You're one of those, "I watched your video all the way through and commented, but still think I pulled one over on the guy who posted the video" guys. Buh-bye!
I guess you heard about the guy doing 80 in a 55 in his brand new Corvette when he zoomed through a speed trap , he looked back and saw the flashing lights and siren and he pushed it faster from 80 to 100 and then to 12o when suddenly the man thought what am I doing I am not a teenager , I’m to old to act this way so he pulled over and waited for the trooper . The trooper walks up and says look mister it’s Friday I have got 30 minutes before the end of my shift if you can give me a reason for why you were speeding that I haven’t heard before I will let you go . The guy looks up and says “ Well years ago my wife run off with a trooper I was afraid you were him trying to bring her back .” Officer says “ Good day Sir just slow it down.” LOL
Me and a friend of mine was going fishing one Saturday morning and at an intersection he went through a red light just as it went from green to yellow , cop pulls us over and asked my friend does he know what a yellow light means . My friend right on cue says “ Yes sir it means you need to get your ass under it before it turns red .” Cop busted out laughing and let him go , no warning no nothing.
Neil Grooms That’s a great story. Did you ever watch the You Tube video of Gabriel Fluffy Iglesias talk about when he got pulled over for doing 100 in his suv. If you haven’t you need to it’s hysterical. He made the cop laugh and he let him go with a warning.
(I was pulled over for speeding) The officer said to me; " I've been waiting for you all day " ,,, my reply; " I got here as quickly as I could " He let me go.
I got pulled over in 1990 just outside of Douglas AZ for not having a front license plate. I was given a warning. 20 minutes later pulling into Bisbee AZ I get pulled over again for, you guessed it, no front license plate. I showed Buford T. Justice the warning I had just received 20 minutes earlier. He grumbled and said "you know I was gonna write you up and it woulda been a $75 dollar fine!" Oh that's a shame I said. Then he let me go. The following day then Gov. Rose Mofford signed into law the requirement to only have a rear license plate!
This is great advice. As a retired (Michigan) deputy sheriff who has made thousands of traffic stops and written hundreds of tickets I can honestly say that some people absolutely talk themselves into a ticket that the officer had no intention of writing until the driver aggravated the violation by some negative behavior. I usually wrote 30-50 % of the drivers I stopped tickets. Being or at least acting concerned and responsible will allow the officer to feel like he has done his job of modifying your behavior without having to get into your wallet. Like the Bible says "A kind answer turns away wrath". Just be nice, it works on cops too
Thank you!! This is great advice. I'm an officer in Florida and 99% of the time I can't see who I'm pulling over - despite people claiming "cuz I'm black, chinese, or whatever." But one thing for sure, I have no idea how you're going to react. Are you going to bail out and run, shoot me, scream, cry, complain, cooperate, warrants, suspended license, etc. Dark tint and glare and reflections, I may not know how many are in your car either so yes, I'm nervous just like you. I RARELY write tickets, usually just give a warning if your paperwork, license is in order and your respectful the same way I am towards you. As long as you didn't cause an accident or almost kill someone, I would definitely just give a warning if you follow Lehto's advice here.
@@tazeauditorslaughlikehell5763 That's protocol for some departments, to turn on all the lights. Plus...have you ever looked into those lights? They are blinding even in the daylight...they know this...making it difficult for you to see if you want to be troublesome. The other possibility, 1 switch (MASTER SWITCH) turns everything on, and it easier and faster to deal with than 10+/- different switches.
As a retired LEO, these are excellent suggestions and guidelines. Politeness and courtesy gets the benefit of the doubt (usually), though I'll admit some LEOs seem less than human. I am still amazed at the number of people I pulled over and had no intention of issuing a citation but their actions often before I got to their window, convinced me they needed some attitude adjustment. I hated writing tickets but people like this could make it enjoyable. And as Steve mentioned do not be memorable. I once wrote a ticket for reckless driving and in court for some reason the defense attorney had his client testify as to what he was actually doing prior to being stopped. Later the prosecution asked me if I recognized the defendant, being completely honest I said no, because he gave me no reason to remember him from 6 months earlier. The judge said because the officer could not identify the defendant I would normally find him not guilty but based on the defendant's own testimony, I find him guilty.
Last time I was stopped, the trooper turned his lights on, I turned on my hazards to indicate compliance. I drove a short while, around a bend and along a straight-a-way. Near the end of the straight-a-way I pulled to the shoulder of the highway and as Steve suggests I put my tires near the grass to give plenty of room to stand. One of the first questions the officer ask was why I kept driving even though I had my hazards on and I explained: my hazards let you know I saw you and will pull over. I kept driving to find a straight portion of road to stop at the end of so traffic has time to see us and either move over or slow down and I wanted to find a place with no guide rail so I could pull over more so you wouldn't stand so close to the traffic. He looked behind us, looked at me, appeared more relaxed and said 'Thank You'. I told him I've had a few close calls myself as a paramedic at accident scenes, didn't want to see him hurt. He ran my information, told me to slow down and let me off with a warning. I told him to remain safe out there, have a good day and enjoy his time off. This time a smile and a thanks.
I know just what you mean about that first contact with police during a traffic stop. I have been pulled over multiple times for speeding. Now, being upfront, I was a cop in the military and a civilian cop working for the Navy. I have 39 years experience. I am now retired. Key word, "retired". In every instance I got stopped, I did exactly what you did. pull over as far to the right as I could, open my window, hands at 2 & 10 on the wheel. At night, turned on my dome light. When the various officers approached. I was "yes sir/ma'am or no sir/ma'am" Your temperament, is key in that first contact with a traffic cop. Show respect, and you get respect. Same goes for being polite and provide documentation when asked. I have been able to avoid speeding tickets since I was 20, so for almost 48 years now. YOUR actions and how you treat that officer will be a major factor in how that stop will end. Hey, you might still get a ticket, but the officer has the discretion, to lower your speed lowering the possible fine you may be subject to. He may decide to just give you a written warning or a verbal warning. The chances for a positive outcome for you will be greatly improved if you treat the officer with the same respect you want.
@Steve Lehto from all of us in law enforcement, I thank you so much for taking your time to make a traffic stop safe and taking your time to inform everyone on how to make a traffic stop safe and smooth. I would not have issued a ticket also.
Aegist I've been wanting to ask someone in law enforcement if they've had any encounters with those "sovereign citizen" people. Kind of wish Steve would do a episode about them. For some reason I think he probably has some opinions on them. lol.
@ATCkeepsUsafe The odds of you encountering a rouge cop that is trying to frame you is about the same of you hitting the lotto 2 weeks in a row. Its mainly a thing made up by TV and movies. And when they do find a cop planting evidence or doing dirty shit it usually has to do with detectives or task forces focus on specific individuates there trying to catch not some random joe on a traffic stop. So unless your a FBI for major drug trafficking or racketeering calm down.
I once avoided a speeding ticket because when the officer went back to his cruiser for his citation book, he was all out of blank tickets. And when he came back he actually said to me, "The only reason I'm not writing you a ticket is because I don't have any."
There is an old story about a small city in the area in which a newly hired officer on his first police job wrote parking tickets on Sunday morning for every illegally parked car at the biggest church in town. As I understand it, the police chief took away his ticket book, gave him one blank ticket, and told him to request another blank ticket when he filled out that ticket.
Retired police officer here, and everything you said is totally true. I go above a few things, however. After turning on my dash light, placing my truck in neutral (making sure I take my foot off the brake) and rolling down my window, I display my hands out the window. The 2 times in 45 years I have been pulled over, the officer has invariably asked me the same question. "Why did you place your hands out the window, have you been arrested before?" "I am a retired LEO, and I know what you have to deal with, sir. It's my common courtesy toward our profession." "I pulled you over for (fill in infraction). Please get that fixed/slow down. Have a great day." No asking for I.D., Immediate respect, and I was on my way.
these are better tips than being a problem and saying "am i being detained, am i free to go", and wasting everyone's time. this advice makes more sense.
Well presented. As a retired police officer I add one small thing in the last few years. When he says he's finished I respond with "Be safe, Officer" or something similar. It adds a human touch that is usually appreciated.
As a former cop - this guy is 100% correct. Just the steps he took, as he described them put me at ease and I wouldn't write him a ticket. If he was cool in the car with the dialogue, at most he'd have got was a written warning from me. Probably a verbal warning if it was raining. His answers were spot on too. Be polite, don't admit guilt. Narrate what you're doing - sudden movements and fiddle-farting around in your car, to include rocking the car as you move around, arouse suspicion - are not going to be well received by the officer. I kind of deviate from his anonymous theory. While it's not wrong, and if you follow what he says, exactly what he says will happen. You'll get a break along with everyone else who is anonymous. However, I've seen officers, including myself, agree to even better reductions if they know the person. You lose nothing if you do the following: If s/he still writes you a ticket, be polite, and thank him/her. Look over the ticket and say, "May I ask you a question?" The cop will say yes of course, so ask a basic question or two to show concern. My favorite was once a guy asked me, "IS this the court date (pointing to the date)?" I'd said yes, and the guy said, "Ok, I'll probably go and ask for a fine reduction if you're ok with that." He got me! What else could I say but, "That's cool, I have no problem with that." Now you're creating rapport for later. Some cops, especially State Troopers, write 50-100 tickets or more a month but they'll remember you because of the rapport. I certainly remembered this guy and he even came up to me and offered his hand. At this point, you can ask for a re-write or point reduction and the cop may agree because s/he remembered you. I agreed to both! And the guy was going like 20 over. He talked me into agreeing to a $150 fine reduction and rewriting to a no-point non-moving violation "careless operation". I think he paid $50, no points.
I am a former officer firefighter emt All at the same time be nice n be respectfull put the officer at ease I love your videos im dissabled now from a tractor accident while bushogging a field in 2018 im spending time on u tube alot lately I enjoy your talks
My dad taught me all of that stuff when i first got my license 36 years ago, and i've always followed it. It never got me off of a speeding ticket (but it did get me off another, perhaps more serious ticket, about that later). Not one time, but at least half of the time, it did get me a reduced ticket. Which on the over 20's was important. One time driving down the I75 in north Florida i was zoned out and wasn't watching for speed traps. So the limit went from 75 down to 55 while i was oblivious. Was a long day of driving. So when the trooper pulled me over i was doing 22 over the limit, instead of 2. Pulled over immediately, hands on the wheel, etc. Asked permission to get my docs when asked for, the whole thing. The officer became very friendly and when he came back to the car after running my license, he told me that even though he had me on radar he was reducing the ticket to 6 over from 22 so the ticket would cost less and give me minimum points on my driving record. I count that as a success. Another time after a long day of work, i left some expensive equipment at a job site. It just so happened that the next day i was flying out of the country for a job overseas for 6 months, and my insurance expired that night at midnight. I was fine with that since i would take a taxi to the airport the next morning. As i was falling asleep just after midnight i realized i had left an expensive generator at the work site. Jeez, i had to go get it. So i got up and drove to the site and got the thing. Minutes after leaving, i was pulled over. I knew there was drug activity in that area late at night, and the officer probably thought it was suspicious if he saw me leave the jobsite. I did the stop protocol which i could tell put the officer at ease. It also became apparent that he was mostly interested in what was in my van since it was an unmarked panel van and had no windows in back. Now, i know my rights and i know i could make this stop a huge hassle for the officer by not giving consent. I kind of made it a negotiation with the officer. I told him up front i didnt have insurance now because it literally expired 20 minutes earlier and told him why. I told him i had nothing to hide and was happy to let him look in back, but please don't give me a ticket as i was flying out of the country at 7 am the next morning. I showed him my plane ticket and itinerary. He didn't commit, but he said we would see after looking in back. So i turned the overhead lights on in back, then told him i was coming out so i could unlock the back door for him (the automatic lock wasn't working on the back door). Anyway, i opened the door and even offered to jump in back and open any cases he wanted to look into. It was just tools and equipment back there. When he saw what was back there he went from friendly but a bit cool and reserved, to very friendly. I apologized profusely for not having valid insurance, but told him it would have been irresponsible for me to leave such an expensive thing behind. He said, no problem, you're free to go, but don't drive again after i get back to my place until i have insurance. Big win.
As a 55 year old with 40 years driving experience and getting pulled over, it took me a long time to realize and put into practice everything you have said. I have received tickets in spite of it sometimes. I have usually just mailed in the fine, or done ticket school. The last time I received a huge ticket. I got a traffic ticket lawyer for like $79. He did the tickets in bulk and was handling 15 or 20 clients at a time. Anyway, when the judge saw I had a lawyer, "Case Dismissed"
Speaking of being in the rain. I got pulled over once during a pretty heavy rain. I Seen the lights come on and I was going to pull over right away but knew that there was a bridge about a 1/4 of a mile up, so i slowed down turned on my interior lights, put my flashers on and continued up to the bridge so the interior of my car didn't get wet and the officer didn't have to get wet. when coming up to the window of the car I did everything Steve said in the video and he actually said thank you for parking under the bridge when handing me my warning. I was probably 15MPH over and I got out of that ticket by doing everything Mr. Lehto said and helping keep the officer dry in the process.
Nice. I once got pulled over on a major highway(with lots of accidents) around 1 am, about a half mile or so up the road after he lit me up was a side road, so I signalled, slowed down, etc, and then turned off the highway and immediately pulled over. The officer comes up to my window, freaking out, and I explained to him that I figured turning off the highway was a much safer place to pull over.... And he says to me " Where I turned on my lights is where I want you to pull over, I decided it was safe," Lol
I told an officer that I didn't know why he pullled me over when he asked me, and he immediately got shitty with me. I was also driving a gov't vehicle at the time, and after he ran the plates, he came back and asked me where I got them as if I fabricated them at home or something. I guess their department couldn't run gov't plates or something. I was also half dressed in my military uniform, so it's not like things didn't add up. I guess he was just an idiot.
I can attest that respect goes a long way. A couple years ago I was driving in Pacific Grove, CA and got pulled over for failing to make a complete stop at a stop sign, yes the 'California Roll', and when the office approached my car I already had the windows don't and hands in plain view. He said 'good morning' to me and I returned with 'good morning sir', to which he said back immediately 'You called me sir, you're already scoring points here'. I was honest in stating that I hadn't made a complete stop so I got off with a warning. We talked for minute after that, and he told me he let me go because I was both honest and showed him respect. HJe said lots of people become immediately insulting in the speech when pulled over and he wants to reward good behavior and honesty. Good thing he didn't check my trunk and find the corpse in there .....Just kidding
I agree with almost all of this. I do these things EVERY time, and have been able to get out of the vast majority of potential tickets. The one thing that I have done different is with the window. When the officer is making first contact, make sure the window is down. If it is raining or frigid cold, roll up the window when the officer goes back to his car, but keep your eyes on the mirror. When the officer gets out of the car to come back, roll the window back down before they get to you.
