Confident Female Mindsets That Drive Men Wild 👑👸💘

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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
  • This video covers confident female mindsets that drive men wild.
    Learn how to make him obsessively desire you and relentlessly pursue you: www.makehimcra...
    Whether you want confidence dating men, learn positive mindsets for women or understand how to gain more confidence in general, then you'll want to pay close attention to this video.
    In order to have true confidence dating guys, you need to take care of your own self-esteem.
    It's not uncommon to wonder, "How do I become more confident? How do I get more confidence in myself?"
    It's a great question. In fact, even asking, "What is confidence?" is a great question.
    After all, in order to know how to build confidence and self esteem, you need to have an idea exactly what the destination is.
    Confidence largely comes from competence. That is, you gain experience and learn to improve in those situations, so your success grows.
    But isn't that a catch-22? If you haven't had much experience yet (or have had bad experiences), how can you achieve competence and turn that into competence?
    The path is through gaining knowledge and perspective from successful people and coaches! That's what this video on positive mindsets for girls is meant to give you: Dating confidence. Confidence while dating.
    Watch this video all the way through (maybe watch it several times) and really contemplate the ideas I share here. Let them sink in and watch your love life transform for the better!
    Hope you liked the video and I hope it helps you! If you liked it, it would be really cool if you could leave a Like & Comment (it really helps me out).
    Also, if you have any questions, please feel free to ask them here in the comments! I read all of them and I try to reply to as many as I'm able to as well.
    If you think your friends would like the video, please share it around and spread the word. And subscribe to the channel for more videos where we explain how love really works (so your love life really works!).
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  • @SabrinaBendory
    @SabrinaBendory  3 года назад +10

    Learn how to make him obsessively desire you and relentlessly pursue you: www.makehimcraveyou.com
    Hope you liked the video! If you have any questions, comments or anything you want to share, let me know here! 😘

    • @bernietoplevelmma
      @bernietoplevelmma 3 года назад

      Sabrina , I wish I found your channel 2 weeks ago 🤦🏽‍♀️ recent break up with a new boyfriend. He is very insecure but has no problem being alone . I feel like I’m trying to save him and know what I’m worth . The problem is we have a vacation coming up together in 2 weeks .. non refundable out of country all inclusive resort . We broke up 1 week ago and I texted 2 days after (I didn’t know about no contact rule🤦🏽‍♀️) now I know not to contact for my own good . Shld I reach out and ask about this trip or take it as a loss if it’s a couple weeks away ?Really not sure what to do , would be easy for no contact if this planned vacation wasn’t involved 😓 pls help and advise . I’ve asked a couple friends if they would go with me but they would need to get their own plane ticket so it is hard . I really don’t want to give this trip up and not sure what direction I should go . Any advice would help 🙏🏽❤️ you’re a blessing and glad I found your channel 👊🏽

    • @vidyan4657
      @vidyan4657 2 года назад

      Too good 😍

  • @peterpisspotty3052
    @peterpisspotty3052 Год назад +16

    Confident high value women
    1. Don't wait around to be chosen - for a text etc - they ask if the man is good enough for them
    2. Don't fall inlove unless he is there to catch her
    3. Don't try to win a guy over
    4. Know they are loveable - doesn't attach her self worth to his opinion
    5. Let's him go if he doesn't want her - doesn't take it personally
    6. Sets healthy strong boundaries - prioritise their needs first not the man - they're ok with walking away
    7. Accept responsibility for actions in life - not a victim - don't blame men for behaving badly or stay in poor relationships
    8. They believe they are worthy - they know they are loveable - have a strong self image
    9. Don't need his reassurance
    10. Choose a partner wisely
    Like attracts like - if you're emotionally healthy, you'll attract someone who is.
    If you don't value yourself, you'll attract someone who doesn't value you

  • @krissyaguilar1814
    @krissyaguilar1814 3 года назад +23

    Exactly these past two years I haven’t waited for anyone , I look at them and ask myself if I actually like them 🤔

