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  • Опубликовано: 21 окт 2024

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  • @ScottHermanFitness
    @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад +12

    I understand the impact of using definitive statements like "THIS EXERCISE IS BAD"... but to come out and say that about a squat for clickbait I think is pushing the envelope a bit too far.
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    • @christivie121
      @christivie121 Год назад +1

      Nah, let’s say it like it is, Scott. It’s not “pushing the envelope”, it’s being flat out dumb

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад

      @@christivie121 I mean... yeah.. saying to never do squats is not smart training

    • @boots7859
      @boots7859 Год назад +1

      Its click-bait pure and simple. If I'm watching a channel thats start to pull that, I'd drop'em immediately. Trust is easily lost and hard to gain.

    • @farqadchowdhury8928
      @farqadchowdhury8928 Год назад

      Scott Herman, this dude who said squat is bad for you is such an idiot. The squat is one of the most important exercises.

  • @JW_PUNK29
    @JW_PUNK29 Год назад +64

    People need to stop trying to reinvent the wheel

  • @jakester5382
    @jakester5382 Год назад +2

    Holy shit. I haven’t seen Scott in years, I’m glad he’s still active!

  • @MassiveHappyClapper
    @MassiveHappyClapper Год назад +8

    Training method depends on what you are training for. There is more than one way. Variety is key.

  • @romanoforsale
    @romanoforsale Год назад +1

    words of wisdom, brotha

  • @CJC347
    @CJC347 Год назад +12

    Swinging those weights looks pretty dangerous too

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад +1

      yeah, probably not something you would want to see people doing in a gym with people around.

    • @CJC347
      @CJC347 Год назад

      @@ScottHermanFitness or mirrors around lol

  • @leemcmilla
    @leemcmilla Год назад +4

    Class vid Scott. The same thing happened to me when I stopped deadlifting and doing RDL’s. I was only low bar squatting & my hamstrings were always super tight to the point I could feel it walking! Added DL’s & RDL’s back in & boom, back to normal

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад +1

      yeah I was so surprised when the pain came. Man, got to stay well rounded all the time!

  • @Kumurajiva
    @Kumurajiva Год назад +5

    Scott is correct, maybe in USA people don’t squat, the rest of the world squat all the time. Go to Asia and Africa check it out. I squat a lot because of Scott, my butt is as tight as a 25 yo, I’m almost 60, Scott is so calm and rational in this vid, he is mature with sound knowledge cumulated from experience, that’s empirical science, not from some new insight that the wheel needs reinvention.

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад

      Thanks Joseph, just laying out the facts! And the facts are.. squats are great!

    • @BennyJeters
      @BennyJeters Год назад +1

      Joseph tell us more about your tight butt!

  • @venukuruganti
    @venukuruganti 9 месяцев назад

    Thanks for Keeping it Real Scott!

  • @dqz3921
    @dqz3921 Год назад

    Listen to Scott's advice. He knows best.👍👍

  • @noahbrewster8263
    @noahbrewster8263 Год назад

    I’m glad you’re uploading again!

  • @ROHITBIRJERANE
    @ROHITBIRJERANE Год назад +5

    RIP physics and common sense.

  • @boots7859
    @boots7859 Год назад +3

    Scott says Squat! Love coming here after reviewing other fitness 'gurus' who seem to cherry pick this or that cite to pin their complaint/bitch of the week video about. Here we generally get common sense videos free of drama with some science thrown it for proof.

  • @aliahmedansari2597
    @aliahmedansari2597 Год назад +1

    Happy to see you my bro

  • @carolbowen4349
    @carolbowen4349 Год назад +4

    Watching this before I work on my barbell back squats tomorrow…I will not be giving those up. I also will not quit conventional deadlifts, but I do bench press with dumbbells…it just feels better for me.