I recall a video online where a young woman is pulled over, and you may not want to follow her example. She told the police officer that she didn't think they gave pretty girls tickets. The officer said, you are right. We don't. Here's your ticket.
Mr. Lehto, you are 100% correct! As a former LEO I can tell you that being nice to the officer greatly increases your chance of driving away with a warning instead if a ticket. Many people out there talk themselves into a ticket that they likely would have driven away without. I was a county cop, my brother was a state trooper, and his famous quote to the jerks out there was "I was only going to give you a warning, but I'm not going to stand out here and hold court on the side of the road, so now you'll now be able to take it to the judge." Several years ago I was driving on an interstate freeway, cruise control set at the 70 mph limit. I exited that highway and entered another, where the limit was only 55. Unknowingly, and in deep conversation with my passenger making me less aware, I simply hit the resume and was again cruising along 15 mph over the limit. Long story short, the officer wrote me up, and when he returned and began to give the the usual instructions about signing was not an admission of guilt, etc., I said "Yeah, I know I used to stand on your side of the window" after a little questioning about that comment, and me handing the ticket book back to him, I wished him a nice and safe evening. He looked surprised and said "I'm sorry I gave you a ticket." I chuckled and said "So am I, but why?" his reply was "because you're a nice guy." A little more talk about rude, obnoxious and down right a-hole drivers ensued and he walked away in I think a better mood than he was before and I had a great story, even though I didn't get off that time.
I’m a retired Florida Prosecutor and Judge and I always enjoy and learn something from your fine videos. This is excellent advice in my experience. I’ve never been ticketed in Florida since 1980. I do very similar things that you advise. I’ve always told people who ask how to react to an officer, that, “…you don’t spit into the wind, you don’t pull on Superman’s cape, you don’t pull the mask off the ole Lone Ranger…” and you obey the police. If they misbehave, you deal with it officially when you’re not on the street and vulnerable.
When I was pulled over and was asked "Do you know why I pulled you over?" I responded, "I'm hoping you wanted to congratulate me on my spotless driving record, but maybe not..." Officer chuckled, asked for papers and went to run my info. He returned and said, "Well, we're going to let you keep your spotless record, just slow down." Thank you very much officer, and I'm on my way... My wife shakes her head in disbelief.
True advise. Years ago when I was a kid I gave a cop a real hard time when I got stopped and whatever he wrote on the ticket I couldn't get out of it no matter what and I since learned to be respectful and make their job as easy as possible. That was 40 years ago. I have a Class A commercial drivers license and the few times I have been stopped, I either got no ticket, or I got the officer to change it to a no point (disregarding a traffic control device) to protect my license. Most cops are human just like us and just want to be treated with respect and it works. Thanks for the great content Steve!
I had a NC state trooper give me a breathy lecture about "STOPPING WHEN THE LIGHTS COME ON" and how he can charge me with "ELUDING" etc... all because in a lowered car on a road with no room to pull off the road... I put my hazards on and drove maybe a quarter mile into a driveway. told him it was because I was concerned for both our safety... When he said "I can charge you with eluding" I said "sure thing buddy, I was 'eluding' with my hazards on going half the speed limit" LOL That guy was so off the hinges that I finally said "ok buddy you gonna give me a ticket or not?" because he was lecturing me on how he has "BEEN DOING THIS FOR 15 YEARS" nothing but nice to that guy... now I can be sorta snappy with them. I am professional enough BUT I don't let them berate me or probe for stuff because I think it is rude as heck to insinuate people are "up to something" when they have given NO REASON at all to think so.
That's something I have never understood. They tell you in case you don't feel safe drive to a gas station, a police station, a fire station, somewhere with lights and people, and then they accuse you of trying to elude them. I guess one of those things that make you go hum!
My parents always said it only takes a few minutes to help a public servant give you a break compared to the hours and expense you will suffer from your day in the courtroom. I am almost 60 and been driving since 15. I have been pulled over 8 times in my entire life, six for speeding once for tail light not working and once for not having headlights on after sunset. I was never written a ticket. My Dad and two uncles were patrol officers. They told me as a young driver to always be respectful and it works.
Another thing about being polite is if the cop remembers you as such, he will purposely not show up to court so you default and win. I was stopped in the rain and purposely drove a little further than I should have to stop under and overpass. He stopped behind me and when approached, I immediately said "sorry for taking a bit longer to stop, but in this storm I thought this bridge could cover you like you do for us" - immediately he thanked me and let me off with a warning and that was that. I could see the appreciation in his eyes.
As an old LEO I will say Steve has given you very good advise. So pay close attention to what he says in this video, and you may not get a ticket. One more tip from me, when you ask or advise the Officer that you are going to move in some way to get your license, registration, etc. do not make quick or jerky moves. Move in a slow, and deliberate manner. This will keep the Officer at ease, and keep him/her from changing into a defensive position. And as I have always said, if you don't want a speeding ticket.....do not speed. :)
So true i was lit up by a Tx State trooper 2 nights ago.. I smelled of pot but i dont drink i was trying to go sit with my dad n my 3rd brake light was out and i was very deliberate and let her know where my hands where gonna be i also flipped my flashers on an apologized to the trooper nobody wants to have to do their job n theirs is dangerous i got a warning and she was extremely understandable when i said i smoked but i only smoke at home which is where i was coming from...i dont drink i have no warrants oh
I've followed the advice in the video since I started driving 40 years ago. I got tickets until my mid-'40s. For the last ten years, no tickets. Age seems to be a firm determinent.
I stopped a person for running a stop sign. I gave him a ticket. He stated he knew a judge and would not have to pay it. I made a note of it on the ticket. The judge was pissed and made him pay.
After buying my VW GTI Sport I was pulled over four times in my first month. I do ALL the things you recommend and I have not received one ticket. My last pull over was at night doing 85 in a 70 zone. I pulled WAY off the highway onto the grass and rolled down my window all the way. The officer then pulls up right next to me, rolls down his window and shouts at me "SLOW DOWN". I just shouted back YES SIR and he took off. Whew!
I’ve told all my friends to do this. In the past 10 years since I work up and realized that respect matters, I’ve been stopped for stupid things like head and taillights. One time I got stopped for “running a red light” (it was yellow). I was very respectful. I did all the things you said (long before I saw this video) and he let me go and complimented me on how I handled the stop. BTW, I put all the windows down. If they asked me why I thought they stopped me (I only speed on highways in packs of cars), if I don’t know, I’ll say honestly that I don’t. Since it’s a light, I am being honest. One time, late at night, heading for the gym (24-hour gym), I saw a car coming toward me at about 200 meters distance and it seemed as if its high beams were on. I flicked my high beam switch a couple of times. They flashed back. It was a cop. His high beams weren’t on, but his lights were very bright. I thought nothing of it until he pulled a U-Turn. I did my usual “stop dance” and expected him to let me go after running my info. Asshole (Rook) wrote me a ticket, announcing it was a non-moving violation. Well, in NJ, the insurance company an up your rates even for a non-pointed violation. It was also a $50 ticket. I looked it up as soon as I saw him leave. It’s NJ 39:3-60. Look it up. He said to me flashing high beams was a safety issue and illegal. I said little, but I did ask why the switch was there to flash high beams if it was illegal? I pointed out that he had done it too. When I read the section, I realized it had nothing to do with flashing high beams. It did mention “prolongation”. I asked all my cop friends what they thought. None of them would have written that ticket. They think the officer looked at the title of the section and never read it, or never understood it. I found a case in the Court of Appeals that said the section had nothing to do with flashing high beams. I fought it. They dropped the case. It was the one time my Stop Dance didn’t work. It should have but didn’t. I was pissed. But I did win. To all those who want to point out the reason I don’t get tickets is because I’m white, well, you’re full of crap. Respect matters in most cases. My friend in that department laughed and said he was a Rookie and really over-eager. He knew that the officer was read the riot act over that one.
(Written by Keith Stanton) As a former officer who has given as many warnings as I wrote tickets I have to say this gentlemen is spot on. You need to remember the two most dangerous calls for us are domestics and traffic stops, especially night time stops. You know who we are because of the car, overhead lights and uniform. We don't know you. You might be a grandma who just came back from Bible Study or Bonnie from Bonnie and Clyde. I would add a couple things. Even as a man with a badge, I always pay attention to officer safety. The speaker gave good advice. But I would roll down all my windows (if electric-don't bother if manual) , especially if you have tinted windows and most definitely if you have passengers in the back. That way they get to see everyone in the car. If you have children in the car and you cooperate it does two things. It lets your child know this shouldn't be a negative experience, and many times we will speak to your kids to make them feel at ease. I once got pulled over for a stop and turn on red violation with my son in the car. I admitted to the officer that I had screwed up and understood why he pulled me over. I never advised him I was an officer and wasn't carrying at the time. He then asked for my license, etc but when he returned he came to my son's side of the car and handed the documents to him. He then informed him that he wasn't giving me a ticket because I was an honest man. My son was 11 at the time. He is now 35 and still laughs at it. If you are carrying, make sure that is the first thing you tell him. I would say: Officer, just to let you know I have a CCW and I am carrying. Then follow their lead how to proceed. In fact many states require that be the first interchange you have with the officer. Another thing is never make the statements: I pay your salary, I know your Chief, Does this fill your quota, or other smarmy comments like that. We have heard them all. Because if you do get a ticket in lieu of warning often we reduce the charge. speed, etc on the ticket and you get less fines and/or points. And if you do choose to challenge it and the Judge asks if there should be special consideration, we can say yes, they were highly cooperative, or no sir they were less than. Guarantee that cooperation often gets officer consideration where the minute you get smarmy you usually just guaranteed yourself a ticket. And last but not least and this is a sensitive issue. 99.5% of the cops don't go race hunting. By that I mean looking for Blacks, Hispanics, Asians, etc to ticket. Many times its a function of demographics. If I work a city where let's say Blacks make up the majority of the population,it makes sense that they would be the majority of those who I pull over. If its Native Americans, the same and Caucasians the same. Doesn't mean it automatically gets you a ticket. But if you do get that cop you think is racist, or picking on you because of your demographic, stay cool, accept the ticket, say thank-you and and definitely go to court. Most judges or magistrates know who the good honest cops are and who aren't. And remember body and dash cam's work both ways. If they're an asshole, the camera tells no lies. Hope this helps as well and good luck out there, and safe driving
See you have that wrong, we dont know you either. We know your job, a job in which you are expected to make a certain number of tickets each month, not protect people btw. I dont trust any police. If someone broke into my house or something, Id rather handle it myself than trust any of you gun crazy killers. And if you determine whether to hand out tickets based on personal comments thatsa problem in itself. And arguing that if we didnt everyone would get tickets then down with the law as a whole.
@@YoTyr0ne So, if you believe that the cops are dangerous and unfair, (as some are)then you would still be wise to act friendly and respectful. No? A little salesmanship can put you in control and keep you out of trouble--even if you are guilty of a crime.
@@DT-ul6qy no, people earn friendship and respect,even cops, no cop has earned my respect. Its the duty of the person on the job, getting paid to do salesmanship.
Thank you I really appreciate that. I got a dwi in August and now have an interlock and restricted license. Btw I truly haven't had a drink since. I own my own business and I have a son who has Autism so he is in therapy m-f 9AM to 5PM. I created a drive log to and from, dates, times etc. I only drive for my business to look at jobs or actually do the job most importantly I drive my son to his medical therapy and to church which was all allowed by the courts. I absolutely respect police officers and am very respectful. Do you have any advice about my drive log and do you think it will show the officer where and when I was there and where I am going. Respectively, Chris
Just the statement that you made, that most magistrates know who the good and bad cops are I find extremely disturbing. Gosh it sure would have been great, and so I will fantasize about the idea of that a judge knowing of bad cops would have said bad cops removed from their positions especially of having a badge along with a gun, they should be given the chance just stay at the station and clean the toilets, or do other paperwork, but please keep them away from the general public especially with a gun in their possession, (protecting the public from who?)....
Yesterday I got pulled over for the first time and did most of the things described in the video. I was going 49 in a 35 and he gave me a warning thankfully because I hadn't had a ticket before.
Magnificent. Outstanding. Simple instructions that may not always discourage an officer from issuing a ticket, but it will likely defuse a potentially disastrous situation. And common courtesy is always good for all parties involved.
Absolutely 100% true. I was pulled a couple of years ago on my way out of town for a vacation. I did everything mentioned above. When he asked why I was speeding I truthfully told him I was going to load some items and head to the beach for a well earned vacation. Shortly he comes back and tells me to slow it down and have a great vacation. Done.
This video worked perfectly for me today and I did not get a ticket for 52 in a 40. When I looked at him and told him I was going to reach back for my wallet he said thank you for telling me that.
I got pulled over with expired plates that were issued for a different vehicle and did not have insurance. Did everything mentioned in this video and I was allowed to drive home, and would not be issued a ticket if I took care of the issues within 72 hours. That was one REALLY decent officer.
Great video. I've been a road warrior for 30 years. And I can attest to your advice. I have always responded pretty much as you recommend. The only difference is when I've been really flying, the first thing out of my mouth was, "boy, you really got me". Only once it didn't result in a laugh from the officer (he threw the book at me but it was reduced when I went to court)... about half the time I was given a warning and the other half the ticket was written for only 5 over. Your strategy works
Something similar happened to me. Was on my motorcycle and was going an actual 100 mph to get away from a car that was driving erratically. It was night in the mountains and out of nowhere there was a car 6” off my ass. I backed off the throttle and his lights came on. I pulled over convinced I was going to jail. I was convinced I would lose my job. When he walked up I said “I sure the heck didn’t see you!” Long story short, I gave him my info and he said if I check out, I’d be on my way. 2 minutes later he got out, handed me my papers and said have a nice night. OMG, that is the ONLY time I was ever let go without a ticket. I am always respectful, hands on the wheel, I do everything mentioned in this video, but ALWAYS get a ticket. Normally it’s in a remote desert area where the cops job is revenue generation imo.
This stuff works! When I was in my 20s I got pulled over for 98 in a 65. The cop said I can't write you a ticket I'd have to arrest you. SLOW DOWN. My friend got out of a ticket for slowly running a stop sign. The cop ask if he pulled out his billy stick and started beating him would you want me to stop or slow down? My friend replied he would want him to stop, but if he did not stop he would want him to slow down. The cop laughed then said have a nice day.
In Washington state you will get a ticket each time you are pulled over. My last ticket was for 3 miles per hour over. 38 in a 35. It is a police state in Washington. I had more tickets there than I can count but I haven't gotten a ticket in 12 years since I left the state.
