You can’t play confidence. You simply have to learn to love yourself and accept that how you are is how you are. Then defend that, and stand up for what you want and trust that it’s right. When it’s wrong, face the consequences of your actions with humility. Stop looking at tv and movie characters as templates for how you should be. That is the very opposite of confidence.
honestly its best to just be yourself i find these vids soo goofy because why would u take advise to be someone your not at the end of the day your true self will still show so its like just be you.
yeah this only works if what you stand up for is actually right. Otherwise you're one of a million people standing up for immoral cowardly behavior because you "trust that it's right"
Keep it simple . Stay fit. Have healthy habits. Work on your posture. Spend more time offline or with people instead of social media . Listen more talk less. Dress simple , but presentable and according to the occasion. Take care of general hygiene and cleanliness.
I hear you. Eventually, you no longer have game, you just BECOME game. Its never off. If you just keep practicing it, it kind of just comes. Think about when we sleep. We basically put our head on the pillow and pretend to be asleep until finally.... we're sleeping lol.
just work on yourself be your personality bro like if ur nature is talkative then learn how to talk interestingly don't try to "listen more, speak less" omg confidence can't be faked
My nature isn't talkative and I have social anxiety but I fought it and joined the gym where I get more social anxiety, also I'm the thinnest guy ....but I fight it.
@@officialonifans ofc but you have to develop around your personality, there's different kind of confident, talk less and be colder is not the only way
Facts bro... there are those guys who talk a lot but they know how to move their audience with their words most of the time... really extroverted individuals. They're able to talk to a multitude of people
Confidence has nothin to do with looks or how u feel The more u know about the universe the less u start to care about life People who lack confidence just don’t know much
Honestly, try doing a 75 day challenege of avoiding things other than water. Make sure your friends know youre doing it. That way, when theres temptation, they already know youve preset that you're not touching it. Then either take a couple days to chill, or go back on another challenge. Soon enough people will just know you as the guy who doesnt drink that shit.
Water drinking is like a form of fitness the more you become able to drink in a day the more effortless it becomes. We were forced to drink 4 litres every day for years when I was young because of high level training. I didn't know at the time but it was a blessing because to this day I drink 2 litres a day as a preference, WHY? Because my "water drinking fitness" that benchmark was set at 4 Litres. The body will adjust and then expect it. You will look 30 when you are in your 40s
I actually don't have problem with listening, but girls are nervous around me (they go silent), and I should talk more in that situations. By the way, for me, as a men, if she is too nervous, it is a turn off, but not too big turn off.
Agreed. How I got around that was by doing something when you’re exercising silence. Examples: walking together at night, working out, watching a movie at a theatre, or group activities with friends. Or simply pet them. I choose to be charmingly silent when in groups, though. Don’t wanna throw off the vibe When the girls go silent, I will wait 30-60 seconds if they’re uncomfortable, then I will ask a thought provoking question (if she’s dumb I’ll push a hot button and let them rant) and let the ominous look do it work. For example, I asked my girl the other night after some silence “what do you see when you look at me” and it hit hard for the mood. Last night I asked “what would it realistically take take for this summer to be everything you wanted it to be?” Begin questions with the 3 W’s 1.)will you 2.) what has 3.) why do you think I hope you try this out and get back to me with what you think.
Confidence come from doing something and getting the desired results ..but you have to keep trying when you fail ..if you believe that you will find success through trading don't stop when you blow your acc but go back to the drawing board and learn then comeback for more ..keep getting up when you fvck it up ..eventually you'll get it and that's were the confidence will come from ..first you start and then you never stop
@@felixlehmann6369and he even has so mnay mental issues. PTSD, depression, etc. He isn't seductive, isn't likeable... Just has status and wannabe-effortless attitude. Life's off with him.
Im going monkmode starting today for the next 3 months. My goal is to get in better shape physically, workout every day and grow my business to 5-10 k a month and 5 people who i manage, coach and lead. Lets do this!
YES. 90 days is amazing to do something like this. I talk about this all the time. And eventually you'll just prefer yourself as monkmode and that will just become you because the results are so addictive. No other way to live. Keep us updated on the progress!