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад +2

      I actually prefer dumbbell bench press as well! But I still do both dumbbells and barbell

  • @farialhudabapon1214
    @farialhudabapon1214 Год назад

    I am watching you since I was a kid it's shocking and heartbreaking 💔 Chanel like this don't get views! Still you are trying to help people ❤ keep it going sir.

  • @chrisbreaktherules
    @chrisbreaktherules Год назад +1

    I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS SCOTT!!!!

  • @lizzypicardi
    @lizzypicardi Год назад +1

    Awesome video , thnnx 4 the share

  • @tonydeluna8095
    @tonydeluna8095 Год назад +1

    Hey Scott, hope you have a great week ahead of you man

  • @mdd1963
    @mdd1963 Год назад +1

    00:06 ‘bah-bell ..’! :)

  • @tonyrodney9610
    @tonyrodney9610 Год назад +3

    The seated squat is the most natural position for the human body. I've had SI joint pain and a super tight posterior chain for a while. Since I started doing a 5-minute seated squat per day, so much better.

  • @ryanhester1596
    @ryanhester1596 Год назад +7

    Seems he is trying to replace a major compound lift with an assistance exercise.

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад +1

      the basics can never be replaced. I wish more people would adopt that mindset before creating content.

  • @calvintrombone
    @calvintrombone Год назад +2

    Damn Scott, you were really tame in this video 😂 I would’ve expected you to go off haha

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад +1

      haha. I am trying to come across more as a helpful coach with these critiques and not a yammering asshole... LMAO!

  • @chonglongchoo
    @chonglongchoo Год назад +3

    I observe that people having knee pain and back pain after doing squat because of wrong posture.

  • @alterdestiny1
    @alterdestiny1 Год назад +2

    I love squats and I have really tight hamstrings. Literally disabled physically but I know squats do great things for people. Getting an ssb for my home gym to do squats in a way that works for me

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад +1

      Nice man, I really should get myself a safety squat bar as well!

    • @alterdestiny1
      @alterdestiny1 Год назад

      @@ScottHermanFitness I'd like to see what you think about it.

  • @enzy5002
    @enzy5002 Год назад +3

    I feel like the guy had the right idea but somehow confused himself into thinking that the exercises needed to replace one another? Specificity principle.. basketball players squat.. but they also run layup drills.

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад

      yeah, it should have been presented as an "option" not a replacement

  • @davidcbeaudoin
    @davidcbeaudoin Год назад +3

    Yeah, your spine ends up in a bad position if you don't fight "butt wink" and/or let your back round over. If you keep your core tight and you're mindful of these things then back squats are fine/safe.

  • @cybrsage
    @cybrsage Год назад +1

    Thanks! I will start doing the good and bad girls now. Never really knew why they were nerded.

  • @victorfitness88
    @victorfitness88 Год назад

    Good! Excellent! 👍💪

  • @allenm9775
    @allenm9775 Год назад +1

    Scott was very calm and nice in this video. I like it. But I also like inst-garbage Scott as well!!!

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад

      I think these are better where I open some dialogue instead of just ripping into people lol!

    • @allenm9775
      @allenm9775 Год назад

      Thank you for the reply! Always cool to hear from the channel owners, rare in fitness channels.

  • @clamum9648
    @clamum9648 Год назад +6

    This obsession with "functional" crap can eat a fat one.
    Naw, I'll listen to guys like Mind Pump or Scott over some no name guy on the Internet saying something controversial to get some clicks.
    I mean if your body can't handle squats, by all means don't do them (although I'd argue that you're better off finding out why you can't do them and try to address that, if you can), but otherwise I think it's pretty settled they're a good exercise.

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад +1

      right on.. and I would argue that unless you have some sort of insane injury or mobility issues... There isn't anyone I can't teach how to squat properly.

  • @solo_mattic
    @solo_mattic Год назад +2

    Nobody wants to go out there and swing 50 lb dumbbells around doing swing squats. Also, squatting is one of the human body's most natural movements. We do it a ton as children. And squats actually helped fix my knee pain when done with proper form.