  • @frederiquebertrand2204
    @frederiquebertrand2204 3 года назад +25

    Thank you Sabrina ❤️ so true ! I grew my self confidence over the last year a with your help and now I have attracted a confident emotionally balanced guy! Our communication is so clear! And I’m not afraid to set boundaries and he isn’t either.. it’s a whole new world for me 🙏

  • @denisejaydub
    @denisejaydub 3 года назад +22

    This video is pure gold. Saving it and sending it to my friends. I just wish the title better represented how valuable the messaging is. Because it’s not about him.. it’s about YOU

  • @jamielilia8516
    @jamielilia8516 3 года назад +4

    Now I just realized why am I so anxious about him is because I have low self-esteem :> Now I know that I need to be confident. Thank you Sabrinaaa!

  • @aspyn.j_
    @aspyn.j_ 2 года назад +3

    My last relationship truly changed me because although I thought I met my equal, I didn’t like who I was becoming in my pursuit of a title. Been single for a year now. Best decision I ever made. Totally fine with it stretching into two years. 😊

  • @gillianba4240
    @gillianba4240 3 года назад +13

    I found out about you and Eric yesterday and I wish y'all could have been my friends in highschool like 15 years ago😭

  • @ninajones6622
    @ninajones6622 3 года назад +30

    I am working this out and so appreciate your insight and advice. It has taken me a year to get back in to this mindset after a toxic relationship and now I'm feeling so much better and I now know that I'm worthy of an amazing relationship. Its all down to watching coaches like you that I have had a shift in mindset and now I feel on top of the world, thankyou xx

  • @beeonuma0345
    @beeonuma0345 3 года назад +10

    Watching this .. i told myself “ from now on”

  • @deborahdesanto2313
    @deborahdesanto2313 2 года назад +5

    Sabrina after listening to what you said I think I ruined the relationship before it started, I put to much into the relationship I had all the emotions and feelings into him. 😞

  • @harleyreyes4385
    @harleyreyes4385 3 года назад +7

    Definitely my favorite video of yours so far. Past scenarios were running through my head with how I used to think vs how I think now. Thanks to you, I’ve been approaching dating men in a healthy way and am so much happier even when the relationships don’t work out.

  • @nitahudson5109
    @nitahudson5109 2 года назад +3

    Poor self esteem can be crippling and corrosive. Having high self esteem gives you the power to have and keep high standards.

  • @friendofanimalsa3816
    @friendofanimalsa3816 3 года назад +7

    Please make closed captioning available for the deaf and hard of hearing. I'd prefer to read what you're saying as you speak.

  • @lydiam9323
    @lydiam9323 3 года назад +4

    Wish I had been told this years ago. But yup she’s right. I have a totally different mindset it is great.

  • @aasthaparadox
    @aasthaparadox 3 года назад +7

    You are glowing ❤️ and thank you for this

  • @christilena2011
    @christilena2011 3 года назад +6

    I’m so happy I found this channel. This is just the first video I’ve watched and it’s amazing!!

  • @valeriebackhouse3404
    @valeriebackhouse3404 2 года назад +2

    All videos are great! Thank you so much! Had to watch it a few times

  • @ebtihalimarhoon7103
    @ebtihalimarhoon7103 3 года назад +5

    Thanks Sabrina, this is really helpful.

  • @rainbowconnection7652
    @rainbowconnection7652 3 года назад +6

    im glad you have improved a lot by talking slower. it makes what you are saying more absorbable by people who are like me. thanks

  • @liezelgalleto700
    @liezelgalleto700 3 года назад +3

    I been this through 3 weeks ago...notes of mind now.. 💯

  • @talghow-i2326
    @talghow-i2326 3 года назад +2

    Self efficacy seems more stable as a part of modification theory. and it enhances self esteem.

  • @lizashby999
    @lizashby999 3 года назад +8

    I love your videos Sabrina - just wish you'd slow down your delivery as what you have say is pure gold!

