What you Believe Becomes Reality - AIGA 2019 Full Talk
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- Опубликовано: 9 июн 2024
- What would you do if you could not fail? Why do you undervalue and underprice your work? Why do you accept the belief system that has been installed in you?
“Master Mind: Unlocking Your True Potential” AIGA Design Conference 2019.
This is an interactive talk on how to break free of your “limiting beliefs” and how to conquer your critical inner voice. Includes exercises-an examination on how we assign meaning to events and how we can transform negative events into positive outcomes.
1:11 The start of the talk
2:07 Why do some people succeed while others fail?
3:15 Story of a designer who can’t find a way to charge more
5:09 What was the reason that helps her to pivot?
5:57 Part 1. Belief System
6:13 The cycle of your identity
7:55 The belief system of people who fails
8:51 Your life is shaped by how you look at things
11:09 Example of how we see things in life
11:30 Part 2. Story Teller
12:17 Does the story you tell yourself match what others say about you?
13:49 three exercises to find out your true identity.
14:34 How we should treat our feeling? What story you should tell to yourself?
15:17 Part 3. Word Jitsu
18:18 What will you get when you choose the SAFE way?
18:34 Part 4. Re:action
18:48 What you should say to yourself when something bad happens
20:50 Real example of how to change your emotion
23:06 The time when Chris got scammed
25:28 Part 5. Incomplete Sentences
26:43 Part 6. Enemy Within
27:23 Who is your real enemy?
29:12 Three-Step Exercise to conquer your inner voice.
33:40 How to become a valuable employee in your company?
34:31 Resources
#TheFutur #ChrisDo #AIGADesignConf
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Host- Chris Do
Content Director- Matthew Encina
Cinematography- Aaron Szekely, Mark Contreras, Ricky Lucas
Live Editor- Jona Garcia
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Futur theme song- Adam Sanborne
Impossible = I'm possible
Fail = Fair Attempt in Learning
No = Next Opportunity
Fear = Fantasized Experience Appearing Real
Pain - Precursor Anything Incredibly Notable
perfect
Love it, that’s going on a shirt ! Message me your size for a free one
I will tattoo one of them
It's actually **Fair Attempt in Learning ** Cheers!
@@MINDSETISEVERYTHING2024 di
Just remember that Chris used to be terrified for public speaking. Maybe he still is, but he is cooping with really well then. Love this content Chris!
Thanks. Day by day it gets easier.
@@thefutur That's great to hear!
Gotta do what scares you
@@watercolourartincapetown2919 Yeah, fear is an sign your developing.
thats crazy, @the futur you're a great speaker. It feels more personal than alot of other people and more intriguing
if God is a designer, then nature is the best source of inspiration
God made nature. Soooooooo...
NOP, Nature is only a design. See designers no only think about the way it looks like but instead on its funcitonality and purpose. Humans are the best developed software EVER DESIGNED. Cause we all are full of IFs, ANDs and other statements that will vary according to our values and variables. I would say GOD IS A DEVELOPER ... FULL STAK DEVELOPER, which includes designs too lol
@@ZOILAENUK grammar? I think I get wym man but like you lack grammar
@@TheLovehaterepeat Sure, I can see your priorities too and the Lack of attention since u missed the important point and ur attention was taken away because of what u learnt at school . You limit your understanding by my lack of grammar.....? Or because u want to create a discussion out of nothing ? Whatever ur reason
Maybe now you will get the point....? 😊
Coming from a person that speak more than 3 languages (me) , man this is such a nice display of a point.
I wouldn't mind if you wouldn't have missed the point. Don't get me wrong... Grammar is good but not a priority within this topic.
Hopefully, at some point u'll get to see the bigger picture and not be distracted by small details at first... Like a designer or developer would.
God is not a designer because God doesn't exist.
This has literally elevated me from being in a bad place into moving forward, thank you Chris
Thank you
Literally same
Yah, so helpful for being a coach to motivate those in need!
This video is absolutely mind-blowing. It has truly helped me conquer my fears and believe in myself. It is incredibly inspirational and motivational, in fact, it is the best inspirational video I have ever watched on RUclips. Thank you so much!
and THIS!
Impossible = I'm possible
Fail = Fair Attempt in Learning
No = Next Opportunity
Fear = Fantasized Experience Appearing Real
Pain - Precursor Anything Incredibly Notable
Thank you 🙏
I realise Chris Do really also learn a lot of psychological perspectives from his therapist and made such great insights.
Another good example of turning his problem into opportunities.
