @1982A 7 месяцев назад

    I never seen anybody talk about how to destroy relationship all the time like 24/7
    Amazing 🎉

  • @andrase435
    @andrase435 6 месяцев назад

    Leave is absolutely the answer for me.

  • @NoctilucentGypsy
    @NoctilucentGypsy 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you

  • @inFAMous1013fm
    @inFAMous1013fm 7 месяцев назад +1

    Has anyone seen the full episode? What are the rest of the questions she asks? This video was really helpful so far

  • @thetruther954
    @thetruther954 7 месяцев назад

    Another song for you, my love.
    The Captain and Tennille
    Love Will Keep us Together.
    Thank you for letting me show the lyrics:
    Lyrics
    … Love
    Love will keep us together
    Think of me babe, whenever
    Some sweet-talking girl comes along, singing her song
    Don't mess around, you've just got to be strong, just stop
    'Cause I really love you, stop
    I'll be thinking of you
    Look in my heart and let love keep us together
    … You
    You belong to me now
    Ain't gonna set you free now
    When those girl start hanging around talking me down
    Hear with your heart and you won't hear a sound, just stop (stop)
    'Cause I really love you, stop (stop)
    I'll be thinking of you
    Look in my heart and let love keep us together
    … Whatever
    Young and beautiful
    But someday your looks will be gone
    When the others turn you off
    Who'll be turning you on?
    … I will, I will, I will
    I will be there to share forever
    Love will keep us together
    I said it before and I'll say it again while others pretend
    I need you now and I'll need you then, just stop (stop)
    'Cause I really love you, stop (stop)
    I'll be thinking of you
    Look in my heart and let love keep us together
    … Whatever, ba-ba-ba-ba-ba, whatever
    I will, I will, I will, I will
    … You better stop
    'Cause I really love you, stop (stop)
    I'll be thinking of you
    Look in my heart and let love keep us together
    Whatever, ba-ba-ba-ba-ba, whatever
    I will, I will, I will, I will

  • @Joseph_Omega
    @Joseph_Omega 7 месяцев назад +1

    Much of all this depends on what you mean by a _"relationship":_ _Merely Committed_ or _Uncommitted, Pre-marriage_ or _Post-marriage, Pre-children_ or _Post-children?_ Statistics _CLEARLY_ show that women initiate divorce at a far _FAR_ higher rate than men (even in homosexual relationships), so that enouraging them to abandon their commitments _"just because they feel unhappy"_ for whatever reason (and the deeper they are into them) may in fact be irresponsible in many if not _MOST_ cases-- _"Western"_ culture already has so little concept of _HONOR_ and _DUTY_ already, that it cannot really afford further casual dismissals of these attributes based on self-absorbed, petulant, impulsive, entitled or self-indulgent whimsy.

  • @rosswardrop465
    @rosswardrop465 7 месяцев назад +1

    This is a stuffed up world.Relationships are falling apart.Thats why i stay single.I rather play my drums.Drive my car.I have been there.Thats i why i dont bother.Better off lonely than sorry.All to do with money.Money is creed.

  • @ghazalaather1353
    @ghazalaather1353 6 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤ thanks

  • @Mscursed2
    @Mscursed2 7 месяцев назад +1

    You gotta do a podcast

  • @SuperhumanUnchained
    @SuperhumanUnchained 7 месяцев назад +4

    Great video thanks for the upload hit that like button I LOVE YOU AND YOUR CHANNEL THANKS FOR YOUR INPUT

  • @ifaizushaikh
    @ifaizushaikh 7 месяцев назад +1

    I love you sadia for opening my eyes ❤️

  • @edehchinedu4554
    @edehchinedu4554 7 месяцев назад +2

    Nice one

  • @EnriqueEnquig
    @EnriqueEnquig 7 месяцев назад +3

    Love u❤️❤️😘👁️

  • @Edward-zw9ld
    @Edward-zw9ld 7 месяцев назад +1

    Especially 🔥

  • @eugenz5046
    @eugenz5046 7 месяцев назад +1

    I always end up with line: no, I cant be withcyou buy I cant live without knowing where are you, what arw you doing. Wtf am I some kindnof clown? 😞

  • @LivinginCentralNewJersey-ep4bq
    @LivinginCentralNewJersey-ep4bq 7 месяцев назад +1

    that 1st question is the reason I just ended a relationship....and her baseline of behavior wasn't going to improve.

  • @georgerdz346
    @georgerdz346 7 месяцев назад

    With her beauty!!!!! No wonder king Salomon sent the commandments out the window 😮

  • @thewebsir
    @thewebsir 7 месяцев назад

    Double your volume, sound is very soft.

  • @janicemorris6085
    @janicemorris6085 7 месяцев назад +5

    Such distracting camera switching

  • @parimirza412
    @parimirza412 7 месяцев назад

    Sadia where is ur Instagram gone ??? We miss u alot

    • @bbc20231
      @bbc20231 6 месяцев назад

      She don't need instagram. Almost on a million RUclips followers.

  • @rajeshsubramanya5620
    @rajeshsubramanya5620 6 месяцев назад

    How to deal with a wife who keeps running to her mother's house with kids

  • @peterjhpark4782
    @peterjhpark4782 2 месяца назад

    The answer really depends on the financial situation of both parties and their martial status😅

  • @mszr0chelleee
    @mszr0chelleee 7 месяцев назад

    ♥️

  • @Onmysheet
    @Onmysheet 7 месяцев назад +1

    Does Sadia control this channel?

  • @wildeevolution
    @wildeevolution 6 месяцев назад

    My ex husband had no sex drive so he had zero reason to ever make me happy or try to work out our differences.