  • @KP-mw6cx
    @KP-mw6cx 2 года назад +3

    Great video Sabrina! Thanks for all the great content you put out. I think confident women actually do look at what went wrong. But not to shame themselves or make themselves wrong, but rather to learn/grow and show up differently in their next relationship. ❤️
    I love how your content is so straightforward. I’d love it if you did a video about what it means & looks like (specific examples) when a guy is investing in you. What’s your definition of that?

  • @thinktough
    @thinktough 3 года назад +8

    This is a lovely video Sabrina. Thanks! I think you should write up an article on this too. So many imp points.. would be really good to skim through once a while.

    • @thinktough
      @thinktough 3 года назад +2

      And by the way, congratulations on your baby! He is adorable. 🙂

    • @SabrinaBendory
      @SabrinaBendory  3 года назад +3

      Thanks so much! And yes, there will be an article version.

  • @irenemigliaccio
    @irenemigliaccio 3 года назад +9

    Choose wisely 💯 that's me.

  • @valeriebackhouse3404
    @valeriebackhouse3404 2 года назад +1

    Also nice soft music in background! Appreciate a lot

  • @Empress_speaksfacts
    @Empress_speaksfacts 2 года назад +2

    I love you❤ you said this perfectly

  • @Garland67
    @Garland67 3 года назад +2

    This is so good. True that many women try to win men back and chase men who have rejected them. More women need to just move on!

  • @michellemohammed195
    @michellemohammed195 11 месяцев назад

    You are so very talented, Sabrina. Thank you.

  • @samifoluma3606
    @samifoluma3606 3 года назад +4

    Beautiful advice, thanks a million for this video. God bless.

  • @anyoneanyone3515
    @anyoneanyone3515 7 месяцев назад

    I’m self conscious about certain parts of my body. Hard to get past.

  • @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
    @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 3 года назад +1

    number 4 is interesting, because in other videos you say look for a pattern if relationships go wrong... I agree about emotions and letting go but not the no analysis, alot of women do error in patterns.

  • @sheriwl
    @sheriwl 10 месяцев назад

    The man I´m chatting with says that aaaaaall the time he ¨doesn´t do drama¨ and he ¨just wants peace¨. So, def truth to that. But can you do videos on geriatrics? I´m 45 and hes 55 and this whole ¨meeting new senior citizens¨ things is new to me.....

  • @sihamBaD
    @sihamBaD 3 года назад +2

    I found myself taking notes! ❤️❤️❤️❤️💯💯

  • @jlee0719able
    @jlee0719able 3 года назад +5

    What if there is "money" involved where both of you invested into something and you haven't gotten your shares back yet?

  • @ushine4me
    @ushine4me 3 года назад +7

    Wonderful video... I was triggered... A lot. Lol but its definitely spot on insight. I consider myself healthy and confident and secure but I have my moments and tendencies that are not as constructive. I recently made a list of these tendencies (some of which you discussed in this video). I don't know the next step... How do I work on these once I've identified them? I guess it is a journey that progresses with every interaction and relationship.

    • @ushine4me
      @ushine4me 3 года назад +3

      I need to watch this video like at least 3 times lol

    • @Marcianamusic_
      @Marcianamusic_ 2 года назад +1

      I feel you girl!!

  • @zelingwang4723
    @zelingwang4723 3 года назад +2

    Thanks! It’s the right time to watch this video. U r awesome 👏

  • @graceludekens9611
    @graceludekens9611 2 года назад +1

    This is wonderful!

  • @elskar1
    @elskar1 3 года назад +3

    Great wise words

  • @MelodyFreeman
    @MelodyFreeman 3 года назад +2

    Yes! Love this!!

  • @jessiehenry1401
    @jessiehenry1401 2 года назад +1

    This is awesome!