Made me feel like when i do encounter problems, might just need to sit still and see carefully what new doors it opens and where it will take me.
Need to find myself a therapist LOL.
@chrisdo the “enemy within” I’m a 38 year old father and husband running a business but my health means it’s failing. My childhood was one of sadness. I’m at a crossroads, I will lose everything for my family soon unless I find a new avenue. I believe I can do it but I’m surrounded by people saying “the market is saturated” or “you won’t get in the door” so I’ve found your free content and chosen to listen to you while driving and find inspiration. I can’t afford your services but a family depend on me so this content is appreciated. The enemy within broke me and not much does. Thank you.
Hang in there.
Yupp, it's absolutely true, I used to see myself as a developer back when I was in high school and today here I am a full stack developer.
You become what you think.
Had to immediately share this individually with 5 people closest to me. I love how they don't even need to have a relationship with design, and yet I know this will give them immense value. Thank you for sharing this Chris.
Appreciate it
I just dis that too!!!
Wow. I’m a 20 year old fashion student from Sri Lanka who’s in France. And today only I watched this and I wish I watched this way earlier. I mean every word you said was like a beat in my heart. I was down lately but now I’m rethinking my decision with the ways you taught in this video. Much appreciated man. Thank you.
Love the energy!!! Chris Do you have a gift!!! You’re able to connect with people and inspire them
“Your futur is bright”
Thank you Thank you
God is his gift.
He's yours too.
the ending gets me everytime. thankful that i can watch these for free. i cant wait to be able to join
What would happen in my design career if I didn't know about Chris Do? He's the best mentor in my life
Same here!!!!
you would have my design career :(
Maybe you would start doing something wothwhile.....like i don't know. making. a pizza or reading a book.
Thanks Chris, for everything that you do. The work you do on RUclips, the talks, role-plays, training exercises, all actively contributes to my journey toward success. I've recently hit an all time low in my life, and it's content like this that helps me take control and rise up again. So, thank you.
Thank you Chris, after many years of watching this the second time it is still an excellent video.
Glad to hear
Thank you for the good advice Chris! I'm going through some things and coming back to this video every so often reminds me of the things in my thinking and my life can change and be better. Again, thank you!
Excellent talk! Loads of value.
I loved the line, "If you don't like your story, change it."
Yea our beliefs are the thing that decides on what we see and our reality because our belief control our focus and what we focus on is what we feel
Thanks for sharing
Truly eye-opening, Chris.
I love this new way of looking at things. Really puts things in a different, more useful perspective than just being "positive", or avoiding "bad" words. Thank you!
I always felt like I m not good and could never express , This is exactly i needed to know and that last exercise part , Thank you so much for sharing it !!
Brilliant! I had experience that is totally related ! Self - Belief is the Key of success, it comes natural for some people, but not all. It takes time to rewire or train our brains , especially the ones are from extremely strict family, those shade like diseases. Love your speech!
I did the critical voice exercise and man it was great. I feel much stronger. I recoreded my self saying the real voice affirmations and i kept smiling at certain ones. Thanks sir.
the invisible paper is the best thing i have got from this video...!!!
cant imagine how many people out there need help so much help in starting to believe in them self and start working out the best out of them..
i need this i literally need this for me to shine bright ...!!!!
thank you mentor!!!!
Thank you 🙏
MOST AMAZING THING I HAVE SEEN SO FAR....IT IS VERY MOVING AND INSPIRING
I think that I've never met such an inspiring person. Thank you for all these words
Thank you
Thanks for sharing Chris ! "Failure is tuition you pay for future success... Chirs"
Chris always inspires me to be not just a better designer, but a better person. Well done.
Thanks
You're such an amazing public speaker. I aspire to get up there and really motivate others this way.
You really pulled me out of a weird rut I have been living in the last month. Thanks so much for always sharing your content with the community
Chris Do, See you in 10 years. I'll tell you what i did because of you.
Can’t wait.
Feels like we're a family and what we wanna say is we all believe in you. Just do it.
You already did at least 10% of your progress. Good luck!
Hope you’re moving forward. I am. Get it get it!
I second this thought
I wanted to take a peak at the video before going to sleep and then watch it in the morning. I ended up watching the whole thing...
I have so much BS in my life I let it dictate my every move (sometimes) thank you for this video.
Thank you , my Asian-brother-from-another-mother! “...Find a new family”..had me rollin’. Big Ups & Continued success!
FALIURE & ALONE. TRUE, True, true...
Finally, it really resonates with me now. For long time, I felt lost. But thanks to you Chris, I see this catches every responsible man
Thanks to you, I finally start my business which is going to support my family nad child that we wait for.
