I used to be pretty insecure about myself back in my young teen days, now as a young adult I have come to a point where I fully trust my own mind, personality and abilities to overcome any obstacles and embrace the most of the challenges I am facing, and if there are a few ones I am not able to comfortably face here and there, I‘m telling my self that this is what life is partly about, facing challenges embracing them, learning and appreciating the L to learn from it and grow more mature from it, that I can pass this challenge, becoming better than my past-self. I went from completely hiding myself, to approaching strangers less awkward to comfortably shooting my shot at my crush, to overcoming the L she gave me (yikes 😂), taking my lessons from it, appreciating the experience and the future life it’s gonna bring me. But I have jet come to the point where I can slide them stairs down completely in my own vibe like Jake Gyllenhaal just did. Another thing I can learn or face just to grow a bit more mature and get behind the beauty of becoming myself and behind the beauty of life itself
Actually getting practise is the best solution over here. This goes for social situations as well, the more you go out there, the more you'll get into situations youve never experienced before and you might fail, or embarass yourselves. But over time you'll learn from such failures and improve yourselves overall.
Amazing video! Here is my summary: 0:25 What is confidence? 1:25 Act first to get confidence 1:53 Confidence Spillover rule 2:24 Learn from negative experiences
It’s true nothing substitutes life experiences. I forced myself to engage in conversations and asking girls out. If they said no, it was done and over with. If they said yea I would take them out for a coffee or something and see how it goes from there. A “it is what it is” mindset used in moderation is a good way to build confidence. If you get rejected, it is what it is. You move on and try to improve on your last attempt and on yourself. You keep going and eventually you become desensitised to the social interactions you used to find awkward
Confidence is not thinking you're better than someone else. If you base confidence on that, your confidence will be shattered constantly like a glass tea pot. Confidence is knowing that your abilities are good enough, and what you bring to the table is good as well. While still being able to recognize that there are others who are better. Its life. I think a lot of guys especially teenage to young adults should recognize that the worlds view of masculinity is NOT confidence. Being a chad is not cool nor confidence. Being able to sit with and be ok with who you are is confidence.
@@tomsektul31you can never improve if you don't accept the way you are right now, if you think there is something wrong with you because there are people better than you, you are doomed
That is exactly what I am doing right now. This is my goal to build confidence, I came to 1 consclusion I need to get in shape and get a better style to feel confident. How can I be uncondifent when I will look good
Same mission I have as well my broda. I'm a socially anxious person most at times and can't even talk to girls to get into a relationship😢. *It's time to get in shape* 😤
Coming from a 21 year old guy, this is some of the most important advice and wisdom I can share that I have learned so far (at least in my generation). No one is going to save you, you MUST save yourself. Women are more entitled and demanding when it comes to who they want to associate with than you are, especially online, they will judge your looks and choose to ignore you, insult you, unadd you, or block you if you do not meet their beauty standards (even if just attempting to be friends). Women flow to women and men flow to women, a woman will almost ALWAYS have the ability to be more social and be more popular than men. Not saying this at all out of spite or hatred, this is just naturally how the world works. People are evil and awful, they will attempt to befriend you til they get what they want and leave you afterwards. Usually by pretending to be victim to gaslight you or randomly not associating with you anymore. There are a million reasons to be insecure and not many to feel secure for most men. You just have to trust in yourself. Stop approaching women, stop giving them a reason to judge you or possibly use you. Stop letting other guys walk over you, just focus on yourself. 6 months, search up a couple skin care routines, a better diet plan. Exercise plan to either lose weight or gain muscle/weight (if underweight), and just do you. Don't EVER become the person putting more than 50% of the work into anything, if you ask someone to hang and they say no or they don't give an answer. Do not try again until after they try. Let the other person make the next move and shortly, you'll be able to tell who your real friends/interests are and who didn't care much to have you around.