Yall always be talking about doing sum shit, not keeping in mind that you need to provide real value.. If you aint got no skills that you can cash out on, you wont learn any good enough to do so in 2-3 months. Look for something you like doing and then work on your craft instead of talking bout sum useless shit
No one has 100 % complete confidence. I'm an old guy now. I lacked self confidence at times in my life, but so does everyone. Anyone who's says they are confident all the time are lying.
Bro just grow that shit out or just get well braided braids or a drop fade there’s so much we can do bro if it’s grown out like our out curl it water conditioner shake boom we don’t have to a lot of shit fr fr 😂
If you were truly listening just maintain the eye contact with the person who's talking and then you'll not be interpreted as shy person and if still that person or any other person tries to tell u that you're shy give them straight answer ' I'm all ears to '. ' the person who's talking this helps...
The videos you've been making really resonate with me. Would you be willing to let me edit for you for free until the channel is at the point where you are making good money?
To speak less when you have nothing important or effective to say. As long as speaking provokes you then that's the target dude. To make you un comfortable. That's what we are all working on.
In terms of skin care products don't listen to him. Get (morning) Cleanser/ face wash (gentle soothing) Niacinamide & hyaloronic acid serum Moisturiser & spf (Night) Salicylic acid Exfoliant Vitamin c serum Retinol Every 2 weeks use a derma stamp 0.75mm to help your skin produce more cologen :) That's the secret to perfect skin
I already had their confidence before there was even a name for it but it doesn't seem to work in this part of town because a lot of idiot girls and foolish followers kiss the butt or lick the boots of whoever they're afraid of instead of who they truly respect Instead, they're jealous envious haters while being impressed by the While I don't have to prove anything which is misinterpreted as I am nothing The truth is I'm past that something with the big mouth showing off I don't have to show I'm already private and I know I'm good until you find out😶 My comfort zone does not require other people's approval especially if they're jealous haters which means a secretly admire you but wish to mislead or lie to you to sabotage you Never believe the hype folks don't believe the hype🤪🙃
So basically tips for 16 year olds and shit.... ok cool. Glad I stopped halfway. But I respect your work and hustle. Wish you the best in the RUclips game.
You can’t play confidence. You simply have to learn to love yourself and accept that how you are is how you are. Then defend that, and stand up for what you want and trust that it’s right. When it’s wrong, face the consequences of your actions with humility. Stop looking at tv and movie characters as templates for how you should be. That is the very opposite of confidence.
you should make a video
real
facts. this is all so 🌽y
honestly its best to just be yourself i find these vids soo goofy because why would u take advise to be someone your not at the end of the day your true self will still show so its like just be you.
yeah this only works if what you stand up for is actually right. Otherwise you're one of a million people standing up for immoral cowardly behavior because you "trust that it's right"
Keep it simple .
Stay fit.
Have healthy habits.
Work on your posture.
Spend more time offline or with people instead of social media .
Listen more talk less.
Dress simple , but presentable and according to the occasion.
Take care of general hygiene and cleanliness.
I really love the" fake it till you make it " confidence
I hear you.
Eventually, you no longer have game, you just BECOME game. Its never off. If you just keep practicing it, it kind of just comes.
Think about when we sleep. We basically put our head on the pillow and pretend to be asleep until finally.... we're sleeping lol.
Holy shit I never thought of the sleep thing lol
just work on yourself be your personality bro like if ur nature is talkative then learn how to talk interestingly don't try to "listen more, speak less" omg confidence can't be faked
confidence comes from character development. not the personality you're born with.
My nature isn't talkative and I have social anxiety but I fought it and joined the gym where I get more social anxiety, also I'm the thinnest guy ....but I fight it.
@@officialonifans ofc but you have to develop around your personality, there's different kind of confident, talk less and be colder is not the only way
Facts bro... there are those guys who talk a lot but they know how to move their audience with their words most of the time... really extroverted individuals. They're able to talk to a multitude of people
This comment made my day, so true!!!
Broooo, straight up quality content and facts. Keep them coming.
Confidence has nothin to do with looks or how u feel
The more u know about the universe the less u start to care about life
People who lack confidence just don’t know much
I'm not confident...please teach me.