  • @krissyaguilar1814
    @krissyaguilar1814 3 года назад +3

    Yessss I want a partner not a project 👍👍

  • @peterpisspotty3052
    @peterpisspotty3052 Год назад

    Great channel - absolute genius advice

  • @rosirose5727
    @rosirose5727 3 года назад +2

    Thank Sabrina.... Good 👍 one. Can you please slow down when you talk

    • @fleetingfootnotes9133
      @fleetingfootnotes9133 3 года назад

      No, please Sabrina, just stay the way you are. Remember that if need be, you can adjust the playback speed of the video if it's too much.

  • @sihamBaD
    @sihamBaD 3 года назад +2

    You saved my Life

  • @sihamBaD
    @sihamBaD 3 года назад +1

    THANK YOU SO MUCH

  • @nothinginparticular2641
    @nothinginparticular2641 3 года назад +8

    AWESOME. No more PickMe-sha energy over here >_

  • @nondumisonkosi2346
    @nondumisonkosi2346 3 года назад +2

    Thank you Sabrina 😚😚😍😍

  • @renoaczhary1232
    @renoaczhary1232 3 года назад

    Thank you

  • @love7loyalty-MHA
    @love7loyalty-MHA 2 года назад

    In #2 you mentioned confidant women gives the guy space. Can you define how much space Is considered normal vs too much space???

  • @ozzie8800
    @ozzie8800 3 года назад

    Great channel and advice. However their email subscription links lead to weird virus sites and now I get spam email! I’m certain it’s from them. It’s a shame as I really like them so don’t understand why they’ll do spam containing virus emails.

  • @lyndamcmullen9410
    @lyndamcmullen9410 3 года назад +1

    Fabulous ♥️

  • @susanrussell7157
    @susanrussell7157 2 года назад

    Very helpful. 😸

  • @retroswank4693
    @retroswank4693 2 месяца назад

    The background music is hilarious

  • @audrey6528
    @audrey6528 3 года назад +3

    Question is.. what’s too confident???🤔

    • @hannahsworld9101
      @hannahsworld9101 3 года назад +2

      never heard of her🤔

    • @audrey6528
      @audrey6528 3 года назад +1

      @@hannahsworld9101 are you doing sarcastic? Lol i can’t tell

    • @abbygriffin9105
      @abbygriffin9105 3 года назад +2

      Answer is...arrogance.

  • @sweetlikechocolate437
    @sweetlikechocolate437 3 года назад +3

    How to get fantastic advice on dating...Umm...read Jane Austen.

  • @angelicatrevino1122
    @angelicatrevino1122 3 года назад

    Loved!

  • @kilingjoy9145
    @kilingjoy9145 3 года назад +1

    Second ❤️

  • @trixiekirch434
    @trixiekirch434 2 года назад

    👏👏👏🔥

  • @monicahirsch5615
    @monicahirsch5615 3 года назад

    Hi.. I have several emails trying to obtain the email copy of your book, purchased months ago.
    Would you pls assist with lmk how I may access this material- (I paid for).. Ty!!❣️❣️

  • @kerethajackson2435
    @kerethajackson2435 3 года назад +1

    👍❤❤❤❤

  • @tracemoonde4532
    @tracemoonde4532 3 года назад +1

    Third

  • @AngelOfDeathSM
    @AngelOfDeathSM 2 года назад

    👍🏼❤️

  • @sophiasiwakoti3740
    @sophiasiwakoti3740 3 года назад

    😇🥰

  • @Tarasyoutube
    @Tarasyoutube 3 года назад +2

    What is wrong with her having an agenda about what she wants
    I guess it can feel overbearing or one sided

  • @mylaganda1
    @mylaganda1 3 года назад

    Hi❣️Am d 1st commenter

  • @lavellapelarion5628
    @lavellapelarion5628 3 года назад

    Waching

  • @emmanuelalexander9399
    @emmanuelalexander9399 3 года назад +3

    Woman of high value ???.....is that an overweight woman 😄

    • @JustTeeTee777
      @JustTeeTee777 2 года назад +3

      Being of High value is not based upon how someone looks its a way of life. The way you think of yourself and carry yourself. Genius...smh