Become a better version of yourself, yeah we are allowed to have insecurities, so improve yourself in other fields, I genuinely believe I'm no person to give guidance on the matters of having confidence, but through my observations I've noticed that a well sought out person is always more confident than a person who ain't got his life together, so become a better version of yourself
One thing that helped me come out of my shell is my new job. Right now I work door2door sales and having to speak to a lot of people and sale them good products makes you confident!
If you ask me confidence stems from understanding If you know what tf you're doing, chances are you can have confidense in yourself doing it. What I mean to say is you need to have a clear understanding of things, and have that relentless growth mindset. NO matter the hand you are dealt in a situation and life in general, you will find ways to think analytically and constantly find ways to improve and understand because you know you CAN. YOU KNOW THE ONLY THING HOLDING YOU BACK ARE YOUR EMOTIONS, you know that YOU CANNOT RELY ON YOUR EMOTIONS. A real man goes out there and he puts himself out there knowing he'll fail and he SHOULD fail. When he does, he takes it with a smile. He stops and thinks. Ok, what have I understood from this and what can I learn. Its that mindset of knowing that it is from failure that you learn, it is from embarassement that true fortitude is built, it is from struggle and insecurity that a boy is forged into a man. That.... that truly frees you.. being truthful to yourself and taking it as it is, moving on with a smile. Thats confidense.
this one really resonated with me. thats how I've been my entire life till now (14) sometimes you do things without realising or labelling them, but later on if u wanna repeat the same stuff, you are unable to bcus u just dont know what you were doing. but this comment helped me understand what it was that made me confident in most of my ventures
Certainly! I remember how I’d binge confidence-boosting videos only to find myself back at square one. Real confidence truly builds when we step out there and get real-world experience-failures included. The idea of 'confidence spillover' really resonates; excelling in one area genuinely uplifts you across the board. It's like with Habit10x's Sense of Humor Improvement Program: humor spills over into confidence, making social situations less intimidating. Developing confidence isn’t about instant transformation; it’s about embracing growth, setbacks, and all. Love the realness of this!
I have anxiety in social situation. But i never experienced it while playin soccer/football. I hope i could overcome it❤. Keep going ur vid making me stronger 💪🏻
that’s the thing though: self confidence is (in essence) a delusion. no one actually knows who the most attractive person in the world is, yet some people walk around like they are anyway. the same goes for being insecure and not confident, you have no reference point to know if you are or aren’t, so it’s also a delusion to be insecure for no reason. there’s a video on how to be confident and they put it right, for people like us, the way to confidence is to understand it’s a fake, that people who are confident are putting on a face. i know people at harvard who say things like “i could never be good at that.” “it’s probably not great but here it is…” etc. these are arguably the smartest people on earth. they should be beaming with confidence, but that’s not how confidence works. it’s a skill, and to sensible people it will feel like a delusion, and that’s because it is. confidence is a good delusion, and others will fall for it if you trick yourself. then one day it becomes real, like it always was to begin with. fake it till you make it is a real strategy. it’s actually logical.
I am extremely confident in job interviews. Even if I don't have the skills or the experience, I can usually clear interviews and get jobs very quickly. I could try the principles I use for confidence in the job market, for other areas in life, as a confidence spillover. This spillover hasn't happened yet. But interestingly, there are many parallels between the job market and social life, dating market, etc. Some important parallels I found were - 1. Applying for the right position (Reaching out to the right girls/guys for you) 2. It's a numbers game - job applications = approaches 3. Max out your skills and attributes for what you want. Etc.
The thing is it isn't awkward to apply for a job, but asking a girl out needs to be smooth in person or slick in dms. For me applying for a job is 1000 times easier.
