Wow, bro, you left 10 kids in the US, moved to the Philippines, had another kid, and you thought everything was just going to be peachy. You have to remember wherever you go There you are. It's not the Philippines my brother it is you. With all due respect, I have watched your videos You never should have left the states.
These sickly and half dead dudes that are on poverty level back in their countries, come here seeking young, dumb, poor and desperate barely legal girls to lay up on and pretend they are handsome and desired for their looks. I love seeing this be the results of perverted daddy/daughter type fantasies of these immigrants.
Big man old man. You're old enough to know what you're getting into. You own your decisions. Are you going to walk away from your black Filipino baby? It's going to be rough for him. I know from experience.
@@rajihabdulbasit7569 Sir, YOU made the decision to have a baby with a stranger, just to have a trophy Filipino baby. The baby deserves a father, deserves financial support and love. You just want to run away from the baby. That's shameful.
@@rajihabdulbasit7569 If you leave the Philippines, do you seriously intend to return to the USA? My gut says that you intend to flee to another SE Asian country and work on your 12th child Shameful
Big man has small money. This is clickbait to get a little money. He isn't going nowhere. If he can't hack it here, he damn sure can't hack it in America. Stop embarrassing black men.
@@michaelmereday6791 Boy you just a fool I get played what you know about me where have you been do you have a woman out of your country have you been out your country you want to see my Lao wife and home how about I show you my Thai wife been married 15 years and our Bangkok condo or let's do video with my two Filipina and our homes here let's do a call video call on Whatsapp I show you how to be a player fool just let me know when your available my personal invitation to you only
BRO LISTEN I WISH I COULD GIVE YOU THE FULL STORY CAN YOU IMAGINE DIVORCE YOUR GIRL AND WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU MAKE A MENDS THE EXSPERIENCE IS PRICE LESS THANKS FOR YOUR SUPPORT
I agree with you 100% I have been talking to a girl over there for two years now and I told her she lies all the time and they call the same face. No it’s a damn lie and also everything they do. You can call it what you want, but is scamming
@ Continue this vlog in America , not Phils. Your in extreme danger resident in Phils. Government might prevent you from boarding plane back home. Go today , leave Phils today !
@rajihabdulbasit7569 I personally feel that way, because it's just morally wrong to do so. Not to mention, that 9 times out of 10, the vast majority of the rest of that particular country are really nice people. However, when most people have a bad experience anywhere doing anything, it can taint one's perspective if they only see the negative. I am personally a glass half full kind of person, meaning I try to see the positive in any situation.
@Jcphiljr Good thinking sir .However you have the opportunity to express how you rationalize things and how you evaluate things is it because I am a black man that somehow you believe I don't have the same right and I need to fall in line with the way you think .There is an old say "when the white man talks to a ninja he stays talked to" well your comment reminded me if that and I never adhered to that statement in all my life just my thoughts not saying I'm right or wrong
@Jcphiljr if I go live are you willing to discuss this I really want to hear you out and I don't know any other way and we can text for hours a conversation few minutes
@rajihabdulbasit7569 Sir, you just answered all of my questions, when you brought race into this conversation!! I will pray for you 🙏 🤲 🕍 🕌 ⛪️ 🛕 ✝️ ❎️ 🕊!! I don't do drama, so good luck to you!!
I can complain is there a law against complaining omg so why would I go anywhere I'm a grown man an old man do I not have a right to complain see how people try to be God man it is some real losers on here 😡😡😡😡 but you entertain an old man thank you
@Collusion10 What exactly are you saying? How is he affiliated with Calvin? Not to mention, other guys are having issues too, and crashing out, getting exploited, and all manner if negative things. What lifestyle are you there for?
@Collusion10 And what are all the old white men promoting? The same shot! Stop with the rac8sts comments. White RUclips rs are promoting the same stuff, in case you have not noticed. Always someone with negative comments about blacks. There is 2 sides to that country sir, and both are there for the same reasons. Why are you there sir?
@@Robert-f1n6l And I am making MONEY so it's a what? WIN WIN but don't seem fair I get money, and you only laugh Well I truly thank you and your welcome to help me any time
@@danteflogio5168 You have no idea. Wife will teach in the USA now. Its more fun in the Philippines. Really? It was bad, at least for me! Every man has a story like Mark used to say/lol
@@jonathancoffman4311 what a fool my baby in USA 😭is 35 duhhhhhhh all 10 college educated and raised by mom and dad how about you when did you get out of rehab do your kids respect you or still remember how the neighbors called you a crack head see I never had that oroblem
My brother, I'm a subscriber. I'm currently on negros island. As a man of color, born and raised in California and retired from the military, for us anywhere is better than the USA. This is a horrible situation and surely stressful. I'll be praying for you. Good luck sir.
Retired black military man here on Luzon... I second your comment... The US is no place for black men.. So those who can leave for at least the next 6 years, should get to moving....
@@rajihabdulbasit7569 Brother I have been here single for 13 years, my woman got pregnant by other man, but I have no family in US so I just stay, I'm safer here than I would be in UD, I have lost many but I have learned, but women in SE Asia are all westernized now, in every country, they're all feminist now, Big Man I would surely like for you to contact me, I'm close to you...
With all respect brother you should delete this video asap. Brother yhis is an embarrassment to your dignity. I eel your pain and disappointments but brother you're broken and the help that you're crying out for is spiritual. You went to the bottom of the barrel looking for healing through neediness and acceptance. Your standards are very low and as a man my heart goes out to you but it's very limited. Brother save what pride you have left and detox. The Philippines is going to do what America couldn't do to you. Brother your broken. Man get some time to yourself and really look at your life and stop putting yourself in a position to be used. You're not a victim, you're lost and your pain is so deep until you'll put this on social media not realizing the shame you're not only bringing to yourself but to men that has nothing to do with your weakness as a man. Brother delete this video because it's not helping no one. Love you man!!!
@@Rizzup2 then don't watch it go watch sunshine 🤣🤣🤣🤣 thank you 4k plus views you a hater delete it man you know what I want to tell you starts with capital F 🤣🤣🤣🤣
OK Let me take you on a tour 1o children one wife in the USA when i left the USA my baby Girl was Married two children House in Suburb and 34 yrs old my oldest is a Professional also a very profitable podcast topics regarding Infant medical disease she is a known expert in the field 55yrs old that's the kids sir NORMALLY WANTS a joke right never place me in the NORMAL I want what I want not what you think I should have . Divorce sorry you have been misinformed the Philippines has two Family Law courts the Govt Court and the Sharia Court for Muslims, The Muslim can divorce and before 90 days they can RETRACT A DIVORCE and sir my issue with the family has been resolved they brung my Family home and we all are satisfied and happy well sir this time no charge but I do want you leave a comment like and please subscribe I have a lot more to share with you every day sir
"I didn't marry her until I saw the baby was mine". Those are your words. You didn't trust her but yet you expect her father and her community to trust you? 🤣
@@Robert-f1n6l I tested because there is a high risk that to gain the benefit of having my baby family friends etc may encourage the girl to up the odds she get pregnant it's a lot to it just how it is and I knew that so that was why
I'm sorry to hear things didn't work out, bro . The first thing you have to do is put some distance between your Filipina and her family because they will always ruin your relationship. The family bond is strong, and you will always be on the outside except your wallet. I'm surprised the family didn't hit you for that child support and put you in a position where you can't leave the country until you get straight with that. Good luck and yes git while the gittin is good.
The first thing to do is put distance between her and her family? Thats a horrible way to believe in my opinion. How would you feel if a man showed up and felt this way about your daughter? I have 2, and don't think they would be with a man like that. And for my family in the Philippines. If I had issues with my wife (we are great btw 10yrs plus) I would go to her family for help. I suppose my experience is different. My wife, her family, and her extended family have all been amazing. Her family is one of the things I appreciate most about my wife.
@ This is why people are disappointed; they're taught to expect something from nothing, and they become depressed if things don't turn out the way they had expected.