I agree 100% with you!! I believe that there are more police in that state than anywhere in the US, LOL. Not kidding. Took me forever to get out of the court system in that state, but once I did, I moved! Since then, it's been like 12 years, and I've been pulled over a number times in that 12 years, but have received only ONE ticket since then, ONE. It was for an illegal lane change, which i was guilty of. Officer was polite, explained why, ticketed me and let me go on my way. Went to court, explained to the judge that I was in a hurry, I did make a mistake and apologized. The judge explained why it was illegal (which i already knew) and how it was dangerous. I listened quietly until he was finished. Stated that it wouldn't happen again. Judge thanked me for being polite and not interrupting, believed it was a mistake and dropped the ticket from 175, to 75 dollars,which i paid that day . Judge even asked if I needed more time to pay the fine. I'm glad I have moved from Washington state, and that's the only ticket I've had in 12 years since leaving!!
EVERYTHING YOU SAID is SPOT ON! When you make yourself less of a threat by doing the things you mentioned, we who wear uniforms (or used to in my case) will feel slightly more safe. We can NEVER feel completely safe, but it does change the dynamic somewhat. Hit "read more" to read my the rest for more critical information. Yes, once the officer spins around on you and lights you up, immediately acknowledge with a right signal or hazard lights. This will tell the officer you see them. Also, if at night, immediately turn on the dome light so he/she can see inside the car for movement before you event stop. As said, pull over where the officer will have a "safety zone" and not straddle the line. Put your hands at 10 and 2 after opening the window all the way and WAIT for the officer. DO NOT start moving around/laying down in the car...there is plenty of time to get your documents after making contact with the officer. Agreed, always tell the officer where your stuff is BEFORE reaching for it. If you are going to keep driving a few feet to get to a side street is when the hazard lights are especially noteworthy. Hazard lights are subconsciously associated with safety (as in warning of a hazard and to stay clear but in this case, to advise the car is not going to be operated in a traditional way...i.e. broke down, etc.) As you continue to drive, you are telling them that you are going to stop...but at a "safer" place. HERE IS WHERE IT IS IMPORTANT...IF YOU CARRY ON A CPL/CCW....NEVER MOVE TO REACH WITHOUT THE OFFICER KNOWING YOU ARE CARRYING AND WHERE IT IS. FOR EXAMPLE...this is me on the stop as the one pulled over. All the things Mr. Lehto said, but now we are at the point of ID/reg/insurance which is always in the fiest few seconds of the stop once the officer has accessed the scene on approach and initial contact. In my personal case, my wallet is in a cargo pocket on my right thigh (thanks back problems.) My documents are in a "car valet" in the drivers door pocket. My gun is on my left hip. So, now its my time to act/speak and I say to the officer "Just to let you know, I am a CPL holder and am carrying. My gun is on my left hip, my wallet is in my right thigh cargo pocket and my documents are in the door pocket of my door." THEN I STOP AND WAIT FOR THE RESPONSE and react accordingly. Now, in most cases, the right hand will get the wallet with the left one still on the wheel and the left will then in a separate moment get the documents. However, it might be necessary to open the door slightly if the "car valet" slid to a point I cannot reach it without getting near the weapon with the "then unseen hand." In that case, I state this and ask to be allowed to open my door for their safety so that my hand will be in sight and away from my side when I get the documents. They will either say just grab it or yeah go ahead, or step back slightly to enable the door to open and tell you to open the door, depending on how safe they feel they are. BUT NEVER ASSUME IN EITHER CASE. In 26 years in public safety, I've been on thousands of traffic stops and been the receiver of many, too. Honesty and courtesy are almost always going to get you much further with the officer's mercy than lying, playing games or being a jerk (or having anti-cop bumper stickers on your car.) BAD COP NO DONUT is never a good message to send to the officer before they make contact with you. No matter how funny that may be to people.
I'd advise viewers who use OC or have a CCW research Massad Ayoob. Ayoob, a sworn LE officer, court expert, tactics instructor, has a good video on traffic stops. His points are good. I would wait for the trooper or police to ask me about guns/weapons then answer yes with my valid CCW license 😉. If the cop or trooper has a DV or bodycam unit, you look much better than a screaming nutcase with a concealed gun who the cop pulls a sidearm on. Stay calm, do not jerk around, avoid any aggressive behaviors. I'd add that Handgunlaw.us is very helpful.
An officer came in & ordered a burger,& I made him a dble & paid for it myself(w fries!!) a few months later in wisconsin,I got pulled over drunk as a skunk.Same cop.They let me sit in the lobby till I got a ride home,& charged me for no licence.Being polite is common sense ,rarely taught these days.Thanks Steve.The dome light is a great move.I will crawl before I ever drink & drive again!
I just found this video. This stuff works more than it doesn't. A couple years ago I was driving my Tahoe and got pulled over on a crappy, rainy day. No traffic on a small, two lane road, so I put on my flashers to let him know that I knew he was there. I drove another two miles to a large wide spot I knew about, which got both of us about ten feet away from the road. When the cop came to the window, he found that I did something a little bit different, and really unexpected. I'm driving a Tahoe, and I'm at eye level with him..... When he comes to my window, I have my right hand on the wheel and my left hand is holding a very large golf cart umbrella for him to stand under. He then asked for my papers and I said, "Sure.....Hold this." He held the umbrella while I got my license out, then I took it back and handed him my papers. He came back and held the umbrella again while I signed my warning ticket. Fifteen over became a five over warning..... He said that was the first time he had ever seen or heard of anyone helping to keep them dry in the rain..... It is true that being nice usually is returned the same way.
This is spot on! My uncle is a police officer and told me this 20 years ago when I got my license. To that note, I got pulled over last Friday night in Fort Worth, Texas and did all of this. I also have a CCW and was carrying a concealed firearm at the time. I handed the officer my CCW permit with my license and when he verbally confirmed I was carrying, I politely asked if he needed me to present and clear the pistol. He said no and asked the usual where from/where to details. I made a joke about some manual labor I had been doing earlier that day and he laughed. He took my info and I sat with my hands on the wheel while he ran my paperwork. He came back handed me my documents and said be careful and to have a good night. I told him the same and thanked him for his service. No ticket! Just be careful, deliberate and courteous, and let the officer know you want nothing more than the both of you to get home safely at the end of the night. Oh, and a thin blue line sticker in your back window doesn’t hurt either ;)
Great advice. I've contested my last two tickets in traffic court and had both dismissed because the officers never showed up. I requested courts dates that were further out and then got extensions on those. I requested court dates that were close to holidays. In the hopes, the officers might still be on vacation or holiday.
I was driving 107 mph on I-5 in California. During my slow down the very nice officer caught me on radar at 95 mph. I saw the offers lights come on turned on my turn signal pulled off the fwy onto an exit. Did everything this guy said to do. When the officer asked me if I knew why he stopped me I said : I think I have a good idea. He asked for my license and registration. I had my license out before he came to the car and my registration and proof of insurance clipped to the visor. He was very polite and was easy to talk to. After he ran my info he came back to my car and said : Thank you for being HONEST with me, I've reduced the ticket from 95 to 85 in a 65 mph zone. He could have taken me to jail and impounded the car. With the reduction the fine was only $295.00 and I can get it dismissed by on line traffic school so I won't get a point on my license or an increase in my amount for car insurance. I recommend follow this guy's advice and be honest. Worked for me. You may not be able to talk your way out of a ticket. But you sure can talk yourself into one. Especially if you're an ass.
Hi Steve, I really enjoy your videos. This morning I was pulled over by a young county sheriffs officer after I failed to come to a complete stop turning onto a rural highway, I didn't realize it at the time. I learned a long time ago being polite and respectful when pulled over goes a long way in your favor. He looked like a baby to me, he was in his early to mid 20s, and I decided I was going to make his job very easy which I did. He relaxed after a few seconds, I gave him my information and he just told me to make sure for my safety to come to a complete stop. Attitude with the police is toxic, you can assert your rights in a calm manner.
Excellent advice ! I drove for a living for many years, and law enforcement will appreciate you looking out for their safety with 0% attitude. Even if they start out with att. themselves, the last guy they stopped may have been a real a**hole. That happens, too.
Good advice. Thanks. The lase ticket I got out of, I was armed. I had cash to buy a motorcycle a a dealership, and was not it in the best town. I got pulled over for expired registration. In PA, they transfer the plate when you buy a new truck, and may not renew the registration, although they are supposed to. I pulled over into a gas station, and kept my hands 10 and 2. The female officer asked if I knew why I was being pulled over, I said "No". She said my plat was expired, but I responded... "This truck is only a few months old... How?" Obviously at that point, we both knew. She asked for my registration, and license. I reached into my wallet, and gave her my license, and gun permit. She responded with... "Oh. Are we armed today?" I said, "yes, because I had cash for the Honda Dealer." She asked me where it was, and I told her it was on my right hip. Then she said to me... "How about this... you keep yours in your holster, and I'll keep mine in mine." I said... "I wouldn't have it any other way." When she came back, she said... "Make sure to update your registration, and have a nice day." (no ticket) Being polite, and honest really does work.
Steve in my 30 years of Law Enforcement you gave the best information I had ever heard. You would have to have been going 100 for me to write you a ticket. The tickets that are hard to write are the ones where people act just like I would if I were stopped....Thanks
My father was a police officer on the west side of Michigan in the early 80's and gave me this same advice when I first got my driver's license. I have been pulled over two or three times in my life and each time I followed these directions I did not get a ticket. The only time I have been ticketed was when I got in an accident that was my fault and I deserved the ticket but even then the officer was respectful and gave me what was required for the accident and nothing more.
I travel for work all the time and I had a 5 hour round trip ahead of me. I was going 80 in a 55, I told him I was sorry and thought I was going 65... I fully cooporated, he wrote me the ticket for 65 and told me to be safe. I was so relieved cause he could have taken me to jail and if I had gotten a ticket for even 1 more mile over the speed limit I would have lost my job.
Thank you , Steve, for putting out a video with this approach. There are so many vids on YT that advocate being a jerk to a police officer, and I never agree with those. My position: A police officer's job is hard enough as it is. I don't want to add to their difficulty. I'd rather have them save their focus and irritation for other people - preferably those who commit offenses far more severe than breaking the speed limit. To what you said above, I would add to consider your own "presentation." Are you well-groomed, well-spoken, and polite? Contrast how you would react to this if you were a cop, with how you would react to someone who is dirty, slovenly, tattooed and pierced, and rude. There is a good chance you are setting yourself up - either way. Of course, the biggest piece of good advice for anyone and everyone is that if you don't want to get stopped by the cops, then don't break any laws. Might not work all the time, but it will almost all the time.
As a Police Officer i've seen a ton of bad advise or things being said that just aren't true. Nice to finally see some real world good advise on the internet for once. This is not about worshiping a cop, its about doing common sense things that make an officers job easier, and in return you will have more chance of getting a warning
I worked for the Michigan Department of Corrections (MDOC) for over 10 years. Because of my technical duties at the MDOC I attended lectures intended for the Michigan State Police (MSP). This is one of the very best informational videos on what to do when pulled over. If you want a guarantee when pulled over then consider buying a toaster. Otherwise, use Steve Lehto's advice. A traffic cop's world is dynamic, at best. It is constantly changing. Put the cop at ease by following Steve Lehto's advice. At worst you will be ticketed for what the cop caught you doing. At best you will be allowed to be non-detained and simply go home.
I absolutely REFUSE to pull over along side the road especially in daylight (the red and blues aren't near as noticable to oncoming traffic) I'll pull in the driveway of some Random house before I pull off the side of the road. I've been doing it like this for years now and I've been thanked more than once for doing so. They take notice and appreciate it. And I appreciate not getting a ticket lol. And I always tell the truth the first time I'm asked. If they ask if I'm aware of how fast I was going, which I usually do, I'll own up to it. A few years ago I very stupidly put myself in a situation where I should have gone to jail but because I was honest with the officer the FIRST time he asked me, I went home that night. He even told me, no one has ever admitted to what I did on the first shot in his career. Honesty in and of itself shows a certain level of respect and I've yet to find an officer where that is lost on them.
You must have some kind of luck, admitting your guilt is exactly what they want so it's that much easier to give you that ticket and let it stick. You don't have to be self incriminating to be honest, And not self incriminating, is not dishonesty.
I got pulled over for expired tabs, just an oversight on my part, and turned into a parking lot. The office thanked me for pulling over off the road and told me to go get the registration renewed. Being helpful can work.
I just got pulled over 2 weeks ago. No valid license and no insurance. I admitted as much imediatly when he walked up. This is the 3rd time in as many months. I've gotten all charges dismissed and the third one he didn't even ticket me. He said I'm leaving. Do what you want. I was a few miles from home, had just picked up dinner for the family, and was just driving home after work. I drove home and have since gotten license renewed and car insured. Awesome stater!
I agree! I don't get pulled over often, yet when i do, i always leave with no ticket. Once got stopped in VA, on my way back to NC from Illinois. I got stopped because of my tinted windows. Hazard lights came on instantly, pulled all the way over, keys out, handbrake up, windows down, hands on wheel. Of course they searched the car; even had a half of a joint in cigarette box, and more in the armrest. I gave all my papers and remain calm. Even told them where the bud was at. after about 20 minutes, i was back on the highway, no ticket and still had all my bud. Its all about how you conduct yourself during the stop!!!
Got pulled over in a company van once on the freeway. Next exit was a whole mile down the road. Blinker on, take the exit, pull into the first parking lot available. Cop flips his lights off and drives off. I don't know what he was even going to say, maybe he got a more important call or something.
Hard to believe but I had the same interaction...night...rain storm..1 mi. from home (different state) and stopped for going over line marker by 3' at a red light. I did EXACTLY what you described and for those reasons ...had not been stopped in 20 yrs. but it's just common sense. Everything went well and no ticket. 30 yrs. before was stopped for speeding in NY. There was very little space to pull over and no change in that for many miles. So I did the best I could and cop was at my window looking at my license, etc. when I saw an 18 wheeler in my mirror coming at a very high rate of speed and close to the shoulder where the cop was standing. I yelled, "Watch out!!!" He pressed up against my car and the truck just missed him. He handed me my license, etc., said "Go", jumped into his car and took off after the truck with siren screaming.
I have a radical theory about how to avoid tickets and potential accidents. Obey traffic laws. Be cautious and courteous. So far it's worked for me for 40 years.
Excellent Advice, Steve! When I was a young man I talked my way out of my first 22 traffic stops in a row. I had a wining technique (plus much luck). I was always polite, never denied my violation, and never made up excuses. On one stop, the Officer started the conversation by screaming, and threw his clipboard on the ground in a rage! I got out of it! My best (and last successful escape from a ticket) was when I drove through a speed trap on HWY 460 (classic - cop car hidden behind a billboard) at the speed-drop entrance to a one cop, no stop-light dinky town (Pembroke VA); while kissing my girlfriend with one eye on the road (the VW Beetle passenger seat was turned backwards, making this easy). Just before his car pulled out, she sat up and said: "slow down, this town is a speed trap"! As his read light came on, she said: "Speeding tickets pay their one cop's salary; you will NEVER talk your way out of this one!" (I had been bragging). I did! My first ticket was during the "double nickels" Arab oil crisis period on Interstate 81 ("Go to double nickels at the top of the ridge, 'cause there's a Smoky Picture Taker sitt'n under the bridge"). My speedometer was broken on my 55 Chevy, and the State Trouper picked me out of a group of about 5 cars all going the same speed near Abington, VA. When he asked why I was doing 61 in a 55 zone, I replied politely: "Officer, my speedometer is broken, I was just driving with the traffic". He replied: "Son (that's Southern Officer talk), the law does not require that you have a working speedometer, but it does require that you obey the speed limit". Ironically, I drove his mother into town from that same location a year later when her car was broken down on the side of Interstate 81 (no cell phones why back then)! For the short drive into Abington she told me all about her State Trouper son that she was so proud of. Times have changed! Recently I have had officers apologize for writing the ticket, but I still got them. Probably the most significant change is that when I was young, all the police were men. I've never experienced or known anyone who talked a female officer out of a ticket. They mean business! No mercy!
