This is How an Elegant Woman Sits with Confidence!

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  • Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024

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  • @preciousbonsu7336
    @preciousbonsu7336 Год назад +392

    Watching this is an eye opener. Our non verbal body language speaks volumes. Friendly confidence even makes us look so much more attractive and approachable.

  • @asanwababy
    @asanwababy Год назад +101

    Being comfortable is the key 👌🏾

  • @deboraha4908
    @deboraha4908 Год назад +402

    Elegant women do not cross their legs at the knee. We cross our legs at the ankle.

  • @jinx2100
    @jinx2100 5 месяцев назад +8

    I like crossing my legs when I sit, I just find it more comfortable

  • @SPerez-or3mt
    @SPerez-or3mt Год назад +35

    Girl I’m from the projects clenching my purse nervously is a thing lol

  • @simmyisrad
    @simmyisrad Год назад +40

    I'll definitely have to work on this, people can tell when you're nervous

    • @saalihaatif34
      @saalihaatif34 7 месяцев назад +1

      more like i am the one who makes ppl nervouse w/ my stare 💀☠

    • @mmmmmmmm-xp1mw
      @mmmmmmmm-xp1mw 4 месяца назад

      Girl hiding da fact that you nervous that don't make you not nervous

  • @utubechannel3846
    @utubechannel3846 Год назад +3

    You are doing something that is very very much needed for some of us. Thank you for doing your part of changing our culture of doing things any ole kind of way. I love it!

  • @susan8576
    @susan8576 Год назад +75

    I like to be comfortable, so I'm definitely the girl that occupies the entire seat and uses a throw pillow for support. Nice one Winnie👍🏽

  • @maria.1313
    @maria.1313 Год назад +22

    Love your videos, you're charming and funny, as well as beautiful! Thank you for these tips. Indeed, nothing wrong with being confident, though I have believed my entire life that there is. I have a prominent figure and my body has been 'trained' to slouch, hide and become small. I've been really hardened but I've spent the last few years healing and reclaiming my femininity, allowing my body to open, radiate, be confident, soft and feminine. And to SLOW DOWN which feels so good, yet I'm still adjusting to. Anyway, thank you again! God bless you! ❤️‍🔥🌹🙏

  • @DeeandTee_London
    @DeeandTee_London Год назад +2

    Thank you so much for all your ladylike teachings Deborah.

  • @abena7810
    @abena7810 Год назад +26

    i ain’t smiling at no one! 😭🤣

    • @PlatinumHustle
      @PlatinumHustle Год назад +1

      And that’s why you probably still single

    • @ahkniyaprice8147
      @ahkniyaprice8147 Год назад +1

      ​@@PlatinumHustle And your not? Since when os tgat am insult? 😂

    • @alphamail8974
      @alphamail8974 Год назад +3

      ​@@PlatinumHustle is being single supposed to be an insult to Women? Because they need a man so bad
      It's better to be single than with just any man that's not worth her time.

    • @PlatinumHustle
      @PlatinumHustle Год назад

      @@alphamail8974 single not by choice lmfao. A woman needs to be in the kitchen and making babies and taking care of the house 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @PlatinumHustle
      @PlatinumHustle Год назад

      @@ahkniyaprice8147 huh lol

  • @M3thaddictakatweek
    @M3thaddictakatweek 4 месяца назад +2

    TYSM. I'M ALWAYS SO ANXIOUS AND SHY AT SCHOOL.

  • @KavitaChauhan-pd3yd
    @KavitaChauhan-pd3yd 20 дней назад

    I understand...she is a Beautiful and Confident woman ❤💫

  • @ayemenrelove-serah6352
    @ayemenrelove-serah6352 Год назад +2

    Thanks for the teachings. Most appreciated

  • @siimplyblessed996
    @siimplyblessed996 Год назад +2

    I love her tips ❤

  • @LM-zi9te
    @LM-zi9te 2 месяца назад

    the second one is so me, always sitting on the edge, I even when sitting at a table let both my legs on the outside not under the table like im bout to flee any moment if anything bad happens ..or if I feel not wanted. Anxiety ...

  • @cmlady0437
    @cmlady0437 Год назад +1

    I'm usually the one at the edge of the seat thinking that's dainty 😂😂
    Lesson learned.... Thank you! 💎

  • @euniceosamudiamen2420
    @euniceosamudiamen2420 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for all these.