@@rajihabdulbasit7569 - Yes, the problems start when you over-commit, like marriage or buying land/house for them. You can live together in a rental, as I do with my girl, but if she ever pushes back on MY RULES, it is over and she knows I am the ONE in CHARGE. Guess what? We have not had one fight in our 2 years together.
@stanlysteemer4872 For some reasons I don't know how to put it ,the Philippines never sounds like a normal place to me .After Marcos stole so much money from the country ,now his son is elected the president. This is not a normal place to choose to live period .
@ you would be surprised to be honest Ive been to the Philippines both in the big cities and provinces. It’s a weird place just like my home country America. My second wife’s from the Philippines. I guess you could say people in general are weird it’s just easier to cope with the weirdos you grew up around.
Akhi we have to start something in a good way. A lot of the times if we start something wrong it’s going to end wrong. Islamicaly if she is out of wedlock she isn’t your baby. But may Allah guide you to the strait path ameen.
While there are some success stories out here the truth is that most Western men get played out here no matter how much game you think you have. We don't understand the culture out here till you go through ish like big man and been here a long time. Keep your head up, big man. Real men thrive in difficult situations and respect for keeping it 💯 👊🏽✌🏼
How can a brother your age call anyone a savage knowing them folk been using that same insult against us since forever is beyond me. I smell narcissism and no accountability here. Disgrace!
@@MajanDyabe I agree. This was the first and last of his videos I was willing to suffer through. It's like a "perfect storm" or race, age, religion, child abandonment, inability to adapt to the environment, just a $itshow of the video imo. Maybe he rolled it all together on purpose just to make the video "appealing", we all are commenting on it after all, but nah not for me.
I feel you man. This country is tough as nails to adapt to. The women can be very stubborn and uneducated, so relationships take a lot of work in the beginning. The problem is with the Philippines, the longer you stay, the more annoyances seem to accumulate. I use white noise on my sound system to drown out the other noise.
Will you father then abandon more kids somewhere else? Being an elderly man as you are, it's especially irresponsible to make plans to father kids in a foreign land. My father started multipipe families then abandoned them. It was horrible growing up without a father.
Sir OK Let me take you on a tour 1o children one wife in the USA when i left the USA my baby Girl was Married two children House in Suburb and 34 yrs old my oldest is a Professional also a very profitable podcast topics regarding Infant medical disease she is a known expert in the field 55yrs old that's the kids sir NORMALLY WANTS a joke right never place me in the NORMAL I want what I want not what you think I should have . Divorce sorry you have been misinformed the Philippines has two Family Law courts the Govt Court and the Sharia Court for Muslims, The Muslim can divorce and before 90 days they can RETRACT A DIVORCE and sir my issue with the family has been resolved they brung my Family home and we all are satisfied and happy well sir this time no charge but I do want you leave a comment like and please subscribe I have a lot more to share with you every day sir I was and continue to be a good FATHER please like and subscribe I have a lot more to share with you.
Thanks for laying The Truth out ther eon the line brutha! Too many of these channels claim that Philippines is a Pure Paradise. "Live like a Kang on $900 USD per month." Total BS. This country has a ton of problems and issues. Everything you do you need to be super careful over here. Quality of life in USA is so much better.
Lots I can say, but I want to focus on life in the Philippines for me, and not on my opinion of you. I live in a 100,000 person city in Laguna. About 60 miles from Manila, but 3 hours drive because of traffic. Our house is in an old barangay with a few squatter houses around it. I guess you would call my Wife's family a typical middle class family in the PH. To begin with, they do not live like cockroaches and dogs. During previous hard times for the family , my wife would tell me a quote from her mom. "we may be poor, but we can still be clean". And the house shows it. Floor swept and mopped 3 times a day. The 3 second rule doesn't apply here, you could eat a meal off the floor. Never a dish in the sink. Clothes meticulously washed and ironed. If I have any complaint, I think they spend to much time tending to the house. My wife's close family includes Mom, Dad, and nephew in the house, sister is living abroad. Her extended close family has about 15 people living in several homes. Ranging from poor to middle class. All them treat me with respect and kindness. They will invite me to go eat or drink. Sometimes I pay, sometimes they do. They are very sensitive about me feeling like I am being used for money. If I need anything a family member will fetch it for me. One in particular will show up on his scooter and get money. Then return with whatever I wanted (food, medicine, random items, beer, lol ect). If I go drinking, I am always accompted by a family member to provide transportation and safety. For the community, they also treat me with respect. Sure you have the people assuming I am Rich, and want to beg. But for the most part they are happy to meet me because I'm from far away and interesting to them. I could go on and on about my life in the Philippines. It is my happy place. If you watch this video, please don't think it is the typical situation. People get themselves in bad situations all over the world, it just happens that this one has a YT channel. My situation is so amazing, both my best friends also found great Filipina wives to marry. Maybe I should start a YT channel. But it would just sound like me bragging and bragging and bragging. Life is good in the Philippines, just be smart with your decisions.
ALL PEOPLE ARE DIFFRENT I AM TELLING WHAT I SAW NO DISRESPECT INTENDED I AM BACK TOGETHER THEY RESOLVED THEIR MISUNDERSTANDING AND WE GOOD CAN YOU BELIEVE THIS HAPPEN BECAUSE I SAID DONT TAKE MY SICK BABY OUT THE HOUSE SHE DID ANYWAY TAKE THE BABY VIOLATED ISLAMIC RULES BUT IT WAS IN ACCORDENCE WITH HER CLAN TRADITION
Also it is a terrible thing when a woman takes a child away from a father. I can only say this unless the person is proven to be a thief? What they take from me with the full support of their family and the community, what they take was never mine in the first place! That hurts to the very core. A hurt so mean it stops my heart mid beat.
BRO I FEEL YOU SO MUCH but listen I got help to deal with the family I got my wife and child at home please stay with my vlog I need your support you are good people
OK Let me take you on a tour 1o children one wife in the USA when i left the USA my baby Girl was Married two children House in Suburb and 34 yrs old my oldest is a Professional also a very profitable podcast topics regarding Infant medical disease she is a known expert in the field 55yrs old that's the kids sir NORMALLY WANTS a joke right never place me in the NORMAL I want what I want not what you think I should have . Divorce sorry you have been misinformed the Philippines has two Family Law courts the Govt Court and the Sharia Court for Muslims, The Muslim can divorce and before 90 days they can RETRACT A DIVORCE and sir my issue with the family has been resolved they brung my Family home and we all are satisfied and happy well sir this time no charge but I do want you leave a comment like and please subscribe I have a lot more to share with you every day sir
Seems like you didn't do your research before you came there. However , from what I'm seeing in your videos. Your in a province. Away from any major city. And the sad part to your video. Is your belief that their culture should adjust to you. Going back to America seems like a good option for you.. . Also sounds like you met this girl on the internet. Fell inlove with your imagination.
Dude. Its unreal. The liars just to save face. They coukd care less about the inconvenience it causes you. The antiquated pathetic actions in publuc and the non worldly knowledge on HOW THINGS ARE DONE, HOW TO ACT, AND BEING STRAIGHT UP!
Damn This is a Deep and Honest Break Down. I see You got to your Breaking Point. Will the Channel Change to "Big Man in Thailand" 😂😂😂 Or Elsewhere Eventually ???
No Bro the family had to give into Islamic Law and my wife and baby is home Im good back on track jack man where you been you know i got sick but im good now
@@moblack5883 Bro maybe for a bro like you but me and my wife would do it all over again wouldn't change nothing you do you I do me that's why I where I am you where you are 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😘
Thank you for your insightful information about the Philippines. 🇵🇭 The Filipino Culture is definitely different and I think us Foreigners considering moving or visiting the Philippines must be aware of this. When I was in Military I was Stationed in Japan and me and my work colleague friend both had an option to visit Thailand 🇹🇭 or the Philippines 🇵🇭 and we both choose Thailand. We both enjoyed Thailand. I not sure we would of done well in Philippines if we went their as young Americans because we had no clue about their culture. Honestly my top destination if I go back to Asia is Japan then Thailand. Japan runs smoothly and I love the Japanese people as well as the Women are super Beautiful and very educated. Thailand would be my 2nd choice. I think Philippines would be good to use as a base to visit Japan and Thailand but I see how it can be super complicated finding the correct Filipina Lady. I seen a lot of scams and games happen to many Foreign Men. I have seen a lot of unfortunate things happen in a cold calculated way. If you can find the Correct Filipina she will be the best wife but their so many bad Ones it is not easy finding the correct lady. You basically rolling the dice with Filipina Women.