Traffic tickets are money makers for many departments. This income is often budgeted in to their operating expenses. They have to write tickets. Judges and prosecutors are in on it.
Never underestimate the power of cooperation with the police officer... My last ticket was almost 30 years ago, and it was well-deserved, but it could have been much worse if I didn't cooperate. The officer clocked me at close to 30 over and for a brief moment I contemplated trying to run, but decided that could end very badly, so I just pulled over before he even had a chance to turn around and try and catch up. He thanked me for just pulling over. He decided he couldn't quite let me off completely, but he did only write me up for 10 over. I have been pulled over a few times since then, mostly for lesser infractions and was let go each time. I have no doubt that being polite and co operational played a part in not being written up.
I concur whole heartedly. As with any everyday, normal interaction (and even more so when that interaction involes a police officer) being polite, repectful, and courteous will go a long way in helping you achieve your desired outcome.
Yep. I got stopped earlier this year while driving on a suspended license at 3am. I handed him my license and it was expired by a year. He asked me about it and I started to act like I didn't know. Mid sentence, I stopped and said no...thats not right. I knew. I was worried about going to jail because I have a suspended license. The state trooper says... Well that's not so bad. You might not even have to go to jail. As long as it's wasn't for DUI, you'll get to go home tonight. He then informs me that only State Troopers are allowed that option in my state. I was FLOORED. Luckily I was almost at the place I was going when he hit the lights so I didn't have to drive anywhere else for another 5 hours. I know for a fact that had I continued with the lying about my license, etc...he would've taken me to jail.
I got pulled over going through Knoxville a few years ago. I was in a rental and although I didn't know how fast I was going (I was busy paying attention to traffic, no excuse but still), he told me I was doing 70 in a 55. Looks at my license and legit says "I know you're from Texas and our speeds are alien to you but slow it down". Wrote me a warning. Score. Nice guy! I appreciated that because even though he didn't know it was unintentional that particular time, it totally was.
Great info counselor. I too have my interior light on window down and hands on the wheel at 10 an 2 the I start the conversation by saying, "Officer, for your safety I am by law required to inform you that I have a CWP and my weapon is here in the drivers side door." They always respond with a , thanks for that... I appreciate that...
I typically hand then my carry permit, license and VA disability card. I do it in hopes they understand I am not a threat. I've been pulled over with over 10 firearms in my car. Coming back from the range.
You've described most of my car stop experiences. For the most part if you can get the officer to metaphorically take off the uniform and deal with you as a human being, most of them are pretty decent people. Even had one incident that could have been a real pain in the rear. My inspection sticker was about 2 months expired and I rarely ever put the registration stickers on my plate. In my defense this was because living in a big city at the time, stickers were often stolen off plates or the corner of the plate itself would be snipped off for the sticker. Anyway, had pulled up at the airport to offload luggage on the way to a flight for New Orleans for Mardi Gras with my dad. Was aggressively unloading baggage (beads, suitcases, costumes, a lot of stuff) when a cop on foot came out of nowhere. The conversation that ensued took only about 20 seconds and went without skipping a beat. I never even stopped unloading. Officer: Do you know your inspection sticker is expired? Me: (enthusiastically) Yes sir. Officer: (looks at plate): And your registration sticker too? Me: (still enthusiastically): Yes sir. Oficer: From 1994? (It was 1998) Me: Yes sir. Oficer: Why is that? Me: (with a shrug of the shoulders) I've been busy! Officer: (Just laughs and walks away) Humanity and humor go a LONG way!
Been pulled over 100 times. My Dad taught me most of this when i was young. I've had only handful of tickets. Nice to know what I've been practiced has actually been helping me out during stops.
As a retired LEO, I can tell you that MOST of the time his method will work. BUT when I was a state trooper, we were taught to make our decision to write a ticket, a warning, or an oral warning BEFORE we approached the vehicle. The point was to eliminate 'attitude' tickets. That is to make sure their attitude was not the reason for the ticket but actions prior to the stop. That being said, as I got more experience, I didn't always do as I was taught. And now that I'm retired, I seem to get stopped for speeding from time to time, usually on my motorcycle. The issue now is that I carry a CDL license and there can be no plea bargaining if a ticket is written. So I'm not above pleading for a warning and even using the fact that I'm a retired LEO! So three years ago I received a ticket for 81 in a 70. Young trooper (later told me he had been on the job three weeks!) and was with his training officer. Very difficult situation for both of us. Long story short, I appealed a municipal court conviction to county court and requested a jury trial. I then sat down with the prosecutor and told her that I was sure I could beat the ticket but it would save everyone a lot of time and aggravation if she would just dismiss it. There were a couple hoops but she eventually did just that. Oh, how was I going to beat it? Texas is a Prima Facia speed limit state. Nuf said.
Pulled over in OK for speeding. Doing 85 in a 70. I’m a CCW carrier and I put my hands at 10-2 then announced that I’m carrying. I do this Irrespective if required or not. After I made my announcement i asked him what HE wanted to do. He asked where I had it. I said it was under my right elbow in a holster on my belt. He said “Well ok, I’ll tell you what, if you don’t show me yours, I won’t show you mine”. I cracked up. We proceeded to the license, registration and insurance phase. I did not get a ticket and when it was all over he thanked me for handling the gun situation so professionally. Learned a long time ago, being macho during a traffic stop costs you money, no way around it.
I'd read one of your articles about this years ago and took the advice to heart. Although I don't get pulled over often, I have never been ticketed since implementing this advice. Thanks!
I stopped a Honda driven by a Honda mechanic who was road testing a car he had just worked on. He was doing 55 in a 40. I asked him if he knew why I stopped him? He said, "Speeding". I asked him how fast he was going? He said, "55". I told him to slow down and have a good day. He asked, "Aren't you going to give me a ticket?". I said, "No. Most people lie to me. I can afford to let the honest ones go".
You were the 1 out of 100. The other 99 times an admission like that will get you the ticket no matter how nice you are resulting in gravy for the cop.
Nice job Officer Uyeda! See people...there *ARE GOOD POLICE OFFICERS* on the roads. Just *DON'T* treat them like they are the enemy. This officer wants to keep the roads safe for all, doesn't like being lied to, and expects the same respect he will give you! 1 in 100...maybe, I don't think it's that bad...but of all the times I was stopped at a younger age...HAHAHA...I SHOULD HAVE HAD A LOT MORE TICKETS!!!
I got pulled over in Harlem, NY once in my 4Runner. As soon as the lights went on, I immediately lowered every window in the car, pulled over, shut the car off, and put my hands at 10 and 2. The cop walks up to the car and goes “I like the way you did that”. Needless to say everything went uphill after that and I drove away unscathed! #goodtimes ✊🏿
I conceal carry or at least have one in my truck. I have followed this procedure for 25yrs. Now when I have a gun I say to the officer as soon as he gets to the window "sir for your information and safety I have a firearm in the vehicle" then I follow instructions from there. I believe this has gotten me out of a few tickets.
LOL, I think I've used all of these at some point in my life. They work. Only one I disagree with is the "don't admit you were speeding." If I know I was speeding (all but 1 of my stops were on a highway/interstate for speeding) I'll usually say something like, "probably a little over the limit" unless I really don't know. I figure my best chance to get out of the ticket is right there at roadside. Only ever got 2 tickets. One was a trooper having a bad day and I beat that one in court because he had a reputation so when I explained to the judge that I was guilty of 63 in a 55 zone on a highway, not 65 in a 45 as the officer had written the judge threw it out completely. The other one was reduced at roadside to 4 miles over limit by the officer himself and he even apologized for giving me the ticket. In a city, your odds of success are even higher unless you are being a jerk. During a ride-along with an officer he told me, "I don't work traffic detail so I'm not out to write a lot of tickets. If I pull someone over on a traffic offense I'm looking to make sure they are not driving drunk and don't have warrants. We'll probably let 90% of our stops tonight go with a verbal warning." 11 stops that night and 0 tickets written. Obviously if you are doing 55 in a school zone, or driving insanely in traffic your odds of success go way down, but most of the time if you are within shouting distance of the traffic laws and act like a civilized human they'll give you a break.
Since you're pulled over to the side of the road I would recommend turning on the 4-way flashers also to add another element of safety for the officer, from his viewpoint.
Steve, thank you from a police officer in the state of Michigan! I have been pulled over before, also, and I do all the things you talked about. because I carry a gun off duty (per my police department's policy) I always let the officer know that I am armed (just like for a cpl holder) first thing. Steve, I appreciate people like you. working as a police officer, it doesn't take long to figure out who is sincere, and who is "shady!" I see my job as educating the public on the rules of the road. If I feel that you will learn from an explanation, then that is good enough for me. Some people just want to learn the hard way. for them I reluctantly oblige. I have had people talk their way into a ticket. I once told my partner, "This stop is going to be a verbal warning." before I even got out of my patrol car. The driver talked his way into a ticket. It was not my preference! Steve, thank you!
I got pulled over recently and the cop asked me why I was going so fast. I began to tell him that my daughter had to be at an event, but in my head I heard myself sounding like some loser giving an excuse for (i.e. trying to justify) doing wrong. My dad taught me, and I've taught my children, don't give excuses for bad behavior. I cut myself off in mid sentence and said "No officer, there's no excuse for speeding". No ticket.
Excellent! Someone actually taking ownership of their responsibility, and being honest. Took me many years to figure out sometimes lying is better about some things. But I have to agree excuses excuses I'm sure you realize as well as the cop that he's heard it all before, but when you were truthful, that's what made the difference. None of us are beyond making mistakes, it would seem only few of us are honest, and honorable enough to admit it. 👍🙏
Here in Canada (Quebec), they no longer ask if we know why were being pulled over. They automatically goes the route of (you were speeding) or (you didnt stop completely) etc. Ask for registration. And return with the ticket. Quotas need to be met at any cost. We are not humans for these police officers. We are just a source of cash.
Great advice, I worked for law enforcement in a small town starting in 1975 to 1978. I am 65 years old now and have been licenced to carry a concealed handgun for 44 years. You would be amazed by how many times I have been stopped for minor traffic violations. Then let off with a warning ticket or just a verbal warning. Just from being respectful. Once I was stopped by police for suddenly changing my direction at a stop sign. My lady passenger had been arrested a month previous for possession of 1 joint of which I had no idea. I was just returning her laptop, that I had repaired. When the officer started asking her question's, I ask him why are talking to my passenger? That's when she let me know about her prior shituation. He asked if she had any pot on her 'yep' she had one joint. The officer then asked if he could bring in the k-9 unit and search my car. I said; no problem. But; you need to know I have a loaded handgun in the door. And my licence to carry is in my wallet. They completely went threw my car by hand and with the K-9 nothing was there. They released me with a warning for expired licence plates $165.00 fine. Then took her to jail $500.00 cash bond to cover her fine if she did not want to appear in court. I find if you are operating with in the laws and treat officers with respect do your best to co-operate you can still be put through the ringer abit. He could have taken my hand gun because; of her 1 joint. Thankfully that officer had abit of common sense he could have really caused me some grief, possibly to be pretty hateful for the duration of my life.
A lot of really good advice. But When the officer asks "Do you know how fast you were going?" I always laugh and say, "I did after I saw you!." This has never failed to get me off. I ALWAYS hit the brakes, I like to make sure he sees me REACTING to him. Then I tell the officer that I didn't realize I was speeding until AFTER I saw him, I usually laugh as I tell him , "I saw you, so I checked my speed and saw I was speeding so I hit the brakes." I usually add how I was thinking about something with my kids, or I'll say how I was just enjoying the day and just watching the road. Normal stuff. I think they like the idea that seeing them makes me check my speed and hit the brakes. It says "Respectful Law abiding." Not hitting the brakes requires me to act cool like I didn't know I was speeding, but after you see the cop, even if you were not watching your speed before., he knows you checked it after you saw him because he also know you slowed down, not hitting the brakes is a kind of concealment. All the other advice here is really good, but the part about the brakes and admitting you were speeding is too lawyer-ish. Admitting you were speeding but giving a plausible reason you did not intend to speed along with a decent show of respect for his authority works very well,
an add ~ The last time I was stopped, (daytime) I put it in park, and then I pulled the wallet, put it on the dash along with my phone (insurance proof) then proceeded to do what you said (I got a written warning) The time before that many years ago I had both hands on the door where the window comes up with the 3 pieces of information stuck in between the fingers. I knew I was going to get a ticket (86 in a 50) which in Maryland is an offense he could have arrested me and called a tow truck. He didn't, Only 2 words were exchanged "sign here" It was a fat ticket but I was glad I got to go home! btw I was glad he didn't show 2 minutes earlier 120 is even harder to explain (New car turbo, NOONE on the road wanted to wring it out)
Your advice will be very useful the next time I visit the US. As in Ireland no one has hand guns and most police are unarmed as well. However showing respect and making the police job easier is universal advice.
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Your one of those long story guys,bye bye
You're one of those, "I watched your video all the way through and commented, but still think I pulled one over on the guy who posted the video" guys. Buh-bye!
I guess you heard about the guy doing 80 in a 55 in his brand new Corvette when he zoomed through a speed trap , he looked back and saw the flashing lights and siren and he pushed it faster from 80 to 100 and then to 12o when suddenly the man thought what am I doing I am not a teenager , I’m to old to act this way so he pulled over and waited for the trooper . The trooper walks up and says look mister it’s Friday I have got 30 minutes before the end of my shift if you can give me a reason for why you were speeding that I haven’t heard before I will let you go . The guy looks up and says “ Well years ago my wife run off with a trooper I was afraid you were him trying to bring her back .” Officer says “ Good day Sir just slow it down.” LOL
Me and a friend of mine was going fishing one Saturday morning and at an intersection he went through a red light just as it went from green to yellow , cop pulls us over and asked my friend does he know what a yellow light means . My friend right on cue says “ Yes sir it means you need to get your ass under it before it turns red .” Cop busted out laughing and let him go , no warning no nothing.