@@jimraynor4383right getting is a job is also easier I know if I learn xyz thing my chances improve a lot. But with dating I can't read a book to make myself ready, it gets complicated because solutions are different for different people, it gets complicated
If you are really good at something and still aren't confident in other fields you need to try doing things alone by yourself like traveling doing some work and basically everything that u need to do and become good enough at it. once u do it you will have the knowledge to rely on yourself more and can help your friends with the confidence you have. And it will over all boost your confidence just learn to be more self reliant and have the courage to do things you are bad at.
thank you for helping me articulate what I mean when I argue with people who tell me to "just have confidence". Cant stand when people are delusional and think they are just confident.
but in the end they are right. I dont mean with just having it but pretending to have it and doing stuff you would normally not be confident enough to do. Someone here in the comments said that its pure practice and thats what I also think. Now go and talk to 100 girls and see how confident you are afterwards. The chance that all 100 refuse you are basically zero. and even if the first 10 are refusing, learn from what you might have done wrong and continue with the next 10. So with that in mind, I think "just have confidence" could mean to try stuff and dont hide away
In conclusion: Experience life and don’t beat yourself up if you make mistakes or fail in certain or all areas of life. Mistakes and failures make us smarter, stronger, and resilient. We are insecure because we don’t have experiences. Experiences provide us with knowledge and skills which then provide us with confidence ❤
Someone who I think is a good example of introverted confidence would be Stephen Curry. He knows he’s a generational talent, he knows he’s the best and most capable player on his team and provides the leadership role on his team all while being reserved and humble to himself. That’s what makes him a great player and one of the most influential figures in sport’s history.
I believe this myself. If you truly are good at something that most people are not, then it'll boost your ego. Not in a bad way, but in a way that makes you believe in yourself. If you're not good at anything, then you're screwed
I'm an introvert, but I'm nowhere as confident as you. I'm working on it, but it's not easy. I prefer just being myself, but I guess the more awkward version of myself. Thanks for this video regardless.
Absolute FACTS! Just saying: "I can do this. I believe in myself is bullshit" you need to have solid proof behind your back saying: "I already did this and that in the past, so I can do this"
I disagree, in academic level i'd say i'm very confident academically and in my job, i'm pretty social when i want, i'm pretty confident in my overall physique and looks( average looking ngl but tall and fit) but i just can't talk romantically to girls to the point i'd say anyone who has just a bit of rizz and my body he'll be pulling girls very easily
There's no such thing is confidence. Thats my experience. You are born with it or don't have it all. Simple as that. I spent ten thousand dollars on workshop/seminars from Tony Robbins, Paul McKenna, Matthew Hussey (years before he opened How To Get Me The Guy), John Grinder and more. After that I went back to living my life and following their instructions and nothing worked, I'm the same lame old person as before.
I 100% disagree with this part 3:16 because reflecting on every loss will cause overthinking and this will ruin your life...trust me. What you should do instead is not give a fuck.
Cheat code for the mind: Rate everything as an experience. Not good, not bad, just an experience. Think about how you could have acted more humble, kind and calm/collected. If you fuvk up, it was just an experience that you learn from. And please don’t try to be alpha or some shit.
*Be shameless rather than confident* Everyone is busy thinking about themselves just like you are thinking about yourself. Just don't mind and do what you want.
You already know the answer. You know that there are thousands of calisthenics videos on RUclips for beginners and yet here you are asking which means you are just procrastinating and waiting for a supernatural energy to do it for you. You already know how to bulk up. Exercise + diet.. Stop asking, go and do it.. Start from somewhere. Thousands of videos available on RUclips... Don't be confused
Thanks. I'm a girl. I'm extremely insecure about my appearance. No matter what I change about myself, I can't shake off those memories of my mom calling me ugly since I was a child. Now I'm an adult and I have heard many times that in beautiful. But, I just don't see it. Any advice?