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад

      Right on Matt. No need to be throwing squats out the window any time soon!

  • @MossisinaBox
    @MossisinaBox Год назад +7

    How typical this guy says don't do squats and he has tiny legs

  • @Geese4life
    @Geese4life Год назад +2

    It all depends on goals, no exercise is good or bad for everyone

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад

      Couldn’t agree more!

    • @anonymousman4419
      @anonymousman4419 Год назад +1

      Yeah. You can potentially injure yourself while walking. Does that mean walking is dangerous?

    • @Geese4life
      @Geese4life Год назад +1

      You can die from drinking too much water, so should we stop drinking water?

  • @drbachimanchi
    @drbachimanchi Год назад +1

    Is open trap bar Bulgarian split squat and single leg open hex bar deadlifts enough for me scott?
    I am a body fat 20% 40 year old guy aiming to stay at yhis forever

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад

      They are good for sure! Again depends on your goal. If you’re purely focused on balance then just these would be great! But if you want to build strength I would include other movements where you can load heavier weight!

    • @drbachimanchi
      @drbachimanchi Год назад

      @@ScottHermanFitness thank you very much

  • @leonadeyemi5755
    @leonadeyemi5755 Год назад

    You know what i have noticed is that alot of guys would prefer to train incorrectly becouse they can lift heavier weight that way. or they do not want to be corrected on a exercise they have been doing for years wrongly. I like scotts fitness chanel is the best on RUclips and has been for the last 13 years. Definitely deserves more views

  • @moislord
    @moislord Год назад +3

    Ridiculousness

  • @JuggoJuggo
    @JuggoJuggo Год назад +1

    I have to keep up on the good girl bad girl machine too, man if you miss the good girl machine for a while the muscle pain is something else. Also I don't like squats at all, but it might be the best exercise there is, maybe the low grip trap bar deadlift is equal to it, maybe superior for beginners. And of course you have to mix in the necessary accessories to avoid imbalances and tightness because everyone's squat is a bit different and no one's is perfect.

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад

      If you miss good girl / bad girl for a few weeks... GO LIGHT.. haha.. or else you will be dying!

  • @jeetsohpal557
    @jeetsohpal557 Год назад +1

    Bloody hell been ages Scott. Saw you at the Bitcoin conference 👍🏾

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад +1

      Yooooooo yeah Jeet! Yeah man, been busy building www.wagmigame.io!!! haha
      Have you checked it out yet?

    • @jeetsohpal557
      @jeetsohpal557 Год назад

      @@ScottHermanFitness I’ll check this out for sure bro. Hope you have been keeping well.

  • @_koschwarz
    @_koschwarz Год назад

    I love barbell back squat. It's a basic movement, it's pure power.

  • @ryushoryuken7573
    @ryushoryuken7573 Год назад +1

    Scott, that guy doesn't know what he is talking about.

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад +1

      Yeah.. I tried to be nice about it with my response lol. That squat variation would be great for a circuit.. but regular squats are definitely something to keep in people’s routines

  • @Stephthechickenlady
    @Stephthechickenlady Год назад +2

    Been going to the gym for 6 months, slowing improving. Pushing myself every session. Very rarely now will i get sore. Went for a 10km trail run 350m elevation and now im sore lol.

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад +1

      Nice work! 6 months into it will still be your newbie phase! Make the most of it!

  • @ShmoofWB
    @ShmoofWB Год назад +2

    I started by doing air squats and moved up to goblet squats. I'm currently on my second week of learning how to do barbell squats. It's quite a bit different and taking some getting used to, even with just a base bar. The first thing I had trouble with was the bar placement and how it was hurting my neck and shoulder area. After playing with the position a bit I've gotten that down. Looking forward to the gym today to see how well I progress.