Philippines is what you make it you choose the woman it up to you to know the family before having a baby by her you should have looked for a woman that didnt have any family to have your child they are out there, less headaches she will always go by your lead because you and the children will be her world she would want and there wouldn't be no family influencers to many of yall are to star struck of the beauty and youthfulness you become blind and in a rush take your time to learn the person and the cons and the pros before you jump
YOU NEED TO GET A LAWYER , MAKE A FAMILY AGREEMENT. FATHER HAS THE RIGHTS TO WERE THE CHILD IS RAISED ,, WHAT DR , SCHOOL,DENTIST ETC. YOUR RIGHTS ARE TO HAVE CUSTODY OF THE CHILD EVERYTIME YOU VISIT THE PHILIPPINES.
I really don’t understand what you’re trying to do are you trying to leave a seed behind in the Philippines why I really don’t understanding your logic sounds like a good pimp ?
Sir here I am going to give you the whole thing let's see if you can understand I live in the Philippines my desire was to have a Filipina baby so when i am back in the USA during the pandemic I learned that a gift that keeps giving even after your dead is very honorable. So, follow me I decided that I give my inheritance to a woman that has little means If she has my child marry me and Make My Child a Hafiza (a woman who memorizes the entire Quran) Ok so If I am in the hell fire My child become Hafiza IMMEDIATELY I am released from the hell fire a promise from ALLAH to all Muslims. So, you are following me my theme is raise a Hafiza support my Baby and the Mother and get out of HELL FIRE nothing to do with looking for play mates all strictly serious religious effort done all over the world every day
OK Let me take you on a tour 1o children one wife in the USA when i left the USA my baby Girl was Married two children House in Suburb and 34 yrs old my oldest is a Professional also a very profitable podcast topics regarding Infant medical disease she is a known expert in the field 55yrs old that's the kids sir NORMALLY WANTS a joke right never place me in the NORMAL I want what I want not what you think I should have . Divorce sorry you have been misinformed the Philippines has two Family Law courts the Govt Court and the Sharia Court for Muslims, The Muslim can divorce and before 90 days they can RETRACT A DIVORCE and sir my issue with the family has been resolved they brung my Family home and we all are satisfied and happy well sir this time no charge but I do want you leave a comment like and please subscribe I have a lot more to share with you every day sir
yes it is my baby and wife is at home now the family agreed to follow Islamic lac please hit the like and subscribe you can learn a lot now for the comparison Let me take you on a tour 1o children one wife in the USA when i left the USA my baby Girl was Married two children House in Suburb and 34 yrs old my oldest is a Professional also a very profitable podcast topics regarding Infant medical disease she is a known expert in the field 55yrs old that's the kids sir NORMALLY WANTS a joke right never place me in the NORMAL I want what I want not what you think I should have . Divorce sorry you have been misinformed the Philippines has two Family Law courts the Govt Court and the Sharia Court for Muslims, The Muslim can divorce and before 90 days they can RETRACT A DIVORCE and sir my issue with the family has been resolved they brung my Family home and we all are satisfied and happy well sir this time no charge but I do want you leave a comment like and please subscribe I have a lot more to share with you every day sir
The Philippines should be its own planet because it is that much different from the rest of the World. So, when you go there have the mindset that you are on planet Philippines, leave all of your ideas and standards of what you are used to, leave it on planet Earth, don't try to change anything. Always remember this,,,,, you are a visitor in their world, they did not ask you to come to their planet.
wow you been here you have to have been here, or you could not say that that comes from a man who has been here boots on the ground i take my hat off to you sir
I'm not clear on what prompted the quick divorce. A part 2 after you leave the Philippines? Regardless, be well and safe travels. You seem to be on edge with every sound and movement...
He spits or speaketh the 💯 % truth. Exactly how it is here in Pampagna, Angeles City. Alot of western idiot wannabes here, due to a lot of bad apple foreigners arriving here over the years!! Started coming here in 1999 and decided to live here for now in 2022!! Looking at other SE Asia country options right now!! . Real talk&Nuff Said!!
I almost forgot, I call most of these people( other than my first family here in Camarin, Callocan City metro Manila, Perez family, filtha-pinos from the filtha-ppines, except beaches and mountains, based on my experiences!! Real truth talk&Nuff !!
@EuropeExpatinphilippines sure. Cheaper and better to travel to other s.e. Asia countries. Flights and hotels are outrageous. Garbage and corruption are true sign of poverty. A sign of desperation, which is a magnet of the sex pat brigade.
Question Please, how Old Are U, And How Old Is The Young Lady That U had the baby by……??? 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 Brother, when I first seen this video, U had Me CRYING Laughing… I Almost Fell Out Of My Chair… I was Like, WOWwwwwwwwww, Is This Brother Serious…??? Sometimes Brother, U TRULY Have To Look At YOURSELF, And Say WHAT I’m I Doing, TRULY… It Has To Make Sense, “STOP, THINK ABOUT IT”… Brother, Sometimes In LIFE, U Have Too Just Sit Down And Have Several Seats And JUST RELAX, Literally… Sometimes, Doing Too Much, Is Doing Tooooo Much… U Say, That U Have A New House, But U Are The Same Person From The States, And U That Person, Is Still That Same OLD Person From The States With Those 10 Kids, NOW 11 Kids… “STOP, THINK ABOUT IT” U Stated That U Have 10 Kids Back in the States… Taking Responsibility of Your ACTIONS Is Sooooo Important… I Laughed At First of This video, but Listening To It For The Second Time, I was Astonish That U Would Even Take YOURSELF Down That Road… 😢😢😢 I TRULY HOPE Brother That U Just Take A Hard Look At YOURSELF And Make The Necessary Adjustments For YOURSELF… 😇😇😇 I Wish U Well… 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 Tried Praying To JESUS CHRIST, And HE Will Start To Opening Those Doors That U Need Open Within YOUR LIFE… Purchase A NIV Bible And TRULY WORK ON YOURSELF Brother… I’ll Be Praying For U And Your Family… 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 BLESSED!!! DJ Scribbles
@rajihabdulbasit7569 No sir, far from lonely. I live in paridise. But you are on RUclips telling the world your issues and business, complaining. You should expect comments, my friend. Either way, I wish you the best.
@@wadek798 I had my reasons to do it But I like you to know the family of my wife come over brung the wife and baby we ate and the family left my wife and baby are sleep in the bed
OMG you're so smart GOD BLESS you OH BY THE WAY SMARTY the Philippines has Two family Law courts the Govt Law and the Sharia Law Court for Muslims In Islam you can Divorce many ways you can also resend a divorce before 90 days so sir see you learned something don't be so quick to open your mouth when you do not know and you never been here I live here so like and subscribe and see you in the comment section because I have A lot you can learn
Is there anyway you can take the child with you? Don't you have any rights as the dad? Will they try to make you pay if you leave child support? What happens now? Won't the child have better life with you then the baby momma.
Wow my brother... You really ...really messed up big time. It's going to be very hard to recover from this situation . The best thing to do is gain custody of your child and return back to the Good old USA.. !!! Help out the mother of the financially restart your life again in America...!!! Good luck my brother .. !!! 🙏🙏🙏
HIHIHI well my good brother you don't know a real player MY BAY AND MY WIFE and her family came to the house bringing food and my baby and we had a good time, and the family went home and my baby next to me now with my wife love you
@@Asia-p1p3b the baby was 34 in May of 2023 when I come here input all my children thru college everyone of the was raised by me and the mom but see nijas can't see a black man doing that if I told u I was crack head like the one you idolize you would be respectful but I'm not so your intemidated
In all honesty, delete this video, and stop talking with your heart on your sleeve. You went for the wrong reason, to make a baby, and you will leave because of your reasoning.