I talked to thousands of woman and what i learned from that? Is that woman just dont like the look of my face. The sad thing is i cant really change anything about it so i have to accept that woman just dont think iam attractive. Especially my face. I mean i train in the gym, army and sidehustle so i have money, good skin, good teeth, good style hygene and so on the whole package the only thing i lack is a very pretty face. And yes i tried mewing for 6 years and it doesnt work for anyone sadly. I just lost at facial lottery and there is literally no way to compensate for that. But thats just how life is. Sometimes u can work as hard as u want and you still lose. It doesnt matter. And right now or lets say my whole life woman say my face is just to ugly so be it nothing i can change about it. Its sad yes it is that woman are so shallow and i literally worked hard on everyhing i could work for and i made it very far but if woman want guys with a pretty face thats just how it is and i get it who wants to wake up besides an ugly deformed face. Sooo yes u can look to improve what u can improve but at some point u also have to accept that u only can change so much and you only can change yourself so if woman still dont want you than that wont change doesnt matter what you do. Other than that nice video in general your channel is nice even tho it couldnt help me to get what i want (woman) but other than that iam like top 10% guy now maybe even better. Even tho woman will never want me and the whole journey was pointless
Confidence isn’t “I know they’ll like me”, it’s “I’m okay if they don’t”.
Or "I think I'll like them" instead of "I think they'll like me".
Basically Arrogance vs Confidence
This comment is underated, underappreciated and overlooked ❤
BULLSHIT!!!!!!!!!!!
Not really
“quiet, but not shy
humble but also confident”
this is bery bery good quote i think
Strong but not arrogant
Quiet but not timid
Always wanted to be confident, but never the extrovert one. Thank you very much helped a lott!!
Follow Jesus mate, He will make you confident
@@GospelFire Amen 🙏
Amen
@@GospelFire Shri Krishna is teaching me how to become and advance better
@@Beasty_76 ❤️🙇🏾♂️🙇🏾♂️
Focus on competence.
Competence leads to mastery.
Mastery leads to options.
Options leads to confidence.
Competence?
Non sense
Define competence please
how to focus
Exactly
I used to be pretty insecure about myself back in my young teen days, now as a young adult I have come to a point where I fully trust my own mind, personality and abilities to overcome any obstacles and embrace the most of the challenges I am facing, and if there are a few ones I am not able to comfortably face here and there, I‘m telling my self that this is what life is partly about, facing challenges embracing them, learning and appreciating the L to learn from it and grow more mature from it, that I can pass this challenge, becoming better than my past-self. I went from completely hiding myself, to approaching strangers less awkward to comfortably shooting my shot at my crush, to overcoming the L she gave me (yikes 😂), taking my lessons from it, appreciating the experience and the future life it’s gonna bring me. But I have jet come to the point where I can slide them stairs down completely in my own vibe like Jake Gyllenhaal just did. Another thing I can learn or face just to grow a bit more mature and get behind the beauty of becoming myself and behind the beauty of life itself
WE ON THE SAME PATH BRO MUCH LOVE KING
@@jaromirjagr5316 thanks Homie 🙏❤️
Good for you dude keep on going
@@Ayleen246 thanks ❤️
That's inspiring
Actually getting practise is the best solution over here.
This goes for social situations as well, the more you go out there, the more you'll get into situations youve never experienced before and you might fail, or embarass yourselves. But over time you'll learn from such failures and improve yourselves overall.
Amazing video! Here is my summary:
0:25 What is confidence?
1:25 Act first to get confidence
1:53 Confidence Spillover rule
2:24 Learn from negative experiences
bruh the video is 3 min long, why need a summary
Thank you
nice attention span
Is it okay to make mistakes?
@@pranksteryt4068ahahahahhahhahahahahhahahah
It’s true nothing substitutes life experiences. I forced myself to engage in conversations and asking girls out. If they said no, it was done and over with. If they said yea I would take them out for a coffee or something and see how it goes from there. A “it is what it is” mindset used in moderation is a good way to build confidence. If you get rejected, it is what it is. You move on and try to improve on your last attempt and on yourself. You keep going and eventually you become desensitised to the social interactions you used to find awkward
Reminds me of John Wick's character. He's a quiet guy but is confident enough to destroy everyone in the room.