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад +1

      I've got a video / article that can really help you out! check it out here!
      muscularstrength.com/article/Squat-High-Bar-Versus-Low-Bar

    • @Hashbrown2169
      @Hashbrown2169 Год назад +1

      It hurts in the beginning bro but u get to a point one day where it doesnt hurt anymore just keep at it good luck

  • @Nath1080
    @Nath1080 Год назад +3

    I can already imagine sombody doing those swinging squats in a gym and accidentally launching a dumbell at someone's face.

  • @BennyJeters
    @BennyJeters Год назад +1

    My cach, pached the pop and cached the baaaahbell

  • @DexterLab-j7i
    @DexterLab-j7i Год назад

    You can do trap bar squats and it's better then barbell squat and also safest :)

  • @zaccharymattson2057
    @zaccharymattson2057 Год назад +1

    Sound, solid advice as usual. Ricky still away?

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад

      thanks man! and yes... still not back 😅

    • @zaccharymattson2057
      @zaccharymattson2057 Год назад

      @@ScottHermanFitness Aw man. Not that there was anything wrong with your video. Just miss the dynamic between you two.

  • @nemesis8626
    @nemesis8626 Год назад

    I meen i get what he is saying in a way, it can be bad on your back however what ive found is better for me than squatting or leg press is heavy sled pushes and pulls.. super underrated and also unlike squats and leg press, works the entire leg including calves, noticed alot more gains when switching out to those

  • @mastalee1776
    @mastalee1776 Год назад

    I like squating. But I can only go so heavy. I tend to feel it in my lower back unfortunately. I have to use a machine if I want to go heavier. Less stress on the lower back for me.
    Its even worse when I dead lift. Even sumo style.

  • @stefanpp1155
    @stefanpp1155 Год назад

    Swing those dumbbells right at your knees

  • @2nd_Directorate
    @2nd_Directorate Год назад +2

    Do not carry grocieries in your hands down at your sides, that puts load on your shoulders. Swing them.....
    Seriously. A tight controlled movement (the squat) is less prone to risk of injury than the less controlled swing squat.
    And come on. How can you take him seriously if the "argument" for his dismissal of the scientific research is....we walk...

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад +1

      Definitely hard to take seriously.. there were like 500 comments on his video and I don’t think many of them would have been positive…

  • @gwilliamsg123
    @gwilliamsg123 Год назад +1

    I think barbell squatting is good for athletes or powerlifters but for recreational health or growing legs people are probably better off doing Hack Squats because they won't have to focus on form breakdown as much or they could do leg press instead.

    • @greatone6196
      @greatone6196 Год назад +1

      Having very well developed stability muscles and balance that are developed by squats are great

    • @greatone6196
      @greatone6196 Год назад +1

      I think they're better off doing both

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад

      Definitely agree with you! But I think squats are still important to include in a well rounded program.. like you could do a block of hack squatting and then a block of barbell squatting.. keep them both progressing!

  • @DaBlondDude
    @DaBlondDude Год назад +1

    What I found confusing is that he pointed out how tried tested and proven they were before going into the rest; everyone back through all of what mentions is wrong and he's smarter than all of them? 🤔
    Personally, such claims kick of my skepticism and I'm far more likely to get informed with legitimate sources than I am to completely erase and rewrite what I do based on an Instagram post

  • @Batistastrong
    @Batistastrong Год назад

    🐐

  • @DJ_Mooseknucks
    @DJ_Mooseknucks Год назад +1

    Yeah try telling a bunch of Olympic level athletes to stop barbell squatting and see what happens. That swing squat he's peddling isn't fooling any experienced lifter.

  • @GxGNoir
    @GxGNoir Год назад +1

    i refuse to do taht swing dumbell squat because I would look like a moron doing that in the gym

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад

      Lol. As part of a circuit it’s OK.. but you wouldn’t want to be doing that in the squat rack lol!

  • @johncory561
    @johncory561 Год назад +1

    I limit my squat now to every other week because of my knees and tendons in my ankles have been killing me.