"confidence has nothin to do with looks or how you feel" what's with that exaggeration.. rather misleading
Your best video! Water in my opinion is the real challenge, always being surrounded by soft drinks or alcohol
Honestly, try doing a 75 day challenege of avoiding things other than water. Make sure your friends know youre doing it. That way, when theres temptation, they already know youve preset that you're not touching it. Then either take a couple days to chill, or go back on another challenge. Soon enough people will just know you as the guy who doesnt drink that shit.
Water drinking is like a form of fitness the more you become able to drink in a day the more effortless it becomes.
We were forced to drink 4 litres every day for years when I was young because of high level training.
I didn't know at the time but it was a blessing because to this day I drink 2 litres a day as a preference, WHY?
Because my "water drinking fitness" that benchmark was set at 4 Litres.
The body will adjust and then expect it.
You will look 30 when you are in your 40s
“if u wanna have dark confidence you need clear skin “😭 stop ittt
😅😅😅
I actually don't have problem with listening, but girls are nervous around me (they go silent), and I should talk more in that situations. By the way, for me, as a men, if she is too nervous, it is a turn off, but not too big turn off.
Agreed. How I got around that was by doing something when you’re exercising silence.
Examples: walking together at night, working out, watching a movie at a theatre, or group activities with friends. Or simply pet them. I choose to be charmingly silent when in groups, though. Don’t wanna throw off the vibe
When the girls go silent, I will wait 30-60 seconds if they’re uncomfortable, then I will ask a thought provoking question (if she’s dumb I’ll push a hot button and let them rant) and let the ominous look do it work.
For example, I asked my girl the other night after some silence “what do you see when you look at me” and it hit hard for the mood. Last night I asked “what would it realistically take take for this summer to be everything you wanted it to be?”
Begin questions with the 3 W’s
1.)will you
2.) what has
3.) why do you think
I hope you try this out and get back to me with what you think.
Brooo use humor and talk about things she like and do
Confidence come from doing something and getting the desired results ..but you have to keep trying when you fail ..if you believe that you will find success through trading don't stop when you blow your acc but go back to the drawing board and learn then comeback for more ..keep getting up when you fvck it up ..eventually you'll get it and that's were the confidence will come from ..first you start and then you never stop
You just gotta feel good inside
it´s so funny how patrick bateman, literally a psychopath that brutally murders people, has become some type of role model to all you alpha bros.
lmmfaooooo for real
And thomas shelby, gangster boss and drug addict with failed relationships to his children, his wife and his brother. 😂
@@felixlehmann6369and he even has so mnay mental issues. PTSD, depression, etc. He isn't seductive, isn't likeable... Just has status and wannabe-effortless attitude. Life's off with him.
Im going monkmode starting today for the next 3 months. My goal is to get in better shape physically, workout every day and grow my business to 5-10 k a month and 5 people who i manage, coach and lead.
Lets do this!
Me too bro I'm on the same mission. Let's fuckin go
YES. 90 days is amazing to do something like this. I talk about this all the time. And eventually you'll just prefer yourself as monkmode and that will just become you because the results are so addictive. No other way to live.
Keep us updated on the progress!
Yall always be talking about doing sum shit, not keeping in mind that you need to provide real value..
If you aint got no skills that you can cash out on, you wont learn any good enough to do so in 2-3 months. Look for something you like doing and then work on your craft instead of talking bout sum useless shit
What type of buisness you into ?
@@LunchWitLouPyramid scheme
i want to stop using social medias but also want to keep self improving
@@duncanpincushion9980 good advice.
Dark confidence ? Bruh wtf y’all coming up with new shit everyday 😂😂😂
Real bro, wtf is an asthetic man 💀
I think it is just similar to introverted confidence
fr bro , if he renamed it to just confidence it actually makes sense but tf is dark confidence
Corrupt Rizz 🤣
Your best video yet 👊🏻
I guess accepting ur self the way u r , stop hoping for people,n working on urself will give u the confidence everyone dreams of
No one has 100 % complete confidence. I'm an old guy now. I lacked self confidence at times in my life, but so does everyone. Anyone who's says they are confident all the time are lying.
great vid!! thanks 🙏🏿
I thing that this dark confidence exist only in Films. And TV shows
Hey can you make a video for hair routine of black men ,our hair are totally different
Finally someone said it💯
How are you going to ask a non black guy for black advice
@@j36793💀
@@j36793 😂nigga
Bro just grow that shit out or just get well braided braids or a drop fade there’s so much we can do bro if it’s grown out like our out curl it water conditioner shake boom we don’t have to a lot of shit fr fr 😂
After watching this video, I've realized this was me all along.