True. Walk slow but take action. Enjoy the path toward confident version of your guys.
step 1 be good looking
step 2 dont be ugly
I am an introvert but extremely confident. Mainly cause I randomly interact with people and have balls. It helped me alot.
Confidence is not thinking you're better than someone else. If you base confidence on that, your confidence will be shattered constantly like a glass tea pot. Confidence is knowing that your abilities are good enough, and what you bring to the table is good as well. While still being able to recognize that there are others who are better. Its life. I think a lot of guys especially teenage to young adults should recognize that the worlds view of masculinity is NOT confidence. Being a chad is not cool nor confidence. Being able to sit with and be ok with who you are is confidence.
no thats just recipe for mediocrity there is nothing wrong with wanting to be the best what a pathetic self defense mindset is this?
@@tomsektul31you can never improve if you don't accept the way you are right now, if you think there is something wrong with you because there are people better than you, you are doomed
That is exactly what I am doing right now. This is my goal to build confidence, I came to 1 consclusion I need to get in shape and get a better style to feel confident. How can I be uncondifent when I will look good
Same mission I have as well my broda. I'm a socially anxious person most at times and can't even talk to girls to get into a relationship😢.
*It's time to get in shape* 😤
Stop watching porn
Coming from a 21 year old guy, this is some of the most important advice and wisdom I can share that I have learned so far (at least in my generation). No one is going to save you, you MUST save yourself. Women are more entitled and demanding when it comes to who they want to associate with than you are, especially online, they will judge your looks and choose to ignore you, insult you, unadd you, or block you if you do not meet their beauty standards (even if just attempting to be friends). Women flow to women and men flow to women, a woman will almost ALWAYS have the ability to be more social and be more popular than men.
Not saying this at all out of spite or hatred, this is just naturally how the world works. People are evil and awful, they will attempt to befriend you til they get what they want and leave you afterwards. Usually by pretending to be victim to gaslight you or randomly not associating with you anymore. There are a million reasons to be insecure and not many to feel secure for most men. You just have to trust in yourself. Stop approaching women, stop giving them a reason to judge you or possibly use you. Stop letting other guys walk over you, just focus on yourself.
6 months, search up a couple skin care routines, a better diet plan. Exercise plan to either lose weight or gain muscle/weight (if underweight), and just do you. Don't EVER become the person putting more than 50% of the work into anything, if you ask someone to hang and they say no or they don't give an answer. Do not try again until after they try. Let the other person make the next move and shortly, you'll be able to tell who your real friends/interests are and who didn't care much to have you around.
Become a better version of yourself, yeah we are allowed to have insecurities, so improve yourself in other fields, I genuinely believe I'm no person to give guidance on the matters of having confidence, but through my observations I've noticed that a well sought out person is always more confident than a person who ain't got his life together, so become a better version of yourself
One thing that helped me come out of my shell is my new job.
Right now I work door2door sales and having to speak to a lot of people and sale them good products makes you confident!
If you ask me confidence stems from understanding
If you know what tf you're doing, chances are you can have confidense in yourself doing it.
What I mean to say is you need to have a clear understanding of things, and have that relentless growth mindset.
NO matter the hand you are dealt in a situation and life in general, you will find ways to think analytically and constantly find ways to improve and understand because you know you CAN.
YOU KNOW THE ONLY THING HOLDING YOU BACK ARE YOUR EMOTIONS, you know that YOU CANNOT RELY ON YOUR EMOTIONS.
A real man goes out there and he puts himself out there knowing he'll fail and he SHOULD fail.
When he does, he takes it with a smile.
He stops and thinks. Ok, what have I understood from this and what can I learn.
Its that mindset of knowing that it is from failure that you learn, it is from embarassement that true fortitude is built, it is from struggle and insecurity that a boy is forged into a man.
That.... that truly frees you.. being truthful to yourself and taking it as it is, moving on with a smile. Thats confidense.