  • @johncory561
    @johncory561 Год назад +3

    That is just what dumb people say 😂 put that shit on your back and crush your gains

  • @hamzaa.8082
    @hamzaa.8082 Год назад

    After I herniated a disc, I realized that many weightlifting exercises are inherently dangerous and not worth it.

  • @sunder4392
    @sunder4392 Год назад

    Every time I squat I have pain in my legs that persist 2-3 days after is it bad form or normal muscle soreness?

    • @PeaceunknownandunspokenJesus
      @PeaceunknownandunspokenJesus Год назад

      That is DOMS - so totally natural. Unless you feel the pain in your joints.
      Your body will adapt, but you could lower your intensity when squatting (doing 2 sets instead of 3 or 4 sets - check out Mike Mentz method) if this affects your daily work.

    • @sunder4392
      @sunder4392 Год назад

      @@PeaceunknownandunspokenJesus thanks for the reply man

  • @brandonenga
    @brandonenga Год назад +1

    Screams bad form to me, and finding a way to defend it.

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад +1

      yeah, my thoughts exactly

    • @brandonenga
      @brandonenga Год назад +1

      @@ScottHermanFitness I see it a lot with deadlifting as well

  • @abhishekmahendru1583
    @abhishekmahendru1583 Год назад

    People try to innovate and come up with these new methods. Come on, old school will always be the golden ways.

  • @Ralf210593
    @Ralf210593 Год назад +1

    Where is your Jabra Headset Scott? ;)

  • @Rakinn
    @Rakinn Год назад +4

    Swing squats? is he trying to convert me to the crossfit cult or something?

  • @prithviraj1080
    @prithviraj1080 Год назад

    I love Squats.

  • @craftyoldman
    @craftyoldman Год назад

    ER UH! HE IS STILL SQUATTING!

  • @Justin-bass
    @Justin-bass Год назад +1

    I just do hack squats and leg presses gets the job done

  • @Shawnzy1
    @Shawnzy1 Год назад +1

    What , that’s gonna mess people up more . People can’t even do squat right half the time , how can he expect to do some swing squats right . I hate these new fitness people lol

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад

      It's not an exercise I would put at the top of my list. Thats for sure.

    • @Shawnzy1
      @Shawnzy1 Год назад

      @@ScottHermanFitness I’ve always loved squatting . It’s so easy to learn . People are stupid

  • @davidblackman1586
    @davidblackman1586 Год назад +2

    At least you're reacting to training videos...
    When do you go back to content creation?

  • @ak_getright9905
    @ak_getright9905 Год назад +1

    Parabolic motion and contralateral reciprocal huh? Just f***in lift

  • @MikaMikaMika89
    @MikaMikaMika89 Год назад +1

    I just wouldn't give people spouting such utter nonsense attention tbh.

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад

      well, its still a good topic to debate in the comment section

    • @MikaMikaMika89
      @MikaMikaMika89 Год назад +1

      @@ScottHermanFitness maybe. People just like to push controversial opinions for likes these days.

  • @FirstLast-dd9ym
    @FirstLast-dd9ym Год назад +2

    It's crazy how much BS he managed to pack into that description while still saying nothing

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад +2

      yeah, it was a fancy way of describing a problem that doesnt really exist

    • @FirstLast-dd9ym
      @FirstLast-dd9ym Год назад +1

      @@ScottHermanFitness fitness is a lot like politics, all you have to do is sound like you know more than everyone else, and people will accept it as fact 🤷🤷

  • @louiepena2025
    @louiepena2025 Год назад +1

    Wow

  • @Beautiful-Sickening-Rolex
    @Beautiful-Sickening-Rolex Год назад

    swing squats = bye bye knee caps 🧐

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад

      Nothing wrong with swing squats. You wouldn’t be loading them up like you do regular back squats