Now imagine this reversed and a Filipino living in the U.S. complaining about it and calling them savages. Damn they even tell their own to leave if they make a small criticism of the way things are. You are in someone else's country, suck it up and do things their way just as you would expect back home. Or leave, you don't have to stay.
Story sounds familiar from watching other RUclipsr videos of foreigners relocating to the Philippines. It’s time to bounce (metaphorically speaking) bro. Plenty women out there or other destinations with good intentions.
I am a Filipino and i know what exactly what you are in now. living here in the US for almost 35 years. I would say you are in a wrong place in the Philippines. you are right the best thing to do is get the hell out in that place. just a suggestion if you want just stay single and enjoy life. there is plenty of things to do in the Philippines you just have to use a good decision first before going into a relationship or anything that will affect your daily living. Just always think you have the money and you can always do what ever you want to do with it. be careful next time. ask around expats that live there. take care bro.
YES I AM IN GENSAN ALL IS GOOD HERE THEY ARE BACK IN THE HOME LIFE SOMETIMES TROW YOU CURVE BALLS BUT PLEASE DONT FEEL I HAVE ANY NEGATIVE FEELINGS ABOUT THE PEOPLE
@@rajihabdulbasit7569 sounds good I was talking to a 28 year old cutie from deep in province Himalayan city negros occidental 4 11 cute as all hell i said something she didn't understand and a crazy anger came out so it's making me think I send her money to help her not much toe thousands of pesos to her she really naive to Alot I can see how it will be a problem
Wow, bro, you left 10 kids in the US, moved to the Philippines, had another kid, and you thought everything was just going to be peachy. You have to remember wherever you go There you are. It's not the Philippines my brother it is you. With all due respect, I have watched your videos You never should have left the states.
@@puppyrex1789 he is a regular baby-daddy. Mass confusion is Fathers’ Day in Oakland.
These sickly and half dead dudes that are on poverty level back in their countries, come here seeking young, dumb, poor and desperate barely legal girls to lay up on and pretend they are handsome and desired for their looks. I love seeing this be the results of perverted daddy/daughter type fantasies of these immigrants.
Amen !
Facts!
Lol, what's up with these older guys traveling to the Philippines
Big man old man. You're old enough to know what you're getting into. You own your decisions. Are you going to walk away from your black Filipino baby? It's going to be rough for him. I know from experience.
@@Paul-McB lease listen to what I said in the video don't let it go over your head ok
@@rajihabdulbasit7569 Sir, YOU made the decision to have a baby with a stranger, just to have a trophy Filipino baby. The baby deserves a father, deserves financial support and love. You just want to run away from the baby. That's shameful.
@@rajihabdulbasit7569 What were the terms of your agreement?
@@rajihabdulbasit7569 There's no divorce in Philippines, so what are you talking about?
@@rajihabdulbasit7569 If you leave the Philippines, do you seriously intend to return to the USA?
My gut says that you intend to flee to another SE Asian country and work on your 12th child
Shameful
Big man has small money. This is clickbait to get a little money. He isn't going nowhere. If he can't hack it here, he damn sure can't hack it in America. Stop embarrassing black men.
@@hurleywilson7246 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yes it's embarrassing
@@hurleywilson7246 my thoughts exactly.
Looks like he would get played anywhere in the world 😅
@@michaelmereday6791 Boy you just a fool I get played what you know about me where have you been do you have a woman out of your country have you been out your country you want to see my Lao wife and home how about I show you my Thai wife been married 15 years and our Bangkok condo or let's do video with my two Filipina and our homes here let's do a call video call on Whatsapp I show you how to be a player fool just let me know when your available my personal invitation to you only
When in Rome, Do What The Romans Do. They bled for their independence.
Bro,this is the realest video that I have seen over there. I am SADDENED that you had to endure what you have
i am saddened by what the mother and child have to endure.
BRO LISTEN I WISH I COULD GIVE YOU THE FULL STORY CAN YOU IMAGINE DIVORCE YOUR GIRL AND WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU MAKE A MENDS THE EXSPERIENCE IS PRICE LESS THANKS FOR YOUR SUPPORT
SADDENED WHY SIR WHAT DID THEY ENDURE PLEASE TELL ME SIR YOUR THOUGHTS MAYBE YOU KNOW SOMETHING I DONT
Lol made plan to have a baby hahaha you better leave really quick I'm sure you just made a whole lot of enemies.
SIR THIS IS DONE EVERYDAY IT IS THE CULTURE NO ENEMIES BUT THE PEOPLE WHO DONT UNDERSTAND SPREW IGNORENCE AND HATE ABOUT WHAT THEY KNOW NOT
Feel bad for the offspring. 😢
I agree with you 100% I have been talking to a girl over there for two years now and I told her she lies all the time and they call the same face. No it’s a damn lie and also everything they do. You can call it what you want, but is scamming
Go far from the city to get a girl
When in Rome ,do as the Romans or suck it up and get out.
Im convinced also that lying is in their DNA, and not just some of them, practically all of them.
@hermansexton4567 // What have you learned from that situation ?
That's Deep
It's their country, what do you expect
Yep, you have to adjust to the country that you are in. No country is perfect. America is definitely not perfect.
I used to complain about being overseas until one day I had to realize this is NOT my country lol if you don’t like something then leave ✌🏽
not what i see sometimes it is unexspected hihihihihhihi
A BREAK SOMETIMES HIHIHIHIHIHIH
This video is very educational....it teaches me to NOT be like him 🎯
I hope you stay off my vlogs lets see if you can do that
@rajihabdulbasit7569 if you can't except a different view or criticizing then you shouldn't be on here
@ Continue this vlog
in America , not Phils. Your in extreme danger resident in Phils. Government might prevent you from boarding plane back home. Go today , leave Phils today !
YES YOU HAVE YOUR OPTIONS
@@rajihabdulbasit7569 my comment was a compliment to you....think about it 🤔
Old fools are alive
so are you so what do that prove
You ain't never lied my brother...scandalous to the bone...they will tear yo ass up!!!!
Yeah the amount of disparaging remarks will be biting you man. You dont disrespect the people in their country. Its not America
really
@Robert-f1n6l yep watch me block you bye
No one should ever judge an entire country based on one bad personal experience!!!
@@Jcphiljr why not can you explain to the people why you feel that way
@rajihabdulbasit7569 I personally feel that way, because it's just morally wrong to do so. Not to mention, that 9 times out of 10, the vast majority of the rest of that particular country are really nice people. However, when most people have a bad experience anywhere doing anything, it can taint one's perspective if they only see the negative. I am personally a glass half full kind of person, meaning I try to see the positive in any situation.
@Jcphiljr Good thinking sir .However you have the opportunity to express how you rationalize things and how you evaluate things is it because I am a black man that somehow you believe I don't have the same right and I need to fall in line with the way you think .There is an old say "when the white man talks to a ninja he stays talked to" well your comment reminded me if that and I never adhered to that statement in all my life just my thoughts not saying I'm right or wrong
@Jcphiljr if I go live are you willing to discuss this I really want to hear you out and I don't know any other way and we can text for hours a conversation few minutes
@rajihabdulbasit7569 Sir, you just answered all of my questions, when you brought race into this conversation!! I will pray for you 🙏 🤲 🕍 🕌 ⛪️ 🛕 ✝️ ❎️ 🕊!! I don't do drama, so good luck to you!!
So if you so much complains about the Philippines, why are you doing there? What’s stopping you from heading back to your beloved country of USA????
Money lol
He doesn't have money to buy a ticket out! 😂
Same old victim mentality, it's part of the DNA.