  • @iloveyoublackma6247
    @iloveyoublackma6247 Год назад +4

    The leg cross was incorrect. Ladies/Women cross at the ankle. Do to dresses & skirts. Men cross the legs over.

  • @miyangtangwan7046
    @miyangtangwan7046 Год назад +66

    Being confident is owning and occupying a space, while being aware of yourself and your environment, and becoming comfortable within that setting. It's an art, and the more you practice, the easier it looks and the more masterful you become.

  • @blessingsorekie
    @blessingsorekie Месяц назад +1

    I'm a short lady,not sitting at the edge is quite difficult for me😅

  • @nisiamavalentine1792
    @nisiamavalentine1792 Год назад

    Thanks for always coming through for this babygal muma❤
    Sending love ❤❤❤

  • @Muntae_BTS_army
    @Muntae_BTS_army 13 дней назад +1

    I always sit like this....

  • @DanysDollHouse
    @DanysDollHouse 12 дней назад

    Loving this content will be doing something similar soon ur such an inspiration

  • @Keba2008
    @Keba2008 Год назад

    Love these gems of etiquette and confidence.💕

  • @AishathshaheenaShaheena
    @AishathshaheenaShaheena 6 месяцев назад

    I know this song I literally watched it more than a 100 times

  • @esoheegho8899
    @esoheegho8899 22 дня назад

    I love this love what you do❤
    training bringings by His grace

  • @Aphmausbiggestfan-f3g
    @Aphmausbiggestfan-f3g Месяц назад +1

    When I watch this video, my legs were already crossed

  • @agaikochkuch8794
    @agaikochkuch8794 Год назад

    Now I have you as my elegant teacher because what I'm wearing definitely decide how I'm sitting 😢😢😢.

  • @nkiruobih670
    @nkiruobih670 Год назад +1

    I love your videos Winnie. I have learnt so much from you ❤️🥰❤️

  • @ann-mariesmall2022
    @ann-mariesmall2022 Год назад

    These are the things our children need to see and learn that they can be a better man and woman of world thanks for doing this I myself am learning too.

  • @vanishadutta2667
    @vanishadutta2667 2 месяца назад

    Wowww great
    Thanks for teach great tips ...I follow I love it .....
    Awesome 👌

  • @mercywanjiku5184
    @mercywanjiku5184 Год назад +3

    Need to be elegant na,,,,you gain a follower maa❤❤

  • @Period-mw8fw
    @Period-mw8fw Год назад

    Ok ur right…what a difference those subtle changes made❤

  • @splendourchukwumaife4515
    @splendourchukwumaife4515 Год назад +4

    I love your shoes ❤

  • @Rhea_Singh23
    @Rhea_Singh23 4 месяца назад +1

    Thanks 👍😊

  • @kutieluvsmj7
    @kutieluvsmj7 Год назад

    I do that but I just do the rbf instead of a smile but I definitely have confidence

  • @fronko_donko
    @fronko_donko Год назад

    First step.... Look this damn BEAUTIFUL❤❤❤

  • @renus6015
    @renus6015 Год назад

    Nice..I needed this..

  • @PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves
    @PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves 3 месяца назад

    It’s what comes out of your mouth that is really important as well

  • @louisaharrell
    @louisaharrell Год назад

    I love this

  • @NalweyisoRobs-kk1fe
    @NalweyisoRobs-kk1fe 9 месяцев назад

    I used to be a shy girl but when I started following U am a very confident girl now thanks dear

    • @prathibhabhasuran3289
      @prathibhabhasuran3289 4 дня назад

      How shy ? First u were not crossing your legs so now do u cross your legs?

  • @kimbee1718
    @kimbee1718 Год назад +4

    My new found BIG SISTER❤

  • @MiixAndMatch
    @MiixAndMatch Год назад

    So let your bag be snatched elegantly.

  • @solangemutatsimana2276
    @solangemutatsimana2276 Месяц назад

    You're just beautiful 😢
    Love from Rwanda ❤❤

  • @milliscentvilla4271
    @milliscentvilla4271 6 месяцев назад

    @winnieschoolofelegance Thank you for lifting my spirit each time. I feel Elegant by watching your videos 🙂 but I'd like to ask that " for us with short legs how do we handle sitting on high depth chairs without looking like kids ( i mean my legs has to touch the chairs)🙂. Not like im that short though Thank you

  • @essymummy2999
    @essymummy2999 Год назад +1

    I was thought in Nursing school and in secondary school it's unladylike to cross leg at the knee. Rather u cross at the ankle.

