How to Cope With Feelings of Hopelessness During Breast Cancer

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  • Опубликовано: 18 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 27

  • @BeateSchierle
    @BeateSchierle Год назад +2

    Thank you, Dr. Griggs, for addressing this topic with so much sensitivity. I have finished chemo two months ago and am struggling with side effects. I often feel so down and depressed although chemo worked well. Good to hear from an expert that feeling hopeless or in dispair is quite normal and what we can do about it. Best wishes to all breast cancer fighters in the world from Germany, Beate

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  Год назад +1

      Your strength and resilience shine through your words. It's completely natural to have moments of feeling down or struggling with side effects, even when treatment is effective. We're sending you warmest wishes from across the globe. Thank you for watching.

  • @SofiaAhmad-rp8sm
    @SofiaAhmad-rp8sm Год назад +5

    Thank you for the informative video,I diagnosis breast cancer grade 3,I loose hope😢

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  Год назад +2

      We're truly sorry to hear about your diagnosis. It's entirely natural to feel a loss of hope when facing such a challenging situation. Breast cancer can be overwhelming, but remember, you're not alone in this journey. We're here for you too, providing information and empathy as you navigate this path. Yerbba is rooting for you!

  • @juanitagee9511
    @juanitagee9511 3 месяца назад

    I get this... on my way to infusion last week I got stopped by a train & as I was sitting there watching this train fly by I realized I was thinking - I wonder if I just got out of the car & walked into the trains path would it be so quick I wouldn't even feel it. I should be so grateful that I am still here & living life, but some days are just tougher than others.♡

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  3 месяца назад

      Thank you for sharing such a personal experience with our community. Be gentle with yourself and remember that it’s okay to feel this way. You’re not alone, and many people care about you.
      We wanted to share these resources. If you're ever feeling overwhelmed, please reach out to them, and remember that your emotions don't define you. It's important to acknowledge what you're feeling, but also know that there is help available and people who care about your well-being. Reaching out for support is a sign of strength.
      If you need someone to talk to, you can contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline at 988. Also, the Cancer Support Community has a helpline at 1-888-793-9355. For breast cancer-specific support, you can reach the Breast Cancer Helpline by Living Beyond Breast Cancer at 1-888-753-5222. There are people ready to support you.
      And remember, the Yerbba community is always here for you too. Sending you strength and love.

  • @naththomas9946
    @naththomas9946 Год назад +1

    Thank you, Dr. Griggs, for your medical advice and helpful information.

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  Год назад

      Thank you for watching. As always, Yerbba appreciates you!

  • @sueschoormans4124
    @sueschoormans4124 Год назад +1

    Thank you Dr Griggs. This video is perfect. Your voice comes across with compassionate and that really helps. Love your videos - they are superb. 😀💐

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  Год назад +1

      Thank you for watching. We are so happy our videos can provide you with a sense of ease. Yerbba truly appreciates you!

  • @donnacampbell6345
    @donnacampbell6345 Год назад +5

    I feel the hopelessness 3 years later because I’m sure it will come back. It’s an awful thing.

    • @AdrienneKushner-qi6cl
      @AdrienneKushner-qi6cl Год назад +1

      I feel the same and understand. I have a shadow right behind me and feel that at any time it will take over. 15 months ago I received my breast cancer diagnosis.

    • @daina-lynn
      @daina-lynn Год назад +1

      I am 1.75 years out from my diagnosis but still live in fear each and every day. When well-meaning people label me a breast cancer "survivor," I just cringe inside. I don't feel that way at all- the fear of recurrence is too great to feel as though this ordeal is truly over.

    • @juaquiene7726
      @juaquiene7726 Год назад

      I've come to accept. That my stage 2, Her2+ breast cancer. Is a chronic disease. It's a matter of how much time that aggressive chemo / surgical / & radiation therapy can buy you. For some it can be decades. For others mere months before it recurs and metastisizes elsewhere.
      Meanwhile your new reality sinks in. Many of us will be urged to take powerful Aromatase, hormonal therapies with their terrible side effects. In a bid to increase your chances of keeping cancer at bay. Which is not guaranteed. Most of us will opt to do all we can not to recur & accept we're dealing with % from here on. Plus our futures will include frequent tests & scans as our new reality. Soft, sweet, modulated voices do little to replace the fear and dread I feel. But I now fight back with anger & determination. To not allow breast cancer obsess and over shadow my life. Do my best to regain my health and appearance as much as possible. Try to limit that you don't overdo your exposure to cancer sites. Make sure you counter this experience with good things that lift you up and make you feel happy. Such as comedies and romances. Whatever works for you. Pay into your Karma bank account daily. By being kind, caring &;grateful. It sure works for me. But give yourselves credit. You've fought like hell against a dreadful disease don't allow others to devalue, lie or sugar coat your experience and prognosis. I find that both. patronizing condescending.

    • @deborahbizzell1989
      @deborahbizzell1989 Год назад +1

      I have this same feeling after my Dr.told me my risk of recurrence is likely.The despair is real,and has me read my Bible often for eternal hope.

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  Год назад

      Thank you for watching. We understand your fear and uncertainty about the future. Remember, you're not alone in feeling this way. It's important to lean on your support network and seek emotional support when needed. Take things one step at a time, and focus on the present moment. The risk of recurrence decreases over time. That is, the likelihood of making it to 5 years disease free is higher at 3 years than it was at the time of diagnosis. The likelihood of making it to 10 years disease-free is higher at 5 years than it was at diagnosis. Here's another thing to think about...to what extent does worrying about recurrence keep it from happening?

  • @HL-qv3yd
    @HL-qv3yd Год назад +1

    Hi dr Griggs, thank you for your support, I think if the bc cancer advanced patient feels more hopelessness, probably lots of unknown and fear, I mean cancer as a name is scary. ❤

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  Год назад +1

      Thank you for watching. You're absolutely right; a cancer diagnosis can bring about feelings of hopelessness, fear, and uncertainty. It's a challenging and emotionally taxing journey. You're not alone and we are here to support you.

    • @HL-qv3yd
      @HL-qv3yd Год назад

      Thank dr ❤❤❤❤

  • @cherylheath4535
    @cherylheath4535 Год назад

    Thank you 🙏🏾 again, you have helped me understand and vocalise my own thoughts/feelings ❤

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  Год назад

      Thank you so much for watching. Keep coming back.

  • @LoveLiveCruise
    @LoveLiveCruise Год назад

    Thankyou for yet another informative VLOG.

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  Год назад

      Thank you for watching. We appreciate the support!

  • @skabdulkalam150
    @skabdulkalam150 Год назад +1

    Hi doctor my bcs was done on 6th december 2022 still y do i get in my breast sudden sharp pains for a while nd it goes y like that mine is er,pr positive her2 neg stage 2,grade 2 tumer size 2.6 cm is it curable plz reply

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  Год назад

      The goal of treatment in your case is indeed cure. It is not uncommon to have sharp pains after any type of surgery, but this is something to discuss with your medical team, in particular your surgeon.

  • @elenasfait8799
    @elenasfait8799 Год назад

    Bertica crezy 😅

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  Год назад

      Thank you for watching.