Love it love it broo new fan 🔥
talk less and listen more - well, this can be interpreted as shyness tbh
If you were truly listening just maintain the eye contact with the person who's talking and then you'll not be interpreted as shy person and if still that person or any other person tries to tell u that you're shy give them straight answer ' I'm all ears to '. ' the person who's talking this helps...
I swear, people keep making up new terms and create youtube guide of them for profits.
Humanity is so confused
Being blunt
The videos you've been making really resonate with me. Would you be willing to let me edit for you for free until the channel is at the point where you are making good money?
thank you sm bro
To speak less when you have nothing important or effective to say.
As long as speaking provokes you then that's the target dude.
To make you un comfortable.
That's what we are all working on.
You're rare
😭😭im quiet,but still I don't think pepple listen to me, I'm too socially anxious
Can you make one video about money management, job things for girls and yourself?
The song aight ngl…good marketing
I wish I could give this four thumbs up!!!! Oh wait….👍👍👍👍
this was good
thank you
Ya no, I’m getting jacked don’t give a shit wat anybody says.
Lucrative.
working on ur physique ain’t looksmaxxing that’s gymmaxxing and looksmaxxers usually make fun of those hyper masculine guys
How do I get light confidence? 🧐🧐
Is this supposed to be a joke... If it is, it's probably a good one😂😂💯 premium bro
just play with white mage bro
Real confident people don’t have to fake…
Ultra gigachad pro max😂😂💔
Can you have a dark confidence while also being poor? Or being rich is also a must?
Second its sad
After you come out as an ai voice channel or famous RUclipsr can I have the channel? Lol 👀
Yes
can i have normal confidence ?
the thing is.. i am a narcissist bro 😩
Who died and made you the authority on dark confidence
We need old money aesthetic confidence
Dude, get off Tik Tok…
@@eyespy3001 we need tik tok quiet luxury aesthic. please
@@eyespy3001hahaha fr man hate this generation
I have a little Rock under my Bedsheets
Why is it label dark?
It's been 5 day, i can now finally finish the video😂
Vro are u from India?
Cool vid..
Cringe on god
But i'm black😭😭
You mean ebony.
wtf is dark confidence bro
Third !!
In terms of skin care products don't listen to him. Get
(morning)
Cleanser/ face wash (gentle soothing)
Niacinamide & hyaloronic acid serum
Moisturiser & spf
(Night)
Salicylic acid Exfoliant
Vitamin c serum
Retinol
Every 2 weeks use a derma stamp 0.75mm to help your skin produce more cologen :)
That's the secret to perfect skin
first
just be yourself bro
W vid
As a gay guy I see a quiet confident man and the question is "do I wanna be him or do I want him"
Ew
Pls stop the keyboard sounds
I already had their confidence before there was even a name for it but it doesn't seem to work in this part of town because a lot of idiot girls and foolish followers kiss the butt or lick the boots of whoever they're afraid of instead of who they truly respect
Instead, they're jealous envious haters while being impressed by the
While I don't have to prove anything which is misinterpreted as I am nothing
The truth is I'm past that something with the big mouth showing off
I don't have to show I'm already private and I know I'm good until you find out😶
My comfort zone does not require other people's approval especially if they're jealous haters which means a secretly admire you but wish to mislead or lie to you to sabotage you
Never believe the hype folks don't believe the hype🤪🙃
So basically tips for 16 year olds and shit.... ok cool. Glad I stopped halfway. But I respect your work and hustle. Wish you the best in the RUclips game.
HAHHA cope harder
Oh my god😂dark confidence is the gayest shitt ive ever heard it’s just confidence people are trying to hard to be profound nowadays
The first tips is pure BS, talk as much as you need. Hone your speaking skill.
Weird video this la