  • @altide8784
    @altide8784 Год назад +4

    Mhh I agree somewhat with how barbells often put you in cramped positions, most of the time people experience problems with these lifts because they force you into unnatural movements. Just like DB benchpress feels better for your mobility within your shoulders and chest. The older you get the more you are prone to injuries, thus you might want to focus more on natural movements and not loading your body as much with heavy weights

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад +1

      Well, I would argue that "heavy" and "mobility" really depends on your fitness level.
      for example, whenever I see someone bench pressing with a barbell in the gym and there shoulders hurt... it's always because they are "retracting" their shoulders... but not "depressing" them properly.
      But of course, always listen to your body.

    • @greatone6196
      @greatone6196 Год назад

      If you've trained the squat and do it properly, its not unnatural at all. I think its only unnatural bc of people's sedentary lifestyle. Squatting down and standing up is a perfectly natural movement

  • @sirtimothy92
    @sirtimothy92 Год назад +4

    Squat is killing your gain 😂

  • @user-nm3ug3zq1y
    @user-nm3ug3zq1y Год назад

    The good old "it's not natural" bullshit argument.
    Hopefully the dude doesn't wear clothes, dwells in a cave instead of a flat, and nourishes himself by picking up berries and bugs all day.

  • @JazzOCRAthlete
    @JazzOCRAthlete Год назад

    🤦‍♂️really? Dude is just trying to be clever and different. Any coach or trainer knows, the back squat is king in many ways. He just doesn't know how to teach it. I say go both. Only I wouldn't coach a person with limitations through an exercise where they're slinging around a dumbell in each arm. That's just careless

  • @Nattysooraj
    @Nattysooraj Год назад +1

    Lol

  • @angelocadena7094
    @angelocadena7094 Год назад +1

    ☝️

  • @Kumurajiva
    @Kumurajiva Год назад +1

    This guy was born yesterday and he looks old that’s all, doesn’t know better😅

  • @henryliang171
    @henryliang171 Год назад +1

    Total BS

  • @ProteinAndSquats3966
    @ProteinAndSquats3966 Год назад

    Someone needs to introduce this functional fitness wannabe to Elgin

  • @jumanjimusic4094
    @jumanjimusic4094 Год назад

    Granpa growing old now trying to get publicity by putting down others, last resort

  • @vinniedeluca2188
    @vinniedeluca2188 Год назад

    Bahhbell and then proceeds to say the word Core perfectly pronouncing the R, come on man i was born and raised in Boston so you can’t get act by me, just be yourself and stop with the fake accent

  • @fightingtalk6253
    @fightingtalk6253 Год назад

    Good advice squats are pointless

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад

      Squatting is an every day movement for a lot of people man. Definitely not pointless

    • @fightingtalk6253
      @fightingtalk6253 Год назад

      @@ScottHermanFitness with up to 20kg is an everyday movement, I don’t see the point in going heavy

  • @mujahidal-deen2195
    @mujahidal-deen2195 Год назад +1

    What the guy is saying is similar to how indian wrestlers do squats so id defos give them a try

    • @ScottHermanFitness
      @ScottHermanFitness  Год назад

      There’s nothing wrong with that movement. But it’s definitely not a replacement for a barbell back squat

    • @mujahidal-deen2195
      @mujahidal-deen2195 Год назад

      @@ScottHermanFitness yeh for sure 100%

  • @JamesJones-r8r
    @JamesJones-r8r Год назад +1

    Bahhhhbell

  • @td6460
    @td6460 Год назад

    Yeah, it's true. Squatting is stupid. Deadlifting is stupid. Benching is stupid. If you need to squat, look into a pendulum squat. Deadlift with a trap bar. Bench with a machine or dumbbells. And never go below 8 reps.

  • @christivie121
    @christivie121 Год назад +3

    All I can say is that most of the dudes that try to reinvent the wheel, hardly look like they can lift. That’s all the proof you need to debunk their claims, really.
    I’ll see myself out 🫡