  • @tinarogers2181
    @tinarogers2181 5 месяцев назад

    I remember my mom telling me to not sit like a boy or man when I was growing up, She would say do not sit with your legs open like that. I still have a hard time sitting the way she wanted me too

  • @Bill0102
    @Bill0102 8 месяцев назад

    This is beyond words. I found content with a similar message, and it was absolutely mind-blowing. "Adapting with Aging" by James Crescent

  • @stephanieijeomaokafor9653
    @stephanieijeomaokafor9653 Год назад

    Thanks so much winnie for the eye opener

  • @MrAgiru
    @MrAgiru Год назад

    Ty for tips

  • @cookie-20006
    @cookie-20006 4 месяца назад +1

    thanks soo much babe

  • @edeniris3308
    @edeniris3308 Год назад

    Your videos are great but I always leave to download the music cause it's always so darn great 😅

  • @iweajunwachiamaka5285
    @iweajunwachiamaka5285 Год назад +1

    Thanks soo much winnie ❤

  • @sanvishorts.5255
    @sanvishorts.5255 4 месяца назад

    Thanks alot!!!!!

  • @Ishwaqluvx182
    @Ishwaqluvx182 Год назад

    How to comment elegantly 💀
    1. Get a pillow
    2.get a blanket
    3.keep dreaming

  • @shawnlevel3095
    @shawnlevel3095 3 месяца назад

    I hope this is being taken as a compliment...how old is this young lady? Her looks doesn't go with her maturity. She looks young but acts way more mature. It's actually refreshing❤

  • @Mary-2u-b8i
    @Mary-2u-b8i Месяц назад

    Im asian and I learnt different sitting attiquettes from finishing school.

  • @adisalami4565
    @adisalami4565 Год назад +1

    Belle femme remplie de bons sens ❤❤❤Femme de valeur ❤❤❤❤

  • @grahamturner1290
    @grahamturner1290 Год назад +1

    Perfectly lovely. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @DorisNjoku-j3f
    @DorisNjoku-j3f 2 месяца назад

    Wow, so nice.thanks

  • @learningwithlubna8753
    @learningwithlubna8753 9 месяцев назад

    Complexion doesn't matter u r pretty sister

  • @relaxbebe
    @relaxbebe Год назад

    I love your tips thank you.

  • @yenziigamedze1709
    @yenziigamedze1709 7 месяцев назад

    The entire sit 😂

  • @francekgasi8506
    @francekgasi8506 8 месяцев назад

    That's so Great 😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @avatarbeauty
    @avatarbeauty Год назад +9

    wearing your glasses on your forehead is awkward, an elegant lady you don't wear a 🕶️ on their forehead or neither wearing it while entering an apartment, you take it off and putt it inside the glass case, please learn to level up more.✨💕

    • @OLUCHI_okonkwo
      @OLUCHI_okonkwo Год назад +1

      True winnie herself said so in a previous video

    • @justlikethat3219
      @justlikethat3219 Год назад +3

      Clearly, you still need lessons because all elegant women know if you have nothing nice to say or can't articulate constructively, move along to a channel that meets your needs.

  • @doll.ov.poetrii4682
    @doll.ov.poetrii4682 Год назад

    This is great for sitting in a very short dress, but an even better tip would be to make the dress longer. If you can't bend over in a dress without exposing yourself, it's way too short. It's more comfortable to wear a midi dress that gives good coverage and still shows the legs.

  • @marvelizzyugochukwu8984
    @marvelizzyugochukwu8984 Год назад

    l love watching your videos, coz l always learn

  • @arshiyasurve3840
    @arshiyasurve3840 9 месяцев назад +1

    Me : siting like this in class in maths class
    Strict teacher says : u r suspended for 15 days

  • @ikaysilas
    @ikaysilas 6 месяцев назад

    Yesss

  • @nkayventures693
    @nkayventures693 Год назад

    In your last video u said we should not put glasses in hair but the bag hahaha got u there just kidding though love u Winnie

  • @user-yr7ts8jt7r
    @user-yr7ts8jt7r Год назад +1

    Thank you ❤️

  • @ENFPerspectives
    @ENFPerspectives 8 месяцев назад

    I have to work on the friendly part. I have an RBF. :*)