Neil Grooms That’s a great story. Did you ever watch the You Tube video of Gabriel Fluffy Iglesias talk about when he got pulled over for doing 100 in his suv. If you haven’t you need to it’s hysterical. He made the cop laugh and he let him go with a warning.
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(I was pulled over for speeding) The officer said to me; " I've been waiting for you all day " ,,, my reply; " I got here as quickly as I could " He let me go.
That's fantastic
Wow, one with a sense of humor...hee-larious
Seriously lol!
I got pulled over in 1990 just outside of Douglas AZ for not having a front license plate. I was given a warning. 20 minutes later pulling into Bisbee AZ I get pulled over again for, you guessed it, no front license plate. I showed Buford T. Justice the warning I had just received 20 minutes earlier. He grumbled and said "you know I was gonna write you up and it woulda been a $75 dollar fine!" Oh that's a shame I said. Then he let me go. The following day then Gov. Rose Mofford signed into law the requirement to only have a rear license plate!
I usually start of by saying "You work for me MF'er" So far the results are poor, but I'm not a quitter.
This is great advice. As a retired (Michigan) deputy sheriff who has made thousands of traffic stops and written hundreds of tickets I can honestly say that some people absolutely talk themselves into a ticket that the officer had no intention of writing until the driver aggravated the violation by some negative behavior. I usually wrote 30-50 % of the drivers I stopped tickets. Being or at least acting concerned and responsible will allow the officer to feel like he has done his job of modifying your behavior without having to get into your wallet. Like the Bible says "A kind answer turns away wrath". Just be nice, it works on cops too
Lol, that's a good one. Was thinking about relocating to Michigan anyway (cuz that ain't the way is everywhere).
Thank you!! This is great advice. I'm an officer in Florida and 99% of the time I can't see who I'm pulling over - despite people claiming "cuz I'm black, chinese, or whatever." But one thing for sure, I have no idea how you're going to react. Are you going to bail out and run, shoot me, scream, cry, complain, cooperate, warrants, suspended license, etc. Dark tint and glare and reflections, I may not know how many are in your car either so yes, I'm nervous just like you. I RARELY write tickets, usually just give a warning if your paperwork, license is in order and your respectful the same way I am towards you. As long as you didn't cause an accident or almost kill someone, I would definitely just give a warning if you follow Lehto's advice here.
But what if I'm traveling and not driving. Seriously though,cops here light your car up with spotlights,like it's day time.
@@tazeauditorslaughlikehell5763 That's protocol for some departments, to turn on all the lights. Plus...have you ever looked into those lights? They are blinding even in the daylight...they know this...making it difficult for you to see if you want to be troublesome. The other possibility, 1 switch (MASTER SWITCH) turns everything on, and it easier and faster to deal with than 10+/- different switches.
Gabriel A. Thanks for your service.
I've been let off more than I've been ticketed due to courtesy.
As a retired LEO, these are excellent suggestions and guidelines. Politeness and courtesy gets the benefit of the doubt (usually), though I'll admit some LEOs seem less than human. I am still amazed at the number of people I pulled over and had no intention of issuing a citation but their actions often before I got to their window, convinced me they needed some attitude adjustment. I hated writing tickets but people like this could make it enjoyable.
And as Steve mentioned do not be memorable. I once wrote a ticket for reckless driving and in court for some reason the defense attorney had his client testify as to what he was actually doing prior to being stopped. Later the prosecution asked me if I recognized the defendant, being completely honest I said no, because he gave me no reason to remember him from 6 months earlier. The judge said because the officer could not identify the defendant I would normally find him not guilty but based on the defendant's own testimony, I find him guilty.
Being respectful to ANY person in their workplace is a great way to guarantee good service. Police are no different. Great video.
Last time I was stopped, the trooper turned his lights on, I turned on my hazards to indicate compliance. I drove a short while, around a bend and along a straight-a-way. Near the end of the straight-a-way I pulled to the shoulder of the highway and as Steve suggests I put my tires near the grass to give plenty of room to stand. One of the first questions the officer ask was why I kept driving even though I had my hazards on and I explained: my hazards let you know I saw you and will pull over. I kept driving to find a straight portion of road to stop at the end of so traffic has time to see us and either move over or slow down and I wanted to find a place with no guide rail so I could pull over more so you wouldn't stand so close to the traffic. He looked behind us, looked at me, appeared more relaxed and said 'Thank You'. I told him I've had a few close calls myself as a paramedic at accident scenes, didn't want to see him hurt. He ran my information, told me to slow down and let me off with a warning. I told him to remain safe out there, have a good day and enjoy his time off. This time a smile and a thanks.
I know just what you mean about that first contact with police during a traffic stop. I have been pulled over multiple times for speeding. Now, being upfront, I was a cop in the military and a civilian cop working for the Navy. I have 39 years experience. I am now retired. Key word, "retired". In every instance I got stopped, I did exactly what you did. pull over as far to the right as I could, open my window, hands at 2 & 10 on the wheel. At night, turned on my dome light. When the various officers approached. I was "yes sir/ma'am or no sir/ma'am" Your temperament, is key in that first contact with a traffic cop. Show respect, and you get respect. Same goes for being polite and provide documentation when asked. I have been able to avoid speeding tickets since I was 20, so for almost 48 years now. YOUR actions and how you treat that officer will be a major factor in how that stop will end. Hey, you might still get a ticket, but the officer has the discretion, to lower your speed lowering the possible fine you may be subject to. He may decide to just give you a written warning or a verbal warning. The chances for a positive outcome for you will be greatly improved if you treat the officer with the same respect you want.
@Steve Lehto from all of us in law enforcement, I thank you so much for taking your time to make a traffic stop safe and taking your time to inform everyone on how to make a traffic stop safe and smooth. I would not have issued a ticket also.
Aegist I've been wanting to ask someone in law enforcement if they've had any encounters with those "sovereign citizen" people. Kind of wish Steve would do a episode about them. For some reason I think he probably has some opinions on them. lol.
@ATCkeepsUsafe The odds of you encountering a rouge cop that is trying to frame you is about the same of you hitting the lotto 2 weeks in a row. Its mainly a thing made up by TV and movies. And when they do find a cop planting evidence or doing dirty shit it usually has to do with detectives or task forces focus on specific individuates there trying to catch not some random joe on a traffic stop. So unless your a FBI for major drug trafficking or racketeering calm down.
I once avoided a speeding ticket because when the officer went back to his cruiser for his citation book, he was all out of blank tickets. And when he came back he actually said to me, "The only reason I'm not writing you a ticket is because I don't have any."
There is an old story about a small city in the area in which a newly hired officer on his first police job wrote parking tickets on Sunday morning for every illegally parked car at the biggest church in town. As I understand it, the police chief took away his ticket book, gave him one blank ticket, and told him to request another blank ticket when he filled out that ticket.
Retired police officer here, and everything you said is totally true. I go above a few things, however. After turning on my dash light, placing my truck in neutral (making sure I take my foot off the brake) and rolling down my window, I display my hands out the window. The 2 times in 45 years I have been pulled over, the officer has invariably asked me the same question.
"Why did you place your hands out the window, have you been arrested before?"
"I am a retired LEO, and I know what you have to deal with, sir. It's my common courtesy toward our profession."
"I pulled you over for (fill in infraction). Please get that fixed/slow down. Have a great day."
No asking for I.D., Immediate respect, and I was on my way.
Smart!
these are better tips than being a problem and saying "am i being detained, am i free to go", and wasting everyone's time. this advice makes more sense.
Well presented. As a retired police officer I add one small thing in the last few years. When he says he's finished I respond with "Be safe, Officer" or something similar. It adds a human touch that is usually appreciated.
Steve Wagner last time I said that to an officer he gave me a mean stare!
He had those silver cool hand luke sunglasses on! Lol
As a former cop - this guy is 100% correct. Just the steps he took, as he described them put me at ease and I wouldn't write him a ticket. If he was cool in the car with the dialogue, at most he'd have got was a written warning from me. Probably a verbal warning if it was raining.
His answers were spot on too. Be polite, don't admit guilt. Narrate what you're doing - sudden movements and fiddle-farting around in your car, to include rocking the car as you move around, arouse suspicion - are not going to be well received by the officer.
I kind of deviate from his anonymous theory. While it's not wrong, and if you follow what he says, exactly what he says will happen. You'll get a break along with everyone else who is anonymous.
However, I've seen officers, including myself, agree to even better reductions if they know the person. You lose nothing if you do the following: If s/he still writes you a ticket, be polite, and thank him/her. Look over the ticket and say, "May I ask you a question?" The cop will say yes of course, so ask a basic question or two to show concern. My favorite was once a guy asked me, "IS this the court date (pointing to the date)?" I'd said yes, and the guy said, "Ok, I'll probably go and ask for a fine reduction if you're ok with that." He got me! What else could I say but, "That's cool, I have no problem with that." Now you're creating rapport for later. Some cops, especially State Troopers, write 50-100 tickets or more a month but they'll remember you because of the rapport. I certainly remembered this guy and he even came up to me and offered his hand. At this point, you can ask for a re-write or point reduction and the cop may agree because s/he remembered you. I agreed to both! And the guy was going like 20 over. He talked me into agreeing to a $150 fine reduction and rewriting to a no-point non-moving violation "careless operation". I think he paid $50, no points.
I am a former officer firefighter emt All at the same time be nice n be respectfull put the officer at ease I love your videos im dissabled now from a tractor accident while bushogging a field in 2018 im spending time on u tube alot lately I enjoy your talks
My dad taught me all of that stuff when i first got my license 36 years ago, and i've always followed it. It never got me off of a speeding ticket (but it did get me off another, perhaps more serious ticket, about that later). Not one time, but at least half of the time, it did get me a reduced ticket. Which on the over 20's was important. One time driving down the I75 in north Florida i was zoned out and wasn't watching for speed traps. So the limit went from 75 down to 55 while i was oblivious. Was a long day of driving. So when the trooper pulled me over i was doing 22 over the limit, instead of 2. Pulled over immediately, hands on the wheel, etc. Asked permission to get my docs when asked for, the whole thing. The officer became very friendly and when he came back to the car after running my license, he told me that even though he had me on radar he was reducing the ticket to 6 over from 22 so the ticket would cost less and give me minimum points on my driving record. I count that as a success.
Another time after a long day of work, i left some expensive equipment at a job site. It just so happened that the next day i was flying out of the country for a job overseas for 6 months, and my insurance expired that night at midnight. I was fine with that since i would take a taxi to the airport the next morning. As i was falling asleep just after midnight i realized i had left an expensive generator at the work site. Jeez, i had to go get it. So i got up and drove to the site and got the thing. Minutes after leaving, i was pulled over. I knew there was drug activity in that area late at night, and the officer probably thought it was suspicious if he saw me leave the jobsite. I did the stop protocol which i could tell put the officer at ease. It also became apparent that he was mostly interested in what was in my van since it was an unmarked panel van and had no windows in back. Now, i know my rights and i know i could make this stop a huge hassle for the officer by not giving consent. I kind of made it a negotiation with the officer. I told him up front i didnt have insurance now because it literally expired 20 minutes earlier and told him why. I told him i had nothing to hide and was happy to let him look in back, but please don't give me a ticket as i was flying out of the country at 7 am the next morning. I showed him my plane ticket and itinerary. He didn't commit, but he said we would see after looking in back. So i turned the overhead lights on in back, then told him i was coming out so i could unlock the back door for him (the automatic lock wasn't working on the back door). Anyway, i opened the door and even offered to jump in back and open any cases he wanted to look into. It was just tools and equipment back there. When he saw what was back there he went from friendly but a bit cool and reserved, to very friendly. I apologized profusely for not having valid insurance, but told him it would have been irresponsible for me to leave such an expensive thing behind. He said, no problem, you're free to go, but don't drive again after i get back to my place until i have insurance. Big win.
As a 55 year old with 40 years driving experience and getting pulled over, it took me a long time to realize and put into practice everything you have said. I have received tickets in spite of it sometimes. I have usually just mailed in the fine, or done ticket school. The last time I received a huge ticket. I got a traffic ticket lawyer for like $79. He did the tickets in bulk and was handling 15 or 20 clients at a time. Anyway, when the judge saw I had a lawyer, "Case Dismissed"
Speaking of being in the rain. I got pulled over once during a pretty heavy rain. I Seen the lights come on and I was going to pull over right away but knew that there was a bridge about a 1/4 of a mile up, so i slowed down turned on my interior lights, put my flashers on and continued up to the bridge so the interior of my car didn't get wet and the officer didn't have to get wet. when coming up to the window of the car I did everything Steve said in the video and he actually said thank you for parking under the bridge when handing me my warning. I was probably 15MPH over and I got out of that ticket by doing everything Mr. Lehto said and helping keep the officer dry in the process.
Nice. I once got pulled over on a major highway(with lots of accidents) around 1 am, about a half mile or so up the road after he lit me up was a side road, so I signalled, slowed down, etc, and then turned off the highway and immediately pulled over.
The officer comes up to my window, freaking out, and I explained to him that I figured turning off the highway was a much safer place to pull over.... And he says to me " Where I turned on my lights is where I want you to pull over, I decided it was safe,"
Lol
I told an officer that I didn't know why he pullled me over when he asked me, and he immediately got shitty with me. I was also driving a gov't vehicle at the time, and after he ran the plates, he came back and asked me where I got them as if I fabricated them at home or something. I guess their department couldn't run gov't plates or something. I was also half dressed in my military uniform, so it's not like things didn't add up. I guess he was just an idiot.
I can attest that respect goes a long way. A couple years ago I was driving in Pacific Grove, CA and got pulled over for failing to make a complete stop at a stop sign, yes the 'California Roll', and when the office approached my car I already had the windows don't and hands in plain view. He said 'good morning' to me and I returned with 'good morning sir', to which he said back immediately 'You called me sir, you're already scoring points here'. I was honest in stating that I hadn't made a complete stop so I got off with a warning. We talked for minute after that, and he told me he let me go because I was both honest and showed him respect. HJe said lots of people become immediately insulting in the speech when pulled over and he wants to reward good behavior and honesty.
Good thing he didn't check my trunk and find the corpse in there
.....Just kidding
Officer: Sir, do you know why I pulled you over today?
Me: You thought maybe I had Doughnuts?
I agree with almost all of this. I do these things EVERY time, and have been able to get out of the vast majority of potential tickets. The one thing that I have done different is with the window. When the officer is making first contact, make sure the window is down. If it is raining or frigid cold, roll up the window when the officer goes back to his car, but keep your eyes on the mirror. When the officer gets out of the car to come back, roll the window back down before they get to you.
I recall a video online where a young woman is pulled over, and you may not want to follow her example. She told the police officer that she didn't think they gave pretty girls tickets. The officer said, you are right. We don't. Here's your ticket.