I can complain is there a law against complaining omg so why would I go anywhere I'm a grown man an old man do I not have a right to complain see how people try to be God man it is some real losers on here 😡😡😡😡 but you entertain an old man thank you
I'm here minding my business what you doing hihihi u
he sounds like a pookie from the hood
Calvin brought all the blacks over for a kings lifestyle. lol
@Collusion10 What exactly are you saying? How is he affiliated with Calvin? Not to mention, other guys are having issues too, and crashing out, getting exploited, and all manner if negative things. What lifestyle are you there for?
@Collusion10 And what are all the old white men promoting? The same shot! Stop with the rac8sts comments. White RUclips rs are promoting the same stuff, in case you have not noticed. Always someone with negative comments about blacks. There is 2 sides to that country sir, and both are there for the same reasons. Why are you there sir?
I take it back.. he's an OG.. much respect to him.. I want to do what he does and travel the globe.. most of you ninjas are haters..
we will teach them takes time
This isn’t an airport, there’s no need to announce your departure.
Upset people can have a 'stop order' placed on him = he does not board planc , and is held , until
problem resolved (prison sentence for him ?)
DO I HAVE THE RIGHT TO DO SO DID I OFFEND YOU OR YOU JUST GOT NOTHING BUT HATE FOR ANOTHER HUMAN BEING GOING THRU A HARD TIME
@ We are having fun at your expense : )
@@Robert-f1n6l And I am making MONEY so it's a what? WIN WIN but don't seem fair I get money, and you only laugh Well I truly thank you and your welcome to help me any time
You didn't marry her until you saw the baby was yours?" That is SAVAGE!!!
yes that is me so get back in your room
Been here 14 years bruh and you are so right. Back to the USA in a month to stay.
many of us are fed up with the BS there. the ignorance, the noise, red tape, smoke. dangerous and reckless drivers.
Can't be that bad, 14 yrs a long time before you realize it's not a place for you.😂
@@danteflogio5168 since Duterte left it has gotten worse. many ex-pats are leaving to other countries.
@@danteflogio5168 You have no idea. Wife will teach in the USA now. Its more fun in the Philippines. Really? It was bad, at least for me! Every man has a story like Mark used to say/lol
Did it take you 14 yrs to wake up ?
Brother, just start over!
we ARE BACK TOGETHER SIR THE FAMILY AGREED TO FOLLOW THE ISLAMIC FAMILY LAW AND BRUNG MY WIFE AND BABY HOME
Now you have 11 kids you don’t support
@@jonathancoffman4311 what a fool my baby in USA 😭is 35 duhhhhhhh all 10 college educated and raised by mom and dad how about you when did you get out of rehab do your kids respect you or still remember how the neighbors called you a crack head see I never had that oroblem
@ Liar , ha ha.
My brother, I'm a subscriber. I'm currently on negros island. As a man of color, born and raised in California and retired from the military, for us anywhere is better than the USA. This is a horrible situation and surely stressful. I'll be praying for you. Good luck sir.
Bro what you said means all the world to me thank you
To further elaborate, watch this video. Taylor house publishing "Marc Wilson"
Retired black military man here on Luzon... I second your comment... The US is no place for black men.. So those who can leave for at least the next 6 years, should get to moving....
@waltermiller3249 what's your color?
@@rajihabdulbasit7569 Brother I have been here single for 13 years, my woman got pregnant by other man, but I have no family in US so I just stay, I'm safer here than I would be in UD, I have lost many but I have learned, but women in SE Asia are all westernized now, in every country, they're all feminist now, Big Man I would surely like for you to contact me, I'm close to you...
Big man, small mind. I don't think you can even adapt to living in New York city, perhaps only to LA skid Row. Good riddance to bad rubbish. Bye bye
@@garcia4328 what the heck are you high who you talking to I live in the Philippines where u get NY etc huhbbbb
With all respect brother you should delete this video asap. Brother yhis is an embarrassment to your dignity. I eel your pain and disappointments but brother you're broken and the help that you're crying out for is spiritual. You went to the bottom of the barrel looking for healing through neediness and acceptance. Your standards are very low and as a man my heart goes out to you but it's very limited. Brother save what pride you have left and detox. The Philippines is going to do what America couldn't do to you. Brother your broken. Man get some time to yourself and really look at your life and stop putting yourself in a position to be used. You're not a victim, you're lost and your pain is so deep until you'll put this on social media not realizing the shame you're not only bringing to yourself but to men that has nothing to do with your weakness as a man. Brother delete this video because it's not helping no one. Love you man!!!
@@Rizzup2 then don't watch it go watch sunshine 🤣🤣🤣🤣 thank you 4k plus views you a hater delete it man you know what I want to tell you starts with capital F 🤣🤣🤣🤣
10 kids wow ?!?!? Social irresponsabilitt
OK Let me take you on a tour 1o children one wife in the USA when i left the USA my baby Girl was Married two children House in Suburb and 34 yrs old my oldest is a Professional also a very profitable podcast topics regarding Infant medical disease she is a known expert in the field 55yrs old that's the kids sir NORMALLY WANTS a joke right never place me in the NORMAL I want what I want not what you think I should have . Divorce sorry you have been misinformed the Philippines has two Family Law courts the Govt Court and the Sharia Court for Muslims, The Muslim can divorce and before 90 days they can RETRACT A DIVORCE and sir my issue with the family has been resolved they brung my Family home and we all are satisfied and happy well sir this time no charge but I do want you leave a comment like and please subscribe I have a lot more to share with you every day sir
No , its : "stud" , lol
"I didn't marry her until I saw the baby was mine". Those are your words. You didn't trust her but yet you expect her father and her community to trust you? 🤣
@@Matipid_Lolo yeah dude is 🤡
They are liars. You dont "see" if the baby is yours , you medically 'test'.
@@Matipid_Lolo well you interpet as you will but there is a reason for everything I do trust me and a valid reason so you do you please let me do me
@@Robert-f1n6l I tested because there is a high risk that to gain the benefit of having my baby family friends etc may encourage the girl to up the odds she get pregnant it's a lot to it just how it is and I knew that so that was why
I'm sorry to hear things didn't work out, bro . The first thing you have to do is put some distance between your Filipina and her family because they will always ruin your relationship. The family bond is strong, and you will always be on the outside except your wallet. I'm surprised the family didn't hit you for that child support and put you in a position where you can't leave the country until you get straight with that. Good luck and yes git while the gittin is good.
The first thing to do is put distance between her and her family? Thats a horrible way to believe in my opinion. How would you feel if a man showed up and felt this way about your daughter? I have 2, and don't think they would be with a man like that. And for my family in the Philippines. If I had issues with my wife (we are great btw 10yrs plus) I would go to her family for help. I suppose my experience is different. My wife, her family, and her extended family have all been amazing. Her family is one of the things I appreciate most about my wife.
Bro my wife and child is at home they are well her family has agreed to follow the Islamic family law and not their clan law
From UK now living in philippines. I love the country and it's people. Don't blame others when your the problem.
you dont know me
"Expect nothing and you'll never be disappointed"--- Lao Tzu.
Expect nothing and get nothing.
@ That's the reasoning of people who wait for others to give them fish instead of learning to catch their own.
But unfortunately life is about expecting something.. often expecting something big for nothing, the least..
@ This is why people are disappointed; they're taught to expect something from nothing, and they become depressed if things don't turn out the way they had expected.
You be lucky to get out of PI. In one piece my brother. Keep your head on a swivel
my baby and wife is home the clan came had dinner dont be a scarry be a man
A lot of people get old, don’t mean they get wise.
Very rude and disrespectful….
WHO TOLD YOU THE DEFINITION OF THOSE WORDS
Best to just go home especially after this video lol
hihihihihhi my wife and baby home you can hate on me
The Philippines great place to visit but not to live.
just do a play and pay
@@rajihabdulbasit7569 - Yes, the problems start when you over-commit, like marriage or buying land/house for them. You can live together in a rental, as I do with my girl, but if she ever pushes back on MY RULES, it is over and she knows I am the ONE in CHARGE. Guess what? We have not had one fight in our 2 years together.
exactly that , yes , but the fools will never listen and will never learn.