Please keep up doing this content! You are not only inspirational, but your advices implemented in practice made actual difference in my life.
Thank you so much Chris. I'm from Mexico City, Industrial Designer. i'm learning english and found this beautifuuuuuul inspiring video. I really love the way you talk about self improvement as designer and how to use it. THANK YOU 🙌🔥🙌
Chris, you are bottomline the man I want to be. I have a similar figure that I have been following since my birth but have failed countless of times due to no real communication and pure blind actions. Thank you for being who you are now and I hope whether that im late or not, I'll be able to consolidate those knowledge into my own being, to be the best human I can be
33:29 mindset -> “Think for the life you want, not the life you have”
Think different. Its always almost the complete opposite of what you were ever been told in life. A lot of this video was the most important puzzles to my path and its very enlightening. Thank you Chris.
You’re very welcome
@@thefutur lol you use your shortcut didn't you haha YVW ftw!
Thinking is wonderful especially when one has a plan….
Thank you. you changed my life at the perfect time.
17-year-old 👦 designer
Yo. I'm also tryan find designers and creatives similar to me. Would u like to talk?
Also 17 years old
This guy is Magic!!
Loved this! Thanks Chris! The last part was deep! And i believe this is one of the things that hold most of us back. The voices in our head telling us we are not good enough.
You're very welcome
This standup brought me to tears. But way long before Chris Do went deep, and told us it would make us cry. Until this stand up, he was a person who I feared because I am just starting out. He was like a Design God that I had to live up to in my mind. After seeing this I see EVERYTHING that he is saying and I also see Chris Do. I am now not only viewing him differently, more for WHO HE REALLY IS (REAL human, amazing) but also viewing MYSELF differently on what IS POSSIBLE. Thank you 🙏🏾 Chris Do for this AMAZING stand up. Thank you for this❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ #icandothis
You've inspired me to be so much better! Thanks a lot Chris and the guys!
It was pure pleasure listening to this! Thanks for everything you've done, Chriss. 🙏
Thanks for listening
The „God is a designer“ hat also got me 🙏🏾❤️
godisadesigner.com
Great talk, every time I hear you talk, it makes me bolder. Thank you
I have watched this video many times I just can't get enough of it there is always something new. 😍
This was absolutely beautiful. As a teacher, creator and entrepreneur myself, I've struggled with this many times even when I already "knew" the information from reading many self-development books. This video was yet another reminder. Probably the most powerful one yet.
Chris, you are a phenomenal teacher, and you have inspired me massively through this video. I've seen your other videos a bit but this one really hit.
Again, thank you for doing this work.
What I LOVE the most about you Chris is that YOU GENUINELY HAVE A DEEP INTEREST IN YOUR AUDIENCE and their success which working 10 years in the online marketing industry, what we clearly see is that most "gurus" only think about how much money they can make from their audience and not how they can transform their lives.
Thank you Renald.
I'd been feeling discouraged lately, but your videos helped me remember just who I am; everything I want to be...
Thank you very much!!!
This is so clear and powerful that I think my search of finding self help tips everywhere online will stop right here, and will dedicate myself to just do and follow the exercises here.
Just did the 3 column one. No kidding when you said u can cry doing it. It really elevated me from a tough point in the past
I've done this exercise as a workshop and people do literally start weeping.
I'm glad that I found out about you at the low time of my life. Even though I am not a designer... yet! I want you to know that everything you said from years ago until now (I have binged watch almost every videos that you're in) have inspired me to start changing myself. Thank you so much
You are the father of teachers. Thank you, Chris.
Thank you for uploading this. Cant get enough of these videos!
Chris after 43 years of practicing holistic medicine and a holistic psychology and Energy medicine and Reiki master teacherI see my dream come in through people like you inspiring on the right way others to become heal ! I am grateful my spirit guide me at RUclips and guide me to press the button and listen to you Ha !! keep a good job many blessings
Thalía Alexiou
Thank you
Man, ive watched and read lots of resources on mindset and all they basically say is that you have to believe you can then you can!! But that belief can fade when you're tired, or moody, or having a bad day....and then its easy to end up back in the same negative thought patterns again. you actually breakdown how to change those day-to-day negative thoughts into something more empowering and positive. You gave the best talk on how to adopt a positive belief system and put it into practise. Thank you! As someone who struggled with anxiety disorders and always feared the future, I'm finally excited for it !
This is my third time watching this video and I still cry with the end... I want that same philosophy, please! I'll do my best!!
wow! u cry?