Mr. Lehto, you are 100% correct! As a former LEO I can tell you that being nice to the officer greatly increases your chance of driving away with a warning instead if a ticket. Many people out there talk themselves into a ticket that they likely would have driven away without. I was a county cop, my brother was a state trooper, and his famous quote to the jerks out there was "I was only going to give you a warning, but I'm not going to stand out here and hold court on the side of the road, so now you'll now be able to take it to the judge."
Several years ago I was driving on an interstate freeway, cruise control set at the 70 mph limit. I exited that highway and entered another, where the limit was only 55. Unknowingly, and in deep conversation with my passenger making me less aware, I simply hit the resume and was again cruising along 15 mph over the limit. Long story short, the officer wrote me up, and when he returned and began to give the the usual instructions about signing was not an admission of guilt, etc., I said "Yeah, I know I used to stand on your side of the window" after a little questioning about that comment, and me handing the ticket book back to him, I wished him a nice and safe evening. He looked surprised and said "I'm sorry I gave you a ticket." I chuckled and said "So am I, but why?" his reply was "because you're a nice guy."
A little more talk about rude, obnoxious and down right a-hole drivers ensued and he walked away in I think a better mood than he was before and I had a great story, even though I didn't get off that time.
I’m a retired Florida Prosecutor and Judge and I always enjoy and learn something from your fine videos. This is excellent advice in my experience. I’ve never been ticketed in Florida since 1980. I do very similar things that you advise. I’ve always told people who ask how to react to an officer, that, “…you don’t spit into the wind, you don’t pull on Superman’s cape, you don’t pull the mask off the ole Lone Ranger…” and you obey the police. If they misbehave, you deal with it officially when you’re not on the street and vulnerable.
Awesome advice! Being polite and considerate and ask permission to move...without giving up your rights.
When I was pulled over and was asked "Do you know why I pulled you over?"
I responded, "I'm hoping you wanted to congratulate me on my spotless driving record, but maybe not..."
Officer chuckled, asked for papers and went to run my info.
He returned and said, "Well, we're going to let you keep your spotless record, just slow down."
Thank you very much officer, and I'm on my way... My wife shakes her head in disbelief.
True advise. Years ago when I was a kid I gave a cop a real hard time when I got stopped and whatever he wrote on the ticket I couldn't get out of it no matter what and I since learned to be respectful and make their job as easy as possible. That was 40 years ago. I have a Class A commercial drivers license and the few times I have been stopped, I either got no ticket, or I got the officer to change it to a no point (disregarding a traffic control device) to protect my license. Most cops are human just like us and just want to be treated with respect and it works.
Thanks for the great content Steve!
I had a NC state trooper give me a breathy lecture about "STOPPING WHEN THE LIGHTS COME ON" and how he can charge me with "ELUDING" etc...
all because in a lowered car on a road with no room to pull off the road... I put my hazards on and drove maybe a quarter mile into a driveway.
told him it was because I was concerned for both our safety...
When he said "I can charge you with eluding"
I said "sure thing buddy, I was 'eluding' with my hazards on going half the speed limit" LOL
That guy was so off the hinges that I finally said "ok buddy you gonna give me a ticket or not?" because he was lecturing me on how he has "BEEN DOING THIS FOR 15 YEARS"
nothing but nice to that guy... now I can be sorta snappy with them. I am professional enough BUT I don't let them berate me or probe for stuff because I think it is rude as heck to insinuate people are "up to something" when they have given NO REASON at all to think so.
That's something I have never understood. They tell you in case you don't feel safe drive to a gas station, a police station, a fire station, somewhere with lights and people, and then they accuse you of trying to elude them. I guess one of those things that make you go hum!
My parents always said it only takes a few minutes to help a public servant give you a break compared to the hours and expense you will suffer from your day in the courtroom. I am almost 60 and been driving since 15. I have been pulled over 8 times in my entire life, six for speeding once for tail light not working and once for not having headlights on after sunset. I was never written a ticket. My Dad and two uncles were patrol officers. They told me as a young driver to always be respectful and it works.
Another thing about being polite is if the cop remembers you as such, he will purposely not show up to court so you default and win. I was stopped in the rain and purposely drove a little further than I should have to stop under and overpass. He stopped behind me and when approached, I immediately said "sorry for taking a bit longer to stop, but in this storm I thought this bridge could cover you like you do for us" - immediately he thanked me and let me off with a warning and that was that. I could see the appreciation in his eyes.
As an old LEO I will say Steve has given you very good advise. So pay close attention to what he says in this video, and you may not get a ticket. One more tip from me, when you ask or advise the Officer that you are going to move in some way to get your license, registration, etc. do not make quick or jerky moves. Move in a slow, and deliberate manner. This will keep the Officer at ease, and keep him/her from changing into a defensive position. And as I have always said, if you don't want a speeding ticket.....do not speed. :)
So true i was lit up by a Tx State trooper 2 nights ago.. I smelled of pot but i dont drink i was trying to go sit with my dad n my 3rd brake light was out and i was very deliberate and let her know where my hands where gonna be i also flipped my flashers on an apologized to the trooper nobody wants to have to do their job n theirs is dangerous i got a warning and she was extremely understandable when i said i smoked but i only smoke at home which is where i was coming from...i dont drink i have no warrants oh
I've followed the advice in the video since I started driving 40 years ago. I got tickets until my mid-'40s. For the last ten years, no tickets. Age seems to be a firm determinent.
I stopped a person for running a stop sign. I gave him a ticket. He stated he knew a judge and would not have to pay it. I made a note of it on the ticket. The judge was pissed and made him pay.
After buying my VW GTI Sport I was pulled over four times in my first month. I do ALL the things you recommend and I have not received one ticket. My last pull over was at night doing 85 in a 70 zone. I pulled WAY off the highway onto the grass and rolled down my window all the way. The officer then pulls up right next to me, rolls down his window and shouts at me "SLOW DOWN". I just shouted back YES SIR and he took off. Whew!
SLOW DOWN! yes sir
I’ve told all my friends to do this. In the past 10 years since I work up and realized that respect matters, I’ve been stopped for stupid things like head and taillights. One time I got stopped for “running a red light” (it was yellow). I was very respectful. I did all the things you said (long before I saw this video) and he let me go and complimented me on how I handled the stop.
BTW, I put all the windows down. If they asked me why I thought they stopped me (I only speed on highways in packs of cars), if I don’t know, I’ll say honestly that I don’t. Since it’s a light, I am being honest.
One time, late at night, heading for the gym (24-hour gym), I saw a car coming toward me at about 200 meters distance and it seemed as if its high beams were on. I flicked my high beam switch a couple of times. They flashed back. It was a cop. His high beams weren’t on, but his lights were very bright. I thought nothing of it until he pulled a U-Turn.
I did my usual “stop dance” and expected him to let me go after running my info. Asshole (Rook) wrote me a ticket, announcing it was a non-moving violation. Well, in NJ, the insurance company an up your rates even for a non-pointed violation. It was also a $50 ticket. I looked it up as soon as I saw him leave. It’s NJ 39:3-60. Look it up. He said to me flashing high beams was a safety issue and illegal. I said little, but I did ask why the switch was there to flash high beams if it was illegal? I pointed out that he had done it too.
When I read the section, I realized it had nothing to do with flashing high beams. It did mention “prolongation”. I asked all my cop friends what they thought. None of them would have written that ticket. They think the officer looked at the title of the section and never read it, or never understood it. I found a case in the Court of Appeals that said the section had nothing to do with flashing high beams. I fought it. They dropped the case.
It was the one time my Stop Dance didn’t work. It should have but didn’t. I was pissed. But I did win. To all those who want to point out the reason I don’t get tickets is because I’m white, well, you’re full of crap. Respect matters in most cases. My friend in that department laughed and said he was a Rookie and really over-eager. He knew that the officer was read the riot act over that one.
(Written by Keith Stanton) As a former officer who has given as many warnings as I wrote tickets I have to say this gentlemen is spot on. You need to remember the two most dangerous calls for us are domestics and traffic stops, especially night time stops. You know who we are because of the car, overhead lights and uniform. We don't know you. You might be a grandma who just came back from Bible Study or Bonnie from Bonnie and Clyde. I would add a couple things. Even as a man with a badge, I always pay attention to officer safety. The speaker gave good advice. But I would roll down all my windows (if electric-don't bother if manual) , especially if you have tinted windows and most definitely if you have passengers in the back. That way they get to see everyone in the car. If you have children in the car and you cooperate it does two things. It lets your child know this shouldn't be a negative experience, and many times we will speak to your kids to make them feel at ease. I once got pulled over for a stop and turn on red violation with my son in the car. I admitted to the officer that I had screwed up and understood why he pulled me over. I never advised him I was an officer and wasn't carrying at the time. He then asked for my license, etc but when he returned he came to my son's side of the car and handed the documents to him. He then informed him that he wasn't giving me a ticket because I was an honest man. My son was 11 at the time. He is now 35 and still laughs at it. If you are carrying, make sure that is the first thing you tell him. I would say: Officer, just to let you know I have a CCW and I am carrying. Then follow their lead how to proceed. In fact many states require that be the first interchange you have with the officer. Another thing is never make the statements: I pay your salary, I know your Chief, Does this fill your quota, or other smarmy comments like that. We have heard them all. Because if you do get a ticket in lieu of warning often we reduce the charge. speed, etc on the ticket and you get less fines and/or points. And if you do choose to challenge it and the Judge asks if there should be special consideration, we can say yes, they were highly cooperative, or no sir they were less than. Guarantee that cooperation often gets officer consideration where the minute you get smarmy you usually just guaranteed yourself a ticket. And last but not least and this is a sensitive issue. 99.5% of the cops don't go race hunting. By that I mean looking for Blacks, Hispanics, Asians, etc to ticket. Many times its a function of demographics. If I work a city where let's say Blacks make up the majority of the population,it makes sense that they would be the majority of those who I pull over. If its Native Americans, the same and Caucasians the same. Doesn't mean it automatically gets you a ticket. But if you do get that cop you think is racist, or picking on you because of your demographic, stay cool, accept the ticket, say thank-you and and definitely go to court. Most judges or magistrates know who the good honest cops are and who aren't. And remember body and dash cam's work both ways. If they're an asshole, the camera tells no lies. Hope this helps as well and good luck out there, and safe driving
See you have that wrong, we dont know you either. We know your job, a job in which you are expected to make a certain number of tickets each month, not protect people btw. I dont trust any police. If someone broke into my house or something, Id rather handle it myself than trust any of you gun crazy killers. And if you determine whether to hand out tickets based on personal comments thatsa problem in itself. And arguing that if we didnt everyone would get tickets then down with the law as a whole.
@@YoTyr0ne So, if you believe that the cops are dangerous and unfair, (as some are)then you would still be wise to act friendly and respectful. No? A little salesmanship can put you in control and keep you out of trouble--even if you are guilty of a crime.
@@DT-ul6qy no, people earn friendship and respect,even cops, no cop has earned my respect. Its the duty of the person on the job, getting paid to do salesmanship.
Thank you I really appreciate that. I got a dwi in August and now have an interlock and restricted license. Btw I truly haven't had a drink since. I own my own business and I have a son who has Autism so he is in therapy m-f 9AM to 5PM. I created a drive log to and from, dates, times etc. I only drive for my business to look at jobs or actually do the job most importantly I drive my son to his medical therapy and to church which was all allowed by the courts. I absolutely respect police officers and am very respectful. Do you have any advice about my drive log and do you think it will show the officer where and when I was there and where I am going.
Respectively,
Chris
Just the statement that you made, that most magistrates know who the good and bad cops are I find extremely disturbing. Gosh it sure would have been great, and so I will fantasize about the idea of that a judge knowing of bad cops would have said bad cops removed from their positions especially of having a badge along with a gun, they should be given the chance just stay at the station and clean the toilets, or do other paperwork, but please keep them away from the general public especially with a gun in their possession, (protecting the public from who?)....
Yesterday I got pulled over for the first time and did most of the things described in the video. I was going 49 in a 35 and he gave me a warning thankfully because I hadn't had a ticket before.
Magnificent. Outstanding. Simple instructions that may not always discourage an officer from issuing a ticket, but it will likely defuse a potentially disastrous situation. And common courtesy is always good for all parties involved.
Absolutely 100% true. I was pulled a couple of years ago on my way out of town for a vacation. I did everything mentioned above. When he asked why I was speeding I truthfully told him I was going to load some items and head to the beach for a well earned vacation. Shortly he comes back and tells me to slow it down and have a great vacation. Done.
This video worked perfectly for me today and I did not get a ticket for 52 in a 40.
When I looked at him and told him I was going to reach back for my wallet he said thank you for telling me that.
I got pulled over with expired plates that were issued for a different vehicle and did not have insurance. Did everything mentioned in this video and I was allowed to drive home, and would not be issued a ticket if I took care of the issues within 72 hours. That was one REALLY decent officer.
24 years as a police officer. This is SOUND advice
Thank you for your service!
I am a police officer and I let go so many cooperative driver so many time because of this. make my job much easier.
Great video. I've been a road warrior for 30 years. And I can attest to your advice. I have always responded pretty much as you recommend. The only difference is when I've been really flying, the first thing out of my mouth was, "boy, you really got me". Only once it didn't result in a laugh from the officer (he threw the book at me but it was reduced when I went to court)... about half the time I was given a warning and the other half the ticket was written for only 5 over. Your strategy works
Something similar happened to me. Was on my motorcycle and was going an actual 100 mph to get away from a car that was driving erratically. It was night in the mountains and out of nowhere there was a car 6” off my ass. I backed off the throttle and his lights came on. I pulled over convinced I was going to jail. I was convinced I would lose my job. When he walked up I said “I sure the heck didn’t see you!” Long story short, I gave him my info and he said if I check out, I’d be on my way. 2 minutes later he got out, handed me my papers and said have a nice night. OMG, that is the ONLY time I was ever let go without a ticket. I am always respectful, hands on the wheel, I do everything mentioned in this video, but ALWAYS get a ticket. Normally it’s in a remote desert area where the cops job is revenue generation imo.
This stuff works!
When I was in my 20s I got pulled over for 98 in a 65. The cop said I can't write you a ticket I'd have to arrest you. SLOW DOWN.
My friend got out of a ticket for slowly running a stop sign.
The cop ask if he pulled out his billy stick and started beating him would you want me to stop or slow down?
My friend replied he would want him to stop, but if he did not stop he would want him to slow down.
The cop laughed then said have a nice day.
In Washington state you will get a ticket each time you are pulled over. My last ticket was for 3 miles per hour over. 38 in a 35. It is a police state in Washington. I had more tickets there than I can count but I haven't gotten a ticket in 12 years since I left the state.