REAL
this one really resonated with me. thats how I've been my entire life till now (14)
sometimes you do things without realising or labelling them, but later on if u wanna repeat the same stuff, you are unable to bcus u just dont know what you were doing. but this comment helped me understand what it was that made me confident in most of my ventures
Bro sneaked in a One Piece reference in a video that's less than 4 minutes long. Legend.
Certainly! I remember how I’d binge confidence-boosting videos only to find myself back at square one. Real confidence truly builds when we step out there and get real-world experience-failures included. The idea of 'confidence spillover' really resonates; excelling in one area genuinely uplifts you across the board.
It's like with Habit10x's Sense of Humor Improvement Program: humor spills over into confidence, making social situations less intimidating. Developing confidence isn’t about instant transformation; it’s about embracing growth, setbacks, and all. Love the realness of this!
I have anxiety in social situation. But i never experienced it while playin soccer/football. I hope i could overcome it❤. Keep going ur vid making me stronger 💪🏻
that’s the thing though: self confidence is (in essence) a delusion.
no one actually knows who the most attractive person in the world is, yet some people walk around like they are anyway. the same goes for being insecure and not confident, you have no reference point to know if you are or aren’t, so it’s also a delusion to be insecure for no reason.
there’s a video on how to be confident and they put it right, for people like us, the way to confidence is to understand it’s a fake, that people who are confident are putting on a face. i know people at harvard who say things like “i could never be good at that.” “it’s probably not great but here it is…” etc. these are arguably the smartest people on earth. they should be beaming with confidence, but that’s not how confidence works. it’s a skill, and to sensible people it will feel like a delusion, and that’s because it is.
confidence is a good delusion, and others will fall for it if you trick yourself. then one day it becomes real, like it always was to begin with. fake it till you make it is a real strategy. it’s actually logical.
I am extremely confident in job interviews. Even if I don't have the skills or the experience, I can usually clear interviews and get jobs very quickly.
I could try the principles I use for confidence in the job market, for other areas in life, as a confidence spillover.
This spillover hasn't happened yet.
But interestingly, there are many parallels between the job market and social life, dating market, etc.
Some important parallels I found were -
1. Applying for the right position (Reaching out to the right girls/guys for you)
2. It's a numbers game - job applications = approaches
3. Max out your skills and attributes for what you want.
Etc.
You get it, just wrote my mind
I'm like this too and I don't know why I am but I should apply it to dating.
The thing is it isn't awkward to apply for a job, but asking a girl out needs to be smooth in person or slick in dms. For me applying for a job is 1000 times easier.
@@jimraynor4383right getting is a job is also easier I know if I learn xyz thing my chances improve a lot. But with dating I can't read a book to make myself ready, it gets complicated because solutions are different for different people, it gets complicated
If you are really good at something and still aren't confident in other fields you need to try doing things alone by yourself like traveling doing some work and basically everything that u need to do and become good enough at it. once u do it you will have the knowledge to rely on yourself more and can help your friends with the confidence you have. And it will over all boost your confidence just learn to be more self reliant and have the courage to do things you are bad at.
Can confirm. Solo travelling is life-changing. Be careful and prepared though, I almost got stabbed a couple weeks ago while traveling on my own
thank you for helping me articulate what I mean when I argue with people who tell me to "just have confidence". Cant stand when people are delusional and think they are just confident.
but in the end they are right. I dont mean with just having it but pretending to have it and doing stuff you would normally not be confident enough to do. Someone here in the comments said that its pure practice and thats what I also think. Now go and talk to 100 girls and see how confident you are afterwards. The chance that all 100 refuse you are basically zero. and even if the first 10 are refusing, learn from what you might have done wrong and continue with the next 10.
So with that in mind, I think "just have confidence" could mean to try stuff and dont hide away
Fake it until you make it
Taking actually action is very important in different situations.
Confidence spillover is an interesting concept. I didn't think about it previously. Thanks!