  • @AAA-we2st
    @AAA-we2st Год назад +4

    Actually this is incorrect, I attended a public girls school, and crossing your legs isn’t elegant, it’s sitting at a slight angle with your right foot slightly twisted behind your left foot, and your hands elegantly placed on top of your left thigh,crossing your legs exposed you and also acts as a hazard for those walking by or pass you, still a lovely video though, but definitely incorrect, x

  • @NancyThecheerfulheart
    @NancyThecheerfulheart Год назад

    Thanks for sharing the option of not crossing your legs

  • @Ibellafan2338
    @Ibellafan2338 3 месяца назад

    This is in ballareena movie with blonde mean girl

  • @fireflymiesumae
    @fireflymiesumae Год назад

    Ty

  • @mwate8764
    @mwate8764 Год назад

    You are my newfound love ❤️

  • @Ever_Winning
    @Ever_Winning Год назад +9

    Decency commands respect. Cover your privacy neatly and elegantly. Take a cue from the 'woman of elegance' channel and the ladies from the British Royal family.

  • @disneyramirez8024
    @disneyramirez8024 Год назад +2

    I lost my bag letting it sit right next to me instead of holding it when i was sitting waiting for someone in a store so no I’m not putting it down ever again

  • @catherinejames5755
    @catherinejames5755 Год назад +1

    u change mi every single day 😊
    you my favorite sister ❤❤
    from 🇹🇿

    • @winniesschoolofelegance
      @winniesschoolofelegance  Год назад

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @akinolatemiloluwaclara8626
      @akinolatemiloluwaclara8626 Год назад

      Thank you my favourite person. You make feminine attractive with your poise and action. You are also very funny in your actions which makes me to take attention and take correction. thank you❤

  • @insertnamehere9154
    @insertnamehere9154 Год назад

    I hate to be that person... really I do... I feel like I'm asking for a tutorial on how to do a ponytail...but where did u get that bag🥰💜 I been looking for the perfect jean bag.

  • @dreaveal7672
    @dreaveal7672 Год назад

    💚💚💚

  • @nessaboo232
    @nessaboo232 Год назад +1

    Too many rules for woman when these man out here living like savages

  • @CaffeyAine
    @CaffeyAine 2 месяца назад

    You resemble Annalise Keating ❤️

  • @merryjulie7244
    @merryjulie7244 Год назад

    Thank you for the exposure

  • @LittleAngel126
    @LittleAngel126 Год назад

    Stumbled across your channel Winnie and loving it ❤️ although I have to disagree with the last one though ie the pillow on the lap - this creates a barrier between you and the person you’re talking to.
    It’s equivalent to crossing your arms across your chest which is a sign of defensiveness😐

  • @darlenecarruthers-shelton837
    @darlenecarruthers-shelton837 Год назад

    That purse be snatched by someone sitting there beside you, while smiling at everyone. Keeping my purse close. 🤔

  • @cyndyblissful780
    @cyndyblissful780 Год назад

    I DO More of the sit occupying 😊

  • @debbieoguntuase7871
    @debbieoguntuase7871 Год назад +1

    Winnie you told us not to put our shades on our heads or hair

  • @euniceatieno2108
    @euniceatieno2108 Год назад

    Wow

  • @angelamallard9378
    @angelamallard9378 Год назад

    I recently learned if glasses arent on your face put them in a case.

  • @JovelynGantao
    @JovelynGantao 9 месяцев назад

  • @proudUgandan124
    @proudUgandan124 Год назад

    💗💞

  • @katusiimemaryhill4688
    @katusiimemaryhill4688 Год назад

    Elegant ladies do not cross their legs at the knee.

  • @mrduckyhere4963
    @mrduckyhere4963 Год назад

    Wow a woman telling someone how to sit…pretty impressive.

  • @Glowwrii
    @Glowwrii 9 месяцев назад

    Go to South Africa Johannesburg and sit like that, leaving your bag will be the last time you saw it. Thanks😊

  • @sofiatibrahim
    @sofiatibrahim Год назад

    Can’t i sleep on the chair 🥱

  • @dianeprince1684
    @dianeprince1684 Год назад

    Lol. I see myself and not in the right one😢😂

  • @tiffanywhite5309
    @tiffanywhite5309 Год назад

    I don't know if anyone else was forced to take etiquette classes like I was but that is not how you sit proper you never ever cross your legs it create cellulite you cross your feet at the ankle with both feet firmly planted on the floor in your back up straight not all the way to the back of the seat that's impossible