I agree 100% with you!! I believe that there are more police in that state than anywhere in the US, LOL. Not kidding. Took me forever to get out of the court system in that state, but once I did, I moved! Since then, it's been like 12 years, and I've been pulled over a number times in that 12 years, but have received only ONE ticket since then, ONE. It was for an illegal lane change, which i was guilty of. Officer was polite, explained why, ticketed me and let me go on my way. Went to court, explained to the judge that I was in a hurry, I did make a mistake and apologized. The judge explained why it was illegal (which i already knew) and how it was dangerous. I listened quietly until he was finished. Stated that it wouldn't happen again. Judge thanked me for being polite and not interrupting, believed it was a mistake and dropped the ticket from 175, to 75 dollars,which i paid that day . Judge even asked if I needed more time to pay the fine.
I'm glad I have moved from Washington state, and that's the only ticket I've had in 12 years since leaving!!
I live in Seattle. No matter where you are in this state you will be ticketed. Unless you live in the San Juan or Vashon Islands and know the officer.
EVERYTHING YOU SAID is SPOT ON! When you make yourself less of a threat by doing the things you mentioned, we who wear uniforms (or used to in my case) will feel slightly more safe. We can NEVER feel completely safe, but it does change the dynamic somewhat. Hit "read more" to read my the rest for more critical information.
Yes, once the officer spins around on you and lights you up, immediately acknowledge with a right signal or hazard lights. This will tell the officer you see them. Also, if at night, immediately turn on the dome light so he/she can see inside the car for movement before you event stop. As said, pull over where the officer will have a "safety zone" and not straddle the line. Put your hands at 10 and 2 after opening the window all the way and WAIT for the officer. DO NOT start moving around/laying down in the car...there is plenty of time to get your documents after making contact with the officer. Agreed, always tell the officer where your stuff is BEFORE reaching for it. If you are going to keep driving a few feet to get to a side street is when the hazard lights are especially noteworthy. Hazard lights are subconsciously associated with safety (as in warning of a hazard and to stay clear but in this case, to advise the car is not going to be operated in a traditional way...i.e. broke down, etc.) As you continue to drive, you are telling them that you are going to stop...but at a "safer" place.
HERE IS WHERE IT IS IMPORTANT...IF YOU CARRY ON A CPL/CCW....NEVER MOVE TO REACH WITHOUT THE OFFICER KNOWING YOU ARE CARRYING AND WHERE IT IS. FOR EXAMPLE...this is me on the stop as the one pulled over. All the things Mr. Lehto said, but now we are at the point of ID/reg/insurance which is always in the fiest few seconds of the stop once the officer has accessed the scene on approach and initial contact. In my personal case, my wallet is in a cargo pocket on my right thigh (thanks back problems.) My documents are in a "car valet" in the drivers door pocket. My gun is on my left hip. So, now its my time to act/speak and I say to the officer "Just to let you know, I am a CPL holder and am carrying. My gun is on my left hip, my wallet is in my right thigh cargo pocket and my documents are in the door pocket of my door." THEN I STOP AND WAIT FOR THE RESPONSE and react accordingly.
Now, in most cases, the right hand will get the wallet with the left one still on the wheel and the left will then in a separate moment get the documents. However, it might be necessary to open the door slightly if the "car valet" slid to a point I cannot reach it without getting near the weapon with the "then unseen hand." In that case, I state this and ask to be allowed to open my door for their safety so that my hand will be in sight and away from my side when I get the documents. They will either say just grab it or yeah go ahead, or step back slightly to enable the door to open and tell you to open the door, depending on how safe they feel they are. BUT NEVER ASSUME IN EITHER CASE.
In 26 years in public safety, I've been on thousands of traffic stops and been the receiver of many, too. Honesty and courtesy are almost always going to get you much further with the officer's mercy than lying, playing games or being a jerk (or having anti-cop bumper stickers on your car.) BAD COP NO DONUT is never a good message to send to the officer before they make contact with you. No matter how funny that may be to people.
I'd advise viewers who use OC or have a CCW research Massad Ayoob. Ayoob, a sworn LE officer, court expert, tactics instructor, has a good video on traffic stops. His points are good. I would wait for the trooper or police to ask me about guns/weapons then answer yes with my valid CCW license 😉. If the cop or trooper has a DV or bodycam unit, you look much better than a screaming nutcase with a concealed gun who the cop pulls a sidearm on. Stay calm, do not jerk around, avoid any aggressive behaviors. I'd add that Handgunlaw.us is very helpful.
An officer came in & ordered a burger,& I made him a dble & paid for it myself(w fries!!)
a few months later in wisconsin,I got pulled over drunk as a skunk.Same cop.They let me sit in the lobby till I got a ride home,& charged me for no licence.Being polite is common sense ,rarely taught these days.Thanks Steve.The dome light is a great move.I will crawl before I ever drink & drive again!
I just found this video.
This stuff works more than it doesn't.
A couple years ago I was driving my Tahoe and got pulled over on a crappy, rainy day.
No traffic on a small, two lane road, so I put on my flashers to let him know that I knew he was there.
I drove another two miles to a large wide spot I knew about, which got both of us about ten feet away from the road.
When the cop came to the window, he found that I did something a little bit different, and really unexpected.
I'm driving a Tahoe, and I'm at eye level with him.....
When he comes to my window, I have my right hand on the wheel and my left hand is holding a very large golf cart umbrella for him to stand under.
He then asked for my papers and I said, "Sure.....Hold this." He held the umbrella while I got my license out, then I took it back and handed him my papers. He came back and held the umbrella again while I signed my warning ticket.
Fifteen over became a five over warning.....
He said that was the first time he had ever seen or heard of anyone helping to keep them dry in the rain.....
It is true that being nice usually is returned the same way.
I asked the friend of a friend who's a cop how to get a break. He said a lot of it depends on what kind of day they are having.
This is spot on! My uncle is a police officer and told me this 20 years ago when I got my license. To that note, I got pulled over last Friday night in Fort Worth, Texas and did all of this. I also have a CCW and was carrying a concealed firearm at the time. I handed the officer my CCW permit with my license and when he verbally confirmed I was carrying, I politely asked if he needed me to present and clear the pistol. He said no and asked the usual where from/where to details. I made a joke about some manual labor I had been doing earlier that day and he laughed. He took my info and I sat with my hands on the wheel while he ran my paperwork. He came back handed me my documents and said be careful and to have a good night. I told him the same and thanked him for his service. No ticket! Just be careful, deliberate and courteous, and let the officer know you want nothing more than the both of you to get home safely at the end of the night. Oh, and a thin blue line sticker in your back window doesn’t hurt either ;)
Great advice. I've contested my last two tickets in traffic court and had both dismissed because the officers never showed up. I requested courts dates that were further out and then got extensions on those. I requested court dates that were close to holidays. In the hopes, the officers might still be on vacation or holiday.
I was driving 107 mph on I-5 in California. During my slow down the very nice officer caught me on radar at 95 mph. I saw the offers lights come on turned on my turn signal pulled off the fwy onto an exit. Did everything this guy said to do. When the officer asked me if I knew why he stopped me I said : I think I have a good idea. He asked for my license and registration. I had my license out before he came to the car and my registration and proof of insurance clipped to the visor. He was very polite and was easy to talk to.
After he ran my info he came back to my car and said : Thank you for being HONEST with me, I've reduced the ticket from 95 to 85 in a 65 mph zone. He could have taken me to jail and impounded the car.
With the reduction the fine was only $295.00 and I can get it dismissed by on line traffic school so I won't get a point on my license or an increase in my amount for car insurance. I recommend follow this guy's advice and be honest. Worked for me. You may not be able to talk your way out of a ticket. But you sure can talk yourself into one. Especially if you're an ass.
Growing up in CA I have seen this often, I believe if you're close they'll get you within 15mph to stay within the lowest violation
Definitely can't take you to jail for just the speed, common misconception.
Hi Steve, I really enjoy your videos. This morning I was pulled over by a young county sheriffs officer after I failed to come to a complete stop turning onto a rural highway, I didn't realize it at the time. I learned a long time ago being polite and respectful when pulled over goes a long way in your favor. He looked like a baby to me, he was in his early to mid 20s, and I decided I was going to make his job very easy which I did. He relaxed after a few seconds, I gave him my information and he just told me to make sure for my safety to come to a complete stop. Attitude with the police is toxic, you can assert your rights in a calm manner.
Excellent advice ! I drove for a living for many years, and law enforcement will appreciate you looking out for their safety with 0% attitude. Even if they start out with att. themselves, the last guy they stopped may have been a real a**hole. That happens, too.
Thanks Steve. Info like this used to be common sense. So rare nowadays that it's considered a superpower.
Best advice ever. We as citizens need to do all we can to help officers feel safe as they do their job. Ty Steve for another fabulous video.
Good advice. Thanks. The lase ticket I got out of, I was armed. I had cash to buy a motorcycle a a dealership, and was not it in the best town. I got pulled over for expired registration. In PA, they transfer the plate when you buy a new truck, and may not renew the registration, although they are supposed to. I pulled over into a gas station, and kept my hands 10 and 2. The female officer asked if I knew why I was being pulled over, I said "No". She said my plat was expired, but I responded... "This truck is only a few months old... How?" Obviously at that point, we both knew. She asked for my registration, and license. I reached into my wallet, and gave her my license, and gun permit. She responded with... "Oh. Are we armed today?" I said, "yes, because I had cash for the Honda Dealer." She asked me where it was, and I told her it was on my right hip. Then she said to me... "How about this... you keep yours in your holster, and I'll keep mine in mine." I said... "I wouldn't have it any other way." When she came back, she said... "Make sure to update your registration, and have a nice day." (no ticket) Being polite, and honest really does work.
Steve in my 30 years of Law Enforcement you gave the best information I had ever heard. You would have to have been going 100 for me to write you a ticket. The tickets that are hard to write are the ones where people act just like I would if I were stopped....Thanks
My father was a police officer on the west side of Michigan in the early 80's and gave me this same advice when I first got my driver's license. I have been pulled over two or three times in my life and each time I followed these directions I did not get a ticket. The only time I have been ticketed was when I got in an accident that was my fault and I deserved the ticket but even then the officer was respectful and gave me what was required for the accident and nothing more.
I travel for work all the time and I had a 5 hour round trip ahead of me. I was going 80 in a 55, I told him I was sorry and thought I was going 65... I fully cooporated, he wrote me the ticket for 65 and told me to be safe. I was so relieved cause he could have taken me to jail and if I had gotten a ticket for even 1 more mile over the speed limit I would have lost my job.
I really enjoyed your video. I am a member of the Royal Canadian Mounted Police who did write my share of tickets and what you said is bang on!
72 years as an old guy. Courtesy & respect always gives situations the best odds of going well. Great vid.
🤯 Good grief! 72 years as an old guy?.... How long were you young? 😅😂
Thank you , Steve, for putting out a video with this approach. There are so many vids on YT that advocate being a jerk to a police officer, and I never agree with those. My position: A police officer's job is hard enough as it is. I don't want to add to their difficulty. I'd rather have them save their focus and irritation for other people - preferably those who commit offenses far more severe than breaking the speed limit.
To what you said above, I would add to consider your own "presentation." Are you well-groomed, well-spoken, and polite? Contrast how you would react to this if you were a cop, with how you would react to someone who is dirty, slovenly, tattooed and pierced, and rude. There is a good chance you are setting yourself up - either way. Of course, the biggest piece of good advice for anyone and everyone is that if you don't want to get stopped by the cops, then don't break any laws. Might not work all the time, but it will almost all the time.
As a Police Officer i've seen a ton of bad advise or things being said that just aren't true. Nice to finally see some real world good advise on the internet for once. This is not about worshiping a cop, its about doing common sense things that make an officers job easier, and in return you will have more chance of getting a warning
I worked for the Michigan Department of Corrections (MDOC) for over 10 years. Because of my technical duties at the MDOC I attended lectures intended for the Michigan State Police (MSP).
This is one of the very best informational videos on what to do when pulled over. If you want a guarantee when pulled over then consider buying a toaster. Otherwise, use Steve Lehto's advice.
A traffic cop's world is dynamic, at best. It is constantly changing. Put the cop at ease by following Steve Lehto's advice. At worst you will be ticketed for what the cop caught you doing. At best you will be allowed to be non-detained and simply go home.
I absolutely REFUSE to pull over along side the road especially in daylight (the red and blues aren't near as noticable to oncoming traffic) I'll pull in the driveway of some Random house before I pull off the side of the road. I've been doing it like this for years now and I've been thanked more than once for doing so. They take notice and appreciate it. And I appreciate not getting a ticket lol. And I always tell the truth the first time I'm asked. If they ask if I'm aware of how fast I was going, which I usually do, I'll own up to it. A few years ago I very stupidly put myself in a situation where I should have gone to jail but because I was honest with the officer the FIRST time he asked me, I went home that night. He even told me, no one has ever admitted to what I did on the first shot in his career. Honesty in and of itself shows a certain level of respect and I've yet to find an officer where that is lost on them.
You must have some kind of luck, admitting your guilt is exactly what they want so it's that much easier to give you that ticket and let it stick. You don't have to be self incriminating to be honest, And not self incriminating, is not dishonesty.
I got pulled over for expired tabs, just an oversight on my part, and turned into a parking lot. The office thanked me for pulling over off the road and told me to go get the registration renewed. Being helpful can work.
I just got pulled over 2 weeks ago. No valid license and no insurance. I admitted as much imediatly when he walked up. This is the 3rd time in as many months. I've gotten all charges dismissed and the third one he didn't even ticket me. He said I'm leaving. Do what you want. I was a few miles from home, had just picked up dinner for the family, and was just driving home after work. I drove home and have since gotten license renewed and car insured. Awesome stater!
I agree! I don't get pulled over often, yet when i do, i always leave with no ticket. Once got stopped in VA, on my way back to NC from Illinois. I got stopped because of my tinted windows. Hazard lights came on instantly, pulled all the way over, keys out, handbrake up, windows down, hands on wheel. Of course they searched the car; even had a half of a joint in cigarette box, and more in the armrest. I gave all my papers and remain calm. Even told them where the bud was at. after about 20 minutes, i was back on the highway, no ticket and still had all my bud. Its all about how you conduct yourself during the stop!!!
Got pulled over in a company van once on the freeway. Next exit was a whole mile down the road. Blinker on, take the exit, pull into the first parking lot available. Cop flips his lights off and drives off. I don't know what he was even going to say, maybe he got a more important call or something.
Steve! I used these just today and they worked 100%!
Hard to believe but I had the same interaction...night...rain storm..1 mi. from home (different state) and stopped for going over line marker by 3' at a red light. I did EXACTLY what you described and for those reasons ...had not been stopped in 20 yrs. but it's just common sense. Everything went well and no ticket.
30 yrs. before was stopped for speeding in NY. There was very little space to pull over and no change in that for many miles. So I did the best I could and cop was at my window looking at my license, etc. when I saw an 18 wheeler in my mirror coming at a very high rate of speed and close to the shoulder where the cop was standing. I yelled, "Watch out!!!" He pressed up against my car and the truck just missed him. He handed me my license, etc., said "Go", jumped into his car and took off after the truck with siren screaming.