@stanlysteemer4872 For some reasons I don't know how to put it ,the Philippines never sounds like a normal place to me .After Marcos stole so much money from the country ,now his son is elected the president. This is not a normal place to choose to live period .
@ you would be surprised to be honest Ive been to the Philippines both in the big cities and provinces. It’s a weird place just like my home country America. My second wife’s from the Philippines. I guess you could say people in general are weird it’s just easier to cope with the weirdos you grew up around.
Akhi we have to start something in a good way. A lot of the times if we start something wrong it’s going to end wrong. Islamicaly if she is out of wedlock she isn’t your baby. But may Allah guide you to the strait path ameen.
ahki she not out of wed lock ahki why would you assume that ahki
the kababayan will team up on a foreigner..be careful my brother
Oh come on don’t really believe that
Thanks for the warning, brother! Be blessed brother!
While there are some success stories out here the truth is that most Western men get played out here no matter how much game you think you have. We don't understand the culture out here till you go through ish like big man and been here a long time.
Keep your head up, big man. Real men thrive in difficult situations and respect for keeping it 💯 👊🏽✌🏼
How can a brother your age call anyone a savage knowing them folk been using that same insult against us since forever is beyond me. I smell narcissism and no accountability here. Disgrace!
@@MajanDyabe oh really now you wanna play the race card 🤣🤣🤣🤣♠️
@@MajanDyabe I smell a fool
I smell a dumb ass😂
Savages😂😂😂
@@MajanDyabe I agree.
This was the first and last of his videos I was willing to suffer through.
It's like a "perfect storm" or race, age, religion, child abandonment, inability to adapt to the environment, just a $itshow of the video imo.
Maybe he rolled it all together on purpose just to make the video "appealing", we all are commenting on it after all, but nah not for me.
The Last guy that talked smacked about Muslims ended up being kidnapped and killed. So I would take this off of you tube
I would be ashamed.
Sorry to hear that things didn’t work out. It is a risk and a gamble for sure. Hopefully you bounce back and find a better fit for your life.
Bro we back the family came brung my baby and my wife and we ate and all is good man
@ oh okay glad to hear that
Caught that yellow girl fever big bro......
BIG MAN said they will live like dogs and roaches😁😁🤨and then some foreigner comes around talking about a budget or an allowance or a pension🤦♀🤷♀
Bruh u do know that they can see your content in that country too? B safe
Bro why all this be safe I said what was on my mind it is allowed
I feel you man. This country is tough as nails to adapt to. The women can be very stubborn and uneducated, so relationships take a lot of work in the beginning. The problem is with the Philippines, the longer you stay, the more annoyances seem to accumulate. I use white noise on my sound system to drown out the other noise.
Bro you said it all but we back the family brung them home and all is good
Will you father then abandon more kids somewhere else? Being an elderly man as you are, it's especially irresponsible to make plans to father kids in a foreign land. My father started multipipe families then abandoned them. It was horrible growing up without a father.
Sir OK Let me take you on a tour 1o children one wife in the USA when i left the USA my baby Girl was Married two children House in Suburb and 34 yrs old my oldest is a Professional also a very profitable podcast topics regarding Infant medical disease she is a known expert in the field 55yrs old that's the kids sir NORMALLY WANTS a joke right never place me in the NORMAL I want what I want not what you think I should have . Divorce sorry you have been misinformed the Philippines has two Family Law courts the Govt Court and the Sharia Court for Muslims, The Muslim can divorce and before 90 days they can RETRACT A DIVORCE and sir my issue with the family has been resolved they brung my Family home and we all are satisfied and happy well sir this time no charge but I do want you leave a comment like and please subscribe I have a lot more to share with you every day sir I was and continue to be a good FATHER please like and subscribe I have a lot more to share with you.
He simply made a mistake. At least he can leave whenever wants, not stranded here like some of us.
A mistake , or 11 mistakes ?
iM NOT GOING ANYWHERE THIS THE BEST THING I EVER HAD REMEBER THAT SONG
Thanks for laying The Truth out ther eon the line brutha! Too many of these channels claim that Philippines is a Pure Paradise. "Live like a Kang on $900 USD per month." Total BS. This country has a ton of problems and issues. Everything you do you need to be super careful over here. Quality of life in USA is so much better.
Lots I can say, but I want to focus on life in the Philippines for me, and not on my opinion of you. I live in a 100,000 person city in Laguna. About 60 miles from Manila, but 3 hours drive because of traffic. Our house is in an old barangay with a few squatter houses around it. I guess you would call my Wife's family a typical middle class family in the PH. To begin with, they do not live like cockroaches and dogs. During previous hard times for the family , my wife would tell me a quote from her mom. "we may be poor, but we can still be clean". And the house shows it. Floor swept and mopped 3 times a day. The 3 second rule doesn't apply here, you could eat a meal off the floor. Never a dish in the sink. Clothes meticulously washed and ironed. If I have any complaint, I think they spend to much time tending to the house. My wife's close family includes Mom, Dad, and nephew in the house, sister is living abroad. Her extended close family has about 15 people living in several homes. Ranging from poor to middle class. All them treat me with respect and kindness. They will invite me to go eat or drink. Sometimes I pay, sometimes they do. They are very sensitive about me feeling like I am being used for money. If I need anything a family member will fetch it for me. One in particular will show up on his scooter and get money. Then return with whatever I wanted (food, medicine, random items, beer, lol ect). If I go drinking, I am always accompted by a family member to provide transportation and safety. For the community, they also treat me with respect. Sure you have the people assuming I am Rich, and want to beg. But for the most part they are happy to meet me because I'm from far away and interesting to them. I could go on and on about my life in the Philippines. It is my happy place. If you watch this video, please don't think it is the typical situation. People get themselves in bad situations all over the world, it just happens that this one has a YT channel. My situation is so amazing, both my best friends also found great Filipina wives to marry. Maybe I should start a YT channel. But it would just sound like me bragging and bragging and bragging. Life is good in the Philippines, just be smart with your decisions.
ALL PEOPLE ARE DIFFRENT I AM TELLING WHAT I SAW NO DISRESPECT INTENDED I AM BACK TOGETHER THEY RESOLVED THEIR MISUNDERSTANDING AND WE GOOD CAN YOU BELIEVE THIS HAPPEN BECAUSE I SAID DONT TAKE MY SICK BABY OUT THE HOUSE SHE DID ANYWAY TAKE THE BABY VIOLATED ISLAMIC RULES BUT IT WAS IN ACCORDENCE WITH HER CLAN TRADITION
You embarrassing yourself you go to another country and you complain about their lifestyle. Give us a break. Go home.
sir can i ask have you ever been to the Philippines Sir I can complain sir because I am here this is my HOME i have a right to complain
Also it is a terrible thing when a woman takes a child away from a father.
I can only say this unless the person is proven to be a thief? What they take from me with the full support of their family and the community, what they take was never mine in the first place!
That hurts to the very core. A hurt so mean it stops my heart mid beat.
BRO I FEEL YOU SO MUCH but listen I got help to deal with the family I got my wife and child at home please stay with my vlog I need your support you are good people
I'm new to your channel can you make a video on how you got into this mess?
hahahahahaha.., what a question..😂😅
Yeah, we need a summary prequel vid
Sure , why not ! He can make babies , so he can make that , for you.
OK Let me take you on a tour 1o children one wife in the USA when i left the USA my baby Girl was Married two children House in Suburb and 34 yrs old my oldest is a Professional also a very profitable podcast topics regarding Infant medical disease she is a known expert in the field 55yrs old that's the kids sir NORMALLY WANTS a joke right never place me in the NORMAL I want what I want not what you think I should have . Divorce sorry you have been misinformed the Philippines has two Family Law courts the Govt Court and the Sharia Court for Muslims, The Muslim can divorce and before 90 days they can RETRACT A DIVORCE and sir my issue with the family has been resolved they brung my Family home and we all are satisfied and happy well sir this time no charge but I do want you leave a comment like and please subscribe I have a lot more to share with you every day sir
They do it their way? What way does America do it?