This man has helped millions and myself.
Remember to click his bell to never miss another opportunity to improve yourself
Lack of neglect = confidence
“Introverts may walk alone, but their path is always paved with purpose“🔥🦶🏻🐾
Growth mindset!
By Carol Dweck, PhD
@@harpersnyder2297 I'm reading The creative act: A way of being at the moment but thanks for the recommendation i keep it in mind :)
That “act to gain confidence” opened my eyes somehow, but it’s also so obvious
Thank you so much. This is the video I really needed to know. I will do everything to boost the videos algorithm. Commenting being 1 of them.
In conclusion: Experience life and don’t beat yourself up if you make mistakes or fail in certain or all areas of life. Mistakes and failures make us smarter, stronger, and resilient.
We are insecure because we don’t have experiences. Experiences provide us with knowledge and skills which then provide us with confidence ❤
best video on how to build up real and genuine confidence instead of faking it.
DUDE amazing video! Ive seen shit tons of this typical confidence videos, and you managed to actually make sense in a simple, yet complete way
Your videos are always on point, and fresh. Thanks for the tips bro!
Someone who I think is a good example of introverted confidence would be Stephen Curry. He knows he’s a generational talent, he knows he’s the best and most capable player on his team and provides the leadership role on his team all while being reserved and humble to himself. That’s what makes him a great player and one of the most influential figures in sport’s history.
Beautiful example of confidence and beautiful comment as well.
love yourself do things you apprreciate for yourself
This the realest video on confidence I’ve ever watched
I believe this myself. If you truly are good at something that most people are not, then it'll boost your ego. Not in a bad way, but in a way that makes you believe in yourself. If you're not good at anything, then you're screwed
Confidence is believe in yourself
I'm an introvert, but I'm nowhere as confident as you. I'm working on it, but it's not easy. I prefer just being myself, but I guess the more awkward version of myself. Thanks for this video regardless.
Though we tend to blend pride and confidence, similar to how we confuse envy and jealousy.
Man this channel is something 🔥
Thanks man really needed this video
Best way for it is just try to copy an extrovert cause we observe other so why not just copy them
Btw it work for me
barely half of this video was literally 10000 times more helpful than anything ive read or watched before.....
My respect when he sad football to soccer 📈📈📈
Absolute FACTS! Just saying: "I can do this. I believe in myself is bullshit" you need to have solid proof behind your back saying: "I already did this and that in the past, so I can do this"
just set your goals and chase them
Homie used a League analogy, and weirdly, it worked well.
Instantly subbed when i saw Luffy, man of culture
I disagree, in academic level i'd say i'm very confident academically and in my job, i'm pretty social when i want, i'm pretty confident in my overall physique and looks( average looking ngl but tall and fit) but i just can't talk romantically to girls to the point i'd say anyone who has just a bit of rizz and my body he'll be pulling girls very easily
Omg u really pulled the consumers on that one. "Dark confidence", yep that's the one.
Thx bro love this channel ❤️❤️❤️
Thanks for this video now I see the way to develop my confidence ❤
I really wasnt expecting the league bit. I left that game a long time ago
I remember like in 9th grade til 11th I was a pretty boy I had all the girls but as soon as I started smoking my confidence faded
I had no problems taking selfies or asking people to take pictures of me
Ah yes finally “we are not luffy, stop living in anime” the sentence that i’ve been longing to hear.
Action is everything, If you don't take actions you will not have the physical life experience
Even when I watch videos on how to actually improve myself, I can still never full escape from league of legends
Spillover rule is 100% facts!
Perfect
Love your work❤
It’s the best video I’ve ever watched on youtube ❤
Respect📈
It reallyyyyyy reallyyyyyy helped, THANKS
my man really explained it in lol terms
wins and losses negative and positive huge W i am introvert
Make one on hunter's eyes (Predator's eyes)
Just don't think what others thinks bout'you-
There's no such thing is confidence. Thats my experience. You are born with it or don't have it all. Simple as that. I spent ten thousand dollars on workshop/seminars from Tony Robbins, Paul McKenna, Matthew Hussey (years before he opened How To Get Me The Guy), John Grinder and more. After that I went back to living my life and following their instructions and nothing worked, I'm the same lame old person as before.