I’m 19 and by the end of this yr I’m going to make 10 million. Thank you for inspiring me, forever a legend
That's dope. What do u wanna do
Love it, I've been hearing a lot of audio books lately, and you really summaries them in 30 min , powerful speech , thank you Chris
Thank you
you are the one of the very few people who inspires me and i am very thankful for that
very inspirational. I just recently realized i have limiting belief about money and success; not so much that it's not possible to succeed but more like is it possible for ME. time to work on it.
My Key Takeaways
1- It is all about INTERPRETATION
Input => interpretation => Output
2- Word Jitsu
Impossible = I'm possible
Fail = First Attempt in Learning (Failure is the tuition you pay for your future success)
No = Next Opportunity
Fear = Fantasized Experience Appearing Real (it hasn't happened yet)
Pain - Precursor Anything Incredibly Notable
3- Also make positive words (which hides negative conotation) and turn them into negative
SAFE - Simply Always Following Everyone
4- Take negative input in our lives and just change it slightly so that it can be positive
I can't draw like that. YET
If I charge that much, the clients will think that I MUST BE BETTER (than competition)
Reinforcement sentence:
"The lens through which your brain views the world shapes your reality. Change the lens, change your happiness, change every single outcome at the same time" - Shawn Achor
Third time I'm listening to this while I'm working. I keep coming back to put me in the right mindset. Thank you Chris Do and The Futur 👍
Wonderful! Thank you Nicole.
I just love Chris Do. This guy is modern day creative shaman.
Great one Chris! I just want to say that in my experience it is very important to be careful with the positive beliefs as well. After you've re-shaped a limiting one to a positive, the job is not done, and you're not suddenly invincible. As a kid, I was getting a lot of positive reinforcement from family members, teaches and such, because of good preformance and being able to adapt and learn.
However, as time goes by, it kind of instilled this belief that I don't even have to try in order to be good at the things I do and I can just show up and figure it out as I go. This led me to a period in my life where I was not working on improving myself becuase of this, which ultimately led to average results in many areas, and me not caring about it because I can do no wrong either way. I found it extremely easy to brush the negative beliefs aside and to dismiss any kind of lession that was possibly hiding there.
It is only a couple of years ago I figured out that I am not growing as a person, and that just being positive about life is not good enough, you also have to have some sort of goals to keep improving and keep learning. Now my beliefs involve both the positive and the negative sides, and I try to always let them evolve.
Even if we go with a positive narrative there will be the negative one tied to it at the back of our mind. The world revolves around duality in evey single thing. Nobody is perfect, and if you're aware of your negative belef, you will be quick to recognize it when its happening and conciously stop it, most of the time.
As Chris says, just accept it all, feel it and let it all flow through. It is all normal and OK! 🙌
the "true voice" exercise should help you to find one that isn't critical nor overly praising.
Chris I highly appreciate this video,the way you think ,inspired me very much and changed the way I look at things and taught me how to strategize the way I think.I believe🙏🏾
Incredibly powerful and impactful. Thank you!
Great content as always! One thing you taught me that I use daily now is to stop saying yes to every client just to get work! Ever since I started interviewing my clients, weeding out the bad ones and saying no to anyone I didn't want to work with my stress level has gone down and my business has increased :)
Chris you're simply FANTASTIC 🙏
G R E A T!!! I will be applying a lot of this in my life. Thank you so much Chris... I needed this!!
This guy deserves every love and support for what he do for raising star business owners!
Thank you
one of the best videos i've ever watched before bed !! thank u Chris !
How did i only discover this wonderful man now???!!!
The end part was Mind Blowing ! Very practical excercices. Thank u so much Chris for sharing this 👌❤
That 3 column idea, is sharing it with my friend and myself,. Thank you Chris!!
“Your futur is bright!”
If we had more people like Chris the world would be an amazing place !
Keep up the great work and keep up inspiring others ! Not just in design but in life perspective too
Yesss! Was waiting for this one sooo badly! Who's in the notification squad btw? I am. :D
@@dariusus9870 looks like I am a childish based on this: www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=notification%20squad
Okay, let's do the 3 column thing:
Critical inner voice: I'm childish and needy because I commented notification squad, to get the attention of TheFutur team.
Critical outer voice: You're childish and in need of attention so much that you let TheFutur know intentionally that you're their big fan, hoping to get their attention.
True voice: Even though I'm childish, I like it that way. I want to keep the curious and fresh mind of a kid. I love this channel, so I'm gonna let them know I'm a true fan. Even though I support them financially; as a fellow creator, I know how much it means if someone leaves a positive comment on the content you took your time and effort into creating. Comments, likes, and early views also help the algorithm, so I help them in this way too.