I have a radical theory about how to avoid tickets and potential accidents. Obey traffic laws. Be cautious and courteous. So far it's worked for me for 40 years.
I have to agree, that is way too radical an idea. 👍😂😂
Excellent Advice, Steve!
When I was a young man I talked my way out of my first 22 traffic stops in a row. I had a wining technique (plus much luck). I was always polite, never denied my violation, and never made up excuses. On one stop, the Officer started the conversation by screaming, and threw his clipboard on the ground in a rage! I got out of it!
My best (and last successful escape from a ticket) was when I drove through a speed trap on HWY 460 (classic - cop car hidden behind a billboard) at the speed-drop entrance to a one cop, no stop-light dinky town (Pembroke VA); while kissing my girlfriend with one eye on the road (the VW Beetle passenger seat was turned backwards, making this easy). Just before his car pulled out, she sat up and said: "slow down, this town is a speed trap"! As his read light came on, she said: "Speeding tickets pay their one cop's salary; you will NEVER talk your way out of this one!" (I had been bragging). I did!
My first ticket was during the "double nickels" Arab oil crisis period on Interstate 81 ("Go to double nickels at the top of the ridge, 'cause there's a Smoky Picture Taker sitt'n under the bridge"). My speedometer was broken on my 55 Chevy, and the State Trouper picked me out of a group of about 5 cars all going the same speed near Abington, VA. When he asked why I was doing 61 in a 55 zone, I replied politely: "Officer, my speedometer is broken, I was just driving with the traffic". He replied: "Son (that's Southern Officer talk), the law does not require that you have a working speedometer, but it does require that you obey the speed limit". Ironically, I drove his mother into town from that same location a year later when her car was broken down on the side of Interstate 81 (no cell phones why back then)! For the short drive into Abington she told me all about her State Trouper son that she was so proud of.
Times have changed! Recently I have had officers apologize for writing the ticket, but I still got them. Probably the most significant change is that when I was young, all the police were men. I've never experienced or known anyone who talked a female officer out of a ticket. They mean business! No mercy!
Traffic tickets are money makers for many departments. This income is often budgeted in to their operating expenses. They have to write tickets. Judges and prosecutors are in on it.
Never underestimate the power of cooperation with the police officer... My last ticket was almost 30 years ago, and it was well-deserved, but it could have been much worse if I didn't cooperate. The officer clocked me at close to 30 over and for a brief moment I contemplated trying to run, but decided that could end very badly, so I just pulled over before he even had a chance to turn around and try and catch up. He thanked me for just pulling over. He decided he couldn't quite let me off completely, but he did only write me up for 10 over. I have been pulled over a few times since then, mostly for lesser infractions and was let go each time. I have no doubt that being polite and co operational played a part in not being written up.
I concur whole heartedly. As with any everyday, normal interaction (and even more so when that interaction involes a police officer) being polite, repectful, and courteous will go a long way in helping you achieve your desired outcome.
Yep. I got stopped earlier this year while driving on a suspended license at 3am. I handed him my license and it was expired by a year. He asked me about it and I started to act like I didn't know. Mid sentence, I stopped and said no...thats not right. I knew. I was worried about going to jail because I have a suspended license. The state trooper says... Well that's not so bad. You might not even have to go to jail. As long as it's wasn't for DUI, you'll get to go home tonight. He then informs me that only State Troopers are allowed that option in my state.
I was FLOORED.
Luckily I was almost at the place I was going when he hit the lights so I didn't have to drive anywhere else for another 5 hours.
I know for a fact that had I continued with the lying about my license, etc...he would've taken me to jail.
I got pulled over going through Knoxville a few years ago. I was in a rental and although I didn't know how fast I was going (I was busy paying attention to traffic, no excuse but still), he told me I was doing 70 in a 55. Looks at my license and legit says "I know you're from Texas and our speeds are alien to you but slow it down". Wrote me a warning. Score. Nice guy! I appreciated that because even though he didn't know it was unintentional that particular time, it totally was.
Great info counselor. I too have my interior light on window down and hands on the wheel at 10 an 2 the I start the conversation by saying, "Officer, for your safety I am by law required to inform you that I have a CWP and my weapon is here in the drivers side door." They always respond with a , thanks for that... I appreciate that...
I typically hand then my carry permit, license and VA disability card. I do it in hopes they understand I am not a threat. I've been pulled over with over 10 firearms in my car. Coming back from the range.
You've described most of my car stop experiences. For the most part if you can get the officer to metaphorically take off the uniform and deal with you as a human being, most of them are pretty decent people.
Even had one incident that could have been a real pain in the rear. My inspection sticker was about 2 months expired and I rarely ever put the registration stickers on my plate. In my defense this was because living in a big city at the time, stickers were often stolen off plates or the corner of the plate itself would be snipped off for the sticker. Anyway, had pulled up at the airport to offload luggage on the way to a flight for New Orleans for Mardi Gras with my dad. Was aggressively unloading baggage (beads, suitcases, costumes, a lot of stuff) when a cop on foot came out of nowhere. The conversation that ensued took only about 20 seconds and went without skipping a beat. I never even stopped unloading.
Officer: Do you know your inspection sticker is expired?
Me: (enthusiastically) Yes sir.
Officer: (looks at plate): And your registration sticker too?
Me: (still enthusiastically): Yes sir.
Oficer: From 1994? (It was 1998)
Me: Yes sir.
Oficer: Why is that?
Me: (with a shrug of the shoulders) I've been busy!
Officer: (Just laughs and walks away)
Humanity and humor go a LONG way!
Been pulled over 100 times. My Dad taught me most of this when i was young. I've had only handful of tickets. Nice to know what I've been practiced has actually been helping me out during stops.
As a retired LEO, I can tell you that MOST of the time his method will work. BUT when I was a state trooper, we were taught to make our decision to write a ticket, a warning, or an oral warning BEFORE we approached the vehicle. The point was to eliminate 'attitude' tickets. That is to make sure their attitude was not the reason for the ticket but actions prior to the stop. That being said, as I got more experience, I didn't always do as I was taught. And now that I'm retired, I seem to get stopped for speeding from time to time, usually on my motorcycle. The issue now is that I carry a CDL license and there can be no plea bargaining if a ticket is written. So I'm not above pleading for a warning and even using the fact that I'm a retired LEO! So three years ago I received a ticket for 81 in a 70. Young trooper (later told me he had been on the job three weeks!) and was with his training officer. Very difficult situation for both of us. Long story short, I appealed a municipal court conviction to county court and requested a jury trial. I then sat down with the prosecutor and told her that I was sure I could beat the ticket but it would save everyone a lot of time and aggravation if she would just dismiss it. There were a couple hoops but she eventually did just that. Oh, how was I going to beat it? Texas is a Prima Facia speed limit state. Nuf said.
Sorry, not enough said. What does prima facia speed limit mean?
Pulled over in OK for speeding. Doing 85 in a 70. I’m a CCW carrier and I put my hands at 10-2 then announced that I’m carrying. I do this Irrespective if required or not. After I made my announcement i asked him what HE wanted to do. He asked where I had it. I said it was under my right elbow in a holster on my belt. He said “Well ok, I’ll tell you what, if you don’t show me yours, I won’t show you mine”. I cracked up. We proceeded to the license, registration and insurance phase. I did not get a ticket and when it was all over he thanked me for handling the gun situation so professionally. Learned a long time ago, being macho during a traffic stop costs you money, no way around it.
Are you from TX? lol
I'd read one of your articles about this years ago and took the advice to heart. Although I don't get pulled over often, I have never been ticketed since implementing this advice. Thanks!
I stopped a Honda driven by a Honda mechanic who was road testing a car he had just worked on. He was doing 55 in a 40. I asked him if he knew why I stopped him? He said, "Speeding". I asked him how fast he was going? He said, "55". I told him to slow down and have a good day. He asked, "Aren't you going to give me a ticket?". I said, "No. Most people lie to me. I can afford to let the honest ones go".
You were the 1 out of 100. The other 99 times an admission like that will get you the ticket no matter how nice you are resulting in gravy for the cop.
Nice job Officer Uyeda! See people...there *ARE GOOD POLICE OFFICERS* on the roads. Just *DON'T* treat them like they are the enemy. This officer wants to keep the roads safe for all, doesn't like being lied to, and expects the same respect he will give you!
1 in 100...maybe, I don't think it's that bad...but of all the times I was stopped at a younger age...HAHAHA...I SHOULD HAVE HAD A LOT MORE TICKETS!!!
I got pulled over in Harlem, NY once in my 4Runner. As soon as the lights went on, I immediately lowered every window in the car, pulled over, shut the car off, and put my hands at 10 and 2. The cop walks up to the car and goes “I like the way you did that”. Needless to say everything went uphill after that and I drove away unscathed! #goodtimes
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I conceal carry or at least have one in my truck. I have followed this procedure for 25yrs. Now when I have a gun I say to the officer as soon as he gets to the window "sir for your information and safety I have a firearm in the vehicle" then I follow instructions from there. I believe this has gotten me out of a few tickets.
LOL, I think I've used all of these at some point in my life. They work. Only one I disagree with is the "don't admit you were speeding." If I know I was speeding (all but 1 of my stops were on a highway/interstate for speeding) I'll usually say something like, "probably a little over the limit" unless I really don't know. I figure my best chance to get out of the ticket is right there at roadside. Only ever got 2 tickets. One was a trooper having a bad day and I beat that one in court because he had a reputation so when I explained to the judge that I was guilty of 63 in a 55 zone on a highway, not 65 in a 45 as the officer had written the judge threw it out completely. The other one was reduced at roadside to 4 miles over limit by the officer himself and he even apologized for giving me the ticket. In a city, your odds of success are even higher unless you are being a jerk. During a ride-along with an officer he told me, "I don't work traffic detail so I'm not out to write a lot of tickets. If I pull someone over on a traffic offense I'm looking to make sure they are not driving drunk and don't have warrants. We'll probably let 90% of our stops tonight go with a verbal warning." 11 stops that night and 0 tickets written. Obviously if you are doing 55 in a school zone, or driving insanely in traffic your odds of success go way down, but most of the time if you are within shouting distance of the traffic laws and act like a civilized human they'll give you a break.
Since you're pulled over to the side of the road I would recommend turning on the 4-way flashers also to add another element of safety for the officer, from his viewpoint.
Steve, thank you from a police officer in the state of Michigan! I have been pulled over before, also, and I do all the things you talked about. because I carry a gun off duty (per my police department's policy) I always let the officer know that I am armed (just like for a cpl holder) first thing. Steve, I appreciate people like you. working as a police officer, it doesn't take long to figure out who is sincere, and who is "shady!" I see my job as educating the public on the rules of the road. If I feel that you will learn from an explanation, then that is good enough for me. Some people just want to learn the hard way. for them I reluctantly oblige. I have had people talk their way into a ticket. I once told my partner, "This stop is going to be a verbal warning." before I even got out of my patrol car. The driver talked his way into a ticket. It was not my preference! Steve, thank you!
I got pulled over recently and the cop asked me why I was going so fast. I began to tell him that my daughter had to be at an event, but in my head I heard myself sounding like some loser giving an excuse for (i.e. trying to justify) doing wrong. My dad taught me, and I've taught my children, don't give excuses for bad behavior. I cut myself off in mid sentence and said "No officer, there's no excuse for speeding". No ticket.
Excellent! Someone actually taking ownership of their responsibility, and being honest. Took me many years to figure out sometimes lying is better about some things. But I have to agree excuses excuses I'm sure you realize as well as the cop that he's heard it all before, but when you were truthful, that's what made the difference. None of us are beyond making mistakes, it would seem only few of us are honest, and honorable enough to admit it. 👍🙏
Here in Canada (Quebec), they no longer ask if we know why were being pulled over. They automatically goes the route of (you were speeding) or (you didnt stop completely) etc. Ask for registration. And return with the ticket. Quotas need to be met at any cost. We are not humans for these police officers. We are just a source of cash.
Great advice, I worked for law enforcement in a small town starting in 1975 to 1978. I am 65 years old now and have been licenced to carry a concealed handgun for 44 years. You would be amazed by how many times I have been stopped for minor traffic violations. Then let off with a warning ticket or just a verbal warning. Just from being respectful. Once I was stopped by police for suddenly changing my direction at a stop sign. My lady passenger had been arrested a month previous for possession of 1 joint of which I had no idea. I was just returning her laptop, that I had repaired. When the officer started asking her question's, I ask him why are talking to my passenger? That's when she let me know about her prior shituation. He asked if she had any pot on her 'yep' she had one joint. The officer then asked if he could bring in the k-9 unit and search my car. I said; no problem. But; you need to know I have a loaded handgun in the door. And my licence to carry is in my wallet. They completely went threw my car by hand and with the K-9 nothing was there. They released me with a warning for expired licence plates $165.00 fine. Then took her to jail $500.00 cash bond to cover her fine if she did not want to appear in court. I find if you are operating with in the laws and treat officers with respect do your best to co-operate you can still be put through the ringer abit. He could have taken my hand gun because; of her 1 joint. Thankfully that officer had abit of common sense he could have really caused me some grief, possibly to be pretty hateful for the duration of my life.
A lot of really good advice. But When the officer asks "Do you know how fast you were going?" I always laugh and say, "I did after I saw you!." This has never failed to get me off. I ALWAYS hit the brakes, I like to make sure he sees me REACTING to him. Then I tell the officer that I didn't realize I was speeding until AFTER I saw him, I usually laugh as I tell him , "I saw you, so I checked my speed and saw I was speeding so I hit the brakes." I usually add how I was thinking about something with my kids, or I'll say how I was just enjoying the day and just watching the road. Normal stuff. I think they like the idea that seeing them makes me check my speed and hit the brakes. It says "Respectful Law abiding." Not hitting the brakes requires me to act cool like I didn't know I was speeding, but after you see the cop, even if you were not watching your speed before., he knows you checked it after you saw him because he also know you slowed down, not hitting the brakes is a kind of concealment. All the other advice here is really good, but the part about the brakes and admitting you were speeding is too lawyer-ish. Admitting you were speeding but giving a plausible reason you did not intend to speed along with a decent show of respect for his authority works very well,
an add ~ The last time I was stopped, (daytime) I put it in park, and then I pulled the wallet, put it on the dash along with my phone (insurance proof) then proceeded to do what you said (I got a written warning) The time before that many years ago I had both hands on the door where the window comes up with the 3 pieces of information stuck in between the fingers. I knew I was going to get a ticket (86 in a 50) which in Maryland is an offense he could have arrested me and called a tow truck. He didn't, Only 2 words were exchanged "sign here" It was a fat ticket but I was glad I got to go home! btw I was glad he didn't show 2 minutes earlier 120 is even harder to explain (New car turbo, NOONE on the road wanted to wring it out)
Your advice will be very useful the next time I visit the US. As in Ireland no one has hand guns and most police are unarmed as well. However showing respect and making the police job easier is universal advice.