Oh, another "just be pretty bro" vid. Thank you for your hustle!
I 100% disagree with this part 3:16 because reflecting on every loss will cause overthinking and this will ruin your life...trust me. What you should do instead is not give a fuck.
no looking at your mistakes is very helpful
Cheat code for the mind: Rate everything as an experience. Not good, not bad, just an experience. Think about how you could have acted more humble, kind and calm/collected. If you fuvk up, it was just an experience that you learn from. And please don’t try to be alpha or some shit.
"we're not luffy" true he's built different 😭
you keep it real my man
Bro really pulled out the league analogy for the basement dwellers😂 smart move ngl
*Be shameless rather than confident*
Everyone is busy thinking about themselves just like you are thinking about yourself.
Just don't mind and do what you want.
can you make video on how to start calisthenics and how to bulk up
You already know the answer. You know that there are thousands of calisthenics videos on RUclips for beginners and yet here you are asking which means you are just procrastinating and waiting for a supernatural energy to do it for you.
You already know how to bulk up. Exercise + diet..
Stop asking, go and do it.. Start from somewhere. Thousands of videos available on RUclips... Don't be confused
Bro chill he just asked for a video
Dark can be good too
just be handsome bro
Yesterday I went on stage to tell people about the internet but I forgot half of the things I want to say as I stepped on stage.
Im starting to look good in the mirror and im not flexing too much
Starboy in depth
Very useful video!
I am a confident introvert
1:12 bro i subscribe just because you add luffy in the video
Thanks. I'm a girl. I'm extremely insecure about my appearance. No matter what I change about myself, I can't shake off those memories of my mom calling me ugly since I was a child. Now I'm an adult and I have heard many times that in beautiful. But, I just don't see it. Any advice?
bruh if there's people calling you beautiful then what more advice do you need 💀
thanks this actually changed my perspective
I talked to thousands of woman and what i learned from that? Is that woman just dont like the look of my face. The sad thing is i cant really change anything about it so i have to accept that woman just dont think iam attractive. Especially my face. I mean i train in the gym, army and sidehustle so i have money, good skin, good teeth, good style hygene and so on the whole package the only thing i lack is a very pretty face. And yes i tried mewing for 6 years and it doesnt work for anyone sadly. I just lost at facial lottery and there is literally no way to compensate for that. But thats just how life is. Sometimes u can work as hard as u want and you still lose. It doesnt matter. And right now or lets say my whole life woman say my face is just to ugly so be it nothing i can change about it. Its sad yes it is that woman are so shallow and i literally worked hard on everyhing i could work for and i made it very far but if woman want guys with a pretty face thats just how it is and i get it who wants to wake up besides an ugly deformed face. Sooo yes u can look to improve what u can improve but at some point u also have to accept that u only can change so much and you only can change yourself so if woman still dont want you than that wont change doesnt matter what you do.
Other than that nice video in general your channel is nice even tho it couldnt help me to get what i want (woman) but other than that iam like top 10% guy now maybe even better. Even tho woman will never want me and the whole journey was pointless
Depending on where water is being sold its value can spike up really high or get down super low✊
I'm a loud extrovert with no confidence looking to flip the script.
I see the onepiece reference, I drop a like.
Do video about charming from out and in bro pls .......❤️❤️
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Lmaoo loved the LoL analogy 😅
my like goes for luffy and your content as well 😁
One trick I am trying which kind of works is not what they think of me, what do I think of them
Pov: watching luffy telling everyone that he'll become the king of pirate 👑
Didn’t help. I don’t have anything to be confident in to start being confident in other things.
League references>>>>