Man I don't know but we all good they home
You didnt do your Home work, good bye
I am not going no where sorry cant do that
You need to get out of there before they kidnap you. Look at what happened to Elliot Eastman.
They don't kidnap blacks; they think we have no money like whites. LOL
Seems like you didn't do your research before you came there. However , from what I'm seeing in your videos. Your in a province. Away from any major city. And the sad part to your video. Is your belief that their culture should adjust to you. Going back to America seems like a good option for you.. . Also sounds like you met this girl on the internet. Fell inlove with your imagination.
@@gregjones7472 your imagination sucks go away we don't need dreamers here you got no facts so you dream up things to say 😭get a life 😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ get a life you say. And how are the 10 kids going to get a life ?
Maybe you should’ve uploaded this video AFTER you left?
You know revenge is a MFer
well good people I think you got it wrong
Dude. Its unreal. The liars just to save face. They coukd care less about the inconvenience it causes you. The antiquated pathetic actions in publuc and the non worldly knowledge on HOW THINGS ARE DONE, HOW TO ACT, AND BEING STRAIGHT UP!
It is another whole way of life Bro for real but we gotta accept all people as who they are and once we can understand then it is no longer a headache
Damn This is a Deep and Honest Break Down. I see You got to your Breaking Point. Will the Channel Change to "Big Man in Thailand" 😂😂😂 Or Elsewhere Eventually ???
No Bro the family had to give into Islamic Law and my wife and baby is home Im good back on track jack man where you been you know i got sick but im good now
Dang buddy got 10 kids!!! Embarrassing
more kids story = more views = more youtube money.
@@moblack5883 Bro maybe for a bro like you but me and my wife would do it all over again wouldn't change nothing you do you I do me that's why I where I am you where you are 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😘
Thank you for your insightful information about the Philippines. 🇵🇭 The Filipino Culture is definitely different and I think us Foreigners considering moving or visiting the Philippines must be aware of this.
When I was in Military I was Stationed in Japan and me and my work colleague friend both had an option to visit Thailand 🇹🇭 or the Philippines 🇵🇭 and we both choose Thailand. We both enjoyed Thailand.
I not sure we would of done well in Philippines if we went their as young Americans because we had no clue about their culture.
Honestly my top destination if I go back to Asia is Japan then Thailand. Japan runs smoothly and I love the Japanese people as well as the Women are super Beautiful and very educated. Thailand would be my 2nd choice.
I think Philippines would be good to use as a base to visit Japan and Thailand but I see how it can be super complicated finding the correct Filipina Lady. I seen a lot of scams and games happen to many Foreign Men. I have seen a lot of unfortunate things happen in a cold calculated way.
If you can find the Correct Filipina she will be the best wife but their so many bad Ones it is not easy finding the correct lady. You basically rolling the dice with Filipina Women.
@@BigDaddyBoom_aka_Mr.KnowitAll now it is a crap shot
@rajihabdulbasit7569 It starting to look that way. 😞 The whole appeal was a Conservative Culture with Traditional Values. 😞
@BigDaddyBoom_aka_Mr.KnowitAll I appreciate your advice man it means a lot an honest opinion God Bless you
@rajihabdulbasit7569 Thank you for you kind words and I also appreciate your reply. Have a wonderful 2025. 🫠😃👍
@@BigDaddyBoom_aka_Mr.KnowitAll yes bro! Remember good woman is only for a good man.. that’s why it’s not easy to find them in the Philippines. 🇵🇭
Philippines is what you make it you choose the woman it up to you to know the family before having a baby by her you should have looked for a woman that didnt have any family to have your child they are out there, less headaches she will always go by your lead because you and the children will be her world she would want and there wouldn't be no family influencers to many of yall are to star struck of the beauty and youthfulness you become blind and in a rush take your time to learn the person and the cons and the pros before you jump
you are right sir
YOU NEED TO GET A LAWYER , MAKE A FAMILY AGREEMENT. FATHER HAS THE RIGHTS TO WERE THE CHILD IS RAISED ,, WHAT DR , SCHOOL,DENTIST ETC. YOUR RIGHTS ARE TO HAVE CUSTODY OF THE CHILD EVERYTIME YOU VISIT THE PHILIPPINES.
You need to get a brain !
Those boys are crying cause they know they will be broke their whole life no opportunity in philipines
NOW IF I SAID THAT THEY WANT ME DEPORTED
When in Rome. When you immigrate to another country its up to you to adapt. Not the other way around.
OK
I really don’t understand what you’re trying to do are you trying to leave a seed behind in the Philippines why I really don’t understanding your logic sounds like a good pimp ?
Sir here I am going to give you the whole thing let's see if you can understand I live in the Philippines my desire was to have a Filipina baby so when i am back in the USA during the pandemic I learned that a gift that keeps giving even after your dead is very honorable. So, follow me I decided that I give my inheritance to a woman that has little means If she has my child marry me and Make My Child a Hafiza (a woman who memorizes the entire Quran) Ok so If I am in the hell fire My child become Hafiza IMMEDIATELY I am released from the hell fire a promise from ALLAH to all Muslims. So, you are following me my theme is raise a Hafiza support my Baby and the Mother and get out of HELL FIRE nothing to do with looking for play mates all strictly serious religious effort done all over the world every day
I love the Philippines.
MY HOME BRO
Did you develop the 10 kids you have in the USA
I bet there’s some parallels between how this situation ended and how he treated his other children.
his stories are bs
OK Let me take you on a tour 1o children one wife in the USA when i left the USA my baby Girl was Married two children House in Suburb and 34 yrs old my oldest is a Professional also a very profitable podcast topics regarding Infant medical disease she is a known expert in the field 55yrs old that's the kids sir NORMALLY WANTS a joke right never place me in the NORMAL I want what I want not what you think I should have . Divorce sorry you have been misinformed the Philippines has two Family Law courts the Govt Court and the Sharia Court for Muslims, The Muslim can divorce and before 90 days they can RETRACT A DIVORCE and sir my issue with the family has been resolved they brung my Family home and we all are satisfied and happy well sir this time no charge but I do want you leave a comment like and please subscribe I have a lot more to share with you every day sir
yes it is my baby and wife is at home now the family agreed to follow Islamic lac please hit the like and subscribe you can learn a lot now for the comparison Let me take you on a tour 1o children one wife in the USA when i left the USA my baby Girl was Married two children House in Suburb and 34 yrs old my oldest is a Professional also a very profitable podcast topics regarding Infant medical disease she is a known expert in the field 55yrs old that's the kids sir NORMALLY WANTS a joke right never place me in the NORMAL I want what I want not what you think I should have . Divorce sorry you have been misinformed the Philippines has two Family Law courts the Govt Court and the Sharia Court for Muslims, The Muslim can divorce and before 90 days they can RETRACT A DIVORCE and sir my issue with the family has been resolved they brung my Family home and we all are satisfied and happy well sir this time no charge but I do want you leave a comment like and please subscribe I have a lot more to share with you every day sir
It’s the true ☕️
The Philippines should be its own planet because it is that much different from the rest of the World. So, when you go there have the mindset that you are on planet Philippines, leave all of your ideas and standards of what you are used to, leave it on planet Earth, don't try to change anything. Always remember this,,,,, you are a visitor in their world, they did not ask you to come to their planet.
@@JeromeandTyrone lol 😂 we live in one planet different mindset different perspective
@@piacash5216 True BUT, your mindset and different perspective don't mean shit in the Philippines, That's My Point.
And "Leave all your money home"
ameen but since i live here i can complain
wow you been here you have to have been here, or you could not say that that comes from a man who has been here boots on the ground i take my hat off to you sir
My dude, somebody lying pipe to that girl.
I'm not clear on what prompted the quick divorce. A part 2 after you leave the Philippines? Regardless, be well and safe travels. You seem to be on edge with every sound and movement...
you dont know a thing
He spits or speaketh the 💯 % truth. Exactly how it is here in Pampagna, Angeles City. Alot of western idiot wannabes here, due to a lot of bad apple foreigners arriving here over the years!! Started coming here in 1999 and decided to live here for now in 2022!! Looking at other SE Asia country options right now!! . Real talk&Nuff Said!!