  • @abuahmu2082
    @abuahmu2082 6 месяцев назад +1

    Sadia, please fix your video graphical point of view it’s actually hurting my eyes and I really like your videos. They have great input but this one you need to fix it.. please

  • @ex-pirates7454
    @ex-pirates7454 7 месяцев назад

    I am in relationship with married women she cant leave her husband due to children and i love her what do you say

    • @bbc20231
      @bbc20231 6 месяцев назад +1

      Respect yourself. You are someone's side piece. She is never going to leave so you are investing a lot into someone when you could be building with someone new.

  • @sadiapsychology
    @sadiapsychology  7 месяцев назад +2

    For full clip see www.patreon.com/Sadiapsychology

  • @russandrews3078
    @russandrews3078 7 месяцев назад

    Audio too low. Turn it up!

  • @TainoCovarrubias-rn8fv
    @TainoCovarrubias-rn8fv 6 месяцев назад

    Volume is very low.

  • @nimsa2000
    @nimsa2000 7 месяцев назад +2

    First ❤🎉

    • @nimsa2000
      @nimsa2000 7 месяцев назад +2

      Love you, Sadia ❤🎉😊

  • @Editthem
    @Editthem 6 месяцев назад

    You are free to leave

  • @rosswardrop465
    @rosswardrop465 6 месяцев назад +1

    So you dont get ripped off .Men stay single.

  • @MarieGeorge-m3y
    @MarieGeorge-m3y 7 месяцев назад

    So much better than the goofy grifter, Pearl

  • @justinmartin1666
    @justinmartin1666 7 месяцев назад +2

    FIRST COMMENT AND FIRST LIKE :🥇❤🎖️💙🏆

  • @Certified..mac..818
    @Certified..mac..818 7 месяцев назад +1

    🌬✨️🪻🧘🏽💚

  • @DanielWayShadow
    @DanielWayShadow 7 месяцев назад

    I wish I could stay deep inside Sadia forever.

  • @NoyKeosouma
    @NoyKeosouma 7 месяцев назад

    👰🎉🎉🎉

  • @MrYouExtra
    @MrYouExtra 7 месяцев назад

    Mate stick to one camera

  • @AlaminRahman-sj4wy
    @AlaminRahman-sj4wy 7 месяцев назад +1

    Usual Simps in comments

  • @PALMofficial
    @PALMofficial 7 месяцев назад +1

    1st!

  • @TealBeretta
    @TealBeretta 3 месяца назад

    Your camera guy is trying so hard

  • @TombOfBoom
    @TombOfBoom 7 месяцев назад

    if i made you a beat would you entertain it ?

  • @rosswardrop465
    @rosswardrop465 7 месяцев назад +7

    Stay single.better off.

  • @archiedlamini2124
    @archiedlamini2124 3 месяца назад

    Bossss

  • @El.Jefe.Tribal1
    @El.Jefe.Tribal1 7 месяцев назад +1

    Sadia i heard your local Circus is hiring 🤡💄💅

  • @LivingLife972
    @LivingLife972 7 месяцев назад

    Is this woman married? I hope she is, IF Not, her relationship "advice" has No merit whatsoever. I listen to winners, not so-called experts.

  • @lioninaboxgames
    @lioninaboxgames 6 месяцев назад

    I like her advice, but why does she come across more artificial and less natural lately?

  • @yuliayane6928
    @yuliayane6928 6 месяцев назад

    “Okay?” Please ur starting to get annoying

  • @yEyA017
    @yEyA017 6 месяцев назад

    You might also get 20% worse... 😂

  • @me_ThakurG
    @me_ThakurG 29 дней назад

    Nasally Voice

  • @tonytoomuch
    @tonytoomuch 7 месяцев назад

    Go away. She wouldn't condemn attack on Israel

  • @benjeboy12
    @benjeboy12 7 месяцев назад

    Too wordy! Why use two hundred words when twenty will do?

  • @eddiOrtiz
    @eddiOrtiz 7 месяцев назад +2

    how much plastic surgery have u done to ure face?

  • @Daddyrizz333
    @Daddyrizz333 6 месяцев назад

    How tf is she so beautiful

  • @RicardoSkeete-t4x
    @RicardoSkeete-t4x 7 месяцев назад

    Ain't changing my life 😂

  • @RicardoSkeete-t4x
    @RicardoSkeete-t4x 7 месяцев назад

    Well if I knew who you were n my phone works

  • @i.eduard4098
    @i.eduard4098 7 месяцев назад

    I honestly have no idea how this shit works.
    Also.. haven't had any real relationship ever, had a few gfs in highschool.
    Had a troubled childhood where my mom was a victim all the time.
    I honestly... Do not trust women at all. I value my freedom and independence more than them, it feels like I do not want to be committed to the classic marriage, I am loyal but being full time in a relationship is draining mentally and emotionally.
    I would like something like a friendship with loyalty. I have moments when I want to be alone, no friends, no family.. it just doesn't work with women, once they feel they are investing in a relationship, they are up my ass all day.
    I also think I have ADHD because I get super annoyed not sticking with 2 or 3 things at once, or talking random things or getting micromanaged..
    I feel like women are impossible to live with.. there is a constant psychological game to tame the man.. And it ends me on having ghosting episodes if I feel they want control..
    Idk I am 32 I did rebuild my life last year.. and I know I can be some charming mf that gives mixed signals all the time but I always back off when I see women being interested, I don't want sex.. I don't want a family, I just want to enjoy their feminity but it doesn't go that way...