Thanks Dariusus for helping me practice to get rid of the negative voice in my head. I'm grateful!
I am :D love this channel so much :)
Me!
Your videos are always long, I always think I will see and try to grab important point and skip skip and done!! But man your content is so powerful I can't stop myself watching you completely. You are truly awsome :)😊♥️
Thank you for not skipping through it.
Thank you, Chris, for this speech and putting it up on RUclips, I love listening to your life lessons and principles. I first watched this a few months ago when I was at one of my lowest and it brought me out from that dark place. I recently fell back into the pit and have been feeling a lot of frustration and regret for a few days when I remembered your story about your son's Latin test grades, and knew I had to rewatch this video. Thank you for providing little and concrete steps to take to put these ideas into action, here I am trying to rewire my brain again. 18:51 this is my personal bookmark for the bit that struck me the most
Thank you
"[Think of your life in a binary. ] Is this good or bad? Empowering or un-empowering? Failure to to make a decision will keep you average for ever." This is the beauty of minimalism applied to the mind. We are so cluttered with information, over-analysis, other people's dogmas, that it hinders our decision-making. We carry their baggage on our paths to greatness that it makes the journey that much heavier. Binary: Good or bad for me? Fight or flight? Heroe or villain? Clear standing = clear values = easy decisions = life simplified. Thank you, Master Chris Do, hope to meet you in person to thank you for your insights. Always upgrading the software of my mind.
You’re very welcome
This was so amazing and has helped me in a whole new level, its funny because just a day before watching this I was feeling hopeless. So thank you so much Chris!!!!!
Chris Do is just amazing in everything he does, from arts related, to success related principles. Bro, never stop inspiring people, you never know whose lives you have changed already. Hoping to see you here when you visit the Philippines man!
I already think that "God Is A Designer" since I was in high school about 7 - 8 years ago. Glad that someone out there have similar thought.
28:30 The learning about death really struck me... I've never really been sure why but existential feelings have always cycled through my life. But as you say Chris: "congratulations". I now have the opportunity to learn why I need to be here. Thank you
Just stumbled over this. Absolutely brilliant, Chris.
Thankyou so much . I was little bit felling less enthusiasm for my goals and from the last one week I can notice that but can't able to sort out of this but within this video , most of the keynotes has been relatable to me and I learned alot from here . Thankyou again chris ,one of the best mentor i got
One of the most special lessons I've learned in my life. Thank you!
My price right now for designing and building a 4 page website is usd 500 and people still complained it’s expensive. Remind me again to comment on this video in 6 months to check how I will have been doing.
auto-check in with us. share how much you've grown.
Chris, this is absolutely incredible. Thank you 🙏🇿🇦
Thank you
🇿🇦 thought i will never find a south african here can we connect😅
Chris, I dont know what will change in the next few years, but I am excited. This might be an old video, but Im so glad I found it. You have taken off all the baggage that I put myself all this time, and now I can say congratulations and move forward.
Congratulations RT
Wow, I feel inspired and motivated from this lecture talk. Chris aren’t u just the greatest
Absolutely love this Mike, you stay comin through with the full transparency -- all too surreal... Julianna's reaction was damn priceless!!! TO THA TOPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!
blessed by this seminar
thanks for sharing
Powerful message! Thank you for sharing
This talk is transformative on many levels. Personally, Professionally, Humanly, Parentally....
Thank you 🙏
Chris Do.. Inspiring.. Great ideas... Respect every talk. Thankyou for your Programmes. My Best Wishes
Thank you
Awesome content, I'll watch this more than once and do these exercises. Lately I have been struggling with finding a direction in terms of what I should learn and I punish myself a lot for not knowing all the answers (my pessimistic attitude doesn't help a lot either), which makes things worse, and it seems like there's no way out and I'm a failure.
This video came at the right time.
You'll figure it out eventually! Just try to remember that there are no absolute right answers, life is a process of exploration and trying to figure out what works for us and what doesn't! I always try to remind myself of this .. just take your time, do the work, trust the process, embrace the mistakes and life will only get better 😊You can reach out to me if you want to talk about it more. I'm always happy to listen to people's stories and share mine with them in the hope of mutual benefit.
you're my caffeine Chris!! GOD BLESS YOU!
One word..! Amazing!
Thank you for this awesome video! We need more people like you!!
That was a powerful lesson that came at the right time. Thx for sharing, Chris! 😎