I almost forgot, I call most of these people( other than my first family here in Camarin, Callocan City metro Manila, Perez family, filtha-pinos from the filtha-ppines, except beaches and mountains, based on my experiences!! Real truth talk&Nuff !!
Thank you
i love the Philippines and 12 years here Better then europe and usa
Cause you couldn't make it in a civilized country with rights, freedoms, and real men.
@@Parabola007typical first world delusions,gtfo
@ Correct , most probably
@EuropeExpatinphilippines sure. Cheaper and better to travel to other s.e. Asia countries. Flights and hotels are outrageous. Garbage and corruption are true sign of poverty. A sign of desperation, which is a magnet of the sex pat brigade.
What about your house u just built?
stories
@@rabidfarmer9765 I was there yesterday with my child and mother
@@rajihabdulbasit7569 are u leaving all that behind? Life in the states be rougher. -just saying.
try africa bruh .....
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can you show me where that is
Salute to you OG. That place isnt for everybody atleast you're being honest with yourself
Question Please, how Old Are U, And How Old Is The Young Lady That U had the baby by……???
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Brother, when I first seen this video, U had Me CRYING Laughing… I Almost Fell Out Of My Chair…
I was Like, WOWwwwwwwwww, Is This Brother Serious…??? Sometimes Brother, U TRULY Have To Look At YOURSELF, And Say WHAT I’m I Doing, TRULY…
It Has To Make Sense, “STOP, THINK ABOUT IT”…
Brother, Sometimes In LIFE, U Have Too Just Sit Down And Have Several Seats And JUST RELAX, Literally…
Sometimes, Doing Too Much, Is Doing Tooooo Much… U Say, That U Have A New House, But U Are The Same Person From The States, And U That Person, Is Still That Same OLD Person From The States With Those 10 Kids, NOW 11 Kids… “STOP, THINK ABOUT IT”
U Stated That U Have 10 Kids Back in the States…
Taking Responsibility of Your ACTIONS Is Sooooo Important…
I Laughed At First of This video, but Listening To It For The Second Time, I was Astonish That U Would Even Take YOURSELF Down That Road… 😢😢😢
I TRULY HOPE Brother That U Just Take A Hard Look At YOURSELF And Make The Necessary Adjustments For YOURSELF… 😇😇😇
I Wish U Well…
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Tried Praying To JESUS CHRIST, And HE Will Start To Opening Those Doors That U Need Open Within YOUR LIFE… Purchase A NIV Bible And TRULY WORK ON YOURSELF Brother…
I’ll Be Praying For U And Your Family…
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BLESSED!!!
DJ Scribbles
Crying ? Oh , you need help pal !
Pray to Jesus Christ??? He's Muslim.
Just going there to have a baby is wild😢
try it you got some time
@rajihabdulbasit7569 I have been there 8 times over the years
She's happy 2 B with her family 💯 % of the time..
11 kids?
Make it make sense.
@@taphunt3243 I just don’t understand this fascination with having kids! 3,6,9,11 kids why? Can someone please explain it to me?
@@kevinmuhammad1 you will never understand
@@tombkk1322 all people are not like you
Calvin said make babies.
buddy run.
can i come your house
There's not a single video that I have seen without chickens and roosters.
@@estebancerra1 ok so you use to it by now am I right or is this a formal complaint to eat all my roosters
@@estebancerra1 I don't know maybe it's the time I am doing the video but yes lately they been out of control
Yes, I imagine one could get use to it
@estebancerra1 honestly I'm getting tired I counted 35 chickens today I'm giving half away
Lol,
Why are you really there?
Taking care of my Business is that a Problem may I ask why you want to know what I am doing are you lonely
@rajihabdulbasit7569 No sir, far from lonely. I live in paridise. But you are on RUclips telling the world your issues and business, complaining. You should expect comments, my friend. Either way, I wish you the best.
@@wadek798 I had my reasons to do it But I like you to know the family of my wife come over brung the wife and baby we ate and the family left my wife and baby are sleep in the bed
He's broke and can't make it in the US... unless he lives like cockroaches... LMAO
That's sounds mean as hell lolll
Annulment no divorce in the Philippines
He's Muslim. They can divorce.
@@yasharahla-asaisrael255 there is within the Islamic culture. They have divorce
OMG you're so smart GOD BLESS you OH BY THE WAY SMARTY the Philippines has Two family Law courts the Govt Law and the Sharia Law Court for Muslims In Islam you can Divorce many ways you can also resend a divorce before 90 days so sir see you learned something don't be so quick to open your mouth when you do not know and you never been here I live here so like and subscribe and see you in the comment section because I have A lot you can learn
Is there anyway you can take the child with you? Don't you have any rights as the dad? Will they try to make you pay if you leave child support? What happens now? Won't the child have better life with you then the baby momma.
I wish but nope they rule they laws mean what ever they want to mean at the time
Wow my brother... You really ...really messed up big time. It's going to be very hard to recover from this situation .
The best thing to do is gain custody of your child and return back to the Good old USA.. !!! Help out the mother of the financially restart your life again in America...!!!
Good luck my brother .. !!! 🙏🙏🙏
HIHIHI well my good brother you don't know a real player MY BAY AND MY WIFE and her family came to the house bringing food and my baby and we had a good time, and the family went home and my baby next to me now with my wife love you
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Ten kids in states? Are you supporting them?
@@Asia-p1p3b the baby was 34 in May of 2023 when I come here input all my children thru college everyone of the was raised by me and the mom but see nijas can't see a black man doing that if I told u I was crack head like the one you idolize you would be respectful but I'm not so your intemidated
What do you think? He was in the hospital here begging for money.
In all honesty, delete this video, and stop talking with your heart on your sleeve. You went for the wrong reason, to make a baby, and you will leave because of your reasoning.
He needs the YT money.
it does pay my electric and my scooter PCV160
Now imagine this reversed and a Filipino living in the U.S. complaining about it and calling them savages. Damn they even tell their own to leave if they make a small criticism of the way things are. You are in someone else's country, suck it up and do things their way just as you would expect back home. Or leave, you don't have to stay.
Story sounds familiar from watching other RUclipsr videos of foreigners relocating to the Philippines.
It’s time to bounce (metaphorically speaking) bro. Plenty women out there or other destinations with good intentions.
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Brother be careful 🙏 of your choice of words sir jah.love ❤❤❤❤❤
Always
stay strong bro...
and because I di I got my family back
I am a Filipino and i know what exactly what you are in now. living here in the US for almost 35 years. I would say you are in a wrong place in the Philippines. you are right the best thing to do is get the hell out in that place. just a suggestion if you want just stay single and enjoy life. there is plenty of things to do in the Philippines you just have to use a good decision first before going into a relationship or anything that will affect your daily living. Just always think you have the money and you can always do what ever you want to do with it. be careful next time. ask around expats that live there. take care bro.
YES I AM IN GENSAN ALL IS GOOD HERE THEY ARE BACK IN THE HOME LIFE SOMETIMES TROW YOU CURVE BALLS BUT PLEASE DONT FEEL I HAVE ANY NEGATIVE FEELINGS ABOUT THE PEOPLE
Hope to hear 🙏🏼 from you soon bro
That's a interesting point about tribes
It is so deep but we back together problem solved
@@rajihabdulbasit7569 sounds good I was talking to a 28 year old cutie from deep in province Himalayan city negros occidental 4 11 cute as all hell i said something she didn't understand and a crazy anger came out so it's making me think I send her money to help her not much toe thousands of pesos to her she really naive to Alot I can see how it will be a problem
You are the problem....giving expats a horrible, shameful name!
Yeah Cyn g was right. It’s y’all.
@@Femifromthechat101 trying to come up on me you fake
@ huh?? How am I fake?
@Femifromthechat101 I am no crying g I was offended lease explain yourself why you said that
@ yo if you can’t figure out why you are the problem with 10 kids and leaving one half way around the world, to seek therapy.